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Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Introduction Episode #000 Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. I’m Terri and you are listening to my Introductory Episode #000. I cannot believe I actually just said those words! Aren’t the things God calls us to do often very surprising and above our ability? At least I find that to be true in my life and this is definitely one of those times. Thank you for spending part of your day with me by listening to my first podcast episode. Sharing God stories and talking about Jesus are two of my favorite things to do with others. If you’re like me, and we were face-to-face, we would probably sip hot teas in a cute coffee shop while time slipped away unnoticed. One of my greatest joys and blessings is sharing what God has done in my life, hearing what He has done in yours, and also encouraging others to deepen their walk with Him. I truly believe part of my calling is to encourage, educate, and equip women to lead intentional lives by embracing an eternal perspective. Today I’ll talk more about what that means to me and why I started this podcast about it. By the way, it feels a little challenging to be the only person talking on this podcast, because I want the authenticity behind what I say to be recognized. I pray you’ll hear my heart behind the words and connect with the love I have for Jesus, and more importantly, the love He has for you. Being able to share ways that He has changed my life and promising you that He can change yours, too is a joy for me. I’ll be the main person sharing on this podcast, but I do also plan to have guests from time to time. One of the most important experiences I want to share today is how the deepest pain in my life so far became a catalyst for me to live intentionally and with eternal perspective. I know we’re supposed to live with our minds fixed on Jesus and eternity, and as a believer, I know that this world is just a passage for me. I am not meant to stay in this temporary dwelling. So let me back up a bit to before everything changed. Although I already understood that truth, and tried to keep it foremost in my heart, I didn’t in the way that I do now. It wasn’t that I blatantly disregarded God’s word. It’s just that life happens and it’s simple to move right along with all the demands and distractions we allow. Of course, sometimes I would stop and ponder the words written in Hebrews 13:14, “For here we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come,” or the verse in Matthew 6:19-21 that states, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Each time I reflected on those verses, it would bring me a step closer to trying to live the way God calls us to. Don’t you appreciate the way God intimately works in each of us? He knows us so well! He loves us so deeply. Despite ourselves, He cares for us. It’s not that I was living a lifestyle that excluded God. I loved Him and was working to grow my faith walk and relationship daily. I was blessed with nice things I was grateful for, but they weren’t excessive. I didn’t try to store up extravagant treasures, but I know deep down I took too much for granted, even life itself, and sometimes I felt entitled to what I had. Take health insurance, for example. When the premiums kept rising, I complained that I wasn’t getting the benefits I used to, instead of rejoicing that I still had insurance. In His goodness, God is able to use events to guide us to Him in even deeper ways. I hadn’t kept eternity in the forefront of my mind and actions. Even though I attempted to, the active thought of me as an alien or stranger in this world was not embedded into my brain daily until I received a mindset shift when my oldest daughter died. Then, my perception of this world was altered. This world was no longer my home. During that immensely painful season of deep loss, God "lifted the veil" and showed me His face. My precious relationship with Jesus was elevated to an altar of faith. As I experienced this loss with Him, I continued growing and developing holier bonds of understanding and trust. My comfort was endless as He never left my side. As long as I continued to hold tightly to Him, not relying on support from others, or inside myself for strength, Jesus went above and beyond what I knew to expect because His care was deeply personal. No one else perfectly understood what I endured, except for Him. He didn’t just walk through each day with me; He cradled and carried me. I’m not saying a bereaving person should not allow others to help them, but simply that Jesus alone knew what I needed in each moment. When my precious daughter passed, God set me free from life on this earth. This place is no longer my home. My spirit now feels what my head thought it understood. I live with one foot on earth to do as He instructs, and one foot in heaven. I delight in being here with my beloved family. Yet, I know that I must listen intently to what God calls me to. He must work His purposes through me. Eternal perspective is beautifully multi-faceted, it’s not just a lifestyle directive we read about in the Bible and think we interpret and attempt to live. God touched the depths of my heart in new ways that my eyes couldn't see and my ears could not hear previously. Every moment, even when I make mistakes, is a miraculous opportunity to live in a way that moves me, and others, to a deeper relationship with Jesus. I am not guaranteed another second of life. Living with eternal perspective is truly in the forefront of my mind and intentions. I am no longer deceived. Everything that happens to me is viewed through an eternal perspective that also affects everyone around me. After my beloved daughter died, I received extreme comfort in knowing that she was with Jesus. This drove home the impact of including others in my eternal viewpoint. Before my daughter died, when I pondered the definition of eternal perspective, I knew not to store treasures on earth, but to look heavenward. I understood that I was to share the gospel. Those commands are basics in Christianity. What makes it different for me now is that I also keep in the forefront of my mind just how my actions and words can affect the eternal life of another person. Every reaction and word I speak has eternal repercussions for someone else. Of course, I knew it before, but now that God has shifted His wisdom in my heart and renewed my mind, I see more clearly just how easily our own emotions and histories can cloud human reactions. I now purposely attempt to give each emotion and reaction to God before responding or speaking to others. Living with this different viewpoint makes it so much easier to sincerely care more deeply about how everything I do can be shaped to better impact the life of another for Christ. As I raise my younger children, I see clearly how what I do becomes who they are. I knew it before, but Jesus continues to drive the point home to me even more. Here’s a story that may better illustrate what I mean. One day we were on our way home from speech therapy with my youngest daughter. It was hours past lunch time and I was hungry. We had another appointment in a couple of hours and all I could think about was getting food in the girls and me before we had to head out again. I decided to stop at a Subway restaurant on the way home. Because of allergies, I can’t eat it, but the girls love it. I hoped we could run in, get the food, take it home, and I would fix myself something while they ate. The only potential flaw with this solution was that Subway can be SO sloooow. Of course, when we pulled into the parking lot and looked through the window, we could see customers already in line. Another car pulled in beside us. I told my teen to get out quickly and get inside before the other people got in line before us. My plan was for her to run in to get the food while I waited in the car with our youngest. After I spoke, I noticed she started moving a little slower than before. “Hurry,” I reminded her as my stomach growled. “Mom,” she said as she looked at me with disappointment and irritation in her eyes and voice. “Don’t you think they’re hungry, too? What if they need to get in line first?” “We’re in a hurry,” I told her, although the sting of conviction was already pricking my spirit. “Please move faster.” Just short of an eye roll, my daughter got out of the car and entered the restaurant behind the group of people from the car next to us. As I feared, we waited about twenty minutes for her to get back to the car as my lunch time was rapidly dwindling away. Before I backed out of the parking spot, I made sure to address the sting in my pride.”You were right that I was being selfish. I’m hungry and I wanted to eat before we have to leave for our next appointment. You have your food now, but I still have to get home and eat mine before it’s time to leave. I was putting myself first,” I admitted. Although I wanted her to listen to and respect what I instructed her to do, I knew that there was a bigger lesson - an eternal one - at stake. God wants us to follow Him and put others before ourselves. Philippians 2:3 instructs, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” God wants absolutely everything I do to reflect the highest level of living for Him. Every single moment offers me an opportunity to allow Him to flow through me. It is not easy. As you can see, I make mistakes. My heart is seen by God, however, and He knows that I desire showing Him to all and that I need Him to continue humbling, stretching, and molding me to become who He desires. There is no pleasure in remaining me. True joy abides when He is allowed to reside in and restore what He created. Eternal perspective living applies to absolutely everything I do. Every decision, comment, and action becomes part of a chain of events impacting myself and others around me, especially those I love. Sometimes, when I am tired or rushed, I might feel an urge to hurry things, but I hear Jesus speak to my soul. He reminds me to slow down. The moment at hand becomes a snapshot of the life album of the person I am dealing with. My reaction and attitude have the ability to affect them beyond what I can see, becoming part of their eternity. I’m honestly the worst with strangers when I get this way, especially people I cannot understand well on the telephone and I have been on an endless loop of transfers with no one able to help me when dealing with health issues for my daughter. I also have a hard time when someone offends or harms one of my children. God has worked on, and will continue working with me in these areas. Although I am far from perfect, He reminds me that I represent Him, and that the simple ways I respond can add up to complex negative or positive outcomes. How different would our world be if we lived according to God’s principles and consistently allowed others to become more important than ourselves? I am not a Bible scholar, but I am in love with God’s words and teachings. I’m fascinated that He took the trouble of preparing a life manual for us, sent straight from Him, and full of everything we need to live for Him, learn from Him, and be prepared to meet Him face-to-face one day. There is so much to learn, but I delight in sitting at the feet of Jesus. I consider myself a girl in love with Him. It’s true that I’m technically a married woman, a mother of four, and a grandma to one, but I consider myself a girl in my faith walk, because I want to maintain the childlike faith Jesus calls us to embrace in Matthew 18:3-4. “Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” Another scripture, 1 Corinthians 14:20, tells us, “Brethren, do not be children in understanding; however, in malice be babes, but in understanding be mature.” We are called to become mature in spiritual knowledge and understanding, yet remain naive regarding evil. Adults often confuse the two. We become knowledgeable about sins of the world, and focus our attention on things that aren’t really important in our relationship with eternity. We neglect living in reverence for God, and postpone deepening our walk with Him. We lack the trust to rely on Him to provide for us. Think about the opposite way children approach life. They trust the one who cares for them, even when they shouldn’t. They want to spend time with those they care about and lavish love on the ones who adore them, the way we must intentionally be with Jesus and others. One thing I must ask myself daily is whether my actions match what my heart believes. Do others see Jesus through me? What about you. Can others see what you believe? Before my daughter died, I thought the worst thing that could ever happen to me would be to lose a child. Now I know that the most devastating thing would be to lose Jesus. He has taken me through my biggest fear and proven Himself faithful. Thankfully, His word promises me that no one can pluck me from His hand. I will never lose Jesus. When Jesus lived on this earth, His desire was to glorify God. He modeled that for me to follow. He modeled that for you to follow. Are we representing Christ in the way He should be shown? The hardest challenges and excruciating pains in our life can drive us deeper into the arms of Jesus or give us an excuse to run away from Him. In order to truly live with eternal perspective, we must view eternity through a new lens. Eternity is multi-dimensional; affecting everything we are and do. While we have a limited amount of time on earth to know, love, and show Jesus, we will spend the remainder of our timeless existence in the presence of the Lord, if we are believers. That means we must submit to God’s plan for our life – and His plan for others. We must glorify and honor Jesus in all that we do. We must look beyond ourselves to Jesus and abide in His view of others. We must focus on discipleship of ourselves and others. We must place Jesus on the throne of our affections and thoughts. When our mind is fixed on things above, seeking Jesus and drawing nearer to Him, our heart organically develops to be more like His. Our life reflects the change. We are allowing Him to truly abide in us and transform us. Sometimes the transformation is easy; sometimes it is agonizing. It is always worth the investment – for self, others, and Him. Let me list some important questions that I think help us to put eternity into an easier focus for us. Let’s ask ourselves the following: What do I believe about the promise Jesus gives me regarding eternity? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the potential Jesus says I have to affect His kingdom? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the possibilities (the gifts) Jesus created in me? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the value Jesus places on me as His beloved child? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? Do I know and have I accepted Jesus as my personal Savior? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? How we measure our belief will become our result – both here and for eternity. Imagine groggily lifting yourself from bed fifteen minutes later than normal one morning with all the “to-do” list of items already rolling through your mind. You can barely take another step because you’ve been so behind with all the activities and expectations of life, and you just can’t get enough sleep. As you walk from the bedroom to the kitchen, you see Jesus sitting at your kitchen table, waiting to visit with just you. Are you panic-stricken? Or do you feel peace? Do you begin apologizing for the mess in your house? Are you giving excuses as to why you don’t have enough time to keep it as clean as you’d like to and start telling Him everything that you’ve had to do? Maybe you ask Him why He didn’t add about ten more hours to each day; or better yet, another day to each week. Or do you simply sit with Him? Are you able to abide in the presence of your Savior? Are you willing to let go of the expectations you place on yourself and allow Him to restore your mindset and spirit? Often, we don’t know Jesus because we say that we don’t have time, deceiving ourselves that in order to grow in Him, we must be involved in several group Bible studies, be at every church function, take lessons on how to interpret our spiritual gifts, read every good book about faith and Jesus, and keep a spiritual journal. The list can be endless. We make knowing and loving Jesus a task. Love for our Savior should fuel our actions in simple and direct ways. Sit with Bible in hand and read His teachings and the wisdom of God. Pray. Listen for God. Connect with other believers. See where the Heavenly Father leads you next. Jesus simply desires our heart in genuine worship and relationship. Luke 10:38-42 illustrates two sisters who love Jesus. One is consumed with doing what she thinks is important, instead of simply being in His presence. After complaining to Jesus about the actions of her sister, Jesus gently rebukes her. “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” Live to be more engaged with Jesus than engaged for Him. Make time to be at His feet and listen for His direction. Soak up His presence. Thank you for listening to this first Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 000 Introduction Listen to Episode Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Introduction Episode #000 Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. I’m Terri and you are listening to my Introductory Episode #000. I cannot believe I actually just said those words! Aren’t the things God calls us to do often very surprising and above our ability? At least I find that to be true in my life and this is definitely one of those times. Thank you for spending part of your day with me by listening to my first podcast episode. Sharing God stories and talking about Jesus are two of my favorite things to do with others. If you’re like me, and we were face-to-face, we would probably sip hot teas in a cute coffee shop while time slipped away unnoticed. One of my greatest joys and blessings is sharing what God has done in my life, hearing what He has done in yours, and also encouraging others to deepen their walk with Him. I truly believe part of my calling is to encourage, educate, and equip women to lead intentional lives by embracing an eternal perspective. Today I’ll talk more about what that means to me and why I started this podcast about it. By the way, it feels a little challenging to be the only person talking on this podcast, because I want the authenticity behind what I say to be recognized. I pray you’ll hear my heart behind the words and connect with the love I have for Jesus, and more importantly, the love He has for you. Being able to share ways that He has changed my life and promising you that He can change yours, too is a joy for me. I’ll be the main person sharing on this podcast, but I do also plan to have guests from time to time. One of the most important experiences I want to share today is how the deepest pain in my life so far became a catalyst for me to live intentionally and with eternal perspective. I know we’re supposed to live with our minds fixed on Jesus and eternity, and as a believer, I know that this world is just a passage for me. I am not meant to stay in this temporary dwelling. So let me back up a bit to before everything changed. Although I already understood that truth, and tried to keep it foremost in my heart, I didn’t in the way that I do now. It wasn’t that I blatantly disregarded God’s word. It’s just that life happens and it’s simple to move right along with all the demands and distractions we allow. Of course, sometimes I would stop and ponder the words written in Hebrews 13:14, “For here we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come,” or the verse in Matthew 6:19-21 that states, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Each time I reflected on those verses, it would bring me a step closer to trying to live the way God calls us to. Don’t you appreciate the way God intimately works in each of us? He knows us so well! He loves us so deeply. Despite ourselves, He cares for us. It’s not that I was living a lifestyle that excluded God. I loved Him and was working to grow my faith walk and relationship daily. I was blessed with nice things I was grateful for, but they weren’t excessive. I didn’t try to store up extravagant treasures, but I know deep down I took too much for granted, even life itself, and sometimes I felt entitled to what I had. Take health insurance, for example. When the premiums kept rising, I complained that I wasn’t getting the benefits I used to, instead of rejoicing that I still had insurance. In His goodness, God is able to use events to guide us to Him in even deeper ways. I hadn’t kept eternity in the forefront of my mind and actions. Even though I attempted to, the active thought of me as an alien or stranger in this world was not embedded into my brain daily until I received a mindset shift when my oldest daughter died. Then, my perception of this world was altered. This world was no longer my home. During that immensely painful season of deep loss, God "lifted the veil" and showed me His face. My precious relationship with Jesus was elevated to an altar of faith. As I experienced this loss with Him, I continued growing and developing holier bonds of understanding and trust. My comfort was endless as He never left my side. As long as I continued to hold tightly to Him, not relying on support from others, or inside myself for strength, Jesus went above and beyond what I knew to expect because His care was deeply personal. No one else perfectly understood what I endured, except for Him. He didn’t just walk through each day with me; He cradled and carried me. I’m not saying a bereaving person should not allow others to help them, but simply that Jesus alone knew what I needed in each moment. When my precious daughter passed, God set me free from life on this earth. This place is no longer my home. My spirit now feels what my head thought it understood. I live with one foot on earth to do as He instructs, and one foot in heaven. I delight in being here with my beloved family. Yet, I know that I must listen intently to what God calls me to. He must work His purposes through me. Eternal perspective is beautifully multi-faceted, it’s not just a lifestyle directive we read about in the Bible and think we interpret and attempt to live. God touched the depths of my heart in new ways that my eyes couldn't see and my ears could not hear previously. Every moment, even when I make mistakes, is a miraculous opportunity to live in a way that moves me, and others, to a deeper relationship with Jesus. I am not guaranteed another second of life. Living with eternal perspective is truly in the forefront of my mind and intentions. I am no longer deceived. Everything that happens to me is viewed through an eternal perspective that also affects everyone around me. After my beloved daughter died, I received extreme comfort in knowing that she was with Jesus. This drove home the impact of including others in my eternal viewpoint. Before my daughter died, when I pondered the definition of eternal perspective, I knew not to store treasures on earth, but to look heavenward. I understood that I was to share the gospel. Those commands are basics in Christianity. What makes it different for me now is that I also keep in the forefront of my mind just how my actions and words can affect the eternal life of another person. Every reaction and word I speak has eternal repercussions for someone else. Of course, I knew it before, but now that God has shifted His wisdom in my heart and renewed my mind, I see more clearly just how easily our own emotions and histories can cloud human reactions. I now purposely attempt to give each emotion and reaction to God before responding or speaking to others. Living with this different viewpoint makes it so much easier to sincerely care more deeply about how everything I do can be shaped to better impact the life of another for Christ. As I raise my younger children, I see clearly how what I do becomes who they are. I knew it before, but Jesus continues to drive the point home to me even more. Here’s a story that may better illustrate what I mean. One day we were on our way home from speech therapy with my youngest daughter. It was hours past lunch time and I was hungry. We had another appointment in a couple of hours and all I could think about was getting food in the girls and me before we had to head out again. I decided to stop at a Subway restaurant on the way home. Because of allergies, I can’t eat it, but the girls love it. I hoped we could run in, get the food, take it home, and I would fix myself something while they ate. The only potential flaw with this solution was that Subway can be SO sloooow. Of course, when we pulled into the parking lot and looked through the window, we could see customers already in line. Another car pulled in beside us. I told my teen to get out quickly and get inside before the other people got in line before us. My plan was for her to run in to get the food while I waited in the car with our youngest. After I spoke, I noticed she started moving a little slower than before. “Hurry,” I reminded her as my stomach growled. “Mom,” she said as she looked at me with disappointment and irritation in her eyes and voice. “Don’t you think they’re hungry, too? What if they need to get in line first?” “We’re in a hurry,” I told her, although the sting of conviction was already pricking my spirit. “Please move faster.” Just short of an eye roll, my daughter got out of the car and entered the restaurant behind the group of people from the car next to us. As I feared, we waited about twenty minutes for her to get back to the car as my lunch time was rapidly dwindling away. Before I backed out of the parking spot, I made sure to address the sting in my pride.”You were right that I was being selfish. I’m hungry and I wanted to eat before we have to leave for our next appointment. You have your food now, but I still have to get home and eat mine before it’s time to leave. I was putting myself first,” I admitted. Although I wanted her to listen to and respect what I instructed her to do, I knew that there was a bigger lesson - an eternal one - at stake. God wants us to follow Him and put others before ourselves. Philippians 2:3 instructs, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” God wants absolutely everything I do to reflect the highest level of living for Him. Every single moment offers me an opportunity to allow Him to flow through me. It is not easy. As you can see, I make mistakes. My heart is seen by God, however, and He knows that I desire showing Him to all and that I need Him to continue humbling, stretching, and molding me to become who He desires. There is no pleasure in remaining me. True joy abides when He is allowed to reside in and restore what He created. Eternal perspective living applies to absolutely everything I do. Every decision, comment, and action becomes part of a chain of events impacting myself and others around me, especially those I love. Sometimes, when I am tired or rushed, I might feel an urge to hurry things, but I hear Jesus speak to my soul. He reminds me to slow down. The moment at hand becomes a snapshot of the life album of the person I am dealing with. My reaction and attitude have the ability to affect them beyond what I can see, becoming part of their eternity. I’m honestly the worst with strangers when I get this way, especially people I cannot understand well on the telephone and I have been on an endless loop of transfers with no one able to help me when dealing with health issues for my daughter. I also have a hard time when someone offends or harms one of my children. God has worked on, and will continue working with me in these areas. Although I am far from perfect, He reminds me that I represent Him, and that the simple ways I respond can add up to complex negative or positive outcomes. How different would our world be if we lived according to God’s principles and consistently allowed others to become more important than ourselves? I am not a Bible scholar, but I am in love with God’s words and teachings. I’m fascinated that He took the trouble of preparing a life manual for us, sent straight from Him, and full of everything we need to live for Him, learn from Him, and be prepared to meet Him face-to-face one day. There is so much to learn, but I delight in sitting at the feet of Jesus. I consider myself a girl in love with Him. It’s true that I’m technically a married woman, a mother of four, and a grandma to one, but I consider myself a girl in my faith walk, because I want to maintain the childlike faith Jesus calls us to embrace in Matthew 18:3-4. “Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” Another scripture, 1 Corinthians 14:20, tells us, “Brethren, do not be children in understanding; however, in malice be babes, but in understanding be mature.” We are called to become mature in spiritual knowledge and understanding, yet remain naive regarding evil. Adults often confuse the two. We become knowledgeable about sins of the world, and focus our attention on things that aren’t really important in our relationship with eternity. We neglect living in reverence for God, and postpone deepening our walk with Him. We lack the trust to rely on Him to provide for us. Think about the opposite way children approach life. They trust the one who cares for them, even when they shouldn’t. They want to spend time with those they care about and lavish love on the ones who adore them, the way we must intentionally be with Jesus and others. One thing I must ask myself daily is whether my actions match what my heart believes. Do others see Jesus through me? What about you. Can others see what you believe? Before my daughter died, I thought the worst thing that could ever happen to me would be to lose a child. Now I know that the most devastating thing would be to lose Jesus. He has taken me through my biggest fear and proven Himself faithful. Thankfully, His word promises me that no one can pluck me from His hand. I will never lose Jesus. When Jesus lived on this earth, His desire was to glorify God. He modeled that for me to follow. He modeled that for you to follow. Are we representing Christ in the way He should be shown? The hardest challenges and excruciating pains in our life can drive us deeper into the arms of Jesus or give us an excuse to run away from Him. In order to truly live with eternal perspective, we must view eternity through a new lens. Eternity is multi-dimensional; affecting everything we are and do. While we have a limited amount of time on earth to know, love, and show Jesus, we will spend the remainder of our timeless existence in the presence of the Lord, if we are believers. That means we must submit to God’s plan for our life – and His plan for others. We must glorify and honor Jesus in all that we do. We must look beyond ourselves to Jesus and abide in His view of others. We must focus on discipleship of ourselves and others. We must place Jesus on the throne of our affections and thoughts. When our mind is fixed on things above, seeking Jesus and drawing nearer to Him, our heart organically develops to be more like His. Our life reflects the change. We are allowing Him to truly abide in us and transform us. Sometimes the transformation is easy; sometimes it is agonizing. It is always worth the investment – for self, others, and Him. Let me list some important questions that I think help us to put eternity into an easier focus for us. Let’s ask ourselves the following: What do I believe about the promise Jesus gives me regarding eternity? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the potential Jesus says I have to affect His kingdom? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the possibilities (the gifts) Jesus created in me? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? What do I believe about the value Jesus places on me as His beloved child? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? Do I know and have I accepted Jesus as my personal Savior? Do my actions reflect my beliefs? How we measure our belief will become our result – both here and for eternity. Imagine groggily lifting yourself from bed fifteen minutes later than normal one morning with all the “to-do” list of items already rolling through your mind. You can barely take another step because you’ve been so behind with all the activities and expectations of life, and you just can’t get enough sleep. As you walk from the bedroom to the kitchen, you see Jesus sitting at your kitchen table, waiting to visit with just you. Are you panic-stricken? Or do you feel peace? Do you begin apologizing for the mess in your house? Are you giving excuses as to why you don’t have enough time to keep it as clean as you’d like to and start telling Him everything that you’ve had to do? Maybe you ask Him why He didn’t add about ten more hours to each day; or better yet, another day to each week. Or do you simply sit with Him? Are you able to abide in the presence of your Savior? Are you willing to let go of the expectations you place on yourself and allow Him to restore your mindset and spirit? Often, we don’t know Jesus because we say that we don’t have time, deceiving ourselves that in order to grow in Him, we must be involved in several group Bible studies, be at every church function, take lessons on how to interpret our spiritual gifts, read every good book about faith and Jesus, and keep a spiritual journal. The list can be endless. We make knowing and loving Jesus a task. Love for our Savior should fuel our actions in simple and direct ways. Sit with Bible in hand and read His teachings and the wisdom of God. Pray. Listen for God. Connect with other believers. See where the Heavenly Father leads you next. Jesus simply desires our heart in genuine worship and relationship. Luke 10:38-42 illustrates two sisters who love Jesus. One is consumed with doing what she thinks is important, instead of simply being in His presence. After complaining to Jesus about the actions of her sister, Jesus gently rebukes her. “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” Live to be more engaged with Jesus than engaged for Him. Make time to be at His feet and listen for His direction. Soak up His presence. Thank you for listening to this first Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 073 - Equip Your Child to Stand Against Sin Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 073 – Equip Your Child to Stand Against Sin Our youngest daughter has a bedtime curfew depending on what day of the week it is. She’s really very good at keeping to the schedule, even when she doesn’t want to. But as my husband was getting ready to leave for work this morning, he shared a story that happened last night when they were watching television together after I went to bed. When her set bedtime arrived on the clock, she started to gather her things to go to sleep. Because they were watching a show that wasn’t over yet, my husband said she could tell me he told her to stay up. “But that would be a lie,” she said. He explained that it wasn’t a lie if he told her she could stay up later, and that he was telling her she could. The next evening, I was already in bed again when they were continuing the series they were watching. When it was time to go to bed, my husband asked her if she was leaving, and she wittily remarked, “Unless you want me to stay.” My daughter felt so strongly about getting to bed at the proper time because she has followed that expectation daily for years, understanding that obeying is a promise between us when I gave her the bedtimes. She recognizes that even if I am not there to remind her of when to go to bed, she is still under authority to make the correct choice. It took convincing from my husband that he also had the authority to tell her she could stay up past her bedtime. While our daughter does need to understand that as her parent, Daddy can alter her bedtime so they can enjoy time together if I’m not there, I’m glad she takes honesty seriously. Even when we purposely raise our children to respect and honor God, it can be easy for them to be deceived or to fall to selfish desires or ambitions. When they do uphold the teachings of God and honor Him and His authority, we reap the beautiful benefits. Genesis 3:1-13 says, “Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?” “And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree, which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ “Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.” “And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.” “Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?” “So he said, “I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.” “And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?” “Then the man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.” “And the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done ?” “The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” It is vitally important for parents to understand that God’s truths must be clearly and repeatedly taught if we desire our children to easily recognize the lies of this fallen world. What we teach our children about truth through God’s eyes and how we live His truths become godly examples that will affect them and future generations. Teaching the book of Genesis is a beautiful lesson in God’s truths. What they learn through Genesis will be the foundation for multiple life issues as they mature and grow. Proverbs is another book filled with truth and wisdom. Teaching your child the truths of God’s Word will always be more important than anything else you could teach them. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life .” Humans carry such selfish desires. It’s easy for us to get caught up in what we want or think we need, and fall short of what God’s best is for us and our family. Pride Arrogance Selfishness Jealousy Deceit Unforgiveness Anger Bitterness So many ungodly characteristics easily arise from actions and thoughts. Without a godly and God-filled home to learn Biblical truths, our children can easily fall victim to fleshly desires, Satan, peers and culture, and the alluring lies of this world. God’s Word clearly instructs us on how to react to the ways of this world. Colossians 3:5-10 says, “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator .” In the book of Ephesians, we learn the learn that God has again gone before us to provide exactly what we need to allow Him to fight worldly and spiritual battles in our place. Teach your child to rely on the armor of God and to allow Him to fight and protect your child through a lifetime of battles. When I say allow, I don’t mean that we hold power over God, but that we humbly submit to Him. Ephesians 6:10-17 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God .” God enables us to fight against sin through His Word and the tools found in Ephesians, but we also have another weapon ready in our arsenal from God. Our identity. Identity formed and established through Jesus Christ is a powerful, effective weapon that releases your child from various strongholds. Colossians 3:1-3 says, “If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” Purposely building character and identity through relationship with Christ allows your child to stand on a firm foundation that cannot be shaken. God’s truth will be more clearly seen and used for decisions, relationships, and molding character and integrity because your child’s identity will be one with Christ and the way God sees him or her. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 says, “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. ” Your child must learn, understand, and believe that God’s Word is the Authority of Truth. His holy Word is the ultimate Truth that can break and demolish strongholds and falsehoods. The Bible calls and equips believers to attack lies with the Truth of God by reading, believing, and utilizing His Word, holy power, and authority. For example, Paul was merely a man, flesh like you and me. Yet, what made Paul strong was that he understood and taught that human brilliance, worldly wisdom, and wits were powerless against the evil and darkness of this world. He relied on the Word and Holy Spirit to guide and guard His mind and heart. Paul relied on those Sources to direct how he lived and taught. He never wavered from what God spoke through the Word and Spirit. None of us can live in freedom or peace through our human strength or wisdom. How frail and weak we are! How easily deceived! We also can’t deepen our walk with God by fighting with our flesh. We cannot defeat this world or the strongholds within it unless we use the Word of God and His truth to attack or stand against ungodly falsehoods. It is His strength; not our own. That is what our children must witness us doing and hear us teach. 1 Corinthians 3:20 says, “And again, “The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise, that they are futile .” It is God’s wisdom and Word that saves you, your children, and future generations. Your job as a believer and parent is to strengthen your belief, trust, and obedience in the Lord and mentor the way to Him for your children with godly purpose and holy-inspired direction. Your job is to combat the lies of this world with the truth of God’s Word and to show your children how to do the same. Your child will never recognize the lies of this world unless they are taught the truths of God and taught to build godly identity through Christ. John 17:17 says, “Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth.” Ephesians 6:17 says, “Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God .” What are the most effective ways to equip your child to stand against sin in an ungodly world? 1. Stay away from sin. When you live a life devoted to pleasing God and strive not to sin against Him as you mirror Christ to your children, you become the most effective witness. 2. Teach your child the importance of the power of God’s holy Word to equip and empower them against sin. Do this through your own life examples and look for ways to highlight God working in the lives of your children and others. 3. Show your child how to use God’s armory against sin and the power of darkness. Teach them what God’s Word instructs and let them witness you using God’s armor daily. 4. Encourage and empower your child to stand in identity through Christ. From the earliest times you have your child, begin speaking Truth into their life and spirit. 5. Teach them godly characteristics, praise those characteristics, such as honesty and integrity when you see them in your child, and mentor those to them. Praise your kids when they are truthful, and notice when they are tempted (but don’t follow that temptation). Show/Tell your children when opportunities arise for honesty (such as when you’re not charged for an item at the store, and your tell the cashier, etc.). Make it clear to your children that you don’t make these types of choices to live with these values because you are a good person or that they are good, it is because you are living the values that are pleasing to God and instructed in His Word. Let them learn that when you love and honor God, you live in ways that are pleasing because your actions reflect on Him. Just as some families teach their children not to soil the family name, it is far more important to understand and honor that our actions and reactions reflect Christ to a watching world that may not yet know Him. 6. Prayer – Seek specific Scriptures you can use as powerful prayers to strengthen and protect your children from sin. Hebrews 4:12-13 says, “For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account .” Dear Heavenly Father how blessed we are for Your love and care for us. Even before we were Yours through the live-saving power of Christ, You suffered for us. We are so far from You, yet you call us Yours and love with an everlasting love. You have done everything You can to show us that love and to create a way for us to come to You and live with You in eternity. How carelessly we live our days without knowing even the smallest of sins we hold against You. We are so sorry for the pain we cause and pray that You will enable us to stand in our identity through Christ before You and raise the children you entrusted to us in ways that please and delight You. Help us not to sin against You and not to ignorantly cause our children to sin. Enable us to guide and direct our children with Your insight and wisdom. Help us place them on Your pure path and may You keep them there until they meet You in eternity. Father, thank you for your Son and thank you for loving us before we even came to You. Thank you that as we raise our children to love, honor, and obey You we see beautifully joyful blessings through watching them serve You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. The first group of women is currently growing together. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #053 –Lifeline of Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I wish you each a joyous new year! I don’t think I’ve said that on the podcast yet. It’s probably not a surprise to hear that I’m not a big “turn the calendar and get a fresh start with a brand new year” kind of person. While it’s always very fun to celebrate New Years Eve with my family by playing games together and eating great snacks, that’s as far as we go. But it is so much fun to be together on New Year’s Eve and I honestly never want it to end. But as I have already raised a set of children to adulthood, I know it does. Parents, savor every moment you can. While we adore time spent together and appreciate moments because none of us know how long we are here or how many new years we will have the privilege to enjoy with each other, our family doesn’t recognize new year “superstitions” or heavy cultural influences, but I think it is super fun to hear the different ways other cultures celebrate. Let me share a few of the different ways various countries experience ringing in the new year. Some are humorous, some superstitious, but all are interesting. Did you know that in Spain a person will select twelve grapes and as the clock begins to strike midnight, you are to eat one grape at every chime of the clock, up to twelve o’clock? Each grape is supposed to symbolize one month of good luck. In Denmark people will throw old plates and glasses against the doors of their family and friends. Why? Because this act is supposed to banish evil spirits. They also stand on chairs and jump off of them together at midnight to signify leaping into January with the hope of good luck. Have you heard that in Brazil people supposedly wear special underwear on New Year’s Eve? The most popular colors are supposedly red, which is thought to bring love to the new year, and yellow, which is thought to bring money. Hmm. Which would you prefer? In Colombia people will place three potatoes under their beds on New Year’s Eve. One potato is unpeeled, one peeled, and one half-peeled. At midnight, people will reach beneath the bed and pull out one potato – the first one they touch. They believe that if you retrieve a peeled potato, you will suffer a year of financial problems. If you grab an unpeeled potato, you will receive abundance, and a half-peeled potato means a year containing a mixture of both. In the Philippines, people serve round fruits – twelve in all. The round shape is supposed to symbolize coins – meaning prosperity and wealth for each month of the new year. These are just a few of the interesting ways other cultures ring in the new year. I wonder which you found most interesting. I find Colombia and the potatoes humorous; can you imagine forgetting those potatoes and fighting the smell of rotten potato later?! Although each country has unique ways to celebrate at midnight, people around the world have one thing in common when celebrating the new year. Resolutions. It doesn’t matter where you live. Many people around the world make changes when the new year arrives. Unfortunately, by February, most resolutions have been broken or forgotten. Thankfully, when we build our hope around Jesus, we can enjoy hearing the various ways people celebrate, but we don’t rely on superstitious traditions to carry us into the new year or through life. I’ve never been interested in making resolutions to begin a new year, but I am always alert for lifestyle habit changes I need to make. However, I recognize, as I hope you do, that when I see the need to shift my ways, I do not wait until the new year. I want to begin when I realize the need for adjustment. Especially when it comes to my relationship with God. In reality, our walk with Him should be maturing every single day. Some days we may fall back and not do a single thing we wanted to do with God, but our reservoir should be so full from previous time with Him that we remain strong and growing no matter what circumstances swirl around us. Even when we are sick or going through an extremely taxing time, our goal is to still be able to be doing something daily to grow our walk with God through Jesus. What if we are sick and cannot even hold our head up to read His word? We can still converse with Him and listen for His response. We can be sustained by the words we hold in our minds and heart. If we have not invested time with Him, it will set us back and be noticed quickly, but if we usually spend our days wisely growing through Jesus, allowing Him to carry, stretch, and grow us, we will continue to rest and mature in Him through other ways during that time. When we know God intimately through Jesus, we will see events and circumstances through His eyes and mindset. We purposely look for eternal value in each day. Our words, actions, and attitudes should continue to reflect and seek Him. We understand that there is value in problems and set-backs because we allow them to thrust us into His arms instead of whining and complaining or pulling away from Him. Circumstances and pains are valued in the life of a believer, because we want to be able to stand the tests of this world and still be standing strong in Him. In order to utilize that mindset, we must exercise it daily. 1 Peter 5:6-11 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To Him be the power for ever and ever.” To live this way, we must desire Him above all else. We must be committed to maturing our walk with the Lord to have the ability to put Him first. A decision must be made to cleave to Him through all things. Luke 12:31 says, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need.” Isaiah 26:8-9 says, “Lord, we show our trust in You by obeying Your laws; our heart’s desire is to glorify Your name. In the night I search for You; in the morning I earnestly seek You.” Both of these verses show us facets of dedication to God. Seek Him, lift Him above all else, obey Him, keep His commands (not just to follow laws, but because we want to love and honor Him), seek His kingdom and righteousness, and strive to glorify Him. When we know and trust God, we do not have to follow superstitions or seek ungodly “worldly” counsel. We can go straight to “the Source” through Jesus. Courage and freedom are found through Jesus Christ alone. So often we want to know and love God, but we allow life circumstances or something from our past to trip us up. We wonder how to find a deeper walk with God and don’t know how to reach Him through a true and deepening walk. It is my desire to lead you to Him. I know the changes He has made in my own life. I know His word and promises are true. Jesus is our lifeline. When you think of the definition of the word, lifeline, what comes to mind? Several explanations for the word include the following: a line or rope for saving a life. It is also any of various lines running above the decks of a ship or boat to give sailors something to grasp when there is danger of falling or being washed away. How often are we in danger of falling or being washed away in this life? A lifeline is also defined as assistance at a critical time. Life is full of dire or pivotal times. It is essential that we hold fast to Christ at each step of our walk and maturation with Him. It is my prayer that each person listening to this podcast will stop and make the time to do three things today. I don’t care how close you feel you are to the Lord already. We will never be close enough. Each day is meant to carry the purpose of relying on and growing more deeply with Him and shining Him to others. When we are His, we must realize the importance of following Him above all else in this world. Romans 11:36 says, “For everything comes from Him and exists by His power and is intended for His glory. All glory to Him forever!” How many people live like that? We have to purpose our life for His if we are to begin living the way God truly calls for us to do. Please stop today to ponder and complete five acts that will prepare or enable you to grasp Jesus as your continuous lifeline. 1. Reflect on your walk with Jesus. Reflect on your spiritual walk. Spend time in prayer – speaking to and listening for God. Ask Him to expose sin and to guide you on what to change in your life. Reflect on His word. Even when we may fall short by not reading God’s word daily, our desire and plan should be to do it. Why? Because if we plan to read God’s word daily, we will actually do so more times than not. When we plan to read the Bible daily, it will become habit. When something becomes a habit, we will do it almost daily. Life doesn’t feel the same when we miss it. We crave the routine and, most importantly, our life shows the difference God makes when we truly know and follow Him. 2. Repent to God. 2 Corinthians 7:10 says, “For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death.” Boldly asking God what He desires us to change leads to profound spiritual growth when we listen and obey Him. God loves prayers that follow His will for us. Until we each begin or continue to change our relationship with God and truly follow Him with love, honor, trust, and obedience, this world will not change. Our children and families will continue to slide more and more into what this ungodly world teaches and what our twisted culture teaches. 3. Renew your commitment to the Lord. Each moment with the Lord is new. We don’t have to wait for the next day. We can come before Him at any time! We should be cognizant of our walk with Him at all times. Why? Because when we truly care about someone, we think about them. We honor them and want to please them. Once we understand our relationship with Jesus, and our place in it, we understand that this world is broken and so far from what God wants for our life. What bothers you? What has God put on your heart to allow Him to change through you? As each of us are created for a purpose, part of the joy of being a follower of Jesus is realizing what He desires from and for us. Our relationship with Him is meant to make a bright difference in this dark world. First, we must allow God to shift our life, attitude, and beliefs. Next, our family must not remain the same. In fact, they will not remain untouched when they see the difference Christ makes in us. 4. React to God. 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 says, “Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever? And what union can there be between God’s temple and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God said: “I will live in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they will be my people. Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord. Don’t touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you. And I will be your Father, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.” It is said that when oxen of different sizes are yoked together, they will move in circles. Just like a relationship with believers and non-believers, they are “unequally yoked.” Any type of unequally yoked partnership will not prosper. I believe this is such an important point to consider and remember. I have actually seen this proven during my life. God’s word is always established to be genuine. Here is where it gets tricky in our culture, however, and I think it is very important to mention. The world we live in is looking to take offense at absolutely everything. God should be our guide and lifeline. We must be strong enough in and through Him that we can withstand the pressures of this world because He is our shield. We do not have to believe what our culture, entertainment, fashion and others tell us. When we are firm in Him, we take everything back to the word of God for authentication. I want to be captive to the word of God and the life of Jesus and live the way they desire. We should study, know, recognize, and follow God’s word, not others in the world, no matter who they are. There are many false prophets and teachers, and I urge you to take anything you hear, even my words, and hold it against what God’s word teaches. Do not allow yourself to be misled. Don’t break that lifeline to Jesus and don’t let it get tangled by confusion or corrupted beliefs. I do believe that God wants us to follow and shine Him in this world. In order to do that well, we must study the life of Jesus and allow Him to be our mentor and guide, as well as allow Him to direct us through the Holy Spirit. Many Christians are perceived as being judgmental and of living with a holier than thou attitude. This is not what God desires. We are to be a sweet fragrance that attracts, not repels others to Him. We are imperfect people trying to follow a perfect God. We will make mistakes, but do not let that be an excuse! As we lean on the Lord, holding firmly to our lifeline, and truly take moments captive for eternity, we will see how vitally important it is that we allow Him to work within us. This world does not need us to preach to them what they should do. They need to see us living a humble life filled with the spirit of Jesus. When they see our attitude, actions, and mindset, and it remains consistent, not attacking others, but setting an example that is different, He will be noticed. Of course, I know that in the world we live in, there is so much to address, but as we let the Lord guide us, He will show us what actions to take. I try to live my life in ways that Jesus would approve of, and each day when I fall short in some way, I take it to Him and allow Him to change and guide me. As I grow in the Lord, I want my thoughts to match His. Jesus offers the only life-changing and saving words this world needs. Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 6:3-10 speak to the point I am attempting to make. He says, “We live in such a way that no one will stumble because of us, and no one will find fault with our ministry. In everything we do, we show that we are true ministers of God. We patiently endure troubles and hardships and calamities of every kind. We have been beaten, been put in prison, faced angry mobs, worked to exhaustion, endured sleepless nights, and gone without food. We prove ourselves by our purity, our understanding, our patience, our kindness, by the Holy Spirit within us, and by our sincere love. We faithfully preach the truth. God’s power is working in us. We use the weapons of righteousness in the right hand for attack and the left hand for defense. We serve God whether people honor us or despise us, whether they slander us or praise us. We are honest, but they call us impostors. We are ignored, even though we are well known. We live close to death, but we are still alive. We have been beaten, but we have not been killed. Our hearts ache, but we always have joy. We are poor, but we give spiritual riches to others. We own nothing, and yet we have everything.” People need to see God’s truths in us, not hear us start reciting how they should live. I pray I will live in such a way that I am loving and kind to all. It is God’s job to judge. I can share the gospel and tell how profoundly Jesus has changed my life, I can raise my children to know Him and allow them to choose to love and follow Him because they have not only heard the gospel, but they have seen it in my attitude and actions. What you do is not my business. If you do not believe the same as I do, I am not obligated to try to force your mind or point out flaws. I have enough of my own and each one of us sins every single day. God gives each of us a choice, but we should have the freedom to express what has happened in our life and what Jesus has done for us. I want you to see Him so strongly in me that you will choose Him for yourself and God will change what needs to be corrected in you, as He does in me. I do believe this world is broken in many ways. We have strayed so far from where God wants us to be. I do believe our nation is in for troubled times as we move farther and farther from where God’s word tells us to be or from the example Jesus set for us. Our children and grandchildren will suffer greatly because we have drifted so far. Now is the time to react with a heart change as we allow the Holy Spirit to alter us with light and truth. We must prepare ourselves for battles, including physical, mental, verbal, and spiritual, by living with values and virtues of Christ and arming ourselves with power from the Lord and truth from His word. 5. Rest in God. As we grow in spiritual maturity, trust, and love for God, we are better able to simply rest in Him. Instead of living with constant worry over the state of the nation, our finances, our health, our children, or innumerable potential problems, we humbly fall to our knees and beg the only One who can actually change our situation. We intentionally live in ways that are pleasing to Him and honor the commands He gives us, as only God knows what will truly fulfill us. The closer we move to Him, we become bound to Him as our lifeline, and our heart and mindset reflect the desires and motivations God requires. Ephesians 3:16-19 says, “I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” Jesus tells us in Matthew 10:38-39, “Whoever does not take up their cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for My sake will find it.” So. Stop. Make time today to reflect, repent, renew, react, and rest. Pay attention to what God says and shows to you. This should be a daily habit we desire, a natural response like breathing. Just like love for those we know on earth, our love for the Lord should be so strong and such a part of us that we fight for it. If your first love, Jesus is not a strong attraction anymore, remember why you became a follower and nurture that light and love until it is a burning flame that will never be extinguished. Dear Heavenly Father, You tell us in Your word that You are the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. You promise us that You never grow tired or weary and that we cannot fathom Your understanding. You give strength to the weary and You increase the power of the weak. You teach us that although youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall, those who hope in You will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, and will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not be faint. It is only through relying on You and clinging to the lifeline You offer us, Lord that we will experience this truth. Help us to look to You and never release our grip on the lifeline that connects us to You. We need You, Lord. Enable us to live like it more each day. In Your precious name we boldly and humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 053 Lifeline of Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #053 –Lifeline of Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I wish you each a joyous new year! I don’t think I’ve said that on the podcast yet. It’s probably not a surprise to hear that I’m not a big “turn the calendar and get a fresh start with a brand new year” kind of person. While it’s always very fun to celebrate New Years Eve with my family by playing games together and eating great snacks, that’s as far as we go. But it is so much fun to be together on New Year’s Eve and I honestly never want it to end. But as I have already raised a set of children to adulthood, I know it does. Parents, savor every moment you can. While we adore time spent together and appreciate moments because none of us know how long we are here or how many new years we will have the privilege to enjoy with each other, our family doesn’t recognize new year “superstitions” or heavy cultural influences, but I think it is super fun to hear the different ways other cultures celebrate. Let me share a few of the different ways various countries experience ringing in the new year. Some are humorous, some superstitious, but all are interesting. Did you know that in Spain a person will select twelve grapes and as the clock begins to strike midnight, you are to eat one grape at every chime of the clock, up to twelve o’clock? Each grape is supposed to symbolize one month of good luck. In Denmark people will throw old plates and glasses against the doors of their family and friends. Why? Because this act is supposed to banish evil spirits. They also stand on chairs and jump off of them together at midnight to signify leaping into January with the hope of good luck. Have you heard that in Brazil people supposedly wear special underwear on New Year’s Eve? The most popular colors are supposedly red, which is thought to bring love to the new year, and yellow, which is thought to bring money. Hmm. Which would you prefer? In Colombia people will place three potatoes under their beds on New Year’s Eve. One potato is unpeeled, one peeled, and one half-peeled. At midnight, people will reach beneath the bed and pull out one potato – the first one they touch. They believe that if you retrieve a peeled potato, you will suffer a year of financial problems. If you grab an unpeeled potato, you will receive abundance, and a half-peeled potato means a year containing a mixture of both. In the Philippines, people serve round fruits – twelve in all. The round shape is supposed to symbolize coins – meaning prosperity and wealth for each month of the new year. These are just a few of the interesting ways other cultures ring in the new year. I wonder which you found most interesting. I find Colombia and the potatoes humorous; can you imagine forgetting those potatoes and fighting the smell of rotten potato later?! Although each country has unique ways to celebrate at midnight, people around the world have one thing in common when celebrating the new year. Resolutions. It doesn’t matter where you live. Many people around the world make changes when the new year arrives. Unfortunately, by February, most resolutions have been broken or forgotten. Thankfully, when we build our hope around Jesus, we can enjoy hearing the various ways people celebrate, but we don’t rely on superstitious traditions to carry us into the new year or through life. I’ve never been interested in making resolutions to begin a new year, but I am always alert for lifestyle habit changes I need to make. However, I recognize, as I hope you do, that when I see the need to shift my ways, I do not wait until the new year. I want to begin when I realize the need for adjustment. Especially when it comes to my relationship with God. In reality, our walk with Him should be maturing every single day. Some days we may fall back and not do a single thing we wanted to do with God, but our reservoir should be so full from previous time with Him that we remain strong and growing no matter what circumstances swirl around us. Even when we are sick or going through an extremely taxing time, our goal is to still be able to be doing something daily to grow our walk with God through Jesus. What if we are sick and cannot even hold our head up to read His word? We can still converse with Him and listen for His response. We can be sustained by the words we hold in our minds and heart. If we have not invested time with Him, it will set us back and be noticed quickly, but if we usually spend our days wisely growing through Jesus, allowing Him to carry, stretch, and grow us, we will continue to rest and mature in Him through other ways during that time. When we know God intimately through Jesus, we will see events and circumstances through His eyes and mindset. We purposely look for eternal value in each day. Our words, actions, and attitudes should continue to reflect and seek Him. We understand that there is value in problems and set-backs because we allow them to thrust us into His arms instead of whining and complaining or pulling away from Him. Circumstances and pains are valued in the life of a believer, because we want to be able to stand the tests of this world and still be standing strong in Him. In order to utilize that mindset, we must exercise it daily. 1 Peter 5:6-11 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To Him be the power for ever and ever.” To live this way, we must desire Him above all else. We must be committed to maturing our walk with the Lord to have the ability to put Him first. A decision must be made to cleave to Him through all things. Luke 12:31 says, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need.” Isaiah 26:8-9 says, “Lord, we show our trust in You by obeying Your laws; our heart’s desire is to glorify Your name. In the night I search for You; in the morning I earnestly seek You.” Both of these verses show us facets of dedication to God. Seek Him, lift Him above all else, obey Him, keep His commands (not just to follow laws, but because we want to love and honor Him), seek His kingdom and righteousness, and strive to glorify Him. When we know and trust God, we do not have to follow superstitions or seek ungodly “worldly” counsel. We can go straight to “the Source” through Jesus. Courage and freedom are found through Jesus Christ alone. So often we want to know and love God, but we allow life circumstances or something from our past to trip us up. We wonder how to find a deeper walk with God and don’t know how to reach Him through a true and deepening walk. It is my desire to lead you to Him. I know the changes He has made in my own life. I know His word and promises are true. Jesus is our lifeline. When you think of the definition of the word, lifeline, what comes to mind? Several explanations for the word include the following: a line or rope for saving a life. It is also any of various lines running above the decks of a ship or boat to give sailors something to grasp when there is danger of falling or being washed away. How often are we in danger of falling or being washed away in this life? A lifeline is also defined as assistance at a critical time. Life is full of dire or pivotal times. It is essential that we hold fast to Christ at each step of our walk and maturation with Him. It is my prayer that each person listening to this podcast will stop and make the time to do three things today. I don’t care how close you feel you are to the Lord already. We will never be close enough. Each day is meant to carry the purpose of relying on and growing more deeply with Him and shining Him to others. When we are His, we must realize the importance of following Him above all else in this world. Romans 11:36 says, “For everything comes from Him and exists by His power and is intended for His glory. All glory to Him forever!” How many people live like that? We have to purpose our life for His if we are to begin living the way God truly calls for us to do. Please stop today to ponder and complete five acts that will prepare or enable you to grasp Jesus as your continuous lifeline. 1. Reflect on your walk with Jesus. Reflect on your spiritual walk. Spend time in prayer – speaking to and listening for God. Ask Him to expose sin and to guide you on what to change in your life. Reflect on His word. Even when we may fall short by not reading God’s word daily, our desire and plan should be to do it. Why? Because if we plan to read God’s word daily, we will actually do so more times than not. When we plan to read the Bible daily, it will become habit. When something becomes a habit, we will do it almost daily. Life doesn’t feel the same when we miss it. We crave the routine and, most importantly, our life shows the difference God makes when we truly know and follow Him. 2. Repent to God. 2 Corinthians 7:10 says, “For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death.” Boldly asking God what He desires us to change leads to profound spiritual growth when we listen and obey Him. God loves prayers that follow His will for us. Until we each begin or continue to change our relationship with God and truly follow Him with love, honor, trust, and obedience, this world will not change. Our children and families will continue to slide more and more into what this ungodly world teaches and what our twisted culture teaches. 3. Renew your commitment to the Lord. Each moment with the Lord is new. We don’t have to wait for the next day. We can come before Him at any time! We should be cognizant of our walk with Him at all times. Why? Because when we truly care about someone, we think about them. We honor them and want to please them. Once we understand our relationship with Jesus, and our place in it, we understand that this world is broken and so far from what God wants for our life. What bothers you? What has God put on your heart to allow Him to change through you? As each of us are created for a purpose, part of the joy of being a follower of Jesus is realizing what He desires from and for us. Our relationship with Him is meant to make a bright difference in this dark world. First, we must allow God to shift our life, attitude, and beliefs. Next, our family must not remain the same. In fact, they will not remain untouched when they see the difference Christ makes in us. 4. React to God. 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 says, “Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever? And what union can there be between God’s temple and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God said: “I will live in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they will be my people. Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord. Don’t touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you. And I will be your Father, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.” It is said that when oxen of different sizes are yoked together, they will move in circles. Just like a relationship with believers and non-believers, they are “unequally yoked.” Any type of unequally yoked partnership will not prosper. I believe this is such an important point to consider and remember. I have actually seen this proven during my life. God’s word is always established to be genuine. Here is where it gets tricky in our culture, however, and I think it is very important to mention. The world we live in is looking to take offense at absolutely everything. God should be our guide and lifeline. We must be strong enough in and through Him that we can withstand the pressures of this world because He is our shield. We do not have to believe what our culture, entertainment, fashion and others tell us. When we are firm in Him, we take everything back to the word of God for authentication. I want to be captive to the word of God and the life of Jesus and live the way they desire. We should study, know, recognize, and follow God’s word, not others in the world, no matter who they are. There are many false prophets and teachers, and I urge you to take anything you hear, even my words, and hold it against what God’s word teaches. Do not allow yourself to be misled. Don’t break that lifeline to Jesus and don’t let it get tangled by confusion or corrupted beliefs. I do believe that God wants us to follow and shine Him in this world. In order to do that well, we must study the life of Jesus and allow Him to be our mentor and guide, as well as allow Him to direct us through the Holy Spirit. Many Christians are perceived as being judgmental and of living with a holier than thou attitude. This is not what God desires. We are to be a sweet fragrance that attracts, not repels others to Him. We are imperfect people trying to follow a perfect God. We will make mistakes, but do not let that be an excuse! As we lean on the Lord, holding firmly to our lifeline, and truly take moments captive for eternity, we will see how vitally important it is that we allow Him to work within us. This world does not need us to preach to them what they should do. They need to see us living a humble life filled with the spirit of Jesus. When they see our attitude, actions, and mindset, and it remains consistent, not attacking others, but setting an example that is different, He will be noticed. Of course, I know that in the world we live in, there is so much to address, but as we let the Lord guide us, He will show us what actions to take. I try to live my life in ways that Jesus would approve of, and each day when I fall short in some way, I take it to Him and allow Him to change and guide me. As I grow in the Lord, I want my thoughts to match His. Jesus offers the only life-changing and saving words this world needs. Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 6:3-10 speak to the point I am attempting to make. He says, “We live in such a way that no one will stumble because of us, and no one will find fault with our ministry. In everything we do, we show that we are true ministers of God. We patiently endure troubles and hardships and calamities of every kind. We have been beaten, been put in prison, faced angry mobs, worked to exhaustion, endured sleepless nights, and gone without food. We prove ourselves by our purity, our understanding, our patience, our kindness, by the Holy Spirit within us, and by our sincere love. We faithfully preach the truth. God’s power is working in us. We use the weapons of righteousness in the right hand for attack and the left hand for defense. We serve God whether people honor us or despise us, whether they slander us or praise us. We are honest, but they call us impostors. We are ignored, even though we are well known. We live close to death, but we are still alive. We have been beaten, but we have not been killed. Our hearts ache, but we always have joy. We are poor, but we give spiritual riches to others. We own nothing, and yet we have everything.” People need to see God’s truths in us, not hear us start reciting how they should live. I pray I will live in such a way that I am loving and kind to all. It is God’s job to judge. I can share the gospel and tell how profoundly Jesus has changed my life, I can raise my children to know Him and allow them to choose to love and follow Him because they have not only heard the gospel, but they have seen it in my attitude and actions. What you do is not my business. If you do not believe the same as I do, I am not obligated to try to force your mind or point out flaws. I have enough of my own and each one of us sins every single day. God gives each of us a choice, but we should have the freedom to express what has happened in our life and what Jesus has done for us. I want you to see Him so strongly in me that you will choose Him for yourself and God will change what needs to be corrected in you, as He does in me. I do believe this world is broken in many ways. We have strayed so far from where God wants us to be. I do believe our nation is in for troubled times as we move farther and farther from where God’s word tells us to be or from the example Jesus set for us. Our children and grandchildren will suffer greatly because we have drifted so far. Now is the time to react with a heart change as we allow the Holy Spirit to alter us with light and truth. We must prepare ourselves for battles, including physical, mental, verbal, and spiritual, by living with values and virtues of Christ and arming ourselves with power from the Lord and truth from His word. 5. Rest in God. As we grow in spiritual maturity, trust, and love for God, we are better able to simply rest in Him. Instead of living with constant worry over the state of the nation, our finances, our health, our children, or innumerable potential problems, we humbly fall to our knees and beg the only One who can actually change our situation. We intentionally live in ways that are pleasing to Him and honor the commands He gives us, as only God knows what will truly fulfill us. The closer we move to Him, we become bound to Him as our lifeline, and our heart and mindset reflect the desires and motivations God requires. Ephesians 3:16-19 says, “I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” Jesus tells us in Matthew 10:38-39, “Whoever does not take up their cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for My sake will find it.” So. Stop. Make time today to reflect, repent, renew, react, and rest. Pay attention to what God says and shows to you. This should be a daily habit we desire, a natural response like breathing. Just like love for those we know on earth, our love for the Lord should be so strong and such a part of us that we fight for it. If your first love, Jesus is not a strong attraction anymore, remember why you became a follower and nurture that light and love until it is a burning flame that will never be extinguished. Dear Heavenly Father, You tell us in Your word that You are the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. You promise us that You never grow tired or weary and that we cannot fathom Your understanding. You give strength to the weary and You increase the power of the weak. You teach us that although youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall, those who hope in You will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, and will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not be faint. It is only through relying on You and clinging to the lifeline You offer us, Lord that we will experience this truth. Help us to look to You and never release our grip on the lifeline that connects us to You. We need You, Lord. Enable us to live like it more each day. In Your precious name we boldly and humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #098 – How Big is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Because of the internet, I have met many women I consider friends. Our greatest ties are adoption, usually from China. Would be friends if we met in person? I believe so. The bonds woven through shared and understood adoption stories, the gift of truly understanding the gospel in a deeper and more intimate way through the grace of adoption, and the high and low emotional journeys through crafting new lives and families together, plus the triumphs and tragedies of love, loss, and medical miracles raise your friendship to levels untouched in day to day life. We love one another’s children, pray for them, and cheer them on through personal struggles and precious moments shared on the web. I feel like I have met most of them in person. We share an unspoken understanding, a trust, and a hope that we are not alone. Not in this world and certainly not in eternity when we or our children pass on. Our ties are fierce; we weep and grieve when hardship hits another. I don’t remember when I first met Cindy. It honestly feels like I’ve known her from the beginning of our adoption journey back in 2005. In reality, it was probably after our second adoption that we became acquainted. We share a respect and appreciation for each other that is rooted in relationship with Christ and in the way Jesus linked us through our love for our children who happened to be born in another country, as well as those still waiting. I invite you to listen today as Cindy shares a theme threaded throughout her life and proves to us just how big her God is and weaves a verbal tapestry of what He has done in her life. -----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW-------------------------------------------------- Does listening to Cindy’s story make you appreciate how big God is? Does it remind you to appreciate Him more as you think about what He has done in your life, too? Does it make you think about what can you do for Him? Stepping forward in obedience when we hear God’s call is one of the greatest ways to show our love for Him. What is He calling you to do? What changes might He want in your life? How big is your God? He is the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, our Provider and Protector, our Comforter. You may not be called to adopt, but what about helping fund the adoption of another family? What about praying consistently for someone in the process? Maybe God is moving your life in an entirely different direction. What will you do when you feel and hear Him call? How will you answer the Creator of the Universe when He whispers your name and taps your heart? Father God, You alone are good. You are holy. You are sovereign. You are the Beginning and the End. You create each of us with a purpose. You mean good for our lives and Your glory. You don’t need us, but delight in relationship with us. Thank you for Your all-encompassing eternal love and compassion for us. Thank you for choosing us, for creating us with a purpose that fills our spirit will joy and gladness, even through pain when we trust in You and continue pursuing fellowship with, and obedience to You. You warned us we would have trouble. You told us we would be persecuted, but You also promised to carry us through it all. Remind us to keep looking Up to You. Deepen our faith, our hope, our trust in You. May we please You when You look inside our hearts, when You watch the actions we make, hear the words we say, and know the attitude with which we live. In the precious name of Your Holy Son we pray. Amen. Cindy Newland is known as Cindy Champnella, and is the author of two books, “The Waiting Child: How the Faith and Love of One Orphan Saved the Life of Another” and “The Twelve Gifts of Life: Finding Extraordinary Meaning in Ordinary Moments.” She is an acclaimed speaker who has presented to numerous civic, community, and religious groups all over the United States. Cindy has appeared on several TV programs including NBC's "The John Walsh Show," dozens of nationally syndicated radio programs including "The Mitch Albom Show" and "The Al Kresta Show" and the internationally syndicated "Voice of America." She has published features in numerous publications, including Ladies Home Journal and Women's Weekly. Cindy is a feature writer for Adoption Today and a former guest columnist for The Detroit News. She is a keynote speaker at conferences and forums, including an appearance at Duke University. Cindy is married and has 5 daughters. She also has a B.A. from Albion College, a M.A. in business, a M.A. in psychology from Central Michigan University, and a PhD. in psychology. All proceeds from her first book were designated for the charity, Half the Sky Foundation. You can find her books at Amazon.com. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. I have two requests. If you are able, please go to Apple Podcasts and leave a rating and review to push the podcast out for more people to find. Without good reviews, others won’t hear the episodes designed to mature walks with Christ and equip all to live for eternity now. You can also share podcast episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. You can share my website, terrihitt.com and let others know that on it they will be able to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature their walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage them to raise or influence children and grandchildren to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 098 How Big Is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #098 – How Big is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Because of the internet, I have met many women I consider friends. Our greatest ties are adoption, usually from China. Would be friends if we met in person? I believe so. The bonds woven through shared and understood adoption stories, the gift of truly understanding the gospel in a deeper and more intimate way through the grace of adoption, and the high and low emotional journeys through crafting new lives and families together, plus the triumphs and tragedies of love, loss, and medical miracles raise your friendship to levels untouched in day to day life. We love one another’s children, pray for them, and cheer them on through personal struggles and precious moments shared on the web. I feel like I have met most of them in person. We share an unspoken understanding, a trust, and a hope that we are not alone. Not in this world and certainly not in eternity when we or our children pass on. Our ties are fierce; we weep and grieve when hardship hits another. I don’t remember when I first met Cindy. It honestly feels like I’ve known her from the beginning of our adoption journey back in 2005. In reality, it was probably after our second adoption that we became acquainted. We share a respect and appreciation for each other that is rooted in relationship with Christ and in the way Jesus linked us through our love for our children who happened to be born in another country, as well as those still waiting. I invite you to listen today as Cindy shares a theme threaded throughout her life and proves to us just how big her God is and weaves a verbal tapestry of what He has done in her life. -----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW-------------------------------------------------- Does listening to Cindy’s story make you appreciate how big God is? Does it remind you to appreciate Him more as you think about what He has done in your life, too? Does it make you think about what can you do for Him? Stepping forward in obedience when we hear God’s call is one of the greatest ways to show our love for Him. What is He calling you to do? What changes might He want in your life? How big is your God? He is the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, our Provider and Protector, our Comforter. You may not be called to adopt, but what about helping fund the adoption of another family? What about praying consistently for someone in the process? Maybe God is moving your life in an entirely different direction. What will you do when you feel and hear Him call? How will you answer the Creator of the Universe when He whispers your name and taps your heart? Father God, You alone are good. You are holy. You are sovereign. You are the Beginning and the End. You create each of us with a purpose. You mean good for our lives and Your glory. You don’t need us, but delight in relationship with us. Thank you for Your all-encompassing eternal love and compassion for us. Thank you for choosing us, for creating us with a purpose that fills our spirit will joy and gladness, even through pain when we trust in You and continue pursuing fellowship with, and obedience to You. You warned us we would have trouble. You told us we would be persecuted, but You also promised to carry us through it all. Remind us to keep looking Up to You. Deepen our faith, our hope, our trust in You. May we please You when You look inside our hearts, when You watch the actions we make, hear the words we say, and know the attitude with which we live. In the precious name of Your Holy Son we pray. Amen. Cindy Newland is known as Cindy Champnella, and is the author of two books, “The Waiting Child: How the Faith and Love of One Orphan Saved the Life of Another” and “The Twelve Gifts of Life: Finding Extraordinary Meaning in Ordinary Moments.” She is an acclaimed speaker who has presented to numerous civic, community, and religious groups all over the United States. Cindy has appeared on several TV programs including NBC's "The John Walsh Show," dozens of nationally syndicated radio programs including "The Mitch Albom Show" and "The Al Kresta Show" and the internationally syndicated "Voice of America." She has published features in numerous publications, including Ladies Home Journal and Women's Weekly. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #122 – Trials and Tragedies Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. On the last Live With Eternal Perspective episode we shared a beautiful reading from Hebrews 11. I thought we would be discussing the verses on this episode, but guess what? Life happened and interfered with the plans I had. Our Heavenly Father cautions us to hold plans loosely. Proverbs 16:9 says, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” And Proverbs 19:21 says, “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.” Because of an unexpected event last week, I’ve changed the plans I had, and honestly, it fits right in with what was read in Hebrews 11, and the faith that God desires we carry, yet also allows me to spotlight the goodness, protection, and provision of God right now. Please let me back up a bit with some explanation. One of the main driving factors behind beginning the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast was of course, the belief that God impressed a responsibility within me to create it. I knew nothing about getting a podcast started, but when we are obedient, God shows us the way to achieve His desires. Like you most likely do, I love and serve Him with a humble, grateful heart that recognizes the need for each one of us to view life through an eternal lens. In the back of my mind, I always knew that as a believer I was supposed to live in that way, yet when my oldest daughter passed away in 2009, a responsibility to share that life perspective with others became so strong. Like a surprise that you just can’t hold in, I yearned with great urgency to alert others to focus on Jesus and to live with great expectation that we are here for a short time and with great and intentional purpose granted by God. It may come as no surprise that I love to talk about the Lord wherever I go. I will share Him with anyone I meet at any time. I adore hearing the stories other people, as well, whether they be friends or strangers. When someone mentioned to me last week that life can change so suddenly, and we need to live with that knowledge, I was able to honestly reply that I do. I truly, truly do. It is always in my mind that life can change in an instant. In my heart, I knew that before my daughter died, yet before she passed, I didn’t live with that knowledge impressed in my heart, actions, and responses like I do now. After your life has been affected by hardship, tragedy, or death, you are changed. Each event alters the person you were into the person you are meant to be if you use the occurrences to carry you closer to the Lord. We can only pray that the changes within us are a beautiful expression of love for Him, as well as gratitude despite circumstances. So when my husband was involved in a sudden accident on a recent Sunday afternoon, I wasn’t surprised. Although I don’t look for trouble or live with the expectation of difficulty lurking behind each corner, I do live with the joy of knowing that anything can happen at any time and I must be present, or involved in life fully now so that I don’t miss the blessings before me. All we have, all we cherish can disappear in an instant. How have we used it while it was here? What ways have we honored God with what He has gifted us? Once gone, those beautiful gifts may never arrive again. Especially when what you cherished was a human being. Those we love are here for but an instant of time and always gone before we are ready. I wish I could show you the photo of the accident my husband lived through. The pictures are as bad as any Hollywood film effect, except this was real. When I review them, it almost doesn’t feel like it really happened. By now you’re probably wondering what type of accident he was involved in, but before I get to that part of the story, let me share with you just how God was working in advance. I’m always in awe of the majesty and intimate goodness and faithfulness of our Heavenly Father. We have been waiting for years for the time we could finally get some much needed new siding installed on our home. This is the summer we are planning to move forward to do it! In preparation of this major home improvement, we had several trees and bushes pulled from our yard, both front and back. They were messy, not very attractive, and were ruining our siding! Even though our yard is still a disaster (we couldn’t grow grass with all the shade the trees supplied), I honestly cannot get enough of looking at the difference losing the trees and shrubs has made! I’m surprised at the freedom I feel not having to wonder when we will be able to get rid of them. This bit of change makes me think of how often people keep things in life that need to be extracted. How often do we wait to stop a habit or association with someone that needs to end? Our excuses, no matter how legitimate they may seem, are sometimes just weak justifications for putting off what we don’t want to handle. Those trees needed to be out years ago! By the way, the company that removed all of the trees and shrubs and did quite a bit of trimming for us make a simple mistake while they were at our home. Instead of facing the stump grinder away from our house when grinding down the stumps of trees removed in front, the person running the machine faced it toward our front door and completely shattered our storm door. There was simply no large piece of glass left. Everything was shattered into tiny bits and barely holding together. I didn’t know that the damage had occurred until the first time I opened my front door after the workers left; the suction of opening the front door caused the glass from the storm door to suck inwards towards me. The entire center of the glass panel broke out in the shape of what I saw as a heart. My sweet neighbor saw it as a pair of angel wings. Look for the blessings, right? Despite that bit of damage, we were still feeling great about getting the tree work completed. Next up was getting a window replaced. The company doing the siding won’t start until the window is finished. Did you know that windows are taking months to come in? You’re probably aware that many things are taking way too long to arrive right now. Well, our window finally came in and the manufacturer that received it broke it in the warehouse before our installer could pick it up, so now we are in the process of waiting for a new one. So the siding is postponed again. But the one job that could be completed deck removal from the back of the house. Since our deck needed to be rebuilt, and it is best to replace siding with the deck off the house, the siding company asked us to have it removed before they began their job. After working with several contractors who honestly must have a lot of work and not need another job because they would not follow up with quotes, and getting a high price from one who didn’t seem too excited about doing the job either, my husband and son decided to complete the project together. Although I agreed, and was ready to save the money we would have paid this person to tear down the deck so we could use it toward one of the other projects we were committed to completing this year, I kept having a nagging feeling that my husband was going to get hurt removing that deck. This feeling wasn’t an irrational fear, but a “knowing.” It was more of a feeling that was calm, yet always present, simply letting me know to pray in advance and remind everyone to be careful. For weeks in advance, I let my family know to pray, because I shared that I thought he would get hurt. You may be thinking I was worrying or that I would cause something to happen by getting them concerned, but I sincerely believe in my heart that God was going before us, reminding us that He is in control and that we needed to be praying and watching for Him. Which is exactly what we did. It has been so hot here! We really didn’t get a spring. May was cool and rainy, then June arrived with very hot temperatures early in the month. So, it took about three weeks of my husband and son working together for a couple hours each Sunday afternoon to get the deck off. On the third week my husband and son were working on the deck removal, they had only been outside together for about ten minutes when my son ran into the house yelling for a towel. He said my husband had gotten hurt and he needed something for the bleeding. I gave him a beach towel and went outside with him to check my husband. Since this is a story with many details, let me just say that at this point, I was unable to see the wound because my husband had the towel pressed against his forehead. I asked if I should be calling 911. My husband said he was okay, although he was sitting on the ground with a large puddle of blood in the rocks next to him, but my son disagreed. He told me it was bad. At this point, I believed my son, who had seen the wound, so I rushed back into the house to call an ambulance. After paramedics came and rushed my husband off to the nearest head trauma facility, I left to meet him and my son at the hospital. When I entered the ER and saw his wound, I felt like I was on a movie set. The film, “The Terminator” was all I could think of. Although my husband didn’t look robotic, of course, the gaping wound on his forehead exposed 4 ½” of his skull and the surrounding tissue didn’t look like it would be ever able to stretch back into place. By now, I’m sure you’re wondering what happened. In a nutshell, one of the large, heavy, main supporting beams fell on my husband. After attacking him on the head, the beam finished assaulting him with a blow to his right hand. During the almost 7 hours he was in the emergency room, my husband received a CT scan of his head, which thankfully did not show brain bleeding or skull damage. He also had hand x-rays that revealed the reason his hand felt uncomfortable. Just to speed the story details up a bit, four days later, my husband had to undergo hand surgery. The experienced surgeon said the damage was worse than he could see on the x-rays. In fact, he said it looked like someone took a sledgehammer to the base of my husband’s thumb and shattered it. Now, eight days after the accident, he is learning to live with using one hand, and not being able to use his dominant hand is challenging, yet he never complains. I don’t think I could say the same about myself. He’ll have the pins in his thumb base for a couple of months, then have to endure extensive physical therapy in order to have a usable hand. The surgeon said his thumb will probably always be stiff, and every doctor has said that my husband is lucky to be alive. Lucky? We don’t think so. We know he is blessed to be here. Instead of going to a doctor appointment or surgery every day last week, we could have been planning a funeral. By faith, I know God warned me that my husband was going to be hurt, so we could be praying for protection and provision in advance. God was so good to make sure we knew to pray and to remember that He is in control. Life events are going to happen, but no matter what, we must always keep our eyes fixed on Him. What is the biggest requirement for being able to live with our eyes, heart, and mind centered on Him? Faith. As I was preparing to leave the house to meet my husband at the hospital that day, I was trying to hurry. As I was taking care of last minute things before leaving, I noticed my hand shaking. I’m never the type to be nervous or shaky, so I immediately stopped to pray. Centering myself by speaking the name, “Jesus” aloud several times before I prayed, I then asked my Savior to give me His peace and calm. His perfect peace immediately flooded my spirit, and my hands never shook again. Since we know faith is a pre-requisite to a relationship with God through Christ, what type of faith do we need to carry? How does our faith change or help us? First, let’s examine what kind of faith the Bible tells us to have. 1. Faith in God through Christ – Matthew 9:22 says, “Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment.” One of my favorite verses is Isaiah 26:3, which says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” 2. Faith that is obedient – Hebrews 11:8 says, “By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” John 15:14 says, “You are my friends if you do what I command.” James 2:17-18 says, “In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds. Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.” 3. Faith that endures – Romans 5:3-4 says, “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Romans 12:12 says, “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.” Hebrews 12:1-3 says, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before Him He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider Him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” As we follow the example set before us in God’s Holy Word, we see that faith in God through Jesus that is obedient and enduring will draw us nearer to Him, and also heal, affect, and perfect us through Christ. As we draw nearer to Him, we begin to resemble our Savior. Remember that in whatever situation or circumstance you may find yourself, any bitterness, fear, anxiety, loneliness, hatred, or anything emotion you can name should be used as a trigger. Let it be your reminder that although feelings are a normal part of being human, when what we feel is not a reflection of our Lord, we know our gaze has slipped. We are looking to self or others to manage our feelings and emotions, whether or not it is intentional. Let this warning direct you to raise your gaze to the Lord. Call out to Him! Say the name of Jesus aloud and ask for His peace and calm to flood you, call on Him to dictate your emotions and actions. We need Him so much! Remember to fix your mind and heart on Christ. He is everything He claims to be. If you need more help in strengthening your walk with God through Christ, the absolute best source you can have is God’s Word. Make it a point to read the Bible, study His Word, and know His Word. I guarantee it will change you, Scripture promises that fact. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” Get to know Him better. Trust in Him. See and feel the changes only He will make. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank You for the hope You give us when we trust in You through Jesus as Savior. We praise You for the life changes we feel and see within us as we trust in You with obedient faith that endures. There is none like You. You are good and faithful toward us. May our hearts cry out for You and our steps run to You. Enable us to desire obedience and live with a faith that endures, drawing us nearer to You in all the ways You desire. You tell us to rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, and to be constant in prayer. Help us to do so, Lord. We also know from Your promises that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. Help us to remember and to cast all trials, tribulations, and tragedies at Your feet and allow You to cradle us in Your arms. In the name of Your precious Son, Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. To hear episodes that deal with faith, I suggest listening to Episode 072, Faith that Perseveres. You may find this episode on the terrihitt.com website. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page. Again, thank you for listening to this episode of the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. As I mentioned, the podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and the podcast may also now be found on the Edifi app. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? It is getting more difficult to keep from being shadow-banned on social media. Podcasts and social medias posts about Christian material simply do not get the same reach as secular topics. 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Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 122 - Trials and Tragedies Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #122 – Trials and Tragedies Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. On the last Live With Eternal Perspective episode we shared a beautiful reading from Hebrews 11. I thought we would be discussing the verses on this episode, but guess what? Life happened and interfered with the plans I had. Our Heavenly Father cautions us to hold plans loosely. Proverbs 16:9 says, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” And Proverbs 19:21 says, “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.” Because of an unexpected event last week, I’ve changed the plans I had, and honestly, it fits right in with what was read in Hebrews 11, and the faith that God desires we carry, yet also allows me to spotlight the goodness, protection, and provision of God right now. Please let me back up a bit with some explanation. One of the main driving factors behind beginning the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast was of course, the belief that God impressed a responsibility within me to create it. I knew nothing about getting a podcast started, but when we are obedient, God shows us the way to achieve His desires. Like you most likely do, I love and serve Him with a humble, grateful heart that recognizes the need for each one of us to view life through an eternal lens. In the back of my mind, I always knew that as a believer I was supposed to live in that way, yet when my oldest daughter passed away in 2009, a responsibility to share that life perspective with others became so strong. Like a surprise that you just can’t hold in, I yearned with great urgency to alert others to focus on Jesus and to live with great expectation that we are here for a short time and with great and intentional purpose granted by God. It may come as no surprise that I love to talk about the Lord wherever I go. I will share Him with anyone I meet at any time. I adore hearing the stories other people, as well, whether they be friends or strangers. When someone mentioned to me last week that life can change so suddenly, and we need to live with that knowledge, I was able to honestly reply that I do. I truly, truly do. It is always in my mind that life can change in an instant. In my heart, I knew that before my daughter died, yet before she passed, I didn’t live with that knowledge impressed in my heart, actions, and responses like I do now. After your life has been affected by hardship, tragedy, or death, you are changed. Each event alters the person you were into the person you are meant to be if you use the occurrences to carry you closer to the Lord. We can only pray that the changes within us are a beautiful expression of love for Him, as well as gratitude despite circumstances. So when my husband was involved in a sudden accident on a recent Sunday afternoon, I wasn’t surprised. Although I don’t look for trouble or live with the expectation of difficulty lurking behind each corner, I do live with the joy of knowing that anything can happen at any time and I must be present, or involved in life fully now so that I don’t miss the blessings before me. All we have, all we cherish can disappear in an instant. How have we used it while it was here? What ways have we honored God with what He has gifted us? Once gone, those beautiful gifts may never arrive again. Especially when what you cherished was a human being. Those we love are here for but an instant of time and always gone before we are ready. I wish I could show you the photo of the accident my husband lived through. The pictures are as bad as any Hollywood film effect, except this was real. When I review them, it almost doesn’t feel like it really happened. By now you’re probably wondering what type of accident he was involved in, but before I get to that part of the story, let me share with you just how God was working in advance. I’m always in awe of the majesty and intimate goodness and faithfulness of our Heavenly Father. We have been waiting for years for the time we could finally get some much needed new siding installed on our home. This is the summer we are planning to move forward to do it! In preparation of this major home improvement, we had several trees and bushes pulled from our yard, both front and back. They were messy, not very attractive, and were ruining our siding! Even though our yard is still a disaster (we couldn’t grow grass with all the shade the trees supplied), I honestly cannot get enough of looking at the difference losing the trees and shrubs has made! I’m surprised at the freedom I feel not having to wonder when we will be able to get rid of them. This bit of change makes me think of how often people keep things in life that need to be extracted. How often do we wait to stop a habit or association with someone that needs to end? Our excuses, no matter how legitimate they may seem, are sometimes just weak justifications for putting off what we don’t want to handle. Those trees needed to be out years ago! By the way, the company that removed all of the trees and shrubs and did quite a bit of trimming for us make a simple mistake while they were at our home. Instead of facing the stump grinder away from our house when grinding down the stumps of trees removed in front, the person running the machine faced it toward our front door and completely shattered our storm door. There was simply no large piece of glass left. Everything was shattered into tiny bits and barely holding together. I didn’t know that the damage had occurred until the first time I opened my front door after the workers left; the suction of opening the front door caused the glass from the storm door to suck inwards towards me. The entire center of the glass panel broke out in the shape of what I saw as a heart. My sweet neighbor saw it as a pair of angel wings. Look for the blessings, right? Despite that bit of damage, we were still feeling great about getting the tree work completed. Next up was getting a window replaced. The company doing the siding won’t start until the window is finished. Did you know that windows are taking months to come in? You’re probably aware that many things are taking way too long to arrive right now. Well, our window finally came in and the manufacturer that received it broke it in the warehouse before our installer could pick it up, so now we are in the process of waiting for a new one. So the siding is postponed again. But the one job that could be completed deck removal from the back of the house. Since our deck needed to be rebuilt, and it is best to replace siding with the deck off the house, the siding company asked us to have it removed before they began their job. After working with several contractors who honestly must have a lot of work and not need another job because they would not follow up with quotes, and getting a high price from one who didn’t seem too excited about doing the job either, my husband and son decided to complete the project together. Although I agreed, and was ready to save the money we would have paid this person to tear down the deck so we could use it toward one of the other projects we were committed to completing this year, I kept having a nagging feeling that my husband was going to get hurt removing that deck. This feeling wasn’t an irrational fear, but a “knowing.” It was more of a feeling that was calm, yet always present, simply letting me know to pray in advance and remind everyone to be careful. For weeks in advance, I let my family know to pray, because I shared that I thought he would get hurt. You may be thinking I was worrying or that I would cause something to happen by getting them concerned, but I sincerely believe in my heart that God was going before us, reminding us that He is in control and that we needed to be praying and watching for Him. Which is exactly what we did. It has been so hot here! We really didn’t get a spring. May was cool and rainy, then June arrived with very hot temperatures early in the month. So, it took about three weeks of my husband and son working together for a couple hours each Sunday afternoon to get the deck off. On the third week my husband and son were working on the deck removal, they had only been outside together for about ten minutes when my son ran into the house yelling for a towel. He said my husband had gotten hurt and he needed something for the bleeding. I gave him a beach towel and went outside with him to check my husband. Since this is a story with many details, let me just say that at this point, I was unable to see the wound because my husband had the towel pressed against his forehead. I asked if I should be calling 911. My husband said he was okay, although he was sitting on the ground with a large puddle of blood in the rocks next to him, but my son disagreed. He told me it was bad. At this point, I believed my son, who had seen the wound, so I rushed back into the house to call an ambulance. After paramedics came and rushed my husband off to the nearest head trauma facility, I left to meet him and my son at the hospital. When I entered the ER and saw his wound, I felt like I was on a movie set. The film, “The Terminator” was all I could think of. Although my husband didn’t look robotic, of course, the gaping wound on his forehead exposed 4 ½” of his skull and the surrounding tissue didn’t look like it would be ever able to stretch back into place. By now, I’m sure you’re wondering what happened. In a nutshell, one of the large, heavy, main supporting beams fell on my husband. After attacking him on the head, the beam finished assaulting him with a blow to his right hand. During the almost 7 hours he was in the emergency room, my husband received a CT scan of his head, which thankfully did not show brain bleeding or skull damage. He also had hand x-rays that revealed the reason his hand felt uncomfortable. Just to speed the story details up a bit, four days later, my husband had to undergo hand surgery. The experienced surgeon said the damage was worse than he could see on the x-rays. In fact, he said it looked like someone took a sledgehammer to the base of my husband’s thumb and shattered it. Now, eight days after the accident, he is learning to live with using one hand, and not being able to use his dominant hand is challenging, yet he never complains. I don’t think I could say the same about myself. He’ll have the pins in his thumb base for a couple of months, then have to endure extensive physical therapy in order to have a usable hand. The surgeon said his thumb will probably always be stiff, and every doctor has said that my husband is lucky to be alive. Lucky? We don’t think so. We know he is blessed to be here. Instead of going to a doctor appointment or surgery every day last week, we could have been planning a funeral. By faith, I know God warned me that my husband was going to be hurt, so we could be praying for protection and provision in advance. God was so good to make sure we knew to pray and to remember that He is in control. Life events are going to happen, but no matter what, we must always keep our eyes fixed on Him. What is the biggest requirement for being able to live with our eyes, heart, and mind centered on Him? Faith. As I was preparing to leave the house to meet my husband at the hospital that day, I was trying to hurry. As I was taking care of last minute things before leaving, I noticed my hand shaking. I’m never the type to be nervous or shaky, so I immediately stopped to pray. Centering myself by speaking the name, “Jesus” aloud several times before I prayed, I then asked my Savior to give me His peace and calm. His perfect peace immediately flooded my spirit, and my hands never shook again. Since we know faith is a pre-requisite to a relationship with God through Christ, what type of faith do we need to carry? How does our faith change or help us? First, let’s examine what kind of faith the Bible tells us to have. 1. Faith in God through Christ – Matthew 9:22 says, “Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment.” One of my favorite verses is Isaiah 26:3, which says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” 2. Faith that is obedient – Hebrews 11:8 says, “By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” John 15:14 says, “You are my friends if you do what I command.” James 2:17-18 says, “In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds. Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.” 3. Faith that endures – Romans 5:3-4 says, “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Romans 12:12 says, “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.” Hebrews 12:1-3 says, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before Him He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider Him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” As we follow the example set before us in God’s Holy Word, we see that faith in God through Jesus that is obedient and enduring will draw us nearer to Him, and also heal, affect, and perfect us through Christ. As we draw nearer to Him, we begin to resemble our Savior. Remember that in whatever situation or circumstance you may find yourself, any bitterness, fear, anxiety, loneliness, hatred, or anything emotion you can name should be used as a trigger. Let it be your reminder that although feelings are a normal part of being human, when what we feel is not a reflection of our Lord, we know our gaze has slipped. We are looking to self or others to manage our feelings and emotions, whether or not it is intentional. Let this warning direct you to raise your gaze to the Lord. Call out to Him! Say the name of Jesus aloud and ask for His peace and calm to flood you, call on Him to dictate your emotions and actions. We need Him so much! Remember to fix your mind and heart on Christ. He is everything He claims to be. If you need more help in strengthening your walk with God through Christ, the absolute best source you can have is God’s Word. Make it a point to read the Bible, study His Word, and know His Word. I guarantee it will change you, Scripture promises that fact. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” Get to know Him better. Trust in Him. See and feel the changes only He will make. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank You for the hope You give us when we trust in You through Jesus as Savior. We praise You for the life changes we feel and see within us as we trust in You with obedient faith that endures. There is none like You. You are good and faithful toward us. May our hearts cry out for You and our steps run to You. Enable us to desire obedience and live with a faith that endures, drawing us nearer to You in all the ways You desire. You tell us to rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, and to be constant in prayer. Help us to do so, Lord. We also know from Your promises that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. Help us to remember and to cast all trials, tribulations, and tragedies at Your feet and allow You to cradle us in Your arms. In the name of Your precious Son, Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. To hear episodes that deal with faith, I suggest listening to Episode 072, Faith that Perseveres. You may find this episode on the terrihitt.com website. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page. Again, thank you for listening to this episode of the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. As I mentioned, the podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and the podcast may also now be found on the Edifi app. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? It is getting more difficult to keep from being shadow-banned on social media. Podcasts and social medias posts about Christian material simply do not get the same reach as secular topics. When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #052 – Terri Hitt Interviewed by A Surprise Guest Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I hope you enjoyed my interview with Marissa Hitt, my daughter, last week. Guess what? I have a surprise! I won’t be the main person speaking in this episode. As a fun twist, my interview with Marissa has extended to a sort of two-part episode. Only this time, the seating is switched. Marissa is going to interview me. Are you ready to hear what questions she has in store for me? I’m ready, even though I am wondering what she will be asking – and what my answers will be. I hope you will have fun and hear joy that directs you to Jesus as we talk again. ------- INTERVIEW ------- Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 052 Terri Hitt Interviewed by a Surprise Guest Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #052 – Terri Hitt Interviewed by A Surprise Guest Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I hope you enjoyed my interview with Marissa Hitt, my daughter, last week. Guess what? I have a surprise! I won’t be the main person speaking in this episode. As a fun twist, my interview with Marissa has extended to a sort of two-part episode. Only this time, the seating is switched. Marissa is going to interview me. Are you ready to hear what questions she has in store for me? I’m ready, even though I am wondering what she will be asking – and what my answers will be. I hope you will have fun and hear joy that directs you to Jesus as we talk again. ------- INTERVIEW ------- Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #057 – God’s Mission for Parents Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Would you like to know one of the highlights of my days? It’s when the girls and I share Bible and devotional time. The topics change with different studies, but right now we are studying Revelation. As powerful as it is to experience studying God’s word together, I know this is not enough to ensure that they have a solid foundation on which to build a life of passionate devotion to God. Prayer time together always precedes Bible study, and we frequently pray together through the day as needs arise or if we hear of someone who needs prayer. We always try to stop what we are doing and pray in that moment. I also ask my girls to pray for me. I want them to know I rely on the Lord to provide what I need and I want them to see that it is acceptable to not have all of the answers or abilities on their own. I want my chldren to be comfortable relying on God , no matter the need. Despite enjoying the blessings of purposely sharing this study time together, my youngest was not hungry to search the scriptures alone. It was time to encourage her to commit to the next step because I know she has a growing love for Jesus, but it cannot flourish if she does not root herself in God’s word. I knew had to reach her through one of her love languages. So now, before she receives any evening screen time, she has to have read from her Bible that day. It was time to develop the pattern that would give her the lifeline she will need to cling to in this world. Here’s the truth: we all have time for what is deeply important to us. I want God and His truths and words to be the oxygen required to make it through her day. How will she crave God if she doesn’t acquire a taste for Him? We settled on a schedule and I guided her with several suggestions to begin reading. Do you know what our best surprise was? My girl realized the joy of seeking and learning from God on her own. She learned it was fun to discover more about the wisdom of God and the people highlighted in the Bible. As she read Proverbs, she found the wisdom so fascinating that she read beyond the scheduled reading sections. As you may know, I am raising my second set of children. Like you, I learn as I go. Since I had my first two at 18 and 21, my parenting skills were similar to how my husband and I were parented. We made changes from what we didn’t like or appreciate growing up, but the rest was patterned after what we had experienced. I was not a follower of Jesus as a young mother. Thankfully, over the years, I have been blessed to discover and accept Jesus and to allow Him to mold me as He desires each moment. Jesus reveals mistakes and ideas to me often, as He does to all who seek Him diligently. I’m honored to be able to share what I have learned through trial and error, plus what God has revealed as I have studied Him and attempted to model my life after Jesus. Mothers, in order for our children to live a life that God would deem successful, we must continuously sharpen our personal skills to live each day with a perspective beyond the moment. Our heart and mind must be set in alignment with a compass focused on God, our True North. We are responsible for ensuring we have done everything to make Him known. Many children leave home without strong faith to set them apart in this world or one that equips them to cleave to God and allow Him to handle their decisions and battles. Ultimate parenting is God-centered and focused. Make each moment you have with your child count for eternity. You do not need to have all of the answers, but it is your duty and opportunity to guide your child to the One who does. The Bible is a God-inspired, perfect source of guidance, wisdom, and direction for parents. God purposely and generously offered His word to us as a guide for life, parenting, and relationships. As we study the Bible, and come to know Him more clearly, we develop skills needed to realize God’s commands, promises, and guidance consistently and introspectively. We feel and notice Him resetting our mind, heart, attitude, actions, thoughts, and behavior. As the Holy Spirit lives in us and we access and release His power through a maturing walk with God, others notice, as well. Each change we experience can impact the eternity of those around us, especially our spouse and children. When we read the Bible, we must consider the meanings and truths beyond what we see. There is a depth that exposes every need we have, as well as the solutions to living a God-centered life complete with joy and peace. Our children were not an after-thought. God provides for our need, as well as theirs, through His guidebook of life, the Bible. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.” In order to direct our children to Him, we must already know God. Today, I want to read from one of my favorite areas of the Bible. The instructions God reveals are integral to pleasing our Heavenly Father and completing the task He has for parents and followers of Him. In Deuteronomy, God clearly directs us in what we are to hold as a sacred parental responsibility. This duty should be seen as a privilege when we already strive to live with a heart and mind set for Him. I want to share some of my favorite passages, because the words are such clearly instructive verses we are wise to follow. Deuteronomy 6:1-2a says, “These are the commands, decrees, and regulations that the Lord your God commanded me to teach you. You must obey them in the land you are about to enter and occupy, and you and your children and grandchildren must fear the Lord your God as long as you live.” God graciously gifts His people with formal, authoritative orders for our guidance and protection. What may seem binding or restrictive is meant to free us. Reverent fear for the Lord God isn’t mentioned often in society today. People, and many churches, tend to pass it by in favor of what they consider the “feel good” love of Jesus. Instead of facing God’s sovereignty, they tend to prefer speaking of gentleness and humbleness. Yet, God is a jealous God who wants our complete devotion. The author of excellence and creation, who created each of us for a purpose, deserves it. When we teach our children and grandchildren to humble themselves before the Lord and love and serve Him as He desires, we are gifting them beyond measure and for eternity. Deuteronomy 6:4-5 says, “Listen, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength.” The greatest act of obedience we offer God is to love Him freely and passionately. In this passage, we are commanded to love God with our heart, soul, and all of our strength. This act is foundational for all of living. Do you believe we can be commanded to love? You may have heard that love is a choice. I believe that to be true. The best definition I’ve read about the love God offers and commands from us came from Dr. David Jeremiah. He wrote that, “Love in Hebrew is not confined to feelings; the term heart centers on the intellect, sensibilities, and will. So when God commands that His people love Him, it means to decide to cleave to Him, and Him alone. The command includes soul, which here is a synonym for heart – the true essence of a person. Strength translates a phrase that means, Give it all you have!” We are to love God with everything we are and have. God deserves and is worthy of our passionate love. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 says, “And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up. Tie them to your hands and wear them on your forehead as reminders. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” Breathing God in as the air we must have to sustain life, allowing Him to be head of our life, sharing Him naturally with our children, yet maintaining awe, and teaching them to honor and respect the Lord should flow naturally and readily because we love Him. Obeying the command to love God is a lifetime action of passionate devotion that becomes more meaningful daily as our love deepens. The God of all creation is not to be an after-thought. We are to willingly include Him in all. Deuteronomy 6:20-25 says, “In the future your children will ask you, ‘What is the meaning of these laws, decrees, and regulations that the LORD our God has commanded us to obey? “Then you must tell them, ‘We were Pharaoh’s slaves in Egypt, but the LORD brought us out of Egypt with his strong hand. The Lord did miraculous signs and wonders before our eyes, dealing terrifying blows against Egypt and Pharaoh and all his people. He brought us out of Egypt so he could give us this land He had sworn to give our ancestors. And the Lord our God commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear Him so He can continue to bless us and preserve our lives, as He has done to this day. For we will be counted as righteous when we obey all the commands the Lord our God has given us.” Mothers, we are God-assigned managers and stewards of His children. God commands us to love Him and teach our children to love Him. We are to mentor that passionate, devoted love for God that is for Him, and Him alone. Our children are to experience us loving God without the entrapment of idolatry in this world as we seek Him with our mind, heart, emotions, talents, time, and purpose. We are to live a lifestyle of worship as we seek, love, and follow Him so passionately that they will, too. When we pass on the love God commands, what He has done for us, and a strong faith to sustain and mature it, God lives fully through us and attracts our children more strongly than the world. Psalm 34:8 says, “Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!” When our child sees us live with a passionate and consistent love for Christ that lovingly flows through all we are and do, they begin to recognize the difference He makes. Heavenly Father, we thank you for Your word and the Holy Spirit that lives inside believers. You have offered everything we need to equip us to live with a passion You deserve. Help us to clear our heart and mind to focus on what is important to You and show it to our children and others around us. Help us to study and know Your word so that it stands as our guide against the noise and distractions from this loud, harsh world. Teach us to live our life with the eternal perspective Jesus carried so that all we do honors and pleases You. May we bring you joy. May you carry that through to our children as we teach them to love and obey You, as well. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and encourage you to raise or influence children to chase Jesus instead of this world. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 057 God's Mission for Parents Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #057 – God’s Mission for Parents Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Would you like to know one of the highlights of my days? It’s when the girls and I share Bible and devotional time. The topics change with different studies, but right now we are studying Revelation. As powerful as it is to experience studying God’s word together, I know this is not enough to ensure that they have a solid foundation on which to build a life of passionate devotion to God. Prayer time together always precedes Bible study, and we frequently pray together through the day as needs arise or if we hear of someone who needs prayer. We always try to stop what we are doing and pray in that moment. I also ask my girls to pray for me. I want them to know I rely on the Lord to provide what I need and I want them to see that it is acceptable to not have all of the answers or abilities on their own. I want my chldren to be comfortable relying on God , no matter the need. Despite enjoying the blessings of purposely sharing this study time together, my youngest was not hungry to search the scriptures alone. It was time to encourage her to commit to the next step because I know she has a growing love for Jesus, but it cannot flourish if she does not root herself in God’s word. I knew had to reach her through one of her love languages. So now, before she receives any evening screen time, she has to have read from her Bible that day. It was time to develop the pattern that would give her the lifeline she will need to cling to in this world. Here’s the truth: we all have time for what is deeply important to us. I want God and His truths and words to be the oxygen required to make it through her day. How will she crave God if she doesn’t acquire a taste for Him? We settled on a schedule and I guided her with several suggestions to begin reading. Do you know what our best surprise was? My girl realized the joy of seeking and learning from God on her own. She learned it was fun to discover more about the wisdom of God and the people highlighted in the Bible. As she read Proverbs, she found the wisdom so fascinating that she read beyond the scheduled reading sections. As you may know, I am raising my second set of children. Like you, I learn as I go. Since I had my first two at 18 and 21, my parenting skills were similar to how my husband and I were parented. We made changes from what we didn’t like or appreciate growing up, but the rest was patterned after what we had experienced. I was not a follower of Jesus as a young mother. Thankfully, over the years, I have been blessed to discover and accept Jesus and to allow Him to mold me as He desires each moment. Jesus reveals mistakes and ideas to me often, as He does to all who seek Him diligently. I’m honored to be able to share what I have learned through trial and error, plus what God has revealed as I have studied Him and attempted to model my life after Jesus. Mothers, in order for our children to live a life that God would deem successful, we must continuously sharpen our personal skills to live each day with a perspective beyond the moment. Our heart and mind must be set in alignment with a compass focused on God, our True North. We are responsible for ensuring we have done everything to make Him known. Many children leave home without strong faith to set them apart in this world or one that equips them to cleave to God and allow Him to handle their decisions and battles. Ultimate parenting is God-centered and focused. Make each moment you have with your child count for eternity. You do not need to have all of the answers, but it is your duty and opportunity to guide your child to the One who does. The Bible is a God-inspired, perfect source of guidance, wisdom, and direction for parents. God purposely and generously offered His word to us as a guide for life, parenting, and relationships. As we study the Bible, and come to know Him more clearly, we develop skills needed to realize God’s commands, promises, and guidance consistently and introspectively. We feel and notice Him resetting our mind, heart, attitude, actions, thoughts, and behavior. As the Holy Spirit lives in us and we access and release His power through a maturing walk with God, others notice, as well. Each change we experience can impact the eternity of those around us, especially our spouse and children. When we read the Bible, we must consider the meanings and truths beyond what we see. There is a depth that exposes every need we have, as well as the solutions to living a God-centered life complete with joy and peace. Our children were not an after-thought. God provides for our need, as well as theirs, through His guidebook of life, the Bible. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.” In order to direct our children to Him, we must already know God. Today, I want to read from one of my favorite areas of the Bible. The instructions God reveals are integral to pleasing our Heavenly Father and completing the task He has for parents and followers of Him. In Deuteronomy, God clearly directs us in what we are to hold as a sacred parental responsibility. This duty should be seen as a privilege when we already strive to live with a heart and mind set for Him. I want to share some of my favorite passages, because the words are such clearly instructive verses we are wise to follow. Deuteronomy 6:1-2a says, “These are the commands, decrees, and regulations that the Lord your God commanded me to teach you. You must obey them in the land you are about to enter and occupy, and you and your children and grandchildren must fear the Lord your God as long as you live.” God graciously gifts His people with formal, authoritative orders for our guidance and protection. What may seem binding or restrictive is meant to free us. Reverent fear for the Lord God isn’t mentioned often in society today. People, and many churches, tend to pass it by in favor of what they consider the “feel good” love of Jesus. Instead of facing God’s sovereignty, they tend to prefer speaking of gentleness and humbleness. Yet, God is a jealous God who wants our complete devotion. The author of excellence and creation, who created each of us for a purpose, deserves it. When we teach our children and grandchildren to humble themselves before the Lord and love and serve Him as He desires, we are gifting them beyond measure and for eternity. Deuteronomy 6:4-5 says, “Listen, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength.” The greatest act of obedience we offer God is to love Him freely and passionately. In this passage, we are commanded to love God with our heart, soul, and all of our strength. This act is foundational for all of living. Do you believe we can be commanded to love? You may have heard that love is a choice. I believe that to be true. The best definition I’ve read about the love God offers and commands from us came from Dr. David Jeremiah. He wrote that, “Love in Hebrew is not confined to feelings; the term heart centers on the intellect, sensibilities, and will. So when God commands that His people love Him, it means to decide to cleave to Him, and Him alone. The command includes soul, which here is a synonym for heart – the true essence of a person. Strength translates a phrase that means, Give it all you have!” We are to love God with everything we are and have. God deserves and is worthy of our passionate love. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 says, “And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up. Tie them to your hands and wear them on your forehead as reminders. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” Breathing God in as the air we must have to sustain life, allowing Him to be head of our life, sharing Him naturally with our children, yet maintaining awe, and teaching them to honor and respect the Lord should flow naturally and readily because we love Him. Obeying the command to love God is a lifetime action of passionate devotion that becomes more meaningful daily as our love deepens. The God of all creation is not to be an after-thought. We are to willingly include Him in all. Deuteronomy 6:20-25 says, “In the future your children will ask you, ‘What is the meaning of these laws, decrees, and regulations that the LORD our God has commanded us to obey? “Then you must tell them, ‘We were Pharaoh’s slaves in Egypt, but the LORD brought us out of Egypt with his strong hand. The Lord did miraculous signs and wonders before our eyes, dealing terrifying blows against Egypt and Pharaoh and all his people. He brought us out of Egypt so he could give us this land He had sworn to give our ancestors. And the Lord our God commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear Him so He can continue to bless us and preserve our lives, as He has done to this day. For we will be counted as righteous when we obey all the commands the Lord our God has given us.” Mothers, we are God-assigned managers and stewards of His children. God commands us to love Him and teach our children to love Him. We are to mentor that passionate, devoted love for God that is for Him, and Him alone. Our children are to experience us loving God without the entrapment of idolatry in this world as we seek Him with our mind, heart, emotions, talents, time, and purpose. We are to live a lifestyle of worship as we seek, love, and follow Him so passionately that they will, too. When we pass on the love God commands, what He has done for us, and a strong faith to sustain and mature it, God lives fully through us and attracts our children more strongly than the world. Psalm 34:8 says, “Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!” When our child sees us live with a passionate and consistent love for Christ that lovingly flows through all we are and do, they begin to recognize the difference He makes. Heavenly Father, we thank you for Your word and the Holy Spirit that lives inside believers. You have offered everything we need to equip us to live with a passion You deserve. Help us to clear our heart and mind to focus on what is important to You and show it to our children and others around us. Help us to study and know Your word so that it stands as our guide against the noise and distractions from this loud, harsh world. Teach us to live our life with the eternal perspective Jesus carried so that all we do honors and pleases You. May we bring you joy. May you carry that through to our children as we teach them to love and obey You, as well. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and encourage you to raise or influence children to chase Jesus instead of this world. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #087 – Secrets To a Joyful Marriage Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This week my husband and I celebrated our 43th wedding anniversary. The fact fills me with such joy. Does it make me feel old? Not at all! I feel extremely blessed to be able to live with the person I was created to be with for so many years and although I selfishly desire more years, but gratefully and humbly offer gratitude for what I have received. People have asked me what I believe helps people to stay married. People have also asked me how to cultivate close relationships. I don't have the perfect answer to either question. But I know what I rely on. Does my answer make all my relationships perfect? Not even close. But it strengthens the good ones and it carries me through misunderstandings, giving me hope and promise that all can be made new. Christ is the secret. Psalm 16:11a says, “You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence." God does fill me with joy! As His word says, when I seek Him, I find Him. He enables me to react to situations in ways that are directed by Him, not me. I am certainly not perfect, but I am perfectly led when I choose to listen and obey. The guidance I receive from above carries me beyond the initial human response I may desire to exhibit and allows me to rest in His ways. Am I able to do that perfectly each time? No. Good relationships also offer grace, especially when all people involved strive to follow the only One who can transform us. It is my hope that others, especially those closest to me - my husband, my children, and my grandson will see light and love in my reactions to them. I pray they see joy and delight in my eyes when I look at them and in my responses to them. God chose me to be the life partner for my husband. He chose me to parent each of my children. It is not by accident that any of us are together. We are together on purpose, for a purpose. When I live in the presence of the Lord, I learn and grow each day. He enables me to see what He does and what He has given me more clearly daily. The Holy Spirit continuously works to cleanse and transform me. I am not the person I was yesterday and am not the person I will be tomorrow. Praise God!! Our Heavenly Father does the same for each one of us who allows Him to work through and for us. Joy. Gratefulness. Faith. Love. Peace. Patience. Hope. These are the qualities I choose to allow into my life. These are the qualities I pray for. These are the qualities I have in abundance. These are the gifts He still grows in me daily. These are the gifts He wants to bestow on you. Even if you have no desire to marry or have children, He will give you the desires of your own heart when you allow Him to direct your life. After all, He desired you, made you, and filled your heart with the yearnings you possess for a purpose. When I am no longer living on this earth I want those who knew me to remember Him. I want people to believe in Jesus because they saw Him at work in me and know that I gave the honor and glory to Him. I want my children to grow up with the certainty that they are cherished and valuable. I want my husband to know he is a gift, a treasure. I want my family to find their identity, purpose, and passion for life through the One who created them. God. What do you want? It's not too late to put in the effort to make it happen. It's not too late to thank the Lord for the opportunities He has given you. It's not too late to get to know Him so that you can have joy and the peace that passes all human understanding. It's not too late to share what you have been given with others. Life brings hard circumstances, disappointments, failures, tears, and fears - even when you follow Jesus. We live in a messed-up, broken, sinful world. There is only One who can carry you through it. There is One who can wipe away the bitterness that threatens to take root in your heart or the pain that betrayal or hurts have caused. Sometimes we are swallowed by grief or fear. There are countless reasons to shrink inside of self and believe the lie that nothing can change. But it can. Through Jesus. 2 Cor. 4:8 says, “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed." All the pain, loss, humiliations, trials - whatever this world can throw at us - are openings for Christ to demonstrate His power and mighty presence through it. Whether it be a mistake we made, a lesson to transform us, or for the purpose of growing others, it doesn't matter. We learn, change, and grow despite and through the cause or reason. Prayerfully, what we face and endure through seeking the Lord will create a willingness in us to grow closer to Him and to allow Him to shine through us. 2 Cor. 4:16-18 says, "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." Look Up. Not inside. Not around. Don't compare. Wear invisible “blinders” to the world, self, or others, and look Up. To Jesus. Let Him produce a life of fullness, love, and grace, through the valleys and the mountain moments. When I am asked for the key to a blessed and joyful long marriage, I know that I have been blessed far beyond what I deserve. Marriage takes work from both spouses. It is not a breeze to be permanently linked to one human who is also imperfect. As perfectly matched as I believe my husband and I are, we are both flawed and only through allowing Jesus to work His transforming, sanctifying power through us are we altered daily and able to walk through differences of opinion, disagreements, or disappointments. In fact, we see more alike than different and recognize the beauty of God’s hand carrying us together. What if you are struggling in a marriage with a spouse who does not know Christ? Continue to follow the Lord. Trust and know Him more intimately. Loyally commit to mature your walk with Him. But don’t nag your spouse or flaunt your relationship with Jesus, yet don’t ignore Jesus, either. Allow Christ to flow through you as a sweet fragrance as He works His gift of transformation in your life. God warns and instructs us in His word, 2 Corinthians 6:14, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?” When my husband and I married we were not both Christians. Through the grace of God we have both come to know and mature in Jesus. The Lord has made all the difference! Instead of resolving issues by our own flesh, I see the mighty work God does in both of us and I feel and recognize Him allowing me the honor of serving Him and allowing Him to strip “Terri” away and transform me into the wife and mother He created me to be. Ephesians 4:22-24 says, “to put off your former way of life, your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be renewed in the spirit of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” Even if you and your spouse both have a developing or strong walk with the Lord, each of you is only human. The following steps are good prompts for every married couple to purposely practice. 1. Mature your personal walk with Jesus – Hebrews 5:13 says, “For everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child.” Growing in the knowledge and understanding of the Lord, relying on Him to carry loads, and trusting that He is good and present takes a lifetime to fully mature. The closer we get to Jesus, we realize how far away we really are. Intentionally make a goal to grow in depth and maturity through Jesus moment by moment or you will realize you are moving away from your true source of light and strength. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says, “Rejoice at all times. Pray without ceasing. Give thanks in every circumstance, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” God can perform miracles we never even dreamed of. What He transforms is always far better than we could imagine it to be. Never give up praying for others, even those who persecute you. Also remember to pray for yourself. I treasure not only praying for others over the years, but remembering that I need many prayers, too. Good works have been completed in me and I know there are far more to come. If you don’t know how to pray for yourself or others, start with God’s word. He will always honor you praying His word to Him and seeking to become more like His image. Prayer humbles and remodels us. It pleases the Father and the Son. 3. Let Christ be seen and known through His transformation in you – Ephesians 5:1-2 says, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as beloved children, and walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant sacrificial offering to God.” Our words can have a strong impact on others, however, a life lived in ways that prove that the Holy Spirit is alive and working speaks much louder than we can. 4. Make your spouse your priority (after Jesus) – Ephesians 4:2 says, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Romans 12:9-10 says, “Love must be sincere. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.” The Lord should always be placed first in our life and we should always be improving ways to mature our walk with Him. However, in God’s eyes, our spouse is one flesh with us. We must place our spouse directly beneath God. Make time for God. Make time for your spouse. Mark 10:7-8 says, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.” 5. Allow your children to know Jesus – Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” Proverbs 22:6 says, “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Deuteronomy 6:5-9 says, “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.” God commands much from us as parents. He especially desires and commands that we are godly and intentional parents. If your spouse is not a Christian, do not let that stop you from making Jesus known to your children. Our attitude and thankfulness show much about our walk with Jesus. Jesus can be made real in so many different ways each day. Always make sure you tie actions and mindset back to the reason you carry the hope, light, and love you do. 6. Realize your marriage won’t be perfect, even if your spouse finds (or already knows Jesus), but it will be a union blessed by God as you both mature your walk with Jesus and each other - Ephesians 4:1-3 says, “As a prisoner in the Lord, then, I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling you have received: with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, and with diligence to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Revelation 21:5 says, “And the One seated on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Then He said, “Write this down, for these words are faithful and true.” As you work to know and make Jesus known in your personal walk, your spouse will see the difference. Although it is your desire that your spouse come to know Christ, it is not your responsibility. God alone does the good work in and through us. Do all you can to know, love, obey, and show the Lord in a strong and growing relationship, while honoring your spouse without removing Jesus from the throne in your heart. Continue to pray and make God known in your actions and attitude. Humbly continue to pray and trust God for results. Father God, You are the Great I Am. You desire good things for all your people. You ordained marriage. You want it to be good. We thank you for the gifts You give us, even the many we never recognize and the ones we cast away. Please help us to see ourselves and see our spouse the way You see us. Help us to love our spouse and ourselves the way You do. We know we are a treasure to You. So is our spouse. May my walk with You draw my spouse to You in deep ways and bless the marriage we share. Help us to walk with humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another in love. May our children and grandchildren know You clearly through their walk with us. We thank You, Good Father for the gift of marriage and the ways You grow us through the union. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 087 Secrets to A Joyful Marriage Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #087 – Secrets To a Joyful Marriage Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This week my husband and I celebrated our 43th wedding anniversary. The fact fills me with such joy. Does it make me feel old? Not at all! I feel extremely blessed to be able to live with the person I was created to be with for so many years and although I selfishly desire more years, but gratefully and humbly offer gratitude for what I have received. People have asked me what I believe helps people to stay married. People have also asked me how to cultivate close relationships. I don't have the perfect answer to either question. But I know what I rely on. Does my answer make all my relationships perfect? Not even close. But it strengthens the good ones and it carries me through misunderstandings, giving me hope and promise that all can be made new. Christ is the secret. Psalm 16:11a says, “You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence." God does fill me with joy! As His word says, when I seek Him, I find Him. He enables me to react to situations in ways that are directed by Him, not me. I am certainly not perfect, but I am perfectly led when I choose to listen and obey. The guidance I receive from above carries me beyond the initial human response I may desire to exhibit and allows me to rest in His ways. Am I able to do that perfectly each time? No. Good relationships also offer grace, especially when all people involved strive to follow the only One who can transform us. It is my hope that others, especially those closest to me - my husband, my children, and my grandson will see light and love in my reactions to them. I pray they see joy and delight in my eyes when I look at them and in my responses to them. God chose me to be the life partner for my husband. He chose me to parent each of my children. It is not by accident that any of us are together. We are together on purpose, for a purpose. When I live in the presence of the Lord, I learn and grow each day. He enables me to see what He does and what He has given me more clearly daily. The Holy Spirit continuously works to cleanse and transform me. I am not the person I was yesterday and am not the person I will be tomorrow. Praise God!! Our Heavenly Father does the same for each one of us who allows Him to work through and for us. Joy. Gratefulness. Faith. Love. Peace. Patience. Hope. These are the qualities I choose to allow into my life. These are the qualities I pray for. These are the qualities I have in abundance. These are the gifts He still grows in me daily. These are the gifts He wants to bestow on you. Even if you have no desire to marry or have children, He will give you the desires of your own heart when you allow Him to direct your life. After all, He desired you, made you, and filled your heart with the yearnings you possess for a purpose. When I am no longer living on this earth I want those who knew me to remember Him. I want people to believe in Jesus because they saw Him at work in me and know that I gave the honor and glory to Him. I want my children to grow up with the certainty that they are cherished and valuable. I want my husband to know he is a gift, a treasure. I want my family to find their identity, purpose, and passion for life through the One who created them. God. What do you want? It's not too late to put in the effort to make it happen. It's not too late to thank the Lord for the opportunities He has given you. It's not too late to get to know Him so that you can have joy and the peace that passes all human understanding. It's not too late to share what you have been given with others. Life brings hard circumstances, disappointments, failures, tears, and fears - even when you follow Jesus. We live in a messed-up, broken, sinful world. There is only One who can carry you through it. There is One who can wipe away the bitterness that threatens to take root in your heart or the pain that betrayal or hurts have caused. Sometimes we are swallowed by grief or fear. There are countless reasons to shrink inside of self and believe the lie that nothing can change. But it can. Through Jesus. 2 Cor. 4:8 says, “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed." All the pain, loss, humiliations, trials - whatever this world can throw at us - are openings for Christ to demonstrate His power and mighty presence through it. Whether it be a mistake we made, a lesson to transform us, or for the purpose of growing others, it doesn't matter. We learn, change, and grow despite and through the cause or reason. Prayerfully, what we face and endure through seeking the Lord will create a willingness in us to grow closer to Him and to allow Him to shine through us. 2 Cor. 4:16-18 says, "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." Look Up. Not inside. Not around. Don't compare. Wear invisible “blinders” to the world, self, or others, and look Up. To Jesus. Let Him produce a life of fullness, love, and grace, through the valleys and the mountain moments. When I am asked for the key to a blessed and joyful long marriage, I know that I have been blessed far beyond what I deserve. Marriage takes work from both spouses. It is not a breeze to be permanently linked to one human who is also imperfect. As perfectly matched as I believe my husband and I are, we are both flawed and only through allowing Jesus to work His transforming, sanctifying power through us are we altered daily and able to walk through differences of opinion, disagreements, or disappointments. In fact, we see more alike than different and recognize the beauty of God’s hand carrying us together. What if you are struggling in a marriage with a spouse who does not know Christ? Continue to follow the Lord. Trust and know Him more intimately. Loyally commit to mature your walk with Him. But don’t nag your spouse or flaunt your relationship with Jesus, yet don’t ignore Jesus, either. Allow Christ to flow through you as a sweet fragrance as He works His gift of transformation in your life. God warns and instructs us in His word, 2 Corinthians 6:14, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?” When my husband and I married we were not both Christians. Through the grace of God we have both come to know and mature in Jesus. The Lord has made all the difference! Instead of resolving issues by our own flesh, I see the mighty work God does in both of us and I feel and recognize Him allowing me the honor of serving Him and allowing Him to strip “Terri” away and transform me into the wife and mother He created me to be. Ephesians 4:22-24 says, “to put off your former way of life, your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be renewed in the spirit of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” Even if you and your spouse both have a developing or strong walk with the Lord, each of you is only human. The following steps are good prompts for every married couple to purposely practice. 1. Mature your personal walk with Jesus – Hebrews 5:13 says, “For everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child.” Growing in the knowledge and understanding of the Lord, relying on Him to carry loads, and trusting that He is good and present takes a lifetime to fully mature. The closer we get to Jesus, we realize how far away we really are. Intentionally make a goal to grow in depth and maturity through Jesus moment by moment or you will realize you are moving away from your true source of light and strength. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says, “Rejoice at all times. Pray without ceasing. Give thanks in every circumstance, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” God can perform miracles we never even dreamed of. What He transforms is always far better than we could imagine it to be. Never give up praying for others, even those who persecute you. Also remember to pray for yourself. I treasure not only praying for others over the years, but remembering that I need many prayers, too. Good works have been completed in me and I know there are far more to come. If you don’t know how to pray for yourself or others, start with God’s word. He will always honor you praying His word to Him and seeking to become more like His image. Prayer humbles and remodels us. It pleases the Father and the Son. 3. Let Christ be seen and known through His transformation in you – Ephesians 5:1-2 says, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as beloved children, and walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant sacrificial offering to God.” Our words can have a strong impact on others, however, a life lived in ways that prove that the Holy Spirit is alive and working speaks much louder than we can. 4. Make your spouse your priority (after Jesus) – Ephesians 4:2 says, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Romans 12:9-10 says, “Love must be sincere. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.” The Lord should always be placed first in our life and we should always be improving ways to mature our walk with Him. However, in God’s eyes, our spouse is one flesh with us. We must place our spouse directly beneath God. Make time for God. Make time for your spouse. Mark 10:7-8 says, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.” 5. Allow your children to know Jesus – Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” Proverbs 22:6 says, “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Deuteronomy 6:5-9 says, “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.” God commands much from us as parents. He especially desires and commands that we are godly and intentional parents. If your spouse is not a Christian, do not let that stop you from making Jesus known to your children. Our attitude and thankfulness show much about our walk with Jesus. Jesus can be made real in so many different ways each day. Always make sure you tie actions and mindset back to the reason you carry the hope, light, and love you do. 6. Realize your marriage won’t be perfect, even if your spouse finds (or already knows Jesus), but it will be a union blessed by God as you both mature your walk with Jesus and each other - Ephesians 4:1-3 says, “As a prisoner in the Lord, then, I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling you have received: with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, and with diligence to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Revelation 21:5 says, “And the One seated on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Then He said, “Write this down, for these words are faithful and true.” As you work to know and make Jesus known in your personal walk, your spouse will see the difference. Although it is your desire that your spouse come to know Christ, it is not your responsibility. God alone does the good work in and through us. Do all you can to know, love, obey, and show the Lord in a strong and growing relationship, while honoring your spouse without removing Jesus from the throne in your heart. Continue to pray and make God known in your actions and attitude. Humbly continue to pray and trust God for results. Father God, You are the Great I Am. You desire good things for all your people. You ordained marriage. You want it to be good. We thank you for the gifts You give us, even the many we never recognize and the ones we cast away. Please help us to see ourselves and see our spouse the way You see us. Help us to love our spouse and ourselves the way You do. We know we are a treasure to You. So is our spouse. May my walk with You draw my spouse to You in deep ways and bless the marriage we share. Help us to walk with humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another in love. May our children and grandchildren know You clearly through their walk with us. We thank You, Good Father for the gift of marriage and the ways You grow us through the union. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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If you are not purposed in forming the faith of your children in Christ moment by moment, culture will craft their identity. What are their words and actions showing you about the condition of their heart? Culture defines good by appearance, approval, and achievement. God defines good by holiness, obedience, and surrender. Which holds the most influence in your home? If the world subtly sets the standards of your home, it will shape the souls of your children. Say Good-Bye to the “Good” Mom: Discover the GODLY Woman you were created to be. You’ve listened to society, friends, and even family define what it means to live well and raise children successfully—yet you feel overwhelmed instead of overjoyed. Your home feels more chaotic than Christ-centered. Your children are more influenced by peers than by parents. Here is the truth: Nothing changes until He changes you. The way you parent flows from the condition of your heart. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #021 – Peace That Passes Understanding Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Our topic today. Peace that passes understanding. Who doesn’t want to claim that? In the midst of writing this particular podcast episode, I experienced a morning that was far from peaceful. Are you a believer that there is spiritual warfare in the world? Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” It was real today. But, as we know, God always has the final victory. Does it mean things always turn out the way we want them to? No. In fact, sometimes things get worse before they get better. But God has already and will always be the victor. Several things went wrong as I attempted to start my day and work on this episode. After I had breakfast I tuned in to listen to the podcast I had just released. I don’t always listen after the episode releases, but I kept having little thoughts that I should. About three minutes in, I realized the unedited version was aired instead of the final cut. “Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, No, no, no.” I kept repeating. Stunned that the wrong version was being played to anyone tuning in, I was so upset. After the podcast episode was removed and the correct one aired, I realized I was still sad inside and wondered how many people had heard how terrible it sounded. I strive each week to write, record, and produce episodes that I believe God is calling and directing. I want to quality to continue to improve each week. When I heard the episode with several mistakes, it really hurt. I didn’t want people to think I didn’t care about what went out or to get too focused on the errors to hear the value behind what I was trying to say. Anxiety does not visit me often, but oh, I could feel it rising in the pit of my stomach that morning. I had to make myself focus and sit down to pray. I asked God to remove the feelings I was having and to allow me to absorb His peace, knowing that this mistake was not the worst thing that could ever happen. I stayed, and resting in God’s presence, talking to Him, until I felt His peace cover and protect me. Although it was distressing to have, and to work to quickly resolve the episode mix-up, the person most affected throughout the day was my husband. It seemed that everything he tried to do brought more problems that he had to tackle or correct. One after another issue popped to his attention and took up his time until evening arrived and it seemed he received a reprieve. You know those days. We all get to experience them. While we cannot escape the dreaded, “bad day,” we can monitor and shift our attitude and heartitude to remember what Jeremiah 12:3a says, “But as for me, Lord, you know my heart. You see me and test my thoughts.” We must continue to train ourselves to allow obstacles to extract bitterness, anxiety, and dissatisfaction from within us. We must pray for them to as we place them in God’s capable hands. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” When we, as believers, release our anxiety to God we are trusting Him, believing that our Heavenly Father will give us His peace. Even more than just calmness, we receive God Himself, the Holy Spirit within us extending His presence, comfort, and protection. Have you felt it? The deepest tranquility flowing through you, extending past our level of understanding. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” When our mind is fixed on Him, when it “stays” on Him, He is faithful to His word. We have to remember Him – His strength and not rely on our own limited abilities. The verse from Isaiah relays the truth well. He keeps us in perfect peace when our mind is fixed on Him. When we trust that He will carry our loads, that He is able and desirous, we readily release our burdens to Him. Whenever I experience the slightest awareness of fear or stress, I must remember to immediately stop what I am doing and realize that means that I am attempting to carry concerns or hardships myself, which prompts me to pray. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” God’s peace cannot be defined by the standards of the world. His ways are above our logic or limited understanding. John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” Pay attention that Jesus did not say, “If you have trouble.” He said, “When you have trouble.” Afflictions, burdens, irritations, and concerns will come. Even Jesus had hardships and troubles. Why should we expect anything less? Remember, obstacles are opportunities that press us into the arms of Jesus. We have the freedom to choose to let the experience, whether large or small, cause us to draw nearer to Him and grow in Him. Colossians 3:15 says, “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.” Peace is a gift extended as we believe and ask our Father to carry our loads. Hebrews 13:20-21 says, “Now may the God of peace who brought up our Lord Jesus from the dead, that great Shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. God so intensely desires peace to inhabit us that He is called “the God of Peace.” Peace is part of Who and What our Heavenly Father is. As believers carrying the indwelling Holy Spirit, we have that peace within us. As frail, sinful humans, we often forget that power and source because we rely on self unless we intentionally focus on Him and live with an eternal perspective mindset that pertains to all that we have been given or that affects us. Peace is absent in many, yet each of us desire it. When peace is not present in our life, it is often due to the pace we are living. Are we moving too fast? Do we set ourselves up to experience calmness or tranquility? Peace cannot exist when we move too fast to fix our spirit on God. Busy schedules and lifestyles don’t allow us time to fix our gaze above. Our heart must be given the opportunity to seek Him above all else. 2 Thessalonians 3:16a says, “Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way.” To experience peace we must abide in the Source. Isaiah 48:17-18a says, “This is what the Lord says—your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go. If only you had paid attention to My commands, your peace would have been like a river.” God knows what is best for us, and because He is a loving Father, we should listen to Him. Peace flows to those who pay heed to what God teaches and directs. We must seek to know Him in order to obey Him. As believers, it is our duty to seek Him. The closer we draw to Jesus, the more deeply we desire Him to lead our life. As we allow Him to work through us and we begin to experience the riches of a Christ-centered life, our love for Him deepens, causing us to aspire to higher obedience. Therefore, if peace is absent from our lives, there are certain questions we should stop to consider. 1. Who do I rely on? Self-reliance and reliance on God cannot co-exist. Peace cannot be present when we rely on self instead of God. 2. What do I hold in my heart? Are bitterness or unforgiveness weaving a thread through the tapestry of my emotions? Forgiveness is sometimes easily extended, but at other times, the hardships and pains of this world are too excruciating to release without total reliance on Jesus. Without erasing the disobedience of unforgiveness and bitterness from our spirit and heart, we cannot carry peace. 3. What are you afraid of? God does not give the spirit of fear. 4. How do I handle mistakes? Am I a perfectionist? Only God is perfect. Stop trying to be Him. 5. What do I value? Does materialism have a grip on me? What do I value? Where do I spend my time and money? 6. Who do I choose to grant time to? Who are the people I am with most? What kind of influence do they have on me? 7. What do I choose to grant time to? 8. Am I able to handle my emotions? Am I even-tempered? 9. What does my heart seek? 10. Where do I find my worth? Does the world carry more weight with my thoughts and actions or does the Holy Spirit living inside me influence my emotions and behavior? 1 Corinthians 13:11-13 says, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” As we intentionally mature in our Christian relationship through Jesus, we see more clearly all that the Lord has for us. Our walk leads us closer to Him in fresh ways as we discover life is not about our selfish whims and desires. Through study of His holy word, we learn ways to grow in and through Him to understand Him more clearly to please Him. As we do so, we draw the peace promised by God into our lives. 1. Know the Bible. In order to develop and deepen our on-going relationship with Jesus, we must read His word. In order to know Him and all that He desires, we have to know His word and seek and recognize His truths. Psalm 119:165 says, “Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble.” 2. Pray. Prayer is an integral and continuing responsibility and privilege for believers. Pray for God’s will and purpose in our life. Pray to see, know, and understand Him more clearly. Pray to make Him known to others. Pray for His peace and guidance. Psalm 85:8 says, “I will hear what God the Lord will speak, for He will speak peace to His people and to His saints; but let them not turn back to folly.” We hear God speak when we are close enough to listen. 3. Search our self and motives to ensure we live according to God’s ways and purposes. Proverbs 16:7 says, “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.” 4. Release our dreams to Him. God created us and knows exactly what will truly fulfill us. Trust Him and His design for our life. If we live in opposition to what God desires for us, we never find peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33a says, “For God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” 5. Believe that obstacles are opportunities. Treat them as such. Our positive mindset allows the peace of God to reside within us. Allow Him to carry the burdens and fears. Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” 6. Obey God. Seek to please and rely on Him. Seek Him to know His will and ways and put them into effect in our life. Turn away from sin that may be restricting the peace of God. Ask God to seek your heart and reveal areas to you that need to be turned away from or repented and given to Him. 1 Peter 3:11 says, “Let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it.” 7. Gratitude, despite surroundings or events should be reflected in our heart, mind, words, and attitude. Isaiah 26:12 says, “Lord, You will establish peace for us, for You have also done all our works in us.” 8. Serve others less fortunate. When we look at others with a heart for and from the Lord, we seize the ways we can shine Him to others and it allows us to live with more grateful hearts. When we serve others, it causes us to examine our relationship with those we serve, and with God. Serving erases division and unites. James 3:18 says, “Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” Romans 12:18 says, “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 14:19 says, “Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” 2 Corinthians 13:11 says, “Finally, brothers rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” 9. Go outdoors. Sometimes a steady heart naturally flows through us when we seek solace in His creation. Ezekiel 34:25 says, “I will make a covenant of peace with them, and cause wild beasts to cease from the land; and they will dwell safely in the wilderness and sleep in the woods.” 10. Relax. God never called us to perfection. Learn to distinguish between what does not matter and can be let go. Concentrate on what God calls to attention in your life to reduce anxiety or stress. Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.” Other important questions to ponder are: Where do I find my peace? Is it ever-lasting? Does it come from trusting Jesus and my relationship with God through Him or from my surroundings and circumstances? God says He will give peace to His people. He longs for harmony and contentment to be fixed in our spirit and life. His encompassing peace truly can be well with our soul when we surrender regularly and naturally to God’s sovereignty over us and maintain a closeness that remains committed to keeping Him on the throne of our life. I want to share one more verse that is actually a promise from God. Isaiah 9:6 says, “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Prince of Peace. Jesus, the Prince of Peace lives within you when you are His. There is absolutely no greater power to give you or restore peace within you than Him. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. In order for others to be able to hear about Jesus through Live With Eternal Perspective, I need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift this podcast higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Right now, because the podcast is new and the following is small, listeners won’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. Can you think of a friend who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them so that they will also find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 021 Peace That Passes Understanding Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #021 – Peace That Passes Understanding Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Our topic today. Peace that passes understanding. Who doesn’t want to claim that? In the midst of writing this particular podcast episode, I experienced a morning that was far from peaceful. Are you a believer that there is spiritual warfare in the world? Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” It was real today. But, as we know, God always has the final victory. Does it mean things always turn out the way we want them to? No. In fact, sometimes things get worse before they get better. But God has already and will always be the victor. Several things went wrong as I attempted to start my day and work on this episode. After I had breakfast I tuned in to listen to the podcast I had just released. I don’t always listen after the episode releases, but I kept having little thoughts that I should. About three minutes in, I realized the unedited version was aired instead of the final cut. “Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, No, no, no.” I kept repeating. Stunned that the wrong version was being played to anyone tuning in, I was so upset. After the podcast episode was removed and the correct one aired, I realized I was still sad inside and wondered how many people had heard how terrible it sounded. I strive each week to write, record, and produce episodes that I believe God is calling and directing. I want to quality to continue to improve each week. When I heard the episode with several mistakes, it really hurt. I didn’t want people to think I didn’t care about what went out or to get too focused on the errors to hear the value behind what I was trying to say. Anxiety does not visit me often, but oh, I could feel it rising in the pit of my stomach that morning. I had to make myself focus and sit down to pray. I asked God to remove the feelings I was having and to allow me to absorb His peace, knowing that this mistake was not the worst thing that could ever happen. I stayed, and resting in God’s presence, talking to Him, until I felt His peace cover and protect me. Although it was distressing to have, and to work to quickly resolve the episode mix-up, the person most affected throughout the day was my husband. It seemed that everything he tried to do brought more problems that he had to tackle or correct. One after another issue popped to his attention and took up his time until evening arrived and it seemed he received a reprieve. You know those days. We all get to experience them. While we cannot escape the dreaded, “bad day,” we can monitor and shift our attitude and heartitude to remember what Jeremiah 12:3a says, “But as for me, Lord, you know my heart. You see me and test my thoughts.” We must continue to train ourselves to allow obstacles to extract bitterness, anxiety, and dissatisfaction from within us. We must pray for them to as we place them in God’s capable hands. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” When we, as believers, release our anxiety to God we are trusting Him, believing that our Heavenly Father will give us His peace. Even more than just calmness, we receive God Himself, the Holy Spirit within us extending His presence, comfort, and protection. Have you felt it? The deepest tranquility flowing through you, extending past our level of understanding. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” When our mind is fixed on Him, when it “stays” on Him, He is faithful to His word. We have to remember Him – His strength and not rely on our own limited abilities. The verse from Isaiah relays the truth well. He keeps us in perfect peace when our mind is fixed on Him. When we trust that He will carry our loads, that He is able and desirous, we readily release our burdens to Him. Whenever I experience the slightest awareness of fear or stress, I must remember to immediately stop what I am doing and realize that means that I am attempting to carry concerns or hardships myself, which prompts me to pray. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” God’s peace cannot be defined by the standards of the world. His ways are above our logic or limited understanding. John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” Pay attention that Jesus did not say, “If you have trouble.” He said, “When you have trouble.” Afflictions, burdens, irritations, and concerns will come. Even Jesus had hardships and troubles. Why should we expect anything less? Remember, obstacles are opportunities that press us into the arms of Jesus. We have the freedom to choose to let the experience, whether large or small, cause us to draw nearer to Him and grow in Him. Colossians 3:15 says, “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.” Peace is a gift extended as we believe and ask our Father to carry our loads. Hebrews 13:20-21 says, “Now may the God of peace who brought up our Lord Jesus from the dead, that great Shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. God so intensely desires peace to inhabit us that He is called “the God of Peace.” Peace is part of Who and What our Heavenly Father is. As believers carrying the indwelling Holy Spirit, we have that peace within us. As frail, sinful humans, we often forget that power and source because we rely on self unless we intentionally focus on Him and live with an eternal perspective mindset that pertains to all that we have been given or that affects us. Peace is absent in many, yet each of us desire it. When peace is not present in our life, it is often due to the pace we are living. Are we moving too fast? Do we set ourselves up to experience calmness or tranquility? Peace cannot exist when we move too fast to fix our spirit on God. Busy schedules and lifestyles don’t allow us time to fix our gaze above. Our heart must be given the opportunity to seek Him above all else. 2 Thessalonians 3:16a says, “Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way.” To experience peace we must abide in the Source. Isaiah 48:17-18a says, “This is what the Lord says—your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go. If only you had paid attention to My commands, your peace would have been like a river.” God knows what is best for us, and because He is a loving Father, we should listen to Him. Peace flows to those who pay heed to what God teaches and directs. We must seek to know Him in order to obey Him. As believers, it is our duty to seek Him. The closer we draw to Jesus, the more deeply we desire Him to lead our life. As we allow Him to work through us and we begin to experience the riches of a Christ-centered life, our love for Him deepens, causing us to aspire to higher obedience. Therefore, if peace is absent from our lives, there are certain questions we should stop to consider. 1. Who do I rely on? Self-reliance and reliance on God cannot co-exist. Peace cannot be present when we rely on self instead of God. 2. What do I hold in my heart? Are bitterness or unforgiveness weaving a thread through the tapestry of my emotions? Forgiveness is sometimes easily extended, but at other times, the hardships and pains of this world are too excruciating to release without total reliance on Jesus. Without erasing the disobedience of unforgiveness and bitterness from our spirit and heart, we cannot carry peace. 3. What are you afraid of? God does not give the spirit of fear. 4. How do I handle mistakes? Am I a perfectionist? Only God is perfect. Stop trying to be Him. 5. What do I value? Does materialism have a grip on me? What do I value? Where do I spend my time and money? 6. Who do I choose to grant time to? Who are the people I am with most? What kind of influence do they have on me? 7. What do I choose to grant time to? 8. Am I able to handle my emotions? Am I even-tempered? 9. What does my heart seek? 10. Where do I find my worth? Does the world carry more weight with my thoughts and actions or does the Holy Spirit living inside me influence my emotions and behavior? 1 Corinthians 13:11-13 says, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” As we intentionally mature in our Christian relationship through Jesus, we see more clearly all that the Lord has for us. Our walk leads us closer to Him in fresh ways as we discover life is not about our selfish whims and desires. Through study of His holy word, we learn ways to grow in and through Him to understand Him more clearly to please Him. As we do so, we draw the peace promised by God into our lives. 1. Know the Bible. In order to develop and deepen our on-going relationship with Jesus, we must read His word. In order to know Him and all that He desires, we have to know His word and seek and recognize His truths. Psalm 119:165 says, “Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble.” 2. Pray. Prayer is an integral and continuing responsibility and privilege for believers. Pray for God’s will and purpose in our life. Pray to see, know, and understand Him more clearly. Pray to make Him known to others. Pray for His peace and guidance. Psalm 85:8 says, “I will hear what God the Lord will speak, for He will speak peace to His people and to His saints; but let them not turn back to folly.” We hear God speak when we are close enough to listen. 3. Search our self and motives to ensure we live according to God’s ways and purposes. Proverbs 16:7 says, “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.” 4. Release our dreams to Him. God created us and knows exactly what will truly fulfill us. Trust Him and His design for our life. If we live in opposition to what God desires for us, we never find peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33a says, “For God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” 5. Believe that obstacles are opportunities. Treat them as such. Our positive mindset allows the peace of God to reside within us. Allow Him to carry the burdens and fears. Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” 6. Obey God. Seek to please and rely on Him. Seek Him to know His will and ways and put them into effect in our life. Turn away from sin that may be restricting the peace of God. Ask God to seek your heart and reveal areas to you that need to be turned away from or repented and given to Him. 1 Peter 3:11 says, “Let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it.” 7. Gratitude, despite surroundings or events should be reflected in our heart, mind, words, and attitude. Isaiah 26:12 says, “Lord, You will establish peace for us, for You have also done all our works in us.” 8. Serve others less fortunate. When we look at others with a heart for and from the Lord, we seize the ways we can shine Him to others and it allows us to live with more grateful hearts. When we serve others, it causes us to examine our relationship with those we serve, and with God. Serving erases division and unites. James 3:18 says, “Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” Romans 12:18 says, “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 14:19 says, “Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” 2 Corinthians 13:11 says, “Finally, brothers rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” 9. Go outdoors. Sometimes a steady heart naturally flows through us when we seek solace in His creation. Ezekiel 34:25 says, “I will make a covenant of peace with them, and cause wild beasts to cease from the land; and they will dwell safely in the wilderness and sleep in the woods.” 10. Relax. God never called us to perfection. Learn to distinguish between what does not matter and can be let go. Concentrate on what God calls to attention in your life to reduce anxiety or stress. Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.” Other important questions to ponder are: Where do I find my peace? Is it ever-lasting? Does it come from trusting Jesus and my relationship with God through Him or from my surroundings and circumstances? God says He will give peace to His people. He longs for harmony and contentment to be fixed in our spirit and life. His encompassing peace truly can be well with our soul when we surrender regularly and naturally to God’s sovereignty over us and maintain a closeness that remains committed to keeping Him on the throne of our life. I want to share one more verse that is actually a promise from God. Isaiah 9:6 says, “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Prince of Peace. Jesus, the Prince of Peace lives within you when you are His. There is absolutely no greater power to give you or restore peace within you than Him. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #077 – Easing Heartache Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Matthew 5:4 says, “Blessed are those mourning, for they will be comforted.” June 18th and June 21st were beyond difficult days in our family. Grief hit our home and the impact was hard. Before I married a dog-loving man I never would have imagined the depth of relationship a person could have with a household pet. My parents never allowed us to have an inside dog as I was growing up, and an outside dog, although still cared for, is certainly not the same as a loving furry family member who knows everything about you, follows you everywhere inside the house, and adores you despite whether you're made-up or in need of a bath. Your schedule is known and if you deviate in any way, they may offer a question with a slight tilt of their head, but all-in-all, accept the change as long as you are still with them and they have the honor of remaining in your presence. Since marrying a man who has always had to have a pet in our house, I have slowly become accustomed to an ever-present dog. While we have had absolutely amazing pets over the years, and some that took a giant piece of my heart with them after they passed, I have never been as affected by the death of a pet as I was last month. On June 18th we lost Max, our ten year old, exquisitely handsome Golden Retriever. While Max truly loved every family member deeply, he was the first family dog that chose me as his favorite. He was a mama's boy to the core. Whenever I petted him, he purred his favor and satisfaction like a cat and slapped me with his clumsy giant paws, proving his devotion as he tagged me as his. Max followed me everywhere, becoming my four-legged shadow who was always up in an instant and ready to go whenever and wherever I was headed. Max often carried a football around the house. Never mind that he could not catch! Whatever we tossed his way would land awkwardly on the floor beside or behind our boy, but rarely in his mouth. He was my baby, my friend, my warm cuddle-buddy, and my blessing, for time with him always brought a smile and warmth to my heart. On June 21st, a few days after losing Max, we lost his sister, our thirteen year old Miniature Schnauzer, Misty. Just as Max loved everyone, but chose one favorite to shadow, Misty loved each of us well, yet claimed my husband as her special family member. We used to laugh at the adoration in her eyes whenever she looked at him. We called Misty our "little girl," because she always seemed to envy Marissa as they grew up together. It seemed she wanted to be a person, not a canine, and the depth of desire and love in her eyes for all of us seemed to confirm our thoughts. Misty loved music and whenever we would sing to her, she would stop whatever she was doing and come to sit in front of us so that we would continue a special personal concert designed for her. Our "little girl" also grew up attending family worship and prayer time with us, and she and Marissa used to race each other for a seat next to me when they were younger. In her mature years, Misty still came to school with us and almost never missed Bible or prayer time. My youngest, Brooklyn loved feeding and brushing the dogs and spending quiet time with them as she slept near both of them. Marissa and I loved the way Misty always raced upstairs when she knew I was headed to Marissa's room to do something with her. Misty knew she would get to sit with us and receive a special time of cuddles and hugs that Max would never know about. After losing Max, we spent three days trying to save Misty, gently feeding her baby food from our fingertips, gently wrapping cool washcloths on her paws in an attempt to reduce her fever, and carrying her outside to enjoy the breezy sunshine weather when she could no longer walk. I never imagined we would lose both of our precious babies within days of each other. The emergency veterinarian told us it was a rarity to have a family come in with two critically ill dogs at the same time. We aren't sure what happened. Suddenly both of our furry family members became very sick. Misty had declined the previous summer and after we urgently prayed for a miracle for her health last year, we received one. Misty had seemed healthier, stronger, and going on regular walks with Marissa daily. Just days after Max suddenly got sick, she did as well. Our regular vet could not figure out what was going on and referred us to the emergency clinic. Without hospitalizing both of them and spending what could amount to ten thousand dollars for the next few days (on top of what we had already spent), neither of our babies was going to make it. In the end, the vets believed that Max's kidneys had failed and Misty had underlying cancer, perhaps in her pancreas. At least they lived without symptoms until the very end, and even then, neither of them complained. As we tried to nurse both of them ourselves, praying for improvement, they loved and trusted us with their usual tenderness. love, and compassion. I will never find animals quite like them this side of heaven, where I pray I meet with them again. God amazes me that He crafted these sweet babies, knowing they would be ours, and instilling just what I needed, we each needed, in both of them. Pure love, gentleness, acceptance, and peace emanated from them with ease, reminding me daily of what the Father desires from each of us. Without them, I also think of the Father's gentle spirit when He created them and it allows me to grieve with hope that I will see them in eternity. Although animals do not have a soul that can choose to accept Christ as their Savior, and nothing biblically proves that animals will be in heaven, I pray that because Adam and Eve were stewards over animals in the beginning, that God will allow the beautiful four-legged family members we loved to have a final resting place with Him for eternity. Grief is tricky, but also a beautiful mechanism of the love that God must have for us. For if I, a mere sinful human, can love with an intensity that allows me to deeply miss the animals I called a part of my family, imagine the extreme and passionate love God holds for each of us, His creation made with a purpose. As we said goodbye to our beloved pets, I told the emergency vet that I had lost a daughter and many close family members, and that loss was a million times worse, yet the pain of losing my precious pets was still extremely painful. I carry the sweet memories made with them very close, thinking of their precious faces often throughout each day. I feel emptiness in my schedule because they are not here to make me laugh, sing, play hide and seek, or marvel at the way they join every activity with excitement and love simply because we are there with them. The way we each are to rejoice in our time spent with the Lord. It’s okay to take life slower for as long as I need to and I should not feel guilty because I am grieving pets. If you are not a dog or pet lover, I understand. I honestly thought that I wouldn’t want any more pets after these were gone. I failed to understand the depth of the devotion I had for them. Although I am admittedly not a puppy person, it’s like having a newborn in the house, and that means a lot of work. Yet, I truly and deeply loved our dogs. They perfectly fit into each day and situation, even with quirky habits that made them even more a part of the family. Losing pets also proves that pain is pain. Loss is loss. Who understands the depth? Jesus. Remember John 11:35? “Jesus wept.” I remember the first days after losing my daughter. The depth of anguish was chasm-sized, relentless, and I had to force myself to breathe through the crushing pain weighing on my chest. I didn't want to cry in front of others because it felt too personal and I also wasn't sure that I could stop the tears. I wanted to grieve in my own way, plus I didn’t want to upset my four year old daughter or leave her burdened with a mother who couldn’t care for her. So I grieved in private times and allowed God to offer the peace only He can. But the years of loss after her, filled with many others I loved, have made me ultra-tender to grief. Also knowing that I have a young daughter who could experience decline at any time, and seeing the losses of so many parents I know who have children with similar conditions has marked my spirit in a way that has left me more vulnerable to grief. I've cried or thought of them daily since my sweet, furry companions have been gone and I feel like they must have felt when they used to lay on the floor, with underbellies exposed. But I don't care. God offers me peace and calm when I ask, just like with the losses before. He is ever-present and I feel Him near. He tells me that He holds my tears and each one is recorded. He understands as no one else can. What is gone had been a gift from Him and the preciousness is a reminder of each loved one I have been with, yet lost, and those I still hold and treasure. Any or all of them could be gone in an instant; another reminder that living with eternal perspective is the only way to fully live in this world. About two weeks before Max got sick, I remember hearing a voice in my spirit one day that concerned me. It said, "Max will be attacked." Just as my Heavenly Father sent me a warning twenty-four hours before I lost my first child, I think God must have sent me a sign to trust Him again. He always watches over us in ways unique to each of us, and for the purposes He intends. I am glad He prepared me in this way. Losing both of our beloved and precious furry family members at once was truly very difficult. I feel like our culture sometimes dismisses the loss of pets as insignificant, but we the ties and bonds we have with our pets can be as strong and intense as some we have with humans. Our pets trust us implicitly, they love unconditionally, and spend almost every moment with us. The loss of their presence leaves a giant hole in our daily routines and lifestyle, as well as our ability to laugh and love in the same way we previously experienced. Yet, it makes everything sweeter still. One of the gifts of God is the ability to continue to peel away layer after layer of humanity and heal that exposed area with not new flesh, but the ability to hold and feel life more like He does and how He desires – with our mind and heart set for Him. Eccesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” Love trumps possessions or power. In the Bible, even Solomon’s special wisdom granted by God did not provide meaning that satisfied his soul. God continues to burden my heart with an ache that nothing in this world can satisfy. I truly desire for everyone to know Him and the peace that God alone brings us through a maturing relationship with Christ. My heart yearns for each of us to make time to rest in Him. Change your schedule. Slow your life. Make time to not only read the word, but digest it. Ponder God’s words and ways. Apply His teachings, promises, and love to your life and those around you. Do not harbor bitterness or anger, jealousy or hatred, unforgiveness or sadness. Truly examine your heart and lay it before God so that He can heal the areas you need. Even when we already feel those areas have been released to Him, God and His words have mighty power that is living and active. Just as Hebrews 4:12 says, “Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Cling ever tighter to Jesus, beginning now. Although I don’t enjoy the hurts of this world, God never fails to be the steadiness that is exactly what I need and He draws me ever nearer through all that occurs. May it always be so, and true for each one of us. Father God, may we allow You to examine our thoughts and heart. We need You so much more than we know. Despite heartache and difficulty in this world, we become closer to You when we allow troubles and disappointment to draw us ever nearer. The only way we can do that is to be building a relationship with You consistently as one lays a firm foundation on solid ground so that we are ready before the storm hits. Thank you for being calm, peace, and steadiness that our minds can grasp, yet also so much more that we can only begin to fathom through the hope and trust You leave us in Jesus. You are all we need, dear Father. Thank you. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 077 - Easing Heartache Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #077 – Easing Heartache Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Matthew 5:4 says, “Blessed are those mourning, for they will be comforted.” June 18th and June 21st were beyond difficult days in our family. Grief hit our home and the impact was hard. Before I married a dog-loving man I never would have imagined the depth of relationship a person could have with a household pet. My parents never allowed us to have an inside dog as I was growing up, and an outside dog, although still cared for, is certainly not the same as a loving furry family member who knows everything about you, follows you everywhere inside the house, and adores you despite whether you're made-up or in need of a bath. Your schedule is known and if you deviate in any way, they may offer a question with a slight tilt of their head, but all-in-all, accept the change as long as you are still with them and they have the honor of remaining in your presence. Since marrying a man who has always had to have a pet in our house, I have slowly become accustomed to an ever-present dog. While we have had absolutely amazing pets over the years, and some that took a giant piece of my heart with them after they passed, I have never been as affected by the death of a pet as I was last month. On June 18th we lost Max, our ten year old, exquisitely handsome Golden Retriever. While Max truly loved every family member deeply, he was the first family dog that chose me as his favorite. He was a mama's boy to the core. Whenever I petted him, he purred his favor and satisfaction like a cat and slapped me with his clumsy giant paws, proving his devotion as he tagged me as his. Max followed me everywhere, becoming my four-legged shadow who was always up in an instant and ready to go whenever and wherever I was headed. Max often carried a football around the house. Never mind that he could not catch! Whatever we tossed his way would land awkwardly on the floor beside or behind our boy, but rarely in his mouth. He was my baby, my friend, my warm cuddle-buddy, and my blessing, for time with him always brought a smile and warmth to my heart. On June 21st, a few days after losing Max, we lost his sister, our thirteen year old Miniature Schnauzer, Misty. Just as Max loved everyone, but chose one favorite to shadow, Misty loved each of us well, yet claimed my husband as her special family member. We used to laugh at the adoration in her eyes whenever she looked at him. We called Misty our "little girl," because she always seemed to envy Marissa as they grew up together. It seemed she wanted to be a person, not a canine, and the depth of desire and love in her eyes for all of us seemed to confirm our thoughts. Misty loved music and whenever we would sing to her, she would stop whatever she was doing and come to sit in front of us so that we would continue a special personal concert designed for her. Our "little girl" also grew up attending family worship and prayer time with us, and she and Marissa used to race each other for a seat next to me when they were younger. In her mature years, Misty still came to school with us and almost never missed Bible or prayer time. My youngest, Brooklyn loved feeding and brushing the dogs and spending quiet time with them as she slept near both of them. Marissa and I loved the way Misty always raced upstairs when she knew I was headed to Marissa's room to do something with her. Misty knew she would get to sit with us and receive a special time of cuddles and hugs that Max would never know about. After losing Max, we spent three days trying to save Misty, gently feeding her baby food from our fingertips, gently wrapping cool washcloths on her paws in an attempt to reduce her fever, and carrying her outside to enjoy the breezy sunshine weather when she could no longer walk. I never imagined we would lose both of our precious babies within days of each other. The emergency veterinarian told us it was a rarity to have a family come in with two critically ill dogs at the same time. We aren't sure what happened. Suddenly both of our furry family members became very sick. Misty had declined the previous summer and after we urgently prayed for a miracle for her health last year, we received one. Misty had seemed healthier, stronger, and going on regular walks with Marissa daily. Just days after Max suddenly got sick, she did as well. Our regular vet could not figure out what was going on and referred us to the emergency clinic. Without hospitalizing both of them and spending what could amount to ten thousand dollars for the next few days (on top of what we had already spent), neither of our babies was going to make it. In the end, the vets believed that Max's kidneys had failed and Misty had underlying cancer, perhaps in her pancreas. At least they lived without symptoms until the very end, and even then, neither of them complained. As we tried to nurse both of them ourselves, praying for improvement, they loved and trusted us with their usual tenderness. love, and compassion. I will never find animals quite like them this side of heaven, where I pray I meet with them again. God amazes me that He crafted these sweet babies, knowing they would be ours, and instilling just what I needed, we each needed, in both of them. Pure love, gentleness, acceptance, and peace emanated from them with ease, reminding me daily of what the Father desires from each of us. Without them, I also think of the Father's gentle spirit when He created them and it allows me to grieve with hope that I will see them in eternity. Although animals do not have a soul that can choose to accept Christ as their Savior, and nothing biblically proves that animals will be in heaven, I pray that because Adam and Eve were stewards over animals in the beginning, that God will allow the beautiful four-legged family members we loved to have a final resting place with Him for eternity. Grief is tricky, but also a beautiful mechanism of the love that God must have for us. For if I, a mere sinful human, can love with an intensity that allows me to deeply miss the animals I called a part of my family, imagine the extreme and passionate love God holds for each of us, His creation made with a purpose. As we said goodbye to our beloved pets, I told the emergency vet that I had lost a daughter and many close family members, and that loss was a million times worse, yet the pain of losing my precious pets was still extremely painful. I carry the sweet memories made with them very close, thinking of their precious faces often throughout each day. I feel emptiness in my schedule because they are not here to make me laugh, sing, play hide and seek, or marvel at the way they join every activity with excitement and love simply because we are there with them. The way we each are to rejoice in our time spent with the Lord. It’s okay to take life slower for as long as I need to and I should not feel guilty because I am grieving pets. If you are not a dog or pet lover, I understand. I honestly thought that I wouldn’t want any more pets after these were gone. I failed to understand the depth of the devotion I had for them. Although I am admittedly not a puppy person, it’s like having a newborn in the house, and that means a lot of work. Yet, I truly and deeply loved our dogs. They perfectly fit into each day and situation, even with quirky habits that made them even more a part of the family. Losing pets also proves that pain is pain. Loss is loss. Who understands the depth? Jesus. Remember John 11:35? “Jesus wept.” I remember the first days after losing my daughter. The depth of anguish was chasm-sized, relentless, and I had to force myself to breathe through the crushing pain weighing on my chest. I didn't want to cry in front of others because it felt too personal and I also wasn't sure that I could stop the tears. I wanted to grieve in my own way, plus I didn’t want to upset my four year old daughter or leave her burdened with a mother who couldn’t care for her. So I grieved in private times and allowed God to offer the peace only He can. But the years of loss after her, filled with many others I loved, have made me ultra-tender to grief. Also knowing that I have a young daughter who could experience decline at any time, and seeing the losses of so many parents I know who have children with similar conditions has marked my spirit in a way that has left me more vulnerable to grief. I've cried or thought of them daily since my sweet, furry companions have been gone and I feel like they must have felt when they used to lay on the floor, with underbellies exposed. But I don't care. God offers me peace and calm when I ask, just like with the losses before. He is ever-present and I feel Him near. He tells me that He holds my tears and each one is recorded. He understands as no one else can. What is gone had been a gift from Him and the preciousness is a reminder of each loved one I have been with, yet lost, and those I still hold and treasure. Any or all of them could be gone in an instant; another reminder that living with eternal perspective is the only way to fully live in this world. About two weeks before Max got sick, I remember hearing a voice in my spirit one day that concerned me. It said, "Max will be attacked." Just as my Heavenly Father sent me a warning twenty-four hours before I lost my first child, I think God must have sent me a sign to trust Him again. He always watches over us in ways unique to each of us, and for the purposes He intends. I am glad He prepared me in this way. Losing both of our beloved and precious furry family members at once was truly very difficult. I feel like our culture sometimes dismisses the loss of pets as insignificant, but we the ties and bonds we have with our pets can be as strong and intense as some we have with humans. Our pets trust us implicitly, they love unconditionally, and spend almost every moment with us. The loss of their presence leaves a giant hole in our daily routines and lifestyle, as well as our ability to laugh and love in the same way we previously experienced. Yet, it makes everything sweeter still. One of the gifts of God is the ability to continue to peel away layer after layer of humanity and heal that exposed area with not new flesh, but the ability to hold and feel life more like He does and how He desires – with our mind and heart set for Him. Eccesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” Love trumps possessions or power. In the Bible, even Solomon’s special wisdom granted by God did not provide meaning that satisfied his soul. God continues to burden my heart with an ache that nothing in this world can satisfy. I truly desire for everyone to know Him and the peace that God alone brings us through a maturing relationship with Christ. My heart yearns for each of us to make time to rest in Him. Change your schedule. Slow your life. Make time to not only read the word, but digest it. Ponder God’s words and ways. Apply His teachings, promises, and love to your life and those around you. Do not harbor bitterness or anger, jealousy or hatred, unforgiveness or sadness. Truly examine your heart and lay it before God so that He can heal the areas you need. Even when we already feel those areas have been released to Him, God and His words have mighty power that is living and active. Just as Hebrews 4:12 says, “Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Cling ever tighter to Jesus, beginning now. Although I don’t enjoy the hurts of this world, God never fails to be the steadiness that is exactly what I need and He draws me ever nearer through all that occurs. May it always be so, and true for each one of us. Father God, may we allow You to examine our thoughts and heart. We need You so much more than we know. Despite heartache and difficulty in this world, we become closer to You when we allow troubles and disappointment to draw us ever nearer. The only way we can do that is to be building a relationship with You consistently as one lays a firm foundation on solid ground so that we are ready before the storm hits. Thank you for being calm, peace, and steadiness that our minds can grasp, yet also so much more that we can only begin to fathom through the hope and trust You leave us in Jesus. You are all we need, dear Father. Thank you. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 139 - Are You Really a Christian? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 087 - Confident Parenting through God's Strength Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 087 – Confident Parenting through God’s Strength Thank you for taking time to share your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children. When you see mothers who’ve raised children who love and follow the Lord do you ever wonder if they have some special secret? Maybe they were just born privileged. Or do you think their faith must be stronger than yours? I can easily remember being a young mother with little confidence and no knowledge of the Lord. How I’ve changed. Or better yet, how I have been changed. All because of my relationship with Jesus. It’s true that the older I’ve become, the more introspective I am. That says a lot, because I’ve always been a deep thinker. What is most important to me, and something I try not to take for granted, is that because I am now a follower of Christ, my thoughts are more on Him and less on self. My confidence comes from Him , not others, my thoughts, feelings, emotions, or past experiences. This is the kind of confidence I desire every woman, every mother to carry with strength and assurance that only comes through a growing walk with Jesus. Titus 2:3-6 speaks to what presses on my heart and where He has led me. The verses say, “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God. ” These verses clearly instruct mature believers in the ways we must encourage and help younger believers. By being lovingly mentored in godly words and lifestyles, younger generations of followers of Christ will learn how to live for Him and continue to pass Christlike living and fellowship to the next generation. The next generation starts with your children. The next generation can confidently be raised for the Lord if you submit to and trust Him to guide and guard you and your family. Because of Christ, I receive such joy by watching my children grow in wisdom of the Lord. I’m thankful for the walk they have with Christ, especially the relationship my daughters have at their young age. I can’t take credit for the work God has done, and continues to do in their hearts, but I have been purposed in making Him known to them. But it hasn’t always been my main goal. When I parented my first two I came to know Jesus later and it took time for me to be properly submitted to Him and discipled for Him. Mothers, as you intentionally mature your relationship with Jesus, you become the set-apart woman He intends for you to be. You are able to show Jesus to those in your sphere of influence, and that includes your husband and children. When you do so, you are deciding to live in humble obedience and love for God. Think of how important your decision is for your children and family. As you mature your personal walk with Christ, you are able to better showcase His works within you. The Bible tells us that when the Holy Spirit lives inside believers, we receive His fruits of the Spirit. Joy is one of the characteristics we receive. I receive such joy in working with younger mothers and equipping them in their walk with Jesus and showing them how to make Him known to their children. What a beautiful gift that we receive those fruits of the Spirit in so many ways and can help others rest in and follow Jesus. If you are a believing parent, God is relying on you to complete the holy assignment of parenting for Him. I shared the verses from Titus 2 at the beginning of this podcast, because we are not able to complete the instructions given without the power of Christ alive within us. Without submitting to the Holy Spirit’s promptings and guidance within, you and I are unable to live or parent for Christ. Do you take notice of how many miraculous ways your life has changed since you became a follower of Christ? One of those is gaining a new identity. As you accept and build your new identity in Christ, you are rebuilding a lifetime of beliefs, desires, and learned habits in the truth of God and what He says about you as a woman. Also, in what He says about you as a mother. You can’t parent godly children without submitting to the Holy Spirit inside you. The absolute best day in your life as a believer in Christ should be the day you humbly submit your life to Him. While filled with many emotions and feelings in that moment, you probably wondered what the rest of your life would be like with Jesus at your side. However, one of the best revelations or lessons a follower of Christ can realize is that Jesus does not ever belong by your side . The Lord of All, Prince of Peace, Author and Perfecter of our Faith, and the Alpha and Omega holds out His strong and capable hands, ready for you to rest in His arms . This means He isn’t behind or beside you, but should be the One carrying and sustaining you through every disturbance, disruption, and delight. One of the most basic, but challenging questions in the personal life of a believer is this: I have chosen to trust Jesus for eternity, but am I trusting Him for every moment? Are you trusting God to show you how to raise the children He has entrusted to you? I believe that if we examine the story shared about Peter in Matthew 14, we learn valuable insight. Matthew 14:22-33 says, “Immediately He made the disciples get into the boat and go before Him to the other side, while He dismissed the crowds. And after He had dismissed the crowds, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. When evening came, He was there alone, but the boat by this time was a long way from the land, beaten by the waves, for the wind was against them. And in the fourth watch of the night He came to them, walking on the sea. But when the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were terrified, and said, “It is a ghost!” and they cried out in fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Take heart; it is I. Do not be afraid.” And Peter answered Him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me.” Jesus immediately reached out His hand and took hold of him, saying to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. And those in the boat worshiped Him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God .” What a decision Peter made! He chose to step out of the boat and into the choppy, stormy waters to walk toward Jesus. While His eyes and mind were centered on Jesus, Peter actually walked on the water! When his focus slipped away from Christ and fell to self and surroundings, Peter experienced fear, panic, and difficulties. Jesus had not moved. Christ had not changed. Jesus remained centered on Peter and ready to care for him. Peter’s mind moved away from Jesus and he began to sink. Your focus determines faith or fear . Is your parenting style focused on Self or Savior ? While it is easy to blame Peter and belittle his faith, he was willing to be the one who walked toward Jesus. Peter was willing to leave the other disciples, leave what he knew, and venture alone into the turbulent waters toward Jesus. The other men remained unchanged and unmoving inside the boat while Peter took the risk of trusting Christ. Consider these 4 questions: Why did the others remain in the boat? Why didn’t they step out in faith with Peter? Why is it so difficult to keep mind, heart, and focus on Christ? Why do people struggle to trust God through occasions and stages of life? There are actually multiple reasons. Let’s look at what the most common causes are and how we can turn to Scripture to combat them. 1. Trust – It can be difficult to trust or believe in what we cannot see. But Scripture gives clear instructions. God’s Word is inerrant; it is trustworthy. The Holy Word offers hope and assurance. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen .” John 20:29 says, “Jesus said to him, “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed .” Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” In what ways are you not trusting God in your life? How does that translate in your parenting? 2. Worry/Anxiety – It’s easy to imagine what might happen and allow our thoughts to spiral out of control with anxiety or worry. God offers a far better way. Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God .” Matthew 19:26 says, “But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible .” Isaiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand .” 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you .” Matthew 6:31-34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble .” You have a choice. Release worry by releasing control to God or hold onto worry and let it drain your faith and energy. Which do you want to model for your children? 3. Control – We don’t want to relinquish our perceived control. Have you learned yet that control is an illusion? No one has control. No matter how perfect you may try to be or how hard you work, you will never have complete or lasting control. How much easier it is to realize God’s authority and submit to Him. Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. ” Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God .” Psalm 138:8 says, “The LORD will fulfill His purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of Your hands .” What areas of your life do you still grasp too tightly to release to God? How can you let go so that you can teach your children to rely on God? 4. Doubt – When things don’t go the way we desire or think they should or if we begin to wonder why there is hardship and evil in the world, doubt can creep in. Hebrew 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen .” James 1:6 says, “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind .” Matthew 6:30 says, “But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith ?” Where has God worked in your life to show you that He is present? Do you still doubt? What can you do to ensure that your children believe with a heart and mind that will never stray from believing in and following the Lord? 5. Sinfulness – I also like to call this selfishness. When we don’t want to give up sin, we are choosing self over Christ. We’re also choosing self over those we love or are in our life. Personal sin always affects those who love us, especially your spouse or children. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body .” 1 John 1:8 says, “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us .” Romans 7:22-23 says, “For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members .” Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you .” What areas of your life are selfish? Where are you not releasing sin? How can you ask God to carry you and carve a new heart and mindset that releases self and chooses the Savior? How do you plan to model that lifestyle for your children? 6. Arrogance/Pride – Pride rears up in each of us through different ways. Whether it be entitlement, perfectionism, bragging, when we think we’re superior to someone, deserve something more than another, or should be before another, the root of each thought ties back to arrogance or pride. Isaiah 2:12 says, “For the LORD of hosts has a day against all that is proud and lofty, against all that is lifted up—and it shall be brought low .” James 4:6 says, “But He gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble .” James 4:10 says, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you .” Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves .” Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” Proverbs 16:5 says, “Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the LORD; be assured, he will not go unpunished .” It’s so humbling just to read the verses God has given us about humility. How will you teach your children to be humble before the Lord and others? How will you model that fort hem? 7. Unworthiness – As a believer in Christ, you have been bought with a price. The life of Jesus was exchanged so you could begin to understand your great worth to God. Isaiah 43:18 says, “Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old .” Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope .” Psalm 56:8 says, “Record my misery; list my tears on your scroll — are they not in Your record ?” Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are Your works; my soul knows it very well .” Matthew 6:26 says, “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they ?” Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them .” How will you teach your children their worthiness and identity through Christ? It starts when you realize your confidence in who you are through Him. 8. Fear – When fear creeps in, it is because you have taken your mind and eyes off of God and centered them on self or surroundings. Every time I have felt fear even begin to touch me I stop and focus on Jesus (and in my mind I actually picture blinders on my face that force my vision upwards on God). As I rest in His presence and pray to Him about the situation I am fearing, He takes the burden and calms any fears. It is said that God leaves the message “Do not fear” 365 times in the Bible. I'm not sure whether that is an accurate count, but I trust that the Lord gives us the command for daily use because He knows our thoughts can easily be distracted. He knows how easily we move from His sovereign holiness and perfect provision and protection. Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.” Psalm 94:19 says, “When the cares of my heart are many, Your consolations cheer my soul.” Psalm 115:11 says, “You who fear the LORD, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield.” Psalm 118:6 says, “The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me ?” Matthew 6:34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble .” John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid .” Do you want your child to live with fear or faith? Show them the example they need to grasp the hope and peace that is in Christ. Help them find faith that carries them past fear while they are young. 9. Faith – Perhaps your belief doesn’t feel real or big enough. Maybe difficult times in the past, unanswered prayers, or present hardships cause you to feel like God has forsaken you or that He isn’t real. Each of the points we discussed can arguably return back to the thought of faith that is too little. But remember, God’s Word tells us all we need is a faith the size of a mustard seed. Tend to that seed so it will mature and be rooted in God’s truth, then let it grow and mature through Christ. Romans 5:3-5 says, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us .” James 1:2-4 says, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing .” Romans 8:18 says, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us .” You know how easy it can be to allow self or situations to distract you and move your eyes off Christ. Being aware of this offers opportunity to purposely prepare to be ahead of your next season of trials. Intentionally living in ways that set you up to trust God gives assurance that your focus will not be easily swayed in this moment or tomorrow. How can you live in ways that set you up to live and parent with eternal perspective? How will you teach your children to trust God for each day, as well as for eternity? Let’s look at 7 ways: 1. Know Jesus through a personal relationship. 2. Read and study God’s word together. 3. Prayer – speak to God and listen for God and pray with your children. 4. Pursue close relationship with God daily. Seek Him in all the minute happenings and large events. 5. Ask God to transform your life. 6. Use everyday moments to make God known to your children. Inhale and exhale Him with love and clarity. 7. Take your thoughts captive for Christ and see the difference He makes to a surrendered soul. If you look at the transcript from this episode after listening, you’ll be able to read the Scriptures referenced and refer to the questions I asked throughout this episode. Look back at them and ponder the following questions to help you grow in relationship with and confidence in the Lord in your personal and parenting life. 1. What does this verse promise? 2. What does this verse command? 3. Where do I need to apply this in my life and in the way I parent? Dear Heavenly Father, How great You are! You are so far above us, yet remain within us through Jesus. Thank you for all you have given us and still desire to provide for us. Help us to be the women You call us to be. Help us to be the mothers you have designed us to become. Please help our children to follow Jesus and clearly show Him to the next generation. May it be that no generation after us shall stray from you because we raise our children in Your wisdom and goodness. Thank you for giving us Your Son and Your holy Word as a guide and a shield. We ask these things in the precious name of Christ. Amen. If you’re a working mom inside or outside the home and need an easy way to begin teaching your babies, toddlers, or preschoolers about Jesus, send me an email at info@terrihitt.com . I’m currently working on a devotional to bring your children to the feet of Jesus early. Let me know you’re interested, and I’ll let you know how to receive a copy. Also, you may have heard me talk about the Set-Apart Collective often in this podcast. Why do I share it so often? I know the program works. Through 6 weeks of one-on-one and group coaching, along with Scripturally-based materials I provide, you will complete 8 steps that include the following: Seek God First, Establish Identity, Teach Truth, A Set-Apart Woman, Parent Set-Apart Kids, Arm for Battle, Relationships, and Training. What you learn and solidify in your personal life will directly affect the way you serve God and parent for Him. It will help you construct godly confidence and esteem through Christ in your children. If you’re ready to invest in the future of your children, contact me at info@terrihitt.com for more details or visit terrihitt.com/setapart. Because you are a podcast listener, let me know you heard about the special price I’m offering you. I seriously want you to experience results and live a set-apart life with a set-apart family. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Why? Because supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. If you’ve decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child and you desire to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, the Set-Apart Collective, will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #127 – Living Fully in the Moment Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you ever wish for an exciting change in your life? Guess what? Each morning I get to live a new adventure in the world of Legos. Like clockwork, my youngest expects me to play with her before her day officially starts. As soon as she is out of bed with teeth brushed and medicine taken, we are connected in a world of make-believe. We’ve held this date for 7 years. Do you wonder whether it’s hard for us to maintain this schedule? Without fail, unless we have an errand that presses into our time, we do not deviate from our special time together. Sure, I think some might look at this as a trapping of sorts. To be honest, on days when I have a pressing schedule, it’s sometimes tempting to skip. Often many other things are pressing for my attention, and I’d have a valid reason (in my eyes, anyway) to say I’m just not able to play that day. Yet, God has shown me the importance, the blessing, and the privilege to connect with my girl in this special one-on-one way. Maybe it’s because I’m an older, or “do-over” mom, or maybe it’s because my heart has been pierced with loss and grieves for more time with my oldest daughter, but I understand the eternal value in these simple moments. Without a doubt, I believe that the communication we share and the trust my daughter has placed in me stems in a very large part from this simple, but dedicated time, to just sit together and play. Because I have proven myself reliable and we have bonded through this important way, my girl knows she can believe other things I tell her, ask her to do, or teach her. I’ve grabbed the opportunity to know her better through the very best way a child communicates – play. In a way, I’ve been gifted lost time, as well. Because I missed 9 years with my precious daughter, I recognize that God has miraculously gifted me the honor of being the one to teach her to play. Watching her learn the basics required for play were the beginning of a miracle that only He could supply. Although no one gave her time or recognition before, she has the most amazing imagination and ability to create. I’ve come to see facets of her personality and skills I would not have known otherwise. Because I appreciate our time together very much, a comment she made one day that she is glad I “am childishly playful” was one of the best compliments I have ever received. As I pondered what this opinion meant to her, the worth she received from the time I dedicated to her, and how it made me feel, I thought of God at the beginning of creation. Think of every animal, insect, bird, fish, human, continent, and on and on. Do you think God could have made all He has so superbly unique without being childishly playful? My point is that God wants us to enjoy life, to live in full appreciation of the moment, lest we miss it altogether and yearn a missed opportunity forever. Yet, He also wants us to view our moments with a heart that craves our eternal home with Him and seeks the value of what we are doing for His kingdom and our walk with Him. He desires that we view what we are living now with eyes and heart for how He will use it for eternity, whether we consider what we are going through to be good or bad, easy or hard. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” Our love for God should saturate our heart so that our motives always seek His glory. Our walk with God should build up the walk of another for Him. Knowing the relationship I am crafting with my daughter is not just for my joy and benefit, but is a mentorship for her and her relationship with Christ, I look at the time spent as an investment in her eternity. I believe there are 5 tips to help each of us to remember to live in the moment, yet be directed by a mind set on eternity. 1. Seek God’s direction for your life. Unless you are actively and humbly submitting to Christ moment by moment, you will be deceived by fleshly desires. • Commit to daily Bible Study – If daily reading or study is your goal, it will become a habit like brushing your teeth or making your bed. If an unexpected event happens and you are unable to read one day, you have a supply built inside to sustain you until the next day or you will miss it so much that you will look at even a few lines of the Bible to quench your thirst for truth. • Keep an open dialogue of prayer through each day and stop to speak and listen to your Heavenly Father. Through study of His Word, we come to know our Heavenly Father in new and authentic ways. As we pray to and listen for the Father, we are even more attuned to the Holy Spirit within us. 2. Pray for discernment in your commitments and activity level. • Let simplicity have more room in your life. When our schedules are too packed or we haven’t be led by the direction of our Father, we cannot hear the Holy Spirit or recognize His guidance. • Be purposed in what you commit to. Our regular activities make life busy, but balanced. What we commit to has been prayed over and is used for Christ. 3. Cultivate a grateful attitude. Look for reasons to be joyful. Everything serves a purpose in your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Rest in the arms of your Heavenly Father. Trust His timetable and that He is present through what you consider set-backs. Look for Him at work and ask God to help you see Him clearly. 4. Practice living with a mindset like Christ. • Let no grudges, bitterness, hatred, unforgiveness, or hurts take hold of your mind, heart, or spirit. • Don’t take anything for granted. Take moments captive for Christ. How would God desire you use what happens in your life? • Don’t expect perfect days. I’ve learned and matured more during hardship than have in ease. Look for God’s hand in everything you encounter. 5. Pay attention to the world. • Look at culture, your life, clothing, interests, etc. through the eyes of Christ. • Evaluate whether you are living for more of this world or living for the purpose you hold here. Ask God to show you where He desires you to change. Balance your view of life with appreciation and a heart centered on God to ensure you make the most of every opportunity. Ephesians 5:15-20 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Don’t live for moments, but in the moment God has gifted you. James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” We each have a choice. Are we living in the moment or for the moment? When you live in the moment, we can appreciate what God has gifted to us. We know time is short. This moment is all we are guaranteed. Proverbs 27:1 says, “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” If we are living for the moment, we tend to look only at that time, but not remember that the moments we have in this world are a gift; they are a time for serving the purposes our Father desires for us. It’s easy to live for moments. Births, weddings, celebrations, vacations, the list goes on. Never let the focus on milestones or desires overshadow your need to live in the moment you now possess. Jesus celebrated, too. Yet even in the midst of big events, He kept His eyes and heart on the eternal. Nothing was more important than serving His Father and knowing that God’s desires for Him were completed. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Dear Heavenly Father, You are our Savior and we place our trust in You. Help us to remember that You are good. You call us to You, to come in good or bad times, and to center our thoughts on You. Father, Your Word shows us the way. Your love carries us. If we let You. Help us to set our minds on You, not the things of this world. Let that mindset penetrate each area of our life. The only way we can do that is to continue to seek Your face, heart, and mindset in all ways. We must be at Your feet, humbling ourselves under You. We must seek Your face first and last each day, and in the moments between. You know the plans You have for us. May we look forward to the future You have set for us with endurance and joy that comes only from You and a close relationship with You. Help us to look to You, Lord, and use Your strength as You guide us in Your truth and ways. Help our hope remain in You as our face seeks Yours. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 127 - Living Fully in the Moment Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #127 – Living Fully in the Moment Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you ever wish for an exciting change in your life? Guess what? Each morning I get to live a new adventure in the world of Legos. Like clockwork, my youngest expects me to play with her before her day officially starts. As soon as she is out of bed with teeth brushed and medicine taken, we are connected in a world of make-believe. We’ve held this date for 7 years. Do you wonder whether it’s hard for us to maintain this schedule? Without fail, unless we have an errand that presses into our time, we do not deviate from our special time together. Sure, I think some might look at this as a trapping of sorts. To be honest, on days when I have a pressing schedule, it’s sometimes tempting to skip. Often many other things are pressing for my attention, and I’d have a valid reason (in my eyes, anyway) to say I’m just not able to play that day. Yet, God has shown me the importance, the blessing, and the privilege to connect with my girl in this special one-on-one way. Maybe it’s because I’m an older, or “do-over” mom, or maybe it’s because my heart has been pierced with loss and grieves for more time with my oldest daughter, but I understand the eternal value in these simple moments. Without a doubt, I believe that the communication we share and the trust my daughter has placed in me stems in a very large part from this simple, but dedicated time, to just sit together and play. Because I have proven myself reliable and we have bonded through this important way, my girl knows she can believe other things I tell her, ask her to do, or teach her. I’ve grabbed the opportunity to know her better through the very best way a child communicates – play. In a way, I’ve been gifted lost time, as well. Because I missed 9 years with my precious daughter, I recognize that God has miraculously gifted me the honor of being the one to teach her to play. Watching her learn the basics required for play were the beginning of a miracle that only He could supply. Although no one gave her time or recognition before, she has the most amazing imagination and ability to create. I’ve come to see facets of her personality and skills I would not have known otherwise. Because I appreciate our time together very much, a comment she made one day that she is glad I “am childishly playful” was one of the best compliments I have ever received. As I pondered what this opinion meant to her, the worth she received from the time I dedicated to her, and how it made me feel, I thought of God at the beginning of creation. Think of every animal, insect, bird, fish, human, continent, and on and on. Do you think God could have made all He has so superbly unique without being childishly playful? My point is that God wants us to enjoy life, to live in full appreciation of the moment, lest we miss it altogether and yearn a missed opportunity forever. Yet, He also wants us to view our moments with a heart that craves our eternal home with Him and seeks the value of what we are doing for His kingdom and our walk with Him. He desires that we view what we are living now with eyes and heart for how He will use it for eternity, whether we consider what we are going through to be good or bad, easy or hard. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” Our love for God should saturate our heart so that our motives always seek His glory. Our walk with God should build up the walk of another for Him. Knowing the relationship I am crafting with my daughter is not just for my joy and benefit, but is a mentorship for her and her relationship with Christ, I look at the time spent as an investment in her eternity. I believe there are 5 tips to help each of us to remember to live in the moment, yet be directed by a mind set on eternity. 1. Seek God’s direction for your life. Unless you are actively and humbly submitting to Christ moment by moment, you will be deceived by fleshly desires. • Commit to daily Bible Study – If daily reading or study is your goal, it will become a habit like brushing your teeth or making your bed. If an unexpected event happens and you are unable to read one day, you have a supply built inside to sustain you until the next day or you will miss it so much that you will look at even a few lines of the Bible to quench your thirst for truth. • Keep an open dialogue of prayer through each day and stop to speak and listen to your Heavenly Father. Through study of His Word, we come to know our Heavenly Father in new and authentic ways. As we pray to and listen for the Father, we are even more attuned to the Holy Spirit within us. 2. Pray for discernment in your commitments and activity level. • Let simplicity have more room in your life. When our schedules are too packed or we haven’t be led by the direction of our Father, we cannot hear the Holy Spirit or recognize His guidance. • Be purposed in what you commit to. Our regular activities make life busy, but balanced. What we commit to has been prayed over and is used for Christ. 3. Cultivate a grateful attitude. Look for reasons to be joyful. Everything serves a purpose in your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Rest in the arms of your Heavenly Father. Trust His timetable and that He is present through what you consider set-backs. Look for Him at work and ask God to help you see Him clearly. 4. Practice living with a mindset like Christ. • Let no grudges, bitterness, hatred, unforgiveness, or hurts take hold of your mind, heart, or spirit. • Don’t take anything for granted. Take moments captive for Christ. How would God desire you use what happens in your life? • Don’t expect perfect days. I’ve learned and matured more during hardship than have in ease. Look for God’s hand in everything you encounter. 5. Pay attention to the world. • Look at culture, your life, clothing, interests, etc. through the eyes of Christ. • Evaluate whether you are living for more of this world or living for the purpose you hold here. Ask God to show you where He desires you to change. Balance your view of life with appreciation and a heart centered on God to ensure you make the most of every opportunity. Ephesians 5:15-20 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Don’t live for moments, but in the moment God has gifted you. James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” We each have a choice. Are we living in the moment or for the moment? When you live in the moment, we can appreciate what God has gifted to us. We know time is short. This moment is all we are guaranteed. Proverbs 27:1 says, “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” If we are living for the moment, we tend to look only at that time, but not remember that the moments we have in this world are a gift; they are a time for serving the purposes our Father desires for us. It’s easy to live for moments. Births, weddings, celebrations, vacations, the list goes on. Never let the focus on milestones or desires overshadow your need to live in the moment you now possess. Jesus celebrated, too. Yet even in the midst of big events, He kept His eyes and heart on the eternal. Nothing was more important than serving His Father and knowing that God’s desires for Him were completed. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Dear Heavenly Father, You are our Savior and we place our trust in You. Help us to remember that You are good. You call us to You, to come in good or bad times, and to center our thoughts on You. Father, Your Word shows us the way. Your love carries us. If we let You. Help us to set our minds on You, not the things of this world. Let that mindset penetrate each area of our life. The only way we can do that is to continue to seek Your face, heart, and mindset in all ways. We must be at Your feet, humbling ourselves under You. We must seek Your face first and last each day, and in the moments between. You know the plans You have for us. May we look forward to the future You have set for us with endurance and joy that comes only from You and a close relationship with You. Help us to look to You, Lord, and use Your strength as You guide us in Your truth and ways. Help our hope remain in You as our face seeks Yours. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #119 – Conquer Overwhelm Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. What a month we’ve had at our house! Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, you can’t get ahead or things keep happening to throw your plans off-balance?? Maybe you can’t stay on schedule due to unexpected events. Perhaps your family has been through bouts of sickness. Or maybe you’re just tired from the various demands life brings. No matter the reason, I believe it’s sometimes easy to be discouraged, frustrated, or simply overwhelmed by life. We are traveling through a season of what I will just call, “too much” right now. So much going on and way too little sleep!! It’s not even that we’re overscheduled, although we are busy. Life simply happens whether or not we’re ready, and sometimes that means things pop up that demand our attention or that stop the plans already made as we’re forced to shift focus. For example, a few days ago I was washing dishes. We’ve had some illness in our home recently and I always double wash dishes the sick person has used. It usually takes about two weeks of extra washing before I’m convinced that the person is fully well and they aren’t contagious anymore. Right after I finished our two weeks recently, someone else got sick with another virus. Already weary from the first bout of illness, I was not enjoying double-washing dishes. As I thought about what a pain it was and how tired I was of doing it, I felt the Lord whisper to my spirit, “Don’t do this work because you have to keep people from getting sick. Do the work because you love the person you’re serving for Me.” If you want to conquer overwhelm, master your perspective. Release it to God and view your situation through His eternal viewpoint. Galatians 6:9 says, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Sometimes it feels impossible to complete a difficult task. It often feels impossible to release a stronghold in your life. Sometimes it feels like you can’t even make it through the day when one thing after feels like an attack formed against you. Everything builds up to form overwhelm. When this happens, stop to remember that feelings are just emotions. Emotions have no power unless you allow them to. Emotions are feelings that rise up within us to create strong sentiments. Sentiments reflect our attitude toward something, and our attitude can quickly cause anxiety. Unless we purposely take emotions, feelings, sentiments, or attitude captive and release them to the Lord, deceptive feelings easily and quickly morph into overwhelm. 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your anxiety on him because He cares for you.” No matter what situation or burden you are facing, know through the model Jesus set for each of us that you can submit your struggles to Him through prayer. I want to be clear on this point. Simply muttering a prayer, hoping that God hears it and changes everything so you can get back to your normal schedule isn’t what I mean. Nothing that has lasting value in our walk with Christ will come easily. It is only through release of self and purposed humility focused on growing our personal relationship with Christ that true change occurs. Standing freely in the grace of God and allowing Him to carry burdens takes determination and release of fleshly will. Jesus is our perfect example of a humble, obedient spirit releasing self. As Jesus turned to the Father through prayer, He also used the power of God’s word. Through prayer and scripture, we see Jesus model the way we are to come to God and offer self, thus truly trusting Him to do the work needed. With our selfish, limited vision we hope He changes our circumstances, making the day easier or more tolerable. Through the beauty of the gospel, however, we learn that submission brings glory to God. In His goodness, our Heavenly Father allows us to be cleansed and transformed through trials and daily occurrences. Instead of easily changing our day, God purposes to take our burdens and turn them into blessings that move us closer to Him and make us more like Him – even when we don’t think it feels good or comfortable. Even when life feels incredibly overwhelming. Jeremiah 1:19 says, “They will fight against you but will not overcome you, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” God’s truth makes the difference. When we rely on the legitimacy of God’s word to steady us, we understand that He is truthful; He is faithful. Walking closely with the Lord will prevent much of overwhelm. When we recognize that life is coming too fast or that we have lost peace, or we may not be feeling presence with God, it’s especially important to remember to react in those moments preceding great overwhelm. What we do before overwhelm washes over us like a flood sets the tone for our attitude. Attitude will determine our thoughts and actions or reactions. When overwhelm or agitation begins to creep into your spirit, stop to identify what is happening to cause the feelings or attitude you are experiencing. Remember the truth of your situation. It’s easy to get sucked into deceitful feelings and lies about our life and surroundings or events. Fear, trials, illness, lack of rest, new situations, and much more can work against us to create overwhelm. Isaiah 40:28-31 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary; His understanding is beyond searching out. He gives power to the faint and increases the strength of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall. But those who wait upon the Lord will renew their strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.” God is sufficient. He has the desire and the holy, sovereign ability to carry your burdens, while strengthening you in Him as He does. Everything in our life, small or large, is meant to be evaluated and purposed for His glory. The imperfections of our day or relationships, the scary emergencies or illnesses, the interruptions that frustrate or delay, and the strongholds that threaten to cripple or disable us are each allowed to bring forth the fruit of Christ in our life. They are allowed or purposed to bring us to our knees in front of a Holy God who loves us with an everlasting love and deeply desires that we rest in Him and rely on Him to carry us through the fires of life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” When we bring our burdens, overwhelm, or anxiety to the Lord, especially when we first notice it begin to take shape in our heart or mind, we grasp the perfect peace only God offers. God, the Author of peace carries it to us through the Holy Spirit within us. Through His presence, comfort, and protection, we are made new – and so is our attitude as He captures and rids us of overwhelm. Sometimes His help is instant. At other times, we may have been struggling to carry a sin or burden for too long on our own and it will take time to shed the fake covering we used to protect or hide us. Keep your eyes and mind focused on Christ, the true guide out of the confusion and chaos of overwhelm. Psalm 119:114 says, “You are my hiding place and my shield; I put my hope in Your word.” Through the Lord, we have a true hiding place, a strong and mighty shield to cover us despite whatever is happening in our life. How often do you trust God, accept His offer to find comfort and protection under His wing, to hide in His care? One of the reasons we put our hope in Him is because His word is true, it is powerful, it is alive. Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Because we have the light of Jesus and the word of God to illuminate our way, we can count on Him to shine His truths and peace into the dark corners of our world. No matter our obstacle, no matter the amount of overwhelm that creeps into our life, God is present and able to erase it and fill us with His peace that passes understanding. Through relying on Him and trusting that God will take captive of overwhelm before it becomes anxiety, we learn that: 1. God is present. 2. God is able to set us on a steady path. 3. God will allow us to learn faithfulness and provisions. 4. God will work through us to set us apart as a witness to others that He is competent. 5. God sees and hears us. 6. God cares about every detail. 7. God is our Mighty Rescuer. As you feel the spirit of overwhelm threaten to take over, I have 4 suggestions that may help. 1. Take a break from what you are doing (even when it feels like you can’t). 2. Focus on one thing at a time. 3. Voice how you feel (sometimes it helps to talk aloud to yourself and let the frustration out so you can focus clearly without emotional deceit). 4. Turn to God through prayer and/or scripture reading. The healing power of God never fails when our spirit humbly turns to Him. Dear Heavenly Father, how great Thou art! Father, thank you for Your goodness to us, despite the way we fail to grasp the love and guidance You have for us every moment, the peace You offer freely. Help us to delight in Your law day and night, and to be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which yields fruit in its season and its leaf does not wither. Father, enable us, to create such strong relationships with You that we don’t worry about life, what we will eat or drink; or about the burdens that assault from every angle. Help us to see the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet You provide for them. May we remember the provisions You offer that bring us eternal life, the only thing that matters. Search us, God, and know our heart; test us and know our anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in us, and lead us in the way everlasting, for we know Your grace is sufficient, Your power is made perfect in our weakness. May we allow Your work to be done and see the beauty of the masterpiece as You create it within us. May we allow the power of Christ to rest within us. May we carry the attitude that delights in weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and difficulties. For when we are weak, then we are strong in and through You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. I can suggest three episodes that tie to the topic we discussed today. Episode 82, “Peace That Guards,” Episode 84, “No Worry,” and Episode 2, “Protecting Our Thoughts.” Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 119 - Conquer Overwhelm Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #119 – Conquer Overwhelm Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. What a month we’ve had at our house! Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, you can’t get ahead or things keep happening to throw your plans off-balance?? Maybe you can’t stay on schedule due to unexpected events. Perhaps your family has been through bouts of sickness. Or maybe you’re just tired from the various demands life brings. No matter the reason, I believe it’s sometimes easy to be discouraged, frustrated, or simply overwhelmed by life. We are traveling through a season of what I will just call, “too much” right now. So much going on and way too little sleep!! It’s not even that we’re overscheduled, although we are busy. Life simply happens whether or not we’re ready, and sometimes that means things pop up that demand our attention or that stop the plans already made as we’re forced to shift focus. For example, a few days ago I was washing dishes. We’ve had some illness in our home recently and I always double wash dishes the sick person has used. It usually takes about two weeks of extra washing before I’m convinced that the person is fully well and they aren’t contagious anymore. Right after I finished our two weeks recently, someone else got sick with another virus. Already weary from the first bout of illness, I was not enjoying double-washing dishes. As I thought about what a pain it was and how tired I was of doing it, I felt the Lord whisper to my spirit, “Don’t do this work because you have to keep people from getting sick. Do the work because you love the person you’re serving for Me.” If you want to conquer overwhelm, master your perspective. Release it to God and view your situation through His eternal viewpoint. Galatians 6:9 says, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Sometimes it feels impossible to complete a difficult task. It often feels impossible to release a stronghold in your life. Sometimes it feels like you can’t even make it through the day when one thing after feels like an attack formed against you. Everything builds up to form overwhelm. When this happens, stop to remember that feelings are just emotions. Emotions have no power unless you allow them to. Emotions are feelings that rise up within us to create strong sentiments. Sentiments reflect our attitude toward something, and our attitude can quickly cause anxiety. Unless we purposely take emotions, feelings, sentiments, or attitude captive and release them to the Lord, deceptive feelings easily and quickly morph into overwhelm. 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Cast all your anxiety on him because He cares for you.” No matter what situation or burden you are facing, know through the model Jesus set for each of us that you can submit your struggles to Him through prayer. I want to be clear on this point. Simply muttering a prayer, hoping that God hears it and changes everything so you can get back to your normal schedule isn’t what I mean. Nothing that has lasting value in our walk with Christ will come easily. It is only through release of self and purposed humility focused on growing our personal relationship with Christ that true change occurs. Standing freely in the grace of God and allowing Him to carry burdens takes determination and release of fleshly will. Jesus is our perfect example of a humble, obedient spirit releasing self. As Jesus turned to the Father through prayer, He also used the power of God’s word. Through prayer and scripture, we see Jesus model the way we are to come to God and offer self, thus truly trusting Him to do the work needed. With our selfish, limited vision we hope He changes our circumstances, making the day easier or more tolerable. Through the beauty of the gospel, however, we learn that submission brings glory to God. In His goodness, our Heavenly Father allows us to be cleansed and transformed through trials and daily occurrences. Instead of easily changing our day, God purposes to take our burdens and turn them into blessings that move us closer to Him and make us more like Him – even when we don’t think it feels good or comfortable. Even when life feels incredibly overwhelming. Jeremiah 1:19 says, “They will fight against you but will not overcome you, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” God’s truth makes the difference. When we rely on the legitimacy of God’s word to steady us, we understand that He is truthful; He is faithful. Walking closely with the Lord will prevent much of overwhelm. When we recognize that life is coming too fast or that we have lost peace, or we may not be feeling presence with God, it’s especially important to remember to react in those moments preceding great overwhelm. What we do before overwhelm washes over us like a flood sets the tone for our attitude. Attitude will determine our thoughts and actions or reactions. When overwhelm or agitation begins to creep into your spirit, stop to identify what is happening to cause the feelings or attitude you are experiencing. Remember the truth of your situation. It’s easy to get sucked into deceitful feelings and lies about our life and surroundings or events. Fear, trials, illness, lack of rest, new situations, and much more can work against us to create overwhelm. Isaiah 40:28-31 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary; His understanding is beyond searching out. He gives power to the faint and increases the strength of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall. But those who wait upon the Lord will renew their strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.” God is sufficient. He has the desire and the holy, sovereign ability to carry your burdens, while strengthening you in Him as He does. Everything in our life, small or large, is meant to be evaluated and purposed for His glory. The imperfections of our day or relationships, the scary emergencies or illnesses, the interruptions that frustrate or delay, and the strongholds that threaten to cripple or disable us are each allowed to bring forth the fruit of Christ in our life. They are allowed or purposed to bring us to our knees in front of a Holy God who loves us with an everlasting love and deeply desires that we rest in Him and rely on Him to carry us through the fires of life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” When we bring our burdens, overwhelm, or anxiety to the Lord, especially when we first notice it begin to take shape in our heart or mind, we grasp the perfect peace only God offers. God, the Author of peace carries it to us through the Holy Spirit within us. Through His presence, comfort, and protection, we are made new – and so is our attitude as He captures and rids us of overwhelm. Sometimes His help is instant. At other times, we may have been struggling to carry a sin or burden for too long on our own and it will take time to shed the fake covering we used to protect or hide us. Keep your eyes and mind focused on Christ, the true guide out of the confusion and chaos of overwhelm. Psalm 119:114 says, “You are my hiding place and my shield; I put my hope in Your word.” Through the Lord, we have a true hiding place, a strong and mighty shield to cover us despite whatever is happening in our life. How often do you trust God, accept His offer to find comfort and protection under His wing, to hide in His care? One of the reasons we put our hope in Him is because His word is true, it is powerful, it is alive. Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Because we have the light of Jesus and the word of God to illuminate our way, we can count on Him to shine His truths and peace into the dark corners of our world. No matter our obstacle, no matter the amount of overwhelm that creeps into our life, God is present and able to erase it and fill us with His peace that passes understanding. Through relying on Him and trusting that God will take captive of overwhelm before it becomes anxiety, we learn that: 1. God is present. 2. God is able to set us on a steady path. 3. God will allow us to learn faithfulness and provisions. 4. God will work through us to set us apart as a witness to others that He is competent. 5. God sees and hears us. 6. God cares about every detail. 7. God is our Mighty Rescuer. As you feel the spirit of overwhelm threaten to take over, I have 4 suggestions that may help. 1. Take a break from what you are doing (even when it feels like you can’t). 2. Focus on one thing at a time. 3. Voice how you feel (sometimes it helps to talk aloud to yourself and let the frustration out so you can focus clearly without emotional deceit). 4. Turn to God through prayer and/or scripture reading. The healing power of God never fails when our spirit humbly turns to Him. Dear Heavenly Father, how great Thou art! Father, thank you for Your goodness to us, despite the way we fail to grasp the love and guidance You have for us every moment, the peace You offer freely. Help us to delight in Your law day and night, and to be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which yields fruit in its season and its leaf does not wither. Father, enable us, to create such strong relationships with You that we don’t worry about life, what we will eat or drink; or about the burdens that assault from every angle. Help us to see the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet You provide for them. May we remember the provisions You offer that bring us eternal life, the only thing that matters. Search us, God, and know our heart; test us and know our anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in us, and lead us in the way everlasting, for we know Your grace is sufficient, Your power is made perfect in our weakness. May we allow Your work to be done and see the beauty of the masterpiece as You create it within us. May we allow the power of Christ to rest within us. May we carry the attitude that delights in weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and difficulties. For when we are weak, then we are strong in and through You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. I can suggest three episodes that tie to the topic we discussed today. Episode 82, “Peace That Guards,” Episode 84, “No Worry,” and Episode 2, “Protecting Our Thoughts.” Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast - Episode 039 - How to Stop, Breathe, and Live Simply Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast God has given me a desire to help you mature your relationship with Christ so you’ll raise set-apart children for Jesus. Today we’ll look at another way to be purposed in connecting with your child and Christ. Episode #039 – How to Stop, Breathe, and Live Simply Yesterday my middle daughter and I went to the bank late in the afternoon. As we waited in the drive-through, I looked at her and asked, “When we finished here, do you want to go to the park and swing?” Her eyes lit up like they did when she was 6 years old and I would ask the same question. “Really?” she asked. “Yes!” I replied quickly. We had so much fun. We swinged with our legs in sync with each other, pumped as hard and high as we could go, and twisted the swings sideways, twisting the chains tightly, then letting go and getting dizzy as we unwound. We had the park to ourselves and we reveled in the simple sweetness of spending time together outside with absolutely no cares. I have always stated that people would be happier and exhibit more joy if they took time to be in nature and enjoy activities like swinging and coloring. We left when children arrived with their mother, allowing them to take control of the swings, but that time we had alone in the park brought back such sweet memories of the many, many times we spent there as my girl grew up. Just as with other “last times” in our lives, I never knew the last time I took her to that park would be the final time she would run and play with the carefree life of a young girl. It felt so good to go back and enjoy that feeling together. When is the last time you took time to stop, breathe, and live simply? How regularly do you step outside to listen to the birds sing? Have you recently explored wooded trails or searched for insects to study in your backyard? Being so connected to nature is one of the ways to connect closer to God. I believe being outside allows our mind to connect with His love, creativity, passions, and longings. Our muscles unwind and relax, and out attitudes become softer. After all, we were created to be outdoors attuned to His creation. Philippians 4:12 says, “ I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want .” Sharing time in nature with our children, no matter their age, brings connection. Chores and jobs cease to exist for a time. Problems or concerns drift away as we experience freedom and fullness. Of course, you create connection with your child with any activity you do. There is just something special about fueling your body in nature. Spending time surrounded by the creations of God together, recognizing Him and His glory simply adds a special bond and beauty to your relationship. If you are a regular listener of this podcast or the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast, I have explained in previous episodes that I am taking time to fully enjoy summer. I plan to rerun some popular podcasts and create shorter new ones. It is my hope that you are outside with your family or are spending time relaxing and living simply with them. I hope you are allowing yourself to build what needs to be completed and are stopping to breathe in the sweet time you have with those closest to you and those you wish to be closer to. Make the time. Stop and enjoy life. Enjoy nature. Enjoy each other and praise the Fahter.You will be glad you did. Dear Heavenly Father, You are the One we need to make the most time for. You alone are the One who complete us, who created us for a purpose at this very time. We thank you for the gift of life and the gift of Christ. Help us to seek Him daily and allow a transformation of our soul to match His with a clarity seen by those around us. Please carry us and allow us to shine in new ways daily because we so clearly reflect You. Help us to make the time to pursue You and to show You clearly to our children. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This summer the episodes will be shorter and I may occasionally offer favorite replays as I spend time with my family and follow a special collective I believe God is calling me to complete for Him. Remember, this podcast, and the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast, may be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcasts online so that more people are allowed to find and hear them. Will you please take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Parent and Connect With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #115 – A Joyful Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Thirteen years ago I faced my biggest fear. I lost a child. When my oldest daughter died, the life I knew ended. Dreams died. My future was forever altered. Our family would never be the same. I don’t know if it is really what the end of life is like, but when I hear stories of how your life supposedly flashes before you, it makes sense. Once the initial news and notifications to loved ones was over, like a slideshow, memories of my first baby rolled through my mind, especially when I tried to sleep. Before that moment, I lived in a safe world. Although I had experienced hardships and trials, I had never lost one of my children. Losing a child was a trauma I had seen others experience and it broke my heart to see families suffer in this way. I never wanted to be part of “that club.” Before heartbreak that deep, I naively thought I would go before my children, in fact, I expected it. When I hadn’t yet dealt with loss that severe, I still lived untouched in the bubble that floats just above the grief of others, bouncing down to feel their pain and minister to them, but light enough to flutter back to safety. After my bubble burst and I landed on the path of grief so deep and heavy I had to remind myself to breathe, I knew I was experiencing God in a profound way I didn’t know existed. I often explain it by saying God lifted the veil. The Lord became flesh and carried me. What my heart had trusted became the hope that proved it could lead me in ways I never needed before. Faith became sight. Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped.” Because people know of my loss, I am often asked how I find joy in life, despite circumstances. Psalm 30:5b says, “Weeping may stay the night, but joy comes in the morning.” Each of us experience pain. What we grieve from or suffer as loss cannot be measured by another because we are individual and no experience is the same. Yet, because God has gifted most of us with the beautiful qualities of empathy and sympathy, we can unite with another, bringing comfort or happiness for a time, but we cannot give a joy that lasts. God alone is the founder and giver of deep joy. Far different than what the world seeks and calls happiness, joy reaches to the deepest region of our soul and cannot be shaken by anything we encounter in this world. Happiness is fleeting like the feeling you get when you receive a gift, eat a special treat, or experience the vacation of a lifetime. Joy comes from a peace and trust rooted by Christ and growing within a maturing believer as we experience the fullness of the power of God. Acts 14:22b says, “They encouraged them to continue in the faith, reminding them that we must suffer many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God.” Jesus taught His disciples that there are 8 characteristics which describe the inner joy of one who truly follows Him. We find them in Matthew 5:3-10, which says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” What are the 8 characteristics that Jesus says bring joy? Let’s look more closely at the verses I read and examine them with a heart for eternity. 1. Humility - Matthew 5:3 says the poor in spirit. Let’s define poor in spirit. The poor in spirit doesn’t mean one habitually depressed or mopey as it may sound, but one who is humble. When our heart recognizes our spiritual need for our Heavenly Father and we seek Him above self or anything found in this world, the Holy Spirit does a great work within us, allowing us the ability to find pure joy through Him. 2. Grieving - Matthew 5:4 says the ones who mourn. When this world crushes us with pain or grief, those who mourn can find solace through Jesus. In Greek, the word comforted is also used to describe the Holy Spirit’s miraculous ministry in our life, the only practice that brings lasting joy through pain. Jesus is absolutely everything He says, and that the Word of God proclaims. When I was in need of deep comfort, He never failed me. I made sure I stayed near to Him, drawing as close as I could, asking for His care, and the Lord ministered to me in intimate ways specifically tailored to my needs. He does the same for each of us. 3. Meekness - Matthew 5:5 says those who are meek. It has been said that meekness is not weakness, but power under control. In my experience, this can only be secured through allowing the Holy Spirit to mold and transform me moment by moment. By trusting in Jesus, meekness brings humility to the forefront of our mind and spirit and fills us with a joy that surpasses human understanding as He works in and through us. 4. Holiness - Matthew 5:6 says those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. As shown in Psalm 16:11, which says, “Thou wilt show me the path of life: In thy presence is fulness of joy; In thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.” When we seek the presence of God and delight in what He calls justice or holy, we find true fullness of joy. 5. Mercifulness - Matthew 5:7 says those who are merciful. Through the power of the Holy Spirit within a believer, we find a holy ability to offer compassionate, cheerful, constructive love to those who suffer and receive deep joy in return as Christ works through us. 6. Purity - Matthew 5:8 says the pure in heart. Only Jesus within us in the form of the Holy Spirit gives us the ability to desire and form holy thoughts and motives. Scripture teaches us that those who live with pure hearts receive the blessing of deep and lasting joy from Christ. 7. Mediator - Matthew 5:9 says those who are peacemakers. The word peacemakers comes from a verb meaning “to join together.” Imagine two opposing forces being reconciled, coming together as one, and we better understand the way a peacemaker completes his work. As we help others reconcile with God, our Father, we experience massive joy and holy exultation deep within our spirit. 8. Persecution - Matthew 5:10 says those who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness. No one desires suffering, especially not punishment for living a righteous life connected to Christ. Jesus assured us that when we remain steadfast and loyal to Him, even when we are persecuted for our faith, He will reward with a great and joyful blessing. Connecting our mindset and heartset to Jesus, His view of life, and of this world frees us from the burdens that drag us from Him and equip us with His joy as we rest in His arms. We see and experience life differently and live in expectation for eternity with Him. Joy is a choice. Why? Because we must each choose to allow Christ to work within us. We must choose to live in the ways He calls, trusting that He is good and He is right. Joy visits when our spirit seeks Him and the ground is fertile for joy to erupt and mature. Keep pursuing your walk with God through Jesus. Only He has the power to transform lives. He is the One who meets every need we are searching for. He alone gives permanent joy in place of fleeting happiness. Happiness bursts in, then seeps out; joy permanently shines from within. Philippians 4:4-8 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be apparent to all. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” Jesus doesn’t promise that His joy will free us from experiencing the burdens and pains of this world. What He promises is of far greater significance. While we are in the midst of pain, He gives us a joy that allows us holy connection which carries us beyond our suffering as we keep our mind on Him. Reliance on Jesus gives hope and security even when all we love or think we must have is snatched away. His joy reminds us to focus on Him, to rely on Him, and to rejoice in Him at all times, trusting that He has a purpose for our suffering as He carries us through every storm. When I was asked about joy after losing my daughter, I honestly didn’t even realize that joy was showing. I simply kept my eyes focused on the Lord, clinging tightly to my Lifeline. Jesus was my anchor; the foundation that kept me steady. Miraculously, the Holy Spirit worked within me when I had no energy or thoughts of the word, joy. Just as He promised, the Lord was present, moving to provide and sustain me in ways only He can promise and deliver. John 15:9-11 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Remain in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Dear Gracious, Loving Heavenly Father. Just as Jesus prayed, Your kingdom come, Your will be done, we pray in Your Holy name. Allow us your mercy and joy through each moment. Happiness is fleeting, but Your joy is our sustenance. You are our strength and salvation. You are our God and we will praise You despite circumstances, expecting Your joy to carry us. We trust You, Father and know that You are good. Keep us looking to and following You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 115 - A Joyful Life Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #115 – A Joyful Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Thirteen years ago I faced my biggest fear. I lost a child. When my oldest daughter died, the life I knew ended. Dreams died. My future was forever altered. Our family would never be the same. I don’t know if it is really what the end of life is like, but when I hear stories of how your life supposedly flashes before you, it makes sense. Once the initial news and notifications to loved ones was over, like a slideshow, memories of my first baby rolled through my mind, especially when I tried to sleep. Before that moment, I lived in a safe world. Although I had experienced hardships and trials, I had never lost one of my children. Losing a child was a trauma I had seen others experience and it broke my heart to see families suffer in this way. I never wanted to be part of “that club.” Before heartbreak that deep, I naively thought I would go before my children, in fact, I expected it. When I hadn’t yet dealt with loss that severe, I still lived untouched in the bubble that floats just above the grief of others, bouncing down to feel their pain and minister to them, but light enough to flutter back to safety. After my bubble burst and I landed on the path of grief so deep and heavy I had to remind myself to breathe, I knew I was experiencing God in a profound way I didn’t know existed. I often explain it by saying God lifted the veil. The Lord became flesh and carried me. What my heart had trusted became the hope that proved it could lead me in ways I never needed before. Faith became sight. Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped.” Because people know of my loss, I am often asked how I find joy in life, despite circumstances. Psalm 30:5b says, “Weeping may stay the night, but joy comes in the morning.” Each of us experience pain. What we grieve from or suffer as loss cannot be measured by another because we are individual and no experience is the same. Yet, because God has gifted most of us with the beautiful qualities of empathy and sympathy, we can unite with another, bringing comfort or happiness for a time, but we cannot give a joy that lasts. God alone is the founder and giver of deep joy. Far different than what the world seeks and calls happiness, joy reaches to the deepest region of our soul and cannot be shaken by anything we encounter in this world. Happiness is fleeting like the feeling you get when you receive a gift, eat a special treat, or experience the vacation of a lifetime. Joy comes from a peace and trust rooted by Christ and growing within a maturing believer as we experience the fullness of the power of God. Acts 14:22b says, “They encouraged them to continue in the faith, reminding them that we must suffer many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God.” Jesus taught His disciples that there are 8 characteristics which describe the inner joy of one who truly follows Him. We find them in Matthew 5:3-10, which says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” What are the 8 characteristics that Jesus says bring joy? Let’s look more closely at the verses I read and examine them with a heart for eternity. 1. Humility - Matthew 5:3 says the poor in spirit. Let’s define poor in spirit. The poor in spirit doesn’t mean one habitually depressed or mopey as it may sound, but one who is humble. When our heart recognizes our spiritual need for our Heavenly Father and we seek Him above self or anything found in this world, the Holy Spirit does a great work within us, allowing us the ability to find pure joy through Him. 2. Grieving - Matthew 5:4 says the ones who mourn. When this world crushes us with pain or grief, those who mourn can find solace through Jesus. In Greek, the word comforted is also used to describe the Holy Spirit’s miraculous ministry in our life, the only practice that brings lasting joy through pain. Jesus is absolutely everything He says, and that the Word of God proclaims. When I was in need of deep comfort, He never failed me. I made sure I stayed near to Him, drawing as close as I could, asking for His care, and the Lord ministered to me in intimate ways specifically tailored to my needs. He does the same for each of us. 3. Meekness - Matthew 5:5 says those who are meek. It has been said that meekness is not weakness, but power under control. In my experience, this can only be secured through allowing the Holy Spirit to mold and transform me moment by moment. By trusting in Jesus, meekness brings humility to the forefront of our mind and spirit and fills us with a joy that surpasses human understanding as He works in and through us. 4. Holiness - Matthew 5:6 says those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. As shown in Psalm 16:11, which says, “Thou wilt show me the path of life: In thy presence is fulness of joy; In thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.” When we seek the presence of God and delight in what He calls justice or holy, we find true fullness of joy. 5. Mercifulness - Matthew 5:7 says those who are merciful. Through the power of the Holy Spirit within a believer, we find a holy ability to offer compassionate, cheerful, constructive love to those who suffer and receive deep joy in return as Christ works through us. 6. Purity - Matthew 5:8 says the pure in heart. Only Jesus within us in the form of the Holy Spirit gives us the ability to desire and form holy thoughts and motives. Scripture teaches us that those who live with pure hearts receive the blessing of deep and lasting joy from Christ. 7. Mediator - Matthew 5:9 says those who are peacemakers. The word peacemakers comes from a verb meaning “to join together.” Imagine two opposing forces being reconciled, coming together as one, and we better understand the way a peacemaker completes his work. As we help others reconcile with God, our Father, we experience massive joy and holy exultation deep within our spirit. 8. Persecution - Matthew 5:10 says those who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness. No one desires suffering, especially not punishment for living a righteous life connected to Christ. Jesus assured us that when we remain steadfast and loyal to Him, even when we are persecuted for our faith, He will reward with a great and joyful blessing. Connecting our mindset and heartset to Jesus, His view of life, and of this world frees us from the burdens that drag us from Him and equip us with His joy as we rest in His arms. We see and experience life differently and live in expectation for eternity with Him. Joy is a choice. Why? Because we must each choose to allow Christ to work within us. We must choose to live in the ways He calls, trusting that He is good and He is right. Joy visits when our spirit seeks Him and the ground is fertile for joy to erupt and mature. Keep pursuing your walk with God through Jesus. Only He has the power to transform lives. He is the One who meets every need we are searching for. He alone gives permanent joy in place of fleeting happiness. Happiness bursts in, then seeps out; joy permanently shines from within. Philippians 4:4-8 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be apparent to all. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” Jesus doesn’t promise that His joy will free us from experiencing the burdens and pains of this world. What He promises is of far greater significance. While we are in the midst of pain, He gives us a joy that allows us holy connection which carries us beyond our suffering as we keep our mind on Him. Reliance on Jesus gives hope and security even when all we love or think we must have is snatched away. His joy reminds us to focus on Him, to rely on Him, and to rejoice in Him at all times, trusting that He has a purpose for our suffering as He carries us through every storm. When I was asked about joy after losing my daughter, I honestly didn’t even realize that joy was showing. I simply kept my eyes focused on the Lord, clinging tightly to my Lifeline. Jesus was my anchor; the foundation that kept me steady. Miraculously, the Holy Spirit worked within me when I had no energy or thoughts of the word, joy. Just as He promised, the Lord was present, moving to provide and sustain me in ways only He can promise and deliver. John 15:9-11 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Remain in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Dear Gracious, Loving Heavenly Father. Just as Jesus prayed, Your kingdom come, Your will be done, we pray in Your Holy name. Allow us your mercy and joy through each moment. Happiness is fleeting, but Your joy is our sustenance. You are our strength and salvation. You are our God and we will praise You despite circumstances, expecting Your joy to carry us. We trust You, Father and know that You are good. Keep us looking to and following You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 024 Kristin Burks Interview Listen to Episode http://www.jadonshope.org

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #105 – God is Present in the Darkness Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 112:4 says, “Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for those who are gracious and compassionate and righteous.” One evening last week I dropped my middle daughter off at an event and told my youngest we would do something special together while we were waiting for her sister. We were quite a distance from home, so we didn’t know the area at all, but I was confident we could find something to do together. After leaving Marissa, I plugged in the name of a local place to get food or drink, but the navigation system said the nearest location was 200 miles away. Knowing that my system, or “Navi,” as we like to call it, is often simply wrong, I typed in another destination I thought would bring up results. After receiving info, I selected an option and drove off, knowing Brooklyn and I would share some fun over the next 90 minutes. After driving away, I followed exactly where “Navi” guided me to go, and ended up with uncertainty surrounding us on an unfamiliar, one-lane gravel road. Light barely shined from my headlights as they attempted to pierce the blackness. Although it wasn’t all one-lane, almost all of it was in total darkness, except for the “too-bright” lights of occasional other cars headed in the opposite direction. Driving in the country on unlit gravel roads and highways are not my idea of fun or relaxation. Wanting to be calm in front of my daughter, so that she did not worry, I shifted my priority to remaining in prayer along the journey. Deep in thoughtful conversation and petition, I kept hearing myself ask God to keep us safe, show us the way to civilization, keep us from hitting any deer, and keep any deer from hitting our car. Prayer and connection with the Lord was all that separated me from fear. Instead of building anxiety, my level of peace began rising with each word spoken to my Father. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” After about 15 minutes of concentrated connection through prayer, especially concerning deer, I passed a large buck just standing on the side of the road. Only about six feet separated us. As our car passed by him, the creature watched us, yet his body remained in place. I knew with certainty that God had stilled him until our car moved by. At that moment, I felt the peaceful, intimate voice of God whispering to my spirit, “I see you. I hear you. I am always with you.” Romans 8:26 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.” I believe the Holy Spirit impressed the importance of praying about deer specifically. During the drive I felt a quiet urgency to pray for protection. Because it was constant and steady without being alarming, I chose to heed the call and obey through prayer. Seeing the deer standing by the side of the road, I felt the animal was a symbol of the protection God supplied because I obeyed and cried out to Him. Although He didn’t need to prove Himself, God allowed me a special glimpse of the personal care He intimately chose for us that night. Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” The Lord is gracious and full of compassion. He is merciful and His provisions are perfect for our needs. God is gracious to us in our times of need, distress, or confusion. He is the Light in the Darkness, our Beacon of Hope. Psalm 27:1 says, “The Lord is my light and my salvation— so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?” How often God provides for us. Daily, He goes before, around, and behind us, without our knowledge. He is constantly at work. The Lord knows each second of our day, what every need is and will be, and how He will provide. God understands where we are weak, where we need to be weakened, and when we will humbly submit to His providential care. Lamentations 3:25 says, “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him.” As unease began to seep into my consciousness that night, I remember thinking that fear never comes from God. My prayers immediately began, forming a wall of spiritual protection between the devil’s schemes and God’s promise as spoken in Jeremiah 1:8, which says, “Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” It is so easy for our eyes to slip from the Lord. Don’t allow it to happen. We must live with purpose, each moment, with invisible blinders on, guarding our vision, just as trainers do with horses, for example. With blinders on, our gaze is directed up, singled to, and fixed on the Lord, who is able to calm us, protect us, and comfort us. With our attention on Him, it is diverted from a world of chaos and confusion. Nothing in this world or within our spirit is able to comfort or calm. Left alone, our weak fleshly body and mind will spiral to fear, doubt, anxiety, depression, worry, or a host of other emotions. Yet, with God, we have hope. We have release. We have relief. With God, we have promise. Even if we do not feel him, He is present. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me.” In order to remember and draw from His strength, we must be and stay connected. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.” Purpose to spend time with the Father this week. Remain connected. Sit with Him in prayer and reflection. Read His word. Let Jesus know He is a priority. Ask Him to enable you to live the life He has purposed for you. Watch for the quiet ways He is at work in your life. It does not matter how busy our lives are. Excuses are easy to find. Peace, hope, joy, and love, as well as any other fruit of the Spirit, will not abide within us unless He does and we allow His mighty work within us and our life. Make an appointment with Jesus each day. Before you realize it, you will walk with Him intimately each moment. Prayers will easily slip from your mind, heart, and lips without realizing the thoughts or words because your spirit is intertwined with His. Time with Jesus is a gift, an honor we cannot forget to embrace each day. Look for new ways to spend moments with Him today, soak in His word, apply it in your life, and allow the Lord to expose to you new ways to live with eternal perspective. Dear Heavenly Father, our good and gracious Lord, thank you for Your help and comfort us to us. We have seen Your goodness. We watch for and hope in you. We trust that Your ears are open to our cries, calls, and pleas for help. Enable us to live in ways that show our devotion to You. Grow our walk with You so that we never leave Your presence. Grow our walk so that others will seek Your presence because of the way they see You in our lives. You are good. Help us to see You in each day and sing Your praises to those around us. May they see You in our words, actions, reactions, and in any circumstance we find ourselves in. Show us the ways You desire us to live with an eternal perspective beyond this world and help us to shine them to others through the way we embrace living with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 105 God is Present in the Darkness Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #105 – God is Present in the Darkness Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 112:4 says, “Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for those who are gracious and compassionate and righteous.” One evening last week I dropped my middle daughter off at an event and told my youngest we would do something special together while we were waiting for her sister. We were quite a distance from home, so we didn’t know the area at all, but I was confident we could find something to do together. After leaving Marissa, I plugged in the name of a local place to get food or drink, but the navigation system said the nearest location was 200 miles away. Knowing that my system, or “Navi,” as we like to call it, is often simply wrong, I typed in another destination I thought would bring up results. After receiving info, I selected an option and drove off, knowing Brooklyn and I would share some fun over the next 90 minutes. After driving away, I followed exactly where “Navi” guided me to go, and ended up with uncertainty surrounding us on an unfamiliar, one-lane gravel road. Light barely shined from my headlights as they attempted to pierce the blackness. Although it wasn’t all one-lane, almost all of it was in total darkness, except for the “too-bright” lights of occasional other cars headed in the opposite direction. Driving in the country on unlit gravel roads and highways are not my idea of fun or relaxation. Wanting to be calm in front of my daughter, so that she did not worry, I shifted my priority to remaining in prayer along the journey. Deep in thoughtful conversation and petition, I kept hearing myself ask God to keep us safe, show us the way to civilization, keep us from hitting any deer, and keep any deer from hitting our car. Prayer and connection with the Lord was all that separated me from fear. Instead of building anxiety, my level of peace began rising with each word spoken to my Father. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” After about 15 minutes of concentrated connection through prayer, especially concerning deer, I passed a large buck just standing on the side of the road. Only about six feet separated us. As our car passed by him, the creature watched us, yet his body remained in place. I knew with certainty that God had stilled him until our car moved by. At that moment, I felt the peaceful, intimate voice of God whispering to my spirit, “I see you. I hear you. I am always with you.” Romans 8:26 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.” I believe the Holy Spirit impressed the importance of praying about deer specifically. During the drive I felt a quiet urgency to pray for protection. Because it was constant and steady without being alarming, I chose to heed the call and obey through prayer. Seeing the deer standing by the side of the road, I felt the animal was a symbol of the protection God supplied because I obeyed and cried out to Him. Although He didn’t need to prove Himself, God allowed me a special glimpse of the personal care He intimately chose for us that night. Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” The Lord is gracious and full of compassion. He is merciful and His provisions are perfect for our needs. God is gracious to us in our times of need, distress, or confusion. He is the Light in the Darkness, our Beacon of Hope. Psalm 27:1 says, “The Lord is my light and my salvation— so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?” How often God provides for us. Daily, He goes before, around, and behind us, without our knowledge. He is constantly at work. The Lord knows each second of our day, what every need is and will be, and how He will provide. God understands where we are weak, where we need to be weakened, and when we will humbly submit to His providential care. Lamentations 3:25 says, “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him.” As unease began to seep into my consciousness that night, I remember thinking that fear never comes from God. My prayers immediately began, forming a wall of spiritual protection between the devil’s schemes and God’s promise as spoken in Jeremiah 1:8, which says, “Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” It is so easy for our eyes to slip from the Lord. Don’t allow it to happen. We must live with purpose, each moment, with invisible blinders on, guarding our vision, just as trainers do with horses, for example. With blinders on, our gaze is directed up, singled to, and fixed on the Lord, who is able to calm us, protect us, and comfort us. With our attention on Him, it is diverted from a world of chaos and confusion. Nothing in this world or within our spirit is able to comfort or calm. Left alone, our weak fleshly body and mind will spiral to fear, doubt, anxiety, depression, worry, or a host of other emotions. Yet, with God, we have hope. We have release. We have relief. With God, we have promise. Even if we do not feel him, He is present. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me.” In order to remember and draw from His strength, we must be and stay connected. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.” Purpose to spend time with the Father this week. Remain connected. Sit with Him in prayer and reflection. Read His word. Let Jesus know He is a priority. Ask Him to enable you to live the life He has purposed for you. Watch for the quiet ways He is at work in your life. It does not matter how busy our lives are. Excuses are easy to find. Peace, hope, joy, and love, as well as any other fruit of the Spirit, will not abide within us unless He does and we allow His mighty work within us and our life. Make an appointment with Jesus each day. Before you realize it, you will walk with Him intimately each moment. Prayers will easily slip from your mind, heart, and lips without realizing the thoughts or words because your spirit is intertwined with His. Time with Jesus is a gift, an honor we cannot forget to embrace each day. Look for new ways to spend moments with Him today, soak in His word, apply it in your life, and allow the Lord to expose to you new ways to live with eternal perspective. Dear Heavenly Father, our good and gracious Lord, thank you for Your help and comfort us to us. We have seen Your goodness. We watch for and hope in you. We trust that Your ears are open to our cries, calls, and pleas for help. Enable us to live in ways that show our devotion to You. Grow our walk with You so that we never leave Your presence. Grow our walk so that others will seek Your presence because of the way they see You in our lives. You are good. Help us to see You in each day and sing Your praises to those around us. May they see You in our words, actions, reactions, and in any circumstance we find ourselves in. Show us the ways You desire us to live with an eternal perspective beyond this world and help us to shine them to others through the way we embrace living with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 138 - How to Raise Kids Who Think Critically and Biblically Godly Motherhood podcast – Episode 138 – How to Raise Kids Who Think Critically and Biblically Welcome to the Godly Motherhood podcast. If you’re a mom, you can’t parent in your strength. The Good News is that you aren’t supposed to. On this podcast I’ll mentor how to rest and abide in the Father’s arms. Through Him, you’ll be carried - and capable of raising each unique child entrusted to your care as you teach them to chase Christ over culture moment by moment. Just last week, I released Godly Motherhood Podcast Episode # 137 – entitled, “How to Parent Kids to Be in the World, But Not Like It.” This week’s episode is an extension of that episode. This is Episode 138 – How to Raise Kids to Think Critically and Biblically Portions of this episode have been taken from previous episodes as I’m deep in edits for my book, “The Good Mom Trap” book that releases December 2, 2025. To get the latest updates, visit terrihitt.com/book. Quite a while back I was reading an article about critical thinking in the body of the church. At first the ideas and information seemed accurate. But I quickly found myself surprised by shifts in the tone as ideas and information began to sound “off” to me. So as I read a little more, I paid closer attention. I stopped skimming words, and sought to identify whether man or God’s words and wisdom were being revealed. The longer I read the more I detected a worldly perspective instead of God’s wisdom shared. When I checked the credentials of the author, I found that they supported teachings never seen in the Bible. Thankful that God made the carefully cloaked deceit clear to me, I stopped reading the article. While it’s good to be informed of teachings that stand opposed to Scriptural truths, we don’t have to take them in if we choose not to. I’d read enough of this article to know that I was finished listening to the deceit. This is an example of the importance of knowing biblical truth. As parents, teaching discernment through biblical wisdom and understanding is the only way we can expect to properly present God’s truths to our watching children. It is the way we guide, grow, and guard their biblical critical thinking. If you aren’t actively studying God’s Word and intentionally teaching the truths of Christ to enable your children to develop critical thinking skills that pursue His godliness, the world will sway your children away from His truths. Every area of life is affected by whether you and your child have the ability to critically think through the biblical truths and lens of God. Consider the various areas in which believers should live in alignment with God’s truths. Would eternity be affected if you or your child didn’t have the ability to critically think through a biblical worldview with each topic? Bible Knowledge Family Lifestyle Desires Worship Gratitude Decisions Mindset Marriage Parenthood Deepening walk with God through relationship with Jesus Bible Study Understanding Bible Truths Understanding Bible stories Understanding current worldviews through a biblical lens Conversations/Questions/Personal Reflection Service Prayer Life Integration of faith and studies in school Mentoring Christ As we list these areas of life, do you see how each one carries the need to think with godly, critical, and biblical wisdom? Without this skill, you and your child may slowly conform to the pattern of this world before you realize the change. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will .” In a world where society promotes self-interests above all else and encourages doing “what feels good” and “living your own truth,” it is imperative that our children have intimate knowledge of God’s Word and the ability to center His wisdom as the foundation on which they measure and assess cultural messaging and personal feelings or emotions. As parents, we must also possess this ability and live with a biblical worldview daily for our children to witness and be taught with intention. 1 Thessalonians 5:21 says, “But test everything; hold fast what is good .” Without salvation through Christ, knowledge and understanding of God’s Holy Word, and the ability to critically apply them in your life, you and your children cannot expect that a biblically wise result will occur. As you navigate this world, hold fast to what is good , as stated in God’s Word. This will allow you to learn and grow in His knowledge, wisdom, and insight as you navigate this culture so opposite to our Heavenly Father’s truths. Proverbs 2:6 says, “For the Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding .” Are you wondering how you can ensure your children develop biblical critical thinking skills? I believe it is first wise to consider that we and our children must realize people won’t stop to think critically with an eternal perspective worldview if we haven’t purposely trained our heart and mind in that manner. Proper biblical instruction and relationship with God through Jesus are the first steps to take in order to ensure that the Holy Spirit is alive within to bring needed discernment for higher level, godly critical thinking. It's also important to note that living a life devoted to slowing down instead of rushing is important. When we are rushed or forced to make fast decisions, we usually move with what is easiest or may react on impulse to save time. Teach your children that when something doesn’t make sense, or if they are confused or fearful, it is a signal that they must make time to pray, seek God’s wisdom through His Word, and speak with someone they trust to lead with godly advice. It’s also very important to test guidance with biblical discernment before you or your children allow the influence of another. Watch to see if their actions and words align with not only what they say they believe, but more importantly, what God’s Word says and calls. Matthew 24:4 – “And Jesus answered them, “See that no one leads you astray .” Help your children build the framework for establishing biblical critical thinking by teaching them to compare everything heard, seen, or taught against the Bible. Is the source of information godly? Is the source credible – not just through worldly expectations, but God’s? Is the source of information experienced in the Word of God and His truths? What is the motive and perspective of the source? Is the information the opinion of the source or is it fact backed by Scripture and/or biblical values? 1 John 4:1 – “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world .” Most of what our children read and learn in school, see on television, hear in music, advertisements, and through peers or social media is worldly opinion clothed as fact. These man-made values often contain liberal, cultural doctrine woven throughout to make them enticing. Sometimes they may even carry a tiny bit of truth as defined by God, just to cause enough confusion in the mind of your child and they view it as fact. Just as Satan twisted God’s truth to Eve in the garden. Public institutions push children through like they’re on an assembly line without allowing or encouraging the ability to think critically (and certainly not biblically). Students are graduating without absorbing and processing information through a biblical lens that produces godly discernment. Children and young adults are unable to differentiate between fact, fallacy, or opinion. Without aware parents who set the priority for their children to grasp the ability to think biblically and critically, students become adults living and processing life through flawed, worldly views. Public schools, as well as some private institutions, like to teach children to memorize or repeat facts learned through the instructor or read in a classroom textbook. Homework and drills enforce the ideas and trap the student to live a life of moving from one subject to another without needed time to absorb material and build a framework for critical thinking. Proverbs 14 :15 says, “The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps.” Commit to teaching your children how to think biblically and critically, instead of teaching them what to think. As you live and mentor God’s truths to your children, and teach them the privilege of applying biblical critical reasoning, you enable them to mature their walk with Christ. You help them find the ability to critically think through a biblical lens, and grant them the privilege of navigating this fallen world with grace and hope bound through eternal perspective. Teach your children to use the mind God created for them to process material with reflective thinking that allows biblical consideration. This will lead to beliefs, actions, and reactions pleasing to Him. Remember, your child must be taught the ability to critically scrutinize ideals instead of passively accepting everything learned at pure face value. Make sure your children learn the truths of God and use them to assess what seems to be truth in this world. This will be a great motivator and protector of their beliefs and actions. John 8:32 says, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free .” Your child must be enabled and made aware to use the mind God created for His good, to draw upon, and reflect His wisdom when receiving information, identifying problems, analyzing ideas, creating solutions, and making connections. Your child will be empowered to use biblical discernment in complex and everyday challenges and not be swayed by peers, social media, cultural beliefs and practices, or fleshly desires. When identity and perspective are formed through the biblical, truth-filled lens of God your child is equipped to navigate this world with joy, peace, and a desire to discover what is good, pure, and true. He will be equipped and encouraged to live in a confusing world which sways him to accept the opposite of God’s desires. He’ll be far less likely to succumb to deceitful and harmful enticements. He shouldn’t be tempted to believe anything just because it’s popular and will use the mind God gave him to assess and extract God’s truths and teachings before making decisions. Firmly set in biblical truths and desires, your child will navigate life in this world with his heart and vision cast on eternity because he was taught to think critically and biblically. Here’s a personal story I’d like to share with you: Since my youngest daughter came to be a member of our family when she was already at the age of nine, her personality was well-formed. Despite extreme neglect and isolation in her early years, certain mannerisms, habits, and temperament were well-formed. I recognized that character was still a very pliable area, and we focused on teaching her what love looked like, that she could trust us, that she was safe, and let her see the type of character we, her family members carried. After those things became real, understandable, and valuable to her, and she formed a stronger grasp on the English language, we were able to begin showing and teaching her the character of God. Although she was not taught to think critically, we noticed early on during our time with our daughter that she carried an amazing ability to observe situations and quickly provide solutions that improved activity flow or processes. Although she had almost no human contact during critical developmental periods, she was somehow able to gather information, understand connections, question, recognize inconsistencies or errors, and offer solutions. She was also adept at predicting the way an action or decision would impact her future, and her foresight is developed beyond her years or experience. I wondered how. Was her thought process affected by years of neglect, then sharpened by the necessity for survival? Despite her gifting in this area, she still lacked one critical piece that carried high importance. What was it ? She wasn’t taught God’s Word or how to examine the information she gathered against God’s Holy Word . Just as each of us needs to build and strengthen biblical critical thinking, our girl now knows to hold what she observes, hears, and learns against God’s truths. In order to analyze information, digest material, and produce godly discernment over fleshly judgement, your child must hone the ability to think with a mind influenced and directed by the Lord. Like I said earlier, what our children read and learn in public school (and on social media) is opinion clothed as fact, with liberal, cultural doctrine woven throughout. Public institutions don’t teach the skill of critical thinking. Students are graduating without the ability to absorb and process information, or how to produce godly discernment that clearly differentiates between fact, fallacy, and opinion. But the truth is that it is the responsibility of mothers and fathers. We must set this goal foremost in our mind as we parent. Our children must be taught how to think, not what to think. Especially when it comes to their relationship with Christ. Unless our children are taught to stand on the firm foundation of Jesus as the support on which to mature their walk with God, they will not learn the process of claiming faith through Christ and experience true freedom to live a holy life. Teaching your children God’s truths and allowing them the privilege of applying biblical critical reasoning as they mature in their walk with Christ will release them from the pitfalls of this fallen world and provide escape from pursuits that can entrap and enslave. Godly parenting ensures that your children grasp the need for this ability and ensures that they develop it. Since the mental and biblical health of children (thoughts process, actions, reactions, and self-worth is strongly connected to their parents, especially the primary caregiver, each mother must examine what we receive and believe closely. Are you carrying and applying this critical skill for your children to see? Or are you allowing fear, depression, anxiety, poor coping mechanisms, untrue or incorrect biblical beliefs, and ungodly reactions influence your child’s ability to think critically and in a way that honors God? Self-thoughts of children can be strongly influenced by or learned from parents, whether it be spoken or observed behavior. The influence and opinions of teachers, doctors, peers, friends, and bullies, or of society in general, through cultural practices and advertisements also lend high authority in the way our child shapes thinking. Coupled with negative internal thoughts, such as: “I’m stupid.” “I’m not pretty enough.” “No one likes me.” “I can’t do this.” “No one understands me.” “They don’t really love me.” “I’m not as good, smart, pretty, etc. as…” will cause our children to build far from where God desires them to construct their thought patterns. Add in social media influences and dangers, including inappropriate content, predators, bullying, and divulging personal information, as well as cultural and societal changes, fear, and uncertainty can bring about depression, anxiety, loss of independent thinking, lack of critical thinking, loss of resiliency, and irrational fears. While negative thoughts are usually rooted in fears, lies, regrets, or misconceptions, our children usually lack the experience and ability to overcome these lies with biblical critical thinking. They must be taught that negative thoughts are feelings , not God’s truths . Instruct your child so their thoughts do not become a stronghold of the devil. 2 Timothy 1:7 says, “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control .” Proverbs 14:15 – “ The simple believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps.” If you desire your children to use the mind God created for them and process material with reflective thinking that allows consideration of Biblical knowledge leading to beliefs, actions, and reactions pleasing to Him, your child must be taught to carry the ability to critically scrutinize worldly ideals and passions instead of passively accepting everything learned at pure face value. 1 Thessalonians 5:21 – “But test everything; hold fast what is good.” Here are 9 ways to help your children develop biblical critical thinking skills: 1. Encourage Questions 2. Enjoy Answering Questions 3. Enforce “No Question is Dumb” 4. Seek Answers Together 5. Ask Your Child Questions 6. Allow Time to Think and Process 7. Practice Critical Thinking Together 8. Inspire Creativity 9. Read the Bible Together Here are 4 ways to teach your child that people don’t stop to think critically when : 1. We Are Rushed – When forced to make fast decisions, people usually move with what is easiest. 2. We Are Confused – Teach your children that when something doesn’t make sense, they must make time to pray and seek God’s wisdom through Scripture and speak with someone they trust to lead and advise them in God’s truths. 3. We Are Selfish – When we follow only selfish desires, we usually make decisions we regret later, decisions that hurt others, or decisions that go against God’s desires. 4. We Are Apathetic – If children are allowed to remain indifferent or uninterested, they will not make time to seek and follow God’s values and commands. Matthew 24:4 – “ And Jesus answered them, “See that no one leads you astray.” Help your children build a framework for establishing biblical critical thinking by teaching them to: Compare everything heard, seen, or taught against the Bible . 1. Is the source of information godly? 2. Is the source of information credible? 3. Is the source of information experienced? 4. What is the motive of the source? 5. What is the perspective of the source? 6. Is the information opinion or is it fact backed by Scripture and/or biblical values? 7. Is the information backed by biblical evidence? 1 John 4:1 – “ Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.” It takes time, effort, and much prayer to teach children to think biblically and critically. Without this valuable skill, they will never experience fullness of intimate relationship with Christ. Invest in the present and future of your child by modeling critical thinking that is backed by Scripture and teach your child how to think with critical and biblical thoughts in order to allow them to learn how to apply the skills to life issues they will continue to face in their lifetime. As you express delight now when your children explore life with the questioning mind God has gifted to them, they will delight you later when they apply biblical critical thought processes to every experience they face. My Set-Apart Collective mentorship program equips you to parent in this way through Christ. Email me at info@terrihitt.com for more information. My Set-Apart mentorship program equips you to parent in this way through Christ. Email me at info@terrihitt.com for more information. Dear Heavenly Father, our gracious Lord, Your mind is so far above our own. When we critically think with even a small portion of Your wisdom, knowledge, and understanding we receive a gift beyond measure. Please help us to know You so intimately through study of your Word, prayer, and close fellowship with You that we raise children who seek and serve You through an eternal lens. Father, protect them and provide the critical thinking skills with a biblically based mindset that honors and pleases You. May they walk in obedience to You because they have a love and respect borne from relationship through Christ. May they look at this world with appreciation for all You have given them, yet yearn for eternal life with You. May their decisions and actions reflect biblical truths and values from You and show their desire for and knowledge of You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. I have a free resource you’ll find helpful as you navigate your daily routine as a mom. If you’re ready to become the godly mother God entrusts you to be for Him and His children, you’ll love my free “Good to Godly: A 31-Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms.” Visit terrihitt.com to receive this resource. Time is short. Leave a legacy that lasts into eternity. Unless you’re purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. Focus on eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 015 - Hearing God's Voice Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #015 – Hearing God’s Voice Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. In past episodes of the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast we have talked about raising our children to be set-apart, preparing them for spiritual warfare, helping them find identity through Christ, and other important issues. Much of what we discuss is rooted by the topic we’ll explore today. How do we teach our children to listen for and recognize God’s voice? Every believer wants their children to desire God. We also want our child to know when they hear Him. This is a quality that must be learned, because they will need this skill throughout their life. We must teach them that although God speaks to each person uniquely, He remains consistent in basic qualities . There are two important truths we must help our child to understand and remember: 1. God convicts, but doesn’t condemn . John 16:13 says, “But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; He will speak only what He hears, and He will tell you what is yet to come .” God, in His holiness and loving kindness toward us, will impress us with a sense of guilt or wrong-doing. Our Heavenly Father cannot sin. As believers, we know that the Holy Spirit living within us will not allow us to go against God without some type of conviction pricking us. However, God does not condemn. Condemnation is a tactic used by the devil to pummel us with a pronouncement that we are unfit for God’s use. Condemnation is the place Satan desires us to stay without help or hope so that we do not repent and seek forgiveness, or allow God to cleanse us and move us into service for Him. 2. God is consistent, never contradicting . John 16:7-8 says, “But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you. When He comes, He will prove the world to be in the wrong about sin and righteousness and judgment.” God is Truth . He cannot lie or deceive. However, the world we are a part of is in direct opposition to the Word of God. When God speaks to us, He will never lead us to anything that opposes what His word says. Remember the tactics of the devil in the garden with Adam and Eve? He tricked Eve by taking God’s words, but twisting them enough that confusion reigned. God will never stray from His holy truths and commandments. We can rest in the knowledge that whatever He speaks into our life or however He leads us, it will always be in total alignment with His Word. Once our children understand that God only guides by truth , holiness , and love , they will be better equipped to navigate this world with confidence that they will be able to recognize God’s voice. Now that we know how to instruct them in the basic truths on which to measure God’s voice against that of self, world, or Satan, let’s discuss how to prepare them to recognize God. What are some of the most effective ways to instruct our children to hear and experience fellowship with God daily? I’ll share 9 ways now: 1. Through Scripture – Hebrews 4:12 says, “ For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart .” and 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” Mentoring God though a strong and growing relationship with Jesus and letting our children see us seek God through the Bible encourages them to do the same. When we teach our children to seek and know God through His word, we are training them to trust the Lord, to follow Him, and to recognize Him. The relationship they grow through this method will also build the foundation for a strong prayer life. Together, they will be encouraged to seek their Heavenly Father and to listen for Him daily. 2. Through godly counsel – Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight. ” and Proverbs 12:15 says, “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.” Again, what we mentor is key. If we know the Lord and are already in or growing a strong walk with Him, we are better equipped to have godly wisdom to impart to our children. We are also more likely to have other godly leaders or influencers in our life who will be well equipped to counsel with our children, if needed. We will also be able to advise our children regarding godly leaders they can trust. Also, the Bible is our main source of wisdom. Again, if they are in the Word, studying the Word, and receiving godly counsel regarding God’s word, it is the absolute best source they can access. 3. Through experiences – There are incredible stories in the Bible where people saw and heard God through experiences. Jonah in the belly of the whale, Moses and the burning bush or at the parting of the Red Sea, Daniel in the lion’s den, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in the fiery furnace. The stories are miraculous and many. Just as God worked miracles in days past, He is able to perform miraculous feats in our lives today. We do have to beware as we teach our children that we can see and hear God through experiences, however. Experiences are so closely tied to our feelings and emotions, and those are not trustworthy indicators we want to instruct our children to use. Remember the two basic truths we shared in the beginning of the podcast. Bring everything back to the Bible. God never contradicts His word and He never condemns. 4. Through thoughts – Amos 4:13 says, “He who forms the mountains, who creates the wind, and who reveals His thoughts to mankind, who turns dawn to darkness, and treads on the heights of the earth— the LORD God Almighty is his name.” God’s ways are not typically our ways. Through a deepening, humble relationship with God through Jesus as Savior, our thoughts are transformed to become more like His. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will .” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 5. Through nature – Romans 1:18-20 says, “The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” Exodus 40:38 says, “ So the cloud of the LORD was over the tabernacle by day, and fire was in the cloud by night, in the sight of all the Israelites during all their travels.” 6. Through visuals – Acts 2:17 says, “In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams.” Joel 2:28 says, “And afterward, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.” God has been known to use dreams or a vision actually seen in minds to give guidance or a message. Through Old Testament stories we hear of God giving revelation in this way. 7. Through faith – Romans 10:17 says, “Consequently, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ. ” Not all who hear will respond to the Lord. When we hear and believe, we receive new life through Christ. God’s word is clear. When we have a close walk and draw nearer to God through faith, we will hear His guidance and direction more clearly. The same is true for our children as they mature their faith. 8. Through peace – Philippians 4:7 says, “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” When we and our children bring anxieties and troubles to God through prayer and faith, hope, and trust, we will receive the perfect peace beyond our understanding. 9. Through His still, small voice - 1 Kings 19:12 says, “After the earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.” God works in very powerful ways, but also in gentle ways that we can be assured come from Him. Now that we know how to help our children to live with assurance that they can hear God, let’s uncover what might keep them from hearing Him. Bitterness, jealousy, unforgiveness…the list can go on. Do you understand what I am referring to ? Sin . Job 42:5 says, “My ears had heard of You but now my eyes have seen You.” Equipping our children for a life of closeness and holiness to God through Jesus Christ is a challenge bigger than any of us. In our own strength, we are certainly not equipped to enable our children to live for Him. Through faith and trust, we are able to deepen our walk moment by moment so that we are more discerning and knowledgeable about how to mentor Christ to our children. As our children, draw near to Him so that He will draw nearer to them, the faith they hear and read about becomes real . Their faith becomes individual . It becomes purposed . Their faith becomes life-saving and life-changing . What if your child says they cannot hear from God, but they want to? James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” It takes time to grow a faith that seeks and hears our Father. Continue to mentor strong and intentional faith for your child. Read God’s word with them, pray with them and for them, ask them to pray for you, study God’s word with them. Successful and maturing faith is a lifestyle. It’s not a Sunday activity or the responsibility of the church. Continue your faith walk and be accessible and loving so that your child sees Jesus in you and desires Him inside himself. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness truly overwhelms us. As we draw nearer to You, Your Word promises us that You will draw nearer to us. Father, we long to carry faith that shines, but the work is hard. In order to have that faith, it must be forged, and the process is intensely hard, it can be scary. We desire that faith for our children, yet it can be so hard to see them suffer, to walk through the hurts and hardships with them. Yet, Your word tells us You are with us, and we know You are with them wherever they go. May we not rescue our children when they are in the fires, but guide them to look Up to You. May we set godly examples in every way. Help us to grow and mature in You, not overlooking the furnace we must be refined in. Life is hard, but You told us it would be. Help us keep the faith and shine Your love and light so that You are made attractive and accessible to our children in ways that please and honor You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is part of the Spark Media Network and can also be found on the Edifi app. Each episode is also available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #029 Obedience Through His Word Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest joys in my life is finding ways to obey the Lord. Sometimes it takes patience and prayer. Other times God makes what am to do very clear immediately. Waiting and listening are part of obeying His call and direction for us. At the end of January, 2020, I began producing the podcasts I prepared as my step of obedience to the Lord. I knew that He was calling me to allow Him to work through me in a way unique and special for the interests He placed in my heart. I inderstood that He wanted to work through me to reach more people with His word and truths. What a joy and blessing this has been in not only my life, but in the life of my family as well. My husband and I, as well as my children, have grown even more in the Lord and drawn closer to each other. My husband helps me with the podcast by editing and uploading each one. We've all grown together in and through God by my obedience to Him. All we do for God affects those around us. It definitely takes time and dedication each week to prayerfully consider what God is speaking and to write and produce each episode. While the work is a deep and joyful blessing, and I continue to walk in obedience by allowing my Heavenly Father to work through me, I must also carefully prioritize my daily life activities to place Him first, while still placing my husband and children next. It takes much time and effort. As fall is approaching, school will be back in session and there are things I need to prepare for. Homeschool is a lifestyle for us, which could be another podcast topic. In fact, if you are interested in hearing more about that, please let me know. As I pondered how to create more time to prepare for the upcoming school year and get a little extra housework done completed before the new academic year starts, I prayed about taking a hiatus for a few weeks. God whispered to my spirit that He did not want me to create a break time, but to use the time to read His word to listeners. So, for the next several weeks I will not create new messages, but will be reading the best messages the world has ever had the opportunity to read. I pray that you will be blessed by God's word and encourged to study the Bible even more on your own. I will egin where I find my hope and passion for life and all I do - the book of John. I believe it is the heart of the Bible. I hope it stirs your heart for love and obedience to Him. John 12:1-8 "Then, six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was who had been dead, whom He had raised from the dead. There they made Him a supper; and Martha served, but Lazarus was one of those who sat at the table with Him. Then Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil. But one of His disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, who would betray Him, said, “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” This he said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it. But Jesus said, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” To me, these verses are so beautiful. I have always loved the book of John. Each chapter is just so special. Let's look a little bit deeper at some of the verses in this passage. As we speak about Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus, we need to remember that Jesus had raised their brother from the dead. So, it shouldn't really be a shock to us that his sisters want to hold a dinner in honor of Jesus. You know, whenever God works through us, when we're saved through Jesus Christ, He is bringing something back that was dead, just like He did with Lazarus. He's made us a new person. We have a new life. When we're following Him in the right way and we live with that realization, the natural response is a desire to show Him love, appreciation, thankfulness, and honor with our life. The oil that was used here by Mary, was very expensive. It was nearly an entire year's earnings. Of course, Judas saw this as a waste. But Jesus could see into the heart of Mary. He knew that for Mary, this was worship. I find it really interesting also in this passage that the disciples must have really trusted Judas. He was handling money. We all know that if we trust someone with our money, it means we truly trust them. Here in this passage of 12:6, John is showing the real nature of Judas, that he was a thief, but he is also showing his heart intent because when Judas talks about the cost of the oil, and how it should have been given to the poor instead of being spent on the oil, Jesus knew His true heart, He knew his true intentions and thoughts behind those words. Judas's words sounded very noble, yet it shows that each one of us has the capacity to say things, to give religious sounding reasons that would justify actions that don't have the true intent or purpose that Jesus would have us to have. It shows how selfish we are and can be, When Jesus talks about in 12:8 how there's a constant presence of poor, he's not showing that he's heartless. We know Jesus isn't heartless. He's not saying they should be ignored, but just the fact that they're always there, but He will not always be there. If we look at Deuteronomy 15:11, as a cross-reference here, "for the poor will never cease from the land, therefore I command you, saying "You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor, and your needy in your land. " We see that Jesus does indeed care about the plight of the poor. The last thing that I want to point out with this beautiful passage is something that should strike a chord for all of us. It should infuse the heart of a servant, it should inspire us to do more for Jesus. If we look at Mary, the one who poured the fragrances of Jesus's feet, and wiped His feet with her hair, we see that Mary was humble. She was teachable. She wanted to be more occupied with Christ than to be occupied for Him. It should inspire each of us to stop, to take a look at our lives. Are we just occupied for Christ? Just taking part in activities and "doing" things for Him? Just as Martha was always so busy doing things for Him? Or are we more occupied, more obsessed with knowing Jesus? In loving Him? In obeying Him? In being with Him and spending time with Him? We learn that in Hebrew, sitting at someone's feet means to learn from that person, to submit to their authority and teaching, and ways of life. That's what Mary was doing here as she showed love for Jesus. She put herself at His feet. I mean, my goodness. Can you imagine using your most expensive fragrance that would cost a year's worth of wages, pouring it on His feet, and wiping your hair across His feet. I mean. I know I love Jesus, but I hope I could do that. I hope I could do that if He walked into my home right now. If we look at Mary's example of spending time at Jesus's feet, we begin to worship Him with a heart that is more loving, and kind, and obedient. One that seeks Him. Can you imagine taking your clean hair and using it to clean the dirtiest part of Jesus? Back then feet were pretty dirty. But she loved Jesus so much. He had brought her brother back to life. He had done many things in their life. But instead of using her perfume for the burial that she had been saving for Jesus, she worshipped Him in true devotion. This showed a true submission to Him and a love for Him. As we each go out through the week, let us remember this, not to worship Mary or to put her on a pedestal. She was human, just like the rest of us, but to look at the heart that she used, to use that as a symbol is our own life to remind us, to spur us on, to develop our own sacrificial love and obedient love, and humble love, and servant heart love for Jesus. Dear Lord, may we follow You so closely and strive to know You so well that we would pour our most expensive item, possession across Your feet so that we can get a better glimpse into Your heart. So that we can get a better awareness of You and follow You more closely, Lord, with our whole heart. Help us, Lord, each day, to know You better, to show You more clearly, and to bind our heart to Yours so that You are so evident to all. God, I pray that each one of us can be a light to inspire others to follow You. In Your precious name we pray. Did you enjoy this episode? I hope you did. Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and to learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can't find it, unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them by leaving a quick review and a rating for the show, and by sharing about the show on social media or by word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might wnjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Help them to find it. Help them to tune in. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to live with eternal perspective. Keep sharing your stories with me. I love to hear them. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 029 Obedience Through His Word Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #029 Obedience Through His Word Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest joys in my life is finding ways to obey the Lord. Sometimes it takes patience and prayer. Other times God makes what am to do very clear immediately. Waiting and listening are part of obeying His call and direction for us. At the end of January, 2020, I began producing the podcasts I prepared as my step of obedience to the Lord. I knew that He was calling me to allow Him to work through me in a way unique and special for the interests He placed in my heart. I inderstood that He wanted to work through me to reach more people with His word and truths. What a joy and blessing this has been in not only my life, but in the life of my family as well. My husband and I, as well as my children, have grown even more in the Lord and drawn closer to each other. My husband helps me with the podcast by editing and uploading each one. We've all grown together in and through God by my obedience to Him. All we do for God affects those around us. It definitely takes time and dedication each week to prayerfully consider what God is speaking and to write and produce each episode. While the work is a deep and joyful blessing, and I continue to walk in obedience by allowing my Heavenly Father to work through me, I must also carefully prioritize my daily life activities to place Him first, while still placing my husband and children next. It takes much time and effort. As fall is approaching, school will be back in session and there are things I need to prepare for. Homeschool is a lifestyle for us, which could be another podcast topic. In fact, if you are interested in hearing more about that, please let me know. As I pondered how to create more time to prepare for the upcoming school year and get a little extra housework done completed before the new academic year starts, I prayed about taking a hiatus for a few weeks. God whispered to my spirit that He did not want me to create a break time, but to use the time to read His word to listeners. So, for the next several weeks I will not create new messages, but will be reading the best messages the world has ever had the opportunity to read. I pray that you will be blessed by God's word and encourged to study the Bible even more on your own. I will egin where I find my hope and passion for life and all I do - the book of John. I believe it is the heart of the Bible. I hope it stirs your heart for love and obedience to Him. John 12:1-8 "Then, six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was who had been dead, whom He had raised from the dead. There they made Him a supper; and Martha served, but Lazarus was one of those who sat at the table with Him. Then Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil. But one of His disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, who would betray Him, said, “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” This he said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it. But Jesus said, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” To me, these verses are so beautiful. I have always loved the book of John. Each chapter is just so special. Let's look a little bit deeper at some of the verses in this passage. As we speak about Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus, we need to remember that Jesus had raised their brother from the dead. So, it shouldn't really be a shock to us that his sisters want to hold a dinner in honor of Jesus. You know, whenever God works through us, when we're saved through Jesus Christ, He is bringing something back that was dead, just like He did with Lazarus. He's made us a new person. We have a new life. When we're following Him in the right way and we live with that realization, the natural response is a desire to show Him love, appreciation, thankfulness, and honor with our life. The oil that was used here by Mary, was very expensive. It was nearly an entire year's earnings. Of course, Judas saw this as a waste. But Jesus could see into the heart of Mary. He knew that for Mary, this was worship. I find it really interesting also in this passage that the disciples must have really trusted Judas. He was handling money. We all know that if we trust someone with our money, it means we truly trust them. Here in this passage of 12:6, John is showing the real nature of Judas, that he was a thief, but he is also showing his heart intent because when Judas talks about the cost of the oil, and how it should have been given to the poor instead of being spent on the oil, Jesus knew His true heart, He knew his true intentions and thoughts behind those words. Judas's words sounded very noble, yet it shows that each one of us has the capacity to say things, to give religious sounding reasons that would justify actions that don't have the true intent or purpose that Jesus would have us to have. It shows how selfish we are and can be, When Jesus talks about in 12:8 how there's a constant presence of poor, he's not showing that he's heartless. We know Jesus isn't heartless. He's not saying they should be ignored, but just the fact that they're always there, but He will not always be there. If we look at Deuteronomy 15:11, as a cross-reference here, "for the poor will never cease from the land, therefore I command you, saying "You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor, and your needy in your land. " We see that Jesus does indeed care about the plight of the poor. The last thing that I want to point out with this beautiful passage is something that should strike a chord for all of us. It should infuse the heart of a servant, it should inspire us to do more for Jesus. If we look at Mary, the one who poured the fragrances of Jesus's feet, and wiped His feet with her hair, we see that Mary was humble. She was teachable. She wanted to be more occupied with Christ than to be occupied for Him. It should inspire each of us to stop, to take a look at our lives. Are we just occupied for Christ? Just taking part in activities and "doing" things for Him? Just as Martha was always so busy doing things for Him? Or are we more occupied, more obsessed with knowing Jesus? In loving Him? In obeying Him? In being with Him and spending time with Him? We learn that in Hebrew, sitting at someone's feet means to learn from that person, to submit to their authority and teaching, and ways of life. That's what Mary was doing here as she showed love for Jesus. She put herself at His feet. I mean, my goodness. Can you imagine using your most expensive fragrance that would cost a year's worth of wages, pouring it on His feet, and wiping your hair across His feet. I mean. I know I love Jesus, but I hope I could do that. I hope I could do that if He walked into my home right now. If we look at Mary's example of spending time at Jesus's feet, we begin to worship Him with a heart that is more loving, and kind, and obedient. One that seeks Him. Can you imagine taking your clean hair and using it to clean the dirtiest part of Jesus? Back then feet were pretty dirty. But she loved Jesus so much. He had brought her brother back to life. He had done many things in their life. But instead of using her perfume for the burial that she had been saving for Jesus, she worshipped Him in true devotion. This showed a true submission to Him and a love for Him. As we each go out through the week, let us remember this, not to worship Mary or to put her on a pedestal. She was human, just like the rest of us, but to look at the heart that she used, to use that as a symbol is our own life to remind us, to spur us on, to develop our own sacrificial love and obedient love, and humble love, and servant heart love for Jesus. Dear Lord, may we follow You so closely and strive to know You so well that we would pour our most expensive item, possession across Your feet so that we can get a better glimpse into Your heart. So that we can get a better awareness of You and follow You more closely, Lord, with our whole heart. Help us, Lord, each day, to know You better, to show You more clearly, and to bind our heart to Yours so that You are so evident to all. God, I pray that each one of us can be a light to inspire others to follow You. In Your precious name we pray. Did you enjoy this episode? I hope you did. Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and to learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can't find it, unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them by leaving a quick review and a rating for the show, and by sharing about the show on social media or by word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might wnjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Help them to find it. Help them to tune in. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to live with eternal perspective. Keep sharing your stories with me. I love to hear them.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. Episode #009 – The Beauty of Imperfection Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’m starting our discussion with a little fact about myself. I’m a neat person. I don’t mean I’m cool, but obviously, if you want to think that, I’ll let you! Just kidding! My goal has never been to be the one who attracts the attention and envy of everyone around me and it hasn’t been bestowed to me naturally. Honestly, I’m probably one of the last people someone would look at and think I’m the cool girl, because I keep to the basics of just being me. What I mean about being a neat person is that I don’t like to be surrounded by messes. In fact, I find chaos distracting. If I lived alone, I’d most likely spend a good portion of my time front-facing and alphabetizing my pantry. I’d be on my hands and knees dusting all the baseboards and climbing my counters to reach the highest cabinets to wash them with Murphy Oil Soap to make everything smell fresh and look beautifully shiny. Cleaning is relaxing to me. When I’m doing this type of work, my mind can wander or relax. It allows me to talk to and hear God. Thankfully, my day to day reality is quite different than my imagined spotless home. I am truly grateful that I don’t live alone and that I have my beautiful family. I’m also very fortunate that I’ve developed the ability to focus more on things that I believe God is calling me to invest in rather than the dust web in the corner. My life is incredibly busy. Not only do I homeschool my two daughters, one of which has special needs, but I am also involved in activities outside the home for myself and my family, I am dedicated to growing this ministry and podcast that God has entrusted to me for this season, and one of my daughters and I are also building a business together. Through the busyness, we still work hard to spend quality time together and to allow for down times to enjoy simply hearing from God individually and together. We make it a priority to spend time in His word alone and with each other and to pray together daily. This certainly does not leave me time to clean the way my heart desires. Right now, my home is “surface clean” only and most days has tufts of Golden Retriever hair floating around the floor. I thank God for enabling me to cling to the values He finds important during this time in my life. These precious days will never be repeated. Each activity we choose to participate in will evolve into an experience or memory that is one of the foundational blocks building our lives. My security in the Lord allows me to release expectations and stresses of attempted perfection by relying on Him to shift my idea of flawlessness to what He desires. As a mother building her second family, I know how quickly children grow up. I had quiet years between the time my first two were grown and we began raising our second two. I had enough time to do things around the house and I knew the most important and meaningful times were spent one-on-one with my family and growing the depth of our knowledge in Jesus. At that time, my husband worked long hours and was out of town and out of the country often. Our first two children were grown and lived on their own. I can remember sitting in a little hot tub we had outside our back door. I would look up at the sky as I relaxed, letting time carry me back through memories and hearing the whispers God spoke to my heart. He was preparing me for the next phase of my life. I was able to hear Him speak truths to my spirit that revealed how I could have parented with focused intentionality for Him. My relationship with Jesus had deepened and although I raised my children to know God, I could see ways that I had not scratched the surface of how the Lord really desired me to guide those He entrusted to my care to follow Him. I could see the ways I should have intentionally walked more closely with Him and mentored my children to do the same. He fed me the nutrients needed for nurturing a healthy and worthy relationship with Him from birth and began instilling a desire in the hearts of my husband and myself for a baby from China and planting seeds of how to change our parenting style to honor and show Him clearly so He could shine. Focusing on what God values and calls important is where I want my eyes and heart to reside. Although I certainly don’t want to live in filth, I know that keeping my pantry alphabetized and my floors vacuumed daily are not what will keep my family relationships healthy or help any of us mature spiritually. As in everything, balance is essential. When I come to the end of my life, whether it be tomorrow or forty years from now, what do I want to remember? What do I want others to remember about me? Most importantly, will they remember that they saw Jesus in me? Will I have allowed Him to shine from me so brightly that they had to discover Jesus and allow Him to shine through them? Will my family be close? Will we each have strong and continuously deepening relationships? My desire to live in ways pleasing to God and to have positive and joyful answers to these questions propel me to live in the present with eternal perspective. Today our episode focuses on purposely examining our heart and allowing God to cleanse the idea of perfection that separates us from Him so that we can live closer to the way He desires. It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, confused, unappreciated, exhausted, angry, bitter, or defeated when things don’t go smoothly or exactly the way we hoped. None of these are pleasing to or come from the Lord. We can easily get lost in our emotions and be deceived. Don’t bury eternal focus beneath tasks, chores, responsibilities, or imperfections. If we live to survive, we are only coping with life. We should experience a joy-filled existence that builds and anticipates deeper fellowship with God while craving eternity. Psalm 51:10 pleads, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” We don’t want a “surface-clean only” life. Our heart was made to desire beautiful fellowship with Him. Life cannot be perfect, but we can seek to perfectly align ours with the desires God has for us as we pursue intimacy with Him. Wouldn’t it be beautiful if every day was accomplished and without blemish? Smooth easy days with no trials or troubles. No red lights on our way to appointments. No one needing our time or attention while we are already busy with something else that needs to be completed. No spills on white carpet. All of our relationships run smoothly with no disagreements or misunderstandings. No products we need at the store cleaned off the shelf before we get there. I know I’m being silly, but you must admit, all our minds have desired a perfect day at one time or another, but God knows that a perfect world would not bring us to our knees before Him. Proverbs 23:26 says, “My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in My ways.” I understand that the context this verse is used for in the Bible is sexual sin, but the truth of it applies to any situation. God wants our heart; He desires that we seek Him and His ways. Without a need for the Lord, we may not choose to seek, grow a relationship with, or depend on Him. Eternity would not be a destination for us. We would simply hope to gain all we could here on earth and remain in our selfish, empty lifestyle forever. I think it’s incredibly important to recognize that at times our emotions and feelings get in the way of seeing clearly. Our ability to think and live with our heart and mind focused on eternity gets blocked. Sometimes, it seems that life continues to knock us down. We fall to our knees before the Lord, but the harsh realities of life in this broken world crash on us day after day without relief in sight. Although hardships can feel unending, Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us that no season lasts forever. God wants our faith and trust to be constructed on such a solid foundation that nothing can crack it. No matter what life looks or feels like, His desire is for us to continue to steadfastly cast our cares and hope on Him. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 says it well. “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” Life can be devastatingly hard, but God is with us. He is working ahead of, with, and behind us to allow exactly what we need to experience. Remember, our life is not just about us. Aren’t you fascinated by the intricacy of God’s plans and the inter-woven plots and twists that He executes? He has everything under control, even if we don’t see, feel, or recognize it. Will every day be perfect? That depends on how I look at it. 1 Thessalonian 5:16-18 reminds us to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” At times we may wonder whether we are following the plans God has for our lives. When times are difficult or we don’t receive answers we are seeking, it’s easy to try to pull situations into our own hands and wonder whether God cares or is watching over us. Wise advice comes from James 1:22, which says, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” Keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Remain faithful in crafting a genuine relationship with the Lord through reading His word and conversing through prayer. Make time to have quiet moments to speak to Him, not just in prayer, but in sharing your thoughts and life. Listen for Him to speak. Give God time to respond in His timing. Trust in Him, despite circumstances. Jesus displayed how He escaped to share quiet, personal moments with His Father. If Jesus modeled it, we know we require the same in our lives. Psalm 73:26 reminds us, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Those far from the Lord will perish, but those who abide in Him, who draw near to Him, so that He may draw nearer to them, will live with peace, joy, and assurance, despite anything that occurs in this world. Romans 8:13 tells us, “For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” Stop and think about how the Romans viewed and executed crucifixion. Look at the parallel between death on a cross and killing the desires of our flesh. Crucifixion was specific. It was personal to the individual. Ponder that we each have an opportunity for a personal relationship with Jesus and must destroy the acts of our own flesh daily through walking in the power of the Holy Spirit within us. Only through Jesus can those acts be crucified. Crucifixion was brutally painful. Just as death on the cross is unbearably hard for us to fully conceive, executing the deeds of our flesh is brutally hard. We cannot do it in our own strength. Only through Jesus can those deeds be crucified. Crucifixion is cruel. The individual being crucified was not to be removed from the cross until they were dead. We must ensure that we allow the Holy Spirit to execute the sins of our flesh. Only through Jesus can those sins be crucified. Romans 8:14 says, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.” As we abide in Him, we are changed, and His desires become ours. Put into practice what we read in His word. Simply reading and going about our day thinking we have had our “spiritual” time brings none of the fruits of the Spirit that we need to live a healthy life. Living a “checklist” life is just as effective as doing nothing at all. When we follow Jesus, we want the qualities He values and offers to be living and blooming inside us. This is what ensures that we are able to live with a spirit unaffected by daily ups and downs, even when we are living in incredibly difficult and dark times. It also ensures that when we are in the midst of an easy season we don’t pull away from the Lord, but rejoice in the knowledge that He is with us no matter what and that we are living through His strength and in His guiding arms. As James 1:17a reminds us, nothing we have or do is gained by our own strength or talents. “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above.” Psalm 37:4-5 says, “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act.” Delight means to take pleasure in. Commit means to be dedicated to or make a pledge to – it means to sacrifice our life and offer it to God. Continue trusting that everything occurring in our life will be used for good and to grow our relationship with our Heavenly Father if we are obedient in the areas He calls us to. There is beauty in imperfection. Embrace yours as it causes you to rely on Him. Everything that drives us to the Father’s arms is cause for gratitude. May we encounter more days that push our to our knees and guide us to His arms. May our faces be ever lifted toward the Son who abides in our hearts, helping us to live with eternal expectation and thankfulness. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 009 The Beauty of Imperfection Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. Episode #009 – The Beauty of Imperfection Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’m starting our discussion with a little fact about myself. I’m a neat person. I don’t mean I’m cool, but obviously, if you want to think that, I’ll let you! Just kidding! My goal has never been to be the one who attracts the attention and envy of everyone around me and it hasn’t been bestowed to me naturally. Honestly, I’m probably one of the last people someone would look at and think I’m the cool girl, because I keep to the basics of just being me. What I mean about being a neat person is that I don’t like to be surrounded by messes. In fact, I find chaos distracting. If I lived alone, I’d most likely spend a good portion of my time front-facing and alphabetizing my pantry. I’d be on my hands and knees dusting all the baseboards and climbing my counters to reach the highest cabinets to wash them with Murphy Oil Soap to make everything smell fresh and look beautifully shiny. Cleaning is relaxing to me. When I’m doing this type of work, my mind can wander or relax. It allows me to talk to and hear God. Thankfully, my day to day reality is quite different than my imagined spotless home. I am truly grateful that I don’t live alone and that I have my beautiful family. I’m also very fortunate that I’ve developed the ability to focus more on things that I believe God is calling me to invest in rather than the dust web in the corner. My life is incredibly busy. Not only do I homeschool my two daughters, one of which has special needs, but I am also involved in activities outside the home for myself and my family, I am dedicated to growing this ministry and podcast that God has entrusted to me for this season, and one of my daughters and I are also building a business together. Through the busyness, we still work hard to spend quality time together and to allow for down times to enjoy simply hearing from God individually and together. We make it a priority to spend time in His word alone and with each other and to pray together daily. This certainly does not leave me time to clean the way my heart desires. Right now, my home is “surface clean” only and most days has tufts of Golden Retriever hair floating around the floor. I thank God for enabling me to cling to the values He finds important during this time in my life. These precious days will never be repeated. Each activity we choose to participate in will evolve into an experience or memory that is one of the foundational blocks building our lives. My security in the Lord allows me to release expectations and stresses of attempted perfection by relying on Him to shift my idea of flawlessness to what He desires. As a mother building her second family, I know how quickly children grow up. I had quiet years between the time my first two were grown and we began raising our second two. I had enough time to do things around the house and I knew the most important and meaningful times were spent one-on-one with my family and growing the depth of our knowledge in Jesus. At that time, my husband worked long hours and was out of town and out of the country often. Our first two children were grown and lived on their own. I can remember sitting in a little hot tub we had outside our back door. I would look up at the sky as I relaxed, letting time carry me back through memories and hearing the whispers God spoke to my heart. He was preparing me for the next phase of my life. I was able to hear Him speak truths to my spirit that revealed how I could have parented with focused intentionality for Him. My relationship with Jesus had deepened and although I raised my children to know God, I could see ways that I had not scratched the surface of how the Lord really desired me to guide those He entrusted to my care to follow Him. I could see the ways I should have intentionally walked more closely with Him and mentored my children to do the same. He fed me the nutrients needed for nurturing a healthy and worthy relationship with Him from birth and began instilling a desire in the hearts of my husband and myself for a baby from China and planting seeds of how to change our parenting style to honor and show Him clearly so He could shine. Focusing on what God values and calls important is where I want my eyes and heart to reside. Although I certainly don’t want to live in filth, I know that keeping my pantry alphabetized and my floors vacuumed daily are not what will keep my family relationships healthy or help any of us mature spiritually. As in everything, balance is essential. When I come to the end of my life, whether it be tomorrow or forty years from now, what do I want to remember? What do I want others to remember about me? Most importantly, will they remember that they saw Jesus in me? Will I have allowed Him to shine from me so brightly that they had to discover Jesus and allow Him to shine through them? Will my family be close? Will we each have strong and continuously deepening relationships? My desire to live in ways pleasing to God and to have positive and joyful answers to these questions propel me to live in the present with eternal perspective. Today our episode focuses on purposely examining our heart and allowing God to cleanse the idea of perfection that separates us from Him so that we can live closer to the way He desires. It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, confused, unappreciated, exhausted, angry, bitter, or defeated when things don’t go smoothly or exactly the way we hoped. None of these are pleasing to or come from the Lord. We can easily get lost in our emotions and be deceived. Don’t bury eternal focus beneath tasks, chores, responsibilities, or imperfections. If we live to survive, we are only coping with life. We should experience a joy-filled existence that builds and anticipates deeper fellowship with God while craving eternity. Psalm 51:10 pleads, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” We don’t want a “surface-clean only” life. Our heart was made to desire beautiful fellowship with Him. Life cannot be perfect, but we can seek to perfectly align ours with the desires God has for us as we pursue intimacy with Him. Wouldn’t it be beautiful if every day was accomplished and without blemish? Smooth easy days with no trials or troubles. No red lights on our way to appointments. No one needing our time or attention while we are already busy with something else that needs to be completed. No spills on white carpet. All of our relationships run smoothly with no disagreements or misunderstandings. No products we need at the store cleaned off the shelf before we get there. I know I’m being silly, but you must admit, all our minds have desired a perfect day at one time or another, but God knows that a perfect world would not bring us to our knees before Him. Proverbs 23:26 says, “My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in My ways.” I understand that the context this verse is used for in the Bible is sexual sin, but the truth of it applies to any situation. God wants our heart; He desires that we seek Him and His ways. Without a need for the Lord, we may not choose to seek, grow a relationship with, or depend on Him. Eternity would not be a destination for us. We would simply hope to gain all we could here on earth and remain in our selfish, empty lifestyle forever. I think it’s incredibly important to recognize that at times our emotions and feelings get in the way of seeing clearly. Our ability to think and live with our heart and mind focused on eternity gets blocked. Sometimes, it seems that life continues to knock us down. We fall to our knees before the Lord, but the harsh realities of life in this broken world crash on us day after day without relief in sight. Although hardships can feel unending, Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us that no season lasts forever. God wants our faith and trust to be constructed on such a solid foundation that nothing can crack it. No matter what life looks or feels like, His desire is for us to continue to steadfastly cast our cares and hope on Him. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 says it well. “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” Life can be devastatingly hard, but God is with us. He is working ahead of, with, and behind us to allow exactly what we need to experience. Remember, our life is not just about us. Aren’t you fascinated by the intricacy of God’s plans and the inter-woven plots and twists that He executes? He has everything under control, even if we don’t see, feel, or recognize it. Will every day be perfect? That depends on how I look at it. 1 Thessalonian 5:16-18 reminds us to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” At times we may wonder whether we are following the plans God has for our lives. When times are difficult or we don’t receive answers we are seeking, it’s easy to try to pull situations into our own hands and wonder whether God cares or is watching over us. Wise advice comes from James 1:22, which says, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” Keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Remain faithful in crafting a genuine relationship with the Lord through reading His word and conversing through prayer. Make time to have quiet moments to speak to Him, not just in prayer, but in sharing your thoughts and life. Listen for Him to speak. Give God time to respond in His timing. Trust in Him, despite circumstances. Jesus displayed how He escaped to share quiet, personal moments with His Father. If Jesus modeled it, we know we require the same in our lives. Psalm 73:26 reminds us, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Those far from the Lord will perish, but those who abide in Him, who draw near to Him, so that He may draw nearer to them, will live with peace, joy, and assurance, despite anything that occurs in this world. Romans 8:13 tells us, “For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” Stop and think about how the Romans viewed and executed crucifixion. Look at the parallel between death on a cross and killing the desires of our flesh. Crucifixion was specific. It was personal to the individual. Ponder that we each have an opportunity for a personal relationship with Jesus and must destroy the acts of our own flesh daily through walking in the power of the Holy Spirit within us. Only through Jesus can those acts be crucified. Crucifixion was brutally painful. Just as death on the cross is unbearably hard for us to fully conceive, executing the deeds of our flesh is brutally hard. We cannot do it in our own strength. Only through Jesus can those deeds be crucified. Crucifixion is cruel. The individual being crucified was not to be removed from the cross until they were dead. We must ensure that we allow the Holy Spirit to execute the sins of our flesh. Only through Jesus can those sins be crucified. Romans 8:14 says, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.” As we abide in Him, we are changed, and His desires become ours. Put into practice what we read in His word. Simply reading and going about our day thinking we have had our “spiritual” time brings none of the fruits of the Spirit that we need to live a healthy life. Living a “checklist” life is just as effective as doing nothing at all. When we follow Jesus, we want the qualities He values and offers to be living and blooming inside us. This is what ensures that we are able to live with a spirit unaffected by daily ups and downs, even when we are living in incredibly difficult and dark times. It also ensures that when we are in the midst of an easy season we don’t pull away from the Lord, but rejoice in the knowledge that He is with us no matter what and that we are living through His strength and in His guiding arms. As James 1:17a reminds us, nothing we have or do is gained by our own strength or talents. “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above.” Psalm 37:4-5 says, “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act.” Delight means to take pleasure in. Commit means to be dedicated to or make a pledge to – it means to sacrifice our life and offer it to God. Continue trusting that everything occurring in our life will be used for good and to grow our relationship with our Heavenly Father if we are obedient in the areas He calls us to. There is beauty in imperfection. Embrace yours as it causes you to rely on Him. Everything that drives us to the Father’s arms is cause for gratitude. May we encounter more days that push our to our knees and guide us to His arms. May our faces be ever lifted toward the Son who abides in our hearts, helping us to live with eternal expectation and thankfulness. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #092 – Interview with Charlene Notgrass of Notgrass History – Part 2 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Have you learned tips or training during our homeschool series? Perhaps you’ve been encouraged in new ways or learned how to support a home educator you know. Today we will listen to Part Two of my conversation with Charlene Notgrass of Notgrass History. If you didn’t hear Part One yet, I encourage you to listen to the episode from last week. Charlene has such a heart for following Jesus and allowing Him to lead the education you shape for your child. Now, let’s listen to Part Two, as we continue where we left off in the last episode. -----------------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW ------------------------------------------------------------- It is such a blessing to listen to veteran homeschool parents who have stayed the course and are able to encourage and inspire as we continue in the journey or begin for the first time. You can connect with Charlene Notgrass at www.notgrass.com or follow her daily encouragement at www.notgrass.com/daily. As always, please feel free to let me know if you have specific questions I may be able to answer or if you need information or encouragement about a specific topic related to the podcast or interviews. You can reach me at info@terrihitt.com. Father God, thank you for Your holy presence in our life. Thank you for creating and knowing us, yet still desiring an intimate relationship with each one of us. We want that closeness with our families and for our children to know You well and choose You over culture. Father, we are grateful for the privilege of homechooling our children. We thank you that there are numerous resources to equip and encourage us, that there are women who follow You closely and can guide us straight to You. Help us to know and follow the good and perfect will You established for us and for our children when we were known by You in the secret place. Help us to be more pleasing and obedient to You daily. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 092 - Interview with Charlene Notgrass - Part 2 Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #092 – Interview with Charlene Notgrass of Notgrass History – Part 2 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Have you learned tips or training during our homeschool series? Perhaps you’ve been encouraged in new ways or learned how to support a home educator you know. Today we will listen to Part Two of my conversation with Charlene Notgrass of Notgrass History. If you didn’t hear Part One yet, I encourage you to listen to the episode from last week. Charlene has such a heart for following Jesus and allowing Him to lead the education you shape for your child. Now, let’s listen to Part Two, as we continue where we left off in the last episode. -----------------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW ------------------------------------------------------------- It is such a blessing to listen to veteran homeschool parents who have stayed the course and are able to encourage and inspire as we continue in the journey or begin for the first time. You can connect with Charlene Notgrass at www.notgrass.com or follow her daily encouragement at www.notgrass.com/daily. As always, please feel free to let me know if you have specific questions I may be able to answer or if you need information or encouragement about a specific topic related to the podcast or interviews. You can reach me at info@terrihitt.com . Father God, thank you for Your holy presence in our life. Thank you for creating and knowing us, yet still desiring an intimate relationship with each one of us. We want that closeness with our families and for our children to know You well and choose You over culture. Father, we are grateful for the privilege of homechooling our children. We thank you that there are numerous resources to equip and encourage us, that there are women who follow You closely and can guide us straight to You. Help us to know and follow the good and perfect will You established for us and for our children when we were known by You in the secret place. Help us to be more pleasing and obedient to You daily. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. https://www.notgrass.com https://www.notgrass.com/daily

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 105 - How to Move From Overwhelmed to Overjoyed Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 105 – How to Move From Overwhelmed to Overjoyed Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. You’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Being a mom is an indescribable gift. I think everyone can agree that being a mother can also bring a host of worries, pressures, and concerns. Whether you work inside or outside of the home, you carry loads that may feel like they can never be released to anyone else. Not only do you have everyday tasks like work, caring for the kids, meals, cleaning, chores, errands, and relationship referee. Motherhood also carries invisible duties your spouse may never think about. Remembering birthdays, anniversaries, events, activities, school requirements, meal-planning, doctor visits, and much more requires effort. Even more mentally exhausting duties fall to moms. No one else carries the responsibilities of maintaining the right size clothing in your ever-growing child’s closet, making sure you have nutritious snacks in your purse, or having supplies on hand for school projects, or last-minute cards and gifts tucked away in a closet. Moms are also usually the emotional gauge in the home. Moms are the first to notice when someone is getting sick, isn’t happy, is tired, or is having a bad day. Moms are the first to be concerned about the effects of culture on their children, how to raise children who know and follow Jesus, and to juggle getting everyone out of the door for church on Sunday mornings. No doubt about it. Motherhood isn’t for the weak. Most moms wish for a strong support system. One on the ground and one above all others. Our Heavenly Father. Hold on. Wait. Maybe we need to look at this with a different perspective . Maybe motherhood is for the weak. It’s best handled by moms who know they aren’t equipped. Instead, they’re ready for a Savior to rescue them. Because moms can easily become people-pleasers or perfectionists, we can be easily susceptible to anxiousness and overwhelm. It doesn’t help when comparison creeps in as moms look at what others have or are doing on social media. They compare what children of friends, family, or strangers have or do and wonder if they (themselves) are doing enough or if they are enough. That’s when “mom guilt” can rise up to cause distress and dilemmas. We know those feelings don’t come from God. Remember, overwhelm is caused in large part by expectations we allow others to place on us. Also by expectations placed on self . This seems a good time to share the old Eleanor Roosevelt quote, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Whether pressure is placed by you or others, it only takes effect when you allow it. Consider the words of Paul the apostle in 2 Corinthians 11:30, which say, “I will boast of the things that show my weakness .” Maybe motherhood is for the weak after all. But let us not boast in what we do, but in what God can and is doing within us and in our children as we surrender to Him. If you feel the beginnings of overwhelm or anxiety steal your peace or joy, try to remember you were never meant to carry these loads by yourself. In this episode we’re going to discuss different methods of coping with the thieves that attempt to steal the joy and peace you desire in your life and home. You deserve that peace. After all, remember what Jesus said in John 14:27 , “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid .” The first step in combating negative thoughts or feelings is to stop and fix your mind above . You have God’s Truths given through Scripture. I’ll share four others to memorize or keep on hand so that you can fix your heart and mind on these truths when overwhelm threatens to overtake your mood or day. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You .” Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will .” Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things .” Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus .” Next, think about your routine and schedule. Sometimes you can get stuck doing what you’ve always done. Just like you turn your computer off, then on again, and immediately it works as good as new, it may be time for a reboot. Your Kids grow and mature, schedules change, and we sometimes remain doing the same things in the same way. It might be time to adjust thinking, schedules, and activities. Consider these questions. Do you spend time scrolling social media and comparing yourself or your home, husband, or children to others? Do you have a busy life with no room to live the way you secretly desire? In other words, are you overscheduled, overburdened, and underjoyed? Are the things you’re pursuing going to be beneficial in the scheme of life? Do they serve an eternal purpose? Review your daily expectations. Evaluate what is a must. Consider what propels you toward eternity and an eternity-focused mindset. What is moving you and your family toward a godlier lifestyle and trimming away what isn’t beneficial to that goal? Do you allow yourself time to simply breathe? Or are you in constant activity and unable to enjoy time with your children or spouse? Are you able to hear yourself think? If not, you’re not going to be able to hear the still, small voice of God . Make sure to stop and consider these questions. Schedule time for God, spouse, and self. God should be a daily habit, interwoven through your day, but always beginning with recognizing Him. The more time you spend pursuing intimacy with God through Christ, the less overwhelming life will be. Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own .” Likewise, time with your spouse makes life sweeter as you reconnect and invest time in God together and with each other. Your marriage, home life, and parenting will bring you more joy and peace. Moment by moment. Day by day. Allow time for yourself - even if you have to find a support system to do it. Perhaps your husband has a work schedule that won’t allow for you to get alone time or time with friends. Get creative. Enlist parents, a friend from church, or a trusted neighbor or family member to spend time with your kids while you get a little time away. You can even swap time with a good friend and watch her children while she gets things done or relaxes at home, then you have your opportunity. Or have friends over and chat while your kids play together. Have a Bible study together and let the kids join it. Whatever schedule you desire can be worked out with time, patience, prayer, and creativity. Exercise is another important factor in reducing overwhelm and gaining joy. Eating properly and hydrating well are just as important. It’s easy to make excuse after excuse, but if you really want to feel or look different, your routine and actions have to change. Exercising and eating well definitely contributes to feeling well physically, mentally, and emotionally. I also believe that when you’re able to spend time outdoors, whether you are exercising or working in the garden, walking, etc., you also gain greater connection with God as you allow yourself to enjoy His creation. No matter where you are, begin. Put Him first and take the other steps I mentioned, even if you must start slowly. As your schedule and body are more in alignment with God, ensure that your mind is, too. Instead of practicing meditation, which calls you to empty your mind, fill yours with Scripture that edifies your soul. Remember, if you are intentional in seeking God first, despite feelings or circumstances, and you apply gratitude daily with the steps we discussed, overwhelm should fade, allowing overjoy to take its rightful position. Here’s a recap: God/Scripture/Prayer Relationships Self Schedules Exercise/Nutrition Outdoors If you take action, change these areas of your life, and stick with it for a time, but still have difficulties with overwhelm, or anxiety, it may be time to visit a Christian healthcare professional who can assess your overall health to see if there may be other areas that need attention. Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus .” Seek Him and see Him care for you – intimately and personally . Are you convinced now? Motherhood is for the weak. It’s for those who invite God to work within them. Motherhood is for the moms who know they need God and move over for Him to be the support system they rely on. With one foot on the ground and one in Heaven above, call on your Heavenly Father. Live with a perspective focused on eternity. Take pleasure in being weak and calling on Him to equip as you deepen your relationship with Him. Make Him known to your family. Be ready for your Savior to rescue you, to make a barrier between overwhelm and self so you feel the overjoy of life with God, despite circumstances. Dear Heavenly Father, How great and glorious You are. How we need You in our lives. Father, we are not equipped for the pressures and pains of this world, but You are. You give us all the tools we need to find you and deepen our faith and trust. Help us to do so in ways that honor and please You. Help us be the set-apart women You call us to be so we can give you joy and mentor the way for our children to find You. Help overjoy be the theme of our lives and homes. Erase overwhelm and when it threatens to raise its ugly head, extract it from our heart and mind quickly because we rely on You. Help our children to see our reactions and overjoy and reliance of You and grow to live the same way, completely unaffected by overwhelm. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with ambitious moms who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 027 - Facing Hard Stuff With Your Child Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #027 – Facing Hard Stuff With Your Child Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. The day our child accepts Jesus as their personal Savior and begins to grow in faith and maturity is a monumental day for families of believers! But if we stop there, thinking all is good and well now, we are mistaken and deceived. Teaching your child that they have a need for Christ, then guiding them with Holy reverence for God and His plans and purpose for them is the greatest joy you will experience as a parent. It is also one of the hardest tasks you will be privileged to complete. When I parented my first two children, I was a very young Christian lacking in discipleship and depth. I naively thought that once my children knew Jesus and professed to follow Him, all was good. Now I know it’s just that starting point. What an honor it is to be the one to lead your child to the feet of Jesus to know and follow His heart. There is nothing more important we can impart to our children than the truth and power of the Gospel of Christ. Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me .” This also pertains to helping our children grow in spiritual wisdom, their knowledge of and trust in God, and their insight into His Word, character, and desires. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus .” When we pray for God to mature our personal walk with Him and enable Him to lead our children in the ways He desires, you know He will honor those prayers! The closer we grow to the Lord and the stronger our mind and heart, our words, actions, and reactions reflect Him, the more our children will be drawn to Him as we lead and guide them in His Word and ways. It is not easy to see our children suffer through the various trials they encounter in this world. I praise God that I have His wisdom and Words to bring to my children. We are each blessed that although no child comes with a manual that tells us exactly how to proceed, we have been blessed with a playbook for life – the Bible. God’s Holy Word truly does carry everything we need. As we read and study the Bible, we see parallels in our own lives, we see the mistakes others have innocently and purposely made and the repercussions suffered personally and through generations because of them. We understand more clearly the ways God has gone before us to provide and protect, the way He sacrificed to bring us to himself, and we understand the more we study this gift of words we will better parent the children He entrusted to us. 1 Peter 5:6-10 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time He may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you .” The pain, but also the beauty of parenting is that each hardship or burden faced is not meant to be carried alone. I believe the key to parenting under the Lordship of Christ is to view every difficulty with joy that we are able to allow God to use it for His good purposes and to direct our child (and self) closer to Him through it. As we draw nearer to Jesus, our mind and heart are “reset.” As we allow Christ to continue transforming work inside us, our mindset adjusts so that we see the world more clearly through His viewpoint. If you are a parent, you understand that the hardship of watching your child suffer in any way. We want to rush in and rescue our precious baby, no matter what age they are. However, if we continue to direct them to God through every life circumstance, and allow the Lord to mentor us as we guide them through the pain and into His arms, we set our child up for eternal success. 1 Chronicles 16:11 says, “Seek the LORD and His strength; seek His presence continually !” If you listened to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 025, “Facing Hard Stuff to Become a Godlier Parent,” which aired 12/15/22, you may remember that I posed several questions and scriptures to help you face and overcome hardships in your life that may affect you as a parent. For this episode, I’ve taken many of those questions and applied them in a slightly different way for your child. Let’s hear those now. 1. Character Examination : The next two sections of questions is designed to help you examine your child and clearly see where you need to help them grow, where God can enable you to grow as you mentor them, and to help you think of other questions or recognize needs you may need to consider. How does your child handle problems? Does your child carry visible stress? Does your child know how to lift problems to God to carry them for him? Does your child close down when worried? Is your child prone to fall victim to anxiety or depression? What situations bring feelings of depression or unhappiness for your child? What steals your child’s joy? Does your child freely express emotions to you? Does your child find it difficult to talk about what bothers him? 2. Life Examination : How do you want your child to handle problems? How would you like to see your child react to stress? How would you like your child to interact with God? How would you like your child to communicate when challenged with troubles? How do you help your child maintain or find joy? How do you draw out open communication with your child? What do you want your child to learn about God through their current difficulty? How will the way you guide them lead them closer to God? 3. Eternal Examination : This section is designed for you to attempt to look at your child through eyes like our Heavenly Father. View the life of your child as God sees it for eternity . See where you can grow stronger in the Lord and allow God to mentor you to guide your child as He would have you. Every step of parenting should be discipling your child into the arms of Jesus. Viewing every trial and triumph through the lens of eternity will help you shape your child to be more Christlike daily. Ask God to lead you as you guide and help your child. Ask God for His Holy intervention and understanding. Ask God to open your eyes, heart, and mind to what your child needs. Ask God how to lead your child to a closer walk with Him. Ask God what your child needs from Him. Ask God what your child needs from you. Use the answers to these questions to guide your prayers for your child and seek God’s wisdom and ways. Don’t be discouraged or afraid when the trials hit. Use them to guide your child to the feet of Jesus. Teach them to confidently rely on Him and seek Him first. Set your child up for a lifelong, maturing relationship with Christ. Remember the promise of Romans 8:28 , which says, “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them .” Know that you cannot change your child, but leading them to Christ will . Examine your relationship with Jesus and seek His wisdom on how to be a godlier parent. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths .” Proverbs 3:7 says, “Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD, and turn away from evil.” Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it .” The last verse I read from Proverbs has been a tricky one for many. Obviously, a child will choose their own path. We know that we cannot force our children to accept Christ or follow Him with an obedient and humble heart. Yet, we know the truth, power, and wisdom in God’s word. It never returns void. I know that although God allows each of us, including our beloved children, to have free will, that if we continue to seek God with a humble, loving, trusting relationship with Jesus daily, and model that to our children in ways directed by Him, God will be faithful to His Word. Our Heavenly Father has dealt with prodigals often. He knows the heart of our children, He sees the work we offer Him as we raise them, and God knows what each of us must endure to come to and remain at His feet. Trust Him. Be consistent. He is faithful. He is good. He loves your child more than you do. He wants to spend eternity with your child. I find the three following verses full of promise and truth to remember in the hardest of times as you intentionally raise your child for Christ in this fallen world. James 4:7-8a says, “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you .” James 1:12 says, “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love Him .” Romans 5:3-5 says, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us .” Hard times will come, but they will also pass. Leading your children to Jesus, then patiently and painstakingly guiding them to trust Him despite circumstances and feelings takes effort. It takes faith and trust on your part. Christ will continue working in you, maturing your faith as you let Him. Leading you both to the foot of the cross in new and beautiful ways. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for Your holy sovereignty and mercy. Thank you for Your Son. We cannot begin to fully comprehend the goodness you have showered on us, but help us to trust and lead our children to You. May our parenting skills and faithfulness continue through all things and be a blessing to You and Your children. Father, Your Word tells us that in You we may have peace. You warned us that in this world we will have tribulation. But you also said that we can take heart because You have already overcome the world . Enable us to remember Your promises through the hard and the easy and to see through Your eyes for eternity as we mentor and mold the precious children You have entrusted to us. We so desperately need and desire You. In the name of Your Son, Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This and the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. I’d love to know. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcasts online so that more people are allowed to find and hear them. Will you please take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Parent and Connect With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 116 - Do Your Children Think You Play Favorites? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 116 – Do Your Children Think You Play Favorites? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, would you please share this episode with a friend or family member? Also, if you haven’t already, would you please take a moment to leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast? Sharing and leaving a review ensures that others will find the podcast. Then guess what? You’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode with an important question…do your children think you play favorites? When my husband and I were preparing to go to China to bring home our middle daughter, our son was already in his early twenties, but he was so excited. In fact, he said he’d always wanted a younger sibling. In contrast to him, our oldest daughter was in her mid-twenties, but her reaction was the opposite. Jaime had always been the only girl, and also the first grandchild on both sides. She was jealous, and told us so. Despite the age your children may be, having a sibling can lead to rivalry. Jealousy and frustration seem to be a common bond in many homes. Sometimes these emotions arise over something seemingly trivial. Or sometimes major disagreements cause the competition. Whatever the case, sibling jealousy or the thought that mom or dad are playing favorites might be in your child’s thoughts. It shouldn’t be surprising. When you consider that even adults can sometimes feel jealous or competitive, it’s easier to understand that children can have those thoughts and emotions. It doesn’t make their accusation true, but it’s easier to acknowledge how the thoughts can arise. Especially when you take into consideration personalities, age-spacing, or birth orders. As your study your family, consider how with friends, some people just seem to mesh well together. Certain friendships or types click. If you examine your personal interests, your personality, and the other personalities in your home like your spouse and children, it’s easier to understand that your kids could misunderstand your parenting techniques and plans very easily. You can begin to see that they might take a word you say or an action you make in a way that was not intended. Perhaps you share a common interest with one child, yet feel like you have nothing in common with another. You love them both dearly, but never run out of activities to share with the one who enjoys what you do. It’s easy for the second child in this example to feel misunderstood, neglected, or forgotten. Perhaps you have a child with a special talent or athletic ability and you travel a lot with that child and you go to every game, or a lot of activities with them. Maybe the other child is quieter, more private. Maybe they read or write a lot or they don’t have activities that require viewers. It would be easy for that child to feel that no one cares about their interests. They may begin to believe that the other child gets much more attention, not even realizing the reason behind that fact. Or you may have a child with special medical or learning needs. More time is spent with that child, and other children may build frustration or jealousy over time. Add in the personalities of each of you, the experiences in life so far, and shared interests I spoke of earlier. You could have a recipe for big feelings and challenges in your home. Just like with Cain and Abel, sibling rivalry got way out of hand. I wonder how aware Adam and Eve were of the hatred and jealousy Cain felt and the rage that was growing inside. I’m not saying you may have an issue this big in your home, but we need to be aware of the emotions of our children and the way they see and relate to what goes on around them. Because each person in the family sees the world through eyes and hearts with different experiences, influences, and routines, as well as genetic makeup, we may bond more easily with those who are just like us. Or maybe it’s those who are different that we can more easily craft deeper relationship. For whatever reason, humans are simply drawn to certain traits and characteristics. But as parents, we have to be aware of tendencies we carry that could lead us to appear that we’re playing favorites. I was so honored that my oldest daughter shared her thoughts of jealousy over getting a baby sister. Thoughts are important and drive feelings, which lead to actions. When our children are courageous enough to share intimate thoughts or emotions with us, we must listen. Maybe they’re right in what they feel. Maybe they’re not. But those feelings or emotions are valid and need to be processed. We need to respond to what feels like truth to them in that moment. I remember telling our oldest that I was so thankful she shared her thoughts. I assured her she didn’t need to be embarrassed. Then after we chatted a bit I asked her if I could share my thoughts. I told her to think of her dog. After she spoke of how much she loved her Miniature Schnauzer, I then told her to think of her cat. I reminded her that when she only had the one pet, her dog, she had never expected to love another animal. But when she got her cat, love for her dog didn’t decrease. Instead, her heart expanded to make room for even more love for the cat. All this time, her heart kept allowing her to continue loving both animals more every day. Then after she expressed how true the analogy was, I assured her that was how we felt when we had her. We never thought we’d love another baby like we did her. Then her brother came along. Our hearts grew to allow room to love both and it kept growing with more love for them daily. Our hearts were just expanding again to allow love for our new baby Marissa to join the family. Jaime immediately understood this analogy. Plus, she had time to savor the truth of how love works before her sister came home. Guess what? Once she met her new sibling, she fell head over heels in love. In fact, she often referred to Marissa as “the smartest baby alive.” This experience with my oldest daughter made me wonder about ways parents can assure children that they don’t need to worry about whether they play favorites. But what if the child is right? Sometimes it does happen, whether purposely or by accident. What if one or both of a child’s parents do play favorites? I was reading an online article in Discover Magazine last week that stated 70% of parents admit to playing favorites. Now first, let me say that I’m not recommending this article. In all honesty, I didn’t agree with a lot of it, but the fact that there was such a high percentage of parents who admitted to favoritism between children surprised me. What I do believe however, is that whether or not there is favoritism, a child’s thoughts dictate their feelings and behaviors. Meaning there can be long-term effects from even the misconception that you play favorites. In fact, children who simply believe their parents play favorites are more prone to drug and alcohol use as early as the preteen or teen years. They also are more susceptible to depression, aggressiveness, and poor academic work. All that matters in this situation is whether your child thinks you play favorites. It is good to remember that there will be times when you do treat your children differently. Older children, for example generally have more privileges and responsibilities than younger. The younger child may want to do everything the older child gets to do, and think you’re being unfair or playing favorites. The older child may feel the burden of responsibility and believe the younger child has an unfairly easy life. The truth is that you and I will never be perfect mothers, but we can place safety rails on the track of our relationship with our children. Here are eight tips to help your children feel assured that you don’t play favorites: 1. Don’t compare kids – each of your children is personally created by God for unique purposes. Teach them this beautiful truth as they grow up. Help them and (yourself) identify the gifts, interests, and talents crafted into them. Ask God to give you His eyes to see and heart to love the special children He has entrusted to you. 2. Don’t set yourself up to be accused of favoritism – When you compare your children or spend noticeably more time with one over others, your children will most likely question your feelings for them in comparison. 3. Do spend individual time with each child – I know you’re probably already stretched on time, but make sure to look for ways to spend individual time with each child. Every day there are countless ways to show attention to each one. It begins with looking them in the eye when you speak. Smiling at them when they enter a room. Hugging them when you see them. Little gestures go a long way to build connection. If you have a lot of responsibilities and several children and find it difficult to be alone with them, consider setting dates on the calendar to let them know you prioritize the time you have. Make sure the time you have with them is by the language God coded into them. For example, if your child loves art, visit a museum or do a craft together. If your child is a sports nut, play a game together or go watch a game. You can even spend time at home watching a game on the sofa together. When you reach them where their interests are, you show them your love and care are genuine. You prove you accept them as they are and don’t want them to be like a sibling or anyone else. 4. Do validate feelings – Look for changes in behavior of your child. Watch their eyes. I can tell so much from the expression my youngest gives. It’s easy to see whether she is joyous or disappointed. Since I know her, I easily recognize many of her feelings through her eyes. If your child is like this, mention that they seem (whatever mood) and start a conversation to learn more about how they are feeling. Listen when they tell you, without shrugging their words off and telling them things will be okay or that they are wrong. Let them express how they feel and believe that they’re heard before you attempt to offer solutions. 5. Do work together to find a resolution – Once you know how your child feels, find what you can do to help. Does your child need extra attention or time with you? Does your child need direction on how to resolve an issue with a sibling? Whatever you uncover can make your relationship closer as you work together, even if it takes time and intentionality. 6. Do model and maintain strong communication – To help ensure your children don’t get the wrong impression of your relationship with them or others in the family, keep lines of communication open. Look for ways to begin and continue conversation each day. Don’t let disagreements linger. Respect opinions and feelings. If you want them to share feelings, make sure you share yours, too. 7. Pray for your children daily. Pray specific prayers and pray Scripture. Pray for yourself and your spouse. 8. Say “I love you” every chance you get. I’m surprised by the number of families who don’t speak the words enough. You never know when you’ll see someone for the last time. Make sure they’ve heard you say “I love you” recently. Make sure you’ve shown them you love them in your actions, too. Be the godly mentor you’ve been entrusted to be for your children. Keeping your ears and eyes alert and watchful for signs of animosity or disagreements between your children will help ensure your family doesn’t get stuck in a muck of jealousy. If your children tell you they believe you’re playing favorites, don’t argue. Let them speak their mind and express thoughts or feelings. You’re blessed that they trusted you enough to communicate with you, and you will be able to use some of the tips mentioned in this podcast to repair or restore relationship quickly. Dear Heavenly Father, we bow before You with humble gratitude and love. Thank you for Your goodness and gracious gift of Your children in our life. We know we aren’t enough to parent them. But You are. We have Your Word and the gift of prayer to keep us connected. Please help us remember to utilize these blessings to reach our children where they are and help them move where You want them to go. Help us be godly moms who show no favoritism, but parent as You would have us to. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. This is the part of the episode that you usually hear me talk about the Set-Apart Collective. Today I want to share about my new mini program called “Establish Identity.” Why? Your identity is a major force behind what you do. Who you believe yourself to be, and who you find your identity through affects the way you live, parent, love, serve, and discipline. Your identity is one of the lifelines, a pulse point of your home. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Even if they are grown, your identity affects your child. The way you think, speak, and react is rooted in your identity. Send me a message at info@terrihitt.com if you’d like details or go to terrihitt.com and join my email list. You’ll get updates before anyone else and hear a little about what makes this so important. If you join the email list you’ll also be able to access free resources such as my new Good to Godly: A 31 Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #063 – Praying Scripture – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. On a recent Sunday evening, I asked my family to sit with me for a special prayer time. Are you this way? Do you need to share your heart with your family to get their support through prayer? That is exactly how I was feeling. I knew I could pray on my own, but I had ideas to ponder, emotions to share, and needed input from the people who know and love me the best and who would agree to pray with me because they also believe in the power of lifting requests to our Heavenly Father. At our house, my youngest receives electronic privileges before bedtime. When we all sat down to talk, it was less than an hour before her scheduled time to play, but I felt fairly certain we would be finished before she would see the clock ticking into her special time. As I began sharing all that I was experiencing and the needs I wanted my family to pray about, the clock chimed eight o’clock and we were still talking. After sharing all the feelings and thoughts that were heavy on my heart, Brooklyn asked if we could pray. Assuming she was antsy to get finished, I agreed that we could go ahead and pray at that time. We decided who would pray first and who would end, and began. Several minutes later, we finished, and I told our girl she could be excused to play. Wanting to stay with us, she looked a little surprised. I was blessed to hear her say that she wanted to stay and finish the discussion with us. So often, we assume we know what others are thinking or what their motives are. How wrong we can be. Brooklyn had wanted to get our prayer started because she knew I needed it. My heart was emotionally needy for what only God could provide, and recognizing this, she jumped ahead to get guidance and assistance from God started immediately. If you also pray regularly with your family, I bet you will agree that it is difficult to imagine life without this simple act of obedience and faith. Praying together has grown each of us individually and collectively in ways only God can explain. He goes before us, paving ground that we need later and providing for us in intimate ways only the Lord can know. James 5:13-16 says, “Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven. Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” Praying together opens our hearts to God in ways that invites His intervention. We also create deeper intimacy with our loved ones as we pray together. Whether we are suffering hardships, living in fullness of joy, praising, in need of healing, or forgiveness, God desires our heartfelt and faithful pleas to intercede with His will. The Lord honors a parent raising their children for Him and delights when we teach them to rely on Him for all of their needs and are living examples as to how to do so. Matthew 18:20 says, “For where two or three gather together in My name, there am I with them.” God delights in blessing families who invite Him into their midst to pray together. Praying together is essential. Do you know what makes prayer time more effective and meaningful? Using scripture to pray. Although my family is good about praying together, I want us to become stronger at praying God’s word daily. Praying scripture enables us to become stronger at knowing God’s word and allows us to release His power into our life. Specifically seeking His word and utilizing it in our prayers is a faithful and trusting act of obedience as we rely on God’s powerful words and truths. To pray His word, we must know it, study it, and claim it. By purposely connecting our heart to God’s and intentionally praying His words, we are beseeching our Heavenly Father to use His will, just as Jesus modeled for us. In order to prepare ourselves or our family to deepen prayer time individually and collectively by drawing nearer to God and using His word as ours, we may need to examine and adjust the way we pray. Prepare your heart and mind to connect with intimate devotion to God by crafting your language to align with scripture. Here are a few examples of how to enter the presence of the Lord and initiate your prayer. Ephesians 3:12 says, “Because of Christ and our faith in him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence.” When praying scripture, we simply craft God’s words and truths into the prayer we speak to Him. When entering God’s presence through prayer, we may use this verse from Ephesians to say, “Father, because of your gift to us through Christ, and the faith I have in Him, I thank you that I can now boldly and confidently enter into Your presence.” Hebrews 10:19-23 says, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, we can boldly enter heaven’s Most Holy Place because of the blood of Jesus. By his death, Jesus opened a new and life-giving way through the curtain into the Most Holy Place. And since we have a great High Priest who rules over God’s house, let us go right into the presence of God with sincere hearts fully trusting him. For our guilty consciences have been sprinkled with Christ’s blood to make us clean, and our bodies have been washed with pure water. Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.” Using this passage, our prayer could be, Gracious Heavenly Father, because of the blood of Jesus, I know I can enter Your Most Holy Place. By His death Jesus has given me intimate and holy access to You. I enter Your presence with a sincere heart of trust knowing my guilt has been covered through the sacrifice of the blood of Jesus. I know that because He has washed me with pure water, I can hold tightly and without waver to the hope You have affirmed and that I can trust You to keep Your promises to me. Romans 8:26-28 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Our prayer through this passage might be, Holy Spirit, I trust that You help me in my weakness. Draw near to me. My emotions are too complex; I cannot utter what I need to pray. Please intercede and express my needs in groanings that cannot be expressed by mere words. My Heavenly Father, Who knows all hearts, will understand as You plead for me in harmony with His will. I believe that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. Thank you for Your goodness and faithfulness to me. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.” This beautiful verse can be spoken as we enter into prayer or call upon His truths from this verse when we need protection, reassurance, or comfort. Father God, Your way is perfect; Your word is flawless. You are my shield when I take refuge in You. Do you see the beauty and inspiration God’s word brings? Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Praying God’s living, active word releases His profound power as we believe, trust, and call upon it to judge our intentions and do the work God wills. Why don’t most of us utilize this method of prayer more often? Probably because our lives are so fast-paced that we tend to believe we can come to God with requests when we need to. We do not stop to consider that we possess privilege and strength in God’s holy word. By relying on self, even though we do not consciously realize we are doing it, we lose the strength, peace, joy, and relief we could access at any moment, as well as the power released when we pray God’s word. We also miss the blessing of a more personal and intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father, who created us to enjoy fellowship with Him. 2 Samuel 22:31 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.” Let’s examine several Bible verses and how we can accept God’s invitation to seek refuge in Him through His perfect word and ways. Most mothers pray not only for themselves, but seek God through prayer for their spouse, children, and family. We also offer intercessory pray for friends, co-workers, strangers, and elected officials. Possibilities for prayer are vast. So is God’s omnipotence. Imagine the authority and blessings we miss when we consider ourselves too busy to delve into His word and claim His truths as our provision in every area. Praying scripture strengthens our bonds with God as we trust His word and rely on Him for every need as our mind and heart align with His. Ecclesiastes 5:2 says, “Do not be quick to speak, and do not be hasty in your heart to utter a word before God. After all, God is in heaven and you are on earth. So let your words be few.” When we begin praying with God’s word, our mind and heart are directed toward His desires and will for us and others. We should not hastily come before Him with our own agenda. God’s word allows us to see with His eyes and submit to His heart and sovereignty. Isaiah 55:6-9 says, “Seek the Lord while He may be found; call on Him while He is near. Let the wicked man forsake his own way and the unrighteous man his own thoughts; let him return to the Lord, that He may have compassion, and to our God, for He will freely pardon. “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.” Studying, then using God’s word as the groundwork for our prayers allows us to absorb His truths and righteousness in ways we may have never experienced. As we use the verses from Isaiah 55, our prayer could be something like this: Father, I seek You while You may be found, I call on You while You are near. Help me forsake my own way, will, and thoughts and return to You while You have compassion and will freely pardon. My thoughts are certainly not Yours, as my ways are not Yours. As the heavens are higher than the earth, Your ways and thoughts are higher than mine. I submit to You and Your ways for me. Approaching God, our Father, the Creator of heaven and earth with a sincere and humble heart ready to accept His will for us and genuinely craving to please and follow Him changes the way we pray. It alters our desires. It cleanses our heart and mind and prepares our spirit for His cleansing and higher growth in and for Him. Prayer exposes our core belief system. Kneeling before our Lord in supplication, whether literally or through our heart, mindset, and actions, is a natural extension of our personal relationship with and our trust, faith, and belief in Him. Our reliance on God through the act of prayer exhibits our dependence on our Heavenly Father, humbling our position with Him, and improving the level of our reliance on Him. How do we establish this lifestyle of prayer? The important word to ponder shouldn’t be how, but rather, Who. Jesus is our life and prayer model. When God sent His son to earth as a sacrifice for our sins and to form a way to Him, it was the most extravagant gift He could give us. Our sovereign God stepped into this world through flesh to exist and walk among us. He came to show us exactly how to live, suffer, love, rejoice, and how to pray. Each day should bring us closer to the Father’s heart in numerous ways, prayer included. As we depend on the Father through the act of prayer, we humbly seek Him in new and deeper ways by using His sacred, living word as a guide for submission, conversation, and conversion with Him. Prepare to connect with God in intimate devotion by shifting your heart to align with scripture, our Father’s will. 1. Jesus’s prayers were an example for us to follow. Jesus is God in human form. Jesus did not need to pray, yet He lived and suffered as a human, relinquishing everything for us, even to the point of death, modeling the ways we are to live as we trust in and rely on Him. 2. Jesus prayers were the perfect instruction in communication. Every prayer He uttered is a holy framework for us to follow. 3. Jesus’s prayers modeled submission in the purest form. Jesus genuinely shared all: His heart, fears, pain, sorrows, hopes, anything. Yet, He did not expect to get His way. Jesus trusted God’s sovereign will and ways and yielded His desires to the Father. 4. Jesus’s prayers proved reliance on God. Rather than complaining or protesting, Jesus accepted the will of God and honored what He was called to do, despite great suffering and personal cost. Prayer instructs us in holiness. Just as Jesus modeled for us, we must pray in specific ways. As we offer God’s holy words back to Him through prayer we accomplish the ability to do the following: 1. Pray with sincerity. 2. Pray with submission to holy preeminence. 3. Pray with faith. 4. Pray with trust in God’s timing. 5. Pray with heart, but yield to God’s will. 6. Pray consistently. 7. Pray with focus. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So My word that proceeds from My mouth will not return to Me empty, but it will accomplish what I please, and it will prosper where I send it.” May the prayer we offer be something like this: Father, I know that every word that proceeds from Your mouth will not return to You empty. Your words will prosper as they accomplish what You please. Help my thoughts and attitude be as Yours are and my words be Yours as I speak my heart and requests. Now that we realize the importance of praying not only the words of our soul, but of aligning our heart, mind, and words to match God’s through study of the Bible and growth of our relationship with Him through Jesus, may we deepen our walk even more through scriptural prayers. Join me next week as I share several verses, scripture passages, and craft prayers from each that will help us study, learn, and use God’s words as the backbone of prayer time with our Heavenly Father. Heavenly Father, Hallelujah! How good it is to sing praises to You, our God. How pleasant and lovely our words are to You as we lift praise and submission to Your will through Your holy words to us. Thank you for allowing us Jesus as our perfect sacrifice and mentor to bring us to You. Your words are faithful and true. Help our hearts be the same as we draw nearer to You. Help us hear and lift Your words as a sacrifice and offering to know and follow You more deeply. Thank you for sending us truth, love, and hope. In Your precious and holy name we pray. Amen Thank you for listening to this podcast. If prayer is a topic you would like to learn more about, you may enjoy listening to episode 18, “Prayer.” Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit my website to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 063 - Praying Scripture - Part 1 Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #063 – Praying Scripture – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. On a recent Sunday evening, I asked my family to sit with me for a special prayer time. Are you this way? Do you need to share your heart with your family to get their support through prayer? That is exactly how I was feeling. I knew I could pray on my own, but I had ideas to ponder, emotions to share, and needed input from the people who know and love me the best and who would agree to pray with me because they also believe in the power of lifting requests to our Heavenly Father. At our house, my youngest receives electronic privileges before bedtime. When we all sat down to talk, it was less than an hour before her scheduled time to play, but I felt fairly certain we would be finished before she would see the clock ticking into her special time. As I began sharing all that I was experiencing and the needs I wanted my family to pray about, the clock chimed eight o’clock and we were still talking. After sharing all the feelings and thoughts that were heavy on my heart, Brooklyn asked if we could pray. Assuming she was antsy to get finished, I agreed that we could go ahead and pray at that time. We decided who would pray first and who would end, and began. Several minutes later, we finished, and I told our girl she could be excused to play. Wanting to stay with us, she looked a little surprised. I was blessed to hear her say that she wanted to stay and finish the discussion with us. So often, we assume we know what others are thinking or what their motives are. How wrong we can be. Brooklyn had wanted to get our prayer started because she knew I needed it. My heart was emotionally needy for what only God could provide, and recognizing this, she jumped ahead to get guidance and assistance from God started immediately. If you also pray regularly with your family, I bet you will agree that it is difficult to imagine life without this simple act of obedience and faith. Praying together has grown each of us individually and collectively in ways only God can explain. He goes before us, paving ground that we need later and providing for us in intimate ways only the Lord can know. James 5:13-16 says, “Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven. Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” Praying together opens our hearts to God in ways that invites His intervention. We also create deeper intimacy with our loved ones as we pray together. Whether we are suffering hardships, living in fullness of joy, praising, in need of healing, or forgiveness, God desires our heartfelt and faithful pleas to intercede with His will. The Lord honors a parent raising their children for Him and delights when we teach them to rely on Him for all of their needs and are living examples as to how to do so. Matthew 18:20 says, “For where two or three gather together in My name, there am I with them.” God delights in blessing families who invite Him into their midst to pray together. Praying together is essential. Do you know what makes prayer time more effective and meaningful? Using scripture to pray. Although my family is good about praying together, I want us to become stronger at praying God’s word daily. Praying scripture enables us to become stronger at knowing God’s word and allows us to release His power into our life. Specifically seeking His word and utilizing it in our prayers is a faithful and trusting act of obedience as we rely on God’s powerful words and truths. To pray His word, we must know it, study it, and claim it. By purposely connecting our heart to God’s and intentionally praying His words, we are beseeching our Heavenly Father to use His will, just as Jesus modeled for us. In order to prepare ourselves or our family to deepen prayer time individually and collectively by drawing nearer to God and using His word as ours, we may need to examine and adjust the way we pray. Prepare your heart and mind to connect with intimate devotion to God by crafting your language to align with scripture. Here are a few examples of how to enter the presence of the Lord and initiate your prayer. Ephesians 3:12 says, “Because of Christ and our faith in him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence.” When praying scripture, we simply craft God’s words and truths into the prayer we speak to Him. When entering God’s presence through prayer, we may use this verse from Ephesians to say, “Father, because of your gift to us through Christ, and the faith I have in Him, I thank you that I can now boldly and confidently enter into Your presence.” Hebrews 10:19-23 says, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, we can boldly enter heaven’s Most Holy Place because of the blood of Jesus. By his death, Jesus opened a new and life-giving way through the curtain into the Most Holy Place. And since we have a great High Priest who rules over God’s house, let us go right into the presence of God with sincere hearts fully trusting him. For our guilty consciences have been sprinkled with Christ’s blood to make us clean, and our bodies have been washed with pure water. Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.” Using this passage, our prayer could be, Gracious Heavenly Father, because of the blood of Jesus, I know I can enter Your Most Holy Place. By His death Jesus has given me intimate and holy access to You. I enter Your presence with a sincere heart of trust knowing my guilt has been covered through the sacrifice of the blood of Jesus. I know that because He has washed me with pure water, I can hold tightly and without waver to the hope You have affirmed and that I can trust You to keep Your promises to me. Romans 8:26-28 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Our prayer through this passage might be, Holy Spirit, I trust that You help me in my weakness. Draw near to me. My emotions are too complex; I cannot utter what I need to pray. Please intercede and express my needs in groanings that cannot be expressed by mere words. My Heavenly Father, Who knows all hearts, will understand as You plead for me in harmony with His will. I believe that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. Thank you for Your goodness and faithfulness to me. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.” This beautiful verse can be spoken as we enter into prayer or call upon His truths from this verse when we need protection, reassurance, or comfort. Father God, Your way is perfect; Your word is flawless. You are my shield when I take refuge in You. Do you see the beauty and inspiration God’s word brings? Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Praying God’s living, active word releases His profound power as we believe, trust, and call upon it to judge our intentions and do the work God wills. Why don’t most of us utilize this method of prayer more often? Probably because our lives are so fast-paced that we tend to believe we can come to God with requests when we need to. We do not stop to consider that we possess privilege and strength in God’s holy word. By relying on self, even though we do not consciously realize we are doing it, we lose the strength, peace, joy, and relief we could access at any moment, as well as the power released when we pray God’s word. We also miss the blessing of a more personal and intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father, who created us to enjoy fellowship with Him. 2 Samuel 22:31 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him.” Let’s examine several Bible verses and how we can accept God’s invitation to seek refuge in Him through His perfect word and ways. Most mothers pray not only for themselves, but seek God through prayer for their spouse, children, and family. We also offer intercessory pray for friends, co-workers, strangers, and elected officials. Possibilities for prayer are vast. So is God’s omnipotence. Imagine the authority and blessings we miss when we consider ourselves too busy to delve into His word and claim His truths as our provision in every area. Praying scripture strengthens our bonds with God as we trust His word and rely on Him for every need as our mind and heart align with His. Ecclesiastes 5:2 says, “Do not be quick to speak, and do not be hasty in your heart to utter a word before God. After all, God is in heaven and you are on earth. So let your words be few.” When we begin praying with God’s word, our mind and heart are directed toward His desires and will for us and others. We should not hastily come before Him with our own agenda. God’s word allows us to see with His eyes and submit to His heart and sovereignty. Isaiah 55:6-9 says, “Seek the Lord while He may be found; call on Him while He is near. Let the wicked man forsake his own way and the unrighteous man his own thoughts; let him return to the Lord, that He may have compassion, and to our God, for He will freely pardon. “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.” Studying, then using God’s word as the groundwork for our prayers allows us to absorb His truths and righteousness in ways we may have never experienced. As we use the verses from Isaiah 55, our prayer could be something like this: Father, I seek You while You may be found, I call on You while You are near. Help me forsake my own way, will, and thoughts and return to You while You have compassion and will freely pardon. My thoughts are certainly not Yours, as my ways are not Yours. As the heavens are higher than the earth, Your ways and thoughts are higher than mine. I submit to You and Your ways for me. Approaching God, our Father, the Creator of heaven and earth with a sincere and humble heart ready to accept His will for us and genuinely craving to please and follow Him changes the way we pray. It alters our desires. It cleanses our heart and mind and prepares our spirit for His cleansing and higher growth in and for Him. Prayer exposes our core belief system. Kneeling before our Lord in supplication, whether literally or through our heart, mindset, and actions, is a natural extension of our personal relationship with and our trust, faith, and belief in Him. Our reliance on God through the act of prayer exhibits our dependence on our Heavenly Father, humbling our position with Him, and improving the level of our reliance on Him. How do we establish this lifestyle of prayer? The important word to ponder shouldn’t be how, but rather, Who. Jesus is our life and prayer model. When God sent His son to earth as a sacrifice for our sins and to form a way to Him, it was the most extravagant gift He could give us. Our sovereign God stepped into this world through flesh to exist and walk among us. He came to show us exactly how to live, suffer, love, rejoice, and how to pray. Each day should bring us closer to the Father’s heart in numerous ways, prayer included. As we depend on the Father through the act of prayer, we humbly seek Him in new and deeper ways by using His sacred, living word as a guide for submission, conversation, and conversion with Him. Prepare to connect with God in intimate devotion by shifting your heart to align with scripture, our Father’s will. 1. Jesus’s prayers were an example for us to follow. Jesus is God in human form. Jesus did not need to pray, yet He lived and suffered as a human, relinquishing everything for us, even to the point of death, modeling the ways we are to live as we trust in and rely on Him. 2. Jesus prayers were the perfect instruction in communication. Every prayer He uttered is a holy framework for us to follow. 3. Jesus’s prayers modeled submission in the purest form. Jesus genuinely shared all: His heart, fears, pain, sorrows, hopes, anything. Yet, He did not expect to get His way. Jesus trusted God’s sovereign will and ways and yielded His desires to the Father. 4. Jesus’s prayers proved reliance on God. Rather than complaining or protesting, Jesus accepted the will of God and honored what He was called to do, despite great suffering and personal cost. Prayer instructs us in holiness. Just as Jesus modeled for us, we must pray in specific ways. As we offer God’s holy words back to Him through prayer we accomplish the ability to do the following: 1. Pray with sincerity. 2. Pray with submission to holy preeminence. 3. Pray with faith. 4. Pray with trust in God’s timing. 5. Pray with heart, but yield to God’s will. 6. Pray consistently. 7. Pray with focus. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So My word that proceeds from My mouth will not return to Me empty, but it will accomplish what I please, and it will prosper where I send it.” May the prayer we offer be something like this: Father, I know that every word that proceeds from Your mouth will not return to You empty. Your words will prosper as they accomplish what You please. Help my thoughts and attitude be as Yours are and my words be Yours as I speak my heart and requests. Now that we realize the importance of praying not only the words of our soul, but of aligning our heart, mind, and words to match God’s through study of the Bible and growth of our relationship with Him through Jesus, may we deepen our walk even more through scriptural prayers. Join me next week as I share several verses, scripture passages, and craft prayers from each that will help us study, learn, and use God’s words as the backbone of prayer time with our Heavenly Father. Heavenly Father, Hallelujah! How good it is to sing praises to You, our God. How pleasant and lovely our words are to You as we lift praise and submission to Your will through Your holy words to us. Thank you for allowing us Jesus as our perfect sacrifice and mentor to bring us to You. Your words are faithful and true. Help our hearts be the same as we draw nearer to You. Help us hear and lift Your words as a sacrifice and offering to know and follow You more deeply. Thank you for sending us truth, love, and hope. In Your precious and holy name we pray. Amen Thank you for listening to this podcast. If prayer is a topic you would like to learn more about, you may enjoy listening to episode 18, “Prayer.” Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit my website to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #084 – No Worry Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes that will equip each of us to concentrate on Jesus and live with heart and mind focused on eternity to seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. Let’s start growing together now. I’ve got big news to share! Just a few days ago my family brought home a new puppy! Saying those words feels so surreal. As much as I loved our dogs, Max and Misty, which you may know passed away this summer, I am joyful to have this new baby. But I am not crazy about the puppy stage. At least I haven’t been in the past. God is doing a new work in me. Let me back up a little. If you have been listening to this podcast for a while, you know about us losing both of our dogs in June of this year. If you are a new listener, I’ll add a little background. Max was our ten year old Golden Retriever and the biggest Mama’s boy! Max was what we called a “Velcro dog” who was always in the middle of whatever we were doing. He was a 70 something pound baby who thought he was the size of our Miniature Schnauzer, Misty, who left us at 13 years old. Misty loved music and would melt when you sang to her. Her eyes were so beautiful with long sparkly eyelashes and her gentle gaze was full of love and trust, somehow even more so when she gazed at my husband. Both of our dogs were sweet and loving. They went to school with us and participated in every activity we had going at home. They were deeply loved and it was a hard blow when they both suddenly turned ill and passed away; Max on June 18th and Misty on June 21st. One death was hard, but then just three days later, the other was gone. Although it wasn’t significant at the time, the importance of the number between the days of loss is special to me. God knows every detail. Nothing is overlooked. Max passed, then three days later, Misty was gone. Unknown to us at the time…a litter of puppies was born three hours away from us three days after Misty passed away. Three days later. Guess what time the first one was born? Three in the morning. Why is this so important? That first puppy born in that litter at 3:00 am was the runt and is now our baby. A sweet baby boy who was exactly what we love. He is handsome, loving, smart, sweet, and a big softie. Just like the two goldens we have had before. Why do I keep mentioning the number three? In the Bible, the number three is very significant. Numerous times (and for a variety of reasons) God’s word mentions the number 3 in scripture with mighty importance. Waiting periods, times of important spiritual actions, purity, healings, and most importantly, the resurrection of Jesus are all examples of the noteworthy moments the number 3 is used. Think about this truth. My family never would have been looking for a dog if our precious pets were still alive. Our adults dogs were well trained and loved us! We cherished them. Our sweet babies are deeply missed and have left a mark on our hearts forever. Yet God allowed a plan that none of us understand or wanted at the time. and the bittersweet situation has brought us a darling baby who has brought new love and life into our home. God blessed us with a puppy who reminds me of a mini Max, yet has his own special characteristics. We’re so happy to watch him grow into the dog meant exactly for us when he was woven together in secret. God’s eyes saw his unformed body and all the days ordained for him were written in His book before He ever came to be. Nothing is overlooked by our Heavenly Father, who lovingly cares for our every need and goes before us in all ways. As we train our new baby, we recognize his curiosity and readiness to explore everything. Yet he is very easily distracted, and we remember that at just eight weeks old, his mind and actions are like those of a toddler. It makes me ponder how easily humans tend to sway from our intentions to live with eternal perspective focused on our relationship with Jesus. Just as our efforts to train our puppy are important, because everything he learns will add up to who he becomes, each moment we purpose for eternity matters. Just as these following questions are important to ensure that we stay on course to run the race God has set before us and to equip us to finish well. 1. Do I switch interest to something easier or more convenient at that moment or am I committed to living a life that honors and pleases my Heavenly Father? 2. Do I twist theology to meet or match my interests or sins? 3. Do I remember to capture the mindset and thanksgiving of Jesus despite what each day brings? Yesterday I was on the phone for hours in preparation for our youngest daughter’s upcoming medical procedures. I lost count of the number of departments that called me. Toward the end of the day, another person called to talk about what our financial obligation will be. As I felt my frustration growing inside, I wanted to make snarky comebacks to the words she said. It would have been so easy and I felt justified in the moment. But God. He reminded me that what I was feeling in the moment was not of His mindset. It was not within His plan. There was a reason this particular person was responsible for calling me at this very moment. Instead of lipping off to her with the thoughts and emotions I felt inside, God asked me to gently explain why I wouldn’t be paying the over three thousand dollar portion of what was expected that insurance would not cover after the procedure next week, during our phone call today. As I spoke with her, gently allowing her to see me as another human whose child was about to undergo a procedure, she confided in me the details of her own life, assuring me that she understood. She had lost her grandchild six years ago and understood what it was like to have a child who needed medical care. We were able to talk about the peace only God can give, opening the door to discussing the mighty ways only He provides. We live in a time where not many get along if our viewpoints seem to be different. Yet everyone has a story and the bottom line is that we are all human sinners in need of grace and repentance. Too many people are full of hatred for others right now if they disagree with their choices, instead of accepting that God formed us with free will and the right to live in accordance with it, deciding what is best for our body and our family. We have been talking about the peace only Jesus can give over the last few Live With Eternal Perspective episodes. The Lord has been so intimately concerned with the details involved with what my family has faced the last few weeks with different responsibilities, procedures, and incidents. But isn’t He always this way? God’s word promises us how much He cares. It assures us that He is always present. The more we look for and to Him, we see His mighty compassion, concern, love, and provision in both miraculous and sometimes simple ways. Next up on our family schedule is the heart catherization and liver biopsy scheduled next week for my youngest daughter. Just as perfect peace surrounded me with my recent biopsy, which returned with a benign report, He is carrying us with a peace only He provides. It’s not easy to remain peaceful when issues concern our children, yet God is the ultimate provider. His complete and perfect peace really can rest on and through us when we fix our minds on Him. Our level of peace really rests on whether our trust is centered on Him. Statistics show that approximately 77 percent of people feel stressed or carry worries. Polls also show that approximately 65 percent of people claim to be Christians. God’s word is very clear about releasing our stressors to Him. The New Living translation of 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” This Bible translation is easy to comprehend, yet listen to the Amplified Version. “Casting all your cares, all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your concerns, once and for all on Him, for He cares about you with deepest affection, and watches over you very carefully.” He cares for us with deepest affection. Did you let that truth penetrate you? He watches over us very carefully. Not just me. Not just your neighbor. Not just the lady across the street. He watches over you very carefully. Knowing God loves us with an everlasting and intimate love is comforting if we have a personal relationship through Jesus. Then we are able to walk more and more closely moment by moment and focus on Him with an eternal perspective that drives us ever closer to the Lord daily. Philippians 4:6-9 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me, put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” God allows us free minds to pursue what we desire. Not all that we search for or chase is profitable or worthy. Nothing can fill us with the everlasting sense of peace and satisfaction that Jesus can. Through the scripture I read, Philippians 4:6-9, we are reminded that God is ready for our petitions to Him and is waiting to hear from our heart. He desires to offer each of us a peace that surpasses any understanding and will guard our hearts and our minds in Christ. He also offers instructions on how to begin to achieve that peace and promises that He will be with us. So what happens if we don’t feel that peace? Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Be strong and courageous; do not be afraid or terrified of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble.” When we feel peace is absent, we can trust that God is not. When peace is not felt, we must consider our relationship with God through Jesus. James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you encounter trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Allow perseverance to finish its work, so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” Psalm 55:22 says, “Cast your burden on the Lord, And He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the righteous to be moved.” Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace.” Continue with a strong focus on repentance and relationship with God through Jesus. Know that His word is true. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So My word that proceeds from My mouth will not return to Me empty, but it will accomplish what I please, and it will prosper where I send it.” Matthew 24:35 says, “Heaven and earth will disappear, but my words will never disappear.” Isaiah 40:8 says, “The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.” Invest time in the Lord. Place Him first in your daily schedule. Everything else will fall into place behind Him. Gracious and loving Heavenly Father, how we try so hard to carry loads on our own shoulders when You boldly and lovingly invite us to hand them to You. Forgive us for our unbelief or pride that keeps us from following You in the way You desire and request. Lord, Your word is so true. You re all You profess, plus more than we can imagine. You have such good and perfect gifts for us, yet You desire that we love you for the sake of loving You. We do, Father. Help us to discover a deepening love for You moment by moment as we pursue You and find You in new ways that will carry us into eternity with You, bringing many with us because we allowed You to work through us as we stepped out of Your way and allowed Your perfect peace and humility to cloak us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. As we finish the month of August with episodes suggesting past Live With Eternal Perspective episodes, I suggest that you might like to listen (or re-listen) to a few of the first recorded episodes last year. Episode 001 Heart Conditions Episode 003 Obedience Episode 004 Eternity Driven Hearts I pray these episode will encourage you afresh as you purposely seek the Father and renew or deepen your walk with Him daily. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 084 - No Worry Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #084 – No Worry Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes that will equip each of us to concentrate on Jesus and live with heart and mind focused on eternity to seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. Let’s start growing together now. I’ve got big news to share! Just a few days ago my family brought home a new puppy! Saying those words feels so surreal. As much as I loved our dogs, Max and Misty, which you may know passed away this summer, I am joyful to have this new baby. But I am not crazy about the puppy stage. At least I haven’t been in the past. God is doing a new work in me. Let me back up a little. If you have been listening to this podcast for a while, you know about us losing both of our dogs in June of this year. If you are a new listener, I’ll add a little background. Max was our ten year old Golden Retriever and the biggest Mama’s boy! Max was what we called a “Velcro dog” who was always in the middle of whatever we were doing. He was a 70 something pound baby who thought he was the size of our Miniature Schnauzer, Misty, who left us at 13 years old. Misty loved music and would melt when you sang to her. Her eyes were so beautiful with long sparkly eyelashes and her gentle gaze was full of love and trust, somehow even more so when she gazed at my husband. Both of our dogs were sweet and loving. They went to school with us and participated in every activity we had going at home. They were deeply loved and it was a hard blow when they both suddenly turned ill and passed away; Max on June 18th and Misty on June 21st. One death was hard, but then just three days later, the other was gone. Although it wasn’t significant at the time, the importance of the number between the days of loss is special to me. God knows every detail. Nothing is overlooked. Max passed, then three days later, Misty was gone. Unknown to us at the time…a litter of puppies was born three hours away from us three days after Misty passed away. Three days later. Guess what time the first one was born? Three in the morning. Why is this so important? That first puppy born in that litter at 3:00 am was the runt and is now our baby. A sweet baby boy who was exactly what we love. He is handsome, loving, smart, sweet, and a big softie. Just like the two goldens we have had before. Why do I keep mentioning the number three? In the Bible, the number three is very significant. Numerous times (and for a variety of reasons) God’s word mentions the number 3 in scripture with mighty importance. Waiting periods, times of important spiritual actions, purity, healings, and most importantly, the resurrection of Jesus are all examples of the noteworthy moments the number 3 is used. Think about this truth. My family never would have been looking for a dog if our precious pets were still alive. Our adults dogs were well trained and loved us! We cherished them. Our sweet babies are deeply missed and have left a mark on our hearts forever. Yet God allowed a plan that none of us understand or wanted at the time. and the bittersweet situation has brought us a darling baby who has brought new love and life into our home. God blessed us with a puppy who reminds me of a mini Max, yet has his own special characteristics. We’re so happy to watch him grow into the dog meant exactly for us when he was woven together in secret. God’s eyes saw his unformed body and all the days ordained for him were written in His book before He ever came to be. Nothing is overlooked by our Heavenly Father, who lovingly cares for our every need and goes before us in all ways. As we train our new baby, we recognize his curiosity and readiness to explore everything. Yet he is very easily distracted, and we remember that at just eight weeks old, his mind and actions are like those of a toddler. It makes me ponder how easily humans tend to sway from our intentions to live with eternal perspective focused on our relationship with Jesus. Just as our efforts to train our puppy are important, because everything he learns will add up to who he becomes, each moment we purpose for eternity matters. Just as these following questions are important to ensure that we stay on course to run the race God has set before us and to equip us to finish well. 1. Do I switch interest to something easier or more convenient at that moment or am I committed to living a life that honors and pleases my Heavenly Father? 2. Do I twist theology to meet or match my interests or sins? 3. Do I remember to capture the mindset and thanksgiving of Jesus despite what each day brings? Yesterday I was on the phone for hours in preparation for our youngest daughter’s upcoming medical procedures. I lost count of the number of departments that called me. Toward the end of the day, another person called to talk about what our financial obligation will be. As I felt my frustration growing inside, I wanted to make snarky comebacks to the words she said. It would have been so easy and I felt justified in the moment. But God. He reminded me that what I was feeling in the moment was not of His mindset. It was not within His plan. There was a reason this particular person was responsible for calling me at this very moment. Instead of lipping off to her with the thoughts and emotions I felt inside, God asked me to gently explain why I wouldn’t be paying the over three thousand dollar portion of what was expected that insurance would not cover after the procedure next week, during our phone call today. As I spoke with her, gently allowing her to see me as another human whose child was about to undergo a procedure, she confided in me the details of her own life, assuring me that she understood. She had lost her grandchild six years ago and understood what it was like to have a child who needed medical care. We were able to talk about the peace only God can give, opening the door to discussing the mighty ways only He provides. We live in a time where not many get along if our viewpoints seem to be different. Yet everyone has a story and the bottom line is that we are all human sinners in need of grace and repentance. Too many people are full of hatred for others right now if they disagree with their choices, instead of accepting that God formed us with free will and the right to live in accordance with it, deciding what is best for our body and our family. We have been talking about the peace only Jesus can give over the last few Live With Eternal Perspective episodes. The Lord has been so intimately concerned with the details involved with what my family has faced the last few weeks with different responsibilities, procedures, and incidents. But isn’t He always this way? God’s word promises us how much He cares. It assures us that He is always present. The more we look for and to Him, we see His mighty compassion, concern, love, and provision in both miraculous and sometimes simple ways. Next up on our family schedule is the heart catherization and liver biopsy scheduled next week for my youngest daughter. Just as perfect peace surrounded me with my recent biopsy, which returned with a benign report, He is carrying us with a peace only He provides. It’s not easy to remain peaceful when issues concern our children, yet God is the ultimate provider. His complete and perfect peace really can rest on and through us when we fix our minds on Him. Our level of peace really rests on whether our trust is centered on Him. Statistics show that approximately 77 percent of people feel stressed or carry worries. Polls also show that approximately 65 percent of people claim to be Christians. God’s word is very clear about releasing our stressors to Him. The New Living translation of 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” This Bible translation is easy to comprehend, yet listen to the Amplified Version. “Casting all your cares, all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your concerns, once and for all on Him, for He cares about you with deepest affection, and watches over you very carefully.” He cares for us with deepest affection. Did you let that truth penetrate you? He watches over us very carefully. Not just me. Not just your neighbor. Not just the lady across the street. He watches over you very carefully. Knowing God loves us with an everlasting and intimate love is comforting if we have a personal relationship through Jesus. Then we are able to walk more and more closely moment by moment and focus on Him with an eternal perspective that drives us ever closer to the Lord daily. Philippians 4:6-9 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me, put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” God allows us free minds to pursue what we desire. Not all that we search for or chase is profitable or worthy. Nothing can fill us with the everlasting sense of peace and satisfaction that Jesus can. Through the scripture I read, Philippians 4:6-9, we are reminded that God is ready for our petitions to Him and is waiting to hear from our heart. He desires to offer each of us a peace that surpasses any understanding and will guard our hearts and our minds in Christ. He also offers instructions on how to begin to achieve that peace and promises that He will be with us. So what happens if we don’t feel that peace? Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Be strong and courageous; do not be afraid or terrified of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble.” When we feel peace is absent, we can trust that God is not. When peace is not felt, we must consider our relationship with God through Jesus. James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you encounter trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Allow perseverance to finish its work, so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” Psalm 55:22 says, “Cast your burden on the Lord, And He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the righteous to be moved.” Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace.” Continue with a strong focus on repentance and relationship with God through Jesus. Know that His word is true. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So My word that proceeds from My mouth will not return to Me empty, but it will accomplish what I please, and it will prosper where I send it.” Matthew 24:35 says, “Heaven and earth will disappear, but my words will never disappear.” Isaiah 40:8 says, “The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.” Invest time in the Lord. Place Him first in your daily schedule. Everything else will fall into place behind Him. Gracious and loving Heavenly Father, how we try so hard to carry loads on our own shoulders when You boldly and lovingly invite us to hand them to You. Forgive us for our unbelief or pride that keeps us from following You in the way You desire and request. Lord, Your word is so true. You re all You profess, plus more than we can imagine. You have such good and perfect gifts for us, yet You desire that we love you for the sake of loving You. We do, Father. Help us to discover a deepening love for You moment by moment as we pursue You and find You in new ways that will carry us into eternity with You, bringing many with us because we allowed You to work through us as we stepped out of Your way and allowed Your perfect peace and humility to cloak us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. As we finish the month of August with episodes suggesting past Live With Eternal Perspective episodes, I suggest that you might like to listen (or re-listen) to a few of the first recorded episodes last year. Episode 001 Heart Conditions Episode 003 Obedience Episode 004 Eternity Driven Hearts I pray these episode will encourage you afresh as you purposely seek the Father and renew or deepen your walk with Him daily. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #141 – Why Should I Seek Jesus Early in the Morning? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last summer we replaced siding on our house. From the month of April, when we decided to start this huge endeavor and I began collecting quotes from various contractors to the end of October when our entire home was clothed in new siding guaranteed to keep the woodpeckers away, a total of 6 months had passed! That’s half a year! During that time, we had contractors in the yard at any moment as they dropped by to check progress on the house. Workers were almost always present ripping off siding, hammering, and stomping on the roof carrying supplies and making repairs. Throughout each day I’d receive texts or phone calls with multiple questions or updates. I learned very quickly that it was important for me to prioritize anything I needed to get done each day. It was also essential that I let them know certain times that I would be unavailable. Even when they could see me through the windows of the house. For example, first thing every morning after my youngest daughter awakens, she and I have a date to play. This is a non-negotiable in our schedule. Unless she has surgery or there is an appointment beyond our control, our time together takes priority. How frustrating it was for both of us when the siding replacement brought disruption to her one-on-one time with me every day. Since she’s been home with us in August of 2015, we have made our time together something we both look forward to. It has bonded and attached us and allowed her freedom to explore interests and share passions. It has allowed me to know her sweet nature and understand what she may need to process. It became apparent early on that I needed to tell the workers (and she needed to hear me say the words) that I had a play date in the morning. The time I devoted to my daughter was important enough to dictate that I was not to be disturbed, even when they saw me at the kitchen table playing. This is the way we should set aside time to be with God. Just as my daughter can see whether I seem to place importance on our time together, and whether I uphold my word that we will have time together for just the two of us, God sees directly into our hearts. He knows the level of desire we carry for Him. He knows the battles we face and the effort we exert to overcome obstacles just to be with Him. Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Seeking and following God mattered to Jesus. It was a time He prioritized and set-apart. In order to be a person of godly integrity, in order to carry godly wisdom, in order to know God and make Him known, we must seek to do the same. Jesus was willing to make Himself rise early in the morning. Jesus was willing to step away from others and privately enjoy time alone with the Father. His pursuit of God even though He was already fully God, yet fully man, models how to live in a way that is set-apart and sanctified for the Kingdom of God. The way we prioritize our time, even our lack of time, shows our character and desires. What we set-apart to complete first becomes habit if we are consistent over time. New patterns in our thoughts, actions, and reactions are established when we arrange the time we are given for eternal purposes. If we examine the life of Jesus, we see that He spent His life actively pursuing what would bring Him closer to God. Jesus intentionally prioritized what He needed to do in order to mature His faith and obedience. You may wonder if you must seek God early in the morning. If you don’t will you offend God? Does not seeking Him early constitute a sin? I am not aware of a specific Scripture that commands we must seek God only in the morning or early each day. Actually, Scripture tells us that God is waiting for us whenever we come to Him. However, Scripture does expose a pattern of early morning risers for God. What we prioritize exposes what we pursue. If we plan to prepare for time with our Heavenly Father through praise, prayer, and the Word, we are most likely to be most successful in those aspirations if we attempt to complete our time with God in the morning. What we prioritize is less likely to be pushed aside or rescheduled, thinking we’ll come back to it later. But it depends on the schedule we currently keep and the season of life we are in. Psalm 119:147 says, “I rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in Your word.” Early morning time with God through prayer and Scripture align our spirit and mind with His, allowing God’s strength, wisdom, and endurance to guide our thoughts, words, actions, and reactions throughout each day, and it instigates important growth that attaches us to our Father first thing in the morning before we face trials or tragedies. I remember when my oldest daughter passed away in 2009, I later found out that at the very time she passed from this earth, I was studying Scripture and completing a Bible Study I was in at the time. I was incredibly thankful my day had started with Jesus and He was carrying me into the worst day of my life so far. Isaiah 33:2 says, “Lord, be gracious to us; we long for You. Be our strength every morning, our salvation in time of distress.” Isaiah 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Just as Scripture says, we must remember that we carry free will. We can choose the best time to study and pray with God. Life has seasons. God knows what demands we face. He sees and understands our deepest desires. God knows when we long for deeper relationship with Him and He recognizes if we simply push Him away for later. Our Heavenly Father searches our heart and sees into the brightest and darkest areas we may not even know exist. He lovingly blesses those who seek Him with deep love and longing and He knows which of us long to do whatever we need to in order to develop a holy desire for Him. Psalm 88:13 says, “But I cry to you for help, Lord; in the morning my prayer comes before You.” Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” James 4:8 says, “Come near to God and He will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” The more we seek our Father, the closer He draws to us. As we draw near to Him, our hunger and thirst miraculously multiplies. Seeking Him early and often allows us a fellowship sweeter than any this world offers. Psalm 42:1 says, “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for You, my God.” Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” There is nothing that will ever satisfy your heart and mind like intensely seeking and finding God through a personal relationship with Jesus that allows you to know Him more intimately daily. Psalm 63:1-5 says, “You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek You; I thirst for You, my whole being longs for You, in a dry and parched land where there is no water. I have seen You in the sanctuary and beheld Your power and Your glory. Because Your love is better than life, my lips will glorify You. I will praise You as long as I live, and in Your name I will lift up my hands. I will be fully satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise You.” I’m going to share a verse that reminds us no one, not even Jesus found it simple to break away from the distractions and busyness of life to pray. People often mobbed him. He had disciples around and people needing attention and healing. But Jesus was diligent. He knew what He needed and what the Father desired. Mark 1:35-37 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed. Simon and his companions went to look for Him, and when they found Him, they exclaimed: “Everyone is looking for You!” The passage of Scripture reminds me of Luke 2:48-52, which says, “When His parents saw Him, they were astonished. “Child, why have You done this to us?” His mother asked. “Your father and I have been anxiously searching for You.” “Why were you looking for Me?” He asked. “Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” But they did not understand the statement He was making to them. Then He went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But His mother treasured up all these things in her heart. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” Jesus recognized and respected the necessity of being with the Father. He ensured that His day was scheduled to accommodate the Father’s wishes to spend time with Him, to instruct and guide, to pursue and protect. Do you regularly consider how deeply God yearns to spend intimate time with you? Consistent prayer time and time to read and study Scripture is vital for believers. You cannot know the mind and desires of God without knowing His Word. You will not recognize lies from this world if you do not know the truths of God. Think of the demands Jesus dealt with daily! Yet He made it a priority to make time to get away and enjoy solitude with His Heavenly Father. Jesus made sure He broke away from everyone and everything first thing in the morning to converse with and hear God. He knew where He received strength, wisdom, guidance, protection, insight, and clarity of mind, as well as so many other qualities and blessings. This short verse reminds each of us that it is imperative for us, no matter what time of day we use, to find time with God daily. It is not surprising that the last act Jesus completed on this earth was to rise from the grave. Of course, He prioritized this miraculous feat and completed it early in the morning. John 20:1 says, “Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance.” May you and I strive to become more like Christ daily. He understands the seasons and demands of your life this very minute. If you ask Him to enable you to find the right times to meet with Him, He will honor that prayer. Dear sovereign, holy God, who resides in Heaven above, yet within and around us, great is your mercy and love for each one of us. Thank you for Your grace and pursuit. Thank you for leaving us the greatest example through Jesus. May we see all He did more clearly and may His words and actions bring us humbly to our knees before You. Help each of us to evaluate our lives and obligations through Your eyes and heart. Help us to see where we can alter our schedules to allow more time for crafting deeper relationships with You. Enable us to allow transformation of heart, mind, and soul from spending quality time in pursuit of You. We thank you for allowing us free will to choose You, but ask that You help us stay in pursuit of You now and forever. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? 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Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #141 – Why Should I Seek Jesus Early in the Morning? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last summer we replaced siding on our house. From the month of April, when we decided to start this huge endeavor and I began collecting quotes from various contractors to the end of October when our entire home was clothed in new siding guaranteed to keep the woodpeckers away, a total of 6 months had passed! That’s half a year! During that time, we had contractors in the yard at any moment as they dropped by to check progress on the house. Workers were almost always present ripping off siding, hammering, and stomping on the roof carrying supplies and making repairs. Throughout each day I’d receive texts or phone calls with multiple questions or updates. I learned very quickly that it was important for me to prioritize anything I needed to get done each day. It was also essential that I let them know certain times that I would be unavailable. Even when they could see me through the windows of the house. For example, first thing every morning after my youngest daughter awakens, she and I have a date to play. This is a non-negotiable in our schedule. Unless she has surgery or there is an appointment beyond our control, our time together takes priority. How frustrating it was for both of us when the siding replacement brought disruption to her one-on-one time with me every day. Since she’s been home with us in August of 2015, we have made our time together something we both look forward to. It has bonded and attached us and allowed her freedom to explore interests and share passions. It has allowed me to know her sweet nature and understand what she may need to process. It became apparent early on that I needed to tell the workers (and she needed to hear me say the words) that I had a play date in the morning. The time I devoted to my daughter was important enough to dictate that I was not to be disturbed, even when they saw me at the kitchen table playing. This is the way we should set aside time to be with God. Just as my daughter can see whether I seem to place importance on our time together, and whether I uphold my word that we will have time together for just the two of us, God sees directly into our hearts. He knows the level of desire we carry for Him. He knows the battles we face and the effort we exert to overcome obstacles just to be with Him. Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Seeking and following God mattered to Jesus. It was a time He prioritized and set-apart. In order to be a person of godly integrity, in order to carry godly wisdom, in order to know God and make Him known, we must seek to do the same. Jesus was willing to make Himself rise early in the morning. Jesus was willing to step away from others and privately enjoy time alone with the Father. His pursuit of God even though He was already fully God, yet fully man, models how to live in a way that is set-apart and sanctified for the Kingdom of God. The way we prioritize our time, even our lack of time, shows our character and desires. What we set-apart to complete first becomes habit if we are consistent over time. New patterns in our thoughts, actions, and reactions are established when we arrange the time we are given for eternal purposes. If we examine the life of Jesus, we see that He spent His life actively pursuing what would bring Him closer to God. Jesus intentionally prioritized what He needed to do in order to mature His faith and obedience. You may wonder if you must seek God early in the morning. If you don’t will you offend God? Does not seeking Him early constitute a sin? I am not aware of a specific Scripture that commands we must seek God only in the morning or early each day. Actually, Scripture tells us that God is waiting for us whenever we come to Him. However, Scripture does expose a pattern of early morning risers for God. What we prioritize exposes what we pursue. If we plan to prepare for time with our Heavenly Father through praise, prayer, and the Word, we are most likely to be most successful in those aspirations if we attempt to complete our time with God in the morning. What we prioritize is less likely to be pushed aside or rescheduled, thinking we’ll come back to it later. But it depends on the schedule we currently keep and the season of life we are in. Psalm 119:147 says, “I rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in Your word.” Early morning time with God through prayer and Scripture align our spirit and mind with His, allowing God’s strength, wisdom, and endurance to guide our thoughts, words, actions, and reactions throughout each day, and it instigates important growth that attaches us to our Father first thing in the morning before we face trials or tragedies. I remember when my oldest daughter passed away in 2009, I later found out that at the very time she passed from this earth, I was studying Scripture and completing a Bible Study I was in at the time. I was incredibly thankful my day had started with Jesus and He was carrying me into the worst day of my life so far. Isaiah 33:2 says, “Lord, be gracious to us; we long for You. Be our strength every morning, our salvation in time of distress.” Isaiah 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Just as Scripture says, we must remember that we carry free will. We can choose the best time to study and pray with God. Life has seasons. God knows what demands we face. He sees and understands our deepest desires. God knows when we long for deeper relationship with Him and He recognizes if we simply push Him away for later. Our Heavenly Father searches our heart and sees into the brightest and darkest areas we may not even know exist. He lovingly blesses those who seek Him with deep love and longing and He knows which of us long to do whatever we need to in order to develop a holy desire for Him. Psalm 88:13 says, “But I cry to you for help, Lord; in the morning my prayer comes before You.” Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” James 4:8 says, “Come near to God and He will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” The more we seek our Father, the closer He draws to us. As we draw near to Him, our hunger and thirst miraculously multiplies. Seeking Him early and often allows us a fellowship sweeter than any this world offers. Psalm 42:1 says, “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for You, my God.” Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” There is nothing that will ever satisfy your heart and mind like intensely seeking and finding God through a personal relationship with Jesus that allows you to know Him more intimately daily. Psalm 63:1-5 says, “You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek You; I thirst for You, my whole being longs for You, in a dry and parched land where there is no water. I have seen You in the sanctuary and beheld Your power and Your glory. Because Your love is better than life, my lips will glorify You. I will praise You as long as I live, and in Your name I will lift up my hands. I will be fully satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise You.” I’m going to share a verse that reminds us no one, not even Jesus found it simple to break away from the distractions and busyness of life to pray. People often mobbed him. He had disciples around and people needing attention and healing. But Jesus was diligent. He knew what He needed and what the Father desired. Mark 1:35-37 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed. Simon and his companions went to look for Him, and when they found Him, they exclaimed: “Everyone is looking for You!” The passage of Scripture reminds me of Luke 2:48-52, which says, “When His parents saw Him, they were astonished. “Child, why have You done this to us?” His mother asked. “Your father and I have been anxiously searching for You.” “Why were you looking for Me?” He asked. “Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” But they did not understand the statement He was making to them. Then He went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But His mother treasured up all these things in her heart. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” Jesus recognized and respected the necessity of being with the Father. He ensured that His day was scheduled to accommodate the Father’s wishes to spend time with Him, to instruct and guide, to pursue and protect. Do you regularly consider how deeply God yearns to spend intimate time with you? Consistent prayer time and time to read and study Scripture is vital for believers. You cannot know the mind and desires of God without knowing His Word. You will not recognize lies from this world if you do not know the truths of God. Think of the demands Jesus dealt with daily! Yet He made it a priority to make time to get away and enjoy solitude with His Heavenly Father. Jesus made sure He broke away from everyone and everything first thing in the morning to converse with and hear God. He knew where He received strength, wisdom, guidance, protection, insight, and clarity of mind, as well as so many other qualities and blessings. This short verse reminds each of us that it is imperative for us, no matter what time of day we use, to find time with God daily. It is not surprising that the last act Jesus completed on this earth was to rise from the grave. Of course, He prioritized this miraculous feat and completed it early in the morning. John 20:1 says, “Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance.” May you and I strive to become more like Christ daily. He understands the seasons and demands of your life this very minute. If you ask Him to enable you to find the right times to meet with Him, He will honor that prayer. Dear sovereign, holy God, who resides in Heaven above, yet within and around us, great is your mercy and love for each one of us. Thank you for Your grace and pursuit. Thank you for leaving us the greatest example through Jesus. May we see all He did more clearly and may His words and actions bring us humbly to our knees before You. Help each of us to evaluate our lives and obligations through Your eyes and heart. Help us to see where we can alter our schedules to allow more time for crafting deeper relationships with You. Enable us to allow transformation of heart, mind, and soul from spending quality time in pursuit of You. We thank you for allowing us free will to choose You, but ask that You help us stay in pursuit of You now and forever. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #128 – Living to Flourish through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Psalm 92:12-15 says, “The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The LORD is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.” As I read this passage last week, the eloquent wording grabbed my attention. Perhaps because I’m older, I appreciated the beauty, but had to learn more about why there was such an intentional comparison to a palm tree. As I researched, I learned that the palm grows steadily over time, largely unaffected by elements of nature, unlike other types of trees that can be more susceptible to what happens around them. The palm tree stands perfectly upright under varying conditions, and survives from generation to generation. Since I didn’t know anything about a cedar of Lebanon, I also researched this impressive tree, and found that it grows to be very large. Just the width can get to about 35 or 40 feet around, plus the boughs spread over 100 feet wide. What is most impressive and significant for the purpose of this comparison to aging is that the tree flourishes for ages, and is always green. When the cedar of Lebanon is cut down, the wood is exceptionally beautiful, durable, and, in many ways incorruptible. Both the palm tree and the cedar of Lebanon bear fruit in old age, and as the verses eloquently show us, we can carry much beauty and grace in aging when we seek and humbly follow the Lord. I especially valued the fact that palm trees stay “fresh and green” and are largely unaffected by the elements of nature. We each know that the elements of this life can be as stormy as the roughest seas. To draw the comparison to my own life at this time, I recently found that someone we know and trusted isn’t who he appeared. It would be so easy to be swayed by emotions and allow my fleshly nature to override how God would call me to react. As I processed my emotions, conversed with the Lord, prayed, and moved on, I rested in the assurance that my character, as it continues to mature through Christ each moment, can remain fresh and green, unmoved by the elements of life in this broken world. I can release the relationship I thought we had with this person and move on, praying for him as he comes to mind, but clinging more tightly to the relationship I hold with Jesus without becoming bitter or angry. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” Our Almighty God wastes nothing. I think of the purpose our Creator had when He created nature and placed man and woman beneath the glorious sky and lush trees. Since I walk outside often with my middle daughter, I understand the ability to connect with God in ways we’re unable to inside buildings. Obviously, we can be close to God as we read and study His word and converse with Him indoors, but being in nature connects us in a significantly deeper way with His nature. Imagine Adam and Eve living in the Garden of Eden. God created absolute paradise for them to abide with Him. Perfect temperature, safety, freedom, and beauty surrounded them, and they neither knew nor imagined anything different. Like us, they took what they had for granted, probably never appreciating what they held until it was taken away after their dreadful, sinful mistake. Knowing God made a perfect home for them within nature, let’s examine the passage from Psalm 92:12-15 in a deeper way. I believe the poetic structure of the wording reveals so much about God’s view on aging and the way we are to advance toward godliness of character humbly and purposely for and through Him. Would you agree that we can easily recognize our society worships youth? Often treated as disposable, the elderly or even those of us who are aging are ignored or looked over for jobs, opinions, or advice. Instead of being shown the respect we have earned or noting the value we carry through acquired experience and wisdom, many younger people, and our society, tend to devalue elderly people. Through the wording in Psalm 92:12-15, we experience the thoughts God carries for those older than us. More specifically, the ones who have spent a lifetime seeking and following Him, recognizing, and openly proclaiming God as their rock and strength. What can we learn from those more experienced in following the Lord? Let’s see what God’s word teaches: Verse 12 says,” The righteous will flourish like a palm tree.” We know there is pain and heartache in this broken world, but we can trust God’s word. Despite the suffering on earth, we are promised that those who seek, know, follow, and obey the Lord will flourish. Although His definition may be different than what we sometimes hope for, we know He is sovereign and as Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” I’ve never considered “growing like a palm tree,” but I’ve always loved them. Any time we’ve gone on vacation where palm trees grow, I’m instantly ready to bask in the warmth I know I’ll find in that location. So, as I read the verse, all I immediately felt was the comparison that I could be warm to others, so they could see Christ in me. But I knew that the writer of these words would have a much deeper meaning with this word choice. Did you know that palm trees are known for their long life? If we were to flourish like a palm tree, we would have a long and productive life for Christ. Only God knows what that definition would hold as He has unique and beautiful plans for each one of us. Unless we are standing tall and flourishing for Him, we may never realize the blessings of doing so. Growing like a cedar of Lebanon was never anything I thought of doing. in fact, I never even knew what the tree looked like, but as I researched and learned about it, I’m ready to be compared to one. Strong, solid, and immovable, a person living like a cedar of Lebanon would be upright, strong in the Lord, and the trials and tragedies of this world would not move them from their faith. In fact, anything they face only thrusts their roots into deeper and richer soil. The strength and vitality of both trees allow them to continue bearing fruit into old age, just as those who cling to Christ and live uprightly as they come to know and show Him more clearly through daily life will do. Isaiah 46:4 says, “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” As we mature our walk with God through Christ and live to glorify and honor Him, He continues to go before us, sustaining and carrying us as we humbly release self-control and let Him. Isaiah 40:29-31 says, “He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power. Though youths grow weary and tired, and vigorous young men stumble badly, yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary.” Have you faced situations in which you had no strength? Have you been in such despair that you had no idea how you would carry on or what to do next? If so, know that you were exactly where God desires you to be. In that space, you have a clearer view of your need for Him. For some, it is the only time they will allow God to carry the loads they stubbornly grasp tightly. When we finally realize we do not carry the capacity to endure all things alone we finally realize our true strength comes in and through Christ. Psalm 73:26 says, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” The worst times of my life have proven to be the best as that clear path to God has carried me to His waiting arms. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we learn to seek Christ in every moment, good or bad, joyful or sorrowful, we develop a relationship that lasts throughout the ages as He proves to be our constant comfort and perfect friend as we age. Job 12:12 says, “Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” Job’s words are true for those who have sought to grow relationship with God through Jesus and live in ways that bring them closer to Him moment by moment. Without reliance on Christ and seeking a life that reflects Him, our life will not bring clarity or understanding to self or others. What are you doing today that will advance your walk with Christ? How are you advancing His kingdom in the way you live? Each day is new. Every moment offers the chance to renew our walk with Christ and allow Him to carry us in new ways. Job 5:26 says, “You will come to the grave in full vigor, like sheaves gathered in season.” As we grow in fullness of love for Him through an abiding relationship over time, we can live with the expectation of sweet reunion with our Father and the Son. Will the life you leave behind be a legacy for you or one that points to Christ? Dear Heavenly Father, You are sovereign and worthy of praise, glory, and honor. Thank you for the gift You have given us through Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for providing a way to You through Him. Father, cause our hearts to crave You and reflect Jesus more each day. Help our walk with You to deepen daily during the quiet and the busy moments because we seek Your hands, face, and heart. May we age with grace learned through time spent with You and may Your love be evident to all, guiding them ever nearer to You. May our lives be testimonies of what time with You creates. Father, may our hearts adore You and shine Your perfect love and provision. Help us to live uprightly and stand on the rock that is carved by relationship with and dependence on You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 128 - Living to Flourish through Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #128 – Living to Flourish through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Psalm 92:12-15 says, “The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The LORD is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.” As I read this passage last week, the eloquent wording grabbed my attention. Perhaps because I’m older, I appreciated the beauty, but had to learn more about why there was such an intentional comparison to a palm tree. As I researched, I learned that the palm grows steadily over time, largely unaffected by elements of nature, unlike other types of trees that can be more susceptible to what happens around them. The palm tree stands perfectly upright under varying conditions, and survives from generation to generation. Since I didn’t know anything about a cedar of Lebanon, I also researched this impressive tree, and found that it grows to be very large. Just the width can get to about 35 or 40 feet around, plus the boughs spread over 100 feet wide. What is most impressive and significant for the purpose of this comparison to aging is that the tree flourishes for ages, and is always green. When the cedar of Lebanon is cut down, the wood is exceptionally beautiful, durable, and, in many ways incorruptible. Both the palm tree and the cedar of Lebanon bear fruit in old age, and as the verses eloquently show us, we can carry much beauty and grace in aging when we seek and humbly follow the Lord. I especially valued the fact that palm trees stay “fresh and green” and are largely unaffected by the elements of nature. We each know that the elements of this life can be as stormy as the roughest seas. To draw the comparison to my own life at this time, I recently found that someone we know and trusted isn’t who he appeared. It would be so easy to be swayed by emotions and allow my fleshly nature to override how God would call me to react. As I processed my emotions, conversed with the Lord, prayed, and moved on, I rested in the assurance that my character, as it continues to mature through Christ each moment, can remain fresh and green, unmoved by the elements of life in this broken world. I can release the relationship I thought we had with this person and move on, praying for him as he comes to mind, but clinging more tightly to the relationship I hold with Jesus without becoming bitter or angry. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” Our Almighty God wastes nothing. I think of the purpose our Creator had when He created nature and placed man and woman beneath the glorious sky and lush trees. Since I walk outside often with my middle daughter, I understand the ability to connect with God in ways we’re unable to inside buildings. Obviously, we can be close to God as we read and study His word and converse with Him indoors, but being in nature connects us in a significantly deeper way with His nature. Imagine Adam and Eve living in the Garden of Eden. God created absolute paradise for them to abide with Him. Perfect temperature, safety, freedom, and beauty surrounded them, and they neither knew nor imagined anything different. Like us, they took what they had for granted, probably never appreciating what they held until it was taken away after their dreadful, sinful mistake. Knowing God made a perfect home for them within nature, let’s examine the passage from Psalm 92:12-15 in a deeper way. I believe the poetic structure of the wording reveals so much about God’s view on aging and the way we are to advance toward godliness of character humbly and purposely for and through Him. Would you agree that we can easily recognize our society worships youth? Often treated as disposable, the elderly or even those of us who are aging are ignored or looked over for jobs, opinions, or advice. Instead of being shown the respect we have earned or noting the value we carry through acquired experience and wisdom, many younger people, and our society, tend to devalue elderly people. Through the wording in Psalm 92:12-15, we experience the thoughts God carries for those older than us. More specifically, the ones who have spent a lifetime seeking and following Him, recognizing, and openly proclaiming God as their rock and strength. What can we learn from those more experienced in following the Lord? Let’s see what God’s word teaches: Verse 12 says,” The righteous will flourish like a palm tree.” We know there is pain and heartache in this broken world, but we can trust God’s word. Despite the suffering on earth, we are promised that those who seek, know, follow, and obey the Lord will flourish. Although His definition may be different than what we sometimes hope for, we know He is sovereign and as Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” I’ve never considered “growing like a palm tree,” but I’ve always loved them. Any time we’ve gone on vacation where palm trees grow, I’m instantly ready to bask in the warmth I know I’ll find in that location. So, as I read the verse, all I immediately felt was the comparison that I could be warm to others, so they could see Christ in me. But I knew that the writer of these words would have a much deeper meaning with this word choice. Did you know that palm trees are known for their long life? If we were to flourish like a palm tree, we would have a long and productive life for Christ. Only God knows what that definition would hold as He has unique and beautiful plans for each one of us. Unless we are standing tall and flourishing for Him, we may never realize the blessings of doing so. Growing like a cedar of Lebanon was never anything I thought of doing. in fact, I never even knew what the tree looked like, but as I researched and learned about it, I’m ready to be compared to one. Strong, solid, and immovable, a person living like a cedar of Lebanon would be upright, strong in the Lord, and the trials and tragedies of this world would not move them from their faith. In fact, anything they face only thrusts their roots into deeper and richer soil. The strength and vitality of both trees allow them to continue bearing fruit into old age, just as those who cling to Christ and live uprightly as they come to know and show Him more clearly through daily life will do. Isaiah 46:4 says, “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” As we mature our walk with God through Christ and live to glorify and honor Him, He continues to go before us, sustaining and carrying us as we humbly release self-control and let Him. Isaiah 40:29-31 says, “He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power. Though youths grow weary and tired, and vigorous young men stumble badly, yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary.” Have you faced situations in which you had no strength? Have you been in such despair that you had no idea how you would carry on or what to do next? If so, know that you were exactly where God desires you to be. In that space, you have a clearer view of your need for Him. For some, it is the only time they will allow God to carry the loads they stubbornly grasp tightly. When we finally realize we do not carry the capacity to endure all things alone we finally realize our true strength comes in and through Christ. Psalm 73:26 says, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” The worst times of my life have proven to be the best as that clear path to God has carried me to His waiting arms. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we learn to seek Christ in every moment, good or bad, joyful or sorrowful, we develop a relationship that lasts throughout the ages as He proves to be our constant comfort and perfect friend as we age. Job 12:12 says, “Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” Job’s words are true for those who have sought to grow relationship with God through Jesus and live in ways that bring them closer to Him moment by moment. Without reliance on Christ and seeking a life that reflects Him, our life will not bring clarity or understanding to self or others. What are you doing today that will advance your walk with Christ? How are you advancing His kingdom in the way you live? Each day is new. Every moment offers the chance to renew our walk with Christ and allow Him to carry us in new ways. Job 5:26 says, “You will come to the grave in full vigor, like sheaves gathered in season.” As we grow in fullness of love for Him through an abiding relationship over time, we can live with the expectation of sweet reunion with our Father and the Son. Will the life you leave behind be a legacy for you or one that points to Christ? Dear Heavenly Father, You are sovereign and worthy of praise, glory, and honor. Thank you for the gift You have given us through Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for providing a way to You through Him. Father, cause our hearts to crave You and reflect Jesus more each day. Help our walk with You to deepen daily during the quiet and the busy moments because we seek Your hands, face, and heart. May we age with grace learned through time spent with You and may Your love be evident to all, guiding them ever nearer to You. May our lives be testimonies of what time with You creates. Father, may our hearts adore You and shine Your perfect love and provision. Help us to live uprightly and stand on the rock that is carved by relationship with and dependence on You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #025 – Relationship or Religion? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. If you have listened to a few of my podcasts, you probably already know that I am not a cold weather person and you understand how much I love spring and summer! I am filled with absolute delight this time of year. I’m really not that fond of the color green, but I definitely adore seeing all the lush leaves on the full trees outside. There are several plants in my kitchen, bringing in the feeling of being outdoors. Each one was specially chosen by a friend or family member who gifted it to me when I lost a loved one. I deeply appreciate the generosity of those who chose the special gifts, and it is nice to think of my loved ones when I see the plants, but I am absolutely not gifted with a green thumb. Watering my plants keeps them alive, but I don’t research the best care or do anything more than give them a drink them once every week or two. Because I don’t take the time to know and understand their needs, my poor plants merely survive, not thrive. This parallels what happens to each of us if we forget we are supposed to have a relationship with God, not serve Him through the motions of religion. Our Heavenly Father intended for us to experience so much more than many of us know with Him. Jesus came so that we would have a rich and fulfilling connection and build a life of reliance on God. Jesus is our living model, our sacrifice who came that we can experience a rich and generous life of joy and peace. John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly.” I don’t want to merely survive like my plants, but to flourish and prosper the way God intended when He sacrificed His life to set me free. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” Without a living connection to Jesus we wither and fade to a useless leaf ready to fall from the branch. Have you ever been asked whether you are a religious person? A few times strangers have asked me that question after we meet and chat. I believe my answer surprises them. No, I tell them. I am not religious, but I do have a relationship with Jesus. Through Him, I am able, just as we are all able, to remain connected to the Source. Despite the conditions of our life, we will be able to enjoy the beneficial fruits of joy and love when we abide in Him through relationship. John 15:7-12 says, “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be My disciples. As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” The Lord wants us to have a reciprocal relationship with Him. His words must abide in us, His attitude and motives must abide in us because we abide in Him. Next, He requires that we model and extend that relationship to others. Jesus does not desire relations with one person over another. He longs for deep connection with every single one of us. Jesus wants every one of His followers to be the image of Him, live out His word and ways, share Him, and influence others for Him. We plant the seeds in the garden as we allow Him to shine through, transform, and work through us. He brings forth the harvest. Apart from Him, we can do nothing. If we just carry a spiritual mindset or religious motives, we miss the benefits of growing a true relationship with Jesus as life-long, mature disciples of our Lord. We risk walking with only casual or lukewarm lifestyles, or as unbelievers. Jesus, through His deep and purposed love for us, desires that we experience abundant lives, rich in Him. The definition Jesus held of abundance and what our culture believes it to be are not the same. The world preaches “self” or “abundance prosperity.” God word teaches us that He wants us to prosper, to have abundant lives. Abundance as defined by God would be hearts and souls tied to Him, drawing us nearer to Him, gaining fruits of the spirit and connecting us to Him in deep, supernatural ways through our body, mind, and spirit. Prosperity as this world craves is material-based through affluence, success, and wealth. Jesus came to the earth in the lowliest of ways, and lived a life without worldly wealth. It is not His desire that we follow Him in order to live a life of ease, comfort, or wealth. He wants us to follow Him because we trust, believe, and love Him, and want to spend the rest of our lives getting to know and following Him. He warned us that in this world we would suffer persecution and we understand that there is no guarantee of happiness, but through Him, there is joy. Deep and lasting joy that comes through a purposed and growing relationship. Let me add, there is nothing wrong with having wealth, but the sheer desire of money and the motivation to do anything to get it, forsaking the Lord, our family, or what God calls us to do is unbiblical. A true relationship with the Lord is not dissimilar to what we attempt with those we love and care for here on earth. We desire closeness and connection, we long to be understood, and we want to feel needed and appreciated. Those intimate connections and desires live within us because we were designed that way. God placed those needs inside us because He wants us to fill those longings with Him. He made us for relationship. Instead, we often forget Him and strive to fulfill our fleshly, worldly wants, giving little thought to God. We also fail to connect the emptiness we feel inside or our longings to possess more junk to our casualness and lack of relation with Him. Our walk with the Lord then slides down the slippery slope of little more than traditional holiday rituals or an occasional thought or prayer for something we want. Sometimes our walk with God is nothing more than a hollow attempt at mindless communion during Sunday services with no other thought of or connection with Him until the next week. We each also need to be careful not to fall into the trap of believing our attempts to do the “right” thing saves us. Simply moving through motions or checking off spiritual boxes on our mental to-do list will not give us a heart, mind, or spirit connection to the One who desires us above anything else. Not one of us can ever be good or righteous enough. That is the deception of living a religious lifestyle. Jesus paid the price for us to reach God. Our personal relationship with God is sanctified through Jesus alone. Our lives are permanently altered and transformed through His sacrifice, life instructions for us through the Holy Bible, and the Holy Spirit deposited inside us when we accept Him as our personal Savior and life mentor. When we do not understand the simplicity of God’s plan, it can cause us to thoughtlessly recite prayers or do actions that we believe make us appear holier. It can cause us to strive to do more performance-based activities for Him instead of finding and following the life mission He has specifically and intimately purposed for us. When we yield to Him and allow Him to transform and complete us, He will direct our lives and enable us to experience true freedom and joy as we mature through Him. A religious lifestyle mentality cripples our growth and understanding of God. Our Heavenly Father created us for relationship with Him. He is personal. He is intimate. He desires that we seek Him above all else. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” Galatians 1:10 says, “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Simply going to church or being active in church or being kind to others does not make us a Christian. A changed heart through the sacrifice of Jesus and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit that continues to transform us moment by moment as we yield to Him secures our eternal future. Matthew 7:21-23 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.” We must desire and intentionally pursue true relationship with God through Jesus in order to live with Him in eternity. God desires a deep, authentic relationship with us. He sees into our heart and understands our motives far better than we do. Without Him we are broken and incomplete. With Him, our hearts and minds are miraculously transformed. Have you seen the changes He has made on your life? In your thoughts? In your actions? If not, please begin to analyze your life, your desires, your motives, actions, and words. When the Holy Spirit indwells a person, change is inevitable as we yield to Him. Religion is defined as a set of beliefs concerning the purpose of the universe, usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs. It is also described as a specific fundamental set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects of a specific organization such as the Christian religion or the body of persons adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices. It is also defined as the practice of religious beliefs or ritual observances of faith. Relationship is an emotional connection. Can we have a personal bond with our Heavenly Father through the observance and accomplishments of religion? Of course. Is our heart penetrated and our walk with the Lord strengthened through Jesus through the observance of religion? Maybe. Not necessarily. Relationship with God through Jesus is certain. The Bible tells us so. John 14:6 says, “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Relationship through Jesus is the key to heaven and life. John 1:18 says, “No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known.” Relationship is heart-based. God wants our heart, then He will transform the rest as we allow His work to continue in us. The battle between relationship versus religion may be one of the biggest hurdles non-believers face as they watch Christians to see if they can view a glimpse of Christ in us. Why? 1. When they see Christians attack other Christians. 2. When they feel attacked by Christians. 3. When they do not see a difference in the way we live. 4. When they sense that we are judging them. 5. When they feel like we only preach to them. Non-believers need followers of Jesus to stop following religion and reveal the relationship. 1. They need to see and believe that Christians can get along. 2. They need to feel safe around us. 3. They need to see a difference in the way we live (that matches what we say). 4. They need to feel that we accept them as valuable humans, even if we do not have the same beliefs. 5. They need to hear our words surrounded by love in action. When we fail to know Jesus through relationship, we cannot show Him with truth and love. Each of us have undoubtedly made mistakes in trying to show or share Jesus. The more time we spend in His word, in private time reflecting on and studying His word, in speaking to Him and listening for His words to us, in walking through obedience, and in serving others how He calls us to, we are better equipped to reflect and shine Him in a broken and dark world of people looking for what Jesus offers. Isaiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Psalms 46:1-3 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling.” As we ponder the differences between relationship versus religion, and the universal benefits of lavishing knowing Jesus through time invested in our relationship, let us consider this verse from 2 Corinthians 9:6, which says, “But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.” In a world where none of us wish to reap sparingly, let us exhibit the difference between religion and relationship. May we intentionally sow for a bountiful return in and through Christ. Many on this earth are hurting, seeking relief from pain, anxiety, betrayal, and loss. They are in search of love, friendship, companionship, understanding, and much more. May we purpose that our lives be so rich in the abundance of Christ that others linger to learn more of what is within us because they cannot pass Him by. Did you enjoy this topic? Would you like others to hear one of the podcast episodes? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? In order for others to be able to hear about Jesus through this podcast, I need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift this podcast higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Right now, because the podcast is new and the following is small, listeners won’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. Please share this podcast on social media or with friends and family so that others will find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 025 Relationship or Religion Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #025 – Relationship or Religion? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. If you have listened to a few of my podcasts, you probably already know that I am not a cold weather person and you understand how much I love spring and summer! I am filled with absolute delight this time of year. I’m really not that fond of the color green, but I definitely adore seeing all the lush leaves on the full trees outside. There are several plants in my kitchen, bringing in the feeling of being outdoors. Each one was specially chosen by a friend or family member who gifted it to me when I lost a loved one. I deeply appreciate the generosity of those who chose the special gifts, and it is nice to think of my loved ones when I see the plants, but I am absolutely not gifted with a green thumb. Watering my plants keeps them alive, but I don’t research the best care or do anything more than give them a drink them once every week or two. Because I don’t take the time to know and understand their needs, my poor plants merely survive, not thrive. This parallels what happens to each of us if we forget we are supposed to have a relationship with God, not serve Him through the motions of religion. Our Heavenly Father intended for us to experience so much more than many of us know with Him. Jesus came so that we would have a rich and fulfilling connection and build a life of reliance on God. Jesus is our living model, our sacrifice who came that we can experience a rich and generous life of joy and peace. John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly.” I don’t want to merely survive like my plants, but to flourish and prosper the way God intended when He sacrificed His life to set me free. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” Without a living connection to Jesus we wither and fade to a useless leaf ready to fall from the branch. Have you ever been asked whether you are a religious person? A few times strangers have asked me that question after we meet and chat. I believe my answer surprises them. No, I tell them. I am not religious, but I do have a relationship with Jesus. Through Him, I am able, just as we are all able, to remain connected to the Source. Despite the conditions of our life, we will be able to enjoy the beneficial fruits of joy and love when we abide in Him through relationship. John 15:7-12 says, “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be My disciples. As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” The Lord wants us to have a reciprocal relationship with Him. His words must abide in us, His attitude and motives must abide in us because we abide in Him. Next, He requires that we model and extend that relationship to others. Jesus does not desire relations with one person over another. He longs for deep connection with every single one of us. Jesus wants every one of His followers to be the image of Him, live out His word and ways, share Him, and influence others for Him. We plant the seeds in the garden as we allow Him to shine through, transform, and work through us. He brings forth the harvest. Apart from Him, we can do nothing. If we just carry a spiritual mindset or religious motives, we miss the benefits of growing a true relationship with Jesus as life-long, mature disciples of our Lord. We risk walking with only casual or lukewarm lifestyles, or as unbelievers. Jesus, through His deep and purposed love for us, desires that we experience abundant lives, rich in Him. The definition Jesus held of abundance and what our culture believes it to be are not the same. The world preaches “self” or “abundance prosperity.” God word teaches us that He wants us to prosper, to have abundant lives. Abundance as defined by God would be hearts and souls tied to Him, drawing us nearer to Him, gaining fruits of the spirit and connecting us to Him in deep, supernatural ways through our body, mind, and spirit. Prosperity as this world craves is material-based through affluence, success, and wealth. Jesus came to the earth in the lowliest of ways, and lived a life without worldly wealth. It is not His desire that we follow Him in order to live a life of ease, comfort, or wealth. He wants us to follow Him because we trust, believe, and love Him, and want to spend the rest of our lives getting to know and following Him. He warned us that in this world we would suffer persecution and we understand that there is no guarantee of happiness, but through Him, there is joy. Deep and lasting joy that comes through a purposed and growing relationship. Let me add, there is nothing wrong with having wealth, but the sheer desire of money and the motivation to do anything to get it, forsaking the Lord, our family, or what God calls us to do is unbiblical. A true relationship with the Lord is not dissimilar to what we attempt with those we love and care for here on earth. We desire closeness and connection, we long to be understood, and we want to feel needed and appreciated. Those intimate connections and desires live within us because we were designed that way. God placed those needs inside us because He wants us to fill those longings with Him. He made us for relationship. Instead, we often forget Him and strive to fulfill our fleshly, worldly wants, giving little thought to God. We also fail to connect the emptiness we feel inside or our longings to possess more junk to our casualness and lack of relation with Him. Our walk with the Lord then slides down the slippery slope of little more than traditional holiday rituals or an occasional thought or prayer for something we want. Sometimes our walk with God is nothing more than a hollow attempt at mindless communion during Sunday services with no other thought of or connection with Him until the next week. We each also need to be careful not to fall into the trap of believing our attempts to do the “right” thing saves us. Simply moving through motions or checking off spiritual boxes on our mental to-do list will not give us a heart, mind, or spirit connection to the One who desires us above anything else. Not one of us can ever be good or righteous enough. That is the deception of living a religious lifestyle. Jesus paid the price for us to reach God. Our personal relationship with God is sanctified through Jesus alone. Our lives are permanently altered and transformed through His sacrifice, life instructions for us through the Holy Bible, and the Holy Spirit deposited inside us when we accept Him as our personal Savior and life mentor. When we do not understand the simplicity of God’s plan, it can cause us to thoughtlessly recite prayers or do actions that we believe make us appear holier. It can cause us to strive to do more performance-based activities for Him instead of finding and following the life mission He has specifically and intimately purposed for us. When we yield to Him and allow Him to transform and complete us, He will direct our lives and enable us to experience true freedom and joy as we mature through Him. A religious lifestyle mentality cripples our growth and understanding of God. Our Heavenly Father created us for relationship with Him. He is personal. He is intimate. He desires that we seek Him above all else. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” Galatians 1:10 says, “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Simply going to church or being active in church or being kind to others does not make us a Christian. A changed heart through the sacrifice of Jesus and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit that continues to transform us moment by moment as we yield to Him secures our eternal future. Matthew 7:21-23 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.” We must desire and intentionally pursue true relationship with God through Jesus in order to live with Him in eternity. God desires a deep, authentic relationship with us. He sees into our heart and understands our motives far better than we do. Without Him we are broken and incomplete. With Him, our hearts and minds are miraculously transformed. Have you seen the changes He has made on your life? In your thoughts? In your actions? If not, please begin to analyze your life, your desires, your motives, actions, and words. When the Holy Spirit indwells a person, change is inevitable as we yield to Him. Religion is defined as a set of beliefs concerning the purpose of the universe, usually involving devotional and ritual observances, and often containing a moral code governing the conduct of human affairs. It is also described as a specific fundamental set of beliefs and practices generally agreed upon by a number of persons or sects of a specific organization such as the Christian religion or the body of persons adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices. It is also defined as the practice of religious beliefs or ritual observances of faith. Relationship is an emotional connection. Can we have a personal bond with our Heavenly Father through the observance and accomplishments of religion? Of course. Is our heart penetrated and our walk with the Lord strengthened through Jesus through the observance of religion? Maybe. Not necessarily. Relationship with God through Jesus is certain. The Bible tells us so. John 14:6 says, “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Relationship through Jesus is the key to heaven and life. John 1:18 says, “No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known.” Relationship is heart-based. God wants our heart, then He will transform the rest as we allow His work to continue in us. The battle between relationship versus religion may be one of the biggest hurdles non-believers face as they watch Christians to see if they can view a glimpse of Christ in us. Why? 1. When they see Christians attack other Christians. 2. When they feel attacked by Christians. 3. When they do not see a difference in the way we live. 4. When they sense that we are judging them. 5. When they feel like we only preach to them. Non-believers need followers of Jesus to stop following religion and reveal the relationship. 1. They need to see and believe that Christians can get along. 2. They need to feel safe around us. 3. They need to see a difference in the way we live (that matches what we say). 4. They need to feel that we accept them as valuable humans, even if we do not have the same beliefs. 5. They need to hear our words surrounded by love in action. When we fail to know Jesus through relationship, we cannot show Him with truth and love. Each of us have undoubtedly made mistakes in trying to show or share Jesus. The more time we spend in His word, in private time reflecting on and studying His word, in speaking to Him and listening for His words to us, in walking through obedience, and in serving others how He calls us to, we are better equipped to reflect and shine Him in a broken and dark world of people looking for what Jesus offers. Isaiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Psalms 46:1-3 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling.” As we ponder the differences between relationship versus religion, and the universal benefits of lavishing knowing Jesus through time invested in our relationship, let us consider this verse from 2 Corinthians 9:6, which says, “But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.” In a world where none of us wish to reap sparingly, let us exhibit the difference between religion and relationship. May we intentionally sow for a bountiful return in and through Christ. Many on this earth are hurting, seeking relief from pain, anxiety, betrayal, and loss. They are in search of love, friendship, companionship, understanding, and much more. May we purpose that our lives be so rich in the abundance of Christ that others linger to learn more of what is within us because they cannot pass Him by. Did you enjoy this topic? Would you like others to hear one of the podcast episodes? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? In order for others to be able to hear about Jesus through this podcast, I need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift this podcast higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Right now, because the podcast is new and the following is small, listeners won’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. Please share this podcast on social media or with friends and family so that others will find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 097 - How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 097 – How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother raising children to chase Christ over culture. Adoption is a huge piece of the beautiful story of my family. As a mom to two children born to me and two children brought to our family after they were born, I am thankful God chose us for all four. The creator of heaven and earth knew who would be a member of our home and heart. I’m so thankful God weaved the blessing of adoption through the gospel. I bring adoption up in this episode about enabling children to bear fruit for Christ because just last week I was asked whether my two daughters from China took to each other right away. I have to say that God was good. The girls have NEVER fought with one another or ignored each other. In fact, they’ve always been kind to one another. But their relationship has grown into a sister bond over time. As I’ve watched their communication and love blossom, I have noticed that it has grown stronger and more resilient as they have purposely matured their walk with Jesus. I trust that is the reason they’ve never had fights or been unkind to one another. In fact, I receive SUCH joy hearing them communicate with each other throughout the day. I truly tingle with delight inside when I listen to them. God has filled my cup to overflowing with them. Praise Jesus! As Christian parents, we receive a great thrill when we see fruits of the Spirit evident in our believing children. Well, I’d better clarify…of course, your greatest parenting delight should be when your child accepts Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior, but after that, deep joy abounds when you begin to see evidence of their walk with Jesus appear in their daily words, desires, and actions. That is what I’ve observed with my girls. But it all takes concentrated effort. Just as the Bible tells us in James 4:8a , “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you .” As they have drawn nearer to Him it has given them a deeper love for one another. Because of that love they have a mutual respect and extend courtesy between them. Think back to when you first followed Jesus. You may have jumped into your new life with both feet and submitted easily to His guidance and love. Or you may have slowly submitted self to Him more and more over time. Either way, wouldn’t you agree that the way you exhibit Christ’s influence in your life dictates the level of depth in your Christian walk? Consider your children. Have you seen differences in the way your child lives and reacts after they followed Christ? If not, there are ways you can help them begin to bear fruit for Christ . Most of the time growth in Christ is difficult, unless the follower is regularly in the Word. Reading the Bible, seeking God’s wisdom, and communicating with Him through prayer is key to a maturing relationship. Just as you can’t grow your marriage, your relationship with your children, or a new friendship without spending time getting to know that person, you can’t live with godly insight or wisdom, let alone fruits of the Spirit - unless you purposely pursue intimacy with God through Jesus. One top way to help your children pursue Christ with purposed passion is to let them witness you chase God . As you make your relationship with your Heavenly Father evident in natural ways through your lifestyle and desires, you beautifully mentor the way for your children. Are your kids able to see fruits of the Spirit in you? What if they don't? Apologize - to them and God. Tell your children you haven’t been living the way God would want you to - or the way He wants you to model for them. Then begin showing - by example, the way to God. Let them see you in the Word, but also be in the Word with them. Don’t make it a religious affair, but rather a relationship – and a commitment to honor God with the children He entrusted to you. Build a connected relationship that allows you to better know, love, and serve God together. Allow your lifestyle to be one that inhales the truths, love, grace, mercy, and wisdom of God. Exhale those qualities onto your children in the way you speak, act, and react to the daily pressures, trials, and triumphs of life. Another way to help your children begin to exhibit fruits of the Spirit is to look for the natural gifts and talents the Lord gave them . As mom, you probably know your children better than anyone else (except of course, God). Ask Him to reveal what He has purposed for them. Ask Him to show you what interests and talents He bestowed to them when He created them with love and purpose. For example, my middle daughter began painting at the age of one. God exhibited how faithful He is when He prompted me to buy a Little Tykes art easel at a garage sale before we even had our infant home from China. When I discovered her fascination with paints and saw her delight glowing at an event that had set up easels for older children to paint, I came home and dragged that easel out of my basement. I set it up in her playroom and after spreading an old shower curtain on the floor around the easel, I dabbed several colors of acrylic paint onto a paper plate, and made a hole on one side for her to place her thumb through to hold it. Next, I pulled out paint brushes, and clipped a large sheet of paper to the easel. She has been painting now for 18 years. Despite many other interests and activities, this is the one that she has persisted in returning to. In fact, I can hear actually her dipping her paintbrush into the cup of water as she paints with watercolors while I work on this episode. Knowing God gave her talent and the desire to paint, my daughter has always used her work to honor God and showcase His creation. This became one of the ways she bears fruit for Him through action and words as she gives glory to Him. Instead of painting ugliness, she paints light and beauty, especially things of creation or that would beautify a home while instilling joy and peace. What talents or interests has God crafted into your children? How can you help them find what purpose God gifted them? Help them use that skill for Him . Serving is another way to teach your children to bear fruit for Christ. Service at home is the first exposure your children will learn. Teaching by example makes the best impression. When they experience your love and dedication, hear you say how grateful you are to serve them because you love them, and you teach them to serve their father and siblings, you are laying a base foundation for service to others. Depending on your life circumstances, extended family members, neighbors, church members, or the elderly in your community are wonderful places to serve next. Because you instilled the act of selflessness in your children at a young age, service will likely become an important piece of their character and actions as they mature. Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law . “ This passage in the Bible clearly shares what the fruits of the Spirit are. Without knowing these fruits given by the Spirit when we belong to Christ, we cannot begin to recognize when they are or aren’t in use. Another beautiful way to see fruits mature in your children is to make this passage of Scripture known to them. Remind them of the way the Holy Spirit transforms us into a new being. Remind them how through Jesus, they are no longer bound by sin. Teach them to invite the Holy Spirit to bring forth the fruits of love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in their lives to benefit others and grow their walk with Jesus. Equip them to these fruits to form godly character and integrity. Help them look for these qualities in themselves and strive to help them shine for Christ. I’m still amazed that God deposited the Holy Spirit inside me when I became a believer of Christ. Aren’t you in awe that He has done that for you? Instill that wonder in your children as you study God’s Word together and invite Him into each day with you. As the fragrance of Christ permeates your character and home, your children will be better able to bear fruit for Christ as they recognize and utilize the fruits of the Spirit empowering them. Dear Heavenly Father, just as Your holy Word says, how great thou art! Oh, God thank you for Your powerful love for us and the children You entrusted us to raise for You. Enable us to mentor a reverence and love for You that makes them bear much fruit. Help us to be a shining example of Your love and grace. Help us to be a model of bearing fruit that lasts. May our children see You so clearly and lovingly that they can’t help but pursue You. We thank you for entrusting Your precious children to our care. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with moms of littles from infancy to upper grade school. Are you a high achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesu and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 110 - Ways to Show Your Child Christlike Character Every Day Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 110 – Ways to Show Your Child Christ-Like Character Every Day Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode about showing your child Christlike character every day. The truth is that what we say matters, but our children will emulate what they see . When we brought our youngest home from China at the age of nine, I was already praying about how we would show her the truth of Christ. I quickly realized that simply the way we reacted to her exhibited the clearest view of Him. Simply put, I would be the first mentor of Jesus she experienced. Because she never had a loving family to care for her when she was hungry, tired, or afraid, because she didn’t have a mother or father to lovingly wrap arms around her and clean a scraped knee when she fell, she was not used to affection. She didn’t want anyone to show her extra attention or make a fuss over her. The day after we received her in China our family went downstairs in the hotel to an extravagant breakfast buffet. An entire room was filled with gourmet dishes and food pieces that probably made Brooklyn feel she lived with a royal family (if she would have known what that was). We each took another piece of bread from the buffet and brought it with us to feed to the koi fish in the pond at the back of the hotel. Afterwards, we took a walk in the sunshine around the building grounds. There were small hilly areas and as she ran, Brooklyn tripped and fell down a small hill. Of course, we went after her immediately. I could see that one arm and knee were grass-stained and her knee was a little bloody. “Are you alright?” I asked her. As I reached to hug her, she turned away and walked across the grass. I had seen what she didn’t want known. She was hurt, inside and out. Tears were filling her eyes. Bravely, my wisp of a toddler size 2 daughter tried to maintain the strength of an adult. It was the power my nine year old had depended on to survive alone for years. Brooklyn didn’t want the touch of strangers when hurt. Even though we seemed kind to her, experience proved she couldn’t rely on others. Any sympathy we showed threatened to open a dam of tears, exposing more emotion that she was equipped to handle. Kindness was painful. This was the first of many times she would reject our loving touch or words. Although she couldn’t yet understand English, she knew our tone was consoling. She felt that our touch was loving, but didn’t have experience with that emotion. Everything was much too tender and raw. Love hurt. It was risky and unknown and through previous experience, she knew it wouldn’t last. Now, after nine years and extra months with us, (longer than she was in the neglectful orphanage), we have a beautiful, redeemed relationship. Redeemed, you might ask? Yes. I stand by that word. Redeemed means to be delivered from sin and its consequences. Though she had a challenging and heartbreaking beginning to her life, our daughter’s situation was redeemed through Christ. Because my husband and I love and follow Jesus, we recognized the Holy Spirit when He told us we had two daughters living in China. He led us to them and we were able to begin a life of lasting love and laughter together. Now both of their lives are redeemed through Christ. Jesus is their personal Lord and Savior and they serve Him well. When you love God and honor Him with your heart, mind, soul, and strength, you will beautifully mentor His characteristics to your children moment by moment, day by day. No matter how long it takes. Because you are committed to Him. To them. That is one example of showing your children Christlike character every day. We cultivate the soil, sow the seeds, and pray as God does the transforming work. I believe that is what Mary did so effortlessly in the first chapter of Luke. Luke 1:26-38 says,“ In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.” “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. For no word from God will ever fail.” “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.” This story always leaves me in awe . Not that I idolize Mary, but I respect the position she was in. The attitude of her heart and mind were in alignment with God’s destiny for her. I adore the intimate way God knew to approach Mary and the way she responded. I aspire to always be aware and obedient to where God calls me. Mary exhibited beautiful, Christlike behavior. I want my children and husband to say they see me exhibit Christlike character. That means I must be dedicated to God and purposed in my relationship with Him. I must stop grieving the Father by submitting to the Son. That is the foundation of Christlike behavior. Do you also desire to be purposeful in honoring and obeying God so that you show your children Christlike character each day? Moment by moment? You can’t do so unless you are submitted to Christ. It is His power working within that allows you to become more Christlike. It is His power working within that allows you to shine Him to your children and draw them to Him. Each day we grieve the Father in small or large ways. So let’s focus on what characteristics we consider to be Christlike. The first words most of us think of are: Patient, Humble, Honest, Courageous, Loving, Forgiving, Obedient. This is a great list to begin with. Now consider…do your children witness you exhibiting these qualities? In what ways do you exhibit these fruits of the Spirit? Now let’s consider the opposite. What characteristics can you think of that are not Christlike? Angry, Disobedient, Dishonest, Unforgiving, Impatient, Prideful, Arrogant, Hateful, Fearful. Do your children see these qualities in your daily life or interactions? Do your children exhibit these qualities in their life? Take an honest look at the way you act, react, and live your life. Are there times you gossip, show unrighteous anger, refuse to forgive, anger quickly, show pride instead of humility? Each of us do in different ways. Some of us are more susceptible than others, but we are works in progress. So are children. So is your spouse. Humbly ask God to reveal areas you need to submit to Him. Ask Him to show you where you are misleading your children, whether in ignorance or defiance. This is something I do in my own life. I know that when I ask God is going to expose something specific. Remember, you are the living example of Jesus your children see. Your Christian walk will attract or repel them. Little eyes and ears see and hear your mistakes daily. As you follow God and react with the strength of the Holy Spirit inside, you are equipped to exhibit Christ instead of flesh . This is central to teaching your children Christlike character. Being aware of how God requires you to walk is an important step. Micah 6:8 says, “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God .” Using daily moments to grow, learn, and teach by example and His Word are critical in showing Christlike behavior to your children, Not only do you use these ways to grow your children in Jesus, but you also use these methods to grow self. Think of how often you are presented with opportunities for growth daily. A crazy driver, too much change at the store, a co-worker who gets on your nerves, a misunderstanding with a family member or friend. Your relationship with your spouse. The loss of a job, illness, or the death of a loved one. Each of these are opportunities to allow the Holy Spirit within to do a good work through the ways He comforts and carries, stretches and grows you. Your children also present a variety of ways to teach them godly characteristics. Telling the truth rather than a lie, getting along with friends at school, taking up for someone who is being bullied, listening to a teacher, keeping a bedroom clean, respecting parents,..again their list is endless. Consider these moments opportunities , not hindrances. You are an imperfect human raising imperfect humans. Your children are being shaped into the image of Christ. That is hard work! You cannot complete that work alone, just as you cannot complete the work in yourself alone. How blessed you are when faced with opportunities to direct your children to Jesus . Your attitude and actions, your reactions and joy in the Lord will lead them to His feet if you use irritations and mistakes for Him. This leads me to an important point. Don’t neglect addressing ungodly behaviors . King David is a great example of this. His negligence to use godly instruction with his children created terrible and deadly problems down the road. Do not let sin take root. When your child exhibits characteristics or behaviors that need guidance, take responsibility to mentor godly behavior. Any behavior that is not Christlike is a sin . Don’t condone or dismiss ungodly words or ways. Sometimes parents think a sin is small or they don’t have time to take care of a problem when it presents itself. Use the moments when they come. Plant the godly seeds that will bring a Christlike harvest if you continue to tend the soil and weed the garden. Likewise, when you see Christlike character exhibited in your children, compliment their behavior. Children learn by example and appreciate praise, as well. A genuine compliment goes far when shaping godly behavior. Pray for and with your kids. Let them hear you pray with specifics for them. Tell them you pray for them when they’re not around, as well. When they hear you praying Scripture over them or hear your complimentary words to the Father, or when they hear you requesting Christlike behavior for them, they know you care. They know you pay attention. Follow up with praying for specific Christlike behavior for yourself with them, too. When they ask you for prayer, do it right then with them. When your children know Christlike behavior is important to you because it is important to God, and they see you walking in the ways you preach, they will pay attention. Christlike behavior becomes an objective and priority for them when it is an obvious goal for you. Romans 13:14 says, “Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh .” This verse clearly instructs us to put on the Lord Jesus. Wear Him. Wrap Him around you like a shield. This command in Romans 13:14 instructs our children, but also us as mothers. As women. We must show our children the way to wear Christ. When He resides inside of us, we are renewed through the Holy Spirit. Our clothes, our character are washed new over and over again as we are transformed through wearing Christ. The world says to raise self-reliant, kind, ambitious kids. God demands that we raise godly kids with Christlike character. Children who submit to Jesus and obey His Word and ways, who love Him, who desire to please Him, serve Him and others, forgive others, and live with discernment, not judgement will exhibit Christlike behavior that continues to be renewed and refined. In order to mentor Jesus and Christlike behavior to your children, remember that you receive opportunities every single day. Don’t overlook them. Don’t waste them. Be an example of Christ and use other examples that present themselves daily. The Christlike character of others and Bible stories are wonderful examples. Life moments always carry messages and meaning. Find ways to weave teaching moments through them without being preachy. Culture continues to change. Society has moved away from following God, but He has not disappeared. Bravely stand for what God calls. As you deepen your relationship with Him through Jesus, you will be more and more equipped to hear and obey His voice. Question what is presented in books, magazines, music, schools, movies, television shows, etc. Be discerning and teach your children how to be discerning and disciplined in purposely listening for God’s voice. Unless you teach them Christlike character in these areas, they will follow the world, not the Word. Instead of looking for ways to punish mistakes your children make, parent the heart, not simply stop behavior. When you discipline, you are providing discipleship. Be intentional. Parent with purpose. God has entrusted His precious children to you. Become the Christlike parent He calls you to be to raise children for Him. As you place God first in your heart and mind, as you allow the Holy Spirit to lead and direct and move with joy and obedience, your children will experience what Christlike behavior looks like and how it responds and reacts day to day. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are. What a blessing you have bestowed on us to parent Your children. Reach our hearts, dear Father. Help us to desire You and become more Christlike day by day. May we seek the moments in life that allow us to train our children in godly behavior. May we take the opportunities as they come and use them with joy and gladness directed by You. May we place mentoring You first amidst the activities that distract our days. Help us remember that this life is not a dress rehearsal. We are on stage for our children to watch. All we do is seen and evaluated by them. Equip us to be Christlike mentors who are a sweet fragrance that brings them to You and shows them how to build their own house of faith that will last into eternity. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with professionals who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 121 - Are You Raising Good Kids? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 121 – Are You Raising Good Kids? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode that asks an important question…Are You Raising Good Kids? When I was young, a common expression used by my parents was, “Be good!” Whether I was going to school, a social function, or they were leaving for work, one of them would always offer that directive. When I became a young mother at the age of eighteen, my goal was to become a good mother and raise a good daughter. When my son arrived a few years later, I was determined to raise a good boy. I had a good job, a good home, and a good marriage. Finally, after all the years of being good and striving for more good, I realized that good isn’t God’s objective for our lives. We know He desires the absolute best for us. Our Father in Heaven doesn’t command us to be good, but He does call us to be godly. The term, “good” is described with a variety of adjectives: honorable, righteous, favorable, responsible, dependable, well-behaved, and socially proper to name some of the descriptors. When I raised my first set of children to be good kids, teens, and adults, I believed teaching them to be good would give them strong self-esteem and confidence. I thought it would help them to strive to do the best job in whatever they completed, be lifelong learners, be polite, grateful, kind, responsible, and it would help them learn from mistakes. After I deepened my personal relationship with Christ, I realized I didn’t want good kids. Instead, I began desiring what Scripture showed me God wanted. To raise my kids to be good would actually cheat them of growing Christlike qualities. Striving for good would cause them to miss what was godly . I realized that in my quest to raise good kids, I wasn’t mentoring Christ effectively to mine in order for them to construct identity through relationship with Jesus. They needed to be shown how to craft identity purposed through Christ that reached their heart and changed their desires, behavior, and words. I didn’t want to continue to raise kids who were good for the sake of not getting into trouble around me. I wanted kids who chose to intentionally pursue Jesus and become more like Him through every part of their character, actions, and reactions. They would be transformed through Christ because only He can create holiness and Christlike character. Goodness can’t. If I set the goal for my kids at goodness, they’d never pursue godliness. I’d be cutting them short of a standard that would bring them great joy and a lifetime in eternity with God. The world we live in tells us we’re good, and that we should raise good kids, but then why are children and teens experiencing more identity and character problems than ever before? Why do we have such a mental health crises? While we settle for raising good kids, their hearts long for godly. God’s Word is clear in Deuteronomy 6:5-7 , “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise .” In the pursuit of goodness, mothers have forsaken godliness. Are you heeding the words of Scripture and placing God first, not the “goodness” this world offers? Are you loving Him for your children to witness? Is your love for Jesus evident with your heart, mind, and soul? Do you teach His way, His holiness, His godliness daily as you sit at home or go out, from the time you rise until you go to sleep? Do you know how to shine Him? For too many moms, the answer is no. Because of that, how many children are becoming their own idol? How many kids find celebrities or influencers to fill vacant spots inside that only God can fill? Are you striving to instill holy values and character that is in alignment with God’s will? Are your children learning to nurture and showcase His purposes for them? Are you teaching them to live a lifestyle of integrity authored by God and view this world through the lens of eternity? These are the godly truths God commands each of us to teach our children instead of what the world calls good . Instead of agreeing with the values and strivings of society that leaves us and our families empty and more in alignment with the world than the Word, mature your personal walk with God moment by moment. Become a godly woman who parents with godliness, not goodness. Purpose to raise godly, not good kids. As you find yourself growing in the ways of God rather than the world, your child will grow in wisdom and stature like Jesus. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are. Please show us the way to Your heart. Help us live like we will be with You in eternity today. We don’t know if we are here for today or ten more years. We don’t know when we will stand before You, but we know we will one day, and so will our children. Please equip us to bring them straight to the heart and feet of Jesus. Help us be worthy of the high calling you’ve entrusted to us as women and mothers. May we be the mother You call us to be. Help us favor eternity rather than the present, but let us also rejoice with You and honor You with the time we have now. Help our children do the same because they love, honor, and serve You with open, willing hands and hearts. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you’re ready to become the godly mom God entrusts you to be for Him and His children, you might like my free “Good to Godly: A 31-Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms.” Visit terrihitt.com and enter your email to receive this resource. You are the first Jesus your child will see. Your relationship with Christ is the light that shines Him to your children. If you want a connected relationship with Jesus and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, my Set-Apart Collective program can show you how to reflect Christ in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. Remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #049 – How Do We Love Christ? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Have you increasingly felt the love of Jesus in the last few podcast episodes as we prepare our hearts for Him this season? If so, I know without a doubt that it is nothing I said or did. Deepening awareness of and increasing love for Christ simply comes from time in His word and moments invested in speaking to and listening for Him. 1 Corinthians 8:6 says, “But for us, There is one God, the Father, by whom all things were created, and for whom we live. And there is one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things were created, and through whom we live.” As we move closer to the Father and the Son, we experience life-changing transformations. A personal relationship with Jesus is the source. It has been astounding to witness the goodness of God in the transformation of our youngest. When we brought Brooklyn home from China five years ago, she was understandably a frightened girl who had no idea what was in her future. When we talk about the time now, she admits her fear. Our treasured daughter had lived in an orphanage most of her life and was placed in a foster home for less than a year (from what we can piece together) before we brought her home. I’ve heard much about what she experienced in both places, but because I crave every detail available; I cannot ever hear enough history. We lived without our youngest daughter for too long, and I yearn to fill the holes in her precious story to uncover everything she endured and braved. Since that is impossible, I must rest in the truth that although she was treated, and felt as though she was a forgotten one who did not matter in China, she was actually never alone. Before Brooklyn knew Him, God was already watching over her. Our Heavenly Father does the same for you and me. Matthew 10:29-31 says, “What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.” The Lord has a love for us that is so deep He even knows the number of hairs on our head. As much as I love each of my family members, I cannot record in my brain or understand every minuscule feature about them. Honestly, can you imagine how difficult it would be to remember that much information about everyone? Not just remember, but even cherish the details so deeply that they sit on your tongue and abide in your heart to recite and obtain at any moment? That fact that we don’t have that capacity doesn’t diminish our love or affection for the special people in our lives; it just shows how tiny and worthless our mind and abilities are in comparison to God’s omnipotence and wisdom. Beyond the personal way God recalls everything about us, He planned for us and tailor-made each of those details in beautiful and unique ways that is never duplicated in another individual. Nehemiah 9:6 says, “You are the LORD, you alone. You have made heaven, the heaven of heavens, with all their host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them; and you preserve all of them; and the host of heaven worships you.” How high God’s love is, for He, the author and perfecter of love, is supremely higher than each of us. Romans 12:3 says, “For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.” Thank you, God for planning me. For crafting each of us. Your fastidiousness and devotion to us are fathomless. Boundless is your love. Love. Many ponder the meaning of such a small word. Our culture carries many confusing and warped definitions of this simple, yet profoundly important word. So, let’s examine love. 1. What is love? Our Lord beautifully offers living examples and definitions of love in the Bible and through His life on earth and in Heaven. In this world, the meanings of love point to the following: a profoundly tender, deep, or passionate affection for another person, a feeling of personal attachment for a parent, child, or friend, to have a strong liking for or to take great pleasure in something. God’s definition of love is not built or based on the wisdom, values, morals, or agenda of our culture or human belief systems. God defines true love because He is love. God was love before we knew love existed in any form. In John 15:9, Jesus says, “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.” Love for our Heavenly Father and for one another is not an option when we follow Jesus. It is only through Jesus that we see and experience love in action. Most people have heard John 3:16, which says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.” Sometimes it is quoted so much that I think many people have stopped paying attention to the promise and eternal value in these powerful words, yet they prove God’s plan for the world with the most spectacular sacrifice and gift that could ever be bestowed. Less quoted, but just as powerful and central in the study of God’s love for mankind is Romans 5:8, which says, “And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person—though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die—but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” This is authentic, eternal love. Our society has a difficult time distinguishing love, yet it waits for us. He waits for us. 2. How do we recognize love? John 13:34 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” We only begin to view and accept love as Christ does when we clearly see, know, and follow Jesus. 1 John 4:16 says, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” The way the world sees Christ is through us – His followers. 3. How is love described? Luke 6:32 says, "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.” Jesus extracts impurities from within us; sometimes easily, often painfully. Yet, He never leaves our side. Jesus walks through the fires with us, replacing what we lose with qualities we can only receive from the Spirit. Because of His refining, we are continually becoming new creations and “take-on” the qualities of our Lord. Our behavior reveals the nature of our relationship with Jesus. Changed by His love, we are able to love others differently and in visibly Christ-centered ways. 1 John 4:16 says, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” Our actions expose our heart. 1 John 2:15 says, “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” One of the passages in the Bible most widely connected with love is 1 Corinthians 13, which is an entire chapter expressing biblical love in multiple ways: modeling grace, virtue, faith, joy, patience, kindness, humility, forgiveness, truth, perseverance, assurance, hope, and God’s agape love. 1 Corinthians 13 says, “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 4. Where do we learn love? The Trinity reveals perfect love: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Ephesians 5:1-2 says, “Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are His dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God." Matthew 22:36-40 says, “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” 1 Peter 1:22 says, “You were cleansed from your sins when you obeyed the truth, so now you must show sincere love to each other as brothers and sisters. Love each other deeply with all your heart.” 1 John 4:12 says, “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.” 5. How can we show our love for God? Jesus modeled perfect love, expressing His love for the Father in a way we can all replicate. Obedience. Like you may have experienced in your own life, obedience has the been key to fulfilling joy in my life and in deepening my walk with Jesus. When I keep my gaze and heart set on the Lord, my reliance on Him grows, my relationship matures, and listening and obeying when and where He calls becomes easier and is such a desire for me. Through this, I have experienced the most profound blessings - deeper than I could ever imagine. Obedience is costly, uncomfortable, and inconvenient. God continues to call us into deeper waters than we have previously tested. He requires reliance on, and obedience in Him. For good reason. Our life is meaningless and empty without Him. Fully expressed love from a believer to God’s heart is exhibited when we fix our thoughts on Him and move without question where He calls. Obedience to God brings us fullness of life and love. Luke 1:26-38 says, “In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of His kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.” Don’t you adore these verses?! This is one of my very favorite stories and responses in the Bible. Examine the heart, faith, and simple, prompt response of Mary. I want a heart that always follows exactly where God leads, exactly when He requests, and exactly how He desires me to move. Mary exemplified obedient love in action. 1 John 5:1-3 says, “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the Father loves His child as well. This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out His commands. In fact, this is love for God: to keep His commands. And His commands are not burdensome.” When we love God, and the Holy Spirit is alive and active inside us, obedience becomes a pleasurable, desirable source of peace. Jesus remained steadfast; modeling obedient love, bidding us to imitate His actions. John 15:10 says, “If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.” Luke 6:46-49 says, “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? As for everyone who comes to Me and hears My words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears My words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.” Don’t wait for hardships and tragedies to force you to follow the Lord. Let obedient love guide and rule your life. John 15:9-17 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Now remain in My love. If you keep My commands, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commands and remain in His love. I have told you this so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are My friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in My name the Father will give you. This is my command: Love each other.” Jesus already expressed obedient love to the fullest degree with the largest sacrifice one could make. Beseeching us to love and follow His commands, Jesus tells us that by doing so, we will abide in His love, carry His joy, and bear fruit that will last. Because He loves us so deeply, He commands us to love each other. The Bible tells us that three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love. Dear Jesus, thank you for modeling love with the greatest act of obedience the world has recorded. Your passionate and unfailing love is a template for us. We fall so short, Lord. Help us to abide in Your perfect love that casts out all fear and enable us to obediently follow where You call with a passion that never becomes a burden, yet is a joyful delight for us and for You. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 049 How Do We Love Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #049 – How Do We Love Christ? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Have you increasingly felt the love of Jesus in the last few podcast episodes as we prepare our hearts for Him this season? If so, I know without a doubt that it is nothing I said or did. Deepening awareness of and increasing love for Christ simply comes from time in His word and moments invested in speaking to and listening for Him. 1 Corinthians 8:6 says, “But for us, There is one God, the Father, by whom all things were created, and for whom we live. And there is one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things were created, and through whom we live.” As we move closer to the Father and the Son, we experience life-changing transformations. A personal relationship with Jesus is the source. It has been astounding to witness the goodness of God in the transformation of our youngest. When we brought Brooklyn home from China five years ago, she was understandably a frightened girl who had no idea what was in her future. When we talk about the time now, she admits her fear. Our treasured daughter had lived in an orphanage most of her life and was placed in a foster home for less than a year (from what we can piece together) before we brought her home. I’ve heard much about what she experienced in both places, but because I crave every detail available; I cannot ever hear enough history. We lived without our youngest daughter for too long, and I yearn to fill the holes in her precious story to uncover everything she endured and braved. Since that is impossible, I must rest in the truth that although she was treated, and felt as though she was a forgotten one who did not matter in China, she was actually never alone. Before Brooklyn knew Him, God was already watching over her. Our Heavenly Father does the same for you and me. Matthew 10:29-31 says, “What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.” The Lord has a love for us that is so deep He even knows the number of hairs on our head. As much as I love each of my family members, I cannot record in my brain or understand every minuscule feature about them. Honestly, can you imagine how difficult it would be to remember that much information about everyone? Not just remember, but even cherish the details so deeply that they sit on your tongue and abide in your heart to recite and obtain at any moment? That fact that we don’t have that capacity doesn’t diminish our love or affection for the special people in our lives; it just shows how tiny and worthless our mind and abilities are in comparison to God’s omnipotence and wisdom. Beyond the personal way God recalls everything about us, He planned for us and tailor-made each of those details in beautiful and unique ways that is never duplicated in another individual. Nehemiah 9:6 says, “You are the LORD, you alone. You have made heaven, the heaven of heavens, with all their host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them; and you preserve all of them; and the host of heaven worships you.” How high God’s love is, for He, the author and perfecter of love, is supremely higher than each of us. Romans 12:3 says, “For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.” Thank you, God for planning me. For crafting each of us. Your fastidiousness and devotion to us are fathomless. Boundless is your love. Love. Many ponder the meaning of such a small word. Our culture carries many confusing and warped definitions of this simple, yet profoundly important word. So, let’s examine love. 1. What is love? Our Lord beautifully offers living examples and definitions of love in the Bible and through His life on earth and in Heaven. In this world, the meanings of love point to the following: a profoundly tender, deep, or passionate affection for another person, a feeling of personal attachment for a parent, child, or friend, to have a strong liking for or to take great pleasure in something. God’s definition of love is not built or based on the wisdom, values, morals, or agenda of our culture or human belief systems. God defines true love because He is love. God was love before we knew love existed in any form. In John 15:9, Jesus says, “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.” Love for our Heavenly Father and for one another is not an option when we follow Jesus. It is only through Jesus that we see and experience love in action. Most people have heard John 3:16, which says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.” Sometimes it is quoted so much that I think many people have stopped paying attention to the promise and eternal value in these powerful words, yet they prove God’s plan for the world with the most spectacular sacrifice and gift that could ever be bestowed. Less quoted, but just as powerful and central in the study of God’s love for mankind is Romans 5:8, which says, “And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person—though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die—but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” This is authentic, eternal love. Our society has a difficult time distinguishing love, yet it waits for us. He waits for us. 2. How do we recognize love? John 13:34 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” We only begin to view and accept love as Christ does when we clearly see, know, and follow Jesus. 1 John 4:16 says, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” The way the world sees Christ is through us – His followers. 3. How is love described? Luke 6:32 says, "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.” Jesus extracts impurities from within us; sometimes easily, often painfully. Yet, He never leaves our side. Jesus walks through the fires with us, replacing what we lose with qualities we can only receive from the Spirit. Because of His refining, we are continually becoming new creations and “take-on” the qualities of our Lord. Our behavior reveals the nature of our relationship with Jesus. Changed by His love, we are able to love others differently and in visibly Christ-centered ways. 1 John 4:16 says, “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.” Our actions expose our heart. 1 John 2:15 says, “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.” One of the passages in the Bible most widely connected with love is 1 Corinthians 13, which is an entire chapter expressing biblical love in multiple ways: modeling grace, virtue, faith, joy, patience, kindness, humility, forgiveness, truth, perseverance, assurance, hope, and God’s agape love. 1 Corinthians 13 says, “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 4. Where do we learn love? The Trinity reveals perfect love: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Ephesians 5:1-2 says, “Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are His dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God." Matthew 22:36-40 says, “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” 1 Peter 1:22 says, “You were cleansed from your sins when you obeyed the truth, so now you must show sincere love to each other as brothers and sisters. Love each other deeply with all your heart.” 1 John 4:12 says, “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.” 5. How can we show our love for God? Jesus modeled perfect love, expressing His love for the Father in a way we can all replicate. Obedience. Like you may have experienced in your own life, obedience has the been key to fulfilling joy in my life and in deepening my walk with Jesus. When I keep my gaze and heart set on the Lord, my reliance on Him grows, my relationship matures, and listening and obeying when and where He calls becomes easier and is such a desire for me. Through this, I have experienced the most profound blessings - deeper than I could ever imagine. Obedience is costly, uncomfortable, and inconvenient. God continues to call us into deeper waters than we have previously tested. He requires reliance on, and obedience in Him. For good reason. Our life is meaningless and empty without Him. Fully expressed love from a believer to God’s heart is exhibited when we fix our thoughts on Him and move without question where He calls. Obedience to God brings us fullness of life and love. Luke 1:26-38 says, “In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of His kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.” Don’t you adore these verses?! This is one of my very favorite stories and responses in the Bible. Examine the heart, faith, and simple, prompt response of Mary. I want a heart that always follows exactly where God leads, exactly when He requests, and exactly how He desires me to move. Mary exemplified obedient love in action. 1 John 5:1-3 says, “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the Father loves His child as well. This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out His commands. In fact, this is love for God: to keep His commands. And His commands are not burdensome.” When we love God, and the Holy Spirit is alive and active inside us, obedience becomes a pleasurable, desirable source of peace. Jesus remained steadfast; modeling obedient love, bidding us to imitate His actions. John 15:10 says, “If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.” Luke 6:46-49 says, “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? As for everyone who comes to Me and hears My words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears My words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.” Don’t wait for hardships and tragedies to force you to follow the Lord. Let obedient love guide and rule your life. John 15:9-17 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Now remain in My love. If you keep My commands, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commands and remain in His love. I have told you this so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are My friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in My name the Father will give you. This is my command: Love each other.” Jesus already expressed obedient love to the fullest degree with the largest sacrifice one could make. Beseeching us to love and follow His commands, Jesus tells us that by doing so, we will abide in His love, carry His joy, and bear fruit that will last. Because He loves us so deeply, He commands us to love each other. The Bible tells us that three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love. Dear Jesus, thank you for modeling love with the greatest act of obedience the world has recorded. Your passionate and unfailing love is a template for us. We fall so short, Lord. Help us to abide in Your perfect love that casts out all fear and enable us to obediently follow where You call with a passion that never becomes a burden, yet is a joyful delight for us and for You. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #067 – Twisted Theology Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today, I‘d like to start with some crucial questions for each of us to examine. Really think about the answers and not just jump to a response when you hear the questions. I think it is crucially important for each of us to regularly ponder our walk with God, if we want a mature relationship that continues to deepen and widen over time. Do you consider yourself a devoted Christian? The word devoted means to be intensely active or have enthusiastic attachment, loyalty, or affection. Is this the type of passion you carry for Jesus? Do you believe that you exhibit proper character for a believer of Christ? How do we define what is proper in relation to following Jesus? How can we recognize whether we actively display the Lord through the way we live? A woman who believes and exemplifies the teachings of Christ in her life will consistently experience daily alterations to character and integrity, drawing herself and others nearer to Him. Each of us falls short daily. Today I want to address the insidious shift we must be aware of if our hearts belong to Him. Many who profess to be followers of Christ actually follow the world. Theology in our culture is twisted and warped. Historically, the United States has been incredibly blessed, because our nation was founded on Christian principles. How different secular and “Christian” America now look compared to the vision our founding fathers expected and established. I purposely worded what I said in the way I did, because I believe that we do have a visible difference that has caused a division. A standard is being established for the future of our nation and the souls within. Empty, Godless deceit is spreading throughout the entire world. How will unbelievers follow Jesus if He is not seen in a consistent, godly fashion by those who profess to know, follow, and love Him? Does the way we live allow others to see Jesus in us? Are they drawn to Him through our words, actions, and behavior? In order to make Christ known, we must intentionally study, know, and live by God’s holy words. Not because we know we should, but because the passion we hold for Him compels us to. Society is filled with people who use sayings such as, “live your own truth” or “to each their own.” This popular and growing trend of thought is falsely believed and acted upon by both Christians and non-Christians. Based on points of view created through cultural or life experiences (and whims), many in our culture strive to live with no universal or absolute set of moral or ethical principles. Even many Christian churches, which are supposed to be an assembly of believers of Jesus Christ, are missing the mark by removing or ignoring God’s guideline for truth based on the Bible, and exchanging holiness as defined by our Heavenly Father, for twisted or diluted theology fed by man and swallowed by both the secular and Christian world. How can we comprehend God’s word if we refuse to make time to read it? Can Jesus become the thread binding our heart to His and a life committed to viewing this world with His eternal perspective if we do not purposely create time for Him? Many people do not rely on the truth and values commanded by God, relying instead on self and react to life and others based on personal emotions or experiences. Without God’s perfect wisdom and truths, the world’s manmade, false morality warps faith and authenticity into a subjective knot of lies resulting in rebellion and suffering. Hosea 4:1b-3a says, “There is no truth, no loving devotion, and no knowledge of God in the land! Cursing and lying, murder and stealing, and adultery are rampant; one act of bloodshed follows another. Therefore the land mourns, and all who dwell in it will waste away.” If we are not immersed in a purposeful, honoring relationship with God through Jesus, chances are high that our children will not be. As more churches are shifting away from standing on and teaching biblical truths, our children and grandchildren are suffering. Secular schools (and now many Christian institutions), do not offer the truth and foundation of God’s word and morality. Without the church remaining strong in a truthful, loving, fearful, and consistent fashion established on honoring God’s sovereignty and holiness, current culture based on subjective moral relativism will continue a twisted infiltration through the minds and hearts of our nation and the world. Did you know statistics indicate that over half of young adults in the U.S. believe many religions lead to eternal life and that morality changes over time? Psalm 11:3 says, “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” Without the unshifting, holy moral compass of God, we do what is right in our own eyes. Unfortunately, the consequences affect not only self, but all, for generations to come. Based on the thought process of those who have rejected God’s truths, many are left with the false belief that morality is relative, but if that were true, there would be no sin. Moral relativism lacks a concept of guiding principles that point the way to spiritual, emotional, physical, mental, and financial freedom and peace supplied by one source only – our omnipotent, sovereign God. As believers in Christ, we know that without sin, there is no guilt. Without culpability, we do not need forgiveness. If we cannot perceive that morality must be guided by a holy source, we will never realize our absolute need for Jesus, therefore, we never seek repentance or forgiveness. 1 John 5:1-8 says, “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God, and everyone who loves the Father also loves those born of Him. By this we know that we love the children of God: when we love God and keep His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome, because everyone born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world: our faith. Who then overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God. This is the One who came by water and blood, Jesus Christ—not by water alone, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit who testifies to this, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three that testify: the Spirit, the water, and the blood—and these three are in agreement.” Proverbs 4:20-27 says, “My son, pay attention to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Do not lose sight of them; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and health to the whole body. Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life. Put away deception from your mouth; keep your lips from perverse speech. Let your eyes look forward; fix your gaze straight ahead. Make a level path for your feet, and all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your feet away from evil.” It is crucial that we realize the importance of knowing what we believe and why we believe it. If you have doubts or questions about God or faith, lift them to Him. God desires hearts that seek to know truth. He draws near to those who draw near to Him. If you are a believer, seek and live in the fullness of God’s love and accept the joy and peace He alone delivers. Intentionally spend time alone with Him. Read His word and speak to Him in prayer. Then listen for Him. Continue on a daily basis and you will experience the joyful changes He makes as you live in faith and obedience grounded in the relationship you are building with Jesus. Current events, actions, and attitudes throughout the world will deceive. Even Christians, because we are human and fallible, and because theology has been twisted by all who do not truly know and stand faithfully in God’s word, will make mistakes. Our choices often do not reflect the holiness God desires. We must purpose to walk with Him daily. If we are not consciously committing to building a strong relationship with God moment by moment with a mind and heart preparing for eternity with Him, we have already fallen short. How many around us will miss the mark because of our selfish, fleshly choices? Ephesians 5:15 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise.” 1. Read, study, and learn God’s word. 2. Forge a deeper connection through prayer, especially scriptural prayer. 3. Think critically, based on the compass of God’s word. 4. Observe and test what your experiences and others say and live (words, actions, thoughts, emotions, feelings, etc.) and align all against God’s truths. 5. Do not be deceived by what you see or experience, or use them as basis for truth. 6. Place your hope in God alone; do not follow people or self. 7. Remember, God alone is righteous and holy. Deuteronomy 4:9 says, “Only be on your guard and diligently watch yourselves, so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen, and so that they do not slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and grandchildren.” The future of our children, grandchildren, nation, and world, as well as our eternity are built or broken by what we choose to believe and model now. We will never focus on eternity unless we purpose to do so with a heart firmly grounded in the truths of God and the sacrifice of Jesus. Deuteronomy 30:6 says, “The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, and you will love Him with all your heart and with all your soul, so that you may live.” John 8:31b-32 says, “If you continue in My word, you are truly My disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Father God, You alone are the Lord. You created the heavens, the highest heavens with all their host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to all things, and the host of heaven worships You. Worthy are You, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for You created all things; by Your will they exist and came to be. May we realize the depth of these truths and model every area of our life after Your perfect Son, Jesus. Thank you for allowing us the life we have. May we honor and worship You as You are due. Guide and protect our steps and bring us ever nearer to carrying Your truths into this dark world. Protect our minds so that no deceitful theories or cultural trends infiltrate the truths You have given in Your commandments and holy book, the Bible. Let us seek and recognize what You approve of because we know You well through time spent with You. Give us courage and conviction to stand where You command. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 067 Twisted Theology Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #067 – Twisted Theology Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today, I‘d like to start with some crucial questions for each of us to examine. Really think about the answers and not just jump to a response when you hear the questions. I think it is crucially important for each of us to regularly ponder our walk with God, if we want a mature relationship that continues to deepen and widen over time. Do you consider yourself a devoted Christian? The word devoted means to be intensely active or have enthusiastic attachment, loyalty, or affection. Is this the type of passion you carry for Jesus? Do you believe that you exhibit proper character for a believer of Christ? How do we define what is proper in relation to following Jesus? How can we recognize whether we actively display the Lord through the way we live? A woman who believes and exemplifies the teachings of Christ in her life will consistently experience daily alterations to character and integrity, drawing herself and others nearer to Him. Each of us falls short daily. Today I want to address the insidious shift we must be aware of if our hearts belong to Him. Many who profess to be followers of Christ actually follow the world. Theology in our culture is twisted and warped. Historically, the United States has been incredibly blessed, because our nation was founded on Christian principles. How different secular and “Christian” America now look compared to the vision our founding fathers expected and established. I purposely worded what I said in the way I did, because I believe that we do have a visible difference that has caused a division. A standard is being established for the future of our nation and the souls within. Empty, Godless deceit is spreading throughout the entire world. How will unbelievers follow Jesus if He is not seen in a consistent, godly fashion by those who profess to know, follow, and love Him? Does the way we live allow others to see Jesus in us? Are they drawn to Him through our words, actions, and behavior? In order to make Christ known, we must intentionally study, know, and live by God’s holy words. Not because we know we should, but because the passion we hold for Him compels us to. Society is filled with people who use sayings such as, “live your own truth” or “to each their own.” This popular and growing trend of thought is falsely believed and acted upon by both Christians and non-Christians. Based on points of view created through cultural or life experiences (and whims), many in our culture strive to live with no universal or absolute set of moral or ethical principles. Even many Christian churches, which are supposed to be an assembly of believers of Jesus Christ, are missing the mark by removing or ignoring God’s guideline for truth based on the Bible, and exchanging holiness as defined by our Heavenly Father, for twisted or diluted theology fed by man and swallowed by both the secular and Christian world. How can we comprehend God’s word if we refuse to make time to read it? Can Jesus become the thread binding our heart to His and a life committed to viewing this world with His eternal perspective if we do not purposely create time for Him? Many people do not rely on the truth and values commanded by God, relying instead on self and react to life and others based on personal emotions or experiences. Without God’s perfect wisdom and truths, the world’s manmade, false morality warps faith and authenticity into a subjective knot of lies resulting in rebellion and suffering. Hosea 4:1b-3a says, “There is no truth, no loving devotion, and no knowledge of God in the land! Cursing and lying, murder and stealing, and adultery are rampant; one act of bloodshed follows another. Therefore the land mourns, and all who dwell in it will waste away.” If we are not immersed in a purposeful, honoring relationship with God through Jesus, chances are high that our children will not be. As more churches are shifting away from standing on and teaching biblical truths, our children and grandchildren are suffering. Secular schools (and now many Christian institutions), do not offer the truth and foundation of God’s word and morality. Without the church remaining strong in a truthful, loving, fearful, and consistent fashion established on honoring God’s sovereignty and holiness, current culture based on subjective moral relativism will continue a twisted infiltration through the minds and hearts of our nation and the world. Did you know statistics indicate that over half of young adults in the U.S. believe many religions lead to eternal life and that morality changes over time? Psalm 11:3 says, “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” Without the unshifting, holy moral compass of God, we do what is right in our own eyes. Unfortunately, the consequences affect not only self, but all, for generations to come. Based on the thought process of those who have rejected God’s truths, many are left with the false belief that morality is relative, but if that were true, there would be no sin. Moral relativism lacks a concept of guiding principles that point the way to spiritual, emotional, physical, mental, and financial freedom and peace supplied by one source only – our omnipotent, sovereign God. As believers in Christ, we know that without sin, there is no guilt. Without culpability, we do not need forgiveness. If we cannot perceive that morality must be guided by a holy source, we will never realize our absolute need for Jesus, therefore, we never seek repentance or forgiveness. 1 John 5:1-8 says, “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God, and everyone who loves the Father also loves those born of Him. By this we know that we love the children of God: when we love God and keep His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome, because everyone born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world: our faith. Who then overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God. This is the One who came by water and blood, Jesus Christ—not by water alone, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit who testifies to this, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three that testify: the Spirit, the water, and the blood—and these three are in agreement.” Proverbs 4:20-27 says, “My son, pay attention to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Do not lose sight of them; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and health to the whole body. Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life. Put away deception from your mouth; keep your lips from perverse speech. Let your eyes look forward; fix your gaze straight ahead. Make a level path for your feet, and all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your feet away from evil.” It is crucial that we realize the importance of knowing what we believe and why we believe it. If you have doubts or questions about God or faith, lift them to Him. God desires hearts that seek to know truth. He draws near to those who draw near to Him. If you are a believer, seek and live in the fullness of God’s love and accept the joy and peace He alone delivers. Intentionally spend time alone with Him. Read His word and speak to Him in prayer. Then listen for Him. Continue on a daily basis and you will experience the joyful changes He makes as you live in faith and obedience grounded in the relationship you are building with Jesus. Current events, actions, and attitudes throughout the world will deceive. Even Christians, because we are human and fallible, and because theology has been twisted by all who do not truly know and stand faithfully in God’s word, will make mistakes. Our choices often do not reflect the holiness God desires. We must purpose to walk with Him daily. If we are not consciously committing to building a strong relationship with God moment by moment with a mind and heart preparing for eternity with Him, we have already fallen short. How many around us will miss the mark because of our selfish, fleshly choices? Ephesians 5:15 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise.” 1. Read, study, and learn God’s word. 2. Forge a deeper connection through prayer, especially scriptural prayer. 3. Think critically, based on the compass of God’s word. 4. Observe and test what your experiences and others say and live (words, actions, thoughts, emotions, feelings, etc.) and align all against God’s truths. 5. Do not be deceived by what you see or experience, or use them as basis for truth. 6. Place your hope in God alone; do not follow people or self. 7. Remember, God alone is righteous and holy. Deuteronomy 4:9 says, “Only be on your guard and diligently watch yourselves, so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen, and so that they do not slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and grandchildren.” The future of our children, grandchildren, nation, and world, as well as our eternity are built or broken by what we choose to believe and model now. We will never focus on eternity unless we purpose to do so with a heart firmly grounded in the truths of God and the sacrifice of Jesus. Deuteronomy 30:6 says, “The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, and you will love Him with all your heart and with all your soul, so that you may live.” John 8:31b-32 says, “If you continue in My word, you are truly My disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Father God, You alone are the Lord. You created the heavens, the highest heavens with all their host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to all things, and the host of heaven worships You. Worthy are You, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for You created all things; by Your will they exist and came to be. May we realize the depth of these truths and model every area of our life after Your perfect Son, Jesus. Thank you for allowing us the life we have. May we honor and worship You as You are due. Guide and protect our steps and bring us ever nearer to carrying Your truths into this dark world. Protect our minds so that no deceitful theories or cultural trends infiltrate the truths You have given in Your commandments and holy book, the Bible. Let us seek and recognize what You approve of because we know You well through time spent with You. Give us courage and conviction to stand where You command. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 075 - Embrace Being an Imperfect Parent but Don't Stay There Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 075 – Embrace Being an Imperfect Parent But Don’t Stay There Godly over good parenting. Have you heard that term before? I speak of it often. In fact, it’s become one of my favorite ways to connect with someone when we talk about parenting. Why? One of the greatest joys of my life has been finding out the truth about parenting. It wasn’t until I began to see the holy privilege bestowed by God when He allows one to become a parent that I also felt one of the deepest sorrows of my life. How did something so joyous bring such sorrow? Sorrow is described as a type of grieving or regret . The fact that the definition labels sorrow as a form of grief speaks to the depth of remorse. But did you know that there are different types of sorrow ? One is a human , fleshly sorrow , the other a godly sorrow . 2 Corinthians 7:10-11a says, “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. ” What exactly is godly sorrow? The Bible refers to godly sorrow as sorrow that is prompted or produced by the Holy Spirit and aligns with the will of God . It is God, by His grace, who grants our saving faith, which includes repentance from sin. 2 Timothy 2:25 says, “He must gently reprove those who oppose him, in the hope that God may grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth .” The repentance I felt over parenting brought a godly sorrow that was brought by my deepening walk with Christ. Knowing Christ more intimately dropped the ego from my parenting skills. By the world’s standards I was an excellent parent, but by God’s measure, I was not the godly parent He calls each believer to be. Believers know that true repentance cannot occur unless genuine sorrow for the sin committed is felt. In fact, godly repentance identifies the salvation of a believer. One following Christ as Savior and in a maturing relationship with Jesus will continue to repent of sins as awareness of fleshly desires and actions are recognized and committed. This allows a deepening walk and the fruit of the Spirit to flourish in the life of the believer. On the other hand, what is referred to as human sorrow is simply remorse that is not in alignment with God’s will . Perhaps the person becomes remorseful because they were caught in an act or they didn’t reach an intended result. Perhaps their pride is wounded by the actions of another or by something they personally did or didn’t complete. When someone carries this type of human sorrow, joy, peace, hope, or any of the fruits easily identifiable in the life of a believer aren’t identified. Instead, the person may experience feelings such as depression, despair, hopelessness, self-pity, embarrassment, or anger. When we are genuinely repentant, however, our attitude changes. Righteousness is pursued eagerly. We desire Christ to cover and carry us. No longer indifferent to sin, evil, or deception, our character and desires shift closer to Christ’s as the Holy Spirit continues redeeming work within us. We grieve that our actions and desires once brought pain and dishonor to our Heavenly Father. We are filled with gratitude for the work Jesus performed on the cross, allowing us to approach the Father and restore relationship with Him. As the Holy Spirit continues a transforming work within, we long for holiness to define our nature and realize it can only come through the life-saving power of Christ as we continue to humbly submit with love and reverence to Him. This is what happened to me after raising my first set of children. My husband and I were good parents when we raised our first set of children, very good in the eyes of the world. Beginning our family at the age of 18, we were often told that we were mature for our years and wise in many areas. While it felt wonderful to receive the praise of others, their words didn’t bring the joy that I later learned came from purposely parenting to please and honor the Lord. I learned how sorrow can pertain to parenting. As humans, none of us are perfect. No one can claim 100% skillful parenting the way God would call. First, humans will never reach the perfection of Christ. Second, we live in a fallen world, and no matter how well a person attempts to parent, human desires, meaning the parent’s, the child’s, siblings, family, friends, or strangers, events, needs, wants, mistakes, etc. will interject or interfere in some way. Life isn’t easy and raising humans to adulthood is not a task to embark on without seeking and remaining steadfast to God and His will for the parents and the child. If I was such a good parent, why would I feel sorrowful about parenting? Am I blaming my first set of children or saying that they turned out to be “bad” kids? Definitely not. My thoughts don’t reflect on them at all, but totally on my husband and me. On this side of raising my first set, I can see how we were young and spiritually immature. In fact, I didn’t know Jesus as Savior until years later, and even then, it took me a while to really understand what being discipled meant. If you think about it logically, if I wasn’t growing in relationship with God through an intentionally deepening and maturing walk with Christ, how could I expect my parenting skills to draw my children to Him? I couldn’t exhale to my children what I hadn’t yet inhaled. As I grew in Jesus at the time, it was through sporadic readings of my Bible. There might be times I read often, then times of just seeing my Bible on the nightstand, letting it remind me of how much I loved Jesus, but I thought I didn’t have time to read. Just because I had a Bible in my house, that didn’t mean I was absorbing God’s holy wisdom and learning to use it is ways that drew my children to His feet. Did they know Jesus? Yes. We talked about God, but were they learning to depend on Him for every need as they grew a strong walk with Him? There’s a massive gap between children knowing mom and dad love and follow Christ and hearing their words of wisdom to train them versus seeing mom and dad live a maturing faith moment by moment and instilling God’s morals and truths to build a lifetime of trust and obedience to Christ and build their identity through Him. The tricky part is that I thought I was building that faith and trust in Christ. I’ve learned that without a purposed plan to raise each child in the truths of the gospel and the joy of the Lord, you are building your house on shifting sand. Matthew 7:24-26 says, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand .” When my kids were raised and my husband and I knew God was calling us to begin a second round of parenting with our baby girl from China, I felt the sting of repentant, godly remorse. Our Heavenly Father was speaking to my heart, telling me He had plans far different for this child than I ever imagined when I became a first time mom at eighteen. When He placed a desire within my husband and me to raise a baby after our first set of children were out of the house, I knew He had a purpose I had yet to understand. Growing up, I never even wanted children. Now I knew God was calling us to begin a second generation of parenting. My husband and I shared very specific desires and goals for what we would do the same and what we would do differently. We assessed our first parenting years in the ways we believed God’s eyes and heart would, then considered and prayed about what grieved and pleased Him. Our new baby would purposely see our faith and Jesus through our words, actions, reactions, desires, and deeds. We were committed to consistently raising her in ways that we prayerfully believed would delight the Lord as we sought and depended on Him. Exodus 20:12 says, “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you .” How can your children honor God if they don’t see you making that choice. As a parent models humble submission, love, and obedience to God, a natural extension of your child’s blossoming walk with God will be obedience and love toward you. We deeply desired our daughter to love God first through a relationship with Jesus, then we knew she would love and respect us, as well. In my Set-Apart Collective, I teach mothers a Motherhood Mindset Model and how to construct a Purposed Parenting Plan much like the one we created that enables them to parent and live with godly purpose and take thoughts and actions captive for Christ as they model the way for their children to do the same. Do you feel areas of godly parenting remorse? Whether you are a long time or new parent, you will never feel you have every aspect of parenting down. Even if your ego tells you how well you are doing, unless you are purposed in mentoring a lifetime of love and obedience to Christ in tangible ways that draw your child to Him and training your child how to live for Jesus, your parenting is in vain. The child in your care is on loan. The God who created the heavens and earth and knitted your child together in secret with a purposed plan for their life has entrusted that child to your care to raise for Him. Are you up to the task? What are ways you can embrace being an imperfect parent without staying there? Knowing God entrusted His children to your care, you must remember that He didn’t haphazardly choose you or your child. With loving, trusting intentions, He placed you and each child you parent with you. Of course He knows you’re not able to raise children without Him. He is calling for you to give Him the sovereign place He deserves and allow Him to protect and provide moment by moment as you call out to Him. As you know, Adam and Eve were the first parents. They were also the first imperfect parents. You and I come from a very long line of imperfect caregivers. No one is able to raise children as God would call without reliance on Him in every aspect of the journey. The Bible recounts story after story offering examples of imperfect parenting and children who neglected to follow or obey God. In fact, Adam and Eve were the first disobedient children and they actually did have a perfect Father. Two imperfect parents did happen to raise a perfect Son, Jesus. No doubt, Mary and Joseph knew Jesus was special, but they were human. They would not know how to rear a child to become the Savior of the World, even if they had known God’s plan. God, in His goodness knew their hearts when He chose them. God knew the plan and purpose Jesus carried. God, in His Sovereignty chose the exact parents for Jesus to be raised by, knowing they would obediently, yet imperfectly choose to honor God and raise their Son for Him. God carried, guided, and guarded. You and I don’t know the plans God has for our children. We don’t know the eternal purpose they have on this earth. But it is through our God-given authority that we must prayerfully and humbly seek God’s arms to carry us moment by moment to raise His children for Him. Just as Jesus replied in Luke 2:49 which says, “Why were you searching for me?” He asked. “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house ,” you and I must constantly, prayerfully, and humbly be about our Heavenly Father’s business and show our children how to do the same in their life. This world doesn’t honor the gift of motherhood through eyes like God. The heart of the world doesn’t beat for mothers staying home with children. It doesn’t know the value of a mother working a long day at work to provide for her children, then praise that mother for intentionally finding a way every evening to draw the hearts of her children to the feet of Jesus. As a mother rests in the arms of God, she mentors the way to Christ for her children instead of ignorantly or accidentally teaching the ways of the world. Your sacrifice, obedience, prayers, Scriptural teachings, and godly actions taken moment by moment will be the seeds God will use to harvest in His time. To prepare the soil of your child’s heart for teachings to take root for God, there are important steps purposed mothers and fathers must take. 1. Realize that you are not enough. Praise God! You’re not meant to be. 2 Corinthians 3:5 says, “Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God .” God waits to carry you. His desire is to breathe Truth and light into your life and family. Place Him at the center of your family. 2. Become closer to God through a maturing relationship with Christ. It’s one thing to love God. It’s different to have communion with Him through Jesus. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know Me, you will know My Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him .” 3. Know and love your spouse and children through eyes and heart like God. To do that, you must first know and follow the Lord in humble obedience. John 13:34 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another .” 4. Put God first, then spouse, then children, then work. Deuteronomy 6:5 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength .” 5. Humbly honor God by reading or listening to His Word. Share His Word regularly, both individually and as a family. Speak truths to others, share the gospel, but also live in ways that show you follow Christ and give Him honor when people talk to you about the differences they see in you. Teach your child to pray and talk to God. Let your children hear you pray for them and ask them to pray for you. Pray together as a family daily. People often say they don’t have time, but I have found that when you place God first, you find you discover more time for Him. Proverbs 15:29 says, “The Lord is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayer of the righteous. ” 6. Let your child hear you bring God into daily conversations. Whether you’re in nature, at the store, in the car, in conversation, invite God in. Showcase God’s work in the events you are experiencing and help them form biblical critical thinking skills early in life. Set the groundwork for this process and see their skills grow as they do. Hebrews 11:6 says, “But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him .” 7. Teach God’s Truths and let your child see you live those truths with joy , not simply preach God’s Word to them. Isaiah 54:13 says, “All your children will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their peace .” 8. Parent with God-honoring authority, humility, and grace. Ask God to guide and guard your mind, heart, family, and decisions. Matthew 19:14 says, “Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these .” This verse will pertain to your children, whether young or grown. It’s never to late to mentor a life that honors Christ for your child to see and learn from. I urge you to make time to assess your parenting . Assess your relationship with Christ. You may be like I was the first time I parented. Without knowing it, I was training my children to love Jesus, but rely more on self. Although we discussed Christ and knew we loved Him as Savior, looking back, moments weren’t held captive for Christ. Days slipped by without godly over good parenting to mold and shape my children into the image of Christ. Ask God to show you the way to His heart. Ask Him to guide your mind to think as His does and to show you how to reach the minds of your children for Him. Know that as you inhale Christ, you are able to exhale Him for others to breathe. Deepen and widen the roots of your maturity through relationship with Jesus and watch God work as only He can as you ask him to carry you. Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. How merciful and loving You are to seek us and never let us out of Your firm grasp. Through Jesus we know we have eternal life and that nothing can pluck us from Your mighty hand. How we need You! In our wisdom we sometimes think we are following You without knowing how far we begin to stray. Father, keep us near. Draw us closer when You see us begin to wander. Don’t let us rely on worldly wisdom or fleshly thoughts. Take our minds captive for Christ and allow us to see with Your eyes and feel with Your heart. We want to parent for You! We want to see the results of children raised to know, love, and honor You. May we be able to proclaim Your mighty works and show others the way to trust Your guidance in parenting. Help our children lead the next generation in deeper faith in You and a holy obedience. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. There’s so much more to dig into on this topic. If you find you’d like more information, please let me know. Send your questions and requests to info@terrihitt.com . Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. The first group of women is currently growing together. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 086 - Navigating the Challenges of Being a Christian Working Mother Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 086 – Navigating the Challenges of Being a Christian Working Mother Thank you for taking time to share your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children. During forty-five years of parenting two sets of children, I’ve been the mother who worked full-time outside the home while parenting my first set of children in the eighties and nineties. I’ve also been the stay-at-home mother who homeschooled my second set of children, and am now a Christian parenting and mindset coach and a podcaster with my second set of children. Over the years I have experienced many emotions and feelings as I navigated what I had to do and what I was called to do. I’m not sure which season you’re currently living in, but there is such a difference in doing what you feel you have to do versus what God is calling you to complete . Where are you in your life? I understand many women have careers they absolutely love, careers they may have known they would have since they were children. But I’ll be honest. When I worked outside the home, I dreaded almost every day I went to work. The first twelve years were the hardest. After I switched jobs going to work was more enjoyable, but my heart still yearned to be at home. I remember in one of the facilities I worked in, there was a bathroom stall that had a window. I used to look out and dream of a time when I would be able to be home and not have to go to work for the money our family needed. I felt like my heart was shriveling up and the passions and dreams God gave me were being wasted. Although I tried to follow some of them in the bits of time left from working, I always felt torn and confused. How was I supposed to reach my goals when I had important duties as a wife and mother, but had to work outside the home, and had so little time? I remember feeling guilty and never fulfilled . Have you ever felt that way? Later, when I was in my early forties I would sit at my desk at work and daydream about how I would change the way I had parented if I had the opportunity to redo those early years. I missed my children being little, and felt like I had been cheated out of moments and memories, because I was aways at work. By this time my first two children were young adults, and because I didn’t feel like I was an empty-nester longing for years passed, I wondered why I was having these thoughts. In hindsight, I understand that I had since matured my relationship with Christ, and God was preparing me for the beautiful plans He had in store for me. It was the beginning of a journey I never dreamed I would take, but it has fulfilled me more intimately and deeply than any dreams I imagined for myself. Isn’t that always the way with the One who created us? I share this portion of my personal story because I want you to know you’re not alone. Whether you are a working mom inside or outside of the home, what you do is important. You may have a career that you know you were created to do or you may have to bring in money to cover food and bills. Either way, I hope you are following God’s plan for your life. I hope that you rely on Him to carry you through the difficult and discouraging times. Life definitely throws us both. When my husband and I got married right out of high school, I was seventeen; he was eighteen. When I say we were financially challenged, it’s an understatement. When we married we had one thousand dollars in our bank account and it quickly disappeared as we had deposits to place on our first apartment, bills to pay, and food to purchase. Thankfully, we had supportive family, especially my in-laws. After adding two children and multiple medical bills, I finally resigned myself to the fact that I had to go to work outside of the home in order to make ends meet. At that time our son was three years old and our daughter was almost six. I had been babysitting children as they grew to that age, but that very small amount barely contributed to our needs. Mom guilt quickly appeared when I began working outside the home. My daughter’s kindergarten teacher didn’t help when she called to tell me my daughter disliked me working and wanted me to stay at home. The babysitter I hired through referral from a friend at church ended up calling me at work to tell me she was upset that my three year old son had discovered her gun and was carrying it around the house. What ?! I probably don’t need to say this, but of course, I immediately took him from that environment. I left work early to bring him home that day and he never went back. If she couldn’t keep a weapon from my three year old, what other dangers were surrounding him at her place? Where did she keep her gun that he could find it so easily? I was astounded. Finding quality child care at an affordable price was so challenging! I felt trapped as a woman and a mom. My goodness! Have you been there? The difficulties of dealing with strong personalities at work, finding quality, safe daycare, combined with making sure the family ate, the house stayed clean, and navigating thoughtless, untrue remarks from an extended family member yet still maintain a relationship with them left me exhausted. That basic feeling of being exhausted never left during the twenty-one years I worked outside the home. In fact my health deteriorated while working outside the home and I began losing weight when I didn’t need or intend to. My life schedule also had to become very well-planned and limited. I didn’t have time for everything I wanted to do in my life, and I wanted to put my husband and children first. I have never enjoyed cooking, so I used our family wall calendar to solve the “what are we going to have for dinner when I get home from work and have so much to do” situation by charting my meals. On that calendar I wrote the meal planned for that day. I would cook for one week on Sunday afternoons and package up the meals to store in our extra refrigerator in the garage. This method allowed us to always have meals ready. When we were ready to eat, the food just needed to be heated. Of course, we could switch days if we wanted something different, but the point is that food was prepared and no one had to question what to eat. We didn’t spend hard-earned cash on eating out and the food was healthy and filling. Weekends were busy with cleaning the house in the moments between games, events, and trying to make time for my hearts true desire - writing. Eventually, I began assigning chores to the family so everyone could pitch in to complete the work together. At the time I felt like a failure that I couldn’t do it all myself, but despite an extended family member telling me that it was the role of the woman to clean, I forged on with my plan and am so glad. My husband didn’t mind pitching in as long as he knew what to do. He’s the type who doesn’t usually think of what to help with on his own, but gladly helps when asked. By helping, my children learned skills they would need later in life, and I was able to feel like I could breathe easier knowing home basics weren’t neglected. How do you handle the chore load at your home? It's not easy to be a working mom. Expectations from work, home, family, and self can cause women to suffer from anxiety, depression, resentment, guilt, and more. Those burdens can leave little time for the one solution that can lift a woman out of the pit of pressures. The Lord. When I became a Christian I was in my twenties. Shortly after, I began working outside of the home. I’d been hurt by the church we attended when I first found Christ. In error, I had placed those members on a pedestal, instead of rightly placing Christ in that position. When I wasn’t treated well, we stopped going to that church. I began using Sunday morning time to clean and cook, or do whatever needed to be completed before I went back to work the next day. I always felt like there was a ticking clock that zapped the time and my energy over that two day, short weekend. It felt so unfair to work 5 days and only have two to feel like I was really living. Am I the only working mother who feels that way? How much different it would have been if I had remained faithful in following Jesus intentionally and maturing my walk with Him. I’ve learned that when we make any amount of time for Him, we crave more. Once we make time for Him, we discover that we actually have much more time than we imagine. The Lord seems to multiply time like He did with the bread and fish long ago. Working women always seem to crave a better balanced schedule. The missing piece is usually time with Christ. Jesus sets all things free. Following Jesus is crucial in daily living. As believers we understand that truth. However, we don’t always live it. Sometimes we deceive ourselves and think we are. Sometimes we love Him with all our heart, but don’t know how to make more time for Him. Sometimes we have time, but don’t stop to hear what He is calling. Where do you fall? One thing I know to be true is that Jesus won’t lead you astray. He cares for you. Your time, schedule, family, health, and finances are all important. He has plans with a purpose set for you. He longs for you to seek Him and see the purpose He desires, the purposes that will fill your heart and home with a joy, peace, love, and beauty you never imagined. Today I want to address struggles, demands, and solutions that may help working moms, whether they are earning a living from inside or outside the home. A working mom shoulders added responsibilities that can either cause her to lift up praise and gratitude to the Lord or pull her away from Him as she struggles to survive. First, let’s look at a fact that working mothers often have to deal with – approval. Many working mothers wonder whether God really gives approval for women to work. Some people fall into the camp that God calls women to stay home, while others believe God allows women to work. Which is true? What do you and your family believe? Each of us have seasons in our life. God understands our seasons. He expects us to cling to Him despite the season we’re in. He desires that we seek Him first, make time to prayerfully hear His guidance , and stay in His Word. He must come before all else. God has crafted different purposes into each of us. What God has created you to do is different than what I am purposed to complete. When we purposely mature our walk with Him, God guides us to step into the desires we didn’t even know were in our heart . But only when we humbly submit and follow where He leads. Some of us were meant to complete tasks that require us to be out of the home. We must be extra diligent not to neglect the important duties and privileges of being a mother and wife. We must also ensure that we don’t find our identity there. Identity must come through Jesus. I don’t believe God ever commanded women not to work . Read Proverbs 31:10-31 , which says, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.” Did you notice the beautiful qualities and conviction of the Proverbs 31 woman? How easily we can compare ourselves to her seeming perfection. However, the truth is that through Christ you are free. Free of comparison. Free of the burdens you may carry from juggling all the things. It’s clear that the Proverbs 31 woman excelled at many things. That assures us she was following the path God laid for her . She wasn’t striking out on her own without consulting the Father. What has God called you to do in this season? I don’t mean what do you think you are supposed to do. What do you know through prayerful certainty that God wants you to complete in this season of your life? Jesus never commanded you to live with stress or anxiety. He calls for you to live in peace . He provides that peace. We only find that beautiful fruit of the Spirit when we humbly and obediently submit to Him. Where is He asking you to be right now ? What is He calling you to do? We know that God has basic instructions that do not change. God commands all mothers to do the following : Love God - Mark 12:30 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength .” Trust God - Psalm 121:1-3 says, “I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip—He who watches over you will not slumber .” Follow God - Psalm 27:11 says, “Teach me Your way, Lord; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors .” God also requires devotion to Him first. Family second . He desires that you, no matter where you are in the work force - at home - or outside the home, to train the children He has entrusted to you in His truths and ways . Proverbs 1:8 says, “Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching .” In order for your children to come to a life-saving knowledge of Christ as their Savior, you must make Him known to them. Many women who work struggle in this area. Time is short. They’re unsure of how to have enough time to get dinner on the table after helping everyone with homework, let alone find time to read the Bible so they can teach their kids about Jesus. What is your plan to do that if you are a full-time working mother? Can it be done? Of course, but you have to be even more purposed and ready to sacrifice short term for the long term investment of your child’s eternity with Christ. It can be challenging for you as a working mom to make time to disciple your children. When you consider all of the trials a working mom faces, there’s barely enough time for the basics of living after she returns home each evening. As a working mom, you face normal life successes and challenges, as well as the following: Time – It can be very difficult to leave the house when your child is sick, tired, or missing you. Sometimes they need more cuddle time or extra care. Even a mom working from home faces times when the kids need extra care even though she’s facing work deadlines. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You .” Use blocks of time to direct your children to the Lord through prayer, Bible readings, or devotions together. This is to be an ongoing lifestyle. On days when your children might have to support you through work deadlines, pray with them before you part ways and touch base as you can. Check back with them that evening and spend a few minutes with them to ensure that they are doing well. Depending on your child’s interests, you can take a short walk together at night to find time to explore and talk. You can take a drive together. You can work a puzzle together. You can pass a journal of feelings and thoughts to each other. Use your creativity to observe what would work best for your children and your situation. Of course, there are variables such as age, interests, maturity, etc. Seek God’s guidance in this area before you need it, so you have a strong foundation to build on. I know it can seem impossible to have time to do some of these suggestions, but to make time for these important ways to be together, you will cut out things in your life that don’t honor the Lord or are currently keeping you and your family from spending time together. You’ll always be busy and getting busier. When does parenting for Christ become the priority if it isn’t right now? The world won’t wait to influence your child away from Christ. Don’t give Satan a foothold. Work/Family Balance – Working moms often feel they’re the only one who fails at work/life balance. The truth is that no one juggles everything well at all times. Keep your eyes fixed on what God is calling you to do or how He is leading you . Know that it is godly to say, “no” sometimes. Ensure that your “yeses” are reserved for what God lays on your heart to complete. Colossians 3:23-24 says, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward .” In life, you will experience easier and more challenging seasons. Above all, keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Mentor and teach that lifestyle and decision-making to your children. They need to hear and see you put God first. Are you consistently mentoring the way? Guilt – Guilt’s a feeling that’s easy to carry and let it weigh you down. While working, a mother might miss her children and lose focus while thinking of home demands. When at home, she may feel unfocused on her children due to work demands. She might believe she’s is failing at both jobs. Scripture tells us that Satan is always prowling to see who he can destroy. The devil is out to steal, kill, and destroy. This is why it is imperative to know God’s Word and ingest it daily . Knowing God through His Word is imperative. You cannot build a close relationship or understand where God is calling you or trust He is carrying you without knowing His Word, truths, and character. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus .” Remember, God never causes you to feel guilt. He doesn’t condemn, but He will convict you. He will guide and guard you according to His Word . As you follow His plan for you, He will equip you for the job. God will also allow circumstances that draw you nearer to Him or cause you to depend on Him, rather than self. Be sure to consistently inhale God so you can exhale Him to your family. Atmosphere/Operations of Workplace – Dealing with people can be the hardest part of working. Whether it be customers or co-workers, relationships can be extra challenging. Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still." A working mother carries extra layers of responsibility when she is in the workplace. Not only are the logistics of getting to work daily challenging, but the relationships in the workplace can be as well. Maintaining a godly attitude, work ethic, and reactions are only possible through daily renewal through Christ. Not just knowing you believe in Him or you follow Him, but intentionally seeking Him in fellowship and living at His feet. Even more important, your time at home must reflect the Father you follow. Without relationship through Christ, you cannot cultivate a foundation of hope and trust in Him in your home. Without close relationship with Jesus, your children will not have a firm foundation building under their feet on which to establish a lifetime of faith. You are their first exposure to Jesus. How well are you showing Him? Daycare Struggles (quality, pricing, hours) – It’s challenging to find a caregiver to love your child. When a family member watches your children it might be smooth or could cause more stress, depending on your situation. Finding a quality caregiver is one of the biggest concerns for a working mother. Also important is the consideration of the costs of working (travel, clothing, food, daycare, and more) if one is considering going outside of home to bring in additional income. Sometimes you find that it’s not worth the effort in the long run if you are able to cut costs in other areas. Seek what God’s good and perfect will Is for you. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will .” Sometimes the answer is to stay at home while your children are very young or find a way to work from home. Expectations of others, whether it be a boss, co-worker, customer, family, or client, as well as hours worked, and distance or location of work, and whether traveling is required all play into more added burdens for the working mom. Anxiety hits when you feel overwhelmed. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things .” Our mind is a powerful tool. Choose to keep your mind fixed above and specifically ask God to protect your thoughts. Prayerfully ensure that you are following His will regarding work. Commit to knowing that you will never please everyone all the time. God first, husband second, family next. As important as work is, it comes last. Create the mindset that God will carry you through difficulties if you are listening to His guidance. Trust that He cares for you in every intimate way you need. Are you looking for ways He is doing so already? Are you praising Him before your children so they hear you and will be thankful for His provisions? Communication with Husband – Sometimes, the person you love most gets shoved to the bottom of your to-do list at home. It can be challenging to find time for intimacy or quiet time with your husband. It’s important to have the proper mindset to take care not to neglect your relationship. One of the best ways I have strengthened my 45 year marriage is by praying together daily. It is a habit well worth establishing with your husband and children. James 1:19 says, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry .” Look at your spouse as a person God created and loves. Make time to speak to, and listen to your husband, as well as make time to pray and grow in the Lord together, which will help with the next section. Lack of Support from Husband (in work/business) – Sometimes it’s hard to get help from your husband. Marriage is a two-person commitment and so is caring for the children and the home. While some believe the man should take care of “manly” chores like mowing or lawn work, and the woman should take care of the inside chores of the home, what works for your home and the interests and talents of you and your spouse are what need to be considered. If you love to mow and he likes to cook, take the roles you excel in to maintain the home and help your family flourish. When you work together, knowing you work for God - and then each other, housework and free time are accomplished a lot more easily. Ephesians 5:33 says, “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband .” As you make time to grow your walk with God together, you will follow the loving commands He set forth for your relationship. Loving God first enables you to love each other more deeply. Love is sacrificial. Love listens. Love helps. I believe the closer your husband is following the Lord, the clearer He will hear promptings from you and God on how he should support you with the extra burdens you carry. Spiritual Challenges – Sometimes it can be hard to hear God speaking when life is busy. As believers we know the Word tells us God is present . We also have the Holy Spirit living within us. If we can’t hear God speaking, we are moving too fast. It feels counter-productive and scary to slow down, especially when so much is left undone, but placing God at the top of your list in home and work life will give you peace and joy. Without active fruits of the Spirit, it can be impossible to hear Him speak and direct your ways. Don’t look at what others are doing. Set God first in your life and household and do what He has called for you . Galatians 6:4 says , “Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else .” During the seasons you think you don’t have time for reading God’s Word, listen to it. Ensure that your children do as well. Discuss God’s Word and weave it into conversations, as well as ways to apply God’s commands and truths. You need God’s daily bread. Your spouse and children do, too. Even Jesus realized His need and ensured He spent time with God daily, then relied on the Father moment by moment. Desire to Be Present with Kids (but also bring in income) – I don’t think there is a working mom who feels like she gets enough time with her children. Since time is limited, the most important thing you and your husband can do for your family is maintain close and growing relationship with Jesus and each other. Building that basic foundation will enable you to put everything else in order. Pay attention to your children in the small ways that matter. Cultivate time with them, no matter how brief. That one on one time and being there for them in important ways that feel small now will be remembered later. Ask God for guidance and insight into each child and ask Him to show you the way to help them build identity in Him and relationship with Jesus and you. Be present with those you love, not always on your phone or computer. Show joy in your eyes and body posture when they approach you. When you fail, acknowledge it and apologize to your loved ones. No one is perfect, but you will grow in your wisdom and stature with God as you humbly seek His ways and show them to your family. Philippians 4:13 says, “For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. ” God has commanded you to be the hands that bring His children to His feet. Deuteronomy 6:5-9 commands, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates .” Time for Self – This may be one of the hardest. Time alone is certainly rare. A mom can’t even go to the bathroom alone. But if you’ll listen to an older mom for a moment. Everything I thought I needed to do when I was younger has lost importance when compared to what was completed for Christ. Don’t feel guilty when you need time for yourself. Maybe it’s your love language to take a bubble bath or go to coffee with a friend. Maybe you like long walks with your husband. Whatever speaks to your love language, you need to schedule. But always remember that nothing will complete you like time with God. What did Jesus do when He needed time alone? He used the time to rest in God and be in humble submission to Him. Jesus sought God in all things and in all ways. The Father was first. When you place God as the highest authority in your life, you will be Spirit-led and satisfied. How can you make time for Him before self? Ask God to show you the way to fulfill your duties as a working mom, wife, and mentor of Christ to the children He has entrusted to you. Ask God to give you the joy He purposed for you in this time of your life. No matter where you work in your life at this time, you are in a season. It may be a season you enjoy, or one you can’t wait to finish. Rest in it with Jesus. Know that if you are following where the Lord leads, He is preparing you for the desires of your heart in ways that will honor and glorify Him. Above all, purpose what you are experiencing to enable you to become a set-apart woman who will raise her children to chase Christ over culture. Time is short. But the more you use it in intentional ways that draw you nearer to your Heavenly Father, the more influential you are to His children - for Him . Dear Heavenly Father, How we need Your holy presence in our life. Thank you for making a way for us to reach You at any time. Jesus is the bridge that brings us to You Hallelujah! Father, we thank you for the provisions you make for us through the work of our husbands and our own hands. You know the needs we have, Father. As a woman, we care for much, our attention goes to all, and we constantly think and analyze the world around us. We are naturally intuitive and insightful because You made us that way. Our mind and heart hold so much and we carry the effects of that wherever we are, straddling across the work and home life. God, please comfort and carry us. We need Your strength to navigate the effects of working inside and outside of the home. It seems we’re never off duty and we don’t want to stray from the safety of Your care and loving arms. Please let nothing cause us to drift away from You. Help us continue to cling to You and grow in Your truths and purpose. Keep us on the road You have designed and equip us to carry our children to Your heart and feet. Help our marriages to grow stronger and our lines of communication to be strengthened as we encourage and equip each other in the paths You have called for us. Help us to be present with You and our loved ones in the season we are in and navigate it with Your strength and wisdom. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you’re a working mom inside or outside the home and need an easy way to begin teaching your babies, toddlers, or preschoolers about Jesus, send me an email at info@terrihitt.com . I’m currently working on a devotional to bring your children to the feet of Jesus early. Let me know you’re interested, and I’ll let you know how to receive a copy. Also, you may have heard me talk about the Set-Apart Collective often in this podcast. Why do I share it so often? I know the program works. Through 6 weeks of one-on-one and group coaching, along with Scripturally-based materials I provide, you will complete 8 steps that include the following: Seek God First, Establish Identity, Teach Truth, A Set-Apart Woman, Parent Set-Apart Kids, Arm for Battle, Relationships, and Training. What you learn and solidify in your personal life will directly affect the way you serve God and parent for Him. It will help you construct godly confidence and esteem through Christ in your children. If you’re ready to invest in the future of your children, contact me at info@terrihitt.com for more details or visit terrihitt.com/setapart. Because you are a podcast listener, let me know you heard about the special price I’m offering you. I seriously want you to experience results and live a set-apart life with a set-apart family. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Why? Because supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. If you’ve decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child and you desire to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, the Set-Apart Collective, will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #124 – Solace in Silence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you know someone who commands attention when they speak? When my husband says something, people know he isn’t one to speak mindless words, so those around him heed what they hear. For one like me who likes to talk and enjoy conversations, I need to remember to be more like this at times. God’s word says much about hearing before speaking and using wisdom to guide our words. Ecclesiastes 9:17 says, “The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools.” Ecclesiastes 3:7 says, “A time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.” Proverbs 21:23 says, “Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Most everyone will listen to the news, stories of friends or family, podcasts, the radio, teachers, shows, movies, co-workers, a boss, or a pastor. We value what others have to say, but do we place biblical truths at the top of the list of what goes into our minds? Think about this fact: “you become whatever you think on.” What we ponder does more to affect our actions than good intentions. I believe listening for what the Lord has to say and for us to discover are important qualities to develop. We cannot listen when we are too busy speaking – or doing. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will. In order to renew our mind and train it to be more Christ, we must intentionally desire the outcome of Christlikeness. We can’t reflect what we don’t know. In this case, we cannot reflect the One we do not know. How can we become more like Jesus? How do we renew and transform our mind? How do we test and approve what God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will is? First, we must ingest God’s word. As we recognize Him, we allow Him to renew our mind, despite this fast-paced, distracting world tugging at us. Psalm 46:10 says, “He says, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." Did you catch the quiet command within the verse? Be still and know. We must seek silence. In the quietness, our mind can be trained with new thoughts and desires. This time of stillness can be the beginning of seeing, studying, and showing Jesus. If you already have a strong relationship with Christ, you will strengthen serenity through Him. True peace only comes from God and cannot be found apart from Him. Nothing we seek or do is more important than maturing a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Just as we must spend time with those we love on earth in order to develop relationships and draw closer to each other, we must purpose our time with our Heavenly Father, getting to know Him, speaking to Him, and listening to Him, or we will miss out on the greatest relationship of our life (and of our eternity). The way to God is through Jesus. John 14:6-7 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him.” We must learn to be comfortable in solace with the Son. Matthew 14:23a says, “After He had dismissed them, He went up on a mountainside by Himself to pray.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” As we read how Jesus personally, privately sought God, making time to be with His Heavenly Father, we must remember He was also showing us the way to find Him. As we seek to deepen our worship, mature and demonstrate our faith, and focus our mind and heart on Christ, we will find the Father. Let’s look at 7 basic steps we can take to find solace in silence and worship our Father: 1. Read and Study the Bible - 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” When we know God’s word, we can recognize false preachers or teachings that go against God’s will for us. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Prayer is the lifeline to God. People ask what we can do for others, what we can do to help ourselves. God has supplied us with a holy tool for developing a stronger trust in Him and maturing relationship with Him. Just as Mary sat at the feet of Jesus in humble adoration, we can sit at the feet of our Savior and know Him intimately through prayer as we share with Him, ask for His wisdom and discernment, and listen for His still, small, mighty voice. 3. Reflect – James 1:22-25 says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.” Silence allows us time for reflection. How can we grow in the Lord if we do not make time to ingest what we read and savor the goodness of our personal time with Him? 4. Journal Scripture – Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Journaling God’s words is a beautiful way to help us focus on and remember the teachings of our Heavenly Father. Sometimes our brains and hearts need a new or alternate way to take in the truths and commandments God generously shares with us. 5. Memorize Scripture – Proverbs 3:1-2 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity.” When trials wash over your life or adversity stings your days, confidence may be found in the words stored in your heart and mind. God is a very present help in times of need. Only He has the ability to reach you exactly where and when you need it. His timeless truths are applicable to each one of us. 6. Share - Psalm 96:3 says, “Declare His glory among the nations, His marvelous deeds among all peoples.” Sharing testimony of what God has done in your life, as well as the truth of the gospel will touch lives of others in ways we cannot comprehend. Fearlessly allow God to work through you unhindered and His words will reach the ears of those in need. 7. Rest – Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” God graciously allows us rest. Although we live in fallen world of sin, He calls for us to come to Him and allow Him to take our burdens. He is able to hold and handle whatever we give to Him. His invitation is for each of us, in whatever condition we come to Him in. Jesus allows us rest in the highest form, because it is rejuvenation and refreshment for our souls. Dear Heavenly Father, only You carry wisdom. We are in such desperate need of Your truths and wisdom! Father, pierce us with your knowledge, wisdom, discernment, and understanding. Help us see our futile attempts to be our own gods and allow You to carry us with strength that comes only from You. Help us to hold our tongue when needed and speak when You desire. May we allow You to stop unwholesome talk from exiting our lips. May it never enter our brain. Help us to build others up, especially Your children. May our words benefit their walk with You for eternity. May we listen to advice from others who uprightly follow You and may we recognize those who are not and allow them no say over our life. Lord, we live with many plans, but cause us to stop and reflect on You and allow Your holy rest and rejuvenation for our soul. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I also want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 124 - Solace in Silence Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #124 – Solace in Silence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you know someone who commands attention when they speak? When my husband says something, people know he isn’t one to speak mindless words, so those around him heed what they hear. For one like me who likes to talk and enjoy conversations, I need to remember to be more like this at times. God’s word says much about hearing before speaking and using wisdom to guide our words. Ecclesiastes 9:17 says, “The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools.” Ecclesiastes 3:7 says, “A time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.” Proverbs 21:23 says, “Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Most everyone will listen to the news, stories of friends or family, podcasts, the radio, teachers, shows, movies, co-workers, a boss, or a pastor. We value what others have to say, but do we place biblical truths at the top of the list of what goes into our minds? Think about this fact: “you become whatever you think on.” What we ponder does more to affect our actions than good intentions. I believe listening for what the Lord has to say and for us to discover are important qualities to develop. We cannot listen when we are too busy speaking – or doing. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will. In order to renew our mind and train it to be more Christ, we must intentionally desire the outcome of Christlikeness. We can’t reflect what we don’t know. In this case, we cannot reflect the One we do not know. How can we become more like Jesus? How do we renew and transform our mind? How do we test and approve what God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will is? First, we must ingest God’s word. As we recognize Him, we allow Him to renew our mind, despite this fast-paced, distracting world tugging at us. Psalm 46:10 says, “He says, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." Did you catch the quiet command within the verse? Be still and know. We must seek silence. In the quietness, our mind can be trained with new thoughts and desires. This time of stillness can be the beginning of seeing, studying, and showing Jesus. If you already have a strong relationship with Christ, you will strengthen serenity through Him. True peace only comes from God and cannot be found apart from Him. Nothing we seek or do is more important than maturing a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Just as we must spend time with those we love on earth in order to develop relationships and draw closer to each other, we must purpose our time with our Heavenly Father, getting to know Him, speaking to Him, and listening to Him, or we will miss out on the greatest relationship of our life (and of our eternity). The way to God is through Jesus. John 14:6-7 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him.” We must learn to be comfortable in solace with the Son. Matthew 14:23a says, “After He had dismissed them, He went up on a mountainside by Himself to pray.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” As we read how Jesus personally, privately sought God, making time to be with His Heavenly Father, we must remember He was also showing us the way to find Him. As we seek to deepen our worship, mature and demonstrate our faith, and focus our mind and heart on Christ, we will find the Father. Let’s look at 7 basic steps we can take to find solace in silence and worship our Father: 1. Read and Study the Bible - 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” When we know God’s word, we can recognize false preachers or teachings that go against God’s will for us. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Prayer is the lifeline to God. People ask what we can do for others, what we can do to help ourselves. God has supplied us with a holy tool for developing a stronger trust in Him and maturing relationship with Him. Just as Mary sat at the feet of Jesus in humble adoration, we can sit at the feet of our Savior and know Him intimately through prayer as we share with Him, ask for His wisdom and discernment, and listen for His still, small, mighty voice. 3. Reflect – James 1:22-25 says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.” Silence allows us time for reflection. How can we grow in the Lord if we do not make time to ingest what we read and savor the goodness of our personal time with Him? 4. Journal Scripture – Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Journaling God’s words is a beautiful way to help us focus on and remember the teachings of our Heavenly Father. Sometimes our brains and hearts need a new or alternate way to take in the truths and commandments God generously shares with us. 5. Memorize Scripture – Proverbs 3:1-2 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity.” When trials wash over your life or adversity stings your days, confidence may be found in the words stored in your heart and mind. God is a very present help in times of need. Only He has the ability to reach you exactly where and when you need it. His timeless truths are applicable to each one of us. 6. Share - Psalm 96:3 says, “Declare His glory among the nations, His marvelous deeds among all peoples.” Sharing testimony of what God has done in your life, as well as the truth of the gospel will touch lives of others in ways we cannot comprehend. Fearlessly allow God to work through you unhindered and His words will reach the ears of those in need. 7. Rest – Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” God graciously allows us rest. Although we live in fallen world of sin, He calls for us to come to Him and allow Him to take our burdens. He is able to hold and handle whatever we give to Him. His invitation is for each of us, in whatever condition we come to Him in. Jesus allows us rest in the highest form, because it is rejuvenation and refreshment for our souls. Dear Heavenly Father, only You carry wisdom. We are in such desperate need of Your truths and wisdom! Father, pierce us with your knowledge, wisdom, discernment, and understanding. Help us see our futile attempts to be our own gods and allow You to carry us with strength that comes only from You. Help us to hold our tongue when needed and speak when You desire. May we allow You to stop unwholesome talk from exiting our lips. May it never enter our brain. Help us to build others up, especially Your children. May our words benefit their walk with You for eternity. May we listen to advice from others who uprightly follow You and may we recognize those who are not and allow them no say over our life. Lord, we live with many plans, but cause us to stop and reflect on You and allow Your holy rest and rejuvenation for our soul. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I also want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #106 – Finding Refuge Under God’s Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 91:4 says, “He will cover you with His feathers; under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness is a shield and rampart.” Another version of the same scripture verse translates the words like this, “He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.” Recently, I interviewed Alex Stone, a young man on a mission to see lives changed by the Gospel. If you haven’t heard our conversation yet, I urge you to listen to podcast episode 104 to hear the genuine passion, encouragement, and truths Alex shares. As Alex and I spoke after the recording of our conversation stopped, he told he that he thought his mother would be an excellent person for me to talk to on the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Alex connected us and after a beautiful, heartfelt conversation with his mother, Jennifer, we set a time to record an interview, which is the episode I now present. So, thanks to Alex, I have the pleasure of introducing you to his mother, Jennifer, who deeply loves the Lord and longs to stay beneath the shelter of His wings, and equips others to do the same. Jennifer Stone has been married to Jeff for 20 years. Together, they have four children. They also have two international daughters through hosting the girls as exchange students. Jennifer’s greatest desire is that her children walk in truth and in relationship with God. Growing up, she learned the power of prayer from the example her parents mentored for her, and she desires for others to know how life-changing spending time talking with, and listening for, God can be. Jennifer has a heart for women and developing relationships centered around Jesus. She and her husband, Jeff are involved with discipling other couples, and in addition, Jennifer leads women individually and in small groups through discipleship and Bible study. When I spoke with Jennifer, I recognized her deep desire for God and her understanding of His word and truths. I knew she would be an excellent mentor on the podcast for sharing encouragement to stay the course or begin a new relationship with Jesus, as well as easily sharing practical tips for being in the word and applying it in our daily life. Today we will discuss areas where women tend to struggle, how to be encouraged by God’s word, biblical tips for couples and parents, peace and joy, and of course how to live with an eternal perspective by keeping our eyes, minds, and heart fixed on Jesus. ----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------ My hope is that you enjoyed the practical tips and the scripture Jennifer shares today. Her heart for serving and honoring Jesus and helping others to do the same is authentic and I’m thankful for the service she openly gives for Jesus and others. Each of us has the opportunity to choose to devote our heart to the Lord and find ways to honor and please Him with the life we have been given. My prayer is that the tips and verses we discussed today are impressed on every heart and will fuel each of us to be bolder in our testimonies and more faithful in our journey with Jesus daily. Precious Heavenly Father, how great You are! You adorn Yourself with majesty and splendor, and clothe yourself with honor and glory. There is none like You. May our minds and mouths be filled with Your praise and with Your splendor all day long. Thank you for sending us Your Son and Your Holy word so that we may know you, be mentored by You, and know the ways You desire us to live. You gift us with so much that we frequently do not recognize or that we ignorantly take for granted. Purify our hearts so that we desire You more deeply and see You more clearly. Help us to honor and please You more each moment as we turn to You and crave You over culture and over selfish desires. May we continue to grow in and through You and become a new creation with Your mercies every morning. Help us to seek You and find the refuge we long for and desperately need beneath your wings as we allow You, encourage You, to cover us with Your feathers. Help us long for Your loving, perfect care, and provision. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 106 Finding Refuge Under God's Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #106 – Finding Refuge Under God’s Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 91:4 says, “He will cover you with His feathers; under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness is a shield and rampart.” Another version of the same scripture verse translates the words like this, “He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.” Recently, I interviewed Alex Stone, a young man on a mission to see lives changed by the Gospel. If you haven’t heard our conversation yet, I urge you to listen to podcast episode 104 to hear the genuine passion, encouragement, and truths Alex shares. As Alex and I spoke after the recording of our conversation stopped, he told he that he thought his mother would be an excellent person for me to talk to on the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Alex connected us and after a beautiful, heartfelt conversation with his mother, Jennifer, we set a time to record an interview, which is the episode I now present. So, thanks to Alex, I have the pleasure of introducing you to his mother, Jennifer, who deeply loves the Lord and longs to stay beneath the shelter of His wings, and equips others to do the same. Jennifer Stone has been married to Jeff for 20 years. Together, they have four children. They also have two international daughters through hosting the girls as exchange students. Jennifer’s greatest desire is that her children walk in truth and in relationship with God. Growing up, she learned the power of prayer from the example her parents mentored for her, and she desires for others to know how life-changing spending time talking with, and listening for, God can be. Jennifer has a heart for women and developing relationships centered around Jesus. She and her husband, Jeff are involved with discipling other couples, and in addition, Jennifer leads women individually and in small groups through discipleship and Bible study. When I spoke with Jennifer, I recognized her deep desire for God and her understanding of His word and truths. I knew she would be an excellent mentor on the podcast for sharing encouragement to stay the course or begin a new relationship with Jesus, as well as easily sharing practical tips for being in the word and applying it in our daily life. Today we will discuss areas where women tend to struggle, how to be encouraged by God’s word, biblical tips for couples and parents, peace and joy, and of course how to live with an eternal perspective by keeping our eyes, minds, and heart fixed on Jesus. ----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------ My hope is that you enjoyed the practical tips and the scripture Jennifer shares today. Her heart for serving and honoring Jesus and helping others to do the same is authentic and I’m thankful for the service she openly gives for Jesus and others. Each of us has the opportunity to choose to devote our heart to the Lord and find ways to honor and please Him with the life we have been given. My prayer is that the tips and verses we discussed today are impressed on every heart and will fuel each of us to be bolder in our testimonies and more faithful in our journey with Jesus daily. Precious Heavenly Father, how great You are! You adorn Yourself with majesty and splendor, and clothe yourself with honor and glory. There is none like You. May our minds and mouths be filled with Your praise and with Your splendor all day long. Thank you for sending us Your Son and Your Holy word so that we may know you, be mentored by You, and know the ways You desire us to live. You gift us with so much that we frequently do not recognize or that we ignorantly take for granted. Purify our hearts so that we desire You more deeply and see You more clearly. Help us to honor and please You more each moment as we turn to You and crave You over culture and over selfish desires. May we continue to grow in and through You and become a new creation with Your mercies every morning. Help us to seek You and find the refuge we long for and desperately need beneath your wings as we allow You, encourage You, to cover us with Your feathers. Help us long for Your loving, perfect care, and provision. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #020 – Eternal Perspective Parenting Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest gifts and hardest struggles the Lord has blessed me with is parenting. Being a mother has stretched me, helped to erase selfish desires, and shown me the heart and essence of God through a deeper understanding of how much He desires to parent and love me. Parenthood allows God to expose my heart in ways that never would have occurred had I not stepped into the role of mother. To love a child without reserve, to acknowledge that in their eyes, I am everything, yet to skillfully accept that love and adoration, that dependence, and shift it to their Heavenly Father as I aspire to allow Him to guide and direct me is a humbling and beautiful task. Even more beautiful for me is the beautiful gift God extended to me when He called my husband and I to adopt. Adoption has exposed the gospel to me in an even clearer and meaningful way. Jesus was adopted. Orphan lives matter. I understand now how deeply I love each one of my precious children, regardless of how they came to be mine. There is no distinction. They are mine forever. I would die for any one of them. Jesus has manifested Himself to me in supernatural ways through the process of creating a home for and providing for the needs of my children through adoption. He works so clearly as I depend on Him to guide and educate me, to love through me, and increase my understanding of His plans for us and our beloved children. Laying aside my desires and needs to meet theirs can be both joy-filled and exhausting, yet it is what I am called to do as a parent. Life is not about expecting gratitude for sacrifices, either. When I lay down my life for my child daily, it may not be a physical death, but an eradication of self and my self-centered expectations and I am teaching them to do the same for others. There is no greater joy for me than to raise my children to know, love, and honor the Lord and to guide them to accept Jesus as Savior and live the life He has created them to experience with joy and peace. This goal is always on the forefront of my mind. II want to influence them to be lifelong disciplines of Jesus and guide them to exalt Him in every area of their life and to desire following Him in every way. The idea I regard as true for my role as a parent has certainly matured since I became a mother for the first time at age 18. When you envision parenting, do you describe your child (or children) as your best friend or “mini me?” Do you follow the world and fall to the expectations and lean toward the aspirations it sets for your parental goals? Or do you accept your responsibility as their guardian with a heart for the Lord and a grateful spirit that He has entrusted His masterpieces to you for a specific purpose and time? It is certainly not by coincidence that your child has been deposited in your care. The word deposit means, “to place for safekeeping.” I believe when we view our role as a parent to God’s children through this lens, we begin to recognize that we are caretakers, just as Jesus protects us. Mark 9:37 says, “Whoever receives one of these little children in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me, receives not Me but Him who sent Me.” Regardless of by what method your child came to you, whether biological or adopted, your precious gift was created by God for His purpose and you have the unique blessing of being appointed by Him as the shepherd of your child’s soul. Our children were created for specific purposes that God has ordained for them and set in them. Jeremiah 1:5a clearly tells us, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.” God has not placed His child in your care for the purpose of becoming their best friend or because we want or deserve to be a parent. We weren’t chosen because of the desire we have for our child or for what purpose we believe they will bring to our life. God has placed them under our stewardship because of the divine objective He designed to work through us. God is molding and shaping parent and child together, as He guides and grows our children and also works in us through them. Parenting is not about, or for us. God has gifted us in this role to allow us participation in an eternal purpose with far greater significance than we can see or imagine. He is entrusting His precious minors in our care so that we will lift them up to Him as we seek His wisdom and guidance. Psalm 127:1 says, “Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labor in vain; unless the LORD protects the city, its watchmen stand guard in vain.” The key to parenting with God’s eyes, heart, and attitude is to first reflect on, and strengthen, our personal walk with Jesus. I believe we must thoughtfully and purposely consider the following questions: 1. Where is my identity found? 2. Where do I find my hope? 3. How do I define myself? 4. Where do I find success? 5. Who or what do I rely on? 6. What shapes me? 7. Who and what will I allow to mold my children? 8. What is my objective as I parent my children? Until we fully know, trust, love, and follow the Lord in a secure, growing, eternal relationship, we will not be attuned to the fullness of what His call is for us as parents. Without our eternal attachment and reliance on Jesus, our children will lack the spiritual formula they need to flourish. Jesus expects every aspect of my child’s experiences with me and our life together to press them into His arms. 3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” The Lord is calling parents to be His truth. Our personal eternal salvation must be secure in order for our child to have the greatest likelihood of an eternal future with Christ. We must willingly allow Jesus to sit on the throne of our heart and life, our attitudes and choices, our actions, and intentions if we want to raise children who joyfully exhibit His love, joy, peace, self-control, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. The foundation for the eternity of my child is my responsibility. One of my favorite passages in the Bible is found in Deuteronomy 6:6-9, which says, “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” God’s ways are full of wisdom and provisions to care for us, build our future, and keep us safe. This passage shows that God calls us to: 1. Know and keep His words as a treasure in our heart. 2. Teach His words to our children through relationship and mentorship. 3. Discuss the Lord and His ways. 4. Ponder Him and His teachings. 5. Fix my thoughts on Him. 6. Talk to God throughout my day as a Father and friend. 7. Remember His faithfulness and promises. 8. Show Him to my children and others through the way I live. In Matthew 22:36, Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment is. He answered with a verse found in Matthew 22:37 and in Deuteronomy 6:5. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus relays the following words. “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.” The heart, soul, and mind are representative of an entire person – our heart, brain, and spirit. We are to cherish, know, love, and serve God, to represent and seek Him with all we are. When we do that, we allow Him to naturally flow from us and into others, especially our children. But we must also purposely teach and model God to them. How? Through making time to read, know, understand, and respect the word of God. His words are to be in our heart. We don’t simply read and get it done, then move on to something else that needs to be accomplished in our day. We seek our Heavenly Father, savor His word, ponder, and reflect His wisdom and guidance as we allow His to transform us. We purposely desire the work God is doing in us to be reflected to our children. We allow them to see the difference Christ is making in our life. We demonstrate the characteristics our changed life has brought. Our relationship isn’t a once a week occurrence. Living with Jesus as the center of our life means that He exists within us and is a natural occurrence of everything about us. He is in our thoughts as we go about our day. We see life through an eternal perspective, understanding and valuing that all things, good, bad, hard, easy, or surprising are opportunities to cleave to Him and draw others to Him. As we speak, our words are scripted by Him, our actions formed as we become more like Him moment by moment. He is as much a part of us, flows as naturally from us as taking our next breath. I find it fascinating that in Hebrew, the term “love” does not only refer to feelings or emotions. The word “heart,” as Jesus uses it, focuses on the intellect, affection, and inclinations or desires of the person. Jesus is commanding us all to cling to God and be devoted to Him in every way and at every moment. Jesus is calling us to seek God in everything, to ponder His requirements of us, His sacrifice for us, to live within His guidelines for us, to seek His heart instead of our own, and to model a life for our children that does not strictly follow laws, but the heart of Jesus. We are to lovingly teach our children to desire God through Jesus and a pattern of His love and word represented in our lives. How do we do that? Through a growing, maturing, purposed relationship with Jesus. The children we call our own are sent to us by God for a season and a purpose He ordained. We must trust and depend on Him to guide us and rely on His wisdom and discernment, instead of our own. God knows we are not enough. We need to realize that fact. He is the creator of our children. No one knows or understands them as He does. He is our deliverance for raising children who thrive in the ways God desires. God always equips the willing. He desires us to desire Him as we influence His children. We will make mistakes. We will learn and evolve every moment as we look up to and depend on God to mold, shape, and perfect us to live as He created. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “For You formed my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are Your works, and I know this very well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in secret, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all my days were written in Your book and ordained for me before one of them came to be.” God planned me. He planned you. He planned each of our children and knew when they would enter our life. We are not called to be the hero in the life of our child. All we do as we love and parent them is to be modeled after the way our Heavenly Father loves and parents us. We must point our precious children to Him. We want them to rely on and follow the Lord. The beautiful blessing of raising our children in this way is that we also experience the gift of a beautiful relationship with born-again, God-fearing children. Ephesians 3:14-21 says, “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height—to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” This is the strength and power we need to raise our children in the way God desires. In order for our children to desire Jesus, and see the need for Him, we must humbly desire the Lord ourselves and exhibit that love for Christ, while allowing it to show it in our life with the fruits we can only receive from a deep and right relationship with the Holy Spirit. Every moment is an opportunity for us to draw nearer to God and to attract our children to Him. Thankfully, He has allowed each of us free will. Our children will make their own choices, but when they regularly see humble love and grace exhibited in the hearts and homes of their parents, and recognize that it is extended from the relationship we built with the Lord, it will be a sweet fragrance that attracts and bonds them to Him and to us. When our own identity is strongly formed and forged with the Lord, we lead our child to follow that example. Just as we grow our walk with the Lord moment-by-moment, we do the same with our children, equipping and encouraging them to do the same with Jesus. Godly parenting emerges when I recognize and admit that it is not about me. It is allowing Him to flow through and guide me to meet the needs of my child. Issues in this world extend from the condition of our heart. We want the heart of our child to be centered in a true, humble, loving, thriving relationship with Jesus. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” Whatever rules my child’s heart and whatever rules my heart, will rule our behavior and relationship. Ephesians 6:1-4 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth. And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.” Our children are not saved by following our authority, they are saved through submitting to His. As parents, we must obey the Lord’s command to raise our children as He calls. Ephesians 6:10-18 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints.” We know from John 10:10 that the enemy is out to steal, kill, and destroy. Jesus has come so that we may have abundant life, for us, our children, our relationship together and with Him. In this world, we are fighting spiritual warfare in the heavenly realms. I appreciate having this passage from Ephesians as a prayer staple to remind me I have what I need to rely on God’s strength and provisions to protect me and my family. His armor is sufficient for our every prayer need. There are many important points for us to remember when parenting the precious, unique individuals God has entrusted to our care. 1. Pray for God to fill my weakness with His mercy, glory, and provisions. 2. Pray for my child in all ways – continually. 3. Never give up believing that God hears my prayers and sees my attempts to raise my children for and through Him. 4. Let my child know that I pray for him or her. Let them hear me pray and pray with them. 5. Let my child know I pray for myself as I parent them. 6. Teach my child to pray for me. 7. When needed, apologize to my child, and point them to God, not my frailties. 8. Look for opportunities to draw my child to God naturally, daily. 9. Point my child to scripture and the power it holds. 10. Utilize God’s wisdom to parent my child, not my own. Isaiah 54:13 says, “Then all your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their prosperity.” It is impossible to fathom just how differently the lives of our children will form and how many more blessings we all receive when we humbly acknowledge and obey God’s directives when raising our children for and through Him. God is enabling us to partner with Him, to humbly and willingly trust Him to guide us through a journey of faith, hope, trust, and transformation of our life and character, as well as the integrity of our children. Psalm 127:3a says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord.” If you have already raised your children and have regrets that you did not know Jesus or did not rely on the power and wisdom of the Lord like you wish you would have, please remember that unfortunately, regrets are a part of the journey through life. It is good to have developed awareness of mistakes, but allow yourself to feel the emotions and experience the truth of what you could have done differently, then release your thoughts and pain as you repent to the Lord. He wants to carry those emotions. God does not desire that you beat yourself up and live in shame or anguish. Don’t stay cemented in the past, use your experience to nurture a godly relationship with your children and grandchildren now. Jesus came so that we do not need to remain burdened by mistakes and failures. Allow God to direct and lead you. Our Heavenly Father desires our repentance and humble hearts. He is a master at relationships. What we have sown takes time to change, but God will use our willingness and obedience to complete His work. Proverbs 17:6 says, “Children’s children are the crown of old men, and the glory of children is their father.” Each moment carries the promise, hope, and beauty of redemption through Christ. God is good. He wants our heart and the soul of our children to reflect, love, and honor Him. He will bless our prayers and desires for that result. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. In order for others to be able to hear about Jesus through Live With Eternal Perspective, I need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift this podcast higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Right now, because the podcast is new and the following is small, listeners won’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. Can you think of a friend who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them so that they will also find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 020 Eternal Perspective Parenting Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #020 – Eternal Perspective Parenting Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest gifts and hardest struggles the Lord has blessed me with is parenting. Being a mother has stretched me, helped to erase selfish desires, and shown me the heart and essence of God through a deeper understanding of how much He desires to parent and love me. Parenthood allows God to expose my heart in ways that never would have occurred had I not stepped into the role of mother. To love a child without reserve, to acknowledge that in their eyes, I am everything, yet to skillfully accept that love and adoration, that dependence, and shift it to their Heavenly Father as I aspire to allow Him to guide and direct me is a humbling and beautiful task. Even more beautiful for me is the beautiful gift God extended to me when He called my husband and I to adopt. Adoption has exposed the gospel to me in an even clearer and meaningful way. Jesus was adopted. Orphan lives matter. I understand now how deeply I love each one of my precious children, regardless of how they came to be mine. There is no distinction. They are mine forever. I would die for any one of them. Jesus has manifested Himself to me in supernatural ways through the process of creating a home for and providing for the needs of my children through adoption. He works so clearly as I depend on Him to guide and educate me, to love through me, and increase my understanding of His plans for us and our beloved children. Laying aside my desires and needs to meet theirs can be both joy-filled and exhausting, yet it is what I am called to do as a parent. Life is not about expecting gratitude for sacrifices, either. When I lay down my life for my child daily, it may not be a physical death, but an eradication of self and my self-centered expectations and I am teaching them to do the same for others. There is no greater joy for me than to raise my children to know, love, and honor the Lord and to guide them to accept Jesus as Savior and live the life He has created them to experience with joy and peace. This goal is always on the forefront of my mind. II want to influence them to be lifelong disciplines of Jesus and guide them to exalt Him in every area of their life and to desire following Him in every way. The idea I regard as true for my role as a parent has certainly matured since I became a mother for the first time at age 18. When you envision parenting, do you describe your child (or children) as your best friend or “mini me?” Do you follow the world and fall to the expectations and lean toward the aspirations it sets for your parental goals? Or do you accept your responsibility as their guardian with a heart for the Lord and a grateful spirit that He has entrusted His masterpieces to you for a specific purpose and time? It is certainly not by coincidence that your child has been deposited in your care. The word deposit means, “to place for safekeeping.” I believe when we view our role as a parent to God’s children through this lens, we begin to recognize that we are caretakers, just as Jesus protects us. Mark 9:37 says, “Whoever receives one of these little children in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me, receives not Me but Him who sent Me.” Regardless of by what method your child came to you, whether biological or adopted, your precious gift was created by God for His purpose and you have the unique blessing of being appointed by Him as the shepherd of your child’s soul. Our children were created for specific purposes that God has ordained for them and set in them. Jeremiah 1:5a clearly tells us, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.” God has not placed His child in your care for the purpose of becoming their best friend or because we want or deserve to be a parent. We weren’t chosen because of the desire we have for our child or for what purpose we believe they will bring to our life. God has placed them under our stewardship because of the divine objective He designed to work through us. God is molding and shaping parent and child together, as He guides and grows our children and also works in us through them. Parenting is not about, or for us. God has gifted us in this role to allow us participation in an eternal purpose with far greater significance than we can see or imagine. He is entrusting His precious minors in our care so that we will lift them up to Him as we seek His wisdom and guidance. Psalm 127:1 says, “Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labor in vain; unless the LORD protects the city, its watchmen stand guard in vain.” The key to parenting with God’s eyes, heart, and attitude is to first reflect on, and strengthen, our personal walk with Jesus. I believe we must thoughtfully and purposely consider the following questions: 1. Where is my identity found? 2. Where do I find my hope? 3. How do I define myself? 4. Where do I find success? 5. Who or what do I rely on? 6. What shapes me? 7. Who and what will I allow to mold my children? 8. What is my objective as I parent my children? Until we fully know, trust, love, and follow the Lord in a secure, growing, eternal relationship, we will not be attuned to the fullness of what His call is for us as parents. Without our eternal attachment and reliance on Jesus, our children will lack the spiritual formula they need to flourish. Jesus expects every aspect of my child’s experiences with me and our life together to press them into His arms. 3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” The Lord is calling parents to be His truth. Our personal eternal salvation must be secure in order for our child to have the greatest likelihood of an eternal future with Christ. We must willingly allow Jesus to sit on the throne of our heart and life, our attitudes and choices, our actions, and intentions if we want to raise children who joyfully exhibit His love, joy, peace, self-control, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. The foundation for the eternity of my child is my responsibility. One of my favorite passages in the Bible is found in Deuteronomy 6:6-9, which says, “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” God’s ways are full of wisdom and provisions to care for us, build our future, and keep us safe. This passage shows that God calls us to: 1. Know and keep His words as a treasure in our heart. 2. Teach His words to our children through relationship and mentorship. 3. Discuss the Lord and His ways. 4. Ponder Him and His teachings. 5. Fix my thoughts on Him. 6. Talk to God throughout my day as a Father and friend. 7. Remember His faithfulness and promises. 8. Show Him to my children and others through the way I live. In Matthew 22:36, Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment is. He answered with a verse found in Matthew 22:37 and in Deuteronomy 6:5. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus relays the following words. “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.” The heart, soul, and mind are representative of an entire person – our heart, brain, and spirit. We are to cherish, know, love, and serve God, to represent and seek Him with all we are. When we do that, we allow Him to naturally flow from us and into others, especially our children. But we must also purposely teach and model God to them. How? Through making time to read, know, understand, and respect the word of God. His words are to be in our heart. We don’t simply read and get it done, then move on to something else that needs to be accomplished in our day. We seek our Heavenly Father, savor His word, ponder, and reflect His wisdom and guidance as we allow His to transform us. We purposely desire the work God is doing in us to be reflected to our children. We allow them to see the difference Christ is making in our life. We demonstrate the characteristics our changed life has brought. Our relationship isn’t a once a week occurrence. Living with Jesus as the center of our life means that He exists within us and is a natural occurrence of everything about us. He is in our thoughts as we go about our day. We see life through an eternal perspective, understanding and valuing that all things, good, bad, hard, easy, or surprising are opportunities to cleave to Him and draw others to Him. As we speak, our words are scripted by Him, our actions formed as we become more like Him moment by moment. He is as much a part of us, flows as naturally from us as taking our next breath. I find it fascinating that in Hebrew, the term “love” does not only refer to feelings or emotions. The word “heart,” as Jesus uses it, focuses on the intellect, affection, and inclinations or desires of the person. Jesus is commanding us all to cling to God and be devoted to Him in every way and at every moment. Jesus is calling us to seek God in everything, to ponder His requirements of us, His sacrifice for us, to live within His guidelines for us, to seek His heart instead of our own, and to model a life for our children that does not strictly follow laws, but the heart of Jesus. We are to lovingly teach our children to desire God through Jesus and a pattern of His love and word represented in our lives. How do we do that? Through a growing, maturing, purposed relationship with Jesus. The children we call our own are sent to us by God for a season and a purpose He ordained. We must trust and depend on Him to guide us and rely on His wisdom and discernment, instead of our own. God knows we are not enough. We need to realize that fact. He is the creator of our children. No one knows or understands them as He does. He is our deliverance for raising children who thrive in the ways God desires. God always equips the willing. He desires us to desire Him as we influence His children. We will make mistakes. We will learn and evolve every moment as we look up to and depend on God to mold, shape, and perfect us to live as He created. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “For You formed my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are Your works, and I know this very well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in secret, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all my days were written in Your book and ordained for me before one of them came to be.” God planned me. He planned you. He planned each of our children and knew when they would enter our life. We are not called to be the hero in the life of our child. All we do as we love and parent them is to be modeled after the way our Heavenly Father loves and parents us. We must point our precious children to Him. We want them to rely on and follow the Lord. The beautiful blessing of raising our children in this way is that we also experience the gift of a beautiful relationship with born-again, God-fearing children. Ephesians 3:14-21 says, “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height—to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” This is the strength and power we need to raise our children in the way God desires. In order for our children to desire Jesus, and see the need for Him, we must humbly desire the Lord ourselves and exhibit that love for Christ, while allowing it to show it in our life with the fruits we can only receive from a deep and right relationship with the Holy Spirit. Every moment is an opportunity for us to draw nearer to God and to attract our children to Him. Thankfully, He has allowed each of us free will. Our children will make their own choices, but when they regularly see humble love and grace exhibited in the hearts and homes of their parents, and recognize that it is extended from the relationship we built with the Lord, it will be a sweet fragrance that attracts and bonds them to Him and to us. When our own identity is strongly formed and forged with the Lord, we lead our child to follow that example. Just as we grow our walk with the Lord moment-by-moment, we do the same with our children, equipping and encouraging them to do the same with Jesus. Godly parenting emerges when I recognize and admit that it is not about me. It is allowing Him to flow through and guide me to meet the needs of my child. Issues in this world extend from the condition of our heart. We want the heart of our child to be centered in a true, humble, loving, thriving relationship with Jesus. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” Whatever rules my child’s heart and whatever rules my heart, will rule our behavior and relationship. Ephesians 6:1-4 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth. And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.” Our children are not saved by following our authority, they are saved through submitting to His. As parents, we must obey the Lord’s command to raise our children as He calls. Ephesians 6:10-18 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints.” We know from John 10:10 that the enemy is out to steal, kill, and destroy. Jesus has come so that we may have abundant life, for us, our children, our relationship together and with Him. In this world, we are fighting spiritual warfare in the heavenly realms. I appreciate having this passage from Ephesians as a prayer staple to remind me I have what I need to rely on God’s strength and provisions to protect me and my family. His armor is sufficient for our every prayer need. There are many important points for us to remember when parenting the precious, unique individuals God has entrusted to our care. 1. Pray for God to fill my weakness with His mercy, glory, and provisions. 2. Pray for my child in all ways – continually. 3. Never give up believing that God hears my prayers and sees my attempts to raise my children for and through Him. 4. Let my child know that I pray for him or her. Let them hear me pray and pray with them. 5. Let my child know I pray for myself as I parent them. 6. Teach my child to pray for me. 7. When needed, apologize to my child, and point them to God, not my frailties. 8. Look for opportunities to draw my child to God naturally, daily. 9. Point my child to scripture and the power it holds. 10. Utilize God’s wisdom to parent my child, not my own. Isaiah 54:13 says, “Then all your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their prosperity.” It is impossible to fathom just how differently the lives of our children will form and how many more blessings we all receive when we humbly acknowledge and obey God’s directives when raising our children for and through Him. God is enabling us to partner with Him, to humbly and willingly trust Him to guide us through a journey of faith, hope, trust, and transformation of our life and character, as well as the integrity of our children. Psalm 127:3a says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord.” If you have already raised your children and have regrets that you did not know Jesus or did not rely on the power and wisdom of the Lord like you wish you would have, please remember that unfortunately, regrets are a part of the journey through life. It is good to have developed awareness of mistakes, but allow yourself to feel the emotions and experience the truth of what you could have done differently, then release your thoughts and pain as you repent to the Lord. He wants to carry those emotions. God does not desire that you beat yourself up and live in shame or anguish. Don’t stay cemented in the past, use your experience to nurture a godly relationship with your children and grandchildren now. Jesus came so that we do not need to remain burdened by mistakes and failures. Allow God to direct and lead you. Our Heavenly Father desires our repentance and humble hearts. He is a master at relationships. What we have sown takes time to change, but God will use our willingness and obedience to complete His work. Proverbs 17:6 says, “Children’s children are the crown of old men, and the glory of children is their father.” Each moment carries the promise, hope, and beauty of redemption through Christ. God is good. He wants our heart and the soul of our children to reflect, love, and honor Him. He will bless our prayers and desires for that result. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. 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If you're a good mom who desires to become a godly mom and raise kids to chase Christ over culture, you've found the right place. You were never called to perform your way into good motherhood. You were called to abide in Christ and allow Him to transform you into a godly woman and mother. Instead, you strive. You carry pressure. You worry about your children’s futures. But God never asked you to chase the world’s definition of good. He calls you to rest in Him, to be formed by Him, and to parent from His strength, not your own. I equip women to walk that Way, anchoring their identity in Christ so their motherhood flows from His truths. GOD IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS God reveals Himself through Scripture, in the Old Testament and New Testament. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to bear the weight of our sin, and through the death and resurrection of Jesus, we are offered hope, not fear. Our eternity is secure when we place our trust in Him. CHRIST OVER CULTURE Because our allegiance belongs to Christ, we do not allow culture to define our standards. We pursue holiness over approval and fruitfulness over performance. We are not perfect, but we are daughters of a perfect King who offers peace, clarity, and truth. YOU HAVE BEEN ENTRUSTED If I were refining at the micro level, I would only consider one small cadence adjustment: Your children are on loan. God has entrusted them to you for this time—to lead them to Him. Look beyond the “now”—the right crib, the right school, the limited years you have with them—and fix your eyes on what lasts. Let eternity shape the way you lead them today. Values Values Values Values Are you ready to build generational faith with intentional community and mentorship? APPLY TO THE SET-APART COLLECTIVE MEET YOUR GODLY MOTHERHOOD MENTOR! Terri I am a mother of four who raised two “sets” of children across two generations. My first two were born in the late 1970s and early 1980s. Decades later, my husband and I raised our younger set of girls with a deeper, more intentional vision. Through profound loss and lasting joy, including losing my firstborn daughter, navigating the pull of secular culture, and intentionally discipling both older and younger children to grow in Christ, God has given me a rare perspective on motherhood across seasons of life. I mentor women because I have lived through the consequences of performance-driven motherhood, and the transformation that comes from anchoring identity in Christ and discipling with intention. Motherhood changes when a woman’s identity is anchored in Christ. Peace steadies her heart, and her influence shapes generations for Jesus. I am here to remind you of this truth: You were chosen by God to parent the children He has entrusted to you. You long to build deep connection with your children, yet you may not know how to pursue that connection in ways that honor Christ. So you strive to be a “good” mom—and slowly find yourself shaped more by the world than by the Way. But Scripture calls you higher. God calls you to godly motherhood. And I will teach you the difference. One of the hidden fears of motherhood is getting it wrong. You see how culture shapes young minds. You sense how quickly values drift. Raising children in this world requires more than protection. Parenting requires intentional discipleship. Without clarity and conviction, children do not remain neutral. Their identity and beliefs are shaped by what surrounds them. Do you desire to raise children whose hearts belong to Christ, set-apart in a culture that competes for them? You were not called to do this alone. Would you like a clear and intentional path to parent with eternity in view? 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As I matured, God gave me clarity—and I intentionally developed a plan. But that clarity did not come from confidence. It came from experience. I have been the young mother with little direction, hoping I was making the right choices, often parenting the way I was raised or according to what others advised. I know what it feels like to want to do well and still feel unsure. Over time, conviction replaced confusion. I had to decide what I wanted the future to look like for myself, for my marriage, and for my children. Then I prayerfully worked backward, implementing intentional steps instead of reacting to the moment. Motherhood cannot be left to instinct or cultural influence. Parenting must be led with vision, prayer, and intentional discipleship. I equip women to choose Christ over culture and parent with clarity, confidence, and connection. I help you move from surviving motherhood to leading it, building godly strength in your own heart so you can cultivate it in your children. 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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 003 - Set-Apart Parenting for a Set-Apart Child Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #003 – Set-Apart Parenting for a Set-Apart Child Are you yearning for greater connection with your child and Christ? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Do the days seem long, but you know the parenting journey is short? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. After my husband and I raised our two children, certain events happened that led us to understand that God was opening a future bigger than we ever imagined when we married at the very young ages of 17 and 18. During that same period of time, God gave my husband and I “visions,” or dreams that we both experienced while awake. In these dreams, God let us know that we had a daughter in China, a baby we needed to bring home. We weren’t sure how to adopt from China, but we knew Who was in charge and both of us desired to honor God and raise this baby for Him. The two of us began praying specifically about what He desired for us and our family and for Him to show us the way to make everything happen. It honestly shouldn’t have surprised us that God was revealing a plan for us to adopt. A few years earlier, my husband and I were getting into our car after shopping at the mall when I suddenly felt a strong knowledge that God was telling me I would be a mother again before I was 45. Since I had a hysterectomy at the age of 22, I didn’t know for sure how this would unfold, but I knew without a doubt that what God was showing me would happen just as He revealed. Once my husband and I knew what God was calling us to do, we prayed about the adoption and God’s plans together daily, then stepped forward in complete faith. God was orchestrating a beautiful story and we deeply desired to be obedient. As we followed God’s wondrous plans, we did travel to China and receive our precious baby daughter. Remember when I mentioned that God specifically told me that I would be a mother again before the age of 45? Well, my husband turned 45 only 4 days after we received her. I turned 45 four months later. Even when through the process, adoptions began to slow down, we knew that our journey would stay on track. When people told us that we might be delayed, we rested assured that God’s promises never fail. Because we had already raised two children, and the parenting journey was so fresh in our mind as our first two were now 22 and 25, we had very reflective insights into how we wanted to begin again. As I had a deep and solid relationship with Jesus at this time in my life, I was immersing myself in His word daily, and it gave me a heart that cried out to honor and please Him. My faith was my resting place, my solid ground, my hope and future. I had lived a journey of coming to know Jesus after my first two children were born, and had a testimony of coming to love Jesus, after wrestling with understanding release of self and control to Him. I believed I understood more clearly what it meant to truly seek and follow Jesus. I’d been hurt in the church, as many have been. I had learned the hard way not to place people on pedestals, but to pattern my life after and for Jesus. My heart yearned to raise our daughter to know, show, love, and honor Jesus. My husband and I began praying for her to shine Christ before we ever received her, along with many other requests for her heart and life that we knew God would desire. Our daily prayers together were sweet and specific. Since we wanted to raise our daughter in the right way for God, because we wanted her to truly know Him in a holy and personal relationship, our parenting mindset was already focused on the ending of our parenting journey with her. We sought specific goals during our prayer time with God and expectations for our parenting journey. Here are questions we considered to make 8 of the goals we kept in the forefront of our mind and heart: 1. What steps would we personally need to take to ensure we shined Jesus for our daughter to see and desire Him in her life? 2. What type of character and relationship with Jesus did we want her to have once she was raised ? 3. How did we want her relationship with Jesus to shine through her life? 4. What type of relationship did we want to have with her personally ? 5. What did we hope her walk with Jesus would look like through the years? 6. What did we want her relationship with us to be like as she matured and entered her teen years? 7. How did we want our relationship to be with her when she became an adult ? 8. How would we stay consistent in godly parenting that helped her love Jesus in humble submission and enjoy a maturing relationship with Him? The truth is that if parents do not purposely consider and plan what we want the end of our life and the life of our children to look like, we likely won’t receive the results we long for. We must intentionally reflect on what God would desire for our children and seek His discernment , knowledge , wisdom , and understanding on how to parent the child He has entrusted to our care. So how does a parent become set-apart to raise a set-apart child? First we must understand what the term, set-apart means. The basic definition is “to do something that makes someone, or oneself, noticeable, remarkable, or distinct in comparison to someone or something else.” To be set-apart also means to be sanctified . In a very simple explanation, it means that something or someone is sanctified when used for the purpose God intends. When we live according to the purpose or design God intended for our life, we are sanctified. More clearly defined, that means when we are pursuing and following Jesus and His ways and will . The Greek word translated “sanctification” means holiness . This means that when we are sanctified, we are made holy. As believers and followers of Jesus, we know that He is the one sanctifying us. God calls us to know Him, to become more like Him, to become holy, as He is holy and He allows us to be transformed by Him and through Him by our relationship with Jesus. Obviously, we never reach the holiness of God, but through the transforming sacrifice and sanctification of Jesus, we can become more Christ-like moment by moment. The deeper we pursue , know , and follow Jesus, the more He is shown to our children. The Jesus children see is the Jesus they see within us. Our children will desire what is appealing to them. Our relationship with God through a maturing and deepening walk with Jesus matters very much. Since we desire our children to know and grow in Jesus, we must raise them to be set-apart, to be what God intended for them. This simply cannot be accomplished without intentional parenting reliant on the holy power and direction of Christ within us. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God .” Now I want to read the New Living Translation, which makes understanding the importance of this verse for a set-apart life much easier. The NLT version simply translates the same verse this way, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect .” To be a set-apart parent, to raise a set-apart child, we must purpose to think and live differently . We can’t desire or mimic the behavior or customs, the culture of this world. We must purpose to allow , and invite God to transform us into a new person, a new parent moment by moment, day by day. Through the sanctification of Jesus and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have the power to live a set-apart life and be a set-apart parent. His will within us changes the way we think , what we crave , what we believe , how we react . Through His life-changing, set-apart power, we are able to raise children who will be set-apart and sanctified for Him and a live powerfully beautiful testimony of His love and grace. I want to share 5 biblical truths that impress the impact Jesus makes on a submitted life. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” Galatians 2:20 says, “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” Colossians 3:9,10 says, “Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like Him.” 1 Peter 2:9 says, “But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light .” Rest in His power. Parent in His power. There are critically important things for us to remember when we deeply desire to raise children who will walk with the Lord and live godly lives pleasing to Him. Our walk with Jesus matters . The way you love Him and present Him to your watching children reflects the way you feel about Him, the way you trust Him. Your set-apart walk affects the way you present Jesus daily. With the power of Christ working within you, your child will begin to shine the light of Christ and live a life set-apart from others in ways that are pleasing to God and your heart. 3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” I do not strive to have what society considers “typical children” or “typical teens.” I would feel I failed God if I heard those words spoken to me. Don’t settle for what this culture cheapens. Life is meant to be so much better than what this broken world offers or tempts us with. Your child, our children deserve what God purposed them to be, do, and have. Their calling is higher than this unstable and sinful world can give. I want to share 5 steps to combine with the goals you heard earlier in the podcast. I encourage you to set similar goals for your family, as well as steps like the ones I will mention now. 1. Show Jesus – Your joyful relationship with Jesus, the way you seek and follow Him with obedience and love will attract your child. The level of depth and maturity in your walk with Jesus will guide your life as it influences your child’s. As you read God’s word, share His word with your children through reading the Bible and discussing it together, and make it applicable to life situations, your child begins to assimilate the mind and desires of God. 1 Peter 1:16 says, “For the Scriptures say, “You must be holy because I am holy .” 2. Make Time – Be attuned to your child, each precious and unique child you have been gifted. Be present. Put down your phone. Stop working. Delay chores. Look them in the eyes. Wrap your arms around them often. Love them in their language. Do your children need to be invited into your space or are they always welcome? Do they know it? Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.” 3. Tame your Tongue and Tone – Does joy or aggravation shine from you? Does your child see love in your eyes and actions? Are you a constant complainer? Or do your days radiate gratitude? 2 Corinthians 7:1 says, “Because we have these promises, dear friends, let us cleanse ourselves from everything that can defile our body or spirit. And let us work toward complete holiness because we fear God.” 4. Be Consistent – In character, relationship, parenting, integrity, and pursuit of Jesus. Let them see your loving pursuit of Jesus and the ways He continues to mature you and transform you. Humbly give God the glory. Romans 12:1 says, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all He has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind He will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship Him.” 5. Stay Involved – Guide, don’t hover. Allow maturity at proper times. Don’t hold on too long, but don’t push too fast. Know friends and set examples for the type of friends to connect with and the type of friend to be. Make godly life and parenting choices and guide your children to put God first when making decisions, not as a chore, but because they love and honor Him and desire to please their Heavenly Father. Set Jesus as the example for both of you to follow. John 17:15-18 says, “I’m not asking You to take them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one. They do not belong to this world any more than I do. Make them holy by Your truth; teach them Your word, which is truth. Just as You sent me into the world, I am sending them into the world .” In order to raise set-apart children who are in the world, but are not worldly , we must set that as a priority to achieve. We must be the example they see. A set-apart parent grows depth of love for and maturity in the Lord and seeks to pass that legacy and blessing to their children and grandchildren. John 15:19 says, “The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.” 2 Corinthians 6:17 says, “Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord. Don’t touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you. ” Once we are living that set-apart life, it becomes our family lifestyle. We can help our child desire and do the same. If your child is older or already a teen or adult, remain steadfast in your pursuit of Christ and in living a godly life that reflects Jesus and gives honor and glory to the changes He is making in your life daily. Remain prayerful. James 5:16b says, “The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results .” It is Christ’s work within you that will attract your child to Him and help your children to see their need for a Savior who transforms and mends relationships, but only the sanctifying power of Jesus will transform the desires and life of your child as he or she turns and submits to Him. Isaiah 54:13 says, “All your children will be taught by the Lord, and great will be their peace.” Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. How great and loving You are. Thank you for gifting us with Your Son and the Holy Spirit within believers that guides us to desire and seek You. Thank you for Your holy power living within us! God, let us realize what You are capable of and rely on Your strength, wisdom, guidance, and power to enable us to walk in pleasing ways with You. Enable us, gift us with Your wisdom and insight, Your knowledge and understanding of Your children, whom You have entrusted to us for this exact moment in time. We are helpless and hopeless without You. Craft Your desires within us and enable us to attract our children to You instead of this world. Enable us to be the magnet that draws them to You. May our spirit shine You because our heart desires You so clearly. May our children be mighty followers of You for this next generation and complete the works You have established for them. We ask these things in the precious and holy name of Jesus. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, as we release doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children. Intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your children that lasts for eternity. Previous Next