Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #134 – You’ve Trusted God With Eternity - What About Today? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. The absolute best day in the life of a believer in Christ should be the day we humbly submit our life to Him. While filled with many emotions and feelings, most of us wonder with amazement at what the rest of our life will be like with Jesus at our side. However, one of the best revelations or lessons a follower of Christ can realize is that Jesus does not ever belong by our side. The Lord of All, Prince of Peace, Author and Perfecter of our Faith, and the Alpha and Omega holds out His strong and capable arms, ready for us to rest in them. This means He isn’t behind or beside us, but should be the One carrying and sustaining through every disturbance, disruption, and delight. One of the most basic, but challenging questions in the personal life of a believer is: How can I choose to trust Jesus for eternity, but not for each moment? I believe that if we study the story shared about Peter in Matthew 14, we learn valuable insight. Matthew 14:22-33 says, “Immediately He made the disciples get into the boat and go before Him to the other side, while He dismissed the crowds. And after He had dismissed the crowds, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. When evening came, He was there alone, but the boat by this time was a long way from the land, beaten by the waves, for the wind was against them. And in the fourth watch of the night He came to them, walking on the sea. But when the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were terrified, and said, “It is a ghost!” and they cried out in fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Take heart; it is I. Do not be afraid.” And Peter answered Him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me.” Jesus immediately reached out His hand and took hold of him, saying to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. And those in the boat worshiped Him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.” What a decision Peter made! He chose to step out of the boat and into the choppy, stormy waters to walk toward Jesus. While His eyes and mind were centered on Jesus, Peter actually walked on the water! When his focus slipped away from Christ and fell to self and surroundings, Peter experienced fear, panic, and difficulties. Jesus had not moved; He had not changed. Jesus remained centered on Peter and ready to care for him. Peter’s mind moved away from Jesus and he began to sink. Focus marks the distinction between faith and fear. Are you choosing to focus on self, the world and those around you, or Jesus? While it is easy to blame Peter and belittle his faith, he was willing to be the one who walked toward Jesus. Peter was willing to leave the other disciples, leave what he knew, and venture alone into the turbulent waters toward Jesus. The other men remain unchanged and unmoving inside the boat while Peter took the risk of trusting Christ. Why did the others remain in the boat? Why didn’t they walk with Peter? Why is it so difficult to place and keep our mind, heart, and focus on Christ? What do people struggle to trust God with each occasion and stage of life? There are actually multiple reasons. Let’s look at what the most common causes are and how we can turn to Scripture to battle them. 1. Trust – It can be difficult to trust or believe in what we cannot see. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” John 20:29 says, “Jesus said to him, “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” Psalm 40:4 says, “Blessed is the man who makes the LORD his trust, who does not turn to the proud, to those who go astray after a lie!” 2. Worry/Anxiety – It’s easy to imagine what might happen and allow our thoughts to spiral out of control. Matthew 19:26 says, “But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Isaiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Casting all your anxieties on him, because He cares for you.” Matthew 6:31-34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” 3. Control – We don’t want to relinquish our perceived control. Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” Psalm 138:8 says, “The LORD will fulfill His purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of Your hands.” 4. Doubt – When things don’t go the way we desire or think they should or if we begin to wonder why there is hardship and evil in the world, doubt can begin to creep in. Hebrew 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” James 1:6 says, “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.” Matthew 6:30 says, “But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?” 5. Sinfulness – I also like to call this selfishness. When we don’t want to give up sin, we are choosing self over Christ. We’re also choosing self over those we love or are in our life. Personal sin always affects those who love us. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” 1 John 1:8 says, “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” Romans 7:22-23 says, “For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.” Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” 6. Arrogance/Pride – Pride rears up in each of us through different ways. Whether it be entitlement, perfectionism, bragging, if we think we are superior to someone or deserve something more than another, the root of each thought ties back to arrogance or pride. Isaiah 2:12 says, “For the LORD of hosts has a day against all that is proud and lofty, against all that is lifted up—and it shall be brought low.” James 4:6 says, “But He gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:10 says, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you.” Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” Proverbs 16:5 says, “Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the LORD; be assured, he will not go unpunished.” 7. Unworthiness – Each of us was bought with a price. The life of Jesus was exchanged so that we could begin to understand our great worth to God. Isaiah 43:18 says, “Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old.” Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Psalm 56:8 says, “You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in Your bottle. Are they not in Your book?” Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are Your works; my soul knows it very well.” Matthew 6:26 says, “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” 8. Fear – When fear creeps in, I believe it is because we have taken our mind and eyes off of God and centered them on self or surroundings. Every time I have felt fear even begin to touch me I stop and focus on Jesus (and in my mind I actually picture blinders on my face that force my vision upwards on God). As I rest in His presence and pray to Him about the situation I am fearing, He takes the burden and calms any fears. It is said that God leaves the message “Do not fear” 365 times in the Bible. I'm not sure whether that is an accurate count, but I trust that the Lord gives us the command as many times as needed. He knows our thoughts can easily be distracted and move from His sovereign holiness and perfect provision and protection. Isaiah 43:1 says, “But now thus says the LORD, He who created you, O Jacob, He who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are Mine.” Psalm 23:4 says, “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.” Psalm 94:19 says, “When the cares of my heart are many, Your consolations cheer my soul.” Psalm 115:11 says, “You who fear the LORD, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield.” Psalm 118:6 says, “The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?” Matthew 6:34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” 9. Faith – Perhaps our belief doesn’t feel real or big enough. Maybe difficult times in the past, unanswered prayers, or present hardships may cause us to feel like God has forsaken us or that He isn’t real. Each of the points we discussed can arguably return back to the thought of faith that is too little. But remember, God’s Word tells us all we need is a faith the size of a mustard seed. Plant that seed and let it grow and mature through Christ. Romans 5:3-5 says, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” James 1:2-4 says, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” Romans 8:18 says, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” We each know how easy it can be to allow self or situations to distract us and move our eyes off Christ. Being aware of this offers us the opportunity to purposely prepare to be ahead of our next season of trials. Intentionally living in ways that set us up to trust God gives us assurance that our focus will not be easily swayed this moment or tomorrow. How can we live in ways that set us up to trust God for eternity and the everyday? 1. Know Jesus through a personal relationship. 2. Read and study God’s word. 3. Prayer – speak to God and listen for God. 4. Pursue close relationship with God daily. 5. Invite and allow Christ to transform your life. Take your thoughts captive for Christ and see the difference He makes to a surrendered soul. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You.” Psalm 56:3-4 says, “When I am afraid, I put my trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?” Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Ephesians 6:12 says, “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” 2 Corinthians 1:10 says, “He delivered us from such a deadly peril, and He will deliver us. On Him we have set our hope that He will deliver us again.” 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18 says, “Pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” As you study God’s Word and think about or pray about the verses we read today, ponder the following questions: 1. What does this verse promise? 2. What does this verse command? 3. Where do I need to apply this in my life? Ask God to carry your cares and deepen your faith and trust. He alone is able to reach the crevices of your body and spirit and remedy what troubles you. Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is so great! Your glory fills the earth and yet we fail to experience Your love and power as You desire. Help us to see You clearly as Your word instructs and to love us with a love that fills us in the deep and dark spaces of need we each carry. Thank you for loving us first and for making a way straight to You through Jesus. Help our faith to be full, alive, and active. Enable us to cling to You through every moment we face and trust in Your provision and protection despite what happens in the world around us. Fix our eyes and our heart on You. In the precious name of Your Holy Son, Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 134 - You've Trusted God with Eternity - What About Today? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #134 – You’ve Trusted God With Eternity - What About Today? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. The absolute best day in the life of a believer in Christ should be the day we humbly submit our life to Him. While filled with many emotions and feelings, most of us wonder with amazement at what the rest of our life will be like with Jesus at our side. However, one of the best revelations or lessons a follower of Christ can realize is that Jesus does not ever belong by our side. The Lord of All, Prince of Peace, Author and Perfecter of our Faith, and the Alpha and Omega holds out His strong and capable arms, ready for us to rest in them. This means He isn’t behind or beside us, but should be the One carrying and sustaining through every disturbance, disruption, and delight. One of the most basic, but challenging questions in the personal life of a believer is: How can I choose to trust Jesus for eternity, but not for each moment? I believe that if we study the story shared about Peter in Matthew 14, we learn valuable insight. Matthew 14:22-33 says, “Immediately He made the disciples get into the boat and go before Him to the other side, while He dismissed the crowds. And after He had dismissed the crowds, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. When evening came, He was there alone, but the boat by this time was a long way from the land, beaten by the waves, for the wind was against them. And in the fourth watch of the night He came to them, walking on the sea. But when the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were terrified, and said, “It is a ghost!” and they cried out in fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Take heart; it is I. Do not be afraid.” And Peter answered Him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me.” Jesus immediately reached out His hand and took hold of him, saying to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. And those in the boat worshiped Him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.” What a decision Peter made! He chose to step out of the boat and into the choppy, stormy waters to walk toward Jesus. While His eyes and mind were centered on Jesus, Peter actually walked on the water! When his focus slipped away from Christ and fell to self and surroundings, Peter experienced fear, panic, and difficulties. Jesus had not moved; He had not changed. Jesus remained centered on Peter and ready to care for him. Peter’s mind moved away from Jesus and he began to sink. Focus marks the distinction between faith and fear. Are you choosing to focus on self, the world and those around you, or Jesus? While it is easy to blame Peter and belittle his faith, he was willing to be the one who walked toward Jesus. Peter was willing to leave the other disciples, leave what he knew, and venture alone into the turbulent waters toward Jesus. The other men remain unchanged and unmoving inside the boat while Peter took the risk of trusting Christ. Why did the others remain in the boat? Why didn’t they walk with Peter? Why is it so difficult to place and keep our mind, heart, and focus on Christ? What do people struggle to trust God with each occasion and stage of life? There are actually multiple reasons. Let’s look at what the most common causes are and how we can turn to Scripture to battle them. 1. Trust – It can be difficult to trust or believe in what we cannot see. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” John 20:29 says, “Jesus said to him, “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” Psalm 40:4 says, “Blessed is the man who makes the LORD his trust, who does not turn to the proud, to those who go astray after a lie!” 2. Worry/Anxiety – It’s easy to imagine what might happen and allow our thoughts to spiral out of control. Matthew 19:26 says, “But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Isaiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Casting all your anxieties on him, because He cares for you.” Matthew 6:31-34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” 3. Control – We don’t want to relinquish our perceived control. Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” Psalm 138:8 says, “The LORD will fulfill His purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of Your hands.” 4. Doubt – When things don’t go the way we desire or think they should or if we begin to wonder why there is hardship and evil in the world, doubt can begin to creep in. Hebrew 11:1 says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” James 1:6 says, “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.” Matthew 6:30 says, “But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?” 5. Sinfulness – I also like to call this selfishness. When we don’t want to give up sin, we are choosing self over Christ. We’re also choosing self over those we love or are in our life. Personal sin always affects those who love us. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” 1 John 1:8 says, “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” Romans 7:22-23 says, “For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.” Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” 6. Arrogance/Pride – Pride rears up in each of us through different ways. Whether it be entitlement, perfectionism, bragging, if we think we are superior to someone or deserve something more than another, the root of each thought ties back to arrogance or pride. Isaiah 2:12 says, “For the LORD of hosts has a day against all that is proud and lofty, against all that is lifted up—and it shall be brought low.” James 4:6 says, “But He gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:10 says, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you.” Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” Proverbs 16:5 says, “Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the LORD; be assured, he will not go unpunished.” 7. Unworthiness – Each of us was bought with a price. The life of Jesus was exchanged so that we could begin to understand our great worth to God. Isaiah 43:18 says, “Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old.” Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Psalm 56:8 says, “You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in Your bottle. Are they not in Your book?” Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are Your works; my soul knows it very well.” Matthew 6:26 says, “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” 8. Fear – When fear creeps in, I believe it is because we have taken our mind and eyes off of God and centered them on self or surroundings. Every time I have felt fear even begin to touch me I stop and focus on Jesus (and in my mind I actually picture blinders on my face that force my vision upwards on God). As I rest in His presence and pray to Him about the situation I am fearing, He takes the burden and calms any fears. It is said that God leaves the message “Do not fear” 365 times in the Bible. I'm not sure whether that is an accurate count, but I trust that the Lord gives us the command as many times as needed. He knows our thoughts can easily be distracted and move from His sovereign holiness and perfect provision and protection. Isaiah 43:1 says, “But now thus says the LORD, He who created you, O Jacob, He who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are Mine.” Psalm 23:4 says, “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.” Psalm 94:19 says, “When the cares of my heart are many, Your consolations cheer my soul.” Psalm 115:11 says, “You who fear the LORD, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield.” Psalm 118:6 says, “The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?” Matthew 6:34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” 9. Faith – Perhaps our belief doesn’t feel real or big enough. Maybe difficult times in the past, unanswered prayers, or present hardships may cause us to feel like God has forsaken us or that He isn’t real. Each of the points we discussed can arguably return back to the thought of faith that is too little. But remember, God’s Word tells us all we need is a faith the size of a mustard seed. Plant that seed and let it grow and mature through Christ. Romans 5:3-5 says, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” James 1:2-4 says, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” Romans 8:18 says, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” We each know how easy it can be to allow self or situations to distract us and move our eyes off Christ. Being aware of this offers us the opportunity to purposely prepare to be ahead of our next season of trials. Intentionally living in ways that set us up to trust God gives us assurance that our focus will not be easily swayed this moment or tomorrow. How can we live in ways that set us up to trust God for eternity and the everyday? 1. Know Jesus through a personal relationship. 2. Read and study God’s word. 3. Prayer – speak to God and listen for God. 4. Pursue close relationship with God daily. 5. Invite and allow Christ to transform your life. Take your thoughts captive for Christ and see the difference He makes to a surrendered soul. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You.” Psalm 56:3-4 says, “When I am afraid, I put my trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?” Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Ephesians 6:12 says, “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” 2 Corinthians 1:10 says, “He delivered us from such a deadly peril, and He will deliver us. On Him we have set our hope that He will deliver us again.” 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18 says, “Pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” As you study God’s Word and think about or pray about the verses we read today, ponder the following questions: 1. What does this verse promise? 2. What does this verse command? 3. Where do I need to apply this in my life? Ask God to carry your cares and deepen your faith and trust. He alone is able to reach the crevices of your body and spirit and remedy what troubles you. Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is so great! Your glory fills the earth and yet we fail to experience Your love and power as You desire. Help us to see You clearly as Your word instructs and to love us with a love that fills us in the deep and dark spaces of need we each carry. Thank you for loving us first and for making a way straight to You through Jesus. Help our faith to be full, alive, and active. Enable us to cling to You through every moment we face and trust in Your provision and protection despite what happens in the world around us. Fix our eyes and our heart on You. In the precious name of Your Holy Son, Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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I'm Terri Hitt, Christian Motherhood Mentor. I equip women to STOP being good moms - and become GODLY moms who parent with a heart for eternity and raise kids who chase Christ over culture. a Purposed Parenting Plan™️, learn a Motherhood Mindset Model™️, parent the heart of your child, not just the behavior, and learn to disciple, not punish. I also offer a weekly podcast, Purposed Parent Connected Child. Break the LIES that keep you trapped... 🔗LEARN HOW IN MY BOOK Culture is competing for your child's heart. It's not enough for your child to know God's Word. They must discern Truth and navigate life with biblical critical thinking. I help mothers equip their children with biblical discernment, critical thinking skills, and an eternal perspective that stands firm when culture challenges their faith. Generational faith is never accidental. It is built intentionally. BEGIN HERE You want your children to reflect the fruit of the Spirit—but fruit grows from roots. The spiritual direction of your home begins with your identity in Christ and the condition of your own heart. If you are not purposed in forming the faith of your children in Christ moment by moment, culture will craft their identity. What are their words and actions showing you about the condition of their heart? Culture defines good by appearance, approval, and achievement. God defines good by holiness, obedience, and surrender. Which holds the most influence in your home? If the world subtly sets the standards of your home, it will shape the souls of your children. Say Good-Bye to the “Good” Mom: Discover the GODLY Woman you were created to be. You’ve listened to society, friends, and even family define what it means to live well and raise children successfully—yet you feel overwhelmed instead of overjoyed. Your home feels more chaotic than Christ-centered. Your children are more influenced by peers than by parents. Here is the truth: Nothing changes until He changes you. The way you parent flows from the condition of your heart. If your identity is shaped by the world, your motherhood will reflect it. But when your identity is anchored in Christ, your influence shapes hearts to reflect Him. I will help you discern the difference between “good” motherhood and godly formation, so you can inhale Christ’s truth and exhale His likeness into the lives of your children. Godly ways to renew your HOME & HEART Raise girls to become godly women Become the woman who seeks Him moment by moment Parent to affect generations for Jesus Strengthen connection with your children through intentional discipleship. Lead them toward Christ with clarity in a culture of competing voices. Parent with eternal perspective instead of reacting to the moment. Through Godly Girlhood, Godly Motherhood, and Godly Womanhood, the Collective equips women to build identity, refine mindset, and cultivate generational faith with purpose. TELL ME MORE! 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Yet no strategy, personality insight, or parenting method can substitute for spiritual formation. Only Christ’s truth can transform you into the attuned mother they need. Here is the reality: If you are not intentionally knowing Christ and showing Him to the next generation, the world will shape what they believe. Identity will be formed. The only question is by whom. Christ or culture. The world or the Way. I once wanted to be a good mom. Losing my firstborn daughter reshaped my perspective. While raising her, I believed I was following Christ. Yet in the busyness of daily life, I often responded more from cultural influence than from the Way. Grief opened my eyes. I no longer desired to be merely a good mother—but a godly one. Choosing Christ over culture is not a slogan for me. It is an ongoing commitment. If you are here, I believe you desire the same. The Story Behind My Mission Here is the truth : Christ designed connection. He knows that the way to your child’s heart is through Him. You have been entrusted with the privilege and purpose of intentional discipleship. That is why I equip you with a strategic path—tailored to your child’s design and anchored in eternal truth. JOIN THE COLLECTIVE "And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and all your strength. And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up." Deuteronomy 6:5-7 WHY being a good mom isn't enough ... FREE EBOOK GET THE FREE EBOOK You're on your way to becoming a GODLY mom! Make sure to check your spam folder so youdon't miss your free e-book! Christian Parenting Author Terri Hitt Good to Godly Book Step 1 Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com Next Steps Step 2 Fill out the application I send you. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast - Episode 139 - Are You Really a Christian? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #085 – An Essential Invitation Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes that will equip each of us to concentrate on Jesus and live with heart and mind focused on eternity to seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. For the past week I have worked on and wrote most of a podcast during the cracks of time I found between running to appointments. As I waited for my daughter to have two procedures completed at the local Children’s Hospital, I quietly sat with my laptop concentrating and focusing on finishing the episode I felt would release this week. Although something is supposed to release in just over 9 hours, I do not feel releasing what I have would be the right timing. Instead, all I can concentrate on is the goodness and mercy of God as it overflows from my heart and mindset. I am filled with so much gratitude this week that I cannot concentrate on anything but sharing what my heart is honestly filled with. Releasing another piece would not feel authentic when praise is pressing to be released! If you have listened to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast from the beginning, you know a lot about my family. I pray the stories I share have also directed your heart to the Lord in renewed ways as I lift honor and thanksgiving to Him. God is faithful. He is sovereign. Even in the darkest of times, when it seems that good has been stolen from me, He has kept my joy intact. When the world tries to distract or sway me to go a certain way, the Lord clears my path and shows me where and how to travel. Yesterday we spent the entire day at the hospital. For a total of about 12 hours we wearily allowed our precious daughter to undergo two procedures, and sat by her side and helped her as she had to lie still for 6 hours afterwards. We had no idea how either procedure would turn out. Yet God, in His goodness, allowed our minds to focus elsewhere and rest in a wrap of peace that surpasses human understanding. The joy of the Lord is my strength. My hope and trust are fixed on Him. Psalm 28:7 says, "The Lord is my strength and my shield; in Him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to Him." After awakening this morning, my mind replayed events from yesterday as my heart rested in remembrance of all the goodness God has graced us with this last month. I wept as I humbly lifted recognition, thanksgiving, and praise to my Heavenly Father. Life is filled with difficulties and it would be so easy to give up. Yet, those of us who know the Lord have a strength that surpasses any human understanding. It carries us through hardships with a joy and peace and wraps us in a protective shell that stands against the arrows from the wicked one or the hits this life can throw. I can say that this summer has kept my gaze fixed even more securely on Jesus. My eyes, heart, and mind have not wandered from the presence of the Lord. The peace that He has enabled me to behold as He soothed is a gift I cannot explain or begin to understand. The truth of the matter is that it is free and available to each one of us. I am not special, but the Father who watches over us is. Peace that carries us despite the outcome of our journey is a gift to treasure. As we are willing to lay down our treasures and place them in His hands He awaits, already working before us to fill any need. I know the balance between this world and the next is delicate. It is but a vapor and so close. Days like yesterday remind me of that truth anew. Live With Eternal Perspective was started out of obedience. Because the Lord has shown me His love for each of us and the power He carries through any life storm, I was compelled to begin my podcast. If you know anything about me, you know it is not just a program; it is a lifestyle born out of gratitude and surrender. Life is a daily bowing to Jesus with a mindset of thankfulness for every single moment I have, especially with loved ones. Our journey with Brooklyn has been another important piece of surrender to the grace and joys God has in store for us and I am incredibly blessed to share on the episodes just how much He loves His children and the blessings He weaves through our life. Yesterday felt like one of the longest days I've experienced. When Jaime died, or Brooklyn's first heart surgery with us, the passing and illnesses of parents, they are all up there. When we sent our precious girl off to have her liver biopsy and heart catherization, I was unsure what they would find. Everything truly rested in the hands of a sovereign and holy God. Yet, for me, there was an absence of fear and an amniotic wrap of peace surrounding me. There was a lot of information given to us yesterday, but honestly, if I could list all of it, the majority would go over the heads of most people. Heart defects are incredibly unique and in the words of the pediatric cardiologist interventionist who worked on Brooklyn for the heart catherization yesterday, "I drew this picture of her heart to show you, but I'll leave it with you because no one else will have a heart like it." Just as each precious person in this world is special, so are the hearts that beat inside us. There is so much I could say about the miracles God blessed us with through the day, even through this summer, actually. The doctor who worked on her is the same doctor Brooklyn's cardiologist we love so much worked with back in June when the CT scan was performed. He is the one who knew her anatomy and gave recommendations then. He, thank God, has the same mindset as we do. Do not touch anything that is working. He is concerned that when doctors go in to try to make things better they often make things worse, and although he sees conditions that typically need attention through certain methods, he does not think doing anything will make her quality of life better. As Brooklyn is stable, we all want to leave her that way instead of trying to increase her blood oxygenation and other things and possibly make her worse. Of course, I am boiling info down to a minimum here, but his advice was such a blessing. He sat with us for a long time after the procedure, going over her CT scans, as well as the photos and images taken during the catherization procedure yesterday. He professed to be a humble man who bows to God as his strength, knowing that he must remain humble to allow God to work through him. He even said that he does not want harm to come to any of his patients because he tries to rely on his own strength. Please try to pray for him to continue to be a man of God even more every day, as his mother passed away in June and she used to pray for him daily. We worked with another doctor for the liver biopsy. Those results should return within a few days. There is a very delicate balance with the health of the children, both short and long term, when they live with a heart like our special girl. Especially after the type of heart surgery she had in 2016. The anatomy of her heart is hard on her other organs and although she looks stable on the heart side right now, as I have shared before, the condition of her other organs is a concern to keep in prayer, as well. Sometimes the heart looks stable for the condition the patient is in, but the other organs begin to fail. She will likely end up needing not only a heart transplant, but additional organ, such as liver transplant one day. Brooklyn is very complex, and as my other heart mama friends know, it is exhausting to wrap your heart and mind around so many details, yet alone attempt to share them all. After returning home from the hospital last night, I needed time to rest in my Heavenly Father, full of thankfulness. My mind and body are still a little weary, but I have a peacefulness that covers all other emotions, thoughts, or feelings. The best words I heard yesterday are worth repeating on this podcast episode. They were spoken by our girl’s pediatric cardiology interventionist. "God has His hand on Brooklyn. He is not done with her. It is a miracle she is here." Job 14:5 says, “You have decided the length of our lives. You know how many months we will live, and we are not given a minute longer.” The Bible says all of our days are numbered. If you are listening to me speak, or are reading the transcript of this episode, you are still alive. While you still have days of life, you have a purpose and you and believe that God is sending you a personal and essential invitation. What type of invitation? I’m not talking about salvation, although that is the highest invitation and gift God offers through Jesus. As I rested in the goodness of God to my family this summer, I replayed the gifts He gives each of us daily. Sometimes we neglect them or forget to think of them daily, but as we desire to live a life that seeks Jesus and focuses on a heart and mind set on eternity, I want to list the ways I viewed the gifts of God this morning. God offers us the following essentials through His invitation to humbly walk with Him. To be honest, there are many verses that I may have chosen for the following points, but the ones below are near to my heart as I bask in the goodness and faithfulness of our loving God. 1. Intimacy – Mark 12:30 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” There is no intimacy like that of knowing and trusting Jesus. No matter the time of day, the feelings pressing against our mind or heart, the emotions we feel, He is present. He cares. 2. Peace – Romans 15:13 says, “Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you believe in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Peace that passes understanding is a gift most people in this world are missing. Few carry God’s full peace, yet everyone desires it. They desire Him, whether they know it yet or not. 3. Joy – John 15:11 says, “I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Without peace from Jesus, one cannot have joy. As we rest in Him and allow troubles and cares to be carried on His shoulders, joy follows. 4. Relationship – 1 Corinthians 1:30 says, “It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness, and redemption.” Relationship with God comes through Christ. As we walk and study broken relationships in this world, we do not come near the intimacy and perfection that a walk with Jesus offers. 5. Trust – Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Trusting in the Lord is not natural. We cannot see Him, we speak into darkness, trusting that He will hear and care. Yet when we allow Jesus to fill our hearts as we accept and belief with faith and trust, life changes in miraculous ways we will most likely not understand until Heaven. 6. Grace – James 4:6 says, “And He gives grace generously. As the Scriptures say, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Jesus made the ultimate humbling sacrifice. Without pride, He bowed to the harshest demand God could make and He offers us a life many take for granted. Commit to finding new ways to accept and share the grace Jesus offers and allow it to flow willingly through to others. 7. Security – Galatians 2:20 says, “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” Through trust, faith, belief, and grace we are offered security that nothing in this world can touch. 8. Love – John 14:21 says, “Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.” When we mature a walk with God through Christ, we begin to experience and offer true love. Each day offers us the opportunity to grow a love defined and perfected by Jesus. Our humanness falls short of the love and grace only He offers, yet moment by moment He calls us to return to Him and experience life with the fulness He brings if only we respond to His perfect love. 9. Promise – Mark 10:27 says, “Jesus looked at them intently and said, “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But not with God. Everything is possible with God.” Hope births promise. Promise is possible through relationship with Jesus. 10. Identity – 1 John 3:1-3 says, “Behold what manner of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God. And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know Him. Beloved, we are now children of God, and what we will be has not yet been revealed. We know that when Christ appears we will be like Him, for we will see Him as He is. And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as Christ is pure.” God’s word is clear about identity. The book of Genesis begins the Bible with a clear picture of who we are and the rest of the Bible clearly represents a love so great a life was willingly sacrificed. Through relationship with Jesus, we are made new and become a reflection of who He is and a framework of what we are becoming. Moment by moment we have the opportunity to accept a relationship that alters each bit of who we are and are becoming. Don’t look back. Respond to Jesus with each moment you have left. Allow Him to craft a new creation daily. Intentionally plan to meet with Him in ways you have forgotten or have not yet started. It is not too late to meet Him as He calls from within you. Gracious, loving Heavenly Father, how you yearn for us to respond to You. Through all of creation You have called to us, wooing your children to draw nearer to You so that You may draw nearer to us. Father, so often we worry when You stand ready to carry any burden on Your capable shoulders. We see things work for good in our lives, yet do not credit You for the miraculous ways You have gone before us, parting the sea simply with Your breath because You care about every detail we face. God, help us to call out to You daily, to live in union with You, to seek Your face in the stillness of the night, the freshness of the morning, and in the depths of our despair. We need You in ways we have not yet discovered. Whether we are in union with You, our steps moving in perfect unison or as we are carried over mountains and through valleys, we fail to rejoice at the simple fact that You enjoy providing for us and meeting needs. When we do not receive our desires or face uncertainties or rejection in life, or we feel we have been robbed of what is rightfully Yours, we sulk in anger or bitterness. Forgive us Father for forgetting You, who should be our first love, the author and perfector of our faith, the joy of our life. May we please You more tomorrow than we do this day and may our gaze set on You without moving as we face tomorrow as we trust Your word and promises to us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 085 - An Essential Invitation Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #085 – An Essential Invitation Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes that will equip each of us to concentrate on Jesus and live with heart and mind focused on eternity to seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. For the past week I have worked on and wrote most of a podcast during the cracks of time I found between running to appointments. As I waited for my daughter to have two procedures completed at the local Children’s Hospital, I quietly sat with my laptop concentrating and focusing on finishing the episode I felt would release this week. Although something is supposed to release in just over 9 hours, I do not feel releasing what I have would be the right timing. Instead, all I can concentrate on is the goodness and mercy of God as it overflows from my heart and mindset. I am filled with so much gratitude this week that I cannot concentrate on anything but sharing what my heart is honestly filled with. Releasing another piece would not feel authentic when praise is pressing to be released! If you have listened to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast from the beginning, you know a lot about my family. I pray the stories I share have also directed your heart to the Lord in renewed ways as I lift honor and thanksgiving to Him. God is faithful. He is sovereign. Even in the darkest of times, when it seems that good has been stolen from me, He has kept my joy intact. When the world tries to distract or sway me to go a certain way, the Lord clears my path and shows me where and how to travel. Yesterday we spent the entire day at the hospital. For a total of about 12 hours we wearily allowed our precious daughter to undergo two procedures, and sat by her side and helped her as she had to lie still for 6 hours afterwards. We had no idea how either procedure would turn out. Yet God, in His goodness, allowed our minds to focus elsewhere and rest in a wrap of peace that surpasses human understanding. The joy of the Lord is my strength. My hope and trust are fixed on Him. Psalm 28:7 says, "The Lord is my strength and my shield; in Him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to Him." After awakening this morning, my mind replayed events from yesterday as my heart rested in remembrance of all the goodness God has graced us with this last month. I wept as I humbly lifted recognition, thanksgiving, and praise to my Heavenly Father. Life is filled with difficulties and it would be so easy to give up. Yet, those of us who know the Lord have a strength that surpasses any human understanding. It carries us through hardships with a joy and peace and wraps us in a protective shell that stands against the arrows from the wicked one or the hits this life can throw. I can say that this summer has kept my gaze fixed even more securely on Jesus. My eyes, heart, and mind have not wandered from the presence of the Lord. The peace that He has enabled me to behold as He soothed is a gift I cannot explain or begin to understand. The truth of the matter is that it is free and available to each one of us. I am not special, but the Father who watches over us is. Peace that carries us despite the outcome of our journey is a gift to treasure. As we are willing to lay down our treasures and place them in His hands He awaits, already working before us to fill any need. I know the balance between this world and the next is delicate. It is but a vapor and so close. Days like yesterday remind me of that truth anew. Live With Eternal Perspective was started out of obedience. Because the Lord has shown me His love for each of us and the power He carries through any life storm, I was compelled to begin my podcast. If you know anything about me, you know it is not just a program; it is a lifestyle born out of gratitude and surrender. Life is a daily bowing to Jesus with a mindset of thankfulness for every single moment I have, especially with loved ones. Our journey with Brooklyn has been another important piece of surrender to the grace and joys God has in store for us and I am incredibly blessed to share on the episodes just how much He loves His children and the blessings He weaves through our life. Yesterday felt like one of the longest days I've experienced. When Jaime died, or Brooklyn's first heart surgery with us, the passing and illnesses of parents, they are all up there. When we sent our precious girl off to have her liver biopsy and heart catherization, I was unsure what they would find. Everything truly rested in the hands of a sovereign and holy God. Yet, for me, there was an absence of fear and an amniotic wrap of peace surrounding me. There was a lot of information given to us yesterday, but honestly, if I could list all of it, the majority would go over the heads of most people. Heart defects are incredibly unique and in the words of the pediatric cardiologist interventionist who worked on Brooklyn for the heart catherization yesterday, "I drew this picture of her heart to show you, but I'll leave it with you because no one else will have a heart like it." Just as each precious person in this world is special, so are the hearts that beat inside us. There is so much I could say about the miracles God blessed us with through the day, even through this summer, actually. The doctor who worked on her is the same doctor Brooklyn's cardiologist we love so much worked with back in June when the CT scan was performed. He is the one who knew her anatomy and gave recommendations then. He, thank God, has the same mindset as we do. Do not touch anything that is working. He is concerned that when doctors go in to try to make things better they often make things worse, and although he sees conditions that typically need attention through certain methods, he does not think doing anything will make her quality of life better. As Brooklyn is stable, we all want to leave her that way instead of trying to increase her blood oxygenation and other things and possibly make her worse. Of course, I am boiling info down to a minimum here, but his advice was such a blessing. He sat with us for a long time after the procedure, going over her CT scans, as well as the photos and images taken during the catherization procedure yesterday. He professed to be a humble man who bows to God as his strength, knowing that he must remain humble to allow God to work through him. He even said that he does not want harm to come to any of his patients because he tries to rely on his own strength. Please try to pray for him to continue to be a man of God even more every day, as his mother passed away in June and she used to pray for him daily. We worked with another doctor for the liver biopsy. Those results should return within a few days. There is a very delicate balance with the health of the children, both short and long term, when they live with a heart like our special girl. Especially after the type of heart surgery she had in 2016. The anatomy of her heart is hard on her other organs and although she looks stable on the heart side right now, as I have shared before, the condition of her other organs is a concern to keep in prayer, as well. Sometimes the heart looks stable for the condition the patient is in, but the other organs begin to fail. She will likely end up needing not only a heart transplant, but additional organ, such as liver transplant one day. Brooklyn is very complex, and as my other heart mama friends know, it is exhausting to wrap your heart and mind around so many details, yet alone attempt to share them all. After returning home from the hospital last night, I needed time to rest in my Heavenly Father, full of thankfulness. My mind and body are still a little weary, but I have a peacefulness that covers all other emotions, thoughts, or feelings. The best words I heard yesterday are worth repeating on this podcast episode. They were spoken by our girl’s pediatric cardiology interventionist. "God has His hand on Brooklyn. He is not done with her. It is a miracle she is here." Job 14:5 says, “You have decided the length of our lives. You know how many months we will live, and we are not given a minute longer.” The Bible says all of our days are numbered. If you are listening to me speak, or are reading the transcript of this episode, you are still alive. While you still have days of life, you have a purpose and you and believe that God is sending you a personal and essential invitation. What type of invitation? I’m not talking about salvation, although that is the highest invitation and gift God offers through Jesus. As I rested in the goodness of God to my family this summer, I replayed the gifts He gives each of us daily. Sometimes we neglect them or forget to think of them daily, but as we desire to live a life that seeks Jesus and focuses on a heart and mind set on eternity, I want to list the ways I viewed the gifts of God this morning. God offers us the following essentials through His invitation to humbly walk with Him. To be honest, there are many verses that I may have chosen for the following points, but the ones below are near to my heart as I bask in the goodness and faithfulness of our loving God. 1. Intimacy – Mark 12:30 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” There is no intimacy like that of knowing and trusting Jesus. No matter the time of day, the feelings pressing against our mind or heart, the emotions we feel, He is present. He cares. 2. Peace – Romans 15:13 says, “Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you believe in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Peace that passes understanding is a gift most people in this world are missing. Few carry God’s full peace, yet everyone desires it. They desire Him, whether they know it yet or not. 3. Joy – John 15:11 says, “I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Without peace from Jesus, one cannot have joy. As we rest in Him and allow troubles and cares to be carried on His shoulders, joy follows. 4. Relationship – 1 Corinthians 1:30 says, “It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness, and redemption.” Relationship with God comes through Christ. As we walk and study broken relationships in this world, we do not come near the intimacy and perfection that a walk with Jesus offers. 5. Trust – Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Trusting in the Lord is not natural. We cannot see Him, we speak into darkness, trusting that He will hear and care. Yet when we allow Jesus to fill our hearts as we accept and belief with faith and trust, life changes in miraculous ways we will most likely not understand until Heaven. 6. Grace – James 4:6 says, “And He gives grace generously. As the Scriptures say, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Jesus made the ultimate humbling sacrifice. Without pride, He bowed to the harshest demand God could make and He offers us a life many take for granted. Commit to finding new ways to accept and share the grace Jesus offers and allow it to flow willingly through to others. 7. Security – Galatians 2:20 says, “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” Through trust, faith, belief, and grace we are offered security that nothing in this world can touch. 8. Love – John 14:21 says, “Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.” When we mature a walk with God through Christ, we begin to experience and offer true love. Each day offers us the opportunity to grow a love defined and perfected by Jesus. Our humanness falls short of the love and grace only He offers, yet moment by moment He calls us to return to Him and experience life with the fulness He brings if only we respond to His perfect love. 9. Promise – Mark 10:27 says, “Jesus looked at them intently and said, “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But not with God. Everything is possible with God.” Hope births promise. Promise is possible through relationship with Jesus. 10. Identity – 1 John 3:1-3 says, “Behold what manner of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God. And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know Him. Beloved, we are now children of God, and what we will be has not yet been revealed. We know that when Christ appears we will be like Him, for we will see Him as He is. And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as Christ is pure.” God’s word is clear about identity. The book of Genesis begins the Bible with a clear picture of who we are and the rest of the Bible clearly represents a love so great a life was willingly sacrificed. Through relationship with Jesus, we are made new and become a reflection of who He is and a framework of what we are becoming. Moment by moment we have the opportunity to accept a relationship that alters each bit of who we are and are becoming. Don’t look back. Respond to Jesus with each moment you have left. Allow Him to craft a new creation daily. Intentionally plan to meet with Him in ways you have forgotten or have not yet started. It is not too late to meet Him as He calls from within you. Gracious, loving Heavenly Father, how you yearn for us to respond to You. Through all of creation You have called to us, wooing your children to draw nearer to You so that You may draw nearer to us. Father, so often we worry when You stand ready to carry any burden on Your capable shoulders. We see things work for good in our lives, yet do not credit You for the miraculous ways You have gone before us, parting the sea simply with Your breath because You care about every detail we face. God, help us to call out to You daily, to live in union with You, to seek Your face in the stillness of the night, the freshness of the morning, and in the depths of our despair. We need You in ways we have not yet discovered. Whether we are in union with You, our steps moving in perfect unison or as we are carried over mountains and through valleys, we fail to rejoice at the simple fact that You enjoy providing for us and meeting needs. When we do not receive our desires or face uncertainties or rejection in life, or we feel we have been robbed of what is rightfully Yours, we sulk in anger or bitterness. Forgive us Father for forgetting You, who should be our first love, the author and perfector of our faith, the joy of our life. May we please You more tomorrow than we do this day and may our gaze set on You without moving as we face tomorrow as we trust Your word and promises to us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #116 – Christ’s Peace Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you consider peace to be a quality of life concern? Or is peace something you take for granted, expecting to carry it until you don’t have it? Worries or stressors from jobs, finances, children, aging parents, spouse, culture, and more can easily pile weight on our shoulders and minds. Sleeplessness, fatigue, irritability, tears, depression, and divorce are by-products of life without peace. Peace is freedom. Everyone desires tranquility, yet so few carry true peace. How do we define peace that passes understanding? Peace that remains within you despite circumstances swirling around, threatening to overtake your life? Everyone I know desires serenity and contentment. However, what we seek and receive from our own attempts are mere shadows of what we receive through Christ. Various methods exist to seek the harmony sought in this world. Self-care, yoga, breathing, stretching, bubble baths, alcohol, drugs, and many other ways or vices have allowed people temporary freedom from what ails or haunts them. Only one design fills us with everlasting peace we cannot understand, yet appreciate when we receive it. Philippians 4:4-9 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Have you ever wondered what can make it difficult to achieve or keep peace? Based on my own experience, setting heart and mind on Christ is crucial. If I ever feel peace slipping away, I have learned to recognize that it means I am not focused on God. My gaze has lowered to self. What is going on around me. What might happen. What others are saying. Yet, when I settle my mind on the truths found in God’s word, how He has carried me in the past, and stop to simply breath Him in and out, saying the name of Jesus silently in my mind while clinging closely to Him through prayer, His peace comforts me far better than a warm blanket or a cup of hot tea - and those are two things I enjoy very much. I simply cannot fathom the depth and intensity of the peace of God. It is a blessing beyond compare. If we look at the passage of scripture from Philippians 4 that I read at the beginning of this podcast, it is easy to recognize 5 steps that clearly show us how to achieve peace. Let’s examine the words more closely to see what we should be doing to receive the peace of God. 1. Rejoice! Seek God despite what is going on in or around you. Philippians 4:4 2. Live with gentleness. In this passage, gentleness is defined as being unconcerned with events that aren’t of eternal importance. Philippians 4:5 3. Hand over anxieties to your Heavenly Father. Prayerful fellowship with God allows your mind and heart to focus where He calls. Philippians 4:6 4. Contemplate life with the mind of Christ. Whatever is true, as God defines it, noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous, or praiseworthy, meditate on those. Philippians 4:8 5. Allow God’s peace to settle over and within you. Ask for it, expect it, and receive it. Philippians 4:9b Paul strived to live for Christ and his instruction is clear, “Whatever you have learned, received, heard, or seen in me, put into practice and the God of peace will be with you.” Paul called for believers not to be anxious about anything. The Greek word for anxious means to have a divided mind between reasonable and destructive thoughts. We know that the opposite of peace is worry, which causes anxiety. Worry and anxiety cause toxic thoughts, which are lies, because they are opposite of God’s truths, and they destroy the peace of God before it can settle in your spirit. Isaiah 48:22 says, “There is no peace,” says the Lord, “for the wicked.” How can we expect the blessing of peace if we are not actively seeking and surrendering to Him? Once surrendered to the Father’s will, a follower of Jesus will long for Him, eager to seek the Lord’s wisdom, will, and ways. When our mind and heart are fixed on Him, the peace of God that surpasses any human understanding gives us refuge. No matter who we are in this life, the accolades we may receive, degrees, income, or social standing, we are unable to create genuine, holy, sustainable peace apart from the work of Jesus and the Holy Spirit within us. Shalom is the Hebrew word for peace, and it means completeness or wholeness. The frame of reference throughout Jewish literature for this shalom (peace) is tied to shelemut (shell-a-met), which means perfection. This perfect peace is not referring to an absence of earthly strife, quarrels, or trials, but transcends, to a divine, moral centering in the soul and comes from God alone. Perfect peace is a blessing manifested by God, the Author of Perfect Peace. Biblical peace allows more than rest or tranquility. Our Heavenly Father’s peace brings refuge even during conflict and takes action to restore what is broken or hurting through completeness at the Source. Our gracious, loving Father carries many names, of course, as He is the Author of Everything. One name, Yahweh Shalom means “the Lord is peace.” Because the Lord is peace, we receive peace and restoration with God, as well as with others, and ourselves. In this fallen world, peace as a fruit of the spirit is indwelt and felt, as well as sustained, when we purposely seek Him in humble, obedient love and service. God’s peace is presented and upheld through His Heavenly realm. It is not circumstantial or negotiated, but is a mysterious, indwelt, unfathomable gift. John 14:25-31 says, “All this I have spoken while still with you. But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. “You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I. I have told you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe. I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me, but he comes so that the world may learn that I love the Father and do exactly what my Father has commanded me. “Come now; let us leave.” When I read this passage and begin absorbing all that it proclaims, I’m struck by the confidence of Jesus. That same conviction lives within believers when we cling to Christ. As he spoke to the disciples, Jesus exhibited full trust that the Father, Son, and Holly Spirit were actively working together and in full control of current and future events. Unlike the peace our broken world offers, Jesus had no fear or doubts. We live on the other side of what the disciples experienced with Jesus, able to see how circumstances played out. We know the joyous ending! Without the death, burial, resurrection, and ascension of Jesus, true peace would be impossible. We are unable to walk and talk with Christ in the physical sense the disciples were privileged to explore, yet we live with the benefit of hindsight and all the modern conveniences available to study Jesus through scripture, studies, and fellowship. Yet true peace eludes many believers. When Jesus walked with the disciples, they asked questions, followed, observed Him, and heard His teachings. Once He was gone, the Holy Spirit was sent to embrace that duty. For the remainder of their time on earth, the disciples were carried and comforted by Jesus through another means, the Holy Spirit, who works within believers today. In this passage from John 14, Jesus instructs the disciples not to be troubled. When we follow Jesus, trusting Him as our Savior, our life doesn’t miraculously change to a world of perfection without blemishes. In fact, in many ways it becomes much harder. Yet, through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, left as a deposit for us by the grace of our loving Heavenly Father, we may face trials and difficulties while still carrying a peace that transcends anything we could manifest in our own ability. Also included in this passage is a warning about Satan to the disciples. Jesus tells them that Satan is the ruler of this world, but has nothing in Jesus, meaning there is not a thing that the devil can do to get Jesus to sin. The same truth applies to followers of Christ. The devil needs fertile soil to do his work and damage. His strength is found when we have an area in our life that is not surrendered to Christ. Ephesians 4:27 says, “and give no opportunity to the devil.” In order to achieve the perfect peace of God, we must live a life that honors Christ, willingly seeking Him, and humbly surrendering to His will, allowing Him to transform us moment by moment so the fruits of His Spirit may penetrate and bless the fertile ground He is tilling and flourishing so that His perfect peace may abide and protect us. 2 Peter 1:2 says, “Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” Not simply a greeting, Peter is offering a blessing and encouragement to believers in these words. The disciple knew that God multiplies grace and peace as a believers seek a deep, humble knowledge of Him through relationship with Jesus. The hallowed power of God supplies His followers with exactly what we need to live a life with holy faith, obedience, and blessings. The key to this fruitful life is always found through two resources. Jesus and God’s holy word. Extracting the truths and promises of God’s word and applying it to our life as we look at each moment with eternal perspective and seek to honor and please Him brings us the peace that only comes from the Holy Spirit residing within us and offers blessings more abundant than we can measure. Dear Heavenly Father, how good and gracious You are. We simply cannot understand how perfectly You love us and how mightily You long to gift us with blessings such as Your peace that surpasses all human comprehension. Father, help us be worthy of Your perfect gifts. May we seek You in ways that please and honor You, may we follow Your words and live with Your light. Help us to live with confidence in Your promises so that we honor the sacrifice Jesus gave for us. Please gift us with your peace and joy each day because we honor You and follow the ways You taught us to receive them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you would like to hear more about living with the peace that can only come from Christ, I invite you to listen to “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast episode 21, “Peace That Passes Understanding.” You can find it easily at terrihitt.com. Click on the podcast page and type the episode name in the search bar just above the current episode on the left. It’s so easy to listen on the go with your phone or iPad as you travel, work, or exercise. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 116 - Christ's Peace Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #116 – Christ’s Peace Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you consider peace to be a quality of life concern? Or is peace something you take for granted, expecting to carry it until you don’t have it? Worries or stressors from jobs, finances, children, aging parents, spouse, culture, and more can easily pile weight on our shoulders and minds. Sleeplessness, fatigue, irritability, tears, depression, and divorce are by-products of life without peace. Peace is freedom. Everyone desires tranquility, yet so few carry true peace. How do we define peace that passes understanding? Peace that remains within you despite circumstances swirling around, threatening to overtake your life? Everyone I know desires serenity and contentment. However, what we seek and receive from our own attempts are mere shadows of what we receive through Christ. Various methods exist to seek the harmony sought in this world. Self-care, yoga, breathing, stretching, bubble baths, alcohol, drugs, and many other ways or vices have allowed people temporary freedom from what ails or haunts them. Only one design fills us with everlasting peace we cannot understand, yet appreciate when we receive it. Philippians 4:4-9 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Have you ever wondered what can make it difficult to achieve or keep peace? Based on my own experience, setting heart and mind on Christ is crucial. If I ever feel peace slipping away, I have learned to recognize that it means I am not focused on God. My gaze has lowered to self. What is going on around me. What might happen. What others are saying. Yet, when I settle my mind on the truths found in God’s word, how He has carried me in the past, and stop to simply breath Him in and out, saying the name of Jesus silently in my mind while clinging closely to Him through prayer, His peace comforts me far better than a warm blanket or a cup of hot tea - and those are two things I enjoy very much. I simply cannot fathom the depth and intensity of the peace of God. It is a blessing beyond compare. If we look at the passage of scripture from Philippians 4 that I read at the beginning of this podcast, it is easy to recognize 5 steps that clearly show us how to achieve peace. Let’s examine the words more closely to see what we should be doing to receive the peace of God. 1. Rejoice! Seek God despite what is going on in or around you. Philippians 4:4 2. Live with gentleness. In this passage, gentleness is defined as being unconcerned with events that aren’t of eternal importance. Philippians 4:5 3. Hand over anxieties to your Heavenly Father. Prayerful fellowship with God allows your mind and heart to focus where He calls. Philippians 4:6 4. Contemplate life with the mind of Christ. Whatever is true, as God defines it, noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous, or praiseworthy, meditate on those. Philippians 4:8 5. Allow God’s peace to settle over and within you. Ask for it, expect it, and receive it. Philippians 4:9b Paul strived to live for Christ and his instruction is clear, “Whatever you have learned, received, heard, or seen in me, put into practice and the God of peace will be with you.” Paul called for believers not to be anxious about anything. The Greek word for anxious means to have a divided mind between reasonable and destructive thoughts. We know that the opposite of peace is worry, which causes anxiety. Worry and anxiety cause toxic thoughts, which are lies, because they are opposite of God’s truths, and they destroy the peace of God before it can settle in your spirit. Isaiah 48:22 says, “There is no peace,” says the Lord, “for the wicked.” How can we expect the blessing of peace if we are not actively seeking and surrendering to Him? Once surrendered to the Father’s will, a follower of Jesus will long for Him, eager to seek the Lord’s wisdom, will, and ways. When our mind and heart are fixed on Him, the peace of God that surpasses any human understanding gives us refuge. No matter who we are in this life, the accolades we may receive, degrees, income, or social standing, we are unable to create genuine, holy, sustainable peace apart from the work of Jesus and the Holy Spirit within us. Shalom is the Hebrew word for peace, and it means completeness or wholeness. The frame of reference throughout Jewish literature for this shalom (peace) is tied to shelemut (shell-a-met), which means perfection. This perfect peace is not referring to an absence of earthly strife, quarrels, or trials, but transcends, to a divine, moral centering in the soul and comes from God alone. Perfect peace is a blessing manifested by God, the Author of Perfect Peace. Biblical peace allows more than rest or tranquility. Our Heavenly Father’s peace brings refuge even during conflict and takes action to restore what is broken or hurting through completeness at the Source. Our gracious, loving Father carries many names, of course, as He is the Author of Everything. One name, Yahweh Shalom means “the Lord is peace.” Because the Lord is peace, we receive peace and restoration with God, as well as with others, and ourselves. In this fallen world, peace as a fruit of the spirit is indwelt and felt, as well as sustained, when we purposely seek Him in humble, obedient love and service. God’s peace is presented and upheld through His Heavenly realm. It is not circumstantial or negotiated, but is a mysterious, indwelt, unfathomable gift. John 14:25-31 says, “All this I have spoken while still with you. But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. “You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I. I have told you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe. I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me, but he comes so that the world may learn that I love the Father and do exactly what my Father has commanded me. “Come now; let us leave.” When I read this passage and begin absorbing all that it proclaims, I’m struck by the confidence of Jesus. That same conviction lives within believers when we cling to Christ. As he spoke to the disciples, Jesus exhibited full trust that the Father, Son, and Holly Spirit were actively working together and in full control of current and future events. Unlike the peace our broken world offers, Jesus had no fear or doubts. We live on the other side of what the disciples experienced with Jesus, able to see how circumstances played out. We know the joyous ending! Without the death, burial, resurrection, and ascension of Jesus, true peace would be impossible. We are unable to walk and talk with Christ in the physical sense the disciples were privileged to explore, yet we live with the benefit of hindsight and all the modern conveniences available to study Jesus through scripture, studies, and fellowship. Yet true peace eludes many believers. When Jesus walked with the disciples, they asked questions, followed, observed Him, and heard His teachings. Once He was gone, the Holy Spirit was sent to embrace that duty. For the remainder of their time on earth, the disciples were carried and comforted by Jesus through another means, the Holy Spirit, who works within believers today. In this passage from John 14, Jesus instructs the disciples not to be troubled. When we follow Jesus, trusting Him as our Savior, our life doesn’t miraculously change to a world of perfection without blemishes. In fact, in many ways it becomes much harder. Yet, through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, left as a deposit for us by the grace of our loving Heavenly Father, we may face trials and difficulties while still carrying a peace that transcends anything we could manifest in our own ability. Also included in this passage is a warning about Satan to the disciples. Jesus tells them that Satan is the ruler of this world, but has nothing in Jesus, meaning there is not a thing that the devil can do to get Jesus to sin. The same truth applies to followers of Christ. The devil needs fertile soil to do his work and damage. His strength is found when we have an area in our life that is not surrendered to Christ. Ephesians 4:27 says, “and give no opportunity to the devil.” In order to achieve the perfect peace of God, we must live a life that honors Christ, willingly seeking Him, and humbly surrendering to His will, allowing Him to transform us moment by moment so the fruits of His Spirit may penetrate and bless the fertile ground He is tilling and flourishing so that His perfect peace may abide and protect us. 2 Peter 1:2 says, “Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” Not simply a greeting, Peter is offering a blessing and encouragement to believers in these words. The disciple knew that God multiplies grace and peace as a believers seek a deep, humble knowledge of Him through relationship with Jesus. The hallowed power of God supplies His followers with exactly what we need to live a life with holy faith, obedience, and blessings. The key to this fruitful life is always found through two resources. Jesus and God’s holy word. Extracting the truths and promises of God’s word and applying it to our life as we look at each moment with eternal perspective and seek to honor and please Him brings us the peace that only comes from the Holy Spirit residing within us and offers blessings more abundant than we can measure. Dear Heavenly Father, how good and gracious You are. We simply cannot understand how perfectly You love us and how mightily You long to gift us with blessings such as Your peace that surpasses all human comprehension. Father, help us be worthy of Your perfect gifts. May we seek You in ways that please and honor You, may we follow Your words and live with Your light. Help us to live with confidence in Your promises so that we honor the sacrifice Jesus gave for us. Please gift us with your peace and joy each day because we honor You and follow the ways You taught us to receive them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you would like to hear more about living with the peace that can only come from Christ, I invite you to listen to “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast episode 21, “Peace That Passes Understanding.” You can find it easily at terrihitt.com. Click on the podcast page and type the episode name in the search bar just above the current episode on the left. It’s so easy to listen on the go with your phone or iPad as you travel, work, or exercise. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 003 - Set-Apart Parenting for a Set-Apart Child Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #003 – Set-Apart Parenting for a Set-Apart Child Are you yearning for greater connection with your child and Christ? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Do the days seem long, but you know the parenting journey is short? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. After my husband and I raised our two children, certain events happened that led us to understand that God was opening a future bigger than we ever imagined when we married at the very young ages of 17 and 18. During that same period of time, God gave my husband and I “visions,” or dreams that we both experienced while awake. In these dreams, God let us know that we had a daughter in China, a baby we needed to bring home. We weren’t sure how to adopt from China, but we knew Who was in charge and both of us desired to honor God and raise this baby for Him. The two of us began praying specifically about what He desired for us and our family and for Him to show us the way to make everything happen. It honestly shouldn’t have surprised us that God was revealing a plan for us to adopt. A few years earlier, my husband and I were getting into our car after shopping at the mall when I suddenly felt a strong knowledge that God was telling me I would be a mother again before I was 45. Since I had a hysterectomy at the age of 22, I didn’t know for sure how this would unfold, but I knew without a doubt that what God was showing me would happen just as He revealed. Once my husband and I knew what God was calling us to do, we prayed about the adoption and God’s plans together daily, then stepped forward in complete faith. God was orchestrating a beautiful story and we deeply desired to be obedient. As we followed God’s wondrous plans, we did travel to China and receive our precious baby daughter. Remember when I mentioned that God specifically told me that I would be a mother again before the age of 45? Well, my husband turned 45 only 4 days after we received her. I turned 45 four months later. Even when through the process, adoptions began to slow down, we knew that our journey would stay on track. When people told us that we might be delayed, we rested assured that God’s promises never fail. Because we had already raised two children, and the parenting journey was so fresh in our mind as our first two were now 22 and 25, we had very reflective insights into how we wanted to begin again. As I had a deep and solid relationship with Jesus at this time in my life, I was immersing myself in His word daily, and it gave me a heart that cried out to honor and please Him. My faith was my resting place, my solid ground, my hope and future. I had lived a journey of coming to know Jesus after my first two children were born, and had a testimony of coming to love Jesus, after wrestling with understanding release of self and control to Him. I believed I understood more clearly what it meant to truly seek and follow Jesus. I’d been hurt in the church, as many have been. I had learned the hard way not to place people on pedestals, but to pattern my life after and for Jesus. My heart yearned to raise our daughter to know, show, love, and honor Jesus. My husband and I began praying for her to shine Christ before we ever received her, along with many other requests for her heart and life that we knew God would desire. Our daily prayers together were sweet and specific. Since we wanted to raise our daughter in the right way for God, because we wanted her to truly know Him in a holy and personal relationship, our parenting mindset was already focused on the ending of our parenting journey with her. We sought specific goals during our prayer time with God and expectations for our parenting journey. Here are questions we considered to make 8 of the goals we kept in the forefront of our mind and heart: 1. What steps would we personally need to take to ensure we shined Jesus for our daughter to see and desire Him in her life? 2. What type of character and relationship with Jesus did we want her to have once she was raised ? 3. How did we want her relationship with Jesus to shine through her life? 4. What type of relationship did we want to have with her personally ? 5. What did we hope her walk with Jesus would look like through the years? 6. What did we want her relationship with us to be like as she matured and entered her teen years? 7. How did we want our relationship to be with her when she became an adult ? 8. How would we stay consistent in godly parenting that helped her love Jesus in humble submission and enjoy a maturing relationship with Him? The truth is that if parents do not purposely consider and plan what we want the end of our life and the life of our children to look like, we likely won’t receive the results we long for. We must intentionally reflect on what God would desire for our children and seek His discernment , knowledge , wisdom , and understanding on how to parent the child He has entrusted to our care. So how does a parent become set-apart to raise a set-apart child? First we must understand what the term, set-apart means. The basic definition is “to do something that makes someone, or oneself, noticeable, remarkable, or distinct in comparison to someone or something else.” To be set-apart also means to be sanctified . In a very simple explanation, it means that something or someone is sanctified when used for the purpose God intends. When we live according to the purpose or design God intended for our life, we are sanctified. More clearly defined, that means when we are pursuing and following Jesus and His ways and will . The Greek word translated “sanctification” means holiness . This means that when we are sanctified, we are made holy. As believers and followers of Jesus, we know that He is the one sanctifying us. God calls us to know Him, to become more like Him, to become holy, as He is holy and He allows us to be transformed by Him and through Him by our relationship with Jesus. Obviously, we never reach the holiness of God, but through the transforming sacrifice and sanctification of Jesus, we can become more Christ-like moment by moment. The deeper we pursue , know , and follow Jesus, the more He is shown to our children. The Jesus children see is the Jesus they see within us. Our children will desire what is appealing to them. Our relationship with God through a maturing and deepening walk with Jesus matters very much. Since we desire our children to know and grow in Jesus, we must raise them to be set-apart, to be what God intended for them. This simply cannot be accomplished without intentional parenting reliant on the holy power and direction of Christ within us. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God .” Now I want to read the New Living Translation, which makes understanding the importance of this verse for a set-apart life much easier. The NLT version simply translates the same verse this way, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect .” To be a set-apart parent, to raise a set-apart child, we must purpose to think and live differently . We can’t desire or mimic the behavior or customs, the culture of this world. We must purpose to allow , and invite God to transform us into a new person, a new parent moment by moment, day by day. Through the sanctification of Jesus and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have the power to live a set-apart life and be a set-apart parent. His will within us changes the way we think , what we crave , what we believe , how we react . Through His life-changing, set-apart power, we are able to raise children who will be set-apart and sanctified for Him and a live powerfully beautiful testimony of His love and grace. I want to share 5 biblical truths that impress the impact Jesus makes on a submitted life. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” Galatians 2:20 says, “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” Colossians 3:9,10 says, “Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like Him.” 1 Peter 2:9 says, “But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light .” Rest in His power. Parent in His power. There are critically important things for us to remember when we deeply desire to raise children who will walk with the Lord and live godly lives pleasing to Him. Our walk with Jesus matters . The way you love Him and present Him to your watching children reflects the way you feel about Him, the way you trust Him. Your set-apart walk affects the way you present Jesus daily. With the power of Christ working within you, your child will begin to shine the light of Christ and live a life set-apart from others in ways that are pleasing to God and your heart. 3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” I do not strive to have what society considers “typical children” or “typical teens.” I would feel I failed God if I heard those words spoken to me. Don’t settle for what this culture cheapens. Life is meant to be so much better than what this broken world offers or tempts us with. Your child, our children deserve what God purposed them to be, do, and have. Their calling is higher than this unstable and sinful world can give. I want to share 5 steps to combine with the goals you heard earlier in the podcast. I encourage you to set similar goals for your family, as well as steps like the ones I will mention now. 1. Show Jesus – Your joyful relationship with Jesus, the way you seek and follow Him with obedience and love will attract your child. The level of depth and maturity in your walk with Jesus will guide your life as it influences your child’s. As you read God’s word, share His word with your children through reading the Bible and discussing it together, and make it applicable to life situations, your child begins to assimilate the mind and desires of God. 1 Peter 1:16 says, “For the Scriptures say, “You must be holy because I am holy .” 2. Make Time – Be attuned to your child, each precious and unique child you have been gifted. Be present. Put down your phone. Stop working. Delay chores. Look them in the eyes. Wrap your arms around them often. Love them in their language. Do your children need to be invited into your space or are they always welcome? Do they know it? Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.” 3. Tame your Tongue and Tone – Does joy or aggravation shine from you? Does your child see love in your eyes and actions? Are you a constant complainer? Or do your days radiate gratitude? 2 Corinthians 7:1 says, “Because we have these promises, dear friends, let us cleanse ourselves from everything that can defile our body or spirit. And let us work toward complete holiness because we fear God.” 4. Be Consistent – In character, relationship, parenting, integrity, and pursuit of Jesus. Let them see your loving pursuit of Jesus and the ways He continues to mature you and transform you. Humbly give God the glory. Romans 12:1 says, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all He has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind He will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship Him.” 5. Stay Involved – Guide, don’t hover. Allow maturity at proper times. Don’t hold on too long, but don’t push too fast. Know friends and set examples for the type of friends to connect with and the type of friend to be. Make godly life and parenting choices and guide your children to put God first when making decisions, not as a chore, but because they love and honor Him and desire to please their Heavenly Father. Set Jesus as the example for both of you to follow. John 17:15-18 says, “I’m not asking You to take them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one. They do not belong to this world any more than I do. Make them holy by Your truth; teach them Your word, which is truth. Just as You sent me into the world, I am sending them into the world .” In order to raise set-apart children who are in the world, but are not worldly , we must set that as a priority to achieve. We must be the example they see. A set-apart parent grows depth of love for and maturity in the Lord and seeks to pass that legacy and blessing to their children and grandchildren. John 15:19 says, “The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.” 2 Corinthians 6:17 says, “Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord. Don’t touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you. ” Once we are living that set-apart life, it becomes our family lifestyle. We can help our child desire and do the same. If your child is older or already a teen or adult, remain steadfast in your pursuit of Christ and in living a godly life that reflects Jesus and gives honor and glory to the changes He is making in your life daily. Remain prayerful. James 5:16b says, “The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results .” It is Christ’s work within you that will attract your child to Him and help your children to see their need for a Savior who transforms and mends relationships, but only the sanctifying power of Jesus will transform the desires and life of your child as he or she turns and submits to Him. Isaiah 54:13 says, “All your children will be taught by the Lord, and great will be their peace.” Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. How great and loving You are. Thank you for gifting us with Your Son and the Holy Spirit within believers that guides us to desire and seek You. Thank you for Your holy power living within us! God, let us realize what You are capable of and rely on Your strength, wisdom, guidance, and power to enable us to walk in pleasing ways with You. Enable us, gift us with Your wisdom and insight, Your knowledge and understanding of Your children, whom You have entrusted to us for this exact moment in time. We are helpless and hopeless without You. Craft Your desires within us and enable us to attract our children to You instead of this world. Enable us to be the magnet that draws them to You. May our spirit shine You because our heart desires You so clearly. May our children be mighty followers of You for this next generation and complete the works You have established for them. We ask these things in the precious and holy name of Jesus. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, as we release doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children. Intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your children that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #071 – Alarming New Age Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I’ve seen many changes in the world in my lifetime. One of the most alarming trends for me is the indoctrination of ideology contrary to God’s truths. Although a great majority of people profess to be Christians, some don’t realize that the term “Christian,” means, “little Christ.” In fact, the term supposedly originated with pagans in Antioch because they could very clearly see a difference in the lifestyles of those following and emulating Jesus. Without the full understanding that to be called a Christian, one must have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior because of the work He did on the cross to redeem us from sin, and that afterward we live with the faithful duty to seek Him and allow Him to transform our life to reflect His, many continue to live in ignorance or rebellion. Sadly, sometimes even after some have professed Jesus as Savior, their life remains unchanged visibly and without proper discipleship, they are deceived by the culture and fleshly desires of self. Romans 5:6-8 says, “For at just the right time, while we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God proves His love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Some may profess to be a Christian simply because they believe there is a God, not because they have experienced the life-changing power of the Holy Spirit at work within them. That is a sad and scary statement. Simply believing there is a God or attending church does not make a person a follower of Christ. Ephesians 4:18 says, “They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.” Despite the fact that many people claim and believe themselves to be Christians, a growing number of people also claim no religion and instead follow a “new age movement” that began spreading wider in the 70’s and 80’s, and seems to be growing a somewhat larger following now. Even people who profess to be followers of Jesus practice some form of new age fundamentals, many without realizing it. It may be argued that if “religion” can be defined as something a person believes in and follows devotedly, the new age movement can be explained as a type of religion. Honestly, following your flesh could be defined in the same way, which is essentially what this movement does. It could be argued that the foundation of what this belief system focuses on is self-awareness, heightening personal feelings and pride, and believing themselves able to attain equality with God. Unfortunately, a person can purposely choose to follow this sort of lifestyle or easily follow it without intending to, by not purposely choosing to make each moment count for Christ. The truth is that there are only two religions: follow Christ or self. Just as we read in Genesis 3:4-5, “The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die! For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” The lies of the new age movement remind me of the beginning in Genesis with twisted deception and the prideful sin of humanity. God’s word teaches us that feelings cannot be trusted. No matter what we think or how we feel, truth can only be found when we seek and follow God’s truths. Our omnipotent God is the compass on which we should process and discern good and evil, right or wrong, no matter what our pride or emotions cause us to feel. Self-love and self-actualization have become pedestals to idolatry in our culture. New age ideology is penetrating the minds of Christians and non-believers, as well as educational institutions and churches. Although the idea of loving yourself and reaching your full potential can be made to sound harmless, worthy, and needed, we must remember that the Bible teaches that every single person has inherent value because we were planned for and made in the image of God. Our Heavenly Father is also very clear that without Him, and His holiness, we are completely sinful. We only have the ability to love because He first loved us. The Creator of love instills and completes perfect love that casts out fear in us. Once we follow Him through the sacrifice of Jesus, we are fully able to find our true potential as the One who planned, made, and completes us is free to work through our submission. How has the church of all places, the ground that should be holy and alive for those who follow Jesus, been deceived into subtly proclaiming belief in or practicing concepts from the new age movement that clearly offend and go against what God has chosen for us? In fact, God has clearly instructed and warned us to stay far from it. Belief in psychics, reincarnation, astrology, and communication with the deceased are just a bit of what has subtly been twisted into what is becoming part of everyday routines for many, even some of whom claim to follow the Lord. A life of devotion for Christ is one that seeks Him first, dies to self - moment by moment, and follows Him, even when the cost of obedience is high. Personal transformation through Christ is completely different that the personal transformation of one who seeks to follow self and heightened personal enlightenment. Claiming our personal glory over what Jesus has sacrificed for us happens in subtle ways daily, even when we already feel we love Jesus with a whole heart. Carefully sift what the world offers through the filter of God’s guidelines and guardrails. New age mysticism is evil and demonic at the core. Surprisingly, there are many who fall victim to subtle branches of the following: meditation, reincarnation, astrology, psychics, and the belief that spiritual energy can reside in rivers, trees, or mountains. Any practice can become warped; we must carefully and biblically discern what occupies our time. Anyone who believes that people, who were created by God, have the ability to make their own choice about who or what God is or how we can worship Him, as the new age movement believes, is wrong. Do not be deceived. God gives us the opportunity to choose whether to believe in Him, but if we make the choice to follow Him through Jesus, the Bible, (God’s authoritative and holy word) makes everything clear. We are not equal to God; we are not even close. As Jesus said in Luke 23:34a, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” But we should know. We need to know. We have to pay attention. Those who follow and practice beliefs taught by the new age movement believe in a holistic form of divinity that penetrates the universe and creatures. This way of thinking strengthens their thought that a supreme spiritual self may be obtained, forming a type of self-religion, and explores the belief that there partially divine, non-human forms, such as angels that may be communicated with through channeling. Although, they reject traditional forms of religion, they admit to accepting “spirituality.” Main ideals of this professed spirituality seem to be what they believe to be “better,” ideals of emerging humanity, and include trends, or belief systems which include social change, the occult, which focuses on channeling and contact with spirits, (and we know God clearly instructs us to stay away from this), and a middle ground that desires a sort of individual development focusing on both. What I have touched on are very limited explanations into this belief system. I do not wish to linger explaining because we know that the Bible clearly instructs us to stay away from these practices. As with many topics, it is a slippery slope when we stray from the word and expectations of the Lord. Communicating with spirits and pushing self-reliance and spiritual awakenings apart from God leads to confusion, corruption, and chaos in our lives. Psalm 119: 133 says, “Direct my footsteps according to Your word; let no sin rule over me.” John 8:12 says, “Once again, Jesus spoke to the people and said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will never walk in the darkness, but will have the light of life.” While many who do not know Jesus think that following Christ is restrictive or that God wouldn’t authorize only one way to Him, His word proves that our Heavenly Father loves us enough to provide one clear path to Him. Contrary to the opinion that life under the direction and authority of Jesus is demanding or strict, Christ offers freedom and realizations far deeper and greater than anything we can find by ourselves or in this temporary home. Mark 13:22-23 says, “For false Christs and false prophets will arise, and will show signs and wonders, in order to lead astray, if possible, the elect. But take heed; behold, I have told you everything in advance.” Anything that leads to practices or habits that are rooted in religions or ceremonies that heighten self-glorification and strip God from His rightful place have no place in the life of a follower of Christ. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted over the earth.” Remember that you do not have to be a follower of the new age movement to be deceived by practices that lead away from God. There are several, but I will list a couple of them here. Please carefully research these that I mention for yourself and prayerfully make your own decision about what you will allow in your life. I am not an expert and I have myself and my own family to protect and watch over, but I love Jesus and I care about the listeners God has sent to this podcast. I want to boldly walk where I feel He is calling. I would be remiss if I did not mention these in this episode as I believe the roots of these seemingly innocent practices are very dangerous. Over the years, transcendental meditation has been allowed in some public schools. Those educational institutions use this practice with students who need extra help calming down at school. Did you know that transcendental meditation was introduced to the western world as a scientific way to reduce stress and find peace within self? That should alert and caution us. Anything that seeks to perform an act within us that relies on self over God should prick our attention. Although this form of meditation is said to provide medicinal benefits and is supposedly used as a way to relax, the fundamentals of Hinduism are rooted in its approach. Instead of attaining a consciousness of God, and seeking and believing on Him to perform a work within us, transcendental meditation calls for a person to cleanse and empty their mind to obtain a state of consciousness called unity. As a person follows this practice, they see that a ceremony is performed that worships Hindu deities and offers sacrifices to them. After this ceremony, the person involved receives a personal mantra to meditate upon that is supposed to be used as a weapon to ward of reasoning, thinking, and conceptualization. The mantra is actually a group of sounds to be repeated over and over to draw the mind to a specific level of essentialism and as it is uttered, the mantra is supposed to invoke spirits from the spirit world. There is much more information about this topic, but followers of Christ should stay very far away from anything that has these evil roots and practices that so clearly go against what God instructs. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” God never calls us to completely clear our mind to think of ways to elevate our own consciousness and self-awareness. In fact, God calls us to fill our mind with Him and to meditate on His truths. Joshua 1:8 says, “This Book of the Law must not depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in all you do.” Psalm 10:4 says, “In his pride the wicked man does not seek Him; in all his schemes there is no God.” Leviticus 19:31 says, “You must not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out, or you will be defiled by them. I am the LORD your God.” We do not need to chant mantras to be used as weapons. We have the truth and instructions of God to protect us. Ephesians 6:10-17 says, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can make your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore take up the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you will be able to stand your ground, and having done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness arrayed, and with your feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” I know this next one will be a sensitive topic to many. Even yoga, which is practiced by many who love God, is said to be united with eastern metaphysics. In a very basic definition, this means that there is no separation between the physical world and the unseen. However, although many people innocently begin yoga as a way to relieve stress and muscle aches, every subtle action in yoga was created to be a prayer to the Hindu gods. Each tiny movement is a gentle symbol designed to speak to spirits and reach a state of union with God. In practical words, when a person practices yoga, they are unknowingly participating in a Hindu ritual. I understand that many people find relief and mobility through the practice of yoga. As I stated earlier, I am not an expert, but I have heard enough about it that I urge you to research for yourself and see what you find or what alternatives are available for you, if you desire to find them. As I close this podcast, remember that new age practices believe that personal transformation will take place after a human being recognizes his oneness with all things. New age beliefs teach people how to find their own values. They do not look to scripture or even parents, (if a student is studying the new age beliefs), because they practice the belief that there are no absolute truths or values (which is back to the moral relativity we discussed a few podcast episodes ago). People are free to discover and create their own values within themselves. Humans are also free to create their own reality through mindfulness practices that are even taught in seminars, public schools, in children’s programs, and at churches and in trainings for corporations. New agers believe that the Bible is to be read by looking for secret spiritual meanings and they twist scripture to suit their beliefs that God is all and all is God, and He certainly is not divine, but humans can be. It is certainly evident that as followers of Christ, we must be on guard to protect our heart, mind, and families against the new age philosophies and practices infiltrating our communities, institutions, corporations, and churches. 2 Timothy 3:1-4 says, “But understand this: In the last days terrible times will come. For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, without love of good, traitorous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.” Be aware of the ungodliness in this world coming in various forms and beliefs. Take everything back to the grid of God’s truths, based on His word. Know His word so clearly so that you recognize the untruths of this world. Much is clothed in subtle deceptiveness that we must carefully seek to uncover and expose for others to see. I will touch on a few more popular teachings and practices that fall into this category in future episodes. 1 Corinthians 3:10-11 says, “By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as an expert builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one must be careful how he builds. For no one can lay a foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.” Heavenly Father, our precious, holy God. You alone are omnipotent and righteous. We need You much more than we realize. Please cause the scales to fall from our eyes and enable us to have Your sight. Give us Your ears to hear what the Spirit says so that we may not stray or be led into anything that is against You. Father, we need You. We know that we are easily deceived and fall victim to our flesh and the world. We need Your careful instruction and guidance to safeguard us. May we be mindful of Your word because we read and treasure it in our heart, hold it in our mind, and speak it from lips that please You. Cover and protect us with Your feathers. Shelter us with Your wings. May Your faithful promises be our armor and protection as we choose to follow and obey You. In Your precious name we pray, Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 071 Alarming New Age Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #071 – Alarming New Age Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I’ve seen many changes in the world in my lifetime. One of the most alarming trends for me is the indoctrination of ideology contrary to God’s truths. Although a great majority of people profess to be Christians, some don’t realize that the term “Christian,” means, “little Christ.” In fact, the term supposedly originated with pagans in Antioch because they could very clearly see a difference in the lifestyles of those following and emulating Jesus. Without the full understanding that to be called a Christian, one must have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior because of the work He did on the cross to redeem us from sin, and that afterward we live with the faithful duty to seek Him and allow Him to transform our life to reflect His, many continue to live in ignorance or rebellion. Sadly, sometimes even after some have professed Jesus as Savior, their life remains unchanged visibly and without proper discipleship, they are deceived by the culture and fleshly desires of self. Romans 5:6-8 says, “For at just the right time, while we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God proves His love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Some may profess to be a Christian simply because they believe there is a God, not because they have experienced the life-changing power of the Holy Spirit at work within them. That is a sad and scary statement. Simply believing there is a God or attending church does not make a person a follower of Christ. Ephesians 4:18 says, “They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.” Despite the fact that many people claim and believe themselves to be Christians, a growing number of people also claim no religion and instead follow a “new age movement” that began spreading wider in the 70’s and 80’s, and seems to be growing a somewhat larger following now. Even people who profess to be followers of Jesus practice some form of new age fundamentals, many without realizing it. It may be argued that if “religion” can be defined as something a person believes in and follows devotedly, the new age movement can be explained as a type of religion. Honestly, following your flesh could be defined in the same way, which is essentially what this movement does. It could be argued that the foundation of what this belief system focuses on is self-awareness, heightening personal feelings and pride, and believing themselves able to attain equality with God. Unfortunately, a person can purposely choose to follow this sort of lifestyle or easily follow it without intending to, by not purposely choosing to make each moment count for Christ. The truth is that there are only two religions: follow Christ or self. Just as we read in Genesis 3:4-5, “The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die! For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” The lies of the new age movement remind me of the beginning in Genesis with twisted deception and the prideful sin of humanity. God’s word teaches us that feelings cannot be trusted. No matter what we think or how we feel, truth can only be found when we seek and follow God’s truths. Our omnipotent God is the compass on which we should process and discern good and evil, right or wrong, no matter what our pride or emotions cause us to feel. Self-love and self-actualization have become pedestals to idolatry in our culture. New age ideology is penetrating the minds of Christians and non-believers, as well as educational institutions and churches. Although the idea of loving yourself and reaching your full potential can be made to sound harmless, worthy, and needed, we must remember that the Bible teaches that every single person has inherent value because we were planned for and made in the image of God. Our Heavenly Father is also very clear that without Him, and His holiness, we are completely sinful. We only have the ability to love because He first loved us. The Creator of love instills and completes perfect love that casts out fear in us. Once we follow Him through the sacrifice of Jesus, we are fully able to find our true potential as the One who planned, made, and completes us is free to work through our submission. How has the church of all places, the ground that should be holy and alive for those who follow Jesus, been deceived into subtly proclaiming belief in or practicing concepts from the new age movement that clearly offend and go against what God has chosen for us? In fact, God has clearly instructed and warned us to stay far from it. Belief in psychics, reincarnation, astrology, and communication with the deceased are just a bit of what has subtly been twisted into what is becoming part of everyday routines for many, even some of whom claim to follow the Lord. A life of devotion for Christ is one that seeks Him first, dies to self - moment by moment, and follows Him, even when the cost of obedience is high. Personal transformation through Christ is completely different that the personal transformation of one who seeks to follow self and heightened personal enlightenment. Claiming our personal glory over what Jesus has sacrificed for us happens in subtle ways daily, even when we already feel we love Jesus with a whole heart. Carefully sift what the world offers through the filter of God’s guidelines and guardrails. New age mysticism is evil and demonic at the core. Surprisingly, there are many who fall victim to subtle branches of the following: meditation, reincarnation, astrology, psychics, and the belief that spiritual energy can reside in rivers, trees, or mountains. Any practice can become warped; we must carefully and biblically discern what occupies our time. Anyone who believes that people, who were created by God, have the ability to make their own choice about who or what God is or how we can worship Him, as the new age movement believes, is wrong. Do not be deceived. God gives us the opportunity to choose whether to believe in Him, but if we make the choice to follow Him through Jesus, the Bible, (God’s authoritative and holy word) makes everything clear. We are not equal to God; we are not even close. As Jesus said in Luke 23:34a, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” But we should know. We need to know. We have to pay attention. Those who follow and practice beliefs taught by the new age movement believe in a holistic form of divinity that penetrates the universe and creatures. This way of thinking strengthens their thought that a supreme spiritual self may be obtained, forming a type of self-religion, and explores the belief that there partially divine, non-human forms, such as angels that may be communicated with through channeling. Although, they reject traditional forms of religion, they admit to accepting “spirituality.” Main ideals of this professed spirituality seem to be what they believe to be “better,” ideals of emerging humanity, and include trends, or belief systems which include social change, the occult, which focuses on channeling and contact with spirits, (and we know God clearly instructs us to stay away from this), and a middle ground that desires a sort of individual development focusing on both. What I have touched on are very limited explanations into this belief system. I do not wish to linger explaining because we know that the Bible clearly instructs us to stay away from these practices. As with many topics, it is a slippery slope when we stray from the word and expectations of the Lord. Communicating with spirits and pushing self-reliance and spiritual awakenings apart from God leads to confusion, corruption, and chaos in our lives. Psalm 119: 133 says, “Direct my footsteps according to Your word; let no sin rule over me.” John 8:12 says, “Once again, Jesus spoke to the people and said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will never walk in the darkness, but will have the light of life.” While many who do not know Jesus think that following Christ is restrictive or that God wouldn’t authorize only one way to Him, His word proves that our Heavenly Father loves us enough to provide one clear path to Him. Contrary to the opinion that life under the direction and authority of Jesus is demanding or strict, Christ offers freedom and realizations far deeper and greater than anything we can find by ourselves or in this temporary home. Mark 13:22-23 says, “For false Christs and false prophets will arise, and will show signs and wonders, in order to lead astray, if possible, the elect. But take heed; behold, I have told you everything in advance.” Anything that leads to practices or habits that are rooted in religions or ceremonies that heighten self-glorification and strip God from His rightful place have no place in the life of a follower of Christ. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted over the earth.” Remember that you do not have to be a follower of the new age movement to be deceived by practices that lead away from God. There are several, but I will list a couple of them here. Please carefully research these that I mention for yourself and prayerfully make your own decision about what you will allow in your life. I am not an expert and I have myself and my own family to protect and watch over, but I love Jesus and I care about the listeners God has sent to this podcast. I want to boldly walk where I feel He is calling. I would be remiss if I did not mention these in this episode as I believe the roots of these seemingly innocent practices are very dangerous. Over the years, transcendental meditation has been allowed in some public schools. Those educational institutions use this practice with students who need extra help calming down at school. Did you know that transcendental meditation was introduced to the western world as a scientific way to reduce stress and find peace within self? That should alert and caution us. Anything that seeks to perform an act within us that relies on self over God should prick our attention. Although this form of meditation is said to provide medicinal benefits and is supposedly used as a way to relax, the fundamentals of Hinduism are rooted in its approach. Instead of attaining a consciousness of God, and seeking and believing on Him to perform a work within us, transcendental meditation calls for a person to cleanse and empty their mind to obtain a state of consciousness called unity. As a person follows this practice, they see that a ceremony is performed that worships Hindu deities and offers sacrifices to them. After this ceremony, the person involved receives a personal mantra to meditate upon that is supposed to be used as a weapon to ward of reasoning, thinking, and conceptualization. The mantra is actually a group of sounds to be repeated over and over to draw the mind to a specific level of essentialism and as it is uttered, the mantra is supposed to invoke spirits from the spirit world. There is much more information about this topic, but followers of Christ should stay very far away from anything that has these evil roots and practices that so clearly go against what God instructs. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” God never calls us to completely clear our mind to think of ways to elevate our own consciousness and self-awareness. In fact, God calls us to fill our mind with Him and to meditate on His truths. Joshua 1:8 says, “This Book of the Law must not depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in all you do.” Psalm 10:4 says, “In his pride the wicked man does not seek Him; in all his schemes there is no God.” Leviticus 19:31 says, “You must not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out, or you will be defiled by them. I am the LORD your God.” We do not need to chant mantras to be used as weapons. We have the truth and instructions of God to protect us. Ephesians 6:10-17 says, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can make your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore take up the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you will be able to stand your ground, and having done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness arrayed, and with your feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” I know this next one will be a sensitive topic to many. Even yoga, which is practiced by many who love God, is said to be united with eastern metaphysics. In a very basic definition, this means that there is no separation between the physical world and the unseen. However, although many people innocently begin yoga as a way to relieve stress and muscle aches, every subtle action in yoga was created to be a prayer to the Hindu gods. Each tiny movement is a gentle symbol designed to speak to spirits and reach a state of union with God. In practical words, when a person practices yoga, they are unknowingly participating in a Hindu ritual. I understand that many people find relief and mobility through the practice of yoga. As I stated earlier, I am not an expert, but I have heard enough about it that I urge you to research for yourself and see what you find or what alternatives are available for you, if you desire to find them. As I close this podcast, remember that new age practices believe that personal transformation will take place after a human being recognizes his oneness with all things. New age beliefs teach people how to find their own values. They do not look to scripture or even parents, (if a student is studying the new age beliefs), because they practice the belief that there are no absolute truths or values (which is back to the moral relativity we discussed a few podcast episodes ago). People are free to discover and create their own values within themselves. Humans are also free to create their own reality through mindfulness practices that are even taught in seminars, public schools, in children’s programs, and at churches and in trainings for corporations. New agers believe that the Bible is to be read by looking for secret spiritual meanings and they twist scripture to suit their beliefs that God is all and all is God, and He certainly is not divine, but humans can be. It is certainly evident that as followers of Christ, we must be on guard to protect our heart, mind, and families against the new age philosophies and practices infiltrating our communities, institutions, corporations, and churches. 2 Timothy 3:1-4 says, “But understand this: In the last days terrible times will come. For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, without love of good, traitorous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.” Be aware of the ungodliness in this world coming in various forms and beliefs. Take everything back to the grid of God’s truths, based on His word. Know His word so clearly so that you recognize the untruths of this world. Much is clothed in subtle deceptiveness that we must carefully seek to uncover and expose for others to see. I will touch on a few more popular teachings and practices that fall into this category in future episodes. 1 Corinthians 3:10-11 says, “By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as an expert builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one must be careful how he builds. For no one can lay a foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.” Heavenly Father, our precious, holy God. You alone are omnipotent and righteous. We need You much more than we realize. Please cause the scales to fall from our eyes and enable us to have Your sight. Give us Your ears to hear what the Spirit says so that we may not stray or be led into anything that is against You. Father, we need You. We know that we are easily deceived and fall victim to our flesh and the world. We need Your careful instruction and guidance to safeguard us. May we be mindful of Your word because we read and treasure it in our heart, hold it in our mind, and speak it from lips that please You. Cover and protect us with Your feathers. Shelter us with Your wings. May Your faithful promises be our armor and protection as we choose to follow and obey You. In Your precious name we pray, Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 117 - Should Kids Be Spanked? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 117 – Should Kids Be Spanked? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, would you please share this episode with a friend or family member who would enjoy learning more about raising kids for Christ? Also, many have promised to leave a rating and review for the podcast, but life happens…and they don’t. So, if you haven’t already, would you please take a moment to leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast? Sharing episodes and leaving a review ensures that others will find the podcast. Then guess what? You’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode with an important and controversial question with an often divided answer…should kids be spanked? First, I want to start with a story. I was on a neighborhood walk recently when a loose dog was crisscrossing the street and a screech of brakes alerted me that it was almost hit. Terrified by the sound and the loud voice of the driver, the dog stood frozen in front of the car. When the owner heard the commotion and saw his dog standing in the roadway, he lovingly called from his yard for the dog to come to him. Seeing his beloved, trusted master and hearing his sweet call, the dog quickly ran home, expecting safety. Instead, as soon as the dog reached him, the owner beat his dog and yelled at him for being in the street. Will this act change the behavior of the dog? As you know, the topic of this episode is spanking, so you might wonder why I opened with this story about a dog. You could argue that a dog and a child can’t be compared as they don’t reason the same. However, according to developmental tests reported by NBC News, even the average dog has the abilities of a toddler. In some areas, dogs are even more intelligent than preschoolers. Speaking of preschoolers, according to a study by the American Psychological Association, they’re the most likely group to be spanked. I don’t want to make this episode one that shames, but I do want parents to realize the gravity of the gift we’ve been given. We are raising children for the Great I Am. We want to be good parents. Of course we want to do our best. But remember, our best falls far below the standard of our holy Heavenly Father . That’s why we must , as those entrusted to parent for God, stop and evaluate the reasoning behind why we make specific decisions and why we take certain actions. Why do some parents choose to spank instead of correcting their children in another way? What do we think we’re teaching our children when we respond with such forceful correction? As we ponder these questions, it leads me to the next ones. Should spanking be the first act a parent takes when a child needs correcting? Are parents behaving biblically when they spank? Or are they succumbing to frustration? Or last resorts when they grab the belt, hair brush, or use their hand in an effort to teach their child? Most parents who spank were spanked as a child. It’s the way they were raised, so it’s what they revert to. But does that mean it is the best method for training God’s children in righteousness? Is spanking the choice we should make to build connection with God and us? Many parents also share that the reason they spank is to cause pain that changes the behavior of their child. We have to consider what type of changes will occur. Surprisingly, research also indicates that parents will hit their child more frequently when they are an active or strong-willed boy between the ages of three to four. When you hear that statistic, how does it make you feel? The common phrase, “boys will be boys” seems appropriate in this application. Does the fact that boys disrupt quiet or make messes make them targets for spanking? Does spanking make them better men when they grow up? Or does a relationship of teaching and connection make the necessity to spank disappear? The answers to these questions are what parents should seek before deciding to spank. We’ve talked about some of the reasons parents choose to spank. The frequency of spanking also varies based on parental or child age, race, gender, education, or socio economic status of the family. The topic of spanking is a divisive one. Most people have feelings one way or another. As I shared earlier, those feelings often stem from the way parents were disciplined as a child. One Bible verse is often quoted as evidence to back pro-spanking parents. Proverbs 13:24 says, “Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.” If we look at the verse with an observant, knowledgeable heart and take our thoughts captive for Christ to prayerfully seek God’s wisdom in this area, we may come to a different conclusion about spanking. For example, Strong’s Lexicon, a type of concordance, teaches that the rod was generally a stick used by shepherds for protecting and guiding their flocks. Shepherds used the rod to steer the sheep in the right direction, or to keep them gathered when they strayed. The rod was also used to fend off predators or warn and comfort the sheep. Used these ways, the rod isn’t a tool for inflicting injury. Instead, it is a tool for loving, protective guidance . When many parents hear the word discipline, they imagine spanking or another form of punishment. However in biblical days the meaning was quite different. In the semitic root, the word rod refers to a type of measuring stick. In the same way we use a yardstick today, the rod was used to measure distances to danger or to measure the growth of sheep in the shepherd’s care . The rod was not intended to inflict pain upon people or sheep. The word rod is also used for scepter. Although the verse from Proverbs 13:24 is usually interpreted as a directive to spank children, when we consider how a scepter was used, we understand that it could be used to extend grace and mercy or death by the King. Since the king wouldn’t speak much or at all to his subjects, he would often make his intentions or directives known by his scepter, the recognized symbol of authority. Whether it was the king or an appointed servant using the scepter, it was understood that the instrument held authority. So as we read Proverbs 13:24 we can see that the rod is seen as the idea of authority , not a literal rod. If you also consider that it was Solomon who penned the verse in Proverbs, you must remember that he was a king. His terminology would have been written with the mindset of one who used the scepter for the purposes I just shared. As king, Solomon was an authority figure to many, but remember, he was also a father, or symbol of authority to his children. Using this frame of thinking, we can reason that Solomon wasn’t condoning beating children, but instead encouraged using the rod, which would be showing love or direction. So, when parents extend the rod, we are paying attention to what our children are doing. We are considering the current situation, as well as looking forward to the future. We are choosing to extend mercy by correcting the behavior, not simply punishing. Dealing with the situation we need to address doesn’t mean to beat or spank. It doesn’t mean to ignore the actions of our children, either. Just as God extends mercy and forgiveness to us when we are disobedient, He also allows us to suffer consequences. Consequences will differ depending on the act and repercussions, but God doesn’t desire that we beat down children. His discipline is always designed to reach and transform our heart for Him. Just as we should intentionally strive to do with the children He entrusted to our care. Correcting our children means to instruct and guide in ways that lead to Christlikeness and connection through heart change . Remember, lack of discipline can cause destructive or ungodly morals and behavior. So does the wrong kind of discipline. Discipline offered in anger can destroy connection and confidence in the parent, then ultimately in Christ. Spanking doesn’t show loving discipline that exhibits clear connection between the action of the child and the consequence. Spanking is often given in anger or bitterness, frustration or embarrassment, or even because of a feeling of disrespect. Spanking often resembles beating and can inflict injury, but doesn’t reach the heart of the child. Also, parents often spank in the heat of the moment and can accidentally abuse their child. Since spanking isn’t tied to natural consequences of the behavior, it has often been shown to increase aggressiveness in children. Instead of resorting to spanking quickly, pay attention to the times your child is misbehaving. Could it be when you’re very distracted or busy and your child is trying to get your attention? Is your child misbehaving because he is tired or hungry? Look for the root cause and discipline to bring about godly discipleship. Remember, discipline should be loving guidance and correction that disciples the heart , not a form of punishment. Discipline comes in many forms. Children are unique. There is no “one size meets all requirements” approach. But I do believe every parent should see the word discipline as discipleship to keep them accountable to building relationship and connection between their child and God. All godly correction should allow children to grow up with closer connection to Christ and family, and a joy-filled life with respect for their Heavenly Father and society. Discipline should be a step that builds transformation of the heart of your child. If a parent still intends to spank, I do not recommend it as a first form of correction. Just as I said earlier, children are unique on purpose. Just as God reaches each of us in different ways over time, parents must find what form of discipline works for each child. Be careful not to use a strong-willed child as an excuse to spank. Find ways to craft that strong will into a strong heart for godliness and with connection for Christ. Your child’s will must be guided, not squashed into rebellion. Alternate means of correction might be: loss of privileges, time out, time in, stern looks, hand signals, a hushed voice, work, or redirection of behavior. Use your situation to find natural consequences for teaching your children, but always remain mindful of the objective of stepping them closer to God and changing their heart for Him through the form of correction you choose. When a child consistently misbehaves or disobeys, it’s important to locate theroot cause in order to reach their heart for change. Remember, discipline should be correction and training toward discipleship, not punishment. Discipline should be designed as an instrument that assists in correcting behavior and facilitating heart change . Spanking doesn’t get to the core of what needs correcting. Correcting behavior (which stems from the heart of your child) allows you to draw your child’s heart nearer to Christ. Addressing heart issues moves the child closer to transformation, both in the heart and in the behavior that stems from it . Spanking punishes, but doesn’t change the heart, except perhaps planting bitterness that can place a wedge between parent and child, or more importantly, between Christ and child. Proverbs 9:10 which says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding .” Apart from the Lord we don’t have wisdom or understanding. Both are needed as you prayerfully determine whether God calls you to spank His children. Remember, that in order to change behavior, children should also see that their parents acknowledge their own personal sins. They need to understand that Mom and Dad repent to God. Then they understand that correction is a lifelong process for both children and adults. They begin to understand that we all need behavior that is fitting to the Lord. Everyone needs to honor God and submit to Him so we develop obedience and closer relationship with Him. Consider this thought - spanking doesn’t teach children to obey the parent or obey God out of love, trust, and obedience. We know that God’s grace and mercy should be the motivator used to discipline children. Discipline should be intended to draw the heart and mind of children nearer to the heart and mind of God. Using discipleship as discipline is the way to reach the heart. God’s Word teaches, corrects, trains, equips, and forgives. Our method of correction should do the same and build a foundation for our children to desire God’s Word and ways. Make sure you and your spouse are prayerfully aligned, so you’ll follow how God instructs you to discipline to disciple. Dear Heavenly Father, we praise You for Your mercy and goodness to us. Thank you for gifting us with the honor and privilege of raising Your children. Thank you for Your patience and forgiveness in our lives. Please show us the way to mentor our children with Your loving kindness. Don’t let us forget the holy authority You entrusted to us with the responsibility of parenting Your precious children, even on the most challenging days. Help us to seek You in every way, including the way we discipline to disciple. Help us keep You in the forefront of our mind so we remember the truth that discipling should be correcting and directing, not punishing. Help our children love, trust, honor, and obey You because they see us do the same. Show us the way to the hearts of the children in our care. Transform us daily because we continue to seek You and rest and abide in Your capable arms. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. This is the part of the episode that you usually hear me talk about the Set-Apart Collective. Today I want to share about my new mini program called “Establish Identity.” Why? Your identity is a major force behind what you do. Who you believe yourself to be, and who you find your identity through affects the way you live, parent, love, serve, and discipline. Your identity is one of the lifelines, a pulse point of your home. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Even if they are grown, your identity affects your child. The way you think, speak, and react is rooted in your identity. Send me a message at info@terrihitt.com if you’d like details or go to terrihitt.com and join my email list. You’ll get updates before anyone else and hear a little about what makes this so important. If you join the email list you’ll also be able to access free resources such as my new Good to Godly: A 31 Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 112 - How to Protect Innocence in Childhood Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 112 – How to Protect Innocence in Childhood Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to our important episode about how to keep innocence in childhood. I adored the perspective our middle daughter Marissa carried when she was a tiny girl. Actually, still to this day she has the same artistic eye and genuine joy for seeing beauty in the world. One day as we were walking on a sunny day, she exclaimed, “Oh! Look at the sparkles on the sidewalk.” I’d already raised two children to adulthood and survived my own childhood. Yet I don’t remember ever noticing sparkles in the concrete. But, just as she said, when I looked at the sidewalk, tiny sprinkles of silver sparkled back. Even to this day, some fifteen or sixteen years later I look for sparkles of joy in concrete. Matthew 18:1-6 says, “At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, "Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea .” Babies have such innocent, trusting souls. God could have brought His children into the world as adults. Instead, He brought us in as infants to be nurtured, protected, and pointed to Him. The beauty of childhood should be celebrated with trust, shaped to care for others, consider others your friends, and treat others with Christlike love because pure joy emanates from your heart. Think of the beauty childhood and little lives should be filled with. Kids enjoy finding hearts in the shapes of nature, seeing animals in clouds, and enjoy raindrops, mud, and snowy days just as much as a sunny day. They see beauty in uniqueness and don’t want anyone to feel sad or hurt. They speak from the heart, offer compliments simply and joyfully, twirl on a whim, and believe everyone is beautiful. However, societal shifts sneakily indoctrinate children with agendas at early ages and without parental consent. Children are exposed to adult materials and mindsets much earlier than decades before, yet they remain underequipped emotionally or spiritually to handle the images, knowledge, actions, or emotions impressed on their innocent minds. Why should it matter that innocence is in jeopardy? Don’t people say kids are resilient? Our godless culture is disregarding God’s design for the innocence of children. Society is erasing the God-assigned role of the parent to shepherd the heart and mind of the children He has entrusted to us. Society has been progressively promoting and glamourizing sin for decades. But now there seems to be a targeted push for children, who should be intentionally raised to know Jesus clearly and follow Him with dedication born from love and faith – not religion. Instead, the children are being lost to a culture with worldly morality and without godly intentions. God’s children aren’t being grounded in purposed faith that’s rooted in His Word and ways. Instead, we’re being lured and absorbed into a culture without absolute Truth. As parents, our personal identity must be secure in God through Jesus and in our faith-fueled relationship with Him. He must be the compass that guides and guards our heart and home. We must purposely search and study Scripture so we’re equipped to shelter, counsel, and prepare the children entrusted to us in Christlike and godly ways. As believers and guardians of precious children God commanded us to shepherd, we must commit through eyes fixed on eternity , to check what enters the life of our children, and also what surrounds them. We must be prepared proactively, not reactively, to fight as godly-centered warriors for the heart and mind of our children. Our concerns and cautions should be strong to protect from the evil influences of this world and provide godliness and Truth for our children. For example, sometimes we shelter from – and sometimes we allow access to things of this world. But when we allow access, it is in ways that direct with discussion and determination toward and through Christ. It is providing stability and strength for our children to grow into mature Christians who live in this world, but are not part of it. We’re to equip them to grow in strength and stature, able to form critical, godly thinking. You were divinely appointed and the children in your care were specifically chosen to be guarded and influenced by you. You were entrusted with the tender, yet challenging position of raising them for the King of Kings. The only way you are able to complete that monumental, but glorious task is through His strength and truths. As you teach relationship with God through Jesus and in the words you preach, intentionally guide your children into the arms of Jesus. Every obstacle is an opportunity to bring them to Him. Disciple them continually in light of eternity and you will find it easier to combat cultural influences and raise children who seek and stand for godly values because they carry an intimate relationship with Him. Remember, your children see you more clearly than you see yourself. Let your actions and your words send them straight to Christ. Be vigilant. Scripture tells us that the devil is out to steal, kill, and destroy. The world proves the truth of these words from Christ. I know you’re already aware of the importance of this issue. So what do we do about it? Be diligent! So often parents either ignorantly or lazily neglect to guide and guard the way God demands. Whether we are deceived or defiant, the lives of God’s precious children are touched and changed. I don’t need to list the “how’s’ of protecting children from this culture. You’ve already heard ways to keep ungodly values out of your home and several Purposed Parent Connected Child episodes are available to guide you. But I do want to remind you to keep your guard raised. Build the fence of protection far from the cliff. Don’t build that barrier right on the cliff, because as the ground your child is on erodes, that hedge will fall, and you want plenty of protection around the children God entrusted to you. Take each day captive for Christ. Don’t let schedules dictate the level of your parenting or protection. Fast paces and packed timelines keep parents from investing the needed time to talk to or play with kids to build connection to keep and foster purity in hearts and home. They deceive us into thinking we don’t have time to read God’s Word, study and teach it to our children, or have time to pray. It’s all how you choose to prioritize. Will it be God first? Do you choose to teach the children in your home the world or the Word? It's time for good mothers to take a stand and commit to becoming the godly mom God entrusted and equips you to be. Keeping innocence in the home begins and ends with you. I recently released an item that I am happy to share at no charge. Visit terrihitt.com to receive a complimentary 31-Day Prayer & Scripture Guide to help you jumpstart this or continue this sacred journey. Coming soon, I’ll have devotionals you can use with your babies and children. The first edition for tiny hearts is already complete, but just not on the website yet. Additional devotionals are in the process of being written now and will be available this year. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for Your loving kindness and mercies to us. Thank you for entrusting us to be the guide and guardian for Your children. Your gracious, loving gift to us is beyond our human understanding. God, You clearly instruct us in Your Word to raise children to know, follow, hear, love, and obey You. We’re to talk of You when we rise up, when we lie down, when we walk along the way. We’re to infuse Your presence and Spirit into all aspects of our life and the lives of Your Children. Thank you for this beautiful picture of Your grace, Father. Help us be and remain obedient and joyful as we strive to become the godly women and mothers only You can equip us to be. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Because your home is key to safeguarding your children, I want to share a sweet and innocent company that has the same mission to safeguard the hearts and minds of children - Melane & Co. This shop was created by my middle daughter, who is the artist behind the watercolor creations available. Are you disgusted with book illustrations that honor darkness, not light? Have you ever taken your child to a gathering or been in the home of another person who has art hanging on the walls that simply isn’t God-honoring? Whether you’re looking through magazines, visiting a gallery, or a friend’s home, your kids have probably been exposed to artwork that you just wish they hadn’t seen. Has this happened to you? If it hasn’t yet, it probably will. But your home can be a place of refuge. Remember, under God’s command, you are responsible for safeguarding the heart and home of your children. If you’re looking for home décor that your child can grow up with and that won’t cause a flush to spread across your faces, Melane & Co. has gentle, beautiful watercolor prints, cards, and custom floral or pet paintings that bring joy and delight to young and old. Raising children is challenging. Don’t let artwork be another stumbling block. I invite you to visit Melane & Co. at www.melaneandco.com for a variety of pieces to bring a smile to your faces and walls. You’ll find fine quality watercolor cards you can use for gifts to family, friends, or teachers. If your home has a furry family member or two, you’ll also see a way to include them in your décor. A custom portrait of your pet is a timeless way to remember the joy they give so effortlessly daily. Any way you can honor God in your home with classic pieces that are sweet to the eyes and soul help you mentor Christ in beautiful ways. Visit Melane & Co. today. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #138 – Christ, The Master Builder Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Each morning my youngest trusts that she and I will sit together and play before we do anything else. In fact, as soon as I wake her up, she uses the restroom, brushes her teeth, takes her medications, and meets me where Lego’s and creativity have overtaken the space. Our entire kitchen table is filled with creations that prove her genius ability to construct something from nothing. What can be challenging to me is of no effort for her. Sure, it looks easy to build tiny objects from plastic bricks, but when you want true workmanship that boasts working doors with hidden hinges, elaborate pieces of furniture, and symmetrical construction, you need an expert creator. Of course, that would be her. I’m content to sit in my role as the one who honors what she makes. I help use her designs and ideas in joyful ways that bring us closer together. Anything I make on my own falls far short of the craftmanship she possesses, and the quality of my constructed items fall short of her ingenuity, but I sit by her side to observe and learn, so I may grow my skills under the master. Although Brooklyn is superbly skilled at establishing visions of what she desires to make and then actually causing it to come into existence, her skills fall short of the glory of God. My girl constructs elaborate cities and stories, while God created a world, universe, and all that we know and can only imagine. He designed intimate details into each person and knows each of us by name. He knows the days established for us and what we have done, are doing, and will do, and created each one of us for purposes and with gifts He crafted into being. 1 Corinthians 3:5-14 says, “What, after all, is Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants, through whom you came to believe—as the Lord has assigned to each his task. I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor. For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field, God’s building. By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as a wise builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one should build with care. For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward.” In a way slightly similar to how Brooklyn has patiently given me the skills to build, but on a much, much larger and more important scale, God showed Paul how to sow the seeds of the gospel message into the hearts of people. God also enabled Apollos to nourish the believers and grow them in faith. Paul founded the Corinth church and Apollos took that foundation and built upon it. The work God requires involves a multitude of people who carry a variety of God-given gifts, talents, and abilities. Although I think Brooklyn is an architectural superstar, the truth is that her abilities come from a choice God made to gift her in that area. How many more God-gifted abilities does she carry? How many will she choose to use for Him? God doesn’t craft special talents into us for us to become superstars who receive all the glory. He patiently plans and lovingly lavishes abilities on us for the purpose of combining followers who will become “team members” of sorts who will set aside personal desires and glory in exchange for approval from Him. Of course, we know that Paul and Apollos worked for the Lord, but what arose spiritually from their work was credited to God’s power, grace, and mercy. Believers know that Jesus is the foundation of the church. He is the reason we worship, why we give praise; we cannot lay another foundation other than what has been established by Christ’s sacrifice, love, and obedience. Paul laid a strong and perfect foundation for the Corinth church by preaching salvation through Christ. Paul was used by God to establish spiritual foundations as he worked to construct groundwork for churches in Macedonia, Greece, and Asia Minor, while others, such as Timothy and Apollos were used to build upon the foundations of his labors. Each person working for God was allowed to participate through God’s loving mercy and grace. In our time, we must remember that whoever builds our present day church, whether it be preachers, teachers, deacons, or worshippers, the church must be built with first fruits, or the very best we can offer through establishing godly doctrine built on God’s Word and a lifestyle of godly integrity. In the Corinthian church, many members were vulnerable to incorrect doctrine, immature in their faith, and hardened toward one another. Instead of being committed to God and each other, they had much to learn in shaping Christian character and sacrifice. Just as the Lego buildings I construct are not as solid as the ones Brooklyn builds, believers must be careful to build their life on the solid foundation of Christ. Jesus is the firm foundation that lasts. All else will fall away. If we choose to build a life upon fame, wealth, another person, culture, or however we define success, our life will not stand in eternity. When we stand before Him, God will determine through His sinless, sovereign mind whether each of us has been faithful to follow the instructions and guidelines set by Christ. Any honor and glory for salvation goes to God, as He alone saves. As we work for the Lord, we will not see what we view as equality in our journey on earth. Some believers will see great fruit from their work in this lifetime; some will not, but each person who sacrificially and obediently works for the Lord is seen equally by God. He will reward who and how He chooses. We do not know and cannot comprehend His plans. We must look only to what God calls us to do and step out to complete the tasks He poses for us as we keep our heart focused on obediently honoring and pleasing Him. As we labor for the Lord, I believe we must fix our eyes above. No matter what feels like drudgery or may be unpleasant, no matter whether we experience what we consider success or what this world calls failure, we have choices to make. 1. What foundation will we choose to build our life upon? 2. Will that foundation endure into eternity? Believers must also remember to ask ourselves: 1. Is what I am laying as my foundation pleasing to God? 2. Will I trust that God will bless what I allow Him to complete through my obedience for His purposes (even when I don’t see the fruit)? Matthew 9:37-38 says, “He said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into His harvest field.” Are you willing to labor for the Lord without seeing the outcome? 1 Corinthians 15:58 says, “Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” Do you trust His work? 1 Thessalonians 1:3 says, “We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” Are you inspired by Christ or this world? Colossians 1:28-29 says, “He is the One we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. To this end I strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in me.” Do you allow Him to energize and strengthen you each moment? 1 Timothy 4:10 says, “That is why we labor and strive, because we have put our hope in the living God, who is the Savior of all people, and especially of those who believe.” Is your hope and trust in Christ? Philippians 2:16 says, “As you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain.” Are you looking forward to the day you will stand in front of Jesus? 2 Timothy 2:15 says, “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” Are you ready to humbly stand before God unashamed? 1 Timothy 1:12 says, “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength, that He considered me trustworthy, appointing me to His service.” Do you consider yourself appointed to His service? How does that affect your actions and decisions daily? Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Are you willing to continue to surrender each day? Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for Your glorious work within us. Thank You for the plans you have made for us and the salvation You established for us through Jesus. May each of us surrender more completely moment by moment, see ourselves through Your eyes, and come to follow You in deeper ways daily. Thank you for establishing good works through us and for allowing us to participate in Your work. May we allow you, the Master Builder access to our deepest parts as You continue to craft Yourself into our heart and mind. Oh, God, how we long to be fully Yours and to stand before You with humble joy one day and hear that You are pleased with the way we lived. May we be filled with hope, joy, and grace in light of our expectation of an eternity with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 138 - Christ, The Master Builder Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #138 – Christ, The Master Builder Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Each morning my youngest trusts that she and I will sit together and play before we do anything else. In fact, as soon as I wake her up, she uses the restroom, brushes her teeth, takes her medications, and meets me where Lego’s and creativity have overtaken the space. Our entire kitchen table is filled with creations that prove her genius ability to construct something from nothing. What can be challenging to me is of no effort for her. Sure, it looks easy to build tiny objects from plastic bricks, but when you want true workmanship that boasts working doors with hidden hinges, elaborate pieces of furniture, and symmetrical construction, you need an expert creator. Of course, that would be her. I’m content to sit in my role as the one who honors what she makes. I help use her designs and ideas in joyful ways that bring us closer together. Anything I make on my own falls far short of the craftmanship she possesses, and the quality of my constructed items fall short of her ingenuity, but I sit by her side to observe and learn, so I may grow my skills under the master. Although Brooklyn is superbly skilled at establishing visions of what she desires to make and then actually causing it to come into existence, her skills fall short of the glory of God. My girl constructs elaborate cities and stories, while God created a world, universe, and all that we know and can only imagine. He designed intimate details into each person and knows each of us by name. He knows the days established for us and what we have done, are doing, and will do, and created each one of us for purposes and with gifts He crafted into being. 1 Corinthians 3:5-14 says, “What, after all, is Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants, through whom you came to believe—as the Lord has assigned to each his task. I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor. For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field, God’s building. By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as a wise builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one should build with care. For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward.” In a way slightly similar to how Brooklyn has patiently given me the skills to build, but on a much, much larger and more important scale, God showed Paul how to sow the seeds of the gospel message into the hearts of people. God also enabled Apollos to nourish the believers and grow them in faith. Paul founded the Corinth church and Apollos took that foundation and built upon it. The work God requires involves a multitude of people who carry a variety of God-given gifts, talents, and abilities. Although I think Brooklyn is an architectural superstar, the truth is that her abilities come from a choice God made to gift her in that area. How many more God-gifted abilities does she carry? How many will she choose to use for Him? God doesn’t craft special talents into us for us to become superstars who receive all the glory. He patiently plans and lovingly lavishes abilities on us for the purpose of combining followers who will become “team members” of sorts who will set aside personal desires and glory in exchange for approval from Him. Of course, we know that Paul and Apollos worked for the Lord, but what arose spiritually from their work was credited to God’s power, grace, and mercy. Believers know that Jesus is the foundation of the church. He is the reason we worship, why we give praise; we cannot lay another foundation other than what has been established by Christ’s sacrifice, love, and obedience. Paul laid a strong and perfect foundation for the Corinth church by preaching salvation through Christ. Paul was used by God to establish spiritual foundations as he worked to construct groundwork for churches in Macedonia, Greece, and Asia Minor, while others, such as Timothy and Apollos were used to build upon the foundations of his labors. Each person working for God was allowed to participate through God’s loving mercy and grace. In our time, we must remember that whoever builds our present day church, whether it be preachers, teachers, deacons, or worshippers, the church must be built with first fruits, or the very best we can offer through establishing godly doctrine built on God’s Word and a lifestyle of godly integrity. In the Corinthian church, many members were vulnerable to incorrect doctrine, immature in their faith, and hardened toward one another. Instead of being committed to God and each other, they had much to learn in shaping Christian character and sacrifice. Just as the Lego buildings I construct are not as solid as the ones Brooklyn builds, believers must be careful to build their life on the solid foundation of Christ. Jesus is the firm foundation that lasts. All else will fall away. If we choose to build a life upon fame, wealth, another person, culture, or however we define success, our life will not stand in eternity. When we stand before Him, God will determine through His sinless, sovereign mind whether each of us has been faithful to follow the instructions and guidelines set by Christ. Any honor and glory for salvation goes to God, as He alone saves. As we work for the Lord, we will not see what we view as equality in our journey on earth. Some believers will see great fruit from their work in this lifetime; some will not, but each person who sacrificially and obediently works for the Lord is seen equally by God. He will reward who and how He chooses. We do not know and cannot comprehend His plans. We must look only to what God calls us to do and step out to complete the tasks He poses for us as we keep our heart focused on obediently honoring and pleasing Him. As we labor for the Lord, I believe we must fix our eyes above. No matter what feels like drudgery or may be unpleasant, no matter whether we experience what we consider success or what this world calls failure, we have choices to make. 1. What foundation will we choose to build our life upon? 2. Will that foundation endure into eternity? Believers must also remember to ask ourselves: 1. Is what I am laying as my foundation pleasing to God? 2. Will I trust that God will bless what I allow Him to complete through my obedience for His purposes (even when I don’t see the fruit)? Matthew 9:37-38 says, “He said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into His harvest field.” Are you willing to labor for the Lord without seeing the outcome? 1 Corinthians 15:58 says, “Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” Do you trust His work? 1 Thessalonians 1:3 says, “We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” Are you inspired by Christ or this world? Colossians 1:28-29 says, “He is the One we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ. To this end I strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in me.” Do you allow Him to energize and strengthen you each moment? 1 Timothy 4:10 says, “That is why we labor and strive, because we have put our hope in the living God, who is the Savior of all people, and especially of those who believe.” Is your hope and trust in Christ? Philippians 2:16 says, “As you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain.” Are you looking forward to the day you will stand in front of Jesus? 2 Timothy 2:15 says, “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” Are you ready to humbly stand before God unashamed? 1 Timothy 1:12 says, “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength, that He considered me trustworthy, appointing me to His service.” Do you consider yourself appointed to His service? How does that affect your actions and decisions daily? Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Are you willing to continue to surrender each day? Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for Your glorious work within us. Thank You for the plans you have made for us and the salvation You established for us through Jesus. May each of us surrender more completely moment by moment, see ourselves through Your eyes, and come to follow You in deeper ways daily. Thank you for establishing good works through us and for allowing us to participate in Your work. May we allow you, the Master Builder access to our deepest parts as You continue to craft Yourself into our heart and mind. Oh, God, how we long to be fully Yours and to stand before You with humble joy one day and hear that You are pleased with the way we lived. May we be filled with hope, joy, and grace in light of our expectation of an eternity with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #076 – Direct Your Focus Last week I shared that my family is experiencing a difficult season. How I detest times like this, yet appreciate them at the same time. Why? Because I have lived long enough to know that the hardest times have stretched me beyond where I would cause my feet to travel. Jesus has carried me through the worst and the best moments in my life. While it would be amazing to live a perfectly happy life with no difficulties, the honest truth of this fallen world is that we are all alike. We will never find perfection. Life will continue to deliver painful blows. We are blessed when we recognize and remember that God already goes before us. Deuteronomy 1:30-31 says, “The Lord your God, who goes before you, will fight for you, just as you saw Him do for you in Egypt and in the wilderness, where the Lord your God carried you, as a man carries his son, all the way by which you traveled until you reached this place.” Oh, how I love the Lord! His ways are timeless! He is good. Intentionally place your full trust in Him. Direct your gaze Upward in every moment of life; not just when you think you need Him. I saw a Facebook post this week that reminds me of this truth. A mother was sending her child off to begin her life of “adulthood” and her heart is feeling multiple emotions! Understandably so. But the words that caught my attention were when she said that she prayed she had prepared her child enough for this world and that she guessed it was in God’s hands now. I am not singling out or judging what this mom spoke from her heart. Yet, as a follower of Christ who deeply desires to live in ways that honor God moment by moment and to always direct others to Jesus, I want to point out the fact that we must shift our thought process. Every moment of our life should already be in God’s hands. We should strive to grow so close to Him that our heart and mind are attuned to what the Father is calling us to submit to and release to Him moment by moment. We must seek to humble ourselves and submit to the Spirit within us, purposely allowing Christ to reign in our hearts and minds to eradicate self, more and more. How do we do this? The methods of a strong and maturing relationship with God through Jesus are basic. The difficulty comes in intentionally pursuing Him with a passionate mix of trust, hope, love, and faith that comes from seeking Him despite feelings and desires that get in the way and blind us to His truths. For example, if we feel far from God, or that He has abandoned us, that means we must draw nearer to Him. James 4:8 says, “Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world.” Never rely on feelings or thoughts, emotions or desires to direct your walk with Jesus. Psalm 73:28 says, “But as for me, it is good to draw near to God. I have made the Lord God my refuge, that I may proclaim all Your works.” Good Father, It is the prayer of my heart that every unpleasant moment or hardship I experience on this earth will do nothing but draw me ever nearer to You. I pray that is the same for each listener and for our loved ones. May we inhale the Spirit with every difficulty and exhale Jesus for all to experience and capture the delight and joy of the Lord. For You are good, despite our circumstances and pain, feelings or emotions. Help us to remember to draw near to You so that You will draw nearer to us. May we always be mindful that You are always a step ahead, providing the means for us to thrive in this world if we only place our constant hope and trust in You. In Your precious name we pray and plead. Amen. As I continue to rest in the Lord through this season, I want to mention a few of the past “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast episodes you may find helpful. Where are you right now? Are you ready to: Submit Your Heart? Episode 1 – Heart Conditions Protect Your Thoughts? Episode 2 – Protecting Our thoughts Strive for Obedience? Episode 3 – Obedience Prepare your child or grandchild to live for Him? Episode 7 – Equipping Children Submit emotions? Episode 38 – Who Master’s My Emotions As I continue to rest in the Spirit within and know that He has good plans for me and my family that will not harm us, but will bring us ever closer to Him, I will continue to encourage and equip you to find your rest in and through Jesus, as well. May our spirits ever long for Him and marvel at the ways He provides all we need, especially as we submit each moment into His capable hands. We don’t have to understand or agree with His ways, but we must purposely know Him so that we will willingly trust Him. Thank you, Jesus, for all You are and allow. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 076 Direct Your Focus Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #076 – Direct Your Focus Last week I shared that my family is experiencing a difficult season. How I detest times like this, yet appreciate them at the same time. Why? Because I have lived long enough to know that the hardest times have stretched me beyond where I would cause my feet to travel. Jesus has carried me through the worst and the best moments in my life. While it would be amazing to live a perfectly happy life with no difficulties, the honest truth of this fallen world is that we are all alike. We will never find perfection. Life will continue to deliver painful blows. We are blessed when we recognize and remember that God already goes before us. Deuteronomy 1:30-31 says, “The Lord your God, who goes before you, will fight for you, just as you saw Him do for you in Egypt and in the wilderness, where the Lord your God carried you, as a man carries his son, all the way by which you traveled until you reached this place.” Oh, how I love the Lord! His ways are timeless! He is good. Intentionally place your full trust in Him. Direct your gaze Upward in every moment of life; not just when you think you need Him. I saw a Facebook post this week that reminds me of this truth. A mother was sending her child off to begin her life of “adulthood” and her heart is feeling multiple emotions! Understandably so. But the words that caught my attention were when she said that she prayed she had prepared her child enough for this world and that she guessed it was in God’s hands now. I am not singling out or judging what this mom spoke from her heart. Yet, as a follower of Christ who deeply desires to live in ways that honor God moment by moment and to always direct others to Jesus, I want to point out the fact that we must shift our thought process. Every moment of our life should already be in God’s hands. We should strive to grow so close to Him that our heart and mind are attuned to what the Father is calling us to submit to and release to Him moment by moment. We must seek to humble ourselves and submit to the Spirit within us, purposely allowing Christ to reign in our hearts and minds to eradicate self, more and more. How do we do this? The methods of a strong and maturing relationship with God through Jesus are basic. The difficulty comes in intentionally pursuing Him with a passionate mix of trust, hope, love, and faith that comes from seeking Him despite feelings and desires that get in the way and blind us to His truths. For example, if we feel far from God, or that He has abandoned us, that means we must draw nearer to Him. James 4:8 says, “Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world.” Never rely on feelings or thoughts, emotions or desires to direct your walk with Jesus. Psalm 73:28 says, “But as for me, it is good to draw near to God. I have made the Lord God my refuge, that I may proclaim all Your works.” Good Father, It is the prayer of my heart that every unpleasant moment or hardship I experience on this earth will do nothing but draw me ever nearer to You. I pray that is the same for each listener and for our loved ones. May we inhale the Spirit with every difficulty and exhale Jesus for all to experience and capture the delight and joy of the Lord. For You are good, despite our circumstances and pain, feelings or emotions. Help us to remember to draw near to You so that You will draw nearer to us. May we always be mindful that You are always a step ahead, providing the means for us to thrive in this world if we only place our constant hope and trust in You. In Your precious name we pray and plead. Amen. As I continue to rest in the Lord through this season, I want to mention a few of the past “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast episodes you may find helpful. Where are you right now? Are you ready to: Submit Your Heart? Episode 1 – Heart Conditions Protect Your Thoughts? Episode 2 – Protecting Our thoughts Strive for Obedience? Episode 3 – Obedience Prepare your child or grandchild to live for Him? Episode 7 – Equipping Children Submit emotions? Episode 38 – Who Master’s My Emotions As I continue to rest in the Spirit within and know that He has good plans for me and my family that will not harm us, but will bring us ever closer to Him, I will continue to encourage and equip you to find your rest in and through Jesus, as well. May our spirits ever long for Him and marvel at the ways He provides all we need, especially as we submit each moment into His capable hands. We don’t have to understand or agree with His ways, but we must purposely know Him so that we will willingly trust Him. Thank you, Jesus, for all You are and allow. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 089 - Addressing the Top Fears of Christian Mothers with Godly Faith and Wisdom Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 089 – Addressing the Top Fears of Christian Mothers with Godly Faith and Wisdom Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother. Motherhood can bring out the best and worst in you. Would you agree? Many emotions push to the surface when a woman becomes a mother. Fear can be one that rises above others to the front of a woman’s mind once she’s responsible for the life of her beautiful, helpless child. So many pressures come with being a wife and mother – or even more, as a single mom. Psalm 94:19 says, “When the cares of my heart are many, Your consolations cheer my soul.” Praise God for this verse! It is a reminder that His consolations cheer our soul. There are times in life when every person needs The Father, our loving, sovereign God, to reach within our mind and lift fears or anxieties. Most believers understand that fear doesn't come from God, but there are times when fear pops up quickly and unexpectedly. When an accident occurs, a job loss hits, or a death occurs, fear can quickly consume thoughts, if you let them. God desires a different way of life for you than living with fear. He calls you to look to Him for release and guidance. He wants to guard you as a parent, providing a perfect peace that passes understanding. Where are you in this season of life? Whether you have no fears or you are battling many, know that where you are - will not be where you stay. Of course, you may be walking a beautiful and dependent relationship with Christ. You may have surrendered fear or anxieties and live in perfect peace. However, you are human. You live in an imperfect world. Never forget the guard that surrounds you is your strength. You alone are not capable of living in perfect peace. You must keep your eyes, mind, and heart fixed on God. 1 Peter 5:5b-11 says, “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble. Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To Him be the power for ever and ever. Amen. ” Women face many pressures in today’s society that cause fear, anxiety, or stress. Working moms often face little time for self-interests or exercise. Perhaps you desire to get to church or to volunteer, but can’t find a way to shift your schedule to do so. Or it may be challenging to get time alone with your husband. At times you may feel like you can’t manage time to do what you want to at all. It seems the weekend is over before it even starts. Will the busy work week always manage your life? Time at home is short. Often husbands don’t help around the house. Frustration can build and turn into anxiety that often becomes anger. As much as a mom loves her man and children, it can be difficult to feel like there’s enough time to spend with him or the kids. Quality over quantity loses its charm when you know a few minutes at night between greeting them after work, fixing and eating dinner, cleaning the kitchen, homework, and getting ready for bed simply isn’t enough. Real connection seems to be a fleeting fantasy. Between managing technology and keeping kids safe online and in the “real world,” navigating phones, gaming, and social media rules with kids, finding time to communicate with pre-teens and teens when you’re not ready to head to bed, understanding what your kids are exposed to by peers, helping your children navigate teasing and bullying, helping your children learn to be kind and not go with the kids who bully, and how to maintain a sense of worthiness, esteem, and identity in your children in a shifting world, can be exhausting at the very least. Then to top things off, sometimes a mom feels bullied by other women, mom-shamed, or betrayed by people she thought were her friends. Stay-at home and work-from home moms face many of the same worries and distractions in their days. Time may be shifted and activities different, but all Christian moms face similar concerns about raising safe and godly children. Without a purposed plan for parenting that provides a mother with strength that comes from Christ, life can be difficult, lonely, and fearful. Unless a woman seeks God first, builds a strong identity in Christ, and intentionally becomes a woman set-apart for Him, she cannot raise godly children who pursue the Father. She is without the strength, wisdom, insight, and understanding she needs to navigate the concerns she carries in this 21st century. Did you know that when fear, anxiety, or stress flows through you, it means you have taken your mind and eyes off of God? Instead, you have unknowingly centered them on self or surroundings instead of Savior . Every time I have felt fear even begin to touch me I stop and focus on Jesus (and in my mind I actually picture blinders on my face that force my vision upwards on God). As I rest in His presence and pray to Him about the situation I am fearing, He takes the burden and calms any fears. It is said that God leaves the message “Do not fear” 365 times in the Bible. I'm not sure whether that is an accurate count, but I trust that the Lord gives us the command for daily use because He knows our thoughts can easily be distracted. He knows how easily we move from His sovereign holiness and perfect provision and protection. Do you want to feel the perfect peace that can only come from God despite what you are facing in life? I’ll share seven steps you can use to help conquer fears with godly faith and wisdom: 1. Pause People Pleasing – Sometimes fear comes from the expectations others place on you . You have the power to stop them from placing demands on you. Remember, the only one you need to focus on pleasing is God. He will direct your steps and light your path with His will, purpose, and perfect plan. He desires good, not evil in your life and home. He will never lead you astray as you put your hope and trust in Him. Matthew 6:34 says, “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble .” Ask God to erase expectations of others that are not in His plan. Pray for Him to show you ways to take yourself out of the demands of others and strive to please Him. 2. Break Rules – Sometimes fear forms when you attempt to follow every rule laid out for you – whether it be self-imposed or by a husband or employer. Praise God! He freed you from following the old rules through Jesus. Don’t be entrapped by new ones. As long as you mature your walk with Him and follow His desires for you, He will not lead you astray. Often, women are harder on themselves than anyone else could be. Prayerfully check to see if there are rules you’ve imposed on yourself that need to be lifted or adjusted. Psalm 118:6 says, “The LORD is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me ?” Maybe you’ve been told you have to cook every meal in your home. Maybe you think you can’t take time to play with the kids or enjoy a walk with your husband. Do you think your home has to be perfectly clean? Break those rules and enjoy life. You only get one. Your kid will grow up before you know it. Make the memories they take with them be the ones full of life and love with you. 3. Be Unique – Often fear can come from trying to be someone other than you were created to be. Are you trying to please everyone but God? Are you attempting to follow every identity you think must be imposed on you because you’re a wife and mother? Instead, look at your life and prayerfully seek where you may not be being “you.” Maybe you’re making life harder by trying to be what others expect instead of who you can excel at being – yourself. Job 11:18-19a says, “You will be secure, because there is hope; you will look about you and take your rest in safety. You will lie down, with no one to make you afraid .” Sometimes dreams have to wait until your kids are a little older, or perhaps God will make a way for that desire you have to happen now. Lean into your relationship with Him and seek what He calls for you. His Word never lies and it tells us that what He has planned for you is greater than anything you can imagine on your own. 4. Eliminate Excuses – Often fear arises when you feel you can’t handle what is expected of you. Maybe you think you’re not talented enough, smart enough, brave enough, experienced enough, etc. Or maybe you aren’t getting enough support from your spouse, parents, friends, or employer and you may be correct. If after sharing your feelings, things aren’t changing in ways that benefit your needs and the needs of your family, know that there truly is one who cares. God. Have you cried out to Him? Are you placing trust in His capable hands? Are you praying Scriptural prayers about your situation? Is your attitude godly with those who are disappointing you? Forget blame and forge ahead with faith that no matter what happens, you will get through in the Father’s strength. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid .” Have a heart to heart with your husband and let him know your feelings. Pray together and seek how he can begin to help. If he refuses, seek a good friend or family member who can step in when needed to alleviate some of your burdens. Be creative and ask God what changes He would desire you to make. 5. Don’t Dawdle – Do you find yourself frozen with fear or anxiety? Get help. Sometimes women hide that they need help because they don’t want to be seen as weak, incompetent, or a failure. Typically, women are hardest on themselves. Confide in those you trust and allow them to help. First, confide in God and seek His direction. Ask Him to help you change the areas and mindset you need to - and see yourself and your situation as He does. Ask for His direction in areas of parenting that may be worrisome. He know your children, your home, your limitations, and the crazy culture we live in. He knows the way. Listen for His voice and take obedient action. Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.” God knows the situations you face. Whether it be parenting questions, marital issues, or job/home concerns, He has the answers you seek. God created you and your family as unique individuals. Your children are not the same as each other or anyone else’s children. Make the time to learn what makes them tick. Discover how God made them. Don’t be afraid to tell them no when needed. They need you to make decisions that will guide them in a godly upbringing. Teach them through relationship with Christ, it is good to be different - to be set-apart. In fact, God requires it. 6. Pursue Positivity – As a mom, you always have little ears, eyes, and hearts following and watching you. Your reactions and habits form theirs . Obviously, you can’t be perfect, but through Christ working within you, He will give you the ability to be transformed moment by moment. Submit to Him. Call on His mighty power to craft a new attitude and mindset within you that recognizes fear or anxiety the moment it rears its ugly head in your life. Psalm 115:11 says, “You who fear the LORD, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield.” Protect and preserve the faith of your children as they see the way you lift fears, hurts, anxiety, and the like to their Heavenly Father. Help them trust in Him and know that He is real. Help them believe His power and call on it as they mature. 7. Form Flourishing Faith - Above all, no matter what you feel, remember that you need to process those feelings, not stuff them down or hide them. Present them to God and humbly submit to what and where He leads. You may find that you are already in alignment with God and He will carry you through. Or you may see that you are far from His desires for you and need His guidance and growth to get you where you need to go. Your feelings and emotions are powerful, but sometimes they can be powerfully incorrect . Let God help you see where you are and where you need to go. Let Him carry you there as you form a faith that flourishes. Psalm 56:3 says, “When I am afraid, I put my trust in You .” Seek God first. Even when you feel you don’t have time. He carries the answers you need. Breathe Him in. Trust in and rely on Him. You can’t exhale what you haven’t inhaled. As you navigate life, place God first and family second. God honors the one who correctly prioritizes life by honoring Him. When you are with your husband and children, remember that even when time is short, the intentionality of your interactions matter. Your children and spouse need to see joy in your eyes, reactions, tone of voice, and body language when they enter the room. God has gifted you with a family to grow with and to love as He loves you. Honor them by learning to be a set-apart woman with eyes, mind, and heart centered above. As your children grow, do you want them to live with fear or faith ? Show them the example they need to grasp the hope and peace that is in Christ. Help them find faith that carries them past fear while they are young. If you feel frustrated that you don't have time alone, remember God's direction in prioritizing Him, then spouse, then kids. Let Him know the desires of your heart and ask Him for a way to reeive the self-care you need. Put Him first and see the ways He intimately provides for you. Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are Lord. You alone are our sustainer and rock, our guide and guard. Oh, Father. How we need You. While our humanness seeks to go on our own, our soul cries out for You. Help us step into and remain in the palm of Your mighty hands. Cradle us against Your chest so we never want to leave. Show us the way to raise safe and godly children who know, pursue, and love you. Help us not to fear, but to rest. Help us not carry anxiety, but trust in Youi. Make us more like You each moment. We thank you for your grace, mercy, and everlasting love. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Have you heard me talk about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast? Do you wonder why I share it so often? It’s simply because I know the program works . Through 8 weeks of one-on-one and group coaching, along with Scripturally-based materials I provide, you will complete 8 steps that include the following: Seek God First, Establish Identity, Teach Truth, A Set-Apart Woman, Parent Set-Apart Kids, Arm for Battle, Relationships, and Training. What you learn and solidify in your personal life will directly affect the way you serve God and parent for Him. It will help you construct godly confidence and esteem through Christ in your children. If you’re ready to invest in the future of your children, contact me at info@terrihitt.com for more details or visit terrihitt.com/setapart. Because you are a podcast listener, let me know you heard about the special price I’m offering you. I seriously want you to experience results and live a set-apart life with a set-apart family. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Why? Because supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make your matter for eternity. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. 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If you're a good mom who desires to become a godly mom and raise kids to chase Christ over culture, you've found the right place. You were never called to perform your way into good motherhood. You were called to abide in Christ and allow Him to transform you into a godly woman and mother. Instead, you strive. You carry pressure. You worry about your children’s futures. But God never asked you to chase the world’s definition of good. He calls you to rest in Him, to be formed by Him, and to parent from His strength, not your own. I equip women to walk that Way, anchoring their identity in Christ so their motherhood flows from His truths. GOD IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS God reveals Himself through Scripture, in the Old Testament and New Testament. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to bear the weight of our sin, and through the death and resurrection of Jesus, we are offered hope, not fear. Our eternity is secure when we place our trust in Him. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 080 - The Power of Using Scripture in Parenting - A Guide for Christian Parents Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 080 – The Power of Using Scripture in Parenting: A Guide for Christian Parents Oh my goodness! I still clearly remember that day I walked out of the local mall with my one year old screaming at the top of her lungs. I forced myself to casually push the stroller instead of running out like I wanted to. The shrillness and volume of her screams combined with the fact that we’re different races, made me concerned someone might think I was kidnapping her. I expected someone to confront me as I made my way out of the mall, and I wondered how I would convince them I was the mother and my girl was usually very happy. I hoped I had pictures of us together in my purse, as at that time I didn’t own a cell phone that held photos. That afternoon we’d been at the mall play area for quite a while. It was past my daughter’s naptime, but she had such fun playing with other children that I let her stray off schedule. When I told her it was time to go and lifted her into the stroller, she did the one thing I hadn’t yet experienced when raising my first two. She began screaming and stiffening her body so I couldn’t easily get her into the stroller. Once I got her in, I thought she’d calm down when I began pushing her away. Instead, the movement made the screaming worse. She didn’t hear me when I tried to soothe and talk to her. Her cries were now a matter of will and exhaustion. It was like ripping a band-aid off. I needed to get out of that mall quickly. Escape was foremost on my mind. As I drove home, her screams continued. I tried talking to her, singing to her, playing music. Nothing I did stopped her cries. I had already tried to soothe her, so I kept driving. About the time we pulled into the driveway, she fell asleep. After a long nap, she awakened to her usual cheery self. I have never looked at mothers of disobedient children in the same way. There’s now a camaraderie. I know that when I see when her child disobey or cause a scene in public I’m just witnessing a portion of the story. I don’t know the child’s background, what has happened in the past, nothing. I just see that there’s another mother who just wishes her child would obey. Are you wondering why I’m sharing this story? The world teaches you to raise children who are well-behaved, good citizens . Our Heavenly Father calls you to parent with a higher objective. God calls you to raise children who love Him and are called according to His purpose. He calls you to raise godly kids, not good kids. It’s true. Parents want kids who obey. No one likes to be the embarrassed mom everyone is staring at because her children are acting up in public. Somehow, society expects children to be perfect, although we know they’re not. Neither are adults, and we know we were never perfect kids. Of course, children must be lovingly trained in the way they should go, but just as adults still make mistakes or bad decisions, our children are learning and growing, and they will, too. Instead of raising children with the goal of teaching them to perfectly obey us , we must parent with the purpose of raising children who obey the Lord . When your children love and trust Jesus, you will receive a beautiful by-product as they love and obey You, as well. First, however, you must be intentional in raising children to obey God and honor Him . Children need parents who understand they are raising imperfect humans sent from God to be raised for His glory . That means you must remember that the discipline you give is to be crafted with the purpose of molding godly character traits and drawing your children to Christ . Remember, the behavior your children exhibit exposes the condition of their heart. So, how do you cultivate the soil of your child’s heart to be ready for the seeds you will sow for Christ? How do you instill behavior that honors God and you? The answer is simple, but takes dedication and consistency. It’s the way you live for Christ and show Him through your words, desires, actions, and reactions. The way you prioritize Jesus and live a lifestyle of humble love and service to Him , instead of just saying you follow Christ. It’s several purposed steps that build a life that honors Jesus . Using godly discipleship and the Bible as your parenting guide as you build and mature a connection with Christ and your child allows you to address behaviors your children express. As you observe their tendencies, actions, words, and desires, you see a glimpse into the condition of their heart. Use this insight to keep you focused on forming behavior and characteristics that are pleasing to God. Guide your children into His arms as you teach them to also recognize ungodly character traits and grow a relationship with Christ to transform behavior. Would you like to know the most powerful tool to influence your child’s behavior? Scripture. God’s powerful, holy Word cultivates godly character. In yourself and your child. I’ll share three powerful truths to remember as you parent with the purpose of cultivating Christlike character traits in your children. 1. Display the qualities you want your child to possess. 2. Don’t ignore character and behaviors that need to be addressed and corrected. 3. Train your child in God’s truths. This allows you to instill characteristics needed to build a godly foundation for future behaviors and decisions. Scripture has power to guide you and transform each of these areas in your life and the lives of your children. While parenting two sets of children over two generations, God has brought my attention to the importance of using Scripture to influence the behavior of my children. The most memorable and impactful ways I have found are: 1. Bible – Read and know God’s Word so you have a strong foundation to build the godly groundwork for your children to build a house of faith and obedience. Self-help books, parenting guides, advice from others, and punishment are weak in comparison to the wisdom God offers in His holy Word. The Bible addresses every concern a parent carries. Studying God’s Word prepares you, your spouse, and your family for a lifestyle of devotion to Him. As your character is transformed, you are better equipped to disciple the behavior of your children. 2. Song – Even if you’re not a singer, singing God’s Word is a memorable way to teach your children Biblical truths from a young age. The power of Scripture and music combined will trigger another method of memorization in the minds of your children. As they get older, music with Scripturally based-lyrics bring truths they will sing and remember. 3. Prayers – Praying Scripture with and for your children is a powerful blessing. Teaching your children to pray Scripture helps them recognize another way to remember and use God’s Word in ways that honor Him and uses His power in ways they will see and remember. 4. Lifestyle – The way you live, the music you listen to, what you read, what you desire, etc., should all reflect what you say you believe about God. Your words, actions, and reactions should mirror the ways God would call you to act. As you use Scripture to form your personal character and beliefs, your child will see God at work within you and know that you live , not just preach a lifestyle devoted to Jesus . 5. Discussions – Don’t neglect using life moments as they arise. Each day brings moments you can capture and utilize for planting godly seeds and nurturing what you have sown. Keep your ears, eyes, and heart open to opportunities. Let your discussions be personal ways to connect with your child or children and allow God to mold you as He works through them. Don’t make the moments preaching sessions, but a sharing of God in natural ways that will shape their heart and relationship with you and their Heavenly Father. I’ve compiled several Scripture verses and passages to show you the power of using God’s Word in your habits, training, and prayers so you can mold His character and beliefs in your children. If you want your children to have wisdom that comes from God, remember Proverbs 3:7 which says, “Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil .” As you train and correct your children, remember you are discipling them. Teach them that human wisdom falls short of God’s wisdom. As they learn God’s truths and remember that His ways are higher than ours and that wisdom as this world teaches it is opposite of God’s, they will learn to detect what is truly wise with your direction. If you want your children to love like Jesus, remember Deuteronomy 6:5 which says, “Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.” Teach them to love God first, then others in the ways He loves. If you want your children to live with gratitude that is pleasing to God, remember Psalm 118:24 which says, “This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it .” Teach them that each moment, each day is a blessing from God. No matter the circumstances, they are to trust and keep faith that God is using their daily happenings for His purposes and for their good if they love Him and are called according to His purpose. If you want your children to live with integrity , remember Proverbs 10:9 which says, “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out .” Teach them that God is always present. Humans may not know the things others do in secret, but God does. He knows their thoughts, sees their actions, and loves them. Yet, in all His holiness, God doesn’t want them to stay the way they are. He has a better way for them to live. Then live out integrity in ways they see. Talk about decisions you have made to live with integrity pleasing to God, not to make yourself look good, but to show them how God is your guiding source of light and life. Point out times they have made godly choices. Give them scenarios and help them find answers or solutions that are pleasing to God. If your want your children to live with trust in God, remember 1 Peter 5:7 which says, “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” Teach them how God has carried you, your spouse, and the family. Let them know He cares about every detail. He is a personal and intimate God who wants to take care of their every need. If you want your children to live a life of obedience , remember Ephesians 6:1-3 which says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother—which is the first commandment with a promise—so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth .” As you train them to love and obey God, they will also love and obey You. As you can see, it is easy to choose Scripture to form character and behavior. As you know and trust God’s Word, you are able to use it as you disciple your child in life and choices. Teach them about these characteristics before situations arise so that godly character is beginning to form inside them before they need to use them. As I share the following verses, remember to look for opportunities to use the verse or teaching behind it in daily life. Communication with God and your children is vital to forming lives pleasing to God. If you want your children to live a life of surrender to God, remember Philippians 4:13 which says, “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” If you want your children to live a life of generosity , remember Luke 6:31 which says, “Do to others as you would like them to do to you .” If you want your children to live a life of abundant love , remember Romans 12:10 which says, “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other .” If you want your children to live a life of forgiveness, knowing they are forgiven and forgiving others, remember Ephesians 4:32 which says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you .” If you want your children to live a life of contentedness, remember Philippians 4:11 which says, “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances .” Here are more Scriptures and the characteristics they can help you to disciple for your children. Think of characteristics you want your children to carry or qualities you observe they need help with. Forbearance - Proverbs 15:1 says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Mindset - Ephesians 4:23 says, “Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes .” Kindness - Proverbs 11:17 says, “Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves .” Faithfulness - Proverbs 20:6 says, “Most men will proclaim each his own goodness, But who can find a faithful man?” Humility - Mark 10:44 says, “And whoever wants to be first must be slave of all .” Godliness - Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law .” Pure Faith - Matthew 15:8 says, “These people honor Me with their lips, but their hearts are far from Me .” Teachable - Hebrews 12:5-6 says, “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastens everyone He accepts as His son .” Endurance - Hebrews 12:11 says, “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it .” John 15:5-7 says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in Me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in Me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you .” As you pray for a life that beautifully mentors Jesus to your children and spouse, and humbly ask God for His mercy and guidance to flow from You as you disciple and raise your children for Him, He will honor your prayers in extraordinary ways that will last for eternity. Remember, the world tells us to raise good kids who obey. God calls for you to raise godly children who obey Him. Your walk matters. Relationship with Jesus and a maturing walk with Him makes a difference. Surrender to the Lord so you will mentor Christ to the children He entrusted to you. Use opportunities to discuss the qualities you desire them to carry, such as fruits of the spirit. Use books, movies, school assignments, life situations, sporting events, and more to capture moments you can impress God’s desires for them and the way to develop these life skills. Show them in the way you use the characteristics. Bring attention to times you have to be long-suffering or forgiving. Read Bible stories highlighting characteristics your child exhibits or needs work in. There are many creative ways to pray for, show, and teach your child how to desire and develop godly qualities that will last for a lifetime. You can bet that in the days after our loud mall exit, we began reading specific verses and stories about listening and obeying parents. We prayed together about honoring mother and father. Even before she grasped the full understanding of what I was teaching, she was receiving a message that rooted in her heart. I also remembered not to exasperate my child and be more aware of not exciting and tiring her beyond what she could endure for her age. As you work with your children under God’s sovereign guidance, expect beautiful and godly results for each of you. Dear Heavenly Father, You entrusted Your children to us for this time. You know we are unable to raise children for You without Your strength and direction. Thank you for Your holy Word, which is a lamp for our feet and a light for our path. Only Your wisdom and love can guide Your children to Your arms. Please lend it to us. We need You so much and humbly bow before You in gratitude and awe. Thank you for depositing the Holy Spirit inside us to lead and love, guide and guard us and our children. Only through You can we become new each moment and show our children the characteristics they need to live a life called by You. Help us to clearly identify the behaviors and traits we must nurture for You and show us the way to mentor You in loving, respectful, and honoring ways. Thank you for entrusting us with sacred responsibility. Help us parent in ways that honor and bless You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 011 - Roots of Wisdom Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #011 – Roots of Wisdom Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. My favorite time of year has finally arrived with the weather I love! Spring and the promise of new birth, growth, and warmer weather is such a beautiful season. Although I love fresh air and my walks with one of my daughters, I don’t get out in my yard much. We’ve never been able to grow grass and when it rains a lot like it has this spring, being in our yard means you’re wading in a mud pit. Years ago I discovered that we will probably never have a beautiful yard. Maybe you are one of the people who have thick, beautiful grass that invites you to remove your shoes and walk barefoot safely without stepping on sticks, rocks, or dirt clumps, and you have no idea what it is like to navigate mud or water puddles. I doubt that you are like me with a yard that just cannot grow grass and invites any mole within a two mile radius to settle in for the long haul. My husband and I have had a few discussions about what must be attracting the moles to our yard. Since we have been unable to get rid of them, I often say we just need to figure out the root cause. Then we should be able to begin the journey to finally getting rid of the destructive rodents. The same is true of our children. No matter the type of behavior we see, there is a root cause that has built a foundation for acceptable behavior or a root cause that is prompting the objectionable actions. I believe the children of this generation are bombarded with way too much and roots are growing inside them that will reflect in shown behavior now or in the future. Many children see too much through electronics, accidentally exposing them to pornography, or they may be subjected to online issues on social platforms with strangers seeking them as targets. Schools and universities have been indoctrinating our children for years and the lies they feed them about sexuality, our country, and the sanctity of life are eroding and/or destroying the innocence and beliefs God would have them carry. There is so much to be said on this topic, but I believe the root cause of the destruction of America and godly values this country was founded upon stems back to the condition of our hearts. Unless we purposely examine our relationship with God and our beliefs about Him, then honestly explore what we are doing to draw nearer to our Heavenly Father if we profess to love Him, our choices and inaction will further indoctrinate our children with the belief that God is not important and He is not worth placing first in our life. If this is the message our children see and feel by our inactions and attitude, this is the action they will mimic, despite what our words instruct them to do. Obviously there are many root causes to behavior, but as the Bible instructs us in Luke 6:45 , “The good man brings good things out of the good treasure of his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil treasure of his heart. For out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.” When the heart of a mother is full of the truthful goodness of God, built through a personal, growing relationship with Jesus, the overflow will pour into the heart of her children . Does this mean that every day will be smooth for Christian mothers or their children? Goodness, no! In fact, it will probably be harder in many ways. Think of Job in the Bible. Satan targeted Job because of the relationship he had with God. There will be trials, especially if you hold fast to God. Evilness and destruction are the trademark of Satan. Scripture warns us in 1 Peter 5:8 “Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour .” In future episodes of Purposed Parent/Connected Child, I want to delve more into behavioral root causes, and how that behavior may manifest, but for now I want to start at the basic truth of the condition of our human heart. I am beginning a Scriptural Summer Series that will air on this podcast, as well as my Live With Eternal Perspective episodes. People are out and about and often so busy during the summer months. I know we are as I try to enjoy every second of the gorgeous weather I look forward to all winter! As I read from the Bible of the podcasts, I pray God’s word will penetrate each of us where we need Him most. I also hope that hearing His word will prompt each of us to seek Him more often and begin a regular reading plan if one doesn’t already exist. Today I would like to start in Proverbs 4. Let this reading prompt you to look up these verses in study Bible and continue learning more on your own. Another suggestion I love to give is to let this selection of verses lead you to a discussion together as a family, or at the very least as mother to children. Proverbs 4:1-27 speaks to the blessing of wisdom. We know true and lasting wisdom only comes from God. Through seeking and walking closely with God because of our personal relationship with Jesus, we come to know and recognize what comes from God and what does not. Without godly wisdom that comes from reading, studying, and practicing God’s word, we are unable to recognize or handle root causes in our own life and the lives of our children. Ignorance and inaction leads to sin and troubles. Every parent needs the wisdom our Heavenly Father wants to supply in abundance if we only ask. “ Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction; pay attention and gain understanding. For I give you sound teaching; do not abandon my directive. When I was a son to my father, tender and the only child of my mother, he taught me and said, “Let your heart lay hold of my words; keep my commands and you will live. Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn from them. Do not forsake wisdom, and she will preserve you; love her, and she will guard you. Wisdom is supreme; so acquire wisdom. And whatever you may acquire, gain understanding. Prize her, and she will exalt you; if you embrace her, she will honor you. She will set a garland of grace on your head; she will present you with a crown of beauty.” Listen, my son, and receive my words, and the years of your life will be many. I will guide you in the way of wisdom; I will lead you on straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be impeded; when you run, you will not stumble. Hold on to instruction; do not let go. Guard it, for it is your life. Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evildoers. Avoid it; do not travel on it. Turn from it and pass on by. For they cannot sleep unless they do evil; they are deprived of slumber until they make someone fall. For they eat the bread of wickedness and drink the wine of violence. The path of the righteous is like the first gleam of dawn, shining brighter and brighter until midday. But the way of the wicked is like the darkest gloom; they do not know what makes them stumble. My son, pay attention to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Do not lose sight of them; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and health to the whole body. Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life. Put away deception from your mouth; keep your lips from perverse speech. Let your eyes look forward; fix your gaze straight ahead. Make a level path for your feet, and all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your feet away from evil.” If we carefully search the verses I read, we recognize the setting of a family in verses 1-4. God ordained a family to be established by a man and a woman. Proverbs 4 is not the only book in the Bible that reveals this truth. That statement isn’t popular and is often attacked violently today, however I believe Christian parents have the duty to seek, find, and follow God’s wisdom and teach it lovingly to our children. Society twists the desires of man into whatever shape feels good. Unless we raise our children to revere and honor God, they will follow more and more fleshly ambitions and our children will soon be unrecognizable as they develop ungodly desires and actions due to ignorance and indoctrination. Sharing the truths of God and what He knows is good and proper for us to follow and practice is not condemning. We can love those who do not follow God’s word, but we cannot allow our children to be influenced by remaining silent or succumbing to allowing them to follow others into the pain and heartache that results from sinning against God. The verses I read from Proverbs 4 also reveal to us that obtaining wisdom means realizing that no one carries it in the beginning; only God can provide it to us as we humbly seek Him. God shows no favoritism; anyone who seeks Him, asking for His wisdom, studying His word, and practicing His ways will obtain it. Without the wisdom that comes from our Heavenly Father, each of us is lost. We stumble in our own sinful, ignorant, willful ways causing pain and destruction when we could live with abundant joy, hope, and peace instead. Because our heart is wicked, we cannot achieve the wisdom of God on our own and we definitely do not receive it all at once. Every moment reveals choices we must make, actions we can take that honor God and His desires for us. When we listen to the will and ways of God, we must open our heart, mind, and spirit, then make the choice to forgo pride and stubbornness to allow Him full reign of our emotions, actions, and reactions. That is when true wisdom will be passed to us to hold as treasure and teacher as our walk with God deepens and our behavior is eternally changed. As we continue in the ways of God, we will receive and recognize discernment from Him, then continue to receive that godly insight. One of the riches of obtaining God’s wisdom is that as we walk closely with the Lord, acknowledging and using His wisdom each day, we will be able to discern how to live. The decisions or choices we make will be protected choices God would have for us. If we stumble, we will also be able to discern quickly how to resolve issues or change course to remain steadfastly in the center of God’s good will. In contrast, those who do not seek the wisdom of God will continue falling into the wickedness of their heart or the ways of this world, living with pain and heartache that could have been avoided. I believe the root cause of wickedness and troubles in this world is the condition of our heart. Our children cannot obtain what we do not have to give. It is imperative that we purpose to know and honor God more each day. We never want to be the person we are today when tomorrow arrives. Don’t you desire the same for your children or grandchildren? What we are today shapes who our children become tomorrow. Remember the words of Proverbs 4:13 , which says, “Carry out my instructions; don’t forget them, for they will lead you to real living .” Teach your children to honor God because they see Him in you and recognize the love and honor you hold for our Heavenly Father. Help them seek God’s instructions so lovingly revealed and shared with us so that we can each live for eternity while on earth today. Dear Heavenly Father, How good You are to us! You reveal all we need to know for living life under You. Thank you for allowing us grace and free reign. Thank you for entrusting us with Your wisdom if only we seek and ask. Father, I know each of us hurt You daily. Help us to turn from our wicked ways and humbly submit to You in new ways that draw our children nearer to You. May our character as a mother or parent reveal You so clearly that our children and grandchildren cannot help but please You. Our life is a journey of character development. Thank you for Your grace and patience with us. May we exhibit that to our children, yet remain steadfast in instructing them in Your godly ways. May we exhibit and teach your honesty, gratitude, joy, and peace. May our children receive Your fruits of the Spirit with confidence and character that shines You. May the roots they grow come from time spent with You and a parent who consistently seeks and follows Your will and ways. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you would like to hear more about the condition of our heart, the root of all issues, please listen to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast episode 001, Heart Conditions or episode 046, Maturing Character Like Christ. If you pray for your child, please look for my free ebook, “Prayers for My Child,” available on the website under the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scripturally-based prayer. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is now available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #050 – Jesus, Our Constant Hope Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Christmas 2020 is over. Did it meet your expectations? Was it everything you hoped for? Or was your holiday a disappointment? Unfortunately, in our human condition, we sometimes place expectations on our life that unless met, ruin our joy. The older I get, the more I try to live with the purpose of following and maturing in Jesus each day. Any difficulties or “unexpected blessings” that come in the course of the day are a way to help me accomplish that goal because they force me to look up, even when I may not feel like it. Have I arrived? Do I live perfectly? No. Definitely not! I’m human and I never want to leave the impression that I think I have all the perfect answers and responses to life. Yet, I strive to humbly bow to the Father with intention and purpose daily and I deeply desire to be altered moment by moment as I look and cling to Him. During my life, I’ve experienced holiday plans that didn’t work as I hoped, disappointment over not receiving a gift I desired, or worse, not seeing someone dear to me on a holiday. I’ve grieved loved ones who should have been at our dinner table or sitting around the tree with us. I’ve been pierced by the deep pain that comes from decorating the Christmas tree with unique ornaments full of memories that once belonged to deceased loved ones and continue to hang the stocking of a child who will never be with us again. You have no doubt experienced some or all of these things, too. Our human experience contains many pains that only Jesus can heal. I’ve found after many years, that when I purposely release expectations and place my hope in the Lord, I find true peace, joy, hope, and calm through His plans. When things don’t work out as I wanted or thought they should, I find I already have everything I really needed. Even in my darkest moments of life, when situations have been out of my control and there seemed to be no hope, I learned that when I keep my gaze locked on God and remain steadfastly hoping in Him, His grace and provisions are perfect and sufficient for my needs. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.” Amen! I have found this verse to be so accurate! I consider myself to be a strong person, but as I have matured in my faith and relationship with God through Jesus, I have learned that my true strength is His. My confidence, strength of mind and character, anything worthy in me is a result of the Holy Spirit living inside me and the transformations have come from that. When I make mistakes, it is the result of following my own flesh or letting my eyes slip from Him. Psalm 39:7 gives the best response we can offer in life. It says, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.” Did you know that the word, hope is used over 140 times in the Bible? Of course, it depends on which translation you use, but the fact is that God knew we would need assurance and encouragement to remain hopeful. He lovingly provides it through His word. Our Heavenly Father always walks ahead of us, and we recognize Him if we remain focused on Him, study and remember His words and guidance, and accept the provisions He places before us. We use the word, hope as something we believe strongly on, or put trust in, it means something we rely on, or feel will happen. Hope lifts us when we are down, gives us comfort and trust for the future, changes attitudes, helps us to envision a better future, or enables us to accomplish tasks because we see a chance for improvement. Hope is a powerful word that, like love, is defined by God, the author of life. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Anyone can hope, but those who put their faith in the Lord access authentic and omnipotent faith, confidence, and optimism. Our Heavenly Father is the author of hope. When we are His, we are able to rise above mere hope as the world sees it. The greatest hope you and I have is the assurance offered through Jesus Christ. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Faith is the mechanism that allows the things we hope for to become fact and allows us to carry bold confidence about our future. Because God is perfectly holy and unchangeable, we have assurance that His promises are true. Our hope becomes faith, which develops assurance in our faithful God. Because of the assurance we receive from God through Jesus, we can live with constant and unshakable hope. The book of Romans clearly shows us the righteousness of God, how He reveals His righteousness in this world through Jesus, and why that good news must be shared. Jesus is our hope in this broken and dark world. In Him we place our trust, hope, faith, and find our assurance. Although this is a long passage of scripture, I want to read the truths found in Romans, Chapter 8, verses 1-39. In this, we find all we need to infuse us with the true and lasting hope, assurance, and confidence required to complete the glorious life we have been gifted in this world and live with confident joy. As I read, please listen for many glorious truths and promises, which include: 1. There is absolutely no condemnation for those who are saved through Jesus Christ – we are free from the power of sin and death! 2. Our hope has become assurance. Jesus offered us with secure salvation through His sacrifice. 3. We are no longer slaves to our flesh. Our sinful desires have no control over us any longer. 4. Through Jesus, we stand unafraid before God as adopted sons and daughters of our Father. We are now God’s children and heirs. This spirit of adoption also releases us from the spirit of bondage to sin. 5. Now sharing in glory, we also share suffering, as Jesus did. 6. Our suffering is only for a time, as we eagerly await the day we are released from sin and suffering forever. 7. We have received the Holy Spirit within us as a deposit toward future glory with Christ. 8. Within us lives a helper who constantly searches our heart and intercedes when we have no words to express our thoughts and needs. 9. God is for us, causing all to work for good for those who love Him and are called according to his purpose, despite what happens in this world and despite how we feel. 10. If God is for us, no one can be against us. Jesus Himself is at the Father’s right hand, pleading for us. 11. Absolutely nothing will ever separate us from the love of God. Let’s savor and reflect on these words from Romans 8 together now. “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. The law of Moses was unable to save us because of the weakness of our sinful nature. So God did what the law could not do. He sent his own Son in a body like the bodies we sinners have. And in that body God declared an end to sin’s control over us by giving His Son as a sacrifice for our sins. He did this so that the just requirement of the law would be fully satisfied for us, who no longer follow our sinful nature but instead follow the Spirit. Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God’s laws, and it never will. That’s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God. But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to Him at all.) And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, He will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. Therefore, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as His own children Now we call Him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are His children, we are His heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share His glory, we must also share His suffering. Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later. For all creation is waiting eagerly for that future day when God will reveal who His children really are. Against its will, all creation was subjected to God’s curse. But with eager hope, the creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. And we believers also groan, even though we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as His adopted children including the new bodies He has promised us. We were given this hope when we were saved. If we already have something, we don’t need to hope for it. But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently. And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. For God knew His people in advance, and He chose them to become like His Son, so that His Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, He called them to come to Him. And having called them, He gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, He gave them His glory. What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Since He did not spare even his own Son but gave Him up for us all, won’t He also give us everything else? Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for His own? No one—for God Himself has given us right standing with Himself. Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and He is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us. Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean He no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Father God, thank you for the truths You pack into Romans 8 for us to ponder and treasure. Thank you for Your sacrifice and the release and relief we receive through Jesus, Your Precious Son. Help our mind remember and our heart be transformed to become more like Yours each day. May we look toward eternity with eager anticipation of what is to come and make choices now that prepare us to meet You face to face while living with fullness of joy and shining You to all we meet where we are right now. Thank you that Jesus is our constant hope, our joy, our assurance. May we become more like Him daily. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 050 Jesus, Our Constant Hope Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #050 – Jesus, Our Constant Hope Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Christmas 2020 is over. Did it meet your expectations? Was it everything you hoped for? Or was your holiday a disappointment? Unfortunately, in our human condition, we sometimes place expectations on our life that unless met, ruin our joy. The older I get, the more I try to live with the purpose of following and maturing in Jesus each day. Any difficulties or “unexpected blessings” that come in the course of the day are a way to help me accomplish that goal because they force me to look up, even when I may not feel like it. Have I arrived? Do I live perfectly? No. Definitely not! I’m human and I never want to leave the impression that I think I have all the perfect answers and responses to life. Yet, I strive to humbly bow to the Father with intention and purpose daily and I deeply desire to be altered moment by moment as I look and cling to Him. During my life, I’ve experienced holiday plans that didn’t work as I hoped, disappointment over not receiving a gift I desired, or worse, not seeing someone dear to me on a holiday. I’ve grieved loved ones who should have been at our dinner table or sitting around the tree with us. I’ve been pierced by the deep pain that comes from decorating the Christmas tree with unique ornaments full of memories that once belonged to deceased loved ones and continue to hang the stocking of a child who will never be with us again. You have no doubt experienced some or all of these things, too. Our human experience contains many pains that only Jesus can heal. I’ve found after many years, that when I purposely release expectations and place my hope in the Lord, I find true peace, joy, hope, and calm through His plans. When things don’t work out as I wanted or thought they should, I find I already have everything I really needed. Even in my darkest moments of life, when situations have been out of my control and there seemed to be no hope, I learned that when I keep my gaze locked on God and remain steadfastly hoping in Him, His grace and provisions are perfect and sufficient for my needs. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.” Amen! I have found this verse to be so accurate! I consider myself to be a strong person, but as I have matured in my faith and relationship with God through Jesus, I have learned that my true strength is His. My confidence, strength of mind and character, anything worthy in me is a result of the Holy Spirit living inside me and the transformations have come from that. When I make mistakes, it is the result of following my own flesh or letting my eyes slip from Him. Psalm 39:7 gives the best response we can offer in life. It says, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.” Did you know that the word, hope is used over 140 times in the Bible? Of course, it depends on which translation you use, but the fact is that God knew we would need assurance and encouragement to remain hopeful. He lovingly provides it through His word. Our Heavenly Father always walks ahead of us, and we recognize Him if we remain focused on Him, study and remember His words and guidance, and accept the provisions He places before us. We use the word, hope as something we believe strongly on, or put trust in, it means something we rely on, or feel will happen. Hope lifts us when we are down, gives us comfort and trust for the future, changes attitudes, helps us to envision a better future, or enables us to accomplish tasks because we see a chance for improvement. Hope is a powerful word that, like love, is defined by God, the author of life. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Anyone can hope, but those who put their faith in the Lord access authentic and omnipotent faith, confidence, and optimism. Our Heavenly Father is the author of hope. When we are His, we are able to rise above mere hope as the world sees it. The greatest hope you and I have is the assurance offered through Jesus Christ. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Faith is the mechanism that allows the things we hope for to become fact and allows us to carry bold confidence about our future. Because God is perfectly holy and unchangeable, we have assurance that His promises are true. Our hope becomes faith, which develops assurance in our faithful God. Because of the assurance we receive from God through Jesus, we can live with constant and unshakable hope. The book of Romans clearly shows us the righteousness of God, how He reveals His righteousness in this world through Jesus, and why that good news must be shared. Jesus is our hope in this broken and dark world. In Him we place our trust, hope, faith, and find our assurance. Although this is a long passage of scripture, I want to read the truths found in Romans, Chapter 8, verses 1-39. In this, we find all we need to infuse us with the true and lasting hope, assurance, and confidence required to complete the glorious life we have been gifted in this world and live with confident joy. As I read, please listen for many glorious truths and promises, which include: 1. There is absolutely no condemnation for those who are saved through Jesus Christ – we are free from the power of sin and death! 2. Our hope has become assurance. Jesus offered us with secure salvation through His sacrifice. 3. We are no longer slaves to our flesh. Our sinful desires have no control over us any longer. 4. Through Jesus, we stand unafraid before God as adopted sons and daughters of our Father. We are now God’s children and heirs. This spirit of adoption also releases us from the spirit of bondage to sin. 5. Now sharing in glory, we also share suffering, as Jesus did. 6. Our suffering is only for a time, as we eagerly await the day we are released from sin and suffering forever. 7. We have received the Holy Spirit within us as a deposit toward future glory with Christ. 8. Within us lives a helper who constantly searches our heart and intercedes when we have no words to express our thoughts and needs. 9. God is for us, causing all to work for good for those who love Him and are called according to his purpose, despite what happens in this world and despite how we feel. 10. If God is for us, no one can be against us. Jesus Himself is at the Father’s right hand, pleading for us. 11. Absolutely nothing will ever separate us from the love of God. Let’s savor and reflect on these words from Romans 8 together now. “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. The law of Moses was unable to save us because of the weakness of our sinful nature. So God did what the law could not do. He sent his own Son in a body like the bodies we sinners have. And in that body God declared an end to sin’s control over us by giving His Son as a sacrifice for our sins. He did this so that the just requirement of the law would be fully satisfied for us, who no longer follow our sinful nature but instead follow the Spirit. Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God’s laws, and it never will. That’s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God. But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to Him at all.) And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, He will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. Therefore, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as His own children Now we call Him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are His children, we are His heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share His glory, we must also share His suffering. Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later. For all creation is waiting eagerly for that future day when God will reveal who His children really are. Against its will, all creation was subjected to God’s curse. But with eager hope, the creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. And we believers also groan, even though we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as His adopted children including the new bodies He has promised us. We were given this hope when we were saved. If we already have something, we don’t need to hope for it. But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently. And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. For God knew His people in advance, and He chose them to become like His Son, so that His Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, He called them to come to Him. And having called them, He gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, He gave them His glory. What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Since He did not spare even his own Son but gave Him up for us all, won’t He also give us everything else? Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for His own? No one—for God Himself has given us right standing with Himself. Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and He is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us. Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean He no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Father God, thank you for the truths You pack into Romans 8 for us to ponder and treasure. Thank you for Your sacrifice and the release and relief we receive through Jesus, Your Precious Son. Help our mind remember and our heart be transformed to become more like Yours each day. May we look toward eternity with eager anticipation of what is to come and make choices now that prepare us to meet You face to face while living with fullness of joy and shining You to all we meet where we are right now. Thank you that Jesus is our constant hope, our joy, our assurance. May we become more like Him daily. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 081 - Summer Fun - One Activity That Can Make a Big Difference for Your Child Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 081 – Summer Fun: One Activity That Can Make a Big Difference for Your Child Onions, green beans, strawberries, peppers…my youngest daughter loves each of these foods. My girl might be pocket-sized, but she has a big appetite! For a few years, she has wanted her own garden. We actually tried to care for a vegetable garden a couple of years ago, but the effort was a complete failure. My husband had helped my daughter plant seeds of her choice in a specific area of our yard, but it turned out to be way too shady for a garden. I take credit for the lack of success. I’m the one who selected the spot. Because we live in a neighborhood with an active HOA, I thought the area would work because the garden would be placed in ground that wasn’t highly visible. Because our daughter never let us forget her desire to garden, my husband chose the spot this year. In fact, he built her a garden area on the other side of the yard – one right out in the open and supported by full sun. So far, this garden is thriving. It’s doing well enough that we’re praying deer and rabbits don’t come eat everything God is growing. It's been a joy to hear my husband and daughter pray for their garden at night during family prayers. This week our daughter experienced weeding for the first time. She’s also been watering the garden well and collecting more roly polys for her indoor habitat. I enjoy seeing our youngest outdoors. She’s not one who likes to play outside. With health limitations, she can’t do much activity, and the sun, heat, and humidity take quiet a toll on her. Because she loves nature, she does like to go outside with her camera and specimen jars, collecting memories and documenting plants, animals, and insects at her pace and in the cooler times of the day. The garden helps her understand and appreciate nature at a deeper level as she works in the soil and experiences God work before her eyes as the plants flourish. With so many children and teens using electronics for great portions of the day, I am thankful for the choices and pace we choose, especially in the summer. As my youngest connects with nature, she also connects with God at a level my words can’t teach her. She actually experiences God at work in the ways she appreciates, because of the way He created her. She hears God more clearly and praises Him more vocally. I often remind her that when God created Adam and Eve, He placed them in a garden. We were meant to be outdoors. When I was a child, we played outside a lot. As I became a young mother, I didn’t take much time to be outdoors. My in-laws were big gardeners and lived in a home with five acres in the city. I didn’t really try to get outside there much, because of other things to do, but when I slowed down and walked their land, I always felt great peace. I believe God intentionally built each of us in this same way. Slowing down and connecting with Him, especially outdoors with our feet in the grass allows us a new connection that can’t help but sooth our spirit and lift our thoughts higher toward Him. Last year at about this time, my other daughter was watering plants at a neighbor’s yard. I remember watching her as she moved around the perimeter of the gardens. There, I saw a decorative metal pinwheel. When the wind blew gently, the blade slowly moved, but when the wind increased, the pinwheel quickly spun without stopping for a several minutes. The action of that cute garden accessory brought to my mind how challenging life can be. When the pinwheel blades stood still, which didn’t happen often, it reminded me of times when we have little going on. Perhaps things feel easy or we aren’t over-scheduled and moving from activity to project. In the moments the wind increased and the pinwheel began moving, it was mindful of the action of life. How quickly we move through the hours, not always realizing the precious eternal moments quietly presented to us daily. When the blades furiously spun, it made me think of moments that feel uncontrollable or eternally long. Those moments when we’re faced with difficulties and trials easily become hardships that can break or define our faith. They’re the times that cause us to fall to our knees in surrender and prayer or remind us to remain bowed before the Father, depending on the level of the humility we already possess. I remember being thankful for those moments spent watching the pinwheel. I sat doing nothing except observing the cycles of the blades, pondering faith and cherishing the quiet time that might bore others. Yet, without boredom how are we to deepen thoughts, explore feelings in light of truth, or hear the voice of God speak? If adults can’t face boredom, how can we mentor embracing a simpler life to our children? How can we mentor a life that makes time to ponder what we see, what we’ve lived, and how it measures up to God’s standards and expectations? I believe that as parents, we need to remember to teach our children to embrace boredom. First, we need to develop our personal ability to stare boredom in the eye while remaining comfortable. This is an important ability that needs to be mentored to our children. We also need to give boredom a new definition. Instead of teaching our children that the word means, “a feeling of being wearied by dullness or tedious repetition,” relay to them that the word boredom means, “the opportunity to examine and search, to grow and learn .” Children cannot experience all that God has for them if they close their mind and heart to what this world teaches as boredom. We need to make sure we don’t treat boredom as a dreaded disease. Instead, view boredom as a slot of time to think, explore, or reflect. It’s a time to learn new skills, serve, or simply rest in God’s Word and the depth of our relationship with Christ. Because adults can be uncomfortable with silence or stillness, we tend to teach our children to feel the same. Sometimes we even make ourselves feel guilty when we don’t have another activity to jump into. But there’s a difference between laziness and utilizing time. I remember times I felt bored as a child. In fact, those were the moments that my parents never rescued me from. Those feelings taught me to find something constructive to do, which usually involved creativity. Now, as a Christian mom, I have taught my children that if they feel they have nothing to do, take time to stop complaining and start being creative or constructive for the Lord. Of course, there is the chance that too much quiet time can be harmful to children. As wise parents, we strive for a balance that allows our children to develop and mature life skills they will carry and teach to the to the next generation. We monitor their activities, have insightful discussions and suggestions, and let them see us using time wisely in ways that stretch us, yet also allow time for creativity and glory for God. I always kept supplies on hand for activities my children could do when in need of projects or entertainment. I use the word “entertainment” loosely, meaning that it is something that they can do and grow from. Yet I don’t want to imply that children need to be entertained constantly. Again, they – just as we do – need time to simply “be.” However, knowing that I kept items on hand helped spur creativity and the desire to try something new. Many of the items I held on hand went unused, but helped to spark new ideas and desires while other items continue to be used after many years. As you observe your unique children, you will learn what items to keep on hand to spur what you see they are passionate about or skilled at. We’ve also supplied an area – ours is a table that can be used for projects and dreams to be birthed. Since we have a breakfast bar in the kitchen and a separate dining room table, our kitchen table really is the go-to spot for creativity in our home. As my middle daughter grew from age one to about eleven years of age, this was her spot. The table was always full of papers from plain white to cardstock to construction paper. The table was littered with glue, scissors, pens and pencils, markers, and paints. There she designed paintings, books, and characters that still live on in my mind. Memories of those beautiful early creative years became the beginning of the online business she runs today at nineteen. After my youngest daughter came home to us as a nine year old, my middle daughter moved her favorite area to another spot and the table was passed on to our newest child. Since that time, our youngest has discovered her massive love of building. The table is now home to the creativity that flows through her hands as she constructs Lego masterpieces. It’s also where we enjoy most of our playtime together. See what area would work best in your home and create a place dreams can be investigated or experimented, so your children can find the aspirations and plans that bring joy to their spirit and honors the individuality God gifted to them. Earlier in the podcast when I spoke about my youngest, I gave an example of how she also loves to study nature. She especially enjoys categorizing insects and animals. Using a camera, magnifying glass, and several mini terrariums she has created from jars and other containers, she has collected and observed many insects, yet the roly poly is her favorite. When she’s outdoors viewing nature, she feels closer to God and His creation and she has grown her understanding of science and nature. As she continues viewing God’s creation in this fun way, I see her knowledge, faith, and confidence increase while the usage of the word “boredom” has reduced to zero. When your children change the way they view boredom, they master a life skill that enables them to reach the potential God has uniquely crafted inside . Colossians 3:23 says, “And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men .” Isn’t this a beautiful and applicable verse to use for the occurrence of boredom? Kids (and adults) should learn to foster a cheerful heart despite their level of activity or interest in life situations. With that cheerful heart, we carry the privilege of honoring God in all we do, through our actions and our attitude. Would you like to know the one activity that makes a big difference for your child – not only for this summer, but for life? Teach them that new definition of boredom that I shared earlier. Mentor the way for your children to approach boredom as an opportunity to examine and search, to grow and learn . Remember, when you teach your children to look at boredom through a different perspective, their brains get the opportunity to build critical thinking and problem-solving skills , as well as learn delayed gratification . Each of these offer important, long-term benefits. When you teach your children to change their mindset regarding boredom, they gain the privilege of learning to adjust to, andembrace the quiet . Without learning this skill , they may never be still enough to hear God speak to their spirit. When you allow your children to be bored, they learn to confront and be joyful in unpleasant or uncomfortable feelings and to seek the truth of God , as well as His understanding and guidance of emotions . When you allow your children to be bored, they learn the important lesson that they don’t have to enjoy every activity they do , enabling them to develop discipline and commitment , skills they will carry into adulthood. When you allow your children to be bored, they receive the opportunity to deepen attachment and connection with you and Christ . While sometimes children need to sit in silence to discover self and God, this time can also become a beautiful way to find and enjoy simple activities together that may lead to meaningful memories and constructive conversation . The more comfortable you are with silence and boredom, the more comfort your children will find. Embrace being bored and find the purpose behind silence. Let your children find new activities and interests. Help them develop the unique personalities and talents God purposed into them when they were fearfully and wonderfully made. Dear Heavenly Father, You are the Great I Am, the maker of Heaven and earth, as well as us and our children. You are so kind to allow us the time and space to embrace both the quiet and the busy. Please equip us and our children to honor You with both. Please help us as mothers to mentor the way to enjoy boredom so that our children seek You for guidance and ideas when they find themselves desiring more than what they have been given. Help them to look at boredom as opportunities to know and follow You more closely. Help them to carry the ability to sit well in silence, but to do so with godly balance and not with laziness. Help them to find beauty and opportunity in each new day and help us present that attitude to them in the way we approach life. Thank you that You give us beautiful seasons of life with busyness and quiet. Help us to learn how to use each in ways pleasing to you and thank you that we can see You in all things. Help our children use the beautiful minds and interests and talents You have bestowed within them in ways that fulfill the purpose You have for them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 114 - How Do You Know if You're Fully Submitted to Jesus? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 114 – How Do You Know if You're Fully Submitted to Jesus? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to an important question to consider in this episode…one that will affect the way you raise your children. How do you know if you’re fully submitted to Jesus? About the time my husband and I brought our middle daughter home we noticed so many other children arriving from China. It was the peak time of adoptions, and although we hardly knew anyone who had adopted internationally before our journey, during the process and afterwards we recognized that many other families were experiencing the same joy. For us, both of our adoptions (because we went back ten years later), were glorious God stories, Our Heavenly Father is definitely in every detail. What a blessing, and I mean that with every fiber of my being, to have stepped forward in obedience to adopt. Recognizing God’s sovereignty, my husband and I understand that God knew from before He ever created any of us that we would be together. In a broken, sinful world, He enabled beauty to be formed through this special crafting of our family. We are forever thankful. Each of our four children are unique and we’re thankful for them. Whether biological or adopted, they are simply the method God used to bring us together. Knowing these truths, it’s frustrating when I have heard people remark negatively about adoption, especially internationally. Ironically, the people who make the remarks have never adopted a child themselves, either by domestic or international route. Raising one family, then beginning the parenting journey again with a second set of children came from obedience. Through two miraculous God stories, my husband and I clearly knew that we had daughters born in China who needed to come home to us. I share pieces of this story again because clearly hearing God speak and obeying His call are two keys pieces in being fully submitted to Christ . Many people will profess to being a Christian. But some seem to wear Jesus as an accessory. Faith that converts must come before professions, desires, or ambitions. In fact, true faith prevails over family, food, or fun. You might wonder: As long as you believe you’re a follower of Christ, why does it matter whether you’re fully submitted? What does fully submitted even mean? It matters because to be a maturing Christian, you must be fully submitted. Unless you’re “all in” with your life for Christ, you won’t continue to deepen and grow your maturity. When you stand in front of God one day, longing to hear, “well done my good and faithful servant,” you don’t want to be surprised and hear these words instead. “I never knew you.” The depth of your faith and your submission to Christ will determine the extent of how deeply you’re able to mentor Him to your children. As we look at how to know if you’re fully submitted to Jesus, we’ll begin with the Old Testament. These sacred books in the Bible lay the groundwork for submission and faith. In them we see God’s authority and faithfulness, as well as consequences for failing to follow His will. Through Abraham, we see a model for submission and humble obedience as he moves to obey God and sacrifice his beloved son in Genesis 22. Through Joseph we see trial after trial, but Joseph remains with eyes fixed on God. He hears and obeys His Father when it would be easier not to. Yet, God is faithful. Although it seemed things were just getting worse for Joseph and that God had forsaken him, Joseph believed, trusted, and maintained faith. Eventually, many saw that God had never left his servant, Joseph. Joseph was always in God’s hands and tender care. Because of his obedience and unwavering faith, Joseph recognized that everything was used for good by God. Not only for him, but for so many. We witness disobedience from Moses when he provides water for the Israelites in Numbers 20. God clearly told Moses to speak to the rock to receive water for the group, but Moses spoke and struck the rock twice. We may read this story and think of what a little difference this was. We may wonder why it mattered. God is a holy God of truth and authority. When He makes a request to us, we must obey His instructions exactly. What if you asked your child to look both ways before they cross the street and they only choose to look one way on a busy road at rush hour? Partial obedience equals zero obedience. Our actions indicate whether we actually trust God enough to obey Him immediately and fully. We must prove that we believe by what we do . Although God always forgives us when we are disobedient, we still have to face consequences. In the New Testament we see the greatest mentor for following and pleasing God – Jesus Christ. Luke 22:42 says, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” Jesus pleaded with the Father, making His desire known, but submitted His desire to fall behind the wishes of His holy, sovereign Heavenly Father. Another example of the way Jesus prepared us to follow the Father is through the act of prayer. Because of Jesus, we are able to freely step before the Throne of Grace and direct praise and requests to the Maker of Heaven and Earth. In the discipleship Jesus offers through the template of the Lord’s prayer, we learn submission in the ways God directs. In Matthew 6:10 , we read, “May Your Kingdom come soon. May Your will be done on earth, as it is in Heaven .” Not my will be done. Not your will be done. Not even Jesus’s will when He lived as a man on earth, but the Father’s. A third example of how Jesus directs us to know how to fully submit to God is in Mark 8:34 which says, “Then, calling the crowd to join his disciples, He said, “If any of you wants to be My follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow Me. If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for My sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul? If anyone is ashamed of Me and My message in these adulterous and sinful days, the Son of Man will be ashamed of that person when He returns in the glory of His Father with the holy angels.” Through examples from Moses and Abraham, and many others in the Bible, but especially through the perfection of Jesus, we see one standard. True followers invite transformation to occur from the inside out. True followers of Jesus who are fully submitted to Him will desire and plead for God to cleanse us from the inside and replace the sin and filth with newness and wholeness of life and Christlikeness. We ask Him to change our heart and create a lasting bond with Him into eternity. True followers invite trials and pain into their lives because they know they will rest in God’s arms as He carries them through. As He makes them new, more faith-filled and obedient than before. Jesus isn’t a religion. Christ is the One we desire to share deep relationship with. Better than a spouse, best friend, child, parent, mentor, or coach. Jesus is our all in all. John 14:6 says, “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. ” No matter what circumstance you face in life, yours is secure if you abide in His arms. Have you discovered from the descriptions that you’re not fully submitted to Jesus? None of us are, but we can live submitted lives, openly trusting and stepping forward in the darkness when all seems lost or hopeless. Moment by moment we become more submitted, more Christlike in our desires and responses. More willing to follow God wherever He calls as we rely on Him. I have a short exercise that might help you determine whether you’re moving forward in faith to fully submit to Christ. How do you feel if you speak this statement? “I love you Jesus - more than anyone.” Do you feel exhilarated when you speak the words? Are you frightened by the statement? Do you feel guilty? What you feel may be an indicator of your walk with Christ. Use it as a starting point to deepen and widen your faith maturity. I’ll also share Scripture that helps show what God desires from one devoted to Him. Job 33:4 says, “The Spirit of God has made me; the breath of the Almighty gives me life .” Through this verse we remember that we belong to God, who gives us life. Psalm 24:1 says, “The earth is the LORD’s and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein .” This verse shows us that we live on God’s earth, the One He created, along with all that resides in it. It reminds us of our rightful place with Him, through Him, and in Him. Proverbs 16:2 says, “All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the LORD.” This convicting verse reminds us that our Holy God sees and knows us intimately. The way we sinfully and selfishly view our personal motives is deeply flawed in comparison to His standards. Ephesians 4:14 says, “Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth .” This verse tells us that through Him we will know Truth from the Source. As we study and know Him we won’t be influenced by sinful ways and people, but will remain steadfast in Truth and grow in depth of maturity. Ezekiel 36:26 says, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh .” This verse is a promise that God will replace the selfishness of our heart and fill us with His Holy Spirit. As we surrender self, we accept the adorning of a new life that isn’t simply a religion or a seasonal activity. We accept a new and transformative lifestyle . To surrender self and submit to Christ, stop trying to read the Bible by quickly getting your daily quota in, and instead, pursue knowledge and transformation through studying God’s Word. Regardless of whether you have time, do it. We all make time for what we really prioritize . If you’re truly in a season where you simply can’t read, listen to the Word daily and begin studying with a trusted study Bible as soon as possible. Transformation won’t occur unless you release self . C hange your ways to change your lifestyle . Pray. Instead of looking at prayer as a duty, recognize it as a blessing and gift . Jesus died so that He could be a bridge for us to reach the Father. Because of Him we can approach God with any request or for any reason. Embrace the gift of prayer. Next, have fellowship with other strong believers. Examine the fruits of other followers of Christ – not in a judgmental way, but by using your God-given discernment. Be discipled together. Fellowship with those who have a heart for God and growing in Him. Also help others by mentoring Christ to those who are looking for strong believers to disciple them. Also, don’t put God in a box. He is God, Our Heavenly Father, Creator, the Great I Am, the Lord who Heals, the Lord who Provides, Our Mighty God, the Holy, Sovereign One. So often we try to call on God when we need Him, then place Him on a shelf when we think we can handle things. He desires us to call on and depend on Him always. Don’t expect Him to walk beside you or with you. God wants us to climb into His arms willingly and abide there. Invite Him to carry you. Look Up moment by moment. Don’t call on Him when you’re in trouble – Remain in His care and invite Him into every area of your life. He is far better equipped and will protect and provide, guide and guard those who are committed to Him through Jesus. Take your thoughts captive for Christ. Romans 8:5-8 says, “Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.” Submit your mind and your body, your will and ways. Romans 7:21-24 says, “So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! ” When we humbly and willingly place God in His rightful position in our life, we begin to peel away self, exposing the heart of Christ through the Holy Spirit inside us. Pride, possessions, peers, people, past, and present, as well as relationships, finances, and desires begin to move into alignment. They do so in ways that honor God and give you deep and lasting joy. Over time, you will see His hand at work in ways you never imagined. Peace that passes understanding follows when we place God first through relationship with Jesus Christ. Trust, submit, believe, and obey. Another way to know whether you’re submitting to Christ is to test the level of anxiety, fear, anger, worry, or unforgiveness you carry. If you don’t feel burdened by those, you are likely submitting those areas now. Continue to do so moment by moment with joy. If you carry any of these qualities, examine how you can work to let go of them, handing them into God’s capable care so you can experience true and lasting freedom He desires you to have in your life and home. Begin with prayer and repentance. Ask God for forgiveness and ask Him to show you how to release your load. He never meant for you to carry anything. He is present and able to take your burdens. Right now. Seek Scripture on the topics you struggle with. Pray those verses to God, crafting biblical prayers you know God will honor. We’ve found that the answer to the question we’ve examined today is that none of us is fully submitted to Jesus this side of Heaven, but we should be moving closer to Him and allowing transformation each moment we are alive. No one said the process would be easy, in fact Jesus warned of tribulations. Look at His life. It was never easy. Not in any way. But Jesus continued to look Up and grow in wisdom and stature, in favor with God and man daily. Just as we must do if we are to submit. Here are a few more questions to consider and pray about: Do you pray before you make decisions? Do you go to the Father for every problem or try to carry it yourself? Do you follow where God leads without hesitation? Even when you don’t know the future? Do you harbor grudges or unforgiveness? How does it make you feel to think about submitting those to God? Are you taking your thoughts captive for Christ? Are your thoughts on God when you fall asleep at night? When you awaken do you think of Him and pray? Do you pray for His will? For His guidance and timing throughout your day? Do you pray for His wisdom? Do you pray for wisdom over wealth? Do you hold on to things God has prompted you to release? Do you let go of entertainment, books, friends, games, habits, or jobs that draw you away from God? Or do you continue doing just as you desire? Remember that partial obedience equals no obedience. No obedience means no submission. Here are three verses to help you submit to God and deepen your faith, trust, and obedience. You may use them to pray the Scriptural prayers I mentioned earlier in this episode. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight .” James 4:7-8a says, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and He will come near to you .” Lamentations 3:25 says, “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the one who seeks Him .” Dear Heavenly Father, How great thou art! Thank you for Your everlasting kindness, long-suffering, and patience. Thank you for loving us first, for choosing us. We fall short of the praise You desire and the obedience You require. Equip us to become more Christlike moment by moment as we seek and please You. Help us choose You as You have chosen us. We thank you for life and love that You give us so freely. May we honor You and return what You desire because we love You and fellowship with You with whole hearts. Help us be pleasing and obedient, and teach our children to abide in Your arms as they learn to be pleasing and obedient to You, too because we mentor You so well to them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. This is the part of the episode that you usually hear me talk about the Set-Apart Collective. Today I want to share about my new mini program called “Establish Identity.” Why? Your identity is a major force behind what you do. Who you believe yourself to be, and who you find your identity through affects the way you live, parent, love, serve, and discipline. Your identity is one of the lifelines, a pulse point of your home. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Even if they are grown, your identity affects your child. The way you think, speak, and react is rooted in your identity. Send me a message at info@terrihitt.com if you’d like details or go to terrihitt.com and join my email list. You’ll get updates before anyone else and hear a little about what makes this so important. If you join the email list you’ll also be able to access free resources such as my new Good to Godly: A 31 Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Comnected Child Podcast Episode 013 - As in the Days of Noah Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #013 – As in the Days of Noah Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. This summer I am doing regular podcasts mixed with scripture readings. This episode is a blend of the two. On the last “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast episode we discussed values in a world of immorality and how we must stand firmly on God’s truths in order to build and maintain godly values. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” Scripture promises that God offers wisdom to any who seek it from Him, yet our Heavenly Father desires that we receive His wisdom and use it for His glory, as well as the good of others . But what happens when we do not seek the wisdom of God? What happens when generations do not abide by or teach God’s truths and morals to those behind them? The immorality, chaos, and disorder we see in our culture stems from the absence of God’s morals within the hearts and minds of society. What kind of future do you want to leave your children? The heart of man has been exposed from the earliest of creation. Beginning with Adam and Eve, we saw deception infiltrate mankind and seize control. Think back to the days of Noah, which were filled with great evil and moral corruptness. In fact, Genesis 6:5 states, “Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually .” This line of Scripture offers a clear and precise description of human depravity in the days of Noah. There is no way anyone could misunderstand what the times were like – every heart was continually evil . Do you notice the days we are living in? Do you ever feel that destruction is upon us? Are you comfortable with the state of the world and what it will be like when your children and grandchildren are adults? I recently learned an interesting fact. Did you know that there is not a biblical Hebrew word for “heart?” When the Bible speaks of matters of the heart , the word represents the emotions , will , and mind . I believe the absence of a specific or assigned word is very appropriate, and I know it was purposeful for the Bible to speak of heart as it does. As believers, we understand that the heart is the center or the driving force of our actions. When society chooses to contribute to evil and destruction, it exposes the condition of our heart. A heart that does not know and follow Jesus will be taken over with chaos, confusion, and lies. Let’s examine all of this book in Genesis more closely to see the lessons we can learn and teach to our children as they watch us navigate life with faith. Genesis 6:1-22 says, “When human beings began to increase in number on the earth and daughters were born to them, the sons of God saw that the daughters of humans were beautiful, and they married any of them they chose. Then the Lord said, “My Spirit will not contend with humans forever, for they are mortal; their days will be a hundred and twenty years.” The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and also afterward—when the sons of God went to the daughters of humans and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown. The Lord saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time. The Lord regretted that He had made human beings on the earth, and His heart was deeply troubled. So the Lord said, “I will wipe from the face of the earth the human race I have created—and with them the animals, the birds and the creatures that move along the ground—for I regret that I have made them.” But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord. This is the account of Noah and his family. Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God. Noah had three sons: Shem, Ham and Japheth. Now the earth was corrupt in God’s sight and was full of violence. God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. So God said to Noah, “I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth. So make yourself an ark of cypress wood; make rooms in it and coat it with pitch inside and out. This is how you are to build it: The ark is to be three hundred cubits long, fifty cubits wide and thirty cubits high. Make a roof for it, leaving below the roof an opening one cubit high all around. Put a door in the side of the ark and make lower, middle and upper decks. I am going to bring floodwaters on the earth to destroy all life under the heavens, every creature that has the breath of life in it. Everything on earth will perish. But I will establish my covenant with you, and you will enter the ark—you and your sons and your wife and your sons’ wives with you. You are to bring into the ark two of all living creatures, male and female, to keep them alive with you. Two of every kind of bird, of every kind of animal and of every kind of creature that moves along the ground will come to you to be kept alive. You are to take every kind of food that is to be eaten and store it away as food for you and for them.” Noah did everything just as God commanded him .” At the beginning of this passage of verses, we read about the “sons of God” and “daughters of men,” which in the most common explanation of this passage most likely means that fallen angels came in the form of human men and then married human women. Because this is not a union in accordance with God’s holy order of reproduction according to one’s kind, this was an egregious offense to God. Next, we read that God’s spirit “shall not strive with man forever.” This area of scripture is the second time the Spirit is mentioned outright in the Bible. This time, the Spirit is linked to destruction of man. I’m unsure whether this meant that the Spirit will not strive with man forever and that his days shall be 120 years, meaning either God is referring to an actual age of man, showing he will not live forever, or that God is saying the flood will arrive with destruction in 120 years. Regardless, when we do not walk with the Spirit, we know that God will stop convicting us; we may not hear or receive the discerning, guiding prods or whispers that our Heavenly Father sometimes uses to attract our attention to Him. As we touched on earlier in this episode, the days of Noah were filled with evil continually. For the Bible to use such exact words shows us the infiltration of depravity at the time and the sorrow weighing on God’s heart. Was this wickedness a surprise to God? Certainly not! Yet, our holy Father grieved with heavy pain for what his earthly children caused. That sin issue is still present and prevalent today. Only through the sacrifice of Christ can any of us be removed from the stain of sin and begin to live as God intended as we allow the Holy Spirit to move and cleanse us from within. It is imperative that we read, study, and know God’s words and commands so that we can teach them and model obedience to them for our children. This passage of scripture, although it exposes the depravity of man through God’s eyes, also allows us to see that God was greatly grieved in his heart by the immorality of man. Why did Noah stand out to God during this rebellious, wicked time? Just as each of us are able to receive the unmerited grace of God, God viewed Noah’s heart and saw that he was what God considered “just.” Was Noah perfect? Most definitely not. Each of us is so far from the holiness of God that we will always fall far short of where He desires us to be. Yet God granted Noah grace and found a man who would be obedient to His call. God saved Noah and his family and worked through their obedience to assemble and act on His next plan. During the course of history, God’s eyes have roamed the earth seeking those who will love, honor, follow, and obey Him. In Noah, God saw the person who would humble himself before the Lord and follow His instructions without question. Despite the devastating immorality infiltrating his day, Noah heeded the voice of God. Are you teaching your children to cherish God and His commands so much that they honor and obey God? My desire is for my children to love the Lord so much and have a growing relationship with Jesus so that they will be aware of His expectations and hear His calls and act promptly in loving obedience. Can you imagine the ridicule Noah would have received from peers? From scripture, we estimate that it took Noah approximately 100 years to complete the ark. Noah had no idea why God had commanded him to build this ark, but still, he stepped out with faith that he must act exactly as God had commanded, enabling God to credit him as righteous. People often choose to pick which command they want to obey. Some never hear the quiet voice of God directing them in various ways. Noah, however, chose to hear and act on exactly what God revealed for him to do, even though he did not know God’s ultimate plan. Noah was attuned to His Heavenly Father and ready to obey. Through obedience to God, Noah’s family and future generations were protected and saved. Imagine the world we would live in if those who confess to follow Christ would study scripture and follow the voice of God in humble obedience. As our children see us walk with God, joyful in obeying His commands and calls, they will learn to desire and do the same. The immorality, chaos, and disorder we see in our culture would no longer exist if individuals and families adhere to the standards of God and lovingly teach our children to do the same. When we see others who do not have families and step in to show them the way to Jesus and help them to know Him, the schemes of Satan can be thwarted as chaos and confusion are diminished and erased. Our world is growing closer to the days of Noah. Without the steady hand of our Father guiding us with His love, grace, mercy, and discernment, our children do not have hope for the future that could await them. What can you do today to change the course of history for your child and the generations to come? Dear Heavenly Father, great is Your name. Thank you for your constant love and care, even when we do not recognize or deserve it. You have given us so much that we take for granted and we live in desperate times where some take what they desire without thought. Days are becoming more like the days of Noah and the only way to cleanse the wicked hearts is through the saving mercy and grace of Jesus. Help us, Father to seek You, to follow You, and to show You to others. May our children be a greater faith generation than we are. Cause us to respect Your authority with joy so that our children do the same. Help us to respond with anticipation when You call us to obedience. May our children listen to You and live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm because they are walking in step with You. May their hearts be wise in Your eyes and their hearts full of the light of Christ as they navigate this world. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you would like to hear more about the condition of our heart, the root of all issues, please listen to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast episode 001, Heart Conditions or episode 046, Maturing Character Like Christ. If you pray for your child, please look for my free ebook, “Prayers for My Child,” available on the website under the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scripturally-based prayer. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is now available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #098 – How Big is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Because of the internet, I have met many women I consider friends. Our greatest ties are adoption, usually from China. Would be friends if we met in person? I believe so. The bonds woven through shared and understood adoption stories, the gift of truly understanding the gospel in a deeper and more intimate way through the grace of adoption, and the high and low emotional journeys through crafting new lives and families together, plus the triumphs and tragedies of love, loss, and medical miracles raise your friendship to levels untouched in day to day life. We love one another’s children, pray for them, and cheer them on through personal struggles and precious moments shared on the web. I feel like I have met most of them in person. We share an unspoken understanding, a trust, and a hope that we are not alone. Not in this world and certainly not in eternity when we or our children pass on. Our ties are fierce; we weep and grieve when hardship hits another. I don’t remember when I first met Cindy. It honestly feels like I’ve known her from the beginning of our adoption journey back in 2005. In reality, it was probably after our second adoption that we became acquainted. We share a respect and appreciation for each other that is rooted in relationship with Christ and in the way Jesus linked us through our love for our children who happened to be born in another country, as well as those still waiting. I invite you to listen today as Cindy shares a theme threaded throughout her life and proves to us just how big her God is and weaves a verbal tapestry of what He has done in her life. -----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW-------------------------------------------------- Does listening to Cindy’s story make you appreciate how big God is? Does it remind you to appreciate Him more as you think about what He has done in your life, too? Does it make you think about what can you do for Him? Stepping forward in obedience when we hear God’s call is one of the greatest ways to show our love for Him. What is He calling you to do? What changes might He want in your life? How big is your God? He is the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, our Provider and Protector, our Comforter. You may not be called to adopt, but what about helping fund the adoption of another family? What about praying consistently for someone in the process? Maybe God is moving your life in an entirely different direction. What will you do when you feel and hear Him call? How will you answer the Creator of the Universe when He whispers your name and taps your heart? Father God, You alone are good. You are holy. You are sovereign. You are the Beginning and the End. You create each of us with a purpose. You mean good for our lives and Your glory. You don’t need us, but delight in relationship with us. Thank you for Your all-encompassing eternal love and compassion for us. Thank you for choosing us, for creating us with a purpose that fills our spirit will joy and gladness, even through pain when we trust in You and continue pursuing fellowship with, and obedience to You. You warned us we would have trouble. You told us we would be persecuted, but You also promised to carry us through it all. Remind us to keep looking Up to You. Deepen our faith, our hope, our trust in You. May we please You when You look inside our hearts, when You watch the actions we make, hear the words we say, and know the attitude with which we live. In the precious name of Your Holy Son we pray. Amen. Cindy Newland is known as Cindy Champnella, and is the author of two books, “The Waiting Child: How the Faith and Love of One Orphan Saved the Life of Another” and “The Twelve Gifts of Life: Finding Extraordinary Meaning in Ordinary Moments.” She is an acclaimed speaker who has presented to numerous civic, community, and religious groups all over the United States. Cindy has appeared on several TV programs including NBC's "The John Walsh Show," dozens of nationally syndicated radio programs including "The Mitch Albom Show" and "The Al Kresta Show" and the internationally syndicated "Voice of America." She has published features in numerous publications, including Ladies Home Journal and Women's Weekly. Cindy is a feature writer for Adoption Today and a former guest columnist for The Detroit News. She is a keynote speaker at conferences and forums, including an appearance at Duke University. Cindy is married and has 5 daughters. She also has a B.A. from Albion College, a M.A. in business, a M.A. in psychology from Central Michigan University, and a PhD. in psychology. All proceeds from her first book were designated for the charity, Half the Sky Foundation. You can find her books at Amazon.com. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. I have two requests. If you are able, please go to Apple Podcasts and leave a rating and review to push the podcast out for more people to find. Without good reviews, others won’t hear the episodes designed to mature walks with Christ and equip all to live for eternity now. 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Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 098 How Big Is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #098 – How Big is Your God - Interview with Cindy Newland Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Because of the internet, I have met many women I consider friends. Our greatest ties are adoption, usually from China. Would be friends if we met in person? I believe so. The bonds woven through shared and understood adoption stories, the gift of truly understanding the gospel in a deeper and more intimate way through the grace of adoption, and the high and low emotional journeys through crafting new lives and families together, plus the triumphs and tragedies of love, loss, and medical miracles raise your friendship to levels untouched in day to day life. We love one another’s children, pray for them, and cheer them on through personal struggles and precious moments shared on the web. I feel like I have met most of them in person. We share an unspoken understanding, a trust, and a hope that we are not alone. Not in this world and certainly not in eternity when we or our children pass on. Our ties are fierce; we weep and grieve when hardship hits another. I don’t remember when I first met Cindy. It honestly feels like I’ve known her from the beginning of our adoption journey back in 2005. In reality, it was probably after our second adoption that we became acquainted. We share a respect and appreciation for each other that is rooted in relationship with Christ and in the way Jesus linked us through our love for our children who happened to be born in another country, as well as those still waiting. I invite you to listen today as Cindy shares a theme threaded throughout her life and proves to us just how big her God is and weaves a verbal tapestry of what He has done in her life. -----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW-------------------------------------------------- Does listening to Cindy’s story make you appreciate how big God is? Does it remind you to appreciate Him more as you think about what He has done in your life, too? Does it make you think about what can you do for Him? Stepping forward in obedience when we hear God’s call is one of the greatest ways to show our love for Him. What is He calling you to do? What changes might He want in your life? How big is your God? He is the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, our Provider and Protector, our Comforter. You may not be called to adopt, but what about helping fund the adoption of another family? What about praying consistently for someone in the process? Maybe God is moving your life in an entirely different direction. What will you do when you feel and hear Him call? How will you answer the Creator of the Universe when He whispers your name and taps your heart? Father God, You alone are good. You are holy. You are sovereign. You are the Beginning and the End. You create each of us with a purpose. You mean good for our lives and Your glory. You don’t need us, but delight in relationship with us. Thank you for Your all-encompassing eternal love and compassion for us. Thank you for choosing us, for creating us with a purpose that fills our spirit will joy and gladness, even through pain when we trust in You and continue pursuing fellowship with, and obedience to You. You warned us we would have trouble. You told us we would be persecuted, but You also promised to carry us through it all. Remind us to keep looking Up to You. Deepen our faith, our hope, our trust in You. May we please You when You look inside our hearts, when You watch the actions we make, hear the words we say, and know the attitude with which we live. In the precious name of Your Holy Son we pray. Amen. Cindy Newland is known as Cindy Champnella, and is the author of two books, “The Waiting Child: How the Faith and Love of One Orphan Saved the Life of Another” and “The Twelve Gifts of Life: Finding Extraordinary Meaning in Ordinary Moments.” She is an acclaimed speaker who has presented to numerous civic, community, and religious groups all over the United States. Cindy has appeared on several TV programs including NBC's "The John Walsh Show," dozens of nationally syndicated radio programs including "The Mitch Albom Show" and "The Al Kresta Show" and the internationally syndicated "Voice of America." She has published features in numerous publications, including Ladies Home Journal and Women's Weekly. Cindy is a feature writer for Adoption Today and a former guest columnist for The Detroit News. She is a keynote speaker at conferences and forums, including an appearance at Duke University. Cindy is married and has 5 daughters. She also has a B.A. from Albion College, a M.A. in business, a M.A. in psychology from Central Michigan University, and a PhD. in psychology. All proceeds from her first book were designated for the charity, Half the Sky Foundation. You can find her books at Amazon.com. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. I have two requests. If you are able, please go to Apple Podcasts and leave a rating and review to push the podcast out for more people to find. Without good reviews, others won’t hear the episodes designed to mature walks with Christ and equip all to live for eternity now. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #133 – The Power of Your Story Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. When I was a new Christian I was absolutely terrified that I’d have to give testimony of my walk with Jesus. I had no idea what I would say. Have you ever been afraid to talk to someone about Christ? My problem wasn’t that I was ashamed of Jesus, but that I wouldn’t be good enough to talk about Him. I was afraid I wouldn’t know enough. I was scared I’d need to memorize a lot of Scripture or I wouldn’t know the right verses to share. I was afraid someone would ask me a question I wouldn’t know how to answer. I was scared I would tell someone the wrong thing. I didn’t want to mislead anyone. As I’ve walked with Jesus longer, my heart has discovered the joy of sharing truth. The power of living truth. I understand that I am not the one who will change the heart of another person. All I should focus on is growing and maturing my walk with Jesus and letting Him seep from me in all I am and do. Sharing is an outpouring of the overflow of Christ in me. Offering my testimony is now a lifestyle. I don’t think about having the perfect words or verses to share, although I have many underlined in my Bible and have stepped through them with people. I admit, I’m still not the best at memorizing the Word, but I’m acquainted with my Bible and know God’s Word well enough to recognize His truths and allow them to flow through my daily language. His Word naturally comes to me when I share with others, advise others, and pray for others. Sharing my testimony and the truth of the gospel is no longer a fear, but a joy. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” I believe I should pray for God to reveal opportunities for me to share the gospel. I also believe I should intentionally walk so closely with the Lord that it causes people to notice a difference in my life. When they ask what makes me so happy, or whatever word they use, I should make the most of the opportunity to share the hope of Christ, the fruits of the Spirit, or whatever pertains to the situation or compliment. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Your Christian testimony is your personal story, but it is also the autobiography of what you have seen, experienced, read, and heard through or about Christ in your lifetime. The nearer one draws to God through personal relationship with Jesus, the more they have to share and the more they want to share. When we communicate what God has done in our life, He draws others to Him to experience His glory. Your testimony, the story of your life because of the sacrifice and influence of Christ is important and impactful to others seeking hope and light. Through your story, you can share: 1. Your life before Christ 2. How you came to know Jesus as your personal Savior 3. Your life now (the power of Christ in you) 4. How others can know Jesus Your story may help keep another person’s faith from being “cold”, from becoming “lukewarm,” or it may encourage or empower them to lead a “hot” life for Christ. Everyone has a testimony. Some testimonies are dramatic; some are quiet. Each is a miracle. Just as each of us is uniquely made by God, no testimony is the same, yet each story is a gift of grace and mercy extended from Heaven and meant to be shared. I believe Paul’s testimony from Acts 26 is a wonderful example we can learn from. His testimony can be read and examined as an encouraging model of how we can also share our story. I’m going to read it now so we can study how Paul shared with King Agrippa and Festus in Acts 26:1-29. It’s important to note the way Paul presented his testimony and what we can learn from it. As I read, I’m going to break these verses into sections, then I’ll add my thoughts after reading each portion. I encourage you to read this yourself and prayerfully search the Scripture for what God reveals to you. We’ll begin with Acts 26:1-5, which says, “So Agrippa said to Paul, “You have permission to speak for yourself.” Then Paul stretched out his hand and made his defense: “I consider myself fortunate that it is before you, King Agrippa, I am going to make my defense today against all the accusations of the Jews, especially because you are familiar with all the customs and controversies of the Jews. Therefore I beg you to listen to me patiently. My manner of life from my youth, spent from the beginning among my own nation and in Jerusalem, is known by all the Jews. They have known for a long time, if they are willing to testify, that according to the strictest party of our religion I have lived as a Pharisee.” In this passage we see that Paul is showing respect to King Agrippa and recognizing his qualifications. Paul made it evident that he was not trying to offend Jewish citizens with his intentions, words, or actions. Paul also reminded Agrippa of his own personal character and background, and the truth that he was not a disobedient or rebellious man, but a Jew who had been raised as a supporter and an educator of the law. Paul began where his audience was and could understand without offending them. Acts 26:6-8 says, “And now I stand here on trial because of my hope in the promise made by God to our fathers, to which our twelve tribes hope to attain, as they earnestly worship night and day. And for this hope I am accused by Jews, O king! Why is it thought incredible by any of you that God raises the dead?” Here, we see Paul address the fact that he is being accused of believing in doctrine that was actually central in Judaism. Paul continues to connect with his audience by showing that he has done nothing offensive. Acts 26:9-11 says, “I myself was convinced that I ought to do many things in opposing the name of Jesus of Nazareth. And I did so in Jerusalem. I not only locked up many of the saints in prison after receiving authority from the chief priests, but when they were put to death I cast my vote against them. And I punished them often in all the synagogues and tried to make them blaspheme, and in raging fury against them I persecuted them even to foreign cities.” In these verses, we notice that Paul desires Agrippa to recognize that Paul was a devoted Jew, who fought against and persecuted Christians. Paul begins his personal story with background his audience should remember. Acts 26:12-18 says, “In this connection I journeyed to Damascus with the authority and commission of the chief priests. At midday, O king, I saw on the way a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, that shone around me and those who journeyed with me. And when we had all fallen to the ground, I heard a voice saying to me in the Hebrew language, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ And I said, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ And the Lord said, ‘I am Jesus whom you are persecuting. But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me, and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles—to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’” Paul, passionately appealing to the King so he could understand his words, gained Agrippa’s attention. Paul clearly revealed his personal story of meeting the Lord. During this astonishing testimony, Paul exposed every detail with truth, hope, and courage. He was a changed man whose perspective had suddenly been altered by miraculous methods. Paul continues his personal testimony with glory to God. Acts 26:19-23 says, “Therefore, O King Agrippa, I was not disobedient to the heavenly vision, but declared first to those in Damascus, then in Jerusalem and throughout all the region of Judea, and also to the Gentiles, that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance. For this reason the Jews seized me in the temple and tried to kill me. To this day I have had the help that comes from God, and so I stand here testifying both to small and great, saying nothing but what the prophets and Moses said would come to pass: that the Christ must suffer and that, by being the first to rise from the dead, he would proclaim light both to our people and to the Gentiles.” Paul exposed his understanding of the purpose of his vision and transformation. God was causing and calling him to deliver his testimony with personal authority granted by Him and to take the message of Christ to Judea and to the Gentiles. Paul confessed that he had been imprisoned for believing and sharing what the prophets and Moses declared would happen regarding Israel’s Messiah. Acts 26:24-26 says, “And as he was saying these things in his defense, Festus said with a loud voice, “Paul, you are out of your mind; your great learning is driving you out of your mind.” But Paul said, “I am not out of my mind, most excellent Festus, but I am speaking true and rational words. For the king knows about these things, and to him I speak boldly. For I am persuaded that none of these things has escaped his notice, for this has not been done in a corner.” After Paul finished speaking, Festus spoke no opposition; He knew nothing of Moses or the prophets. Agrippa was not an Old Testament academic, however he was acquainted with Jewish Messianic traditions. Yet, he spoke no challenges to Paul’s testimony, revealing the conviction most likely pricking his heart. Paul shares the truth of God’s miraculous work in his life, giving God glory and letting Him move and work as He desires. Acts 26:27-28 says, “King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know that you believe. And Agrippa said to Paul, “In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?” Because Paul shared with boldness, the truth and evidence were clearly presented. He couldn’t force anyone to accept the truth of the gospel, but Christ had clearly been shown. Agrippa saw the truth, seemed to be impressed in some way by it, but did carry a personal hesitation or unwillingness to profess Christ as King. Acts 26:29 says, “And Paul said, “Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am—except for these chains.” Paul clearly and bravely professed Christ, allowing those who heard him to declare their belief and fate for themselves. Paul knew his duty was not to change hearts; only God could do the transforming work in a willing heart. Important facts to remember: 1. Your story isn’t about you. It isn’t for you. Your story is about what Jesus sacrificed for you. It is a personal testimony of how He lifted you out of death and established new life within you. 2. The power of story has the same holy, sovereign thread woven throughout each person. The cord that ties us together is the wondrous sacrifice and loving grace of Christ. Here’s a quick recap of the top facts we’ve learned: 1. Respect your audience. 2. Connect personally with them. 3. Profess your story. 4. Pray for your listeners. Sharing our story or testimony does not have to be something to be afraid of. As we simply move nearer to Christ daily and allow Him to work through us, we obediently respond to His promptings. The good work He completes within us spreads to those around us or those we come into contact with if we show and tell the truth of the gospel and the work of Christ. Every day brings new work and transformation to share if we are willing to humbly submit and cling to Him. I want to share five short verses that I believe help us carry gratitude for the sacrifice and work of Christ and remind us to share with joy, hope, and truth. Hebrews 2:1 says, “Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.” Psalm 107:1-2 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, for His steadfast love endures forever! Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom He has redeemed from trouble.” Psalm 71:5 says, “For you, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O LORD, from my youth.” Psalm 71:23 says, “My lips will shout for joy, when I sing praises to You; my soul also, which you have redeemed.” 1 Chronicles 16:8 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD; call upon His name; make known His deeds among the peoples!” Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is astounding! How could we ever understand the depth and heights to which it extends? Yet You still purpose to prove Your great love, grace, and mercy through the gift of Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for Your pursuit of us and patience extended to us. Father, may we cling more tightly to You each day. May Your love be made known in intimate ways only You can extend and our love extend intentionally toward You. May You be the first thought on our mind each day and the last thought as we lay down to rest. May our mind and heart dictate a driven desire to devour Your Word and may we allow You to flow through us to share Your great mysteries and truths. Give us Your courage, Your boldness to obey You and allow You to shine from within us every moment, with those we love and even those we don’t. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. Remember that you may find transcripts online at terrihitt.com. On the website you may also find my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast and transcripts. Both podcasts are also available on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 133 - The Power of Your Story Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #133 – The Power of Your Story Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. When I was a new Christian I was absolutely terrified that I’d have to give testimony of my walk with Jesus. I had no idea what I would say. Have you ever been afraid to talk to someone about Christ? My problem wasn’t that I was ashamed of Jesus, but that I wouldn’t be good enough to talk about Him. I was afraid I wouldn’t know enough. I was scared I’d need to memorize a lot of Scripture or I wouldn’t know the right verses to share. I was afraid someone would ask me a question I wouldn’t know how to answer. I was scared I would tell someone the wrong thing. I didn’t want to mislead anyone. As I’ve walked with Jesus longer, my heart has discovered the joy of sharing truth. The power of living truth. I understand that I am not the one who will change the heart of another person. All I should focus on is growing and maturing my walk with Jesus and letting Him seep from me in all I am and do. Sharing is an outpouring of the overflow of Christ in me. Offering my testimony is now a lifestyle. I don’t think about having the perfect words or verses to share, although I have many underlined in my Bible and have stepped through them with people. I admit, I’m still not the best at memorizing the Word, but I’m acquainted with my Bible and know God’s Word well enough to recognize His truths and allow them to flow through my daily language. His Word naturally comes to me when I share with others, advise others, and pray for others. Sharing my testimony and the truth of the gospel is no longer a fear, but a joy. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” I believe I should pray for God to reveal opportunities for me to share the gospel. I also believe I should intentionally walk so closely with the Lord that it causes people to notice a difference in my life. When they ask what makes me so happy, or whatever word they use, I should make the most of the opportunity to share the hope of Christ, the fruits of the Spirit, or whatever pertains to the situation or compliment. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Your Christian testimony is your personal story, but it is also the autobiography of what you have seen, experienced, read, and heard through or about Christ in your lifetime. The nearer one draws to God through personal relationship with Jesus, the more they have to share and the more they want to share. When we communicate what God has done in our life, He draws others to Him to experience His glory. Your testimony, the story of your life because of the sacrifice and influence of Christ is important and impactful to others seeking hope and light. Through your story, you can share: 1. Your life before Christ 2. How you came to know Jesus as your personal Savior 3. Your life now (the power of Christ in you) 4. How others can know Jesus Your story may help keep another person’s faith from being “cold”, from becoming “lukewarm,” or it may encourage or empower them to lead a “hot” life for Christ. Everyone has a testimony. Some testimonies are dramatic; some are quiet. Each is a miracle. Just as each of us is uniquely made by God, no testimony is the same, yet each story is a gift of grace and mercy extended from Heaven and meant to be shared. I believe Paul’s testimony from Acts 26 is a wonderful example we can learn from. His testimony can be read and examined as an encouraging model of how we can also share our story. I’m going to read it now so we can study how Paul shared with King Agrippa and Festus in Acts 26:1-29. It’s important to note the way Paul presented his testimony and what we can learn from it. As I read, I’m going to break these verses into sections, then I’ll add my thoughts after reading each portion. I encourage you to read this yourself and prayerfully search the Scripture for what God reveals to you. We’ll begin with Acts 26:1-5, which says, “So Agrippa said to Paul, “You have permission to speak for yourself.” Then Paul stretched out his hand and made his defense: “I consider myself fortunate that it is before you, King Agrippa, I am going to make my defense today against all the accusations of the Jews, especially because you are familiar with all the customs and controversies of the Jews. Therefore I beg you to listen to me patiently. My manner of life from my youth, spent from the beginning among my own nation and in Jerusalem, is known by all the Jews. They have known for a long time, if they are willing to testify, that according to the strictest party of our religion I have lived as a Pharisee.” In this passage we see that Paul is showing respect to King Agrippa and recognizing his qualifications. Paul made it evident that he was not trying to offend Jewish citizens with his intentions, words, or actions. Paul also reminded Agrippa of his own personal character and background, and the truth that he was not a disobedient or rebellious man, but a Jew who had been raised as a supporter and an educator of the law. Paul began where his audience was and could understand without offending them. Acts 26:6-8 says, “And now I stand here on trial because of my hope in the promise made by God to our fathers, to which our twelve tribes hope to attain, as they earnestly worship night and day. And for this hope I am accused by Jews, O king! Why is it thought incredible by any of you that God raises the dead?” Here, we see Paul address the fact that he is being accused of believing in doctrine that was actually central in Judaism. Paul continues to connect with his audience by showing that he has done nothing offensive. Acts 26:9-11 says, “I myself was convinced that I ought to do many things in opposing the name of Jesus of Nazareth. And I did so in Jerusalem. I not only locked up many of the saints in prison after receiving authority from the chief priests, but when they were put to death I cast my vote against them. And I punished them often in all the synagogues and tried to make them blaspheme, and in raging fury against them I persecuted them even to foreign cities.” In these verses, we notice that Paul desires Agrippa to recognize that Paul was a devoted Jew, who fought against and persecuted Christians. Paul begins his personal story with background his audience should remember. Acts 26:12-18 says, “In this connection I journeyed to Damascus with the authority and commission of the chief priests. At midday, O king, I saw on the way a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, that shone around me and those who journeyed with me. And when we had all fallen to the ground, I heard a voice saying to me in the Hebrew language, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ And I said, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ And the Lord said, ‘I am Jesus whom you are persecuting. But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me, and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles—to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’” Paul, passionately appealing to the King so he could understand his words, gained Agrippa’s attention. Paul clearly revealed his personal story of meeting the Lord. During this astonishing testimony, Paul exposed every detail with truth, hope, and courage. He was a changed man whose perspective had suddenly been altered by miraculous methods. Paul continues his personal testimony with glory to God. Acts 26:19-23 says, “Therefore, O King Agrippa, I was not disobedient to the heavenly vision, but declared first to those in Damascus, then in Jerusalem and throughout all the region of Judea, and also to the Gentiles, that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance. For this reason the Jews seized me in the temple and tried to kill me. To this day I have had the help that comes from God, and so I stand here testifying both to small and great, saying nothing but what the prophets and Moses said would come to pass: that the Christ must suffer and that, by being the first to rise from the dead, he would proclaim light both to our people and to the Gentiles.” Paul exposed his understanding of the purpose of his vision and transformation. God was causing and calling him to deliver his testimony with personal authority granted by Him and to take the message of Christ to Judea and to the Gentiles. Paul confessed that he had been imprisoned for believing and sharing what the prophets and Moses declared would happen regarding Israel’s Messiah. Acts 26:24-26 says, “And as he was saying these things in his defense, Festus said with a loud voice, “Paul, you are out of your mind; your great learning is driving you out of your mind.” But Paul said, “I am not out of my mind, most excellent Festus, but I am speaking true and rational words. For the king knows about these things, and to him I speak boldly. For I am persuaded that none of these things has escaped his notice, for this has not been done in a corner.” After Paul finished speaking, Festus spoke no opposition; He knew nothing of Moses or the prophets. Agrippa was not an Old Testament academic, however he was acquainted with Jewish Messianic traditions. Yet, he spoke no challenges to Paul’s testimony, revealing the conviction most likely pricking his heart. Paul shares the truth of God’s miraculous work in his life, giving God glory and letting Him move and work as He desires. Acts 26:27-28 says, “King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know that you believe. And Agrippa said to Paul, “In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?” Because Paul shared with boldness, the truth and evidence were clearly presented. He couldn’t force anyone to accept the truth of the gospel, but Christ had clearly been shown. Agrippa saw the truth, seemed to be impressed in some way by it, but did carry a personal hesitation or unwillingness to profess Christ as King. Acts 26:29 says, “And Paul said, “Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am—except for these chains.” Paul clearly and bravely professed Christ, allowing those who heard him to declare their belief and fate for themselves. Paul knew his duty was not to change hearts; only God could do the transforming work in a willing heart. Important facts to remember: 1. Your story isn’t about you. It isn’t for you. Your story is about what Jesus sacrificed for you. It is a personal testimony of how He lifted you out of death and established new life within you. 2. The power of story has the same holy, sovereign thread woven throughout each person. The cord that ties us together is the wondrous sacrifice and loving grace of Christ. Here’s a quick recap of the top facts we’ve learned: 1. Respect your audience. 2. Connect personally with them. 3. Profess your story. 4. Pray for your listeners. Sharing our story or testimony does not have to be something to be afraid of. As we simply move nearer to Christ daily and allow Him to work through us, we obediently respond to His promptings. The good work He completes within us spreads to those around us or those we come into contact with if we show and tell the truth of the gospel and the work of Christ. Every day brings new work and transformation to share if we are willing to humbly submit and cling to Him. I want to share five short verses that I believe help us carry gratitude for the sacrifice and work of Christ and remind us to share with joy, hope, and truth. Hebrews 2:1 says, “Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.” Psalm 107:1-2 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, for His steadfast love endures forever! Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom He has redeemed from trouble.” Psalm 71:5 says, “For you, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O LORD, from my youth.” Psalm 71:23 says, “My lips will shout for joy, when I sing praises to You; my soul also, which you have redeemed.” 1 Chronicles 16:8 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD; call upon His name; make known His deeds among the peoples!” Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is astounding! How could we ever understand the depth and heights to which it extends? Yet You still purpose to prove Your great love, grace, and mercy through the gift of Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for Your pursuit of us and patience extended to us. Father, may we cling more tightly to You each day. May Your love be made known in intimate ways only You can extend and our love extend intentionally toward You. May You be the first thought on our mind each day and the last thought as we lay down to rest. May our mind and heart dictate a driven desire to devour Your Word and may we allow You to flow through us to share Your great mysteries and truths. Give us Your courage, Your boldness to obey You and allow You to shine from within us every moment, with those we love and even those we don’t. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. Remember that you may find transcripts online at terrihitt.com. On the website you may also find my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast and transcripts. Both podcasts are also available on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 085 - Raising Christian Kids - Why It's Important to Build Your Child's Confidence in Christ, Not on Self-Reliance Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 085 –Raising Christian Kids: Why It's Important to Build Your Child's Confidence in Christ, Not on Self-Reliance Thank you for taking time to share your day with me. I pray what you hear each week deepens your walk with Jesus and your children. Today I want to dig into confidence. Many parenting experts tout self-confidence in children as a foundational necessity. I disagree. In fact, I believe self-confidence is harmful , dangerous , and unbiblical . 2 Corinthians 3:5 says, “Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think of anything as being from ourselves, but our sufficiency is from God .” After reading this verse, don’t you agree that it’s clear? Parents should raise children to carry godly confidence. God never intended for humans to rely on self . In fact, Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me .” God clearly makes it known that the only way we find peace, joy, or other fruits of the Spirit is by releasing self and submitting to Him. John 15:4-5 says, “Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in Me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.” Raising your children to follow self over Christ is the cause , and definitely not the cure, of many problems. Problems pop up quickly when a child builds confidence based on self . Because building confidence on self will never withstand the storms of life, some of the issues your child might exhibit as they mature could be as follows: 1. Frequent comparison of self to others 2. Negative talk about self 3. Isolation from family or friends 4. Afraid to do things without parents 5. Easily angered or frustrated 6. Sluggishness/loss of interest or motivation in something that used to excite them 7. Depression 8. Frequent crying 9. Fearfulness/Worry 10. Resistance to school 11. Frequent illness – such as stomachaches or headaches 12. Low self-esteem Now that I’ve brought up this topic, let’s examine ways a child might exhibit low self-esteem. 1. Bullying 2. Neglect 3. Bad grades 4. Lack of coordination 5. Excessive praise 6. Excessive criticism 7. Ignoring God’s commands to build esteem through Him 8. Addictions When your children have built esteem on self and have trouble with grades, relationships, body size, bullying, etc. they have nothing to fall back on. Their foundation of self-esteem crumbles. There is no lasting support. Worldly parenting coaches and therapists will try to persuade parents that building high self-esteem is the key to eradicating low self-esteem and the symptoms of it. This tactic actually makes the situation worse for your child. Only building confidence through identity in Christ will enable your children to live in freedom, joy, and peace that will multiply and last through eternity. Secular specialists say that high self-esteem allows your children to be independent, resilient, secure, good decision makers, and respected. These experts stress that methods of building high self-esteem can be easy, such as: 1. Affirmations – Many adults also adhere to the practice of affirmations. There is actually a lot of Christians who believe in this practice. However, I know (because the Bible says so) that nothing man can write, think, or feel will override what God’s holy Word teaches. Instead of affirmations such as “I am pretty.” “I am smart” or others such as these, help your children find applicable Bible verses that speak God’s truth and life. Encourage them to memorize, write, or speak biblical words. Teach them that Jesus used Scripture to stand against the devil. If it’s good enough for Jesus to use as an offensive weapon, I highly recommend your children (and you) do the same. In fact, let your children hear you speak Truth and apply it in your life and activities. 2. Compose love letters to self – If your children want to write love letters to themselves, there’s not anything wrong with doing so. But how long will words they write last as encouragement? How long will they believe human opinion of themselves? God’s Word teaches that what man believes comes from our mind, heart, and experiences – all of which are skewed by this fallen world. Instead, have your children read the love letters of the Bible and study the Words of Jesus to receive the truth and healing He offers. 3. Write and read a self-love journal – Again, your children can write as many messages to themselves as they desire. But what the Bible teaches God says about His creation and reading about the sacrifice Jesus made for them will build the only foundation that will hold and transform feelings, emotions, and thoughts and bring them back to the truths of God. If they want to journal, they can let feelings, ideas, and thoughts flow. However, just as we should do, I think it’s important to teach our children to think about what they’ve released on paper and analyze whether it reflects God’s truths. 4. Make a personal manifesto - so your child can manifest the character and life they want. Instead of trying to manifest what your children dream of (which is not biblical, but is a new age practice), teach them the importance of being mindful of the talents and interests God formed within them when they were created. Remind and encourage them that they (and each person) is unique and on this earth for purposes ordained by God . They matter deeply to Him. Teach them to seek His guidance on how to use the talents and interests He crafted within them in ways that bring Him honor, glory, and pleasure. It’s one of the keys to lasting and godly confidence. During this episode we’ve examined multiple ways secular parenting coaches and therapists recommend you build self-esteem in your children. Are you seeing how unbiblical that advice actually is? Now we’re going to look at several ideas to help you raise children who know Jesus. Remember, knowing Jesus is the first step in forming identity , godly esteem , and confidence through Christ. Let’s look at nine steps. 1. Personally Seek God – If you lovingly show your children that God is a priority in your life, He will likely become important to your children. If you live a life that seeks more of self or worldly values and desires, your child probably will, too. 2. Read God’s Word - Study God’s Word together . Worship Him together. Make Him known so they will seek Him. If God is a priority to you, the way you lovingly follow Him, mature your walk with Him through relationship with Jesus, and model a godly lifestyle to your children by making time to study the Bible and apply it to your lives will influence your children more than anything else can. A purposed, consistent lifestyle focused on Christ will build a solid foundation and connection. 3. Communication – Communication with God and each other is vital. Praying to God alone, with your children, with your husband, and as a family is very important. Praying over your children while they are present, especially in the moments they are concerned about something or ask you to pray for them is a vital part of growing their faith. Teaching them that through Jesus we are able to come straight to God is a basic Biblical truth that will bring them nearer to Him. 4. Bring them to Bible-believing and preaching church so your family will belong to a community of believers who will pray for your children, grow together, and serve together. 5. Model humble praise and gratitude – As you humbly submit to Christ as your personal Savior and model a life that praises, submits to, obeys God, and lives with gratitude – even through trials, you breathe a sweet fragrance of Christ in your home and into your child’s spirit. 6. Teach them to go to God first . If they love, obey, and follow Him, they will love and obey you. Show them that you are accountable to God, so they will understand the importance of honoring their Heavenly Father. Teach them that you love and honor God, that you are submitting to Him as your Heavenly Father. Let them know God has entrusted them to you, and it is your duty to teach them how to chase Christ. 7. Live a set-apart life so they will see you strive to be more Christlike moment by moment. Let them know you live in the strength of Jesus , not your own. Live a life of integrity that follows God’s Word in the way you live, think, speak, act, and react. Let them know that you are actively asking God to change your desires and words moment by moment to make you more pleasing to Him. Let your children see you live this lifestyle. 8. Teach about sin, repentance, and forgiveness . When you live a lifestyle that honors Christ and follows His loving guidelines, you model a life that will show your child the way to the Father. 9. Live with eternal perspective . Teach your children that this world is not their final destination. Show them the way to God and how to prepare to live with Him in Heaven for eternity . Your children belong to the Father who has entrusted them to you for this season . What a privilege and honor you have been given. Luke 12:42-43 says, “And the Lord said, “Who then is that faithful and wise steward, whom his master will make ruler over his household, to give them their portion of food in due season? Blessed is that servant whom his master will find so doing when he comes .” Your children can tell whether the words you teach about God match your actions, words, desires, and reactions. They are able to see the joy in your eyes and body language as you speak of Jesus and speak to them. Matthew 22:37 says, “Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. ’” Is this what your children see you do? Matthew 7:24-27 says, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash .” God is not mocked. The Bible tells us we will reap what we sow. As the old saying says, the years can feel long, but days pass too quickly. Your best of plans amount to nothing but lost opportunities unless you purposely put them in place and act upon them moment by moment. You may have heard me talk about the Set-Apart Collective often in this podcast. Why do I share it so often? I know the program works. Through 6 weeks of one-on-one and group coaching, along with Scripturally-based materials I provide, you will complete 8 steps that include the following: Seek God First, Establish Identity, Teach Truth, A Set-Apart Woman, Parent Set-Apart Kids, Arm for Battle, Relationships, and Training. What you learn and solidify in your personal life will directly affect the way you serve God and parent for Him. It will help you construct godly confidence and esteem through Christ in your children. If you’re ready to invest in the future of your children, contact me at info@terrihitt.com for more details or visit terrihitt.com/setapart. Because you are a podcast listener, let me know you heard about the special price I’m offering you. I seriously want you to experience results and live a set-apart life with a set-apart family. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness is overwhelming when we pause and consider all You have done and are doing for us. Thank you for allowing us to parent Your children for this brief time we have on earth together. Please help us to raise children who chase Christ over culture and build godly esteem through Your truths and ways. We know You love the children. You tell us we must become like children to enter heaven. They are so special to You, yet You entrust them to us. What a holy privilege. Help us parent in Your power. Please help our children fulfill the plans You have created within them because we have led them straight to You. May they see You in us and never turn from You. Please help our children not to follow self, but to set their mind and heart on what You say about them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #061 – Seeking and Seizing Teachable God Moments Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Before we start the podcast today, I’d like to mention the upcoming Who Is Carter Foundation third annual Gala fundraiser on April 9th at 6:00 PM. The Brain Possible Podcast is fully funded and operated by this wonderful, nonprofit organization. Who Is Carter would love for you to be there in person or online! Your support at the gala ensures the ability to continue to bring you their podcasts, resources, and more into the coming year. There are two ways to attend: If you live in the Kansas City area, attend in person at The Bardot Luxury Event Space at 1616 Grand Avenue in Kansas City, MO. There will be great food, an inspiring program, live music, and unique auction items such as a stay at the Ritz Carlton, Cancun or a Guatemala fishing resort trip, and even a VIP meet-and-greet with Chiefs’ wide receiver Tyreek Hill! Of course, every available COVID-19 precaution will be in place to ensure the safety of everyone in attendance. If you don’t live in the Kansas City area, or are more comfortable staying in, you can join the activities virtually! Tune in online on the evening of the 9th; you’ll even have full access to bid on silent auction items online! Visit whoiscarter.org/gala for more information and to purchase tickets. This wonderful organization I have mentioned on the podcast before looks forward to being with you on April 9! Thank you for considering attending the Who Is Carter Foundation Gala. Now, on to this week’s episode. Have you ever wished you knew more about Jesus? His days growing up? Imagine if He had kept a diary for us to read. I would treasure reading His day to day thoughts. At least we can learn so much about how to live through reading Jesus’s words recorded in the Bible and I am incredibly thankful for that. Of course, the more we study His words, really dig in theologically, the better we understand and can model our lives after His. Jesus must have sought and seized simple daily opportunities as teachable God moments. Just as I am sure our Heavenly Father would like us to do. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” Capture all moments of life for Him. Loving Jesus is like breathing; He is the air we need to survive. The Lord cannot be compartmentalized; Jesus flows into every area of our life. As we shift our focus to continuous living with an eternal mindset that is aware of how we respond and how it affects others for Jesus, we live with a gentleness and respect for the Lord, people, and the world around us. We desire to share the hope that is in us through the Holy Spirit and the sacrifice of Jesus. Today I simply want to share a few stories of everyday life with you. I often get comments from people saying they enjoy these glimpses into our life the best. I think people just like to see how other people use daily moments to love and honor God. I would love to hear your stories, as well. After listening to the podcast, feel free to email me through the link on my website at terrihitt.com. I would treasure hearing your stories of seeking and enjoying the teachable God moments with your children or of how God has matured you personally in your walk with Him. He tenderly and intimately personalizes special moments with each one of us who have eyes to see and hearts to experience and believe. This first story happened with my youngest about three years ago. I’m going to read it as I originally wrote it, almost in a diary form. Brooklyn admired my rings as I was putting on jewelry today. Remembering that I have other rings I don't usually wear anymore, she went to my jewelry box, hoping she could wear one of them. I've never been one to want big, fancy, expensive pieces, but what I have has sentimental value. She pointed to a blue ring and got it out to look at. With excitement, she discovered that it fit her middle finger. "Oh, that ring is special," I told her. "You picked out a good one. Bring it over to the light," I said. She followed me to the bathroom and we stood under the vanity lights. Still not quite bright enough for what I wanted to show her, I swiped my phone screen and brought up the flashlight. Shining it toward the top of the ring, we looked again. The blue surface now had a brilliant white star on top. "Oh, pretty!" she exclaimed. "That's a star sapphire," I said. "That ring is the first gift Daddy ever gave Mommy. He gave me that ring when we were dating," We went upstairs to a skylight and looked at the ring again in the bright sunlight. "Another reason that ring is so special is that it reminds me of Jesus," I said. "When the ring doesn't have light on it, you can't see the star inside. When you flash the light on it, the beautiful star shines." Brooklyn looked at me as I continued talking. "When people go out in the world, we all look the same. But when Jesus shines His light through us, other people can see it. They see Him in us, just like we see this star in the ring." She smiled, absorbing more truths that were unspoken to her for too long. We left for speech therapy together - a mommy with one of her special daughters and a little girl wearing a ring that will never outshine the beauty Jesus is growing inside of her. When I was driving later, tears gathered in my eyes as I thought about how God knew long ago that the ring Dennis gave me for Christmas when I was 17 would be a tool in our future daughter, Brooklyn's life to help shape and grow her in Him. We will continue looking for miracles and living in His grace. I deeply appreciate the way God goes before us. How beautiful, merciful, and good His ways are. We simply cannot fathom the love and care He has for us. I did not know Jesus when I was a teenager, yet God knew me and loved me enough to use a gift from my boyfriend to set a plan in place for our future youngest child to learn of Him in a special and deeper way over half a century later. Psalm 139:5-6 says, “You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand!” Psalm 136:16 says, “Give thanks to him who led his people through the wilderness. His faithful love endures forever.” This next story is one I shared on my blog. I will read it as I shared there. Earlier this week I heard words that I knew might one day be said. In 15 years of adoptive parenting, they had never been spoken to me. “You’re not my real mom.” Instead of pain, my first thoughts were “How can I help her? What is going on inside her mind and spirit?” Always so good with eye contact, my youngest did not meet my eyes this time. Even when we received her as ours after meeting for the first time in China, she had perfect eye contact. In fact, her gaze was so impressive that I knew we had a fireball in our family. I remained calm and kept my voice gentle. “Why do you say that?” I asked. “Why do you say I’m not your real mom?” “Because you are wearing make-up today,” she said. I began to laugh. I couldn’t help it. My youngest loves to stay home. Her perfect day includes me waking her up in the morning wearing no makeup and my “stay home” clothes. Yes, there is a distinct difference in the way I look at home and when I go out in public. Comfy clothes are all I wear at home. Not pajamas, but close – soft and warm clothes. Brooklyn wears her pajamas all day – every day, unless we go out. This was her unique way of telling me how dissatisfied she was with me. After hugging, I explained to her that I knew she didn’t like to go to the doctor. I promised her it would be an easy visit and that we could stay home – without makeup – the next day. The next morning after awakening her (of course in my no makeup, stay home attire), I asked her if her “real mommy” was back. She smiled and told me, “Yes. Mommy likes to stay home with me.” It’s so important for us to dig deep into the messages we hear. This world sends so many false messages. As I have matured in my walk with Christ, He has enabled me to get better at letting Him discern what I believe and how I control my responses. It is so important for us to read and study His word daily so that we are not controlled by our flesh. We can make time for what we deem important, and even fifteen minutes of study will increase our desire to know and follow where God calls. As we make His word a priority, we establish Him as a priority. Life can be so difficult and confusing. The only anchor we have is Jesus. Our responses, desires, and attitude, as well as actions are all a direct result from the time we spend with Him. We have to know our beliefs in order to live them. Our Savior must be alive inside of us in order for us to reflect Him. Things are not always what they appear to be. Words are not always defined by our interpretation. Let Jesus be the One to guide and influence what you prioritize, believe, and how you respond. He alone will keep us from being deceived in this world full of lies. Jeremiah 17:9 says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Proverbs 4:23 says, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” So often we think we know what others mean or we project our thoughts onto them. Children teach us how beautiful simple conversation and honesty are. No wonder Jesus wants the children to come to Him. I remember writing this next piece because I was deeply touched by how God ministered to and taught me through my middle daughter. Before I begin reading it, let me share that I’m the kind of person who wants to help people. When I know someone is hurting, I immediately want to help them find a way to make things better. Yet, God often needs to do a work in or through us before pain can be erased. Often, our trials may not be just for us to learn and grow, but for the others who will see or participate and learn and grow through them. Our Heavenly Father is sovereign. God used a dishwasher to help me remember that sometimes we just need to stand in the pain with others as we trust and allow Him to work. Here’s the next story: Our family washes dishes by hand (after our dishwasher stopped working several years ago). People actually get anxious when I admit that we didn’t run out to replace this appliance immediately. They say they couldn’t imagine living without a dishwasher. Do I miss it? Sometimes I definitely do! On the days we are in and out of the house with just enough time to eat and spread dirty dishes everywhere, I really miss it. Most days, no. Why? I cherish the time spent with my family while completing chores together. We have a system. Usually, I wash and rinse dishes, and Marissa dries and puts them away. Many times, my husband will join in to help dry and put the dishes away, too. While we take care of dishes, Brooklyn folds and puts away the laundry we washed that day (she brings it to the kitchen to work on). May I share that she doesn’t just fold it. The items look professionally pressed. She “hand irons” pieces as she folds, lovingly forming soft creases in the fabric that express her deep gratitude for us, her beloved family. My mother’s eye observes and treasures special qualities God blessed us with in our home, and the way we commit their use to one another in His honor. We usually have the best discussions while everyone is gathered together without distractions. Often, we sing and dance while music is played and we always find something to laugh about. Even the dogs join in. Can you believe our Mini Schnauzer loves us to sing to her? One day last week, the girls and I were listening to a variety of songs as we worked. Naively, I chose one that I had not listened to in years. Instruments sounded the opening chords of a piece I used to enjoy with my oldest daughter, Jaime in her teen years. A realization pierced me. I have officially lived twice as long as Jaime. My age is 58 years. My beloved daughter died at age 29. Then, another thought occurred. Jaime was born when I was 18. It has been 10 years since she passed away. That means I have now lived a total of 28 years of my life without her. Now I have lived a little over half of my life without her. My heart seized at the realization. I wept. My pain wasn’t expressed in a loud, sobbing cry, but with a quiet, resigned sadness that understands I cannot change anything, yet accepts that sorrow will always line my soul with the painful loss only God has carried me through. Soon, the years will begin adding up so that I have lived more and more of my life without her. It’s not supposed to be that way. Children are supposed to live longer than parents. The imperfections in this world could rip apart our relationship with God. Yet, He doesn’t desire it to. “He shall cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you shall take refuge.” Psalm 91:4 He created us to desire Him. Not only in the good times. A best friend cradles and carries you. They never leave your side in the hardest moments. That is Jesus. My best friend. “Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed. Because His compassions fail not, they are new every morning. Great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 As my silent tears exposed my grief, Marissa tightly hugged me. We shared the longest embrace I can remember. Wishing she could erase my pain, yet understanding that I had to embrace this season of it, my daughter simply and bravely stood with me in it. She acknowledged my grief and loved me in it. Just like Jesus does. Our broken dishwasher was a catalyst for the continued work the Lord was crafting in my personal journey, as well as in our family connection. The multi-faceted mystery of God is so much more than we see or imagine. Faith continues growing in our home. In our lives. In our hearts. In the actions of my children. I am immensely thankful for the love we share each day. I’m also grateful for the tears. “Jesus wept.” John 11:35 Just like me. Just like you. “You number my wanderings; put my tears into Your bottle; are they not in your book?” Psalm 56:8 Jesus is so concerned about our pain that He lovingly keeps track of what we do and what happens to us, storing our tears in a bottle, personally and intimately caring about every single event that occurs in our lives. Beautiful examples are modeled for us to follow for others. Marissa couldn’t store my tears or pain in a bottle, but she could stand with me. In the pain. No words needed. Just like Jesus. Living with eternal perspective means that we must condition ourselves to look for Jesus in the ordinary pockets of life. Hopefully, the more get accustomed to living that way, we get better and eventually live more with that mindset than without. My next piece exposed my desire to protect my daughter, but without the mind and heartset that Jesus would have me model for her. We must strive to adjust and keep all areas in our life focused on Him properly. Yet, even through our mistakes, Jesus knits good together despite the tattered threads of our unraveling attempts to be like Him. Let me expose my mistake and the way God redeemed it through working a good work in me for my daughters to see. Last week, I specifically asked God to humble me and allow me to become more like Him. As I whispered the words I truly meant, I knew that I was “asking for trouble.” Sometimes the prayers we offer to God can be scary. Just like when we pray for patience, I knew I would encounter both “painful” and “blessed” experiences ahead. I forgot to add the adjective, “embarrassing” to my list. As my Creator, God knows exactly what I need to become more like Him. “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” James 4:10 It didn’t take long. Just a few days later I went to the county fair with my family. God was at work. I often reflect on my calling as a Christian and how that pertains to how I act and react to others daily. But, as at the fair, sometimes our emotions get the best of us, and we don’t think before we react. In Ephesians, Paul reminds us to walk worthy of the calling with which we are called. Sometimes, it’s hard. Obviously, it was for me that day at the fair. “Walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:1b-3 I had a few frustrating things happen, but the incident that triggered me to react the opposite of how I wish I would have…was…at the kiddie airplane ride. I’m not proud of my reaction. We stood in line while the multi-colored airplanes twirled, lifting small children high and low into the air. I watched my youngest daughter as she waited first in line. This was her fourth full summer with us. Almost four years of her life had now been spent in the company of a forever family who adores her instead of in a tiny crib with no human interaction. She adores family time. Absolutely treasures time with us. Going to fairs and carnivals is a delight for her. After waiting for the planes to stop spinning and letting other riders out, the operator opened the gate for her to enter the ride area. Then he stopped and asked her to measure her height at a sign near the entrance to the ride. A sign we had not seen. My girl was about an inch taller than the maximum height requirement. “She is wearing tennis shoes that make her about an inch taller,” I informed him. He shook his head. “No ride,” he said in limited English. “But she’s not really that tall,” I insisted. “The shoes make her taller.” “No,” he insisted as he continued shaking his head. “Are you serious?” I asked. “Whatever,” I remarked with frustration. “Let’s go,” I told my daughter as we got out of line. I couldn’t believe that he had let us wait in line all that time and then told her she was too tall, when she really wasn’t. Also frustrating was the fact that he wouldn’t admit that it was clear her shoes made her taller. My kids (and my husband) watched me as we left the line. They were a little surprised at my reaction. Actually, I was too. No one else was as frustrated as I was. Immediately, I thought about what a bad example I was being to my family and to the ride operator. “When pride comes, then comes shame; but with the humble is wisdom.” Proverbs 11:2 I had a choice as to whether I wanted to be frustrated or to realize that this silly airplane ride didn’t really matter. I was acting like foolishly. My frustration began to evaporate. How could I remain frustrated when God was already speaking to me? Of course, the conversationalist that I am, I discussed the experience and my reaction with my kids while we were still at the fair. I want to think about how what I do affects others around me. My responses can draw someone to or push them away from Jesus. Drawing others to Him, just by allowing Him to shine, means everything to me. I’m so glad I prayed to be humbled. I wonder what is next… My prayer is now that I will handle being humbled with more visible grace and light as I allow Jesus to continue transforming me moment by moment. How often do you jump in to rectify a situation or protect a loved one without waiting to see what God may have planned? His mercy is never ending. I am incredibly thankful for the work He has done and is doing in me. I’ll share one more story today. I hope my mistakes and joys allow you to cling more closely to God and perfect your ability to see His grace, wisdom, and provisions in each moment of your day. When I gave birth to my two biological children, I never considered bonding and attachment. The gift naturally occurred. In my defense, I was not a seasoned mother. I was only 18 when I delivered my first child and 21 when my second child was born. Yet, I wonder if all older mothers give much consideration to the fact that not all babies have the same beginnings in life. Even when a child stays with their birth family, there is still a need for intentional and purposeful bonding and attachment. When we adopted an infant from China 26 years after having our second child, we had obtained many years of parenting experience, as well as ongoing early childhood education on trauma, bonding, and attachment. Our eyes and hearts were opened wide by our innocent baby girl and the needs she carried. Then, we adopted again ten years later, and brought home an older child. We were as prepared as we could be. That doesn’t mean we had all the answers, but we knew where to go. God has made all the difference. Each child is unique. Each family is unique. Each situation is unique. But I knew; God is always the same. He has carried us every step of the way. Our eyes and minds have been fixed on Him for wisdom, guidance, understanding, peace, love…everything. He makes all things possible. But not all things are easy. What undeserved blessings we have received! We've witnessed miracles. Loss and grief have mingled with new beginnings that only God could orchestrate. What brokenness we have watched God heal. Shortly after our youngest child was home, she was overwhelmed by emotions that could not be expressed, except through tears. Although she was unable to tell me what she was feeling, I wanted to stay near – and I sat on the floor of her bedroom with her. Our language was strange; she had never heard it before coming to America. Everything was completely different: the language, smells, foods, sounds, home, people, animals, and even the way we responded to her. Used to no attention, she was now cherished by strangers. Her emotions told me she was frightened, overwhelmed, and she was grieving all that she knew and understood. Although I knew this was completely normal for the situation we were in, I just wanted to be close to her, for her to realize that I wouldn’t leave her in the hard places. She would never be abandoned. She was treasured. It was hard. She wouldn’t let me hold her. She didn’t want to hear my voice. But she did let me sit near her. In fact, if I tried to move away, she wailed louder, confirming my instincts to stay. As I stayed close, the lyrics of the Casting Crowns song, “Just Be Held,” flowed through my mind, intermixed with fervent prayers as I begged my Heavenly Father to help her. “Hold it all together. Everybody needs you strong. But life hits you out of nowhere and barely leaves you holding on.” Yes. Both of us were trying to hold it together. She was struggling to find a way to keep her control. I was definitely praying as I sat with her or I would not be able to hold it together for her. It was extremely difficult to sit through all the wailing and not be able to do anything. My heart was breaking for all she was fighting and going through. I thought of how God sees us when we hurt and struggle. Song lyrics continued in my mind. “And not a tear is wasted. In time, you’ll understand. I’m painting beauty with the ashes. Your life is in My hands.” “Your world’s not falling apart, it’s falling into place. I’m on the throne, stop holding on and just be held. Just be held. Just be held.” If only she could just let go and be held, I thought. But there was no way she could understand the changes her life was undergoing or the depth of our love for her already. I had to make sure I let go and let God handle the situation. I had no answers. I had to rely on Him to comfort her, unique to her needs, and individual to the plan He had for her life. I wanted her to realize that she was safe. That she could trust me - trust us. That with time, she could trust our love. God's love. Our family didn’t even know the way our love would deepen and evolve as we all bonded, attached, and grew together. Just as we cannot possibly fathom the love our Heavenly Father has for each one of us. He has a special love and relationship with each of us. We need to just let go and simply be held. Just accept. “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know Him.” 1 John 3:1 How many of us resist God and struggle for years? How many still do not release control and allow themselves to be held? How many do not realize their worth through Him? As we believe we have released control in one area, there is always another to work on. Nothing we experience in life is wasted. Not even one tear. “Record my lament; list my tears on your scroll – are they not in your record?” Psalm 56:8 “Jesus loves the little children. All the children of the world. Red, brown, yellow, black, or white. They are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world.” Just as he adores them as grown-ups. No matter what we think or do. Let yourself be held. Experience transformation through Him. He truly is (more than) enough for all of our needs. Seek and seize the teachable moments God places before you and your children. Wear His eyes to see and experience His heart to believe. Father God, we thank you that you love us through our imperfections, but You don’t leave us there when we seek You. Thank you for offering a bridge for us to come straight to You through Jesus. Father, help us be more aware of Your presence in our life daily. Without You, we are nothing. God, we need You desperately! Help us to please You more each moment as we see and show You more clearly in our lives. Thank you for revealing Yourself through daily life, in the large and small moments that speak to us so intimately. Help us use those times, hard and easy, to cling more closely to You and shift our behaviors and thoughts to match Yours. In Your Precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit terrihitt.com to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 061 Seeking and Seizing Teachable God Moments Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #061 – Seeking and Seizing Teachable God Moments Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Before we start the podcast today, I’d like to mention the upcoming Who Is Carter Foundation third annual Gala fundraiser on April 9th at 6:00 PM. The Brain Possible Podcast is fully funded and operated by this wonderful, nonprofit organization. Who Is Carter would love for you to be there in person or online! Your support at the gala ensures the ability to continue to bring you their podcasts, resources, and more into the coming year. There are two ways to attend: If you live in the Kansas City area, attend in person at The Bardot Luxury Event Space at 1616 Grand Avenue in Kansas City, MO. There will be great food, an inspiring program, live music, and unique auction items such as a stay at the Ritz Carlton, Cancun or a Guatemala fishing resort trip, and even a VIP meet-and-greet with Chiefs’ wide receiver Tyreek Hill! Of course, every available COVID-19 precaution will be in place to ensure the safety of everyone in attendance. If you don’t live in the Kansas City area, or are more comfortable staying in, you can join the activities virtually! Tune in online on the evening of the 9th; you’ll even have full access to bid on silent auction items online! Visit whoiscarter.org/gala for more information and to purchase tickets. This wonderful organization I have mentioned on the podcast before looks forward to being with you on April 9! Thank you for considering attending the Who Is Carter Foundation Gala. Now, on to this week’s episode. Have you ever wished you knew more about Jesus? His days growing up? Imagine if He had kept a diary for us to read. I would treasure reading His day to day thoughts. At least we can learn so much about how to live through reading Jesus’s words recorded in the Bible and I am incredibly thankful for that. Of course, the more we study His words, really dig in theologically, the better we understand and can model our lives after His. Jesus must have sought and seized simple daily opportunities as teachable God moments. Just as I am sure our Heavenly Father would like us to do. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” Capture all moments of life for Him. Loving Jesus is like breathing; He is the air we need to survive. The Lord cannot be compartmentalized; Jesus flows into every area of our life. As we shift our focus to continuous living with an eternal mindset that is aware of how we respond and how it affects others for Jesus, we live with a gentleness and respect for the Lord, people, and the world around us. We desire to share the hope that is in us through the Holy Spirit and the sacrifice of Jesus. Today I simply want to share a few stories of everyday life with you. I often get comments from people saying they enjoy these glimpses into our life the best. I think people just like to see how other people use daily moments to love and honor God. I would love to hear your stories, as well. After listening to the podcast, feel free to email me through the link on my website at terrihitt.com. I would treasure hearing your stories of seeking and enjoying the teachable God moments with your children or of how God has matured you personally in your walk with Him. He tenderly and intimately personalizes special moments with each one of us who have eyes to see and hearts to experience and believe. This first story happened with my youngest about three years ago. I’m going to read it as I originally wrote it, almost in a diary form. Brooklyn admired my rings as I was putting on jewelry today. Remembering that I have other rings I don't usually wear anymore, she went to my jewelry box, hoping she could wear one of them. I've never been one to want big, fancy, expensive pieces, but what I have has sentimental value. She pointed to a blue ring and got it out to look at. With excitement, she discovered that it fit her middle finger. "Oh, that ring is special," I told her. "You picked out a good one. Bring it over to the light," I said. She followed me to the bathroom and we stood under the vanity lights. Still not quite bright enough for what I wanted to show her, I swiped my phone screen and brought up the flashlight. Shining it toward the top of the ring, we looked again. The blue surface now had a brilliant white star on top. "Oh, pretty!" she exclaimed. "That's a star sapphire," I said. "That ring is the first gift Daddy ever gave Mommy. He gave me that ring when we were dating," We went upstairs to a skylight and looked at the ring again in the bright sunlight. "Another reason that ring is so special is that it reminds me of Jesus," I said. "When the ring doesn't have light on it, you can't see the star inside. When you flash the light on it, the beautiful star shines." Brooklyn looked at me as I continued talking. "When people go out in the world, we all look the same. But when Jesus shines His light through us, other people can see it. They see Him in us, just like we see this star in the ring." She smiled, absorbing more truths that were unspoken to her for too long. We left for speech therapy together - a mommy with one of her special daughters and a little girl wearing a ring that will never outshine the beauty Jesus is growing inside of her. When I was driving later, tears gathered in my eyes as I thought about how God knew long ago that the ring Dennis gave me for Christmas when I was 17 would be a tool in our future daughter, Brooklyn's life to help shape and grow her in Him. We will continue looking for miracles and living in His grace. I deeply appreciate the way God goes before us. How beautiful, merciful, and good His ways are. We simply cannot fathom the love and care He has for us. I did not know Jesus when I was a teenager, yet God knew me and loved me enough to use a gift from my boyfriend to set a plan in place for our future youngest child to learn of Him in a special and deeper way over half a century later. Psalm 139:5-6 says, “You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand!” Psalm 136:16 says, “Give thanks to him who led his people through the wilderness. His faithful love endures forever.” This next story is one I shared on my blog. I will read it as I shared there. Earlier this week I heard words that I knew might one day be said. In 15 years of adoptive parenting, they had never been spoken to me. “You’re not my real mom.” Instead of pain, my first thoughts were “How can I help her? What is going on inside her mind and spirit?” Always so good with eye contact, my youngest did not meet my eyes this time. Even when we received her as ours after meeting for the first time in China, she had perfect eye contact. In fact, her gaze was so impressive that I knew we had a fireball in our family. I remained calm and kept my voice gentle. “Why do you say that?” I asked. “Why do you say I’m not your real mom?” “Because you are wearing make-up today,” she said. I began to laugh. I couldn’t help it. My youngest loves to stay home. Her perfect day includes me waking her up in the morning wearing no makeup and my “stay home” clothes. Yes, there is a distinct difference in the way I look at home and when I go out in public. Comfy clothes are all I wear at home. Not pajamas, but close – soft and warm clothes. Brooklyn wears her pajamas all day – every day, unless we go out. This was her unique way of telling me how dissatisfied she was with me. After hugging, I explained to her that I knew she didn’t like to go to the doctor. I promised her it would be an easy visit and that we could stay home – without makeup – the next day. The next morning after awakening her (of course in my no makeup, stay home attire), I asked her if her “real mommy” was back. She smiled and told me, “Yes. Mommy likes to stay home with me.” It’s so important for us to dig deep into the messages we hear. This world sends so many false messages. As I have matured in my walk with Christ, He has enabled me to get better at letting Him discern what I believe and how I control my responses. It is so important for us to read and study His word daily so that we are not controlled by our flesh. We can make time for what we deem important, and even fifteen minutes of study will increase our desire to know and follow where God calls. As we make His word a priority, we establish Him as a priority. Life can be so difficult and confusing. The only anchor we have is Jesus. Our responses, desires, and attitude, as well as actions are all a direct result from the time we spend with Him. We have to know our beliefs in order to live them. Our Savior must be alive inside of us in order for us to reflect Him. Things are not always what they appear to be. Words are not always defined by our interpretation. Let Jesus be the One to guide and influence what you prioritize, believe, and how you respond. He alone will keep us from being deceived in this world full of lies. Jeremiah 17:9 says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Proverbs 4:23 says, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” So often we think we know what others mean or we project our thoughts onto them. Children teach us how beautiful simple conversation and honesty are. No wonder Jesus wants the children to come to Him. I remember writing this next piece because I was deeply touched by how God ministered to and taught me through my middle daughter. Before I begin reading it, let me share that I’m the kind of person who wants to help people. When I know someone is hurting, I immediately want to help them find a way to make things better. Yet, God often needs to do a work in or through us before pain can be erased. Often, our trials may not be just for us to learn and grow, but for the others who will see or participate and learn and grow through them. Our Heavenly Father is sovereign. God used a dishwasher to help me remember that sometimes we just need to stand in the pain with others as we trust and allow Him to work. Here’s the next story: Our family washes dishes by hand (after our dishwasher stopped working several years ago). People actually get anxious when I admit that we didn’t run out to replace this appliance immediately. They say they couldn’t imagine living without a dishwasher. Do I miss it? Sometimes I definitely do! On the days we are in and out of the house with just enough time to eat and spread dirty dishes everywhere, I really miss it. Most days, no. Why? I cherish the time spent with my family while completing chores together. We have a system. Usually, I wash and rinse dishes, and Marissa dries and puts them away. Many times, my husband will join in to help dry and put the dishes away, too. While we take care of dishes, Brooklyn folds and puts away the laundry we washed that day (she brings it to the kitchen to work on). May I share that she doesn’t just fold it. The items look professionally pressed. She “hand irons” pieces as she folds, lovingly forming soft creases in the fabric that express her deep gratitude for us, her beloved family. My mother’s eye observes and treasures special qualities God blessed us with in our home, and the way we commit their use to one another in His honor. We usually have the best discussions while everyone is gathered together without distractions. Often, we sing and dance while music is played and we always find something to laugh about. Even the dogs join in. Can you believe our Mini Schnauzer loves us to sing to her? One day last week, the girls and I were listening to a variety of songs as we worked. Naively, I chose one that I had not listened to in years. Instruments sounded the opening chords of a piece I used to enjoy with my oldest daughter, Jaime in her teen years. A realization pierced me. I have officially lived twice as long as Jaime. My age is 58 years. My beloved daughter died at age 29. Then, another thought occurred. Jaime was born when I was 18. It has been 10 years since she passed away. That means I have now lived a total of 28 years of my life without her. Now I have lived a little over half of my life without her. My heart seized at the realization. I wept. My pain wasn’t expressed in a loud, sobbing cry, but with a quiet, resigned sadness that understands I cannot change anything, yet accepts that sorrow will always line my soul with the painful loss only God has carried me through. Soon, the years will begin adding up so that I have lived more and more of my life without her. It’s not supposed to be that way. Children are supposed to live longer than parents. The imperfections in this world could rip apart our relationship with God. Yet, He doesn’t desire it to. “He shall cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you shall take refuge.” Psalm 91:4 He created us to desire Him. Not only in the good times. A best friend cradles and carries you. They never leave your side in the hardest moments. That is Jesus. My best friend. “Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed. Because His compassions fail not, they are new every morning. Great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 As my silent tears exposed my grief, Marissa tightly hugged me. We shared the longest embrace I can remember. Wishing she could erase my pain, yet understanding that I had to embrace this season of it, my daughter simply and bravely stood with me in it. She acknowledged my grief and loved me in it. Just like Jesus does. Our broken dishwasher was a catalyst for the continued work the Lord was crafting in my personal journey, as well as in our family connection. The multi-faceted mystery of God is so much more than we see or imagine. Faith continues growing in our home. In our lives. In our hearts. In the actions of my children. I am immensely thankful for the love we share each day. I’m also grateful for the tears. “Jesus wept.” John 11:35 Just like me. Just like you. “You number my wanderings; put my tears into Your bottle; are they not in your book?” Psalm 56:8 Jesus is so concerned about our pain that He lovingly keeps track of what we do and what happens to us, storing our tears in a bottle, personally and intimately caring about every single event that occurs in our lives. Beautiful examples are modeled for us to follow for others. Marissa couldn’t store my tears or pain in a bottle, but she could stand with me. In the pain. No words needed. Just like Jesus. Living with eternal perspective means that we must condition ourselves to look for Jesus in the ordinary pockets of life. Hopefully, the more get accustomed to living that way, we get better and eventually live more with that mindset than without. My next piece exposed my desire to protect my daughter, but without the mind and heartset that Jesus would have me model for her. We must strive to adjust and keep all areas in our life focused on Him properly. Yet, even through our mistakes, Jesus knits good together despite the tattered threads of our unraveling attempts to be like Him. Let me expose my mistake and the way God redeemed it through working a good work in me for my daughters to see. Last week, I specifically asked God to humble me and allow me to become more like Him. As I whispered the words I truly meant, I knew that I was “asking for trouble.” Sometimes the prayers we offer to God can be scary. Just like when we pray for patience, I knew I would encounter both “painful” and “blessed” experiences ahead. I forgot to add the adjective, “embarrassing” to my list. As my Creator, God knows exactly what I need to become more like Him. “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” James 4:10 It didn’t take long. Just a few days later I went to the county fair with my family. God was at work. I often reflect on my calling as a Christian and how that pertains to how I act and react to others daily. But, as at the fair, sometimes our emotions get the best of us, and we don’t think before we react. In Ephesians, Paul reminds us to walk worthy of the calling with which we are called. Sometimes, it’s hard. Obviously, it was for me that day at the fair. “Walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:1b-3 I had a few frustrating things happen, but the incident that triggered me to react the opposite of how I wish I would have…was…at the kiddie airplane ride. I’m not proud of my reaction. We stood in line while the multi-colored airplanes twirled, lifting small children high and low into the air. I watched my youngest daughter as she waited first in line. This was her fourth full summer with us. Almost four years of her life had now been spent in the company of a forever family who adores her instead of in a tiny crib with no human interaction. She adores family time. Absolutely treasures time with us. Going to fairs and carnivals is a delight for her. After waiting for the planes to stop spinning and letting other riders out, the operator opened the gate for her to enter the ride area. Then he stopped and asked her to measure her height at a sign near the entrance to the ride. A sign we had not seen. My girl was about an inch taller than the maximum height requirement. “She is wearing tennis shoes that make her about an inch taller,” I informed him. He shook his head. “No ride,” he said in limited English. “But she’s not really that tall,” I insisted. “The shoes make her taller.” “No,” he insisted as he continued shaking his head. “Are you serious?” I asked. “Whatever,” I remarked with frustration. “Let’s go,” I told my daughter as we got out of line. I couldn’t believe that he had let us wait in line all that time and then told her she was too tall, when she really wasn’t. Also frustrating was the fact that he wouldn’t admit that it was clear her shoes made her taller. My kids (and my husband) watched me as we left the line. They were a little surprised at my reaction. Actually, I was too. No one else was as frustrated as I was. Immediately, I thought about what a bad example I was being to my family and to the ride operator. “When pride comes, then comes shame; but with the humble is wisdom.” Proverbs 11:2 I had a choice as to whether I wanted to be frustrated or to realize that this silly airplane ride didn’t really matter. I was acting like foolishly. My frustration began to evaporate. How could I remain frustrated when God was already speaking to me? Of course, the conversationalist that I am, I discussed the experience and my reaction with my kids while we were still at the fair. I want to think about how what I do affects others around me. My responses can draw someone to or push them away from Jesus. Drawing others to Him, just by allowing Him to shine, means everything to me. I’m so glad I prayed to be humbled. I wonder what is next… My prayer is now that I will handle being humbled with more visible grace and light as I allow Jesus to continue transforming me moment by moment. How often do you jump in to rectify a situation or protect a loved one without waiting to see what God may have planned? His mercy is never ending. I am incredibly thankful for the work He has done and is doing in me. I’ll share one more story today. I hope my mistakes and joys allow you to cling more closely to God and perfect your ability to see His grace, wisdom, and provisions in each moment of your day. When I gave birth to my two biological children, I never considered bonding and attachment. The gift naturally occurred. In my defense, I was not a seasoned mother. I was only 18 when I delivered my first child and 21 when my second child was born. Yet, I wonder if all older mothers give much consideration to the fact that not all babies have the same beginnings in life. Even when a child stays with their birth family, there is still a need for intentional and purposeful bonding and attachment. When we adopted an infant from China 26 years after having our second child, we had obtained many years of parenting experience, as well as ongoing early childhood education on trauma, bonding, and attachment. Our eyes and hearts were opened wide by our innocent baby girl and the needs she carried. Then, we adopted again ten years later, and brought home an older child. We were as prepared as we could be. That doesn’t mean we had all the answers, but we knew where to go. God has made all the difference. Each child is unique. Each family is unique. Each situation is unique. But I knew; God is always the same. He has carried us every step of the way. Our eyes and minds have been fixed on Him for wisdom, guidance, understanding, peace, love…everything. He makes all things possible. But not all things are easy. What undeserved blessings we have received! We've witnessed miracles. Loss and grief have mingled with new beginnings that only God could orchestrate. What brokenness we have watched God heal. Shortly after our youngest child was home, she was overwhelmed by emotions that could not be expressed, except through tears. Although she was unable to tell me what she was feeling, I wanted to stay near – and I sat on the floor of her bedroom with her. Our language was strange; she had never heard it before coming to America. Everything was completely different: the language, smells, foods, sounds, home, people, animals, and even the way we responded to her. Used to no attention, she was now cherished by strangers. Her emotions told me she was frightened, overwhelmed, and she was grieving all that she knew and understood. Although I knew this was completely normal for the situation we were in, I just wanted to be close to her, for her to realize that I wouldn’t leave her in the hard places. She would never be abandoned. She was treasured. It was hard. She wouldn’t let me hold her. She didn’t want to hear my voice. But she did let me sit near her. In fact, if I tried to move away, she wailed louder, confirming my instincts to stay. As I stayed close, the lyrics of the Casting Crowns song, “Just Be Held,” flowed through my mind, intermixed with fervent prayers as I begged my Heavenly Father to help her. “Hold it all together. Everybody needs you strong. But life hits you out of nowhere and barely leaves you holding on.” Yes. Both of us were trying to hold it together. She was struggling to find a way to keep her control. I was definitely praying as I sat with her or I would not be able to hold it together for her. It was extremely difficult to sit through all the wailing and not be able to do anything. My heart was breaking for all she was fighting and going through. I thought of how God sees us when we hurt and struggle. Song lyrics continued in my mind. “And not a tear is wasted. In time, you’ll understand. I’m painting beauty with the ashes. Your life is in My hands.” “Your world’s not falling apart, it’s falling into place. I’m on the throne, stop holding on and just be held. Just be held. Just be held.” If only she could just let go and be held, I thought. But there was no way she could understand the changes her life was undergoing or the depth of our love for her already. I had to make sure I let go and let God handle the situation. I had no answers. I had to rely on Him to comfort her, unique to her needs, and individual to the plan He had for her life. I wanted her to realize that she was safe. That she could trust me - trust us. That with time, she could trust our love. God's love. Our family didn’t even know the way our love would deepen and evolve as we all bonded, attached, and grew together. Just as we cannot possibly fathom the love our Heavenly Father has for each one of us. He has a special love and relationship with each of us. We need to just let go and simply be held. Just accept. “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know Him.” 1 John 3:1 How many of us resist God and struggle for years? How many still do not release control and allow themselves to be held? How many do not realize their worth through Him? As we believe we have released control in one area, there is always another to work on. Nothing we experience in life is wasted. Not even one tear. “Record my lament; list my tears on your scroll – are they not in your record?” Psalm 56:8 “Jesus loves the little children. All the children of the world. Red, brown, yellow, black, or white. They are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world.” Just as he adores them as grown-ups. No matter what we think or do. Let yourself be held. Experience transformation through Him. He truly is (more than) enough for all of our needs. Seek and seize the teachable moments God places before you and your children. Wear His eyes to see and experience His heart to believe. Father God, we thank you that you love us through our imperfections, but You don’t leave us there when we seek You. Thank you for offering a bridge for us to come straight to You through Jesus. Father, help us be more aware of Your presence in our life daily. Without You, we are nothing. God, we need You desperately! Help us to please You more each moment as we see and show You more clearly in our lives. Thank you for revealing Yourself through daily life, in the large and small moments that speak to us so intimately. Help us use those times, hard and easy, to cling more closely to You and shift our behaviors and thoughts to match Yours. In Your Precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit terrihitt.com to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 028 - Don't Grow Weary Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #028 – Don’t Grow Weary Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Recently on social media, I’ve seen several friends who admitted that 2022 was not a great year for them. Are you also in a hard season? Maybe it’s a time of trouble for you personally. Or your child may be experiencing hardships. Your spouse or other loved ones may be going through illnesses or suffering. My heart is with you for where you find yourself this very moment. Whether you are living in a season of riches and prosperity through Christ or in a time of total dependence in Him, I understand. Each person has been in both places and will be again. But I want to remind you of the truth. Mothers, God sees the Holy work you do for Him. He sees the moments you feel you can’t go another day. He knows when you pour your heart into your child and don’t see the results you hope for. He understands your pain, frustration, helplessness, and confusion. He’s with you on the mountain and He’s ready to carry you through the valleys. Despite how you may feel, you are not alone. Romans 2:11 says, “For God shows no partiality .” You probably already know that our Heavenly Father is not a respecter of persons , but He is certainly a respecter of hearts . He loves us each the same, but He knows our hearts are varied. He sees inside to the core of everyone and knows what lies within us. God sees you intentionally mature your walk with Him; He watches you seek to show His heart, truths, and commands to your children. It is human to get weary, to be discouraged, or to feel alone. But remember, when those feelings hit, they are fueled by emotions . Emotions can be controlled through reliance on Him . Our emotions and feelings are simply how we feel . They are not indicators of truth unless they match the Word of God. Although God allows us individual feelings and emotions, we must recognize that they are not necessarily His truth. We must intentionally use them to steer us in the way we should pivot to draw nearer to Him. Obviously, sometimes we are weary because we are simply bone-tired from not getting enough rest. If your weariness comes from a place of feeling weary of life or you feel like you’re always under pressure, always behind where you should be, always less than, or always alone, do not give up. Look Up ! Physical weariness can be detrimental to your mind and body. Physical weariness can actually cause you to be easily misled or deceived. As I said, spiritual weariness is destructive to your mind and body, but especially to your soul . Spiritual weariness affects your eternity , as well as the eternal future of those around you, especially the little eyes who watch every move you make. I believe there are important questions to consider when you first begin to feel spiritually drained: 1. Are you seeking the world more than the Creator? 2. Do you believe feelings over God’s truth? 3. Are you lifting your emotions, feelings, and troubles to God or attempting to carry them alone? Galatians 6:9 says, “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up .” Does your weariness cause: Anger? Depression? Loneliness? Hopelessness? If what we feel conflicts with what God’s truths expose, we must remember that He does not change . God does not move away from us. Use these times to adjust your alignment with Him and move in the direction He desires – toward Him. Here is a list of 13 actions to take when you realize you are growing weary spiritually or when the burdens of life seem to be crushing you down. Remember, you can listen now and look at the list or print it later from terrihitt.com. 1. Make time to read God’s Word . Even ten minutes spent studying the Bible instead of scrolling on the phone does wonders. The more time you spend with Him, the more you crave the Father and your personal time together. You find it easier to make time to be with Him. Isaiah 58:11 says, “And the LORD will guide you continually and satisfy your desire in scorched places and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail .” 2. Make sure to get enough rest . Physical exhaustion makes every part of our mind and body weak. Look for ways to ensure you get better quality sleep or simply more of it. 3. Remember life is full of seasons . Nothing lasts forever. As hard as it gets to remember that truth when you are in the midst of turmoil, let yourself remember that your current season will pass. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me .” 4. Change your mindset . When the demands of your children seem overwhelming, remember that caring for them is service to the Lord. Ask for help. Find a trusted Christian friend who will at the very least pray with and for you to strengthen you in this time. Look for help in the areas you need. Allow help to step in where needed. Don’t allow anything to pull you away from growing in Christ . 1 Peter 5:6-8 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time He may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour .” 5. Study the demands in your life and learn to say, “no” when needed . Even to good things. If something is draining in this season, it is not worth doing. Your walk with Christ and your home life are the most important issues to handle. Psalm 119:28 says, “My soul melts away for sorrow; strengthen me according to your word! ” 6. Assess what you can get rid of in your life . If something is no longer serving your growth in the Lord or is hindering your ability to have a mindset like Christ, it might be time to shelf the opportunity, at least for a season. Maybe you are in a season of family. Hebrews 6:10 says, “For God is not unjust so as to overlook your work and the love that you have shown for His name in serving the saints, as you still do .” 7. Consider what may need to be added to your life . Perhaps you need lunch or coffee with a Christian friend, time alone with your spouse, a walk outdoors, a hot bath, a hobby, or a book. You may even enjoy letting things go and having old-fashioned play time with your children. Making a date to connect with them in this way daily does wonders for your relationship and the attitude of your children. Find their “love language” and place connecting with your children above a spotless home or gourmet dinner. One of the biggest blessings I have was making sure I included Bible study with my children daily. Psalm 119:28 says, “My soul melts away for sorrow; strengthen me according to your word! ” 8. Talk to your spouse and let him know how to help you . Discuss, pray together, study God’s Word together, and find things to enjoy together. 9. Set your mind on things above . Claim and pray Colossians 3:2 , which says, “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. ” Look for ways to live this verse. 10. Claim the hope and strength of Christ . Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me .” Ponder how much you believe this verse. Find ways to move closer to God through the hardships and trials that will enable you to allow God to carry you through anything you face. 11. Praise God, despite circumstances and continue to share the goodness of God . Even when times are tough, look back on what God has done and given in the past. Remember and focus on His truths in His Word and share. Praising despite difficulties lifts your spirits and those around you as they see the power of Christ at work in you. Matthew 11:28-29 says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls .” 12. Talk to trusted believers . If you need support, you don’t need to air all your dirty laundry, but if you have friends, family, or a pastor who will listen to what you are enduring and give sound Biblical advice, consider sharing with them. Trusted believers are a gift from Him. 13. Pray the Word and commit to trusting and resting in God’s truths . Isaiah 40:29-31 says, “Have you not known? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; His understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might He increases strength. Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted; but they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” Stopping to critically assess your life and walk with Christ and the way it affects your children and spouse is critical . Out of any of the new year resolutions or habits a person might want to add, I believe viewing your present situation or circumstances through eyes set for eternity is the best way to spend your time . Psalm 63:1-4 says, “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek You; my soul thirsts for You; my flesh faints for You, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water. So I have looked upon You in the sanctuary, beholding Your power and glory. Because Your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise You. So I will bless You as long as I live; in Your name I will lift up my hands .” Despite what this world preaches and pushes, we need Him. Our children need Him. Become more and more Christlike daily as you pursue Jesus for yourself, your children, and your family. 3 John 1: 4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” Rethink this verse with your name and the names of your family members. Pray it daily and watch the hand of God change you, your desires, and your circumstances. Dear Heavenly Father, You reign in Heaven, yet also live within those of us who follow You. How great is Your love for us and Your sacrifice to be with us. Thank you for allowing us to know and fellowship with You. Thank you for sending your children to live and be trained by us! How hard it must be to see us flounder without Your perfect will and purpose. Help us to seek and follow You more earnestly with great intention to know and show You to our children. Help us deepen our personal walk with you this very moment. Be near to us and draw nearer as we turn our heart toward you. Help our children to find You irresistible because You reside within us and are shown so clearly through us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This and my “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcasts online so that more people are allowed to find and hear them. Will you please take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Parent and Connect With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #052 – Terri Hitt Interviewed by A Surprise Guest Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I hope you enjoyed my interview with Marissa Hitt, my daughter, last week. Guess what? I have a surprise! I won’t be the main person speaking in this episode. As a fun twist, my interview with Marissa has extended to a sort of two-part episode. Only this time, the seating is switched. Marissa is going to interview me. Are you ready to hear what questions she has in store for me? I’m ready, even though I am wondering what she will be asking – and what my answers will be. I hope you will have fun and hear joy that directs you to Jesus as we talk again. ------- INTERVIEW ------- Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 052 Terri Hitt Interviewed by a Surprise Guest Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #052 – Terri Hitt Interviewed by A Surprise Guest Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I hope you enjoyed my interview with Marissa Hitt, my daughter, last week. Guess what? I have a surprise! I won’t be the main person speaking in this episode. As a fun twist, my interview with Marissa has extended to a sort of two-part episode. Only this time, the seating is switched. Marissa is going to interview me. Are you ready to hear what questions she has in store for me? I’m ready, even though I am wondering what she will be asking – and what my answers will be. I hope you will have fun and hear joy that directs you to Jesus as we talk again. ------- INTERVIEW ------- Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Mothers are the front line to mentor Jesus. You're the first Jesus your child sees. The Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast will lead you to parent with Christ in the center of your heart and home as you prayerfully parent with purpose. Purposed Parent, Connected Child Transcriptions Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 139 - How to Respond to Kids From a Biblical Perspective Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 138 - How to Raise Kids Who Think Critically and Biblically Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast Episode 137 - How to Parent Kids to Be IN the World, But Not OF It Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 136 - Losing Myself in Motherhood Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast Episode 135 - Godly Motherhood Will Transform Your Parenting for Jesus Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 134 - Change and Rest Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 133 - Stop Getting in God's Way: Let Him Parent Through You Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 132 - What My Teen Taught Me About Raising Kids Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 131 - How to Teach Children to Find Security through Scripture Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 130 - Are You Living With Eternal Perspective? Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 129 - How to Live With Joy That Lasts Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 128 - How to Help Children Form Godly Habits Read More

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #078 – Interview with Dr. Georgia Purdom, AIG Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I share my conversation with Dr. Georgia Purdom. Dr. Purdom holds a PhD in molecular genetics from The Ohio State University. She formerly served as an assistant and associate professor of biology at Mt. Vernon Nazarene University. Dr. Purdom is the director of Educational Content and actively speaks and writes for Answers in Genesis. I pray you hear our hearts unite and seek the Lord as we discuss and share topics relevant to the culture and topics we face in this world. Time is short. As we seek to live with eternal perspective, we must take each moment captive for Jesus and discover new ways to use His wisdom learned through scripture and prayer time to allow Him to work through us to impact our life, as well as the children and adults around us. ------------------------------------------------ INTERVIEW ------------------------------------------------- Sovereign, Faithful Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Your light is the only beacon we need in this world. Please pierce the darkness within our hearts. Help us to seek and find You, to live in pleasing ways that draws others to You. May this upcoming generation find You now, Lord, despite the fleshly and cultural challenges and obstacles they face because our hearts turn to You and we guide and direct them into Your loving, holy arms. May the hearts of this world be changed through the power of Your word and precepts because we allow Your good work to be done within us and shine for others to see. May we not back away from Your truths, but allow You to transform us moment by moment. In Your precious and holy name we pray. Amen. As Dr. Purdom expressed in the interview, “Light shines a lot brighter in the darkness. We have opportunities now that lead us to be for or against Christ. There is no middle ground.” Seek Him now and allow the power of Christ to change you and others for eternity. If you’d like to connect with Dr. Purdom, please visit her page at Dr. Georgia Purdom on Facebook. I pray you intentionally seek new ways to rest in Jesus and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. I invite you to visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 078 Interview with Dr. Georgia Purdom, AIG Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #078 – Interview with Dr. Georgia Purdom, AIG Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I share my conversation with Dr. Georgia Purdom. Dr. Purdom holds a PhD in molecular genetics from The Ohio State University. She formerly served as an assistant and associate professor of biology at Mt. Vernon Nazarene University. Dr. Purdom is the director of Educational Content and actively speaks and writes for Answers in Genesis. I pray you hear our hearts unite and seek the Lord as we discuss and share topics relevant to the culture and topics we face in this world. Time is short. As we seek to live with eternal perspective, we must take each moment captive for Jesus and discover new ways to use His wisdom learned through scripture and prayer time to allow Him to work through us to impact our life, as well as the children and adults around us. ------------------------------------------------ INTERVIEW ------------------------------------------------- Sovereign, Faithful Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Your light is the only beacon we need in this world. Please pierce the darkness within our hearts. Help us to seek and find You, to live in pleasing ways that draws others to You. May this upcoming generation find You now, Lord, despite the fleshly and cultural challenges and obstacles they face because our hearts turn to You and we guide and direct them into Your loving, holy arms. May the hearts of this world be changed through the power of Your word and precepts because we allow Your good work to be done within us and shine for others to see. May we not back away from Your truths, but allow You to transform us moment by moment. In Your precious and holy name we pray. Amen. As Dr. Purdom expressed in the interview, “Light shines a lot brighter in the darkness. We have opportunities now that lead us to be for or against Christ. There is no middle ground.” Seek Him now and allow the power of Christ to change you and others for eternity. If you’d like to connect with Dr. Purdom, please visit her page at Dr. Georgia Purdom on Facebook. I pray you intentionally seek new ways to rest in Jesus and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. I invite you to visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. https://www.facebook.com/GeorgiaPurdom

< Back Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 136 - Losing Myself in Motherhood Welcome to the Godly Motherhood podcast. If you’re a mom, you can’t parent in your strength. You aren’t supposed to. On this podcast I’ll encourage you to rest and abide in the Father’s arms. Through Him, you’ll be carried - and capable of raising each unique child entrusted to your care as you teach them to chase Christ over culture moment by moment. Before we start this episode, I want to invite you to be “FOUND.” If you feel like you’re losing yourself in motherhood or marriage, you need help combating anxiety, burnout, or guilt, or you need to find your sense of purpose, email me at info@terrihitt.com and mention the word, “FOUND.” You CAN move past surviving and get to thriving. When was the last time you thought or said these words: “I feel lost.” “I feel like I’m moving through quicksand trying to keep up with everything.” “I feel like I’m slowly dying.” “How is everyone else thriving while I’m barely surviving?” If you’ve ever carried these thoughts (or something close), you’re not alone. I’ve heard moms share them several times. These isolating words are actually phrases that bind many women together. Each one silently feels like she’s the only one experiencing a less than perfect attitude or living less than perfect days. Please know you’re not alone. You don’t have to feel like you are – and you don’t have to stay where you are. Women tend to ruminate. Feel deeply. We spend hours and energy at work – guilty because we’re not at home. Then when we are home, we obsess about work. We feel the pressure to work hours like we did before we became a parent - coupled with the expectation to remain a nurturing wife and mother. Meanwhile, we have huge responsibilities keeping our mind occupied like it’s still at work. Even when we stay home with the kids, the pressure for perfection persists. But we smile and say everything’s fine while wondering how to get things to change. Let’s admit it. The emotional demands of motherhood can drain the strongest of women. It’s not only the responsibilities we face; it’s the fact that we continue to take more on while in the midst of wondering how we’re going to get what we’re already committed to accomplished. That’s when feelings of anger, resentment, sadness, or depression can overtake any joy we thought we’d experience, even if all we ever wanted to do was become a mother. When you’re feeling unappreciated or unseen, daily responsibilities turn joy you thought you’d feel into overwhelm you can’t escape. Right along with emotional demands, the mental demands of work, relationships, and home, such as cooking, cleaning, shopping, and everything motherhood entails, can make a woman feel she’s losing her identity. That’s when women begin to define themselves by one of the many responsibilities she carries, such as mom, wife, employee, caregiver, etc. The deeper her identity is shaped by this role, all other expectations become more challenging. Now feeling trapped in the identity most used, needed, or pressed on her, she begins to feel isolated. Withdrawn. A shell of herself. A pressure to excel in all roles becomes more of a pain than a pleasure, and there’s no balance or fulfillment in any role. It’s now even harder to justify making time to just…be. To breath. To learn, grow, or enjoy this journey called life. Once her mental and emotional capacity is at red-alert, ready to blow the top, she drops physically. Sick, fatigued, and lifeless, nothing brings joy except the thought of fleeing from it all. Feeling like she’s drowning in anxiety, she wonders when the next pressure will burn out the tiny flame that is supposed to be flickering inside. She just wants to escape to rest and recuperate, but the demands keep hitting until she barely survives each moment, let alone hours to the next day. Worried that she can’t survive financially if she quits her job, or fearful that she can’t ask her husband for help where she needs it, because she’ll be judged or feel inadequate, resentment toward her spouse and self - take root. Spiritually, she’s a mess. While her heart once loved Jesus beyond all else, she now wonders if He feels as ashamed of her as she does herself. She wonders why the Lord hasn’t swooped in to rescue her. Thoughts like, “Isn’t it the woman’s job to ‘do it all’” circulate in her mind until they control her actions and reactions. She craves the perfect home everyone on Instagram seems to have. But her furniture is covered in months of dust and she can’t remember the last time she changed her bed sheets. Is it possible to craft a routine that enables her to do it all? Could she just get one secret that would help her organize a little bit better or get faster at the chores piling up? If only she had support, She wishes she he wouldn’t feel inept if she asked for relief. Afraid to tell her friends how she feels, she smiles and acts like everything’s perfect, while weeping inside and feeling more lonely than before. Her husband used to gaze at her with pride, but now it feels like his eyes reflect disappointment. Or is that what she’s seeing shining from her own gaze? When she stays home with the kids, boredom and repetition rule the day, and when she works outside the home, time becomes an enemy that sucks her soul along with moments while she waits to get back home. If any of these situations is you…there is hope. Relief. I don’t want you to live in overwhelm when you can have joy. That’s why I offered the program at the start of this episode. I know it will help you see there is a lifeline. For now, you know where I’m going to send you. To your knees. To the Father. Though the remedies sound elementary or repetitious, hear me out. Reading the Word regularly, even when you truly are in a season where you don’t have time will change your perspective. Most of the time, we simply don’t want to read the Word enough to devote ourselves to MAKE time to do so. Even ten minutes. We think we’ll get to it later. We think ten minutes won’t make a difference so we wait until we have more time…but that day never comes. If you’re really in a spot where you’re challenged to read, maybe you’re caring for elderly parents and babies, or you have other obligations that make including Bible reading challenging, listen to the Word. Pull it up on your phone. Then continue looking for times to sit down to read. Anything is doable on the hardest and most challenging of schedules IF you value the end-result enough. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart .” No matter what conditions you face, what pain you’ve lived, what fears you face, God is able. He’s able to remove the difficulties and He’s able to carry you through them. The old saying, “God won’t give you more than you can manage” is a lie. He will give you more. Way more. You’d better believe there’s a grand purpose for allowing it in your life and at this time. You aren’t enough to manage what comes your way, but He is. The truth is that God won’t give you more than He can manage. He wants you to come to Him with everything. He wants you operating in His strength, not trying to manage on your own. He is present. He is sovereign. He is in control. He will allow whatever it takes to bring those who belong to Him closer and more Christlike each moment. Remember, whatever season you’re facing is not going to last forever. Even when it seems like it. Even when it feels like a nightmare. I don’t know where you are or what you’re facing. But God does. Invite Him to carry you. Release self to Him. Take the first step of committing to read the Word regularly. Pray for God to open your eyes, heart, and mind to what He is saying. Study Bible notes and look for ways to apply whatever you read in your life. I’ve discovered newfound inspiration from reading Nehemiah. I’m amazed at how powerful Scripture is. Just like the Bible tells us. You can read a verse or passage at various times in your life and have it finally make sense just when you need it. Or you can read it over and over and find new meaning that brings your faith clearer and deeper – and wider. More rooted. Ask God to change your heart and mind where you need it. Instead of simply praying that God change others or change a situation, ask Him to transform your mind, heart, and spirit into what He desires for your good and His glory. It won’t always be easy. His answers may not be easy. But they may be easy. Do it anyway. Then rest and abide in His arms. His care. His control. His Word promises that He has better for you than you can imagine for yourself. Ephesians 3:20 says, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think .” As you invite God to work in You, taking thoughts captive for Christ, begin to look at where you can change your circumstances. Pray for wisdom, insight, and discernment. You might have to shift priorities. Look for any that can be shifted. Rearranged. Stopped for a while - or let go of for good. Prioritize and create boundaries. People will take as much as you give. You must prioritize God, family, and self. The rest can be added or subtracted as needed. In the Christian space people talk often about guarding your heart. You must also practice guarding your walk with God and ensure that you do the same for your family. Delegate. Swallow pride and ask for help. It doesn’t mean you failed. It doesn’t mean you can’t do as much as someone else. It means you’re aware of the fact that you don’t have to. Ask God to show you what needs to be done to keep you in alignment with His good and perfect plans to give you and your family a hope and a future. To give you good and show His glory. One of the most challenging truths to remember when we’re faced with hardships is that our thoughts and feelings aren’t always accurate. It’s crucial (even when we think we can’t do it) to be in God’s Word. Only the Lord and His truths can renew your mind and refresh your soul. Your thoughts cannot be His thoughts. Your ways cannot be His ways. Unless you are immersed in maturing relationship with God through Jesus, the Word, and prayer. The only way to discern whether your thoughts, feelings, and emotions are accurate is whether they align with God’s truths as proven in Scripture. Share all your thoughts, feelings, and emotions with God. Let your spouse know you need help. Sometimes hope and help are just beyond our fingers, but we’re too prideful, afraid, or feel guilty to reach out for it. None of those emotions are from God. He offers the relief, comfort, and help we need in the ways that are individually perfect for us and that bring us to Him in deeper communion. Please let God’s truth rule your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Never give up hope. Keep looking Up. You don’t have to lose yourself as a wife, mother, or in any other role in your life…unless it’s in the Father’s arms. He is waiting to carry you. Dear Heavenly Father, You are the Great I Am, the Maker of Heaven and Earth, the One who created us. You know us intimately and love us beyond measure. Father forgive us for thoughts that can rage inside us as we go from day to day. So often we fear the world more than the Way and we get caught up in comparison, doubt, or get too busy to seek You. Forgive us. Guide us back to the path You have for us. One that won’t harm us, but will fill us with the joys of our hearts. Only You know the way to our heart and deepest desires because You created us with purpose. Help us be the set-apart women You created us to be. Help us have joy, not overwhelm, laughter and love, instead of anxiety. Reach us where we need You most. Help us see You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. In Jesus’s precious, holy name we pray. Amen. If you’re experiencing any of the feelings you heard on this episode, don’t wait another moment. Continue prayerfully seeking God through Scripture and prayer. Find a mentor to guide you with godly methods and truths that will lead you to the Source of freedom you deserve. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 037 - Life Lessons From my Teen Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #037 – Life Lessons From my Teen Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. My prayer is that you and I will parent with purpose and confidently connect with Christ and our children moment by moment. Since my middle daughter recently graduated from high school, I enjoy listening to her thoughts on childhood and her upbringing. While sharing a walk in the neighborhood recently, I spontaneously asked her to share 3 things she thought I did well while raising her. Would you like to hear her response? The top 3 things my daughter believes helped shape the morals she holds as a young adult were: 1. Church/Service – Because she was raised going to church out of reverence and love for God, and we were very active in many activities and committees as she was growing up, my daughter believes it taught her to make God a priority and that serving in the areas He calls you to at church is an act of love and obedience. Every committee meeting I could bring my daughter to, I made sure she was present. Sometimes my husband took her to his. My daughter helped set up for events, she danced at meetings and programs, and she helped make decorations. When I prepared materials for VBS, she helped. When I had to clean up after VBS, she helped. When we opened our home several times to house out of town college students, she was part of the conversations we had. Everything she could take part in, we allowed. Now she is a four-time Presidential Gold Service Award winner and has hours logged in other years that she never submitted for awards. Serving is natural for her and now, as an adult Christian she knows that she is serving for Him above all. 2. Awareness – Because we taught her to be selective and careful about what clothing she wore and what types of music she listened to, my daughter believes she learned a foundational understanding of being conscious of how she presents herself and what she allows to reside in her mind. She believes that how she learned to manage what she allowed into her mind taught her to carefully consider what she listens to or watches. For example, we taught her not to wear a bikini out in public as we did not want her to desire wearing scanty clothing when she was a tween or teen. We didn’t allow short shorts or shorts and sweats with writing on the bottom. Looking forward to the future with present decisions made a huge difference in what she came to desire as she matured. 3. Respect – Because my daughter feels that my husband and I respected the gifts and talents God placed within her, and that we helped and encouraged her to find and pursue them, she feels very blessed for our support. My daughter believes that when parents truly respect the child as a whole and unique person created by God, it makes it much easier to find the passions He crafted within and allows a stronger parent/child relationship. She felt that we actually paid attention to who she is and not what we wanted her to be or become. I enjoyed hearing her answers so much. I want to state that I didn’t know what she would say and truly, her answers surprised me. They weren’t the answers I thought she would give, but I’m so thankful for the ways God spoke to us while raising her. I thankful for the tiny acts that we made consistently over the years. They paid off for her and us in the best ways now that our daughter is facing young adult years. Please mothers, use what I shared to remember that what you do matters ! Continue to seek God’s Word and use it in practical, godly ways. Proverbs 4:5 says, “Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them .” Ask God for the wisdom to raise your children wisely. Ask Him to lead you in raising godly children who know and honor Him. Ask Him to keep you consistent in pursuing and shining Him to your children and family. Making God a priority and remaining in Him over the years will teach your children that your faith is real because God is. If you’d like to hear more, I will release an interview with my daughter this summer. I’ll be sure to let you know when it airs. Remember, I’m not sharing this with you because I think I’m the greatest mother. I share because anything that worked well came from God. I know anything I did well came from His wisdom. Mothers, continue looking Up and seek Him in all decisions. Although I fall short, He still lifts up what I offer and multiplies beyond my wildest dreams. He will absolutely do the same for you. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness to us is overwhelming. Your love is beyond what we can comprehend. How faithful You are. I thank you for all You are and do in our lives. Father, even when we absolutely do not deserve Your best, You still offer it. Thank you. Lord, please help me, help each of us to continue to seek You through Your Word, prayer, and service in all the ways You call and desire. Help us to hear You clearly because we seek You consistently. May we, and our children, please You more each day. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This summer the episodes will be shorter and I may occasionally offer favorite replays as I spend time with my family and follow a special collective I believe God is calling me to complete for Him. Remember, this podcast, and the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast, may be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcasts online so that more people are allowed to find and hear them. Will you please take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Parent and Connect With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

Mentor. Bestselling & Award-winning Author. Speaker. Host of the Godly Motherhood Podcast. LEARN MORE Equipping Christian women to disciple the next generation for Christ. GET YOUR COPY HELPING MOTHERS BREAK AWAY FROM THE LIES Most women strive to be good moms: meeting expectations, managing behavior, and measuring success by standards shaped by society. The Good Mom Trap exposes the hidden cost of that pursuit and calls Christian mothers to something deeper: godly motherhood rooted in abiding in Christ and parenting from His strength, not their own. I EQUIP MOTHERS TO CHOOSE CHRIST OVER CULTURE I mentor mothers to raise generations of Christ-followers with eternity in view. This mission is marked by urgency—a deep, Spirit-led conviction to help women uproot lies about identity, success, and what truly forms a child’s faith. From strengthening a mother’s identity in Christ to intentionally discipling her children, I equip women to lead their families toward the Way instead of the world. My passion is personal. I was once the woman striving to be a “good” parent—meeting expectations, managing behavior, and measuring success by standards that looked acceptable but lacked eternal weight. I raised two children before realizing that good parenting does not automatically produce godly conviction. “Typical” was not the legacy I desired. Before our third child came home, my husband and I made a defining decision: we would parent with purpose. We committed to raising children who love, honor, and reflect Christ. Through family losses, job changes, medical challenges, and unexpected seasons—including welcoming our fourth child at nine years old—we remained anchored to that intentional plan. When our firstborn daughter passed away in her twenties, eternity became unmistakably real. Grief refined my faith, sharpened my perspective, and forever clarified what truly matters. Mothers are easily distracted by the urgent—schools, schedules, milestones, and cultural pressures. But our children are entrusted to us by God. Stewardship requires intentionality. Eternity requires vision. That is why I speak, mentor, write, and partner with media platforms—to help women move beyond “good” motherhood and embrace godly formation that builds generational faith. If you are ready to deepen your walk with Christ and intentionally disciple the next generation, I invite you to pursue godly motherhood with clarity and conviction. 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Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #007 – Equipping Children Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. The topic close to my heart today is one that is deeply personal. More importantly, it’s special to God. This episode is about children and those who influence them. Although I realize I’m not the only mother in the world who has raised two separate families, I know it’s definitely not the norm. Some people consider us crazy; some admire us and lift us to reside on a pedestal of benevolence. Honestly, we are neither of those. The fact is that two of our children were brought to us biologically. Two of them were brought to us through adoption. Just as women achieve pregnancy and deliver babies through different ways, our family was built by two methods and stretched over a longer period of time than most. It’s honestly that simple. Yet, I still consider my family a miracle and our story one that only God can author. But then, that’s true of all of us. The most urgent desire I have in my heart after raising one set of children and now raising the next, is the absolute necessity of bringing our children up to know, love, and respect the Lord and helping other mothers to understand that importance. To raise our children to love and honor Jesus and to desire to grow their own relationship with Him is the best gift we can give them and the most important job we have. I have found that those of us who claim to be Christians usually want to raise Christian children. But the truth is that many of us depend on the church to raise our child to know God and don’t take active steps at home to nurture the relationship we have with the Lord, let alone foster the growth of our children in Him. Many of us have also been deceived into thinking that once our child accepts Christ as Savior that we don’t have to be as concerned about our child. Both are dangerously blinding us with deceit straight from Satan. How do I know this happens? It happened to me as a young, naive new Christian mother. I had good intentions, but lacked the wisdom I needed to grow and sufficiently nurture my own walk, let alone the heart journey of my children. Our walk was not the straight path I wish it would have been, although I honestly loved the Lord. I’ve also heard stories from others who have similar testimonies to share. Many children from Christian families attend church functions anywhere from one to five hours per week. Families may go to Sunday school and church on Sunday mornings, then either go back to church Sunday night or attend a church function on Wednesday evening, but in our active and fast-paced world, fewer children attend that often. Many churches have stopped Sunday evening services and many children have school or personal activities on Wednesday evenings. Even if children were attending activities at the church at all of the mentioned times, simply being at the church does not make them a growing Christian. You absolutely cannot nurture and sustain a close relationship with Christ on a few hours a week. A true relationship with God starts through a personal relationship with Christ and continues to grow and thrive in the home. It must be nurtured throughout each day. Children learn best when they see a beautiful and godly relationship with Jesus modeled daily in every action, reaction, and interaction they see their parents make. Even our mistakes can draw them nearer to God as they see the ways grace-filled and influenced parents handle living in this broken world. Unless we purposely fix our minds on living with eternal perspective, this world, our pride and lusts, and Satan will distract us with anything to pull us away from Christ. John 10:10 warns, “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” When I became a Christian, I foolishly believed that my life would automatically be different, but just as everything else in life, that’s actually when the real work began. I had to learn about releasing my life to the One I now professed to follow. In the meantime, my children were maturing quickly and I missed opportunities to nurture them in and through Jesus the way I should have. It is vitally important to me to teach mothers the importance of maturing your fellowship with Jesus so that He will naturally be breathed into the lives of your precious children from the very beginning. You will never regret it. Seeking the Lord and growing our relationship with Jesus should be as much a part of our existence as breathing. Just as we awaken each day with a craving for food and drink, our mind should instinctively desire Him and automatically draw to fellowship with Him throughout each day. I think of the hymn, “He Lives,” by Alan Jackson. Here are a few of the words. “He lives! He lives! Christ Jesus lives today! He walks with me and talks with me along life’s narrow way. He lives! He lives! Salvation to impart! You ask me how I know He lives. He lives within my heart.” We are meant to walk and talk with Jesus through an internal dialogue that beautifully draws us nearer to Him. Jesus knows my innermost thoughts. He knows yours. He intimately cares about everything concerning me and concerning you. No matter where you are in your faith journey, if you have accepted Jesus as your Savior, the Holy Spirit is living within you to guide and move you to a deeper walk with Him. We create distance in our relationship with Jesus just as we do with people in our lives. If we don’t welcome Him and nurture the relationship, it will fade. Jesus won’t leave us, but we can drift away from Him. To grow and sustain our Christian walk, we have to be intentional and not let distractions take the place of commitment, just like with every relationship in our life. Now let’s think about God’s word. When we read the Bible, we clearly see people who were determined to direct their own lives while making unwise choices that drew them away from God. Let’s use the very first example of shattered lives in the Bible as we discuss how cleverly the serpent (Satan) tricked Eve. It’s so easy for us to look back at her and think of Eve as foolish. She (and Adam) clearly understood the instructions God had given them. But we also allow subtleties to distract us from living fully in relationship with Jesus daily. Once we have accepted Christ as our Savior, He desires us to allow Him to sit as the Master of our life. It’s easy to say we believe in God and want Him to guide us. It’s harder to actually accept and allow Jesus to transform our life, giving Him direct access to our thoughts, emotions, speech, actions, and attitude. In other words, we are to release everything in our life to Him. In the beginning, Adam and Eve lived in intimate communion with God. He fulfilled their every need, giving them good and perfect gifts. They had peace of mind and deep joy. Gratitude filled their lives. They did not live with hazy minds tinged by lies or twisted truths - until they disobeyed. Then, they became estranged from God and the intimate bond they shared was severed. 2 Corinthians 11:3 states, “But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.” We make the same foolish choices day after day. Either we follow our fleshly and selfish desires or we allow Satan to move in and destroy the good and perfect plans God has established for those of us who love Him. James 1:12-17 is a longer passage, but bear with me as I read the important truths contained. “Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.” We must not allow anything we think we desire in this world to undermine our growth in Christ. Distractions will always be around us. There is absolutely nothing here on this earth that will ever compare with the beauty of committing to the most important relationship we will ever have and in sharing and teaching Him to our children. The best way we can tell whether we are allowing Jesus to work in and change our hearts is by His promise. Once we have accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit as He takes permanent residence within us as a guarantee of security that we are His. We not only believe His word and promise, but we also begin to see changes in the way we live. Our minds, thoughts, actions, and attitudes begin changing and evolving daily. We die to sin and the grip it once held over us. Of course, we will still be tempted, but the way we face temptation begins to change. Because of Christ, nothing should have a permanent grip on us. Temptation is common to all men, even Jesus, but just as the Lord never sinned, He also provides us a way out of temptation. Temptation alone is not a sin, but succumbing to it is. A true, maturing Christian will hear the voice of Jesus daily, instead of looking for ways to get away with sin. A devoted Christian will also follow the path Jesus sets by example, not just doing whatever activity seems entertaining at the time. As we grow in Christ, as we read His word, we crave more of it. We believe His truths and intentionally find ways to implement His instructions and guidelines in our lives. We desire following Jesus and when we fall into sin or make mistakes, we genuinely repent with a sorrowful heart that yearns for restoration and forgiveness. John 10:7-10 says, “Then Jesus said to them again, “Most assuredly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who ever came before Me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not hear them. I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” Jesus is our door for eternal life. We are the sheep. He is the shepherd. In Biblical times, the sheep pen had one opening for sheep to enter. The shepherd would herd his flock into the enclosed pen and then actually lie down in the entry so that nothing could get in and the sheep could not get out. Jesus protects us in the same way. When we are His, we are saved from death. We live in intimate communion with Jesus, and are provided with perfect nourishment for our soul. Why is all of this so important when talking about raising children? Because if we are truly committed to seeing our children flourish in their relationship with Jesus, we have to be so in love with Him that He seeps from our soul and spirit. We don’t want to teach our children about Jesus; we want to model a love and relationship so strong that they know Him because they see Him daily through us. We want to be the magnet that draws our children straight to the heart of Jesus. Without our own thriving personal relationship with Him, that will not happen. Let’s stop and consider a few things absolutely vital to our walk with Christ. I believe we should all ask ourselves the following questions. 1. What do I believe about eternity? What I believe directly impacts the life of my precious children. What do I believe? How do I know my belief is true? 2. Am I living my belief? The time I have on this earth is nothing in comparison to eternity. James 4:14 says, “Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” I do not know what the next second will bring, let alone the next day. I have to take responsibility for what I believe. The time is now. 3. Do I surrender to Jesus daily so that my child will, too? Am I modeling my beliefs? Do I consider my beliefs important enough to make the sacrifice to die to myself daily and allow Christ full access? 4. What do I believe about the eternity of my children? Do my children know Christ yet? 5. Am I doing everything I possibly can to secure the eternity of my children? Do my children see my love for Jesus daily? Do they hear my prayers? Do we pray together? Do I teach them to rely on God? Do they see me read my Bible? Do we also read the Bible together? Do they see me walk the way God instructs in His word? Do they see me repent and change when I fail? Do I apologize to them (or others) when I do wrong? Do I discuss Jesus with my children? Do I walk and talk with Jesus each day and guide my children to do the same? Do I bring Him naturally into conversations so they see my relationship is real and natural? Just as many people take time to contemplate life goals at the beginning of each year, we must reflect on our walk with Christ daily. Life is not simply about us; it should be a reflection of Christ that spreads out to all we connect with, especially our children. They were not given to us as a burden to raise to adulthood, but as a blessing that God considers a heritage. Our children actually belong to God. They are an inheritance from and for Him. We are caretakers for the Lord. While we have His children in our possession, we must make the most of every moment as we prayerfully guide them to know and love the One they will answer to for eternity. If we are not intentionally living with an eternal perspective as we pursue life and parenting, we are making the choice to raise children of and for the world. We need to live set apart from what this world gives and seek what will truly satisfy the souls of our children. We have to purposely allow God to work through us to intimately know and understand each of our children. We must desire and allow Him to provide what they need to live a life that shines for Him without standing in His way. We must permit God access to our hearts and minds in order for Him to grow us and mold us into the parents our children require so they may be uniquely set apart in this world. True Christian-centered parenting looks and feels unique because we believe, understand, and respect that His children are created in His image for Him. We live to honor Him with those He has lovingly and perfectly entrusted to us. What pleasure we will share with God when we are blessed to proclaim 3 John 1:4, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” What does living and raising our children to be “set-apart” look like? We should exist in this world as an active member in it, but not reflect the values of this world. Our beliefs and actions should mirror what God instructs in His word. It also means loving our neighbor as ourselves. We don’t judge or criticize those who do not seem to be following God’s truths as He instructs, but we don’t have to condone their beliefs or actions, either. It is possible to lovingly disagree and treat the person with grace and kindness. We need to see each other through the loving eyes of God. As we strive to live in ways that honor God and display Him to our children, the choices we make are critical. We have to honestly assess whether the selections we make daily and the way we spend our precious time respect the guidelines and values God wants us to live by. We should be a mirror for our children to see Jesus clearly, through what and who we are, and do. Luke 18:16 warns us clearly, “But Jesus called to him, saying, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God.” Do not make selfish, ignorant, or naïve choices that will ultimately impede your child’s walk and eternal future with God. Checking the atmosphere of our home is mandatory when we desire to live lives pleasing to God and reflect Him to our children and others around us. It is difficult to control and eradicate some of our unwise choices and habits all at once, but starting with drawing attention to and possibly correcting one at a time will ensure that we are drawing nearer to the life God desires for us and our family. Here are some questions to begin with. 1. Does my speech reflect the way I would speak to God if He were sitting with me? He is, by the way. I just can’t see Him. James 3:10-11 says, “from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. Does a fountain send out from the same opening both fresh and bitter water?” 2. Do my actions represent the way Jesus would handle the joys and distresses of this life? 3. Are my activities pleasing to God? 4. Do my friends share my desire to know and please God more deeply? Are they reflecting Him in their lives, as well? 5. Does the way I dress reflect a modest and godly woman secure in the love my Father has for me? 6. Do I have to hide my occupation or is it a worthy use of my time to provide for my family? 7. Does the music I listen to enable my speech and values to be worthy of what God desires for me? Does it enable my speech and actions to stand against what God word requires of me as I grow my walk with Him? Should I be embarrassed for God to hear me sing the lyrics? 8. Does the entertainment I pay to see or participate in glorify God? Does the entertainment in my home show my children how important God is in our lives? 9. Do the books and magazines I read reflect the values and language God desires? Do the messages they lead me to believe stand against scripture? 10. Do the podcasts I listen to reflect values God desires me to learn and possess? 11. Do I spend more time in God’s Holy word than I do on social media? Do I intentionally spend time with my children to teach them to love God and learn His word? Proverbs 24:3 teaches, “By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established.” It can be painful to go through this checklist. Life in this world does anything but guide us into the Father’s arms. We will never live a perfect life on earth, but we can strive to live as closely to the way God calls us as possible. We always have more ways we can purposely erase the influences of all this life leads us to believe we need. Strive to lean more closely into God’s beautiful desires for us instead. John 15:9-11 promises, “Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.” Psalm 90:12 instructs, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we grow more Christlike, we desire Him even more. People begin to see the Lord through us and are drawn to become more like Him themselves. As we experience sweet fellowship with Jesus and savor the joy we receive when our children walk closely with Him, the attraction to the distractions in this world fade. Matthew 13:44 explains it well; “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.” May we all live with the joy, hope, and peace that only Jesus can provide and give our children the treasure of the kingdom of heaven so they can live a lifetime of sweet closeness with their Savior, Jesus Christ. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 007 Equipping Children Listen to Episode Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #007 – Equipping Children Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. The topic close to my heart today is one that is deeply personal. More importantly, it’s special to God. This episode is about children and those who influence them. Although I realize I’m not the only mother in the world who has raised two separate families, I know it’s definitely not the norm. Some people consider us crazy; some admire us and lift us to reside on a pedestal of benevolence. Honestly, we are neither of those. The fact is that two of our children were brought to us biologically. Two of them were brought to us through adoption. Just as women achieve pregnancy and deliver babies through different ways, our family was built by two methods and stretched over a longer period of time than most. It’s honestly that simple. Yet, I still consider my family a miracle and our story one that only God can author. But then, that’s true of all of us. The most urgent desire I have in my heart after raising one set of children and now raising the next, is the absolute necessity of bringing our children up to know, love, and respect the Lord and helping other mothers to understand that importance. To raise our children to love and honor Jesus and to desire to grow their own relationship with Him is the best gift we can give them and the most important job we have. I have found that those of us who claim to be Christians usually want to raise Christian children. But the truth is that many of us depend on the church to raise our child to know God and don’t take active steps at home to nurture the relationship we have with the Lord, let alone foster the growth of our children in Him. Many of us have also been deceived into thinking that once our child accepts Christ as Savior that we don’t have to be as concerned about our child. Both are dangerously blinding us with deceit straight from Satan. How do I know this happens? It happened to me as a young, naive new Christian mother. I had good intentions, but lacked the wisdom I needed to grow and sufficiently nurture my own walk, let alone the heart journey of my children. Our walk was not the straight path I wish it would have been, although I honestly loved the Lord. I’ve also heard stories from others who have similar testimonies to share. Many children from Christian families attend church functions anywhere from one to five hours per week. Families may go to Sunday school and church on Sunday mornings, then either go back to church Sunday night or attend a church function on Wednesday evening, but in our active and fast-paced world, fewer children attend that often. Many churches have stopped Sunday evening services and many children have school or personal activities on Wednesday evenings. Even if children were attending activities at the church at all of the mentioned times, simply being at the church does not make them a growing Christian. You absolutely cannot nurture and sustain a close relationship with Christ on a few hours a week. A true relationship with God starts through a personal relationship with Christ and continues to grow and thrive in the home. It must be nurtured throughout each day. Children learn best when they see a beautiful and godly relationship with Jesus modeled daily in every action, reaction, and interaction they see their parents make. Even our mistakes can draw them nearer to God as they see the ways grace-filled and influenced parents handle living in this broken world. Unless we purposely fix our minds on living with eternal perspective, this world, our pride and lusts, and Satan will distract us with anything to pull us away from Christ. John 10:10 warns, “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” When I became a Christian, I foolishly believed that my life would automatically be different, but just as everything else in life, that’s actually when the real work began. I had to learn about releasing my life to the One I now professed to follow. In the meantime, my children were maturing quickly and I missed opportunities to nurture them in and through Jesus the way I should have. It is vitally important to me to teach mothers the importance of maturing your fellowship with Jesus so that He will naturally be breathed into the lives of your precious children from the very beginning. You will never regret it. Seeking the Lord and growing our relationship with Jesus should be as much a part of our existence as breathing. Just as we awaken each day with a craving for food and drink, our mind should instinctively desire Him and automatically draw to fellowship with Him throughout each day. I think of the hymn, “He Lives,” by Alan Jackson. Here are a few of the words. “He lives! He lives! Christ Jesus lives today! He walks with me and talks with me along life’s narrow way. He lives! He lives! Salvation to impart! You ask me how I know He lives. He lives within my heart.” We are meant to walk and talk with Jesus through an internal dialogue that beautifully draws us nearer to Him. Jesus knows my innermost thoughts. He knows yours. He intimately cares about everything concerning me and concerning you. No matter where you are in your faith journey, if you have accepted Jesus as your Savior, the Holy Spirit is living within you to guide and move you to a deeper walk with Him. We create distance in our relationship with Jesus just as we do with people in our lives. If we don’t welcome Him and nurture the relationship, it will fade. Jesus won’t leave us, but we can drift away from Him. To grow and sustain our Christian walk, we have to be intentional and not let distractions take the place of commitment, just like with every relationship in our life. Now let’s think about God’s word. When we read the Bible, we clearly see people who were determined to direct their own lives while making unwise choices that drew them away from God. Let’s use the very first example of shattered lives in the Bible as we discuss how cleverly the serpent (Satan) tricked Eve. It’s so easy for us to look back at her and think of Eve as foolish. She (and Adam) clearly understood the instructions God had given them. But we also allow subtleties to distract us from living fully in relationship with Jesus daily. Once we have accepted Christ as our Savior, He desires us to allow Him to sit as the Master of our life. It’s easy to say we believe in God and want Him to guide us. It’s harder to actually accept and allow Jesus to transform our life, giving Him direct access to our thoughts, emotions, speech, actions, and attitude. In other words, we are to release everything in our life to Him. In the beginning, Adam and Eve lived in intimate communion with God. He fulfilled their every need, giving them good and perfect gifts. They had peace of mind and deep joy. Gratitude filled their lives. They did not live with hazy minds tinged by lies or twisted truths - until they disobeyed. Then, they became estranged from God and the intimate bond they shared was severed. 2 Corinthians 11:3 states, “But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.” We make the same foolish choices day after day. Either we follow our fleshly and selfish desires or we allow Satan to move in and destroy the good and perfect plans God has established for those of us who love Him. James 1:12-17 is a longer passage, but bear with me as I read the important truths contained. “Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.” We must not allow anything we think we desire in this world to undermine our growth in Christ. Distractions will always be around us. There is absolutely nothing here on this earth that will ever compare with the beauty of committing to the most important relationship we will ever have and in sharing and teaching Him to our children. The best way we can tell whether we are allowing Jesus to work in and change our hearts is by His promise. Once we have accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit as He takes permanent residence within us as a guarantee of security that we are His. We not only believe His word and promise, but we also begin to see changes in the way we live. Our minds, thoughts, actions, and attitudes begin changing and evolving daily. We die to sin and the grip it once held over us. Of course, we will still be tempted, but the way we face temptation begins to change. Because of Christ, nothing should have a permanent grip on us. Temptation is common to all men, even Jesus, but just as the Lord never sinned, He also provides us a way out of temptation. Temptation alone is not a sin, but succumbing to it is. A true, maturing Christian will hear the voice of Jesus daily, instead of looking for ways to get away with sin. A devoted Christian will also follow the path Jesus sets by example, not just doing whatever activity seems entertaining at the time. As we grow in Christ, as we read His word, we crave more of it. We believe His truths and intentionally find ways to implement His instructions and guidelines in our lives. We desire following Jesus and when we fall into sin or make mistakes, we genuinely repent with a sorrowful heart that yearns for restoration and forgiveness. John 10:7-10 says, “Then Jesus said to them again, “Most assuredly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who ever came before Me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not hear them. I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” Jesus is our door for eternal life. We are the sheep. He is the shepherd. In Biblical times, the sheep pen had one opening for sheep to enter. The shepherd would herd his flock into the enclosed pen and then actually lie down in the entry so that nothing could get in and the sheep could not get out. Jesus protects us in the same way. When we are His, we are saved from death. We live in intimate communion with Jesus, and are provided with perfect nourishment for our soul. Why is all of this so important when talking about raising children? Because if we are truly committed to seeing our children flourish in their relationship with Jesus, we have to be so in love with Him that He seeps from our soul and spirit. We don’t want to teach our children about Jesus; we want to model a love and relationship so strong that they know Him because they see Him daily through us. We want to be the magnet that draws our children straight to the heart of Jesus. Without our own thriving personal relationship with Him, that will not happen. Let’s stop and consider a few things absolutely vital to our walk with Christ. I believe we should all ask ourselves the following questions. 1. What do I believe about eternity? What I believe directly impacts the life of my precious children. What do I believe? How do I know my belief is true? 2. Am I living my belief? The time I have on this earth is nothing in comparison to eternity. James 4:14 says, “Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” I do not know what the next second will bring, let alone the next day. I have to take responsibility for what I believe. The time is now. 3. Do I surrender to Jesus daily so that my child will, too? Am I modeling my beliefs? Do I consider my beliefs important enough to make the sacrifice to die to myself daily and allow Christ full access? 4. What do I believe about the eternity of my children? Do my children know Christ yet? 5. Am I doing everything I possibly can to secure the eternity of my children? Do my children see my love for Jesus daily? Do they hear my prayers? Do we pray together? Do I teach them to rely on God? Do they see me read my Bible? Do we also read the Bible together? Do they see me walk the way God instructs in His word? Do they see me repent and change when I fail? Do I apologize to them (or others) when I do wrong? Do I discuss Jesus with my children? Do I walk and talk with Jesus each day and guide my children to do the same? Do I bring Him naturally into conversations so they see my relationship is real and natural? Just as many people take time to contemplate life goals at the beginning of each year, we must reflect on our walk with Christ daily. Life is not simply about us; it should be a reflection of Christ that spreads out to all we connect with, especially our children. They were not given to us as a burden to raise to adulthood, but as a blessing that God considers a heritage. Our children actually belong to God. They are an inheritance from and for Him. We are caretakers for the Lord. While we have His children in our possession, we must make the most of every moment as we prayerfully guide them to know and love the One they will answer to for eternity. If we are not intentionally living with an eternal perspective as we pursue life and parenting, we are making the choice to raise children of and for the world. We need to live set apart from what this world gives and seek what will truly satisfy the souls of our children. We have to purposely allow God to work through us to intimately know and understand each of our children. We must desire and allow Him to provide what they need to live a life that shines for Him without standing in His way. We must permit God access to our hearts and minds in order for Him to grow us and mold us into the parents our children require so they may be uniquely set apart in this world. True Christian-centered parenting looks and feels unique because we believe, understand, and respect that His children are created in His image for Him. We live to honor Him with those He has lovingly and perfectly entrusted to us. What pleasure we will share with God when we are blessed to proclaim 3 John 1:4, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” What does living and raising our children to be “set-apart” look like? We should exist in this world as an active member in it, but not reflect the values of this world. Our beliefs and actions should mirror what God instructs in His word. It also means loving our neighbor as ourselves. We don’t judge or criticize those who do not seem to be following God’s truths as He instructs, but we don’t have to condone their beliefs or actions, either. It is possible to lovingly disagree and treat the person with grace and kindness. We need to see each other through the loving eyes of God. As we strive to live in ways that honor God and display Him to our children, the choices we make are critical. We have to honestly assess whether the selections we make daily and the way we spend our precious time respect the guidelines and values God wants us to live by. We should be a mirror for our children to see Jesus clearly, through what and who we are, and do. Luke 18:16 warns us clearly, “But Jesus called to him, saying, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God.” Do not make selfish, ignorant, or naïve choices that will ultimately impede your child’s walk and eternal future with God. Checking the atmosphere of our home is mandatory when we desire to live lives pleasing to God and reflect Him to our children and others around us. It is difficult to control and eradicate some of our unwise choices and habits all at once, but starting with drawing attention to and possibly correcting one at a time will ensure that we are drawing nearer to the life God desires for us and our family. Here are some questions to begin with. 1. Does my speech reflect the way I would speak to God if He were sitting with me? He is, by the way. I just can’t see Him. James 3:10-11 says, “from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way. Does a fountain send out from the same opening both fresh and bitter water?” 2. Do my actions represent the way Jesus would handle the joys and distresses of this life? 3. Are my activities pleasing to God? 4. Do my friends share my desire to know and please God more deeply? Are they reflecting Him in their lives, as well? 5. Does the way I dress reflect a modest and godly woman secure in the love my Father has for me? 6. Do I have to hide my occupation or is it a worthy use of my time to provide for my family? 7. Does the music I listen to enable my speech and values to be worthy of what God desires for me? Does it enable my speech and actions to stand against what God word requires of me as I grow my walk with Him? Should I be embarrassed for God to hear me sing the lyrics? 8. Does the entertainment I pay to see or participate in glorify God? Does the entertainment in my home show my children how important God is in our lives? 9. Do the books and magazines I read reflect the values and language God desires? Do the messages they lead me to believe stand against scripture? 10. Do the podcasts I listen to reflect values God desires me to learn and possess? 11. Do I spend more time in God’s Holy word than I do on social media? Do I intentionally spend time with my children to teach them to love God and learn His word? Proverbs 24:3 teaches, “By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established.” It can be painful to go through this checklist. Life in this world does anything but guide us into the Father’s arms. We will never live a perfect life on earth, but we can strive to live as closely to the way God calls us as possible. We always have more ways we can purposely erase the influences of all this life leads us to believe we need. Strive to lean more closely into God’s beautiful desires for us instead. John 15:9-11 promises, “Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.” Psalm 90:12 instructs, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we grow more Christlike, we desire Him even more. People begin to see the Lord through us and are drawn to become more like Him themselves. As we experience sweet fellowship with Jesus and savor the joy we receive when our children walk closely with Him, the attraction to the distractions in this world fade. Matthew 13:44 explains it well; “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.” May we all live with the joy, hope, and peace that only Jesus can provide and give our children the treasure of the kingdom of heaven so they can live a lifetime of sweet closeness with their Savior, Jesus Christ. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #086 – Guidelines for Living Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes we must seek to be well-equipped to concentrate on Jesus, and live with heart and mind focused on eternity, as we seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. As I shared on a previous podcast, our home is now filled with the curious and innocent love of a brand new furry family member. Puppies are notorious for biting, exploring, and learning their place in the family. Ours is no exception! Since it is so much easier to watch over our new little one in a confined area, and we spend so much time in our kitchen, I like to keep our new baby fenced in the kitchen with us. Using baby gates, we have blocked the two doors in our kitchen so that we know our boy is safely enclosed on the hardwood flooring, which is so much easier to clean if accidents happen, plus it is much easier to limit his exposure to distractions or dangers. Because we have the fences blocking Beau’s escape, he often goes to the gate and begins to whine. Plenty of toys, items to chew, and we, his family are inside the kitchen and around him, yet he longs to explore the rest of the house. Curiously, when the gates are open and he has free reign to come and go into the space as he desires, he is perfectly content to stay in the kitchen with us. While watching our puppy’s behavior one day, I was reminded of how often our behavior is similar to Beau’s concerning our relationship with God. Our Heavenly Father gives us guidelines, which I like to call guardrails to keep us safe. God also gives us the ability to choose to live in accordance with His good and perfect desires for us. Think of how often humans try to step outside His boundaries just because we don’t want to feel fenced in. We want to be able to do what we want just because we desire it. Just like Beau. It really doesn’t matter how many chew toys and belly rubs we give our furry boy; He still likes to run over to the gate to see if he can escape any time he has a second of time alone. It doesn’t matter how much freedom God allows us; sometimes we just want what feels good in the moment. Just like we all have rules to follow, whether it be personal rules we have set, family rules, work rules, school rules, or rules set by society, we know what is expected and we have the ability to choose whether we will obey. Obviously, as believers, we should understand that God’s precepts are the most important, and govern above anything else set. God, in His goodness and through His sovereign and holy grace, allows us to choose whether we will obey Him or turn our back on His laws and guidelines. Not only does He offer us the Ten Commandments, but a Bible full of promises and guidelines to hear, listen, and obey, if we choose. If we don’t, God clearly warns there will be consequences, yet He loves us enough to set a fence around us for our own protection in many ways. Psalm 32:8 says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Because His love for us is so great, God promises His followers biblical wisdom as we seek relationship with Him, learn His word, and follow the guidelines He has set for us. Isaiah 30:21 says, “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” When we are near to the Lord and seek His presence and protection in our life, we are sensitive to His commands and desires, and we listen for and recognize His voice. The Lord is merciful to those who seek Him. The Lord is delighted when our soul longs to fellowship with Him and follow His commands, not because He is a dictator who wants His way, but because He deeply loves us. God created each one of us for relationship with Him; He alone knows the desires He created us to long for and how they fit into the good and perfect plans He has lovingly set for us. Listen to these beautiful verses. Psalm 147:11 says, “The Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.” Psalm 25:9 says, “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them His way." Psalm 25:4-5 says, “Show me Your ways, O Lord; teach me Your paths. Guide me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; all day long I wait for You.” Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” As my puppy longs to escape the pen we created to keep him safe and to teach him guidelines to train him properly, he cannot realize that in time, his boundaries will increase. As he matures, he will be ready for more and our relationship will be close from the time we spent together as we pour love and attention into Him. He will learn the rules of safety and obedience to become all He can to ensure a happy and fulfilled life. Isaiah 48:17 says, “This is what the Lord says, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go.” Psalm 143:8 says, “Let me hear Your loving devotion in the morning, for I have put my trust in You. Teach me the way I should walk, for to You I lift up my soul.” Psalm 73:23-24 says, “Yet I am always with You; You hold my right hand. You guide me with Your counsel, and later receive me in glory.” As we continue to pursue our relationship and walk with God, our maturity increases. We see more clearly the life He has set for us and we long to please Him in new ways. We begin to seek Him and His ways, instead of seeking to escape the fence we once felt surrounding us. We respect and long for God’s protection and guidance from the Source of all things pure, good, and worthy. Psalm 139:23-24 says, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my concerns. See if there is any offensive way in me; lead me in the way everlasting.” Psalm 119:9 says, “How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to Your word.” Psalm 119:35 says, “Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight.” How can following guidelines bring us closer to God? 1. Obedience - Just as we maintain guidelines for Beau and begin our bonding and attachment process, God sets limitations or rules for us to abide by. When we chose to accept those limitations, we focus our gaze more clearly on the truths of God and His goodness and provisions. We internalize His everlasting love for us, exhibit our love for Him, and begin the transformation process needed to become a reflection of Him. 2. Intimacy – As we realize more clearly who God is, we respond to His love by seeking an intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father. Making His word a priority in our life, and communicating with our Father through prayer (both speaking to Him and listening for Him) allow us to cultivate a connection that transforms from who we were to who He is calling us to become. 3. Wisdom – As we transform into a likeness of Christ, we obtain more of the wisdom God generously bestows to those who love and seek His counsel. We are able to hear and respond more intimately with the Holy Spirit living inside us. 4. Gratitude – When we live with thankfulness despite circumstances, such as being penned into an area of life we do not choose, or when we live with a gratefulness for who we are through Christ and the work God is crafting inside us, our attitude and responses no longer reflect a broken human in need of grace, but of a Savior who sacrificed all so that we could live full lives of love, mercy, peace, and joy. Allowing the power of Christ control in all areas in our life, realizing that we are His and His plans are far greater than we can imagine, allows us to truly live with an eternal perspective that seeks Jesus moment by moment and transforms lives around us as we are beautifully altered. Gracious, merciful Heavenly Father, there is none like You. You are perfect, holy, and sovereign. I marvel at how You look upon us as we seek our own way, yet still desire relationship with us, exhibiting the most beautiful and sacrificial love. Thank you for modeling the way to a healthy lifestyle, a peaceful home, a joyful attitude, and a grateful heart. You crafted us, You know us, and You can fill every empty place within us if we only seek You above all else and follow Your generous guidelines. Teach us, O Lord, the way of Your statutes so that we may keep them to the end. Give us Your understanding that we may obey Your laws, and direct us in the path of Your commandments so that we may be filled with delight. Help us to meditate on Your laws with love and appreciation for all You desire for us. Keep our mind and feet free from every evil path, help us to keep Your word. Be near to us, O Lord and allow us to be ever nearer to You moment by moment. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 086 - Guidelines for Living Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #086 – Guidelines for Living Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss intentional changes we must seek to be well-equipped to concentrate on Jesus, and live with heart and mind focused on eternity, as we seek more ways to live with eternal perspective. As I shared on a previous podcast, our home is now filled with the curious and innocent love of a brand new furry family member. Puppies are notorious for biting, exploring, and learning their place in the family. Ours is no exception! Since it is so much easier to watch over our new little one in a confined area, and we spend so much time in our kitchen, I like to keep our new baby fenced in the kitchen with us. Using baby gates, we have blocked the two doors in our kitchen so that we know our boy is safely enclosed on the hardwood flooring, which is so much easier to clean if accidents happen, plus it is much easier to limit his exposure to distractions or dangers. Because we have the fences blocking Beau’s escape, he often goes to the gate and begins to whine. Plenty of toys, items to chew, and we, his family are inside the kitchen and around him, yet he longs to explore the rest of the house. Curiously, when the gates are open and he has free reign to come and go into the space as he desires, he is perfectly content to stay in the kitchen with us. While watching our puppy’s behavior one day, I was reminded of how often our behavior is similar to Beau’s concerning our relationship with God. Our Heavenly Father gives us guidelines, which I like to call guardrails to keep us safe. God also gives us the ability to choose to live in accordance with His good and perfect desires for us. Think of how often humans try to step outside His boundaries just because we don’t want to feel fenced in. We want to be able to do what we want just because we desire it. Just like Beau. It really doesn’t matter how many chew toys and belly rubs we give our furry boy; He still likes to run over to the gate to see if he can escape any time he has a second of time alone. It doesn’t matter how much freedom God allows us; sometimes we just want what feels good in the moment. Just like we all have rules to follow, whether it be personal rules we have set, family rules, work rules, school rules, or rules set by society, we know what is expected and we have the ability to choose whether we will obey. Obviously, as believers, we should understand that God’s precepts are the most important, and govern above anything else set. God, in His goodness and through His sovereign and holy grace, allows us to choose whether we will obey Him or turn our back on His laws and guidelines. Not only does He offer us the Ten Commandments, but a Bible full of promises and guidelines to hear, listen, and obey, if we choose. If we don’t, God clearly warns there will be consequences, yet He loves us enough to set a fence around us for our own protection in many ways. Psalm 32:8 says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Because His love for us is so great, God promises His followers biblical wisdom as we seek relationship with Him, learn His word, and follow the guidelines He has set for us. Isaiah 30:21 says, “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” When we are near to the Lord and seek His presence and protection in our life, we are sensitive to His commands and desires, and we listen for and recognize His voice. The Lord is merciful to those who seek Him. The Lord is delighted when our soul longs to fellowship with Him and follow His commands, not because He is a dictator who wants His way, but because He deeply loves us. God created each one of us for relationship with Him; He alone knows the desires He created us to long for and how they fit into the good and perfect plans He has lovingly set for us. Listen to these beautiful verses. Psalm 147:11 says, “The Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.” Psalm 25:9 says, “He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them His way." Psalm 25:4-5 says, “Show me Your ways, O Lord; teach me Your paths. Guide me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; all day long I wait for You.” Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” As my puppy longs to escape the pen we created to keep him safe and to teach him guidelines to train him properly, he cannot realize that in time, his boundaries will increase. As he matures, he will be ready for more and our relationship will be close from the time we spent together as we pour love and attention into Him. He will learn the rules of safety and obedience to become all He can to ensure a happy and fulfilled life. Isaiah 48:17 says, “This is what the Lord says, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go.” Psalm 143:8 says, “Let me hear Your loving devotion in the morning, for I have put my trust in You. Teach me the way I should walk, for to You I lift up my soul.” Psalm 73:23-24 says, “Yet I am always with You; You hold my right hand. You guide me with Your counsel, and later receive me in glory.” As we continue to pursue our relationship and walk with God, our maturity increases. We see more clearly the life He has set for us and we long to please Him in new ways. We begin to seek Him and His ways, instead of seeking to escape the fence we once felt surrounding us. We respect and long for God’s protection and guidance from the Source of all things pure, good, and worthy. Psalm 139:23-24 says, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my concerns. See if there is any offensive way in me; lead me in the way everlasting.” Psalm 119:9 says, “How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to Your word.” Psalm 119:35 says, “Direct me in the path of your commands, for there I find delight.” How can following guidelines bring us closer to God? 1. Obedience - Just as we maintain guidelines for Beau and begin our bonding and attachment process, God sets limitations or rules for us to abide by. When we chose to accept those limitations, we focus our gaze more clearly on the truths of God and His goodness and provisions. We internalize His everlasting love for us, exhibit our love for Him, and begin the transformation process needed to become a reflection of Him. 2. Intimacy – As we realize more clearly who God is, we respond to His love by seeking an intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father. Making His word a priority in our life, and communicating with our Father through prayer (both speaking to Him and listening for Him) allow us to cultivate a connection that transforms from who we were to who He is calling us to become. 3. Wisdom – As we transform into a likeness of Christ, we obtain more of the wisdom God generously bestows to those who love and seek His counsel. We are able to hear and respond more intimately with the Holy Spirit living inside us. 4. Gratitude – When we live with thankfulness despite circumstances, such as being penned into an area of life we do not choose, or when we live with a gratefulness for who we are through Christ and the work God is crafting inside us, our attitude and responses no longer reflect a broken human in need of grace, but of a Savior who sacrificed all so that we could live full lives of love, mercy, peace, and joy. Allowing the power of Christ control in all areas in our life, realizing that we are His and His plans are far greater than we can imagine, allows us to truly live with an eternal perspective that seeks Jesus moment by moment and transforms lives around us as we are beautifully altered. Gracious, merciful Heavenly Father, there is none like You. You are perfect, holy, and sovereign. I marvel at how You look upon us as we seek our own way, yet still desire relationship with us, exhibiting the most beautiful and sacrificial love. Thank you for modeling the way to a healthy lifestyle, a peaceful home, a joyful attitude, and a grateful heart. You crafted us, You know us, and You can fill every empty place within us if we only seek You above all else and follow Your generous guidelines. Teach us, O Lord, the way of Your statutes so that we may keep them to the end. Give us Your understanding that we may obey Your laws, and direct us in the path of Your commandments so that we may be filled with delight. Help us to meditate on Your laws with love and appreciation for all You desire for us. Keep our mind and feet free from every evil path, help us to keep Your word. Be near to us, O Lord and allow us to be ever nearer to You moment by moment. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 067 - Have You Planned for Your Child's Spiritual Growth? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 067 – How Are You Planning for Your Child’s Spiritual Growth? I remember wanting to read everything I could about child development when I was pregnant with my first child. I was eighteen years old, and if I heard another parent or doctor state something, or if the information was was published, I thought it had to be true! How different I feel about those sources today. Regardless, that curiosity and desire to do well as a mother spurred me to find answers before they were needed. I wanted to be ahead, to know what to expect , and to give my child the best start in life. By the time I had my second child, I felt pretty confident that I could rely more on instinct and experience than what others said. But a generation later, when we brought our ten month old daughter home from China, I was back to reading books plus taking attachment, cultural, and trauma classes. Ten years after that, when we brought our youngest home as a nine year child with much deprivation in her history, I had also completed several foster-to-adopt courses. All of those courses and materials, combined with lots of prayer left me as prepared as I could be. People say you never know what to expect when you adopt, but the truth is that you don’t know what you will encounter as a bio mom, either. Most mothers like to be prepared. It makes us feel like better parents when we think we know a little more about what to expect. We feel empowered when we’re armed with the resources we might need. The phrase “mama bear” is so true. We fight for our children and knowledge is one of the best defenses we can have. But one thing I’ve noticed is that most mothers don’t think about planning for the spiritual development of their children. I certainly didn’t do it the first time I parented. It wasn’t until my husband and I decided to begin parenting with a baby again over twenty years later that we created a purposed parenting plan that caused me to think about charting spiritual growth. Obviously, spiritual development of your child is even more important than their physical, mental, and emotional development, because it affects their eternity . Why do we accidentally leave so much of it to chance? One of the Bible verses I’m intrigued by is Luke 2:52. In it, we read, "And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man.” Surprisingly, God’s Word doesn’t tell us much about Jesus as a child. Yet this short verse exposes so much if we pay attention . First, let’s stop and look up the definition of wisdom, “the quality or state of being wise; knowledge of what is true or right coupled with just judgment as to action, discernment, or insight .” Next, if we look up the word stature, it says, “degree of development attained; level of achievement .” We know this means the Bible is telling us Jesus had godly insight and discernment, the wisest you can get and He achieved it at a very high level. As Jesus matured, He continued to grow in these ways of God. Don’t you bet God charted the spiritual growth of His Son? Don’t you think He was purposed in what Jesus was exposed to and what God allowed to happen? In how He used every experience to mature Jesus’ character and godliness? Just as we should do with our children. Because God intentionally planted eternity on our hearts, He also placed the need for us to mature spiritually while we grow physically, mentally, and emotionally. Just as He did with Jesus. Ecclesiastes 3:11a says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, He has put eternity into man’s heart .” Just as there are medically proven developmental stages for children, the spiritual life of a child seems to mature in stages. Before the age of seven, a child typically cannot understand the abstract. Some say that the thought of a Heavenly Father may be difficult to comprehend because children aren’t able to see God or understand specific theological points in discussions. However, they do understand and enjoy rituals and symbols, such as the cross or prayers. Although research demonstrates what is believed about children at this age, believing mothers must remember what the Bible tells us in Matthew 19:14. “Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these .” I believe that when we teach our children Biblical truths about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit from the beginning of our time with them, and we prayerfully nurture their faith. When we ask God to convey His wisdom to us in how to parent His child in godly ways, He will honor our prayers. Continue exposing your child to God’s truths as early as possible in ways that enable your child to build interest, understanding, and faith. The heart of a young child is ready to hear about Jesus. You are nurturing their eternity. Until the late preteen years, around the age of twelve, you are helping your child construct their important foundation of faith. They are growing a personal sense of connection to God through experience with family. Where and how your child worships, the truths he has learned from the Bible, other faith-based experiences, family and church rituals, and traditions remain very important in building faith and understanding at this age. The teen years should solidify connection with God through Christ. A teen is searching for answers about self, the world, and others. You know Jesus is the answer. As you have helped your child build identity through Christ in younger years, you can now help them connect what they’ve already learned and experienced so they will bring faith, trust, and obedience to a higher level. Throughout the life of your child, whether in the earliest or teen years, continue with traditions you’ve established at home and church. Continue teaching God’s truths and helping your child understand why they believe. Although sometimes you may think your child doesn’t pay attention, they are absorbing everything, especially what you deem important and what you remain consistent with. Your faith , godly character , and obedience to God and His Word will affect them more than any other influence. If you are prayerfully and purposely committed to God, and personal growth in and through Him, your family, and children will see God at work in you. Remember, God gifts you with perfect parenting direction within His perfect Life Manual, His holy Word, the Bible and your prayerful time with Him. As you study God’s Word, you see that He has given you exactly what is needed to influence children for Jesus. He has offered guidelines, guards, and promises. When you hear the following verses, listen with new ears. Hear the heart behind the words. Think of ways you should use the verses to lead you and help you influence and raise your children for God. Let me give a few examples: Psalm 34:11 says, “Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the Lord .” The only way to learn the fear of the Lord is to know Him. After you accept Christ as your personal Savior, live with the Holy Spirit within, study God’s Word, and trust and follow the Lord with humble submission, you are transformed. You are made new. You carry new eyes, ears, heart, and desires. As you learn more of God and His truths, you carry the fear of the Lord because you recognize His holiness and sovereignty. Spiritual growth has occurred and you are able to help your children grow, as well. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 says, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up .” God tells us that we should be thinking of Him, living for and growing in Him, and purposely teaching our children to do the same moment by moment. Living for and growing in God should be as simple as the act of breathing . Life is full of distractions. Remember, God didn’t place Adam and Eve in a world like we have today and they still fell. We must be extra cautious of the confusion, interferences, and sin faced daily. God never said parenting for Him would be easy, but He has required us to do so. What will you sacrifice to obey Him and make Him known to your children? Ephesians 6:4 says, “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord .” Have you seen parents who treat their children as competitors or best friends? I have. None of us are perfect parents, but our children deserve the best we can give them. Your child receives your best when you intentionally draw near to God so He will draw nearer to you. Daily. Every moment. Wear those invisible blinders that lead your heart, mind, and eyes to Him. The closer you are to Christ, humbly trusting and obeying, learning how to be the godly woman and parent He desires, the less exasperated, confused, or hopeless your child will be. Numbers 14:18 says, “The Lord is slow to anger, abounding in love and forgiving sin and rebellion. Yet He does not leave the guilty unpunished; He punishes the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation .” What needs to change in your life or the life of your spouse? Living with eternal perspective means paying attention to ways you can extract sins and spiritual neglect from your life and home. What happens now moves into future generations. How are you, your spouse, and children going to influence those after you for eternity? Your choices and decisions matter. Proverbs 14:1 says, “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands .” Who you are and what you do are drawing your child closer to or further away from Christ. How are you moving nearer to God daily? In what ways are you making Him known to your children? Do you inhale God’s love, grace, and mercy moment by moment and exhale His truths for your child to grasp? By your own hands you are influencing the next generation for Jesus in ways that either honor or dishonor God. There are so many verses – a whole book of them – that we could go over in this episode. I’ll list a few more verses without my thoughts for you to ponder and begin with. There are so many additional excellent verses to use in the Bible. Look at the Bible with new eyes the next time you study. Pinpoint verses that may be used to shape your character, motives, parenting, marriage, and choices. This is the best start to purposed parenting and planning for your child’s spiritual growth. John 17:17 says, “Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth .” Psalm 119:97 says, “Oh, how I love your law! I meditate on it all day long .” Galatians 5:25 says, “Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives .” Hebrews 12:11 says, “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. ” 1 Samuel 3:13 says, “For I told him that I would judge his family forever because of the sin he knew about; his sons blasphemed God, and he failed to restrain them .” Proverbs 23:24 says, “The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him .” James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you .” Psalm 19:7-9 says, “The law of the Lord is perfect, refreshing the soul. The statutes of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The precepts of the Lord are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are radiant, giving light to the eyes. The fear of the Lord is pure, enduring forever. The decrees of the Lord are firm, and all of them are righteous .” Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.” Use these verses to help you begin charting the spiritual life of your children in purposed ways. Just as you mark the walls of your home to show the height your child is reaching, impress the heart and mind of your child with spiritual truths that will shape their character and morals for eternity. Dear Heavenly Father, how gracious You are to us. How can You entrust Your children into our incapable hands? Your generosity is astounding! Your holy character and sovereignty over our lives are such a gift. Your guidelines to us are a treasure that we need to cherish with more intentionality. May we read Your Words with open hearts and receive Your teachings with open hands. Help us to interpret and examine Your teachings with wisdom and insight that comes from You. Help us use Your Words to raise our children and influence our grandchildren for generations to come. May our families shine for You because we make time to know, love, and honor You now and help our children to do the same. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Would you like to walk with other like-minded mothers to deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan? I want to share special news with my podcast listeners. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information and a special code to receive a discount if you find you’d like to join the collective. It’s time for mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? The best reviews are by word of mouth, so if you would also choose a friend to recommend the show to, imagine the change we could see in the way mothers parent for Christ. Also, please tell friends and family that the podcast can be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #027 – An Uncomfortable Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest perks of being a podcaster is that no one can see me. I can record without wearing makeup, dressed in my shabby “stay home” clothes, and my hair barely finger combed. Nobody at home cares, and my youngest actually prefers this mommy look and attire. If I am just staying at home, dressing this way is ultra-comfortable! Do you have favorite, comfortable attire? Is it what you usually only wear at home? Or do you always dress that way? I admit that I am picky. I don’t like pajamas that twist, sleeping on sheets with wrinkles in them, or socks that slide and pinch my toes with the sock seam. Who can stand anything that binds or pulls? Being comfortable keeps a person cheerful, at ease, and contented, while discomfort is disturbing, even painful at times. When I am extremely uncomfortable, it ends up being all I can think about. There are times, however, when we need to accept discomfort, even welcome it. Distress or displeasure are not feelings we would normally desire, so why would we consider inviting unease or hardship? If we desire to grow in our relationship with God, it is imperative that we learn to embrace feeling uncomfortable and we express gratitude through it. Let’s look to the Bible for some insight. Here’s an easy question. Can you think of any Biblical characters that lived a life of ease? No. Do you know why? You might remember that Jesus forewarned us in John 16:33, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” No one lives without sorrow, unease, persecution, or discomfort. But did you catch the good news? Although Jesus warned us that this world carries tribulation, He also promised us that we could have peace through Him during trials. He also reminded us that He has already overcome the world. In Romans 8:28 we learn this, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” Jesus has gone before us, preparing us for trials by warning of upcoming adversity, allowing the Holy Spirit inside us to help us to pray when life gets so complicated that we do not have the words, and encouraging us to learn that for those who love God, and are called according to His purpose, all things will work together for good. After laying such established groundwork for us, He continues strengthening us by revealing that He has already overcome the world. Remember when I mentioned Bible characters earlier? I stated that I couldn’t think of anyone who lived a life without trials or hardship. Just a sprinkling of them were Abraham, Moses, Joseph, Daniel, David, John the Baptist, Paul, and, of course, Jesus. None of them could boast of a life of ease, especially not Jesus, yet comfort was never a priority for Him. Jesus’s greatest goal was obedience to God. Affliction and adversity did not distract Him. This world can bring unfathomable pain and suffering. So much is beyond our control. There are many days when I whisper to myself, “Jesus, come. Save us from ourselves.” We understand that we are supposed to accept hardship and pain, but knowing doesn’t make it easy. Abuse, neglect, financial difficulties, marital problems, starvation, temptation, child trafficking, sickness, temptation, pain, anxiety, depression, failure, confusion, betrayal, discouragement, death, and the list can go on and on. Sometimes we are victims to what life brings, other times, we cause our own grief and difficulties. There are times when God must intercede and possibly discipline us by allowing us to experience discomfort. But through everything, God will work it together for good when we love Him and are called according to His purpose. Despite all of it, our lives are intertwined and God allows us to affect and encourage one another through the good, bad, easy, and hard. No matter what we must endure, Jesus does walk through the pain and suffering with us. He knows suffering, the loneliness and hardship, the feeling of betrayal, the pain, and loss. He is waiting for each one of us to personally ask Him to take our load, and wants to encourage us and carry us through. Jesus suffers when we suffer. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” If God, who loves us, allows us to endure adversity, shouldn’t we ask ourselves why? Something positive must come from the difficulty and anguish. Because they certainly don’t feel good and it is tough to understand how they could be for any good. What could the benefits be? 1. We gain empathy – when we experience grief, suffering, or are uncomfortable because of what we have experienced, we are changed. We better understand the thoughts and feelings of others and can actually hurt with and for them in ways never before possible. Romans 12:15 says, “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” 2. We are humbled – through our experiences, pain, or hardship, we better understand that the world does not revolve around us. We are opened to the sovereignty of God and able to modestly accept the calling of Jesus to place others before ourselves. We realize that all we have, whether great or moderate, is from God’s hand and provision. Romans 12:16 says, “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.” 3. We see God’s strength and provision – When we suffer, and still praise and trust in Him, we experience God’s provision. How will we know what He can do for us personally (beyond reading His word) unless we witness it? Just as we can never out give God, He will meet us where we are and provide exactly what we need (and sometimes more). Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” And Matthew 6:31-34 says, “So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear? For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” 4. We rely on God – As we lean more on God, we gain more trust and faith. We release more to Him and continue deepening our walk with and through Him. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” 5. We are prepared for eternity – As we mature our relationship with God through Jesus and the Holy Spirit working inside us, we capture each moment for eternity and prepare for our eternity with Him. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” 6. We allow God to work through us to affect another for Him. As we are better equipped to live with an eternal perspective, others around us, family, friends, and strangers benefit from the light God projects from our life, which strengthens their walk with the Lord at the same time. Matthew 5:14-16 says, “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Christ was uncomfortable. He suffered. We are uncomfortable. We suffer. Romans 8:12-17 says, “So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.” It is often easier to believe through hindsight that there are blessings in suffering, but the longer we build and deepen our faith, we trust God’s word, and begin to notice signals from the promptings of the Holy Spirit that we need to become uncomfortable. Would we really ever want to feel a spirit of unease? Why in the world would we desire to be annoyed, miserable, or distressed? Hebrews 6:1a says, “Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity.” Let’s uncover a few ways we can benefit from feeling uncomfortable. 1. We may need to be made aware of danger. There may be a danger hidden in something we are doing, in someone we know, or in a way only God is aware of. The Holy Spirit guides and prompts, and we must be attentive by being attuned to the stirrings within. Psalm 138:7 says, “Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the wrath of my enemies, and your right hand delivers me.” 2. We may need to uncover or remove an ungodly habit. When we belong to Jesus, He relentlessly pursues us to return to Him when we stray. If we possess a habit or desire that does not come from Him, He will alert us with feelings that make us uncomfortable. It is true that if we do not heed those warnings, we can eventually tune His voice out, but He never leaves us and we will never experience peace through those activities. 2 Timothy 2:22 says, “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.” 3. We may need to become more aware of others in need. Sometimes the stirrings in our spirit are meant to awaken us to others. We are not meant to live only for ourselves. Matthew 22:37 says, “Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.” 4. We may need to discover a new way of thinking or doing that is more in alignment with God’s character. If we want to live with eternal perspective, we must crave Jesus and love Him with an intensity that propels us to mature each day, allowing Him to transform and mold us to be more like Him. Ephesians 2:3 says, “All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath.” 5. We may need to learn how to think or process feelings or emotions in a way that honors and models Jesus. The fruits of the spirit do not come naturally. We are so far from where Jesus desires us to be. His ways are so much higher and purer. Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” 6. We may need to be stretched in order to become capable of handling greater responsibilities through the Lord. God may be calling you to speak out or to stay silent. He may be calling you to begin or end something. He may be calling us to forgive or to love someone. Through our maturation process in the Lord, we have to expect to be stretched beyond what we can imagine fulfilling in our own strength so we can fully experience His. Philippians 4:13 says, "I can do all things through Christ, who gives me strength." Psalm 138:3 says, "In the day when I cried out, You answered me, and made me bold with strength in my soul." 7. We may need to develop a stronger reliance on God. If we run from or neglect to build or mature our relationship with God, we will always have distress somewhere in our soul. Nothing on this earth will ever fulfill or aid us as He can. Psalm 63:1 says, “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.” There may be additional purposes for the uneasiness God allows in our spirit. Jeremiah 16:19 says, “Lord, my strength and my fortress, my refuge in time of distress, to you the nations will come from the ends of the earth and say, “Our ancestors possessed nothing but false gods, worthless idols that did them no good.” We may need to be corrected, restrained, or purified. Hebrews 12:6 says, “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” If we desire to follow Jesus more closely and develop a heart like His, there are certain questions we should ask ourselves when discomfort settles in our spirit and we are not sure why it is there. 1. Do my family and friends know I follow Jesus? Do they recognize Him in me? 2. Do I only rely on a Sunday sermon to grow my walk and mature my relationship with Jesus? 3. Do I feel challenged? The gospel should pull us in directions that run opposite to this world. Our flesh wants to satisfy self, so the words and direction from God should stretch us throughout our life. We will never complete Christian maturity in this lifetime. 4. Do my family and friends continue see new and positive differences in me since I committed my life to following Christ? 5. Do I live with gratitude or do I feel entitled to what I have and always look for more? 6. Do I turn blind eyes toward something that God would like me to see as He does? 7. Do I find my identity in Christ and reflect that knowledge in the way I live? 8. Do I constantly complain and fault others instead of allowing Christ to work to change me? We must allow ourselves to feel discomfort. In a society that quickly wants to alleviate and cover anything that doesn’t satisfy or feel good now, we sometimes have to force ourselves to stop and experience the feelings and emotions. Acknowledge the pain, distraction, anxiety, doubts, fears, and heartache. Let go of ego or pride and humbly turn to Him. He is waiting. Take your needs to God and give them to Him to carry them. Ask Him to uncover your heart and motives. Notice what is causing your emotions and feelings. What are your habits? What are your triggers? As you dig deeper into these things and work backwards to find out more about what they were caused by and are causing in your life, you will find how they affect your beliefs and your relationships with God, as well as with others. Lift those burdens to Him. Surrender. Ask the One who created you and who knows everything about you, for His perfect guidance, direction, wisdom, insight, and clarification. Do not hide your discomfort or pain. Don’t run from it. Continue praying through the difficulties and immerse yourself in scripture. Trust that there is a purpose for what you have or are enduring. Continue praying and listening for Him. Remain obedient to what He calls. Live with gratitude, despite the obstacles that come from deciphering what you are going through. Remember that there are many seasons in life. Nothing will last forever, despite how it feels right now. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” Where do you want to change? Who do you want to become? Mark 14:33 says, “He took Peter, James and John along with him, and he began to be deeply distressed and troubled.” Jesus, while in the Garden of Gethsemane, felt such profound and intense emotions. The bible says He was troubled, exceedingly sorrowful, and deeply distressed. Our Savior described Himself as overwhelmed with sorrow, even to the point of death and was so afflicted that He sweat blood. The anguish He felt is nothing we have ever experienced. Through it all, what was His constant state? He sought His Father. He continued looking Up. He desired obedience and remained fixed on eternity and what the Father needed Him to do. Isaiah 33:2 says, “Lord, be gracious to us; we long for you. Be our strength every morning, our salvation in time of distress.” We do not know when heartache will crush us. There are not always warnings before disaster hits, but as Romans 8:18 says, “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.” Yet, sometimes we do know adversity will come because we have not dealt with something we need to or we have neglected our walk with the Lord. Many reasons could apply, but God is faithful. Psalm 43:5 says, “Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God; For I shall yet praise Him. The help of my countenance and my God.” The most significant action we can take at any time is to worship and praise God. Do not forget to focus on and keep your gaze lifted toward Him. Regardless of whether we feel angry, fearful, sad, overlooked, confused, or distraught, He is always present and waiting. He understands and desires our devotion and adoration. 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” God please help us allow You to make us uncomfortable. Help us welcome the uneasiness that you sometimes use to call our attention to what matters in Your heart. Pursue us until we can no longer resist You, so that we yearn for You, Father above all else and we actively follow You with a passion to be more like You daily, looking forward to eternity and striving to already live like we are there. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 027 An Uncomfortable Life Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #027 – An Uncomfortable Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest perks of being a podcaster is that no one can see me. I can record without wearing makeup, dressed in my shabby “stay home” clothes, and my hair barely finger combed. Nobody at home cares, and my youngest actually prefers this mommy look and attire. If I am just staying at home, dressing this way is ultra-comfortable! Do you have favorite, comfortable attire? Is it what you usually only wear at home? Or do you always dress that way? I admit that I am picky. I don’t like pajamas that twist, sleeping on sheets with wrinkles in them, or socks that slide and pinch my toes with the sock seam. Who can stand anything that binds or pulls? Being comfortable keeps a person cheerful, at ease, and contented, while discomfort is disturbing, even painful at times. When I am extremely uncomfortable, it ends up being all I can think about. There are times, however, when we need to accept discomfort, even welcome it. Distress or displeasure are not feelings we would normally desire, so why would we consider inviting unease or hardship? If we desire to grow in our relationship with God, it is imperative that we learn to embrace feeling uncomfortable and we express gratitude through it. Let’s look to the Bible for some insight. Here’s an easy question. Can you think of any Biblical characters that lived a life of ease? No. Do you know why? You might remember that Jesus forewarned us in John 16:33, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” No one lives without sorrow, unease, persecution, or discomfort. But did you catch the good news? Although Jesus warned us that this world carries tribulation, He also promised us that we could have peace through Him during trials. He also reminded us that He has already overcome the world. In Romans 8:28 we learn this, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” Jesus has gone before us, preparing us for trials by warning of upcoming adversity, allowing the Holy Spirit inside us to help us to pray when life gets so complicated that we do not have the words, and encouraging us to learn that for those who love God, and are called according to His purpose, all things will work together for good. After laying such established groundwork for us, He continues strengthening us by revealing that He has already overcome the world. Remember when I mentioned Bible characters earlier? I stated that I couldn’t think of anyone who lived a life without trials or hardship. Just a sprinkling of them were Abraham, Moses, Joseph, Daniel, David, John the Baptist, Paul, and, of course, Jesus. None of them could boast of a life of ease, especially not Jesus, yet comfort was never a priority for Him. Jesus’s greatest goal was obedience to God. Affliction and adversity did not distract Him. This world can bring unfathomable pain and suffering. So much is beyond our control. There are many days when I whisper to myself, “Jesus, come. Save us from ourselves.” We understand that we are supposed to accept hardship and pain, but knowing doesn’t make it easy. Abuse, neglect, financial difficulties, marital problems, starvation, temptation, child trafficking, sickness, temptation, pain, anxiety, depression, failure, confusion, betrayal, discouragement, death, and the list can go on and on. Sometimes we are victims to what life brings, other times, we cause our own grief and difficulties. There are times when God must intercede and possibly discipline us by allowing us to experience discomfort. But through everything, God will work it together for good when we love Him and are called according to His purpose. Despite all of it, our lives are intertwined and God allows us to affect and encourage one another through the good, bad, easy, and hard. No matter what we must endure, Jesus does walk through the pain and suffering with us. He knows suffering, the loneliness and hardship, the feeling of betrayal, the pain, and loss. He is waiting for each one of us to personally ask Him to take our load, and wants to encourage us and carry us through. Jesus suffers when we suffer. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” If God, who loves us, allows us to endure adversity, shouldn’t we ask ourselves why? Something positive must come from the difficulty and anguish. Because they certainly don’t feel good and it is tough to understand how they could be for any good. What could the benefits be? 1. We gain empathy – when we experience grief, suffering, or are uncomfortable because of what we have experienced, we are changed. We better understand the thoughts and feelings of others and can actually hurt with and for them in ways never before possible. Romans 12:15 says, “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” 2. We are humbled – through our experiences, pain, or hardship, we better understand that the world does not revolve around us. We are opened to the sovereignty of God and able to modestly accept the calling of Jesus to place others before ourselves. We realize that all we have, whether great or moderate, is from God’s hand and provision. Romans 12:16 says, “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.” 3. We see God’s strength and provision – When we suffer, and still praise and trust in Him, we experience God’s provision. How will we know what He can do for us personally (beyond reading His word) unless we witness it? Just as we can never out give God, He will meet us where we are and provide exactly what we need (and sometimes more). Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” And Matthew 6:31-34 says, “So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear? For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” 4. We rely on God – As we lean more on God, we gain more trust and faith. We release more to Him and continue deepening our walk with and through Him. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” 5. We are prepared for eternity – As we mature our relationship with God through Jesus and the Holy Spirit working inside us, we capture each moment for eternity and prepare for our eternity with Him. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” 6. We allow God to work through us to affect another for Him. As we are better equipped to live with an eternal perspective, others around us, family, friends, and strangers benefit from the light God projects from our life, which strengthens their walk with the Lord at the same time. Matthew 5:14-16 says, “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Christ was uncomfortable. He suffered. We are uncomfortable. We suffer. Romans 8:12-17 says, “So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.” It is often easier to believe through hindsight that there are blessings in suffering, but the longer we build and deepen our faith, we trust God’s word, and begin to notice signals from the promptings of the Holy Spirit that we need to become uncomfortable. Would we really ever want to feel a spirit of unease? Why in the world would we desire to be annoyed, miserable, or distressed? Hebrews 6:1a says, “Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity.” Let’s uncover a few ways we can benefit from feeling uncomfortable. 1. We may need to be made aware of danger. There may be a danger hidden in something we are doing, in someone we know, or in a way only God is aware of. The Holy Spirit guides and prompts, and we must be attentive by being attuned to the stirrings within. Psalm 138:7 says, “Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the wrath of my enemies, and your right hand delivers me.” 2. We may need to uncover or remove an ungodly habit. When we belong to Jesus, He relentlessly pursues us to return to Him when we stray. If we possess a habit or desire that does not come from Him, He will alert us with feelings that make us uncomfortable. It is true that if we do not heed those warnings, we can eventually tune His voice out, but He never leaves us and we will never experience peace through those activities. 2 Timothy 2:22 says, “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.” 3. We may need to become more aware of others in need. Sometimes the stirrings in our spirit are meant to awaken us to others. We are not meant to live only for ourselves. Matthew 22:37 says, “Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.” 4. We may need to discover a new way of thinking or doing that is more in alignment with God’s character. If we want to live with eternal perspective, we must crave Jesus and love Him with an intensity that propels us to mature each day, allowing Him to transform and mold us to be more like Him. Ephesians 2:3 says, “All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath.” 5. We may need to learn how to think or process feelings or emotions in a way that honors and models Jesus. The fruits of the spirit do not come naturally. We are so far from where Jesus desires us to be. His ways are so much higher and purer. Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” 6. We may need to be stretched in order to become capable of handling greater responsibilities through the Lord. God may be calling you to speak out or to stay silent. He may be calling you to begin or end something. He may be calling us to forgive or to love someone. Through our maturation process in the Lord, we have to expect to be stretched beyond what we can imagine fulfilling in our own strength so we can fully experience His. Philippians 4:13 says, "I can do all things through Christ, who gives me strength." Psalm 138:3 says, "In the day when I cried out, You answered me, and made me bold with strength in my soul." 7. We may need to develop a stronger reliance on God. If we run from or neglect to build or mature our relationship with God, we will always have distress somewhere in our soul. Nothing on this earth will ever fulfill or aid us as He can. Psalm 63:1 says, “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.” There may be additional purposes for the uneasiness God allows in our spirit. Jeremiah 16:19 says, “Lord, my strength and my fortress, my refuge in time of distress, to you the nations will come from the ends of the earth and say, “Our ancestors possessed nothing but false gods, worthless idols that did them no good.” We may need to be corrected, restrained, or purified. Hebrews 12:6 says, “For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” If we desire to follow Jesus more closely and develop a heart like His, there are certain questions we should ask ourselves when discomfort settles in our spirit and we are not sure why it is there. 1. Do my family and friends know I follow Jesus? Do they recognize Him in me? 2. Do I only rely on a Sunday sermon to grow my walk and mature my relationship with Jesus? 3. Do I feel challenged? The gospel should pull us in directions that run opposite to this world. Our flesh wants to satisfy self, so the words and direction from God should stretch us throughout our life. We will never complete Christian maturity in this lifetime. 4. Do my family and friends continue see new and positive differences in me since I committed my life to following Christ? 5. Do I live with gratitude or do I feel entitled to what I have and always look for more? 6. Do I turn blind eyes toward something that God would like me to see as He does? 7. Do I find my identity in Christ and reflect that knowledge in the way I live? 8. Do I constantly complain and fault others instead of allowing Christ to work to change me? We must allow ourselves to feel discomfort. In a society that quickly wants to alleviate and cover anything that doesn’t satisfy or feel good now, we sometimes have to force ourselves to stop and experience the feelings and emotions. Acknowledge the pain, distraction, anxiety, doubts, fears, and heartache. Let go of ego or pride and humbly turn to Him. He is waiting. Take your needs to God and give them to Him to carry them. Ask Him to uncover your heart and motives. Notice what is causing your emotions and feelings. What are your habits? What are your triggers? As you dig deeper into these things and work backwards to find out more about what they were caused by and are causing in your life, you will find how they affect your beliefs and your relationships with God, as well as with others. Lift those burdens to Him. Surrender. Ask the One who created you and who knows everything about you, for His perfect guidance, direction, wisdom, insight, and clarification. Do not hide your discomfort or pain. Don’t run from it. Continue praying through the difficulties and immerse yourself in scripture. Trust that there is a purpose for what you have or are enduring. Continue praying and listening for Him. Remain obedient to what He calls. Live with gratitude, despite the obstacles that come from deciphering what you are going through. Remember that there are many seasons in life. Nothing will last forever, despite how it feels right now. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” Where do you want to change? Who do you want to become? Mark 14:33 says, “He took Peter, James and John along with him, and he began to be deeply distressed and troubled.” Jesus, while in the Garden of Gethsemane, felt such profound and intense emotions. The bible says He was troubled, exceedingly sorrowful, and deeply distressed. Our Savior described Himself as overwhelmed with sorrow, even to the point of death and was so afflicted that He sweat blood. The anguish He felt is nothing we have ever experienced. Through it all, what was His constant state? He sought His Father. He continued looking Up. He desired obedience and remained fixed on eternity and what the Father needed Him to do. Isaiah 33:2 says, “Lord, be gracious to us; we long for you. Be our strength every morning, our salvation in time of distress.” We do not know when heartache will crush us. There are not always warnings before disaster hits, but as Romans 8:18 says, “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.” Yet, sometimes we do know adversity will come because we have not dealt with something we need to or we have neglected our walk with the Lord. Many reasons could apply, but God is faithful. Psalm 43:5 says, “Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God; For I shall yet praise Him. The help of my countenance and my God.” The most significant action we can take at any time is to worship and praise God. Do not forget to focus on and keep your gaze lifted toward Him. Regardless of whether we feel angry, fearful, sad, overlooked, confused, or distraught, He is always present and waiting. He understands and desires our devotion and adoration. 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” God please help us allow You to make us uncomfortable. Help us welcome the uneasiness that you sometimes use to call our attention to what matters in Your heart. Pursue us until we can no longer resist You, so that we yearn for You, Father above all else and we actively follow You with a passion to be more like You daily, looking forward to eternity and striving to already live like we are there. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #075 - Make Time for Rest in Him The last two weeks have been extremely busy and difficult at our house as we have dealt with unexpected issues. We are all doing all right, yet I know that God is calling us to rest. Life has been throwing hard moments and decisions that none of us were ready for. Isn’t that the way the world works? In reality, if it were any different, we probably wouldn’t be forced at times to grow very quickly in depth of faith that matures our walk with God through Jesus. I am thankful, and I am praising God for His hand in the hard times that we face, but only for the purpose of growing my depth of reliance in Him and walking in greater obedience. I sense His spirit prompting me to create an upcoming podcast with the details, but for now, I am to rest. In Him. Mark 6:30-32 says, “The apostles gathered together with Jesus; and they reported to Him all that they had done and taught. And He said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest a while.” (For there were many people coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.) They went away in the boat to a secluded place by themselves.” Jesus is concerned with each detail of our life as He allows moments that cause us to choose Him despite pain, heartache, and suffering. I am thankful I know and trust Him. Do you trust Jesus? Life is too hard without Him. Jesus even cares about the practicalities of our life. He understands when we are exhausted, hurting, or confused. Our Lord and Savior desires us to rest in Him wholly. Matthew 13:33b says, “The kingdom of heaven is like leaven, which a woman took and hid in three measures of meal till it was all leavened.” Just as bread must contain leaven to rise, our faith journey must continue to be kneaded into a new form. After being added to the lump of dough, the added yeast will achieve the work it is to do over time. Although the results are not seen and they are not immediate, the leaven is working, eventually affecting our life and those around us. Such is the work of the Lord in and through us. Precious Lord, You are holy. You are sovereign. You are good, despite circumstances. You understand when we are weary. You know when we are hurting. In fact, you move before us to put all things into place for those who trust in You. We know You work all things together for the good of those who love You, for those who are called according to Your purpose. Just as Jesus rested, You call us to abide in You and allow Your Spirit to calm us, to cradle us, to carry us. We need You, Father. Give us Your peace that passes understanding. Allow us to rise up on wings of eagles and soar with renewed strength in Your great name. Cause us to follow wherever You lead with a hope and trust that please You and give You great joy as You delight in us. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. I hope you will look at past episodes of Live With Eternal Perspective to help you find ways to seek God with a heart and mind fixed on eternity. Send me a message at info@terrihitt.com if you would like suggestions on specific topics. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 075 Make Time for Rest in Him Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #075 - Make Time for Rest in Him The last two weeks have been extremely busy and difficult at our house as we have dealt with unexpected issues. We are all doing all right, yet I know that God is calling us to rest. Life has been throwing hard moments and decisions that none of us were ready for. Isn’t that the way the world works? In reality, if it were any different, we probably wouldn’t be forced at times to grow very quickly in depth of faith that matures our walk with God through Jesus. I am thankful, and I am praising God for His hand in the hard times that we face, but only for the purpose of growing my depth of reliance in Him and walking in greater obedience. I sense His spirit prompting me to create an upcoming podcast with the details, but for now, I am to rest. In Him. Mark 6:30-32 says, “The apostles gathered together with Jesus; and they reported to Him all that they had done and taught. And He said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest a while.” (For there were many people coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.) They went away in the boat to a secluded place by themselves.” Jesus is concerned with each detail of our life as He allows moments that cause us to choose Him despite pain, heartache, and suffering. I am thankful I know and trust Him. Do you trust Jesus? Life is too hard without Him. Jesus even cares about the practicalities of our life. He understands when we are exhausted, hurting, or confused. Our Lord and Savior desires us to rest in Him wholly. Matthew 13:33b says, “The kingdom of heaven is like leaven, which a woman took and hid in three measures of meal till it was all leavened.” Just as bread must contain leaven to rise, our faith journey must continue to be kneaded into a new form. After being added to the lump of dough, the added yeast will achieve the work it is to do over time. Although the results are not seen and they are not immediate, the leaven is working, eventually affecting our life and those around us. Such is the work of the Lord in and through us. Precious Lord, You are holy. You are sovereign. You are good, despite circumstances. You understand when we are weary. You know when we are hurting. In fact, you move before us to put all things into place for those who trust in You. We know You work all things together for the good of those who love You, for those who are called according to Your purpose. Just as Jesus rested, You call us to abide in You and allow Your Spirit to calm us, to cradle us, to carry us. We need You, Father. Give us Your peace that passes understanding. Allow us to rise up on wings of eagles and soar with renewed strength in Your great name. Cause us to follow wherever You lead with a hope and trust that please You and give You great joy as You delight in us. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. I hope you will look at past episodes of Live With Eternal Perspective to help you find ways to seek God with a heart and mind fixed on eternity. Send me a message at info@terrihitt.com if you would like suggestions on specific topics. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #002 – Protecting our Thoughts Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. On a previous episode of the Live with Eternal Perspective Podcast, I talked about the condition of our hearts. If you didn’t get a chance to hear it, I recommend listening to Episode #001 soon. Today’s topic stems directly from what we hold in our heart. What goes into our hearts has flowed from our mind before settling there. The thoughts we allow to speak to us ultimately shape who and what we become. What we think is that important. Philippians 4:8 says, “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” God places the perfect truth and guidance we need in this world in His word. Our Heavenly Father knows our propensity to fixate on various ideas and images. He understands our thought process can go from topic to topic quickly, escalating from indecision or fear to anxiety and doubt without a shred of truth involved. Think of the verse I read from Philippians. We are instructed to fix our thoughts on what is true. Just because we think something doesn’t mean it is authenticated or valid. The verse also tells us to think about what is honorable and right, what is lovely and admirable. That doesn’t mean to obsess over those expensive heels or lovely blouse we saw at the mall. It doesn’t mean to constantly compare ourselves to someone more attractive or to attempt to model ourselves after a celebrity on the cover of the latest magazine, or to beat ourselves up over what we did earlier that day. God wants the absolute best for His children. He desires us to fill our minds with what is excellent and worthy of praise. Listen to another translation of the same verse I read earlier from Philippians. “Finally, bretheren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy – meditate on these things.” The Greek word translated as “meditate” means to ponder, to consider, to give proper weight to. God does not want us to ruminate on anything but the pure, lovely, virtuous, and praiseworthy. “Good report” translated from the Greek word means acceptable. God wants what we ponder in our mind to be considered acceptable to Him. Scientists are actually finding more discoveries that confirm scripture. The more intensely God’s word is studied; we find that it stands the test of time, as well as substantiate breakthroughs in medicine, mathematics, and science. Actually, all areas of our life are touched by and affirmed by scripture. The God of the Universe who inspired and created the Bible is the same Creator of the world and everything in it, and He tells us we are made in His image, so it is no wonder that we would be able to connect all things to our mind in miraculous ways. That is why it is absolutely not a surprise to me that neurosurgeons have discovered that our powerful minds are shaped and altered by the thoughts we allow to reside there. Unfortunately, it has created a mass of self-help experts who offer life-affirming chants and quotes that never access the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives, but promote living our best life by self-reliance. It’s also not uncommon to hear stories of people spiraling into poor health when they live with constant negative thoughts and emotions. Research in the field of neuroscience has uncovered that the influence of every corporal experience within our brain, such as fear, fatigue, happiness, cold, sadness, etc. is working to shape our brains every time we have it. With each sensation, vision, or emotion we experience for the first time, new relationships between more than 100,000 brain cells is supposedly inevitable. Think of the pornography epidemic and how addictive and damaging it is, even when someone accidentally uncovers it on an electronic device. The image is already embedded in their mind, creating harmful and distracting emotions and feelings immediately. Thankfully, this brain pathway phenomenon must have focused and consistent reinforcement. I believe that is one reason God calls us to meditate on what pleases Him. He knows our beautifully created minds need repetitive stimulus. This is a merciful safeguard when our minds have been traumatized or allowed to be filled with the wrong things. Even then, damage takes time and effort to rewire. Romans 12:2 instructs, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing, and perfect will.” We don’t want our minds deceived by misleading and false messages that attract us with advertisements, shows, books, magazines, electronics, and even some church pulpits. We must know God’s word, digesting it as we converse and spend time with Him, pray to Him, and then listen for His sometimes quiet voice. We need to purposely remove ourselves from distractions that battle for our time and draw us away from the only One who can give peace and joy to our spirit and calm us with truth. We must use our mind like a tool to excavate poisonous thoughts and replace them with the fresh soil of God’s truths. When we brought our younger daughter home at the age of 9, she had lived in relative isolation due to her illness. She didn’t receive the communication or stimulation she needed to properly develop emotionally, physically, mentally, or spiritually. On top of her heart condition, she had lived with constant ear infections since infancy. When we received her, both eardrums were broken and her ears bled on the plane flight home. Since the infection had festered so long, her already congenitally small bones and nerves were further damaged and dissolved. She is deaf in one ear and suffered almost complete hearing loss in the other. After arriving in America, she had to transition from the way of life she knew in China, to absolutely everything different. Learning a new language, how to live with our family, the foods, the smells, the clothes, learning how to play, countless medical visits, procedures, and surgeries…everything – on top of not hearing correctly, had to be excruciatingly difficult. Yet, little by little, she accepted each challenge with bravery and resilience. After being home with us for four years, she has come incredibly far. It will still take her a very long time to catch up, but she is learning and progressing at her individual pace and she is delighted to learn and grow. I relate her story here, because I think of her when I consider the mind. With all her brain pathways that have been rebuilt and altered, I have seen first-hand how remarkable the human mind is and yet, how difficult it is to imprint lasting change in some areas. I’ve also witnessed the damage that a traumatic past inflicted on an innocent life. Through God’s merciful love, she has seen huge progress, but there are days that show me just how important her positivity and my repetitive teachings are, despite her intelligent mind. I have no doubt that if my daughter had been negative or had not wanted to learn and grow, the challenge would have been overwhelming. I thank God often for her positive attitude and energy. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us that “God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” He proved that promise to me through Brooklyn’s enduring and joyful spirit and her continuing transformation. The most beautiful part of her story is that she now knows Jesus as her Savior and she relies on Him more and more as she grows her spiritual maturity. As she grows, it is my responsibility to safeguard her mind by protecting what she sees and what she learns to hold in her heart. I want her far from false thoughts or ideas that are counter to scripture. I want her well-acquainted with the freedom God wants for her and that Jesus extends to her through His death and resurrection because God wants us, His believers to model freedom to our children and grandchildren to secure it for future generations. Exodus 34:6b-7 says, “The Lord God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abounding in goodness and truth; keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, by no means clearing the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children and the children’s children to the third and the fourth generation.” If our thoughts, which affect our attitude and actions control our personal lives, then they surely penetrate the mind, attitude, actions, and future of our children and others around us. God word validates what common sense dictates. If we do not live with peace and joy, intentionally surrendering fear, negativity, anxiety, and the host of numerous dispositions and attitudes we carry to Christ in complete surrender, do we really expect our children to? 2 Corinthian 10:5, offers sound advice. “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient for Christ.” Only when we take our thoughts captive and surrender them to God does change occur. Be still and know that He is God. Take time to meditate and reflect on Him and His word as He instructs. At times we may feel we are losing freedom by surrendering our precious time to Him, but as we purposely devote ourselves to growing in God and loving Him as He desires, we find that it is only through surrender that we are released from bondage. Allow Him to change behaviors, attitudes, thoughts, and desires. As I raise and train my daughters to hold their thoughts captive and guard their heart, I am attempting to model and teach the following steps: 1. Acknowledge thoughts – We are human. God allowed us the capacity to think and feel with an enormous capacity. We are all unique. Our experiences and histories, the way we are raised, the joys and traumas we experience in life all affect us. We must not sweep away what we think or feel. Allow time to process, but not linger in our feelings. 2. Hold our thoughts against God’s truths - Does what we feel stand true to what God’s word says? Are our emotions in alignment with God’s truth? 3. If they are not in alignment, acknowledge God’s truth – immerse our mind in the truths of God. Read, study and reflect on scripture. Consult Godly counsel, if needed. Pray and meditate. 4. Speak God’s truths – Just as we all learn differently, we each absorb God’s word and truths in unique ways. 5. Write God’s word – scripture writing can reach us consciously and subconsciously and become embedded in our mind, especially if we are very visual. 6. Memorize God’s word – As we write God’s word, it helps with memorization. When negative or contrary thoughts invade our mind, God’s word easily overcomes them. 7. Pray – Prayer, especially using God’s word is especially effective in combating negative thoughts or attitudes. Using God’s own words actually aligns us automatically with Him. What is the best part of relying on scripture? Hebrews 4:12 gives us the answer. “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” Without God in control, our thoughts, emotions, feelings, and actions that stem from them hold us hostage, driving depression, negativity, fear, loneliness, and isolation, and effectively driving a wedge between us and our Heavenly Father. Psalm 139:23-24 gives perfect instructions for the ending of this podcast. “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 002 Protecting Our Thoughts Listen to Episode Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #002 – Protecting our Thoughts Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. On a previous episode of the Live with Eternal Perspective Podcast, I talked about the condition of our hearts. If you didn’t get a chance to hear it, I recommend listening to Episode #001 soon. Today’s topic stems directly from what we hold in our heart. What goes into our hearts has flowed from our mind before settling there. The thoughts we allow to speak to us ultimately shape who and what we become. What we think is that important. Philippians 4:8 says, “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” God places the perfect truth and guidance we need in this world in His word. Our Heavenly Father knows our propensity to fixate on various ideas and images. He understands our thought process can go from topic to topic quickly, escalating from indecision or fear to anxiety and doubt without a shred of truth involved. Think of the verse I read from Philippians. We are instructed to fix our thoughts on what is true. Just because we think something doesn’t mean it is authenticated or valid. The verse also tells us to think about what is honorable and right, what is lovely and admirable. That doesn’t mean to obsess over those expensive heels or lovely blouse we saw at the mall. It doesn’t mean to constantly compare ourselves to someone more attractive or to attempt to model ourselves after a celebrity on the cover of the latest magazine, or to beat ourselves up over what we did earlier that day. God wants the absolute best for His children. He desires us to fill our minds with what is excellent and worthy of praise. Listen to another translation of the same verse I read earlier from Philippians. “Finally, bretheren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy – meditate on these things.” The Greek word translated as “meditate” means to ponder, to consider, to give proper weight to. God does not want us to ruminate on anything but the pure, lovely, virtuous, and praiseworthy. “Good report” translated from the Greek word means acceptable. God wants what we ponder in our mind to be considered acceptable to Him. Scientists are actually finding more discoveries that confirm scripture. The more intensely God’s word is studied; we find that it stands the test of time, as well as substantiate breakthroughs in medicine, mathematics, and science. Actually, all areas of our life are touched by and affirmed by scripture. The God of the Universe who inspired and created the Bible is the same Creator of the world and everything in it, and He tells us we are made in His image, so it is no wonder that we would be able to connect all things to our mind in miraculous ways. That is why it is absolutely not a surprise to me that neurosurgeons have discovered that our powerful minds are shaped and altered by the thoughts we allow to reside there. Unfortunately, it has created a mass of self-help experts who offer life-affirming chants and quotes that never access the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives, but promote living our best life by self-reliance. It’s also not uncommon to hear stories of people spiraling into poor health when they live with constant negative thoughts and emotions. Research in the field of neuroscience has uncovered that the influence of every corporal experience within our brain, such as fear, fatigue, happiness, cold, sadness, etc. is working to shape our brains every time we have it. With each sensation, vision, or emotion we experience for the first time, new relationships between more than 100,000 brain cells is supposedly inevitable. Think of the pornography epidemic and how addictive and damaging it is, even when someone accidentally uncovers it on an electronic device. The image is already embedded in their mind, creating harmful and distracting emotions and feelings immediately. Thankfully, this brain pathway phenomenon must have focused and consistent reinforcement. I believe that is one reason God calls us to meditate on what pleases Him. He knows our beautifully created minds need repetitive stimulus. This is a merciful safeguard when our minds have been traumatized or allowed to be filled with the wrong things. Even then, damage takes time and effort to rewire. Romans 12:2 instructs, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing, and perfect will.” We don’t want our minds deceived by misleading and false messages that attract us with advertisements, shows, books, magazines, electronics, and even some church pulpits. We must know God’s word, digesting it as we converse and spend time with Him, pray to Him, and then listen for His sometimes quiet voice. We need to purposely remove ourselves from distractions that battle for our time and draw us away from the only One who can give peace and joy to our spirit and calm us with truth. We must use our mind like a tool to excavate poisonous thoughts and replace them with the fresh soil of God’s truths. When we brought our younger daughter home at the age of 9, she had lived in relative isolation due to her illness. She didn’t receive the communication or stimulation she needed to properly develop emotionally, physically, mentally, or spiritually. On top of her heart condition, she had lived with constant ear infections since infancy. When we received her, both eardrums were broken and her ears bled on the plane flight home. Since the infection had festered so long, her already congenitally small bones and nerves were further damaged and dissolved. She is deaf in one ear and suffered almost complete hearing loss in the other. After arriving in America, she had to transition from the way of life she knew in China, to absolutely everything different. Learning a new language, how to live with our family, the foods, the smells, the clothes, learning how to play, countless medical visits, procedures, and surgeries…everything – on top of not hearing correctly, had to be excruciatingly difficult. Yet, little by little, she accepted each challenge with bravery and resilience. After being home with us for four years, she has come incredibly far. It will still take her a very long time to catch up, but she is learning and progressing at her individual pace and she is delighted to learn and grow. I relate her story here, because I think of her when I consider the mind. With all her brain pathways that have been rebuilt and altered, I have seen first-hand how remarkable the human mind is and yet, how difficult it is to imprint lasting change in some areas. I’ve also witnessed the damage that a traumatic past inflicted on an innocent life. Through God’s merciful love, she has seen huge progress, but there are days that show me just how important her positivity and my repetitive teachings are, despite her intelligent mind. I have no doubt that if my daughter had been negative or had not wanted to learn and grow, the challenge would have been overwhelming. I thank God often for her positive attitude and energy. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us that “God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” He proved that promise to me through Brooklyn’s enduring and joyful spirit and her continuing transformation. The most beautiful part of her story is that she now knows Jesus as her Savior and she relies on Him more and more as she grows her spiritual maturity. As she grows, it is my responsibility to safeguard her mind by protecting what she sees and what she learns to hold in her heart. I want her far from false thoughts or ideas that are counter to scripture. I want her well-acquainted with the freedom God wants for her and that Jesus extends to her through His death and resurrection because God wants us, His believers to model freedom to our children and grandchildren to secure it for future generations. Exodus 34:6b-7 says, “The Lord God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abounding in goodness and truth; keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, by no means clearing the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children and the children’s children to the third and the fourth generation.” If our thoughts, which affect our attitude and actions control our personal lives, then they surely penetrate the mind, attitude, actions, and future of our children and others around us. God word validates what common sense dictates. If we do not live with peace and joy, intentionally surrendering fear, negativity, anxiety, and the host of numerous dispositions and attitudes we carry to Christ in complete surrender, do we really expect our children to? 2 Corinthian 10:5, offers sound advice. “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient for Christ.” Only when we take our thoughts captive and surrender them to God does change occur. Be still and know that He is God. Take time to meditate and reflect on Him and His word as He instructs. At times we may feel we are losing freedom by surrendering our precious time to Him, but as we purposely devote ourselves to growing in God and loving Him as He desires, we find that it is only through surrender that we are released from bondage. Allow Him to change behaviors, attitudes, thoughts, and desires. As I raise and train my daughters to hold their thoughts captive and guard their heart, I am attempting to model and teach the following steps: 1. Acknowledge thoughts – We are human. God allowed us the capacity to think and feel with an enormous capacity. We are all unique. Our experiences and histories, the way we are raised, the joys and traumas we experience in life all affect us. We must not sweep away what we think or feel. Allow time to process, but not linger in our feelings. 2. Hold our thoughts against God’s truths - Does what we feel stand true to what God’s word says? Are our emotions in alignment with God’s truth? 3. If they are not in alignment, acknowledge God’s truth – immerse our mind in the truths of God. Read, study and reflect on scripture. Consult Godly counsel, if needed. Pray and meditate. 4. Speak God’s truths – Just as we all learn differently, we each absorb God’s word and truths in unique ways. 5. Write God’s word – scripture writing can reach us consciously and subconsciously and become embedded in our mind, especially if we are very visual. 6. Memorize God’s word – As we write God’s word, it helps with memorization. When negative or contrary thoughts invade our mind, God’s word easily overcomes them. 7. Pray – Prayer, especially using God’s word is especially effective in combating negative thoughts or attitudes. Using God’s own words actually aligns us automatically with Him. What is the best part of relying on scripture? Hebrews 4:12 gives us the answer. “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” Without God in control, our thoughts, emotions, feelings, and actions that stem from them hold us hostage, driving depression, negativity, fear, loneliness, and isolation, and effectively driving a wedge between us and our Heavenly Father. Psalm 139:23-24 gives perfect instructions for the ending of this podcast. “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 112 – Developing Biblical World View Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together and live with purposed eternal perspective. My youngest doesn’t talk about her time in China very often. When she does, I listen carefully, storing away pieces of information and memories in my mind and heart to help her process her past as she is ready to manage it. As much as I wish I could have been with her from the beginning, I wasn’t able to. Instead of focusing on what we cannot change, we trust that there was a reason for the time she was without family and we focus on God’s redemptive power, grace, and love to be thankful for the time we have together now, and to look forward to the future. As her mother though, it is my divine privilege to love and protect her and help her continue to move forward. One of the things I have noticed is that as time presses forward, she loses memories of her life in China. Through what she has already shared, I have pieced together patterns that I believe have helped her to process things that happened to her, cope with it in the best way for her, and move forward. What surprises me, however, is that it is not events that happened there that bother her the most. Instead, it is what did not happen. As she continues to learn more about Jesus, reading her bible, studying bible notes, and sharing in biblical discussions, she has revealed that she is hurt by the fact that no one told her about Jesus and she had no knowledge or information to know how to live in ways that gave her joy and hope. Developing a biblical worldview shapes our identity and belief system, and it becomes an unwavering internal compass that leads our actions and reactions. Sadly, many have not allowed themselves to believe the life-changing effects that a walk with God through relationship with Jesus provides. We see it in society daily. Even some people who profess to be Christian do not rely on the unshakable word of God to lead them in truth that shapes convictions and actions. Ideals for life, what we expect, and how we act and react, must stem from something. God should be our source of trust, integrity, cultural beliefs, and reactions to trials and triumphs. Anything we face in daily life, such as politics, raising children, sanctity of life, marriage, or relationships should seek and adhere to what His holy word teaches and instructs. Unfortunately, our society often values celebrities, politicians, teachers, friends, or political parties before God. What we must realize is that if we are not following Christ, we are following secularism. Any cultural ideal we imagine or use as a solution or guideline in our life is simply secularism when God is absent from the equation. When humanity promotes or idealizes secular beliefs, we are dangerously following self and will pay consequences. God’s word is absolute truth. We don’t need dangerous relative truth, which eventually fails, bringing emptiness, misery, and disaster. When we go astray, I believe it happens because we have not searched and utilized God’s word as our source of light, hope, strength, and guidance. Instead, we often fall back on what is comfortable or easy, or we revert to selfish desires. What we have experienced, what we feel, what we know, or what others say or do often takes control of our flesh and God’s word is forgotten or dismissed. Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction.” When we don’t heed God’s warnings, promises, or instructions, we lose the divine, righteous guidance of our Heavenly Father; we abandon ourselves to our fleshly and sinful desires, as well as the manipulation of others who only look out for self. How can we engage in our culture with the biblical discernment needed as a follower of Christ? God’s thoughts and mindset must govern and direct ours. A biblical worldview comes from knowing and living God’s word; reading, studying, and applying God’s word to every situation. If we ingest God’s word, we will be sustained by His holy truths and principles. 1. Wisdom, insight, and clarity come through walking with God, studying under Him, and allowing Him to mentor me. We develop relationship with God through His word, prayerful reflection, and conversation with Him. 2. Transformation comes when we allow the work of the Holy Spirit to fill and reconstruct our thought processes and responses. 3. Obedience occurs when we step out in faith and trust on what we have learned and what we hear the Holy Spirit within us instructing us to do. If you believe God’s word, carry it as a sacred, guiding counselor within you. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” 2 Corinthians 4:4 says, “Satan, who is the god of this world, has blinded the minds of those who don’t believe. They are unable to see the glorious light of the Good News. They don’t understand this message about the glory of Christ, who is the exact likeness of God.” In order to obtain and maintain a biblical worldview, we must implement the following 5 steps as a lifestyle priority: 1. Regularly read and study God’s word. This means using an excellent study bible and searching for answers. Journaling, or keeping notes helps some; writing or memorizing scripture helps others. Find what works best for you. Make sure you are reading God’s word regularly (that is key) and that you are breaking it down so that you really understand it, and learn to apply it in all areas of your life. Don’t just get your reading completed for the day and move on without meditating on what you have learned. 2. Trust in God’s sovereignty and His word. Each person has to make a choice as to whether we really believe what we say we do about Jesus. If we don’t, that is our choice. God allows us free will. But if we do believe, then we must make our life reflect that belief. Our eternity and the lives of those around us daily depend on it. 3. Depend on God’s word for self-worth and values instead of self or society. There are many agendas in this world that are in direct opposition to God. Among them are the way media portrays values and self-worth. God’s word should be our guiding influence. The God of the Universe cannot lie. Believe what He says about you. Let it penetrate your spirit and senses as you deepen your walk with Jesus, affecting everything about you. 4. Focus on God’s truths; don’t allow worldly influences or Satan to distract or dissuade you from God’s promises or principles. Focusing on the truths and principals of God’s word should be the compass you live by. Make Him your True North and do not allow the deceit and distraction of this world to move you from living steadfastly in His grasp. 5. Look for God in every situation. God isn’t a Sunday morning visitor in our life. He is the core we wrap ourselves around. He is our guide and purpose. Find Him in the ordinary and the exceptional moments of life. He should be the underlying force behind everything we do and are. John 12:25-26 says, “Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, My servant will be as well. If anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.” Christians must purpose to know Jesus intimately and follow Him without distraction. Our life in this world will prove what we think and desire, dictating our life after death and in the next world. Those who love this world with a mindset of doing as they wish, chasing what they see here and now will lose what God has purposed for them in this present time, and more importantly, for eternity. We may not see the spiritual realm that is to come, but God’s word makes it clear that this world is not our home. Developing relationship with God through Christ and coming to truly know Jesus through God’s word enables us to mature a love so deep and wide that it creates an eternal bond. Matthew 6:19-21 says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” When believers follow what God calls right and good, the world will change. When we steadfastly shine His light in the choices we make, the way we raise our children, influence our grandchildren, and react in the stresses of daily living, He is made real to those who need Him. Dear Heavenly Father, You are so good! We know you have good plans for us. Your plans are not to harm us, but are for the good of Your kingdom. Help us to live with constant gratitude and a heart that seeks You above all things. This world entices us with riches and momentary blessings that we crave, yet You clearly warn us not to fix our eyes or heart on them. You call us to live set apart as a faithful servant for You. Lord, shelter us in the day of Your anger. Help us to be found worthy of what You call for us. Give us a heart that cries for You and Your ways. Allow us to sit at Your feet and enjoy what You call good. We need You so much, Father. Help us to live a steadfast life that honors all You are. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. Would you please also place a rating and review at Apple Podcasts or Spotify to enable others to find each episode? I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” has released! I hope you will look for it, follow it, and share both podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. If we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 112 - Developing Biblical World View Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 112 – Developing Biblical World View Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together and live with purposed eternal perspective. My youngest doesn’t talk about her time in China very often. When she does, I listen carefully, storing away pieces of information and memories in my mind and heart to help her process her past as she is ready to manage it. As much as I wish I could have been with her from the beginning, I wasn’t able to. Instead of focusing on what we cannot change, we trust that there was a reason for the time she was without family and we focus on God’s redemptive power, grace, and love to be thankful for the time we have together now, and to look forward to the future. As her mother though, it is my divine privilege to love and protect her and help her continue to move forward. One of the things I have noticed is that as time presses forward, she loses memories of her life in China. Through what she has already shared, I have pieced together patterns that I believe have helped her to process things that happened to her, cope with it in the best way for her, and move forward. What surprises me, however, is that it is not events that happened there that bother her the most. Instead, it is what did not happen. As she continues to learn more about Jesus, reading her bible, studying bible notes, and sharing in biblical discussions, she has revealed that she is hurt by the fact that no one told her about Jesus and she had no knowledge or information to know how to live in ways that gave her joy and hope. Developing a biblical worldview shapes our identity and belief system, and it becomes an unwavering internal compass that leads our actions and reactions. Sadly, many have not allowed themselves to believe the life-changing effects that a walk with God through relationship with Jesus provides. We see it in society daily. Even some people who profess to be Christian do not rely on the unshakable word of God to lead them in truth that shapes convictions and actions. Ideals for life, what we expect, and how we act and react, must stem from something. God should be our source of trust, integrity, cultural beliefs, and reactions to trials and triumphs. Anything we face in daily life, such as politics, raising children, sanctity of life, marriage, or relationships should seek and adhere to what His holy word teaches and instructs. Unfortunately, our society often values celebrities, politicians, teachers, friends, or political parties before God. What we must realize is that if we are not following Christ, we are following secularism. Any cultural ideal we imagine or use as a solution or guideline in our life is simply secularism when God is absent from the equation. When humanity promotes or idealizes secular beliefs, we are dangerously following self and will pay consequences. God’s word is absolute truth. We don’t need dangerous relative truth, which eventually fails, bringing emptiness, misery, and disaster. When we go astray, I believe it happens because we have not searched and utilized God’s word as our source of light, hope, strength, and guidance. Instead, we often fall back on what is comfortable or easy, or we revert to selfish desires. What we have experienced, what we feel, what we know, or what others say or do often takes control of our flesh and God’s word is forgotten or dismissed. Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction.” When we don’t heed God’s warnings, promises, or instructions, we lose the divine, righteous guidance of our Heavenly Father; we abandon ourselves to our fleshly and sinful desires, as well as the manipulation of others who only look out for self. How can we engage in our culture with the biblical discernment needed as a follower of Christ? God’s thoughts and mindset must govern and direct ours. A biblical worldview comes from knowing and living God’s word; reading, studying, and applying God’s word to every situation. If we ingest God’s word, we will be sustained by His holy truths and principles. 1. Wisdom, insight, and clarity come through walking with God, studying under Him, and allowing Him to mentor me. We develop relationship with God through His word, prayerful reflection, and conversation with Him. 2. Transformation comes when we allow the work of the Holy Spirit to fill and reconstruct our thought processes and responses. 3. Obedience occurs when we step out in faith and trust on what we have learned and what we hear the Holy Spirit within us instructing us to do. If you believe God’s word, carry it as a sacred, guiding counselor within you. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” 2 Corinthians 4:4 says, “Satan, who is the god of this world, has blinded the minds of those who don’t believe. They are unable to see the glorious light of the Good News. They don’t understand this message about the glory of Christ, who is the exact likeness of God.” In order to obtain and maintain a biblical worldview, we must implement the following 5 steps as a lifestyle priority: 1. Regularly read and study God’s word. This means using an excellent study bible and searching for answers. Journaling, or keeping notes helps some; writing or memorizing scripture helps others. Find what works best for you. Make sure you are reading God’s word regularly (that is key) and that you are breaking it down so that you really understand it, and learn to apply it in all areas of your life. Don’t just get your reading completed for the day and move on without meditating on what you have learned. 2. Trust in God’s sovereignty and His word. Each person has to make a choice as to whether we really believe what we say we do about Jesus. If we don’t, that is our choice. God allows us free will. But if we do believe, then we must make our life reflect that belief. Our eternity and the lives of those around us daily depend on it. 3. Depend on God’s word for self-worth and values instead of self or society. There are many agendas in this world that are in direct opposition to God. Among them are the way media portrays values and self-worth. God’s word should be our guiding influence. The God of the Universe cannot lie. Believe what He says about you. Let it penetrate your spirit and senses as you deepen your walk with Jesus, affecting everything about you. 4. Focus on God’s truths; don’t allow worldly influences or Satan to distract or dissuade you from God’s promises or principles. Focusing on the truths and principals of God’s word should be the compass you live by. Make Him your True North and do not allow the deceit and distraction of this world to move you from living steadfastly in His grasp. 5. Look for God in every situation. God isn’t a Sunday morning visitor in our life. He is the core we wrap ourselves around. He is our guide and purpose. Find Him in the ordinary and the exceptional moments of life. He should be the underlying force behind everything we do and are. John 12:25-26 says, “Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, My servant will be as well. If anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.” Christians must purpose to know Jesus intimately and follow Him without distraction. Our life in this world will prove what we think and desire, dictating our life after death and in the next world. Those who love this world with a mindset of doing as they wish, chasing what they see here and now will lose what God has purposed for them in this present time, and more importantly, for eternity. We may not see the spiritual realm that is to come, but God’s word makes it clear that this world is not our home. Developing relationship with God through Christ and coming to truly know Jesus through God’s word enables us to mature a love so deep and wide that it creates an eternal bond. Matthew 6:19-21 says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” When believers follow what God calls right and good, the world will change. When we steadfastly shine His light in the choices we make, the way we raise our children, influence our grandchildren, and react in the stresses of daily living, He is made real to those who need Him. Dear Heavenly Father, You are so good! We know you have good plans for us. Your plans are not to harm us, but are for the good of Your kingdom. Help us to live with constant gratitude and a heart that seeks You above all things. This world entices us with riches and momentary blessings that we crave, yet You clearly warn us not to fix our eyes or heart on them. You call us to live set apart as a faithful servant for You. Lord, shelter us in the day of Your anger. Help us to be found worthy of what You call for us. Give us a heart that cries for You and Your ways. Allow us to sit at Your feet and enjoy what You call good. We need You so much, Father. Help us to live a steadfast life that honors all You are. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. Would you please also place a rating and review at Apple Podcasts or Spotify to enable others to find each episode? I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” has released! I hope you will look for it, follow it, and share both podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. If we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #114 – Why Bad Things Happen Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Someone outside my immediate family has recently faced some difficult situations. While processing the events as she dealt with loss and disappoint, and many emotions, she posed the question asked by vulnerable people at various times over the history of the world. Why do bad things have to happen? It wasn’t that she thought she was better than anyone else or more deserving of escaping tragedy or hardship, but because she truly desires that good always exist and brighten the lives of people. Especially when they follow Jesus. Life is painfully difficult at times. For example, this week, my thoughts focused more on my first daughter, who passed away 13 years ago in January. Yesterday was her birthday and even though I carry Christ’s joy within me because of my relationship with Him, my heart will always be tender and my mind wistful, longing for the day I will see my daughter again. Even when I’m not talking about her, she’s present in my heart. I wish the pain of child loss on no one. Grief, disappointment, sadness, and agony exist in this world, along with dozens of other dreadful effects of this fallen world. There is no fast easy word besides sin to explain why such suffering exists, but we have a trustworthy name that will bring an end to it. Jesus. I admire the way Jesus taught with parables. I have personally prayed that I would have the wisdom and words to speak as Jesus did. Sometimes I might have a good story to tell, but mostly I feel that I fall short, looking to Jesus and others to bring the right phases and teachings to situations. Jesus taught the way I wish I could, piercing the heart where it needs to be exposed, but doing so in ways that made the person think and resolve the situation with their mind and heart so that true change would occur. What a blessing His teachings and wise words are to us. Although this is not from the Bible, I want to share an ancient Chinese parable that explains the mindset of good and bad, because the story reminds me of the directness of Jesus and the way we must allow Him to reframe our mindset. “A Chinese farmer gets a horse, which soon runs away. A neighbor says, "That's bad news." The farmer replies, "Good news, bad news, who can say?" The horse comes back and brings another horse with him. Good news, you might say. The farmer gives the second horse to his son, who rides it, then is thrown and badly breaks his leg. "So sorry for your bad news," says the concerned neighbor. "Good news, bad news, who can say?" the farmer replies. In a week or so, the emperor's men come and take every able-bodied young man to fight in a war. The farmer's son is spared.” Author Unknown Humans often try to define what is good or bad. How do we define what is good? Or what is bad? Usually by our feelings. The way what happened makes us feel. Or how it affects us. What causes discomfort, loss, pain, suffering, confusion, hardship, etc. must be defined as bad. Right? God is sovereign. He makes no mistakes. His knowledge and wisdom far exceed our understanding. We have to understand that our feelings may not necessarily be truth. Although they are a true representative of what we are experiencing and processing at that moment, they are biased and affected by our past, present, worldview, and many other factors. God gave us the ability to feel, but emotions and feelings cannot be used as an objective or truthful compass for His unequivocal truth. Feelings represent what is going on inside us at any given time, but are not a true compass of God’s authoritative truths. Our mind may question why God allows bad things to happen. Does He purposely inflict us with evil and chaos? Why does He let pain occur? When we are in the midst of suffering it can be extremely difficult to understand why God didn’t change our circumstances. We can easily wonder where He is or if He really cares. Even though our feelings are justified in our eyes, do we want to remain in that emotion indefinitely? How long should we dwell in the emotions, anger, heartache, or disappointment? While living in the midst of pain and suffering, it can be difficult to see beyond or through it. In a yard of weeds, it seems impossible that a four leaf clover is present. This world is full of tribulation. Each person experiences hardships. In fact, since we usually can’t see behind the curtains of another’s life to see what they endure, it’s easy to think others don’t live with problems or that they haven’t been hurt like we have. Humans care more about self and we usually get stuck in the hardships we personally have to handle. But the reality is that no one is exempt from the evils or corruption of this world. What are some of the ways people suffer? 1. Dreadful Decisions – Galatians 6:7 says, “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” People make mistakes. The old saying, “we don’t know what we don’t know,” does carry truth. Often, we have to make mistakes to find truth or discover what not to do. In fact, that’s the way some people live and learn. Other times, we depend on self or listen to wrong advice from others. Maybe we trust the wrong people. Also, inexperience and pride can cause many issues. We must constantly seek God’s knowledge and wisdom to guide us. 2. Discipline for Disobedience – Deuteronomy 8:5 says, “So know in your heart that just as a man disciplines his son, so the Lord your God disciplines you.” Just as sin first entered the world through disobedience, we have the ability to make choices and decisions that can either honor and obey God or turn our back on what He says in His word. We may willfully neglect or ignore what we know He calls us to do. God cannot ignore sin and He will deal with it. 3. Satan’s Schemes – John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life, and have it in all its fullness.” Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Satan never ceases to work against God or us. The devil delights in finding ways to throw disappointments, damages, and disaster our way. He revels in seeing us miserable and hopes he can find ways to turn us against God or at the very least encourage us to live with lukewarm tendencies toward our Heavenly Father. What are some of the truths about suffering? 1. God is present, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Matthew 28:20 says, “Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Psalm 139:7 says, “Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?” Jeremiah 23:24 says, “Can a man hide himself in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the Lord. Do I not fill heaven and earth? declares the Lord.” 2. God is sovereign. Our Heavenly Father, the Great I Am, has ultimate authority; He has Lordship over all. All of creation, all beings, the devil, even nature come under His dominion. Revelation 21:6a says, “And He told me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End.” Colossians 1:16 says, “For by Him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through Him and for Him.” Romans 11:33 says, “O, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments, and untraceable His ways!” Psalm 103:19 says, “The Lord has established His throne in heaven, and His kingdom rules over all.” 3. Man brought sin into the world, not God. Romans 5:12 says, “Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, so also death was passed on to all men, because all sinned. Romans 8:23 says, “And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies.” 4. Pain has a purifying purpose. Hebrews 12:4-6 says, “In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says, “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.” 2 Timothy 3:12 says, “Indeed, all who desire to live godly lives in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” Isaiah 43:2 says, “When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” 1 Peter 1:6-7 says, “In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” 5. Suffering allows us a choice. Will we turn to God or away from Him? Luke 14:11 says, “For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." James 4:7-10 says, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn, and weep. Turn your laughter to mourning, and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you.” If we can force ourselves to look past our experience or emotions, we will cling to the truth the Bible promises: God is always with us. What are ways to find help during or after suffering? 1. Get in or remain in God’s word. You don’t remove your oxygen mask when the plane is crashing. Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” God’s word is truth and in it, we find rest for our souls and truth that will allow our mind to stay connected to and maturing through Him. 2. Prayer. Communication with God combined with true study of His word will allow your relationship to deepen and your heart to find rest in His truths and mindset. Speaking to God and listening for Him will guide you in humble obedience to where He calls you next. Sometimes disappointment send us on a beautiful path for new ways to honor and serve our Heavenly Father. Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and he will act.” 3. Don’t become a “stuck victim.” It’s normal to process emotions and disappointments. Then a time arrives when you must choose whether to believe God’s truths and accept what has happened or remain in misery that will suck you into a miserable pit. James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you encounter trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Allow perseverance to finish its work, so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” 4. Find a believer with a listening ear and sound biblical advice who will speak God’s truths. Romans 8:18 says, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” Pastors, family, or friends who follow the truths of God and will empathize with you without allowing you to stray from developing your walk with God during your situation are blessings. 5. Look Up instead of wondering or listening to opinions from others about why you suffer. Job 2:3 says, “Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered My servant Job? For there is no one on earth like him, a man who is blameless and upright, who fears God and shuns evil. He still retains his integrity, even though you incited Me against him to ruin him without cause.” Sometimes suffering does not have anything to do with us. God works in such mysterious ways. We pridefully speculate as to why something happened to us, but God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose for them. What we endure is watched by others and our reaction to suffering may be just what they need to forge an eternal relationship with Jesus. 6. Enlist Christian counseling if needed. 2 Corinthians 4:17 says, “For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison.” Only a strong, bible-believing Christian counselor will be able to guide you in the right ways that honor God and deepen your walk with Him. Take time to find the right one through recommendations from others you trust, if you need to speak with a professional counselor. Remember what Jesus spoke in John 16:33, which says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” God never intended for us to feel or be alone. 1. God calls us to humble ourselves before Him. 2. God calls us to worship only Him. 3. God calls us to trust Him. How much do you trust Him? Nothing touches our life without God allowing it. If our Heavenly Father permits something in your life, it doesn’t mean He is evil. He’s not ruthless. We must each look beyond self, past our selfish fleshly nature that craves stability and ease, and look at this world with eternal eyes and heart. If our lives were always perfect, we would already be in heaven. Your life is not about you. Mine is not about me. Each of us exist to bring glory and honor to God. What He allows in our lives is not meant for harm or evil, but offers us the choice to bow to Him in faith and trust that there is a larger action occurring than we can see. This is exactly why stories of the Bible are so applicable today. Reading the sufferings of Joseph and others, especially Jesus should help us live with the eternal perspective that life is much more than we can bear on our own. There is a bigger picture being created. We exist for much more purpose than what we see or imagine. Jesus is our hope. In Him we place our trust. Christ has experienced the thoughts and feelings we do, He willingly died for us, then rose from the grave, conquering death. Jesus is a man of sorrows and He understands ours. Isaiah 53:1-7 says, “Who has believed what he has heard from us? And to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed? For He grew up before him like a young plant, and like a root out of dry ground; He had no form or majesty that we should look at Him, and no beauty that we should desire Him. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces He was despised, and we esteemed Him not. Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed Him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But He was pierced for our transgressions; He was crushed for our iniquities; upon Him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with His wounds we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all. He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet He opened not His mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so He opened not his mouth. By oppression and judgment He was taken away; and as for his generation, who considered that He was cut off out of the land of the living, stricken for the transgression of my people? And they made His grave with the wicked and with a rich man in his death, although He had done no violence, and there was no deceit in His mouth. Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush Him; He has put Him to grief; when His soul makes an offering for guilt, He shall see His offspring; He shall prolong His days; the will of the Lord shall prosper in His hand. Out of the anguish of His soul He shall see and be satisfied; by His knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant, make many to be accounted righteous, and He shall bear their iniquities. Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and He shall divide the spoil with the strong, because He poured out His soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet He bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.” Jesus knew that what He experienced was to glorify the Father. From His lips came no pleas of innocence or cries for relief. Jesus is our model for hope and relationship with God that can only be achieved through Him. May His dignified obedience on the cross be the personal light we use to redeem our mindset for trials and disappointments. Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. What we feel does not define truth. This world cannot change truth or define it in new ways that fit agendas. Only You create and define truth. Father, thank You for Your care. Even when we hurt, when we don’t understand, when we are angry or unforgiving, cause us to draw near to You so that You will draw nearer to us. Allow us to experience life with Your eternal mindset. Help us to rejoice in the hope of the glory of Jesus. Not only that, but may we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. May we remember that You work all things together for the good of those who love You, and are called according to Your purpose. We know that one day You will wipe away every tear from our eyes. You promise us that there will be no more death, mourning, crying, or pain, for the former things will have passed away. God, we trust in Your word and promises to us. We know Your thoughts are higher than ours and Your ways far beyond anything we can imagine. May we always remember and rely on the fact that we can do all things through Christ who gives us strength for we know that Your grace is sufficient and your power is perfected in our weakness. May we boast all the more gladly in our weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest in us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Let me offer 3 suggestions: episode 002, Protecting Our Thoughts, episode 005, Handling Hardships, and episode 038, Who Masters my Emotions. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 114 Why Bad Things Happen Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #114 – Why Bad Things Happen Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Someone outside my immediate family has recently faced some difficult situations. While processing the events as she dealt with loss and disappoint, and many emotions, she posed the question asked by vulnerable people at various times over the history of the world. Why do bad things have to happen? It wasn’t that she thought she was better than anyone else or more deserving of escaping tragedy or hardship, but because she truly desires that good always exist and brighten the lives of people. Especially when they follow Jesus. Life is painfully difficult at times. For example, this week, my thoughts focused more on my first daughter, who passed away 13 years ago in January. Yesterday was her birthday and even though I carry Christ’s joy within me because of my relationship with Him, my heart will always be tender and my mind wistful, longing for the day I will see my daughter again. Even when I’m not talking about her, she’s present in my heart. I wish the pain of child loss on no one. Grief, disappointment, sadness, and agony exist in this world, along with dozens of other dreadful effects of this fallen world. There is no fast easy word besides sin to explain why such suffering exists, but we have a trustworthy name that will bring an end to it. Jesus. I admire the way Jesus taught with parables. I have personally prayed that I would have the wisdom and words to speak as Jesus did. Sometimes I might have a good story to tell, but mostly I feel that I fall short, looking to Jesus and others to bring the right phases and teachings to situations. Jesus taught the way I wish I could, piercing the heart where it needs to be exposed, but doing so in ways that made the person think and resolve the situation with their mind and heart so that true change would occur. What a blessing His teachings and wise words are to us. Although this is not from the Bible, I want to share an ancient Chinese parable that explains the mindset of good and bad, because the story reminds me of the directness of Jesus and the way we must allow Him to reframe our mindset. “A Chinese farmer gets a horse, which soon runs away. A neighbor says, "That's bad news." The farmer replies, "Good news, bad news, who can say?" The horse comes back and brings another horse with him. Good news, you might say. The farmer gives the second horse to his son, who rides it, then is thrown and badly breaks his leg. "So sorry for your bad news," says the concerned neighbor. "Good news, bad news, who can say?" the farmer replies. In a week or so, the emperor's men come and take every able-bodied young man to fight in a war. The farmer's son is spared.” Author Unknown Humans often try to define what is good or bad. How do we define what is good? Or what is bad? Usually by our feelings. The way what happened makes us feel. Or how it affects us. What causes discomfort, loss, pain, suffering, confusion, hardship, etc. must be defined as bad. Right? God is sovereign. He makes no mistakes. His knowledge and wisdom far exceed our understanding. We have to understand that our feelings may not necessarily be truth. Although they are a true representative of what we are experiencing and processing at that moment, they are biased and affected by our past, present, worldview, and many other factors. God gave us the ability to feel, but emotions and feelings cannot be used as an objective or truthful compass for His unequivocal truth. Feelings represent what is going on inside us at any given time, but are not a true compass of God’s authoritative truths. Our mind may question why God allows bad things to happen. Does He purposely inflict us with evil and chaos? Why does He let pain occur? When we are in the midst of suffering it can be extremely difficult to understand why God didn’t change our circumstances. We can easily wonder where He is or if He really cares. Even though our feelings are justified in our eyes, do we want to remain in that emotion indefinitely? How long should we dwell in the emotions, anger, heartache, or disappointment? While living in the midst of pain and suffering, it can be difficult to see beyond or through it. In a yard of weeds, it seems impossible that a four leaf clover is present. This world is full of tribulation. Each person experiences hardships. In fact, since we usually can’t see behind the curtains of another’s life to see what they endure, it’s easy to think others don’t live with problems or that they haven’t been hurt like we have. Humans care more about self and we usually get stuck in the hardships we personally have to handle. But the reality is that no one is exempt from the evils or corruption of this world. What are some of the ways people suffer? 1. Dreadful Decisions – Galatians 6:7 says, “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” People make mistakes. The old saying, “we don’t know what we don’t know,” does carry truth. Often, we have to make mistakes to find truth or discover what not to do. In fact, that’s the way some people live and learn. Other times, we depend on self or listen to wrong advice from others. Maybe we trust the wrong people. Also, inexperience and pride can cause many issues. We must constantly seek God’s knowledge and wisdom to guide us. 2. Discipline for Disobedience – Deuteronomy 8:5 says, “So know in your heart that just as a man disciplines his son, so the Lord your God disciplines you.” Just as sin first entered the world through disobedience, we have the ability to make choices and decisions that can either honor and obey God or turn our back on what He says in His word. We may willfully neglect or ignore what we know He calls us to do. God cannot ignore sin and He will deal with it. 3. Satan’s Schemes – John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come that they may have life, and have it in all its fullness.” Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Satan never ceases to work against God or us. The devil delights in finding ways to throw disappointments, damages, and disaster our way. He revels in seeing us miserable and hopes he can find ways to turn us against God or at the very least encourage us to live with lukewarm tendencies toward our Heavenly Father. What are some of the truths about suffering? 1. God is present, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Matthew 28:20 says, “Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Psalm 139:7 says, “Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?” Jeremiah 23:24 says, “Can a man hide himself in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the Lord. Do I not fill heaven and earth? declares the Lord.” 2. God is sovereign. Our Heavenly Father, the Great I Am, has ultimate authority; He has Lordship over all. All of creation, all beings, the devil, even nature come under His dominion. Revelation 21:6a says, “And He told me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End.” Colossians 1:16 says, “For by Him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through Him and for Him.” Romans 11:33 says, “O, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments, and untraceable His ways!” Psalm 103:19 says, “The Lord has established His throne in heaven, and His kingdom rules over all.” 3. Man brought sin into the world, not God. Romans 5:12 says, “Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, so also death was passed on to all men, because all sinned. Romans 8:23 says, “And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies.” 4. Pain has a purifying purpose. Hebrews 12:4-6 says, “In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says, “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.” 2 Timothy 3:12 says, “Indeed, all who desire to live godly lives in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” Isaiah 43:2 says, “When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.” 1 Peter 1:6-7 says, “In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” 5. Suffering allows us a choice. Will we turn to God or away from Him? Luke 14:11 says, “For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." James 4:7-10 says, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn, and weep. Turn your laughter to mourning, and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you.” If we can force ourselves to look past our experience or emotions, we will cling to the truth the Bible promises: God is always with us. What are ways to find help during or after suffering? 1. Get in or remain in God’s word. You don’t remove your oxygen mask when the plane is crashing. Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” God’s word is truth and in it, we find rest for our souls and truth that will allow our mind to stay connected to and maturing through Him. 2. Prayer. Communication with God combined with true study of His word will allow your relationship to deepen and your heart to find rest in His truths and mindset. Speaking to God and listening for Him will guide you in humble obedience to where He calls you next. Sometimes disappointment send us on a beautiful path for new ways to honor and serve our Heavenly Father. Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and he will act.” 3. Don’t become a “stuck victim.” It’s normal to process emotions and disappointments. Then a time arrives when you must choose whether to believe God’s truths and accept what has happened or remain in misery that will suck you into a miserable pit. James 1:2-4 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you encounter trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Allow perseverance to finish its work, so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” 4. Find a believer with a listening ear and sound biblical advice who will speak God’s truths. Romans 8:18 says, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” Pastors, family, or friends who follow the truths of God and will empathize with you without allowing you to stray from developing your walk with God during your situation are blessings. 5. Look Up instead of wondering or listening to opinions from others about why you suffer. Job 2:3 says, “Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered My servant Job? For there is no one on earth like him, a man who is blameless and upright, who fears God and shuns evil. He still retains his integrity, even though you incited Me against him to ruin him without cause.” Sometimes suffering does not have anything to do with us. God works in such mysterious ways. We pridefully speculate as to why something happened to us, but God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose for them. What we endure is watched by others and our reaction to suffering may be just what they need to forge an eternal relationship with Jesus. 6. Enlist Christian counseling if needed. 2 Corinthians 4:17 says, “For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison.” Only a strong, bible-believing Christian counselor will be able to guide you in the right ways that honor God and deepen your walk with Him. Take time to find the right one through recommendations from others you trust, if you need to speak with a professional counselor. Remember what Jesus spoke in John 16:33, which says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” God never intended for us to feel or be alone. 1. God calls us to humble ourselves before Him. 2. God calls us to worship only Him. 3. God calls us to trust Him. How much do you trust Him? Nothing touches our life without God allowing it. If our Heavenly Father permits something in your life, it doesn’t mean He is evil. He’s not ruthless. We must each look beyond self, past our selfish fleshly nature that craves stability and ease, and look at this world with eternal eyes and heart. If our lives were always perfect, we would already be in heaven. Your life is not about you. Mine is not about me. Each of us exist to bring glory and honor to God. What He allows in our lives is not meant for harm or evil, but offers us the choice to bow to Him in faith and trust that there is a larger action occurring than we can see. This is exactly why stories of the Bible are so applicable today. Reading the sufferings of Joseph and others, especially Jesus should help us live with the eternal perspective that life is much more than we can bear on our own. There is a bigger picture being created. We exist for much more purpose than what we see or imagine. Jesus is our hope. In Him we place our trust. Christ has experienced the thoughts and feelings we do, He willingly died for us, then rose from the grave, conquering death. Jesus is a man of sorrows and He understands ours. Isaiah 53:1-7 says, “Who has believed what he has heard from us? And to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed? For He grew up before him like a young plant, and like a root out of dry ground; He had no form or majesty that we should look at Him, and no beauty that we should desire Him. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces He was despised, and we esteemed Him not. Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed Him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But He was pierced for our transgressions; He was crushed for our iniquities; upon Him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with His wounds we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all. He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet He opened not His mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so He opened not his mouth. By oppression and judgment He was taken away; and as for his generation, who considered that He was cut off out of the land of the living, stricken for the transgression of my people? And they made His grave with the wicked and with a rich man in his death, although He had done no violence, and there was no deceit in His mouth. Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush Him; He has put Him to grief; when His soul makes an offering for guilt, He shall see His offspring; He shall prolong His days; the will of the Lord shall prosper in His hand. Out of the anguish of His soul He shall see and be satisfied; by His knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant, make many to be accounted righteous, and He shall bear their iniquities. Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and He shall divide the spoil with the strong, because He poured out His soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet He bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.” Jesus knew that what He experienced was to glorify the Father. From His lips came no pleas of innocence or cries for relief. Jesus is our model for hope and relationship with God that can only be achieved through Him. May His dignified obedience on the cross be the personal light we use to redeem our mindset for trials and disappointments. Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. What we feel does not define truth. This world cannot change truth or define it in new ways that fit agendas. Only You create and define truth. Father, thank You for Your care. Even when we hurt, when we don’t understand, when we are angry or unforgiving, cause us to draw near to You so that You will draw nearer to us. Allow us to experience life with Your eternal mindset. Help us to rejoice in the hope of the glory of Jesus. Not only that, but may we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. May we remember that You work all things together for the good of those who love You, and are called according to Your purpose. We know that one day You will wipe away every tear from our eyes. You promise us that there will be no more death, mourning, crying, or pain, for the former things will have passed away. God, we trust in Your word and promises to us. We know Your thoughts are higher than ours and Your ways far beyond anything we can imagine. May we always remember and rely on the fact that we can do all things through Christ who gives us strength for we know that Your grace is sufficient and your power is perfected in our weakness. May we boast all the more gladly in our weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest in us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Let me offer 3 suggestions: episode 002, Protecting Our Thoughts, episode 005, Handling Hardships, and episode 038, Who Masters my Emotions. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #037 – Time For a Meltdown Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Four years ago today, my precious youngest daughter underwent her second open heart surgery. Because she has a unique heart that holds several defects in the physical way it works, this surgery was the only procedure she could have. Although it did not heal her heart, she gained more time and a greater quality of life on this earth. This past weekend I was remembering a time we went shopping not long before she was to be admitted for this life-changing operation. We had done our best to prepare our sweet girl, but since she had only been with us one year, there were still gaps in communicating information. As usual, we used words, pantomimes, and drawings to get information across to her, which worked most of the time, but understanding the depth of what she was about to undergo was difficult. Plus, she only had her first experience in China to compare to. It was not the best experience. On that particular day, I dropped Marissa off at dance, then drove to the nearest Target to run a needed shopping errand I wanted to complete before it was time to return for her. We were on a tight schedule and I told Brooklyn what we were doing because when time is tight, she appreciates the warning. She always balked when plans were not clear to her, but was very accommodating when she knew what was going to happen next. Brooklyn seemed perfectly fine with our plan, and asked if we could look at the toys while we were in the store. She liked that I usually shopped for the needed items first, then let her peruse the toy section before leaving. “Sure,” I told her. “We’ll look before we go back to get Marissa.” Letting Brooklyn look around the toy department is usually not a problem, and everything went well in the store until she found a toy she liked. She knows we don’t purchase toys at every visit to the store, and she usually doesn’t ask for things, but on this day, a Nerf-styled dart gun caught her attention and she did not want to put the item down. I reminded her that we were not going to buy a toy that day. Plus, it was something she didn’t usually ask for. Legos are her style, and she didn’t even give them much attention that day. No reasoning with her or denials penetrated her desire for the cheap piece of plastic that would end up on our floor at home, forgotten and neglected. This gun, a weapon of destruction in battles was forming a war between mother and child and I could see that neither of us would escape without wounds. Now in tears, my girl very hesitantly went with me to the check-out lane to purchase our items and get back to dance to pick up Marissa on time. I knew deep in my heart that this meltdown was not about a dart gun. Fear was boiling up from her carefully controlled exterior. Her surgery was a few days away and she was looking for any sense of control that she could find. My youngest cried all the way to get her sister and on the way home afterwards. Because of the tight schedule we were on, I did not have time to stop and stay in the parking lot to cradle or talk to her. After picking her sister up, I just wanted to get home, get out of the car, and comfort her. I can remember taking time to try to talk a little when we got in the car at Target, but she was too keyed up at the time. We had to wait to get home. By then, she had cried long enough that she could finish at home and begin to regulate as the cycle began to break. I remember later rocking with her and talking about the real reason she was so upset and how we were going to handle those big, scary emotions and fears about the upcoming surgery. How brave she was. How trusting. At the time she did not know Jesus as her Savior. She had heard about Him through the past year with us, but was just learning, step by step as a toddler would, about the man who now helps guide her thoughts and actions. She did not yet have the reassurance and faith to give her cares to Him. How often we each find ways to cope with struggles inside us without fully releasing them to the only One who can bring us true peace or healing. We hide fears and other emotions that eventually affect our relationships with others, as well as hindering our faith journey. How large our fears and anxiety can grow when we carry it alone. We have a way to leave our burdens elsewhere. 1 Peter 5:7 tells us, “casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” Matthew 10:29-31 says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.” God cares about absolutely everything weighing on our heart and in our life. He simply calls for us to humble ourselves and come before, leaving our pains and stresses, our worries and anxieties at His feet and in His hands. He truly is working in ways we cannot see or hear, cannot think of or comprehend. The depth of God’s love, so immeasurable that he sent His only Son for us cannot be understood by our human mind. Yet, when we think of the width and depth of the love we carry for our children or spouses, we can begin to understand a portion of what God feels for us. I don’t know what weights drag you down or cause you suffering or grief, but God does. I can only tell you how sorry I am for what you have and are experiencing. The pain of this world is horrendous. But God has offered us an escape for eternity and in this moment. Jesus weeps when we weep. He dances with joy when we experience delight. He has experienced every emotion we feel and understands every single thought. We are never alone. Verses from Song of Solomon 8:6-7 remind me of His exceedingly great love. “Set me as a seal upon your arm; for love is as strong as death, jealousy as cruel as the grave; its flames are flames of fire, a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, nor can the floods drown it.” A most vehement flame cannot be extinguished. True love penetrates beyond feelings, cannot be washed away, is not scared away, and never leaves us. When we stand face to face with Christ one day, love will remain. His love will bring us home to a place He designed for us in heaven. 1 Corinthians 13:13 tells us, “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” When we are living with Jesus one day, we will see Him face-to-face and will no longer live with faith as we do here, for we will eternally be with Him. Hope will cease as we realize all we hoped for is in front of and with us. Love will remain as we live with Jesus daily without the stain or taint of sin that corrupts the world we are now in. Love is the greatest virtue, and our Heavenly Father has given, and modeled perfect, everlasting love for us. This year has been so unsure for most. Despite the struggles our family has faced through unexpected changes, it has also been a mighty blessing. Every obstacle is an opportunity to lift up our heart to heaven in new ways and let God have the freedom to work His way in our life. Instead of seeing this year as cruel, as filled with doom, I see it as one of the best years I’ve seen. We each have the choice to measure the blessings or the hardships as greater. Which do you want to guide your life? Just as my precious, frightened girl feared the unknown she couldn't escape, we each have hardships and triggers that cause us to choose panic and fear over our life journey or to lift our gaze to the only One who can offer release and peace. Remember Jesus as you face challenges and let His love be refreshed in you this week. Seek Him. Find Him. Rejoice in Him. Allow God to help you see the meaning in, or to simply trust Him for what happens in your life. Moment by moment. Despite circumstances swirling in the media and our culture or society today, persist in looking Up and be guided and calmed by Him. None of what we do matters in this world, unless it is done with and for Him. Thrust your faith roots deeper into the fertile soil God is crafting in your heart. May we all have a meltdown in our thoughts and heart as we allow ourselves to loosen earthly binds and remove shackles we place on ourselves. Let us release our ties to the nonsense of this world. May we crave what Jesus calls for us and please Him more and more as we lift our eyes and intentions to Him, seeking and grasping what only He can offer. Father God, we thank You for every trial and hardship we have faced as individuals and as a nation this year. We praise You for Your perfect timing and know that as we trust in and rely more on You that You will turn our nation into a country of believers who set our eyes and intentions on following Your commandments. Grow our desire to be more like Jesus. Let us shine You in this increasingly darker world, Lord, attracting others to You, not ourselves. Turn our hearts toward You and help us to love You, Father, with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all our strength. Help us to keep and treasure Your words in our hearts, thoughts, and intentions. May we teach them diligently to our children, and talk of them when we sit in our house, walk by the way, lie down, and when we rise up. Thank you for patiently waiting for us to allow You to handle our burdens just as You care for the sparrows. One need at a time. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 037 Time For A Meltdown Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #037 – Time For a Meltdown Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Four years ago today, my precious youngest daughter underwent her second open heart surgery. Because she has a unique heart that holds several defects in the physical way it works, this surgery was the only procedure she could have. Although it did not heal her heart, she gained more time and a greater quality of life on this earth. This past weekend I was remembering a time we went shopping not long before she was to be admitted for this life-changing operation. We had done our best to prepare our sweet girl, but since she had only been with us one year, there were still gaps in communicating information. As usual, we used words, pantomimes, and drawings to get information across to her, which worked most of the time, but understanding the depth of what she was about to undergo was difficult. Plus, she only had her first experience in China to compare to. It was not the best experience. On that particular day, I dropped Marissa off at dance, then drove to the nearest Target to run a needed shopping errand I wanted to complete before it was time to return for her. We were on a tight schedule and I told Brooklyn what we were doing because when time is tight, she appreciates the warning. She always balked when plans were not clear to her, but was very accommodating when she knew what was going to happen next. Brooklyn seemed perfectly fine with our plan, and asked if we could look at the toys while we were in the store. She liked that I usually shopped for the needed items first, then let her peruse the toy section before leaving. “Sure,” I told her. “We’ll look before we go back to get Marissa.” Letting Brooklyn look around the toy department is usually not a problem, and everything went well in the store until she found a toy she liked. She knows we don’t purchase toys at every visit to the store, and she usually doesn’t ask for things, but on this day, a Nerf-styled dart gun caught her attention and she did not want to put the item down. I reminded her that we were not going to buy a toy that day. Plus, it was something she didn’t usually ask for. Legos are her style, and she didn’t even give them much attention that day. No reasoning with her or denials penetrated her desire for the cheap piece of plastic that would end up on our floor at home, forgotten and neglected. This gun, a weapon of destruction in battles was forming a war between mother and child and I could see that neither of us would escape without wounds. Now in tears, my girl very hesitantly went with me to the check-out lane to purchase our items and get back to dance to pick up Marissa on time. I knew deep in my heart that this meltdown was not about a dart gun. Fear was boiling up from her carefully controlled exterior. Her surgery was a few days away and she was looking for any sense of control that she could find. My youngest cried all the way to get her sister and on the way home afterwards. Because of the tight schedule we were on, I did not have time to stop and stay in the parking lot to cradle or talk to her. After picking her sister up, I just wanted to get home, get out of the car, and comfort her. I can remember taking time to try to talk a little when we got in the car at Target, but she was too keyed up at the time. We had to wait to get home. By then, she had cried long enough that she could finish at home and begin to regulate as the cycle began to break. I remember later rocking with her and talking about the real reason she was so upset and how we were going to handle those big, scary emotions and fears about the upcoming surgery. How brave she was. How trusting. At the time she did not know Jesus as her Savior. She had heard about Him through the past year with us, but was just learning, step by step as a toddler would, about the man who now helps guide her thoughts and actions. She did not yet have the reassurance and faith to give her cares to Him. How often we each find ways to cope with struggles inside us without fully releasing them to the only One who can bring us true peace or healing. We hide fears and other emotions that eventually affect our relationships with others, as well as hindering our faith journey. How large our fears and anxiety can grow when we carry it alone. We have a way to leave our burdens elsewhere. 1 Peter 5:7 tells us, “casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” Matthew 10:29-31 says, “Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.” God cares about absolutely everything weighing on our heart and in our life. He simply calls for us to humble ourselves and come before, leaving our pains and stresses, our worries and anxieties at His feet and in His hands. He truly is working in ways we cannot see or hear, cannot think of or comprehend. The depth of God’s love, so immeasurable that he sent His only Son for us cannot be understood by our human mind. Yet, when we think of the width and depth of the love we carry for our children or spouses, we can begin to understand a portion of what God feels for us. I don’t know what weights drag you down or cause you suffering or grief, but God does. I can only tell you how sorry I am for what you have and are experiencing. The pain of this world is horrendous. But God has offered us an escape for eternity and in this moment. Jesus weeps when we weep. He dances with joy when we experience delight. He has experienced every emotion we feel and understands every single thought. We are never alone. Verses from Song of Solomon 8:6-7 remind me of His exceedingly great love. “Set me as a seal upon your arm; for love is as strong as death, jealousy as cruel as the grave; its flames are flames of fire, a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, nor can the floods drown it.” A most vehement flame cannot be extinguished. True love penetrates beyond feelings, cannot be washed away, is not scared away, and never leaves us. When we stand face to face with Christ one day, love will remain. His love will bring us home to a place He designed for us in heaven. 1 Corinthians 13:13 tells us, “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” When we are living with Jesus one day, we will see Him face-to-face and will no longer live with faith as we do here, for we will eternally be with Him. Hope will cease as we realize all we hoped for is in front of and with us. Love will remain as we live with Jesus daily without the stain or taint of sin that corrupts the world we are now in. Love is the greatest virtue, and our Heavenly Father has given, and modeled perfect, everlasting love for us. This year has been so unsure for most. Despite the struggles our family has faced through unexpected changes, it has also been a mighty blessing. Every obstacle is an opportunity to lift up our heart to heaven in new ways and let God have the freedom to work His way in our life. Instead of seeing this year as cruel, as filled with doom, I see it as one of the best years I’ve seen. We each have the choice to measure the blessings or the hardships as greater. Which do you want to guide your life? Just as my precious, frightened girl feared the unknown she couldn't escape, we each have hardships and triggers that cause us to choose panic and fear over our life journey or to lift our gaze to the only One who can offer release and peace. Remember Jesus as you face challenges and let His love be refreshed in you this week. Seek Him. Find Him. Rejoice in Him. Allow God to help you see the meaning in, or to simply trust Him for what happens in your life. Moment by moment. Despite circumstances swirling in the media and our culture or society today, persist in looking Up and be guided and calmed by Him. None of what we do matters in this world, unless it is done with and for Him. Thrust your faith roots deeper into the fertile soil God is crafting in your heart. May we all have a meltdown in our thoughts and heart as we allow ourselves to loosen earthly binds and remove shackles we place on ourselves. Let us release our ties to the nonsense of this world. May we crave what Jesus calls for us and please Him more and more as we lift our eyes and intentions to Him, seeking and grasping what only He can offer. Father God, we thank You for every trial and hardship we have faced as individuals and as a nation this year. We praise You for Your perfect timing and know that as we trust in and rely more on You that You will turn our nation into a country of believers who set our eyes and intentions on following Your commandments. Grow our desire to be more like Jesus. Let us shine You in this increasingly darker world, Lord, attracting others to You, not ourselves. Turn our hearts toward You and help us to love You, Father, with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all our strength. Help us to keep and treasure Your words in our hearts, thoughts, and intentions. May we teach them diligently to our children, and talk of them when we sit in our house, walk by the way, lie down, and when we rise up. Thank you for patiently waiting for us to allow You to handle our burdens just as You care for the sparrows. One need at a time. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #021 – Peace That Passes Understanding Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Our topic today. Peace that passes understanding. Who doesn’t want to claim that? In the midst of writing this particular podcast episode, I experienced a morning that was far from peaceful. Are you a believer that there is spiritual warfare in the world? Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” It was real today. But, as we know, God always has the final victory. Does it mean things always turn out the way we want them to? No. In fact, sometimes things get worse before they get better. But God has already and will always be the victor. Several things went wrong as I attempted to start my day and work on this episode. After I had breakfast I tuned in to listen to the podcast I had just released. I don’t always listen after the episode releases, but I kept having little thoughts that I should. About three minutes in, I realized the unedited version was aired instead of the final cut. “Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, No, no, no.” I kept repeating. Stunned that the wrong version was being played to anyone tuning in, I was so upset. After the podcast episode was removed and the correct one aired, I realized I was still sad inside and wondered how many people had heard how terrible it sounded. I strive each week to write, record, and produce episodes that I believe God is calling and directing. I want to quality to continue to improve each week. When I heard the episode with several mistakes, it really hurt. I didn’t want people to think I didn’t care about what went out or to get too focused on the errors to hear the value behind what I was trying to say. Anxiety does not visit me often, but oh, I could feel it rising in the pit of my stomach that morning. I had to make myself focus and sit down to pray. I asked God to remove the feelings I was having and to allow me to absorb His peace, knowing that this mistake was not the worst thing that could ever happen. I stayed, and resting in God’s presence, talking to Him, until I felt His peace cover and protect me. Although it was distressing to have, and to work to quickly resolve the episode mix-up, the person most affected throughout the day was my husband. It seemed that everything he tried to do brought more problems that he had to tackle or correct. One after another issue popped to his attention and took up his time until evening arrived and it seemed he received a reprieve. You know those days. We all get to experience them. While we cannot escape the dreaded, “bad day,” we can monitor and shift our attitude and heartitude to remember what Jeremiah 12:3a says, “But as for me, Lord, you know my heart. You see me and test my thoughts.” We must continue to train ourselves to allow obstacles to extract bitterness, anxiety, and dissatisfaction from within us. We must pray for them to as we place them in God’s capable hands. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” When we, as believers, release our anxiety to God we are trusting Him, believing that our Heavenly Father will give us His peace. Even more than just calmness, we receive God Himself, the Holy Spirit within us extending His presence, comfort, and protection. Have you felt it? The deepest tranquility flowing through you, extending past our level of understanding. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” When our mind is fixed on Him, when it “stays” on Him, He is faithful to His word. We have to remember Him – His strength and not rely on our own limited abilities. The verse from Isaiah relays the truth well. He keeps us in perfect peace when our mind is fixed on Him. When we trust that He will carry our loads, that He is able and desirous, we readily release our burdens to Him. Whenever I experience the slightest awareness of fear or stress, I must remember to immediately stop what I am doing and realize that means that I am attempting to carry concerns or hardships myself, which prompts me to pray. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” God’s peace cannot be defined by the standards of the world. His ways are above our logic or limited understanding. John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” Pay attention that Jesus did not say, “If you have trouble.” He said, “When you have trouble.” Afflictions, burdens, irritations, and concerns will come. Even Jesus had hardships and troubles. Why should we expect anything less? Remember, obstacles are opportunities that press us into the arms of Jesus. We have the freedom to choose to let the experience, whether large or small, cause us to draw nearer to Him and grow in Him. Colossians 3:15 says, “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.” Peace is a gift extended as we believe and ask our Father to carry our loads. Hebrews 13:20-21 says, “Now may the God of peace who brought up our Lord Jesus from the dead, that great Shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. God so intensely desires peace to inhabit us that He is called “the God of Peace.” Peace is part of Who and What our Heavenly Father is. As believers carrying the indwelling Holy Spirit, we have that peace within us. As frail, sinful humans, we often forget that power and source because we rely on self unless we intentionally focus on Him and live with an eternal perspective mindset that pertains to all that we have been given or that affects us. Peace is absent in many, yet each of us desire it. When peace is not present in our life, it is often due to the pace we are living. Are we moving too fast? Do we set ourselves up to experience calmness or tranquility? Peace cannot exist when we move too fast to fix our spirit on God. Busy schedules and lifestyles don’t allow us time to fix our gaze above. Our heart must be given the opportunity to seek Him above all else. 2 Thessalonians 3:16a says, “Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way.” To experience peace we must abide in the Source. Isaiah 48:17-18a says, “This is what the Lord says—your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go. If only you had paid attention to My commands, your peace would have been like a river.” God knows what is best for us, and because He is a loving Father, we should listen to Him. Peace flows to those who pay heed to what God teaches and directs. We must seek to know Him in order to obey Him. As believers, it is our duty to seek Him. The closer we draw to Jesus, the more deeply we desire Him to lead our life. As we allow Him to work through us and we begin to experience the riches of a Christ-centered life, our love for Him deepens, causing us to aspire to higher obedience. Therefore, if peace is absent from our lives, there are certain questions we should stop to consider. 1. Who do I rely on? Self-reliance and reliance on God cannot co-exist. Peace cannot be present when we rely on self instead of God. 2. What do I hold in my heart? Are bitterness or unforgiveness weaving a thread through the tapestry of my emotions? Forgiveness is sometimes easily extended, but at other times, the hardships and pains of this world are too excruciating to release without total reliance on Jesus. Without erasing the disobedience of unforgiveness and bitterness from our spirit and heart, we cannot carry peace. 3. What are you afraid of? God does not give the spirit of fear. 4. How do I handle mistakes? Am I a perfectionist? Only God is perfect. Stop trying to be Him. 5. What do I value? Does materialism have a grip on me? What do I value? Where do I spend my time and money? 6. Who do I choose to grant time to? Who are the people I am with most? What kind of influence do they have on me? 7. What do I choose to grant time to? 8. Am I able to handle my emotions? Am I even-tempered? 9. What does my heart seek? 10. Where do I find my worth? Does the world carry more weight with my thoughts and actions or does the Holy Spirit living inside me influence my emotions and behavior? 1 Corinthians 13:11-13 says, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” As we intentionally mature in our Christian relationship through Jesus, we see more clearly all that the Lord has for us. Our walk leads us closer to Him in fresh ways as we discover life is not about our selfish whims and desires. Through study of His holy word, we learn ways to grow in and through Him to understand Him more clearly to please Him. As we do so, we draw the peace promised by God into our lives. 1. Know the Bible. In order to develop and deepen our on-going relationship with Jesus, we must read His word. In order to know Him and all that He desires, we have to know His word and seek and recognize His truths. Psalm 119:165 says, “Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble.” 2. Pray. Prayer is an integral and continuing responsibility and privilege for believers. Pray for God’s will and purpose in our life. Pray to see, know, and understand Him more clearly. Pray to make Him known to others. Pray for His peace and guidance. Psalm 85:8 says, “I will hear what God the Lord will speak, for He will speak peace to His people and to His saints; but let them not turn back to folly.” We hear God speak when we are close enough to listen. 3. Search our self and motives to ensure we live according to God’s ways and purposes. Proverbs 16:7 says, “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.” 4. Release our dreams to Him. God created us and knows exactly what will truly fulfill us. Trust Him and His design for our life. If we live in opposition to what God desires for us, we never find peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33a says, “For God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” 5. Believe that obstacles are opportunities. Treat them as such. Our positive mindset allows the peace of God to reside within us. Allow Him to carry the burdens and fears. Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” 6. Obey God. Seek to please and rely on Him. Seek Him to know His will and ways and put them into effect in our life. Turn away from sin that may be restricting the peace of God. Ask God to seek your heart and reveal areas to you that need to be turned away from or repented and given to Him. 1 Peter 3:11 says, “Let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it.” 7. Gratitude, despite surroundings or events should be reflected in our heart, mind, words, and attitude. Isaiah 26:12 says, “Lord, You will establish peace for us, for You have also done all our works in us.” 8. Serve others less fortunate. When we look at others with a heart for and from the Lord, we seize the ways we can shine Him to others and it allows us to live with more grateful hearts. When we serve others, it causes us to examine our relationship with those we serve, and with God. Serving erases division and unites. James 3:18 says, “Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” Romans 12:18 says, “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 14:19 says, “Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” 2 Corinthians 13:11 says, “Finally, brothers rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” 9. Go outdoors. Sometimes a steady heart naturally flows through us when we seek solace in His creation. Ezekiel 34:25 says, “I will make a covenant of peace with them, and cause wild beasts to cease from the land; and they will dwell safely in the wilderness and sleep in the woods.” 10. Relax. God never called us to perfection. Learn to distinguish between what does not matter and can be let go. Concentrate on what God calls to attention in your life to reduce anxiety or stress. Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.” Other important questions to ponder are: Where do I find my peace? Is it ever-lasting? Does it come from trusting Jesus and my relationship with God through Him or from my surroundings and circumstances? God says He will give peace to His people. He longs for harmony and contentment to be fixed in our spirit and life. His encompassing peace truly can be well with our soul when we surrender regularly and naturally to God’s sovereignty over us and maintain a closeness that remains committed to keeping Him on the throne of our life. I want to share one more verse that is actually a promise from God. Isaiah 9:6 says, “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Prince of Peace. Jesus, the Prince of Peace lives within you when you are His. There is absolutely no greater power to give you or restore peace within you than Him. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. In order for others to be able to hear about Jesus through Live With Eternal Perspective, I need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift this podcast higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Right now, because the podcast is new and the following is small, listeners won’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. Can you think of a friend who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them so that they will also find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 021 Peace That Passes Understanding Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #021 – Peace That Passes Understanding Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Our topic today. Peace that passes understanding. Who doesn’t want to claim that? In the midst of writing this particular podcast episode, I experienced a morning that was far from peaceful. Are you a believer that there is spiritual warfare in the world? Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” It was real today. But, as we know, God always has the final victory. Does it mean things always turn out the way we want them to? No. In fact, sometimes things get worse before they get better. But God has already and will always be the victor. Several things went wrong as I attempted to start my day and work on this episode. After I had breakfast I tuned in to listen to the podcast I had just released. I don’t always listen after the episode releases, but I kept having little thoughts that I should. About three minutes in, I realized the unedited version was aired instead of the final cut. “Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, No, no, no.” I kept repeating. Stunned that the wrong version was being played to anyone tuning in, I was so upset. After the podcast episode was removed and the correct one aired, I realized I was still sad inside and wondered how many people had heard how terrible it sounded. I strive each week to write, record, and produce episodes that I believe God is calling and directing. I want to quality to continue to improve each week. When I heard the episode with several mistakes, it really hurt. I didn’t want people to think I didn’t care about what went out or to get too focused on the errors to hear the value behind what I was trying to say. Anxiety does not visit me often, but oh, I could feel it rising in the pit of my stomach that morning. I had to make myself focus and sit down to pray. I asked God to remove the feelings I was having and to allow me to absorb His peace, knowing that this mistake was not the worst thing that could ever happen. I stayed, and resting in God’s presence, talking to Him, until I felt His peace cover and protect me. Although it was distressing to have, and to work to quickly resolve the episode mix-up, the person most affected throughout the day was my husband. It seemed that everything he tried to do brought more problems that he had to tackle or correct. One after another issue popped to his attention and took up his time until evening arrived and it seemed he received a reprieve. You know those days. We all get to experience them. While we cannot escape the dreaded, “bad day,” we can monitor and shift our attitude and heartitude to remember what Jeremiah 12:3a says, “But as for me, Lord, you know my heart. You see me and test my thoughts.” We must continue to train ourselves to allow obstacles to extract bitterness, anxiety, and dissatisfaction from within us. We must pray for them to as we place them in God’s capable hands. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” When we, as believers, release our anxiety to God we are trusting Him, believing that our Heavenly Father will give us His peace. Even more than just calmness, we receive God Himself, the Holy Spirit within us extending His presence, comfort, and protection. Have you felt it? The deepest tranquility flowing through you, extending past our level of understanding. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” When our mind is fixed on Him, when it “stays” on Him, He is faithful to His word. We have to remember Him – His strength and not rely on our own limited abilities. The verse from Isaiah relays the truth well. He keeps us in perfect peace when our mind is fixed on Him. When we trust that He will carry our loads, that He is able and desirous, we readily release our burdens to Him. Whenever I experience the slightest awareness of fear or stress, I must remember to immediately stop what I am doing and realize that means that I am attempting to carry concerns or hardships myself, which prompts me to pray. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” God’s peace cannot be defined by the standards of the world. His ways are above our logic or limited understanding. John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” Pay attention that Jesus did not say, “If you have trouble.” He said, “When you have trouble.” Afflictions, burdens, irritations, and concerns will come. Even Jesus had hardships and troubles. Why should we expect anything less? Remember, obstacles are opportunities that press us into the arms of Jesus. We have the freedom to choose to let the experience, whether large or small, cause us to draw nearer to Him and grow in Him. Colossians 3:15 says, “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.” Peace is a gift extended as we believe and ask our Father to carry our loads. Hebrews 13:20-21 says, “Now may the God of peace who brought up our Lord Jesus from the dead, that great Shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant, make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. God so intensely desires peace to inhabit us that He is called “the God of Peace.” Peace is part of Who and What our Heavenly Father is. As believers carrying the indwelling Holy Spirit, we have that peace within us. As frail, sinful humans, we often forget that power and source because we rely on self unless we intentionally focus on Him and live with an eternal perspective mindset that pertains to all that we have been given or that affects us. Peace is absent in many, yet each of us desire it. When peace is not present in our life, it is often due to the pace we are living. Are we moving too fast? Do we set ourselves up to experience calmness or tranquility? Peace cannot exist when we move too fast to fix our spirit on God. Busy schedules and lifestyles don’t allow us time to fix our gaze above. Our heart must be given the opportunity to seek Him above all else. 2 Thessalonians 3:16a says, “Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way.” To experience peace we must abide in the Source. Isaiah 48:17-18a says, “This is what the Lord says—your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs you in the way you should go. If only you had paid attention to My commands, your peace would have been like a river.” God knows what is best for us, and because He is a loving Father, we should listen to Him. Peace flows to those who pay heed to what God teaches and directs. We must seek to know Him in order to obey Him. As believers, it is our duty to seek Him. The closer we draw to Jesus, the more deeply we desire Him to lead our life. As we allow Him to work through us and we begin to experience the riches of a Christ-centered life, our love for Him deepens, causing us to aspire to higher obedience. Therefore, if peace is absent from our lives, there are certain questions we should stop to consider. 1. Who do I rely on? Self-reliance and reliance on God cannot co-exist. Peace cannot be present when we rely on self instead of God. 2. What do I hold in my heart? Are bitterness or unforgiveness weaving a thread through the tapestry of my emotions? Forgiveness is sometimes easily extended, but at other times, the hardships and pains of this world are too excruciating to release without total reliance on Jesus. Without erasing the disobedience of unforgiveness and bitterness from our spirit and heart, we cannot carry peace. 3. What are you afraid of? God does not give the spirit of fear. 4. How do I handle mistakes? Am I a perfectionist? Only God is perfect. Stop trying to be Him. 5. What do I value? Does materialism have a grip on me? What do I value? Where do I spend my time and money? 6. Who do I choose to grant time to? Who are the people I am with most? What kind of influence do they have on me? 7. What do I choose to grant time to? 8. Am I able to handle my emotions? Am I even-tempered? 9. What does my heart seek? 10. Where do I find my worth? Does the world carry more weight with my thoughts and actions or does the Holy Spirit living inside me influence my emotions and behavior? 1 Corinthians 13:11-13 says, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” As we intentionally mature in our Christian relationship through Jesus, we see more clearly all that the Lord has for us. Our walk leads us closer to Him in fresh ways as we discover life is not about our selfish whims and desires. Through study of His holy word, we learn ways to grow in and through Him to understand Him more clearly to please Him. As we do so, we draw the peace promised by God into our lives. 1. Know the Bible. In order to develop and deepen our on-going relationship with Jesus, we must read His word. In order to know Him and all that He desires, we have to know His word and seek and recognize His truths. Psalm 119:165 says, “Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble.” 2. Pray. Prayer is an integral and continuing responsibility and privilege for believers. Pray for God’s will and purpose in our life. Pray to see, know, and understand Him more clearly. Pray to make Him known to others. Pray for His peace and guidance. Psalm 85:8 says, “I will hear what God the Lord will speak, for He will speak peace to His people and to His saints; but let them not turn back to folly.” We hear God speak when we are close enough to listen. 3. Search our self and motives to ensure we live according to God’s ways and purposes. Proverbs 16:7 says, “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.” 4. Release our dreams to Him. God created us and knows exactly what will truly fulfill us. Trust Him and His design for our life. If we live in opposition to what God desires for us, we never find peace. 1 Corinthians 14:33a says, “For God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” 5. Believe that obstacles are opportunities. Treat them as such. Our positive mindset allows the peace of God to reside within us. Allow Him to carry the burdens and fears. Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” 6. Obey God. Seek to please and rely on Him. Seek Him to know His will and ways and put them into effect in our life. Turn away from sin that may be restricting the peace of God. Ask God to seek your heart and reveal areas to you that need to be turned away from or repented and given to Him. 1 Peter 3:11 says, “Let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it.” 7. Gratitude, despite surroundings or events should be reflected in our heart, mind, words, and attitude. Isaiah 26:12 says, “Lord, You will establish peace for us, for You have also done all our works in us.” 8. Serve others less fortunate. When we look at others with a heart for and from the Lord, we seize the ways we can shine Him to others and it allows us to live with more grateful hearts. When we serve others, it causes us to examine our relationship with those we serve, and with God. Serving erases division and unites. James 3:18 says, “Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” Romans 12:18 says, “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 14:19 says, “Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” 2 Corinthians 13:11 says, “Finally, brothers rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” 9. Go outdoors. Sometimes a steady heart naturally flows through us when we seek solace in His creation. Ezekiel 34:25 says, “I will make a covenant of peace with them, and cause wild beasts to cease from the land; and they will dwell safely in the wilderness and sleep in the woods.” 10. Relax. God never called us to perfection. Learn to distinguish between what does not matter and can be let go. Concentrate on what God calls to attention in your life to reduce anxiety or stress. Psalm 29:11 says, “The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.” Other important questions to ponder are: Where do I find my peace? Is it ever-lasting? Does it come from trusting Jesus and my relationship with God through Him or from my surroundings and circumstances? God says He will give peace to His people. He longs for harmony and contentment to be fixed in our spirit and life. His encompassing peace truly can be well with our soul when we surrender regularly and naturally to God’s sovereignty over us and maintain a closeness that remains committed to keeping Him on the throne of our life. I want to share one more verse that is actually a promise from God. Isaiah 9:6 says, “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Prince of Peace. Jesus, the Prince of Peace lives within you when you are His. There is absolutely no greater power to give you or restore peace within you than Him. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #054 – Parenting His Purpose Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. A few days ago I was working on the podcast, but stopped and began listening with a smile when I heard my daughters giggling together over something in the kitchen. Their carefree laughter brought such joy to my spirit. It brought to mind how God must feel each time we eagerly seek His presence and take joy in learning more of Him. Just as the girls were authentically sharing moments together, God wants us to invite Him to share both large and small memories with Him. Our Heavenly Father created us for special fellowship together. Since the fall of creation, this world we live in has been warped and broken. Our spirits have been yearning to reconnect with God in the intimate ways He designed for us. The Good Father created us on purpose with a purpose. As we know, before Adam and Eve sinned in the garden, they shared a very unique and special relationship with God that carried privileges we have never experienced. 1. Adam and Eve were privileged to walk and talk with God daily. 2. Adam and Eve saw God through the pure lens God desired. They were not confused or misled by sin, as it had not yet entered their lives. 3. Adam and Eve lived with a richness and fullness that God intended for their spirits and minds, unaffected by our now-fallen world. After disobeying God, sin damaged and severed their perfect relationship with God. The intimate bond and communion Adam and Eve shared with God was destroyed. After they chose to believe Satan, and made choices that tore them from God’s perfection, their knowledge and understanding of God became twisted. Although they once walked with God in abundant life, they now hid in the shadows of their once peaceful world, as death entered their world and altered their existence. Our lives are now positioned on what occurred through Adam and Eve’s choice and what the world became after the Fall. Every man and woman has been separated from God, we are not wise to the truths of God, and we are each condemned to not only a physical death, but a spiritual death as well. Thankfully, because of Jesus, we have a Redeemer and Rescuer who has brought us back into a beautiful fellowship with God. We don’t have to live alienated from God, ignorant of God, condemned to death, or without hope or purpose. So why do so many Christians who rejoice in the fact that they are saved through Jesus and proclaim to love the Lord neglect to live a lifestyle that focuses on eternity with a heart and mindset like Jesus? Why don’t we teach our children to live with a mindset and purpose that is set for eternity and raise them for Jesus? Because, just like Jesus said in Luke 23:34a, “Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Just as Satan’s words to Eve contained partial truth (although it was twisted), the devil uses the same tactics with us today. Satan tempts humans by appealing to our desires. Often, mothers want so much for their children that we forget how very little they really need. We are so busy trying to do and get all we can for them. All they really need is a firm foundation set on Jesus and a life that seeks and reflects Him. The same truth applies to us. Our life should not be defined by how much our children have or what they do. Stop trying to present them with the best or the most and commit to loving them as God calls. Help them build a firm and solid foundation on Jesus. God will equip and lead you to give them what they truly need and He will also surprise you with blessings beyond as you follow Him with a joyous and honoring heart. As a woman who has raised two sets of family over a span of forty-two years, I’ve watched fads come and go, and I’ve seen the way current culture affects home and family. I’ve experienced the consistency of a firm foundation settled on Jesus, as well as life without much thought to Him. No strategy, no amount of love or attention, no hope, no plans, no relationship with a human, nothing carries the value and hope that a maturing relationship with God through Jesus holds. When we live a life connected to Jesus, it builds a lifeline between our children and the Lord. Philippians 3:8 says, “Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For His sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ.” If we really believe that verse, why don’t we live like it? Why don’t we ensure that our children know Jesus and teach them that nothing in this life lasts, nothing matters but a firm foundation built on Him? Do you understand what the word foundation means in relation to our child and his relationship with and dependency on Christ? Really take a few moments to soak in the importance of the word and meaning. A life built on the foundation of Jesus will have a life-affirming, truthful basis for a belief system, stability, support, and a life patterned after the Authority and Creator. For a year I have written podcasts set to build our relationships with God through maturing our walk with Jesus. Without Him, this world has no hope, no peace, and cannot offer love or understanding. Look at the way our culture continues to change and the effects it has on us, let alone our children. Media, shows, books, magazines, fashion, education, celebrities, and superstars all desensitize our precious children and we are to blame, as we ignorantly or lazily let it continue. Many kids grow up wanting fame at the cost of anything, including morals, reputation, relationships, and life. Instead of humbly following the Lord, they follow strangers who lead them far away from where a true believer and follower of Christ should be. Our children have time for phones and social media, but make no time to invest in growing and deepening a walk with Jesus. We have ourselves to blame if we have not allowed Christ to rule our life and modeled Him humbly and purely to them daily. Most of the time, our children pattern themselves and their life choices after what they see us do. I hope that if you are listening to this podcast you are either already maturing your walk with Jesus through an intentional, continuous basis or that you are very interested in doing so. I have known Jesus for 39 years. My walk with Him has not been perfect, but Jesus has never left my side. It is my honor, and frankly my duty, as I know where God is calling me, to teach you what God has shown to me, as well as to lead you straight to Him through the practical ways I’ve shared over the last year. Heavy on my heart at this time, as I know God has laid it there, is the knowledge that He is calling me to walk with you in the way our children are raised. Am I saying I have all of the perfect answers to raising children? Absolutely not! But I know Who does and how to guide you to Him. I have seen the truth of God’s word come true over and over again. Everything in the Bible is truth and God is not mocked. We do reap what we sow. Our children are affected by what we believe and the actions we choose. As you raise and provide for your precious children, be certain of what you believe and stand for, how you represent Jesus, and what you model for your children. I’m going to list questions that each of us should regularly remember to ask ourselves and evaluate honestly. These are vitally important, not only for us, but for those around us, especially for the children God entrusted to our care. 1. What do I believe? Do I know my beliefs and how they affect my eternity? Have I thought about how they shape the eternity of those around me? If I am a believer in Jesus, it is imperative that I am clear in these areas and striving to grow in Him daily and make Him clearly known to my children. 2. Is it apparent that I am a Christian? What does that word mean to me? Have I accepted Jesus as my personal Savior? How do I represent Christ each day? Do I say one thing and do another? Am I consistent in my attitude and heartitude, making my maturing relationship with Jesus loving and evident? 3. What are my children learning? Do they know Jesus as Savior? Are they lovingly and intentionally maturing their walk with God through Jesus each day or are they Christians in name or claim only? Do I see fruits of the spirit continuously ripening in them? 4. Am I actively helping my children grow in Jesus daily or expecting the church or someone else to help them grow in maturity? How are they seeing me intentionally grow my walk with Christ? What kind of relationship do they see? Am I making Jesus known to them in real and personal ways? Do I regularly model and mentor them in Jesus in a loving and godly way? Let’s think back to the points I made at the beginning of this podcast when I discussed Adam and Eve in the garden. 1. Adam and Eve were able to walk and talk with God daily. As mothers who believe in Jesus, it should be our deepest desire to see our children walk and talk with God daily. 2. Adam and Eve saw God through the pure lens God desired. They were not confused or misled by sin, as it had not yet entered their lives. We should desire that our children know the word of God and His love through Jesus so that they are not confused by sin and are not attracted to what this world shoves at them. 3. Adam and Eve lived with a richness and fullness that God intended for their spirits and minds, unaffected by our now-fallen world. Godly parenting looks for ways to fill the minds of our children with the fullness of joy God intends for them and looks for ways to help our children mature and shine fruits of the Spirit. 4. Adam and Eve looked forward to spending time with God. Getting to know the Lord should not be a chore or something we barely make time for. Our relationship with God should be a priority so that it becomes one for our children. How can we, as humans, fill these demanding roles? Only through the power and presence of Jesus in our life. Parenting is hard. I think of our loving Heavenly Father, who always stands ready to carry us. God never leaves our side. If you are a parent, grandparent, or person of influence over a child’s life, I urge you to acknowledge that there is nothing more important you can do for the one you love than to allow God to work through you to form their soul and eternal relationship with Him. God did not pick you because you have it all together. He is allowing your influence on His child, because God trusts that you will allow Him to work through you. When I became a mother at the age of 18, I did not have a relationship with Christ. I thought I was so mature for my age, and I was to a point. But as Jeremiah 9:23 says, “This is what the Lord says: “Don’t let the wise boast in their wisdom, or the powerful boast in their power, or the rich boast in their riches.” Likewise, Proverbs 3:13 says, “Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding.” And listen to this wisdom from Job 28:28, which says, “And this is what he says to all humanity: ‘The fear of the Lord is true wisdom; to forsake evil is real understanding.” One of my favorites is Luke 2:52, which says, “And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” How blessed we (and our children) are if God can proclaim that our children are growing in favor with Him! It is up to each one of us to have such a close, honoring, and obedient relationship with the Lord that we must equip our children to develop deep and wide-spread roots of faith. When the storms of life come, and they will, our children will be able to withstand the trials of life because the soil they embed their life in is rich and their roots are straining to the depth and width strong faith requires. Trees with weak root systems and poorly cultivated soil will weaken and “hollow-out” as life attacks them. Storms and winds, pestilence and disease are strong when the tree is not lovingly watched over and provided for. When the root system of a tree is not carefully guarded, the tree fails to thrive and often dies. In contrast, a healthy root system can even sprout new trees when the above ground part of the tree is burned. It is imperative for our children to have strong faith roots in order for them to know, honor, follow, and shine Jesus. We are the gardener, working directly for the Master to ensure that His trees are raised to bloom healthy and strong in and through Him. Life in this world will not prepare our children for a lifetime of following Jesus and living a rich life blessed with the fruits of following Him. As the mothers entrusted to protect, nurture, and train God’s precious child, we must grasp the weight of the holy work our Heavenly Father God has allowed us to participate in. Jesus is our strength and guide. In order to properly guard and counsel our children, it is imperative that we are attuned to Him through a close and maturing walk ourselves. We live in a world that is in direct opposition to what God desires for and requires of us. An example of this comes to mind when I think of how our schools have taught a warped science that excludes God and religion. How can you teach a subject without including the author of that subject? Science and religion are not separate. Educators use textbooks that teach subjects without divine inspiration from the author of creation, and they are unable to speak His word or truths in school. Our children are victims, living without wisdom or values from God and striving for the emptiness of this world system, which will never fulfill them. Mothers, it is imperative that we take a stand. One day each of us will stand before God and be held accountable for the way we influenced His children. Your future relationship with your child and their eternal future depends on the decisions and priorities you establish and adhere to right now. As you may know, I homeschool. It has made a critical difference in my ability to reach my children for the Lord. An education at home has allowed me the benefit of studying and understanding my children at a depth I would not have been privileged to observe and discover if I sent them away for hours to go to school elsewhere each day. I see the character and attitudes of my girls clearly and honestly, and the same is true in reverse. They see the passion I have for Jesus, and my loving desire and reasons for them to know, honor, love, and obey Him. My children are receiving an education based on morals and integrity taught from God’s Holy Word and learning the basis for what we hold to be standards for right and wrong. Character formation is a difficult, but worthy and holy task. I am blessed to work at it at great lengths daily in our time together. I have also raised children through the public school system. I also know many Christians who have. I pray that each of us will trust God to provide and guide, and not make decisions based out of fear or ignorance. Allow Him to choose where and how your child will be educated, but understand that the decision will influence how much “clean up work” you will be involved in. Many children have been raised through the public school system or private schools and they have stayed true to the faith taught by diligent parents, however, I know it is becoming more and more difficult to combat the lies and unbiblical actions thrust at our children every day for years. When I was a young mother and a new Christian, I foolishly believed that the church was where my children learned about God. I thought that if they know I loved Jesus and we went to church each week, that they would be raised as followers of Jesus. How naïve! This world, school systems, peers, social media, strangers, and others have much access to the ones we love most and we must have a plan in place to teach them the truths and joys God desires for them. God provides freedom from this world, not restriction. He bestows grace, not condemnation. Teach the truth because it is absolutely certain that others are filling your children with deceit. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for lovingly entrusting your precious, specially-crafted children into our hands. I pray we have the mindset you desire to raise them and lovingly teach them of You. Help us to perfect our walk with you more and more daily, mentoring the way for our children to have an even stronger walk with You. May each generation become stronger and deeper in faith and reach many as You work through them. Show us the way You desire us to love and teach each unique child you have allowed us. Make it clear where we need to change and grow in You ourselves, and may we admit our mistakes and change our course. May we shine You so well that our children cannot turn away. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. If you would like another episode specifically about parenting children, you may like listening to “Equipping Children,” Episode #7 of the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. I pray you intentionally continue to draw nearer to Jesus and cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 054 Parenting His Purpose Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #054 – Parenting His Purpose Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. A few days ago I was working on the podcast, but stopped and began listening with a smile when I heard my daughters giggling together over something in the kitchen. Their carefree laughter brought such joy to my spirit. It brought to mind how God must feel each time we eagerly seek His presence and take joy in learning more of Him. Just as the girls were authentically sharing moments together, God wants us to invite Him to share both large and small memories with Him. Our Heavenly Father created us for special fellowship together. Since the fall of creation, this world we live in has been warped and broken. Our spirits have been yearning to reconnect with God in the intimate ways He designed for us. The Good Father created us on purpose with a purpose. As we know, before Adam and Eve sinned in the garden, they shared a very unique and special relationship with God that carried privileges we have never experienced. 1. Adam and Eve were privileged to walk and talk with God daily. 2. Adam and Eve saw God through the pure lens God desired. They were not confused or misled by sin, as it had not yet entered their lives. 3. Adam and Eve lived with a richness and fullness that God intended for their spirits and minds, unaffected by our now-fallen world. After disobeying God, sin damaged and severed their perfect relationship with God. The intimate bond and communion Adam and Eve shared with God was destroyed. After they chose to believe Satan, and made choices that tore them from God’s perfection, their knowledge and understanding of God became twisted. Although they once walked with God in abundant life, they now hid in the shadows of their once peaceful world, as death entered their world and altered their existence. Our lives are now positioned on what occurred through Adam and Eve’s choice and what the world became after the Fall. Every man and woman has been separated from God, we are not wise to the truths of God, and we are each condemned to not only a physical death, but a spiritual death as well. Thankfully, because of Jesus, we have a Redeemer and Rescuer who has brought us back into a beautiful fellowship with God. We don’t have to live alienated from God, ignorant of God, condemned to death, or without hope or purpose. So why do so many Christians who rejoice in the fact that they are saved through Jesus and proclaim to love the Lord neglect to live a lifestyle that focuses on eternity with a heart and mindset like Jesus? Why don’t we teach our children to live with a mindset and purpose that is set for eternity and raise them for Jesus? Because, just like Jesus said in Luke 23:34a, “Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Just as Satan’s words to Eve contained partial truth (although it was twisted), the devil uses the same tactics with us today. Satan tempts humans by appealing to our desires. Often, mothers want so much for their children that we forget how very little they really need. We are so busy trying to do and get all we can for them. All they really need is a firm foundation set on Jesus and a life that seeks and reflects Him. The same truth applies to us. Our life should not be defined by how much our children have or what they do. Stop trying to present them with the best or the most and commit to loving them as God calls. Help them build a firm and solid foundation on Jesus. God will equip and lead you to give them what they truly need and He will also surprise you with blessings beyond as you follow Him with a joyous and honoring heart. As a woman who has raised two sets of family over a span of forty-two years, I’ve watched fads come and go, and I’ve seen the way current culture affects home and family. I’ve experienced the consistency of a firm foundation settled on Jesus, as well as life without much thought to Him. No strategy, no amount of love or attention, no hope, no plans, no relationship with a human, nothing carries the value and hope that a maturing relationship with God through Jesus holds. When we live a life connected to Jesus, it builds a lifeline between our children and the Lord. Philippians 3:8 says, “Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For His sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ.” If we really believe that verse, why don’t we live like it? Why don’t we ensure that our children know Jesus and teach them that nothing in this life lasts, nothing matters but a firm foundation built on Him? Do you understand what the word foundation means in relation to our child and his relationship with and dependency on Christ? Really take a few moments to soak in the importance of the word and meaning. A life built on the foundation of Jesus will have a life-affirming, truthful basis for a belief system, stability, support, and a life patterned after the Authority and Creator. For a year I have written podcasts set to build our relationships with God through maturing our walk with Jesus. Without Him, this world has no hope, no peace, and cannot offer love or understanding. Look at the way our culture continues to change and the effects it has on us, let alone our children. Media, shows, books, magazines, fashion, education, celebrities, and superstars all desensitize our precious children and we are to blame, as we ignorantly or lazily let it continue. Many kids grow up wanting fame at the cost of anything, including morals, reputation, relationships, and life. Instead of humbly following the Lord, they follow strangers who lead them far away from where a true believer and follower of Christ should be. Our children have time for phones and social media, but make no time to invest in growing and deepening a walk with Jesus. We have ourselves to blame if we have not allowed Christ to rule our life and modeled Him humbly and purely to them daily. Most of the time, our children pattern themselves and their life choices after what they see us do. I hope that if you are listening to this podcast you are either already maturing your walk with Jesus through an intentional, continuous basis or that you are very interested in doing so. I have known Jesus for 39 years. My walk with Him has not been perfect, but Jesus has never left my side. It is my honor, and frankly my duty, as I know where God is calling me, to teach you what God has shown to me, as well as to lead you straight to Him through the practical ways I’ve shared over the last year. Heavy on my heart at this time, as I know God has laid it there, is the knowledge that He is calling me to walk with you in the way our children are raised. Am I saying I have all of the perfect answers to raising children? Absolutely not! But I know Who does and how to guide you to Him. I have seen the truth of God’s word come true over and over again. Everything in the Bible is truth and God is not mocked. We do reap what we sow. Our children are affected by what we believe and the actions we choose. As you raise and provide for your precious children, be certain of what you believe and stand for, how you represent Jesus, and what you model for your children. I’m going to list questions that each of us should regularly remember to ask ourselves and evaluate honestly. These are vitally important, not only for us, but for those around us, especially for the children God entrusted to our care. 1. What do I believe? Do I know my beliefs and how they affect my eternity? Have I thought about how they shape the eternity of those around me? If I am a believer in Jesus, it is imperative that I am clear in these areas and striving to grow in Him daily and make Him clearly known to my children. 2. Is it apparent that I am a Christian? What does that word mean to me? Have I accepted Jesus as my personal Savior? How do I represent Christ each day? Do I say one thing and do another? Am I consistent in my attitude and heartitude, making my maturing relationship with Jesus loving and evident? 3. What are my children learning? Do they know Jesus as Savior? Are they lovingly and intentionally maturing their walk with God through Jesus each day or are they Christians in name or claim only? Do I see fruits of the spirit continuously ripening in them? 4. Am I actively helping my children grow in Jesus daily or expecting the church or someone else to help them grow in maturity? How are they seeing me intentionally grow my walk with Christ? What kind of relationship do they see? Am I making Jesus known to them in real and personal ways? Do I regularly model and mentor them in Jesus in a loving and godly way? Let’s think back to the points I made at the beginning of this podcast when I discussed Adam and Eve in the garden. 1. Adam and Eve were able to walk and talk with God daily. As mothers who believe in Jesus, it should be our deepest desire to see our children walk and talk with God daily. 2. Adam and Eve saw God through the pure lens God desired. They were not confused or misled by sin, as it had not yet entered their lives. We should desire that our children know the word of God and His love through Jesus so that they are not confused by sin and are not attracted to what this world shoves at them. 3. Adam and Eve lived with a richness and fullness that God intended for their spirits and minds, unaffected by our now-fallen world. Godly parenting looks for ways to fill the minds of our children with the fullness of joy God intends for them and looks for ways to help our children mature and shine fruits of the Spirit. 4. Adam and Eve looked forward to spending time with God. Getting to know the Lord should not be a chore or something we barely make time for. Our relationship with God should be a priority so that it becomes one for our children. How can we, as humans, fill these demanding roles? Only through the power and presence of Jesus in our life. Parenting is hard. I think of our loving Heavenly Father, who always stands ready to carry us. God never leaves our side. If you are a parent, grandparent, or person of influence over a child’s life, I urge you to acknowledge that there is nothing more important you can do for the one you love than to allow God to work through you to form their soul and eternal relationship with Him. God did not pick you because you have it all together. He is allowing your influence on His child, because God trusts that you will allow Him to work through you. When I became a mother at the age of 18, I did not have a relationship with Christ. I thought I was so mature for my age, and I was to a point. But as Jeremiah 9:23 says, “This is what the Lord says: “Don’t let the wise boast in their wisdom, or the powerful boast in their power, or the rich boast in their riches.” Likewise, Proverbs 3:13 says, “Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding.” And listen to this wisdom from Job 28:28, which says, “And this is what he says to all humanity: ‘The fear of the Lord is true wisdom; to forsake evil is real understanding.” One of my favorites is Luke 2:52, which says, “And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” How blessed we (and our children) are if God can proclaim that our children are growing in favor with Him! It is up to each one of us to have such a close, honoring, and obedient relationship with the Lord that we must equip our children to develop deep and wide-spread roots of faith. When the storms of life come, and they will, our children will be able to withstand the trials of life because the soil they embed their life in is rich and their roots are straining to the depth and width strong faith requires. Trees with weak root systems and poorly cultivated soil will weaken and “hollow-out” as life attacks them. Storms and winds, pestilence and disease are strong when the tree is not lovingly watched over and provided for. When the root system of a tree is not carefully guarded, the tree fails to thrive and often dies. In contrast, a healthy root system can even sprout new trees when the above ground part of the tree is burned. It is imperative for our children to have strong faith roots in order for them to know, honor, follow, and shine Jesus. We are the gardener, working directly for the Master to ensure that His trees are raised to bloom healthy and strong in and through Him. Life in this world will not prepare our children for a lifetime of following Jesus and living a rich life blessed with the fruits of following Him. As the mothers entrusted to protect, nurture, and train God’s precious child, we must grasp the weight of the holy work our Heavenly Father God has allowed us to participate in. Jesus is our strength and guide. In order to properly guard and counsel our children, it is imperative that we are attuned to Him through a close and maturing walk ourselves. We live in a world that is in direct opposition to what God desires for and requires of us. An example of this comes to mind when I think of how our schools have taught a warped science that excludes God and religion. How can you teach a subject without including the author of that subject? Science and religion are not separate. Educators use textbooks that teach subjects without divine inspiration from the author of creation, and they are unable to speak His word or truths in school. Our children are victims, living without wisdom or values from God and striving for the emptiness of this world system, which will never fulfill them. Mothers, it is imperative that we take a stand. One day each of us will stand before God and be held accountable for the way we influenced His children. Your future relationship with your child and their eternal future depends on the decisions and priorities you establish and adhere to right now. As you may know, I homeschool. It has made a critical difference in my ability to reach my children for the Lord. An education at home has allowed me the benefit of studying and understanding my children at a depth I would not have been privileged to observe and discover if I sent them away for hours to go to school elsewhere each day. I see the character and attitudes of my girls clearly and honestly, and the same is true in reverse. They see the passion I have for Jesus, and my loving desire and reasons for them to know, honor, love, and obey Him. My children are receiving an education based on morals and integrity taught from God’s Holy Word and learning the basis for what we hold to be standards for right and wrong. Character formation is a difficult, but worthy and holy task. I am blessed to work at it at great lengths daily in our time together. I have also raised children through the public school system. I also know many Christians who have. I pray that each of us will trust God to provide and guide, and not make decisions based out of fear or ignorance. Allow Him to choose where and how your child will be educated, but understand that the decision will influence how much “clean up work” you will be involved in. Many children have been raised through the public school system or private schools and they have stayed true to the faith taught by diligent parents, however, I know it is becoming more and more difficult to combat the lies and unbiblical actions thrust at our children every day for years. When I was a young mother and a new Christian, I foolishly believed that the church was where my children learned about God. I thought that if they know I loved Jesus and we went to church each week, that they would be raised as followers of Jesus. How naïve! This world, school systems, peers, social media, strangers, and others have much access to the ones we love most and we must have a plan in place to teach them the truths and joys God desires for them. God provides freedom from this world, not restriction. He bestows grace, not condemnation. Teach the truth because it is absolutely certain that others are filling your children with deceit. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for lovingly entrusting your precious, specially-crafted children into our hands. I pray we have the mindset you desire to raise them and lovingly teach them of You. Help us to perfect our walk with you more and more daily, mentoring the way for our children to have an even stronger walk with You. May each generation become stronger and deeper in faith and reach many as You work through them. Show us the way You desire us to love and teach each unique child you have allowed us. Make it clear where we need to change and grow in You ourselves, and may we admit our mistakes and change our course. May we shine You so well that our children cannot turn away. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. If you would like another episode specifically about parenting children, you may like listening to “Equipping Children,” Episode #7 of the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. I pray you intentionally continue to draw nearer to Jesus and cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #120 – What the Lord Requires Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Living with eternal perspective is something we honor in our home. Not only because that is the name of this podcast, but because each of us believes in the importance of viewing each day with eyes set on eternity. This podcast has been a beautiful tool in our home, and because of it, my daughters and husband are also much more aware of ways we can shift our mindset and attitude toward Christ and seek to allow Him first importance in our daily activities and plans. Watching my girls grow in Christlike character is a gift. I’m sure you understand the joy when you witness the changes Jesus makes on the surrendered heart of your child. As we watch our children allow Jesus into their life and submit to Him to alter the mindset and desires they carry, we more clearly understand the responsibility a parent carries to make Jesus known. There is really nothing else that compares with preparing ourselves and our children for eternity. Sometimes we can be so wrapped up in daily living that we miss what God calls for us. The simplicity and complexity of raising a child to know, love, honor, and follow Christ is the greatest gift He can bestow on parents. It’s easy to forget exactly what God truly requires of us when we get lost in the hustle of life instead of keeping eyes fixed above. I believe that serving God is of utmost importance, especially when He is calling us to such a high task. Truly, obedience is key. However, we only create busywork, not an honoring service for Him if we are not simply spending time in the presence of Jesus to know Him. John 12:1-8 says, “Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with Him. Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages. ” He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of My burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have Me.” What I notice the most about these verses is that Mary was loving, humble and teachable. Through her actions, she proved what was important in her heart; what her mind was focused on. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” This humble follower of Christ recognized that she must be more occupied with Jesus than for Him. Another verse that shows us to fix our attention and heart on Jesus is found in Luke 10:41, which says, “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Martha was so consumed with doing for Jesus that she lost opportunities to be with Him. How can we know how to please God if we do not know Him? If only we could continually live with the childlike faith God calls us to carry. Christian life shouldn’t be complicated. Our stubbornness, pride, ego, greed, fears, wickedness, and sins separate us from the ability to fellowship with our Father as we should. Have you made your walk with Christ harder than it should be? Have you complicated your salvation thinking you have to serve or do in order to please God? I remember when I first became a Christian I was so eager to serve! I joined so many committees. I don’t remember ever stopping to ask God what direction He had for me to follow or how He would like me to serve. I loved everything I was doing and I recall that I had great joy in doing what I could for God. But was I making my walk harder than it should have been? Wouldn’t I have matured my walk with Jesus sooner if I had stopped to be present with Him and be discipled properly? My point is that we can easily and unknowingly make our walk with God way more complicated than it has to be with self-imposed rules, objectives, or agendas. Would you like a good reminder of what the life of a believer should really look like? Micah 6:6-8 says, “With what shall I come before the Lord and bow down before the exalted God? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with calves a year old? Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with ten thousand rivers of olive oil? Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” “To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” 1. Be just - God is calling us to be consistent, virtuous, honest, innocent, and righteous. The only way we can mature in those qualities and be pleasing to God is through the Holy Spirit actively working within us. 2. Love mercy - We are each in need of mercy. We know we are incapable of receiving the life-saving mercy we need without Jesus. Through Christ we can receive it and are also able to extend God’s grace to others. 3. Walk humbly with God - Walking is an active, not sedentary state. Our Heavenly Father asks us to humbly move with Him. To walk with someone means to keep step and stay at an even pace together. Our Father extends a personal fellowship with His followers to walk in step with Him. Almost every evening I am able to take a walk with one of my daughters. It is one of the highlights of my day. Each walk carries a variety of emotions and stories that grow and deepen our bond with each other. Serious conversations and laughter accompany every step and I know our relationship would not be the same without these walks. Just as we cannot grow closer to God unless we walk humbly with Him. For some, the summer months are slow and easy, for others, the days are wild and busy. Whichever summer day you encounter, please make it a point to put God first. Grow your relationship with Jesus this summer through intentional time spent walking with Him. Here are 5 steps to make sure you know Jesus more clearly before summer is over. 1. Allow the Heavenly Father to enter your mind when you wake up and pray to Him as you start your day. 2. Allow the Holy Spirit to penetrate your thoughts and actions through each day and help you choose what activities you should spend your time on. 3. Speak of and to Jesus as you work or play. Allow prayers to flow from your heart and mind through the day as you converse with God in gratitude and appreciation of whatever enters your life. 4. Make time to be in God’s word at some point each day. You cannot know Him unless you spend time with Him. Scripture makes Him known. 5. Before you fall asleep each evening, speak humble prayers to God to close the evening with Him foremost on your mind. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness is overwhelming, especially in light of our sinful nature. Thank You for Your mercy and love for us. May we grow closer to You daily as we intentionally and humbly walk in step with You. May we act justly, despite how we are treated because we are so close to You that You pour from us before self. May we accept and exhibit mercy, from You, ourselves, and others in ways that honor and please You. May we walk humbly by Your side in sweet fellowship and praise that pleases You and shines for others to see, drawing them ever nearer to You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I suggest Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast episode 12, “Values in a World of Immorality” and it can be found on the Terri Hitt website. I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 120 - What the Lord Requires Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #120 – What the Lord Requires Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Living with eternal perspective is something we honor in our home. Not only because that is the name of this podcast, but because each of us believes in the importance of viewing each day with eyes set on eternity. This podcast has been a beautiful tool in our home, and because of it, my daughters and husband are also much more aware of ways we can shift our mindset and attitude toward Christ and seek to allow Him first importance in our daily activities and plans. Watching my girls grow in Christlike character is a gift. I’m sure you understand the joy when you witness the changes Jesus makes on the surrendered heart of your child. As we watch our children allow Jesus into their life and submit to Him to alter the mindset and desires they carry, we more clearly understand the responsibility a parent carries to make Jesus known. There is really nothing else that compares with preparing ourselves and our children for eternity. Sometimes we can be so wrapped up in daily living that we miss what God calls for us. The simplicity and complexity of raising a child to know, love, honor, and follow Christ is the greatest gift He can bestow on parents. It’s easy to forget exactly what God truly requires of us when we get lost in the hustle of life instead of keeping eyes fixed above. I believe that serving God is of utmost importance, especially when He is calling us to such a high task. Truly, obedience is key. However, we only create busywork, not an honoring service for Him if we are not simply spending time in the presence of Jesus to know Him. John 12:1-8 says, “Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with Him. Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages. ” He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of My burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have Me.” What I notice the most about these verses is that Mary was loving, humble and teachable. Through her actions, she proved what was important in her heart; what her mind was focused on. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” This humble follower of Christ recognized that she must be more occupied with Jesus than for Him. Another verse that shows us to fix our attention and heart on Jesus is found in Luke 10:41, which says, “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Martha was so consumed with doing for Jesus that she lost opportunities to be with Him. How can we know how to please God if we do not know Him? If only we could continually live with the childlike faith God calls us to carry. Christian life shouldn’t be complicated. Our stubbornness, pride, ego, greed, fears, wickedness, and sins separate us from the ability to fellowship with our Father as we should. Have you made your walk with Christ harder than it should be? Have you complicated your salvation thinking you have to serve or do in order to please God? I remember when I first became a Christian I was so eager to serve! I joined so many committees. I don’t remember ever stopping to ask God what direction He had for me to follow or how He would like me to serve. I loved everything I was doing and I recall that I had great joy in doing what I could for God. But was I making my walk harder than it should have been? Wouldn’t I have matured my walk with Jesus sooner if I had stopped to be present with Him and be discipled properly? My point is that we can easily and unknowingly make our walk with God way more complicated than it has to be with self-imposed rules, objectives, or agendas. Would you like a good reminder of what the life of a believer should really look like? Micah 6:6-8 says, “With what shall I come before the Lord and bow down before the exalted God? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with calves a year old? Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with ten thousand rivers of olive oil? Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” “To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” 1. Be just - God is calling us to be consistent, virtuous, honest, innocent, and righteous. The only way we can mature in those qualities and be pleasing to God is through the Holy Spirit actively working within us. 2. Love mercy - We are each in need of mercy. We know we are incapable of receiving the life-saving mercy we need without Jesus. Through Christ we can receive it and are also able to extend God’s grace to others. 3. Walk humbly with God - Walking is an active, not sedentary state. Our Heavenly Father asks us to humbly move with Him. To walk with someone means to keep step and stay at an even pace together. Our Father extends a personal fellowship with His followers to walk in step with Him. Almost every evening I am able to take a walk with one of my daughters. It is one of the highlights of my day. Each walk carries a variety of emotions and stories that grow and deepen our bond with each other. Serious conversations and laughter accompany every step and I know our relationship would not be the same without these walks. Just as we cannot grow closer to God unless we walk humbly with Him. For some, the summer months are slow and easy, for others, the days are wild and busy. Whichever summer day you encounter, please make it a point to put God first. Grow your relationship with Jesus this summer through intentional time spent walking with Him. Here are 5 steps to make sure you know Jesus more clearly before summer is over. 1. Allow the Heavenly Father to enter your mind when you wake up and pray to Him as you start your day. 2. Allow the Holy Spirit to penetrate your thoughts and actions through each day and help you choose what activities you should spend your time on. 3. Speak of and to Jesus as you work or play. Allow prayers to flow from your heart and mind through the day as you converse with God in gratitude and appreciation of whatever enters your life. 4. Make time to be in God’s word at some point each day. You cannot know Him unless you spend time with Him. Scripture makes Him known. 5. Before you fall asleep each evening, speak humble prayers to God to close the evening with Him foremost on your mind. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness is overwhelming, especially in light of our sinful nature. Thank You for Your mercy and love for us. May we grow closer to You daily as we intentionally and humbly walk in step with You. May we act justly, despite how we are treated because we are so close to You that You pour from us before self. May we accept and exhibit mercy, from You, ourselves, and others in ways that honor and please You. May we walk humbly by Your side in sweet fellowship and praise that pleases You and shines for others to see, drawing them ever nearer to You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I suggest Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast episode 12, “Values in a World of Immorality” and it can be found on the Terri Hitt website. I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #131 – An Eternal Perspective Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. 1 John 2:25 says, “And this is the promise that He made to us—eternal life.” Eternal life. Forever Alive. No death. It’s impossible for our human mind to grasp the depth of this promise. We cannot comprehend all that God has in store for the ones who humbly love Him, and follow Him with humble faith, love, and obedience. So many believers hear the words eternity, eternal life, or live with eternal perspective and have a moment of gratitude for the gift God promises. How many of us actually grasp those words and apply them to daily living? What does it even mean to purpose to live with a perspective beyond self and this world? 1 John 5:13 says, “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.” When people imagine the end of their life, they hope for something good. Many imagine life with Christ in eternity, but only have our limited human understanding of what it might be like. Many don’t want to dwell long on the thoughts because they begin to feel depressed or anxious. Because of Jesus, we can be assured of life eternal with Him and that it will be far beyond our miniscule expectations. 1 Corinthians 2:9 says, “Rather, as it is written: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no heart has imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him.” This promise isn’t based on how we feel, but on truth. If you have confessed and committed your life to Christ, you can rest in assurance through faith that you will have eternal life with Jesus. I want to share four beautiful verses with you that offer hope, truth, and assurance for us now and in the future. Matthew 7:13-14 says, “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” Jesus stresses that He knows how difficult it is to follow Him. Represented by the two gates are the two choices each person must face. Will you purpose to faithfully and intentionally follow Jesus or something else? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” This verse captures more about God’s plan than any other I can think of. Who would sacrifice their beloved son? But God’s plans are never what we expect, but somehow they are exactly what we need, even before we know or carry the ability to understand. Ephesians 2:8-10 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” Believers are not saved by our works, but we have been saved for the good works He will accomplish through us. As we mature our personal relationship and grow a godly lifestyle through maturing our Christian walk, the works are an outgrowth, an extension of Christ within us as He works through our humble, obedient spirit. John 14:1-3 says, “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” In these precious words from Jesus, we find assurance that our way to eternal life is secure. If your hope and faith are in Him, you can trust that He has personally prepared your way to and in life eternal. Jesus didn’t give specific details, but with faith, we don’t need them. Our trust is in Him and our future is with Him. Obviously, the promise of life eternal is not based on our works, but His Word and His sacrificial act. Why wait for eternity to begin claiming this gift? We can live for eternity in the present. Now. In ways that honor and please Christ. Jesus lived with a heart and mind fixed on eternity – not this world. This place was a temporary holding ground that enabled Him to fulfill the purpose God held for Him. How do you view this world? Do you live for fleshly desires or to fulfill God’s will? Do you live with your eyes fixed above, knowing Jesus could return at any moment? Do you live with a heart that longs to please your Heavenly Father? Do you live with a mind that honors and dwells on thoughts pleasing to God? No matter the suffering Jesus faced, He did not falter or fail because He carried a godly and righteous view of eternity. Jesus lived backwards according to the way most humans live on earth. The Lord looked to the end of His earthly days to plan what He did and relied on in His present. His life was defined by His longing for obedience under God and eternity with Him. When we live with Jesus’s mindset, we carry His mind and strength to cleanse our life of the sin that pulls us away from our Heavenly Father. It is only by His grace and Spirit within us that we can begin to understand and desire a life focused beyond this world. Then we can allow our relationship with Jesus to dictate our earthly walk and fellowship with Him and others. We can allow Him to show us what to count as important or worthy of attention. We consider what our life should look like under God and strive to live in ways that others may detect His presence within us and be drawn to Him because of it. What are ways to ensure you live for eternity now? 1. Cling to Jesus – with an intentionally intimate and deepening relationship. 2. Connect with prayer – With intimate conversation throughout each day, set times to pray, scriptural prayers, and heartfelt musings, remain connected to the Father through this lifeline to Him. Listen for His responses and guidance. 3. Read, study, and share God’s word – Mature your walk and share Him and your testimony with others, whether they be friends, family, or strangers, not only through words, but in your actions, reactions, desires, and integrity. The way we present ourselves must be in alignment with how we live and how we treat family members, friends, and strangers. Our lifestyle must be in alignment with God’s Word. 4. Love the Lord - with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind and expose Him through words, actions, reactions, and desires. 5. Find and follow God’s will – Following and obeying the Lord, studying His word, and conversing through prayer, listening for His voice and direction, and heeding sound biblical advice are ways to find and follow the Lord. 6. Raise children to know and honor Him – As we draw nearer to Him, our children are drawn closer, as well. How do you begin self-development that prepares for eternity with Christ? Self-care is a huge goal for many women. I understand the foundation for it, but believe it is taken to extremes often in our society, especially in advertisements and through influencers. We need to care for ourselves mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and financially. What I have learned through years of following Christ is that when I seek His care first, I lose the desire to obsess over or constantly seek self-care. As I rely on Him and deepen my relationship with Him, He handles the cares I have and the needs that occur. Because the Bible tells us that the body is a temple of Christ, and we want to treat it well in all the areas I mentioned, and of course taking care of yourself is essential. Yet, when we release self to Jesus and learn and grow in Him, our goals and attitude change as we move closer and closer to Him and we lose the focus on caring for self obsessively as we serve others in a holier way. As we submit to Christ, we also move into what I call godly-development. It definitely ties to self-care, but in an organic and Christ-driven way. Growing in and through Christ truly is a moment-by-moment process that transforms who and what we desire and are. Through this development we think less of self, and more about others, with thoughts centered on Christ most of all. As He flows through all that we are, we become more like Him. We see the world more as He does, and realize more of the desires He crafted within us. So often we scan the library and bookstores to find the perfect books to improve and change us or to change others. Books challenge and develop us, but not always in the ways God desires. The Bible is the single most important book ever written, yet so often we pass it by as we seek the newest fad or forget the true wisdom it holds. The keys to healthy, joyful living and the secrets to living with eternal perspective are written in every book the Bible contains. As a book lover and a reader, I understand the value of reading books with godly values, but please don’t overlook the most important and influential book. Don’t place it to be read last or when you think you have time. Make sure to read it first, then include other quality books that align with God’s morals and directives. The focus of your heart behind the desire to change or improve as a believer should be what directs and propels you to act. Place Christ at the forefront of daily thinking and witness the changes He makes in and through you. This self-development is the most important change you can make because the results matter for eternity. 1. Search the Scriptures 2. Humbly submit to Christ 3. Honor the Father 4. Serve how He calls 5. Witness the changes He makes in you and others because of your obedience Philippians 2:3-4 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” As you draw nearer to God through Scriptures, prayer, and relationship, your faith becomes a deeper love. One that humbles you to receive what Christ desires to accomplish within and through you. Luke 9:23 says, “And He said to all, “If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me.” Dying to self is not something we can accomplish on our own. By trusting Jesus more each day as you grow your walk with Him, looking upward toward the eternal plan He has established, toward the eternity you will have with Him, you will be drawn to allow Him more access to your heart and home. Galatians 5:22-26 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us walk in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying one another.” Living with eternal perspective takes the sting out of disappointments as we trust the Father. This eternal-driven mindset takes the competition out of daily life. We trust that our personal life holds a purpose no one else has. Likewise, we recognize that the lives of others are unique and purposed by the same Hand that crafted each individual with intention. The fruits we receive from the Holy Spirit thriving and growing within us become focused on serving others over self. Intentionally developing godly character qualities honors the Father who intentionally crafted each one of us with purpose. Jesus placed others before self, yet allowed God full reign over His life. Each step we take toward following Christ moves us closer to eternity as we live for it in the present. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” Dear Heavenly Father, help us in Your Sovereign love for us, to view this world through Your eyes. May our treasures be placed under You because they are what You have deemed worthy of praise. Help us to decrease as we allow You to be increased within us. Lord, You tell us that if we hate our life in this world we will keep it for eternity. May we follow You as faithful servants yearning to honor and please You. May our minds be sober and our intentions pure as we cling to Your promises of tomorrow today. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. This and my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 131 - An Eternal Perspective Life Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #131 – An Eternal Perspective Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. 1 John 2:25 says, “And this is the promise that He made to us—eternal life.” Eternal life. Forever Alive. No death. It’s impossible for our human mind to grasp the depth of this promise. We cannot comprehend all that God has in store for the ones who humbly love Him, and follow Him with humble faith, love, and obedience. So many believers hear the words eternity, eternal life, or live with eternal perspective and have a moment of gratitude for the gift God promises. How many of us actually grasp those words and apply them to daily living? What does it even mean to purpose to live with a perspective beyond self and this world? 1 John 5:13 says, “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.” When people imagine the end of their life, they hope for something good. Many imagine life with Christ in eternity, but only have our limited human understanding of what it might be like. Many don’t want to dwell long on the thoughts because they begin to feel depressed or anxious. Because of Jesus, we can be assured of life eternal with Him and that it will be far beyond our miniscule expectations. 1 Corinthians 2:9 says, “Rather, as it is written: “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no heart has imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him.” This promise isn’t based on how we feel, but on truth. If you have confessed and committed your life to Christ, you can rest in assurance through faith that you will have eternal life with Jesus. I want to share four beautiful verses with you that offer hope, truth, and assurance for us now and in the future. Matthew 7:13-14 says, “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” Jesus stresses that He knows how difficult it is to follow Him. Represented by the two gates are the two choices each person must face. Will you purpose to faithfully and intentionally follow Jesus or something else? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” This verse captures more about God’s plan than any other I can think of. Who would sacrifice their beloved son? But God’s plans are never what we expect, but somehow they are exactly what we need, even before we know or carry the ability to understand. Ephesians 2:8-10 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” Believers are not saved by our works, but we have been saved for the good works He will accomplish through us. As we mature our personal relationship and grow a godly lifestyle through maturing our Christian walk, the works are an outgrowth, an extension of Christ within us as He works through our humble, obedient spirit. John 14:1-3 says, “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” In these precious words from Jesus, we find assurance that our way to eternal life is secure. If your hope and faith are in Him, you can trust that He has personally prepared your way to and in life eternal. Jesus didn’t give specific details, but with faith, we don’t need them. Our trust is in Him and our future is with Him. Obviously, the promise of life eternal is not based on our works, but His Word and His sacrificial act. Why wait for eternity to begin claiming this gift? We can live for eternity in the present. Now. In ways that honor and please Christ. Jesus lived with a heart and mind fixed on eternity – not this world. This place was a temporary holding ground that enabled Him to fulfill the purpose God held for Him. How do you view this world? Do you live for fleshly desires or to fulfill God’s will? Do you live with your eyes fixed above, knowing Jesus could return at any moment? Do you live with a heart that longs to please your Heavenly Father? Do you live with a mind that honors and dwells on thoughts pleasing to God? No matter the suffering Jesus faced, He did not falter or fail because He carried a godly and righteous view of eternity. Jesus lived backwards according to the way most humans live on earth. The Lord looked to the end of His earthly days to plan what He did and relied on in His present. His life was defined by His longing for obedience under God and eternity with Him. When we live with Jesus’s mindset, we carry His mind and strength to cleanse our life of the sin that pulls us away from our Heavenly Father. It is only by His grace and Spirit within us that we can begin to understand and desire a life focused beyond this world. Then we can allow our relationship with Jesus to dictate our earthly walk and fellowship with Him and others. We can allow Him to show us what to count as important or worthy of attention. We consider what our life should look like under God and strive to live in ways that others may detect His presence within us and be drawn to Him because of it. What are ways to ensure you live for eternity now? 1. Cling to Jesus – with an intentionally intimate and deepening relationship. 2. Connect with prayer – With intimate conversation throughout each day, set times to pray, scriptural prayers, and heartfelt musings, remain connected to the Father through this lifeline to Him. Listen for His responses and guidance. 3. Read, study, and share God’s word – Mature your walk and share Him and your testimony with others, whether they be friends, family, or strangers, not only through words, but in your actions, reactions, desires, and integrity. The way we present ourselves must be in alignment with how we live and how we treat family members, friends, and strangers. Our lifestyle must be in alignment with God’s Word. 4. Love the Lord - with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind and expose Him through words, actions, reactions, and desires. 5. Find and follow God’s will – Following and obeying the Lord, studying His word, and conversing through prayer, listening for His voice and direction, and heeding sound biblical advice are ways to find and follow the Lord. 6. Raise children to know and honor Him – As we draw nearer to Him, our children are drawn closer, as well. How do you begin self-development that prepares for eternity with Christ? Self-care is a huge goal for many women. I understand the foundation for it, but believe it is taken to extremes often in our society, especially in advertisements and through influencers. We need to care for ourselves mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and financially. What I have learned through years of following Christ is that when I seek His care first, I lose the desire to obsess over or constantly seek self-care. As I rely on Him and deepen my relationship with Him, He handles the cares I have and the needs that occur. Because the Bible tells us that the body is a temple of Christ, and we want to treat it well in all the areas I mentioned, and of course taking care of yourself is essential. Yet, when we release self to Jesus and learn and grow in Him, our goals and attitude change as we move closer and closer to Him and we lose the focus on caring for self obsessively as we serve others in a holier way. As we submit to Christ, we also move into what I call godly-development. It definitely ties to self-care, but in an organic and Christ-driven way. Growing in and through Christ truly is a moment-by-moment process that transforms who and what we desire and are. Through this development we think less of self, and more about others, with thoughts centered on Christ most of all. As He flows through all that we are, we become more like Him. We see the world more as He does, and realize more of the desires He crafted within us. So often we scan the library and bookstores to find the perfect books to improve and change us or to change others. Books challenge and develop us, but not always in the ways God desires. The Bible is the single most important book ever written, yet so often we pass it by as we seek the newest fad or forget the true wisdom it holds. The keys to healthy, joyful living and the secrets to living with eternal perspective are written in every book the Bible contains. As a book lover and a reader, I understand the value of reading books with godly values, but please don’t overlook the most important and influential book. Don’t place it to be read last or when you think you have time. Make sure to read it first, then include other quality books that align with God’s morals and directives. The focus of your heart behind the desire to change or improve as a believer should be what directs and propels you to act. Place Christ at the forefront of daily thinking and witness the changes He makes in and through you. This self-development is the most important change you can make because the results matter for eternity. 1. Search the Scriptures 2. Humbly submit to Christ 3. Honor the Father 4. Serve how He calls 5. Witness the changes He makes in you and others because of your obedience Philippians 2:3-4 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” As you draw nearer to God through Scriptures, prayer, and relationship, your faith becomes a deeper love. One that humbles you to receive what Christ desires to accomplish within and through you. Luke 9:23 says, “And He said to all, “If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me.” Dying to self is not something we can accomplish on our own. By trusting Jesus more each day as you grow your walk with Him, looking upward toward the eternal plan He has established, toward the eternity you will have with Him, you will be drawn to allow Him more access to your heart and home. Galatians 5:22-26 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us walk in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying one another.” Living with eternal perspective takes the sting out of disappointments as we trust the Father. This eternal-driven mindset takes the competition out of daily life. We trust that our personal life holds a purpose no one else has. Likewise, we recognize that the lives of others are unique and purposed by the same Hand that crafted each individual with intention. The fruits we receive from the Holy Spirit thriving and growing within us become focused on serving others over self. Intentionally developing godly character qualities honors the Father who intentionally crafted each one of us with purpose. Jesus placed others before self, yet allowed God full reign over His life. Each step we take toward following Christ moves us closer to eternity as we live for it in the present. 2 Corinthians 3:18 says, “And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” Dear Heavenly Father, help us in Your Sovereign love for us, to view this world through Your eyes. May our treasures be placed under You because they are what You have deemed worthy of praise. Help us to decrease as we allow You to be increased within us. Lord, You tell us that if we hate our life in this world we will keep it for eternity. May we follow You as faithful servants yearning to honor and please You. May our minds be sober and our intentions pure as we cling to Your promises of tomorrow today. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. This and my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.