< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 021 - Say NO to Ungodly Influences in Your Heart and Home Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #021 – Say NO to Ungodly Influences in Your Heart and Home Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. As I look back in review of my life, I recognize ways I was been deceived and sometimes followed self instead of my Savior. Especially in my 20’s and early 30’s, when I was younger in the faith, I grew well in some areas and was ignorant in others. I was not discipled properly, and because of that, like each of us, I followed the propensity to follow what looked or seemed right due to lack of biblical training. Don’t let this happen to you or your child. Everyone needs proper discipleship. Whether you have a son or daughter who has confessed Jesus as their personal Savior and is beginning a walk with Him or have a child who has been following Jesus for some time, godly mentorship is crucial . Since I desire to intentionally seek God’s wisdom and direction so that my intentions and actions will be pleasing to Him, I am focused on maturing my faith daily. I’m sure you desire to do the same. If not, please listen to the influences we will discuss today. Perhaps one or more has become a stumbling block that hinders your walk and in extension, will do the same to your precious child as they watch and learn from you. Each one of us is susceptible to falling daily and need to keep our eyes on Jesus. As we purposely look for things that need to be eliminated from our lives to gain godly wisdom and grow our Heavenly relationship, we experience the truth that the Christian walk is a lifestyle that evolves as our faith and obedience stretches and deepens. On this episode today, I want to draw attention to ungodly influences or practices that might reside in your heart and home. Some have become so ingrained in our culture that it is hard for people to recognize they are coasting in a walk with Jesus or drifting away from God. If left unaddressed, these things will affect your walk with Christ, separating you from strong relationship with Him, but also touch and shape those you meet, as well as those you love. Please pray that as you listen, your spirit will be pricked in areas God may be calling you to submit or obey by removing them from your life, so you may humbly please and follow Him as He desires. As I write this podcast, I’m also asking God to alert me to areas I need to remove from my life or repent to Him. This episode is heavy on Scriptures, because God’s Word is our hope and strength, a gift from the Almighty to us, a lifeline of hope, guidance, and strength. Please take notes if you desire and remember that you may also visit terrihitt.com to print a transcript of this episode to save the verses you hear for future reference, because God’s word to us is so powerful and healing. It simply is the sustenance we need daily. Of course, Scripture is the way our heart and mind hears the gift of salvation. It allows us to grow our relationship with God through Christ. God opens us to His truths and exposes the deception of this world through His holy Words. Every believer has heard that truth, but not everyone believes and practices what God shares and commands. A person will never be convicted and transformed apart from the power of God and His holy Word. I’ve compiled a list that I believe touches every human in some way. As you listen, prayerfully seek God’s direction and guidance to see if He may be calling you to remove, repent, or restructure your walk with Him in some way. Ask Him to guard your children, your parenting, and guide you to clearly follow Him so your children will witness the way you honor and obey God. Pray that your children will humbly and willingly live within His boundaries with joy. Ungodly Influences That May Exist in Your Heart or Home: 1. Attitude – 2 Timothy 4:3-4 says, “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching but having itching ears, they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths .” Without humbly seeking and clinging to Jesus, our attitude is subject to a roller coaster of emotions. Only a steady focus on Christ can protect believers from a wash of emotions or thoughts that move far from where our Heavenly Father calls us to abide . 2. False Preachers – 1 John 4:1-6 says, “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you heard was coming and now is in the world already. Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. They are from the world; therefore, they speak from the world, and the world listens to them. We are from God. Whoever knows God listens to us; whoever is not from God does not listen to us. By this we know the Spirit of Truth and the spirit of error.” Our world is full of false preachers and those who proclaim to follow Christ yet lead others far from what His Word teaches and commands. It is imperative to be in God’s holy Word daily, and to purposely grow your knowledge of, understanding of, and obedience to Scripture moment by moment. When you walk through each day, your thought process should revert to what God says about topics and situations . Study His character and commands so that you recognize false teachings immediately – from others and within your thought process. Just as the serpent deceived Adam and Eve by twisting God’s truths, he is out to swindle each human and rob us of a joy-filled, obedient life here and for eternity. 3. Influencers - Proverbs 27:17 says, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another .” Just because someone has a strong social media presence, is a Hollywood star, a famous athlete, or a popular pastor it does not mean they practice what they preach. I have found that not everyone with a social media account lives the way they show online. Neither does everyone without an online presence. Each of us are influencers to another in some way. Especially if you are a parent. Strive to be a genuine reflection of Jesus . The way to do so is to know Him intimately through the Bible and prayer. Our walk with Christ grows stronger by seeking and abiding in Him . Let His influence be the guiding factor and influence in your heart and home. 4. Activities – (Language, Alcohol, Drugs, Pornography, Adultery, or Addictions – too much of something or anything done with the wrong intentions – food, shopping, exercise, etc.) - Proverbs 3:32 says, “For the devious person is an abomination to the LORD, but the upright are in His confidence .” So many people struggle with secret sin. God sees and knows all. Whether it is an addiction or something that is threatening to become one, or if it something that a person is doing despite what God’s Word commands, freedom is only found once we submit and humbly ask forgiveness from God. It is only when we realize we are hurting the Lord through our sin that we can rely on His strength to follow Christ through the steps to freedom . It may be a moment-by-moment submission to God or a one-time release, but He is present. He cares. God’s strength is enough for anything . 5. Entertainment (Books, Movies, Music, Magazines, Games) -Romans 12:2 says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect .” Just as in #4, Christ has paid the price for our sins; He is more than enough to release any of us from what He calls unpleasing or sinful. Most of the entertainment available in our society is filthy. If you even look at advertisements, you see how far from Christ we have moved. Our children see what is available as normal unless they are taught to seek what is godly and holy. They will likely desire what you are drawn to. This includes, not only entertainment, but characteristics, morals, and dedication to growing their relationship with Jesus. 6. Friends - 1 Corinthians 15:33 says, “Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals .” Those we surround ourselves with become heavy influences on our beliefs, attitude, actions, and reactions. In extension, they affect those we love. Our lives influence others. Be careful to lead others to Christ through your beliefs, words, attitude, motives, and actions . 7. Décor and Decorations – John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” Our homes should be a godly place of refuge for all who enter, especially for those who live within the walls. The type of décor we use silently expresses our belief system, memories, morals, and desires . Decorations used for holidays show our character and exposes where our walk is with Christ. Do you showcase items that would be pleasing to Him if He were visiting unexpectedly? Remember, He is within the walls of your home and sees into your heart. What joy our homes can be filled with if we let His heart speak to ours and we allow the light of the Holy Spirit within to guide us in our décor and decoration choices. 8. Addictions - James 4:4 says, “You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore, whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God .” Addictions are the ways humans in need of healing look for fulfillment in excessive and sometimes hurtful, damaging, or neglectful ways . When we desire too much or fall into habits that draw us away from God’s best for us or His holy commands, it is time to focus on strengthening our personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Only Jesus and His omnipotent strength can rescue and release us from the pain and bondage of any type of addiction. Only He can fill the gaps or hurts in our character or emotions that we desperately seek and try to fill with other things. 9. Relationships - Proverbs 12:26 says, “One who is righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray .” Sometimes we simply need to let go of the past, forgive, and enjoy relationships with those in our life. At other times, we need to let go of the past by releasing people from our life. Because God knows motives, hearts, and situations, our relationship with Jesus is a beautiful and godly guide to whether we should be growing or going. Our identity in and through Jesus is where we find our strength and wisdom to treat ourselves and others as He would direct . Model godly relationships for your children and let them witness Christ work in your life through them. 10. Bitterness – Hebrews 12:15 says, “See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled .” When we stop to practice true thankfulness for what we do and what we do not receive because we trust in God and His sovereignty, we are able to find identity and recognition through Him, instead of this world . When we center our thoughts, feelings, and emotions on Him, bitterness does not find soil to plant roots. 11. Unforgiveness – Ephesians 4:26 says, “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger. ” Because of Christ’s sacrifice, we have seen perfect forgiveness modeled. When we practice what He proclaims, we can draw upon His strength to endure what this life brings without allowing unforgiveness to overtake our spirit . 12. Ungodly Character – Ezekiel 36:26 says, “And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.” Our belief system, values, motivations, and attitude form and expose the character we exhibit . If we trust in God and continue to seek personal relationship with Jesus, respect God’s Word and authority in our life, and seek to please and honor Him, the ungodliness we naturally turn toward will transform more and more into a reflection of Christ. Ephesians 5:3 says, “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints .” 13. Pridefulness – Proverbs 16:18 says, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall .” Our culture celebrates pride while God despises the practice. Each human must battle the fleshly inclination to follow and exalt self. The key to conquering pride lies within whether we rely on self or Christ to eradicate it . While some suffer more from pride than others, even the smallest form can lead to devastating destruction. 14. Indifference - Revelation 3:15-16 says, “’I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth .’” God yearns for our heart but gives us free choice. Within that freedom, He desires that we be cold or hot. Either desire Him or not. God does not want a lukewarm spirit that claims to love Him yet does nothing to mature in Him, exhibit that love, or serve Him with a cheerful heart. 15. Idleness - 1 Timothy 5:13 says, “Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.” As we draw nearer to God in our personal relationship through Jesus, we are more prone to use our time wisely for Him and serve others more freely in His name . 16. The Occult - Leviticus 19:31 says, “Do not turn to mediums or necromancers; do not seek them out, and so make yourselves unclean by them: I am the LORD your God .” I recognize more of this in our culture and world daily. Don’t you? As the forms are sometimes clearly visible and sometimes sneakily creeping into our lives or the lives of our children through various forms, the devil wastes no time seeking to steal, kill, and destroy as God’s Word warns. Horoscopes, most young adult books and even children’s books, especially the popular the Harry Potter series, which desensitizes us and our children to the practice of evil and witchcraft, astrology, communication with the deceased, crystals, mediums, and those who offer healing through mediums, Quija boards, seances, channeling, magic, tarot cards, psychic hotlines, and evil décor all are an abomination to the Lord and through His word. Our sovereign and Holy Father instructs us to stay far from the occult without compromise . The list is long; I pray I highlighted most of what we need to watch out for. Where do you find your hope? Your guidance and strength? Proverbs 3:5-8 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones.” Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me .” God is not willing that any should perish, as Scripture clearly tells us. His guidelines are a fence of protection to keep us far from harm and safe in His perfect protection. Galatians 5:19-24 says, “Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires .” Dear Heavenly Father, God only You are holy. Only You are worthy. How far we are from You! Help us to find our way to You in deeper and godlier ways. Carve the impurities from our life and equip us to be the mentors and guides our children and grandchildren need. Father, we need You! Thank you for Your holy Word and the difference it makes in the life of one committed to You. May we reflect You so lovingly and accurately that our children passionately seek and follow You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. Both of my podcasts may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and are also part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can raise or influence children for Christ, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? Please also follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and purposely connect with your child and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 093 - Why Good Isn't Enough for God Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 093 – Why Good Isn’t Enough for God Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother. I can’t believe most schools are already back in session! When that happens, it feels like summer is over. Ahh. It breaks my heart. This time of year is certainly the most challenging for me. No other season holds my heart quite like summer. Even though I don’t find the heat and humidity easy to handle anymore, I’m always disappointed when summer days move out and are replaced with crisper, cooler air. Although I realize I’m in the minority, I desire summer days to make up most of the year. Since we know nothing lasts forever, seasons are a beautiful reminder of why we must live with eternal perspective . Have you had days, weeks, or years of life that you want to last forever? Or maybe right now you feel the opposite. Do you wonder how much longer you have to endure the season you’re experiencing? Everyone knows change can be good. Change can become the catalyst that moves us to be in sync with the next transformation God has for us. I distinctly remember a time I’m glad I experienced a shift in thoughts and actions. There was a period in my life when I wanted to make sure I was a good person. A good woman. A good wife. A good daughter. A good mother. As my relationship with Jesus matured, I understood that limiting myself to “good” was “ungodly.” God calls believers to a much higher standard than good. Good isn’t good enough for God. It’s true that in the beginning when God created, He exclaimed that what He made was good. However, God proclaimed His creations to be good, not that we individually or collectively are. What I mean is that what God created is by His intelligent and perfect design. Of course, anything He makes is good. Yet, in this sinful, fallen world, it didn’t take long for God’s creations to choose what appeared to be good – when it reality it was sin . Without Christ indwelling us, we continue to move farther from God. We shift farther away from what God defines as good . What the Creator of heaven and earth calls good must actually be godly . Without the Holy Spirit within us, there is no perfection or godliness. In fact, we are unable to claim the status of “good,” let alone “godly.” So how do you and I move away from desiring a good life to building a godly life ? Only through Christ . Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God .” Once we realize our need for God, we begin to understand the need for His perfect Son, Jesus to pay the price for our sin. Once we realize our need for a Savior , and accept the free gift Jesus offers, we are able to live with His Holy Spirit within us. We are no longer bound to the world and sinful temptations. Through relationship with Christ, the Holy Word, and prayerful conversations with God, we can experience a shift from good to godly . That is, if we are intentionally seeking Him in a humble, obedient, close connection moment by moment. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast .” Every world religion, except Christianity, teaches that eternal life comes through good works of some sort. As the verse I shared from Ephesians shows, salvation is a gift from God extended through His son, Jesus Christ. When we ponder the question of how to move from good to godly, we must assess who or what defines godliness . Only the Creator of all things can define what is good or godly. God’s standard is holy . Godliness , not goodness is His desire . He is the One who sets the definition. He set the price of eternal life. He is the One who extends salvation, allowing each of us a choice. Our motives and what we desire must be held up to a mirror, so to speak, as we look at how our goals are reflected against what God calls for us in His holy Word. We must take what we call good and measure it to see if it may be called holy . Until we reconcile with what God sees as godliness , not goodness, we continue to fall short of what He calls. My heart fills with joy when I remember when my first set of children were raised and before my husband and I knew that God was calling us to adopt a sweet baby from China. We didn’t know yet that we had a baby daughter waiting for us. At that time, I was experiencing much deeper growth in my spiritual walk with Christ. Slowly by slowly, I had allowed God greater access to me. I wish I could profess to be one of those people who surrender fully in the moment they accept Christ, but the truth is that each of us have varying degrees of surrender throughout our lifetime. We never reach that finish line in this life. We are so very far beneath God, so far from Him, that our lifetime must be focused on pursuing deeper relationship with Him and continuing to surrender self. As my relationship with Jesus deepened and widened, I thought back to when my husband and I had raised our first two children. I was not a Christian when my first two were born. Although I came to follow Jesus when they were young, I wasn’t well discipled. I wasted so many years trying to make “good” choices, but not striving to be godly . Would you like to know my deepest regret? Although my children always heard about Jesus, and knew I loved and followed Him, I did not know to intentionally disciple them moment by moment in the everyday process of life. I didn’t yet understand that the Christian walk is a beautiful relationship between God and man. I didn’t understand the command in Deuteronomy 6:5-9 , which says, “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” I assumed that what I was doing to teach my children about Jesus was enough. In reality, they were learning my limited faith, since I was not growing as well as I should have been. Since they weren’t being discipled well, they modeled a portion of my faith instead of chasing Christ and forming a growing personal walk with Him. How are you pursuing Christ? Is He directing every aspect of your parenting – whether your children are young or grown? The story I share about raising my first set of children is common. Be sure it doesn’t become the story you give your children. As my husband and I grew our walk with Jesus, we knew with certainty that God was calling us to travel to China to bring home the baby girl He had waiting to be ours. Before we went, we prayed together daily for the girl she would grow to be. Our heart desired that she be a light for Jesus, that she pursue Him with a pure heart, and that she would be an inspiration for others to follow Him. We asked God specifically for that result. I remember the days I worked backwards to formulate a plan to raise her with very godly goals. Ten years later when we returned to China to bring home our last child, the “master plan” for raising our girls for Christ had been practiced, and our youngest enabled us to continue the course with another beautiful soul to nourish for Jesus. Although there are so many important details I’m not including here, this story is so important to me, because our second step into parenting with a new generation of children was very intentional. My mind and heart were anchored on Christ through all obstacles. My husband and I committed to stand on that firm foundation. When deep waters swirled around us, when tragedy and troubles plagued our home, we tightened our grip on that three-fold cord that kept God in the center of all. No matter what happened, we remained committed to raising our girls and influencing our grown son and grandson for Christ. Each of us must continue to examine our lives, seeking more of Him and less of self. We must make Him known to our children in ways that cause them to pursue godliness over goodness . We must knit together that close relationship with us and Jesus. A relationship that enables them to pursue with eagerness a life that makes godly over good choices because they love and respect God and want to honor Him . It doesn’t matter how good a parent you want to be or are. God calls you and me to be holy, godly mothers. There is nothing greater we can do than fix our heart and mind above. Focus on the methods given by God to raise children for Him. If we don’t purposely lead our children to Christ, the world will sway them away. We must be focused on living godly lives through Christ so our children clearly see Him through us and desire Him for themselves. We must deepen our connection with our children through Christ and enable them to seek His approval over ours or peers. Remember, your child’s deep connection with Christ begins with your personal walk with Jesus. God’s holy, perfect Word tells us that we don’t earn grace through works or anything we do on our own. Our children must also be taught this truth. They must see us live with joyful expectation of pleasing God and growing our walk with Christ moment by moment. They must be shown how to do so. They must see how to make godly life choices instead of what society calls good. We know good isn’t enough for God. We can’t reach His heart through good works or thoughts. Set your children up for a lifetime walk with God through Jesus by the way you mentor Him with godliness and truth. Think of the end of your life, the end of your children’s lives. What will they look like? How are you going to get there? Is the route you’re taking a good one? Or are you living and leading a godly life for your children to follow to the Father’s feet? Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are holy. You alone are greater than the good we desire. Move us from good to godly in the ways You know we need. Help us to be more and more pleasing to You each moment. May our heart and mind be in sync with Your desires for us as we move ever nearer to You. Father, I thank you for Your Word, Your perfect guidance. May we understand You better and please You more as we read and act in obedience to it. May we stop trying for good and strive to be godly. May we end each day more Christlike than the one before as we remember the words Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” May His godliness influence every act and decision we make and the way we mentor You to our children. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a no obligation, strategic 15 minute call to chat about your needs to see if the program is a right fit for you. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. Because you’re a podcast listener, let me know if you’re ready to invest in the future of your children. If you tell me you heard about the special price I offer on this podcast, I will give you a big discount because I want you to experience results. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Also, if you appreciated this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a few minutes and makes a big difference in whether people are able to find the podcast. Also, you and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so please choose a friend to recommend the show to. Imagine the changes we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 124 - The Most Important Job of a Parent Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 124 – The Most Important Job of a Parent Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode that makes us consider an important question…What is the most important job of a parent? Every job you hold has a description. Think back to any position you’ve ever held. Even if it was your first job, which may have been babysitting, or working at a fast food restaurant, you had a requirement of duties. You had certain responsibilities you were to carry out while performing the job. Motherhood is no different. With this prestigious position, we have certain requirements we must meet. We also have someone we report to and we are expected to meet their requirements for the job they entrusted to us. Today we’ll discuss this holy job description. I remember becoming mother to each of my children. Even though two were biological and two were adopted, the day I met each of them holds a uniquely special place in my heart. I remember my son locking gazes with me as soon as they placed him in my arms. I recall the way my youngest was nine years old, yet a toddler in her actions due to her background. The day we met, she was wary of us, yet hopeful, standing in front of us with hands on hips and bravery etched in her posture. The day each of us have our precious children placed in our arms is obviously different for everyone. It’s a moment forever etched in our mind and heart. For most, in that instant, your heart expands beyond any capacity you knew was capable, and this person becomes someone you love so deeply that you’d die for them, even though you just met. Many of us enter parenthood ready for the responsibility. However, when I was a first time mother, I didn’t feel ready, except that I loved my husband, and together we were bringing our child into the world. Not yet a Christian, my thoughts were to learn and become the best mom I could be. I did everything to become a good mom, wife, and homemaker. I fell short in some ways, but I also grew and succeeded in other ways. Yet, aspiring to be the good mom was actually opposite of the direction I should have headed. It would have given me such relief if I could have been given a manual with each child. Something that would tell me how each of them were wired, and what their interests would be. This guide could prepare me for how to handle their temperament and how to walk them through trials or temptations. How welcome this book would have been for a young mother. As an older mom now, I look back at those early parenting years and wish I could have known things I do now. But the truth is that just like Dorothy with the ruby red slippers, I’ve always had the power. I’ve always held a weapon for success that isn’t secret. God’s Holy Word, the Bible gives us everything we need to know to parent successfully and live a life of joy. The Bible instructs us in how to carry out our most important job. God’s instructions are very clear. We are to teach our kids to love God with all their heart, soul, and might because we do, too. God’s Word shall be on our heart, honored and obeyed, and lovingly shown to our children. We are to weave God and His commandments into everyday conversation and life whether we sit in our house, when we walk by the way, when we lie down, and when we rise. We are to inhale Him so we effortlessly exhale Him as a sweet fragrance that attracts our children to Him. Everything begins with where you place your identity. If it’s not deeply, widely woven by Jesus, your child’s won’t be crafted by Christ, either. Your greatest goal should be that your children love, follow, and obey Jesus. You must be a mirror mentoring Christ over culture. Deuteronomy 6:5-7 makes it very clear that every act of parenting should ultimately point to building a foundation of love and trust in Christ that is strong enough for your child to construct their own solid house of faith that lasts into eternity. If God’s Word makes what our biggest parenting goal should be so clear, why do most parents falter in this area? When asked what they are most concerned about when parenting, most parents respond with different answers. Instead of sharing that they desire to make God clearly known as their first, second, or third answer, many parents remark that they are concerned with entirely different issues. Responses such as strong mental health for their children (specifically addressing depression or anxiety), protecting against bullying, safety concerns, helping their child achieve academic success, and finding ways to better manage screen time are top of mind. When we look at this list of parental concerns, there’s one clear solution to each point. Everything points back to instilling a heart for Jesus and establishing strong identity though Him. When our children build personal identity through relationship with Christ, integrity, character, and habits are formed that protect against what parents are worried about . As they grow in depth and breadth of maturity in their relationship, they learn to take thoughts captive for God and begin daily habits that bring them closer and closer to Him with each moment. As your children witness you seeking God first in daily life, reading His Word and utilizing what you learn in your thoughts, words, desires, and actions, then teach them how to do the same, you are exchanging fleeting treasures of this world for eternal security in the next. When your children see you continue to build and strengthen your identity in Christ, then teach them how to do the same, you are investing in eternal insurance that will bring great dividends for eternity . When your children are taught God’s Truth from you, the first Jesus they will experience, you will mold their heart and mind with eternal treasures that will combat depression and anxiety as they grow in Him. You will fill them with understanding of their purpose in life as they continue to mature. As your children uncover purpose through Christ and use the gifts and talents God crafted within them, they will have less use for mindless screen time and the fleeting interests of this world. As you become a set-apart woman who intentionally parents set-apart kids, your children will stop looking like typical children and teens as they become uniquely equipped to navigate life in this world in ways that will bring peace and security in Heaven. Why is it that believing women raise typical kids who grow into typical adults? Because we fall into the trap of living life day to day with the same patterns we’ve used in the past. Instead of relying on the power of the Holy Spirit within , we mindlessly live in the easiest or most convenient ways. Sometimes we think we’ll get to training about God later or that our kids aren’t mentally ready for certain topics, but the truth is that the devil deceives. It’s way too easy to follow his ways of the world instead of purposely pursuing the only One who can give us and our children or families what we truly desire in the depths of our spirit. If you desire your children to carry peace that passes understanding, love, joy, patience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control, as is promised in Galatians 5:22-23, you must be purposed in making Christ known moment by moment in your life in order to mentor to your child how to show Him in their lives. A once a week trip to church together won’t secure your child’s walk with Christ. It’s a day in, day out process of submitting self, moment by moment, and mentoring Jesus to your watching children. It’s knowing, showing, and experiencing the power of Christ together with the joy and peace that comes from an intentionally close relationship with Jesus. Parents are merely human. We don’t carry special powers or traits that allow us to do everything ourselves, as much as we would like to think we can. We must submit to the Father and receive the Son. Through the Holy Spirit within, you can attract your child to Jesus. Because of free will, none of us can guarantee that our children will accept Jesus as their personal Savior, but we can rest assured that we have done everything to lead them to His feet and heart. Dear Heavenly Father, You reign over us from Heaven, yet you live on earth and within our heart. Anywhere we go, You are present. Thank You for that hope and truth. May we live with ever more awareness of who You are and whose we are. May our children see the love and dedication we have for You because we passionately pursue You moment by moment and show our reliance on You. May we never draw our children, spouse, or others to self, but to You. May we honor You with purpose that exalts You and brings us into alignment with all You have for us. Thank you for including us in Your plans and showing us the way to You. May we climb in Your arms and rest there as we abide in Your glory, care, and love. May our children follow with even more desire for You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you’re ready to become the godly mom God entrusts you to be for Him and His children, you might like my free “Good to Godly: A 31-Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms.” Visit terrihitt.com to receive this resource. You are the first Jesus your child will see. Your relationship with Christ is the light that shines Him to your children. If you want a connected relationship with Jesus and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, my Set-Apart Collective program can show you how to reflect Christ in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. Remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #096 – Open Hearts for Orphans – Interview with Lisa Murphy Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Last week I began a series of conversations to bring awareness to National Adoption Month and the miracle of adoption. When we adopted from China, several people asked why. Not only were they inquiring as to why we were adopting after we had already raised two children, but they also wanted to understand why we were not adopting from the United States. Some people asked why we were going all the way to China for our baby. Our answer is honest and quite easy. We went where God called us to go. We never considered adopting, let alone traveling to a foreign country to do so until God changed our hearts and let us know His plan. What a glorious life we have lived because of heeding His call and stepping forward in obedience. My guest today is Lisa Murphy, a wife of 29 years to her husband, Jim, and mother to five unexpected and beautiful children through adoption - four living on earth and one residing in Heaven. Lisa is the Founder and CEO of Open Hearts For Orphans Inc., a 501(c)3 non-profit organization created to care for orphaned and abandoned children around the world through medical intervention, meeting basic needs, and providing their "Say Yes" adoption grants to families in the process. Open Hearts For Orphans especially believes that children belong in loving families and to date has issued over seventy adoption grants to families adopting children with special needs from fifteen different countries. Lisa’s adoption story began when she embraced the unexpected grace of our Heavenly Father who crafts desires and dreams within us during our creation. He weaves lives and stories together in beautiful ways that prove His existence, love, and provision for us. I pray you will see Him at work as you listen to Lisa’s tragic, yet hope-filled story and see how God used tragedy and hardship to bring awareness, love, provision, and change for orphans because our Great God cares for what society may consider “the least of these.” Life is never just about us alone; it is about each person God created in His image with a love so deep and wide that He offered the greatest sacrifice of His son, Jesus. God uses our lives, as well, for bigger purposes than we can imagine. Stepping out in faith to follow where He directs brings blessings for so many more than just ourselves and crafts a portrait of devotion and pure, holy love that is more beautiful than any piece of art we will see this side of heaven. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ Isn’t God wise to protect us from knowing our future? What fears and insecurities we are guarded from simply because He asks us to trust Him, to join Him on the journey of crafting a life that allows His sturdy, strong arms to carry us. His mighty works are evident in Lisa’s life as God crafted her family together in the ways He desires and that give Him joy. He knew the deepest desires of Lisa’s spirit, hopes that were not even realized by her yet, would be touched through His unexpected plans. For more information about Open Hearts for Orphans, please visit their website, Facebook page, Instagram, and YouTube channel. You may reach Lisa at openheartsfororphansorg@gmail.com. Lisa’s book, With An Open Heart their family's personal account of love, loss, and unexpected blessings is a deeply moving, true story that lovingly chronicles her family's shockingly short, yet profoundly powerful experience with their son Daniel and his zest for life. All royalties for Lisa's memoir are directed to Open Hearts for Orphans. Father God, we humbly bow before You. You are the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, and our Great Provider. Father, we thank You for Your gracious, lavish love. Thank you for the ways You carry us, and for the multitude of things You do that we never notice or realize. Thank You for the plans You crafted for us before we were even born. Heavenly Father, You are good, Your plans are good. Even when we do not understand them or see them, we trust in You. Our hope is in You. Help us to see and desire You more clearly, more intimately each day. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 096 - Open Hearts for Orphans - Interview with Lisa Murphy Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #096 – Open Hearts for Orphans – Interview with Lisa Murphy Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Last week I began a series of conversations to bring awareness to National Adoption Month and the miracle of adoption. When we adopted from China, several people asked why. Not only were they inquiring as to why we were adopting after we had already raised two children, but they also wanted to understand why we were not adopting from the United States. Some people asked why we were going all the way to China for our baby. Our answer is honest and quite easy. We went where God called us to go. We never considered adopting, let alone traveling to a foreign country to do so until God changed our hearts and let us know His plan. What a glorious life we have lived because of heeding His call and stepping forward in obedience. My guest today is Lisa Murphy, a wife of 29 years to her husband, Jim, and mother to five unexpected and beautiful children through adoption - four living on earth and one residing in Heaven. Lisa is the Founder and CEO of Open Hearts For Orphans Inc., a 501(c)3 non-profit organization created to care for orphaned and abandoned children around the world through medical intervention, meeting basic needs, and providing their "Say Yes" adoption grants to families in the process. Open Hearts For Orphans especially believes that children belong in loving families and to date has issued over seventy adoption grants to families adopting children with special needs from fifteen different countries. Lisa’s adoption story began when she embraced the unexpected grace of our Heavenly Father who crafts desires and dreams within us during our creation. He weaves lives and stories together in beautiful ways that prove His existence, love, and provision for us. I pray you will see Him at work as you listen to Lisa’s tragic, yet hope-filled story and see how God used tragedy and hardship to bring awareness, love, provision, and change for orphans because our Great God cares for what society may consider “the least of these.” Life is never just about us alone; it is about each person God created in His image with a love so deep and wide that He offered the greatest sacrifice of His son, Jesus. God uses our lives, as well, for bigger purposes than we can imagine. Stepping out in faith to follow where He directs brings blessings for so many more than just ourselves and crafts a portrait of devotion and pure, holy love that is more beautiful than any piece of art we will see this side of heaven. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ Isn’t God wise to protect us from knowing our future? What fears and insecurities we are guarded from simply because He asks us to trust Him, to join Him on the journey of crafting a life that allows His sturdy, strong arms to carry us. His mighty works are evident in Lisa’s life as God crafted her family together in the ways He desires and that give Him joy. He knew the deepest desires of Lisa’s spirit, hopes that were not even realized by her yet, would be touched through His unexpected plans. For more information about Open Hearts for Orphans, please visit their website, Facebook page, Instagram, and YouTube channel. You may reach Lisa at openheartsfororphansorg@gmail.com . Lisa’s book, With An Open Heart their family's personal account of love, loss, and unexpected blessings is a deeply moving, true story that lovingly chronicles her family's shockingly short, yet profoundly powerful experience with their son Daniel and his zest for life. All royalties for Lisa's memoir are directed to Open Hearts for Orphans. Father God, we humbly bow before You. You are the Great I Am, the Beginning and the End, and our Great Provider. Father, we thank You for Your gracious, lavish love. Thank you for the ways You carry us, and for the multitude of things You do that we never notice or realize. Thank You for the plans You crafted for us before we were even born. Heavenly Father, You are good, Your plans are good. Even when we do not understand them or see them, we trust in You. Our hope is in You. Help us to see and desire You more clearly, more intimately each day. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. https://openheartsfororphans.org/ https://www.facebook.com/openheartsfororphans https://www.instagram.com/openheartsfororphansorg/ https://www.amazon.com/Open-Heart-Revised-unexpected-blessings/dp/151707536X/ref=sr_1_15?crid=MKVZNEFQ5GTZ&keywords=lisa+murphy+books&qid=1637244467&sprefix=lisa+murphy%2Caps%2C193&sr=8-15

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #031 – An Illuminated Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. As I work on this podcast, I am in awe of the work and blessings God has shined in my life over the last two weeks. Our family has had some challenges. But God carried us through every one of them. Does that mean we are now free of hardships or obstacles? Certainly not. But each time God graces us with provisions for one of them, we are strengthened and reminded of His ever-present goodness in our life, whether we recognize it at the time or not. Last night I spent time just sitting at God’s feet. As I reflected over events of the day, I thanked Him for several opportunities that proved He was with me, and with my family. I had encountered a few opportunities where I could have easily grown frustrated or fearful over the last 24 hours, but God never let my mind travel there. He brought quick resolutions to my every need. I was so thankful for all of it that I simply had to sit and be with Him, thanking and praising Him. Mostly, I just wanted to be in His presence. Do you make time to rest in Him and simply sit at His feet? The year 2020 has been filled with challenges for everyone. We have been provided countless moments to fall in front of the Lord. I don’t know anyone who has not been affected by events taking place this year. Regardless of where your opinion sits on the multitude of issues we have seen, the truth stands that it has been a year for each of us to evaluate ourselves and where we stand with God. Our relationship with Jesus reveals and affects everything about us. How have the 2020 changes affected your faith? How have the changes and events affected your mental state? Your health? Your temperament? Your work? Your lifestyle? The way you treat your family? The way you treat others? The way you let others affect you? I’ve seen so much anger, frustration, bitterness, and misunderstandings on social media. Why? I believe it is because everything goes back to the condition of our hearts. When we don’t know Jesus, we can’t show Jesus. When we do know Him, however, the responsibility is high. We must be the light that flickers into the spirit of those around us in a very dark world. That light is not lit by our power, but by the omnipotence of the Holy Spirit living inside us. Jesus inside our flesh. We must slow down and rest in Him before reacting to the chaos of this world. Luke 8:16-18 says, “No one after lighting a lamp covers it with a jar or puts it under a bed, but puts it on a stand, so that those who enter may see the light. For nothing is hidden that will not be made manifest, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light. Take care then how you hear, for to the one who has, more will be given, and from the one who has not, even what he thinks that he has will be taken away.” Do you know what one of the best lessons I have learned from facing an obstacle was? Besides watching God work, that is. It has been being able to share with others what He has done in my life and helping them to rest in Him. One of favorite things to do is share God stories. Because the Holy Spirit is alive inside of me, the light of Jesus should illuminate everything about me. Because of my weak and sinful flesh, I do not always shine Him the way that I should, but each moment I endeavor to let Him have His will over me. All of us can, and should, be doing better. If Jesus is alive inside us, we need to allow Him to spread through everything we do and are. It is our duty to allow Him to radiate His light through us and reach others. Our joy through Him should be made public, not be hidden in any way. We should attract others to Him because of the peaceful radiance they feel and see emanating through us. We must seek to use the opportunities we receive to rest in God’s arms or lay at His feet as the foundation for serving Him well and bring others to Him because of them. Simply doing for God is not what I mean. We must allow Him to react within us and guide our fears, passions, needs, desires, and actions. If we do not apply what He has provided to and for us as a way to spread Him to others who do not know Him, or to those who need encouragement and reminders of His strength and provision, we have shoved the light under the bed or placed a cover over it. When we utilize the spiritual muscles God is growing in us to lift those around us up to Him, we become stronger in our own faith. Just like exercising, our faith can grow weak and out of shape when we do not remember to allow God to penetrate every area of us and work to mature our trust and faith in Him daily. As we allow Christ to work in us, we develop a mind and spirit that links to His. We understand and appreciate even more of what Jesus is, and has done, for us. He enables us to mature a deeper fellowship with Him and gives us boldness in sharing Him with others. In contrast, when we do not allow Him to work in us and we do not seek a growing relationship, our communication weakens, similar to an unused muscle left to atrophy. I believe this has been the year to make certain we boldly stand for Christ, allowing His light to shine in proper and authentic ways. If others seek to tear us down, criticize, or complain, we must pray for them. When we hear others criticize our president, for example, regardless of what our opinion of him is, we should pray for Him and the person speaking poorly of him. I was extremely saddened this week when I saw on social media that when the President Trump lost his brother, people tweeted that the wrong Trump died. When did our country turn so boldly evil and hateful? God has authorized specific people to be in power. His word clearly instructs us in Romans 13:1-2 to “Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment.” When the light exists in us and is powered by the One true light source by our faithful and true relationship with Jesus, there is no room or excuse for darkness. We must repent as individuals and as a nation, lay at His feet, soaking in His love, light, strength, and guidance to continue moving through a world increasingly corrupt. We are not without hope. We just have to claim His and believe it, then move boldly forward in it without excuse or relying on our feeble strength. Are you ready? What are the best ways to move forward shining His light in the way He desires? 1. Know Jesus as Savior. 2. Read God’s word. 3. Seek Him and deepen your walk and relationship with Him. 4. Ask God to illuminate your mind with His truths. 5. Pray to God for your relationship with Him to be healthy and pure. 6. Pray for others, especially those who hurt you and anger you. 7. Repeat each step – every day. Each one of us, myself included must truly stop and make time for what is important. Merciful Heavenly Father, please help us. Remind us daily to look Up to You. For You are the One we must rely on. Everything in this world that we believe to be important will fade away and You will be left standing on the throne we bow to. God, let us feel the urgency and act on it by allowing You to direct and carry us through each moment in ways that shine and reflect Your love, strength, truth, and compassion. Let our hearts and minds suffer for what pains You and recognize and move in the ways You uniquely call us to, allowing You to act through us, giving us the words and abilities needed. Lord, our time here is short. Help us remember that and truly live each day with an eternal perspective that drives us to You and brings others with us. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 031 An Illuminated Life Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #031 – An Illuminated Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. As I work on this podcast, I am in awe of the work and blessings God has shined in my life over the last two weeks. Our family has had some challenges. But God carried us through every one of them. Does that mean we are now free of hardships or obstacles? Certainly not. But each time God graces us with provisions for one of them, we are strengthened and reminded of His ever-present goodness in our life, whether we recognize it at the time or not. Last night I spent time just sitting at God’s feet. As I reflected over events of the day, I thanked Him for several opportunities that proved He was with me, and with my family. I had encountered a few opportunities where I could have easily grown frustrated or fearful over the last 24 hours, but God never let my mind travel there. He brought quick resolutions to my every need. I was so thankful for all of it that I simply had to sit and be with Him, thanking and praising Him. Mostly, I just wanted to be in His presence. Do you make time to rest in Him and simply sit at His feet? The year 2020 has been filled with challenges for everyone. We have been provided countless moments to fall in front of the Lord. I don’t know anyone who has not been affected by events taking place this year. Regardless of where your opinion sits on the multitude of issues we have seen, the truth stands that it has been a year for each of us to evaluate ourselves and where we stand with God. Our relationship with Jesus reveals and affects everything about us. How have the 2020 changes affected your faith? How have the changes and events affected your mental state? Your health? Your temperament? Your work? Your lifestyle? The way you treat your family? The way you treat others? The way you let others affect you? I’ve seen so much anger, frustration, bitterness, and misunderstandings on social media. Why? I believe it is because everything goes back to the condition of our hearts. When we don’t know Jesus, we can’t show Jesus. When we do know Him, however, the responsibility is high. We must be the light that flickers into the spirit of those around us in a very dark world. That light is not lit by our power, but by the omnipotence of the Holy Spirit living inside us. Jesus inside our flesh. We must slow down and rest in Him before reacting to the chaos of this world. Luke 8:16-18 says, “No one after lighting a lamp covers it with a jar or puts it under a bed, but puts it on a stand, so that those who enter may see the light. For nothing is hidden that will not be made manifest, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light. Take care then how you hear, for to the one who has, more will be given, and from the one who has not, even what he thinks that he has will be taken away.” Do you know what one of the best lessons I have learned from facing an obstacle was? Besides watching God work, that is. It has been being able to share with others what He has done in my life and helping them to rest in Him. One of favorite things to do is share God stories. Because the Holy Spirit is alive inside of me, the light of Jesus should illuminate everything about me. Because of my weak and sinful flesh, I do not always shine Him the way that I should, but each moment I endeavor to let Him have His will over me. All of us can, and should, be doing better. If Jesus is alive inside us, we need to allow Him to spread through everything we do and are. It is our duty to allow Him to radiate His light through us and reach others. Our joy through Him should be made public, not be hidden in any way. We should attract others to Him because of the peaceful radiance they feel and see emanating through us. We must seek to use the opportunities we receive to rest in God’s arms or lay at His feet as the foundation for serving Him well and bring others to Him because of them. Simply doing for God is not what I mean. We must allow Him to react within us and guide our fears, passions, needs, desires, and actions. If we do not apply what He has provided to and for us as a way to spread Him to others who do not know Him, or to those who need encouragement and reminders of His strength and provision, we have shoved the light under the bed or placed a cover over it. When we utilize the spiritual muscles God is growing in us to lift those around us up to Him, we become stronger in our own faith. Just like exercising, our faith can grow weak and out of shape when we do not remember to allow God to penetrate every area of us and work to mature our trust and faith in Him daily. As we allow Christ to work in us, we develop a mind and spirit that links to His. We understand and appreciate even more of what Jesus is, and has done, for us. He enables us to mature a deeper fellowship with Him and gives us boldness in sharing Him with others. In contrast, when we do not allow Him to work in us and we do not seek a growing relationship, our communication weakens, similar to an unused muscle left to atrophy. I believe this has been the year to make certain we boldly stand for Christ, allowing His light to shine in proper and authentic ways. If others seek to tear us down, criticize, or complain, we must pray for them. When we hear others criticize our president, for example, regardless of what our opinion of him is, we should pray for Him and the person speaking poorly of him. I was extremely saddened this week when I saw on social media that when the President Trump lost his brother, people tweeted that the wrong Trump died. When did our country turn so boldly evil and hateful? God has authorized specific people to be in power. His word clearly instructs us in Romans 13:1-2 to “Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment.” When the light exists in us and is powered by the One true light source by our faithful and true relationship with Jesus, there is no room or excuse for darkness. We must repent as individuals and as a nation, lay at His feet, soaking in His love, light, strength, and guidance to continue moving through a world increasingly corrupt. We are not without hope. We just have to claim His and believe it, then move boldly forward in it without excuse or relying on our feeble strength. Are you ready? What are the best ways to move forward shining His light in the way He desires? 1. Know Jesus as Savior. 2. Read God’s word. 3. Seek Him and deepen your walk and relationship with Him. 4. Ask God to illuminate your mind with His truths. 5. Pray to God for your relationship with Him to be healthy and pure. 6. Pray for others, especially those who hurt you and anger you. 7. Repeat each step – every day. Each one of us, myself included must truly stop and make time for what is important. Merciful Heavenly Father, please help us. Remind us daily to look Up to You. For You are the One we must rely on. Everything in this world that we believe to be important will fade away and You will be left standing on the throne we bow to. God, let us feel the urgency and act on it by allowing You to direct and carry us through each moment in ways that shine and reflect Your love, strength, truth, and compassion. Let our hearts and minds suffer for what pains You and recognize and move in the ways You uniquely call us to, allowing You to act through us, giving us the words and abilities needed. Lord, our time here is short. Help us remember that and truly live each day with an eternal perspective that drives us to You and brings others with us. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #127 – Living Fully in the Moment Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you ever wish for an exciting change in your life? Guess what? Each morning I get to live a new adventure in the world of Legos. Like clockwork, my youngest expects me to play with her before her day officially starts. As soon as she is out of bed with teeth brushed and medicine taken, we are connected in a world of make-believe. We’ve held this date for 7 years. Do you wonder whether it’s hard for us to maintain this schedule? Without fail, unless we have an errand that presses into our time, we do not deviate from our special time together. Sure, I think some might look at this as a trapping of sorts. To be honest, on days when I have a pressing schedule, it’s sometimes tempting to skip. Often many other things are pressing for my attention, and I’d have a valid reason (in my eyes, anyway) to say I’m just not able to play that day. Yet, God has shown me the importance, the blessing, and the privilege to connect with my girl in this special one-on-one way. Maybe it’s because I’m an older, or “do-over” mom, or maybe it’s because my heart has been pierced with loss and grieves for more time with my oldest daughter, but I understand the eternal value in these simple moments. Without a doubt, I believe that the communication we share and the trust my daughter has placed in me stems in a very large part from this simple, but dedicated time, to just sit together and play. Because I have proven myself reliable and we have bonded through this important way, my girl knows she can believe other things I tell her, ask her to do, or teach her. I’ve grabbed the opportunity to know her better through the very best way a child communicates – play. In a way, I’ve been gifted lost time, as well. Because I missed 9 years with my precious daughter, I recognize that God has miraculously gifted me the honor of being the one to teach her to play. Watching her learn the basics required for play were the beginning of a miracle that only He could supply. Although no one gave her time or recognition before, she has the most amazing imagination and ability to create. I’ve come to see facets of her personality and skills I would not have known otherwise. Because I appreciate our time together very much, a comment she made one day that she is glad I “am childishly playful” was one of the best compliments I have ever received. As I pondered what this opinion meant to her, the worth she received from the time I dedicated to her, and how it made me feel, I thought of God at the beginning of creation. Think of every animal, insect, bird, fish, human, continent, and on and on. Do you think God could have made all He has so superbly unique without being childishly playful? My point is that God wants us to enjoy life, to live in full appreciation of the moment, lest we miss it altogether and yearn a missed opportunity forever. Yet, He also wants us to view our moments with a heart that craves our eternal home with Him and seeks the value of what we are doing for His kingdom and our walk with Him. He desires that we view what we are living now with eyes and heart for how He will use it for eternity, whether we consider what we are going through to be good or bad, easy or hard. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” Our love for God should saturate our heart so that our motives always seek His glory. Our walk with God should build up the walk of another for Him. Knowing the relationship I am crafting with my daughter is not just for my joy and benefit, but is a mentorship for her and her relationship with Christ, I look at the time spent as an investment in her eternity. I believe there are 5 tips to help each of us to remember to live in the moment, yet be directed by a mind set on eternity. 1. Seek God’s direction for your life. Unless you are actively and humbly submitting to Christ moment by moment, you will be deceived by fleshly desires. • Commit to daily Bible Study – If daily reading or study is your goal, it will become a habit like brushing your teeth or making your bed. If an unexpected event happens and you are unable to read one day, you have a supply built inside to sustain you until the next day or you will miss it so much that you will look at even a few lines of the Bible to quench your thirst for truth. • Keep an open dialogue of prayer through each day and stop to speak and listen to your Heavenly Father. Through study of His Word, we come to know our Heavenly Father in new and authentic ways. As we pray to and listen for the Father, we are even more attuned to the Holy Spirit within us. 2. Pray for discernment in your commitments and activity level. • Let simplicity have more room in your life. When our schedules are too packed or we haven’t be led by the direction of our Father, we cannot hear the Holy Spirit or recognize His guidance. • Be purposed in what you commit to. Our regular activities make life busy, but balanced. What we commit to has been prayed over and is used for Christ. 3. Cultivate a grateful attitude. Look for reasons to be joyful. Everything serves a purpose in your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Rest in the arms of your Heavenly Father. Trust His timetable and that He is present through what you consider set-backs. Look for Him at work and ask God to help you see Him clearly. 4. Practice living with a mindset like Christ. • Let no grudges, bitterness, hatred, unforgiveness, or hurts take hold of your mind, heart, or spirit. • Don’t take anything for granted. Take moments captive for Christ. How would God desire you use what happens in your life? • Don’t expect perfect days. I’ve learned and matured more during hardship than have in ease. Look for God’s hand in everything you encounter. 5. Pay attention to the world. • Look at culture, your life, clothing, interests, etc. through the eyes of Christ. • Evaluate whether you are living for more of this world or living for the purpose you hold here. Ask God to show you where He desires you to change. Balance your view of life with appreciation and a heart centered on God to ensure you make the most of every opportunity. Ephesians 5:15-20 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Don’t live for moments, but in the moment God has gifted you. James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” We each have a choice. Are we living in the moment or for the moment? When you live in the moment, we can appreciate what God has gifted to us. We know time is short. This moment is all we are guaranteed. Proverbs 27:1 says, “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” If we are living for the moment, we tend to look only at that time, but not remember that the moments we have in this world are a gift; they are a time for serving the purposes our Father desires for us. It’s easy to live for moments. Births, weddings, celebrations, vacations, the list goes on. Never let the focus on milestones or desires overshadow your need to live in the moment you now possess. Jesus celebrated, too. Yet even in the midst of big events, He kept His eyes and heart on the eternal. Nothing was more important than serving His Father and knowing that God’s desires for Him were completed. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Dear Heavenly Father, You are our Savior and we place our trust in You. Help us to remember that You are good. You call us to You, to come in good or bad times, and to center our thoughts on You. Father, Your Word shows us the way. Your love carries us. If we let You. Help us to set our minds on You, not the things of this world. Let that mindset penetrate each area of our life. The only way we can do that is to continue to seek Your face, heart, and mindset in all ways. We must be at Your feet, humbling ourselves under You. We must seek Your face first and last each day, and in the moments between. You know the plans You have for us. May we look forward to the future You have set for us with endurance and joy that comes only from You and a close relationship with You. Help us to look to You, Lord, and use Your strength as You guide us in Your truth and ways. Help our hope remain in You as our face seeks Yours. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 127 - Living Fully in the Moment Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #127 – Living Fully in the Moment Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you ever wish for an exciting change in your life? Guess what? Each morning I get to live a new adventure in the world of Legos. Like clockwork, my youngest expects me to play with her before her day officially starts. As soon as she is out of bed with teeth brushed and medicine taken, we are connected in a world of make-believe. We’ve held this date for 7 years. Do you wonder whether it’s hard for us to maintain this schedule? Without fail, unless we have an errand that presses into our time, we do not deviate from our special time together. Sure, I think some might look at this as a trapping of sorts. To be honest, on days when I have a pressing schedule, it’s sometimes tempting to skip. Often many other things are pressing for my attention, and I’d have a valid reason (in my eyes, anyway) to say I’m just not able to play that day. Yet, God has shown me the importance, the blessing, and the privilege to connect with my girl in this special one-on-one way. Maybe it’s because I’m an older, or “do-over” mom, or maybe it’s because my heart has been pierced with loss and grieves for more time with my oldest daughter, but I understand the eternal value in these simple moments. Without a doubt, I believe that the communication we share and the trust my daughter has placed in me stems in a very large part from this simple, but dedicated time, to just sit together and play. Because I have proven myself reliable and we have bonded through this important way, my girl knows she can believe other things I tell her, ask her to do, or teach her. I’ve grabbed the opportunity to know her better through the very best way a child communicates – play. In a way, I’ve been gifted lost time, as well. Because I missed 9 years with my precious daughter, I recognize that God has miraculously gifted me the honor of being the one to teach her to play. Watching her learn the basics required for play were the beginning of a miracle that only He could supply. Although no one gave her time or recognition before, she has the most amazing imagination and ability to create. I’ve come to see facets of her personality and skills I would not have known otherwise. Because I appreciate our time together very much, a comment she made one day that she is glad I “am childishly playful” was one of the best compliments I have ever received. As I pondered what this opinion meant to her, the worth she received from the time I dedicated to her, and how it made me feel, I thought of God at the beginning of creation. Think of every animal, insect, bird, fish, human, continent, and on and on. Do you think God could have made all He has so superbly unique without being childishly playful? My point is that God wants us to enjoy life, to live in full appreciation of the moment, lest we miss it altogether and yearn a missed opportunity forever. Yet, He also wants us to view our moments with a heart that craves our eternal home with Him and seeks the value of what we are doing for His kingdom and our walk with Him. He desires that we view what we are living now with eyes and heart for how He will use it for eternity, whether we consider what we are going through to be good or bad, easy or hard. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” Our love for God should saturate our heart so that our motives always seek His glory. Our walk with God should build up the walk of another for Him. Knowing the relationship I am crafting with my daughter is not just for my joy and benefit, but is a mentorship for her and her relationship with Christ, I look at the time spent as an investment in her eternity. I believe there are 5 tips to help each of us to remember to live in the moment, yet be directed by a mind set on eternity. 1. Seek God’s direction for your life. Unless you are actively and humbly submitting to Christ moment by moment, you will be deceived by fleshly desires. • Commit to daily Bible Study – If daily reading or study is your goal, it will become a habit like brushing your teeth or making your bed. If an unexpected event happens and you are unable to read one day, you have a supply built inside to sustain you until the next day or you will miss it so much that you will look at even a few lines of the Bible to quench your thirst for truth. • Keep an open dialogue of prayer through each day and stop to speak and listen to your Heavenly Father. Through study of His Word, we come to know our Heavenly Father in new and authentic ways. As we pray to and listen for the Father, we are even more attuned to the Holy Spirit within us. 2. Pray for discernment in your commitments and activity level. • Let simplicity have more room in your life. When our schedules are too packed or we haven’t be led by the direction of our Father, we cannot hear the Holy Spirit or recognize His guidance. • Be purposed in what you commit to. Our regular activities make life busy, but balanced. What we commit to has been prayed over and is used for Christ. 3. Cultivate a grateful attitude. Look for reasons to be joyful. Everything serves a purpose in your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Rest in the arms of your Heavenly Father. Trust His timetable and that He is present through what you consider set-backs. Look for Him at work and ask God to help you see Him clearly. 4. Practice living with a mindset like Christ. • Let no grudges, bitterness, hatred, unforgiveness, or hurts take hold of your mind, heart, or spirit. • Don’t take anything for granted. Take moments captive for Christ. How would God desire you use what happens in your life? • Don’t expect perfect days. I’ve learned and matured more during hardship than have in ease. Look for God’s hand in everything you encounter. 5. Pay attention to the world. • Look at culture, your life, clothing, interests, etc. through the eyes of Christ. • Evaluate whether you are living for more of this world or living for the purpose you hold here. Ask God to show you where He desires you to change. Balance your view of life with appreciation and a heart centered on God to ensure you make the most of every opportunity. Ephesians 5:15-20 says, “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Don’t live for moments, but in the moment God has gifted you. James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” We each have a choice. Are we living in the moment or for the moment? When you live in the moment, we can appreciate what God has gifted to us. We know time is short. This moment is all we are guaranteed. Proverbs 27:1 says, “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” If we are living for the moment, we tend to look only at that time, but not remember that the moments we have in this world are a gift; they are a time for serving the purposes our Father desires for us. It’s easy to live for moments. Births, weddings, celebrations, vacations, the list goes on. Never let the focus on milestones or desires overshadow your need to live in the moment you now possess. Jesus celebrated, too. Yet even in the midst of big events, He kept His eyes and heart on the eternal. Nothing was more important than serving His Father and knowing that God’s desires for Him were completed. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Dear Heavenly Father, You are our Savior and we place our trust in You. Help us to remember that You are good. You call us to You, to come in good or bad times, and to center our thoughts on You. Father, Your Word shows us the way. Your love carries us. If we let You. Help us to set our minds on You, not the things of this world. Let that mindset penetrate each area of our life. The only way we can do that is to continue to seek Your face, heart, and mindset in all ways. We must be at Your feet, humbling ourselves under You. We must seek Your face first and last each day, and in the moments between. You know the plans You have for us. May we look forward to the future You have set for us with endurance and joy that comes only from You and a close relationship with You. Help us to look to You, Lord, and use Your strength as You guide us in Your truth and ways. Help our hope remain in You as our face seeks Yours. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #001 Heart Conditions Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective podcast Episode #001 – Heart Conditions. Thank you for entrusting and investing part of your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. In the last podcast, #000, the Introductory podcast, I explained a little about why I started this show. The main points I shared are the great joy I experience in sharing and hearing God stories, in encouraging others to live with an eternal perspective for Jesus, and that I consider myself a “girl” in love with Jesus. I hope each episode encourages and inspires you to mature your walk with Christ and allow Him to transform your heart, as well. I pray that each personal experience and lesson I share with you points your heart and mind upward to Him. I have a husband, one daughter in Heaven, one son, a grandson, and two daughters on earth. My youngest daughter is always on the hunt for hearts. She spots the shape in flowers, in artwork, in cereal, rocks…really the list is very long. I enjoy looking for them with her. Finding hearts together feels like a special gift from God to make us smile. One Christmas morning, I found a perfectly shaped heart in the foam on top of my orange juice. Our sweet girl came home from China to be with us at the age of nine. Brooklyn had survived a lonely existence in the crib room at a Chinese orphanage. The bed she was confined to was smaller than an American port-a-crib. No one talked to her, ate with her, or played with her. Because of her heart condition, no one thought she would survive, except for God. At the age of 7, Brooklyn was able to have open heart surgery. There was actually a first step in this procedure that should have been have been performed on her when she was just an infant, and the surgery she had in China should have been performed when she was around the age of 2. We will never know why or how she finally received the operation, but it enabled her to experience life with much better quality, and she was abruptly released from the crib room to join regular orphanage life at 7 years old. There’s a deep and detailed story behind that release, but I’ll save it for another podcast. Because our girl has several heart defects, the surgery she had wasn’t a repair, but she definitely did have a better quality of life than before. Knowing that Brooklyn’s health was much improved, but that it was still imperative she have another open heart surgery, the orphanage finally prepared documents for her to be eligible for adoption. Most couples, however, did not want to take a risk on a child who could not have her heart repaired, even after the next surgery. Because her future was uncertain, her prepared adoption records sat mostly unnoticed. I believe God was holding her for us to find. I had been praying for various children, both domestically and internationally, to find forever homes for over ten years at the time I saw Brooklyn’s face online. While scrolling through photos and offering prayers for several of the children I viewed on my computer screen one morning, I literally stopped when I saw her. I could not scroll past her face or expression. I immediately began praying for her, yet instead of moving on to other children to pray for them, she remained embedded in my memory. I told my husband about her and asked him to pray for her, too, but instead of releasing thoughts of her, I continued day dreaming about her each day. After a couple of weeks, I contacted the adoption agency that listed her and inquired about her history. I also asked for more information to be gathered. Before long, I memorized every fact they had on her and I was receiving updates from China. The agent I worked with said I knew her file better than anyone. The only concern that kept rearing an ugly question was her health. I sent her medical file to top pediatric cardiologists at several major hospitals in the United States. They all reported back with the same information. Any repair would be palliative. Her heart could not be fixed. At some point, a heart transplant would be needed. It was such deep news to process. My husband and I went straight to the Lord. The major hesitation in my heart was that we had already lost a daughter. I didn’t want to experience that pain again. I also didn’t want my then nine year old daughter or my grown son to experience losing a sibling again. Marissa was four when Jaime died. It had been brutally hard. Even harder on her and the whole family was losing Jaime, then also dealing with the gradual decline of my mother’s health due to Alzheimer’s disease, and walking through almost a year of lung cancer with my father. My father died six years after Jaime, but dealing with me managing the care of my parents in the interim was excruciating for my then youngest child. We spent almost every day with either my mother or father and it had been one hard battle after another for years by this time. My mother was still alive and I knew her health would only decline. Even thinking of caring for a palliative child who had lived in isolation most of her nine years in an orphanage on top of everything made no sense. But one question kept pressing in my mind. Would it make sense to God? My husband and I prayed for three months before knowing it did. This was His plan. God doesn’t call us to seek a life of ease; He calls us to obey. Once we knew God was requesting us to bring Brooklyn home to our family, we moved as quickly as possible to submit documents to begin the adoption process. After we received pre-approval, we completed our home study, began completing all of the required paperwork, and gathered much needed funds. In our case, I spent hours locating, completing, and submitting grant applications. God provided absolutely everything we needed. We were blessed to be recipients of several matching grants and experienced the generosity of many friends and family. There is never an excuse for us to ignore the calls that God places in or on each of us. Where God leads, He does provide. It is our responsibility to take the step of faith that creates obedience and opens the door for God to supply. One special friend held a huge garage sale for us and donated all the money toward the adoption fund. On top of that, she contributed $500 to the adoption. Another dear friend donated $800 towards the adoption. God was clearly calling others to invest in His work and in the life of His dear daughter who deserved a family to love her. It only took eight months from the start of our paperwork that began the process, until we actually traveled to China. We were on a mission to get our girl home, and then quickly get her as healthy as possible. After she was home, Brooklyn had so many doctor appointments. There were many health issues and as I said before, this subject would be another podcast on its own. Following other surgeries that she had to undergo to rid her body of multiple infections, we were finally able to focus on her second heart surgery. Due to several heart defects, our girl basically lives on half a heart. But let me tell you that her heart explodes with love as full as several whole hearts. That’s actually the focus of our podcast today: the condition of our heart. One of my favorite verses is Proverbs 4:23, which warns, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Do you ever just stop and look around? It seems everyone is always in a hurry. We’re so used to immediate gratification, and over-scheduled lives. We’ve jam-packed kindness right out of the picture. No one has time for it. In reality, we make time for what we care about. This world – and all of us in it – will not change until we change the condition of our hearts. I truly believe the problems of this world would be solved if we all allowed a heart adjustment from Jesus. Before Jesus left His disciples, He warned them that He would not talk with them much longer. “The ruler of this world is coming,” He said. “He has nothing in me.” Jesus was letting them know that Satan had nothing over Him. There was absolutely no handle with which Satan could get a hold on Jesus or persuade Him to sin. Here’s the important point for us to remember. Satan actually needs fertile ground to plant and grow his damage and destruction. This means that when we have an area of our life that has not been surrendered to the Lord, we invite Satan into the garden of our hearts to begin preparing for a harvest. Do you realize that God’s word is actually full of warnings for us? The Bible holds wise and seemingly simple advice to steer us straight to Jesus and away from the clutches of Satan. Here are a few: Don’t let the sun go down on your anger. Give to those who have need. Be kind to one another. Be tenderhearted. Forgive one another. Walk in love and be imitators of God. They are all such simple directives. What is the key? We have to follow these commands with a pure and willing heart that is submitted to Jesus because we love Him and we have surrendered our lives to Him as our Savior. The works we do are acts of love and obedience – they’re not done to attempt to gain favor or to look good to others. Everything circles back to the condition of our heart. Ephesians 4:30 instructs, “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” What I find so fascinating is that the verses right before, and also following this verse, warn extensively about the inappropriate use of anger, fighting, slander, bad attitudes, and our tongue. This proves that the Holy Spirit is deeply grieved by sins committed daily by those of us who profess to love Him. Matthew 12:34b says, “For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” If you skip down to verses 36 and 37, Jesus warns, “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words, you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” The excess in our hearts - both good and bad - will eventually spill out of our mouths. When it happens, it reveals our core nature. Colossians 4:5 offers a wise solution. “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” Simply translated, this means that the words of believers must be spoken with the intention of being useful for helping others and for building them up. Help others and build them up. So incredibly hard to do when we’re angry. Hard to do when we have been abused or misunderstood. Almost impossible when we’ve been wrongly accused. Just like Jesus was. Yet, every single action He took was intentional. Jesus didn’t react according to how He felt. Jesus longed to fulfill His Father’s plans for Him. He longed to please the Father. Jesus loves us so much that He kept His focus on what He knew with a certainty God was calling Him to do. Jesus didn’t put himself on the throne of His life. Because He knew His life wasn’t His own. Neither is ours. We know it, but don’t always keep it in the forefront of our mind and heart. Abiding in Jesus means we are to allow every bit of ourselves to abide in Him. We are here on this earth for such a short time. There’s a purpose to the personal suffering each one of us has endured. No one else is created exactly as you are. No one else is created exactly as I am. We are called to use our lives for Him and let that overflow to each other. Each of our stories, each of our glories and disasters are sifted through His hands before they touch us and have been allowed for a divine purpose. Our hearts cannot help but be radically transformed when we remember that truth. In turn, our transformation affects everyone around us. This then draws others to Jesus, as we allow His heart and mind to radiate and work through us. Our hearts begin to love others as Jesus does and our words and actions prove it. This is living with true eternal perspective. It changes everything about us, beginning with our heartitude. It’s my made-up word, but I think you know what I mean. It’s what God refers to as our “core nature.” Heartitude vomits what we’ve got stored inside. We suddenly expel what is, and has been, buried deep within. For example: What about when we are tired at the end of a day and we just want to run into the grocery store and get out quickly with what we need for dinner. The lines are looong! One cashier works as quickly as they can to process everyone in the store through one line, and of course, everyone suddenly wants to leave at the same time. The scowl on our face and the impatience in our body language tells everyone around us just how much we love Jesus, right? What about when we’re dealing with customer service or a medical representative on a phone call, and after we’ve been transferred again, and have repeated our story for about the fifth time, but we’re still no closer to getting direction or resolution on our issue? The tone of our voice and choice of our words lets the person on the other end of the phone hear how much we love and follow Jesus, right? What about when someone, an adult, or even another child, intentionally treats your child unfairly or unkindly? Even after you rationally discuss it with them, they continue to harass or harm your beloved child. What about when they make fun of your child with special needs? Our reaction reflects how we respond just like Jesus, right? I have lived through each of these triggers. Sometimes I have responded in a way that I believe Jesus would approve of, and I believe I have shown Him to others through the way I handled my reaction. But at other times, I know I have saddened Jesus with my response. I immediately regretted the choices I made. It grieved my heart to know that I intentionally caused sorrow for Jesus. When we live by reaction or for what is easiest for us at the time, we are choosing to live for our own flesh, whether that is because we are simply being selfish, or because we lost our temper, or because we became frustrated, it doesn’t matter. We are intentionally making a choice to hurt Jesus, whether we recognize it or not. We all have different triggers and strongholds. Instead of living in shame or embarrassment when you react in an ungodly way, praise God for it! I am always humbled after responding in a manner unworthy of a daughter of the King. I apologize to God (and the person I offended, if I can) and I look at my weakness as a reflection in a mirror that has clearly shined my area of need. God has shown my frailty with a distinct clarity because He loves and He understands me completely. He is expelling “me” so He can fill all of the spaces. As we abide in God and allow Him to fully reside in us, the changes are permanent and visible. “More of Him, less of me” becomes the chant we hear internally and respond from when we are thrown off balance, disturbed, or hurt because Jesus and His reactions and replies are permanently embedded in the pulse of our being. We are then truly living with an eternal perspective. Thank you for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 001 Heart Conditions Listen to Episode Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #001 Heart Conditions Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective podcast Episode #001 – Heart Conditions. Thank you for entrusting and investing part of your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. In the last podcast, #000, the Introductory podcast, I explained a little about why I started this show. The main points I shared are the great joy I experience in sharing and hearing God stories, in encouraging others to live with an eternal perspective for Jesus, and that I consider myself a “girl” in love with Jesus. I hope each episode encourages and inspires you to mature your walk with Christ and allow Him to transform your heart, as well. I pray that each personal experience and lesson I share with you points your heart and mind upward to Him. I have a husband, one daughter in Heaven, one son, a grandson, and two daughters on earth. My youngest daughter is always on the hunt for hearts. She spots the shape in flowers, in artwork, in cereal, rocks…really the list is very long. I enjoy looking for them with her. Finding hearts together feels like a special gift from God to make us smile. One Christmas morning, I found a perfectly shaped heart in the foam on top of my orange juice. Our sweet girl came home from China to be with us at the age of nine. Brooklyn had survived a lonely existence in the crib room at a Chinese orphanage. The bed she was confined to was smaller than an American port-a-crib. No one talked to her, ate with her, or played with her. Because of her heart condition, no one thought she would survive, except for God. At the age of 7, Brooklyn was able to have open heart surgery. There was actually a first step in this procedure that should have been have been performed on her when she was just an infant, and the surgery she had in China should have been performed when she was around the age of 2. We will never know why or how she finally received the operation, but it enabled her to experience life with much better quality, and she was abruptly released from the crib room to join regular orphanage life at 7 years old. There’s a deep and detailed story behind that release, but I’ll save it for another podcast. Because our girl has several heart defects, the surgery she had wasn’t a repair, but she definitely did have a better quality of life than before. Knowing that Brooklyn’s health was much improved, but that it was still imperative she have another open heart surgery, the orphanage finally prepared documents for her to be eligible for adoption. Most couples, however, did not want to take a risk on a child who could not have her heart repaired, even after the next surgery. Because her future was uncertain, her prepared adoption records sat mostly unnoticed. I believe God was holding her for us to find. I had been praying for various children, both domestically and internationally, to find forever homes for over ten years at the time I saw Brooklyn’s face online. While scrolling through photos and offering prayers for several of the children I viewed on my computer screen one morning, I literally stopped when I saw her. I could not scroll past her face or expression. I immediately began praying for her, yet instead of moving on to other children to pray for them, she remained embedded in my memory. I told my husband about her and asked him to pray for her, too, but instead of releasing thoughts of her, I continued day dreaming about her each day. After a couple of weeks, I contacted the adoption agency that listed her and inquired about her history. I also asked for more information to be gathered. Before long, I memorized every fact they had on her and I was receiving updates from China. The agent I worked with said I knew her file better than anyone. The only concern that kept rearing an ugly question was her health. I sent her medical file to top pediatric cardiologists at several major hospitals in the United States. They all reported back with the same information. Any repair would be palliative. Her heart could not be fixed. At some point, a heart transplant would be needed. It was such deep news to process. My husband and I went straight to the Lord. The major hesitation in my heart was that we had already lost a daughter. I didn’t want to experience that pain again. I also didn’t want my then nine year old daughter or my grown son to experience losing a sibling again. Marissa was four when Jaime died. It had been brutally hard. Even harder on her and the whole family was losing Jaime, then also dealing with the gradual decline of my mother’s health due to Alzheimer’s disease, and walking through almost a year of lung cancer with my father. My father died six years after Jaime, but dealing with me managing the care of my parents in the interim was excruciating for my then youngest child. We spent almost every day with either my mother or father and it had been one hard battle after another for years by this time. My mother was still alive and I knew her health would only decline. Even thinking of caring for a palliative child who had lived in isolation most of her nine years in an orphanage on top of everything made no sense. But one question kept pressing in my mind. Would it make sense to God? My husband and I prayed for three months before knowing it did. This was His plan. God doesn’t call us to seek a life of ease; He calls us to obey. Once we knew God was requesting us to bring Brooklyn home to our family, we moved as quickly as possible to submit documents to begin the adoption process. After we received pre-approval, we completed our home study, began completing all of the required paperwork, and gathered much needed funds. In our case, I spent hours locating, completing, and submitting grant applications. God provided absolutely everything we needed. We were blessed to be recipients of several matching grants and experienced the generosity of many friends and family. There is never an excuse for us to ignore the calls that God places in or on each of us. Where God leads, He does provide. It is our responsibility to take the step of faith that creates obedience and opens the door for God to supply. One special friend held a huge garage sale for us and donated all the money toward the adoption fund. On top of that, she contributed $500 to the adoption. Another dear friend donated $800 towards the adoption. God was clearly calling others to invest in His work and in the life of His dear daughter who deserved a family to love her. It only took eight months from the start of our paperwork that began the process, until we actually traveled to China. We were on a mission to get our girl home, and then quickly get her as healthy as possible. After she was home, Brooklyn had so many doctor appointments. There were many health issues and as I said before, this subject would be another podcast on its own. Following other surgeries that she had to undergo to rid her body of multiple infections, we were finally able to focus on her second heart surgery. Due to several heart defects, our girl basically lives on half a heart. But let me tell you that her heart explodes with love as full as several whole hearts. That’s actually the focus of our podcast today: the condition of our heart. One of my favorite verses is Proverbs 4:23, which warns, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Do you ever just stop and look around? It seems everyone is always in a hurry. We’re so used to immediate gratification, and over-scheduled lives. We’ve jam-packed kindness right out of the picture. No one has time for it. In reality, we make time for what we care about. This world – and all of us in it – will not change until we change the condition of our hearts. I truly believe the problems of this world would be solved if we all allowed a heart adjustment from Jesus. Before Jesus left His disciples, He warned them that He would not talk with them much longer. “The ruler of this world is coming,” He said. “He has nothing in me.” Jesus was letting them know that Satan had nothing over Him. There was absolutely no handle with which Satan could get a hold on Jesus or persuade Him to sin. Here’s the important point for us to remember. Satan actually needs fertile ground to plant and grow his damage and destruction. This means that when we have an area of our life that has not been surrendered to the Lord, we invite Satan into the garden of our hearts to begin preparing for a harvest. Do you realize that God’s word is actually full of warnings for us? The Bible holds wise and seemingly simple advice to steer us straight to Jesus and away from the clutches of Satan. Here are a few: Don’t let the sun go down on your anger. Give to those who have need. Be kind to one another. Be tenderhearted. Forgive one another. Walk in love and be imitators of God. They are all such simple directives. What is the key? We have to follow these commands with a pure and willing heart that is submitted to Jesus because we love Him and we have surrendered our lives to Him as our Savior. The works we do are acts of love and obedience – they’re not done to attempt to gain favor or to look good to others. Everything circles back to the condition of our heart. Ephesians 4:30 instructs, “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” What I find so fascinating is that the verses right before, and also following this verse, warn extensively about the inappropriate use of anger, fighting, slander, bad attitudes, and our tongue. This proves that the Holy Spirit is deeply grieved by sins committed daily by those of us who profess to love Him. Matthew 12:34b says, “For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” If you skip down to verses 36 and 37, Jesus warns, “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words, you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” The excess in our hearts - both good and bad - will eventually spill out of our mouths. When it happens, it reveals our core nature. Colossians 4:5 offers a wise solution. “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” Simply translated, this means that the words of believers must be spoken with the intention of being useful for helping others and for building them up. Help others and build them up. So incredibly hard to do when we’re angry. Hard to do when we have been abused or misunderstood. Almost impossible when we’ve been wrongly accused. Just like Jesus was. Yet, every single action He took was intentional. Jesus didn’t react according to how He felt. Jesus longed to fulfill His Father’s plans for Him. He longed to please the Father. Jesus loves us so much that He kept His focus on what He knew with a certainty God was calling Him to do. Jesus didn’t put himself on the throne of His life. Because He knew His life wasn’t His own. Neither is ours. We know it, but don’t always keep it in the forefront of our mind and heart. Abiding in Jesus means we are to allow every bit of ourselves to abide in Him. We are here on this earth for such a short time. There’s a purpose to the personal suffering each one of us has endured. No one else is created exactly as you are. No one else is created exactly as I am. We are called to use our lives for Him and let that overflow to each other. Each of our stories, each of our glories and disasters are sifted through His hands before they touch us and have been allowed for a divine purpose. Our hearts cannot help but be radically transformed when we remember that truth. In turn, our transformation affects everyone around us. This then draws others to Jesus, as we allow His heart and mind to radiate and work through us. Our hearts begin to love others as Jesus does and our words and actions prove it. This is living with true eternal perspective. It changes everything about us, beginning with our heartitude. It’s my made-up word, but I think you know what I mean. It’s what God refers to as our “core nature.” Heartitude vomits what we’ve got stored inside. We suddenly expel what is, and has been, buried deep within. For example: What about when we are tired at the end of a day and we just want to run into the grocery store and get out quickly with what we need for dinner. The lines are looong! One cashier works as quickly as they can to process everyone in the store through one line, and of course, everyone suddenly wants to leave at the same time. The scowl on our face and the impatience in our body language tells everyone around us just how much we love Jesus, right? What about when we’re dealing with customer service or a medical representative on a phone call, and after we’ve been transferred again, and have repeated our story for about the fifth time, but we’re still no closer to getting direction or resolution on our issue? The tone of our voice and choice of our words lets the person on the other end of the phone hear how much we love and follow Jesus, right? What about when someone, an adult, or even another child, intentionally treats your child unfairly or unkindly? Even after you rationally discuss it with them, they continue to harass or harm your beloved child. What about when they make fun of your child with special needs? Our reaction reflects how we respond just like Jesus, right? I have lived through each of these triggers. Sometimes I have responded in a way that I believe Jesus would approve of, and I believe I have shown Him to others through the way I handled my reaction. But at other times, I know I have saddened Jesus with my response. I immediately regretted the choices I made. It grieved my heart to know that I intentionally caused sorrow for Jesus. When we live by reaction or for what is easiest for us at the time, we are choosing to live for our own flesh, whether that is because we are simply being selfish, or because we lost our temper, or because we became frustrated, it doesn’t matter. We are intentionally making a choice to hurt Jesus, whether we recognize it or not. We all have different triggers and strongholds. Instead of living in shame or embarrassment when you react in an ungodly way, praise God for it! I am always humbled after responding in a manner unworthy of a daughter of the King. I apologize to God (and the person I offended, if I can) and I look at my weakness as a reflection in a mirror that has clearly shined my area of need. God has shown my frailty with a distinct clarity because He loves and He understands me completely. He is expelling “me” so He can fill all of the spaces. As we abide in God and allow Him to fully reside in us, the changes are permanent and visible. “More of Him, less of me” becomes the chant we hear internally and respond from when we are thrown off balance, disturbed, or hurt because Jesus and His reactions and replies are permanently embedded in the pulse of our being. We are then truly living with an eternal perspective. Thank you for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #028 – All Is Vanity Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Would you agree that life in this generation is so convenient? We carry and rely on so many gadgets and items never deemed as necessary in previous eras. But I have to admit that digital photos are definitely convenient and I truly adore the fact that I no longer have to carry a camera and or video recorder with me to events. We usually forgot them half of the time anyway. The sheer fact that our cell phones can do everything we want is mind-boggling and amazingly convenient. They also make it much easier to leave the house because I rarely forget my phone. Although we can store photos on our phone, tablet devices, or computers so easily, I must admit that I really do miss sitting down and flipping through photo albums. Last week the girls asked me about high school yearbooks. They wanted to know if I knew where mine were and they asked to see them. Talk about embarrassing! In their eyes, I must have been the most beautiful teen in the book. Ha! I honestly hated shattering their image. To their credit, they were honest, but kind in their opinion. Looking at all the photos, writings from friends, and talking about stories of old boyfriends and best friends from my high school years was very entertaining for them. Do you want to hear what they enjoyed the most? It was seeing photos of me and their daddy. Since we met during our senior year of high school, they had a ball looking at photos of the two of us throughout the yearbook, and they were absolutely captivated by more stories of our dating adventures. Reviewing those old photos, hearing their excited voices, and seeing their eyes light with love at my narrations brought joy to sweet memories tucked within my heart and just felt good. Are you like me? Do you view memories almost as digital snapshots of life? That’s actually the way I see them in my mind. Oddly, I have found that I don’t always get to choose which photos end up in my album. Life is full of numerous moments we long to remember, but the images that store themselves in our brain for easy retrieval are sometimes not what we expect. It’s especially interesting to talk to people who have lived and experienced the same event. The recollections can be so different! We know it is because we all experience and react to events based on what we have encountered or endured, so our opinions will be formulated through the lens of our past. I’m often surprised by what I remember. Not so much how I recall it, but which events of my life somehow get selected and placed in the album of my consciousness. Some of my memories appear to me as videos in my mind. Instead of flipping through photos, I see whole scenes that play as a movie. One of those times was when I was in my mid-twenties. My husband was driving me and our two children home one night. I don’t recall where we had been, but it was late and as he drove, the kids were quiet or sleeping in the backseat. As I watched out the window, I noticed all the bright stars in the clear night sky and began thinking about eternity. I wondered what heaven would be like, when I would be there, if my children would lose me as they grew up, or whether I would be on earth at least until they reached adulthood. I had numerous thoughts about God and then I wondered whether I would be bored when I got to heaven. I didn’t have any desire to leave this world soon. Can you believe that? That thought shows me how much deeper my relationship with God is now. Without a doubt, I now know that I will never be bored in heaven. I am excited to one day sit with Jesus and learn all I can. Can you imagine the love we will experience, the peace and joy, we will feel when we see Him face-to-face? I’m ready to embrace Him and be embraced by Him. I can’t wait to see my parents, loved ones, and especially my daughter. My first born child. So why does the memory of that night stick so highly in my mind? I think maybe it is because I was genuinely curious. I had not known Jesus for too many years and I truly did not want to leave my children or husband. I hoped eternity was a long way off. I wanted to raise my kids and experience life. I still do. Unbelievably, I’ve raised those children and am now raising another set, so of course, I prefer to be able to stay and raise them at least to adulthood, but I am also fully prepared to meet my Heavenly Father whenever His timing may come. While there is nothing wrong with desiring to be here with family, the Lord has grown me enough by this point that I now hope He returns soon for all of us who love and follow Him. I want Him to rescue us from this place. I want to go with my family and loved ones and experience heaven as God promises. I see the futility in our daily life here. I know nothing here will ever satisfy any of us. We were intentionally created for more. When I remember who I was at that time, I see how little I knew and how hollow much of what I did was. I am thankful for who I have become and who I am becoming. While I once loved this world more than God, I now love Jesus, who lives in me, more than what this world offers. If we study the definition of vanity, we see excessive pride in one's appearance, qualities, abilities, and achievements. It also means the character or quality of being vain, and conceited or something about which one is vain or excessively proud. The definition I want us to focus on today is a lack of real value, something hollow, or worthless when compared to eternity. Life is empty and meaningless without God. What we chase in this life is vanity. Do you know who the wisest man who ever lived was? Besides Jesus, of course. The book of Ecclesiastes reveals the life of Solomon, who searched for deeper meaning in the world and found nothing could satisfy but God, despite the fact that Solomon had deep, wide wisdom from God, material wealth, goods, and property. He learned that nothing he sought after offered meaning in life or filled the empty holes in his spirit. Ecclesiastes 3:11b says, “He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” God placed eternity in our hearts, but we get distracted and confused in this broken world. We seek everything but what satisfies the deepest parts of our souls. What God placed in us to desire and need cannot be found or quenched through encounters, experiences, or possessions in this world. Solomon offers us valuable insight into what he learned during his life journey of seeking frivolous enjoyment, and material possessions. He found that absolutely none of them filled him with joy or offered meaning to his life. There are three main themes that run though the book of Ecclesiastes. 1. Solomon shares about carrying a fear of God. Living in awe and respect of our Heavenly Father is crucial. So many do not keep a reverent fear of God that drives us to recognize His sovereignty and guides us to worship Him with a humble love and obedience and causes us to recognize that our life has no meaning without Him. 2. We are all created by God for a purpose. Life on this earth is over so quickly when viewed with an eternal perspective. Living with the knowledge that God lovingly gave each one of us a purpose that speaks to our heart and soul when we obey Him, should cause us to focus on the goal of eternity. Jesus counseled us against laying up treasures on this earth. All we do should be directed by keeping our heart and mind fixed on God and preparing ourselves and others for eternity with Him. Solomon speaks of the brevity of life and living in ways that please our Father and guide us toward focusing on what matters to Him. 3. Living in a world affected by the fall and the curse of sin is shown in Solomon’s words through Ecclesiastes. After we labor through our life, we all return to the ground, just as we first began. Solomon reveals how hollow life is without God and that joy and contentment are found only through Him. Without an eternal perspective lifestyle, we each fail to find satisfaction or meaning in life on earth. If we search without finding God, we can fall into deeper despair and will continually look for substitutes to fill the void inside. Those replacements never satisfy fully or can ever take the place of the joy and peace that only God can give. That is exactly why there are so many hurting and hurtful people living on this earth. What made King Solomon, known for his wisdom and knowledge seek out the meaning of life? Didn’t he already possess anything a person could want? Solomon was a man on a mission to discover the true meaning of life. He had tasted all life offered, but found that without truly seeking and knowing a close relationship with God, he had nothing. Solomon learned that all of life is meaningless if we do not acknowledge God. In order to acquire true joy or fulfillment, we must recognize and acknowledge God as the Creator, Giver, and Source of all. Because Solomon left the God he knew and followed in his youth, he lost the ability to enjoy the gifts God had bestowed to him. Despite the wisdom God gave to him, Solomon made significant errors in judgement and lifestyle choices that finally offered him awareness of the futility of life without God because wisdom and knowledge alone do not satisfy the desire God placed within us to know and fellowship with Him. Ecclesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and indeed, all is vanity and grasping for the wind.” So many truths about living the life God wants for us are found in the book of Ecclesiastes. Solomon had all a man could want and still made many dreadful mistakes. Without walking with and obeying the Lord, he found that his worldly wisdom, regarded highly by humans, was way beneath that of God’s. Wisdom without knowledge, understanding, and obedience to God is worthless. Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 says, “Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.” How could Solomon, who was regarded as the wisest man who ever lived, make such drastic mistakes? Although He was incredibly intelligent, he did not remain faithful to God throughout his lifetime. Later in Solomon’s life, he actually became disobedient to God and instead of becoming contrite and repenting to his Heavenly Father, Solomon instead continued in transgressions that led to his destruction and the fall of the kingdom he ruled. How often do we make the same missteps? We may not rule a kingdom like Solomon did, but we all rule over something. We each desire to be the Lord of our life unless we are fully submitted and committed to Jesus. Without Him, we run the risk of making many of the same mistakes as the wisest man who ever lived. Upon his deathbed, Solomon’s father, David left important instructions with his son, reminding Solomon of the only way to live successfully and prosper. 1 Kings 2:1-3 says, “When the time drew near for David to die, he gave a charge to Solomon his son. “I am about to go the way of all the earth,” he said. “So be strong, act like a man, and observe what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to Him, and keep His decrees and commands, His laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses. Do this so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you go.” David’s dying words left Solomon with instructions he should have heeded, but did not. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” Solomon drifted far away from where he started. Instead of focusing on intentionally drawing nearer to God each moment, he delighted in obtaining things of this world and believed the wisdom that God bestowed on Him was greater than what God Himself possessed. As king, attaining pleasures was easy for Solomon and he was more captivated with earthly lusts than heavenly afterlife or the God he once loved with a passion. 1 Kings 8:61 says, “And may your hearts be fully committed to the Lord our God, to live by his decrees and obey his commands, as at this time.” Devotion to anything or anyone is difficult. Our minds and hearts stray so easily and usually fall back to self needs or desires. It takes great resolution and dedication to remain devoted, especially to a God we cannot see. Solomon wanted God at one time. He just valued and wanted other things more. What should we glean from studying the life of Solomon? 1. Humbly bow before the Lord and ask for grace, mercy, and faith. 2. Ask God to bless your walk and relationship with Him. 3. Find ways to change your course to be in right fellowship with Him or continue deepening your journey with Him. 4. Place God above all else, even the blessings in your life. 5. Do not stray. Remain dedicated to knowing and trusting God more deeply daily. Jeremiah 17:5-10 says, “This is what the Lord says: “Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the Lord. That person will be like a bush in the wastelands; they will not see prosperity when it comes. They will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives. But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit. The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve.” I find the following to be an interesting verse. The Bible speaks several times of circumcision of our hearts. Deuteronomy 10:16 says, “Therefore circumcise the foreskin of your heart, and be stiff-necked no longer.” To circumcise means to purify spiritually. Only the Holy Spirit can purify our heart. The Holy Spirit comes to us through Jesus Christ as our Savior. The Holy Spirit then lives within us to continually alter and purify us as we allow His work in and through us. Just what does God look for in us? What would a circumcised heart look like? 1. Pure hearts that want to know Him. 2. Obedient hearts that follow where He leads. 3. Dedicated hearts that do not drift from Him. 4. Believing hearts that trust Him. 5. Servant hearts that spread Him. 6. Praising hearts that honor and thank Him. 7. Loving hearts that share Him. Deuteronomy 30:6 says, “The Lord your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live.” God wants us to love Him with all our heart, mind, and soul and love others enough to educate and equip them to do the same. Matthew 22:37-40 says, “Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Ecclesiastes is filled with such wisdom from God. The life of Solomon could leave us filled with sorrow for what he lost, for what could have been, but I hope we use it to spur us on so that we do not fall prey to the same mistakes. What are other important takeaways we should remember from the book of Ecclesiastes? 1. We are but a vapor, regardless of what our earthly status may be. 2. Life in this world is not fair by our standards. 3. Do not trust in the emptiness of this life. 4. Toil and achievement that we produce because we envy another is pointless. 5. Whomever loves money will never have enough. 6. Our earthly wisdom is vanity and far beneath that of God’s. 7. Seeking nothing but pleasure is futile. 8. Everything we toil after is trivial. 9. Life is meaningless without God. Ecclesiastes 3:1-11 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. What do workers gain from their toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” Thankfully, we can rest in the assurance and provision of the gift God offered us through Jesus Christ. We know that Jesus is the same from beginning to end, first to last, alpha to omega. We know the plan God had for each of us, if only we accept. Dear God, please help us make the most of this wonderful opportunity to seek and find Jesus, to draw near to You, and to embrace the moments You allow us here. May we look forward to eternity with You and keep the proper perspective while we roam this land that will never satisfy like You will one day. Help us to recognize and extract what is meaningless and treasure what will last for eternity. May we please You with our circumcised heart and show others the way to You because we allow You to shine so brightly within and before us. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 028 All is Vanity Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #028 – All Is Vanity Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Would you agree that life in this generation is so convenient? We carry and rely on so many gadgets and items never deemed as necessary in previous eras. But I have to admit that digital photos are definitely convenient and I truly adore the fact that I no longer have to carry a camera and or video recorder with me to events. We usually forgot them half of the time anyway. The sheer fact that our cell phones can do everything we want is mind-boggling and amazingly convenient. They also make it much easier to leave the house because I rarely forget my phone. Although we can store photos on our phone, tablet devices, or computers so easily, I must admit that I really do miss sitting down and flipping through photo albums. Last week the girls asked me about high school yearbooks. They wanted to know if I knew where mine were and they asked to see them. Talk about embarrassing! In their eyes, I must have been the most beautiful teen in the book. Ha! I honestly hated shattering their image. To their credit, they were honest, but kind in their opinion. Looking at all the photos, writings from friends, and talking about stories of old boyfriends and best friends from my high school years was very entertaining for them. Do you want to hear what they enjoyed the most? It was seeing photos of me and their daddy. Since we met during our senior year of high school, they had a ball looking at photos of the two of us throughout the yearbook, and they were absolutely captivated by more stories of our dating adventures. Reviewing those old photos, hearing their excited voices, and seeing their eyes light with love at my narrations brought joy to sweet memories tucked within my heart and just felt good. Are you like me? Do you view memories almost as digital snapshots of life? That’s actually the way I see them in my mind. Oddly, I have found that I don’t always get to choose which photos end up in my album. Life is full of numerous moments we long to remember, but the images that store themselves in our brain for easy retrieval are sometimes not what we expect. It’s especially interesting to talk to people who have lived and experienced the same event. The recollections can be so different! We know it is because we all experience and react to events based on what we have encountered or endured, so our opinions will be formulated through the lens of our past. I’m often surprised by what I remember. Not so much how I recall it, but which events of my life somehow get selected and placed in the album of my consciousness. Some of my memories appear to me as videos in my mind. Instead of flipping through photos, I see whole scenes that play as a movie. One of those times was when I was in my mid-twenties. My husband was driving me and our two children home one night. I don’t recall where we had been, but it was late and as he drove, the kids were quiet or sleeping in the backseat. As I watched out the window, I noticed all the bright stars in the clear night sky and began thinking about eternity. I wondered what heaven would be like, when I would be there, if my children would lose me as they grew up, or whether I would be on earth at least until they reached adulthood. I had numerous thoughts about God and then I wondered whether I would be bored when I got to heaven. I didn’t have any desire to leave this world soon. Can you believe that? That thought shows me how much deeper my relationship with God is now. Without a doubt, I now know that I will never be bored in heaven. I am excited to one day sit with Jesus and learn all I can. Can you imagine the love we will experience, the peace and joy, we will feel when we see Him face-to-face? I’m ready to embrace Him and be embraced by Him. I can’t wait to see my parents, loved ones, and especially my daughter. My first born child. So why does the memory of that night stick so highly in my mind? I think maybe it is because I was genuinely curious. I had not known Jesus for too many years and I truly did not want to leave my children or husband. I hoped eternity was a long way off. I wanted to raise my kids and experience life. I still do. Unbelievably, I’ve raised those children and am now raising another set, so of course, I prefer to be able to stay and raise them at least to adulthood, but I am also fully prepared to meet my Heavenly Father whenever His timing may come. While there is nothing wrong with desiring to be here with family, the Lord has grown me enough by this point that I now hope He returns soon for all of us who love and follow Him. I want Him to rescue us from this place. I want to go with my family and loved ones and experience heaven as God promises. I see the futility in our daily life here. I know nothing here will ever satisfy any of us. We were intentionally created for more. When I remember who I was at that time, I see how little I knew and how hollow much of what I did was. I am thankful for who I have become and who I am becoming. While I once loved this world more than God, I now love Jesus, who lives in me, more than what this world offers. If we study the definition of vanity, we see excessive pride in one's appearance, qualities, abilities, and achievements. It also means the character or quality of being vain, and conceited or something about which one is vain or excessively proud. The definition I want us to focus on today is a lack of real value, something hollow, or worthless when compared to eternity. Life is empty and meaningless without God. What we chase in this life is vanity. Do you know who the wisest man who ever lived was? Besides Jesus, of course. The book of Ecclesiastes reveals the life of Solomon, who searched for deeper meaning in the world and found nothing could satisfy but God, despite the fact that Solomon had deep, wide wisdom from God, material wealth, goods, and property. He learned that nothing he sought after offered meaning in life or filled the empty holes in his spirit. Ecclesiastes 3:11b says, “He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” God placed eternity in our hearts, but we get distracted and confused in this broken world. We seek everything but what satisfies the deepest parts of our souls. What God placed in us to desire and need cannot be found or quenched through encounters, experiences, or possessions in this world. Solomon offers us valuable insight into what he learned during his life journey of seeking frivolous enjoyment, and material possessions. He found that absolutely none of them filled him with joy or offered meaning to his life. There are three main themes that run though the book of Ecclesiastes. 1. Solomon shares about carrying a fear of God. Living in awe and respect of our Heavenly Father is crucial. So many do not keep a reverent fear of God that drives us to recognize His sovereignty and guides us to worship Him with a humble love and obedience and causes us to recognize that our life has no meaning without Him. 2. We are all created by God for a purpose. Life on this earth is over so quickly when viewed with an eternal perspective. Living with the knowledge that God lovingly gave each one of us a purpose that speaks to our heart and soul when we obey Him, should cause us to focus on the goal of eternity. Jesus counseled us against laying up treasures on this earth. All we do should be directed by keeping our heart and mind fixed on God and preparing ourselves and others for eternity with Him. Solomon speaks of the brevity of life and living in ways that please our Father and guide us toward focusing on what matters to Him. 3. Living in a world affected by the fall and the curse of sin is shown in Solomon’s words through Ecclesiastes. After we labor through our life, we all return to the ground, just as we first began. Solomon reveals how hollow life is without God and that joy and contentment are found only through Him. Without an eternal perspective lifestyle, we each fail to find satisfaction or meaning in life on earth. If we search without finding God, we can fall into deeper despair and will continually look for substitutes to fill the void inside. Those replacements never satisfy fully or can ever take the place of the joy and peace that only God can give. That is exactly why there are so many hurting and hurtful people living on this earth. What made King Solomon, known for his wisdom and knowledge seek out the meaning of life? Didn’t he already possess anything a person could want? Solomon was a man on a mission to discover the true meaning of life. He had tasted all life offered, but found that without truly seeking and knowing a close relationship with God, he had nothing. Solomon learned that all of life is meaningless if we do not acknowledge God. In order to acquire true joy or fulfillment, we must recognize and acknowledge God as the Creator, Giver, and Source of all. Because Solomon left the God he knew and followed in his youth, he lost the ability to enjoy the gifts God had bestowed to him. Despite the wisdom God gave to him, Solomon made significant errors in judgement and lifestyle choices that finally offered him awareness of the futility of life without God because wisdom and knowledge alone do not satisfy the desire God placed within us to know and fellowship with Him. Ecclesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and indeed, all is vanity and grasping for the wind.” So many truths about living the life God wants for us are found in the book of Ecclesiastes. Solomon had all a man could want and still made many dreadful mistakes. Without walking with and obeying the Lord, he found that his worldly wisdom, regarded highly by humans, was way beneath that of God’s. Wisdom without knowledge, understanding, and obedience to God is worthless. Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 says, “Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.” How could Solomon, who was regarded as the wisest man who ever lived, make such drastic mistakes? Although He was incredibly intelligent, he did not remain faithful to God throughout his lifetime. Later in Solomon’s life, he actually became disobedient to God and instead of becoming contrite and repenting to his Heavenly Father, Solomon instead continued in transgressions that led to his destruction and the fall of the kingdom he ruled. How often do we make the same missteps? We may not rule a kingdom like Solomon did, but we all rule over something. We each desire to be the Lord of our life unless we are fully submitted and committed to Jesus. Without Him, we run the risk of making many of the same mistakes as the wisest man who ever lived. Upon his deathbed, Solomon’s father, David left important instructions with his son, reminding Solomon of the only way to live successfully and prosper. 1 Kings 2:1-3 says, “When the time drew near for David to die, he gave a charge to Solomon his son. “I am about to go the way of all the earth,” he said. “So be strong, act like a man, and observe what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to Him, and keep His decrees and commands, His laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses. Do this so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you go.” David’s dying words left Solomon with instructions he should have heeded, but did not. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” Solomon drifted far away from where he started. Instead of focusing on intentionally drawing nearer to God each moment, he delighted in obtaining things of this world and believed the wisdom that God bestowed on Him was greater than what God Himself possessed. As king, attaining pleasures was easy for Solomon and he was more captivated with earthly lusts than heavenly afterlife or the God he once loved with a passion. 1 Kings 8:61 says, “And may your hearts be fully committed to the Lord our God, to live by his decrees and obey his commands, as at this time.” Devotion to anything or anyone is difficult. Our minds and hearts stray so easily and usually fall back to self needs or desires. It takes great resolution and dedication to remain devoted, especially to a God we cannot see. Solomon wanted God at one time. He just valued and wanted other things more. What should we glean from studying the life of Solomon? 1. Humbly bow before the Lord and ask for grace, mercy, and faith. 2. Ask God to bless your walk and relationship with Him. 3. Find ways to change your course to be in right fellowship with Him or continue deepening your journey with Him. 4. Place God above all else, even the blessings in your life. 5. Do not stray. Remain dedicated to knowing and trusting God more deeply daily. Jeremiah 17:5-10 says, “This is what the Lord says: “Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the Lord. That person will be like a bush in the wastelands; they will not see prosperity when it comes. They will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives. But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit. The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve.” I find the following to be an interesting verse. The Bible speaks several times of circumcision of our hearts. Deuteronomy 10:16 says, “Therefore circumcise the foreskin of your heart, and be stiff-necked no longer.” To circumcise means to purify spiritually. Only the Holy Spirit can purify our heart. The Holy Spirit comes to us through Jesus Christ as our Savior. The Holy Spirit then lives within us to continually alter and purify us as we allow His work in and through us. Just what does God look for in us? What would a circumcised heart look like? 1. Pure hearts that want to know Him. 2. Obedient hearts that follow where He leads. 3. Dedicated hearts that do not drift from Him. 4. Believing hearts that trust Him. 5. Servant hearts that spread Him. 6. Praising hearts that honor and thank Him. 7. Loving hearts that share Him. Deuteronomy 30:6 says, “The Lord your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live.” God wants us to love Him with all our heart, mind, and soul and love others enough to educate and equip them to do the same. Matthew 22:37-40 says, “Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Ecclesiastes is filled with such wisdom from God. The life of Solomon could leave us filled with sorrow for what he lost, for what could have been, but I hope we use it to spur us on so that we do not fall prey to the same mistakes. What are other important takeaways we should remember from the book of Ecclesiastes? 1. We are but a vapor, regardless of what our earthly status may be. 2. Life in this world is not fair by our standards. 3. Do not trust in the emptiness of this life. 4. Toil and achievement that we produce because we envy another is pointless. 5. Whomever loves money will never have enough. 6. Our earthly wisdom is vanity and far beneath that of God’s. 7. Seeking nothing but pleasure is futile. 8. Everything we toil after is trivial. 9. Life is meaningless without God. Ecclesiastes 3:1-11 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. What do workers gain from their toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” Thankfully, we can rest in the assurance and provision of the gift God offered us through Jesus Christ. We know that Jesus is the same from beginning to end, first to last, alpha to omega. We know the plan God had for each of us, if only we accept. Dear God, please help us make the most of this wonderful opportunity to seek and find Jesus, to draw near to You, and to embrace the moments You allow us here. May we look forward to eternity with You and keep the proper perspective while we roam this land that will never satisfy like You will one day. Help us to recognize and extract what is meaningless and treasure what will last for eternity. May we please You with our circumcised heart and show others the way to You because we allow You to shine so brightly within and before us. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #095 – Through the Shadow of Death – Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I am honored to begin a new series of interviews in recognition of National Adoption Month. What a blessing it is to be able to converse with several people regarding the topic of adoption. As you probably already know, our family has added to our family through adoption twice and we are deeply blessed, of course, through bringing our daughters home, but also through the relationships we’ve built in the adoption community. National Adoption Month is an initiative that seeks to increase national awareness of adoption issues and bring attention to the need for adoptive families for teens in the U.S. foster care system. I also believe the movement includes awareness for international adoption. Although some adoptions abroad are closed due to Covid at this time, I pray the time will quickly come that all children, no matter where they live, will be able to live in loving, nurturing, permanent families. God doesn’t care where a child is adopted from. Whether domestic or international, children need homes. They are meant to live in attentive, loving homes. It breaks my heart that any child would be neglected, abused, or forgotten. Imagine how it makes God feel. Every person should know that someone cares about them and their well-being because they are deeply cherished. Our own journey with adoption began in China simply because that is where we knew God told us we had a daughter waiting. Over the ten years that followed our first adoption, we advocated and prayed for many children, both domestic and international. We worked with organizations, began an adoption ministry at church, and held seminars and conferences. I have lost count of the number of children I have prayed for as I viewed their photos and also shared them with others to pray and advocate for, as well. We also took courses to be approved to adopt domestically, but that was not God’s plan for us. Instead, He sent us back to China for our youngest child, and I will never forget the day I first saw her adorable face. It was the moment I fell in love with her. Today, I am beginning a series of interviews by introducing you to Johanna Cannelongo, a 4-time repeat adopter from China. Johanna is a wife and homeschooling mama of eight children, ages 5-21. She says she lives with her heart anchored in eternity, but her feet planted in Maryland on a little farmette with her amazing and funny husband of 23 years, Brian. Johanna’s passion is to raise children who love Jesus and to advocate for the most vulnerable. Now you will hear Johanna share the hope of Jesus through her story of His faithfulness in her life during tragedy and triumph. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ The goodness and faithfulness of God and His intimate provisions to each of us is clearly evident in the story Johanna shared with us. Johanna says that Jesus is her best friend, her light, and her song of living hope that saves her every day. His intimacy is free to each of us and He awaits our release of self so that He can freely minister and guide in the personal and loving ways He desires. Even through the valley of the shadow of death, Jesus can cause us to fear no evil, for He is right with us, carrying us each step of the journey, when we allow Him to. You can learn more about Johanna through her foundation, Live Gia Grow Forever on Facebook or Instagram. You can reach Johanna at johanna@wildflowerhope.com. Father God, we call upon Your name. You are the Great I Am, the Most High, our Creator and Sustainer, our Provider and Great Comforter. We need you so much more than we even realize. Father, thank you for the ways You carry us. You do not walk beside us. You intentionally and intimately desire to carry each load and carry us through the pain and trials. Heavenly Father, You are good, yet this world is not. Help us to crave You over culture and turn to You with every pain and heartache, every question and stumbling block. May we please You and fulfill the purpose You have set for us. May we give You honor and praise through easy and hard. When our deepest fears come true, may we not turn from You, but to You as we trust and rest in Your arms. Soothe our pain and show us Your tender mercies. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 095 - Through the Shadow of Death - Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #095 – Through the Shadow of Death – Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I am honored to begin a new series of interviews in recognition of National Adoption Month. What a blessing it is to be able to converse with several people regarding the topic of adoption. As you probably already know, our family has added to our family through adoption twice and we are deeply blessed, of course, through bringing our daughters home, but also through the relationships we’ve built in the adoption community. National Adoption Month is an initiative that seeks to increase national awareness of adoption issues and bring attention to the need for adoptive families for teens in the U.S. foster care system. I also believe the movement includes awareness for international adoption. Although some adoptions abroad are closed due to Covid at this time, I pray the time will quickly come that all children, no matter where they live, will be able to live in loving, nurturing, permanent families. God doesn’t care where a child is adopted from. Whether domestic or international, children need homes. They are meant to live in attentive, loving homes. It breaks my heart that any child would be neglected, abused, or forgotten. Imagine how it makes God feel. Every person should know that someone cares about them and their well-being because they are deeply cherished. Our own journey with adoption began in China simply because that is where we knew God told us we had a daughter waiting. Over the ten years that followed our first adoption, we advocated and prayed for many children, both domestic and international. We worked with organizations, began an adoption ministry at church, and held seminars and conferences. I have lost count of the number of children I have prayed for as I viewed their photos and also shared them with others to pray and advocate for, as well. We also took courses to be approved to adopt domestically, but that was not God’s plan for us. Instead, He sent us back to China for our youngest child, and I will never forget the day I first saw her adorable face. It was the moment I fell in love with her. Today, I am beginning a series of interviews by introducing you to Johanna Cannelongo, a 4-time repeat adopter from China. Johanna is a wife and homeschooling mama of eight children, ages 5-21. She says she lives with her heart anchored in eternity, but her feet planted in Maryland on a little farmette with her amazing and funny husband of 23 years, Brian. Johanna’s passion is to raise children who love Jesus and to advocate for the most vulnerable. Now you will hear Johanna share the hope of Jesus through her story of His faithfulness in her life during tragedy and triumph. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ The goodness and faithfulness of God and His intimate provisions to each of us is clearly evident in the story Johanna shared with us. Johanna says that Jesus is her best friend, her light, and her song of living hope that saves her every day. His intimacy is free to each of us and He awaits our release of self so that He can freely minister and guide in the personal and loving ways He desires. Even through the valley of the shadow of death, Jesus can cause us to fear no evil, for He is right with us, carrying us each step of the journey, when we allow Him to. You can learn more about Johanna through her foundation, Live Gia Grow Forever on Facebook or Instagram. You can reach Johanna at johanna@wildflowerhope.com . Father God, we call upon Your name. You are the Great I Am, the Most High, our Creator and Sustainer, our Provider and Great Comforter. We need you so much more than we even realize. Father, thank you for the ways You carry us. You do not walk beside us. You intentionally and intimately desire to carry each load and carry us through the pain and trials. Heavenly Father, You are good, yet this world is not. Help us to crave You over culture and turn to You with every pain and heartache, every question and stumbling block. May we please You and fulfill the purpose You have set for us. May we give You honor and praise through easy and hard. When our deepest fears come true, may we not turn from You, but to You as we trust and rest in Your arms. Soothe our pain and show us Your tender mercies. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #077 – Easing Heartache Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Matthew 5:4 says, “Blessed are those mourning, for they will be comforted.” June 18th and June 21st were beyond difficult days in our family. Grief hit our home and the impact was hard. Before I married a dog-loving man I never would have imagined the depth of relationship a person could have with a household pet. My parents never allowed us to have an inside dog as I was growing up, and an outside dog, although still cared for, is certainly not the same as a loving furry family member who knows everything about you, follows you everywhere inside the house, and adores you despite whether you're made-up or in need of a bath. Your schedule is known and if you deviate in any way, they may offer a question with a slight tilt of their head, but all-in-all, accept the change as long as you are still with them and they have the honor of remaining in your presence. Since marrying a man who has always had to have a pet in our house, I have slowly become accustomed to an ever-present dog. While we have had absolutely amazing pets over the years, and some that took a giant piece of my heart with them after they passed, I have never been as affected by the death of a pet as I was last month. On June 18th we lost Max, our ten year old, exquisitely handsome Golden Retriever. While Max truly loved every family member deeply, he was the first family dog that chose me as his favorite. He was a mama's boy to the core. Whenever I petted him, he purred his favor and satisfaction like a cat and slapped me with his clumsy giant paws, proving his devotion as he tagged me as his. Max followed me everywhere, becoming my four-legged shadow who was always up in an instant and ready to go whenever and wherever I was headed. Max often carried a football around the house. Never mind that he could not catch! Whatever we tossed his way would land awkwardly on the floor beside or behind our boy, but rarely in his mouth. He was my baby, my friend, my warm cuddle-buddy, and my blessing, for time with him always brought a smile and warmth to my heart. On June 21st, a few days after losing Max, we lost his sister, our thirteen year old Miniature Schnauzer, Misty. Just as Max loved everyone, but chose one favorite to shadow, Misty loved each of us well, yet claimed my husband as her special family member. We used to laugh at the adoration in her eyes whenever she looked at him. We called Misty our "little girl," because she always seemed to envy Marissa as they grew up together. It seemed she wanted to be a person, not a canine, and the depth of desire and love in her eyes for all of us seemed to confirm our thoughts. Misty loved music and whenever we would sing to her, she would stop whatever she was doing and come to sit in front of us so that we would continue a special personal concert designed for her. Our "little girl" also grew up attending family worship and prayer time with us, and she and Marissa used to race each other for a seat next to me when they were younger. In her mature years, Misty still came to school with us and almost never missed Bible or prayer time. My youngest, Brooklyn loved feeding and brushing the dogs and spending quiet time with them as she slept near both of them. Marissa and I loved the way Misty always raced upstairs when she knew I was headed to Marissa's room to do something with her. Misty knew she would get to sit with us and receive a special time of cuddles and hugs that Max would never know about. After losing Max, we spent three days trying to save Misty, gently feeding her baby food from our fingertips, gently wrapping cool washcloths on her paws in an attempt to reduce her fever, and carrying her outside to enjoy the breezy sunshine weather when she could no longer walk. I never imagined we would lose both of our precious babies within days of each other. The emergency veterinarian told us it was a rarity to have a family come in with two critically ill dogs at the same time. We aren't sure what happened. Suddenly both of our furry family members became very sick. Misty had declined the previous summer and after we urgently prayed for a miracle for her health last year, we received one. Misty had seemed healthier, stronger, and going on regular walks with Marissa daily. Just days after Max suddenly got sick, she did as well. Our regular vet could not figure out what was going on and referred us to the emergency clinic. Without hospitalizing both of them and spending what could amount to ten thousand dollars for the next few days (on top of what we had already spent), neither of our babies was going to make it. In the end, the vets believed that Max's kidneys had failed and Misty had underlying cancer, perhaps in her pancreas. At least they lived without symptoms until the very end, and even then, neither of them complained. As we tried to nurse both of them ourselves, praying for improvement, they loved and trusted us with their usual tenderness. love, and compassion. I will never find animals quite like them this side of heaven, where I pray I meet with them again. God amazes me that He crafted these sweet babies, knowing they would be ours, and instilling just what I needed, we each needed, in both of them. Pure love, gentleness, acceptance, and peace emanated from them with ease, reminding me daily of what the Father desires from each of us. Without them, I also think of the Father's gentle spirit when He created them and it allows me to grieve with hope that I will see them in eternity. Although animals do not have a soul that can choose to accept Christ as their Savior, and nothing biblically proves that animals will be in heaven, I pray that because Adam and Eve were stewards over animals in the beginning, that God will allow the beautiful four-legged family members we loved to have a final resting place with Him for eternity. Grief is tricky, but also a beautiful mechanism of the love that God must have for us. For if I, a mere sinful human, can love with an intensity that allows me to deeply miss the animals I called a part of my family, imagine the extreme and passionate love God holds for each of us, His creation made with a purpose. As we said goodbye to our beloved pets, I told the emergency vet that I had lost a daughter and many close family members, and that loss was a million times worse, yet the pain of losing my precious pets was still extremely painful. I carry the sweet memories made with them very close, thinking of their precious faces often throughout each day. I feel emptiness in my schedule because they are not here to make me laugh, sing, play hide and seek, or marvel at the way they join every activity with excitement and love simply because we are there with them. The way we each are to rejoice in our time spent with the Lord. It’s okay to take life slower for as long as I need to and I should not feel guilty because I am grieving pets. If you are not a dog or pet lover, I understand. I honestly thought that I wouldn’t want any more pets after these were gone. I failed to understand the depth of the devotion I had for them. Although I am admittedly not a puppy person, it’s like having a newborn in the house, and that means a lot of work. Yet, I truly and deeply loved our dogs. They perfectly fit into each day and situation, even with quirky habits that made them even more a part of the family. Losing pets also proves that pain is pain. Loss is loss. Who understands the depth? Jesus. Remember John 11:35? “Jesus wept.” I remember the first days after losing my daughter. The depth of anguish was chasm-sized, relentless, and I had to force myself to breathe through the crushing pain weighing on my chest. I didn't want to cry in front of others because it felt too personal and I also wasn't sure that I could stop the tears. I wanted to grieve in my own way, plus I didn’t want to upset my four year old daughter or leave her burdened with a mother who couldn’t care for her. So I grieved in private times and allowed God to offer the peace only He can. But the years of loss after her, filled with many others I loved, have made me ultra-tender to grief. Also knowing that I have a young daughter who could experience decline at any time, and seeing the losses of so many parents I know who have children with similar conditions has marked my spirit in a way that has left me more vulnerable to grief. I've cried or thought of them daily since my sweet, furry companions have been gone and I feel like they must have felt when they used to lay on the floor, with underbellies exposed. But I don't care. God offers me peace and calm when I ask, just like with the losses before. He is ever-present and I feel Him near. He tells me that He holds my tears and each one is recorded. He understands as no one else can. What is gone had been a gift from Him and the preciousness is a reminder of each loved one I have been with, yet lost, and those I still hold and treasure. Any or all of them could be gone in an instant; another reminder that living with eternal perspective is the only way to fully live in this world. About two weeks before Max got sick, I remember hearing a voice in my spirit one day that concerned me. It said, "Max will be attacked." Just as my Heavenly Father sent me a warning twenty-four hours before I lost my first child, I think God must have sent me a sign to trust Him again. He always watches over us in ways unique to each of us, and for the purposes He intends. I am glad He prepared me in this way. Losing both of our beloved and precious furry family members at once was truly very difficult. I feel like our culture sometimes dismisses the loss of pets as insignificant, but we the ties and bonds we have with our pets can be as strong and intense as some we have with humans. Our pets trust us implicitly, they love unconditionally, and spend almost every moment with us. The loss of their presence leaves a giant hole in our daily routines and lifestyle, as well as our ability to laugh and love in the same way we previously experienced. Yet, it makes everything sweeter still. One of the gifts of God is the ability to continue to peel away layer after layer of humanity and heal that exposed area with not new flesh, but the ability to hold and feel life more like He does and how He desires – with our mind and heart set for Him. Eccesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” Love trumps possessions or power. In the Bible, even Solomon’s special wisdom granted by God did not provide meaning that satisfied his soul. God continues to burden my heart with an ache that nothing in this world can satisfy. I truly desire for everyone to know Him and the peace that God alone brings us through a maturing relationship with Christ. My heart yearns for each of us to make time to rest in Him. Change your schedule. Slow your life. Make time to not only read the word, but digest it. Ponder God’s words and ways. Apply His teachings, promises, and love to your life and those around you. Do not harbor bitterness or anger, jealousy or hatred, unforgiveness or sadness. Truly examine your heart and lay it before God so that He can heal the areas you need. Even when we already feel those areas have been released to Him, God and His words have mighty power that is living and active. Just as Hebrews 4:12 says, “Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Cling ever tighter to Jesus, beginning now. Although I don’t enjoy the hurts of this world, God never fails to be the steadiness that is exactly what I need and He draws me ever nearer through all that occurs. May it always be so, and true for each one of us. Father God, may we allow You to examine our thoughts and heart. We need You so much more than we know. Despite heartache and difficulty in this world, we become closer to You when we allow troubles and disappointment to draw us ever nearer. The only way we can do that is to be building a relationship with You consistently as one lays a firm foundation on solid ground so that we are ready before the storm hits. Thank you for being calm, peace, and steadiness that our minds can grasp, yet also so much more that we can only begin to fathom through the hope and trust You leave us in Jesus. You are all we need, dear Father. Thank you. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 077 - Easing Heartache Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #077 – Easing Heartache Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Matthew 5:4 says, “Blessed are those mourning, for they will be comforted.” June 18th and June 21st were beyond difficult days in our family. Grief hit our home and the impact was hard. Before I married a dog-loving man I never would have imagined the depth of relationship a person could have with a household pet. My parents never allowed us to have an inside dog as I was growing up, and an outside dog, although still cared for, is certainly not the same as a loving furry family member who knows everything about you, follows you everywhere inside the house, and adores you despite whether you're made-up or in need of a bath. Your schedule is known and if you deviate in any way, they may offer a question with a slight tilt of their head, but all-in-all, accept the change as long as you are still with them and they have the honor of remaining in your presence. Since marrying a man who has always had to have a pet in our house, I have slowly become accustomed to an ever-present dog. While we have had absolutely amazing pets over the years, and some that took a giant piece of my heart with them after they passed, I have never been as affected by the death of a pet as I was last month. On June 18th we lost Max, our ten year old, exquisitely handsome Golden Retriever. While Max truly loved every family member deeply, he was the first family dog that chose me as his favorite. He was a mama's boy to the core. Whenever I petted him, he purred his favor and satisfaction like a cat and slapped me with his clumsy giant paws, proving his devotion as he tagged me as his. Max followed me everywhere, becoming my four-legged shadow who was always up in an instant and ready to go whenever and wherever I was headed. Max often carried a football around the house. Never mind that he could not catch! Whatever we tossed his way would land awkwardly on the floor beside or behind our boy, but rarely in his mouth. He was my baby, my friend, my warm cuddle-buddy, and my blessing, for time with him always brought a smile and warmth to my heart. On June 21st, a few days after losing Max, we lost his sister, our thirteen year old Miniature Schnauzer, Misty. Just as Max loved everyone, but chose one favorite to shadow, Misty loved each of us well, yet claimed my husband as her special family member. We used to laugh at the adoration in her eyes whenever she looked at him. We called Misty our "little girl," because she always seemed to envy Marissa as they grew up together. It seemed she wanted to be a person, not a canine, and the depth of desire and love in her eyes for all of us seemed to confirm our thoughts. Misty loved music and whenever we would sing to her, she would stop whatever she was doing and come to sit in front of us so that we would continue a special personal concert designed for her. Our "little girl" also grew up attending family worship and prayer time with us, and she and Marissa used to race each other for a seat next to me when they were younger. In her mature years, Misty still came to school with us and almost never missed Bible or prayer time. My youngest, Brooklyn loved feeding and brushing the dogs and spending quiet time with them as she slept near both of them. Marissa and I loved the way Misty always raced upstairs when she knew I was headed to Marissa's room to do something with her. Misty knew she would get to sit with us and receive a special time of cuddles and hugs that Max would never know about. After losing Max, we spent three days trying to save Misty, gently feeding her baby food from our fingertips, gently wrapping cool washcloths on her paws in an attempt to reduce her fever, and carrying her outside to enjoy the breezy sunshine weather when she could no longer walk. I never imagined we would lose both of our precious babies within days of each other. The emergency veterinarian told us it was a rarity to have a family come in with two critically ill dogs at the same time. We aren't sure what happened. Suddenly both of our furry family members became very sick. Misty had declined the previous summer and after we urgently prayed for a miracle for her health last year, we received one. Misty had seemed healthier, stronger, and going on regular walks with Marissa daily. Just days after Max suddenly got sick, she did as well. Our regular vet could not figure out what was going on and referred us to the emergency clinic. Without hospitalizing both of them and spending what could amount to ten thousand dollars for the next few days (on top of what we had already spent), neither of our babies was going to make it. In the end, the vets believed that Max's kidneys had failed and Misty had underlying cancer, perhaps in her pancreas. At least they lived without symptoms until the very end, and even then, neither of them complained. As we tried to nurse both of them ourselves, praying for improvement, they loved and trusted us with their usual tenderness. love, and compassion. I will never find animals quite like them this side of heaven, where I pray I meet with them again. God amazes me that He crafted these sweet babies, knowing they would be ours, and instilling just what I needed, we each needed, in both of them. Pure love, gentleness, acceptance, and peace emanated from them with ease, reminding me daily of what the Father desires from each of us. Without them, I also think of the Father's gentle spirit when He created them and it allows me to grieve with hope that I will see them in eternity. Although animals do not have a soul that can choose to accept Christ as their Savior, and nothing biblically proves that animals will be in heaven, I pray that because Adam and Eve were stewards over animals in the beginning, that God will allow the beautiful four-legged family members we loved to have a final resting place with Him for eternity. Grief is tricky, but also a beautiful mechanism of the love that God must have for us. For if I, a mere sinful human, can love with an intensity that allows me to deeply miss the animals I called a part of my family, imagine the extreme and passionate love God holds for each of us, His creation made with a purpose. As we said goodbye to our beloved pets, I told the emergency vet that I had lost a daughter and many close family members, and that loss was a million times worse, yet the pain of losing my precious pets was still extremely painful. I carry the sweet memories made with them very close, thinking of their precious faces often throughout each day. I feel emptiness in my schedule because they are not here to make me laugh, sing, play hide and seek, or marvel at the way they join every activity with excitement and love simply because we are there with them. The way we each are to rejoice in our time spent with the Lord. It’s okay to take life slower for as long as I need to and I should not feel guilty because I am grieving pets. If you are not a dog or pet lover, I understand. I honestly thought that I wouldn’t want any more pets after these were gone. I failed to understand the depth of the devotion I had for them. Although I am admittedly not a puppy person, it’s like having a newborn in the house, and that means a lot of work. Yet, I truly and deeply loved our dogs. They perfectly fit into each day and situation, even with quirky habits that made them even more a part of the family. Losing pets also proves that pain is pain. Loss is loss. Who understands the depth? Jesus. Remember John 11:35? “Jesus wept.” I remember the first days after losing my daughter. The depth of anguish was chasm-sized, relentless, and I had to force myself to breathe through the crushing pain weighing on my chest. I didn't want to cry in front of others because it felt too personal and I also wasn't sure that I could stop the tears. I wanted to grieve in my own way, plus I didn’t want to upset my four year old daughter or leave her burdened with a mother who couldn’t care for her. So I grieved in private times and allowed God to offer the peace only He can. But the years of loss after her, filled with many others I loved, have made me ultra-tender to grief. Also knowing that I have a young daughter who could experience decline at any time, and seeing the losses of so many parents I know who have children with similar conditions has marked my spirit in a way that has left me more vulnerable to grief. I've cried or thought of them daily since my sweet, furry companions have been gone and I feel like they must have felt when they used to lay on the floor, with underbellies exposed. But I don't care. God offers me peace and calm when I ask, just like with the losses before. He is ever-present and I feel Him near. He tells me that He holds my tears and each one is recorded. He understands as no one else can. What is gone had been a gift from Him and the preciousness is a reminder of each loved one I have been with, yet lost, and those I still hold and treasure. Any or all of them could be gone in an instant; another reminder that living with eternal perspective is the only way to fully live in this world. About two weeks before Max got sick, I remember hearing a voice in my spirit one day that concerned me. It said, "Max will be attacked." Just as my Heavenly Father sent me a warning twenty-four hours before I lost my first child, I think God must have sent me a sign to trust Him again. He always watches over us in ways unique to each of us, and for the purposes He intends. I am glad He prepared me in this way. Losing both of our beloved and precious furry family members at once was truly very difficult. I feel like our culture sometimes dismisses the loss of pets as insignificant, but we the ties and bonds we have with our pets can be as strong and intense as some we have with humans. Our pets trust us implicitly, they love unconditionally, and spend almost every moment with us. The loss of their presence leaves a giant hole in our daily routines and lifestyle, as well as our ability to laugh and love in the same way we previously experienced. Yet, it makes everything sweeter still. One of the gifts of God is the ability to continue to peel away layer after layer of humanity and heal that exposed area with not new flesh, but the ability to hold and feel life more like He does and how He desires – with our mind and heart set for Him. Eccesiastes 1:14 says, “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” Love trumps possessions or power. In the Bible, even Solomon’s special wisdom granted by God did not provide meaning that satisfied his soul. God continues to burden my heart with an ache that nothing in this world can satisfy. I truly desire for everyone to know Him and the peace that God alone brings us through a maturing relationship with Christ. My heart yearns for each of us to make time to rest in Him. Change your schedule. Slow your life. Make time to not only read the word, but digest it. Ponder God’s words and ways. Apply His teachings, promises, and love to your life and those around you. Do not harbor bitterness or anger, jealousy or hatred, unforgiveness or sadness. Truly examine your heart and lay it before God so that He can heal the areas you need. Even when we already feel those areas have been released to Him, God and His words have mighty power that is living and active. Just as Hebrews 4:12 says, “Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Cling ever tighter to Jesus, beginning now. Although I don’t enjoy the hurts of this world, God never fails to be the steadiness that is exactly what I need and He draws me ever nearer through all that occurs. May it always be so, and true for each one of us. Father God, may we allow You to examine our thoughts and heart. We need You so much more than we know. Despite heartache and difficulty in this world, we become closer to You when we allow troubles and disappointment to draw us ever nearer. The only way we can do that is to be building a relationship with You consistently as one lays a firm foundation on solid ground so that we are ready before the storm hits. Thank you for being calm, peace, and steadiness that our minds can grasp, yet also so much more that we can only begin to fathom through the hope and trust You leave us in Jesus. You are all we need, dear Father. Thank you. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #105 – God is Present in the Darkness Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 112:4 says, “Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for those who are gracious and compassionate and righteous.” One evening last week I dropped my middle daughter off at an event and told my youngest we would do something special together while we were waiting for her sister. We were quite a distance from home, so we didn’t know the area at all, but I was confident we could find something to do together. After leaving Marissa, I plugged in the name of a local place to get food or drink, but the navigation system said the nearest location was 200 miles away. Knowing that my system, or “Navi,” as we like to call it, is often simply wrong, I typed in another destination I thought would bring up results. After receiving info, I selected an option and drove off, knowing Brooklyn and I would share some fun over the next 90 minutes. After driving away, I followed exactly where “Navi” guided me to go, and ended up with uncertainty surrounding us on an unfamiliar, one-lane gravel road. Light barely shined from my headlights as they attempted to pierce the blackness. Although it wasn’t all one-lane, almost all of it was in total darkness, except for the “too-bright” lights of occasional other cars headed in the opposite direction. Driving in the country on unlit gravel roads and highways are not my idea of fun or relaxation. Wanting to be calm in front of my daughter, so that she did not worry, I shifted my priority to remaining in prayer along the journey. Deep in thoughtful conversation and petition, I kept hearing myself ask God to keep us safe, show us the way to civilization, keep us from hitting any deer, and keep any deer from hitting our car. Prayer and connection with the Lord was all that separated me from fear. Instead of building anxiety, my level of peace began rising with each word spoken to my Father. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” After about 15 minutes of concentrated connection through prayer, especially concerning deer, I passed a large buck just standing on the side of the road. Only about six feet separated us. As our car passed by him, the creature watched us, yet his body remained in place. I knew with certainty that God had stilled him until our car moved by. At that moment, I felt the peaceful, intimate voice of God whispering to my spirit, “I see you. I hear you. I am always with you.” Romans 8:26 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.” I believe the Holy Spirit impressed the importance of praying about deer specifically. During the drive I felt a quiet urgency to pray for protection. Because it was constant and steady without being alarming, I chose to heed the call and obey through prayer. Seeing the deer standing by the side of the road, I felt the animal was a symbol of the protection God supplied because I obeyed and cried out to Him. Although He didn’t need to prove Himself, God allowed me a special glimpse of the personal care He intimately chose for us that night. Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” The Lord is gracious and full of compassion. He is merciful and His provisions are perfect for our needs. God is gracious to us in our times of need, distress, or confusion. He is the Light in the Darkness, our Beacon of Hope. Psalm 27:1 says, “The Lord is my light and my salvation— so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?” How often God provides for us. Daily, He goes before, around, and behind us, without our knowledge. He is constantly at work. The Lord knows each second of our day, what every need is and will be, and how He will provide. God understands where we are weak, where we need to be weakened, and when we will humbly submit to His providential care. Lamentations 3:25 says, “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him.” As unease began to seep into my consciousness that night, I remember thinking that fear never comes from God. My prayers immediately began, forming a wall of spiritual protection between the devil’s schemes and God’s promise as spoken in Jeremiah 1:8, which says, “Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” It is so easy for our eyes to slip from the Lord. Don’t allow it to happen. We must live with purpose, each moment, with invisible blinders on, guarding our vision, just as trainers do with horses, for example. With blinders on, our gaze is directed up, singled to, and fixed on the Lord, who is able to calm us, protect us, and comfort us. With our attention on Him, it is diverted from a world of chaos and confusion. Nothing in this world or within our spirit is able to comfort or calm. Left alone, our weak fleshly body and mind will spiral to fear, doubt, anxiety, depression, worry, or a host of other emotions. Yet, with God, we have hope. We have release. We have relief. With God, we have promise. Even if we do not feel him, He is present. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me.” In order to remember and draw from His strength, we must be and stay connected. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.” Purpose to spend time with the Father this week. Remain connected. Sit with Him in prayer and reflection. Read His word. Let Jesus know He is a priority. Ask Him to enable you to live the life He has purposed for you. Watch for the quiet ways He is at work in your life. It does not matter how busy our lives are. Excuses are easy to find. Peace, hope, joy, and love, as well as any other fruit of the Spirit, will not abide within us unless He does and we allow His mighty work within us and our life. Make an appointment with Jesus each day. Before you realize it, you will walk with Him intimately each moment. Prayers will easily slip from your mind, heart, and lips without realizing the thoughts or words because your spirit is intertwined with His. Time with Jesus is a gift, an honor we cannot forget to embrace each day. Look for new ways to spend moments with Him today, soak in His word, apply it in your life, and allow the Lord to expose to you new ways to live with eternal perspective. Dear Heavenly Father, our good and gracious Lord, thank you for Your help and comfort us to us. We have seen Your goodness. We watch for and hope in you. We trust that Your ears are open to our cries, calls, and pleas for help. Enable us to live in ways that show our devotion to You. Grow our walk with You so that we never leave Your presence. Grow our walk so that others will seek Your presence because of the way they see You in our lives. You are good. Help us to see You in each day and sing Your praises to those around us. May they see You in our words, actions, reactions, and in any circumstance we find ourselves in. Show us the ways You desire us to live with an eternal perspective beyond this world and help us to shine them to others through the way we embrace living with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 105 God is Present in the Darkness Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #105 – God is Present in the Darkness Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 112:4 says, “Even in darkness light dawns for the upright, for those who are gracious and compassionate and righteous.” One evening last week I dropped my middle daughter off at an event and told my youngest we would do something special together while we were waiting for her sister. We were quite a distance from home, so we didn’t know the area at all, but I was confident we could find something to do together. After leaving Marissa, I plugged in the name of a local place to get food or drink, but the navigation system said the nearest location was 200 miles away. Knowing that my system, or “Navi,” as we like to call it, is often simply wrong, I typed in another destination I thought would bring up results. After receiving info, I selected an option and drove off, knowing Brooklyn and I would share some fun over the next 90 minutes. After driving away, I followed exactly where “Navi” guided me to go, and ended up with uncertainty surrounding us on an unfamiliar, one-lane gravel road. Light barely shined from my headlights as they attempted to pierce the blackness. Although it wasn’t all one-lane, almost all of it was in total darkness, except for the “too-bright” lights of occasional other cars headed in the opposite direction. Driving in the country on unlit gravel roads and highways are not my idea of fun or relaxation. Wanting to be calm in front of my daughter, so that she did not worry, I shifted my priority to remaining in prayer along the journey. Deep in thoughtful conversation and petition, I kept hearing myself ask God to keep us safe, show us the way to civilization, keep us from hitting any deer, and keep any deer from hitting our car. Prayer and connection with the Lord was all that separated me from fear. Instead of building anxiety, my level of peace began rising with each word spoken to my Father. Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” After about 15 minutes of concentrated connection through prayer, especially concerning deer, I passed a large buck just standing on the side of the road. Only about six feet separated us. As our car passed by him, the creature watched us, yet his body remained in place. I knew with certainty that God had stilled him until our car moved by. At that moment, I felt the peaceful, intimate voice of God whispering to my spirit, “I see you. I hear you. I am always with you.” Romans 8:26 says, “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.” I believe the Holy Spirit impressed the importance of praying about deer specifically. During the drive I felt a quiet urgency to pray for protection. Because it was constant and steady without being alarming, I chose to heed the call and obey through prayer. Seeing the deer standing by the side of the road, I felt the animal was a symbol of the protection God supplied because I obeyed and cried out to Him. Although He didn’t need to prove Himself, God allowed me a special glimpse of the personal care He intimately chose for us that night. Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” The Lord is gracious and full of compassion. He is merciful and His provisions are perfect for our needs. God is gracious to us in our times of need, distress, or confusion. He is the Light in the Darkness, our Beacon of Hope. Psalm 27:1 says, “The Lord is my light and my salvation— so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?” How often God provides for us. Daily, He goes before, around, and behind us, without our knowledge. He is constantly at work. The Lord knows each second of our day, what every need is and will be, and how He will provide. God understands where we are weak, where we need to be weakened, and when we will humbly submit to His providential care. Lamentations 3:25 says, “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him.” As unease began to seep into my consciousness that night, I remember thinking that fear never comes from God. My prayers immediately began, forming a wall of spiritual protection between the devil’s schemes and God’s promise as spoken in Jeremiah 1:8, which says, “Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.” It is so easy for our eyes to slip from the Lord. Don’t allow it to happen. We must live with purpose, each moment, with invisible blinders on, guarding our vision, just as trainers do with horses, for example. With blinders on, our gaze is directed up, singled to, and fixed on the Lord, who is able to calm us, protect us, and comfort us. With our attention on Him, it is diverted from a world of chaos and confusion. Nothing in this world or within our spirit is able to comfort or calm. Left alone, our weak fleshly body and mind will spiral to fear, doubt, anxiety, depression, worry, or a host of other emotions. Yet, with God, we have hope. We have release. We have relief. With God, we have promise. Even if we do not feel him, He is present. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me.” In order to remember and draw from His strength, we must be and stay connected. John 15:5 says, “I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.” Purpose to spend time with the Father this week. Remain connected. Sit with Him in prayer and reflection. Read His word. Let Jesus know He is a priority. Ask Him to enable you to live the life He has purposed for you. Watch for the quiet ways He is at work in your life. It does not matter how busy our lives are. Excuses are easy to find. Peace, hope, joy, and love, as well as any other fruit of the Spirit, will not abide within us unless He does and we allow His mighty work within us and our life. Make an appointment with Jesus each day. Before you realize it, you will walk with Him intimately each moment. Prayers will easily slip from your mind, heart, and lips without realizing the thoughts or words because your spirit is intertwined with His. Time with Jesus is a gift, an honor we cannot forget to embrace each day. Look for new ways to spend moments with Him today, soak in His word, apply it in your life, and allow the Lord to expose to you new ways to live with eternal perspective. Dear Heavenly Father, our good and gracious Lord, thank you for Your help and comfort us to us. We have seen Your goodness. We watch for and hope in you. We trust that Your ears are open to our cries, calls, and pleas for help. Enable us to live in ways that show our devotion to You. Grow our walk with You so that we never leave Your presence. Grow our walk so that others will seek Your presence because of the way they see You in our lives. You are good. Help us to see You in each day and sing Your praises to those around us. May they see You in our words, actions, reactions, and in any circumstance we find ourselves in. Show us the ways You desire us to live with an eternal perspective beyond this world and help us to shine them to others through the way we embrace living with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 071 – Does Your Family Think You’re a Complainer Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 071 – Does Your Family Think You’re a Complainer? I adore the witty personality of my youngest daughter. Being with her is such a delight. Because she didn’t come to live with us until she was nine years old, she didn’t begin the phase of copying my actions until she was about ten. Although that’s later than most daughters try to “be like mommy,” it was perfect timing for her developmentally. Since she was older when we were able to become her parents, I can’t take credit for the joy she carries. It’s such a deep blessing to be able to tell people that it is totally a gift from God to watch her dimpled smile and hear her sweet words. For example, if she drops a Lego creation it has taken her days to complete, she will shrug and say, “Well, I’ll built it again.” How many children do that? How many adults can shrug that disappointment off that easily? Mothers understand that most children observe and mimic what their parents do. Unlike teens, they want to be just like mommy or daddy and enjoy repeating actions as well as words. It’s cute to see how they interpret their parents. That is, unless what those adults do is annoying, mean, or a chronic habit. Have you ever been around someone who seems to enjoy complaining? What a relief it is to escape their company! But what if the culprit is your mother? Or maybe you might be the complaining mother. A mother’s habits will likely become the habits of her children. Her interpretation of life forms the way her watching children shape theirs. Take a moment to think about the answer you would give to the following questions: What does your child learn and begin doing by watching you? When troubles or trials arise, does your family hear you complain? If that answer is yes, what can you do to flip to praise and teach your child to do the same? A woman who can’t stop certain negative traits becomes known as a “complainer” to others. While those around her still love her, they tend to spend less time with her or often change the subject when around her to alleviate disagreements or discomfort. They don’t want to give her cause to gripe about anything else. It’s especially difficult when that person is your mother. Think of how this affects your children if that is the case in your household. Most complaining mothers seem to carry basic habits. Let’s highlight some of the most common characteristics of mothers who complain. I’ll also list the ways people view the complaining mother and the effects of her negativity on the family. As you listen, honestly assess whether you see yourself in any of these descriptions. 1. Stubborn – The stubborn mother might hear what others say, but will let no one change her opinion. In her mind, she’s always right. Relationships may fracture around her, but she never ties it to her behavior. It’s difficult for anyone to try to explain another point of view to her, because she just ends up explaining her position again. The bossy mother would rather be right in her own mind than learn a new viewpoint or way of doing something. She’ll sacrifice relationships and happiness just to prove a point, even if she would begin to question herself. Her husband and children may begin constructing walls to guard against the pain she causes or they may become stubborn themselves, causing even more tension in the household. 2. Angry – Life can be hard. The angry mother shows it on her face, in her attitude, and her actions. When anything happens that is below her expectations or desires, she doesn’t mind letting everyone know how she was wronged. Somehow she doesn’t notice people backing away from relationship with her. They need respite from her to enable themselves to maintain joy. Others in the household become angry, as well. It can be almost impossible to maintain peace or quiet in a home of angry people. 3. Bossy – Most everyone knows what a bossy kid on the school playground is like. Sometimes those kids don’t change. They grow up and become your mother. The bossy mother has a need to maintain control over events and lives. She’s confident her way is always best. Children with bossy mothers often grow up to be bossy. A bossy mother also finds it difficult to maintain a close relationship with her spouse. Her attitude affects everyone around her, leading to shattered relationships and broken connection. 4. Selfish – When most people become a parent, they understand the privilege and blessing they have been given. Some see raising children as a hardship and can’t let go of selfish desires. Whether it be time, love, attention, or sometimes even necessities, a selfish mother just can’t forget what she wants or place the needs of others above herself. It doesn’t matter who suffers around her. She really doesn’t see the needs of others as important. 5. Critical – People often have a natural critic living in their head. It takes a maturing walk with Jesus to silence that voice speaking deceit into their life. However, sometimes a critical mother is the culprit placing negativity in the minds of her children or spouse. The critical mother most likely had someone criticize her often in life and that fueled her unconscious need to continue the line. When a mother picks apart what a child or spouse wears, says, or does, when she nags about relationships, friends, choices, or simply can’t say anything nice, you may know a critical woman who can’t escape the need to criticize. Like the other complainer qualities we’ve been discussing, this trait tends to break down the family unit and the confidence of those the complainer lives with. 6. Controlling – Often the critical, controlling, and bossy mother are one and the same. When a woman feels that she has little or no control over her own life, the need to control others will surface or become more prominent. Whether it is over a particular issue or a major character trait apparent often, the controlling mother usually pushes her husband and children away. They will resort to trying to claim peace, joy, and freedom in other ways that may be harmful, because those fruits of the Spirit feel stripped when they are in her presence. 7. Explosive – Have you ever been around someone who seems fine one moment, but can explode like a triggered bomb was just detonated inside them the next? The explosive mother is adept at holding in feelings and emotions until she simply can’t tolerate it any longer. She is an expert at inflicting damage to those around her when the shards of her behavior hit. 8. Shaming – This is when a mother constantly makes her child feel guilty, confused, or humiliated for thinking, feeling, wanting, or needing something. Or it could be that the mother constantly criticizes and causes her child to feel bad for making choices different than she would make. Shaming seems to go even further than criticizing as it strips confidence when they may not be able to change what the mother is shaming. Children expect mothers to be protectors, not predators. 9. Mouthy – When a mother can’t stop voicing her opinions, advice, or criticisms, she is what is defined as a “mouthy” mother. She may be motivated by stubbornness, criticism, bossiness, envy, or a host of other traits, but she doesn’t know when to stop talking. Her words become hurtful and begin to feel like personal attacks. When family members have a mouthy mother, they spend less and less time with her. Daily life or family gatherings are a chore instead of a delight. Instead of creating joyful memories and influencing her children or spouse for Christ, the mouthy mother drives wedges between herself and those God has gifted to her. Did you see yourself in any of the descriptions? If not, wonderful! Why don’t you go an extra step and ask your family whether you fit any of the traits mentioned in the podcast. Sometimes we don’t recognize the problems we cause for those around us. If you do recognize yourself in any of the descriptions, your family might secretly think you’re a complainer. Talk to them. Let them know you want to work to erase those toxic traits and better honor Christ in your home. Ask God to restore relationships that have been damaged. Ask God to point out where to begin and ask Him to carry you through the process of transformation. Maybe you didn’t see yourself in any of the descriptions because you are purposely allowing the Holy Spirit to transform your mind, heart, and character moment by moment. Continue allowing God to carry you through the trials and triumphs of life. Continue allowing Him to examine the places in your heart that may have been hurt or neglected so you don’t hurt or neglect others. Just as we can look at certain trees and expect a particular fruit to bloom on the buds of the branches, others notice the fruits of the spirit within believers who submit to Christ and allow transformation of mind and heart. When a mother relies on her strength or places her desires and will above God’s purposes, she loses the gift God provides through the fruits of the Spirit. She also damages the relationships of those God entrusted to her circle of love and influence. Galatians 5:22-26 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other .” In order to influence your family for Christ, they must see Jesus alive in you. Matthew 22:37-39 says, “Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself .’” The Holy Spirit working within you to administer fruits of the Spirit guides your character , conduct , and communication . Let Him fill you with the godly love of Christ that seeks others above self. If you are seen as a complainer now, through His strength you will soon be recognized as one who unselfishly models the love of Christ. Dear Heavenly Father how blessed we are to have the gift of fellowship with You through the sacrifice of Jesus. Thank you for Your everlasting love, mercy, and grace. You have made a way where there was none before and given us instant access to You at any time. Help us use that privilege to submit to the Holy Spirit You deposited within us. Help us allow it to transform our character, conduct, and communication. May we be aware of the way we represent You and use that knowledge to humble our actions and reactions so that they mirror what You would do. Help us to be seen as godly and unselfish modelers of Jesus who place you first and the needs of others next. May we love others as You desire and allow You to fill the empty places inside of us that need a godly overhaul to erase those remnants of the old person we were before You brought us the gift of eternal life with You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. The first group of women is currently growing together. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information. In fact, when you email me, use the word: PREPARE in the heading and I’ll extend a special offer to you. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ together. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a few minutes and makes a huge difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #064 – Praying Scripture – Part 2 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Thank you for joining me for Part 2 of my “Praying Scripture” series. Last week we discussed the importance of prayer, then elevated our desire to pray and communicate with our Heavenly Father to higher ground by using God’s words as the foundation of our prayer life. Praying scripture strengthens our understanding of God’s word and releases His authoritative power into our life. Specifically seeking His word and utilizing it in our prayers is a faithful and trusting act of obedience as we rely on God’s powerful words and truths. To pray His word, we must know it, study it, and claim it. By purposely connecting our heart to God’s and intentionally praying His words, we are beseeching our Heavenly Father to use His will, just as Jesus modeled for us. As I shared last week, in order to deepen prayer time by drawing nearer to God and using His word as ours, we may need to examine and adjust the way we pray. We must pray with intimate devotion by crafting our language to align with scripture. By studying God’s word, we solidify knowledge and understanding of scripture. As I have been working to craft my prayers around scripture, I find God’s words filter through my mind more often. Usually when I go to bed at night or awaken in the morning, my thoughts are focused on the Lord, but now I have His words floating in my consciousness even when I awaken at night. God’s holy word carries privilege and strength as it shapes our heart and mind to mirror His. Even when we follow Jesus with a whole heart, we are incredibly far from where He desires us to be. Each of us struggles in some way with emotions, feelings, thoughts, fears, sadness, depression, lying, idols, mistakes, desires, conflicts, misunderstandings, attitudes, judging, failures, busyness, and the list just continues with no end. No one is perfect. Even when we feel we have successfully submitted ourselves to God to conquer some of what our particular weaknesses are, we are only scratching the surface. New trials or disappointments will come our way to awaken us to the realization that we have so much farther to go. Using God’s living, active word as the foundation for our prayers releases His profound power. Through using God’s word to frame our prayers, our faith deepens and stretches wider, allowing God more access to our heart, mind, and desires. A foundation of faith built on God’s holy word will never crumble. Today I am sharing several verses with prayers to accompany them. These are designed for you to use during your prayer time and are also a guideline for you to craft additional prayers from God’s word as you deepen your prayer time with Him in this manner. Let’s begin with basic prayers to prepare us to step before the presence of the Lord. First I will read the scripture, then a prayer designed around God’s word and truths. Matthew 7:7-8 says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.” Father God, your word assures me that if I ask, I will receive. If I seek, I will find. If I knock, the door will be opened. You lovingly command me more than once to ask, seek, and knock, just as you desire that I remain constant in my faith and prayer life. Thank you for your assurance that if I continue, I will receive, find, and have the door opened to me. I know that Your word is true. I trust that You will give me what You desire as I ask You to help me to pray for what You want for me. My heart yearns for You, Your influence, and provision in my life. Matthew 7:12 says, “In everything, then, do to others as you would have them do to you. For this is the essence of the Law and the Prophets.” Loving Heavenly Father, I thank you for Your love for me and for Your deep and impartial love for others. Help me to see them with Your eyes and heart and enable me to love others in ways that can only come from You. May I treat everyone You created with a godly love and the same actions I desire them to extend to me. Matthew 7:13-14 says, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the way that leads to life, and only a few find it.” Father, cause me to remain on the road within Your narrow gate. Keep me far from the path that leads to destruction. Enable me to focus on You, Your provisions, and peace that flows from You as I remain on the road that few will choose to travel. Carry me over difficult roads with joy as I focus on walking in eternity with You. Isaiah 50:4-5 says, “The Sovereign Lord has given me His words of wisdom, so that I know how to comfort the weary. Morning by morning He wakens me and opens my understanding to His will. The Sovereign Lord has spoken to me, and I have listened. I have not rebelled or turned away.” Sovereign Lord, I only desire to do Your will. You have deposited Your words of wisdom within me. Enable me to use them to know Your ways and comfort the weary. Each morning I am blessed to have You awaken me with deeper understanding of Your will. I do not wish to rebel, but to remain in Your will and ways. Create within me a desire for You above all else. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted over the earth.” Father, enable me to be still and know that You alone are God. You are exalted among the nations and over the earth, yet you keep your eye on me. Help my thoughts, desires, and actions to honor You. Psalm 42:1-2 says, “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul longs after You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, the living God. When shall I come and appear in God’s presence?” Gracious Lord, just as the deer waits to drink until it feels safe, You are my refuge. As the deer pants with a deep thirst for water, Lord, my spirit yearns for You in this dry land that offers no relief. Only You know my inner being and can completely satisfy the depth of my needs. My soul thirsts for You, My God. Allow me to humbly approach Your presence as I anticipate Your loving and caring hands. Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to Me, and I will answer and show you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Father God, how great You are that You beseech me to call upon You so that You can lavish Your loving care upon me. Your promises are certain. I know You desire my reliance and ask for me to trust in You. I call upon Your gracious heart to hear my cries and fulfill Your words to me. Thank you for desiring to be involved in my life. I need You. Show me great and unsearchable things I cannot know and have not seen as I seek Your mighty hand. How beautiful it is to enter God’s presence with His words crafting the desires of our heart to beat in unison with His. As we absorb the beauty of praying God’s words to Him, let’s examine a collection of verses that may be used for family. 1 Peter 5:8-9 says, “Be sober-minded and alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in your faith and in the knowledge that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering.” A prayer of protection from these verses could be: Father, cause me to remain alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Protect my family and I, Dear God, and enable us to resist the adversary as we stand firm in our faith and in the knowledge that all of your children are undergoing the same challenges and suffering. Carry us, Lord, and keep our eyes fixed on You as we rest in Your ability to embrace and encircle us with Your steadfast and powerful protection. Galatians 1:10 says, “Am I now seeking the approval of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Father, may the only approval I desire be Yours. When I try to please man, I am not focused on being Your servant. Help me remain steadfast to You and Your ways. 1 Peter 5:6 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, so that in due time He may exalt you.” Heavenly Father, I believe that humble submission is key to living for You. Help me to submit to Your mighty and sovereign hand, despite circumstances, and await the time You choose to exalt me. Matthew 22:37 says, “Jesus declared, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Lord, thank you for allowing Jesus to be the perfect example for us to follow. May His words be carved into my mind and heart so that I do not sin against You. Father, help me to love You with all my heart, soul, and mind. Enable me to see myself as You desire and to love others as I love myself, as You stir compassion, empathy, and godly love in me to extend to them so that You may be glorified. Deuteronomy 6:1-9 says, “These are the commandments and statutes and ordinances that the Lord your God has instructed me to teach you to follow in the land that you are about to enter and possess, so that you and your children and grandchildren may fear the Lord your God all the days of your lives by keeping all His statutes and commandments that I give you, and so that your days may be prolonged. Hear, O Israel, and be careful to observe them, so that you may prosper and multiply greatly in a land flowing with milk and honey, just as the Lord, the God of your fathers, has promised you. Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.” This passage of scripture is one of my favorites in the Bible. How lovingly God has left wise instruction for us to absorb that will allow us to raise children for Him. A prayer scripted from these words will humbly touch our heart as we passionately strive to live for God and set our children on the path to knowing, loving, and honoring Him. Heavenly Father, I accept the commandments, statutes, and ordinances that You have instructed those who love You to follow. Help my children, grandchildren, and I to fear You all the days of our lives. May we keep these laws because we love You and desire to honor You. Prolong our lives as we submit to Your desires. You, my God, You are One, high above all else. I love You Father, with all of my heart, soul, and strength, just as I desire that my children and grandchildren will. I pray that the words You have commanded us will be upon my heart and cause me to teach them diligently to my children, that I will speak of You, and of Your words when we sit at home or walk along the road, when we lie down, and when we get up. Please tie them as reminders on my hands and bind them to my forehead. Write them on the doorposts of my house and on my gates as I strive to love You with my thoughts, emotions, energy, and purpose and teach my descendants to do the same, for You are worthy of our undivided love and devotion. This passage of scripture speaks to me so deeply because I believe we should all live this way as easily as breathing. God created this world and is in and above and around all we see and experience. It should be easy for us to follow this command. As we seek God moment by moment, speaking of His existence in and through all, allowing our children and grandchildren to see the love and reverence we hold for our Heavenly Father, we are in effect writing Him on our doorposts and gates, and binding Him into their minds and hearts. When we allow God this access, we are truly living with eternal perspective. Gracious and loving Heavenly Father, thank you for Your word and the transforming effect it creates on our life. Your word is alive and powerful, sharper than a double-edged sword, dividing soul and spirit, joint and marrow. Through it, our innermost thoughts and desires are exposed so that true spiritual and eternal reconstruction can occur. Next week on the podcast we will finish this series with Part 3 as we delve into our final set of scripture and prayers. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If prayer is a topic you would like to learn more about, you may enjoy listening to episode 18, “Prayer.” Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit my website to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 064 - Praying Scripture - Part 2 Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #064 – Praying Scripture – Part 2 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Thank you for joining me for Part 2 of my “Praying Scripture” series. Last week we discussed the importance of prayer, then elevated our desire to pray and communicate with our Heavenly Father to higher ground by using God’s words as the foundation of our prayer life. Praying scripture strengthens our understanding of God’s word and releases His authoritative power into our life. Specifically seeking His word and utilizing it in our prayers is a faithful and trusting act of obedience as we rely on God’s powerful words and truths. To pray His word, we must know it, study it, and claim it. By purposely connecting our heart to God’s and intentionally praying His words, we are beseeching our Heavenly Father to use His will, just as Jesus modeled for us. As I shared last week, in order to deepen prayer time by drawing nearer to God and using His word as ours, we may need to examine and adjust the way we pray. We must pray with intimate devotion by crafting our language to align with scripture. By studying God’s word, we solidify knowledge and understanding of scripture. As I have been working to craft my prayers around scripture, I find God’s words filter through my mind more often. Usually when I go to bed at night or awaken in the morning, my thoughts are focused on the Lord, but now I have His words floating in my consciousness even when I awaken at night. God’s holy word carries privilege and strength as it shapes our heart and mind to mirror His. Even when we follow Jesus with a whole heart, we are incredibly far from where He desires us to be. Each of us struggles in some way with emotions, feelings, thoughts, fears, sadness, depression, lying, idols, mistakes, desires, conflicts, misunderstandings, attitudes, judging, failures, busyness, and the list just continues with no end. No one is perfect. Even when we feel we have successfully submitted ourselves to God to conquer some of what our particular weaknesses are, we are only scratching the surface. New trials or disappointments will come our way to awaken us to the realization that we have so much farther to go. Using God’s living, active word as the foundation for our prayers releases His profound power. Through using God’s word to frame our prayers, our faith deepens and stretches wider, allowing God more access to our heart, mind, and desires. A foundation of faith built on God’s holy word will never crumble. Today I am sharing several verses with prayers to accompany them. These are designed for you to use during your prayer time and are also a guideline for you to craft additional prayers from God’s word as you deepen your prayer time with Him in this manner. Let’s begin with basic prayers to prepare us to step before the presence of the Lord. First I will read the scripture, then a prayer designed around God’s word and truths. Matthew 7:7-8 says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.” Father God, your word assures me that if I ask, I will receive. If I seek, I will find. If I knock, the door will be opened. You lovingly command me more than once to ask, seek, and knock, just as you desire that I remain constant in my faith and prayer life. Thank you for your assurance that if I continue, I will receive, find, and have the door opened to me. I know that Your word is true. I trust that You will give me what You desire as I ask You to help me to pray for what You want for me. My heart yearns for You, Your influence, and provision in my life. Matthew 7:12 says, “In everything, then, do to others as you would have them do to you. For this is the essence of the Law and the Prophets.” Loving Heavenly Father, I thank you for Your love for me and for Your deep and impartial love for others. Help me to see them with Your eyes and heart and enable me to love others in ways that can only come from You. May I treat everyone You created with a godly love and the same actions I desire them to extend to me. Matthew 7:13-14 says, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the way that leads to life, and only a few find it.” Father, cause me to remain on the road within Your narrow gate. Keep me far from the path that leads to destruction. Enable me to focus on You, Your provisions, and peace that flows from You as I remain on the road that few will choose to travel. Carry me over difficult roads with joy as I focus on walking in eternity with You. Isaiah 50:4-5 says, “The Sovereign Lord has given me His words of wisdom, so that I know how to comfort the weary. Morning by morning He wakens me and opens my understanding to His will. The Sovereign Lord has spoken to me, and I have listened. I have not rebelled or turned away.” Sovereign Lord, I only desire to do Your will. You have deposited Your words of wisdom within me. Enable me to use them to know Your ways and comfort the weary. Each morning I am blessed to have You awaken me with deeper understanding of Your will. I do not wish to rebel, but to remain in Your will and ways. Create within me a desire for You above all else. Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted over the earth.” Father, enable me to be still and know that You alone are God. You are exalted among the nations and over the earth, yet you keep your eye on me. Help my thoughts, desires, and actions to honor You. Psalm 42:1-2 says, “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul longs after You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, the living God. When shall I come and appear in God’s presence?” Gracious Lord, just as the deer waits to drink until it feels safe, You are my refuge. As the deer pants with a deep thirst for water, Lord, my spirit yearns for You in this dry land that offers no relief. Only You know my inner being and can completely satisfy the depth of my needs. My soul thirsts for You, My God. Allow me to humbly approach Your presence as I anticipate Your loving and caring hands. Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to Me, and I will answer and show you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” Father God, how great You are that You beseech me to call upon You so that You can lavish Your loving care upon me. Your promises are certain. I know You desire my reliance and ask for me to trust in You. I call upon Your gracious heart to hear my cries and fulfill Your words to me. Thank you for desiring to be involved in my life. I need You. Show me great and unsearchable things I cannot know and have not seen as I seek Your mighty hand. How beautiful it is to enter God’s presence with His words crafting the desires of our heart to beat in unison with His. As we absorb the beauty of praying God’s words to Him, let’s examine a collection of verses that may be used for family. 1 Peter 5:8-9 says, “Be sober-minded and alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in your faith and in the knowledge that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering.” A prayer of protection from these verses could be: Father, cause me to remain alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Protect my family and I, Dear God, and enable us to resist the adversary as we stand firm in our faith and in the knowledge that all of your children are undergoing the same challenges and suffering. Carry us, Lord, and keep our eyes fixed on You as we rest in Your ability to embrace and encircle us with Your steadfast and powerful protection. Galatians 1:10 says, “Am I now seeking the approval of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Father, may the only approval I desire be Yours. When I try to please man, I am not focused on being Your servant. Help me remain steadfast to You and Your ways. 1 Peter 5:6 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, so that in due time He may exalt you.” Heavenly Father, I believe that humble submission is key to living for You. Help me to submit to Your mighty and sovereign hand, despite circumstances, and await the time You choose to exalt me. Matthew 22:37 says, “Jesus declared, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Lord, thank you for allowing Jesus to be the perfect example for us to follow. May His words be carved into my mind and heart so that I do not sin against You. Father, help me to love You with all my heart, soul, and mind. Enable me to see myself as You desire and to love others as I love myself, as You stir compassion, empathy, and godly love in me to extend to them so that You may be glorified. Deuteronomy 6:1-9 says, “These are the commandments and statutes and ordinances that the Lord your God has instructed me to teach you to follow in the land that you are about to enter and possess, so that you and your children and grandchildren may fear the Lord your God all the days of your lives by keeping all His statutes and commandments that I give you, and so that your days may be prolonged. Hear, O Israel, and be careful to observe them, so that you may prosper and multiply greatly in a land flowing with milk and honey, just as the Lord, the God of your fathers, has promised you. Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.” This passage of scripture is one of my favorites in the Bible. How lovingly God has left wise instruction for us to absorb that will allow us to raise children for Him. A prayer scripted from these words will humbly touch our heart as we passionately strive to live for God and set our children on the path to knowing, loving, and honoring Him. Heavenly Father, I accept the commandments, statutes, and ordinances that You have instructed those who love You to follow. Help my children, grandchildren, and I to fear You all the days of our lives. May we keep these laws because we love You and desire to honor You. Prolong our lives as we submit to Your desires. You, my God, You are One, high above all else. I love You Father, with all of my heart, soul, and strength, just as I desire that my children and grandchildren will. I pray that the words You have commanded us will be upon my heart and cause me to teach them diligently to my children, that I will speak of You, and of Your words when we sit at home or walk along the road, when we lie down, and when we get up. Please tie them as reminders on my hands and bind them to my forehead. Write them on the doorposts of my house and on my gates as I strive to love You with my thoughts, emotions, energy, and purpose and teach my descendants to do the same, for You are worthy of our undivided love and devotion. This passage of scripture speaks to me so deeply because I believe we should all live this way as easily as breathing. God created this world and is in and above and around all we see and experience. It should be easy for us to follow this command. As we seek God moment by moment, speaking of His existence in and through all, allowing our children and grandchildren to see the love and reverence we hold for our Heavenly Father, we are in effect writing Him on our doorposts and gates, and binding Him into their minds and hearts. When we allow God this access, we are truly living with eternal perspective. Gracious and loving Heavenly Father, thank you for Your word and the transforming effect it creates on our life. Your word is alive and powerful, sharper than a double-edged sword, dividing soul and spirit, joint and marrow. Through it, our innermost thoughts and desires are exposed so that true spiritual and eternal reconstruction can occur. Next week on the podcast we will finish this series with Part 3 as we delve into our final set of scripture and prayers. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If prayer is a topic you would like to learn more about, you may enjoy listening to episode 18, “Prayer.” Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I’m thrilled to share that my latest free resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” has released! This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I encourage you to visit my website to access and download it soon. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #137 – Renewing Inwardly through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last December, my youngest underwent an oral surgery she was forced to wait a year to receive. Watching me advocate to ensure sure she got the best care as quickly as the surgeons and hospital could coordinate it, combined with her history of multiple surgeries and procedures, made her begin dwelling on survival and mortality. We shared many conversations, some with tears, all with prayers, and a few with mixed responses. Lately, as she has released most of her concerns, my responses have been lighter. Just as life is a journey that requires each individual to change and grow, our discussions have been impacted by the spiritual, mental, and emotional concerns caused for her because of the multiple delays in scheduling and performing this procedure. This afternoon, I was finishing lunch at the dining room table. Brooklyn had already eaten, and she went to the opposite side of the table where I couldn’t quite see what she was doing. Suddenly, I heard an odd sound something like, “oof” and then complete silence. “Are you okay,” I asked. A sigh. “Yes.” “Are you sure? What are you doing?” “I’m laying on the floor thinking about getting older.” “I love getting older,” I said. “What?!” “Yes. I love how much closer I am to God and how much more I have learned about Him.” “But I don’t want to get older. I don’t want things to change.” “It’s hard when things change,” I agreed. After waiting a bit, I added, “but it’s also hard when things stay the same. I want to keep growing and learning. I can’t do that if I stay the same age.” “I want to be two years younger than I am right now and have you be 47,” she remarked. I’ve heard these ages many times. She has a thing about the age of 47, which is 15 years younger than I am. “Oh, 47? I don’t think I want to go back to that age.” “But you’d be so much younger,” she replied. Because we’ve talked about this before, I knew she felt that if I was younger she would have me around longer, I said, “I don’t really think about age. I don’t want to worry about what might happen as I get older because I’d miss all the wonderful blessings happening now. I like what I’ve learned and where I am now. I’m so glad to be this mommy for you. Each day gives me the chance to be a new person inside.” This truth pertains to us and our children or grandchildren. As we absorb and process what we think and feel, the time then arrives to do and believe what Scripture and God’s truths say. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.” God’s Word offers such beautiful truth about aging. Just as God is concerned about the person inside as He looks directly into our heart and mind, we must be concerned with who we are becoming and focus on the work the Holy Spirit is doing within. We don’t want to miss participating in the work being completed within us. As my youngest daughter matures and works through concerns she carries based off of past experiences, traumas, and losses, I want my sweet daughter to know that God sees everything. He knows her past. He knows her future. He is ready to grow and change not only her, but the loved ones around her, to ensure she becomes the person He has purposed for the special work she was created for. Life is more than staying in one spot of happiness. We have to trust that God has more than one blessing in store for us. As the Holy Spirit completes the work of Christ within us daily, we will be renewed by His strength and desires as the influence of this world fades dimmer and dimmer. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Believers must allow God to renew our mind, revive our spirit, and release His mindset. Ephesians 3:14-21 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” When believers receive a new identity through Christ, we are awakened spiritually and welcomed into the family of God. Through humble submission, adoration, focused dedication to God, and assurance through His holy Word, we live with assurance of a renewed spirit within. Although our fleshly bodies waste away, (just as my daughter doesn’t want to happen to her mommy), our inner core, the renewed Christian, should be strengthening through the work of the Holy Spirit inside. As we are drawn toward deeper faith, understanding, discernment, and obedience where we knew no lasting comfort or wisdom before, we are now infused by supernatural cleansing and drawn to the foundational truths and fruits of Christ. 2 Corinthians 3:4-6 says, “Such confidence we have through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” Christians should respect the law, but choose to follow the Holy Spirit deposited within them by Christ. The law enlightens us to truth and sin, but because of our personal relationship with Christ, the Holy Spirit is intimately working within each person to renew and refresh believers moment by moment as we humbly trust and submit to Christ. We must purpose to allow our inward character to renew daily as we seek Christlike characteristics and desires only accessible to us when we have submitted to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” What a beautiful truth about aging God’s way. Believers should be able to discern a difference in the character of Christ exhibited through them from day to day. What differences do you see in your life that make you different than you were yesterday? Are these changes worldly or godly? Are you drawing nearer to Him? Do you know/trust that God is drawing nearer to you? Let’s discuss what believers can do to ensure we continue to renew inwardly: 1. Study the Word – ponder it. I hesitate to say meditate on it because the term has become twisted with New Age ideologies. What God desires is not that we empty our mind, but that we renew it with His Word, instructions, and mindset. As we ponder His teachings and commands and adhere to His mindset, we become more Christlike in thoughts, actions, responses, and words. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” 2. Strive to live God’s Word. As we study the Word, as we allow the Holy Spirit to guide us in God’s truths, our mindset become more eternally focused and yearns to uphold a lifestyle like that Christ mentored. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Deuteronomy 11:18-23 says, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth. If you carefully observe all these commands I am giving you to follow—to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him and to hold fast to Him— then the Lord will drive out all these nations before you, and you will dispossess nations larger and stronger than you.” 3. Safeguard your mind. Now more than any other generation, we have so much to distract and discourage us from seeking God. We’ve made this world and our activities our god. We must become and remain diligent to remember to think on the things God instructs and the Holy Spirit prompts. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says, “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 4. Seek God through prayerful and scriptural conversation. God is always present. Available non-stop, He stands ready to hear from us. When we seek God with a genuine heart, no matter what we have to say, He responds, but we delight His heart when we study His Word and speak it to Him. Praying Scriptural prayers to God holds such promise and power. Speaking the words of the Bible enable us to know and use God’s Word, becoming more Christlike in thoughts, words, and deeds. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “pray continually.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Matthew 6:6-8 says, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” 5. Summon Scripture – Memorize the Word. In order to pray His Word, we must learn it. Whether you make a concentrated effort to memorize God’s Word (a wonderful use of time) or read the Word so often that you know God’s Word, we absolutely must know God through the Scripture He sent for us. God could have written a book about anything. Instead, He lovingly sent us all we need to know about Him and how to live in this world. If you think there isn’t an answer to be found in Scripture, study harder. Through His Word, we absolutely know the character of God, can identify sin, and we see the way He desires us to live. Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Psalm 119:16 says, “I delight in Your decrees; I will not neglect Your word.” Matthew 4:4 says, “Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Study God’s Word, live His Word, safeguard your mind, converse with God through prayer, and know and use Scripture daily. These are solid, biblical ways to continue renewing inwardly day by day. Without the saving grace of Jesus, believers would never be free of sin or the consequences of separation. Now living with the Holy Spirit alive within, believers can begin to comprehend the agape love that lives outside the reach of our finite heart and mind. Vast and complete, God’s love is a mystery only He can unravel to those who are committed to submitting to a life of devotion to Him. Believers submitted to Christ live with assurance that we will continue to grow and mature in relationship with God. Inside, we are renewing, growing into a Christlike maturity as we keep our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on Him and trust the truths and promises of God. Looking beyond afflictions of this world toward the invisible future promised by God, those of us committed to Christ cast aside the temporary pain or trouble in this world. Through faith, we focus on what is to come. Dear Heavenly Father, our great, glorious God, we thank you for the Holy Spirit alive inside believers. What a beautiful deposit You purposely left with those who trust in Christ. Help us to see life more clearly each moment through Your eyes, mind, and heart. The acts of the flesh should obvious to us, yet even Christians live with sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, selfishness, envy, drunkenness, and more that goes against all You desire for us. Help us to carry the opposite – Your fruits of The Spirit. Your Word promises that those who belong to Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Enable us to desire You more deeply, to live by the Spirit, and to walk in step with the Spirit. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this episode, as well as other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Was the content of this podcast helpful to you? If so, while you’re on the website, you can choose to leave your email address. This enables you to receive monthly encouragement and resources to help you in your journey with Christ. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? 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Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 137 - Renewing Inwardly Through Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #137 – Renewing Inwardly through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last December, my youngest underwent an oral surgery she was forced to wait a year to receive. Watching me advocate to ensure sure she got the best care as quickly as the surgeons and hospital could coordinate it, combined with her history of multiple surgeries and procedures, made her begin dwelling on survival and mortality. We shared many conversations, some with tears, all with prayers, and a few with mixed responses. Lately, as she has released most of her concerns, my responses have been lighter. Just as life is a journey that requires each individual to change and grow, our discussions have been impacted by the spiritual, mental, and emotional concerns caused for her because of the multiple delays in scheduling and performing this procedure. This afternoon, I was finishing lunch at the dining room table. Brooklyn had already eaten, and she went to the opposite side of the table where I couldn’t quite see what she was doing. Suddenly, I heard an odd sound something like, “oof” and then complete silence. “Are you okay,” I asked. A sigh. “Yes.” “Are you sure? What are you doing?” “I’m laying on the floor thinking about getting older.” “I love getting older,” I said. “What?!” “Yes. I love how much closer I am to God and how much more I have learned about Him.” “But I don’t want to get older. I don’t want things to change.” “It’s hard when things change,” I agreed. After waiting a bit, I added, “but it’s also hard when things stay the same. I want to keep growing and learning. I can’t do that if I stay the same age.” “I want to be two years younger than I am right now and have you be 47,” she remarked. I’ve heard these ages many times. She has a thing about the age of 47, which is 15 years younger than I am. “Oh, 47? I don’t think I want to go back to that age.” “But you’d be so much younger,” she replied. Because we’ve talked about this before, I knew she felt that if I was younger she would have me around longer, I said, “I don’t really think about age. I don’t want to worry about what might happen as I get older because I’d miss all the wonderful blessings happening now. I like what I’ve learned and where I am now. I’m so glad to be this mommy for you. Each day gives me the chance to be a new person inside.” This truth pertains to us and our children or grandchildren. As we absorb and process what we think and feel, the time then arrives to do and believe what Scripture and God’s truths say. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.” God’s Word offers such beautiful truth about aging. Just as God is concerned about the person inside as He looks directly into our heart and mind, we must be concerned with who we are becoming and focus on the work the Holy Spirit is doing within. We don’t want to miss participating in the work being completed within us. As my youngest daughter matures and works through concerns she carries based off of past experiences, traumas, and losses, I want my sweet daughter to know that God sees everything. He knows her past. He knows her future. He is ready to grow and change not only her, but the loved ones around her, to ensure she becomes the person He has purposed for the special work she was created for. Life is more than staying in one spot of happiness. We have to trust that God has more than one blessing in store for us. As the Holy Spirit completes the work of Christ within us daily, we will be renewed by His strength and desires as the influence of this world fades dimmer and dimmer. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Believers must allow God to renew our mind, revive our spirit, and release His mindset. Ephesians 3:14-21 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” When believers receive a new identity through Christ, we are awakened spiritually and welcomed into the family of God. Through humble submission, adoration, focused dedication to God, and assurance through His holy Word, we live with assurance of a renewed spirit within. Although our fleshly bodies waste away, (just as my daughter doesn’t want to happen to her mommy), our inner core, the renewed Christian, should be strengthening through the work of the Holy Spirit inside. As we are drawn toward deeper faith, understanding, discernment, and obedience where we knew no lasting comfort or wisdom before, we are now infused by supernatural cleansing and drawn to the foundational truths and fruits of Christ. 2 Corinthians 3:4-6 says, “Such confidence we have through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” Christians should respect the law, but choose to follow the Holy Spirit deposited within them by Christ. The law enlightens us to truth and sin, but because of our personal relationship with Christ, the Holy Spirit is intimately working within each person to renew and refresh believers moment by moment as we humbly trust and submit to Christ. We must purpose to allow our inward character to renew daily as we seek Christlike characteristics and desires only accessible to us when we have submitted to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” What a beautiful truth about aging God’s way. Believers should be able to discern a difference in the character of Christ exhibited through them from day to day. What differences do you see in your life that make you different than you were yesterday? Are these changes worldly or godly? Are you drawing nearer to Him? Do you know/trust that God is drawing nearer to you? Let’s discuss what believers can do to ensure we continue to renew inwardly: 1. Study the Word – ponder it. I hesitate to say meditate on it because the term has become twisted with New Age ideologies. What God desires is not that we empty our mind, but that we renew it with His Word, instructions, and mindset. As we ponder His teachings and commands and adhere to His mindset, we become more Christlike in thoughts, actions, responses, and words. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” 2. Strive to live God’s Word. As we study the Word, as we allow the Holy Spirit to guide us in God’s truths, our mindset become more eternally focused and yearns to uphold a lifestyle like that Christ mentored. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Deuteronomy 11:18-23 says, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth. If you carefully observe all these commands I am giving you to follow—to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him and to hold fast to Him— then the Lord will drive out all these nations before you, and you will dispossess nations larger and stronger than you.” 3. Safeguard your mind. Now more than any other generation, we have so much to distract and discourage us from seeking God. We’ve made this world and our activities our god. We must become and remain diligent to remember to think on the things God instructs and the Holy Spirit prompts. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says, “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 4. Seek God through prayerful and scriptural conversation. God is always present. Available non-stop, He stands ready to hear from us. When we seek God with a genuine heart, no matter what we have to say, He responds, but we delight His heart when we study His Word and speak it to Him. Praying Scriptural prayers to God holds such promise and power. Speaking the words of the Bible enable us to know and use God’s Word, becoming more Christlike in thoughts, words, and deeds. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “pray continually.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Matthew 6:6-8 says, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” 5. Summon Scripture – Memorize the Word. In order to pray His Word, we must learn it. Whether you make a concentrated effort to memorize God’s Word (a wonderful use of time) or read the Word so often that you know God’s Word, we absolutely must know God through the Scripture He sent for us. God could have written a book about anything. Instead, He lovingly sent us all we need to know about Him and how to live in this world. If you think there isn’t an answer to be found in Scripture, study harder. Through His Word, we absolutely know the character of God, can identify sin, and we see the way He desires us to live. Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Psalm 119:16 says, “I delight in Your decrees; I will not neglect Your word.” Matthew 4:4 says, “Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Study God’s Word, live His Word, safeguard your mind, converse with God through prayer, and know and use Scripture daily. These are solid, biblical ways to continue renewing inwardly day by day. Without the saving grace of Jesus, believers would never be free of sin or the consequences of separation. Now living with the Holy Spirit alive within, believers can begin to comprehend the agape love that lives outside the reach of our finite heart and mind. Vast and complete, God’s love is a mystery only He can unravel to those who are committed to submitting to a life of devotion to Him. Believers submitted to Christ live with assurance that we will continue to grow and mature in relationship with God. Inside, we are renewing, growing into a Christlike maturity as we keep our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on Him and trust the truths and promises of God. Looking beyond afflictions of this world toward the invisible future promised by God, those of us committed to Christ cast aside the temporary pain or trouble in this world. Through faith, we focus on what is to come. Dear Heavenly Father, our great, glorious God, we thank you for the Holy Spirit alive inside believers. What a beautiful deposit You purposely left with those who trust in Christ. Help us to see life more clearly each moment through Your eyes, mind, and heart. The acts of the flesh should obvious to us, yet even Christians live with sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, selfishness, envy, drunkenness, and more that goes against all You desire for us. Help us to carry the opposite – Your fruits of The Spirit. Your Word promises that those who belong to Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Enable us to desire You more deeply, to live by the Spirit, and to walk in step with the Spirit. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this episode, as well as other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Was the content of this podcast helpful to you? If so, while you’re on the website, you can choose to leave your email address. This enables you to receive monthly encouragement and resources to help you in your journey with Christ. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 020 - Teach Your Children Not to Follow Their Heart Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #020 –Teach Your Children Not to Follow Their Heart Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Listen to your heart. You’ve probably lost count of the number of songs that have used this line. How many times have you been given this advice? Or maybe you’ve even given it to given it to your child without thinking? Human nature tells us to seek the emotions and thoughts stored inside to lead us. But Galatians 5:17 warns, “For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want .” I have a personal story that illustrates these thoughts. When I was a child, we moved a lot. In fact, I lived in 8-10 homes by the time I was 12. One of the first things I would do when we settled into our new place was go get a library card. Books were one of the biggest joys of my childhood, as well as the blank spiral notebooks I would use as journals. Every day of my childhood was spent doing some form of reading or writing. Whether it was poetry, short stories, or simply journaling moments, writing helped me process and understand events. Words have always held life for me. They can also hold death. If we aren’t careful, the words we speak or write can become what breaks or makes the confidence, accomplishment, faith, or eternity of another person. Now that I’m older and my walk with Christ is deeper, I understand the necessity of prayerful reliance on God’s direction and timing. Something just as – or more - important as the tongue is our heart. Or I should say the condition of our heart. Words we speak or write to influence do so in ways we may never know. This world constantly fills our mind with the message that we should follow our heart. We should do what feels right or feels good. If I followed my heart, I would probably still be trying to make it as a mainstream fiction writer. By my early forties, I had written a few novels, and dreamed of one day having them accepted and published. Of course, Oprah would have me on her show and my book would be chosen as the book of the month for her popular book club. I wrote what I wanted, although I had no experience or track-record, so no one was interested in even letting me submit sample chapters. Next I wrote what everyone told me would get published. Every moment I lived and invested by working on that romance book I disliked writing affected the words and storyline I wrote and I know it was quite obvious; I didn’t believe the characters or plot. Neither did the agents who allowed me to submit it for consideration. When I began my next novel, a mainstream romantic thriller, it was obvious by my writing history that I had nothing to guide me clearly. Finally, I began the book heavy on my heart. I was working on a Christian mainstream novel and was far into the characterization, plot, and details. I even drew a map of the city I saw in my head so that I could keep storylines consistent. I found characters that resembled the people I saw in my head and cut them out of magazines and kept them on my desk as encouragement to fuel their storylines. A long index box full of the multiple chapters and storylines, as well as every detail I’d need about the individual characters sat on my desk for reference when needed. I knew their fears, successes, body types, birthdays, memories, and motivations. I was probably about one-third of the way through the first draft (plus had all of my plotting and characterization detailing finished) when I clearly knew God was calling me to put the book away. Unfinished. He didn’t want excuses or bargains. He wanted obedience. Immediate obedience. I was sad to let it all go, but I did. Yet, as I released the dreams and promises of the people who existed not only in my head, but lived in my heart as well, I felt the peace of obedience. Do you know what God had for me instead? After that book was put away, my Heavenly Father showed me a different path for my future. One I previously knew nothing about. In a nutshell, He made it clear that my husband and I had a daughter in China. The Lord didn’t want me focusing attention on crafting a book; His plan called for me to disciple a life. My future was at a cross-roads. I could leave the life my heart told me I wanted or trust what God offered. Writing fiction was not the narration of my story, no matter what my heart felt. It wasn’t until a few years later that I began occasionally blogging sweet and encouraging life stories that mostly had to do with my daughter who was about four years old by that time. Then many years passed before I knew God called me to begin crafting the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast and I began posting and blogging about it. I’m sharing this story because it is so easy for each of us to think we know what we want or we are supposed to do. We think our heart is directing us in one direction. Or sometimes we are led by parents who see something in us, just as you probably see the gifts, interests, and talents your child carries. What is important, however, is waiting on the direction and discernment of our Lord. God crafted such intimate and purposed details into every human on this earth. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” If we are not purposed in following God’s direction, we easily distract our children and forfeit the best God has for them. Even when we see that our child has an obvious talent in some area, we must seek direction from God. How does He desire us to guide our child? Don’t be the one who guides your children down a path that is far from what He desires for them. Who knows the mind or plans of God without careful prayer, discernment, and direction from Him? Reliance on following our heart not only keeps us (and our children) from God’s best, but it can also lead to dangerous situations or decisions we later deeply regret. God knows our heart is untrustworthy. In fact, He warned us in Jeremiah 17:9 , which says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” This world pushes for us (and our children) to follow self . So many speak of self-care and listening to what our heart tells us. All that does is increase the selfishness already existing inside. 1 John 3:20 says, “If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and He knows everything .” The hardest obstacle to ignore is the language and guidance of this world. Advertisements, books, magazines, movies, television shows, friends, family, teachers, and even strangers love to tell our children to follow their heart. Do what feels right at that time. Our human hearts are fickle and without understanding or discernment from God, our thoughts and feelings are based on what we have experienced in a fallen world. How can this be a moral or godly guideline? Is this what you want for your child to follow or rely on? Luke 6:45 says, “A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” Only through Christ may we acquire a heart that is willing to surrender to God’s purposes. How do we teach our children not to follow their heart? Through the Lords’ strength and Scriptures, we must teach our children 3 important truths. 1. They must seek God’s heart . Deuteronomy 30:6 says, “The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love Him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live.” 2. They must guard their heart . Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” 3. They must purify their heart . 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Only Jesus can shepherd our children away from the futility of following a haughty heart. It is only through the Lord’s strength that we can rely on His wisdom and direction instead of reverting to self and feelings or emotions and carry the ability to teach our children to rely on Christ. If our children follow what they believed their heart said to do, they would carry no values. Three would be no moral compass, no right or wrong by which to discern actions. Selfishness, heartbreak, embarrassment, and regret will cause division from friends, family, and faith. Our children’s’ hearts were crafted by God to desire Him, to be led and directed by Him. As their parent, we are hand-chosen by God to be the one to disciple and direct them to Him. It is our responsibility and privilege to be the one to guide them to His feet and His heart. 2 Thessalonian 3:5 says, “May the Lord lead your hearts into a full understanding and expression of the love of God and the patient endurance that comes from Christ.” As the one in charge of shepherding the hearts of our child to Jesus, we must realize what following heart really means. The words are actually a sentiment with no real substance. The phrase, “follow your heart” is a fluffy, sweet filling that taste good when we swallow it, but causes pain when we live with the consequences of ingesting worldly advice . Dear Heavenly Father, You reign over the heavens and the earth. How great You are. Thank you for Your lovingkindness and grace toward us and the children you have entrusted to us. There is none like You. Help us to follow Your decrees willingly and joyfully. Help us to carefully keep Your laws and never mentor following the human heart. Instead, may our children see us draw near to You, our God, with sincere hearts and with assurance that only faith can bring, teaching that Your will and ways, Your commands and promises offer so much more than we can imagine. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This and my “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 094 - How My Dog Inspires Godly Parenting Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 094 – How My Dog Inspires Godly Parenting Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother. Job 12:7-10 says, “But ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you; or speak to the earth, and it will teach you, or let the fish in the sea inform you. Which of all these does not know that the hand of the Lord has done this? In His hand is the life of every creature and the breath of all mankind .” I remember several months ago when our Golden Retriever had surgery. Afterwards he wasn’t allowed to jump, run, or be very active for about 10 days. Of course, he didn’t understand why he was suddenly restricted from doing everything he loves to do. He didn’t know why his routine was disrupted. In fact, besides losing privileges he was accustomed to, he was forced to wear a humiliating pajama-style striped bodysuit that kept him from licking or scratching in the surgical area. Since my dog can tend to act more like a cat, (he loves to jump up to the highest positions he can lay in), some of his favorite places were blocked off with bean bags and chairs as he recovered from surgery. One day I watched him eyeing one of his usual lounging areas. I could see displeasure reflected in his eyes when he couldn’t get to it. Resigned, he walked over to a small bean bag on the floor and curled himself into a tight ball to fit. His reactions remind me how children sometimes react. They, like us, tend to take much for granted, assuming they have the right to continue the same patterns, habits, and expectations whenever they desire. If something changes or they feel it’s been taken away, they don't understand. They might get angry, frustrated, disappointed, or stressed. However, although my dog was disappointed, he resigned himself to finding another spot. Even though he didn't understand why I wasn't letting him continue routine events, he didn't cry or fuss. He simply found another solution to what bothered him, still trusting that he would be loved and cared for. If only our children could react the same way. What if they got up each morning looking for the blessings that day would bring. But are they being taught to live with that perspective? Are we modeling godly resilience? Unlike animals, our children are capable of reasoning at a high level. Each parent must discern whether they are teaching their children to reason with a godly, eternal perspective or a mindset that society touts as good, but falls short of the expectations of God. Living with eyes, mind, and heart focused above is accomplished through a consistent, humble lifestyle that must be modeled to our children. Viewing the simplicity of expectations through the eyes of an animal that God allows us to care for is a reminder of how much excess humans have – of how much we assume and expect. How easily we can get caught up in worldly views and desires that are in turn handed down to our children. If you want your children to have the ability to view life through an eternal lens that pleases God, you must embrace life in a way that appreciates the losses as much as you grab the gifts. Losses often stretch you beyond what you imagine you can endure, allowing you the opportunity to reach a new level of intimacy with God...if you allow yourself to focus on Him instead of selfish desires. Are you modeling that faithfulness for your children to accept and emulate? As disappointments, failures, mistakes, regrets, or hardships tug at your confidence or emotions, don’t allow them to affect your relationship with Christ. Just as important, don’t allow your disappointments to sway your child away from God or toward a habit of complaining. Instead, let trials and triumphs draw you and your children nearer to God. Seek God despite circumstances so that you can allow His transformation to flow through you, no matter what happens to you. As much as we love answers, as much as we want pain or hardship to cease, we must learn to follow Him and allow His work to penetrate where we need it. We must allow God access to our heart and the heart of our children - instead of allowing them to fuss about trials. Instead of trying to erase pain and make every road smooth. Earlier I shared a story about my Golden Retriever. Recently he spotted one section of fencing surrounding our backyard garden was bent over. Because he has seen us inside the garden area, he decided it was only right that he be allowed inside that fence, too. He jumped inside, and as he made his way through rows of vegetables, he kept coming up against all the other sections of fence, which were standing upright. Although when he’s in the house he loves to jump onto the backs of furniture, he couldn’t figure out that he’s big enough to scale the growing produce or short chicken wire fence protecting our garden from rodents. Even though he easily entered the garden, my dog couldn’t solve the issue of getting back out. Because he’s such a Velcro-dog, when he realized none of us were in the garden with him, he decided it wasn’t as fun as he hoped. His only desire was to find a way out to be with us. It actually left him unable to think clearly as he only focused on us, instead of thinking about clearing the obstacles around him. Watching him made me ponder how often humans easily get ourselves into situations we don’t know how to escape. I imagined my dog as a child who thought he knew best until it was too late. Without our help he thought he was trapped. What situations do we allow ourselves to enter without a plan? How are we teaching our children to make wise choices that reflect God’s values and teachings? Are we teaching them to rely on Him when confusion or trouble strike? Or do they wander around confused and disoriented? Even when I called to my dog and showed him the area of fencing that was still laying down, he remained a little scared about jumping back over it. How often does God show us the way, but we remain paralyzed with fear because it’s not what we expected or we haven’t experienced it before. Instead of simply trusting me and jumping the way I instructed, it took time to coax my dog to take the correct route of the mess he got himself into. I’m thankful God allows humans to care for animals, to love them and learn with them. I’m even more thankful for the children He entrusted to me – His precious children that He allows me to instruct and lead to Him. As you think over your life, look for ways you can change your desires and reactions so that your children receive a godly example of how to live for Christ. Show them how to react when under stress, when plans change and life seems unsure, and when they don’t receive what they expect. Every act you do for Christ equips your child to construct an earlier, deeper walk with Jesus that will last into eternity. Dear Heavenly Father, Your Word tells us that the heavens declare Your glory and the skies proclaim the work of Your hands. You teach us that day after day You pour forth speech; night after night You reveal knowledge. Help us to see Your glory revealed through creation. Help us to recognize the beauty and majesty of Your hands. Help us to learn the lessons You sometimes present so simply if we only open our eyes and heart. Help us to study Your Word so we know and recognize You in all the beautiful ways You reveal Yourself to us with a holy and unsurpassed love. Equip us to parent our children with Your love and grace in ways that impact them for an eternity with You. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a no obligation, strategic 15 minute call to chat about your needs to see if the program is a right fit for you. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. Because you’re a podcast listener, let me know if you’re ready to invest in the future of your children. If you tell me you heard about the special price I offer on this podcast, I will give you a big discount because I want you to experience results. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Also, if you appreciated this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a few minutes and makes a big difference in whether people are able to find the podcast. Also, you and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so please choose a friend to recommend the show to. Imagine the changes we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 076 - Do You Make it Difficult for God to Give You His Best? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 076 – Do You Make it Difficult for God to Give You His Best? When I was young I kept several journals. Sometimes they were fancy, some were just a spiral notebook, but from the earliest recollections of my childhood, I always had something to write in. Whether it was fiction, poetry, or simply my thoughts, placing words on paper cleared my mind and enabled me to survive challenging times. Although my parents loved me and did the best they knew how to do, our home life was sometimes difficult. Placing my deepest thoughts on paper and allowing creativity to flow allowed me a type of escape and release I wasn’t able to find elsewhere. God obviously created me with a love for words and books. After I got married at 17, my husband became my biggest supporter. His encouragement to follow my dreams was consistent. I remember the Christmas he presented me with my first laptop. The joy in his eyes when I opened that gift still touches me so deeply it brings tears. During my twenties and thirties I wrote several novels, and would have continued to polish, perfect, and submit each one to agents and editors. What stopped me? I knew in my spirit that God was telling me it wasn’t His plan. In my late thirties, God made it clear to me that this was not the path He wanted me to walk. I was shocked. Writing felt like the air I breathed. The thought of stopping felt like a death in a deep place of my soul. But I couldn’t ignore that I knew I was hearing Him clearly. To continue to pursue a writing career would be direct disobedience to God. So what did I do? I packed away every manuscript. Even the one I was enjoying writing more than any of the others. It was a Christian fiction novel that was growing my faith as I wrote it, but I couldn’t deny that obedience to what God was calling would deepen my faith even more than putting words on paper. As God directed me to stop writing altogether, I realized He was calling me to sacrifice what I had unknowingly placed higher than Him. I never really felt like I loved writing more than Him, but in hindsight, I can see that the way writing filled my spirit could be considered a form of idolization. My new life without writing began to shape me in higher ways for Him as I allowed God to fill me and give me release. Instead of stealing the air I breathed when I quit writing, I began to inhale and exhale God with greater depth of faith, trust, and obedience. Many years later, God whispered to me that it was good for me to write again. At first, I resisted, knowing that He had previously directed me not to write. But that still, small voice was persistent. The difference was that now God filled me with different writing desires. I no longer yearned to publish fictional stories, whether Christian or mainstream. My writing became about the ways God had carried me through loss, through trials, and into obedience. My stories were crafted from a heart full of love and awe for Jesus and the way He had changed my life and family. My stories were gifts of praise and hope for others to build a foundation of truth and salvation through Christ. My writing was all for Him. Just last week, I thought about my writing journey. I had been reminded of how God transforms each of us who trust in Jesus. How? By watching the actions of our two year old Golden Retriever, Beau. On this particular day, I was washing Beau's “Chewys,” which are a rubberized toy with a carved out center to hold food of whatever sort you want to fill it with. Then the “Chewy” is placed in the freezer so the item freezes and your dog gets to enjoy licking the iced treat. Since our dog tends to get bored through the day and sometimes begins licking himself out of that boredom, we purchased the “Chewys” with the hope that they would be a distraction to lessen the habit. As I was preparing to put treats in Beau’s “Chewys” and freeze them for him to enjoy later, he watched me, highly concerned because I had his toys. My dog circled the kitchen, panted, and tried to see what I was doing. He peered over the countertop with upleveled anxiety as watched me place a few pieces of his food in the center of the toy. He whined and paced again, then returned to sit next to me with concern stretched across his usually joyful golden expression. Do you ever get anxious or worried when you can’t get something? When something you want badly is just out of your reach? Beau’s behavior made me think about what we must look like to God sometimes. How must our Heavenly Father feel when He knows He’s preparing a beautiful tailor-made gift for us, but we refuse to wait in peace and trust. Instead we try to make what we want happen and of course, always in the timing we desire. Have you ever wondered how much you might miss out on just because you’re so concerned with getting something you think is best? Have you ever desired something so deeply because of the way it made you feel ? Can you think of a time that happened to you? Mine would be my writing. I never asked God whether I was supposed to write. I just knew the desire was in me. How could it be wrong if the desire seemed to be part of the very core of me? Giving up writing was painful. If I hadn’t clearly heard God tell me to stop, I certainly wouldn’t have. Now, on the other side of that process, God lovingly allowed me to write again, but changed my reasons for doing it. He changed my heart and thought process. I see how false my sense of peace was years ago when I strived to write those novels that would propel me into a multi-city book tour. When I wrote simply because I loved creating characters and plots, I didn’t experience the same peace-filled joy that I have now when writing for God. What I do now isn’t to impress or gain accolades, but simply to live in obedience and to show what the Lord has done for me, what He continues to do, and what He is doing for others. He’s given me a calling to help younger mothers raise children to chase Christ over culture and to help mothers parent to prepare, not repair. He’s given me a yearning now to let mothers know to stop being a good parent, and become a godly mother. So much meaning and joy has blossomed from writing for Him. Not only for me, but for my family. When we study the Bible we see many stories of humans who made mistakes, like you and me. We may not think so at first glance, but at the core, the people we read about in the Bible are just like us. As you read their stories, you notice that there were many times God had better plans for them than they had for themselves. Or He desired to give them better than they could conceive. Because we all fail, because we are so far from God and His sovereignty, we are prone to easily sway from God’s best or to expect less than He intends to give. Think for a moment about God’s provisions for the Israelites when He led them out of captivity. Remember the way they responded with sin and rebellion, fear and complaints? They missed seeing the beautiful, promised land God had for them. They forgot His promises of a hope and a future. We also have Adam and Eve, the very first in a long line of sinners who missed what God created for them. Think of Esau losing his blessing to Jacob. Esau didn’t value God’s Word and promise like his brother, and allowed Jacob to steal it from him. Each person thought they knew more than God or had a better idea of what would be best for them. Humans following self instead of a loving, giving Father. Genesis 25:29-34 says, “Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom). Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” “Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright .” There are several ways we can lose the blessings God has in store. Let’s look at some of the ways you can miss out on God’s best for you, and in turn, your family. 1. Feelings/Emotions – What we feel and how those feelings affect us. Although people often use the terms feelings and emotions interchangeably, they have distinct, but similar meanings. Emotions involve our feelings, but stem from an event or circumstance that evoke a feeling, such as fear, sadness, happiness, surprise, anger, or disgust. Feelings are our reactions to those emotions and how we interpret them. For example, if you are shopping and you get mugged, that situation causes emotions such as fear or anger. You may feel like it is unsafe to shop in that store again. You may feel like there are no nice people anymore because bystanders didn’t react the way you needed at the time. Sometimes life circumstances and/or situations evoke emotions that cause feelings that bring reactions and actions that pull us away from trusting in God. Or those reactions bring actions that aren’t honoring to God and cause problems or heartache. 2. Past Experiences – Past experiences can linger in our heart and mind. It is truly only through the life-changing power of relationship with Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit living within that we are able to live in freedom. If we don’t submit to the promptings of the Holy Spirit and instead live by reacting to emotions and feelings, we cheat ourselves and our family out of blessings God desires to bring to us. 3. Pride/Stubbornness – Sometimes we know we shouldn’t react with the actions and/or words we do, but because of pride and stubbornness we do what we want regardless of consequences. Our Holy God doesn’t bless rebellion. 4. Jealousy/Greed – When we look at how God has blessed another or we believe that we have less than others, we aren’t living with the thankful spirit God desires we carry. Our Heavenly Father carries no partiality, but He does honor humility, faith, trust, and obedience. He sees into our heart at the very core of what we think, feel, believe, and desire. God won’t bless a heart set against Him or one that lives without gratitude. 5. Disobedience/Sin – When we live in ways that go against God, His desires for us, and His teachings, we walk in disobedience. God wants the best for His people, but He is sovereign and holy. He will not bless sin or disobedience. James 4:1-6 says, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” Your walk with God is such a blessing when you follow Him in the ways He deserves and calls. Don’t set yourself up to miss out on the blessings He wants to pour on you. Don’t let your children miss the blessings He desires they receive. Your walk influences the walk of your children. The God you show them, and the way you respond to Him, will be engraved in their mind and heart. Don’t let them be led astray by your circumstances, emotions, feelings, past experiences, ego, stubbornness, jealousy, disobedience, or sin. Know and show the God of the Universe, the One who made a way for you to know and show Him. Help your children see and claim Jesus as their Savior. Allow them to be blessed in the mighty ways God has for them. Your life will be immensely blessed when they are blessed by Him. Psalm 46:10 says, “He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth .” Dear Heavenly Father, there is truly none like You. The closer we walk with You the more joy, peace, and love we carry. Thank you for making a way straight to You through Jesus. Your Word tells us that we are Your handiwork, that we are created in Christ Jesus to do good works which You have already prepared for us in advance. Father, thank you for loving us so much that You crafted us with purposes that come from You and are designed to honor and please You. Help us live in ways that honor and fill You with delight. Help us to make You known to the children You have entrusted to us. Allow them to find You and be blessed by all You have for them. May they let Jesus shine from them and bring You honor. Thank you for loving us so much and for having a heart that only wants the best for us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. The first group of women is currently growing together. The second group is about to start. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #103 – 2022 Interview with Marissa Hitt, Co-Founder, Melane & Co. Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This episode is sponsored by Melane & Co., creator of innocent animal décor for the home and family. Melane & Co. creates joy so you can express it with delightful cards, prints, and custom watercolor pet portraits for you or a loved one to treasure as a personal keepsake. Find Melane & Co. at www.melaneandco.com. On Instagram at @melaneandco, on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/melaneandco, and Pinterest at https://www.pinterest.com/melaneandco/_created/. Any follows and/or shares are much apprecaited as you support the creativity God entrusted to Marissa. It’s only fitting that this episode be sponsored by the online company I share with my middle daughter, Marissa. As the artist and creator of our stunning, realistic artwork and beautiful graphics, Marissa pours her heart and emotion into each watercolor she creates, striving to use the talent and creativity God gifted her in ways that please and honor the beauty of His creation and create joy to share. It is a blessing and honor to work alongside her to build this company. There is much more to come with additional products in the future as we dream and build together. Marissa first appeared on this podcast in January of 2021. Because our conversation was such a high-rated episode, I wanted to bring her back to share about what she has done over the last year. It is my hope that you will find her to be a genuine and refreshing guest who brings you confirmation of joy and hope when you think about the teens of this generation. It is my desire that she points you straight to Jesus. Marissa is the co-creator of Melane & Co., as already mentioned, and is the artist and one of the visionaries of our brand. I must say that she is also a great encourager and one who always looks for ways to bring others joy. Marissa also looks for the positive in life, and is an animal lover, especially dogs. When we go on walks together, her day is always brightened when we get to stop and pet dogs in our neighborhood. I am blessed to welcome my daughter, Marissa Hitt to the podcast. ------------------------------------------------ INTERVIEW--------------------------------------------------- I pray my conversation with Marissa gave you joy. I truly praise God for allowing me to be her mother. I pray she is always directed straight to Him by the way I live, love, and react to life and her. May she see Him each time she interacts with me. The only way I can do that is to bow before Jesus and allow Him to mold and shape me, to renew me daily, so that she allows Him to do the same for her. How I crave that. What a joy it is for me to know she follows and loves Jesus. What a delight that God gives us opportunity to introduce our children to Him. There is nothing more humbling or worthwhile to achieve. Dear Heavenly Father, Lord how I adore You. There is none like You. Father, keep our eyes and heart centered on You. Help us to seek You in deeper ways, listen to You, and follow Your will and calling in humble obedience. May we delight in what delights You. Help us to show You clearly to others because we are so close to You that You seep from us in all areas, drawing others nearer to You. May we please you in the way we influence our children and grandchildren. Help them desire You because You are so easily and lovingly reflected in all we do and are. May we be less of us and more of You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. Please also share my website, terrihitt.com. You can let others know that on it they will be able to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature their walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and find ways to encourage and influence children or grandchildren to choose Christ over culture. If we are not purposed in showing Jesus to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 103 2022 Interview with Marissa Hitt Melane and Co Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #103 – 2022 Interview with Marissa Hitt, Co-Founder, Melane & Co. Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This episode is sponsored by Melane & Co., creator of innocent animal décor for the home and family. Melane & Co. creates joy so you can express it with delightful cards, prints, and custom watercolor pet portraits for you or a loved one to treasure as a personal keepsake. Find Melane & Co. at www.melaneandco.com . On Instagram at @melaneandco, on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/melaneandco, and Pinterest at https://www.pinterest.com/melaneandco/_created/. Any follows and/or shares are much apprecaited as you support the creativity God entrusted to Marissa. It’s only fitting that this episode be sponsored by the online company I share with my middle daughter, Marissa. As the artist and creator of our stunning, realistic artwork and beautiful graphics, Marissa pours her heart and emotion into each watercolor she creates, striving to use the talent and creativity God gifted her in ways that please and honor the beauty of His creation and create joy to share. It is a blessing and honor to work alongside her to build this company. There is much more to come with additional products in the future as we dream and build together. Marissa first appeared on this podcast in January of 2021. Because our conversation was such a high-rated episode, I wanted to bring her back to share about what she has done over the last year. It is my hope that you will find her to be a genuine and refreshing guest who brings you confirmation of joy and hope when you think about the teens of this generation. It is my desire that she points you straight to Jesus. Marissa is the co-creator of Melane & Co., as already mentioned, and is the artist and one of the visionaries of our brand. I must say that she is also a great encourager and one who always looks for ways to bring others joy. Marissa also looks for the positive in life, and is an animal lover, especially dogs. When we go on walks together, her day is always brightened when we get to stop and pet dogs in our neighborhood. I am blessed to welcome my daughter, Marissa Hitt to the podcast. ------------------------------------------------ INTERVIEW--------------------------------------------------- I pray my conversation with Marissa gave you joy. I truly praise God for allowing me to be her mother. I pray she is always directed straight to Him by the way I live, love, and react to life and her. May she see Him each time she interacts with me. The only way I can do that is to bow before Jesus and allow Him to mold and shape me, to renew me daily, so that she allows Him to do the same for her. How I crave that. What a joy it is for me to know she follows and loves Jesus. What a delight that God gives us opportunity to introduce our children to Him. There is nothing more humbling or worthwhile to achieve. Dear Heavenly Father, Lord how I adore You. There is none like You. Father, keep our eyes and heart centered on You. Help us to seek You in deeper ways, listen to You, and follow Your will and calling in humble obedience. May we delight in what delights You. Help us to show You clearly to others because we are so close to You that You seep from us in all areas, drawing others nearer to You. May we please you in the way we influence our children and grandchildren. Help them desire You because You are so easily and lovingly reflected in all we do and are. May we be less of us and more of You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. Please also share my website, terrihitt.com. You can let others know that on it they will be able to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature their walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and find ways to encourage and influence children or grandchildren to choose Christ over culture. If we are not purposed in showing Jesus to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. http://www.melaneandco.com Instagram @melaneandco Facebook https://www.facebook.com/melaneandco Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/melaneandco/_created/

Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #006 – What Defines Me Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. In a world where there is confusion about life, death, and eternity, knowing what and why we believe what we do is vitally and eternally important. Why? Because I have to know my beliefs before I can live them. I suspect that most people listening to this podcast are already following Christ and enjoy listening to words of praise, inspiration, and encouragement to deepen their walk with Jesus. However, I can’t ignore the command in my spirit that leads me to clarify exactly what following Christ means. I don’t know for sure who may hear this podcast and I need to obediently follow what I believe the Holy Spirit is prompting me to share. Are you like me? I love to learn. I instinctively ask so many questions that close friends and family members joke about me. I found digging a little deeper into the terms Christian and Christianity interesting. Have you ever looked up the definition of the word, “Christian?” I never had before. I didn’t need to. As a believer, I know what the term means, but I decided to look. As a noun, the dictionary definition states that a Christian is “a person who has received Christian baptism or is a believer in Christianity.” I will come back to this. As an adjective, it means “relating to or professing Christianity or its teachings.” So of course, I looked up, “Christianity.” The dictionary states that Christianity is “the religion founded on the teachings of Jesus Christ.” The Hebrew and Greek definitions of Christian mean, “Follower of Christ.” The word “Christ” is the root word of “Christian” and is defined as “the Messiah or anointed One, referring to Jesus Christ.” Next, I reflected on the difference between the dictionary definition and what the Bible shows that the word, “Christian” means. Of course, there may be more entries, but I found the term Christian used in Acts 11:26, Acts 26:28, and 1 Peter 4:16. What caught my attention as the most telling is just one of those passages. Why? Because it reflects the way many people live today. Acts 26:28 says, “Then Agrippa said to Paul, “You almost persuade me to become a Christian.” Although King Agrippa heard Paul relay his astonishing personal testimony of the truth of his conversion to following Jesus, he would not allow himself to be humbled enough to declare Christ as King. Many of us live the same way. Each of us needs to ask ourselves an important question. Have I let the truth of Jesus penetrate my heart? The gospel changes lives. It opens eyes and alters hearts and mindsets. It changes families and communities. It forces each of us to face behaviors and beliefs that are uncomfortable. Almost everyone dislikes change. We don’t want to be told what to do. We think we have control or we think we have time. The power and truth of the gospel moves people from living in darkness under the power of Satan and places us in the powerful, loving light of Jesus. It provides hope and secures our future if we choose to let Jesus penetrate our hearts and lives. If we think we are walking with Jesus and our life has not changed, we need to reassess our relationship. No one can face the truth of Christ, study His word and life, and remain unchanged. Hebrews 4:12 tells us, “For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” If we don’t know Jesus as our personal Savior, those words can be threatening and frightening. Because I‘ve already submitted to Jesus as the Lord of my life, I find the words promising, as well as a beautiful safeguard that will continue to grow and mold me in the proper ways, ensuring that I become more pleasing to God the more that I pursue Him and allow Him to work in and through me. The needed transformation took place in my life after I understood that I am a sinner who needed Jesus. I spoke a simple, yet very heartfelt prayer confessing to the Lord that I knew I had broken His laws and that sin separated me from Him. I repented and asked for forgiveness. I professed my knowledge and belief that Jesus, God’s Holy Son, died as my substitute. I thanked Jesus for forgiving me and cleansing me from unrighteousness. I invited Jesus to take control of my life and I asked Him to change me and enable me to live the way He desires. I accepted His promise of sending the Holy Spirit to reside in, and transform me, to be more and more like Him each day. I thanked Him for his sacrifice for me. If you need to ask Jesus into your life, please feel free to use what I prayed as a template for your own prayer. It shows that all you need is a simple, yet heart-felt prayer. I am also listing a few key verses that you can read to reference for more insight before you pray. Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23, Romans 5:8, I John 1:9, Romans 10:9-10, Romans 10:13 A Christian is someone saved by the grace of Jesus and has accepted His gift as I stated in the example of my own prayer. Simply praying the prayer won’t get you into heaven, but it combined with the heart knowledge and desire to truly follow Jesus because you repent and confess your need for Him and acknowledge His merciful act of grace through dying as a substitute for your sin does. At the beginning of this episode, I stated that the dictionary defines a Christian as “a person who has received Christian baptism or is a believer in Christianity.” The truth is that baptism is the way we publicly show we have accepted Jesus as our Savior. It is an act of obedience that should follow our heart change for Christ and should be done as soon as possible after salvation. Although the Holy Spirit comes to reside in us immediately, it definitely takes intentional effort on our part daily to ensure that our walk with the Lord continues to deepen and grow. He is faithful, but we are not. Just as with any relationship, we have to want it to flourish. Spending time deepening our walk with God is the best investment we can make for not only ourselves, but for our family. I know that as a follower of Jesus I can call myself a Christian only after I have accepted Him as my Lord and Savior. Simply believing in and loving God or praying to Him did not make me a Christian. I lived until my early twenties under that mistaken assumption. Jesus tells us clearly in John 14:6, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” What I am stating is not my opinion; it is fact from God’s Holy word. Jesus makes the way to heaven very clear. Also, don’t be deceived into following religions that are act-based. Instead, build a relationship with the only One who can save you from unrighteousness. 1 John 4:15 states, “If anyone confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God.” God, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit all participate in the salvation experience. God, the Father sent His Son as a substitute for us, allowing us a glimpse of His eternal love. The Holy Spirit indwells the believer. Jesus is the Truth, the Hope, and the Message for this world. He is the Savior each of us needs, whether we understand it yet or not. Why do I believe this? The Bible tells us. I yearn for all to know and experience His truth and loving care through salvation. What a different world we would reside in if only hearts would be softened to Him. Satan’s power to deceive and the pride of too many cause a blindness that kills and destroys. Do you know Jesus and have a personal relationship with Him? The second half of the dictionary definition of Christian states, “a believer in Christianity.” Just saying that you believe in Jesus does not make you a Christian. We must commit to Him and release control of our life to Him, as I said earlier in the example of what I prayed. Make sure that your eternal future is securely in His hands. God is so good to give us free will. I think that would be so difficult to do! God created each of us uniquely and intentionally. Instead of forcing us to acknowledge and love Him, He allows us to choose what we believe and what and who we will follow in this life. He allows us to choose whatever religion we desire. I actually dislike the word, religion, but treasure knowing that I have a relationship. My walk with God through Jesus is entirely relationship-based. I believe what the Bible states and I acknowledge the remarkable difference in my life through my attitude, thoughts, desires, and actions since I have come to know Jesus as my Savior and continue to mature in Him. I have learned through experience that what the Bible says is living and true. Jesus is alive and active in my life. Is He alive in yours? Another very important point I must raise in this episode is life after salvation. So, we pray a prayer asking Jesus to lead our life. What happens next? Unfortunately, this is where many people trip in their walk. I know I had wonderful intentions after choosing to follow Jesus. I made the mistake of following people, not Jesus. After they let me down, I faltered in knowing what to do next. I didn’t get the right discipleship needed to learn about Jesus and correctly grow my relationship. It took longer for me to understand and know Him deeply, and to release proper access to my life than it should have. If you are a new Christian, please do not hesitate to reach out for support to know the next steps to fully develop your understanding of Jesus. There is nothing magical or mysterious about following Jesus. It is actually incredibly simple. Jesus desires us to have the faith of a child. We just need to acknowledge our need for Him, accept His grace, and confess Him as the Lord of our life. The hardest part is afterwards. We have to work at the relationship like any other, and it is the most important one we will ever have. The fact that the gospel, the way to salvation through Christ is so uncomplicated, sometimes allows people to question whether they actually belong to Jesus and will live for eternity in heaven with Him one day. I will list a few Bible verses that I hope will reassure anyone who questions their future or might need to reevaluate whether they have entered into a relationship with Jesus. Revelation 3:20, John 10:27-28, Romans 8:38-39, 1 John 5:10-13, Matthew 10:32, Luke 12:8, and Ephesians 2:8-9, which is my favorite. It states, “For by grace you have been saved by faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” Beyond the reassurances of scripture, the most effective way of ensuring our eternal walk with Jesus is secure is through the works He produces through us. A Christian lives and exhibits a changed life. God creates a good work in believers. Philippians 1:6 says, “being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.” Are you changing daily, becoming more Christ-like? Colossians 1:9b-11 says, “filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy.” As believers, we are filled with knowledge and spiritual understanding by immersing ourselves in and studying God’s word and by keeping open communication with Him through prayer. Because of the Holy Spirit inside us, we are able to better discern God’s will. Wisdom and understanding can only come from the Lord and by following Him through a deepening relationship. The more intimately we know and understand God and His word; we will produce fruit for Him as we gain knowledge and grow in Him. We also gain fruits of the Spirit from Him. Instead of desiring and partaking in sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these, we possess and exhibit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We persevere through trials as He carries us because we trust in Him. We praise Him in deeper ways because we understand He has plans for good and not to harm us. We believe the good He has for us is not strictly ours, but is the best for all as He intricately weaves lives and His glorious plans. We walk in faith, share the gospel, and help others to live lives that reflect Christ. We look at our present and future through the lens of eternal perspective and live in ways that exemplify His truths and in doing so, it is not a burden, but a joy. Here are several questions that are necessary to review if we have accepted Christ as our Savior and want to continue growing and shining for Him. 1. Do I intentionally and joyfully spend time in prayer throughout each day? Are my prayers living and breathing extensions of my thoughts and life as I raise my heart to God with gratitude before requests? God already knows us, but He desires intimacy, as well as honor in our lives. 2. Do I spend time in God’s word through reading my Bible each day? Podcasts, inspirational stories and blogs, etc. are wonderful ways to be encouraged and taught, but the most effective way to grow and deepen our walk is through consistent, personal time in His Holy word. 3. Do I place my spiritual growth behind more pressing duties in my life? God must be a priority. We know we make time for what we declare is important. 4. What are my first thoughts and desires when I awaken each morning? What about my last thoughts when I go to sleep? Make it a habit to talk to God as you go to sleep and to awaken with gratitude in your heart and on your lips as you start the day. Ask Him to guide and time your day. Ask Him to shine through you in every encounter. Ask for His patience, His love, whatever you know is lacking. Pray for the person who bad mouths you or the child bullying your son or daughter. Ask God to give you a heart for them, and to give them a heart for Him. Allow the Holy Spirit to transform you. 5. Do I feel true joy in my life? Two important fruits of the Spirit we receive from walking with Jesus is pure joy and peace despite circumstances. Psalm 94:19 says, “In the multitude of my anxieties within me, Your comfort delights my soul.” 6. Have I found a Bible-believing church to mentor and encourage me or to invest in others? Am I using the gifts God has given me for Him? In order for my family and friends to know my beliefs, I have to live them. If they are not clear to me, they will be clear to no one else. We must take time to reflect on our life. 1. If I am in a relationship or have children they will not be positively influenced by me in eternal ways if I am not intentionally allowing the Lord to work through me. 2. Do my words reflect my beliefs and desire to grow in Jesus? 3. Do my actions reflect my beliefs and desire to grow in Jesus? 4. Am I allowing God to alter my thoughts? My thoughts reflect my words, attitude, and actions. Do I submit to them or to the Lord? 5. My emotions, attitude, words, and actions influence and affect my loved ones daily. Do I attract or repel them and others to the Lord? How does the world see me? Is my life authentic? Do I project a false image? Do I exude warmth? Do I come across as stand-offish? Am I kind or rude? Would others be attracted to Christ because they see Him in me? What I think about myself will affect how others see me and how they view Christ. Where do I find my worth? Jeremiah 1:5a says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.” Ephesians 1:4-5 says, “Just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will.” Psalm 27:10 says, “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me.” What are my strengths? Do I praise God for these qualities? Do I acknowledge that they are from Him and use them for Him? What are my weaknesses? Am I thankful that I have weaknesses that force me to rely on God? Do I ask God to strengthen these areas so that I may honor Him? Do I allow other people or circumstances to affect or influence my mindset and actions? Two verses beautifully instruct us in this area. Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” The other verse is Ephesians 5:1-2, “Therefore, be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma.” When we yield to the Holy Spirit, we inherit daily change. Our relationship with Christ becomes experiential. He penetrates and alters our attitude, thoughts, and actions. He regulates our emotions and erases fears. We are no longer “in the body of Christ." We are living for Christ. We don’t just “identify” with Christ; we abide in and fellowship with Him. When we are tempted to become angry or hurt, or a variety of other emotions, we rely on Christ within us to enable our reaction to be what He desires, instead of allowing our fleshly responses to control us. Is this easy? Not always. We are human. But God is not. We must rely on His strength. God is able to do above and beyond what we can conceive. As we yield to Him, He modifies our instinctive responses and creates something new and beautiful within us. When we fail to respond in the ways that please Him, we repent and lean closer in reliance on Him. Philippians 4:8 offers sound advice for yielding to the life God desires for us. “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy – meditate on these things.” Finally, a last set of ways to evaluate and discern the way we live. 1. What would others say defines me: Jesus or the world? What would my family say? 2. Which exposes my life focus as shown through my daily habits (Jesus or the world)? 3. What am I willing to do in order to change this definition of my current lifestyle? 4. Do I submit to advertisements that show me what to desire and how to live? 5. Are my values dictated more by social media or friends, rather than God? 6. What are my last actions before bed and my first actions upon awakening? 7. Do I rely more on God or myself throughout each day? 8. How have I reflected Jesus to others? 9. Am I embarrassed for others to know I follow Him? 10. Have I stepped out in faith and obedience where God has asked me to? 11. Do I have the same peace, joy, and hope through both good and difficult times? After a life conversion to follow Christ, we will not exhibit all of the above qualities immediately. It takes time to grow in our faith and dependence on God. The key is to immediately begin cultivating our trust through the ways already stated. As we pursue Him, He allows wisdom, knowledge, and understanding to flow into our lives. As we draw near to Him, He draws near to us. Ephesians 5:8-10 says, “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), and find out what pleases the Lord.” Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 006 What Defines Me Listen to Episode Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #006 – What Defines Me Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. In a world where there is confusion about life, death, and eternity, knowing what and why we believe what we do is vitally and eternally important. Why? Because I have to know my beliefs before I can live them. I suspect that most people listening to this podcast are already following Christ and enjoy listening to words of praise, inspiration, and encouragement to deepen their walk with Jesus. However, I can’t ignore the command in my spirit that leads me to clarify exactly what following Christ means. I don’t know for sure who may hear this podcast and I need to obediently follow what I believe the Holy Spirit is prompting me to share. Are you like me? I love to learn. I instinctively ask so many questions that close friends and family members joke about me. I found digging a little deeper into the terms Christian and Christianity interesting. Have you ever looked up the definition of the word, “Christian?” I never had before. I didn’t need to. As a believer, I know what the term means, but I decided to look. As a noun, the dictionary definition states that a Christian is “a person who has received Christian baptism or is a believer in Christianity.” I will come back to this. As an adjective, it means “relating to or professing Christianity or its teachings.” So of course, I looked up, “Christianity.” The dictionary states that Christianity is “the religion founded on the teachings of Jesus Christ.” The Hebrew and Greek definitions of Christian mean, “Follower of Christ.” The word “Christ” is the root word of “Christian” and is defined as “the Messiah or anointed One, referring to Jesus Christ.” Next, I reflected on the difference between the dictionary definition and what the Bible shows that the word, “Christian” means. Of course, there may be more entries, but I found the term Christian used in Acts 11:26, Acts 26:28, and 1 Peter 4:16. What caught my attention as the most telling is just one of those passages. Why? Because it reflects the way many people live today. Acts 26:28 says, “Then Agrippa said to Paul, “You almost persuade me to become a Christian.” Although King Agrippa heard Paul relay his astonishing personal testimony of the truth of his conversion to following Jesus, he would not allow himself to be humbled enough to declare Christ as King. Many of us live the same way. Each of us needs to ask ourselves an important question. Have I let the truth of Jesus penetrate my heart? The gospel changes lives. It opens eyes and alters hearts and mindsets. It changes families and communities. It forces each of us to face behaviors and beliefs that are uncomfortable. Almost everyone dislikes change. We don’t want to be told what to do. We think we have control or we think we have time. The power and truth of the gospel moves people from living in darkness under the power of Satan and places us in the powerful, loving light of Jesus. It provides hope and secures our future if we choose to let Jesus penetrate our hearts and lives. If we think we are walking with Jesus and our life has not changed, we need to reassess our relationship. No one can face the truth of Christ, study His word and life, and remain unchanged. Hebrews 4:12 tells us, “For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” If we don’t know Jesus as our personal Savior, those words can be threatening and frightening. Because I‘ve already submitted to Jesus as the Lord of my life, I find the words promising, as well as a beautiful safeguard that will continue to grow and mold me in the proper ways, ensuring that I become more pleasing to God the more that I pursue Him and allow Him to work in and through me. The needed transformation took place in my life after I understood that I am a sinner who needed Jesus. I spoke a simple, yet very heartfelt prayer confessing to the Lord that I knew I had broken His laws and that sin separated me from Him. I repented and asked for forgiveness. I professed my knowledge and belief that Jesus, God’s Holy Son, died as my substitute. I thanked Jesus for forgiving me and cleansing me from unrighteousness. I invited Jesus to take control of my life and I asked Him to change me and enable me to live the way He desires. I accepted His promise of sending the Holy Spirit to reside in, and transform me, to be more and more like Him each day. I thanked Him for his sacrifice for me. If you need to ask Jesus into your life, please feel free to use what I prayed as a template for your own prayer. It shows that all you need is a simple, yet heart-felt prayer. I am also listing a few key verses that you can read to reference for more insight before you pray. Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23, Romans 5:8, I John 1:9, Romans 10:9-10, Romans 10:13 A Christian is someone saved by the grace of Jesus and has accepted His gift as I stated in the example of my own prayer. Simply praying the prayer won’t get you into heaven, but it combined with the heart knowledge and desire to truly follow Jesus because you repent and confess your need for Him and acknowledge His merciful act of grace through dying as a substitute for your sin does. At the beginning of this episode, I stated that the dictionary defines a Christian as “a person who has received Christian baptism or is a believer in Christianity.” The truth is that baptism is the way we publicly show we have accepted Jesus as our Savior. It is an act of obedience that should follow our heart change for Christ and should be done as soon as possible after salvation. Although the Holy Spirit comes to reside in us immediately, it definitely takes intentional effort on our part daily to ensure that our walk with the Lord continues to deepen and grow. He is faithful, but we are not. Just as with any relationship, we have to want it to flourish. Spending time deepening our walk with God is the best investment we can make for not only ourselves, but for our family. I know that as a follower of Jesus I can call myself a Christian only after I have accepted Him as my Lord and Savior. Simply believing in and loving God or praying to Him did not make me a Christian. I lived until my early twenties under that mistaken assumption. Jesus tells us clearly in John 14:6, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” What I am stating is not my opinion; it is fact from God’s Holy word. Jesus makes the way to heaven very clear. Also, don’t be deceived into following religions that are act-based. Instead, build a relationship with the only One who can save you from unrighteousness. 1 John 4:15 states, “If anyone confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God.” God, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit all participate in the salvation experience. God, the Father sent His Son as a substitute for us, allowing us a glimpse of His eternal love. The Holy Spirit indwells the believer. Jesus is the Truth, the Hope, and the Message for this world. He is the Savior each of us needs, whether we understand it yet or not. Why do I believe this? The Bible tells us. I yearn for all to know and experience His truth and loving care through salvation. What a different world we would reside in if only hearts would be softened to Him. Satan’s power to deceive and the pride of too many cause a blindness that kills and destroys. Do you know Jesus and have a personal relationship with Him? The second half of the dictionary definition of Christian states, “a believer in Christianity.” Just saying that you believe in Jesus does not make you a Christian. We must commit to Him and release control of our life to Him, as I said earlier in the example of what I prayed. Make sure that your eternal future is securely in His hands. God is so good to give us free will. I think that would be so difficult to do! God created each of us uniquely and intentionally. Instead of forcing us to acknowledge and love Him, He allows us to choose what we believe and what and who we will follow in this life. He allows us to choose whatever religion we desire. I actually dislike the word, religion, but treasure knowing that I have a relationship. My walk with God through Jesus is entirely relationship-based. I believe what the Bible states and I acknowledge the remarkable difference in my life through my attitude, thoughts, desires, and actions since I have come to know Jesus as my Savior and continue to mature in Him. I have learned through experience that what the Bible says is living and true. Jesus is alive and active in my life. Is He alive in yours? Another very important point I must raise in this episode is life after salvation. So, we pray a prayer asking Jesus to lead our life. What happens next? Unfortunately, this is where many people trip in their walk. I know I had wonderful intentions after choosing to follow Jesus. I made the mistake of following people, not Jesus. After they let me down, I faltered in knowing what to do next. I didn’t get the right discipleship needed to learn about Jesus and correctly grow my relationship. It took longer for me to understand and know Him deeply, and to release proper access to my life than it should have. If you are a new Christian, please do not hesitate to reach out for support to know the next steps to fully develop your understanding of Jesus. There is nothing magical or mysterious about following Jesus. It is actually incredibly simple. Jesus desires us to have the faith of a child. We just need to acknowledge our need for Him, accept His grace, and confess Him as the Lord of our life. The hardest part is afterwards. We have to work at the relationship like any other, and it is the most important one we will ever have. The fact that the gospel, the way to salvation through Christ is so uncomplicated, sometimes allows people to question whether they actually belong to Jesus and will live for eternity in heaven with Him one day. I will list a few Bible verses that I hope will reassure anyone who questions their future or might need to reevaluate whether they have entered into a relationship with Jesus. Revelation 3:20, John 10:27-28, Romans 8:38-39, 1 John 5:10-13, Matthew 10:32, Luke 12:8, and Ephesians 2:8-9, which is my favorite. It states, “For by grace you have been saved by faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” Beyond the reassurances of scripture, the most effective way of ensuring our eternal walk with Jesus is secure is through the works He produces through us. A Christian lives and exhibits a changed life. God creates a good work in believers. Philippians 1:6 says, “being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.” Are you changing daily, becoming more Christ-like? Colossians 1:9b-11 says, “filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy.” As believers, we are filled with knowledge and spiritual understanding by immersing ourselves in and studying God’s word and by keeping open communication with Him through prayer. Because of the Holy Spirit inside us, we are able to better discern God’s will. Wisdom and understanding can only come from the Lord and by following Him through a deepening relationship. The more intimately we know and understand God and His word; we will produce fruit for Him as we gain knowledge and grow in Him. We also gain fruits of the Spirit from Him. Instead of desiring and partaking in sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these, we possess and exhibit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We persevere through trials as He carries us because we trust in Him. We praise Him in deeper ways because we understand He has plans for good and not to harm us. We believe the good He has for us is not strictly ours, but is the best for all as He intricately weaves lives and His glorious plans. We walk in faith, share the gospel, and help others to live lives that reflect Christ. We look at our present and future through the lens of eternal perspective and live in ways that exemplify His truths and in doing so, it is not a burden, but a joy. Here are several questions that are necessary to review if we have accepted Christ as our Savior and want to continue growing and shining for Him. 1. Do I intentionally and joyfully spend time in prayer throughout each day? Are my prayers living and breathing extensions of my thoughts and life as I raise my heart to God with gratitude before requests? God already knows us, but He desires intimacy, as well as honor in our lives. 2. Do I spend time in God’s word through reading my Bible each day? Podcasts, inspirational stories and blogs, etc. are wonderful ways to be encouraged and taught, but the most effective way to grow and deepen our walk is through consistent, personal time in His Holy word. 3. Do I place my spiritual growth behind more pressing duties in my life? God must be a priority. We know we make time for what we declare is important. 4. What are my first thoughts and desires when I awaken each morning? What about my last thoughts when I go to sleep? Make it a habit to talk to God as you go to sleep and to awaken with gratitude in your heart and on your lips as you start the day. Ask Him to guide and time your day. Ask Him to shine through you in every encounter. Ask for His patience, His love, whatever you know is lacking. Pray for the person who bad mouths you or the child bullying your son or daughter. Ask God to give you a heart for them, and to give them a heart for Him. Allow the Holy Spirit to transform you. 5. Do I feel true joy in my life? Two important fruits of the Spirit we receive from walking with Jesus is pure joy and peace despite circumstances. Psalm 94:19 says, “In the multitude of my anxieties within me, Your comfort delights my soul.” 6. Have I found a Bible-believing church to mentor and encourage me or to invest in others? Am I using the gifts God has given me for Him? In order for my family and friends to know my beliefs, I have to live them. If they are not clear to me, they will be clear to no one else. We must take time to reflect on our life. 1. If I am in a relationship or have children they will not be positively influenced by me in eternal ways if I am not intentionally allowing the Lord to work through me. 2. Do my words reflect my beliefs and desire to grow in Jesus? 3. Do my actions reflect my beliefs and desire to grow in Jesus? 4. Am I allowing God to alter my thoughts? My thoughts reflect my words, attitude, and actions. Do I submit to them or to the Lord? 5. My emotions, attitude, words, and actions influence and affect my loved ones daily. Do I attract or repel them and others to the Lord? How does the world see me? Is my life authentic? Do I project a false image? Do I exude warmth? Do I come across as stand-offish? Am I kind or rude? Would others be attracted to Christ because they see Him in me? What I think about myself will affect how others see me and how they view Christ. Where do I find my worth? Jeremiah 1:5a says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.” Ephesians 1:4-5 says, “Just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will.” Psalm 27:10 says, “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me.” What are my strengths? Do I praise God for these qualities? Do I acknowledge that they are from Him and use them for Him? What are my weaknesses? Am I thankful that I have weaknesses that force me to rely on God? Do I ask God to strengthen these areas so that I may honor Him? Do I allow other people or circumstances to affect or influence my mindset and actions? Two verses beautifully instruct us in this area. Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” The other verse is Ephesians 5:1-2, “Therefore, be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma.” When we yield to the Holy Spirit, we inherit daily change. Our relationship with Christ becomes experiential. He penetrates and alters our attitude, thoughts, and actions. He regulates our emotions and erases fears. We are no longer “in the body of Christ." We are living for Christ. We don’t just “identify” with Christ; we abide in and fellowship with Him. When we are tempted to become angry or hurt, or a variety of other emotions, we rely on Christ within us to enable our reaction to be what He desires, instead of allowing our fleshly responses to control us. Is this easy? Not always. We are human. But God is not. We must rely on His strength. God is able to do above and beyond what we can conceive. As we yield to Him, He modifies our instinctive responses and creates something new and beautiful within us. When we fail to respond in the ways that please Him, we repent and lean closer in reliance on Him. Philippians 4:8 offers sound advice for yielding to the life God desires for us. “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy – meditate on these things.” Finally, a last set of ways to evaluate and discern the way we live. 1. What would others say defines me: Jesus or the world? What would my family say? 2. Which exposes my life focus as shown through my daily habits (Jesus or the world)? 3. What am I willing to do in order to change this definition of my current lifestyle? 4. Do I submit to advertisements that show me what to desire and how to live? 5. Are my values dictated more by social media or friends, rather than God? 6. What are my last actions before bed and my first actions upon awakening? 7. Do I rely more on God or myself throughout each day? 8. How have I reflected Jesus to others? 9. Am I embarrassed for others to know I follow Him? 10. Have I stepped out in faith and obedience where God has asked me to? 11. Do I have the same peace, joy, and hope through both good and difficult times? After a life conversion to follow Christ, we will not exhibit all of the above qualities immediately. It takes time to grow in our faith and dependence on God. The key is to immediately begin cultivating our trust through the ways already stated. As we pursue Him, He allows wisdom, knowledge, and understanding to flow into our lives. As we draw near to Him, He draws near to us. Ephesians 5:8-10 says, “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), and find out what pleases the Lord.” Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we will have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 029 - Blameless Before Christ Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #029 – Blameless Before Christ Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. My prayer is that you and I will parent with purpose and confidently connect with Christ and our children moment by moment. We brought our middle daughter home from China eighteen years ago. I have such beautiful memories of how deeply I longed to raise her for Christ before we ever brought her home. In fact, God began working on my heart years before we even knew we had a baby in China. It’s ironic, because my husband and I were perfectly content that we had raised two children, a son and a daughter. We knew we were entering a new season in our life since they had both graduated from high school. We weren’t sure what it would be like, but we had raised children starting at the age of eighteen and we were still young. Well, you know that saying, “but God?” That definitely applies here. I’ve always been one of those people who critically examines myself. Let me explain. For example, when I was young my parents only had to say, “we are very disappointed in you.” The spankings or groundings that I received when I was in trouble were nothing to compared to a stern look of disapproval or hearing that I had let them down. So after we had raised our first set of children, I would sometimes mentally review our parenting years in my mind. There were so many beautiful memories and times I thought we had done well as parents. There were also recollections of moments I wished I had handled differently. No one is perfect and I didn’t expect my life or parenting skills to be, but I like to learn. I like to grow. Most of all, I desire to mature my walk with Christ moment by moment. Because of the purposed growth I had in my relationship with Jesus by this time, I had become a different person than I was when I had two children by the time I was 21 years old. How deeply I wished I had known Christ in those early precious years. I wish I had given my children a deeper knowledge of Jesus, but I didn’t even know Jesus until I was 22. I yearned to have known Jesus earlier and really matured my walk with Him quickly. Sometimes my mind would wander to tiny thoughts of how I would parent differently if I had a baby at that time in my life. By then I was around 40. It surprised me that I had these wistful urges to parent differently with a deeper connection to Christ. It certainly wasn’t empty nest syndrome. It was more of an awakening that God was stirring within me, not a craving for another child. In my mind, I could see myself with a little girl and I thought of all of the things I would do differently. In hindsight, I now know that God was weaving many details together because He knew the plans He had for us and the plans for our future daughters. He was preparing a heart that thought it was finished parenting for the tasks He would honor my husband and I with. A mother’s heart usually has many longings. As believers, we want our children to have and be the best God intends for them. We all know each day can bring trying times. Our intention may be to start and end the day with sunshine and roses, but events or mishaps occur that challenge or change the plans we made. Life interferes and if we are not eternal minded, we trade opportunities God intended with purpose for cheap versions of a worldly existence. We think it’s good. We can be perfectly happy, but we may not know we are missing a deep joy in our soul that gives God joy and honor. We miss opportunities to lift our child to the Lord and teach them the way to live a blameless life before Christ. I know I was a good mother. But time and relationship with Jesus has taught me how to be a godly mother. There is no comparison. I want to continue to mature in the depth of my skills and wisdom as a mother parenting for the Lord. I desire for you to be a godlier mother, too. Our children desperately need Jesus. The instruction they receive from us is the direct line that will guide them to Him. In the book of Philippians, Paul speaks to the saints in Christ who are in Philippi. His words in Philippians 1:8-11 are beautifully inspiring and I yearn for us as diligent, discerning mothers to listen to what he says. The passage reads as follows, “For God is my witness, how greatly I long for you all with the affection of Jesus Christ. And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment , that you may approve the things that are excellent , that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ, being filled with the fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ , to the glory and praise of God .” Can you imagine saying these words to your children? Think of the godly power of placing their names individually at the beginning and then reciting this passage to them. Imagine praying these words over them, for them. The power of Christ would be at work to honor this prayer as you strive to parent with eternal meaning. In this passage shared from Paul’s eloquent and loving letter, we hear great wisdom regarding the way we are to live as heirs with Christ. Let’s look more closely at the passage and break down the meaning it still holds for us and our children today. 1. The word “affection” used in this passage is the strongest Greek word for intense emotion, and refers to internal organs, considered to be the parts of the body that hold and react to intense emotion . This word selection indicates a generous, gracious love that encompasses the entire being of a person. Imagine Christ’s power behind you as you purposely raise your children to greatly long for Him and for them to see you doing the same. 2. “In knowledge” is also from a Greek word, depicting absolute, advanced insight, judgement, and understanding. This form of biblical love is deeply rooted and regulated in Scriptural truth. Exactly the type of teaching and training we should purpose to give our children. 3. “Discernment” references moral integrity and insight, as well as effective and efficient utilization of knowledge. This astute attentiveness analyzes and approves what is appropriate or amiss. As 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 says, “Test all things; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil .” This deliberate discernment seeks to determine what is good and what is evil. Oh, how we must long for God to give us the discernment we need to parent with these qualities in mind with our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on eternity and centered on building these character qualities with a focus on God in our children. 4. As the passage continues, the phrase, “approve the things that are excellent” allows believers to differentiate what is truly important to Christ and enables the right priorities to be established and endorsed. As we raise our children in this sinful world, we must endorse and endow them with excellence built on a foundation of godly principles and relationship that honors God through Christ. 5. To be “sincere and without offense” is the highest calling for believers to attain. Our lifetime should be spent in an attempt to establish this genuine standing before Christ. A believers and followers of Christ, the integrity we carry in our personal life is the purity others believe comes from Christ. All we are and do reflects Him. This is what we should desire our children to witness within us. As we build our relationship with Jesus, making it stronger day by day, the result should bring us closer to this goal and allow us to be a witness to our children of a goal for them to strive for as well. Our children see and understand what is truly important to us. It is critical that we mirror the character of Christ and the passion He carried for pleasing and honoring the Father. 6. The phrase “fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ” refers to what is produced within believers through our standing with Jesus and the Holy Spirit living within us. As believers, we have have been redeemed and transformed through Jesus and also receive ongoing transformation through the Holy Spirit, which is alive and at work within us. The day our child also accepts Christ as Savior and begins a personal walk with Him is the best day a parent can experience. To see the fruits of the Spirit building fruits of righteousness as they pursue Christ is a miracle we are privileged to see and participate in. 7. To the glory and praise of God” recognizes and highlights Paul’s desire (and what should be our longing) – to glorify our Father in Heaven. That we can help our children do the same is a beautiful blessing. Each of us who claim to be Christians must purposely exercise the same preparation and practiced discipline that Jesus did as He obeyed our Heavenly Father as we live and parent daily. We must establish godly priorities and mentor them to our children so that they can live with true integrity established through relationship with Christ. Our godly mentorship allows our children to discover, desire, and develop a maturing walk with Jesus that will bless them for eternity. Philippians 2:14-16 says, “Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain .” “Blameless and harmless” mean to live above blame or disgrace, a life of purity and dignity that is only found through salvation and relationship with Jesus. Humans tend to relate to other humans and follow the standards or cultural norms accepted, but believing mothers desire that our children follow Jesus as mentor and guide and live in ways that will cause them to be blameless before Jesus each day. This will take the proper attitude from us and our children. As we set the tone and temperament of our household, mentoring Christ as we mature our personal walk with Him, we prayerfully rely on God to work out the salvation of our children as we entrust and lift them to Him. I love the words, “shine as lights in the world.” Before we even brought our middle daughter home as a baby, my husband and I prayed each day that we would raise her in pleasing ways to the Lord, that she would come to know Jesus as her Savior, and that she would be a shining light for Him. Do you know one of the most common compliments we receive for her? People tell us that she is a light. Mothers, as you purpose to raise children who will carry a mind set for eternity with Jesus, pray specific scriptural prayers. Seek His words and pray His words over your children. Pray them for yourself and your spouse. God will honor every prayer that is within His will. God is not willing that any should perish and He deeply desires for your children to love and honor you because they cherish and obey Him. Dear Heavenly Father, Your glorious light has the capacity to shine through us and into the hearts of others. Help us allow You to work through us. We are nothing without You. We thank you for the holiness and mercy You offer us and for the way You love us completely. Help us to see our children through Your eyes and heart. Enable us to carry Your mindset for eternity as we raise and care for them. Help us to stand blameless before You and model the character of Christ to our children and those we interact with. May this world be brighter because You are in us and we are actively and passionately pursuing You moment by moment. Father, thank you for teaching and growing us daily. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #135 – May It Be As You Desire, God Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. In their unique ways, each of my daughters continue to teach me daily about the beauty of a humble heart. Through their words and actions, they allow me to catch a glimpse of God working in them. As I watch them, observing their very different surface personalities, I receive such joy. Although they have unique personalities, both girls love Jesus and make me think about the heart of Mary, mother of Jesus. They always purposely try to please and obey my husband and me. Not in ways that are only because they know they are supposed to, or feel they have to, but because they want to be pleasing to God. I consider it my honor to teach them to yearn for God and to desire to please Him above anyone else. If they do so, the overflow of their love for Him will cover the rest of us. Just as Mary modeled Christ in her words to Gabriel in Luke 1, “May it be as You Desire, God,” is what Christian parents want to hear and see from their children. Yet our reasons for desiring that make all the difference. My children are not to worship me, but Him. When they do, I see the beautiful benefits of their faith-filled and maturing life. It makes me ponder all the qualities God saw in Mary that made Him plan for her to mother the Savior of the World. I believe there were three keys qualities God considered necessary for the task He called Mary to (and of course, God knew she would possess). Christian parents must lead our children to the feet of Jesus in order to see these same qualities living in them. 1. Mary trusted God. 2. Mary’s life praised God. 3. Mary submitted to God. These are the qualities we want to mentor for our children and see them willingly carry in their life. Psalm 27:4 says, “One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in His temple.” Wouldn’t you love your children and grandchildren to live with a heart attuned to the Lord like this? We hold such great purpose in the life of children! It is our sacred privilege to intentionally instruct our children and grandchildren to: 1. Love God with a humble heart. 2. Fear God with reverence. 3. Respect God’s holy commands and instructions. 4. Serve God with a humble heart. 5. Obey God with respect for His sovereignty. Luke 1:26-38 says, “In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be borne will be called holy—the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.” Every time I read this passage of verses, my heart is tender for the love and reverence Mary offered God in a moment that must have been incredibly confusing or startling. Can you imagine being in her position? Even though she was just a young girl, she did not worry or wonder at what was going to happen, how it would come to be, or why God had chosen to reveal such a plan as this to her. The words, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord, let it be to me according to your word,” must have sounded preciously obedient to God’s ears. He had chosen Mary because He knew her reaction would be worthy of the privilege and promise He planned. Maybe it is so special to me because I was an unmarried pregnant teen. I know the shame and fear that a young girl faces. It brings me humble joy to read her reaction and imagine myself in her shoes. Luke 1:46-49 says, “And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for He has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for He who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is His name.” Mary was honored in life with the distinctive role of being the mother of Jesus. This honor required enormous sacrifice and suffering. Mary no doubt suffered deep pain along with the privilege of raising Jesus. Mary’s submissive obedience to God allowed her to humbly accept this position with grace and trust without demanding glory or answers. It is not about her. It is about Him. The Bible is full of character studies and stories that we can draw great wisdom and knowledge from and impart to our children. Let’s take a look at another person God found pleasing. 1. Solomon petitioned God. 2. Solomon heard God. 3. Solomon strayed from God. 4. Solomon returned to God. 2 Chronicles 1:1 says, “Solomon the son of David established himself in his kingdom, and the LORD his God was with him and made him exceedingly great.” 2 Chronicles 1:7-12 says, “In that night God appeared to Solomon, and said to him, “Ask what I shall give you.” And Solomon said to God, “You have shown great and steadfast love to David my father, and have made me king in his place. O LORD God, let your word to David my father be now fulfilled, for you have made me king over a people as numerous as the dust of the earth. Give me now wisdom and knowledge to go out and come in before this people, for who can govern this people of yours, which is so great?” God answered Solomon, “Because this was in your heart, and you have not asked for possessions, wealth, honor, or the life of those who hate you, and have not even asked for long life, but have asked for wisdom and knowledge for yourself that you may govern my people over whom I have made you king, wisdom and knowledge are granted to you. I will also give you riches, possessions, and honor, such as none of the kings had who were before you, and none after you shall have the like.” 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.” This is exactly what God does. He peers without restraint or obstruction straight into our heart. Solomon’s prayer was pleasing to God. Solomon recognized the value of wisdom. His plea in that prayer seemed obedient, trusting, submissive, humble, and genuine. Because Solomon did not ask for wealth, possessions, riches, or honor, God answered and granted much wisdom to Solomon, as well as lavishing unrequested blessings on him. As we study the life of Solomon, we see that one critical piece of wisdom we can learn from his story is the importance of carrying more than wisdom. Wisdom without understanding can be very dangerous. Proverbs 4:5-13 says, “Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth. Do not forsake her, and she will keep you; love her, and she will guard you. The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight. Prize her highly, and she will exalt you; she will honor you if you embrace her. She will place on your head a graceful garland; she will bestow on you a beautiful crown. Hear, my son, and accept my words, that the years of your life may be many. I have taught you the way of wisdom; I have led you in the paths of uprightness. When you walk, your step will not be hampered, and if you run, you will not stumble. Keep hold of instruction; do not let go; guard her, for she is your life.” Solomon recognized the value of wisdom and requested it from God, pleasing our Heavenly Father immensely. Yet through the life and choices of Solomon we learn that we need more than wisdom alone. Wisdom without a humble heart for God or an understanding of what God requires to be wise will not keep us humble and reliant on our Heavenly Father. Without understanding and insight from God, personal wisdom may become worldly knowledge rather than godly instruction. We may end up yearning for and following personal, physical, and earthly desires instead of seeking what God desires. Just as Solomon strayed far from what God would deem wise, we are liable to make the same mistakes without keeping our mind, heart, and soul tied in reverence and submission to God. Solomon seemed to return to God in his later years, perhaps by viewing and utilizing the wisdom God endowed to him in his younger years through an eternal perspective. Through his story, we learn that we must teach our children to seek God’s wisdom and the qualities that build and sustain His common sense and uphold His commands. There are so many characters in the Bible that we can draw from, but the next I want to discuss in this podcast episode is the best mentor of all. The perfect mentor in every area is Jesus. John 13:1-17 says, “Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end. During supper, when the devil had already put it into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, to betray him, Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come from God and was going back to God, rose from supper. He laid aside his outer garments, and taking a towel, tied it around his waist. Then He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around Him. He came to Simon Peter, who said to Him, “Lord, do you wash my feet?” Jesus answered him, “What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand.” Peter said to him, “You shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no share with Me.” Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!” Jesus said to him, “The one who has bathed does not need to wash, except for his feet, but is completely clean. And you are clean, but not every one of you.” For He knew who was to betray Him; that was why He said, “Not all of you are clean.” When He had washed their feet and put on His outer garments and resumed his place, He said to them, “Do you understand what I have done to you? You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you. Truly, truly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.” In this short passage we see deeper into the heart of Jesus. God already knows every sin we have ever or will ever commit – and He loves us regardless. The love of Jesus is far-reaching and perfect, casting out fear and infusing us with hope and mercy that only comes from Him. In this story we understand that Jesus is speaking privately with His disciples and sharing His final instructions. Jesus is preparing them for His death and resurrection because the Lord knew both events would greatly impact and alter the foundation of their beliefs and lives forever. Because Jesus was the sinless, perfect mentor and model servant for God, He set a clear and wise pattern for His disciples to follow. Just as He does for us. In the passage we read, Jesus humbly wrapped a towel around His waist and began washing feet as only a servant would do. When we witness God in the flesh as a servant doing what was considered one of the lowliest chores, we (with the great hindsight of the Holy Word) see genuine and humble love and obedience that should compel each of us to be willing to serve in the same ways, honoring and glorifying God. Jesus showed how to treat others and how to obey God in a way not easily understood by the disciples As I stated earlier, it is only through our Bible study and hindsight that we are able to begin to comprehend the meaning and motive behind this act of Christ. With influence and intention far greater than requesting that the disciples extend kindness toward one another, Jesus modeled how to give and grow His truths through the world and into eternity before He left this earth. What a gift God extended to us! Our human minds cannot begin to fully fathom and we have an added blessing of so much to teach us. Jesus exposes the keys to the Kingdom of God for us to use to unlock the hearts of our children for Him. What a precious privilege! As we strive to build the Heart of Jesus in our children, we must remember our mentor Jesus and humbly show Him to our children in all we are and do. Jesus served the Father and others. Jesus loved the Father and others. Jesus taught the Father to others. Jesus exposed truth to others. Jesus was obedient to the Father in all ways. Jesus was a hearer and a doer of the Word. Jesus sacrificed for the Father and each of us. Jesus drew nearer to God with eternal purpose. As we see the simple truths of who Jesus is through Scripture, it makes it obvious to parents that we must purposely provide opportunities to produce identical characteristics in our children. As we look to our own lives, we must assess where we are so that we are prepared to parent with confidence through connection to Christ. Do you humbly submit to God? Do you listen for His voice? Do you keep areas of your life private or closed-off from God? Do you trust God’s plans? Where can you trust God more? How do you plan to draw nearer to Him? Do you expose more of your fleshly character qualities or more of Christ? How are you purposely showing Christ to your child daily? Are you reading and studying the Bible? Are you reading and studying the Bible with your child? Do you pray for your children daily? Are you asking God to show you what you must do to bring yourself and your children or grandchildren closer to Him? Although these may seem like a lot of questions, these are prompts to propel each of us to what we should consciously be doing for the children God has gifted us to parent for Him; for the people He surrounds us with. As we learn to depend on Him every moment as we live, He will guide us in the ways we should move and mother for Him. His desire is that we succeed in every way He calls for us, especially in the way we live and parent. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are! You know our every thought, word, act, and motive. Yet you love us with an astounding and everlasting love deeper than we can imagine. You know our faults and failures, yet You entrust us with Your treasures, the children You give to us. Father, please enable us to become the parents You desire in a timely way that allows us to parent with godly wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and love from You. May the hearts of our children be turned to You. May they accept Christ as they complete the purposes You have established for them with complete trust in You. May their love for You and faith in You shine forth to bring others into Your arms. May our children bless You with joy and delight with the love and faith they exhibit and mature with purposeful intention. Father, thank you for entrusting each of us to raise Your children. May our hearts delight You and help us to know how to complete this privilege You have entrusted to us. Enable us to love You with fullness of heart and may the hearts of our children seek You in the same way. Impress Your commandments in not only our hearts, but the hearts of our children. May we think of You and speak of You through each day together as we entrust our future, their futures, to Your capable hands. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 135 - May It Be As You Desire, God Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #135 – May It Be As You Desire, God Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. In their unique ways, each of my daughters continue to teach me daily about the beauty of a humble heart. Through their words and actions, they allow me to catch a glimpse of God working in them. As I watch them, observing their very different surface personalities, I receive such joy. Although they have unique personalities, both girls love Jesus and make me think about the heart of Mary, mother of Jesus. They always purposely try to please and obey my husband and me. Not in ways that are only because they know they are supposed to, or feel they have to, but because they want to be pleasing to God. I consider it my honor to teach them to yearn for God and to desire to please Him above anyone else. If they do so, the overflow of their love for Him will cover the rest of us. Just as Mary modeled Christ in her words to Gabriel in Luke 1, “May it be as You Desire, God,” is what Christian parents want to hear and see from their children. Yet our reasons for desiring that make all the difference. My children are not to worship me, but Him. When they do, I see the beautiful benefits of their faith-filled and maturing life. It makes me ponder all the qualities God saw in Mary that made Him plan for her to mother the Savior of the World. I believe there were three keys qualities God considered necessary for the task He called Mary to (and of course, God knew she would possess). Christian parents must lead our children to the feet of Jesus in order to see these same qualities living in them. 1. Mary trusted God. 2. Mary’s life praised God. 3. Mary submitted to God. These are the qualities we want to mentor for our children and see them willingly carry in their life. Psalm 27:4 says, “One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in His temple.” Wouldn’t you love your children and grandchildren to live with a heart attuned to the Lord like this? We hold such great purpose in the life of children! It is our sacred privilege to intentionally instruct our children and grandchildren to: 1. Love God with a humble heart. 2. Fear God with reverence. 3. Respect God’s holy commands and instructions. 4. Serve God with a humble heart. 5. Obey God with respect for His sovereignty. Luke 1:26-38 says, “In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, O favored one, the Lord is with you!” But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be borne will be called holy—the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.” And the angel departed from her.” Every time I read this passage of verses, my heart is tender for the love and reverence Mary offered God in a moment that must have been incredibly confusing or startling. Can you imagine being in her position? Even though she was just a young girl, she did not worry or wonder at what was going to happen, how it would come to be, or why God had chosen to reveal such a plan as this to her. The words, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord, let it be to me according to your word,” must have sounded preciously obedient to God’s ears. He had chosen Mary because He knew her reaction would be worthy of the privilege and promise He planned. Maybe it is so special to me because I was an unmarried pregnant teen. I know the shame and fear that a young girl faces. It brings me humble joy to read her reaction and imagine myself in her shoes. Luke 1:46-49 says, “And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for He has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for He who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is His name.” Mary was honored in life with the distinctive role of being the mother of Jesus. This honor required enormous sacrifice and suffering. Mary no doubt suffered deep pain along with the privilege of raising Jesus. Mary’s submissive obedience to God allowed her to humbly accept this position with grace and trust without demanding glory or answers. It is not about her. It is about Him. The Bible is full of character studies and stories that we can draw great wisdom and knowledge from and impart to our children. Let’s take a look at another person God found pleasing. 1. Solomon petitioned God. 2. Solomon heard God. 3. Solomon strayed from God. 4. Solomon returned to God. 2 Chronicles 1:1 says, “Solomon the son of David established himself in his kingdom, and the LORD his God was with him and made him exceedingly great.” 2 Chronicles 1:7-12 says, “In that night God appeared to Solomon, and said to him, “Ask what I shall give you.” And Solomon said to God, “You have shown great and steadfast love to David my father, and have made me king in his place. O LORD God, let your word to David my father be now fulfilled, for you have made me king over a people as numerous as the dust of the earth. Give me now wisdom and knowledge to go out and come in before this people, for who can govern this people of yours, which is so great?” God answered Solomon, “Because this was in your heart, and you have not asked for possessions, wealth, honor, or the life of those who hate you, and have not even asked for long life, but have asked for wisdom and knowledge for yourself that you may govern my people over whom I have made you king, wisdom and knowledge are granted to you. I will also give you riches, possessions, and honor, such as none of the kings had who were before you, and none after you shall have the like.” 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.” This is exactly what God does. He peers without restraint or obstruction straight into our heart. Solomon’s prayer was pleasing to God. Solomon recognized the value of wisdom. His plea in that prayer seemed obedient, trusting, submissive, humble, and genuine. Because Solomon did not ask for wealth, possessions, riches, or honor, God answered and granted much wisdom to Solomon, as well as lavishing unrequested blessings on him. As we study the life of Solomon, we see that one critical piece of wisdom we can learn from his story is the importance of carrying more than wisdom. Wisdom without understanding can be very dangerous. Proverbs 4:5-13 says, “Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth. Do not forsake her, and she will keep you; love her, and she will guard you. The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight. Prize her highly, and she will exalt you; she will honor you if you embrace her. She will place on your head a graceful garland; she will bestow on you a beautiful crown. Hear, my son, and accept my words, that the years of your life may be many. I have taught you the way of wisdom; I have led you in the paths of uprightness. When you walk, your step will not be hampered, and if you run, you will not stumble. Keep hold of instruction; do not let go; guard her, for she is your life.” Solomon recognized the value of wisdom and requested it from God, pleasing our Heavenly Father immensely. Yet through the life and choices of Solomon we learn that we need more than wisdom alone. Wisdom without a humble heart for God or an understanding of what God requires to be wise will not keep us humble and reliant on our Heavenly Father. Without understanding and insight from God, personal wisdom may become worldly knowledge rather than godly instruction. We may end up yearning for and following personal, physical, and earthly desires instead of seeking what God desires. Just as Solomon strayed far from what God would deem wise, we are liable to make the same mistakes without keeping our mind, heart, and soul tied in reverence and submission to God. Solomon seemed to return to God in his later years, perhaps by viewing and utilizing the wisdom God endowed to him in his younger years through an eternal perspective. Through his story, we learn that we must teach our children to seek God’s wisdom and the qualities that build and sustain His common sense and uphold His commands. There are so many characters in the Bible that we can draw from, but the next I want to discuss in this podcast episode is the best mentor of all. The perfect mentor in every area is Jesus. John 13:1-17 says, “Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end. During supper, when the devil had already put it into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, to betray him, Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come from God and was going back to God, rose from supper. He laid aside his outer garments, and taking a towel, tied it around his waist. Then He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around Him. He came to Simon Peter, who said to Him, “Lord, do you wash my feet?” Jesus answered him, “What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand.” Peter said to him, “You shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you have no share with Me.” Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!” Jesus said to him, “The one who has bathed does not need to wash, except for his feet, but is completely clean. And you are clean, but not every one of you.” For He knew who was to betray Him; that was why He said, “Not all of you are clean.” When He had washed their feet and put on His outer garments and resumed his place, He said to them, “Do you understand what I have done to you? You call me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you. Truly, truly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.” In this short passage we see deeper into the heart of Jesus. God already knows every sin we have ever or will ever commit – and He loves us regardless. The love of Jesus is far-reaching and perfect, casting out fear and infusing us with hope and mercy that only comes from Him. In this story we understand that Jesus is speaking privately with His disciples and sharing His final instructions. Jesus is preparing them for His death and resurrection because the Lord knew both events would greatly impact and alter the foundation of their beliefs and lives forever. Because Jesus was the sinless, perfect mentor and model servant for God, He set a clear and wise pattern for His disciples to follow. Just as He does for us. In the passage we read, Jesus humbly wrapped a towel around His waist and began washing feet as only a servant would do. When we witness God in the flesh as a servant doing what was considered one of the lowliest chores, we (with the great hindsight of the Holy Word) see genuine and humble love and obedience that should compel each of us to be willing to serve in the same ways, honoring and glorifying God. Jesus showed how to treat others and how to obey God in a way not easily understood by the disciples As I stated earlier, it is only through our Bible study and hindsight that we are able to begin to comprehend the meaning and motive behind this act of Christ. With influence and intention far greater than requesting that the disciples extend kindness toward one another, Jesus modeled how to give and grow His truths through the world and into eternity before He left this earth. What a gift God extended to us! Our human minds cannot begin to fully fathom and we have an added blessing of so much to teach us. Jesus exposes the keys to the Kingdom of God for us to use to unlock the hearts of our children for Him. What a precious privilege! As we strive to build the Heart of Jesus in our children, we must remember our mentor Jesus and humbly show Him to our children in all we are and do. Jesus served the Father and others. Jesus loved the Father and others. Jesus taught the Father to others. Jesus exposed truth to others. Jesus was obedient to the Father in all ways. Jesus was a hearer and a doer of the Word. Jesus sacrificed for the Father and each of us. Jesus drew nearer to God with eternal purpose. As we see the simple truths of who Jesus is through Scripture, it makes it obvious to parents that we must purposely provide opportunities to produce identical characteristics in our children. As we look to our own lives, we must assess where we are so that we are prepared to parent with confidence through connection to Christ. Do you humbly submit to God? Do you listen for His voice? Do you keep areas of your life private or closed-off from God? Do you trust God’s plans? Where can you trust God more? How do you plan to draw nearer to Him? Do you expose more of your fleshly character qualities or more of Christ? How are you purposely showing Christ to your child daily? Are you reading and studying the Bible? Are you reading and studying the Bible with your child? Do you pray for your children daily? Are you asking God to show you what you must do to bring yourself and your children or grandchildren closer to Him? Although these may seem like a lot of questions, these are prompts to propel each of us to what we should consciously be doing for the children God has gifted us to parent for Him; for the people He surrounds us with. As we learn to depend on Him every moment as we live, He will guide us in the ways we should move and mother for Him. His desire is that we succeed in every way He calls for us, especially in the way we live and parent. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are! You know our every thought, word, act, and motive. Yet you love us with an astounding and everlasting love deeper than we can imagine. You know our faults and failures, yet You entrust us with Your treasures, the children You give to us. Father, please enable us to become the parents You desire in a timely way that allows us to parent with godly wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and love from You. May the hearts of our children be turned to You. May they accept Christ as they complete the purposes You have established for them with complete trust in You. May their love for You and faith in You shine forth to bring others into Your arms. May our children bless You with joy and delight with the love and faith they exhibit and mature with purposeful intention. Father, thank you for entrusting each of us to raise Your children. May our hearts delight You and help us to know how to complete this privilege You have entrusted to us. Enable us to love You with fullness of heart and may the hearts of our children seek You in the same way. Impress Your commandments in not only our hearts, but the hearts of our children. May we think of You and speak of You through each day together as we entrust our future, their futures, to Your capable hands. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 086 - Navigating the Challenges of Being a Christian Working Mother Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 086 – Navigating the Challenges of Being a Christian Working Mother Thank you for taking time to share your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children. During forty-five years of parenting two sets of children, I’ve been the mother who worked full-time outside the home while parenting my first set of children in the eighties and nineties. I’ve also been the stay-at-home mother who homeschooled my second set of children, and am now a Christian parenting and mindset coach and a podcaster with my second set of children. Over the years I have experienced many emotions and feelings as I navigated what I had to do and what I was called to do. I’m not sure which season you’re currently living in, but there is such a difference in doing what you feel you have to do versus what God is calling you to complete . Where are you in your life? I understand many women have careers they absolutely love, careers they may have known they would have since they were children. But I’ll be honest. When I worked outside the home, I dreaded almost every day I went to work. The first twelve years were the hardest. After I switched jobs going to work was more enjoyable, but my heart still yearned to be at home. I remember in one of the facilities I worked in, there was a bathroom stall that had a window. I used to look out and dream of a time when I would be able to be home and not have to go to work for the money our family needed. I felt like my heart was shriveling up and the passions and dreams God gave me were being wasted. Although I tried to follow some of them in the bits of time left from working, I always felt torn and confused. How was I supposed to reach my goals when I had important duties as a wife and mother, but had to work outside the home, and had so little time? I remember feeling guilty and never fulfilled . Have you ever felt that way? Later, when I was in my early forties I would sit at my desk at work and daydream about how I would change the way I had parented if I had the opportunity to redo those early years. I missed my children being little, and felt like I had been cheated out of moments and memories, because I was aways at work. By this time my first two children were young adults, and because I didn’t feel like I was an empty-nester longing for years passed, I wondered why I was having these thoughts. In hindsight, I understand that I had since matured my relationship with Christ, and God was preparing me for the beautiful plans He had in store for me. It was the beginning of a journey I never dreamed I would take, but it has fulfilled me more intimately and deeply than any dreams I imagined for myself. Isn’t that always the way with the One who created us? I share this portion of my personal story because I want you to know you’re not alone. Whether you are a working mom inside or outside of the home, what you do is important. You may have a career that you know you were created to do or you may have to bring in money to cover food and bills. Either way, I hope you are following God’s plan for your life. I hope that you rely on Him to carry you through the difficult and discouraging times. Life definitely throws us both. When my husband and I got married right out of high school, I was seventeen; he was eighteen. When I say we were financially challenged, it’s an understatement. When we married we had one thousand dollars in our bank account and it quickly disappeared as we had deposits to place on our first apartment, bills to pay, and food to purchase. Thankfully, we had supportive family, especially my in-laws. After adding two children and multiple medical bills, I finally resigned myself to the fact that I had to go to work outside of the home in order to make ends meet. At that time our son was three years old and our daughter was almost six. I had been babysitting children as they grew to that age, but that very small amount barely contributed to our needs. Mom guilt quickly appeared when I began working outside the home. My daughter’s kindergarten teacher didn’t help when she called to tell me my daughter disliked me working and wanted me to stay at home. The babysitter I hired through referral from a friend at church ended up calling me at work to tell me she was upset that my three year old son had discovered her gun and was carrying it around the house. What ?! I probably don’t need to say this, but of course, I immediately took him from that environment. I left work early to bring him home that day and he never went back. If she couldn’t keep a weapon from my three year old, what other dangers were surrounding him at her place? Where did she keep her gun that he could find it so easily? I was astounded. Finding quality child care at an affordable price was so challenging! I felt trapped as a woman and a mom. My goodness! Have you been there? The difficulties of dealing with strong personalities at work, finding quality, safe daycare, combined with making sure the family ate, the house stayed clean, and navigating thoughtless, untrue remarks from an extended family member yet still maintain a relationship with them left me exhausted. That basic feeling of being exhausted never left during the twenty-one years I worked outside the home. In fact my health deteriorated while working outside the home and I began losing weight when I didn’t need or intend to. My life schedule also had to become very well-planned and limited. I didn’t have time for everything I wanted to do in my life, and I wanted to put my husband and children first. I have never enjoyed cooking, so I used our family wall calendar to solve the “what are we going to have for dinner when I get home from work and have so much to do” situation by charting my meals. On that calendar I wrote the meal planned for that day. I would cook for one week on Sunday afternoons and package up the meals to store in our extra refrigerator in the garage. This method allowed us to always have meals ready. When we were ready to eat, the food just needed to be heated. Of course, we could switch days if we wanted something different, but the point is that food was prepared and no one had to question what to eat. We didn’t spend hard-earned cash on eating out and the food was healthy and filling. Weekends were busy with cleaning the house in the moments between games, events, and trying to make time for my hearts true desire - writing. Eventually, I began assigning chores to the family so everyone could pitch in to complete the work together. At the time I felt like a failure that I couldn’t do it all myself, but despite an extended family member telling me that it was the role of the woman to clean, I forged on with my plan and am so glad. My husband didn’t mind pitching in as long as he knew what to do. He’s the type who doesn’t usually think of what to help with on his own, but gladly helps when asked. By helping, my children learned skills they would need later in life, and I was able to feel like I could breathe easier knowing home basics weren’t neglected. How do you handle the chore load at your home? It's not easy to be a working mom. Expectations from work, home, family, and self can cause women to suffer from anxiety, depression, resentment, guilt, and more. Those burdens can leave little time for the one solution that can lift a woman out of the pit of pressures. The Lord. When I became a Christian I was in my twenties. Shortly after, I began working outside of the home. I’d been hurt by the church we attended when I first found Christ. In error, I had placed those members on a pedestal, instead of rightly placing Christ in that position. When I wasn’t treated well, we stopped going to that church. I began using Sunday morning time to clean and cook, or do whatever needed to be completed before I went back to work the next day. I always felt like there was a ticking clock that zapped the time and my energy over that two day, short weekend. It felt so unfair to work 5 days and only have two to feel like I was really living. Am I the only working mother who feels that way? How much different it would have been if I had remained faithful in following Jesus intentionally and maturing my walk with Him. I’ve learned that when we make any amount of time for Him, we crave more. Once we make time for Him, we discover that we actually have much more time than we imagine. The Lord seems to multiply time like He did with the bread and fish long ago. Working women always seem to crave a better balanced schedule. The missing piece is usually time with Christ. Jesus sets all things free. Following Jesus is crucial in daily living. As believers we understand that truth. However, we don’t always live it. Sometimes we deceive ourselves and think we are. Sometimes we love Him with all our heart, but don’t know how to make more time for Him. Sometimes we have time, but don’t stop to hear what He is calling. Where do you fall? One thing I know to be true is that Jesus won’t lead you astray. He cares for you. Your time, schedule, family, health, and finances are all important. He has plans with a purpose set for you. He longs for you to seek Him and see the purpose He desires, the purposes that will fill your heart and home with a joy, peace, love, and beauty you never imagined. Today I want to address struggles, demands, and solutions that may help working moms, whether they are earning a living from inside or outside the home. A working mom shoulders added responsibilities that can either cause her to lift up praise and gratitude to the Lord or pull her away from Him as she struggles to survive. First, let’s look at a fact that working mothers often have to deal with – approval. Many working mothers wonder whether God really gives approval for women to work. Some people fall into the camp that God calls women to stay home, while others believe God allows women to work. Which is true? What do you and your family believe? Each of us have seasons in our life. God understands our seasons. He expects us to cling to Him despite the season we’re in. He desires that we seek Him first, make time to prayerfully hear His guidance , and stay in His Word. He must come before all else. God has crafted different purposes into each of us. What God has created you to do is different than what I am purposed to complete. When we purposely mature our walk with Him, God guides us to step into the desires we didn’t even know were in our heart . But only when we humbly submit and follow where He leads. Some of us were meant to complete tasks that require us to be out of the home. We must be extra diligent not to neglect the important duties and privileges of being a mother and wife. We must also ensure that we don’t find our identity there. Identity must come through Jesus. I don’t believe God ever commanded women not to work . Read Proverbs 31:10-31 , which says, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.” Did you notice the beautiful qualities and conviction of the Proverbs 31 woman? How easily we can compare ourselves to her seeming perfection. However, the truth is that through Christ you are free. Free of comparison. Free of the burdens you may carry from juggling all the things. It’s clear that the Proverbs 31 woman excelled at many things. That assures us she was following the path God laid for her . She wasn’t striking out on her own without consulting the Father. What has God called you to do in this season? I don’t mean what do you think you are supposed to do. What do you know through prayerful certainty that God wants you to complete in this season of your life? Jesus never commanded you to live with stress or anxiety. He calls for you to live in peace . He provides that peace. We only find that beautiful fruit of the Spirit when we humbly and obediently submit to Him. Where is He asking you to be right now ? What is He calling you to do? We know that God has basic instructions that do not change. God commands all mothers to do the following : Love God - Mark 12:30 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength .” Trust God - Psalm 121:1-3 says, “I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip—He who watches over you will not slumber .” Follow God - Psalm 27:11 says, “Teach me Your way, Lord; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors .” God also requires devotion to Him first. Family second . He desires that you, no matter where you are in the work force - at home - or outside the home, to train the children He has entrusted to you in His truths and ways . Proverbs 1:8 says, “Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching .” In order for your children to come to a life-saving knowledge of Christ as their Savior, you must make Him known to them. Many women who work struggle in this area. Time is short. They’re unsure of how to have enough time to get dinner on the table after helping everyone with homework, let alone find time to read the Bible so they can teach their kids about Jesus. What is your plan to do that if you are a full-time working mother? Can it be done? Of course, but you have to be even more purposed and ready to sacrifice short term for the long term investment of your child’s eternity with Christ. It can be challenging for you as a working mom to make time to disciple your children. When you consider all of the trials a working mom faces, there’s barely enough time for the basics of living after she returns home each evening. As a working mom, you face normal life successes and challenges, as well as the following: Time – It can be very difficult to leave the house when your child is sick, tired, or missing you. Sometimes they need more cuddle time or extra care. Even a mom working from home faces times when the kids need extra care even though she’s facing work deadlines. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You .” Use blocks of time to direct your children to the Lord through prayer, Bible readings, or devotions together. This is to be an ongoing lifestyle. On days when your children might have to support you through work deadlines, pray with them before you part ways and touch base as you can. Check back with them that evening and spend a few minutes with them to ensure that they are doing well. Depending on your child’s interests, you can take a short walk together at night to find time to explore and talk. You can take a drive together. You can work a puzzle together. You can pass a journal of feelings and thoughts to each other. Use your creativity to observe what would work best for your children and your situation. Of course, there are variables such as age, interests, maturity, etc. Seek God’s guidance in this area before you need it, so you have a strong foundation to build on. I know it can seem impossible to have time to do some of these suggestions, but to make time for these important ways to be together, you will cut out things in your life that don’t honor the Lord or are currently keeping you and your family from spending time together. You’ll always be busy and getting busier. When does parenting for Christ become the priority if it isn’t right now? The world won’t wait to influence your child away from Christ. Don’t give Satan a foothold. Work/Family Balance – Working moms often feel they’re the only one who fails at work/life balance. The truth is that no one juggles everything well at all times. Keep your eyes fixed on what God is calling you to do or how He is leading you . Know that it is godly to say, “no” sometimes. Ensure that your “yeses” are reserved for what God lays on your heart to complete. Colossians 3:23-24 says, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward .” In life, you will experience easier and more challenging seasons. Above all, keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Mentor and teach that lifestyle and decision-making to your children. They need to hear and see you put God first. Are you consistently mentoring the way? Guilt – Guilt’s a feeling that’s easy to carry and let it weigh you down. While working, a mother might miss her children and lose focus while thinking of home demands. When at home, she may feel unfocused on her children due to work demands. She might believe she’s is failing at both jobs. Scripture tells us that Satan is always prowling to see who he can destroy. The devil is out to steal, kill, and destroy. This is why it is imperative to know God’s Word and ingest it daily . Knowing God through His Word is imperative. You cannot build a close relationship or understand where God is calling you or trust He is carrying you without knowing His Word, truths, and character. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus .” Remember, God never causes you to feel guilt. He doesn’t condemn, but He will convict you. He will guide and guard you according to His Word . As you follow His plan for you, He will equip you for the job. God will also allow circumstances that draw you nearer to Him or cause you to depend on Him, rather than self. Be sure to consistently inhale God so you can exhale Him to your family. Atmosphere/Operations of Workplace – Dealing with people can be the hardest part of working. Whether it be customers or co-workers, relationships can be extra challenging. Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still." A working mother carries extra layers of responsibility when she is in the workplace. Not only are the logistics of getting to work daily challenging, but the relationships in the workplace can be as well. Maintaining a godly attitude, work ethic, and reactions are only possible through daily renewal through Christ. Not just knowing you believe in Him or you follow Him, but intentionally seeking Him in fellowship and living at His feet. Even more important, your time at home must reflect the Father you follow. Without relationship through Christ, you cannot cultivate a foundation of hope and trust in Him in your home. Without close relationship with Jesus, your children will not have a firm foundation building under their feet on which to establish a lifetime of faith. You are their first exposure to Jesus. How well are you showing Him? Daycare Struggles (quality, pricing, hours) – It’s challenging to find a caregiver to love your child. When a family member watches your children it might be smooth or could cause more stress, depending on your situation. Finding a quality caregiver is one of the biggest concerns for a working mother. Also important is the consideration of the costs of working (travel, clothing, food, daycare, and more) if one is considering going outside of home to bring in additional income. Sometimes you find that it’s not worth the effort in the long run if you are able to cut costs in other areas. Seek what God’s good and perfect will Is for you. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will .” Sometimes the answer is to stay at home while your children are very young or find a way to work from home. Expectations of others, whether it be a boss, co-worker, customer, family, or client, as well as hours worked, and distance or location of work, and whether traveling is required all play into more added burdens for the working mom. Anxiety hits when you feel overwhelmed. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things .” Our mind is a powerful tool. Choose to keep your mind fixed above and specifically ask God to protect your thoughts. Prayerfully ensure that you are following His will regarding work. Commit to knowing that you will never please everyone all the time. God first, husband second, family next. As important as work is, it comes last. Create the mindset that God will carry you through difficulties if you are listening to His guidance. Trust that He cares for you in every intimate way you need. Are you looking for ways He is doing so already? Are you praising Him before your children so they hear you and will be thankful for His provisions? Communication with Husband – Sometimes, the person you love most gets shoved to the bottom of your to-do list at home. It can be challenging to find time for intimacy or quiet time with your husband. It’s important to have the proper mindset to take care not to neglect your relationship. One of the best ways I have strengthened my 45 year marriage is by praying together daily. It is a habit well worth establishing with your husband and children. James 1:19 says, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry .” Look at your spouse as a person God created and loves. Make time to speak to, and listen to your husband, as well as make time to pray and grow in the Lord together, which will help with the next section. Lack of Support from Husband (in work/business) – Sometimes it’s hard to get help from your husband. Marriage is a two-person commitment and so is caring for the children and the home. While some believe the man should take care of “manly” chores like mowing or lawn work, and the woman should take care of the inside chores of the home, what works for your home and the interests and talents of you and your spouse are what need to be considered. If you love to mow and he likes to cook, take the roles you excel in to maintain the home and help your family flourish. When you work together, knowing you work for God - and then each other, housework and free time are accomplished a lot more easily. Ephesians 5:33 says, “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband .” As you make time to grow your walk with God together, you will follow the loving commands He set forth for your relationship. Loving God first enables you to love each other more deeply. Love is sacrificial. Love listens. Love helps. I believe the closer your husband is following the Lord, the clearer He will hear promptings from you and God on how he should support you with the extra burdens you carry. Spiritual Challenges – Sometimes it can be hard to hear God speaking when life is busy. As believers we know the Word tells us God is present . We also have the Holy Spirit living within us. If we can’t hear God speaking, we are moving too fast. It feels counter-productive and scary to slow down, especially when so much is left undone, but placing God at the top of your list in home and work life will give you peace and joy. Without active fruits of the Spirit, it can be impossible to hear Him speak and direct your ways. Don’t look at what others are doing. Set God first in your life and household and do what He has called for you . Galatians 6:4 says , “Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else .” During the seasons you think you don’t have time for reading God’s Word, listen to it. Ensure that your children do as well. Discuss God’s Word and weave it into conversations, as well as ways to apply God’s commands and truths. You need God’s daily bread. Your spouse and children do, too. Even Jesus realized His need and ensured He spent time with God daily, then relied on the Father moment by moment. Desire to Be Present with Kids (but also bring in income) – I don’t think there is a working mom who feels like she gets enough time with her children. Since time is limited, the most important thing you and your husband can do for your family is maintain close and growing relationship with Jesus and each other. Building that basic foundation will enable you to put everything else in order. Pay attention to your children in the small ways that matter. Cultivate time with them, no matter how brief. That one on one time and being there for them in important ways that feel small now will be remembered later. Ask God for guidance and insight into each child and ask Him to show you the way to help them build identity in Him and relationship with Jesus and you. Be present with those you love, not always on your phone or computer. Show joy in your eyes and body posture when they approach you. When you fail, acknowledge it and apologize to your loved ones. No one is perfect, but you will grow in your wisdom and stature with God as you humbly seek His ways and show them to your family. Philippians 4:13 says, “For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. ” God has commanded you to be the hands that bring His children to His feet. Deuteronomy 6:5-9 commands, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates .” Time for Self – This may be one of the hardest. Time alone is certainly rare. A mom can’t even go to the bathroom alone. But if you’ll listen to an older mom for a moment. Everything I thought I needed to do when I was younger has lost importance when compared to what was completed for Christ. Don’t feel guilty when you need time for yourself. Maybe it’s your love language to take a bubble bath or go to coffee with a friend. Maybe you like long walks with your husband. Whatever speaks to your love language, you need to schedule. But always remember that nothing will complete you like time with God. What did Jesus do when He needed time alone? He used the time to rest in God and be in humble submission to Him. Jesus sought God in all things and in all ways. The Father was first. When you place God as the highest authority in your life, you will be Spirit-led and satisfied. How can you make time for Him before self? Ask God to show you the way to fulfill your duties as a working mom, wife, and mentor of Christ to the children He has entrusted to you. Ask God to give you the joy He purposed for you in this time of your life. No matter where you work in your life at this time, you are in a season. It may be a season you enjoy, or one you can’t wait to finish. Rest in it with Jesus. Know that if you are following where the Lord leads, He is preparing you for the desires of your heart in ways that will honor and glorify Him. Above all, purpose what you are experiencing to enable you to become a set-apart woman who will raise her children to chase Christ over culture. Time is short. But the more you use it in intentional ways that draw you nearer to your Heavenly Father, the more influential you are to His children - for Him . Dear Heavenly Father, How we need Your holy presence in our life. Thank you for making a way for us to reach You at any time. Jesus is the bridge that brings us to You Hallelujah! Father, we thank you for the provisions you make for us through the work of our husbands and our own hands. You know the needs we have, Father. As a woman, we care for much, our attention goes to all, and we constantly think and analyze the world around us. We are naturally intuitive and insightful because You made us that way. Our mind and heart hold so much and we carry the effects of that wherever we are, straddling across the work and home life. God, please comfort and carry us. We need Your strength to navigate the effects of working inside and outside of the home. It seems we’re never off duty and we don’t want to stray from the safety of Your care and loving arms. Please let nothing cause us to drift away from You. Help us continue to cling to You and grow in Your truths and purpose. Keep us on the road You have designed and equip us to carry our children to Your heart and feet. Help our marriages to grow stronger and our lines of communication to be strengthened as we encourage and equip each other in the paths You have called for us. Help us to be present with You and our loved ones in the season we are in and navigate it with Your strength and wisdom. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you’re a working mom inside or outside the home and need an easy way to begin teaching your babies, toddlers, or preschoolers about Jesus, send me an email at info@terrihitt.com . I’m currently working on a devotional to bring your children to the feet of Jesus early. Let me know you’re interested, and I’ll let you know how to receive a copy. Also, you may have heard me talk about the Set-Apart Collective often in this podcast. Why do I share it so often? I know the program works. Through 6 weeks of one-on-one and group coaching, along with Scripturally-based materials I provide, you will complete 8 steps that include the following: Seek God First, Establish Identity, Teach Truth, A Set-Apart Woman, Parent Set-Apart Kids, Arm for Battle, Relationships, and Training. What you learn and solidify in your personal life will directly affect the way you serve God and parent for Him. It will help you construct godly confidence and esteem through Christ in your children. If you’re ready to invest in the future of your children, contact me at info@terrihitt.com for more details or visit terrihitt.com/setapart. Because you are a podcast listener, let me know you heard about the special price I’m offering you. I seriously want you to experience results and live a set-apart life with a set-apart family. Instead of a $997 value, I’ll give you a discount code that enables you to pay only $247. If you are serious about parenting with eternal perspective and raising children to chase Christ over culture, I’m making this very affordable and easy to do. Why? Because supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. If you’ve decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child and you desire to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, the Set-Apart Collective, will deepen your walk with Christ. You’ll learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 097 - How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 097 – How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother raising children to chase Christ over culture. Adoption is a huge piece of the beautiful story of my family. As a mom to two children born to me and two children brought to our family after they were born, I am thankful God chose us for all four. The creator of heaven and earth knew who would be a member of our home and heart. I’m so thankful God weaved the blessing of adoption through the gospel. I bring adoption up in this episode about enabling children to bear fruit for Christ because just last week I was asked whether my two daughters from China took to each other right away. I have to say that God was good. The girls have NEVER fought with one another or ignored each other. In fact, they’ve always been kind to one another. But their relationship has grown into a sister bond over time. As I’ve watched their communication and love blossom, I have noticed that it has grown stronger and more resilient as they have purposely matured their walk with Jesus. I trust that is the reason they’ve never had fights or been unkind to one another. In fact, I receive SUCH joy hearing them communicate with each other throughout the day. I truly tingle with delight inside when I listen to them. God has filled my cup to overflowing with them. Praise Jesus! As Christian parents, we receive a great thrill when we see fruits of the Spirit evident in our believing children. Well, I’d better clarify…of course, your greatest parenting delight should be when your child accepts Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior, but after that, deep joy abounds when you begin to see evidence of their walk with Jesus appear in their daily words, desires, and actions. That is what I’ve observed with my girls. But it all takes concentrated effort. Just as the Bible tells us in James 4:8a , “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you .” As they have drawn nearer to Him it has given them a deeper love for one another. Because of that love they have a mutual respect and extend courtesy between them. Think back to when you first followed Jesus. You may have jumped into your new life with both feet and submitted easily to His guidance and love. Or you may have slowly submitted self to Him more and more over time. Either way, wouldn’t you agree that the way you exhibit Christ’s influence in your life dictates the level of depth in your Christian walk? Consider your children. Have you seen differences in the way your child lives and reacts after they followed Christ? If not, there are ways you can help them begin to bear fruit for Christ . Most of the time growth in Christ is difficult, unless the follower is regularly in the Word. Reading the Bible, seeking God’s wisdom, and communicating with Him through prayer is key to a maturing relationship. Just as you can’t grow your marriage, your relationship with your children, or a new friendship without spending time getting to know that person, you can’t live with godly insight or wisdom, let alone fruits of the Spirit - unless you purposely pursue intimacy with God through Jesus. One top way to help your children pursue Christ with purposed passion is to let them witness you chase God . As you make your relationship with your Heavenly Father evident in natural ways through your lifestyle and desires, you beautifully mentor the way for your children. Are your kids able to see fruits of the Spirit in you? What if they don't? Apologize - to them and God. Tell your children you haven’t been living the way God would want you to - or the way He wants you to model for them. Then begin showing - by example, the way to God. Let them see you in the Word, but also be in the Word with them. Don’t make it a religious affair, but rather a relationship – and a commitment to honor God with the children He entrusted to you. Build a connected relationship that allows you to better know, love, and serve God together. Allow your lifestyle to be one that inhales the truths, love, grace, mercy, and wisdom of God. Exhale those qualities onto your children in the way you speak, act, and react to the daily pressures, trials, and triumphs of life. Another way to help your children begin to exhibit fruits of the Spirit is to look for the natural gifts and talents the Lord gave them . As mom, you probably know your children better than anyone else (except of course, God). Ask Him to reveal what He has purposed for them. Ask Him to show you what interests and talents He bestowed to them when He created them with love and purpose. For example, my middle daughter began painting at the age of one. God exhibited how faithful He is when He prompted me to buy a Little Tykes art easel at a garage sale before we even had our infant home from China. When I discovered her fascination with paints and saw her delight glowing at an event that had set up easels for older children to paint, I came home and dragged that easel out of my basement. I set it up in her playroom and after spreading an old shower curtain on the floor around the easel, I dabbed several colors of acrylic paint onto a paper plate, and made a hole on one side for her to place her thumb through to hold it. Next, I pulled out paint brushes, and clipped a large sheet of paper to the easel. She has been painting now for 18 years. Despite many other interests and activities, this is the one that she has persisted in returning to. In fact, I can hear actually her dipping her paintbrush into the cup of water as she paints with watercolors while I work on this episode. Knowing God gave her talent and the desire to paint, my daughter has always used her work to honor God and showcase His creation. This became one of the ways she bears fruit for Him through action and words as she gives glory to Him. Instead of painting ugliness, she paints light and beauty, especially things of creation or that would beautify a home while instilling joy and peace. What talents or interests has God crafted into your children? How can you help them find what purpose God gifted them? Help them use that skill for Him . Serving is another way to teach your children to bear fruit for Christ. Service at home is the first exposure your children will learn. Teaching by example makes the best impression. When they experience your love and dedication, hear you say how grateful you are to serve them because you love them, and you teach them to serve their father and siblings, you are laying a base foundation for service to others. Depending on your life circumstances, extended family members, neighbors, church members, or the elderly in your community are wonderful places to serve next. Because you instilled the act of selflessness in your children at a young age, service will likely become an important piece of their character and actions as they mature. Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law . “ This passage in the Bible clearly shares what the fruits of the Spirit are. Without knowing these fruits given by the Spirit when we belong to Christ, we cannot begin to recognize when they are or aren’t in use. Another beautiful way to see fruits mature in your children is to make this passage of Scripture known to them. Remind them of the way the Holy Spirit transforms us into a new being. Remind them how through Jesus, they are no longer bound by sin. Teach them to invite the Holy Spirit to bring forth the fruits of love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in their lives to benefit others and grow their walk with Jesus. Equip them to these fruits to form godly character and integrity. Help them look for these qualities in themselves and strive to help them shine for Christ. I’m still amazed that God deposited the Holy Spirit inside me when I became a believer of Christ. Aren’t you in awe that He has done that for you? Instill that wonder in your children as you study God’s Word together and invite Him into each day with you. As the fragrance of Christ permeates your character and home, your children will be better able to bear fruit for Christ as they recognize and utilize the fruits of the Spirit empowering them. Dear Heavenly Father, just as Your holy Word says, how great thou art! Oh, God thank you for Your powerful love for us and the children You entrusted us to raise for You. Enable us to mentor a reverence and love for You that makes them bear much fruit. Help us to be a shining example of Your love and grace. Help us to be a model of bearing fruit that lasts. May our children see You so clearly and lovingly that they can’t help but pursue You. We thank you for entrusting Your precious children to our care. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with moms of littles from infancy to upper grade school. Are you a high achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesu and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 009 - Uniquely Christ's Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #009 – Uniquely Christ’s Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Because I homeschool, I’ve been able to spend much more time with my two youngest daughters than I was able to be with my oldest children, who attended public school while I worked full-time. When you stay home with your children, plus serve as their educator in the classroom, you have the opportunity to craft a special relationship with each child. Not only do I know their natural inclinations toward learning and life, but I understand their attitude and desires. I have a front row seat to viewing when lessons and material stick and when we need to work harder; I get to be present when they accomplish big goals and look them in the eye to share successes in the moment. Just as I have memorized the faces of my beautiful daughters, their spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical states are well known by me. Our closeness comes from time spent together and by pursuing relationship through thick and thin. I know what lights them up and what dims their interest. God clearly shows Himself to me daily through my interactions with them as I recognize His mighty hand in the way He crafted them with special talents, interests, and dreams that can only come from Him. Some may believe that all people are created as “blank slates” with potential to become anything they desire. While part of that statement can be considered true, if we look to scripture, we see that God actually purposed to craft uniqueness into each of us. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “ For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” When we examine this passage closely, we are able to detect the intimacy of God and begin to understand how He planned for and brought each of us into existence. God created our “inmost ” being, meaning our intimate thoughts, our deepest desires. As he formed each of us, we were knitted together, meaning His actions were designed uniquely for each specific human He thought of and created. Every single person is exceptional and exclusive, complex, and created for a purpose designed by the Great I Am. God, the Author of Life was involved in planning and forming each inmost area and outer detail of our soul and body. As the passage of scripture in Psalm 139 continues, we read affirmation that God planned us, saw us, and formed us. He knew all the seconds and days our life would hold before we even came to be. It is no coincidence that you are paired with and have the particular child you were given at the exact time they came to be with you. Whether by birth or adoption, God knew you would parent exactly who you do. Over my extended years of parenting I have found comfort and direction in these verses from Psalm 139. I hope they bring you peace and strength in your parenting journey, as well. Not only are we able to find assurance and affirmation in self-worth for ourselves, but most importantly, for our children. This passage of scripture leaves no doubt that we are each cherished and planned. Your child is not an after-thought. His or her life matters. God purposed for your children to exist. He planned each of us, made each of us, knew us before we were born, and knew the exact second each of us were conceived. Even more, God is present at every moment of formation and development for everyone. He knows when we are born and He knows when we will leave this earth. There is no greater method of teaching your child that her life matters and that God has specific plans for her than through this section of Psalms. Of course, most parents wouldn’t argue the fact that their child is special. Yet, the way we view “special” in earthly or secular terms versus how God defines unique is often quite different. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do .” Combining the passage we read earlier from Psalms with this verse from Ephesians proves that we, and our children are each alive and purposed for special plans that can only come from the Father and are to be used for the Father. Ephesians 2:10 affirms again that we are God’s workmanship and are created in Christ for good works, which were prepared beforehand that we should walk in them. Because of our relationship with Jesus, believers are empowered by the Holy Spirit to do the good works predestined for them to accomplish through Christ. It is very interesting that the word “workmanship” translated in Greek becomes the word poiema (poyeema), which is the root of the English word, “poem.” I find two definitions for the word “poem” to be beautifully interesting in light of the context we are seeking here. The first definition of “poem” is, “a composition in verse, especially one that is characterized by a highly developed artistic form and by the use of heightened language and rhythm to express an intensely imaginative interpretation of the subject .” The second definition is: “composition that, though not in verse, is characterized by great beauty of language or expression .” How God loves each of us and our children to compose us in such specific, artistic ways that showcase His imagination and sovereignty . How clearly He values our individuality and purpose . How deeply He yearns and calls for us to honor Him with what we do and how we use what He has instilled within us. As Christians, we can earnestly believe that we are to raise our child to honor Christ, yet be stuck in how to do it. How is a parent supposed to find the ways each child is unique? 1. Relationship with you – Spending time with your child, observing their tendencies and giftedness. The most important part of this piece is to observe your child through God’s eyes and heart to find what may be used for Him. 2. Play – We all know God works hard, but He also allows Himself to relax. Just seeing the playfulness of each of God’s creations, not only in people, proves that He crafted and understands the importance of play. Children deeply need time to process and understand life, relationships, feelings, and emotions. Try to spend at least a small portion of each day doing some type of play with your child. Much will be discovered during this personal time spent together. If your child is older, play time includes their love language: shopping together, visiting coffee shops, sitting in their room together, chatting and laughing, or enjoying a sporting event or physical activity together. It doesn’t include just going to watch them in an event. Make time to hang out together to deepen your relationship together and get the opportunity to really observe and enjoy your child. 3. Feelings and Emotions – Through much time spent together in playful and serious moments, you will witness your child will express a variety of feelings and emotions. As they express joy or pour out their thoughts or show you through actions, you have the opportunity to see how they are constructed. Are they quiet, do they withhold feelings, do they need time to process, or do they spill and regret? 4. Interests – What lights up the eyes of your children? What makes them excited? What disappoints or scares them? Do they repeatedly seek the same things or like new adventures? Is there a skill or talent that shines through them? How do we help our child to recognize the ways God has made him unique? 1. Healthy parent – When we have and are building a strong, mature relationship with Christ and we show our child the importance of relationship with Him, it will become important to our child. Accepting the gifts and talents God crafted within us is crucial. If we put ourself down and show no value in the way God has constructed us, our child will not find value in himself. As a parent, I believe we also have a very important responsibility to continue seeking God, allowing Him to develop and alter us. We cannot help and enable our children to become what God requires of them if we are not giving our needs to the Lord in humble, loving submission and allowing Him to graft Himself throughout us. Society often reminds us we can only do our best, but I don’t want your best or my best for our precious children. I desire God’s best for us so that they receive His best, as well. 2. Self-esteem – Whether we brag about our abilities or complain about what we feel is wrong with us, neither is the type of confidence Christ would have for us or our children. Building self-esteem through the Lord builds our walk with Him and becomes an example to our children, teaching them how to rely on Christ and trust that He has placed value within them. Helping our child to build their esteem through Jesus is the greatest foundation they will have. They must understand Who they belong to and what to craft their life around. Actively building that relationship with you and Christ together daily enables your child to recognize their godly potential and step out in faith to continue building it. How do we guide our child to use their giftings, interests, or talents for God? 1. Safety – When we are focused on constructing and maintaining strong relationship with our child and Christ, our child feels safe to learn and grow with us. It is much easier to trust Jesus when your child knows she can trust you. When we remark on their abilities and strengths and offer suggestions as to how to use them for the Lord, our child hears and listens to our suggestions and feels safe enough to trust our encouragement and testimony to pursue their own faith. 2. Encouragement – Acknowledging the strengths of our children and offering glory to God for them teaches them to do the same. 3. Relationship with Jesus – When our child discovers faith and purposely develops it as their own, relationship with Christ will slowly mature. As they see, hear, and remember the way we have taught them to respect how God made them individually and for a purpose, and see how we use our own giftings for the Lord, they will believe their Heavenly Father can guide them in the way to honor Him. As we continue to love God with all our heart, all our soul, all our mind, and with all our strength, and humbly seek His way in building relationship with our children and allowing Him to continue transforming us moment by moment, our children are taught by example. As we recognize and help them develop the interests and talents God specifically chose to craft within them, then teach them the joy of serving God through them, we honor our Lord in ways that last for eternity. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are! Thank you for entrusting us with the talents and gifts You crafted within each of us and for the ones You gifted to our children. Help all of us to see and use what You have given us and enable our children to use them in mighty ways for Your kingdom and purpose. May our children delight You in the way they use the creativity and interests You chose for them. Your word tells us that before You formed our children in the womb You knew them, before they were born You set them apart, just as You did for us. What a holy honor to walk in the plans You have set for us. Help us to be so close to You, help our children to choose You and walk in Your ways that we each easily discern Your purpose and ways. Your word assures us that even the very hairs of our head are all numbered . You tell us that You, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, You are the potter; we are all the work of Your hand . In so many ways You make it clear that You are the Great I Am, but You also show how deeply and clearly You love us and chose to be with us. How thankful we desire to be. Help us please You as we understand more clearly moment by moment just how good You are, just how lavishly You love. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you pray for your child, please look for my free ebook, “Prayers for My Child,” available on the website under the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scripturally-based prayer. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is now available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #055 – Discover Identity Through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. At a recent family gathering, I listened to my adult son share childhood recollections with my younger daughters and grandson. It was a pleasure to hear how he remembered events and what his opinions were. I’ve always been fascinated by how people can live the same experiences and have such different emotions and memories. Listening to his recollections and thoughts allowed me to know him in a new way and appreciate the unique ways God wired him to view and participate in life. So, in this episode today we’re going to start with memories. Let’s relax and think back. Do you remember something about your childhood that was always a pleasure to do? I mean something you had to do? Did you have an interest that stirred you, motivated you, or set you apart from others? A passion? Was there a gift or calling you had to pursue because it seemed to complete you? What about your child? Is there something she does that is a type of identity marker? When my middle daughter was young, there were two things anyone who knew her would mention if they spoke of her. Dance and painting. Those who know my youngest daughter well would say designing and building with Legos. My oldest daughter had such wit and a quick sense of humor. I am a believer that it is a privilege and responsibility for parents to observe the inclinations and interests our children have. There is a connection between youth and exploration into what we are naturally drawn to. Observant parents will pay attention to these clues, along with the personality of their child. Through prayer and connection to them, we should find joy in assisting them to find what brings light to their spirit and could also be a source of income in the future, as well as an offering they can use to honor God with what He has bestowed to them. My adult son uses skills God gave him to be able to listen well, read body language, and connect with people as he serves them in sales. My youngest daughter crafts intricate designs and constructs buildings and cities with Legos and also has an amazing ability to streamline processes. My middle daughter is gifted visually and artistically with graphic design and through the use of paper, paint, and a brush, brings light and joyful artwork to others. One of the biggest parenting joys I have is seeing and recognizing the passions, interests, and abilities God has crafted into each one of my children. Do you find it easier to observe and understand the God-gifted abilities your children possess, but perhaps not what you have yourself? I know it is more challenging for me. Although I always understood what I enjoyed and where I found peace and motivation, I was never able to comfortably or confidently acknowledge that I might have a talent in writing. To be very raw, I still don’t see a great ability, but I am leaning on the trust I have in God and the stirrings He places in my heart to accomplish through Him. I trust that I have what God needs for me to humbly follow where He leads and write simply and honestly about Him. What many people find challenging is to balance finding gifts or passions and connecting those talents and interests to enable them to fully express and use them for God. Even more important than finding and using the gifts God has given is learning to see ourselves as God views us and to understand how to navigate life in this world as He desires and calls us to. Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” If we don’t know who we are through Christ, we are not showing our children where to find their identity. Instead, they will likely search and chase the culture and influences of this world, and establish their identification based on who or what they see and hear. These days, by the time children are in middle school, and often grade school, many deal with suicide rates, nude photos, chat with dangerous strangers who attract and lead them away, and many have been exposed to pornography. These are topics we never want to hear associated with any person, let alone children. When a child (just like an adult), does not have a moral compass built on Christ, he is much more prone to seek whatever this world or his tell him to. He will never find satisfaction or live with joy, hope, or peace. Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” We must have a true and maturing relationship with God through Jesus in order to recognize the need for our child to have the same. Psalm 63:1 says, “O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water.” We were created for fellowship and communion with God. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.” God created us to desire Him. When we do not seek Him, our spirit is never satisfied. Our beloved children have the same need for God created in them. If we do not consciously nurture and instruct our child in a healthy and growing relationship with Christ, she will subconsciously absorb and become what others in this world show and tell her to value and believe. She will also likely find unhealthy ways to cope with stresses and disappointments in life. On the other hand, children who are raised in healthy, God-filled environments at home contain more joy and contentment, and are more optimistic, encouraging, resilient, and flexible. They are also less likely to be promiscuous, use drugs or alcohol, or be lured into or tempted by unsafe encounters, and are closer to parents and family than the average child. Our children, when raised to honor and follow Jesus in a thriving relationship, are also more likely to have wise self-control, habits, and behaviors, as well as seek godly wisdom over worldly advice. A growing concern today is the sexual orientation of children. Our educational system, as well as books, movies, television shows, music, and celebrities, push a godless agenda of choice and change on our innocent and naïve children. When we raise our child to know, respect, and understand God’s sovereignty, values, and truths, she will understand her God-given sexual identity and carry a sacred view of life while maintaining respectful tolerance for family and community, even those who carry differing opinions. A child patterning her life after Jesus does not look down on others who disagree and can have a conversation without harsh accusations or anger. Instead, she shows empathy and respect while allowing others their choice, but respectfully asking God to guide her choices. A child who concentrates on growing a relationship with God through Jesus has a deeper respect for authority, is more likely to uphold truthfulness and integrity, dress modestly, respect herself, and will learn to view set-backs or hardships as opportunities to grow closer to God and also use them to establish and reinforce healthy and thriving coping behaviors or life skills. It is essential that we build our personal relationship with Jesus daily. When He is important to us, when we delight in Him, His teachings, and our walk with Him, our child will also begin to place importance on Jesus. Once we are growing our faith journey in genuine and fruitful ways, how do we encourage and enable our child to build their identity in Christ? There are multiple ways, but I will list the easiest methods with which to begin. 1. Let your child see you build relationship, not watch you follow a religion. Connections are built through authenticity and commitment. 2. Share why you hold certain beliefs. Back up your faith with God’s word and stories of His faithfulness. 3. Look for, and point out God, in simple moments of life. Include Him in all you are and do. Nature walks, Bible stories, and tying Him to life events are all easy ways to begin. 4. Develop routines and traditions that guide the entire family to the Lord. Our family made a Family Vision and Mission Statement. You can listen the Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast episode 039 “Family With A Mission,” to hear more about it. 5. Create your own Family Mission Statement together. Listen to the input of your child and incorporate it into the statement. 6. Read the Bible and pray together daily. 7. Let your child see you read your Bible during personal time, as well. Encourage her to do the same. 8. Pray for your child alone, but also in front of her. Encourage her to pray for you, too. 9. Show your child how you look to God in times of trouble so that she will do the same. 10. Let her see you praise God in good times, too. 11. Teach her (by example) how to serve and honor God. Let her come with you when you serve (where appropriate) and let her choose places to serve so that you can work together. 12. Spend time with your child doing her love language together. Work with the schedule of your family to create moments your child will remember. When she is attached and feels close to you, she will be more willing to desire a relationship with God. You will also be able to guide her more easily, because she will let you be privy to her thoughts and feelings because you have a strong relationship she trusts. 13. Listen to your child. When you have a close relationship, she will be more likely to entrust questions, fears, joys, and doubts about God with you so that you can help navigate her faith, pray specifically, and help her flourish. Two verse from Proverbs give great hope for parents. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Proverbs 29:17 says, “Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire.” We cannot guarantee that our child will choose to follow Jesus, but we can ensure that we give her sincere, natural, positive, and faith-filled truths, experiences, and biblical scriptures to make Jesus known and to guide her straight to Him. Godly character and integrity can be imparted to her through consistent, purposeful mentorship when we personally know, love, and strive to honor the Lord with our child. 1 Peter 5:2-3 says, “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.” What a lovely and significant purpose we have to parent our child for the Lord. Lamentations 3:22-23 says, “Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Remember, God did not allow you to parent His unique child because He knows you are fully equipped. God demands and desires that we trust in Him and allow Him to lead and equip us in every aspect of our parenting journey. We should be on our knees daily with minds and hearts turned to His every lead. God knows and understands everything about each of us and our child and is the only one who can guide us in the ways we should go. He is fully equipped and able to handle every need that we, or our child, has. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” One of my favorite parental instruction passages is Deuteronomy 6:6-9, which says, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” God cannot make the importance of purposeful parenting for Him clearer. Psalm 78:1-7 says, “My people, hear my teaching; listen to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth with a parable; I will utter hidden things, things from of old— things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done. He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands.” Jesus speaks the instruction so clearly in Matthew 19:14. “But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” Likewise, Mark 9:42 says, “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.” Father God, we need You so desperately. Thank you for Your guidance, love, and instruction. Parenting is the greatest and hardest joy You bestow on us. May we be worthy of Your great gift. Help us understand Your desires and see the blessing of our children with Your loving eyes. Enable us to seek and find You in deeper ways daily and show us how to reach each child with Your heart and truths. May our children please and delight You, Father. May they find their identity through and in You. Keep them close and in Your perfect care. Give them Your wisdom and desires. May they be equipped and eager to show You, so that Your truths and commands will be known to, and followed by, future generations. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 055 Discover Identity Through Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #055 – Discover Identity Through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. At a recent family gathering, I listened to my adult son share childhood recollections with my younger daughters and grandson. It was a pleasure to hear how he remembered events and what his opinions were. I’ve always been fascinated by how people can live the same experiences and have such different emotions and memories. Listening to his recollections and thoughts allowed me to know him in a new way and appreciate the unique ways God wired him to view and participate in life. So, in this episode today we’re going to start with memories. Let’s relax and think back. Do you remember something about your childhood that was always a pleasure to do? I mean something you had to do? Did you have an interest that stirred you, motivated you, or set you apart from others? A passion? Was there a gift or calling you had to pursue because it seemed to complete you? What about your child? Is there something she does that is a type of identity marker? When my middle daughter was young, there were two things anyone who knew her would mention if they spoke of her. Dance and painting. Those who know my youngest daughter well would say designing and building with Legos. My oldest daughter had such wit and a quick sense of humor. I am a believer that it is a privilege and responsibility for parents to observe the inclinations and interests our children have. There is a connection between youth and exploration into what we are naturally drawn to. Observant parents will pay attention to these clues, along with the personality of their child. Through prayer and connection to them, we should find joy in assisting them to find what brings light to their spirit and could also be a source of income in the future, as well as an offering they can use to honor God with what He has bestowed to them. My adult son uses skills God gave him to be able to listen well, read body language, and connect with people as he serves them in sales. My youngest daughter crafts intricate designs and constructs buildings and cities with Legos and also has an amazing ability to streamline processes. My middle daughter is gifted visually and artistically with graphic design and through the use of paper, paint, and a brush, brings light and joyful artwork to others. One of the biggest parenting joys I have is seeing and recognizing the passions, interests, and abilities God has crafted into each one of my children. Do you find it easier to observe and understand the God-gifted abilities your children possess, but perhaps not what you have yourself? I know it is more challenging for me. Although I always understood what I enjoyed and where I found peace and motivation, I was never able to comfortably or confidently acknowledge that I might have a talent in writing. To be very raw, I still don’t see a great ability, but I am leaning on the trust I have in God and the stirrings He places in my heart to accomplish through Him. I trust that I have what God needs for me to humbly follow where He leads and write simply and honestly about Him. What many people find challenging is to balance finding gifts or passions and connecting those talents and interests to enable them to fully express and use them for God. Even more important than finding and using the gifts God has given is learning to see ourselves as God views us and to understand how to navigate life in this world as He desires and calls us to. Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” If we don’t know who we are through Christ, we are not showing our children where to find their identity. Instead, they will likely search and chase the culture and influences of this world, and establish their identification based on who or what they see and hear. These days, by the time children are in middle school, and often grade school, many deal with suicide rates, nude photos, chat with dangerous strangers who attract and lead them away, and many have been exposed to pornography. These are topics we never want to hear associated with any person, let alone children. When a child (just like an adult), does not have a moral compass built on Christ, he is much more prone to seek whatever this world or his tell him to. He will never find satisfaction or live with joy, hope, or peace. Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” We must have a true and maturing relationship with God through Jesus in order to recognize the need for our child to have the same. Psalm 63:1 says, “O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water.” We were created for fellowship and communion with God. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.” God created us to desire Him. When we do not seek Him, our spirit is never satisfied. Our beloved children have the same need for God created in them. If we do not consciously nurture and instruct our child in a healthy and growing relationship with Christ, she will subconsciously absorb and become what others in this world show and tell her to value and believe. She will also likely find unhealthy ways to cope with stresses and disappointments in life. On the other hand, children who are raised in healthy, God-filled environments at home contain more joy and contentment, and are more optimistic, encouraging, resilient, and flexible. They are also less likely to be promiscuous, use drugs or alcohol, or be lured into or tempted by unsafe encounters, and are closer to parents and family than the average child. Our children, when raised to honor and follow Jesus in a thriving relationship, are also more likely to have wise self-control, habits, and behaviors, as well as seek godly wisdom over worldly advice. A growing concern today is the sexual orientation of children. Our educational system, as well as books, movies, television shows, music, and celebrities, push a godless agenda of choice and change on our innocent and naïve children. When we raise our child to know, respect, and understand God’s sovereignty, values, and truths, she will understand her God-given sexual identity and carry a sacred view of life while maintaining respectful tolerance for family and community, even those who carry differing opinions. A child patterning her life after Jesus does not look down on others who disagree and can have a conversation without harsh accusations or anger. Instead, she shows empathy and respect while allowing others their choice, but respectfully asking God to guide her choices. A child who concentrates on growing a relationship with God through Jesus has a deeper respect for authority, is more likely to uphold truthfulness and integrity, dress modestly, respect herself, and will learn to view set-backs or hardships as opportunities to grow closer to God and also use them to establish and reinforce healthy and thriving coping behaviors or life skills. It is essential that we build our personal relationship with Jesus daily. When He is important to us, when we delight in Him, His teachings, and our walk with Him, our child will also begin to place importance on Jesus. Once we are growing our faith journey in genuine and fruitful ways, how do we encourage and enable our child to build their identity in Christ? There are multiple ways, but I will list the easiest methods with which to begin. 1. Let your child see you build relationship, not watch you follow a religion. Connections are built through authenticity and commitment. 2. Share why you hold certain beliefs. Back up your faith with God’s word and stories of His faithfulness. 3. Look for, and point out God, in simple moments of life. Include Him in all you are and do. Nature walks, Bible stories, and tying Him to life events are all easy ways to begin. 4. Develop routines and traditions that guide the entire family to the Lord. Our family made a Family Vision and Mission Statement. You can listen the Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast episode 039 “Family With A Mission,” to hear more about it. 5. Create your own Family Mission Statement together. Listen to the input of your child and incorporate it into the statement. 6. Read the Bible and pray together daily. 7. Let your child see you read your Bible during personal time, as well. Encourage her to do the same. 8. Pray for your child alone, but also in front of her. Encourage her to pray for you, too. 9. Show your child how you look to God in times of trouble so that she will do the same. 10. Let her see you praise God in good times, too. 11. Teach her (by example) how to serve and honor God. Let her come with you when you serve (where appropriate) and let her choose places to serve so that you can work together. 12. Spend time with your child doing her love language together. Work with the schedule of your family to create moments your child will remember. When she is attached and feels close to you, she will be more willing to desire a relationship with God. You will also be able to guide her more easily, because she will let you be privy to her thoughts and feelings because you have a strong relationship she trusts. 13. Listen to your child. When you have a close relationship, she will be more likely to entrust questions, fears, joys, and doubts about God with you so that you can help navigate her faith, pray specifically, and help her flourish. Two verse from Proverbs give great hope for parents. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.” Proverbs 29:17 says, “Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire.” We cannot guarantee that our child will choose to follow Jesus, but we can ensure that we give her sincere, natural, positive, and faith-filled truths, experiences, and biblical scriptures to make Jesus known and to guide her straight to Him. Godly character and integrity can be imparted to her through consistent, purposeful mentorship when we personally know, love, and strive to honor the Lord with our child. 1 Peter 5:2-3 says, “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.” What a lovely and significant purpose we have to parent our child for the Lord. Lamentations 3:22-23 says, “Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Remember, God did not allow you to parent His unique child because He knows you are fully equipped. God demands and desires that we trust in Him and allow Him to lead and equip us in every aspect of our parenting journey. We should be on our knees daily with minds and hearts turned to His every lead. God knows and understands everything about each of us and our child and is the only one who can guide us in the ways we should go. He is fully equipped and able to handle every need that we, or our child, has. Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” One of my favorite parental instruction passages is Deuteronomy 6:6-9, which says, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” God cannot make the importance of purposeful parenting for Him clearer. Psalm 78:1-7 says, “My people, hear my teaching; listen to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth with a parable; I will utter hidden things, things from of old— things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done. He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands.” Jesus speaks the instruction so clearly in Matthew 19:14. “But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” Likewise, Mark 9:42 says, “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.” Father God, we need You so desperately. Thank you for Your guidance, love, and instruction. Parenting is the greatest and hardest joy You bestow on us. May we be worthy of Your great gift. Help us understand Your desires and see the blessing of our children with Your loving eyes. Enable us to seek and find You in deeper ways daily and show us how to reach each child with Your heart and truths. May our children please and delight You, Father. May they find their identity through and in You. Keep them close and in Your perfect care. Give them Your wisdom and desires. May they be equipped and eager to show You, so that Your truths and commands will be known to, and followed by, future generations. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence children with love and purpose through Him. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 120 - How to Train Your Child to Rely on Scripture Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 120 – How to Train Your Child to Rely on Scripture Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode about how to train your child to rely on Scripture. Being a parent is hard. Being a godly parent is impossible! Unless we rest and abide in the arms of the One who entrusted His children to us. Before you became a parent did you realize the depth of skills you’d need? As a mother, you’re most likely the encourager, the peacemaker, the comforter, the chef, and the maid. Keeping the home tidy and well-managed, the children growing and thriving, and your life with your husband flourishing can be challenging. But when those thoughts of inadequacy or overwhelm hit, do you stop to assess why you’re experiencing those feelings? Most often, it’s because we’re relying on self. We try to be perfect, manage it all, and take care of everyone around us. Instead, we should be resting in the Father’s arms and seeking His approval and direction above all else. What’s the best way to accomplish this? Maturing our relationship with Jesus, but not daily - moment by moment. When we emphasize moment by moment growth we must depend on the Holy Spirit within us moment by moment. Once you’ve pursued relationship with Jesus through the gift of salvation, what’s next? Learning the character of God through Scripture. Without your humble submission to the Lord and continued growth through His Word, your personal and family life simply cannot thrive. As believers, we long for our children to know Jesus and follow Him into eternity one day. But the truth is that if you’re not personally mentoring a love for Him that keeps you in the Bible, studying and growing with loving intention, your child isn’t going to see the need. Life only gets busier once you have children! You already think you’re busy, then suddenly you find time to do what needs to be completed to enable you to give the best care to your precious child. What about time with your precious Father in Heaven? Somehow, the most important relationship you can have gets relegated to the back of your mind and heart. Eventually, unless you are intentional, you stop hearing and responding to the Holy Spirit inside. Life gets heavier, messier, and you wonder why you no longer feel peace, joy, or a longing for the Lord. Is this the life you want your children to witness? Is this the life you want them to emulate? Of course not. Believing moms understand this isn’t the life they want for their children. They just struggle to find the time to do all the things. The first step is realizing that you’ll never find enough time. You must make time for what God calls most important. When you strive to follow His desires, prayerfully request that He show you what He desires, then show you how to get that time, He will. If God could part the sea for Israelites to cross, do you believe He can guide you to find time for Him? Once you realize that you have the power to find that time to be in the Word and inhale Christ so you effortlessly exhale Him, you must continue to seek the Father in prayer. Did you know that the most beautiful and effective prayers are Scripturally based? If you practice the art of Scripture-based prayers and allow your children to benefit from hearing you (and being the subject of those prayers), they will seek the Word and learn to craft their own prayers from the Scripture. Just as you teach them how to eat healthy foods, how to dress, how to lovingly and respectfully respond in words and actions, as well as everything else you guide them through as you raise them, your purposed practice of prayer will influence the way your children view prayer and God’s Word. So, what is the best way to train your child to rely on Scripture? Ensure that you are reliant on God’s Word. First, let’s look at Bible verses that equip how you shape your desire for and reliance on Scripure. Philippians 4:9 says, “What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you .” 1 Corinthians 11:1 says, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.” Titus 2:7-8 says, “Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us .” Matthew 19:14 says, “But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to Me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven .” Next, let’s use these verses to craft a prayer that enables us, as women believers and mothers on mission to raise kids who chase Christ over culture to speak biblical truth that will delight the ears and heart of God. Dear Heavenly Father, how great You are. Thank you for allowing me into Your mighty presence to come before You with requests for my life and the lives of the children You have entrusted to my care. Please equip me to see You clearly and be an imitator of You. Help me to learn and receive what I have learned of Jesus, who in all ways exemplifies Your glory. Cause my desires, mind, and heart to show Your integrity, dignity, and speech so that no one can condemn me or be caused to cast blame on You. As You transform me through the power of Your Word and the Holy Spirit within me, please help me to bring my children to You, laying them at Your heart and feet so they won’t be hindered. May all I do and say cause them to come straight to Jesus and enter the kingdom of Heaven for eternity. May they carry wisdom that only comes from You. In His precious name I pray. Amen. Do you see how easily Scripture can be made into prayers that reflect God’s will and purposes? How much easier it is to know God, reflect Him in prayer requests, and speak to His heart in the ways He desires to hear when we have learned His nature and commands through the truths of the Bible. When your children hear your pray with such devotion and Scriptural truths and include them in ways that honor and please God, they will experience the dedicated love of a mother who clearly shines the Lord. God honors Scriptural prayers as you align your words and heart with His. Remember, the book of Proverbs teaches that godly wisdom is critical for creating and maintaining a life pleasing to God. As you lay a foundation of faith for your children to stand on to construct their own relationship with Jesus, you’ll build the rails that also guard and guide them. These rails line the pathway that leads them to Scripture. Without this strong foundation to hold the personal house of faith they will build, your children won’t carry godly insight, wisdom, or judgement that instills and directs this path to navigate life with integrity and insight from God. As you raise your young ones to know, love, honor, and obey God and direct them toward a personal relationship with Jesus, craft prayers to be lifted to God in your personal time with Him and also speak prayers you offer with your children. Lifting prayers in the presence of your children teaches them how to prioritize relationship with God and how to approach Him with reverence, honor and relationship. Whether your children are older, and you’re just now teaching them to rely on God or you’ve been modeling relationship that leads to Jesus over the years, using Scriptural prayers will deepen their hope and trust while leading them closer to our Heavenly Father as you remain committed and consistent. The more you’re in God’s Word and know Him, the better you’re able to pray with Scripture at the forefront of your mind. If you’re unsure how to begin, find verses that are in alignment with how you hope to parent the children God has entrusted to your care. Ask God to direct you to verses that will reach the heart of your children while continuing to deepen your walk with Him in ways that transform your desires, actions, and reactions for your children to witness His life-changing power. The closer you move to God, the more your parenting desires will reflect His will. Start with Scripture that is easy for your children to understand and that will build the basics of a lifelong trust in, and relationship with God, through Jesus. As your pray these prayers consistently with your children, you’ll find that the truth resting in the verses you use will also flow into conversations and guide the lifestyle you establish in your home. Now let’s look at verses about guidance for Godly Parents : Deuteronomy 6:5-7 says, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. ” Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it .” Ephesians 6:4 says, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord .” Psalm 127:1 says, “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain .” Colossians 3:21 says, “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged .” Dear Heavenly Father, all my praise goes to You, the Maker of Heaven and Earth. There is none like You. Father, Your Word tells me to love You with all my heart and all my soul, and all my might. Help me to do so in all the way that honor You and bring my children to do the same. Show me the ways You desire me to teach You and Your truths to my children with diligence and steadfast love. Help us effortlessly talk of You in all places and yearn to be with You each day together. Help my husband and I to be in agreement in how to train our children in the ways You say they should go. May we lean on Your truths and strength and follow Your word, not the world. Help the children You’ve entrusted us to raise grow up to love You with an everlasting and widening love that brings joy and light to You. Help our home be one that is built by You and will withstand the troubles of this world or our flesh. May my husband and I never provoke or discourage our children and may we never be a stumbling block that shifts their focus from You. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Next, let’s select Scripture for prayerful wisdom . Proverbs 2:6-7 says, “For the Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding; He stores up sound wisdom for the upright; He is a shield to those who walk in integrity .” Proverbs 3:1 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep My commandments. ” Dear Heavenly Father, Almighty Father and keeper of my soul. How great You are. Thank you for allowing me into Your holy presence. Father, Your Word tells me that You alone give wisdom. From Your mouth come understanding and You are a shield to those who walk in Your integrity. Help me to be one who fits these requirements. Equip me to show these ways to my watching children and through it, lead them straight to Your arms. May they embrace You and Your ways as truth that guides them throughout their life here and into eternity. Help them to always remember Your teachings and may they keep Your commandments because they strive to love and honor You. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Now we’ll look at prayers for peace . Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God .” Romans 12:2 says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect .” 1 Peter 5:7 says, “Casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you .” Dear Heavenly Father, Author of peace. May my life carry the peace only You can give. Thank you for the peace You provide when I keep my mind fixed on You. Help me to exemplify Your peace in all circumstances and model that reliance on You to my children. Help them to embody Your peace that passes understanding because they have heart and minds fixed on You and Your unwavering truths. May we each make requests known to You that are acceptable and perfect in Your eyes and may they be in alignment with Your will and ways because we renew our minds and receive discernment through You. May we always cast all of our anxieties on You, because we trust that You care for us. In Jesus’s name we pray. Amen. Now, one last example. Let’s look at Steadfast Faith . Matthew 19:14 says, “But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven .” Proverbs 1:8-9 says, “Hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and forsake not your mother’s teaching, for they are a graceful garland for your head and pendants for your neck .” 2 Timothy 3:14-17 says, “But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.” Dear Heavenly Father, Gracious Father who fills me with such love and desire for godliness. Thank you for instructing me in Your ways so that I can lovingly mentor my children in Your ways. You say that I should not hinder the little children from coming to You. Show me the way to bring them to You. Help me show Your heart and truths in ways that are lasting in their life. Help my children to appreciate what is taught of you. May they never forsake my teaching or the teachings of their father because we are in alignment with Your will and ways in all things. May my children choose to serve You all the days of their life and long to be pleasing in Your sight. Help them remember all of Scripture is breathed by You and will train, correct, and equip them for every good work. May they always delight in delighting You. In Jesus’s name I pray. Amen. Can you see how easy it is to know God through His Word and find Scripture that brings your desires and words into alignment with His will? I urge you to seek Him through the Bible today. Find Scripture that will help you craft the prayers you want to lift to the Great I Am. Your diligence and dedication will bring godly blessings and connection to your children and family. Scriptural prayers are another powerful tool to keep your heart and the heart of your family in alignment with God. These prayers offer protection and guidance in a world of confusion. As you continue to pray from God’s Word, your desires and actions are transformed into the image of Christ that will attract your children as you become a godlier woman and parent. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with professionals who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 019 - How to Help My Child Find and Live God's Biblical Truths Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #019 – How to Help My Child Find and Live God’s Biblical Truth Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Back in the 80’s and 90’s, when I raised my first set of children, the majority of Americans considered themselves Christians. Now only an approximate 65% of Americans identify as Christian. Even worse, I recently heard nearly 70% of born-again Christians disagree with the biblical position that Jesus is the only way to God. Haven’t they ever read John 14:6-7 , which says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know Me, you will know My Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him .” Times have certainly changed. To be honest, although it sounds judgmental, and I certainly do not mean it that way, the truth is that many who label themselves as Christian simply do not live a biblical lifestyle that supports their claim. I often tell my teenaged daughters that they are living in a generation that needs to be able to defend their faith. In this current day, not only are Christian beliefs ridiculed, but Christians carry (or should carry) a reflection of holiness, through the Holy Spirit within us, that those who do not believe are offended by. If a Christian convicts the world simply by carrying the morals and truths of Jesus, we know that the world is actually repulsed by Christ because darkness exists in their soul. In fact, the Bible warned us of this happening. If the virtues we carry are found offensive, causing us to be hated, those in disagreement will lash out in fear or shame, whether they realize it in the moment or not. As the world moves deeper into sin and away from the solid foundation of Christ, the more justified those living in transgression feel about themselves and their choices. The kingdom of darkness rules this world, and the words found in 1 Peter 5:8-9 are eternally true. “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings .” Our children are growing up in a world that does not seek truth . Look around at programs enticing our children and luring them to the world of sin such as the new cartoon, “Little Demon.” Our culture is desensitizing adults and children with television shows, movies, books, magazine, music, and even phone filters, such as one I saw this week. It actually turns the face of the viewer into a devil. What parent would ever allow their child to use such an app or filter? Obviously more than we probably think. Whether the parents realize it or not, every choice they make (or don’t make) that isn’t purposely done for Christ through an eternal perspective, their child is drifting closer to Satan. Relative truth reigns in our culture and is extracted from whatever anyone wants to believe (or hopes is real), and actually stands for nothing. Even schoolrooms promote anti-biblical agendas that are destroying the fabric and soul of our children and nation. God’s truth is the only authentic and lasting source of integrity. Authored by Truth, God’s words and ways show us and our children the only way to live with hope, love, trust, faith, and purpose. Do you desire to raise a child who walks with Jesus in truth and confidence? Or would you rather parent a confused child who will never experience the love, joy, or peace of one following the Lord? In John 15:18-19 Jesus said, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.” Do not misunderstand. As God warned that the devil is prowling this world looking for victims to deceive, we must be ever mindful or we will fall prey to his schemes. Our nation and the families within it are more divided than I have seen in my lifetime. If we are not reading, studying, practicing, and teaching God’s commands and warnings of the Bible, we are walking in step with the deceiver of this world and playing directly into his hands. Micah 6:8 says, “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” This verse is one of several lines of Scripture in the Bible in which God clearly allows us to hear exactly how He wants us to live and direct our children to Him . 1. Act justly – People will try many things in an attempt to please God, but in the ways they desire. Living with an eternal perspective, however, and mentoring that mindset to our children will lead us (and them) straight to God’s word . Instead of guessing what God desires or selfishly doing what we want, His commands clearly show us the way to please and honor Him. 2. Love mercy – When we live in ways that honor God, and we treasure His word, we will become more Christlike in character. To walk justly and love mercy means that we are fair in dealing with others and show mercy, even when it is not deserved. Our actions reach and teach our children more quickly than our words . We truly begin to live more like Jesus did. 3. Walk humbly with God – As we know God more clearly through time spent in His word , in prayer and fellowship with Him, and we listen to His voice and direction , we will step in alignment with His desires. As we obediently submit where He calls, we humbly walk with our Father. As our children see this example, and we communicate the importance of living in this way through loving ways, they will be drawn to the same attitude toward God and much more likely to choose an eternity-driven mindset and lifestyle. We cannot live in this manner through our own strength. Our children cannot live like this without knowing Christ, hopefully through our patient and loving mentorship. Only Christ can equip any of us to live in ways that please and honor our Heavenly Father. Godly influence must be present in our home or our children will follow the leadership of the world . They must have the moral compass of God existing in their heart and mind to be able to recognize the lies of this world. They must wear the armor of God to be protected from the trappings and lures of this world. That means we must be a true north that keeps our child connected to the true compass, God. Throughout the Bible, God makes the way to a joyful life that is pleasing to Him clear for us to follow. As pursue the Lord’s ways and truths, we are able to direct our children to an abundant life. Micah 7:1-2 says, “What misery is mine! I am like one who gathers summer fruit at the gleaning of the vineyard; there is no cluster of grapes to eat, none of the early figs that I crave. The faithful have been swept from the land; not one upright person remains. Everyone lies in wait to shed blood; they hunt each other with nets.” What will become of our children and their children if godly influence disappears entirely in the world? Micah 7:3-4 says, “Both hands are skilled in doing evil; the ruler demands gifts, the judge accepts bribes, the powerful dictate what they desire—they all conspire together. The best of them is like a brier, the most upright worse than a thorn hedge. The day God visits you has come, the day your watchmen sound the alarm. Now is the time of your confusion.” What will become of our children and future generations if we continue with escalating violence, along with business and political corruption? Micah 7:5 says, ”Do not trust a neighbor; put no confidence in a friend. Even with the woman who lies in your embrace guard the words of your lips .” What will our world be like when future generations live with unfaithful friendships and no allies? Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Strength is in numbers and a threefold cord is not broken.” Micah 7:6 says, “For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises up against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law—a man’s enemies are the members of his own household.” Through all of the indoctrinations and deceit in our world today, we already see children dishonoring parents. When public schools and government officials seek to remove parental rights, teach radical thoughts and lies, remove history from schools, and introduce perverted lifestyles and values to minors, more and more families will be broken, hurting, and separated from each other and our Lord. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me .” Our only hope comes from a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. As the world continues down a slippery slope of our own selfish and distorted making, nothing will change hearts except Jesus and the truths of God. Actions stem from what is already held in the heart and reflect what is ruling the mind . Christ came to deliver us from self and sin. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Trust in the Lord. Seek Him and His ways. Know His teachings so that you and your child can follow a life of abundance, peace, and love that this world cannot know without Christ. Dear Heavenly Father. There is none like You. Your love for us is greater than we can ever imagine. Your truths are for our good and protection. Forgive us for forgetting You. Forgive us for letting our children down when we seek to raise them in our own strength instead of relying on Your truths and commands that lead to life eternal with You. Father, keep pursuing us. Do not let us lead our children astray. Help us to raise them in the image of Christ and allow You to build up the foundation beneath them that will weather the future of this nation and the plans You have for them. Help them to make a difference for You because they carry Your joy, peace, love, and truths within them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen . Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. Both of my podcasts may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and are also part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can raise or influence children for Christ, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? Please also follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 061 - Why I Need to be Careful About How I Shape My Child's Faith Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 061 – Why I Need to be Careful About How I Shape My Child’s Faith “Stop that or God’s going to get you !” Have you ever heard a mom reprimanding her child by using God as a threat? Or maybe you’ve accidentally been that mom. I’m going to share a story that was relayed to me recently. The person most likely shared it because they know this topic is important to me. A woman (no one I know), recently brought her child to a business meeting. I was told that the child was a toddler, and oh, how I adore that age! Toddlers learn at such a rapid pace. Everything is new, fresh, and enticing. Their minds absorb everything. I can’t remember exactly what this child did, but when the mother reprimanded him, she used God as a threat. It's not the first time I’ve heard a mother threaten their child to stop an activity or action. However, when I hear of God being used as “the bad guy,” it sets off alarms in my heart and mind. How would you feel if the image of God being shaped in your mind was one of an evil Lord waiting for you to make a mistake so He can “get” you? When God chose you and me to parent the children entrusted to us, He matched mother and child with a perfect purpose. Whether your child is still very young, or fully grown, you carry a responsibility to represent Christ in the most accurate and godliest way. No matter the age of your child, no matter how close or how far they are from you (in distance or spirit), your child is still affected by your relationship with Christ. Hearing about this mother using God to threaten her child into behaving makes me so sad! I wish I had been there. I would have been praying for God to give me the heart and words to reach her, to teach her, and to redirect her training. Modeling a life devoted to Christ takes real work. We aren’t transformed in an instant! Becoming more like Christ is a moment by moment release of self and a transformation of fleshly spirit. While God doesn’t expect you or me to be perfect, our main purpose is to know Christ more clearly and model godly relationship with Him to our children. Mentoring a child to Jesus doesn’t include using scare tactics to make your child obey. Doing so certainly teaches the wrong image of God and will set your child on a path that could very likely lead to rejection of Christ. At the very least, you are cheating your child out of a beautiful relationship with God that will cover their every need. Every step of parenting should be leading your child to an eternity with Christ. When you decide to raise children as a believer, you commit to raising them for eternal purposes. That means learning and teaching the correct image of God. It means adhering to a set-apart lifestyle that continually seeks Him, depends on Him, and honors Him with reverent fear. No mother will ever be perfect, but each of us are perfectly called when we accept the position and privilege of raising His children. You will either raise children for Christ or raise children of the culture . When God is used as a threat, our Heavenly Father seems like an invisible predator waiting to pounce and destroy. Using this method of parenting will impact the life of your child for eternity. Parenting with God as the enemy can cause a stumbling block between you and your child, but most importantly, between your child and God. Of course, it can be said that any style of parenting affects your children for eternity, however, wouldn’t you rather influence your child to Christ, rather than away? What’s the best way a mother can ensure that she never uses God to blackmail or influence her child in a negative way? By exploring her personal relationship with God through Christ. When a mother begins or mends her parenting journey with a strong or growing, prayerful bond with Jesus, her heart and mind will move in accordance with His desires. If a mother was raised with an incorrect perception of God, a fear of God, or was parented with threats, she is likely to parent her children in the same manner. Yet, if a mother wants an ongoing walk with Christ to be the guiding force of her life and the lifeblood of her parenting, she must break free of the binds that hinder relationship and trust with her Heavenly Father. She must freely rely on Jesus to build a new relationship that will influence her and her children for Him for a lifetime. 1 John 3:1a says, “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are !” A child should never be taught that God is waiting to pour wrath on every move. They shouldn’t be taught to believe that God is continually angry or disappointed in them. He isn’t waiting for your child to stumble, and they should never believe that God is an evil dictator waiting to exact revenge. Psalm 86:15 says, “But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.” It’s one thing to teach a child to desire, know, love, honor, respect, and please God. It’s an entirely different style of parenting to teach a child to expect that God is watching everything they do so He can punish their every move. Most mothers would never set out to parent for negative outcomes that tear their child from God, but this example from the mother with her child at the meeting should remind us to be careful about the words that come out of our mouth and the attitude with which we parent. Matthew 12:34 says, “You brood of vipers! How can you speak good, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks .” How this verse reminds us to constantly seek the Lord. We must be in the Word and connected through prayer in order to cultivate a strong relationship with Him, our spouse, and our children. Just as some parents may accidentally cause their children to be fearful of God, a child may also learn to perceive God as critical and controlling, based on parenting. When a mother or father doesn’t seem to listen, or actually “hear” their child, or if they come across as always critical or strongly opinionated, yet talk about following God, a child perceives His Heavenly Father to be the same way, possibly causing him or her to get as far away from God as possible. The child may not even consciously realize what they are doing. When a child feels that a parent has difficulty seeing their point of view or understanding their feelings, or cannot allow the child to be the unique person God created them to be and instead pushes the parent’s desires on them, God can become the enemy or a mere fable. Despite what we say, our children watch what we do and how we speak and react to them and others. But there is hope for the mistakes all parents make. Lamentations 3:22-23 says, “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness .” God is our ever present help. He waits for us to call upon Him. He cherishes you and your children. He wants them to be raised in godly, loving ways for Him. Your children must be taught about Jesus, no matter the age they are. Of course, the methods to teaching relationship with God through Christ vary depending on the age of your children, but the objective of relationship with Jesus remains the same. Your child must see, desire, and hopefully, come to trust and accept the love and mercy of God . When a mother parents with this objective, she lays a beautiful groundwork for a lasting relationship. Instead of shaming a child, which pulls them away from God and pushes them away from you, children (whether grown, little, or somewhere in between) should be drawn to His holy nature as we mentor a life that is pleasing to Him. You can’t guarantee that your child will accept Christ as their personal Savior, but you can be assured that you are doing everything in your power to establish a growing walk with Christ and mentoring a life of love and obedience to Him. When you turn your child toward the Light, the Source of Power will know when and how to light the life of your child. We lead our children to Jesus, and God softens the heart. Isaiah 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Dear Heavenly Father, Your mercies are indeed new every morning. Great is Your faithfulness. Thank you for first loving us and showing the Way to You. Thank you for Your Son, the Light and Hope in our lives. Help each mother listening to this podcast lead their children to Your feet. Help them carry Your heart, mind, and desires. Help us to honor, please, and obey You in ways that attract our children to Christ. Thank You for loving the world so much that You gave Your one and only Son so that we and our family may have eternal life. Help us not to act in ways that turn our children from You, but in ways that carry them straight to Your arms. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Would you like to walk with other like-minded mothers to deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan? I want to share special news with my podcast listeners. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information and a special code to receive a discount if you find you’d like to join the collective. It’s time for mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? The best reviews are by word of mouth, so if you would also choose a friend to recommend the show to, imagine the change we could see in the way mothers parent for Christ. Also, please tell friends and family that the podcast can be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #107 –Scripture and Solitude Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together and live with purposed eternal perspective. My youngest seeks private time with me daily. If I view her desire to be with me, to ensure that we play together daily as a chore, I feel burdened or overwhelmed thinking about our busy schedule and trying to fit in playtime every single day. If I shift my mindset, however, knowing that our playtime should be guarded, that we never know how many days we are given with anyone, I savor the precious moments we have. Playing together is so important to her mental, emotional, and spiritual growth and has blessed our attachment process. Looking back at our memories, laughter, secrets, and creativity together, play time is one of the activities I cherish the most. This same mindset should apply to our walk with God. When I was a new Christian, I read my Bible as often as possible, trying to absorb as much as I could. Sometimes it was difficult to learn the meanings of the strange new words I had never heard of, imagine cities I’d never been to, or understand the cultures of a time so long ago. Yet, I kept reading. Passion for Jesus resided in me and I wanted to hear more. Over time, my life got busier. My Bible could sit untouched for days by my bed. As time continued to pass, I still loved God very much, but my actions and reactions began to look more fleshly than godly and my words reflected myself rather than my Heavenly Father. Thankfully, I didn’t continue moving away from the word, but began moving back to the One who gives true life and love, drawn back to His word for the nourishment my mind, heart, and body craved. Scripture, wisdom of the Bible, is defined as sacred writings. The Word sacred means consecrated, or set-apart. In order for us to be set-apart in our daily living and our walk with God, we must intentionally purpose to live life differently than our flesh would call us to or as the world lures us to follow. Believers know scripture is God-breathed and inspired. The Holy word God breathed, inspired, and established for us is undoubtedly more than words in a book. Full of God’s truths, instructions, promises, and wisdom, scripture is an under-used treasure and gift. I’m incredibly thankful that God kept His eyes and hand on me when I stopped intentionally deepening my walk with Him daily as a young woman. No matter what we tell ourselves we think or how we feel, we will drift away from the heart of God, following selfish needs or desires, unless we are purposeful in moving nearer to Him. God knows the plans He has for each of us, the purposes we were created for, the things that touch us and speak to our heart. God cares intimately. He knows what to allow in our life, what to expel from it, and how to accomplish both without crushing our spirit or individuality. If we keep our eyes and heart focused on Him despite whether we are experiencing life standing tall on the mountain or crouching with despair in the valley, our walk with Him will deepen and mature in innumerable ways that last for eternity. So, how do we develop faith that withstands the burdens and trials of life? How do we manage to draw nearer to God, especially during the fast-paced and challenging days we live? God’s Holy word is the crucial starting point where we find the presence and purpose of Jesus and find freedom through Him. Through scripture, we find Christ, the perfect Savior and mentor. To my knowledge, the Bible never specifically instructs us to seek solitude. Yet, we often see Jesus drawing nearer to His Father through seeking refuge in solitude. When we study the life and actions of Jesus, we witness the way He intentionally found time and made the freedom to be in the presence of His Heavenly Father despite His demanding life. What is the purpose of seeking God through solitude and scripture? Through careful study of Bible scripture, and seeing the example Jesus left us of sitting with the Lord in solitude, we recognize specific privileges we receive as a child of the King, as well as opportunities to stretch the relationship we have to a greater depth and understanding of Jesus. Scripture helps us to: 1. Know God – 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or height, for I have rejected him; the Lord does not see as man does. For man sees the outward appearance, but the Lord sees the heart." Our Heavenly Father looks directly into our heart. Because He formed us, He knows each innermost thought, urge, weakness, and strength. God understands the feelings we have for Him, the regrets, the joys, and loves us despite each of them. Above all, He is not persuaded by or turned away from any of them. Reading scripture allows us to read God. We recognize Him. Through the Holy Spirit, we can have God alive within us! As we seek to know, honor, and please the Father through His holy word, we are able to understand and discern the character and ways of God much more clearly and accurately as we draw nearer to Him. 2. Hear God – Psalm 95:6-7a says, “O come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the Lord our Maker. For He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, the sheep under His care.” We are the created. He is the Creator. As we seek Him and come to know Him through His word, we see the great depths God has gone to in order to make Himself known to us. The Creator of heaven and earth has pursued us with a relentless and holy love. As we learn what He desires, we come to be more like Him through our thoughts, actions, reactions, and words. We clearly hear and follow what He calls for us and we begin to experience fellowship and joy in new ways this world cannot offer. 3. Focus on God – Matthew 15:8 says, “These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.” When we focus on self, we cannot focus on the Lord. Only through the work of the Holy Spirit can we truly love as God calls us to. God calls for pure hearts to be drawn to Him in authentic adoration and affection. Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.” As we know the Lord through His holy word, our hearts are changed. When we discover Jesus as our personal Savior, and the Holy Spirit abides within us, He woos us to Himself and gifts us with the ability to discern His truths and promises and desire them with our whole heart. Yet, because the love our Heavenly Father has for us is so unselfish and of the greatest depth, He allows us to choose whether to continue drawing nearer to Him moment by moment. Jeremiah 24:7 says, “I will give them a heart to know Me, that I am the Lord. They will be My people, and I will be their God, for they will return to Me with all their heart.” Jesus’s redeeming love is the only power that transforms our hearts from the selfish, stubborn flesh within us and penetrates our heart with a pure and holy transformation. John 17:3 says, “Now this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent.” As we focus on Jesus, we see and know God. For believers with a personal relationship with Christ, we have the blessed assurance that we will live with God for eternity one day. Eternal life through Jesus is not merely living forever with God, but is the definer of the quality of our life. Now that we’ve examined what scripture helps us discover, let’s examine what blessings solitude provides. Solitude helps us to: 1. Make discerning decisions – If we regularly spend time in God’s word, our heart is pricked and aware of God’s truths and commands. Hebrews 4:12-13 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight; everything is uncovered and exposed before the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.” Committing also, to spending time alone with the Lord is difficult. Often, it is hard enough to make time to read the Bible regularly, let alone make additional time to sit in solitude with God. Any relationship, however, needs time to focus on the heart of one another, to purposely make time to love and appreciate, to listen to the desires of the one we love. Here, we do the same for the One who loves us. Sitting in solitude, in time meant to hear the Lord speak opens our heart and mind to awareness of what God is saying to us and how to apply it in our life. Understanding awakens the proper actions or reactions the Lord is calling us to make. 2. Focus on God’s truths – When we focus on time with God, it allows us to process our fleshly thoughts, feelings, and emotions, then discern and determine how to release what is not God’s truths. God lovingly made each of us unique and filled us with the ability to feel strongly and passionately. It is only through Him that we have the ability to determine what is our truth and what is God’s truth and how to move from there. John 8:32 says, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” 3. Rest and renew in Christ – Life can be exhausting. We rush from moment to moment activities, fill our mind with desires, needs, wants, and mindless entertainment, making excuses that we have no time for God. True rest is only found in the Lord. When we make the time to be with Him, we find the ability to drop the activities that serve no eternal purpose or we are able to focus on our days with a new mindset and His joy and strength. Matthew 11:28-29 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” 4. Seek God’s strength – Psalm 121:1-2 says, “I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.” Without relationship with God through Jesus and purposeful reflection on Him, trusting God, seeking His strength and provision, we wearily trudge through each day reliant on self. Human strength fails. We get weary, stressed, depressed, and react without godly thoughts or intentions. God knows how difficult we make releasing self and worries or problems to Him. The Bible is filled with verses about His strength and provision for us. John 16:33 says, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” Absolutely nothing is too much for God. Isaiah 41:10 says, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will surely help you; I will uphold you with My right hand of righteousness.” Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” As we read, study, and process God’s precious words to us and reflect on them through solitude with Jesus, our mind, heart, thoughts, emotions, feelings, actions, and reactions are altered. Our lives are changed as we view the world, our life, and the lives of others through the eternal perspective of Jesus. Gracious Heavenly Father, how good You are to us. You have made Yourself known to us, Your creation, through a love so profound we barely understand. Yet as we devote ourselves to knowing You, we begin to grasp the depth, the height, the width of Your loving provisions to us. There is none like You. We thank you for thinking of us, for giving us a life in which we can seek You, find You, and follow You into joy unexplainable. Please help each of us to find You in new ways as we make time to read Your holy word and make room for You in our life. Let us not exclude You from the intimate relationship You long for with Your beloved children. May we see You more clearly, exhibit You more lovingly as we walk more closely with You and spend quiet time together to see Your face, heart, and mind. May we reflect You in all we are and do. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” releases soon! I hope you will look for it, follow it, and share both podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 107 Scripture and Solitude Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #107 –Scripture and Solitude Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together and live with purposed eternal perspective. My youngest seeks private time with me daily. If I view her desire to be with me, to ensure that we play together daily as a chore, I feel burdened or overwhelmed thinking about our busy schedule and trying to fit in playtime every single day. If I shift my mindset, however, knowing that our playtime should be guarded, that we never know how many days we are given with anyone, I savor the precious moments we have. Playing together is so important to her mental, emotional, and spiritual growth and has blessed our attachment process. Looking back at our memories, laughter, secrets, and creativity together, play time is one of the activities I cherish the most. This same mindset should apply to our walk with God. When I was a new Christian, I read my Bible as often as possible, trying to absorb as much as I could. Sometimes it was difficult to learn the meanings of the strange new words I had never heard of, imagine cities I’d never been to, or understand the cultures of a time so long ago. Yet, I kept reading. Passion for Jesus resided in me and I wanted to hear more. Over time, my life got busier. My Bible could sit untouched for days by my bed. As time continued to pass, I still loved God very much, but my actions and reactions began to look more fleshly than godly and my words reflected myself rather than my Heavenly Father. Thankfully, I didn’t continue moving away from the word, but began moving back to the One who gives true life and love, drawn back to His word for the nourishment my mind, heart, and body craved. Scripture, wisdom of the Bible, is defined as sacred writings. The Word sacred means consecrated, or set-apart. In order for us to be set-apart in our daily living and our walk with God, we must intentionally purpose to live life differently than our flesh would call us to or as the world lures us to follow. Believers know scripture is God-breathed and inspired. The Holy word God breathed, inspired, and established for us is undoubtedly more than words in a book. Full of God’s truths, instructions, promises, and wisdom, scripture is an under-used treasure and gift. I’m incredibly thankful that God kept His eyes and hand on me when I stopped intentionally deepening my walk with Him daily as a young woman. No matter what we tell ourselves we think or how we feel, we will drift away from the heart of God, following selfish needs or desires, unless we are purposeful in moving nearer to Him. God knows the plans He has for each of us, the purposes we were created for, the things that touch us and speak to our heart. God cares intimately. He knows what to allow in our life, what to expel from it, and how to accomplish both without crushing our spirit or individuality. If we keep our eyes and heart focused on Him despite whether we are experiencing life standing tall on the mountain or crouching with despair in the valley, our walk with Him will deepen and mature in innumerable ways that last for eternity. So, how do we develop faith that withstands the burdens and trials of life? How do we manage to draw nearer to God, especially during the fast-paced and challenging days we live? God’s Holy word is the crucial starting point where we find the presence and purpose of Jesus and find freedom through Him. Through scripture, we find Christ, the perfect Savior and mentor. To my knowledge, the Bible never specifically instructs us to seek solitude. Yet, we often see Jesus drawing nearer to His Father through seeking refuge in solitude. When we study the life and actions of Jesus, we witness the way He intentionally found time and made the freedom to be in the presence of His Heavenly Father despite His demanding life. What is the purpose of seeking God through solitude and scripture? Through careful study of Bible scripture, and seeing the example Jesus left us of sitting with the Lord in solitude, we recognize specific privileges we receive as a child of the King, as well as opportunities to stretch the relationship we have to a greater depth and understanding of Jesus. Scripture helps us to: 1. Know God – 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or height, for I have rejected him; the Lord does not see as man does. For man sees the outward appearance, but the Lord sees the heart." Our Heavenly Father looks directly into our heart. Because He formed us, He knows each innermost thought, urge, weakness, and strength. God understands the feelings we have for Him, the regrets, the joys, and loves us despite each of them. Above all, He is not persuaded by or turned away from any of them. Reading scripture allows us to read God. We recognize Him. Through the Holy Spirit, we can have God alive within us! As we seek to know, honor, and please the Father through His holy word, we are able to understand and discern the character and ways of God much more clearly and accurately as we draw nearer to Him. 2. Hear God – Psalm 95:6-7a says, “O come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the Lord our Maker. For He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture, the sheep under His care.” We are the created. He is the Creator. As we seek Him and come to know Him through His word, we see the great depths God has gone to in order to make Himself known to us. The Creator of heaven and earth has pursued us with a relentless and holy love. As we learn what He desires, we come to be more like Him through our thoughts, actions, reactions, and words. We clearly hear and follow what He calls for us and we begin to experience fellowship and joy in new ways this world cannot offer. 3. Focus on God – Matthew 15:8 says, “These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.” When we focus on self, we cannot focus on the Lord. Only through the work of the Holy Spirit can we truly love as God calls us to. God calls for pure hearts to be drawn to Him in authentic adoration and affection. Jeremiah 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.” As we know the Lord through His holy word, our hearts are changed. When we discover Jesus as our personal Savior, and the Holy Spirit abides within us, He woos us to Himself and gifts us with the ability to discern His truths and promises and desire them with our whole heart. Yet, because the love our Heavenly Father has for us is so unselfish and of the greatest depth, He allows us to choose whether to continue drawing nearer to Him moment by moment. Jeremiah 24:7 says, “I will give them a heart to know Me, that I am the Lord. They will be My people, and I will be their God, for they will return to Me with all their heart.” Jesus’s redeeming love is the only power that transforms our hearts from the selfish, stubborn flesh within us and penetrates our heart with a pure and holy transformation. John 17:3 says, “Now this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent.” As we focus on Jesus, we see and know God. For believers with a personal relationship with Christ, we have the blessed assurance that we will live with God for eternity one day. Eternal life through Jesus is not merely living forever with God, but is the definer of the quality of our life. Now that we’ve examined what scripture helps us discover, let’s examine what blessings solitude provides. Solitude helps us to: 1. Make discerning decisions – If we regularly spend time in God’s word, our heart is pricked and aware of God’s truths and commands. Hebrews 4:12-13 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight; everything is uncovered and exposed before the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.” Committing also, to spending time alone with the Lord is difficult. Often, it is hard enough to make time to read the Bible regularly, let alone make additional time to sit in solitude with God. Any relationship, however, needs time to focus on the heart of one another, to purposely make time to love and appreciate, to listen to the desires of the one we love. Here, we do the same for the One who loves us. Sitting in solitude, in time meant to hear the Lord speak opens our heart and mind to awareness of what God is saying to us and how to apply it in our life. Understanding awakens the proper actions or reactions the Lord is calling us to make. 2. Focus on God’s truths – When we focus on time with God, it allows us to process our fleshly thoughts, feelings, and emotions, then discern and determine how to release what is not God’s truths. God lovingly made each of us unique and filled us with the ability to feel strongly and passionately. It is only through Him that we have the ability to determine what is our truth and what is God’s truth and how to move from there. John 8:32 says, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” 3. Rest and renew in Christ – Life can be exhausting. We rush from moment to moment activities, fill our mind with desires, needs, wants, and mindless entertainment, making excuses that we have no time for God. True rest is only found in the Lord. When we make the time to be with Him, we find the ability to drop the activities that serve no eternal purpose or we are able to focus on our days with a new mindset and His joy and strength. Matthew 11:28-29 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” 4. Seek God’s strength – Psalm 121:1-2 says, “I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.” Without relationship with God through Jesus and purposeful reflection on Him, trusting God, seeking His strength and provision, we wearily trudge through each day reliant on self. Human strength fails. We get weary, stressed, depressed, and react without godly thoughts or intentions. God knows how difficult we make releasing self and worries or problems to Him. The Bible is filled with verses about His strength and provision for us. John 16:33 says, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” Absolutely nothing is too much for God. Isaiah 41:10 says, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will surely help you; I will uphold you with My right hand of righteousness.” Joshua 1:9 says, “Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” As we read, study, and process God’s precious words to us and reflect on them through solitude with Jesus, our mind, heart, thoughts, emotions, feelings, actions, and reactions are altered. Our lives are changed as we view the world, our life, and the lives of others through the eternal perspective of Jesus. Gracious Heavenly Father, how good You are to us. You have made Yourself known to us, Your creation, through a love so profound we barely understand. Yet as we devote ourselves to knowing You, we begin to grasp the depth, the height, the width of Your loving provisions to us. There is none like You. We thank you for thinking of us, for giving us a life in which we can seek You, find You, and follow You into joy unexplainable. Please help each of us to find You in new ways as we make time to read Your holy word and make room for You in our life. Let us not exclude You from the intimate relationship You long for with Your beloved children. May we see You more clearly, exhibit You more lovingly as we walk more closely with You and spend quiet time together to see Your face, heart, and mind. May we reflect You in all we are and do. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” releases soon! I hope you will look for it, follow it, and share both podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #099 – Editing God Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This week I saw something that I couldn’t ignore. It saddened me so much that I had to create a podcast about it. As Christians, we should strive to become more purposed in creating lives that honor and obey God. Living with eternal perspective means growing in our desire to follow God’s word more clearly daily; not because we should, but because as we draw nearer to Him, God draws nearer to us, causing us to crave Him more. Yet how many people profess to be Christians and do not read His word regularly? If we don’t read His word, how can we readily recognize when His word is being misinterpreted or mishandled? The only way to confidently navigate life with the assurance that we understand the word of God and His requirements of us is to pursue relationship with Him through Jesus. Because we desire to know and be like Him, we simply must make time read and study His word with a hunger to understand, recognize, and apply it. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” The Bible is not a collection of spiritual words written by men. It’s not just a collection of thoughts. The Bible is alive; it is a purposed gift to us from our Heavenly Father. God’s word is living, active, and life-changing. God’s words are power and supernatural strength. Sharper than a double-edged sword, these living words actively discern who and what we are, and are not. Scripture penetrates to our core, both morally and spiritually, discerning the good and evil within us, understanding the thoughts and intentions within us before we do. God’s word demands that we either choose Him or choose to walk away. It does not leave us where we are unless we decide to ignore it and reject Him. Without the word of God alive within us through the Holy Spirit, we are walking in darkness. How does the Bible define darkness? Satan. Satan is the prince of the power of darkness. Whenever God’s word speaks of darkness, it is most often referring to the devil, his demons, and his kingdom. The power of the prince of darkness is real. Spiritual darkness can control the mind, emotions, actions and words of non-believers. What holds power over Satan and the darkness of his realm? God’s holy word. His perfect, unedited word. God’s word is inspired. It is inerrant. It holds authority from God Himself. When Satan attempted to tempt Jesus, the Lord used God’s powerful, living words against him, answering with the authority we read in Matthew 4:4. “It is written: ‘Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Jesus is our perfect mentor. He was able to withstand the temptations of the devil because He knew scripture, He utilized the power it held, and He obeyed it. We must read, know, and study God’s word, but we must also rely on it. Even Satan knows scripture, but he does not obey it. Proverbs 30:5-6 tells us, “Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him. Do not add to His words, lest He rebuke you, and you be found a liar.” Although the Bible was written by 40 authors over a period of time, there are no contradictions in the words. There are no inconsistencies. Every prediction made so far has come true, or, we know by faith, will come true. Without God’s holy and divine inspiration, the Bible could not exist. 2 Timothy 3:16 tells us, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable.” The very word, inspiration is the foundation of truth undergirding Biblical scripture. In the original Greek, the word inspiration was a compound adjective. The word, theopneustos (thapaneustos) comes from God (theos) and (the verb pneo) (panow), which means to blow or a breath. Through the understanding of the original Greek definition, we learn that the word, inspiration literally means “breathed by God.” Each of us with a growing relationship with God through Jesus knows what it feels like to be inspired by God to do, say, or to produce something. For example, although the podcasts I write and produce are not scripture, I very prayerfully create each one. I know that my work is inspired by Him, and anything worthy, or honoring to the Lord, comes from Him and is for Him. Although my words are not perfect, I trust that He is guiding me. Any mistakes would, of course, be my error, yet I feel Him guiding me with topics and the scripture to be presented each time a podcast is released. I can only imagine what it was like for those who contributed to the Bible as God worked in and through them in a much deeper way. What sacred work was set before them. The very breath of God moved through the writers to inspire and create a masterpiece God would present to the world as a bridge for relationship and His glory. Through a profound and sovereign method, God moved human writers to pen His scripture. Through the Holy Spirit, He exhaled His thoughts and words into them as they wrote. We understand that scripture is God-breathed, recorded without errors, and is confirmed as authentic. How beautiful it is that God’s life-filled, everlasting words were brought to life under the writings of mere mortals created by Him. God lovingly worked through them, gifting them, allowing their distinctive personalities to be connected to His holiness and sovereignty as the style of the writers remained true to their unique perspectives, yet without error by the grace and supreme power of our Heavenly Father. Matthew 5:17-19 says, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets. I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them. For I tell you truly, until heaven and earth pass away, not a single jot, not a stroke of a pen, will disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. So then, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do likewise will be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but whoever practices and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.” As the verses I just read say, “not a single jot, not a stroke of a pen will disappear from the law until everything is accomplished,” the words prove yet again that scripture is God-breathed and inspired. Did you know that in Hebrew, there is a tiny mark that looks like an apostrophe? It is called a jot. This smallest letter in the alphabet is very easy to omit. Although it seems to be an insignificant mark, the tittle is critical for distinguishing between letters. Jesus is telling us in Matthew 5:17-19 that even the smallest and seemingly insignificant biblical teaching or prophecy must be fulfilled. God's word is perfect and holy. It needs nothing added or subtracted. It withstands, and is proven, over the test of time. Read and know His word so you can recognize when others are misinterpreting or misquoting it. There is a trend in our culture that highly concerns me. Have you noticed the number of prosperity preachers and influencers who twist God’s word to make proclamations and promises that clearly do not convey the true meaning of scripture? Have you recognized how they bend scripture to suit their purposes (or that of our deteriorating culture), clearly following the darkness of this world through the advertising, indoctrinations in our educational system, and entertainment while shoving God’s word aside? I am sickened and saddened by this trend that worsens daily and how many mutely accept this moral and ethical decay without standing more firmly for the truth of God. As our Heavenly Father is pushed away, the power of darkness moves in to penetrate all areas of society and the home. Last week I saw a post made on social media that concerned me because it is not the only one of this type. It seems that more people are misunderstanding, misquoting, or mishandling God’s word to suit what they desire or believe without attempting to understand the true meaning of the message they are conveying or how far it strays from what the word of God actually says or teaches. Often times, it fits the agenda and emotions they “feel,” helps them get the acceptance of others, or gain the ease of not needing to change and grow themselves, so they eagerly use what affirms them. The quotes weren’t the first I’ve seen like this, but bothered me more because it is happening more frequently. People often do not look for, or notice, the errors and deceit in what is being presented as God’s words, yet are far from His actual truths. Listen to a few examples of what I am referring to. 1 Timothy 6:16 says, “He alone can never die, and He lives in light so brilliant that no human can approach Him. No human eye has ever seen Him, nor ever will. All honor and power to Him forever! Amen.” How powerful that verse is! Just reading the verse aloud fills me with worship right now. Our magnificent Heavenly Father is so far above us, so far from us, yet extends Himself for and to us in love, mercy, and undeserved grace. I recently saw the scripture I just read used as a quote to reference an online post that said, “God isn’t looking for winners; He’s looking for fighters. He doesn’t see if you won the fight, He looks to see if you can fight the fight!” How in the world can the author of this believe that it reflects the 1 Timothy 6:16 scripture in any way? Did they write scripture references on a piece of paper and reach their hand into a bag, grab a verse, and match it with their musings of the moment? Another posting referred to Hebrews 11:1, which says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” This is such a popular verse that almost everyone, whether they know God’s word or not has heard it. Someone used this verse as the reference for this post: “You stayed in the ring regardless of money, jobs, what you had, what you lost, who left you, who stayed.” As I sit and shake my head again at how the person connected the reference verse with the words they posted, I can’t believe that people didn’t call them out. This is clearly changing the meaning of God’s words and using God’s words way out of context. God needs no editing. The last verse referenced in this particular post was Psalm 126:5, which says, “Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” The verse from Psalm 126 was used for this post, “Keep on walking, swinging, singing, crying, screaming, laughing. Keep On! Your blessing is on the other side of your suffering.” This scripture verse doesn’t promise us what the poster declares. This verse refers to the Israelites, who were in captivity, but their pain and sorrow turned to joy when they returned. When reading the Bible, we see that God rescued His people when they were humbled. Through this, the joy experienced was so much sweeter. God promises us that He can bring good out of tragedy, and that as we cling to Him through times of grief, we can find joy again. This verse doesn’t promise that we can keep on doing as we please and God will provide us with a blessing when we’re finished. At the end of the post, the person writing said, “These are the people God needs today.” I’m not sure if this poster wrote this mess or if they copied the work from someone else. It doesn’t say. But, please, if you are going to repost something by another person, check out the references first! Better yet, read the Bible. If you know God’s word, you can recognize when something does not seem right. We need to know what is sent from our Heavenly Father because we know Him. The world is changing and much is happening right now that is setting the course for our future. Much of it is dark and uncertain. But God never is. He is our light, our hope, our truth. When our minds, eyes, and heart are focused on Him, we can face anything. Knowing and obeying His word settles our spirit, connects us to Him, and alters our attitude, words, thoughts, and actions. We won’t be perfect, but we will be perfectly prepared to bring all to Him. We cannot handle everything; He doesn’t want us to. He has made a way and He calls for us to walk in it, allowing Him to carry us each step of the way. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for instruction, for conviction, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be complete, fully equipped for every good work.” Earlier, we focused on the truth of God breathing life into scripture. Here, we also see that God has given us His thoughts and truths in written form for instruction, conviction, correction, and for training in righteousness. His desire is that we use His holy word in unedited form, just as He presented it to us in order to mature us completely, so we will be fully equipped for every good work He assigns to us, so that we are enabled to live our lives with a heart and mind set on eternity right now. Heavenly Father, The Great I Am, our loving, omnipotent, holy Father, Creator of the Universe and everything within, how do You set Your eyes upon us? We are so far from You and so far beneath You. You lovingly and generously present Yourself to us through Jesus, the Holy Spirit, the power of prayer, and in Your holy word. You are the giver of great gifts. Help us not to turn from them or alter them to suit our purposes. You need no editing. How can the created surpass the Creator? How could we presume to carry wisdom above Yours? Father, we thank you for the mercy and grace You bestow on us. I am so sorry for the ways we break Your heart, the ways we disappoint You. Yet You continue to love us deeply, equally. You continue to whisper worth and abundant love to us and yearn for us to turn fully to You, to allow You to guide and carry us in Your powerful arms. May we see Your word more clearly, follow it more closely, adhere to it with an awareness of the power and purpose it carries because we adore and reverence You, because we desire to obey and please You. We ask these things in the powerful and holy name of Your son, Jesus. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. If you are able, please go to Apple Podcasts and leave a rating and review to push the podcast out for more people to find. Without good reviews, others won’t hear the episodes designed to mature walks with Christ and equip all to live for eternity now. You can also share podcast episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. You can share my website, terrihitt.com and let others know that on it they will be able to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature their walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage them to raise or influence children and grandchildren to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 099 Editing God Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #099 – Editing God Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This week I saw something that I couldn’t ignore. It saddened me so much that I had to create a podcast about it. As Christians, we should strive to become more purposed in creating lives that honor and obey God. Living with eternal perspective means growing in our desire to follow God’s word more clearly daily; not because we should, but because as we draw nearer to Him, God draws nearer to us, causing us to crave Him more. Yet how many people profess to be Christians and do not read His word regularly? If we don’t read His word, how can we readily recognize when His word is being misinterpreted or mishandled? The only way to confidently navigate life with the assurance that we understand the word of God and His requirements of us is to pursue relationship with Him through Jesus. Because we desire to know and be like Him, we simply must make time read and study His word with a hunger to understand, recognize, and apply it. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” The Bible is not a collection of spiritual words written by men. It’s not just a collection of thoughts. The Bible is alive; it is a purposed gift to us from our Heavenly Father. God’s word is living, active, and life-changing. God’s words are power and supernatural strength. Sharper than a double-edged sword, these living words actively discern who and what we are, and are not. Scripture penetrates to our core, both morally and spiritually, discerning the good and evil within us, understanding the thoughts and intentions within us before we do. God’s word demands that we either choose Him or choose to walk away. It does not leave us where we are unless we decide to ignore it and reject Him. Without the word of God alive within us through the Holy Spirit, we are walking in darkness. How does the Bible define darkness? Satan. Satan is the prince of the power of darkness. Whenever God’s word speaks of darkness, it is most often referring to the devil, his demons, and his kingdom. The power of the prince of darkness is real. Spiritual darkness can control the mind, emotions, actions and words of non-believers. What holds power over Satan and the darkness of his realm? God’s holy word. His perfect, unedited word. God’s word is inspired. It is inerrant. It holds authority from God Himself. When Satan attempted to tempt Jesus, the Lord used God’s powerful, living words against him, answering with the authority we read in Matthew 4:4. “It is written: ‘Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Jesus is our perfect mentor. He was able to withstand the temptations of the devil because He knew scripture, He utilized the power it held, and He obeyed it. We must read, know, and study God’s word, but we must also rely on it. Even Satan knows scripture, but he does not obey it. Proverbs 30:5-6 tells us, “Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him. Do not add to His words, lest He rebuke you, and you be found a liar.” Although the Bible was written by 40 authors over a period of time, there are no contradictions in the words. There are no inconsistencies. Every prediction made so far has come true, or, we know by faith, will come true. Without God’s holy and divine inspiration, the Bible could not exist. 2 Timothy 3:16 tells us, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable.” The very word, inspiration is the foundation of truth undergirding Biblical scripture. In the original Greek, the word inspiration was a compound adjective. The word, theopneustos (thapaneustos) comes from God (theos) and (the verb pneo) (panow), which means to blow or a breath. Through the understanding of the original Greek definition, we learn that the word, inspiration literally means “breathed by God.” Each of us with a growing relationship with God through Jesus knows what it feels like to be inspired by God to do, say, or to produce something. For example, although the podcasts I write and produce are not scripture, I very prayerfully create each one. I know that my work is inspired by Him, and anything worthy, or honoring to the Lord, comes from Him and is for Him. Although my words are not perfect, I trust that He is guiding me. Any mistakes would, of course, be my error, yet I feel Him guiding me with topics and the scripture to be presented each time a podcast is released. I can only imagine what it was like for those who contributed to the Bible as God worked in and through them in a much deeper way. What sacred work was set before them. The very breath of God moved through the writers to inspire and create a masterpiece God would present to the world as a bridge for relationship and His glory. Through a profound and sovereign method, God moved human writers to pen His scripture. Through the Holy Spirit, He exhaled His thoughts and words into them as they wrote. We understand that scripture is God-breathed, recorded without errors, and is confirmed as authentic. How beautiful it is that God’s life-filled, everlasting words were brought to life under the writings of mere mortals created by Him. God lovingly worked through them, gifting them, allowing their distinctive personalities to be connected to His holiness and sovereignty as the style of the writers remained true to their unique perspectives, yet without error by the grace and supreme power of our Heavenly Father. Matthew 5:17-19 says, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets. I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them. For I tell you truly, until heaven and earth pass away, not a single jot, not a stroke of a pen, will disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. So then, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do likewise will be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but whoever practices and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.” As the verses I just read say, “not a single jot, not a stroke of a pen will disappear from the law until everything is accomplished,” the words prove yet again that scripture is God-breathed and inspired. Did you know that in Hebrew, there is a tiny mark that looks like an apostrophe? It is called a jot. This smallest letter in the alphabet is very easy to omit. Although it seems to be an insignificant mark, the tittle is critical for distinguishing between letters. Jesus is telling us in Matthew 5:17-19 that even the smallest and seemingly insignificant biblical teaching or prophecy must be fulfilled. God's word is perfect and holy. It needs nothing added or subtracted. It withstands, and is proven, over the test of time. Read and know His word so you can recognize when others are misinterpreting or misquoting it. There is a trend in our culture that highly concerns me. Have you noticed the number of prosperity preachers and influencers who twist God’s word to make proclamations and promises that clearly do not convey the true meaning of scripture? Have you recognized how they bend scripture to suit their purposes (or that of our deteriorating culture), clearly following the darkness of this world through the advertising, indoctrinations in our educational system, and entertainment while shoving God’s word aside? I am sickened and saddened by this trend that worsens daily and how many mutely accept this moral and ethical decay without standing more firmly for the truth of God. As our Heavenly Father is pushed away, the power of darkness moves in to penetrate all areas of society and the home. Last week I saw a post made on social media that concerned me because it is not the only one of this type. It seems that more people are misunderstanding, misquoting, or mishandling God’s word to suit what they desire or believe without attempting to understand the true meaning of the message they are conveying or how far it strays from what the word of God actually says or teaches. Often times, it fits the agenda and emotions they “feel,” helps them get the acceptance of others, or gain the ease of not needing to change and grow themselves, so they eagerly use what affirms them. The quotes weren’t the first I’ve seen like this, but bothered me more because it is happening more frequently. People often do not look for, or notice, the errors and deceit in what is being presented as God’s words, yet are far from His actual truths. Listen to a few examples of what I am referring to. 1 Timothy 6:16 says, “He alone can never die, and He lives in light so brilliant that no human can approach Him. No human eye has ever seen Him, nor ever will. All honor and power to Him forever! Amen.” How powerful that verse is! Just reading the verse aloud fills me with worship right now. Our magnificent Heavenly Father is so far above us, so far from us, yet extends Himself for and to us in love, mercy, and undeserved grace. I recently saw the scripture I just read used as a quote to reference an online post that said, “God isn’t looking for winners; He’s looking for fighters. He doesn’t see if you won the fight, He looks to see if you can fight the fight!” How in the world can the author of this believe that it reflects the 1 Timothy 6:16 scripture in any way? Did they write scripture references on a piece of paper and reach their hand into a bag, grab a verse, and match it with their musings of the moment? Another posting referred to Hebrews 11:1, which says, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” This is such a popular verse that almost everyone, whether they know God’s word or not has heard it. Someone used this verse as the reference for this post: “You stayed in the ring regardless of money, jobs, what you had, what you lost, who left you, who stayed.” As I sit and shake my head again at how the person connected the reference verse with the words they posted, I can’t believe that people didn’t call them out. This is clearly changing the meaning of God’s words and using God’s words way out of context. God needs no editing. The last verse referenced in this particular post was Psalm 126:5, which says, “Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” The verse from Psalm 126 was used for this post, “Keep on walking, swinging, singing, crying, screaming, laughing. Keep On! Your blessing is on the other side of your suffering.” This scripture verse doesn’t promise us what the poster declares. This verse refers to the Israelites, who were in captivity, but their pain and sorrow turned to joy when they returned. When reading the Bible, we see that God rescued His people when they were humbled. Through this, the joy experienced was so much sweeter. God promises us that He can bring good out of tragedy, and that as we cling to Him through times of grief, we can find joy again. This verse doesn’t promise that we can keep on doing as we please and God will provide us with a blessing when we’re finished. At the end of the post, the person writing said, “These are the people God needs today.” I’m not sure if this poster wrote this mess or if they copied the work from someone else. It doesn’t say. But, please, if you are going to repost something by another person, check out the references first! Better yet, read the Bible. If you know God’s word, you can recognize when something does not seem right. We need to know what is sent from our Heavenly Father because we know Him. The world is changing and much is happening right now that is setting the course for our future. Much of it is dark and uncertain. But God never is. He is our light, our hope, our truth. When our minds, eyes, and heart are focused on Him, we can face anything. Knowing and obeying His word settles our spirit, connects us to Him, and alters our attitude, words, thoughts, and actions. We won’t be perfect, but we will be perfectly prepared to bring all to Him. We cannot handle everything; He doesn’t want us to. He has made a way and He calls for us to walk in it, allowing Him to carry us each step of the way. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for instruction, for conviction, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be complete, fully equipped for every good work.” Earlier, we focused on the truth of God breathing life into scripture. Here, we also see that God has given us His thoughts and truths in written form for instruction, conviction, correction, and for training in righteousness. His desire is that we use His holy word in unedited form, just as He presented it to us in order to mature us completely, so we will be fully equipped for every good work He assigns to us, so that we are enabled to live our lives with a heart and mind set on eternity right now. Heavenly Father, The Great I Am, our loving, omnipotent, holy Father, Creator of the Universe and everything within, how do You set Your eyes upon us? We are so far from You and so far beneath You. You lovingly and generously present Yourself to us through Jesus, the Holy Spirit, the power of prayer, and in Your holy word. You are the giver of great gifts. Help us not to turn from them or alter them to suit our purposes. You need no editing. How can the created surpass the Creator? How could we presume to carry wisdom above Yours? Father, we thank you for the mercy and grace You bestow on us. I am so sorry for the ways we break Your heart, the ways we disappoint You. Yet You continue to love us deeply, equally. You continue to whisper worth and abundant love to us and yearn for us to turn fully to You, to allow You to guide and carry us in Your powerful arms. May we see Your word more clearly, follow it more closely, adhere to it with an awareness of the power and purpose it carries because we adore and reverence You, because we desire to obey and please You. We ask these things in the powerful and holy name of Your son, Jesus. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. If you are able, please go to Apple Podcasts and leave a rating and review to push the podcast out for more people to find. Without good reviews, others won’t hear the episodes designed to mature walks with Christ and equip all to live for eternity now. You can also share podcast episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. You can share my website, terrihitt.com and let others know that on it they will be able to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature their walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage them to raise or influence children and grandchildren to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #130 – Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Have you ever wondered what God thinks when He hears your inner thoughts? What about your spoken words? Are you ever embarrassed by or ashamed of what resides in your mind or comes out of your mouth? Our Heavenly Father surely evaluates the intentions of what we say or think with a different perspective than we do. In fact, we know He views what we think and say, (especially the grumbles and attitudes we carelessly let slip out) with a much higher standard and purpose than we can imagine. Think about times you verbalize or imagine complaints or dissatisfaction each day. I bet each of us have much more than we realize. To our Holy and Perfect God, those thoughts and words sound far worse than the scratch of fingernails on a chalkboard. Here ae some examples from my own life: When I think: “Every time I sit in my desk chair while wearing my warm blanket, the arm hole cut-outs grab the back of the arm rests on the chair and I become trapped until I stand to remove the blanket.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a sturdy, ergonomic chair for her workspace and a warm blanket to wear on cold days since I know she does not appreciate cold weather.” When I think: “Most of the time when I throw something away, I miss the trashcan and I have to get up to throw the trash away before my dog eats it.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri and her family with a new puppy when they lost their beloved dogs last year. What a joy it must be to have a new puppy to train.” When I think: “As I lay in bed and try to sleep at night, I always feel the tiniest wrinkle in the sheet and I can’t fall asleep until it is smooth.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a special level of sensitivity.” When I think:” Sometimes I leave my mug in the microwave too long and my cup of tea is too hot to carry.” God probably says: “Terri is blessed to have that mug that is so special to her and I’m sure she appreciates the ease of quickly and easily heating tea to enjoy.” When I say: “Every time I clean, the house is already dusty again the next day.” God probably says: “What a blessing I gave my children. The house they are in is everything they prayed for at one time and although the forest around them makes the house get dusty quickly, I’m sure they appreciate the joy of living in the midst of my beautiful creation.” When I say: “When we had trees removed from our yard, the tree service workers accidentally shattered my front storm door.” God probably says, “If the workers hadn’t shattered the door, Terri’s family would have had to purchase a brand new door when they had their house resided. Instead, they are having it replaced by Me.” When I say, “The workers putting on our new siding this summer have taken a lot longer to complete the job than we thought it would take.” God probably says: “I have enjoyed the process of watching the siding job I provided take longer than expected. I ordained the meeting of the workers with the Hitt’s. Many blessings have come from knowing the workers and sharing the stories of My love and provision and the experience has grown Terri’s awareness of me in even smaller details.” Like me, what are the things you can choose to grumble about or show gratitude for? How can you change the way you do it? I wonder whether God will have a list for us to view when we meet Him in heaven. Can’t you imagine documents that reflect an attitude or gratitude? Delays, disappointments, and demands that we complained about or grew bitter about may be what saved a life, brought an unexpected blessing down the road, or caused another to come to or fall away from Jesus by the way we reacted. Do you practice gratitude during the events of each day? Do you live life with an expectation that what happens is for your good and the betterment of His kingdom? It takes humble, intentional actions and true thankfulness to adjust our mindset to live with the high level of gratitude God desires. Have you noticed that when you tend to pout or complain about something, it’s much harder to feel grateful? Instead, when you immediately look to the Lord in all circumstances and give praise, whether situations are good or bad, exciting or disappointing, thankfulness causes an uplift to your spirit and joy is sustained or grown. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says,” Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. “ The joy in our life should not be dictated by circumstance. It’s challenging not to let what happens around us, or sometimes what doesn’t happen, affect our mental or emotional state, but prayers and thankfulness don’t have to be tied to feelings. If we look at the verse I just read from 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 with a heart to seek what God desires, we notice that we are given three commands. 1. Be joyful 2. Pray continually 3. Give thanks Every time we make the decision to follow what pleases God, we begin to view life with His perspective – an eternal perspective. Each time we follow His commands, especially with gratitude, we find it becomes easier to live with true joy and thankfulness. The truth is that when we complain, whether it be in thought, word, action, or reaction, we are choosing to place self over situation. We are silently voicing the fact that we what we want is more important than what is happening around us, or what God has allowed in our life. Each time we criticize, we place our idea of what should occur or what we should receive over the process of perfection. When we trust God to provide, we understand and appreciate that He is in control. Knowing that His perfect timing, guidance, provisions, and protection are far better than what we can envision allows joy to replace the bitterness, disappointment, and anger that threaten deeper relationship with Him. 2 Corinthians 4:15-18 says, “For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” Trials and disappointments help to work all things for God as promised in Romans 8:28, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose.” Even small inconveniences may be used to strengthen our faith and trust. Without hardship could we really understand true joy and gratitude for the protection and provisions of God? Conforming to the image of Christ comes with cost. Our human flesh will always find cause to complain. In contrast, the Holy Spirit living within believers recognizes and appreciates the redeeming, unselfish cost of grace and the joy of living within the protection of abundant gratitude. Colossians 2:6-7 says, “Therefore, just as you have received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him, established in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.” Because of the work of Christ and the Holy Spirit residing within, believers have the ability to see their inner self changed. Our moral and ethical behavior, as well as the way we view the inconvenient challenges in life can be shaped into the image of the mind of Christ. As we set our mind and heart on things above, we shift the way we view daily occurrences and begin to see them with eternal eyes instead of through selfish or temporal viewpoints. This different and eternal perspective allows room for gratitude to grow and be expressed far more readily than dissatisfaction or disappointment as we look at events through the eyes of Jesus and the heart of God. Colossians 3:1-2 says, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. You alone are Holy. You alone can lift us from the depths of selfish sin and desires and hold us close to the desires of Your heart. Lord, as we grow closer to You and allow You to shine more brightly through us, help us to change, help our gratitude to expand, overtake our selfish hearts, and craft the beauty of thankfulness within us. May the mystery of the resurrection sweep over us and change our fleshly hearts into the beauty of Christ’s. May we please and honor You with our appreciation for the good, the easy, the tears, and the joys of living the life You gave to us. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding abide within us and guard our hearts, and multiply our appreciation. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. 1 Chronicles 16:34 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever.” Lord, may our gratitude fill You with thanksgiving and praise! Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 130 - Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #130 – Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Have you ever wondered what God thinks when He hears your inner thoughts? What about your spoken words? Are you ever embarrassed by or ashamed of what resides in your mind or comes out of your mouth? Our Heavenly Father surely evaluates the intentions of what we say or think with a different perspective than we do. In fact, we know He views what we think and say, (especially the grumbles and attitudes we carelessly let slip out) with a much higher standard and purpose than we can imagine. Think about times you verbalize or imagine complaints or dissatisfaction each day. I bet each of us have much more than we realize. To our Holy and Perfect God, those thoughts and words sound far worse than the scratch of fingernails on a chalkboard. Here ae some examples from my own life: When I think: “Every time I sit in my desk chair while wearing my warm blanket, the arm hole cut-outs grab the back of the arm rests on the chair and I become trapped until I stand to remove the blanket.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a sturdy, ergonomic chair for her workspace and a warm blanket to wear on cold days since I know she does not appreciate cold weather.” When I think: “Most of the time when I throw something away, I miss the trashcan and I have to get up to throw the trash away before my dog eats it.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri and her family with a new puppy when they lost their beloved dogs last year. What a joy it must be to have a new puppy to train.” When I think: “As I lay in bed and try to sleep at night, I always feel the tiniest wrinkle in the sheet and I can’t fall asleep until it is smooth.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a special level of sensitivity.” When I think:” Sometimes I leave my mug in the microwave too long and my cup of tea is too hot to carry.” God probably says: “Terri is blessed to have that mug that is so special to her and I’m sure she appreciates the ease of quickly and easily heating tea to enjoy.” When I say: “Every time I clean, the house is already dusty again the next day.” God probably says: “What a blessing I gave my children. The house they are in is everything they prayed for at one time and although the forest around them makes the house get dusty quickly, I’m sure they appreciate the joy of living in the midst of my beautiful creation.” When I say: “When we had trees removed from our yard, the tree service workers accidentally shattered my front storm door.” God probably says, “If the workers hadn’t shattered the door, Terri’s family would have had to purchase a brand new door when they had their house resided. Instead, they are having it replaced by Me.” When I say, “The workers putting on our new siding this summer have taken a lot longer to complete the job than we thought it would take.” God probably says: “I have enjoyed the process of watching the siding job I provided take longer than expected. I ordained the meeting of the workers with the Hitt’s. Many blessings have come from knowing the workers and sharing the stories of My love and provision and the experience has grown Terri’s awareness of me in even smaller details.” Like me, what are the things you can choose to grumble about or show gratitude for? How can you change the way you do it? I wonder whether God will have a list for us to view when we meet Him in heaven. Can’t you imagine documents that reflect an attitude or gratitude? Delays, disappointments, and demands that we complained about or grew bitter about may be what saved a life, brought an unexpected blessing down the road, or caused another to come to or fall away from Jesus by the way we reacted. Do you practice gratitude during the events of each day? Do you live life with an expectation that what happens is for your good and the betterment of His kingdom? It takes humble, intentional actions and true thankfulness to adjust our mindset to live with the high level of gratitude God desires. Have you noticed that when you tend to pout or complain about something, it’s much harder to feel grateful? Instead, when you immediately look to the Lord in all circumstances and give praise, whether situations are good or bad, exciting or disappointing, thankfulness causes an uplift to your spirit and joy is sustained or grown. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says,” Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. “ The joy in our life should not be dictated by circumstance. It’s challenging not to let what happens around us, or sometimes what doesn’t happen, affect our mental or emotional state, but prayers and thankfulness don’t have to be tied to feelings. If we look at the verse I just read from 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 with a heart to seek what God desires, we notice that we are given three commands. 1. Be joyful 2. Pray continually 3. Give thanks Every time we make the decision to follow what pleases God, we begin to view life with His perspective – an eternal perspective. Each time we follow His commands, especially with gratitude, we find it becomes easier to live with true joy and thankfulness. The truth is that when we complain, whether it be in thought, word, action, or reaction, we are choosing to place self over situation. We are silently voicing the fact that we what we want is more important than what is happening around us, or what God has allowed in our life. Each time we criticize, we place our idea of what should occur or what we should receive over the process of perfection. When we trust God to provide, we understand and appreciate that He is in control. Knowing that His perfect timing, guidance, provisions, and protection are far better than what we can envision allows joy to replace the bitterness, disappointment, and anger that threaten deeper relationship with Him. 2 Corinthians 4:15-18 says, “For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” Trials and disappointments help to work all things for God as promised in Romans 8:28, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose.” Even small inconveniences may be used to strengthen our faith and trust. Without hardship could we really understand true joy and gratitude for the protection and provisions of God? Conforming to the image of Christ comes with cost. Our human flesh will always find cause to complain. In contrast, the Holy Spirit living within believers recognizes and appreciates the redeeming, unselfish cost of grace and the joy of living within the protection of abundant gratitude. Colossians 2:6-7 says, “Therefore, just as you have received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him, established in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.” Because of the work of Christ and the Holy Spirit residing within, believers have the ability to see their inner self changed. Our moral and ethical behavior, as well as the way we view the inconvenient challenges in life can be shaped into the image of the mind of Christ. As we set our mind and heart on things above, we shift the way we view daily occurrences and begin to see them with eternal eyes instead of through selfish or temporal viewpoints. This different and eternal perspective allows room for gratitude to grow and be expressed far more readily than dissatisfaction or disappointment as we look at events through the eyes of Jesus and the heart of God. Colossians 3:1-2 says, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. You alone are Holy. You alone can lift us from the depths of selfish sin and desires and hold us close to the desires of Your heart. Lord, as we grow closer to You and allow You to shine more brightly through us, help us to change, help our gratitude to expand, overtake our selfish hearts, and craft the beauty of thankfulness within us. May the mystery of the resurrection sweep over us and change our fleshly hearts into the beauty of Christ’s. May we please and honor You with our appreciation for the good, the easy, the tears, and the joys of living the life You gave to us. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding abide within us and guard our hearts, and multiply our appreciation. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. 1 Chronicles 16:34 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever.” Lord, may our gratitude fill You with thanksgiving and praise! Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #030 – Are You Wearing His Armor? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. The past week has been full of distractions. It has not been an easy time of focusing on what I planned for. Preparing for our upcoming school year, trying to clean my house before school begins, reading God’s word and praying for discernment on what to reflect on and read for the podcast this week were what I wanted to do, but instead, life has interfered. So, I have been working on medical necessities for my youngest, going to important medical visits, advocating, writing a letter, and speaking to departments at the local children’s hospital to ensure that her unique needs are not forgotten during this Covid season. It has been draining, but I will gladly do as much as I need to if it ensures her needs are met. When our visit to cardiology last week alerted her physician to look at our girl a little more closely, several tests were scheduled and more blood work was ordered to be drawn. God has truly carried our girl through a time of extra tests during a season where both parents cannot go to visits unless exceptions are made, and it is a time that would have thrown her into a two-hour crying spree a few years ago. The difference in her is truly astounding and brings me once again to my knees to watch God work. Her joy, trust, and hopeful attitude has been an inspiration to me as we await these test results and I know that her future is certainly in God’s hands. As I walked through thoughts of what her future holds this week, I was forced to consider realities I don’t usually ponder. I know her medical conditions and I trust that God is in control and will carry and provide for her. When things took a slight turn last week, I was forced to ponder the fact that her future may change faster than I expected. While I do not want that scenario, I can say that all is well with my soul. God has carried me through hard before and He will never stop. He has carried our precious daughter through hard before. He is still with her – and she knows Him now. The hardest season in my life was the death of our oldest daughter. During that heart-shattering time, I buried myself in God’s word and strapped His armor on tight. In fact, it was super-glued to my body. I like to think I still wear it daily, but last week I was reminded to keep it polished and shining for others to see. If you have listened to this podcast for long, you know my thoughts on eternal perspective. I firmly believe that everything I do affects those round me for eternity. I want others to see the way God carries and encourages me. The way He loves me, because He will love you the same, too. But last week was so emotional for me. I had to let myself process emotions and feel the possibilities, but then look firmly back to the Lord and know that none of what we discovered at the cardiology office was a surprise to Him and that He still holds each of us in His firm grasp. I know it is our time to curl up in His lap together and wait for Him to shower blessings. For it is always in the toughest seasons that we grow in Him if we only allow Him to cradle and carry us. That back story must give you a hint of why I chose to read from Ephesians 6:10-19 this week. This is where I drew my deepest strength during my greatest time of heartbreak and where I continue to go to remind myself that I do not need to be strong in myself. When we are weak, make no mistake, the devil finds ways unique to what he has observed works in our life and tries to wiggle in and distract us from seeking God or tries to discourage us. These are the times we must stand strong and know where to turn. We need to remember Who my God is and allow His mighty and powerful armor to cover me as I rest in His arms. Ephesians 6:10-19 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints— and for me, that utterance may be given to me, that I may open my mouth boldly to make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.” Let's take a look at some of the verses in this passage. Now we know that when we are in a battle, a spiritual battle, we definitely need to have spiritual weapons. God has given us absolutely everything that we need to remain strong in Him. I'd like to look at some notes written by Dr. David Jeremiah and I think they are beautifully written. I could not say things any better. Bear with me as I turn to this in my Bible. People think of war as something glamorous until they, or someone they know, becomes a casuality. The same is true in the spiritual arena. Spiritual warfare seems to be a popular subject for movies, lectures, books, and preaching. But many believers are casualties of Satan's schemes. Make no mistake. Whether they are aware of it or not, all Christians are engaged in a very real spiritual battle between two opposing kingdoms. Those least in the know are often the first casualties. Thankfully, Paul provides believers with a self-defense course in Ephesians 6, and Jesus equips us with all six dimensions of our spiritual armor. He is our truth, our righteousness, our peace, the object of our faith, the source of our salvation, and the living word of God. When we put on Jesus Christ, we are protected by the only person Satan has never defeated. Using the armor of a Roman soldier as a model, the apostle Paul described how a Christian can stand strong in the midst of this ever-present, but unseen spiritual battle: 1. The belt of truth - verse 6:14. The soldiers belt served as the foundation of his armor, holding his sword and his breastplate. Because Satan is the father of lies, he cannot stand against the truth. Jesus said, "I am the truth.Victory in spiritual warfare starts with truth. 2. The breastplate of righteousness - verse 6:14. The breastplate guarded the heart, the source of the soldier's life. In a similar way, righteousness protects the spiritual life of the Christian. Our righteousness comes not from ourselves, but from Christ. 3. Feet protected by the gospel of peace - verse 6:15. The soldier's heavy, armored sandals gave him traction and security in the heat of the battle. So our peace with God through Jesus Christ gives us security. in the face of Satan's accusations. 4. The shield of faith - verse 6:16. The soldier's leather-covered shield could be soaked in water to extinguish the flaming arrows of the enemy. Faith in God's promises deflects and extinguishes the lies of Satan. 5. The helmet of salvation - verse 6:17. The aromored helmet protected the soldier's brain. Since the primary battlefield in spiritual warfare is the Christian's mind, assurance of salvation defeats the doubts Satan uses to attack us. 6. The sword of the Spirit, the word of God - verse 6:17. Paul noted ony one offensive weapon, the soldier's sword. For the Christian, the sword is the Word of God. Thankfully, our spiritual armor is to be used in a war that has already been won. It is said of Napoleon Bonaparte that as he attempted to conquer all the kingdoms of the known world, he spread out a map on a table, pointed to a specific place, and said to his lieutenants, " Sirs, if it weren't for that red spot, I could conquer the world." The spot to which he pointed was the British Isles, the very nation that met Napoleon at Waterloo in Belgium and defeated him in league with a group of nations. There is no doubt that when Satan talks with his minions about conquering the world, he says the same thing about the red hilltop of Calvary where Christ's blood was spilled. "If it were not for that red spot, I could rule the world." But that red spot is what makes all the differnece in our spiritual battle. We do not have to live in fear of the devil. We need enter only the spiritual battle to which we have been called, aware of its reality and its subtlety, and armed with the truth that the ultimate vistory against Satan has already been achieved, Therefore, right now at this moment we are "more than conquerors through Him who loved us." Personal experience in my life has seen how true that what Dr. David Jeremiah just wrote about in these verses has proven Ephesians to be so true. How about you? Have you put on the armor of God and seen the difference that it makes in your life? Have you read those words and been so inspired by what God has done, how he has carried you and protected you? I'd like to read some more notes that Dr. David Jeremiah has written. I simply cannot write these any better and they are so powerful and so promising and so true. I want you to be inspired. Verses 6:10-12 Christians live in a spiritual war zone where the enemy - Satan - uses many tactics in his attempts to defeat them. Those tactics are evidenced by some of the descriptions of Satan in scripture: he is called the deceiver, a murderer, the tempter, a liar, the accuser of the brethren, and the wicked one. Satan's war against God's people follows an organized strategy. Principalities refers to his head officers; wiles refers to clever plans, crafty deceptions, and cunning methods. Like a military general, Satan plans his attacks and directs his demonic forces. Paul mentions six pieces of armor, of which five are defensive. Paul's list mentions nothing for a Christian's back because God expects no deserters in His army. When Christians put on the armor of God they are putting on Christ Himslef. He is the one who fights Satan on their behalf. How glorious it is for us. when we realize that fact. We don't have to fight Satan. God does the battles. More notes here from 6:11-12 say: Every time Paul mentions another class of spiritual beings, he reaffirms that we wrestle against them. The word against appears six times in these two verses. Think of a Christian rowing a boat against the current, trying to make spiritual progress in one direction while Satan turns the current of the world in the opposite direction. You guys know what that's talking about. People, flesh and blood, may persecute, betray, or hurt God's children, but Christians must never forget that the real battle is against Satan, he is the one who brings evil into their lives and tempts them to sin. Believers who view other people as the enemy will not be able to vanquish the true foe. Let's see some more notes here. How about 6:13. Christians need all the armor God has provided to defend against Satan's attacks. They must not choose one piece of armor over another to suit their preferences; they must be proficient in using every piece. Amen to that. 6:14-17, the notes read: Spiritual battles must be fought with spiritual weapons. God's people do not fight with arguments or violence but with truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the word of God. God promises that such weapons will defeat the enemy. The only weapon for offense in the Christian's armor is the word of God. Two Greek words are commonly translated word in English: "logos," which describes the Bible as a whole, and "rhema," the term here, which refers to a particular "saying of God" that has special application for a given situation. The Bible as a whole is an armory from which to select swords for specific battles. Jesus illustrated the use of the "rhema of God" in His victory over Satan in the wilderness. Verse 6:18 reads: A study of Old Testament wars reveals that when the armies of Israel fought in their own strength, they always lost. But when they cast themselves upon God's mercy, victory always followed. Supplication means to ask God for whatever one needs. Asking is the rule of the kingdom and the rule of the church. How true are these notes? As you listen, I pray that you can use these notes in so many of the areas of our culture, of our personal lives, of things that we are going through right now as a nation, and as individuals. Also, at the very end, we will end with this passage that I read in verse 6:19. The notes here say: Paul did not pray for a release from jail, or for an improvement in his situation, or for his own health. He asked his friends to pray for boldness to unveil the mystery of the gospel of Christ. Paul wanted to be an ambassador that he could speak boldly, as he ought to speak. Just as each of us need to do through the way we live each day. Living with an eternal perspective that draws us nearer to God, and draws others nearer to Him at the same time. We don't want the armor that we wear to reflect us. We want it to reflect Christ. We want the words we speak, the actions we do, the thoughts we make, all of those things to have one commonality, and that is, living with an eternal perspective. That we recognize that all we do matters, for us, for others, and for Christ. Lord, help us to live with an eternal perspective that draws others to You and makes You boldly known. Help us to keep our armor on at all times, diligently waiting for You to fight our battles. God, we just thank you so much for all You are and do in our lives. Help us to be bold and to show You clearly in all ways. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners cannot find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 030 Are You Wearing His Armor Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #030 – Are You Wearing His Armor? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. The past week has been full of distractions. It has not been an easy time of focusing on what I planned for. Preparing for our upcoming school year, trying to clean my house before school begins, reading God’s word and praying for discernment on what to reflect on and read for the podcast this week were what I wanted to do, but instead, life has interfered. So, I have been working on medical necessities for my youngest, going to important medical visits, advocating, writing a letter, and speaking to departments at the local children’s hospital to ensure that her unique needs are not forgotten during this Covid season. It has been draining, but I will gladly do as much as I need to if it ensures her needs are met. When our visit to cardiology last week alerted her physician to look at our girl a little more closely, several tests were scheduled and more blood work was ordered to be drawn. God has truly carried our girl through a time of extra tests during a season where both parents cannot go to visits unless exceptions are made, and it is a time that would have thrown her into a two-hour crying spree a few years ago. The difference in her is truly astounding and brings me once again to my knees to watch God work. Her joy, trust, and hopeful attitude has been an inspiration to me as we await these test results and I know that her future is certainly in God’s hands. As I walked through thoughts of what her future holds this week, I was forced to consider realities I don’t usually ponder. I know her medical conditions and I trust that God is in control and will carry and provide for her. When things took a slight turn last week, I was forced to ponder the fact that her future may change faster than I expected. While I do not want that scenario, I can say that all is well with my soul. God has carried me through hard before and He will never stop. He has carried our precious daughter through hard before. He is still with her – and she knows Him now. The hardest season in my life was the death of our oldest daughter. During that heart-shattering time, I buried myself in God’s word and strapped His armor on tight. In fact, it was super-glued to my body. I like to think I still wear it daily, but last week I was reminded to keep it polished and shining for others to see. If you have listened to this podcast for long, you know my thoughts on eternal perspective. I firmly believe that everything I do affects those round me for eternity. I want others to see the way God carries and encourages me. The way He loves me, because He will love you the same, too. But last week was so emotional for me. I had to let myself process emotions and feel the possibilities, but then look firmly back to the Lord and know that none of what we discovered at the cardiology office was a surprise to Him and that He still holds each of us in His firm grasp. I know it is our time to curl up in His lap together and wait for Him to shower blessings. For it is always in the toughest seasons that we grow in Him if we only allow Him to cradle and carry us. That back story must give you a hint of why I chose to read from Ephesians 6:10-19 this week. This is where I drew my deepest strength during my greatest time of heartbreak and where I continue to go to remind myself that I do not need to be strong in myself. When we are weak, make no mistake, the devil finds ways unique to what he has observed works in our life and tries to wiggle in and distract us from seeking God or tries to discourage us. These are the times we must stand strong and know where to turn. We need to remember Who my God is and allow His mighty and powerful armor to cover me as I rest in His arms. Ephesians 6:10-19 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints— and for me, that utterance may be given to me, that I may open my mouth boldly to make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.” Let's take a look at some of the verses in this passage. Now we know that when we are in a battle, a spiritual battle, we definitely need to have spiritual weapons. God has given us absolutely everything that we need to remain strong in Him. I'd like to look at some notes written by Dr. David Jeremiah and I think they are beautifully written. I could not say things any better. Bear with me as I turn to this in my Bible. People think of war as something glamorous until they, or someone they know, becomes a casuality. The same is true in the spiritual arena. Spiritual warfare seems to be a popular subject for movies, lectures, books, and preaching. But many believers are casualties of Satan's schemes. Make no mistake. Whether they are aware of it or not, all Christians are engaged in a very real spiritual battle between two opposing kingdoms. Those least in the know are often the first casualties. Thankfully, Paul provides believers with a self-defense course in Ephesians 6, and Jesus equips us with all six dimensions of our spiritual armor. He is our truth, our righteousness, our peace, the object of our faith, the source of our salvation, and the living word of God. When we put on Jesus Christ, we are protected by the only person Satan has never defeated. Using the armor of a Roman soldier as a model, the apostle Paul described how a Christian can stand strong in the midst of this ever-present, but unseen spiritual battle: 1. The belt of truth - verse 6:14. The soldiers belt served as the foundation of his armor, holding his sword and his breastplate. Because Satan is the father of lies, he cannot stand against the truth. Jesus said, "I am the truth.Victory in spiritual warfare starts with truth. 2. The breastplate of righteousness - verse 6:14. The breastplate guarded the heart, the source of the soldier's life. In a similar way, righteousness protects the spiritual life of the Christian. Our righteousness comes not from ourselves, but from Christ. 3. Feet protected by the gospel of peace - verse 6:15. The soldier's heavy, armored sandals gave him traction and security in the heat of the battle. So our peace with God through Jesus Christ gives us security. in the face of Satan's accusations. 4. The shield of faith - verse 6:16. The soldier's leather-covered shield could be soaked in water to extinguish the flaming arrows of the enemy. Faith in God's promises deflects and extinguishes the lies of Satan. 5. The helmet of salvation - verse 6:17. The aromored helmet protected the soldier's brain. Since the primary battlefield in spiritual warfare is the Christian's mind, assurance of salvation defeats the doubts Satan uses to attack us. 6. The sword of the Spirit, the word of God - verse 6:17. Paul noted ony one offensive weapon, the soldier's sword. For the Christian, the sword is the Word of God. Thankfully, our spiritual armor is to be used in a war that has already been won. It is said of Napoleon Bonaparte that as he attempted to conquer all the kingdoms of the known world, he spread out a map on a table, pointed to a specific place, and said to his lieutenants, " Sirs, if it weren't for that red spot, I could conquer the world." The spot to which he pointed was the British Isles, the very nation that met Napoleon at Waterloo in Belgium and defeated him in league with a group of nations. There is no doubt that when Satan talks with his minions about conquering the world, he says the same thing about the red hilltop of Calvary where Christ's blood was spilled. "If it were not for that red spot, I could rule the world." But that red spot is what makes all the differnece in our spiritual battle. We do not have to live in fear of the devil. We need enter only the spiritual battle to which we have been called, aware of its reality and its subtlety, and armed with the truth that the ultimate vistory against Satan has already been achieved, Therefore, right now at this moment we are "more than conquerors through Him who loved us." Personal experience in my life has seen how true that what Dr. David Jeremiah just wrote about in these verses has proven Ephesians to be so true. How about you? Have you put on the armor of God and seen the difference that it makes in your life? Have you read those words and been so inspired by what God has done, how he has carried you and protected you? I'd like to read some more notes that Dr. David Jeremiah has written. I simply cannot write these any better and they are so powerful and so promising and so true. I want you to be inspired. Verses 6:10-12 Christians live in a spiritual war zone where the enemy - Satan - uses many tactics in his attempts to defeat them. Those tactics are evidenced by some of the descriptions of Satan in scripture: he is called the deceiver, a murderer, the tempter, a liar, the accuser of the brethren, and the wicked one. Satan's war against God's people follows an organized strategy. Principalities refers to his head officers; wiles refers to clever plans, crafty deceptions, and cunning methods. Like a military general, Satan plans his attacks and directs his demonic forces. Paul mentions six pieces of armor, of which five are defensive. Paul's list mentions nothing for a Christian's back because God expects no deserters in His army. When Christians put on the armor of God they are putting on Christ Himslef. He is the one who fights Satan on their behalf. How glorious it is for us. when we realize that fact. We don't have to fight Satan. God does the battles. More notes here from 6:11-12 say: Every time Paul mentions another class of spiritual beings, he reaffirms that we wrestle against them. The word against appears six times in these two verses. Think of a Christian rowing a boat against the current, trying to make spiritual progress in one direction while Satan turns the current of the world in the opposite direction. You guys know what that's talking about. People, flesh and blood, may persecute, betray, or hurt God's children, but Christians must never forget that the real battle is against Satan, he is the one who brings evil into their lives and tempts them to sin. Believers who view other people as the enemy will not be able to vanquish the true foe. Let's see some more notes here. How about 6:13. Christians need all the armor God has provided to defend against Satan's attacks. They must not choose one piece of armor over another to suit their preferences; they must be proficient in using every piece. Amen to that. 6:14-17, the notes read: Spiritual battles must be fought with spiritual weapons. God's people do not fight with arguments or violence but with truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the word of God. God promises that such weapons will defeat the enemy. The only weapon for offense in the Christian's armor is the word of God. Two Greek words are commonly translated word in English: "logos," which describes the Bible as a whole, and "rhema," the term here, which refers to a particular "saying of God" that has special application for a given situation. The Bible as a whole is an armory from which to select swords for specific battles. Jesus illustrated the use of the "rhema of God" in His victory over Satan in the wilderness. Verse 6:18 reads: A study of Old Testament wars reveals that when the armies of Israel fought in their own strength, they always lost. But when they cast themselves upon God's mercy, victory always followed. Supplication means to ask God for whatever one needs. Asking is the rule of the kingdom and the rule of the church. How true are these notes? As you listen, I pray that you can use these notes in so many of the areas of our culture, of our personal lives, of things that we are going through right now as a nation, and as individuals. Also, at the very end, we will end with this passage that I read in verse 6:19. The notes here say: Paul did not pray for a release from jail, or for an improvement in his situation, or for his own health. He asked his friends to pray for boldness to unveil the mystery of the gospel of Christ. Paul wanted to be an ambassador that he could speak boldly, as he ought to speak. Just as each of us need to do through the way we live each day. Living with an eternal perspective that draws us nearer to God, and draws others nearer to Him at the same time. We don't want the armor that we wear to reflect us. We want it to reflect Christ. We want the words we speak, the actions we do, the thoughts we make, all of those things to have one commonality, and that is, living with an eternal perspective. That we recognize that all we do matters, for us, for others, and for Christ. Lord, help us to live with an eternal perspective that draws others to You and makes You boldly known. Help us to keep our armor on at all times, diligently waiting for You to fight our battles. God, we just thank you so much for all You are and do in our lives. Help us to be bold and to show You clearly in all ways. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners cannot find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #033 – The Keys Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I would describe myself as an extroverted introvert. Quiet time to reflect and unwind at home is needed. Although I love people, can talk to anyone, and really am interested in knowing them, I need down time. For the most part, our home is very relaxed and quiet, but last week my youngest had a melt-down. It has actually been a while since the last one. When she first came home from China, she wasn’t able to express her emotions, needs, or desires, so if something triggered memories, trauma, or fears, big feelings and crying sessions lasting two hours would take over. This behavior or type of emotional release is very common. Most adoptive parents have dealt with melt-downs. They usually lessen over time and eventually fade away to a distant memory of early days together. Which is mostly what ours have done. Until last week. As I sat on the floor with my precious girl, waiting for her to release her emotions, I thought about how far we had come. I felt blessed to have seen this one coming, I had recognized the trigger when it happened, and I was one hundred percent ready to sit on the floor and just be there with her. During the times this happens, all she wants is for me to stay there, to prove that she is not alone, that I love her, and I can handle the “bigness” of what she is experiencing. As extremely difficult as this can be on everyone, especially when children first arrive home, this process has brought us closer to each other. It has strengthened our bonds and attached us in miraculous ways. But it doesn’t make it easy. This particular melt-down lasted less than an hour, and the tears were not non-stop. As I observed my youngest, I was thankful to know my girl much better now. I understood that she needed to laugh in between sets of tears and was joyful that I possessed the know-how and ability to cater to her particular sense of humor. I also knew when to hug. I knew when to be silent and still. When a child is in the middle of a melt-down, their brain is not functioning normally. Although I understand that she isn’t able to process at that time, I still sometimes find myself asking her a few questions, attempting to help. We’ve been together long enough now that she allowed them, but wasn’t able to answer. I knew that whatever important words I said during that time needed to be repeated at a time she would understand and retain them, too. It was time to revisit what had happened during her outburst this week. So, earlier this week I sat down on the same bedroom floor and talked to her about the melt-down. We talked about why it happened. I shared about how hard it is sometimes to find the right words to express exactly what we are feeling. We talked about other people and how feelings can easily get hurt. Now that her brain wasn’t in an agitated or upset mode, she was more capable of admitting her needs and wants. Even though she has been with us for five years now, English is not her first language, and it is still difficult at times to find the right words for her to express big emotions. I told her that it is sometimes hard for people who have always lived and grown up in America to know how to talk about what they are feeling. I found a small box with a lid and showed her a demonstration I knew she wouldn’t absorb the day of, but had tried anyway. Although she looked like she was listening at the time of the melt-down, she couldn’t remember any of it. So I sat down in front of her with the box and shared again. “See this?” I asked her. “Yes,” she said as she nodded. “This box is a person.” Always up for make-believe, she smiled with interest as I continued. I took the lid off and held up a small stuffed animal. “Let’s pretend this is a feeling.” I dropped it in the box and held up another toy. “This is a thought.” In the box it went. I reminded her of previous discussions we have shared about feelings, thoughts, and emotions. She remembered I had told her that although we have many, and we need to feel and admit them, they are not always accurate or true, even though they feel like it. I continued adding items to the box, saying that people have many thoughts, feelings, and emotions every day. “When we do not have the words to tell others what we think or feel.” I said, “Our head and heart get so full we feel many things. We may get confused, or scared, or mad, or frustrated.” I filled the box up all the way and showed her the inside of it. “We wonder how to get the feelings and thoughts out. Sometimes it’s good to cry and even Jesus cried sometimes. But we can also talk to people and share how we feel so they can help us. In China you did not have anyone, but now you do. I always want to help.” I do talk,” she said. “I always talk to God.” “I’m so happy,” I told her as I gave her a hug. “When you talk to God, the feelings and emotions and thoughts can come out.” I started talking the animals out of the box one at a time. “Then the box feels lighter and we don’t feel like crying because we feel like someone hears us and can understand and help. The thoughts won’t make us feel heavy and sad. Remember that Mommy and Daddy can help. But I’m always glad you talk to God first.” “I know,” she said as she moved closer to me. After a moment she said, “The box is like a puzzle,” she said. “We have to find the right pieces for us.” What? I was astounded and in awe of my girl. She proved how far she had traveled in her time with us. She understood. She carried a deeper understanding than I realized. Being a parent is one of the greatest gifts I have been given. Anyone who has been listening to this podcast for a while knows our story and has heard me speak on this before. Adoptive parenting has humbled me even more than biological parenting. Adoptive parenting forces mothers and fathers to face and admit insecurities while dealing with a child who was once an absolute stranger with no ties to them. They have to navigate and deal with their own hang-ups, pains, or disappointments while facing the raw terror and trauma of a child that only God can heal. Many parents get lost on how the child treats them or rejects them. If we hold self-doubts and uncertainties in our own life, then couple those with the rejection of a child we work so hard to bring home, a family can easily spiral into crisis. Parenting is never about us. Life is not about us. The greatest sacrifice a parent can make is to face the responsibility of raising a child for God with a spirit of great humility. We know nothing about the child in our care, whether biological or adopted, until we release ourselves to our Heavenly Father and allow Him to reveal their special gifts, talents, emotions, and interests. Only by clinging to God are we able to merge broken human personalities and hurts, traumas, fears, hopes, dreams, and love to meet the needs of another. There is no greater gift we can offer than to lay down our life for our child and strive to see them through the eyes of their Creator. Without God, we are damaged vessels. Motherhood offers women the opportunity to face what is broken and allow God to mend and renew. Actually, parenthood offers us the opportunity to face what is broken and allow God to mend and renew. It isn’t just mothers who must face imperfections and bow to Him as we raise the children He entrusted to our care. What is the best method for learning and growing as a parent? As a person? Possessing active humility and simple trust. Last week on the podcast I read verses from Daniel 4:1-37 and shared about teachability. This week I feel the need to offer more, with emphasis on the best ways to be teachable. Humility and trust. We do not have to be the smartest person to learn, or the most intelligent parent, but we do need to pay attention, and carry a desire to learn or change, and maintain or gain, a humble spirit. When we are humble, we recognize that others may carry more knowledge or insight, and perhaps more wisdom than us. We recognize that God is the ultimate source of wisdom and as we seek Him, and desire to understand Him and His ways, we will also gain practical and godly wisdom. Humility teaches us: 1. To be a better listener than speaker. 2. To be slow to speak. 3. To admit our mistakes. 4. To consider others more highly than ourselves. 5. To seek the wisdom of God in everything. James 3:13-18 says, “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” I think often about how God must feel when He looks down on this world; the pain His heart must feel. I purposely strive daily to view those I love and strangers around me through a lens that desires results from an eternal perspective that pleases God. I want what I do and think to give my Heavenly Father joy. Instead, how much pain does He receive from me daily? The words in James 3:13-18 show how far so many of us are from where God is calling us to be. When we are wise, we show it through good conduct. Look at the streets filled right now with looting and murder. I see no meekness of wisdom. I see envy and self-seeking, lies, and confusion. God’s wisdom fills us with more humility and wisdom that is pure from Him, peaceable, gentle, and willing to yield while full of mercy and good fruits. He tells us there is no hypocrisy or partiality. There is peace. We cannot know Him, His fruits, His peace, wisdom, or humility without knowing Him. We cannot be teachable without Him. Our world is so far from where we need to be, but that can change one person at a time. I always exclaim that the cure for what ails this nation is one simple thing. The problem is the condition of our hearts. Change the hearts, change the people, change our nation, change the world. The solution is Jesus. That is not my opinion. Is it a fact straight from the Bible. Jesus proclaimed in John 14:6, “I am the truth, the way, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me.” In John 8:24, he said, “For unless you believe that I am He, you shall die in your sins.” The Apostle Peter assured us of the truthfulness of those words when he quoted the words found in Acts 4:12, “And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” Paul agreed in 1 Timothy 2:5 when he said, “There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. Simply spoken, the Old Testament points the way to the coming Messiah and the New Testament is united in the fact that no one can know or come to God, our Heavenly Father, except through the person of Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can heal hearts. This world needs Him much more than we realize. Basic, but important steps are needed to approach change through Jesus and a relationship with our Heavenly Father. These steps allow our heart and mind to be changed and will keep us growing and maturing properly. There are two important keys. What are they? Humble submission and trust. First, we must recognize and admit our needs. Next, we must be ready for change. Finally, we must want permanent transformation. A shift begins with the willingness to be humbled and the desire to live with permanent humility. I’m going to share several verses to prepare our minds to see our need. 1 Peter 5:5 says, “Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.” Proverbs 15:33 says, “The fear of the LORD is the instruction of wisdom, And before honor is humility.” Proverbs 22:4 says, “By humility and the fear of the LORD Are riches and honor and life.” Colossians 2:23 says, “These things indeed have an appearance of wisdom in self-imposed religion, false humility, and neglect of the body, but are of no value against the indulgence of the flesh.” Philippians 2:3 says, “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering.” Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride comes, then comes shame; But with the humble is wisdom.” James 3:13 says, “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom.” Ephesians 4:2 says, “with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.” Do you recognize these qualities in most of the people living today? Do you recognize them in yourself most of the time? We all have so much work to do. We must allow ourselves to be humbled and gain the desire and ability to trust God with our life. The whole of it. What about trust? In our society, it is hard-earned. Are you ready to extend it to, and allow it to stay, in God’s hand? How does trust in God help us? 1. Trust erases fear. 2. Trust produces peace and joy despite circumstances. 3. Trust enables us to turn away from evil. 4. Trust builds a fortress through the shield of God’s armor. 5. Trust produces a strong faith. 6. Trust enables obedience. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Listen to these additional verses about trust. Just like humility, trust is so important that God doesn’t speak on it just once, but continues to prove reasons for us to trust and shows us the only way to a life filled with the richness of peace and other fruits of the spirit we all desire and seek. Psalm 37:3 says, “Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.” Isaiah 12:2 says, “Behold, God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid; ‘For Yah, the Lord, is my strength and song; He also has become my salvation.” Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the LORD; trust in Him, and He will act.” Psalm 62:8 says, “Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” Remember the story I shared about my youngest at the beginning of this podcast? The same principles apply to everyone because we have all experienced different levels of loss, hurt, frustration, confusion, needs, and more. We all have the same desire to be understood and to be able to express ourselves and still be loved and wanted. Think of the analogy I used with the box. Instead of releasing thoughts, feelings, and emotions from the box, think of our mind and heart as safe deposit boxes. If you use the example of the box with the lid, search the word of God and seek to study and understand it, then apply it safely in our hearts and minds to nourish our soul. In effect, we put it in “the box.” When that box is filled with the word of God, conversations and prayers, active listening for His voice, words, and directions to us, humble trust, and active pursuit of Him, and obedience, we release negativity and false beliefs, hurts, bitterness, anger, and more from the box. We build a deposit of humble trust and love for the only One who understands us and will never forsake us. Faith is a series of steps taken through a life of humility and trust with blind obedience through Jesus. Are you ready to begin or expand your walk with the Lord? Me, too. I know with certainty that anything we submit to and do for the Lord will bring us sweet joy on this earth and for eternity. Father, I thank You for Your presence in my life. Please enable me to follow You with humility that is pleasing to You. Help me to trust what you teach and reveal to me. Give me the courage to be obedient to what and where You call me. Let my faith grow and not falter. Help me bring You great joy. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 033 The Keys Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #033 – The Keys Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I would describe myself as an extroverted introvert. Quiet time to reflect and unwind at home is needed. Although I love people, can talk to anyone, and really am interested in knowing them, I need down time. For the most part, our home is very relaxed and quiet, but last week my youngest had a melt-down. It has actually been a while since the last one. When she first came home from China, she wasn’t able to express her emotions, needs, or desires, so if something triggered memories, trauma, or fears, big feelings and crying sessions lasting two hours would take over. This behavior or type of emotional release is very common. Most adoptive parents have dealt with melt-downs. They usually lessen over time and eventually fade away to a distant memory of early days together. Which is mostly what ours have done. Until last week. As I sat on the floor with my precious girl, waiting for her to release her emotions, I thought about how far we had come. I felt blessed to have seen this one coming, I had recognized the trigger when it happened, and I was one hundred percent ready to sit on the floor and just be there with her. During the times this happens, all she wants is for me to stay there, to prove that she is not alone, that I love her, and I can handle the “bigness” of what she is experiencing. As extremely difficult as this can be on everyone, especially when children first arrive home, this process has brought us closer to each other. It has strengthened our bonds and attached us in miraculous ways. But it doesn’t make it easy. This particular melt-down lasted less than an hour, and the tears were not non-stop. As I observed my youngest, I was thankful to know my girl much better now. I understood that she needed to laugh in between sets of tears and was joyful that I possessed the know-how and ability to cater to her particular sense of humor. I also knew when to hug. I knew when to be silent and still. When a child is in the middle of a melt-down, their brain is not functioning normally. Although I understand that she isn’t able to process at that time, I still sometimes find myself asking her a few questions, attempting to help. We’ve been together long enough now that she allowed them, but wasn’t able to answer. I knew that whatever important words I said during that time needed to be repeated at a time she would understand and retain them, too. It was time to revisit what had happened during her outburst this week. So, earlier this week I sat down on the same bedroom floor and talked to her about the melt-down. We talked about why it happened. I shared about how hard it is sometimes to find the right words to express exactly what we are feeling. We talked about other people and how feelings can easily get hurt. Now that her brain wasn’t in an agitated or upset mode, she was more capable of admitting her needs and wants. Even though she has been with us for five years now, English is not her first language, and it is still difficult at times to find the right words for her to express big emotions. I told her that it is sometimes hard for people who have always lived and grown up in America to know how to talk about what they are feeling. I found a small box with a lid and showed her a demonstration I knew she wouldn’t absorb the day of, but had tried anyway. Although she looked like she was listening at the time of the melt-down, she couldn’t remember any of it. So I sat down in front of her with the box and shared again. “See this?” I asked her. “Yes,” she said as she nodded. “This box is a person.” Always up for make-believe, she smiled with interest as I continued. I took the lid off and held up a small stuffed animal. “Let’s pretend this is a feeling.” I dropped it in the box and held up another toy. “This is a thought.” In the box it went. I reminded her of previous discussions we have shared about feelings, thoughts, and emotions. She remembered I had told her that although we have many, and we need to feel and admit them, they are not always accurate or true, even though they feel like it. I continued adding items to the box, saying that people have many thoughts, feelings, and emotions every day. “When we do not have the words to tell others what we think or feel.” I said, “Our head and heart get so full we feel many things. We may get confused, or scared, or mad, or frustrated.” I filled the box up all the way and showed her the inside of it. “We wonder how to get the feelings and thoughts out. Sometimes it’s good to cry and even Jesus cried sometimes. But we can also talk to people and share how we feel so they can help us. In China you did not have anyone, but now you do. I always want to help.” I do talk,” she said. “I always talk to God.” “I’m so happy,” I told her as I gave her a hug. “When you talk to God, the feelings and emotions and thoughts can come out.” I started talking the animals out of the box one at a time. “Then the box feels lighter and we don’t feel like crying because we feel like someone hears us and can understand and help. The thoughts won’t make us feel heavy and sad. Remember that Mommy and Daddy can help. But I’m always glad you talk to God first.” “I know,” she said as she moved closer to me. After a moment she said, “The box is like a puzzle,” she said. “We have to find the right pieces for us.” What? I was astounded and in awe of my girl. She proved how far she had traveled in her time with us. She understood. She carried a deeper understanding than I realized. Being a parent is one of the greatest gifts I have been given. Anyone who has been listening to this podcast for a while knows our story and has heard me speak on this before. Adoptive parenting has humbled me even more than biological parenting. Adoptive parenting forces mothers and fathers to face and admit insecurities while dealing with a child who was once an absolute stranger with no ties to them. They have to navigate and deal with their own hang-ups, pains, or disappointments while facing the raw terror and trauma of a child that only God can heal. Many parents get lost on how the child treats them or rejects them. If we hold self-doubts and uncertainties in our own life, then couple those with the rejection of a child we work so hard to bring home, a family can easily spiral into crisis. Parenting is never about us. Life is not about us. The greatest sacrifice a parent can make is to face the responsibility of raising a child for God with a spirit of great humility. We know nothing about the child in our care, whether biological or adopted, until we release ourselves to our Heavenly Father and allow Him to reveal their special gifts, talents, emotions, and interests. Only by clinging to God are we able to merge broken human personalities and hurts, traumas, fears, hopes, dreams, and love to meet the needs of another. There is no greater gift we can offer than to lay down our life for our child and strive to see them through the eyes of their Creator. Without God, we are damaged vessels. Motherhood offers women the opportunity to face what is broken and allow God to mend and renew. Actually, parenthood offers us the opportunity to face what is broken and allow God to mend and renew. It isn’t just mothers who must face imperfections and bow to Him as we raise the children He entrusted to our care. What is the best method for learning and growing as a parent? As a person? Possessing active humility and simple trust. Last week on the podcast I read verses from Daniel 4:1-37 and shared about teachability. This week I feel the need to offer more, with emphasis on the best ways to be teachable. Humility and trust. We do not have to be the smartest person to learn, or the most intelligent parent, but we do need to pay attention, and carry a desire to learn or change, and maintain or gain, a humble spirit. When we are humble, we recognize that others may carry more knowledge or insight, and perhaps more wisdom than us. We recognize that God is the ultimate source of wisdom and as we seek Him, and desire to understand Him and His ways, we will also gain practical and godly wisdom. Humility teaches us: 1. To be a better listener than speaker. 2. To be slow to speak. 3. To admit our mistakes. 4. To consider others more highly than ourselves. 5. To seek the wisdom of God in everything. James 3:13-18 says, “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” I think often about how God must feel when He looks down on this world; the pain His heart must feel. I purposely strive daily to view those I love and strangers around me through a lens that desires results from an eternal perspective that pleases God. I want what I do and think to give my Heavenly Father joy. Instead, how much pain does He receive from me daily? The words in James 3:13-18 show how far so many of us are from where God is calling us to be. When we are wise, we show it through good conduct. Look at the streets filled right now with looting and murder. I see no meekness of wisdom. I see envy and self-seeking, lies, and confusion. God’s wisdom fills us with more humility and wisdom that is pure from Him, peaceable, gentle, and willing to yield while full of mercy and good fruits. He tells us there is no hypocrisy or partiality. There is peace. We cannot know Him, His fruits, His peace, wisdom, or humility without knowing Him. We cannot be teachable without Him. Our world is so far from where we need to be, but that can change one person at a time. I always exclaim that the cure for what ails this nation is one simple thing. The problem is the condition of our hearts. Change the hearts, change the people, change our nation, change the world. The solution is Jesus. That is not my opinion. Is it a fact straight from the Bible. Jesus proclaimed in John 14:6, “I am the truth, the way, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me.” In John 8:24, he said, “For unless you believe that I am He, you shall die in your sins.” The Apostle Peter assured us of the truthfulness of those words when he quoted the words found in Acts 4:12, “And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” Paul agreed in 1 Timothy 2:5 when he said, “There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. Simply spoken, the Old Testament points the way to the coming Messiah and the New Testament is united in the fact that no one can know or come to God, our Heavenly Father, except through the person of Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can heal hearts. This world needs Him much more than we realize. Basic, but important steps are needed to approach change through Jesus and a relationship with our Heavenly Father. These steps allow our heart and mind to be changed and will keep us growing and maturing properly. There are two important keys. What are they? Humble submission and trust. First, we must recognize and admit our needs. Next, we must be ready for change. Finally, we must want permanent transformation. A shift begins with the willingness to be humbled and the desire to live with permanent humility. I’m going to share several verses to prepare our minds to see our need. 1 Peter 5:5 says, “Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.” Proverbs 15:33 says, “The fear of the LORD is the instruction of wisdom, And before honor is humility.” Proverbs 22:4 says, “By humility and the fear of the LORD Are riches and honor and life.” Colossians 2:23 says, “These things indeed have an appearance of wisdom in self-imposed religion, false humility, and neglect of the body, but are of no value against the indulgence of the flesh.” Philippians 2:3 says, “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering.” Proverbs 11:2 says, “When pride comes, then comes shame; But with the humble is wisdom.” James 3:13 says, “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom.” Ephesians 4:2 says, “with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.” Do you recognize these qualities in most of the people living today? Do you recognize them in yourself most of the time? We all have so much work to do. We must allow ourselves to be humbled and gain the desire and ability to trust God with our life. The whole of it. What about trust? In our society, it is hard-earned. Are you ready to extend it to, and allow it to stay, in God’s hand? How does trust in God help us? 1. Trust erases fear. 2. Trust produces peace and joy despite circumstances. 3. Trust enables us to turn away from evil. 4. Trust builds a fortress through the shield of God’s armor. 5. Trust produces a strong faith. 6. Trust enables obedience. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Listen to these additional verses about trust. Just like humility, trust is so important that God doesn’t speak on it just once, but continues to prove reasons for us to trust and shows us the only way to a life filled with the richness of peace and other fruits of the spirit we all desire and seek. Psalm 37:3 says, “Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.” Isaiah 12:2 says, “Behold, God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid; ‘For Yah, the Lord, is my strength and song; He also has become my salvation.” Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the LORD; trust in Him, and He will act.” Psalm 62:8 says, “Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” Remember the story I shared about my youngest at the beginning of this podcast? The same principles apply to everyone because we have all experienced different levels of loss, hurt, frustration, confusion, needs, and more. We all have the same desire to be understood and to be able to express ourselves and still be loved and wanted. Think of the analogy I used with the box. Instead of releasing thoughts, feelings, and emotions from the box, think of our mind and heart as safe deposit boxes. If you use the example of the box with the lid, search the word of God and seek to study and understand it, then apply it safely in our hearts and minds to nourish our soul. In effect, we put it in “the box.” When that box is filled with the word of God, conversations and prayers, active listening for His voice, words, and directions to us, humble trust, and active pursuit of Him, and obedience, we release negativity and false beliefs, hurts, bitterness, anger, and more from the box. We build a deposit of humble trust and love for the only One who understands us and will never forsake us. Faith is a series of steps taken through a life of humility and trust with blind obedience through Jesus. Are you ready to begin or expand your walk with the Lord? Me, too. I know with certainty that anything we submit to and do for the Lord will bring us sweet joy on this earth and for eternity. Father, I thank You for Your presence in my life. Please enable me to follow You with humility that is pleasing to You. Help me to trust what you teach and reveal to me. Give me the courage to be obedient to what and where You call me. Let my faith grow and not falter. Help me bring You great joy. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can’t find it unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them find it by leaving a quick review and rating for the show and by sharing about the podcast on social media or word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #115 – A Joyful Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Thirteen years ago I faced my biggest fear. I lost a child. When my oldest daughter died, the life I knew ended. Dreams died. My future was forever altered. Our family would never be the same. I don’t know if it is really what the end of life is like, but when I hear stories of how your life supposedly flashes before you, it makes sense. Once the initial news and notifications to loved ones was over, like a slideshow, memories of my first baby rolled through my mind, especially when I tried to sleep. Before that moment, I lived in a safe world. Although I had experienced hardships and trials, I had never lost one of my children. Losing a child was a trauma I had seen others experience and it broke my heart to see families suffer in this way. I never wanted to be part of “that club.” Before heartbreak that deep, I naively thought I would go before my children, in fact, I expected it. When I hadn’t yet dealt with loss that severe, I still lived untouched in the bubble that floats just above the grief of others, bouncing down to feel their pain and minister to them, but light enough to flutter back to safety. After my bubble burst and I landed on the path of grief so deep and heavy I had to remind myself to breathe, I knew I was experiencing God in a profound way I didn’t know existed. I often explain it by saying God lifted the veil. The Lord became flesh and carried me. What my heart had trusted became the hope that proved it could lead me in ways I never needed before. Faith became sight. Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped.” Because people know of my loss, I am often asked how I find joy in life, despite circumstances. Psalm 30:5b says, “Weeping may stay the night, but joy comes in the morning.” Each of us experience pain. What we grieve from or suffer as loss cannot be measured by another because we are individual and no experience is the same. Yet, because God has gifted most of us with the beautiful qualities of empathy and sympathy, we can unite with another, bringing comfort or happiness for a time, but we cannot give a joy that lasts. God alone is the founder and giver of deep joy. Far different than what the world seeks and calls happiness, joy reaches to the deepest region of our soul and cannot be shaken by anything we encounter in this world. Happiness is fleeting like the feeling you get when you receive a gift, eat a special treat, or experience the vacation of a lifetime. Joy comes from a peace and trust rooted by Christ and growing within a maturing believer as we experience the fullness of the power of God. Acts 14:22b says, “They encouraged them to continue in the faith, reminding them that we must suffer many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God.” Jesus taught His disciples that there are 8 characteristics which describe the inner joy of one who truly follows Him. We find them in Matthew 5:3-10, which says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” What are the 8 characteristics that Jesus says bring joy? Let’s look more closely at the verses I read and examine them with a heart for eternity. 1. Humility - Matthew 5:3 says the poor in spirit. Let’s define poor in spirit. The poor in spirit doesn’t mean one habitually depressed or mopey as it may sound, but one who is humble. When our heart recognizes our spiritual need for our Heavenly Father and we seek Him above self or anything found in this world, the Holy Spirit does a great work within us, allowing us the ability to find pure joy through Him. 2. Grieving - Matthew 5:4 says the ones who mourn. When this world crushes us with pain or grief, those who mourn can find solace through Jesus. In Greek, the word comforted is also used to describe the Holy Spirit’s miraculous ministry in our life, the only practice that brings lasting joy through pain. Jesus is absolutely everything He says, and that the Word of God proclaims. When I was in need of deep comfort, He never failed me. I made sure I stayed near to Him, drawing as close as I could, asking for His care, and the Lord ministered to me in intimate ways specifically tailored to my needs. He does the same for each of us. 3. Meekness - Matthew 5:5 says those who are meek. It has been said that meekness is not weakness, but power under control. In my experience, this can only be secured through allowing the Holy Spirit to mold and transform me moment by moment. By trusting in Jesus, meekness brings humility to the forefront of our mind and spirit and fills us with a joy that surpasses human understanding as He works in and through us. 4. Holiness - Matthew 5:6 says those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. As shown in Psalm 16:11, which says, “Thou wilt show me the path of life: In thy presence is fulness of joy; In thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.” When we seek the presence of God and delight in what He calls justice or holy, we find true fullness of joy. 5. Mercifulness - Matthew 5:7 says those who are merciful. Through the power of the Holy Spirit within a believer, we find a holy ability to offer compassionate, cheerful, constructive love to those who suffer and receive deep joy in return as Christ works through us. 6. Purity - Matthew 5:8 says the pure in heart. Only Jesus within us in the form of the Holy Spirit gives us the ability to desire and form holy thoughts and motives. Scripture teaches us that those who live with pure hearts receive the blessing of deep and lasting joy from Christ. 7. Mediator - Matthew 5:9 says those who are peacemakers. The word peacemakers comes from a verb meaning “to join together.” Imagine two opposing forces being reconciled, coming together as one, and we better understand the way a peacemaker completes his work. As we help others reconcile with God, our Father, we experience massive joy and holy exultation deep within our spirit. 8. Persecution - Matthew 5:10 says those who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness. No one desires suffering, especially not punishment for living a righteous life connected to Christ. Jesus assured us that when we remain steadfast and loyal to Him, even when we are persecuted for our faith, He will reward with a great and joyful blessing. Connecting our mindset and heartset to Jesus, His view of life, and of this world frees us from the burdens that drag us from Him and equip us with His joy as we rest in His arms. We see and experience life differently and live in expectation for eternity with Him. Joy is a choice. Why? Because we must each choose to allow Christ to work within us. We must choose to live in the ways He calls, trusting that He is good and He is right. Joy visits when our spirit seeks Him and the ground is fertile for joy to erupt and mature. Keep pursuing your walk with God through Jesus. Only He has the power to transform lives. He is the One who meets every need we are searching for. He alone gives permanent joy in place of fleeting happiness. Happiness bursts in, then seeps out; joy permanently shines from within. Philippians 4:4-8 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be apparent to all. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” Jesus doesn’t promise that His joy will free us from experiencing the burdens and pains of this world. What He promises is of far greater significance. While we are in the midst of pain, He gives us a joy that allows us holy connection which carries us beyond our suffering as we keep our mind on Him. Reliance on Jesus gives hope and security even when all we love or think we must have is snatched away. His joy reminds us to focus on Him, to rely on Him, and to rejoice in Him at all times, trusting that He has a purpose for our suffering as He carries us through every storm. When I was asked about joy after losing my daughter, I honestly didn’t even realize that joy was showing. I simply kept my eyes focused on the Lord, clinging tightly to my Lifeline. Jesus was my anchor; the foundation that kept me steady. Miraculously, the Holy Spirit worked within me when I had no energy or thoughts of the word, joy. Just as He promised, the Lord was present, moving to provide and sustain me in ways only He can promise and deliver. John 15:9-11 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Remain in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Dear Gracious, Loving Heavenly Father. Just as Jesus prayed, Your kingdom come, Your will be done, we pray in Your Holy name. Allow us your mercy and joy through each moment. Happiness is fleeting, but Your joy is our sustenance. You are our strength and salvation. You are our God and we will praise You despite circumstances, expecting Your joy to carry us. We trust You, Father and know that You are good. Keep us looking to and following You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 115 - A Joyful Life Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #115 – A Joyful Life Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Thirteen years ago I faced my biggest fear. I lost a child. When my oldest daughter died, the life I knew ended. Dreams died. My future was forever altered. Our family would never be the same. I don’t know if it is really what the end of life is like, but when I hear stories of how your life supposedly flashes before you, it makes sense. Once the initial news and notifications to loved ones was over, like a slideshow, memories of my first baby rolled through my mind, especially when I tried to sleep. Before that moment, I lived in a safe world. Although I had experienced hardships and trials, I had never lost one of my children. Losing a child was a trauma I had seen others experience and it broke my heart to see families suffer in this way. I never wanted to be part of “that club.” Before heartbreak that deep, I naively thought I would go before my children, in fact, I expected it. When I hadn’t yet dealt with loss that severe, I still lived untouched in the bubble that floats just above the grief of others, bouncing down to feel their pain and minister to them, but light enough to flutter back to safety. After my bubble burst and I landed on the path of grief so deep and heavy I had to remind myself to breathe, I knew I was experiencing God in a profound way I didn’t know existed. I often explain it by saying God lifted the veil. The Lord became flesh and carried me. What my heart had trusted became the hope that proved it could lead me in ways I never needed before. Faith became sight. Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped.” Because people know of my loss, I am often asked how I find joy in life, despite circumstances. Psalm 30:5b says, “Weeping may stay the night, but joy comes in the morning.” Each of us experience pain. What we grieve from or suffer as loss cannot be measured by another because we are individual and no experience is the same. Yet, because God has gifted most of us with the beautiful qualities of empathy and sympathy, we can unite with another, bringing comfort or happiness for a time, but we cannot give a joy that lasts. God alone is the founder and giver of deep joy. Far different than what the world seeks and calls happiness, joy reaches to the deepest region of our soul and cannot be shaken by anything we encounter in this world. Happiness is fleeting like the feeling you get when you receive a gift, eat a special treat, or experience the vacation of a lifetime. Joy comes from a peace and trust rooted by Christ and growing within a maturing believer as we experience the fullness of the power of God. Acts 14:22b says, “They encouraged them to continue in the faith, reminding them that we must suffer many hardships to enter the Kingdom of God.” Jesus taught His disciples that there are 8 characteristics which describe the inner joy of one who truly follows Him. We find them in Matthew 5:3-10, which says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” What are the 8 characteristics that Jesus says bring joy? Let’s look more closely at the verses I read and examine them with a heart for eternity. 1. Humility - Matthew 5:3 says the poor in spirit. Let’s define poor in spirit. The poor in spirit doesn’t mean one habitually depressed or mopey as it may sound, but one who is humble. When our heart recognizes our spiritual need for our Heavenly Father and we seek Him above self or anything found in this world, the Holy Spirit does a great work within us, allowing us the ability to find pure joy through Him. 2. Grieving - Matthew 5:4 says the ones who mourn. When this world crushes us with pain or grief, those who mourn can find solace through Jesus. In Greek, the word comforted is also used to describe the Holy Spirit’s miraculous ministry in our life, the only practice that brings lasting joy through pain. Jesus is absolutely everything He says, and that the Word of God proclaims. When I was in need of deep comfort, He never failed me. I made sure I stayed near to Him, drawing as close as I could, asking for His care, and the Lord ministered to me in intimate ways specifically tailored to my needs. He does the same for each of us. 3. Meekness - Matthew 5:5 says those who are meek. It has been said that meekness is not weakness, but power under control. In my experience, this can only be secured through allowing the Holy Spirit to mold and transform me moment by moment. By trusting in Jesus, meekness brings humility to the forefront of our mind and spirit and fills us with a joy that surpasses human understanding as He works in and through us. 4. Holiness - Matthew 5:6 says those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. As shown in Psalm 16:11, which says, “Thou wilt show me the path of life: In thy presence is fulness of joy; In thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.” When we seek the presence of God and delight in what He calls justice or holy, we find true fullness of joy. 5. Mercifulness - Matthew 5:7 says those who are merciful. Through the power of the Holy Spirit within a believer, we find a holy ability to offer compassionate, cheerful, constructive love to those who suffer and receive deep joy in return as Christ works through us. 6. Purity - Matthew 5:8 says the pure in heart. Only Jesus within us in the form of the Holy Spirit gives us the ability to desire and form holy thoughts and motives. Scripture teaches us that those who live with pure hearts receive the blessing of deep and lasting joy from Christ. 7. Mediator - Matthew 5:9 says those who are peacemakers. The word peacemakers comes from a verb meaning “to join together.” Imagine two opposing forces being reconciled, coming together as one, and we better understand the way a peacemaker completes his work. As we help others reconcile with God, our Father, we experience massive joy and holy exultation deep within our spirit. 8. Persecution - Matthew 5:10 says those who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness. No one desires suffering, especially not punishment for living a righteous life connected to Christ. Jesus assured us that when we remain steadfast and loyal to Him, even when we are persecuted for our faith, He will reward with a great and joyful blessing. Connecting our mindset and heartset to Jesus, His view of life, and of this world frees us from the burdens that drag us from Him and equip us with His joy as we rest in His arms. We see and experience life differently and live in expectation for eternity with Him. Joy is a choice. Why? Because we must each choose to allow Christ to work within us. We must choose to live in the ways He calls, trusting that He is good and He is right. Joy visits when our spirit seeks Him and the ground is fertile for joy to erupt and mature. Keep pursuing your walk with God through Jesus. Only He has the power to transform lives. He is the One who meets every need we are searching for. He alone gives permanent joy in place of fleeting happiness. Happiness bursts in, then seeps out; joy permanently shines from within. Philippians 4:4-8 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be apparent to all. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” Jesus doesn’t promise that His joy will free us from experiencing the burdens and pains of this world. What He promises is of far greater significance. While we are in the midst of pain, He gives us a joy that allows us holy connection which carries us beyond our suffering as we keep our mind on Him. Reliance on Jesus gives hope and security even when all we love or think we must have is snatched away. His joy reminds us to focus on Him, to rely on Him, and to rejoice in Him at all times, trusting that He has a purpose for our suffering as He carries us through every storm. When I was asked about joy after losing my daughter, I honestly didn’t even realize that joy was showing. I simply kept my eyes focused on the Lord, clinging tightly to my Lifeline. Jesus was my anchor; the foundation that kept me steady. Miraculously, the Holy Spirit worked within me when I had no energy or thoughts of the word, joy. Just as He promised, the Lord was present, moving to provide and sustain me in ways only He can promise and deliver. John 15:9-11 says, “As the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you. Remain in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” Dear Gracious, Loving Heavenly Father. Just as Jesus prayed, Your kingdom come, Your will be done, we pray in Your Holy name. Allow us your mercy and joy through each moment. Happiness is fleeting, but Your joy is our sustenance. You are our strength and salvation. You are our God and we will praise You despite circumstances, expecting Your joy to carry us. We trust You, Father and know that You are good. Keep us looking to and following You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen, follow it, and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #123 – Engaged with Eternity Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. If you are a Christ follower, do you remember when you first accepted Jesus as your Savior? I recall the intense beating of my heart that magnified the urge to get out of my seat on the day I went forward in church. The choir was singing “Just As I Am” and when I hear that song even now, I clearly see myself moving forward down the church aisle all these years later. There was no way to ignore or deny that God was at work within me. Even though my life was immediately transformed, as I was now a Christian, for me, my new life in Christ came in incremental steps as I learned more about my new relationship with Jesus and began to release self to rely on Him. It took time and lots of intentionality, to get to the maturing relationship I now possess. Just like each of us should strive for, I hope I’m not the same person tomorrow that I am today. I want to continue purposeful growth. Years of mistakes and spiritual growth through relationship with Jesus have taught me to be intentional daily about the walk I have and more importantly, about seeking to view life through eyes and heart like Christ. As I have shared on this podcast before, although I had a close and growing walk with Christ when my daughter passed away, it wasn’t until I lost her that I felt God lifted a veil and I was able to feel the world with a heart seeking eternity; I felt as though was living with half of my soul in this world and half existing in Heaven. Of course, I thought I was living in that manner before, but sometimes it’s only after we suffer such great loss that we allow reality to sink in and see the world with eyes more attuned to how Christ would call us to view life. I knew that as believers we were to see the world as a journey we pass through, and I tried to do just that, but now, I can honestly say that each and every day I value life with a much deeper eternal appreciation and long for the day I will be in Heaven with joy and anticipation, yet I love being where God calls me to serve Him at this time. However, I am cognizant of the truth that I can never reach the level of gratitude that I should carry. I will never honor God as highly as He deserves. Yet I no longer call this world my home. I long for a life with my Savior and the fullness I will receive once I am with Him. How about you? Isaiah 55:8-9 says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” His ways are not our ways. The Kingdom of Heaven is flipped the opposite of what this world preaches and sells. It’s different than what our human flesh calls us to do. Yet, followers of Christ have hope for this life and for eternity. We know to keep our gaze focused on our eternal home with Jesus. But do we always do so? Life moves quickly. Activities, emergencies, work, family, social life, shopping, cooking, cleaning, church, school, and obligations keep our minds and our calendars beyond full. Simply watching the news can throw our attention into a whirlwind of worries or scary speculations that squander time and alter our attitude. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” 1 Peter 1:13 says, “Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming.” Life is fleeting; none of us know the number of the days assigned to us. Anything can happen from one second to the next. In fact, it is only through my faith and reliance on Jesus that I am not a nervous wreck after the loss of my oldest daughter. It would be easy to worry about those I love and expect to lose them at any time. Without the Holy Spirit living within me, I know I would not be the same person. He is my strength and hope each and every second. He allows me to live with peace, joy, and hope that I would not have without Him. Because I have suffered great loss, I know how quickly we are surprised with unexpected trials and tragedies. Life changes in the seconds between our plans. Emergencies and unexpected events have their own timetable. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” God knows the last breath we will take, the last word a loved one may utter, when will we receive the last kiss or smile from those closest to us. Job 14:5 says, “A person’s days are determined; you have decreed the number of his months and have set limits he cannot exceed.” When we’re young we don’t think of our later years; they seem so distant that we somehow don’t fully believe they will arrive. I remember only thinking about retirement at 401K enrollment time at my first “adult” job. The date set for me was such a long time in the future that it seemed it was written for another person. Now that time is almost here. What if all I had to place hope on was the temporary pleasures or concerns of this world? Because of the love and sacrifice of Christ, I have much more. 2 Corinthians 4:16b-18 says, “Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” How often do you reflect on the fact that God created you for fellowship with Him? I know you know that truth, but do you live like you believe it? His desire is that we joyfully choose to walk with Him, to talk with Him, and to share with and for Him. The Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last is above all and created all; He alone deserves our love, respect, honor, and praise. Psalm 90:2 says, “Before the mountains were born or You brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.” Our Heavenly Father is never surprised by what has or will happen. He created each of us with great care, love, and purpose. You were created for reasons no one else will fulfill. Even the mistakes you have made were already known by our wondrous, loving Heavenly Father. Isaiah 46:11 says, “From the east I summon a bird of prey; from a far-off land, a man to fulfill my purpose. What I have said, that I will bring about; what I have planned, that I will do.” Knowing what His beloved creation would do and be like, God created a way for us to have eternal fellowship with Him. Clearly making the way to Him known, God made a beautiful pathway to His feet so that we would never question salvation. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 5:24 says, “Very truly I tell you, whoever hears My word and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life.” Scripture instructs us toward Christ’s greatest commands for us: Matthew 22:37-39 says, “Jesus declared, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.” How often do you think of these commands with eyes and heart that seek eternal perspective? 2 Corinthians 5:10 says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each of us may receive what is due us for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.” 1 John 2:17 says, “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” There is no way we can do the will of God without knowing Him. How do we do what we don’t know? Are you keeping in the Word of God? If you are a believer, do you make time daily to study scripture? Even a short, but consistent amount of daily time will allow your eyes and heart to view God with an eternal mindset that will alter the way you view this world and the actions and reactions you make. Do you listen for His still, small voice? Do you seek clarity from Him before moving with actions you want to take, so that you know you are living the steps He purposed? Matthew 6:19-21 says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Acts 17:31 says, “For He has set a day when He will judge the world with justice by the man He has appointed. He has given proof of this to everyone by raising Him from the dead.” Christ calls us to keep our gaze fixed on Him, pressing forward toward our eternal future. What are ways you can purpose to live for eternity now? Philippians 3:12-14 says, “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” I urge you to assess your life through eternal perspective today. Prayerfully seek the Lord and ask Him to give you a heart for eternity. Ask Him to give you eyes that see the world through an eternal lens. See how He would guide you to follow Him differently, cling to Him more closely, and serve Him more intimately. Nothing we do for God is wasted. As we love Him more purposely, even the way we serve others is truly work done for Him. What will you change to walk with Him and serve Him more closely today? Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Your goodness overwhelms us. Your love astounds us. May we seek You with eyes and hearts that intentionally desire Your eternity-driven perspective. May we intimately view life with the expectation of an eternity with You. Please fix your words and perspectives in our hearts and minds, and help us to value and remember them as You desire. Keep our minds in perfect peace because we steadfastly cling to You. Help us trust in You forever, for You, our LORD, are the Rock eternal. Help us to pay attention and turn our ears to Your wisdom, and please apply Your heart to all we think and do as we trust in You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. To hear episodes that deal with living with eternal driven hearts, I suggest listening to Episodes 004, Eternity Driven Hearts, 026, Mind Fixed on Eternity, or 056, A Passionate Life for Jesus. You may find these episodes on the terrihitt.com website. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 123 - Engaged With Eternity Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #123 – Engaged with Eternity Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. If you are a Christ follower, do you remember when you first accepted Jesus as your Savior? I recall the intense beating of my heart that magnified the urge to get out of my seat on the day I went forward in church. The choir was singing “Just As I Am” and when I hear that song even now, I clearly see myself moving forward down the church aisle all these years later. There was no way to ignore or deny that God was at work within me. Even though my life was immediately transformed, as I was now a Christian, for me, my new life in Christ came in incremental steps as I learned more about my new relationship with Jesus and began to release self to rely on Him. It took time and lots of intentionality, to get to the maturing relationship I now possess. Just like each of us should strive for, I hope I’m not the same person tomorrow that I am today. I want to continue purposeful growth. Years of mistakes and spiritual growth through relationship with Jesus have taught me to be intentional daily about the walk I have and more importantly, about seeking to view life through eyes and heart like Christ. As I have shared on this podcast before, although I had a close and growing walk with Christ when my daughter passed away, it wasn’t until I lost her that I felt God lifted a veil and I was able to feel the world with a heart seeking eternity; I felt as though was living with half of my soul in this world and half existing in Heaven. Of course, I thought I was living in that manner before, but sometimes it’s only after we suffer such great loss that we allow reality to sink in and see the world with eyes more attuned to how Christ would call us to view life. I knew that as believers we were to see the world as a journey we pass through, and I tried to do just that, but now, I can honestly say that each and every day I value life with a much deeper eternal appreciation and long for the day I will be in Heaven with joy and anticipation, yet I love being where God calls me to serve Him at this time. However, I am cognizant of the truth that I can never reach the level of gratitude that I should carry. I will never honor God as highly as He deserves. Yet I no longer call this world my home. I long for a life with my Savior and the fullness I will receive once I am with Him. How about you? Isaiah 55:8-9 says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” His ways are not our ways. The Kingdom of Heaven is flipped the opposite of what this world preaches and sells. It’s different than what our human flesh calls us to do. Yet, followers of Christ have hope for this life and for eternity. We know to keep our gaze focused on our eternal home with Jesus. But do we always do so? Life moves quickly. Activities, emergencies, work, family, social life, shopping, cooking, cleaning, church, school, and obligations keep our minds and our calendars beyond full. Simply watching the news can throw our attention into a whirlwind of worries or scary speculations that squander time and alter our attitude. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” 1 Peter 1:13 says, “Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming.” Life is fleeting; none of us know the number of the days assigned to us. Anything can happen from one second to the next. In fact, it is only through my faith and reliance on Jesus that I am not a nervous wreck after the loss of my oldest daughter. It would be easy to worry about those I love and expect to lose them at any time. Without the Holy Spirit living within me, I know I would not be the same person. He is my strength and hope each and every second. He allows me to live with peace, joy, and hope that I would not have without Him. Because I have suffered great loss, I know how quickly we are surprised with unexpected trials and tragedies. Life changes in the seconds between our plans. Emergencies and unexpected events have their own timetable. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” God knows the last breath we will take, the last word a loved one may utter, when will we receive the last kiss or smile from those closest to us. Job 14:5 says, “A person’s days are determined; you have decreed the number of his months and have set limits he cannot exceed.” When we’re young we don’t think of our later years; they seem so distant that we somehow don’t fully believe they will arrive. I remember only thinking about retirement at 401K enrollment time at my first “adult” job. The date set for me was such a long time in the future that it seemed it was written for another person. Now that time is almost here. What if all I had to place hope on was the temporary pleasures or concerns of this world? Because of the love and sacrifice of Christ, I have much more. 2 Corinthians 4:16b-18 says, “Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” James 4:14 says, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” How often do you reflect on the fact that God created you for fellowship with Him? I know you know that truth, but do you live like you believe it? His desire is that we joyfully choose to walk with Him, to talk with Him, and to share with and for Him. The Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last is above all and created all; He alone deserves our love, respect, honor, and praise. Psalm 90:2 says, “Before the mountains were born or You brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.” Our Heavenly Father is never surprised by what has or will happen. He created each of us with great care, love, and purpose. You were created for reasons no one else will fulfill. Even the mistakes you have made were already known by our wondrous, loving Heavenly Father. Isaiah 46:11 says, “From the east I summon a bird of prey; from a far-off land, a man to fulfill my purpose. What I have said, that I will bring about; what I have planned, that I will do.” Knowing what His beloved creation would do and be like, God created a way for us to have eternal fellowship with Him. Clearly making the way to Him known, God made a beautiful pathway to His feet so that we would never question salvation. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 5:24 says, “Very truly I tell you, whoever hears My word and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life.” Scripture instructs us toward Christ’s greatest commands for us: Matthew 22:37-39 says, “Jesus declared, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.” How often do you think of these commands with eyes and heart that seek eternal perspective? 2 Corinthians 5:10 says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each of us may receive what is due us for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.” 1 John 2:17 says, “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” There is no way we can do the will of God without knowing Him. How do we do what we don’t know? Are you keeping in the Word of God? If you are a believer, do you make time daily to study scripture? Even a short, but consistent amount of daily time will allow your eyes and heart to view God with an eternal mindset that will alter the way you view this world and the actions and reactions you make. Do you listen for His still, small voice? Do you seek clarity from Him before moving with actions you want to take, so that you know you are living the steps He purposed? Matthew 6:19-21 says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Acts 17:31 says, “For He has set a day when He will judge the world with justice by the man He has appointed. He has given proof of this to everyone by raising Him from the dead.” Christ calls us to keep our gaze fixed on Him, pressing forward toward our eternal future. What are ways you can purpose to live for eternity now? Philippians 3:12-14 says, “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” I urge you to assess your life through eternal perspective today. Prayerfully seek the Lord and ask Him to give you a heart for eternity. Ask Him to give you eyes that see the world through an eternal lens. See how He would guide you to follow Him differently, cling to Him more closely, and serve Him more intimately. Nothing we do for God is wasted. As we love Him more purposely, even the way we serve others is truly work done for Him. What will you change to walk with Him and serve Him more closely today? Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Your goodness overwhelms us. Your love astounds us. May we seek You with eyes and hearts that intentionally desire Your eternity-driven perspective. May we intimately view life with the expectation of an eternity with You. Please fix your words and perspectives in our hearts and minds, and help us to value and remember them as You desire. Keep our minds in perfect peace because we steadfastly cling to You. Help us trust in You forever, for You, our LORD, are the Rock eternal. Help us to pay attention and turn our ears to Your wisdom, and please apply Your heart to all we think and do as we trust in You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. To hear episodes that deal with living with eternal driven hearts, I suggest listening to Episodes 004, Eternity Driven Hearts, 026, Mind Fixed on Eternity, or 056, A Passionate Life for Jesus. You may find these episodes on the terrihitt.com website. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

@aricaheintz Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 041 Arica Heintz Interview Listen to Episode @aricaheintz http://www.aricaheintz.arbonne.com

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 139 - Are You Really a Christian? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #139 – Are You Really a Christian? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. After hearing the name of this episode, you may wonder if I am being judgmental. I promise I’m not. By choosing the title, “Are You a Christian,” I want you, (and myself), to consider what it takes to be a follower of Christ. If a stranger observed your life, actions, and reactions, would they be able to discern which you are? What about the words you speak? Or consider the activities you pursue? How do they reflect Jesus? When your children, whether grown or young watch you day to day, what do they see? What impressions are you making on them? Do you point the way to Christ? Today we’ll discuss ways life challenges us, allowing us opportunities to rely on self or Christ. Which do you usually choose? 1. Relationships - We all know how difficult relationships can be. Have you ever loved someone so much, but just couldn’t communicate clearly with them? Human nature is so complex. Sometimes we have wonderful relationships without issues, but then are those people that for some reason, we can only have a surface relationship with. It’s difficult when one is a believer and one is not, but so much more frustrating when both are believers. Because humans, even believers have different backgrounds, communication methods, interests, and emotional triggers, and we are at different maturity points in our walk with Christ, coupled with the truth that we live in a fallen world, communication and relationships can be extremely difficult. It’s a wonder we can communicate at all sometimes. Not only are relationships challenging, but have you ever finished a conversation with someone with the frustrated feeling that they did not clearly hear what you said? Have you had to pray, knowing that God is using this person to refine you? As much as you may love the person, it’s hard to be sure that you will ever have the deeper relationship you desire. What about when you know someone speaks untruths behind your back? You know it to be true, because trusted loved ones have defended and informed you of it. Now, you’ve become hesitant to share much with the person. Maybe each time you try to deepen your relationship, it just gets harder. You might feel like the more you try to form deeper conversations and move closer to them, it just makes everything worse. You might even feel like you can’t share anything other than a superficial relationship. Or have you ever thought a person was one way, then as you entered into a closer relationship with them you saw the truth? They were not who they pretended or tried to make you think they were. Or have you prayed for someone in your family, at work, or a stranger you met, knowing that God is using you to send mighty prayers up to Him for their sake? You may have had a disagreement, He may have laid them on your heart, burdening you to cry out for them. I’ve learned that no one in this life will ever fully satisfy us. Not even those we are very close to. Why? Because we were not meant for this world and there is no substitution for Christ. The lives we have were meant for much more than we experience here. Without each person submitting to Christ and praying and working to establish relationships under His guidance, the world, and people, will never offer us what He can. We must look for ways to offer Jesus what we can while we journey in this life. 2. Politics - In the last few years, people, even believers have been divided over political opinions. Politics seem to be the tipping point that can extinguish friendships. Have you been unfollowed by someone you thought would be a lifelong friend? Maybe a family member can’t see past the fact that you can simply agree to disagree over life issues, but still carry love and respect for each other through the grace of Christ. How we view disagreements, disappointments, and disasters say a lot about the mind and heartset we carry. We can only look to God and humbly ask Him to heal relationships by working through all parties involved, and we must work to be sure our actions and reactions, even when we are hurt, do not sin against God. There is only one way to work toward that goal: ensure that we are intentionally working to follow and honor the Lord each day. Even if you never reconnect with the person you believe wronged you, continue to pray for them. Don’t let bitterness invade your heart. Relying on Christ to ease and heal the pain of broken relationships is the only way to find healing. 3. Religion – Nowadays, if politics haven’t driven your friends away, religion might. In some ways, it seems like we have more Christians in the world than we really do. What do I mean? Many people profess to be a Christian, yet when you delve below surface talk, you learn that your views are vastly different. Many religions identify as “Christian,” yet unless they follow Jesus Christ as personal Savior and Lord, they are not Christian. Jesus warned us that He would cause division. Luke 12:51-53 says, “Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Of course, life is filled with many more situations that define whether a person is truly living (or attempting to live) a lifestyle that honors Christ. What I mentioned are just a few of the most noticeable, and what so many struggle with. How much joy would we receive if each of us strived to follow Christ in each of these situations? How much would we please our Heavenly Father as we choose to live in His power, then act and react with His grace and priorities leading us? Romans 6:6 says, “We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.” Our “old self” is defined as what we were before the Holy Spirit abided within us through new life in Christ. Our former existence is no more. When we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the “old self” dies; the new life we receive now divinely appointed through grace. The control our former self held over us is released; the curse of death replaced by eternal life through Jesus. Believers are no longer subject to live under the influence of evil that the old self carried. Yet, knowing the influence and capacity to sin still flows within our human flesh, we must remember and rely on the power of Christ within us. We cannot trust fleshly responses that guide from hurt, fears, jealousy, and so many more emotions that clash with the Father’s truths. Romans 6:11 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.” In this verse, Paul urges believers to grasp by faith what God says and has revealed to be true. We must strive to remember and live the truth that through Christ, and the Holy Spirit alive within us, we have power over the sin that threatens to rule our nature. We carry power to deny sin abiding within us, enabling us to live with fullness of Christ directing us. Romans 6:17-18 says, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.” True believers following Christ have an instinctive and evident desire to study and obey God’s Word. Having been set free from the death and burden of sin, the Holy Spirit enables believers to escape the binds of unrighteousness and become captive to righteousness. How does a believer remain true to follow the Holy Spirit within and keep the desire for righteousness? Only through the strength of Christ. Believers must fix our eyes, heart, and mind above and allow the work of Christ to grow and flow within us. A life eternally changed by Christ behaves differently because we believe differently. The more a believer seeks Jesus, the more a believer craves Him. The Holy Spirit living within believers fuels us with Christ’s hunger for righteousness and holiness. Living as a Christian is not defined by: 1. Joining a church 2. Reciting prayers 3. Being baptized 4. Serving others 5. Eating certain foods and abstaining from others Christians craving Christ: 1. Humbly accept Christ as Lord and Savior and submit to Him 2. Rely on the Holy Spirit within us to eradicate our sinful nature 3. Admit our need for the strength of Jesus and His grace and mercy as we seek Christ moment by moment 4. Shift our mindset and desires to match His 5. Allow His actions to change our reactions 6. Allow the Holy Spirit to continue to guard and cleanse us of sin 7. Carry joy by the power of Christ in us 8. Live with gratitude for the change Christ has made in us 9. Allow Christ to infuse His love for others inside us 10. Carry a biblical worldview that affects our choices and opinions 11. Intentionally become more Christlike daily John 2:23-25 says, “Now while He was in Jerusalem at the Passover Festival, many people saw the signs He was performing and believed in His name. But Jesus would not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for He knew what was in each person.” When we believe in His name because we have seen the signs Jesus displayed versus simply trusting that Jesus is who He says He is, we follow Him with an intellectual commitment versus living with a whole-hearted assurance led by faith. Jesus calls for believers to trust, follow, honor, love, and obey because we cannot comprehend living without Him. The Lord sees our whole heart. Jesus is a discerner of genuine conversion for Him versus excitement and intrigue for what could be called “magnificent events” that prompt our belief. Matthew 7:21 says, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of Heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in Heaven.” I’d like to pose a few questions for each of us to consider: Are you sure you are a Christian? If God is a discerner of hearts, what does He see in yours? What should you change about your beliefs, actions, or reactions that will make your life more pleasing to God? What are ways to ensure you are living the full life God intends His believers to enjoy? What can you do to ensure that Christ is clearly shown to those viewing your life? John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Dear Heavenly Father, You are the God of all creation. The heavens and the earth applaud Your name. Great are Your mysteries and the things You reveal to us. Thank you for loving us enough to make a way for us to find eternal life with You. Thank you for Your painful sacrifices so that mankind could be restored to You. Father, we pray that our hearts will be found clean before You. May we live with pureness of heart that seeks to know You more intimately and show You more clearly. May our mind, heart, and mouth exemplify You more and more each day because we choose You over self and world. Help us to desire You more than what this world offers and pledge to make shifts in our lives that bring us nearer to You. Enable us to humbly seek Your worldviews and live in ways that honor what You desire. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 064 - Stop Yelling So Your Child Can Hear You Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 64 – Stop Yelling So Your Child Can Hear You I was on a walk one evening when I heard the sound of screaming. Although I wasn’t close enough to hear exactly what the mother was saying, it was obvious she was reprimanding her son. The boy was young, perhaps only three or four years old, but that didn’t stop the loud and demanding words flooding from his mother. I’ve never been a yeller, and I’m not judging her situation. However, I do have sympathy for her child. Although it’s definitely not the preferred way for a mother to communicate, what I can empathize with is the reason some women resort to yelling. Mothers yell when they don’t know what to do – it’s a reaction that comes when she is overwhelmed or maybe has had a history of being yelled at. The more a mother resorts to yelling, the faster the response becomes a reflex. Maybe she feels helpless, hopeless, or powerless. Or she feels stuck or unable to resolve a situation, Maybe she feels spread too thin. Have you been there? Are you there now? When a mother yells, it’s a red flag that she needs to stop and evaluate the “why ” behind her tone and volume . What is causing the flash reaction directed at her child? Most mothers don’t set out to yell. Maybe she’s tried speaking in a calm voice, but feels like her child won’t listen unless she yells. Maybe she’s desperate for things to change and can’t help forcing that desire into a louder voice. Perhaps she feels disrespected. Maybe the kids really don’t listen or a spouse undermines her authority. Maybe she’s just plain exhausted and needs relief. But when a mother yells, she disrupts the natural bonding and attachment that is supposed to occur between a mother and child. Did you know that yelling at your children affects them in many ways? When a child is consistently yelled at, he begins to think the problem is him. Most children place their parents on a pedestal, even when those parents are far from deserving. Naturally, then, when mom yells, they suspect it is because they are bad or stupid, or many other reasons centered around them. When a child is belittled or shamed by constant yelling, physical problems can also occur. Stress caused from a yelling parent (whether mom or dad) can cause anxiety, stomach issues, fears, insecurity, anger, and more. The long term effects may also create back and neck problems, arthritis, mental issues, headaches, depression, and other chronic pains. Many children move into the teen years and deal with destructive activities such as risky sexual behavior and drug or alcohol use. They may also grow up to yell at their spouse, children, and of course, their parents. Studies have shown that yelling, especially when combined with other harsh parenting techniques actually change brain development. Because of the way our brains process language and sounds, and the fact that people process negative events and information faster and more efficiently than positive ones, activities such as repeated yelling changes the physical pattern of brain waves enough that you can see the differences on an MRI scan. Those are the memories embedded deeper into the brain. Another important fact to remember about yelling is that while the act may shut down the undesired behavior in the moment , repeated yelling has the opposite effect. After a while, the child’s behavior worsens, which triggers even more yelling from the parent. Because of that, negative behaviors continue creating additional undesired behaviors. You may yell because you think your child doesn’t listen and it triggers the response in you. You’re right. Sometimes kids don’t listen. They are easily distracted, but think about it, kids have different priorities. Most children naturally live in a world of creativity, imagination, and joy. As little sponges, they have a need to investigate and unravel the mysteries of life. This leaves them open to not hearing when you call or ignoring you because they are so engrossed in what they are currently doing. There’s also another reason your child may not listen. If connection is broken between parent and child, there may really be a lack of respect and motivation to listen or pay attention to you. If you and your child have encountered disruptions in life and have lost the ability and time to laugh, talk, or play together, your connection may be off. Especially if they’ve been yelled at often. When we adopted our youngest daughter at the age of nine, there was zero connection between us. We met her and less than an hour later she was leaving to begin a new life with us. It was challenging to guide and correct behaviors learned in an orphanage setting without that natural connection that most babies develop and grow with their mother. At times in China, I wondered whether I would have been able to forge relationship and parent my new daughter if I was still that young mother in my twenties. I know the answer. Of course I could have. The question should really be how well would I have been able to do so. Being an older, experienced mother has definitely carried benefits, but the biggest safeguard to ward against yelling has been my maturing relationship with Jesus. Don’t hear me wrong, please. I’m not saying that if you’re a mother who tends to raise your voice too loud or yell at your children you’re not a Christian. I am saying, however, that I believe the closer you draw to Christ , the more you will reflect Him . Especially if you prayerfully address this habit and place it in His capable hands. Acknowledging your propensity to yell and asking God to lift the burden from your shoulders is the first step toward stopping a habit you don’t want to last and certainly don’t want to cause your child to develop. Ask God to help you uncover the reasons you are drawn to yell . No matter how disobedient your child may be, the trigger that causes the yelling resides within you . Ask God to show you how to stop yelling and help you react with His grace, insight, wisdom, and love. If you’d like an episode more in depth on this topic, please be sure to let me know at info@terrihitt.com . Let’s switch gears now. I’d like to look at communication . After all, although yelling is not the way we should choose to connect with our children, it is a form of communicating with your child. But I’d like to consider another way that is much quieter, as well as more respectful and in alignment with the godly mother you want to be. Do you realize how much of communication is non-verbal? The way you interact with your child can set you up for success and keep you from losing your cool or set you up for a lot of work to repair your relationship later. However, excellent communication takes prayer, planning, patience, and self-control. So let’s stop and discuss good ways to communicate non-verbally with your child. Setting these actions into your normal routine combined with releasing self to God and deepening your walk with Him as we discussed in earlier in the podcast may alleviate the pressures and feelings that cause you to yell. I’ll share seven important tips today. 1. Lower your position to be at eye-level with your child - This will automatically gain your child’s attention. 2. Make eye contact – Remember that frustration you feel when you are trying to communicate with someone and they don’t meet your eyes? Your child feels the same way. Build respect and relationship from an early age. You’ll be glad when your child hits the teenage years. 3. Move closer – Kids don’t have the same need for personal space that adults do. If you want to get the attention of a child, move in lower as we discussed earlier, but also move in nearer. 4. Model behavior – If you want to gain the attention of your child and ensure that they understand what you want them to do, try modeling the behavior first. For example, if you want your child to speak in a quiet voice, instruct them in one, if you want your child to pick up toys after playing, clean your messes after projects. When it is time for them to clean, tell them, and show them how it is done as you begin the work with them. Talk about why you do the behavior and why you expect it from your child. 5. Watch your expression – Instead of facing your child with the day’s pressing demands showing on your face, remember that to your children, you are everything. They notice so much about you without you saying a word. Let your expression and eyes reflect love and joy when they face you. Even when you correct behavior, they will come to understand that you are correcting and discipling, not punishing. 6. Hand or facial signals –Give a thumbs up (or down), finger waging, raised eyebrows, a smile, scrunched nose, a shake of your head, or snap your fingers to reveal what you desire from them without having to say a word. 7. Make sure they know you are listening – When your child shares, complains, or questions you, make sure you make eye contact, keep your body adjusted so that they see you are listening, and respond with sounds, or comments such as, “I see,” or “Hmm,” to show you are paying attention. These suggestions are excellent methods of quiet communication that become second nature with practice . I think using them definitely helps mothers communicate in ways that may help erase the frustration that causes yelling. Give yourself and your child time to develop these new communication habits. These suggestions will also draw you and your child closer to each other in new ways, which allow you to deepen your relationship with your child so you can help them mature their walk with Christ. With your new closeness, they will see Christ at work within you and give you a godly influence to help them want to experience the same relationship. Dear Heavenly Father, how much we need You! This world is full of pitfalls and powers that pull us away from you and our children. Sometimes we don’t even recognize who we are or used to be. We praise You for loving us despite how far we are from You. We praise You for Your holy grace and wisdom. Please help us cling to You and find Your holy parenting methods that will uniquely apply to each of the beautiful children You have loaned to us. May we honor You and bring our children closer through our connected parenting, as well as our love and obedience for You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Would you like to walk with other like-minded mothers to deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan? I want to share special news with my podcast listeners. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information and a special code to receive a discount if you find you’d like to join the collective. It’s time for mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? The best reviews are by word of mouth, so if you would also choose a friend to recommend the show to, imagine the change we could see in the way mothers parent for Christ. Also, please tell friends and family that the podcast can be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 105 - How to Move From Overwhelmed to Overjoyed Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 105 – How to Move From Overwhelmed to Overjoyed Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. You’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Being a mom is an indescribable gift. I think everyone can agree that being a mother can also bring a host of worries, pressures, and concerns. Whether you work inside or outside of the home, you carry loads that may feel like they can never be released to anyone else. Not only do you have everyday tasks like work, caring for the kids, meals, cleaning, chores, errands, and relationship referee. Motherhood also carries invisible duties your spouse may never think about. Remembering birthdays, anniversaries, events, activities, school requirements, meal-planning, doctor visits, and much more requires effort. Even more mentally exhausting duties fall to moms. No one else carries the responsibilities of maintaining the right size clothing in your ever-growing child’s closet, making sure you have nutritious snacks in your purse, or having supplies on hand for school projects, or last-minute cards and gifts tucked away in a closet. Moms are also usually the emotional gauge in the home. Moms are the first to notice when someone is getting sick, isn’t happy, is tired, or is having a bad day. Moms are the first to be concerned about the effects of culture on their children, how to raise children who know and follow Jesus, and to juggle getting everyone out of the door for church on Sunday mornings. No doubt about it. Motherhood isn’t for the weak. Most moms wish for a strong support system. One on the ground and one above all others. Our Heavenly Father. Hold on. Wait. Maybe we need to look at this with a different perspective . Maybe motherhood is for the weak. It’s best handled by moms who know they aren’t equipped. Instead, they’re ready for a Savior to rescue them. Because moms can easily become people-pleasers or perfectionists, we can be easily susceptible to anxiousness and overwhelm. It doesn’t help when comparison creeps in as moms look at what others have or are doing on social media. They compare what children of friends, family, or strangers have or do and wonder if they (themselves) are doing enough or if they are enough. That’s when “mom guilt” can rise up to cause distress and dilemmas. We know those feelings don’t come from God. Remember, overwhelm is caused in large part by expectations we allow others to place on us. Also by expectations placed on self . This seems a good time to share the old Eleanor Roosevelt quote, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Whether pressure is placed by you or others, it only takes effect when you allow it. Consider the words of Paul the apostle in 2 Corinthians 11:30, which say, “I will boast of the things that show my weakness .” Maybe motherhood is for the weak after all. But let us not boast in what we do, but in what God can and is doing within us and in our children as we surrender to Him. If you feel the beginnings of overwhelm or anxiety steal your peace or joy, try to remember you were never meant to carry these loads by yourself. In this episode we’re going to discuss different methods of coping with the thieves that attempt to steal the joy and peace you desire in your life and home. You deserve that peace. After all, remember what Jesus said in John 14:27 , “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid .” The first step in combating negative thoughts or feelings is to stop and fix your mind above . You have God’s Truths given through Scripture. I’ll share four others to memorize or keep on hand so that you can fix your heart and mind on these truths when overwhelm threatens to overtake your mood or day. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You .” Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will .” Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things .” Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus .” Next, think about your routine and schedule. Sometimes you can get stuck doing what you’ve always done. Just like you turn your computer off, then on again, and immediately it works as good as new, it may be time for a reboot. Your Kids grow and mature, schedules change, and we sometimes remain doing the same things in the same way. It might be time to adjust thinking, schedules, and activities. Consider these questions. Do you spend time scrolling social media and comparing yourself or your home, husband, or children to others? Do you have a busy life with no room to live the way you secretly desire? In other words, are you overscheduled, overburdened, and underjoyed? Are the things you’re pursuing going to be beneficial in the scheme of life? Do they serve an eternal purpose? Review your daily expectations. Evaluate what is a must. Consider what propels you toward eternity and an eternity-focused mindset. What is moving you and your family toward a godlier lifestyle and trimming away what isn’t beneficial to that goal? Do you allow yourself time to simply breathe? Or are you in constant activity and unable to enjoy time with your children or spouse? Are you able to hear yourself think? If not, you’re not going to be able to hear the still, small voice of God . Make sure to stop and consider these questions. Schedule time for God, spouse, and self. God should be a daily habit, interwoven through your day, but always beginning with recognizing Him. The more time you spend pursuing intimacy with God through Christ, the less overwhelming life will be. Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own .” Likewise, time with your spouse makes life sweeter as you reconnect and invest time in God together and with each other. Your marriage, home life, and parenting will bring you more joy and peace. Moment by moment. Day by day. Allow time for yourself - even if you have to find a support system to do it. Perhaps your husband has a work schedule that won’t allow for you to get alone time or time with friends. Get creative. Enlist parents, a friend from church, or a trusted neighbor or family member to spend time with your kids while you get a little time away. You can even swap time with a good friend and watch her children while she gets things done or relaxes at home, then you have your opportunity. Or have friends over and chat while your kids play together. Have a Bible study together and let the kids join it. Whatever schedule you desire can be worked out with time, patience, prayer, and creativity. Exercise is another important factor in reducing overwhelm and gaining joy. Eating properly and hydrating well are just as important. It’s easy to make excuse after excuse, but if you really want to feel or look different, your routine and actions have to change. Exercising and eating well definitely contributes to feeling well physically, mentally, and emotionally. I also believe that when you’re able to spend time outdoors, whether you are exercising or working in the garden, walking, etc., you also gain greater connection with God as you allow yourself to enjoy His creation. No matter where you are, begin. Put Him first and take the other steps I mentioned, even if you must start slowly. As your schedule and body are more in alignment with God, ensure that your mind is, too. Instead of practicing meditation, which calls you to empty your mind, fill yours with Scripture that edifies your soul. Remember, if you are intentional in seeking God first, despite feelings or circumstances, and you apply gratitude daily with the steps we discussed, overwhelm should fade, allowing overjoy to take its rightful position. Here’s a recap: God/Scripture/Prayer Relationships Self Schedules Exercise/Nutrition Outdoors If you take action, change these areas of your life, and stick with it for a time, but still have difficulties with overwhelm, or anxiety, it may be time to visit a Christian healthcare professional who can assess your overall health to see if there may be other areas that need attention. Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus .” Seek Him and see Him care for you – intimately and personally . Are you convinced now? Motherhood is for the weak. It’s for those who invite God to work within them. Motherhood is for the moms who know they need God and move over for Him to be the support system they rely on. With one foot on the ground and one in Heaven above, call on your Heavenly Father. Live with a perspective focused on eternity. Take pleasure in being weak and calling on Him to equip as you deepen your relationship with Him. Make Him known to your family. Be ready for your Savior to rescue you, to make a barrier between overwhelm and self so you feel the overjoy of life with God, despite circumstances. Dear Heavenly Father, How great and glorious You are. How we need You in our lives. Father, we are not equipped for the pressures and pains of this world, but You are. You give us all the tools we need to find you and deepen our faith and trust. Help us to do so in ways that honor and please You. Help us be the set-apart women You call us to be so we can give you joy and mentor the way for our children to find You. Help overjoy be the theme of our lives and homes. Erase overwhelm and when it threatens to raise its ugly head, extract it from our heart and mind quickly because we rely on You. Help our children to see our reactions and overjoy and reliance of You and grow to live the same way, completely unaffected by overwhelm. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with ambitious moms who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #036 – Visible Reverence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’d like to start with a sweet story, but I’ll share hard truths, too. Let’s start with the part that warms my heart. My youngest child loves to walk through the house with her arm linked in mine. Actually, she would probably adore having our arms joined anywhere we go. As we were walking through the house the other day, we passed a large mirror. I glanced at it as we passed and saw the look of adoration on her face as she gazed at me with the most loving expression. How blessed I am to be her mother. What opportunities God has given me through being the object of her love. I am truly thankful and make time to reciprocate her love in the ways she appreciates, which usually means one-on-one playtime. I try to show her how appreciated she is and how thankful we are to have her in our family. My biggest and most important daily goal, however, is to teach her to direct true reverence to God. As much as she loves me, and I appreciate being the focus of her adoration, I am responsible for teaching her how to love Him more. As many listeners of this podcast know, I am raising my second set of children. While I feel I showed deep love and care to all of my children, modeling reverence for God and actively placing Him as my priority was not one of the qualities I yet carried. How I wish I had already developed a deeper walk with Jesus! When I became a Christian in my early twenties, I was hurt by church members and let that affect my spiritual growth. While I loved Jesus, I slowly stopped reading my Bible daily and did not develop the relationship I should have in the timing I could have had. Although I talked to my children about knowing and loving the Lord, I wasn’t modeling an active adoration that translated to visible reverence for Him. Our house was unknowingly built on sand shoveled in by Satan as he deceived me in many ways, instead of being erected on the rock God calls us to use as the only foundation that will withstand the storms of life. I am so thankful that my adult son follows Jesus. I know his walk would be different though, if I had known better and not let pride and foolish worldly wisdom trick me into thinking I was wise and following God in ways that were not what He had designed as best for me or my family. When we are not purposely maturing our walk through Jesus and becoming all He desires, we are cheating our children out of an inheritance God wants to hand them on this earth. Knowing what I would do differently now, and have been given the opportunity to do through our second set of children, makes me more aware of what I see in the world today. I am not saying I am all wise and know all of the answers, but I have learned many lessons and have developed a much more mature walk with God over time. I am still grateful every day that I have my girls, and I am truly doing my utmost to relay a devotion for God to them, and also shine it to my son and grandson. Every time I fall short, I strive to take it to the Lord for His stirrings on where and how to rely on Him more fully and enable Him to do the work in me that is needed. I see multiple ways our society has lost the desire to instruct our children in the ways of the Lord. As our culture moves farther away from Christianity, I fear for the souls of our youngest and most vulnerable. The world does not seek Him in our way of life. Our lifestyles are wrapped more and more in obtaining frivolous items and spending more time comparing ourselves to others, while leaving us little time to connect with the soul God placed in us with and for great purpose. In fact, many people run from facing the inner thoughts and condition of their heart, which only compounds the issues they face. Modern children are well-versed in and over-exposed to social media and peer pressure, and we, as parents, are losing more rights as the years pass. Children and teens are exposed or introduced to various issues much too young and are left to ponder and battle adult topics with the resilience and understanding of a child. We are at a major cross-road of moral and holy significance. Do we want our precious children, beautiful gifts from God who are entrusted to us for care, to be in the world or be a part of the world? There is such a distinct difference. We are not meant to be a best friend to our children. We are their provider and protector first. As parents who seek to know, love, and follow the Lord, we must ensure that our number one priority is for our children to see us living with visible eternal perspective and for them to understand the meaning and significance of that calling. We must also teach them true love and purpose through Jesus, not what the world calls them to do or be. This eternity-based decision starts with us. You and me. No matter whether we raise our family with a partner or alone, we are each responsible for our own individual walk with God. We have to make the decision that He is a priority for us. No more excuses. “Not enough time,” “I’ll do it tomorrow,” “After I finish this,” “The kids aren’t interested,” or “I think it’s just too late.” The excuses can go on and on. How about this one? “I’m doing okay. The kids seem fine.” That may be the most dangerous one of all. It’s time to allow God to awaken mothers and fathers to a revolution of freedom. True change, lasting change comes from God. Then everything else flows from this important relationship. When our children see us grow an authentic and beautiful walk with God through Jesus and we strive to embody the qualities of Jesus and in turn, exhibit them in our life, true reverence is visible and impactful. When they see us obeying God, and they have been lovingly taught to develop a love and respect for Him, that honor is also extended to us as their parent. There is no such thing as the lie that society presents to us. The world tells us that teens act a certain way. I do not believe it. While teens undergo many bodily and emotional changes, there is no reason or excuse for them to act certain ways that stir disrespect or shallowness. We must be connected to Jesus in loving, growing ways that allow us insight into our children. They should be growing beside us because it is a relationship we are actively nurturing moment by moment every single day. Our job, our responsibility is to ensure that we have introduced and modeled Jesus to them and we keep the communication lines open because we are developing lifetime relationships with the Lord and our precious child. Today I presented my middle daughter with a tough question. I asked her to tell me what about my walk impacts her the most for the Lord. I thought she might have to take some time and get back to me, but surprisingly, she was able to answer quickly. Always painfully honest, and my deepest thinker, she usually takes time to ponder questions so that she gives the most accurate response possible. “Your wisdom and the way you give such straightforward advice,” she said, then continued with, “Also, the way you treat Dad and the way you treat us,” she smiled. Although it sounds like I was fishing for a compliment, I wasn’t. Instead, I was looking for critical input to evaluate my performance and provide me with valuable insight. If I am not intentionally directing myself and my family toward Jesus in a loving, authentic way daily, I not only have to answer to God one day, but to I also answer to my family right now. I wasted earlier years of my life not focused with the deeper purpose I should have for God’s holy work in my children. I’m very thankful that the Lord opened my heart years ago and that He still continues to drop the scales from my eyes moment by moment. I see it almost as if I am a pipeline that flows from God to my child. I am the conduit or passage that enables Him to reach them in the most efficient way. I do not want to be a blockage in that journey. Christians often debate on how to be a good witness. I believe we must start in our own homes. The love of Christ must be evident. It must be authentic. It must be active. Our children know whether we believe what we say, because of the actions they see us do. They see who we are. When we are genuine, we become credible, and so does God. I am human, but I love Jesus. More and more daily. I crave Him and His work in me. The closer I move to Him, the closer He draws to me, just as His word tells us. The more I read and study His word, the more I understand and recognize Him. It is also the only way others will see Him in me. I try to pattern my beliefs and values after what I see in Christ. Although I have acquaintances or family members who do not pattern their life in the same way, and do activities and have lifestyles that run contrary to those qualities, I try my best to love them where they are, just as I hope people love me where I am. When we have open discussions about those topics, I approach them from a Biblical standpoint and offer Jesus as a guide, not my opinion or interpretations. We are all human. The only way this lifestyle approach works is if I remain growing in Jesus and on my knees for guidance daily, and if they do the same. When we can discuss issues from the POV of Jesus and how He lived for us to pattern, we have a starting point for discussion and growth. I have to be able to listen when I am in the wrong, just as those around me must be. One of the greatest problems of this generation is that we all want to do what we want and do not care about the consequences that may stem from it. We want it all and we want it our way. I do not want my children to grow up with that mindset or those habits. I make mistakes daily. Because of Christ in me, I often recognize them quickly. When I don’t, He stings me with a gentle nudge inside my spirit that pierces my obstinance or cluelessness. He is gracious to point them out to me. I wish I could say He changed me and has made me free of errors, but since that is not the way life works, I have to continue growing through Him and allowing Him to continue molding and shaping me into a beautiful vessel that He can actually use for His purposes and not my selfish desires. The humbling I receive every time actually sharpens my walk with Him and increases my love and thirst for Him. It all starts with developing and maturing a visible reverence for God through my relationship with Jesus and making sure I humbly recognize my place in the lives of others. I am not here for partaking in every whim and desire I chose, but for real and intentional purpose that God can only work through me. Your life has the same beautiful and meaningful value. God has filled my spirit with such a strong inclination toward inspiring other women to focus on living with eternal perspective and to equip you to teach your children love and purpose through Jesus. Living in this way is the most impactful and fulfilling task we can complete in this lifetime. The basic steps to begin molding and shaping your children to carry a reverent attitude toward God is to begin with three easy steps and grow from there. 1. Develop a personal and maturing walk with God through Jesus. Serve God humbly with the way we live, seek Him, and spend our time. Let our children see that God is worthy to be praised and made a priority. Hebrews 12:28 says, “Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.” 2. Continue intentionally learning and growing in the Lord daily. Let our children see us study our Bible and study with them through daily Bible readings or lessons. They do not have to be long or complicated, but they do need to be enjoyable and consistent. Pray with and for our children. Let them hear us pray for them regularly and encourage them to pray for us. 2 Timothy 1:13 says, “Hold on to the pattern of sound teaching you have heard from me, with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.” 3. Remain rooted in the Lord and persistent over time. Keep your faith and reverence visible in words and actions. 1 Peter 3:2 says, “when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.” Although this verse was originally used in the Bible to speak to wives who were new converts to Christianity and used for encouragement and training for them to remain steadfast for their husbands to see, I believe it applies for our walk in general. Life is a series of habits, whether good or bad, that shape and mold our character and actions, as well as those around us. This also perfectly leads into 1 Peter 3:3-4, “Do not let your adornment be merely outward – arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel – rather let It be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” When we focus less on the distractions of this world and what advertisements and others push and influence us to desire, our true longings can be met and our children receive a mother who is much better settled and joyous to train them in the ways that will truly satisfy and provide. It is not easy to live in this world, yet not be a part of it. Living with a visible reverence for Jesus that guides and shapes our desires is the foundation for building the life God aspires for us to have, and that deep down, every soul needs. Some mothers fear it may be too late. Maybe you have not walked closely with God and wish that you could change what you have done or what you may be doing now. Until we leave this earth, it is never too late. Begin where you are. Right now. God never leaves us and is always ready for us to move closer or come to Him for the first time. Without a doubt, the best and most meaningful purpose I have held in this life has been raising my children and teaching them about Jesus. The relationships that stem from this step of faith and obedience is absolutely priceless and eternal. Considering that I never wanted children growing up, God has changed my heart completely. I am in awe that He entrusted two sets of children to me. I will never cease trying to honor Him with visible reverence that attracts my children and grandson to Him. I would be honored to encourage your in your walk with Jesus or help you find ways to shape the life of your children around Him. If you have specific questions, please contact me through Instagram or Facebook. You can also reach me at thedoovermom@gmail.com. and you can look forward to more resources available on my new website that launches very soon. Father God, we thank you for the opportunity and privilege to know and walk with You. Thank you that you, God, the One who created each of us, desire a personal relationship with all who will humbly seek You. Help us to follow You in the ways You call and created for us. Shape us as women and as mothers to be who You desire us to and to visibly exude a reverence for You that shapes and molds future generations and calls them to bow in submission to You. Let me be one who allows You to make a difference through me. I pray in Jesus’ precious name, Lord. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 036 Visible Reverence Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #036 – Visible Reverence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’d like to start with a sweet story, but I’ll share hard truths, too. Let’s start with the part that warms my heart. My youngest child loves to walk through the house with her arm linked in mine. Actually, she would probably adore having our arms joined anywhere we go. As we were walking through the house the other day, we passed a large mirror. I glanced at it as we passed and saw the look of adoration on her face as she gazed at me with the most loving expression. How blessed I am to be her mother. What opportunities God has given me through being the object of her love. I am truly thankful and make time to reciprocate her love in the ways she appreciates, which usually means one-on-one playtime. I try to show her how appreciated she is and how thankful we are to have her in our family. My biggest and most important daily goal, however, is to teach her to direct true reverence to God. As much as she loves me, and I appreciate being the focus of her adoration, I am responsible for teaching her how to love Him more. As many listeners of this podcast know, I am raising my second set of children. While I feel I showed deep love and care to all of my children, modeling reverence for God and actively placing Him as my priority was not one of the qualities I yet carried. How I wish I had already developed a deeper walk with Jesus! When I became a Christian in my early twenties, I was hurt by church members and let that affect my spiritual growth. While I loved Jesus, I slowly stopped reading my Bible daily and did not develop the relationship I should have in the timing I could have had. Although I talked to my children about knowing and loving the Lord, I wasn’t modeling an active adoration that translated to visible reverence for Him. Our house was unknowingly built on sand shoveled in by Satan as he deceived me in many ways, instead of being erected on the rock God calls us to use as the only foundation that will withstand the storms of life. I am so thankful that my adult son follows Jesus. I know his walk would be different though, if I had known better and not let pride and foolish worldly wisdom trick me into thinking I was wise and following God in ways that were not what He had designed as best for me or my family. When we are not purposely maturing our walk through Jesus and becoming all He desires, we are cheating our children out of an inheritance God wants to hand them on this earth. Knowing what I would do differently now, and have been given the opportunity to do through our second set of children, makes me more aware of what I see in the world today. I am not saying I am all wise and know all of the answers, but I have learned many lessons and have developed a much more mature walk with God over time. I am still grateful every day that I have my girls, and I am truly doing my utmost to relay a devotion for God to them, and also shine it to my son and grandson. Every time I fall short, I strive to take it to the Lord for His stirrings on where and how to rely on Him more fully and enable Him to do the work in me that is needed. I see multiple ways our society has lost the desire to instruct our children in the ways of the Lord. As our culture moves farther away from Christianity, I fear for the souls of our youngest and most vulnerable. The world does not seek Him in our way of life. Our lifestyles are wrapped more and more in obtaining frivolous items and spending more time comparing ourselves to others, while leaving us little time to connect with the soul God placed in us with and for great purpose. In fact, many people run from facing the inner thoughts and condition of their heart, which only compounds the issues they face. Modern children are well-versed in and over-exposed to social media and peer pressure, and we, as parents, are losing more rights as the years pass. Children and teens are exposed or introduced to various issues much too young and are left to ponder and battle adult topics with the resilience and understanding of a child. We are at a major cross-road of moral and holy significance. Do we want our precious children, beautiful gifts from God who are entrusted to us for care, to be in the world or be a part of the world? There is such a distinct difference. We are not meant to be a best friend to our children. We are their provider and protector first. As parents who seek to know, love, and follow the Lord, we must ensure that our number one priority is for our children to see us living with visible eternal perspective and for them to understand the meaning and significance of that calling. We must also teach them true love and purpose through Jesus, not what the world calls them to do or be. This eternity-based decision starts with us. You and me. No matter whether we raise our family with a partner or alone, we are each responsible for our own individual walk with God. We have to make the decision that He is a priority for us. No more excuses. “Not enough time,” “I’ll do it tomorrow,” “After I finish this,” “The kids aren’t interested,” or “I think it’s just too late.” The excuses can go on and on. How about this one? “I’m doing okay. The kids seem fine.” That may be the most dangerous one of all. It’s time to allow God to awaken mothers and fathers to a revolution of freedom. True change, lasting change comes from God. Then everything else flows from this important relationship. When our children see us grow an authentic and beautiful walk with God through Jesus and we strive to embody the qualities of Jesus and in turn, exhibit them in our life, true reverence is visible and impactful. When they see us obeying God, and they have been lovingly taught to develop a love and respect for Him, that honor is also extended to us as their parent. There is no such thing as the lie that society presents to us. The world tells us that teens act a certain way. I do not believe it. While teens undergo many bodily and emotional changes, there is no reason or excuse for them to act certain ways that stir disrespect or shallowness. We must be connected to Jesus in loving, growing ways that allow us insight into our children. They should be growing beside us because it is a relationship we are actively nurturing moment by moment every single day. Our job, our responsibility is to ensure that we have introduced and modeled Jesus to them and we keep the communication lines open because we are developing lifetime relationships with the Lord and our precious child. Today I presented my middle daughter with a tough question. I asked her to tell me what about my walk impacts her the most for the Lord. I thought she might have to take some time and get back to me, but surprisingly, she was able to answer quickly. Always painfully honest, and my deepest thinker, she usually takes time to ponder questions so that she gives the most accurate response possible. “Your wisdom and the way you give such straightforward advice,” she said, then continued with, “Also, the way you treat Dad and the way you treat us,” she smiled. Although it sounds like I was fishing for a compliment, I wasn’t. Instead, I was looking for critical input to evaluate my performance and provide me with valuable insight. If I am not intentionally directing myself and my family toward Jesus in a loving, authentic way daily, I not only have to answer to God one day, but to I also answer to my family right now. I wasted earlier years of my life not focused with the deeper purpose I should have for God’s holy work in my children. I’m very thankful that the Lord opened my heart years ago and that He still continues to drop the scales from my eyes moment by moment. I see it almost as if I am a pipeline that flows from God to my child. I am the conduit or passage that enables Him to reach them in the most efficient way. I do not want to be a blockage in that journey. Christians often debate on how to be a good witness. I believe we must start in our own homes. The love of Christ must be evident. It must be authentic. It must be active. Our children know whether we believe what we say, because of the actions they see us do. They see who we are. When we are genuine, we become credible, and so does God. I am human, but I love Jesus. More and more daily. I crave Him and His work in me. The closer I move to Him, the closer He draws to me, just as His word tells us. The more I read and study His word, the more I understand and recognize Him. It is also the only way others will see Him in me. I try to pattern my beliefs and values after what I see in Christ. Although I have acquaintances or family members who do not pattern their life in the same way, and do activities and have lifestyles that run contrary to those qualities, I try my best to love them where they are, just as I hope people love me where I am. When we have open discussions about those topics, I approach them from a Biblical standpoint and offer Jesus as a guide, not my opinion or interpretations. We are all human. The only way this lifestyle approach works is if I remain growing in Jesus and on my knees for guidance daily, and if they do the same. When we can discuss issues from the POV of Jesus and how He lived for us to pattern, we have a starting point for discussion and growth. I have to be able to listen when I am in the wrong, just as those around me must be. One of the greatest problems of this generation is that we all want to do what we want and do not care about the consequences that may stem from it. We want it all and we want it our way. I do not want my children to grow up with that mindset or those habits. I make mistakes daily. Because of Christ in me, I often recognize them quickly. When I don’t, He stings me with a gentle nudge inside my spirit that pierces my obstinance or cluelessness. He is gracious to point them out to me. I wish I could say He changed me and has made me free of errors, but since that is not the way life works, I have to continue growing through Him and allowing Him to continue molding and shaping me into a beautiful vessel that He can actually use for His purposes and not my selfish desires. The humbling I receive every time actually sharpens my walk with Him and increases my love and thirst for Him. It all starts with developing and maturing a visible reverence for God through my relationship with Jesus and making sure I humbly recognize my place in the lives of others. I am not here for partaking in every whim and desire I chose, but for real and intentional purpose that God can only work through me. Your life has the same beautiful and meaningful value. God has filled my spirit with such a strong inclination toward inspiring other women to focus on living with eternal perspective and to equip you to teach your children love and purpose through Jesus. Living in this way is the most impactful and fulfilling task we can complete in this lifetime. The basic steps to begin molding and shaping your children to carry a reverent attitude toward God is to begin with three easy steps and grow from there. 1. Develop a personal and maturing walk with God through Jesus. Serve God humbly with the way we live, seek Him, and spend our time. Let our children see that God is worthy to be praised and made a priority. Hebrews 12:28 says, “Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.” 2. Continue intentionally learning and growing in the Lord daily. Let our children see us study our Bible and study with them through daily Bible readings or lessons. They do not have to be long or complicated, but they do need to be enjoyable and consistent. Pray with and for our children. Let them hear us pray for them regularly and encourage them to pray for us. 2 Timothy 1:13 says, “Hold on to the pattern of sound teaching you have heard from me, with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.” 3. Remain rooted in the Lord and persistent over time. Keep your faith and reverence visible in words and actions. 1 Peter 3:2 says, “when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.” Although this verse was originally used in the Bible to speak to wives who were new converts to Christianity and used for encouragement and training for them to remain steadfast for their husbands to see, I believe it applies for our walk in general. Life is a series of habits, whether good or bad, that shape and mold our character and actions, as well as those around us. This also perfectly leads into 1 Peter 3:3-4, “Do not let your adornment be merely outward – arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel – rather let It be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” When we focus less on the distractions of this world and what advertisements and others push and influence us to desire, our true longings can be met and our children receive a mother who is much better settled and joyous to train them in the ways that will truly satisfy and provide. It is not easy to live in this world, yet not be a part of it. Living with a visible reverence for Jesus that guides and shapes our desires is the foundation for building the life God aspires for us to have, and that deep down, every soul needs. Some mothers fear it may be too late. Maybe you have not walked closely with God and wish that you could change what you have done or what you may be doing now. Until we leave this earth, it is never too late. Begin where you are. Right now. God never leaves us and is always ready for us to move closer or come to Him for the first time. Without a doubt, the best and most meaningful purpose I have held in this life has been raising my children and teaching them about Jesus. The relationships that stem from this step of faith and obedience is absolutely priceless and eternal. Considering that I never wanted children growing up, God has changed my heart completely. I am in awe that He entrusted two sets of children to me. I will never cease trying to honor Him with visible reverence that attracts my children and grandson to Him. I would be honored to encourage your in your walk with Jesus or help you find ways to shape the life of your children around Him. If you have specific questions, please contact me through Instagram or Facebook. You can also reach me at thedoovermom@gmail.com . and you can look forward to more resources available on my new website that launches very soon. Father God, we thank you for the opportunity and privilege to know and walk with You. Thank you that you, God, the One who created each of us, desire a personal relationship with all who will humbly seek You. Help us to follow You in the ways You call and created for us. Shape us as women and as mothers to be who You desire us to and to visibly exude a reverence for You that shapes and molds future generations and calls them to bow in submission to You. Let me be one who allows You to make a difference through me. I pray in Jesus’ precious name, Lord. Amen. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #040 – Personal Mission Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This morning Brooklyn, my youngest, and I were working together in the kitchen. As I diced vegetables, we discussed the pattern inside the cut head of cauliflower. Have you ever scraped off the top layer and viewed the detailed pattern underneath? It reminded us of a snowflake, which led us into a discussion of how intricately God formed all things and how much intelligent thought and purpose is witnessed in all of creation. Beauty in cauliflower? Yes, the curiously-shaped vegetable! God is the expert in originality. I am awed by such unique and original creations of God. We see Him through all of nature, in animals, in humans. Throughout science and math, in His plan for humanity, His sovereignty, and in His plan of redemption. Everything holds the thumb print and signature of our glorious God. Even cauliflower. Do you love those moments where we can find God’s glorious artistry in something so simple? Naturally including God in simple life events is crucial to growing our walk and advancing the journey of our children for Jesus. Ephesians 1:17 says, “that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.” God has not only extended us beautiful spiritual riches. Our Heavenly Father also gifted us with the ability to intimately know Him through Jesus. We can seek and reach God through His Son, allowing us access to the intellect, emotions, and will of God. When we acknowledge and exclaim the beauty in something as simple as a vegetable, we allow ourselves and those around us, in the circle of our influence, to proclaim the majesty of God for themselves and carve a deeper understanding and appreciation for themselves. I believe it causes us to yearn more for our Heavenly Father and His presence in our life, even in the smallest of details. We recognize the abilities and style of God in new and personal ways. On the podcast last week, we discussed the specifics my family worked together to establish in creating our set of “Hitt Family Principles.” The activity held a very special and eternal significance for each of us. It seemed a small task, but brought us together as we prayerfully considered and verbalized what we wanted to use as a template to move our family forward on a united path to God. Establishing such a set of principles is not necessary for a family to grow together in Christ or to have a strong relationship with God, but it is a very intentional move in ensuring that each of us clearly knows and understands what our family believes and how we desire to accomplish specific Christian growth. I bring this activity up again this week because I believe it is also a beautiful and significant exercise for each of us to do individually, as well. Yes, it can be argued that the family principles should be personal principles, as well. However, I expect that any of us who spend time working on such a task with our family would also want to elevate and clearly keep personal goals in the forefront of our mind and heart, as well. Let me pause here and do a recap for those who listened to the podcast last week and give a brief rundown of what we did for anyone who did not listen to last week’s episode. If you would like to listen to the full podcast where I discuss what we did in full, please refer Episode #039 Family With A Mission. My family and I brain-stormed together to design a set of what we call the “Hitt Family Principles.” We used a business model to generate the framework we build for spiritual goals in our relationship with Jesus. We created it to guide and keep us connected with the same purpose in deepening our walk with God and reminding ourselves and others who and what our family stands for as a united group. I will share what we established. Core Value: We strive to live with eternal perspective through Jesus. Vision Statement: To love, trust, honor, and obey Jesus and grow in faith through Him. Mission Statement: Our family strives to honor God, intentionally pursue God, and show love and respect to Him, and others, while remaining obedient to Him. Key Verse: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.” Deuteronomy 6:5 Again, going from how a business usually works to create how they want their business to grow and exist, our family used the same basic framework to pattern the direction of our principles. Let’s begin with the vision statement. It describes what the organization will look like in the future. A mission statement, on the other hand, describes what an organization does, and for whom. How greatly these tools can be used to guide and grow families together in the same, eternal direction! If the vision statement describes what the family will look like in the future, it offers us an opportunity to establish exactly who and how we want to be for Jesus. It gives us the ability to have a clear vision to move forward, enabling us to advance our walk with purpose. How often do we set goals, but fall short because we do not set a clear vision for how to get there? We definitely have a much greater chance of pleasing God with this clear plan in the front of our mind and heart. It serves as a guiding compass straight north to the heart of our Father. Next, is the mission statement. It is used to establish what the family does and for whom, and we know that there is no greater “whom” than the Great I AM! Also shaped at the same time were the core values that completed the statements we created. Core values are what support the vision, shape the culture and reflect what our family values. Our core values also educate others outside our home, those we come into contact with during the course of different days, showing what our family holds dear. The core values also help to clarify the identity of our family, hopefully brightly shining Christ and our desire to be more like Him. We also chose to add a key verse that we each agree sets the heart and tone for our family, as well as for each of us, as individuals. Although we have printed out our set of principles, I am looking for a special way to beautifully display them in our home so that the words, like promises to God, are visible and noticeable for each of us daily. Because constructing the principles together was an enjoyable and blessed activity for each of us, I want to go further in depth with personal principles. Although I have been a Christian for many years, I have never set my heart on a purposed set of standards that I have prayed over and recorded as a guide to deepen my relationship with God. I know in my heart what to do and purposely work toward that goal with intention, yet I want to experience time alone with God to see what He may reveal to me as what He has individually purposed for me. I desire for my family to do the same. Quiet time with God is never wasted, and I wonder what deeper treasures He may offer us in our walk with Him. How much deeper will we know our Heavenly Father through intentioned pursuit in this special, detailed way? Just as some people make new year resolutions, our family usually starts the new year with a word for the year. I love how it causes us to focus with determination on experiencing God in new ways through that word. But now I desire to take that deeper with a set of personal principles. I plan to use the same basic guidelines with finding a private core value, vision, mission, and key verse. How will God work through this? I don’t know yet, but I’m excited and know that I will be blessed to discover what He does. Will He give me words that I will use forever or will He have me change yearly as I continue to progress in my walk with Him? How about you? Let me know if you have already done this and how you set your standards or constructed your personal principles. I urge you to make time to sit with God and let Him guide you in selecting your own set of family and personal principles. I suspect that what I think might be the words and verse I choose may be quite different after prayerful consideration. Who knows what God might lead me to. I’m excited to see and growth in spiritual and personal depth with my Heavenly Father. Luke 2:52 tells us, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.” Jesus, even as a boy, intentionally increased and strengthened His relationship with God in every area: mental, (with His wisdom), spiritual, (with His favor from God), and social, (as He displayed God in every way). Jesus advanced His walk with God daily and purposefully. What a perfect role model we have in Jesus. What a gift God gave us through His Son, His Holy word, and our lifeline of prayer. Developing personal principles seems such a simple action. Jesus always took common and simple aspects of life that should have been obvious to the Jewish people and made short stories, or parables, to teach and reach people as nothing else could. Jesus worked and still works, through divine, but straightforward methods that cause us to pause and ponder, and often be convicted. I pray I am convicted in new ways as I delve into creating this personal set of principles. He looks for those of us with hearts open to seek Him, who desire to be influenced, and changed by Him. As I pray for His guidance and truths to craft a personal principle framework to specifically guide me in new ways, I believe God will unveil new realizations or perceptions to me in unique means specifically tailored for me and where I am in my journey with Him. I am ready for more growth. How about you? Would you join me in seeking Him for a set of personal principles that exist to advance your relationship through Jesus? I would be blessed to hear what you allow God to create through you. Father God, please work through each of us to expose more of what You desire from and through us. Help us to crave you in the way Jesus did. May we allow You to shine in all areas of our life. Please peel away layers of humanity and shine Your holiness through us. Help us to realize daily how far we are from You and may we intentionally advance our dependence on, and wisdom through You. May we honor You with every thought, word, and action and continually find new ways to live with our mind set for eternity with You in ways that are pleasing to You right now. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. If you enjoy this podcast, you might like to hear that the terrihitt.com website launches within the next few days! Please visit and subscribe to be a member so that you gain access to all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, and free resources that will be added to weekly. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. May we all be inspired and equipped to live with an eternal perspective and be influenced to raise children for Jesus, not this momentary world. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 040 Personal Mission Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #040 – Personal Mission Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This morning Brooklyn, my youngest, and I were working together in the kitchen. As I diced vegetables, we discussed the pattern inside the cut head of cauliflower. Have you ever scraped off the top layer and viewed the detailed pattern underneath? It reminded us of a snowflake, which led us into a discussion of how intricately God formed all things and how much intelligent thought and purpose is witnessed in all of creation. Beauty in cauliflower? Yes, the curiously-shaped vegetable! God is the expert in originality. I am awed by such unique and original creations of God. We see Him through all of nature, in animals, in humans. Throughout science and math, in His plan for humanity, His sovereignty, and in His plan of redemption. Everything holds the thumb print and signature of our glorious God. Even cauliflower. Do you love those moments where we can find God’s glorious artistry in something so simple? Naturally including God in simple life events is crucial to growing our walk and advancing the journey of our children for Jesus. Ephesians 1:17 says, “that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.” God has not only extended us beautiful spiritual riches. Our Heavenly Father also gifted us with the ability to intimately know Him through Jesus. We can seek and reach God through His Son, allowing us access to the intellect, emotions, and will of God. When we acknowledge and exclaim the beauty in something as simple as a vegetable, we allow ourselves and those around us, in the circle of our influence, to proclaim the majesty of God for themselves and carve a deeper understanding and appreciation for themselves. I believe it causes us to yearn more for our Heavenly Father and His presence in our life, even in the smallest of details. We recognize the abilities and style of God in new and personal ways. On the podcast last week, we discussed the specifics my family worked together to establish in creating our set of “Hitt Family Principles.” The activity held a very special and eternal significance for each of us. It seemed a small task, but brought us together as we prayerfully considered and verbalized what we wanted to use as a template to move our family forward on a united path to God. Establishing such a set of principles is not necessary for a family to grow together in Christ or to have a strong relationship with God, but it is a very intentional move in ensuring that each of us clearly knows and understands what our family believes and how we desire to accomplish specific Christian growth. I bring this activity up again this week because I believe it is also a beautiful and significant exercise for each of us to do individually, as well. Yes, it can be argued that the family principles should be personal principles, as well. However, I expect that any of us who spend time working on such a task with our family would also want to elevate and clearly keep personal goals in the forefront of our mind and heart, as well. Let me pause here and do a recap for those who listened to the podcast last week and give a brief rundown of what we did for anyone who did not listen to last week’s episode. If you would like to listen to the full podcast where I discuss what we did in full, please refer Episode #039 Family With A Mission. My family and I brain-stormed together to design a set of what we call the “Hitt Family Principles.” We used a business model to generate the framework we build for spiritual goals in our relationship with Jesus. We created it to guide and keep us connected with the same purpose in deepening our walk with God and reminding ourselves and others who and what our family stands for as a united group. I will share what we established. Core Value: We strive to live with eternal perspective through Jesus. Vision Statement: To love, trust, honor, and obey Jesus and grow in faith through Him. Mission Statement: Our family strives to honor God, intentionally pursue God, and show love and respect to Him, and others, while remaining obedient to Him. Key Verse: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.” Deuteronomy 6:5 Again, going from how a business usually works to create how they want their business to grow and exist, our family used the same basic framework to pattern the direction of our principles. Let’s begin with the vision statement. It describes what the organization will look like in the future. A mission statement, on the other hand, describes what an organization does, and for whom. How greatly these tools can be used to guide and grow families together in the same, eternal direction! If the vision statement describes what the family will look like in the future, it offers us an opportunity to establish exactly who and how we want to be for Jesus. It gives us the ability to have a clear vision to move forward, enabling us to advance our walk with purpose. How often do we set goals, but fall short because we do not set a clear vision for how to get there? We definitely have a much greater chance of pleasing God with this clear plan in the front of our mind and heart. It serves as a guiding compass straight north to the heart of our Father. Next, is the mission statement. It is used to establish what the family does and for whom, and we know that there is no greater “whom” than the Great I AM! Also shaped at the same time were the core values that completed the statements we created. Core values are what support the vision, shape the culture and reflect what our family values. Our core values also educate others outside our home, those we come into contact with during the course of different days, showing what our family holds dear. The core values also help to clarify the identity of our family, hopefully brightly shining Christ and our desire to be more like Him. We also chose to add a key verse that we each agree sets the heart and tone for our family, as well as for each of us, as individuals. Although we have printed out our set of principles, I am looking for a special way to beautifully display them in our home so that the words, like promises to God, are visible and noticeable for each of us daily. Because constructing the principles together was an enjoyable and blessed activity for each of us, I want to go further in depth with personal principles. Although I have been a Christian for many years, I have never set my heart on a purposed set of standards that I have prayed over and recorded as a guide to deepen my relationship with God. I know in my heart what to do and purposely work toward that goal with intention, yet I want to experience time alone with God to see what He may reveal to me as what He has individually purposed for me. I desire for my family to do the same. Quiet time with God is never wasted, and I wonder what deeper treasures He may offer us in our walk with Him. How much deeper will we know our Heavenly Father through intentioned pursuit in this special, detailed way? Just as some people make new year resolutions, our family usually starts the new year with a word for the year. I love how it causes us to focus with determination on experiencing God in new ways through that word. But now I desire to take that deeper with a set of personal principles. I plan to use the same basic guidelines with finding a private core value, vision, mission, and key verse. How will God work through this? I don’t know yet, but I’m excited and know that I will be blessed to discover what He does. Will He give me words that I will use forever or will He have me change yearly as I continue to progress in my walk with Him? How about you? Let me know if you have already done this and how you set your standards or constructed your personal principles. I urge you to make time to sit with God and let Him guide you in selecting your own set of family and personal principles. I suspect that what I think might be the words and verse I choose may be quite different after prayerful consideration. Who knows what God might lead me to. I’m excited to see and growth in spiritual and personal depth with my Heavenly Father. Luke 2:52 tells us, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.” Jesus, even as a boy, intentionally increased and strengthened His relationship with God in every area: mental, (with His wisdom), spiritual, (with His favor from God), and social, (as He displayed God in every way). Jesus advanced His walk with God daily and purposefully. What a perfect role model we have in Jesus. What a gift God gave us through His Son, His Holy word, and our lifeline of prayer. Developing personal principles seems such a simple action. Jesus always took common and simple aspects of life that should have been obvious to the Jewish people and made short stories, or parables, to teach and reach people as nothing else could. Jesus worked and still works, through divine, but straightforward methods that cause us to pause and ponder, and often be convicted. I pray I am convicted in new ways as I delve into creating this personal set of principles. He looks for those of us with hearts open to seek Him, who desire to be influenced, and changed by Him. As I pray for His guidance and truths to craft a personal principle framework to specifically guide me in new ways, I believe God will unveil new realizations or perceptions to me in unique means specifically tailored for me and where I am in my journey with Him. I am ready for more growth. How about you? Would you join me in seeking Him for a set of personal principles that exist to advance your relationship through Jesus? I would be blessed to hear what you allow God to create through you. Father God, please work through each of us to expose more of what You desire from and through us. Help us to crave you in the way Jesus did. May we allow You to shine in all areas of our life. Please peel away layers of humanity and shine Your holiness through us. Help us to realize daily how far we are from You and may we intentionally advance our dependence on, and wisdom through You. May we honor You with every thought, word, and action and continually find new ways to live with our mind set for eternity with You in ways that are pleasing to You right now. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. If you enjoy this podcast, you might like to hear that the terrihitt.com website launches within the next few days! Please visit and subscribe to be a member so that you gain access to all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, and free resources that will be added to weekly. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. May we all be inspired and equipped to live with an eternal perspective and be influenced to raise children for Jesus, not this momentary world. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #142 – How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Yesterday during part of our morning playtime, my youngest daughter and I observed the roly poly terrarium she’s building. Right now, she’s preparing the groundwork for the roly polys to move into a new habitat later. Last week she laid chia seeds in soil and daily you can find her checking soil moisture, sunlight, and adding water when needed. Although you can’t see anything growing, if you look under the clear terrarium, you see that many roots are winding beneath the dirt in preparation for the changes that will take place on top of the soil later. It’s really fascinating to see how many hidden roots are twisting and turning unless you make an effort to find them. Just as our heart needs seeds planted before we experience changes, no one can see how the Holy Spirit is working within us unless our words, actions, and reactions are altered to showcase His presence. When we first become believers and followers of Christ, we cannot comprehend the life-changing beauty of a maturing relationship with Him. Yet, the longer we walk with Him, the more intentional we are about pursuing Jesus and submitting to His work within us, and the greater our belief grows. As we allow Him to shine through us, we unknowingly invite Him to make a great impact on those around us. It is true that the way we conduct our life and Christian walk attracts attention. Even when we don’t believe anyone is paying attention, they are. The older I’ve gotten, the more I focus on how my actions affect others. Actually, this thought process probably has less to do with aging, and more to do with my walk with Christ. As time has progressed and I have continued to mature in Him, Jesus prompts me to examine motives and actions in light of the way others are impacted by them. I want others to see Him clearly through me and that desire comes with great responsibility. As I ponder what that duty means, I acknowledge how easily my behavior can attract people to, or turn people away from Christ. Have you ever noticed that small and seemingly insignificant decisions you make can cause someone to build their foundation of Christ on rock or sand? Those decisions may also cause another to stumble or to turn away from Jesus completely. Romans 14:12-13 says, “So then each of us shall give account of himself to God. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.” Have you ever been short with someone at work? Or with a family member? Maybe you gave a dirty look to the crazy driver who totally cut you off on the highway or at the person who took the parking spot they could see you were going to take. Have you ever rushed to get in line to order food or check out at the store before someone else could get ahead of you? Once you beat them, do you stop to wonder how well you’re representing Christ? I find it interesting that when I slow down and allow others to go first, I don’t think about how it reflects Christ: I just allow Him to work within me, helping me to think of others first. However, when I try to move faster than someone else (without it looking like I’m doing it), because I’m short on time or hungry, or some other excuse, I do stop to think (after the fact) that I certainly did not represent Christ the way I should. What if the person you hurried past showed up at church the next Sunday? What if they heard you proclaiming to love Jesus or giving testimony at a later date and they remembered that it was you who did whatever act didn’t give a holy representation of the Lord? “For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” This verse from 1 Corinthians 3:11 reminds us that the only foundation that is true and lasting is one built on Jesus Christ. Our reason for showing others the Way, the Truth, and the Life should be because our own heart and mind are so full of Him that He overflows and we cannot help but exude His spirit, grace, mercy, and love to others because He has permanently entwined His spirit within us. Do you guard your actions, your mind, your heart, and reactions daily through the power of the Holy Spirit alive within you? In order to train yourself to respond in ways pleasing to God and that will impress Him perfectly to others, you must be aware of how your actions reflect Him. Just as an athlete develops discipline through intentional daily training, we must be attentive to the coaching of the Lord within us. We must desire to reflect Him properly. We must allow Him to guide and guard us and our responses and reactions so that others clearly see the work He has done and is still completing within us. Each of us develop habits. Some are good, making us stronger in the Lord while others may become the opposite. As we grow in relationship, strength, and character through Christ, our affections and actions toward others change. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” When most of us become believers, we still think of “self” more than Christ. Once we begin to mature our walk, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our character and desires, our thought processes change. We begin thinking of others more than self and deeply desire to be stewards of the relationship we have with Christ. When selfishness, jealousy, impatience, or other fleshly feelings try to overtake us, it is a blessing to know we can utilize the power of Christ within us to shift our thinking process to Him. He makes us aware of how others see Him through us, reminding us of the challenge and responsibility we must bear. Our inadequacies, even when we strive to follow and honor Christ are apparent in differing ways. One method to strengthen our Christian walk and make Jesus known to others in ways that attract them to Him is through our habits. We all have behaviors we repeat daily. We know it’s much easier to develop bad or harmful habits over nurturing good ones. One key to growing habits that forward our walk with Christ and draw others to Him is to pay attention to what encourages you, gives you more joy, and what matures your personal walk with Christ. Of course, right now we are only discussing godly habits, not health, beauty, finance, work, or study habits. Goodness! When you think about it, our lives consist of a variety of routines and habits we have developed over years without giving them much thought. One purpose of fostering positive habits is to build character. As followers of Christ, we want our character to reflect His. Righteousness or godly character is fashioned through reflection and formation of excellent, repeated actions. It is crucial to discover which thought processes you need to alter and commit to doing it. Just as we get out of bed, get dressed, brush our teeth, etc. we must have a set standard we commit to completing. However, without thinking about what we are creating, excellent habits are almost impossible to achieve. We often plan to be consistent or to begin character formation in some way, but life interferes. Our schedules are tight. We get sick. Our children need us. Maybe we run around town all day and just need to relax in the evening. When we are tired, hungry, cold, or overscheduled, we tend to think of “self” first. We want to satisfy the burning need we have or the commitment to child or spouse that must be completed. Instead, stop to allow yourself to think of Christ. As He was dying on the cross, He put sinners first. He didn’t just fulfill what obligations He had to. Jesus remained committed to a lifestyle of integrity and obedience. Jesus followed habits He constructed with righteous intention throughout His life. Remember: 1. People see your actions. 2. People hear your words. 3. People learn your desires. 4. People appreciate your acts. 5. People feel your love. 6. People see your devotion to Christ. When others see those of us who follow Christ, they consciously and subconsciously observe whether we appear to be genuine, whether we lovingly serve others, how well we appear to trust and obey Christ, whether we are discerning or judgmental, and ho our actions affect others. It is imperative that you: 1. Study His Word 2. Know His Word 3. Practice His Word 4. Share His Word It is only then that those who do not have a relationship with Jesus will see that He genuinely changes lives! 1. Jesus is Who He says He is – John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” 2. Jesus leads to the Father – Matthew 4:19 says, “Come, follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” 3. Jesus heals hearts and lives – Matthew 4:23 says, “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.” 4. Jesus saves – John 3:16, 17 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.” and Acts 4:11, 12 says, “Jesus is the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” As you develop habits, the most important ones concern your view of eternity. 1. Which habits will you construct that support what you believe? 2. Which habits will be important enough to ensure you continue? 3. Which habits will draw you nearer to Christ? 4. Which of your habits will draw others to Jesus? 5. Do you possess the qualities needed to form godly habits in your children? 6. What do your children see in your daily words and actions that will draw them nearer to, or farther from, Christ? 7. Which habits will they copy? Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Does your professed faith match your actions, reactions, and words? How are you working daily to develop strong, righteous integrity that is pleasing to God? 1 Samuel 16:7b says, “For man sees the outward appearance, but the LORD sees the heart.” Make sure that what God sees in your heart is intentionally more pleasing to Him day by day. Dear Heavenly Father, oh Lord, how we need You! Left alone, we are so far from the holiness You require. Thank you for sending Jesus to show us the way to You. Thank you for loving us as we are, yet purposely making sure that we don’t have to stay where we are. May our lives proclaim Your glory, mercy, love, and holiness more each day. Enable our hearts to desire You above all else. Give us a longing for You that cannot be quenched by this world. Help us remain steadfast in studying Your Word, the life of Jesus, and obeying what You call. Help our lives proclaim You to those who do not know You and draw them closer to Your heart. May we never act in ways that turn people away from You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 142 - How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #142 – How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Yesterday during part of our morning playtime, my youngest daughter and I observed the roly poly terrarium she’s building. Right now, she’s preparing the groundwork for the roly polys to move into a new habitat later. Last week she laid chia seeds in soil and daily you can find her checking soil moisture, sunlight, and adding water when needed. Although you can’t see anything growing, if you look under the clear terrarium, you see that many roots are winding beneath the dirt in preparation for the changes that will take place on top of the soil later. It’s really fascinating to see how many hidden roots are twisting and turning unless you make an effort to find them. Just as our heart needs seeds planted before we experience changes, no one can see how the Holy Spirit is working within us unless our words, actions, and reactions are altered to showcase His presence. When we first become believers and followers of Christ, we cannot comprehend the life-changing beauty of a maturing relationship with Him. Yet, the longer we walk with Him, the more intentional we are about pursuing Jesus and submitting to His work within us, and the greater our belief grows. As we allow Him to shine through us, we unknowingly invite Him to make a great impact on those around us. It is true that the way we conduct our life and Christian walk attracts attention. Even when we don’t believe anyone is paying attention, they are. The older I’ve gotten, the more I focus on how my actions affect others. Actually, this thought process probably has less to do with aging, and more to do with my walk with Christ. As time has progressed and I have continued to mature in Him, Jesus prompts me to examine motives and actions in light of the way others are impacted by them. I want others to see Him clearly through me and that desire comes with great responsibility. As I ponder what that duty means, I acknowledge how easily my behavior can attract people to, or turn people away from Christ. Have you ever noticed that small and seemingly insignificant decisions you make can cause someone to build their foundation of Christ on rock or sand? Those decisions may also cause another to stumble or to turn away from Jesus completely. Romans 14:12-13 says, “So then each of us shall give account of himself to God. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.” Have you ever been short with someone at work? Or with a family member? Maybe you gave a dirty look to the crazy driver who totally cut you off on the highway or at the person who took the parking spot they could see you were going to take. Have you ever rushed to get in line to order food or check out at the store before someone else could get ahead of you? Once you beat them, do you stop to wonder how well you’re representing Christ? I find it interesting that when I slow down and allow others to go first, I don’t think about how it reflects Christ: I just allow Him to work within me, helping me to think of others first. However, when I try to move faster than someone else (without it looking like I’m doing it), because I’m short on time or hungry, or some other excuse, I do stop to think (after the fact) that I certainly did not represent Christ the way I should. What if the person you hurried past showed up at church the next Sunday? What if they heard you proclaiming to love Jesus or giving testimony at a later date and they remembered that it was you who did whatever act didn’t give a holy representation of the Lord? “For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” This verse from 1 Corinthians 3:11 reminds us that the only foundation that is true and lasting is one built on Jesus Christ. Our reason for showing others the Way, the Truth, and the Life should be because our own heart and mind are so full of Him that He overflows and we cannot help but exude His spirit, grace, mercy, and love to others because He has permanently entwined His spirit within us. Do you guard your actions, your mind, your heart, and reactions daily through the power of the Holy Spirit alive within you? In order to train yourself to respond in ways pleasing to God and that will impress Him perfectly to others, you must be aware of how your actions reflect Him. Just as an athlete develops discipline through intentional daily training, we must be attentive to the coaching of the Lord within us. We must desire to reflect Him properly. We must allow Him to guide and guard us and our responses and reactions so that others clearly see the work He has done and is still completing within us. Each of us develop habits. Some are good, making us stronger in the Lord while others may become the opposite. As we grow in relationship, strength, and character through Christ, our affections and actions toward others change. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” When most of us become believers, we still think of “self” more than Christ. Once we begin to mature our walk, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our character and desires, our thought processes change. We begin thinking of others more than self and deeply desire to be stewards of the relationship we have with Christ. When selfishness, jealousy, impatience, or other fleshly feelings try to overtake us, it is a blessing to know we can utilize the power of Christ within us to shift our thinking process to Him. He makes us aware of how others see Him through us, reminding us of the challenge and responsibility we must bear. Our inadequacies, even when we strive to follow and honor Christ are apparent in differing ways. One method to strengthen our Christian walk and make Jesus known to others in ways that attract them to Him is through our habits. We all have behaviors we repeat daily. We know it’s much easier to develop bad or harmful habits over nurturing good ones. One key to growing habits that forward our walk with Christ and draw others to Him is to pay attention to what encourages you, gives you more joy, and what matures your personal walk with Christ. Of course, right now we are only discussing godly habits, not health, beauty, finance, work, or study habits. Goodness! When you think about it, our lives consist of a variety of routines and habits we have developed over years without giving them much thought. One purpose of fostering positive habits is to build character. As followers of Christ, we want our character to reflect His. Righteousness or godly character is fashioned through reflection and formation of excellent, repeated actions. It is crucial to discover which thought processes you need to alter and commit to doing it. Just as we get out of bed, get dressed, brush our teeth, etc. we must have a set standard we commit to completing. However, without thinking about what we are creating, excellent habits are almost impossible to achieve. We often plan to be consistent or to begin character formation in some way, but life interferes. Our schedules are tight. We get sick. Our children need us. Maybe we run around town all day and just need to relax in the evening. When we are tired, hungry, cold, or overscheduled, we tend to think of “self” first. We want to satisfy the burning need we have or the commitment to child or spouse that must be completed. Instead, stop to allow yourself to think of Christ. As He was dying on the cross, He put sinners first. He didn’t just fulfill what obligations He had to. Jesus remained committed to a lifestyle of integrity and obedience. Jesus followed habits He constructed with righteous intention throughout His life. Remember: 1. People see your actions. 2. People hear your words. 3. People learn your desires. 4. People appreciate your acts. 5. People feel your love. 6. People see your devotion to Christ. When others see those of us who follow Christ, they consciously and subconsciously observe whether we appear to be genuine, whether we lovingly serve others, how well we appear to trust and obey Christ, whether we are discerning or judgmental, and ho our actions affect others. It is imperative that you: 1. Study His Word 2. Know His Word 3. Practice His Word 4. Share His Word It is only then that those who do not have a relationship with Jesus will see that He genuinely changes lives! 1. Jesus is Who He says He is – John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” 2. Jesus leads to the Father – Matthew 4:19 says, “Come, follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” 3. Jesus heals hearts and lives – Matthew 4:23 says, “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.” 4. Jesus saves – John 3:16, 17 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.” and Acts 4:11, 12 says, “Jesus is the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” As you develop habits, the most important ones concern your view of eternity. 1. Which habits will you construct that support what you believe? 2. Which habits will be important enough to ensure you continue? 3. Which habits will draw you nearer to Christ? 4. Which of your habits will draw others to Jesus? 5. Do you possess the qualities needed to form godly habits in your children? 6. What do your children see in your daily words and actions that will draw them nearer to, or farther from, Christ? 7. Which habits will they copy? Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Does your professed faith match your actions, reactions, and words? How are you working daily to develop strong, righteous integrity that is pleasing to God? 1 Samuel 16:7b says, “For man sees the outward appearance, but the LORD sees the heart.” Make sure that what God sees in your heart is intentionally more pleasing to Him day by day. Dear Heavenly Father, oh Lord, how we need You! Left alone, we are so far from the holiness You require. Thank you for sending Jesus to show us the way to You. Thank you for loving us as we are, yet purposely making sure that we don’t have to stay where we are. May our lives proclaim Your glory, mercy, love, and holiness more each day. Enable our hearts to desire You above all else. Give us a longing for You that cannot be quenched by this world. Help us remain steadfast in studying Your Word, the life of Jesus, and obeying what You call. Help our lives proclaim You to those who do not know You and draw them closer to Your heart. May we never act in ways that turn people away from You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #018 – Prayer Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Sharing about my family and the faith God has crafted in us through the years is such a joy for me. Recognizing methods that He uses to stretch and challenge me daily feels like a gift extended in lessons for me to grasp and share. As I have matured, both in age, and in wisdom, I have recognized the simple truth that prayer is not an option. It is a dire necessity for any soul desiring to be filled with the fruits of the spirit and to live a life pleasing to God, expectant of the rich blessing of intimate and personal fellowship with our Creator. In order to cultivate the qualities that Jesus carried, we must cling to Him through a relationship that craves and adores Him and desires to live in ways that are productive for Him. Without faith, I would not be the person I am or have a peaceful, calm nature that carries me through situations with a positive and hopeful temperament. Prayer is a crucial element for growing my faith in, and dependence on, the Lord. Prayer has grown to be such an automatic response within my brain and body that like breathing, I often do not even realize I am speaking to God. When disaster strikes or emergencies arise, my first response is to fall in humble position before my Father and ask Him to carry the load. Even when the situation is too critical for prayer because time is urgent, my mind and mouth utter the sweet words that bring me comfort and peace each time I say His name aloud. Jesus. Just like every aspect of our faith life, prayer must be something we desire. Once we have acknowledged the fact that we require this lifeline and discipline in our walk with the Lord, we will establish methods to ensure that we connect through this worship and petition that is so much more than we often suspect when we begin our faith journey with God. Prayer exposes our core belief system. Kneeling before our Lord in supplication, whether literally or through our heart and mindset, is a natural extension of our personal relationship with and belief in Him. Our reliance on God through the act of prayer exhibits our dependence on our Heavenly Father, humbling our position with Him, and proving the level of our reliance on Him. How do we establish a lifestyle of prayer? The important word to ponder shouldn’t be how, but rather, Who. Jesus is our life and prayer model. When God sent His son to earth, it wasn’t only to offer His life as a sacrifice for our sins. God stepped into this world to exist and walk among us. He came to show us exactly how to live and how to pray. I think the time period Jesus lived in was significant, as well. Obviously, the particular time frame was crucial in order for events to occur as God ordained, but beyond that, if we examine the way of life during that period compared to our current lifestyle, we admit that we have a comparative life of ease and comfort. Yet, despite daily requirements for survival, chores, and occupation, then later the pressures and demands of His ministry, Jesus consistently made sure He spent time with His Heavenly Father. Our affluent lifestyles have occupied every second of our day and keep us permanently distracted with work, activities, and electronics. No matter the purpose for our commitment to a particular task, our souls were created with a deep need to be nurtured and refreshed by God and our minds need the interaction, guidance, and wisdom that only He can supply. We were not created for constant preoccupation with earthly diversions. Colossians 4:2 says, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” Jesus, through His perfect example of Son seeking Father, committed to sacrificing for God. He willingly planned and enjoyed spending time with His Father. To stand in the presence of God was His desire, His lifeline. 1. Jesus prayed without ceasing. His breath and thoughts coexisted in behavior and habits of praise developed through reliance on and relationship with God through prayer. He existed in a constant state of heart and prayer connection. 2. Jesus prepared for prayer. His mind and attitude were qualified to hear God. His heart was primed. As we bow before God with petition, our personal sins must be released. We should seek repentance and restoration with our Heavenly Father before imploring Him with requests. In other words, our communication should consistently be prioritized, and our walk refreshed moment by moment. Relationship with God is a mutual and emotional connection requiring our commitment and diligence in order for it to flourish. James 5:16 reminds us, “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” Instead of bowing before our Lord without much forethought, or asking others who appear “godlier” in their Christian walk to carry our prayer burdens, Jesus modeled the way for us to open ourselves to a regular and intentional personal time with God. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking others to petition the Lord for us or for us to pray for others, but in order for us to grow and deepen our own connection with God, we need intimate, intentional, consistent, solitary moments to share undisturbed and undistracted time with Christ alone. Obviously, the easiest way to create this time is to simply begin with the determination to persist until regular time is established. Genuine and connected relationship is the goal, not a fancy, complicated system. Meeting with God can be as simple as getting up early or staying up late or carving out time through the day. If a special area needs to be designed in order to move ahead, a spare room, or an area in an existing space, such as a favorite desk or chair, or a piece of floor in the closet may also work. It is also important to analyze why we want to pray. Do we view the time as a way to mark a box off of our spiritual checklist? Or do we crave a personal relationship with Christ that deepens daily? Knowing and understanding why we want to pray will enable us to reach our goal. Personal needs, needs of loved ones, friend requests, requests from church members, world issues, prayer for leaders and pastors, family needs, and prayers to draw nearer to God are probably the most common requests we lift to God. As we continue to develop our relationship and live with a deeper eternal perspective, we recognize many more topics to carry to God in our quiet time. We need Him so much in every way as we journey through this life and prepare for the next. Jesus taught us that we should examine our relationship with our Heavenly Father, the reasons we pray, and the way we pray. What are the most effective methods to pray? 1. Prayer does not have to be fancy. Be faithful, be authentic; speak from your heart. Be focused on our Heavenly Father, not wondering how much longer you should pray, whether the kids are going to come busting through the door, or whether it’s time to eat yet. 1 Kings 8:28 says, “Yet regard the prayer of Your servant and his supplication, O Lord my God, and listen to the cry and the prayer which Your servant is praying before You today.” 2. Pray with confidence formed through a secure and growing relationship with Jesus. Psalm 55:1-2a says, “Give ear to my prayer, O God, and do not hide Yourself from my supplication. Attend to me, and hear me.” His word promises His love for us. We can approach His throne with assurance that He hears and sees us. 3. Always pray in alignment with scripture and the character of God. Psalm 139:23 says, “Examine me, O God, and know my mind; test me, and discover my thoughts.” A deep prayer relationship with the Lord will align our heart and desires to His, not require God to fulfill our wishes and motives. 4. Trust that prayer works. When you don’t know what to pray, the Holy Spirit will intercede. Romans 8:26 says, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.” When we are followers of Jesus, we are guaranteed that the Holy Spirit is alive and active within us. During the times we carry intense pressure, heavy concerns, or are in deep emotional, mental, physical, financial, or spiritual pain, the Holy Spirit Himself does not need us to verbalize our emotions or desires. The Spirit intercedes because He searches our hearts, knows the mind of our Father, and makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God (Romans 8:27). 5. Rest in knowing that God hears and is at work. Psalm 102:17 says, “He shall regard the prayer of the destitute, and shall not despise their prayer.” Psalm 55:16-17 promise, “As for me, I will call upon God, and the Lord shall save me. Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, and He shall hear my voice.” 6. Remain in prayerful attitude, even when not physically praying. Release your cares and prayers and believe what you cannot see. Mark 9:29 says, “So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting.” Determine in your heart and through meditation with the Lord whether you need to fast. Fasting is something God would direct us to do or is a sacrifice we willingly and privately make for Him. It is not only abstaining from food, but may be anything that pulls us from Him. Something that your heart desires more than God such as television, shopping, video games, phones, social media, etc. can be lifted in sacrifice to God for a season or permanently. Many years ago God clearly requested that I fast from reading mainstream fiction. After I did so, He made it clear that He had a new direction for my life and also called me to stop writing fiction. A little backstory is important to insert here. During most of my life at that point, I had carried a deep desire to be a published author. I had written several mainstream novels that I intended to polish and present to agents and editors for publication. Although it was painful to let the dream go, I recognized that writing was like breathing air for me, but I needed my relationship with God to be my source of oxygen. After stepping away from writing, I stopped reading small passages of my Bible and began reading it in entirety several times. My walk with God deepened and our relationship blossomed in ways it never could have if I had continued living the way I had been. A few years later God took my husband and I on an adoption journey that He had laid the foundation for during that time of deep yearning and reconstruction of my faith. I had never prayed about whether God wanted me to be a mainstream writer. I had only prayed that He would help me become an author. He clearly had other desires for my life. I only found true joy and peace when I submitted to, prayed for His desires, and followed what He created me to do. 7. Live with gratitude, whether or not your prayer is answered the way you want God to answer, and even when His timing is not want we desire. Our attitude easily dictates the future of our faith journey. 2 Corinthians 4:15 says, “All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.” I waited approximately 43 years for God to answer my prayer that my dad stop drinking. The answer was not in the way I hoped for or expected, but God’s answer was an intimate method that was personal between my father and myself. 8. Listen and evaluate what you believe God reveals to you through prayer. Make sure it is from Him. Does it align with His nature and word? Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” 9. Lift God’s word to Him in prayer. There is absolute power behind the word of God. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.” Using prayer in praise and petition is mighty. A beautiful way to begin prayer time is to pray scripture that praises God and Who He is. Praying scripture also connects our heart to God and prepares us to worship and petition more as He would desire. God’s holy word is highly effective and absolutely never returns void. 10. Model prayer life after Jesus. Growing and sustaining a prosperous walk with God was a top priority for Jesus. He knew His reason for living and was devoted to knowing, trusting, and making God known. Various scriptures attest to the life Jesus led through prayer. Proverbs 15:8 says, “The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked, but the prayer of the upright pleases Him.” Jesus was very deliberate about the way He approached His Heavenly Father and the way He prayed. As we review sections of scripture, we recognize distinct approaches Jesus used to pray because of His reverence and love for God. Matthew 6:5-15 and Luke 11:1-4 are both nearly the same, but the verses from Matthew indicate that the prayer was shared during the Sermon on the Mount while those from Luke illustrate instructions Jesus gave to His disciples regarding prayer. How I would have loved to stand with Jesus and have Him personally teach me how to pray! Thankfully, we have instructions through His word and the Holy Spirit inside us to advise, train, and discipline us. I will read both passages of scripture and highlight points of each that enrich our prayer life and journey with God. Let’s start with Luke 11:1-4. “And it came to pass, that, as He was praying in a certain place, when He ceased, one of His disciples said unto Him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples. And He said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.” If we reflect on these words of Jesus as He instructed His disciples on the heart of prayer, we are able to clearly see 7 important points He mentored for us to follow. The prayer, known as The Lord’s Prayer is not meant to be mindlessly repeated verbatim, but as an outline to encourage us to focus on certain qualities and aspects of God as we come before our Lord in prayer instead of focusing on ourselves or whatever whim we may desire to approach Him for. 1. Approach God as our Father - because He is. He may not be flesh and blood standing next to us where we can see Him, but He is beside, within, and before us. 2. Adore Him. He is our Creator, our Provider, our Comforter, and our Healer. He is holy. He is worthy to be praised! Hallowed be His name. 3. Allow His authority and His will to reign in our hearts, minds, and attitudes. 4. Accept God’s ability to provide. Believe that He will. 5. Admit that He is sovereign, and we are sinners. 6. Abundant strength against temptation will protect us if we become and remain grounded in and reliant on Him. God is sufficient for our every need. 7. Armor is His specialty. God is our Shield, our Protector. Now let’s review Matthew 6:5-15. Jesus says, “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” “This, then, is how you should pray: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” 1. When the Pharisees prayed, it was at arranged times and in front of public places so that they could be recognized and praised for their so-called devotion to God. Jesus is not criticizing public prayer, rather, He is exposing and denouncing false and self-absorbed prayer. The core of prayer is personal. While we may pray for others, our purpose and desires through prayer are between us and our Father. Even when we pray aloud in a public setting, our heart and mind should be focused on, meditating on, and speaking to Him. 2. The Lord’s Prayer is a beautiful example of the qualities Jesus desires us to possess as we pray. However, while it is acceptable to pray as written in the Bible, we must not allow routine or memorized prayers to flow mindlessly from our heart and lips. The Lord desires and deserves our mind and heart to be alive and active when we humbly bow before Him. This prayer template modeled by Jesus sets the tone and instructs us how to pray the priorities of our Father. 3. As we pray to our Father in Heaven as Jesus designed, we acknowledge God’s deep and profoundly intimate love for us, His children and recognize His promise that we are heirs in His family. 4. The beautiful words, “Your kingdom come” reveal both God’s spiritual reign and His approaching sovereignty over all of creation. When believers become Christians, we receive the Spirit of God within us, but will also experience the fulfillment of God’s kingdom when Jesus returns in His full eminence and institutes His glorious new world order. 5. As we pray for our “daily bread,” we submissively recognize and accept our dependence on God to supply our every need. He does not always grant us exactly what we desire, but it is always greater than we could anticipate and exactly meets our needs. 6. As Jesus extended forgiveness to us, we must also forgive others. Often, when we are wounded, the only way we can forgive is through the mighty, supernatural power of the Lord. In order to do this, our relationship with God must be a priority. Believers must also regularly confess our sins to the Lord and seek to live in the ways we know He desires and are acceptable when exposed by His light. Otherwise, our relationship will weaken and can become strained or closed off. Although God has promised that we can never be plucked from His hand, when we are not living as we should, we do easily drift away from Him. 7. When we live in the power and light of God, and are striving to be pleasing to Him, our prayers are heard and answered as we pray in the ways that are desirable and acceptable to Him. When we pray for protection from temptation and the evil one, God will hear and provide. Jesus was not hesitant to be alone. He craved and created quiet time with His Father. Another way Jesus modeled a perfect prayer life was in the way He often sought and found ways to be alone with His Heavenly Father. Luke 5:16 says, “So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed.” How do we expect to hear God speaking to and guiding us when we are always distracted and preoccupied? Jesus knew the importance of solitude and respected and honored His Father enough to ensure that He made the time. Here are three other examples of Jesus seeking the Father in private. Matthew 14:23 says, “After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone.” Luke 6:12 says, “One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God.” Mark 1:35 says, “Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed.” God gave us His Holy word, so full of wisdom and instruction, as well as the perfect living example of truth and light - Jesus, God in flesh, who walked among us, the template, the way to serve, love, and honor Him. What ultimate gifts we have received. I’d like to share one more passage of scripture that is so beautifully written and models devotion for our Father, sacrificial love for the disciples and all who would believe in Him. These verses are full of discipleship, obedience, and fulfillment that could probably be another podcast on their own. I believe they are beautiful words to end this episode because they expose the pure heart of our Savior and instruct His followers on the way to mold our heart to follow God’s. John 17:1-26 says, “After Jesus said this, he looked toward heaven and prayed: “Father, the hour has come. Glorify your Son, that your Son may glorify You. For you granted Him authority over all people that He might give eternal life to all those You have given Him. Now this is eternal life: that they know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent. I have brought You glory on earth by finishing the work You gave Me to do. And now, Father, glorify Me in Your presence with the glory I had with You before the world began. “I have revealed You to those whom You gave Me out of the world. They were Yours; You gave them to Me, and they have obeyed Your word. Now they know that everything You have given Me comes from You. For I gave them the words You gave Me, and they accepted them. They knew with certainty that I came from You, and they believed that You sent me. I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those You have given me, for they are Yours. All I have is Yours, and all You have is Mine. And glory has come to Me through them. I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father protect them by the power of Your name, the name You gave me, so that they may be one as We are One. While I was with them, I protected them and kept them safe by that name You gave me. None has been lost except the one doomed to destruction so that Scripture would be fulfilled. “I am coming to You now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them. I have given them Your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that You take them out of the world but that You protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth. As you sent Me into the world, I have sent them into the world. For them I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified. “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in Me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as You are in Me and I am in You. May they also be in Us so that the world may believe that You have sent Me. I have given them the glory that You gave Me, that they may be one as We are one—I in them and You in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that You sent Me and have loved them even as You have loved Me. “Father, I want those You have given Me to be with Me where I am, and to see My glory, the glory You have given Me because You loved Me before the creation of the world. “Righteous Father, though the world does not know You, I know You, and they know that You have sent Me. I have made You known to them, and will continue to make You known in order that the love You have for Me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.” Prayer brings us closer to God through continuous communication, recognition, and admittance that God is the provider of our needs, acknowledgement that He is enough, and that we trust Him to care for us. We come to understand God through prayerful reliance on Him, compelling us to depend on the Holy Spirit within us. Prayer forces us to wait on the Lord and listen for His response or direction. Our patience and faith mature as we submit to our Father. My heart yearns for each of us to experience a prayer life like Jesus. May your heart be touched by the humble example of a living God who came to live for a time on earth, but still reigns in Heaven and within the hearts of each of us who follow Him. What a miracle and gift that He desires deep communication with us through the act of prayer. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. 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Sharing about my family and the faith God has crafted in us through the years is such a joy for me. Recognizing methods that He uses to stretch and challenge me daily feels like a gift extended in lessons for me to grasp and share. As I have matured, both in age, and in wisdom, I have recognized the simple truth that prayer is not an option. It is a dire necessity for any soul desiring to be filled with the fruits of the spirit and to live a life pleasing to God, expectant of the rich blessing of intimate and personal fellowship with our Creator. In order to cultivate the qualities that Jesus carried, we must cling to Him through a relationship that craves and adores Him and desires to live in ways that are productive for Him. Without faith, I would not be the person I am or have a peaceful, calm nature that carries me through situations with a positive and hopeful temperament. Prayer is a crucial element for growing my faith in, and dependence on, the Lord. Prayer has grown to be such an automatic response within my brain and body that like breathing, I often do not even realize I am speaking to God. When disaster strikes or emergencies arise, my first response is to fall in humble position before my Father and ask Him to carry the load. Even when the situation is too critical for prayer because time is urgent, my mind and mouth utter the sweet words that bring me comfort and peace each time I say His name aloud. Jesus. Just like every aspect of our faith life, prayer must be something we desire. Once we have acknowledged the fact that we require this lifeline and discipline in our walk with the Lord, we will establish methods to ensure that we connect through this worship and petition that is so much more than we often suspect when we begin our faith journey with God. Prayer exposes our core belief system. Kneeling before our Lord in supplication, whether literally or through our heart and mindset, is a natural extension of our personal relationship with and belief in Him. Our reliance on God through the act of prayer exhibits our dependence on our Heavenly Father, humbling our position with Him, and proving the level of our reliance on Him. How do we establish a lifestyle of prayer? The important word to ponder shouldn’t be how, but rather, Who. Jesus is our life and prayer model. When God sent His son to earth, it wasn’t only to offer His life as a sacrifice for our sins. God stepped into this world to exist and walk among us. He came to show us exactly how to live and how to pray. I think the time period Jesus lived in was significant, as well. Obviously, the particular time frame was crucial in order for events to occur as God ordained, but beyond that, if we examine the way of life during that period compared to our current lifestyle, we admit that we have a comparative life of ease and comfort. Yet, despite daily requirements for survival, chores, and occupation, then later the pressures and demands of His ministry, Jesus consistently made sure He spent time with His Heavenly Father. Our affluent lifestyles have occupied every second of our day and keep us permanently distracted with work, activities, and electronics. No matter the purpose for our commitment to a particular task, our souls were created with a deep need to be nurtured and refreshed by God and our minds need the interaction, guidance, and wisdom that only He can supply. We were not created for constant preoccupation with earthly diversions. Colossians 4:2 says, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” Jesus, through His perfect example of Son seeking Father, committed to sacrificing for God. He willingly planned and enjoyed spending time with His Father. To stand in the presence of God was His desire, His lifeline. 1. Jesus prayed without ceasing. His breath and thoughts coexisted in behavior and habits of praise developed through reliance on and relationship with God through prayer. He existed in a constant state of heart and prayer connection. 2. Jesus prepared for prayer. His mind and attitude were qualified to hear God. His heart was primed. As we bow before God with petition, our personal sins must be released. We should seek repentance and restoration with our Heavenly Father before imploring Him with requests. In other words, our communication should consistently be prioritized, and our walk refreshed moment by moment. Relationship with God is a mutual and emotional connection requiring our commitment and diligence in order for it to flourish. James 5:16 reminds us, “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” Instead of bowing before our Lord without much forethought, or asking others who appear “godlier” in their Christian walk to carry our prayer burdens, Jesus modeled the way for us to open ourselves to a regular and intentional personal time with God. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking others to petition the Lord for us or for us to pray for others, but in order for us to grow and deepen our own connection with God, we need intimate, intentional, consistent, solitary moments to share undisturbed and undistracted time with Christ alone. Obviously, the easiest way to create this time is to simply begin with the determination to persist until regular time is established. Genuine and connected relationship is the goal, not a fancy, complicated system. Meeting with God can be as simple as getting up early or staying up late or carving out time through the day. If a special area needs to be designed in order to move ahead, a spare room, or an area in an existing space, such as a favorite desk or chair, or a piece of floor in the closet may also work. It is also important to analyze why we want to pray. Do we view the time as a way to mark a box off of our spiritual checklist? Or do we crave a personal relationship with Christ that deepens daily? Knowing and understanding why we want to pray will enable us to reach our goal. Personal needs, needs of loved ones, friend requests, requests from church members, world issues, prayer for leaders and pastors, family needs, and prayers to draw nearer to God are probably the most common requests we lift to God. As we continue to develop our relationship and live with a deeper eternal perspective, we recognize many more topics to carry to God in our quiet time. We need Him so much in every way as we journey through this life and prepare for the next. Jesus taught us that we should examine our relationship with our Heavenly Father, the reasons we pray, and the way we pray. What are the most effective methods to pray? 1. Prayer does not have to be fancy. Be faithful, be authentic; speak from your heart. Be focused on our Heavenly Father, not wondering how much longer you should pray, whether the kids are going to come busting through the door, or whether it’s time to eat yet. 1 Kings 8:28 says, “Yet regard the prayer of Your servant and his supplication, O Lord my God, and listen to the cry and the prayer which Your servant is praying before You today.” 2. Pray with confidence formed through a secure and growing relationship with Jesus. Psalm 55:1-2a says, “Give ear to my prayer, O God, and do not hide Yourself from my supplication. Attend to me, and hear me.” His word promises His love for us. We can approach His throne with assurance that He hears and sees us. 3. Always pray in alignment with scripture and the character of God. Psalm 139:23 says, “Examine me, O God, and know my mind; test me, and discover my thoughts.” A deep prayer relationship with the Lord will align our heart and desires to His, not require God to fulfill our wishes and motives. 4. Trust that prayer works. When you don’t know what to pray, the Holy Spirit will intercede. Romans 8:26 says, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.” When we are followers of Jesus, we are guaranteed that the Holy Spirit is alive and active within us. During the times we carry intense pressure, heavy concerns, or are in deep emotional, mental, physical, financial, or spiritual pain, the Holy Spirit Himself does not need us to verbalize our emotions or desires. The Spirit intercedes because He searches our hearts, knows the mind of our Father, and makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God (Romans 8:27). 5. Rest in knowing that God hears and is at work. Psalm 102:17 says, “He shall regard the prayer of the destitute, and shall not despise their prayer.” Psalm 55:16-17 promise, “As for me, I will call upon God, and the Lord shall save me. Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, and He shall hear my voice.” 6. Remain in prayerful attitude, even when not physically praying. Release your cares and prayers and believe what you cannot see. Mark 9:29 says, “So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting.” Determine in your heart and through meditation with the Lord whether you need to fast. Fasting is something God would direct us to do or is a sacrifice we willingly and privately make for Him. It is not only abstaining from food, but may be anything that pulls us from Him. Something that your heart desires more than God such as television, shopping, video games, phones, social media, etc. can be lifted in sacrifice to God for a season or permanently. Many years ago God clearly requested that I fast from reading mainstream fiction. After I did so, He made it clear that He had a new direction for my life and also called me to stop writing fiction. A little backstory is important to insert here. During most of my life at that point, I had carried a deep desire to be a published author. I had written several mainstream novels that I intended to polish and present to agents and editors for publication. Although it was painful to let the dream go, I recognized that writing was like breathing air for me, but I needed my relationship with God to be my source of oxygen. After stepping away from writing, I stopped reading small passages of my Bible and began reading it in entirety several times. My walk with God deepened and our relationship blossomed in ways it never could have if I had continued living the way I had been. A few years later God took my husband and I on an adoption journey that He had laid the foundation for during that time of deep yearning and reconstruction of my faith. I had never prayed about whether God wanted me to be a mainstream writer. I had only prayed that He would help me become an author. He clearly had other desires for my life. I only found true joy and peace when I submitted to, prayed for His desires, and followed what He created me to do. 7. Live with gratitude, whether or not your prayer is answered the way you want God to answer, and even when His timing is not want we desire. Our attitude easily dictates the future of our faith journey. 2 Corinthians 4:15 says, “All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.” I waited approximately 43 years for God to answer my prayer that my dad stop drinking. The answer was not in the way I hoped for or expected, but God’s answer was an intimate method that was personal between my father and myself. 8. Listen and evaluate what you believe God reveals to you through prayer. Make sure it is from Him. Does it align with His nature and word? Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” 9. Lift God’s word to Him in prayer. There is absolute power behind the word of God. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.” Using prayer in praise and petition is mighty. A beautiful way to begin prayer time is to pray scripture that praises God and Who He is. Praying scripture also connects our heart to God and prepares us to worship and petition more as He would desire. God’s holy word is highly effective and absolutely never returns void. 10. Model prayer life after Jesus. Growing and sustaining a prosperous walk with God was a top priority for Jesus. He knew His reason for living and was devoted to knowing, trusting, and making God known. Various scriptures attest to the life Jesus led through prayer. Proverbs 15:8 says, “The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked, but the prayer of the upright pleases Him.” Jesus was very deliberate about the way He approached His Heavenly Father and the way He prayed. As we review sections of scripture, we recognize distinct approaches Jesus used to pray because of His reverence and love for God. Matthew 6:5-15 and Luke 11:1-4 are both nearly the same, but the verses from Matthew indicate that the prayer was shared during the Sermon on the Mount while those from Luke illustrate instructions Jesus gave to His disciples regarding prayer. How I would have loved to stand with Jesus and have Him personally teach me how to pray! Thankfully, we have instructions through His word and the Holy Spirit inside us to advise, train, and discipline us. I will read both passages of scripture and highlight points of each that enrich our prayer life and journey with God. Let’s start with Luke 11:1-4. “And it came to pass, that, as He was praying in a certain place, when He ceased, one of His disciples said unto Him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples. And He said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.” If we reflect on these words of Jesus as He instructed His disciples on the heart of prayer, we are able to clearly see 7 important points He mentored for us to follow. The prayer, known as The Lord’s Prayer is not meant to be mindlessly repeated verbatim, but as an outline to encourage us to focus on certain qualities and aspects of God as we come before our Lord in prayer instead of focusing on ourselves or whatever whim we may desire to approach Him for. 1. Approach God as our Father - because He is. He may not be flesh and blood standing next to us where we can see Him, but He is beside, within, and before us. 2. Adore Him. He is our Creator, our Provider, our Comforter, and our Healer. He is holy. He is worthy to be praised! Hallowed be His name. 3. Allow His authority and His will to reign in our hearts, minds, and attitudes. 4. Accept God’s ability to provide. Believe that He will. 5. Admit that He is sovereign, and we are sinners. 6. Abundant strength against temptation will protect us if we become and remain grounded in and reliant on Him. God is sufficient for our every need. 7. Armor is His specialty. God is our Shield, our Protector. Now let’s review Matthew 6:5-15. Jesus says, “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” “This, then, is how you should pray: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” 1. When the Pharisees prayed, it was at arranged times and in front of public places so that they could be recognized and praised for their so-called devotion to God. Jesus is not criticizing public prayer, rather, He is exposing and denouncing false and self-absorbed prayer. The core of prayer is personal. While we may pray for others, our purpose and desires through prayer are between us and our Father. Even when we pray aloud in a public setting, our heart and mind should be focused on, meditating on, and speaking to Him. 2. The Lord’s Prayer is a beautiful example of the qualities Jesus desires us to possess as we pray. However, while it is acceptable to pray as written in the Bible, we must not allow routine or memorized prayers to flow mindlessly from our heart and lips. The Lord desires and deserves our mind and heart to be alive and active when we humbly bow before Him. This prayer template modeled by Jesus sets the tone and instructs us how to pray the priorities of our Father. 3. As we pray to our Father in Heaven as Jesus designed, we acknowledge God’s deep and profoundly intimate love for us, His children and recognize His promise that we are heirs in His family. 4. The beautiful words, “Your kingdom come” reveal both God’s spiritual reign and His approaching sovereignty over all of creation. When believers become Christians, we receive the Spirit of God within us, but will also experience the fulfillment of God’s kingdom when Jesus returns in His full eminence and institutes His glorious new world order. 5. As we pray for our “daily bread,” we submissively recognize and accept our dependence on God to supply our every need. He does not always grant us exactly what we desire, but it is always greater than we could anticipate and exactly meets our needs. 6. As Jesus extended forgiveness to us, we must also forgive others. Often, when we are wounded, the only way we can forgive is through the mighty, supernatural power of the Lord. In order to do this, our relationship with God must be a priority. Believers must also regularly confess our sins to the Lord and seek to live in the ways we know He desires and are acceptable when exposed by His light. Otherwise, our relationship will weaken and can become strained or closed off. Although God has promised that we can never be plucked from His hand, when we are not living as we should, we do easily drift away from Him. 7. When we live in the power and light of God, and are striving to be pleasing to Him, our prayers are heard and answered as we pray in the ways that are desirable and acceptable to Him. When we pray for protection from temptation and the evil one, God will hear and provide. Jesus was not hesitant to be alone. He craved and created quiet time with His Father. Another way Jesus modeled a perfect prayer life was in the way He often sought and found ways to be alone with His Heavenly Father. Luke 5:16 says, “So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed.” How do we expect to hear God speaking to and guiding us when we are always distracted and preoccupied? Jesus knew the importance of solitude and respected and honored His Father enough to ensure that He made the time. Here are three other examples of Jesus seeking the Father in private. Matthew 14:23 says, “After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone.” Luke 6:12 says, “One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God.” Mark 1:35 says, “Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed.” God gave us His Holy word, so full of wisdom and instruction, as well as the perfect living example of truth and light - Jesus, God in flesh, who walked among us, the template, the way to serve, love, and honor Him. What ultimate gifts we have received. I’d like to share one more passage of scripture that is so beautifully written and models devotion for our Father, sacrificial love for the disciples and all who would believe in Him. These verses are full of discipleship, obedience, and fulfillment that could probably be another podcast on their own. I believe they are beautiful words to end this episode because they expose the pure heart of our Savior and instruct His followers on the way to mold our heart to follow God’s. John 17:1-26 says, “After Jesus said this, he looked toward heaven and prayed: “Father, the hour has come. Glorify your Son, that your Son may glorify You. For you granted Him authority over all people that He might give eternal life to all those You have given Him. Now this is eternal life: that they know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent. I have brought You glory on earth by finishing the work You gave Me to do. And now, Father, glorify Me in Your presence with the glory I had with You before the world began. “I have revealed You to those whom You gave Me out of the world. They were Yours; You gave them to Me, and they have obeyed Your word. Now they know that everything You have given Me comes from You. For I gave them the words You gave Me, and they accepted them. They knew with certainty that I came from You, and they believed that You sent me. I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those You have given me, for they are Yours. All I have is Yours, and all You have is Mine. And glory has come to Me through them. I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father protect them by the power of Your name, the name You gave me, so that they may be one as We are One. While I was with them, I protected them and kept them safe by that name You gave me. None has been lost except the one doomed to destruction so that Scripture would be fulfilled. “I am coming to You now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them. I have given them Your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that You take them out of the world but that You protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth. As you sent Me into the world, I have sent them into the world. For them I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified. “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in Me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as You are in Me and I am in You. May they also be in Us so that the world may believe that You have sent Me. I have given them the glory that You gave Me, that they may be one as We are one—I in them and You in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that You sent Me and have loved them even as You have loved Me. “Father, I want those You have given Me to be with Me where I am, and to see My glory, the glory You have given Me because You loved Me before the creation of the world. “Righteous Father, though the world does not know You, I know You, and they know that You have sent Me. I have made You known to them, and will continue to make You known in order that the love You have for Me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.” Prayer brings us closer to God through continuous communication, recognition, and admittance that God is the provider of our needs, acknowledgement that He is enough, and that we trust Him to care for us. We come to understand God through prayerful reliance on Him, compelling us to depend on the Holy Spirit within us. Prayer forces us to wait on the Lord and listen for His response or direction. Our patience and faith mature as we submit to our Father. My heart yearns for each of us to experience a prayer life like Jesus. May your heart be touched by the humble example of a living God who came to live for a time on earth, but still reigns in Heaven and within the hearts of each of us who follow Him. What a miracle and gift that He desires deep communication with us through the act of prayer. Did you enjoy this episode? If so, would you please make time to leave a review and rating for the show? Send me an email at thedoovermom@gmail.com if you don’t know how and I will walk you through step-by-step. I pray you find value in our weekly topics. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #047 – Preparing for Christ – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Can you believe it is almost the end of 2020? No matter what your thoughts are about this year, and you may have many, God has been in control. He was, is, and will remain in control. Nothing has touched us as individuals, as a nation, or in this world that was not already sifted through His capable and trustworthy hands. His eye is on the sparrow. We know He watches over us. As it is the end of the year, many worthy organizations are looking for end of year support, and I want to take a moment today to mention one of my favorite local charities in Kansas City, the “Who Is Carter Foundation.” They have established a worldwide project to provide support, treatment options, and resources to those supporting exceptional children with neurological conditions. That project can be found at thebrainpossible.com, and you can learn more about the foundation at whoiscarter.org. We have personally worked with this organization and truly appreciate their mission and the support they offer. I encourage you to visit their websites and learn more and pass the info on to a friend or family member who might benefit from their various services. Talking about the end of 2020 reminds me that the holiday season is already here! Each year, it seems that Christmas has a way of sneaking up on me. Is it like that for you, too? Life moves so quickly. One moment it’s summer and I’m savoring the heat most other people despise. Suddenly, I’m thrust into leaves falling and winds blowing, bringing cold weather that chills me before temperatures even drop below 50 degrees. I never feel fully ready to jump into the rush of a holiday season because it seems so sneaky. Yet, as I consistently and intentionally purpose to live with my heart and mind focused on Jesus daily through an eternal lens, it enables my preparations for Christmas to be more authentic, although not in the way the world teaches. My attitude and desires are gratefully aware of His presence in my life. To have the honor of creating additional praise in our routine becomes a pleasure, not a chore. Once I release timetables and what our culture pushes on me faster and sooner each calendar turn, I believe I am better equipped to transition into seasons such as Christmas with a full heart and ready spirit. I’ve learned that if my heart is already practicing worship and praise for Jesus through a daily personal and deepening relationship, I won’t feel the stress or pressure to complete preparations by a certain time or rise to expectations I don’t want placed on myself. This is where I want to abide. Social media has shown me photos of the beautiful homes of friends and acquaintances as they prepare for the season, many earlier than usual this year. I love seeing what they do and feel joyous that they are decorating and celebrating in ways that give them pleasure. Yet, it is not for me. There was a time when my middle daughter was younger that we regularly set up five trees in the house, wrapped the stairway railing in holly and bows, placed several nativity scenes in the house, decorated fireplace mantles, and baked many Christmas goodies. In love with the lights and excitement of the holiday season, my daughter excitedly anticipated the preparations and decorating process. I remember when she was a toddler, one of her favorite activities was riding in the cart at Target and Wal-Mart, spending a great amount of time visiting the holiday décor section and exclaiming over the brightly lit trees and blow-ups lawn décor. Nowadays, we are so busy that the thought of decking the house out like that exhausts me and the rest of the family. We still hold tightly, however, to traditions we enjoy and that have become staples in our family, but we strive to keep the meaning of the celebrations high and clear and the emphasis on gifting low. Continually resting in Jesus is the only way to receive the peace and joy we desire. The spirit of Christmas is more than trees, ornaments, holiday baking, and gathering with family to exchange and open gifts. Not that any of those are bad, but remembering and cherishing, celebrating Christ coming to us in human form is meant to linger in our spirit throughout the year. Why does society divide the time? Because Christmas has become so commercial and many are lost, without knowing Christ or celebrating the true purpose. As followers of Christ, we can keep the true spirit of Christmas within our heart and mind if we focus on becoming more like Him daily. The older I get, the less excited I get about the commercialism surrounding such a sacred holiday. Of course, I love to give and receive gifts. Especially when the perfect one is found and I get to experience the delight of giving something personal and special to someone I love dearly. Yet, the assignment of shopping just because it is a certain time of year is a chore I don’t enjoy. I want to sit quietly with Jesus, reflecting on Who He is and wants He is calling me to do for Him. Quiet time with the Lord, in His word, with no sounds or schedule. Just the two of us together as I focus on what He has done and is doing within me. Although I attempt to speak to and listen for Him daily, I know there is nothing as sacred as true, undivided time with nothing to do but hear from Him. No prayers that unintentionally get interrupted with children or spouse calling. No distracted thoughts flitting through my mind as I am speaking my heart. What if Christmas was just each one of us seeking Him with whole hearts? No presents except the ones we offer Him in return? What if we sat in solitude, allowing Jesus to probe our spirit and reveal new mysteries to each of us? What would He say that we are not hearing now? I urge each one of us to carve special time, whether long or short, to rest in the Lord in this time before Christmas arrives, simply and intentionally preparing our hearts for Him. The podcast this week is not in my normal format. I’ve purposely selected several verses to read that are not typically used at Christmas, to slow us down and prepare us to remember the mercy of the Lord, and to seek and be grateful for His good and perfect will for us, to remember Who He is and the enormous gift we have in Jesus. The podcast will be divided into two parts to help us prepare for the arrival of Noel, where we more clearly remember Immanuel. Christ with us. I hope you will rest with me in the beauty and promise of these simple, yet sovereign words as I read verses and speak on each one. I hope it helps you to carve out special time to listen to His words, ponder your relationship, and reflect on Jesus and His immense love for you. For each of us. For God so loved the world! There is absolutely nothing more powerful than words, promises, and wisdom from God found in the Bible and the gift of eternal life we receive through Jesus. Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” God reveals himself to us through creation. Psalm 19:1 declares, “The heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament shows His handiwork.” No one should be able to miss the clear evidence from God of His majesty and sovereignty. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” How blessed we are to receive these words, and from Jesus Himself! This verse carries some of the most basic and forthright words in the Bible. They are also the most important. Jesus clearly tells us that He is the way to God. Christians do not have to argue with unbelievers or question our relationship through Jesus. For those who believe the way to God is too narrow, in reality, it is the opposite. Jesus came for everyone and clearly states the way with His words. Instead of thinking it is “limited” to say there is only one way, we can be thankful that God makes it very clear. Jesus assures us that He is the way and that no one will come to God, except through Him. Christ is our way to God, and He is also the living reality of each of God’s predictions and promises. Through the Holy Spirit within us, Jesus links Himself to us in this life, and for eternity. Philippians 1:11 says, “May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.” What beautiful and powerful words! They are a promise of all the character traits we will receive when we build a solid and mature personal relationship with God through Jesus. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Through the merciful and unmerited grace of our Heavenly Father, we are created as His masterpiece. It is our honor to serve Him and others with the gifts and interests He individually crafted for each of us. 2 Corinthians 4:10 says, “Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” Another beautiful promise. Suffering never seems like a gift, but through and because of Jesus, we experience the Lord shining through us when we hurt or suffer in any way. When we are broken, and expectantly reliant on Him, He will work within us and shine His glory from us. How this work prepares us and gifts us with an even clearer view of eternity! My greatest hardships have elevated my view of life to see with eternal perspective every moment. 1 John 4:8 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Oh, how God transforms us when we truly follow Him! Even as we are changed moment by moment to resemble Him, our love will never reach the heights of His. Jesus is true love. God is the author of love. He is love. Love is rooted in His nature and character. God exhibited true love through Jesus and required absolutely nothing of us, yet He loves us with an everlasting love beyond our comprehension. This world warps love with our selfish and ungodly desires. How much different we would be if we all chose to follow Him and allow His transforming love to radiate through us. 2 Peter 3:9 says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” Again we see how merciful God is! He patiently waits, while allowing the sin He cannot bear, knowing some will still some to repentance. During this time of grace, those who already know Jesus should use the time we are granted to do His work and make Him known to others. Isaiah 40:28 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.” God understands our every thought and desire. He is ahead of our every need. For those who believe that God no longer cares, we see that He is indeed always with us and never grows tired or weary of caring for us. 1 John 1:5 says, “This is the message we heard from Jesus and now declare to you: God is light, and there is no darkness in him at all.” God is infinitely holy, completely righteous, and pure in absolutely every way. Hallelujah! He is our Father, Provider, and Protector. He is our Guiding Light. We must remain close to Him and allow His light and righteousness to pour into us. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” We are blessed to have as our holy Heavenly Father the very same God who created the heavens and the earth, who aligned the stars and moon, and who lovingly created each of us personally. He intentionally loves and cares for us in ways only He can and He yearns to do it. He is dependable and will not change, shift, or leave us. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord's word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him.” Although those who do not follow the Lord may believe those of us who do are weak, we understand that all of us are weak and we glory in that weakness! Hallelujah! He is strong where I am weak! God is infinitely stronger than any of us and we desire His power to work in and through us. He lovingly cares for us as we rely on Him to protect and save us. God certainly shields us with His word and His mighty, loving power. Make me weak, Lord! Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” The very same character traits found in Jesus are available to us through the Holy Spirit as we mature our walk with Christ. They come as a by-product of following Him and are nothing we can gain by our own works or attempts. As we join our lives to Him, we begin to be transformed into new creations that imitate the glorious qualities He embodies. Since God is the author of the law and He sent the Spirit, both align perfectly with the fruits that we begin to possess and exhibit through Him. Micah 7:18-19 says, “Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.” How God delights in showing us mercy! Our God of love does not hold grudges, is joyful when we repent, and heartily extends forgiveness to us as we return to Him. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” God’s word is living and active, not just a compilation of meaningless words. It is holy, life-affirming, and life-changing. God’s word cuts through to our moral and spiritual core, revealing who we are and exposing our intentions. Accept, believe, and live God’s word so that it will transform and shape your life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.” What we allow access to our mind will determine and shape our present – and our eternity. What we think on forms our attitude, words, and actions. If we have difficulty shaping thoughts that are as God calls: noble, right, pure, lovely, etc., we must assess what we are exposing ourselves to and whether we are in His word to cleanse and support our mind and actions. When we ask God to purify our mind and desires and help us focus on the thoughts He calls us to have, He will enable us to crave and keep wholesome material going in so that holiness will flow out. 1 Peter 1:15 says. “But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy.” Our Heavenly Father is a God of mercy and justice who expects His followers to imitate Him, and desire to be holy, just as He is. Romans 5:1-5 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Once we are reconciled to God through Jesus, there is no sin blocking our relationship with Him. This peace with God is only available because of the price Jesus paid for our sins when He died on the cross. We are now complete with Jesus, yet still growing in and through Him. Because we are human, we still struggle with the temptations and sins this life offers, yet we have the privilege of heeding the Holy Spirit within us and taking our battles to the Lord to fight on our behalf. As we mature through Him, we recognize that with each release we grow more intertwined with God and do not grow discouraged by the weights and pressures of this world. We know every trial will carry us closer to Him and should bring Him glory as He works in and through us. Praise God! We are renewed through Him daily! Rest and abide in God’s holy words of scripture as you prepare your heart to worship Jesus in a deeper way this holiday season. No greater gift is available to us in this life than to accept fellowship with God through the sacrifice of Jesus and live with Him for eternity. Place Him before preparations and shopping, wrapping, and movies. May His word be stored in your mind and reflected on as you shape your life after His. Gracious Heavenly Father, we rejoice in the love You have for us and thank you for the gracious gift of eternal life with You through your Son, Jesus. Calm our spirit, our heart, and mind as we reflect on all You are this Christmas season. Help us to seek You in new ways. Open us to seeing this world with Your eyes and desires. Thank you for Your eternal love for us. Help us to move and respond to this world with eternal perspective that mirrors You. In Your precious name we pray. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. I pray you will be better equipped to live with an eternal perspective and encouraged to influence children for Jesus. Future episodes and resources will be geared toward the important duty we have as parents and grandparents to guide and guard children for Jesus. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. Thank you for listening. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find for new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 047 Preparing for Christ - Part 1 Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #047 – Preparing for Christ – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Can you believe it is almost the end of 2020? No matter what your thoughts are about this year, and you may have many, God has been in control. He was, is, and will remain in control. Nothing has touched us as individuals, as a nation, or in this world that was not already sifted through His capable and trustworthy hands. His eye is on the sparrow. We know He watches over us. As it is the end of the year, many worthy organizations are looking for end of year support, and I want to take a moment today to mention one of my favorite local charities in Kansas City, the “Who Is Carter Foundation.” They have established a worldwide project to provide support, treatment options, and resources to those supporting exceptional children with neurological conditions. That project can be found at thebrainpossible.com, and you can learn more about the foundation at whoiscarter.org. We have personally worked with this organization and truly appreciate their mission and the support they offer. I encourage you to visit their websites and learn more and pass the info on to a friend or family member who might benefit from their various services. Talking about the end of 2020 reminds me that the holiday season is already here! Each year, it seems that Christmas has a way of sneaking up on me. Is it like that for you, too? Life moves so quickly. One moment it’s summer and I’m savoring the heat most other people despise. Suddenly, I’m thrust into leaves falling and winds blowing, bringing cold weather that chills me before temperatures even drop below 50 degrees. I never feel fully ready to jump into the rush of a holiday season because it seems so sneaky. Yet, as I consistently and intentionally purpose to live with my heart and mind focused on Jesus daily through an eternal lens, it enables my preparations for Christmas to be more authentic, although not in the way the world teaches. My attitude and desires are gratefully aware of His presence in my life. To have the honor of creating additional praise in our routine becomes a pleasure, not a chore. Once I release timetables and what our culture pushes on me faster and sooner each calendar turn, I believe I am better equipped to transition into seasons such as Christmas with a full heart and ready spirit. I’ve learned that if my heart is already practicing worship and praise for Jesus through a daily personal and deepening relationship, I won’t feel the stress or pressure to complete preparations by a certain time or rise to expectations I don’t want placed on myself. This is where I want to abide. Social media has shown me photos of the beautiful homes of friends and acquaintances as they prepare for the season, many earlier than usual this year. I love seeing what they do and feel joyous that they are decorating and celebrating in ways that give them pleasure. Yet, it is not for me. There was a time when my middle daughter was younger that we regularly set up five trees in the house, wrapped the stairway railing in holly and bows, placed several nativity scenes in the house, decorated fireplace mantles, and baked many Christmas goodies. In love with the lights and excitement of the holiday season, my daughter excitedly anticipated the preparations and decorating process. I remember when she was a toddler, one of her favorite activities was riding in the cart at Target and Wal-Mart, spending a great amount of time visiting the holiday décor section and exclaiming over the brightly lit trees and blow-ups lawn décor. Nowadays, we are so busy that the thought of decking the house out like that exhausts me and the rest of the family. We still hold tightly, however, to traditions we enjoy and that have become staples in our family, but we strive to keep the meaning of the celebrations high and clear and the emphasis on gifting low. Continually resting in Jesus is the only way to receive the peace and joy we desire. The spirit of Christmas is more than trees, ornaments, holiday baking, and gathering with family to exchange and open gifts. Not that any of those are bad, but remembering and cherishing, celebrating Christ coming to us in human form is meant to linger in our spirit throughout the year. Why does society divide the time? Because Christmas has become so commercial and many are lost, without knowing Christ or celebrating the true purpose. As followers of Christ, we can keep the true spirit of Christmas within our heart and mind if we focus on becoming more like Him daily. The older I get, the less excited I get about the commercialism surrounding such a sacred holiday. Of course, I love to give and receive gifts. Especially when the perfect one is found and I get to experience the delight of giving something personal and special to someone I love dearly. Yet, the assignment of shopping just because it is a certain time of year is a chore I don’t enjoy. I want to sit quietly with Jesus, reflecting on Who He is and wants He is calling me to do for Him. Quiet time with the Lord, in His word, with no sounds or schedule. Just the two of us together as I focus on what He has done and is doing within me. Although I attempt to speak to and listen for Him daily, I know there is nothing as sacred as true, undivided time with nothing to do but hear from Him. No prayers that unintentionally get interrupted with children or spouse calling. No distracted thoughts flitting through my mind as I am speaking my heart. What if Christmas was just each one of us seeking Him with whole hearts? No presents except the ones we offer Him in return? What if we sat in solitude, allowing Jesus to probe our spirit and reveal new mysteries to each of us? What would He say that we are not hearing now? I urge each one of us to carve special time, whether long or short, to rest in the Lord in this time before Christmas arrives, simply and intentionally preparing our hearts for Him. The podcast this week is not in my normal format. I’ve purposely selected several verses to read that are not typically used at Christmas, to slow us down and prepare us to remember the mercy of the Lord, and to seek and be grateful for His good and perfect will for us, to remember Who He is and the enormous gift we have in Jesus. The podcast will be divided into two parts to help us prepare for the arrival of Noel, where we more clearly remember Immanuel. Christ with us. I hope you will rest with me in the beauty and promise of these simple, yet sovereign words as I read verses and speak on each one. I hope it helps you to carve out special time to listen to His words, ponder your relationship, and reflect on Jesus and His immense love for you. For each of us. For God so loved the world! There is absolutely nothing more powerful than words, promises, and wisdom from God found in the Bible and the gift of eternal life we receive through Jesus. Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” God reveals himself to us through creation. Psalm 19:1 declares, “The heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament shows His handiwork.” No one should be able to miss the clear evidence from God of His majesty and sovereignty. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” How blessed we are to receive these words, and from Jesus Himself! This verse carries some of the most basic and forthright words in the Bible. They are also the most important. Jesus clearly tells us that He is the way to God. Christians do not have to argue with unbelievers or question our relationship through Jesus. For those who believe the way to God is too narrow, in reality, it is the opposite. Jesus came for everyone and clearly states the way with His words. Instead of thinking it is “limited” to say there is only one way, we can be thankful that God makes it very clear. Jesus assures us that He is the way and that no one will come to God, except through Him. Christ is our way to God, and He is also the living reality of each of God’s predictions and promises. Through the Holy Spirit within us, Jesus links Himself to us in this life, and for eternity. Philippians 1:11 says, “May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.” What beautiful and powerful words! They are a promise of all the character traits we will receive when we build a solid and mature personal relationship with God through Jesus. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Through the merciful and unmerited grace of our Heavenly Father, we are created as His masterpiece. It is our honor to serve Him and others with the gifts and interests He individually crafted for each of us. 2 Corinthians 4:10 says, “Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” Another beautiful promise. Suffering never seems like a gift, but through and because of Jesus, we experience the Lord shining through us when we hurt or suffer in any way. When we are broken, and expectantly reliant on Him, He will work within us and shine His glory from us. How this work prepares us and gifts us with an even clearer view of eternity! My greatest hardships have elevated my view of life to see with eternal perspective every moment. 1 John 4:8 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Oh, how God transforms us when we truly follow Him! Even as we are changed moment by moment to resemble Him, our love will never reach the heights of His. Jesus is true love. God is the author of love. He is love. Love is rooted in His nature and character. God exhibited true love through Jesus and required absolutely nothing of us, yet He loves us with an everlasting love beyond our comprehension. This world warps love with our selfish and ungodly desires. How much different we would be if we all chose to follow Him and allow His transforming love to radiate through us. 2 Peter 3:9 says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” Again we see how merciful God is! He patiently waits, while allowing the sin He cannot bear, knowing some will still some to repentance. During this time of grace, those who already know Jesus should use the time we are granted to do His work and make Him known to others. Isaiah 40:28 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.” God understands our every thought and desire. He is ahead of our every need. For those who believe that God no longer cares, we see that He is indeed always with us and never grows tired or weary of caring for us. 1 John 1:5 says, “This is the message we heard from Jesus and now declare to you: God is light, and there is no darkness in him at all.” God is infinitely holy, completely righteous, and pure in absolutely every way. Hallelujah! He is our Father, Provider, and Protector. He is our Guiding Light. We must remain close to Him and allow His light and righteousness to pour into us. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” We are blessed to have as our holy Heavenly Father the very same God who created the heavens and the earth, who aligned the stars and moon, and who lovingly created each of us personally. He intentionally loves and cares for us in ways only He can and He yearns to do it. He is dependable and will not change, shift, or leave us. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord's word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him.” Although those who do not follow the Lord may believe those of us who do are weak, we understand that all of us are weak and we glory in that weakness! Hallelujah! He is strong where I am weak! God is infinitely stronger than any of us and we desire His power to work in and through us. He lovingly cares for us as we rely on Him to protect and save us. God certainly shields us with His word and His mighty, loving power. Make me weak, Lord! Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” The very same character traits found in Jesus are available to us through the Holy Spirit as we mature our walk with Christ. They come as a by-product of following Him and are nothing we can gain by our own works or attempts. As we join our lives to Him, we begin to be transformed into new creations that imitate the glorious qualities He embodies. Since God is the author of the law and He sent the Spirit, both align perfectly with the fruits that we begin to possess and exhibit through Him. Micah 7:18-19 says, “Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.” How God delights in showing us mercy! Our God of love does not hold grudges, is joyful when we repent, and heartily extends forgiveness to us as we return to Him. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” God’s word is living and active, not just a compilation of meaningless words. It is holy, life-affirming, and life-changing. God’s word cuts through to our moral and spiritual core, revealing who we are and exposing our intentions. Accept, believe, and live God’s word so that it will transform and shape your life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.” What we allow access to our mind will determine and shape our present – and our eternity. What we think on forms our attitude, words, and actions. If we have difficulty shaping thoughts that are as God calls: noble, right, pure, lovely, etc., we must assess what we are exposing ourselves to and whether we are in His word to cleanse and support our mind and actions. When we ask God to purify our mind and desires and help us focus on the thoughts He calls us to have, He will enable us to crave and keep wholesome material going in so that holiness will flow out. 1 Peter 1:15 says. “But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy.” Our Heavenly Father is a God of mercy and justice who expects His followers to imitate Him, and desire to be holy, just as He is. Romans 5:1-5 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Once we are reconciled to God through Jesus, there is no sin blocking our relationship with Him. This peace with God is only available because of the price Jesus paid for our sins when He died on the cross. We are now complete with Jesus, yet still growing in and through Him. Because we are human, we still struggle with the temptations and sins this life offers, yet we have the privilege of heeding the Holy Spirit within us and taking our battles to the Lord to fight on our behalf. As we mature through Him, we recognize that with each release we grow more intertwined with God and do not grow discouraged by the weights and pressures of this world. We know every trial will carry us closer to Him and should bring Him glory as He works in and through us. Praise God! We are renewed through Him daily! Rest and abide in God’s holy words of scripture as you prepare your heart to worship Jesus in a deeper way this holiday season. No greater gift is available to us in this life than to accept fellowship with God through the sacrifice of Jesus and live with Him for eternity. Place Him before preparations and shopping, wrapping, and movies. May His word be stored in your mind and reflected on as you shape your life after His. Gracious Heavenly Father, we rejoice in the love You have for us and thank you for the gracious gift of eternal life with You through your Son, Jesus. Calm our spirit, our heart, and mind as we reflect on all You are this Christmas season. Help us to seek You in new ways. Open us to seeing this world with Your eyes and desires. Thank you for Your eternal love for us. Help us to move and respond to this world with eternal perspective that mirrors You. In Your precious name we pray. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. I pray you will be better equipped to live with an eternal perspective and encouraged to influence children for Jesus. Future episodes and resources will be geared toward the important duty we have as parents and grandparents to guide and guard children for Jesus. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. Thank you for listening. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find for new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 073 - Equip Your Child to Stand Against Sin Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 073 – Equip Your Child to Stand Against Sin Our youngest daughter has a bedtime curfew depending on what day of the week it is. She’s really very good at keeping to the schedule, even when she doesn’t want to. But as my husband was getting ready to leave for work this morning, he shared a story that happened last night when they were watching television together after I went to bed. When her set bedtime arrived on the clock, she started to gather her things to go to sleep. Because they were watching a show that wasn’t over yet, my husband said she could tell me he told her to stay up. “But that would be a lie,” she said. He explained that it wasn’t a lie if he told her she could stay up later, and that he was telling her she could. The next evening, I was already in bed again when they were continuing the series they were watching. When it was time to go to bed, my husband asked her if she was leaving, and she wittily remarked, “Unless you want me to stay.” My daughter felt so strongly about getting to bed at the proper time because she has followed that expectation daily for years, understanding that obeying is a promise between us when I gave her the bedtimes. She recognizes that even if I am not there to remind her of when to go to bed, she is still under authority to make the correct choice. It took convincing from my husband that he also had the authority to tell her she could stay up past her bedtime. While our daughter does need to understand that as her parent, Daddy can alter her bedtime so they can enjoy time together if I’m not there, I’m glad she takes honesty seriously. Even when we purposely raise our children to respect and honor God, it can be easy for them to be deceived or to fall to selfish desires or ambitions. When they do uphold the teachings of God and honor Him and His authority, we reap the beautiful benefits. Genesis 3:1-13 says, “Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?” “And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree, which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ “Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.” “And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.” “Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?” “So he said, “I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.” “And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?” “Then the man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.” “And the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done ?” “The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” It is vitally important for parents to understand that God’s truths must be clearly and repeatedly taught if we desire our children to easily recognize the lies of this fallen world. What we teach our children about truth through God’s eyes and how we live His truths become godly examples that will affect them and future generations. Teaching the book of Genesis is a beautiful lesson in God’s truths. What they learn through Genesis will be the foundation for multiple life issues as they mature and grow. Proverbs is another book filled with truth and wisdom. Teaching your child the truths of God’s Word will always be more important than anything else you could teach them. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life .” Humans carry such selfish desires. It’s easy for us to get caught up in what we want or think we need, and fall short of what God’s best is for us and our family. Pride Arrogance Selfishness Jealousy Deceit Unforgiveness Anger Bitterness So many ungodly characteristics easily arise from actions and thoughts. Without a godly and God-filled home to learn Biblical truths, our children can easily fall victim to fleshly desires, Satan, peers and culture, and the alluring lies of this world. God’s Word clearly instructs us on how to react to the ways of this world. Colossians 3:5-10 says, “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator .” In the book of Ephesians, we learn the learn that God has again gone before us to provide exactly what we need to allow Him to fight worldly and spiritual battles in our place. Teach your child to rely on the armor of God and to allow Him to fight and protect your child through a lifetime of battles. When I say allow, I don’t mean that we hold power over God, but that we humbly submit to Him. Ephesians 6:10-17 says, “Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God .” God enables us to fight against sin through His Word and the tools found in Ephesians, but we also have another weapon ready in our arsenal from God. Our identity. Identity formed and established through Jesus Christ is a powerful, effective weapon that releases your child from various strongholds. Colossians 3:1-3 says, “If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” Purposely building character and identity through relationship with Christ allows your child to stand on a firm foundation that cannot be shaken. God’s truth will be more clearly seen and used for decisions, relationships, and molding character and integrity because your child’s identity will be one with Christ and the way God sees him or her. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 says, “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. ” Your child must learn, understand, and believe that God’s Word is the Authority of Truth. His holy Word is the ultimate Truth that can break and demolish strongholds and falsehoods. The Bible calls and equips believers to attack lies with the Truth of God by reading, believing, and utilizing His Word, holy power, and authority. For example, Paul was merely a man, flesh like you and me. Yet, what made Paul strong was that he understood and taught that human brilliance, worldly wisdom, and wits were powerless against the evil and darkness of this world. He relied on the Word and Holy Spirit to guide and guard His mind and heart. Paul relied on those Sources to direct how he lived and taught. He never wavered from what God spoke through the Word and Spirit. None of us can live in freedom or peace through our human strength or wisdom. How frail and weak we are! How easily deceived! We also can’t deepen our walk with God by fighting with our flesh. We cannot defeat this world or the strongholds within it unless we use the Word of God and His truth to attack or stand against ungodly falsehoods. It is His strength; not our own. That is what our children must witness us doing and hear us teach. 1 Corinthians 3:20 says, “And again, “The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise, that they are futile .” It is God’s wisdom and Word that saves you, your children, and future generations. Your job as a believer and parent is to strengthen your belief, trust, and obedience in the Lord and mentor the way to Him for your children with godly purpose and holy-inspired direction. Your job is to combat the lies of this world with the truth of God’s Word and to show your children how to do the same. Your child will never recognize the lies of this world unless they are taught the truths of God and taught to build godly identity through Christ. John 17:17 says, “Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth.” Ephesians 6:17 says, “Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God .” What are the most effective ways to equip your child to stand against sin in an ungodly world? 1. Stay away from sin. When you live a life devoted to pleasing God and strive not to sin against Him as you mirror Christ to your children, you become the most effective witness. 2. Teach your child the importance of the power of God’s holy Word to equip and empower them against sin. Do this through your own life examples and look for ways to highlight God working in the lives of your children and others. 3. Show your child how to use God’s armory against sin and the power of darkness. Teach them what God’s Word instructs and let them witness you using God’s armor daily. 4. Encourage and empower your child to stand in identity through Christ. From the earliest times you have your child, begin speaking Truth into their life and spirit. 5. Teach them godly characteristics, praise those characteristics, such as honesty and integrity when you see them in your child, and mentor those to them. Praise your kids when they are truthful, and notice when they are tempted (but don’t follow that temptation). Show/Tell your children when opportunities arise for honesty (such as when you’re not charged for an item at the store, and your tell the cashier, etc.). Make it clear to your children that you don’t make these types of choices to live with these values because you are a good person or that they are good, it is because you are living the values that are pleasing to God and instructed in His Word. Let them learn that when you love and honor God, you live in ways that are pleasing because your actions reflect on Him. Just as some families teach their children not to soil the family name, it is far more important to understand and honor that our actions and reactions reflect Christ to a watching world that may not yet know Him. 6. Prayer – Seek specific Scriptures you can use as powerful prayers to strengthen and protect your children from sin. Hebrews 4:12-13 says, “For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account .” Dear Heavenly Father how blessed we are for Your love and care for us. Even before we were Yours through the live-saving power of Christ, You suffered for us. We are so far from You, yet you call us Yours and love with an everlasting love. You have done everything You can to show us that love and to create a way for us to come to You and live with You in eternity. How carelessly we live our days without knowing even the smallest of sins we hold against You. We are so sorry for the pain we cause and pray that You will enable us to stand in our identity through Christ before You and raise the children you entrusted to us in ways that please and delight You. Help us not to sin against You and not to ignorantly cause our children to sin. Enable us to guide and direct our children with Your insight and wisdom. Help us place them on Your pure path and may You keep them there until they meet You in eternity. Father, thank you for your Son and thank you for loving us before we even came to You. Thank you that as we raise our children to love, honor, and obey You we see beautifully joyful blessings through watching them serve You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. The first group of women is currently growing together. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. You and I know that the best reviews are by word of mouth, so would you please choose a friend to recommend the show to? Let them know that the podcast is found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Imagine the change we will see in the way mothers parent for Christ if they learn to be intentional, too. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #140 – How to Identify False Teachers Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last year I was disappointed by a couple of people who came into my life. I thought they were upstanding, godly people who genuinely loved the Lord. After getting to know them better, I was surprised to discover that either they were making mistake after mistake or they simply weren’t who they appeared to be. I really cannot express my disappointment in even thinking that they may not be who I thought they were. Sadness covered me as I imagined that I had been deceived. After this initial thought, I feared for their eternal future. I did not want these people I had come to care for to be anything other than what they first appeared to be. I didn’t want them to potentially live for eternity without Christ. I’m still praying for the two people I am referring to. I hope I met them when they were going through hard seasons and that the love they professed for Jesus is true. I hope that they made bad choices in the times I spent with them and that they have grown daily since that time and are better equipped to shine the Lord in authentic ways that won’t make people second guess them or their position with Christ. I hope they are seeking the Lord in new ways that leave no question who they follow. I hope that when I make mistakes it is not in front of others who might question my love for Jesus. I hope that my mistakes never make the Lord appear to be less than He is. I want all the glory for anything worthy I accomplish to go to Him. I have learned that anything of value that I do is not of my own hand, but comes from time spent with the Father and in His provision. Not knowing whether someone is an authentic believer after beginning to know them truly grieves my heart in various ways. I want everyone to know and love the Lord with a true and lasting relationship that brings joy, peace, love, and all of the fruits of the Spirit in ways they can’t help but proclaim love and devotion to Jesus. Without judging, but with the use of godly discernment, take the story I gave with people I came to know last year and transfer it to pastors, ministry leaders, podcasters, and others who publicly profess Christ in some sort of ministry. We are a front line, so to speak, to opinions people will hold of Christ. Such a high responsibility is a calling. It is a high service for one we cannot begin to represent well enough. Although I believe most people who exert effort, love, prayer, and time into helping others see, know, love, and honor Christ truly love Jesus and want to serve Him well, there are some who are going through the motions for personal gain or glory. As sad as that fact is, there are ways we can protect ourselves and others from becoming deceived and following these false teachers. First, let’s read, then break-down and examine a passage of Scripture from 1 John 1:5-10 which says, “This is the message we have heard from Him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all. If we say we have fellowship with Him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us.” Many false teachers will deny or ignore the existence of sin. Believers must be diligent and discerning to observe the way those professing love for Christ conduct their life. Whether it be in the acts they perform, the words they speak, the attitude they express, or the way they lie their life, these people will do something that produces red flags. In the passage of verses we read, John affirms the reality of sin and the mindset believers should carry toward it. If a person denies the reality of sin, they may be exposing their lack of salvation or understanding of sin. When we hear, “this is the message we have heard from Him,” John is stating that what they are repeating is not from them, but from God. Galatians 1:11-12 says, “I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that the gospel I preached is not of human origin. I did not receive it from any man, nor was I taught it; rather, I received it by revelation from Jesus Christ. The words, “God is light” in 1 John 1:5 confirms that in God we can find no darkness. He is the Author of Light. No darkness can exist within Him. We know that usually when one hears the term, “light” we think of absence of darkness, purity or holiness. When we know the word is referencing our Heavenly Father, we think of holiness or biblical truths. 1 Thessalonians 5:4-6 says, “But you, brothers and sisters, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake and sober.” Those who do not truly know the Lord profess to be enlightened with wisdom, although believers should recognize that the knowledge and insight they speak is from within, not given to them by God. When wisdom is not given by God, it will end up being the opposite. When we do not walk and live in the light, we exist in darkness. When John continues in verse 5, he states, “no darkness at all.” With these words, John confirms that we can be assured that in God we find holy perfection. There is absolutely nothing in the character of God that deviates from truth, purity, or holiness. James 1:17-18 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all He created.” Although there are many who claim to enjoy fellowship with God, the lifestyle they live, may it be words, activities, actions, reactions, character, integrity, and so on, indicates that they lack genuine repentance and submission to Christ. When I speak these words, I realize that we are each human and prone to sin, mistakes, and misunderstandings. I do not make this remark lightly. I do so only to warn each of us, myself included that we must be aware and cautious. Of course, we want to give others the benefit of the doubt, and we certainly want to pray for them, but do not be deceived. We cannot live in darkness and profess to be of the light. Just as I spoke of the light earlier, to live in light in the Christian sense means to be a follower of Christ. To live in darkness is to live without Christ. Although we each sin in some way daily, those dedicated to maturing a genuine walk with Christ daily live with an urgency that demands obedient and submission and keeps them in search of light. Within us, the Holy Spirit is at work to warn and protect us, to steer us away from darkness. “Do not practice,” as said in verse 6 reinforces what I just said about living in darkness. When one professing to be a follower of Christ does not practice what they say they believe or they continue practicing what goes against God’s commands and directions, their habits point to the truth. Verse 7 confirms that in contrast to those living in darkness, while claiming to be of the light, when one professes to love and follow Christ, there is a noticeable and continual refining, renewal of the soul that can only be completed through our precious Lord. As verse 8 shows, false teachers will claim to be in the light while they knowingly walk in darkness, denying sin within them. If someone denies having any sin, that darkness cannot be addressed and conquered through Christ. Verse 9 proves that we each need to draw nearer to Christ with purpose so that we can recognize and confess sin. His Word promises that He is faithful. As we confess our sins, He will forgive and purify us. As Christians have salvation through the work of Christ on the cross, we can live with purpose, intent on drawing nearer to Jesus daily. We have been forgiven of all sins. Of course, if one continues in known sin that goes against the Father, we must confess and receive the cleansing work of the Father, but the Holy Spirit is at work moment by moment to enable us to rest in the hand of God and continue to eradicate sin from our life. As we peel back the layers, so to speak, we find more and more ways to submit and be cleansed, but false teachers do not admit to sin nature or see the need to be cleansed of sin in their life. Verse 10 reminds us that if we claim that no sin is in us, we “make Him a liar.” As false teachers make no claim of sin, they blaspheme and slander God. This passage we just studied from James succinctly shows the truth of how to live in light-filled and correct fellowship with Christ and others. James 1:17-27 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all He created. My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do. Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” Many people are confused by social media, school agendas, educators, leaders, influencers, celebrities, pastors, and cultural shifts. Children are being raised without the compass of Christ to guide and protect them. Those without a godly compass to lead and instruct them with truth often easily fall victim to a rebellious nature of self-pleasure and seeking easy ways to do so. Or they fall prey to new age ideologies and false religions. It seems like the younger generation desires life without authority, but I believe every person prefers a life without boundaries to some extent, simply because humans prefer our own selfish nature to allow us whatever pleasures we desire. However, once we are free from the bondage of sin and flesh through Christ, we change, transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit alive within. Because there are many who have not yet experienced this freedom found only through Christ, false teachers, preachers, and advertisers have a large audience they can fill with exactly what these seekers may search for. By claiming self-love, materialism, reincarnation, new age practices, earn your way to Heaven tactics, prosperity preaching, and more, those in need of filling a void inside will listen and respond with eagerness to this shiny new hope. Let’s look at a few ways people may be deceived and how believers may be better equipped to discern and detect false leaders. 1. False leaders promote human glory instead of glorifying God. 1 John 4:2-3 says, “This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world.” 2. False leaders don’t teach the inerrancy of Scripture. 2 Peter 1:20-21 says, “Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet’s own interpretation of things. For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.” John 17:17 says, “Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth.” 3. False teachers believe there is no need for repentance and don’t speak about what God says about sin. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” 4. False teachers don’t preach about the reality of hell. Hebrews 9:27-28 says, “Just as people are destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many; and He will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for Him.” 5. False teachers teach personal prosperity. Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” 6. False teachers teach doctrine that goes against the Bible. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God a may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” 7. False teachers are prideful and divisive. 1 Timothy 6:3-5 says, “If anyone teaches otherwise and does not agree to the sound instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ and to godly teaching, they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions and constant friction between people of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain.” John 10:11-13 says, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.” 8. False teachers seek fame and/or fortune. The verses we read in 1 Timothy 6:3-5 earlier speak to this point, as well. This is a point I have had to review myself. During the time I have created and aired my podcasts and publicly been outspoken for Christ, I have been very careful to check my heart. I never want to write or release these podcasts or any of the material I create, unless it honors Christ. I am not the one to be highlighted. He is. I pray that you see Him so clearly in me and that others will see Him very clearly in you. 9. False teachers don’t believe or teach that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Jesus is the only way to God and eternal life. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” Acts 4:10-12 says, “Then know this, you and all the people of Israel: It is by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified but whom God raised from the dead, that this man stands before you healed. Jesus is ‘the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone.’ Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Holy is Your name. Good are the plans You have set for us. Help us to seek You, find You, love You, honor You, and obey You despite circumstances. May our desire for You deepen daily and cause us to humbly submit in reverence to You. Please keep us from following false teachers. May they be so evident to us as Christians that we are not deceived, even for a moment. Help us to live with joy and discernment from You so that we do not judge others, but rightly live in fellowship with You and those around us, yet never allow us to stray from what You call for us. Help us to never accept or condone what You clearly do not desire for us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 140 - How to Identify False Teachers Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #140 – How to Identify False Teachers Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last year I was disappointed by a couple of people who came into my life. I thought they were upstanding, godly people who genuinely loved the Lord. After getting to know them better, I was surprised to discover that either they were making mistake after mistake or they simply weren’t who they appeared to be. I really cannot express my disappointment in even thinking that they may not be who I thought they were. Sadness covered me as I imagined that I had been deceived. After this initial thought, I feared for their eternal future. I did not want these people I had come to care for to be anything other than what they first appeared to be. I didn’t want them to potentially live for eternity without Christ. I’m still praying for the two people I am referring to. I hope I met them when they were going through hard seasons and that the love they professed for Jesus is true. I hope that they made bad choices in the times I spent with them and that they have grown daily since that time and are better equipped to shine the Lord in authentic ways that won’t make people second guess them or their position with Christ. I hope they are seeking the Lord in new ways that leave no question who they follow. I hope that when I make mistakes it is not in front of others who might question my love for Jesus. I hope that my mistakes never make the Lord appear to be less than He is. I want all the glory for anything worthy I accomplish to go to Him. I have learned that anything of value that I do is not of my own hand, but comes from time spent with the Father and in His provision. Not knowing whether someone is an authentic believer after beginning to know them truly grieves my heart in various ways. I want everyone to know and love the Lord with a true and lasting relationship that brings joy, peace, love, and all of the fruits of the Spirit in ways they can’t help but proclaim love and devotion to Jesus. Without judging, but with the use of godly discernment, take the story I gave with people I came to know last year and transfer it to pastors, ministry leaders, podcasters, and others who publicly profess Christ in some sort of ministry. We are a front line, so to speak, to opinions people will hold of Christ. Such a high responsibility is a calling. It is a high service for one we cannot begin to represent well enough. Although I believe most people who exert effort, love, prayer, and time into helping others see, know, love, and honor Christ truly love Jesus and want to serve Him well, there are some who are going through the motions for personal gain or glory. As sad as that fact is, there are ways we can protect ourselves and others from becoming deceived and following these false teachers. First, let’s read, then break-down and examine a passage of Scripture from 1 John 1:5-10 which says, “This is the message we have heard from Him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all. If we say we have fellowship with Him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us.” Many false teachers will deny or ignore the existence of sin. Believers must be diligent and discerning to observe the way those professing love for Christ conduct their life. Whether it be in the acts they perform, the words they speak, the attitude they express, or the way they lie their life, these people will do something that produces red flags. In the passage of verses we read, John affirms the reality of sin and the mindset believers should carry toward it. If a person denies the reality of sin, they may be exposing their lack of salvation or understanding of sin. When we hear, “this is the message we have heard from Him,” John is stating that what they are repeating is not from them, but from God. Galatians 1:11-12 says, “I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that the gospel I preached is not of human origin. I did not receive it from any man, nor was I taught it; rather, I received it by revelation from Jesus Christ. The words, “God is light” in 1 John 1:5 confirms that in God we can find no darkness. He is the Author of Light. No darkness can exist within Him. We know that usually when one hears the term, “light” we think of absence of darkness, purity or holiness. When we know the word is referencing our Heavenly Father, we think of holiness or biblical truths. 1 Thessalonians 5:4-6 says, “But you, brothers and sisters, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake and sober.” Those who do not truly know the Lord profess to be enlightened with wisdom, although believers should recognize that the knowledge and insight they speak is from within, not given to them by God. When wisdom is not given by God, it will end up being the opposite. When we do not walk and live in the light, we exist in darkness. When John continues in verse 5, he states, “no darkness at all.” With these words, John confirms that we can be assured that in God we find holy perfection. There is absolutely nothing in the character of God that deviates from truth, purity, or holiness. James 1:17-18 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all He created.” Although there are many who claim to enjoy fellowship with God, the lifestyle they live, may it be words, activities, actions, reactions, character, integrity, and so on, indicates that they lack genuine repentance and submission to Christ. When I speak these words, I realize that we are each human and prone to sin, mistakes, and misunderstandings. I do not make this remark lightly. I do so only to warn each of us, myself included that we must be aware and cautious. Of course, we want to give others the benefit of the doubt, and we certainly want to pray for them, but do not be deceived. We cannot live in darkness and profess to be of the light. Just as I spoke of the light earlier, to live in light in the Christian sense means to be a follower of Christ. To live in darkness is to live without Christ. Although we each sin in some way daily, those dedicated to maturing a genuine walk with Christ daily live with an urgency that demands obedient and submission and keeps them in search of light. Within us, the Holy Spirit is at work to warn and protect us, to steer us away from darkness. “Do not practice,” as said in verse 6 reinforces what I just said about living in darkness. When one professing to be a follower of Christ does not practice what they say they believe or they continue practicing what goes against God’s commands and directions, their habits point to the truth. Verse 7 confirms that in contrast to those living in darkness, while claiming to be of the light, when one professes to love and follow Christ, there is a noticeable and continual refining, renewal of the soul that can only be completed through our precious Lord. As verse 8 shows, false teachers will claim to be in the light while they knowingly walk in darkness, denying sin within them. If someone denies having any sin, that darkness cannot be addressed and conquered through Christ. Verse 9 proves that we each need to draw nearer to Christ with purpose so that we can recognize and confess sin. His Word promises that He is faithful. As we confess our sins, He will forgive and purify us. As Christians have salvation through the work of Christ on the cross, we can live with purpose, intent on drawing nearer to Jesus daily. We have been forgiven of all sins. Of course, if one continues in known sin that goes against the Father, we must confess and receive the cleansing work of the Father, but the Holy Spirit is at work moment by moment to enable us to rest in the hand of God and continue to eradicate sin from our life. As we peel back the layers, so to speak, we find more and more ways to submit and be cleansed, but false teachers do not admit to sin nature or see the need to be cleansed of sin in their life. Verse 10 reminds us that if we claim that no sin is in us, we “make Him a liar.” As false teachers make no claim of sin, they blaspheme and slander God. This passage we just studied from James succinctly shows the truth of how to live in light-filled and correct fellowship with Christ and others. James 1:17-27 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all He created. My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do. Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” Many people are confused by social media, school agendas, educators, leaders, influencers, celebrities, pastors, and cultural shifts. Children are being raised without the compass of Christ to guide and protect them. Those without a godly compass to lead and instruct them with truth often easily fall victim to a rebellious nature of self-pleasure and seeking easy ways to do so. Or they fall prey to new age ideologies and false religions. It seems like the younger generation desires life without authority, but I believe every person prefers a life without boundaries to some extent, simply because humans prefer our own selfish nature to allow us whatever pleasures we desire. However, once we are free from the bondage of sin and flesh through Christ, we change, transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit alive within. Because there are many who have not yet experienced this freedom found only through Christ, false teachers, preachers, and advertisers have a large audience they can fill with exactly what these seekers may search for. By claiming self-love, materialism, reincarnation, new age practices, earn your way to Heaven tactics, prosperity preaching, and more, those in need of filling a void inside will listen and respond with eagerness to this shiny new hope. Let’s look at a few ways people may be deceived and how believers may be better equipped to discern and detect false leaders. 1. False leaders promote human glory instead of glorifying God. 1 John 4:2-3 says, “This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world.” 2. False leaders don’t teach the inerrancy of Scripture. 2 Peter 1:20-21 says, “Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet’s own interpretation of things. For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.” John 17:17 says, “Sanctify them by the truth; Your word is truth.” 3. False teachers believe there is no need for repentance and don’t speak about what God says about sin. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” 4. False teachers don’t preach about the reality of hell. Hebrews 9:27-28 says, “Just as people are destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many; and He will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for Him.” 5. False teachers teach personal prosperity. Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” 6. False teachers teach doctrine that goes against the Bible. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God a may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” 7. False teachers are prideful and divisive. 1 Timothy 6:3-5 says, “If anyone teaches otherwise and does not agree to the sound instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ and to godly teaching, they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions and constant friction between people of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain.” John 10:11-13 says, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.” 8. False teachers seek fame and/or fortune. The verses we read in 1 Timothy 6:3-5 earlier speak to this point, as well. This is a point I have had to review myself. During the time I have created and aired my podcasts and publicly been outspoken for Christ, I have been very careful to check my heart. I never want to write or release these podcasts or any of the material I create, unless it honors Christ. I am not the one to be highlighted. He is. I pray that you see Him so clearly in me and that others will see Him very clearly in you. 9. False teachers don’t believe or teach that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Jesus is the only way to God and eternal life. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” Acts 4:10-12 says, “Then know this, you and all the people of Israel: It is by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified but whom God raised from the dead, that this man stands before you healed. Jesus is ‘the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone.’ Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” Dear Heavenly Father, there is none like You. Holy is Your name. Good are the plans You have set for us. Help us to seek You, find You, love You, honor You, and obey You despite circumstances. May our desire for You deepen daily and cause us to humbly submit in reverence to You. Please keep us from following false teachers. May they be so evident to us as Christians that we are not deceived, even for a moment. Help us to live with joy and discernment from You so that we do not judge others, but rightly live in fellowship with You and those around us, yet never allow us to stray from what You call for us. Help us to never accept or condone what You clearly do not desire for us. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.