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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. Episode #009 – The Beauty of Imperfection Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’m starting our discussion with a little fact about myself. I’m a neat person. I don’t mean I’m cool, but obviously, if you want to think that, I’ll let you! Just kidding! My goal has never been to be the one who attracts the attention and envy of everyone around me and it hasn’t been bestowed to me naturally. Honestly, I’m probably one of the last people someone would look at and think I’m the cool girl, because I keep to the basics of just being me. What I mean about being a neat person is that I don’t like to be surrounded by messes. In fact, I find chaos distracting. If I lived alone, I’d most likely spend a good portion of my time front-facing and alphabetizing my pantry. I’d be on my hands and knees dusting all the baseboards and climbing my counters to reach the highest cabinets to wash them with Murphy Oil Soap to make everything smell fresh and look beautifully shiny. Cleaning is relaxing to me. When I’m doing this type of work, my mind can wander or relax. It allows me to talk to and hear God. Thankfully, my day to day reality is quite different than my imagined spotless home. I am truly grateful that I don’t live alone and that I have my beautiful family. I’m also very fortunate that I’ve developed the ability to focus more on things that I believe God is calling me to invest in rather than the dust web in the corner. My life is incredibly busy. Not only do I homeschool my two daughters, one of which has special needs, but I am also involved in activities outside the home for myself and my family, I am dedicated to growing this ministry and podcast that God has entrusted to me for this season, and one of my daughters and I are also building a business together. Through the busyness, we still work hard to spend quality time together and to allow for down times to enjoy simply hearing from God individually and together. We make it a priority to spend time in His word alone and with each other and to pray together daily. This certainly does not leave me time to clean the way my heart desires. Right now, my home is “surface clean” only and most days has tufts of Golden Retriever hair floating around the floor. I thank God for enabling me to cling to the values He finds important during this time in my life. These precious days will never be repeated. Each activity we choose to participate in will evolve into an experience or memory that is one of the foundational blocks building our lives. My security in the Lord allows me to release expectations and stresses of attempted perfection by relying on Him to shift my idea of flawlessness to what He desires. As a mother building her second family, I know how quickly children grow up. I had quiet years between the time my first two were grown and we began raising our second two. I had enough time to do things around the house and I knew the most important and meaningful times were spent one-on-one with my family and growing the depth of our knowledge in Jesus. At that time, my husband worked long hours and was out of town and out of the country often. Our first two children were grown and lived on their own. I can remember sitting in a little hot tub we had outside our back door. I would look up at the sky as I relaxed, letting time carry me back through memories and hearing the whispers God spoke to my heart. He was preparing me for the next phase of my life. I was able to hear Him speak truths to my spirit that revealed how I could have parented with focused intentionality for Him. My relationship with Jesus had deepened and although I raised my children to know God, I could see ways that I had not scratched the surface of how the Lord really desired me to guide those He entrusted to my care to follow Him. I could see the ways I should have intentionally walked more closely with Him and mentored my children to do the same. He fed me the nutrients needed for nurturing a healthy and worthy relationship with Him from birth and began instilling a desire in the hearts of my husband and myself for a baby from China and planting seeds of how to change our parenting style to honor and show Him clearly so He could shine. Focusing on what God values and calls important is where I want my eyes and heart to reside. Although I certainly don’t want to live in filth, I know that keeping my pantry alphabetized and my floors vacuumed daily are not what will keep my family relationships healthy or help any of us mature spiritually. As in everything, balance is essential. When I come to the end of my life, whether it be tomorrow or forty years from now, what do I want to remember? What do I want others to remember about me? Most importantly, will they remember that they saw Jesus in me? Will I have allowed Him to shine from me so brightly that they had to discover Jesus and allow Him to shine through them? Will my family be close? Will we each have strong and continuously deepening relationships? My desire to live in ways pleasing to God and to have positive and joyful answers to these questions propel me to live in the present with eternal perspective. Today our episode focuses on purposely examining our heart and allowing God to cleanse the idea of perfection that separates us from Him so that we can live closer to the way He desires. It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, confused, unappreciated, exhausted, angry, bitter, or defeated when things don’t go smoothly or exactly the way we hoped. None of these are pleasing to or come from the Lord. We can easily get lost in our emotions and be deceived. Don’t bury eternal focus beneath tasks, chores, responsibilities, or imperfections. If we live to survive, we are only coping with life. We should experience a joy-filled existence that builds and anticipates deeper fellowship with God while craving eternity. Psalm 51:10 pleads, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” We don’t want a “surface-clean only” life. Our heart was made to desire beautiful fellowship with Him. Life cannot be perfect, but we can seek to perfectly align ours with the desires God has for us as we pursue intimacy with Him. Wouldn’t it be beautiful if every day was accomplished and without blemish? Smooth easy days with no trials or troubles. No red lights on our way to appointments. No one needing our time or attention while we are already busy with something else that needs to be completed. No spills on white carpet. All of our relationships run smoothly with no disagreements or misunderstandings. No products we need at the store cleaned off the shelf before we get there. I know I’m being silly, but you must admit, all our minds have desired a perfect day at one time or another, but God knows that a perfect world would not bring us to our knees before Him. Proverbs 23:26 says, “My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in My ways.” I understand that the context this verse is used for in the Bible is sexual sin, but the truth of it applies to any situation. God wants our heart; He desires that we seek Him and His ways. Without a need for the Lord, we may not choose to seek, grow a relationship with, or depend on Him. Eternity would not be a destination for us. We would simply hope to gain all we could here on earth and remain in our selfish, empty lifestyle forever. I think it’s incredibly important to recognize that at times our emotions and feelings get in the way of seeing clearly. Our ability to think and live with our heart and mind focused on eternity gets blocked. Sometimes, it seems that life continues to knock us down. We fall to our knees before the Lord, but the harsh realities of life in this broken world crash on us day after day without relief in sight. Although hardships can feel unending, Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us that no season lasts forever. God wants our faith and trust to be constructed on such a solid foundation that nothing can crack it. No matter what life looks or feels like, His desire is for us to continue to steadfastly cast our cares and hope on Him. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 says it well. “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” Life can be devastatingly hard, but God is with us. He is working ahead of, with, and behind us to allow exactly what we need to experience. Remember, our life is not just about us. Aren’t you fascinated by the intricacy of God’s plans and the inter-woven plots and twists that He executes? He has everything under control, even if we don’t see, feel, or recognize it. Will every day be perfect? That depends on how I look at it. 1 Thessalonian 5:16-18 reminds us to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” At times we may wonder whether we are following the plans God has for our lives. When times are difficult or we don’t receive answers we are seeking, it’s easy to try to pull situations into our own hands and wonder whether God cares or is watching over us. Wise advice comes from James 1:22, which says, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” Keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Remain faithful in crafting a genuine relationship with the Lord through reading His word and conversing through prayer. Make time to have quiet moments to speak to Him, not just in prayer, but in sharing your thoughts and life. Listen for Him to speak. Give God time to respond in His timing. Trust in Him, despite circumstances. Jesus displayed how He escaped to share quiet, personal moments with His Father. If Jesus modeled it, we know we require the same in our lives. Psalm 73:26 reminds us, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Those far from the Lord will perish, but those who abide in Him, who draw near to Him, so that He may draw nearer to them, will live with peace, joy, and assurance, despite anything that occurs in this world. Romans 8:13 tells us, “For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” Stop and think about how the Romans viewed and executed crucifixion. Look at the parallel between death on a cross and killing the desires of our flesh. Crucifixion was specific. It was personal to the individual. Ponder that we each have an opportunity for a personal relationship with Jesus and must destroy the acts of our own flesh daily through walking in the power of the Holy Spirit within us. Only through Jesus can those acts be crucified. Crucifixion was brutally painful. Just as death on the cross is unbearably hard for us to fully conceive, executing the deeds of our flesh is brutally hard. We cannot do it in our own strength. Only through Jesus can those deeds be crucified. Crucifixion is cruel. The individual being crucified was not to be removed from the cross until they were dead. We must ensure that we allow the Holy Spirit to execute the sins of our flesh. Only through Jesus can those sins be crucified. Romans 8:14 says, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.” As we abide in Him, we are changed, and His desires become ours. Put into practice what we read in His word. Simply reading and going about our day thinking we have had our “spiritual” time brings none of the fruits of the Spirit that we need to live a healthy life. Living a “checklist” life is just as effective as doing nothing at all. When we follow Jesus, we want the qualities He values and offers to be living and blooming inside us. This is what ensures that we are able to live with a spirit unaffected by daily ups and downs, even when we are living in incredibly difficult and dark times. It also ensures that when we are in the midst of an easy season we don’t pull away from the Lord, but rejoice in the knowledge that He is with us no matter what and that we are living through His strength and in His guiding arms. As James 1:17a reminds us, nothing we have or do is gained by our own strength or talents. “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above.” Psalm 37:4-5 says, “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act.” Delight means to take pleasure in. Commit means to be dedicated to or make a pledge to – it means to sacrifice our life and offer it to God. Continue trusting that everything occurring in our life will be used for good and to grow our relationship with our Heavenly Father if we are obedient in the areas He calls us to. There is beauty in imperfection. Embrace yours as it causes you to rely on Him. Everything that drives us to the Father’s arms is cause for gratitude. May we encounter more days that push our to our knees and guide us to His arms. May our faces be ever lifted toward the Son who abides in our hearts, helping us to live with eternal expectation and thankfulness. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 009 The Beauty of Imperfection Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast. Episode #009 – The Beauty of Imperfection Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed and thrilled to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I’m starting our discussion with a little fact about myself. I’m a neat person. I don’t mean I’m cool, but obviously, if you want to think that, I’ll let you! Just kidding! My goal has never been to be the one who attracts the attention and envy of everyone around me and it hasn’t been bestowed to me naturally. Honestly, I’m probably one of the last people someone would look at and think I’m the cool girl, because I keep to the basics of just being me. What I mean about being a neat person is that I don’t like to be surrounded by messes. In fact, I find chaos distracting. If I lived alone, I’d most likely spend a good portion of my time front-facing and alphabetizing my pantry. I’d be on my hands and knees dusting all the baseboards and climbing my counters to reach the highest cabinets to wash them with Murphy Oil Soap to make everything smell fresh and look beautifully shiny. Cleaning is relaxing to me. When I’m doing this type of work, my mind can wander or relax. It allows me to talk to and hear God. Thankfully, my day to day reality is quite different than my imagined spotless home. I am truly grateful that I don’t live alone and that I have my beautiful family. I’m also very fortunate that I’ve developed the ability to focus more on things that I believe God is calling me to invest in rather than the dust web in the corner. My life is incredibly busy. Not only do I homeschool my two daughters, one of which has special needs, but I am also involved in activities outside the home for myself and my family, I am dedicated to growing this ministry and podcast that God has entrusted to me for this season, and one of my daughters and I are also building a business together. Through the busyness, we still work hard to spend quality time together and to allow for down times to enjoy simply hearing from God individually and together. We make it a priority to spend time in His word alone and with each other and to pray together daily. This certainly does not leave me time to clean the way my heart desires. Right now, my home is “surface clean” only and most days has tufts of Golden Retriever hair floating around the floor. I thank God for enabling me to cling to the values He finds important during this time in my life. These precious days will never be repeated. Each activity we choose to participate in will evolve into an experience or memory that is one of the foundational blocks building our lives. My security in the Lord allows me to release expectations and stresses of attempted perfection by relying on Him to shift my idea of flawlessness to what He desires. As a mother building her second family, I know how quickly children grow up. I had quiet years between the time my first two were grown and we began raising our second two. I had enough time to do things around the house and I knew the most important and meaningful times were spent one-on-one with my family and growing the depth of our knowledge in Jesus. At that time, my husband worked long hours and was out of town and out of the country often. Our first two children were grown and lived on their own. I can remember sitting in a little hot tub we had outside our back door. I would look up at the sky as I relaxed, letting time carry me back through memories and hearing the whispers God spoke to my heart. He was preparing me for the next phase of my life. I was able to hear Him speak truths to my spirit that revealed how I could have parented with focused intentionality for Him. My relationship with Jesus had deepened and although I raised my children to know God, I could see ways that I had not scratched the surface of how the Lord really desired me to guide those He entrusted to my care to follow Him. I could see the ways I should have intentionally walked more closely with Him and mentored my children to do the same. He fed me the nutrients needed for nurturing a healthy and worthy relationship with Him from birth and began instilling a desire in the hearts of my husband and myself for a baby from China and planting seeds of how to change our parenting style to honor and show Him clearly so He could shine. Focusing on what God values and calls important is where I want my eyes and heart to reside. Although I certainly don’t want to live in filth, I know that keeping my pantry alphabetized and my floors vacuumed daily are not what will keep my family relationships healthy or help any of us mature spiritually. As in everything, balance is essential. When I come to the end of my life, whether it be tomorrow or forty years from now, what do I want to remember? What do I want others to remember about me? Most importantly, will they remember that they saw Jesus in me? Will I have allowed Him to shine from me so brightly that they had to discover Jesus and allow Him to shine through them? Will my family be close? Will we each have strong and continuously deepening relationships? My desire to live in ways pleasing to God and to have positive and joyful answers to these questions propel me to live in the present with eternal perspective. Today our episode focuses on purposely examining our heart and allowing God to cleanse the idea of perfection that separates us from Him so that we can live closer to the way He desires. It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, confused, unappreciated, exhausted, angry, bitter, or defeated when things don’t go smoothly or exactly the way we hoped. None of these are pleasing to or come from the Lord. We can easily get lost in our emotions and be deceived. Don’t bury eternal focus beneath tasks, chores, responsibilities, or imperfections. If we live to survive, we are only coping with life. We should experience a joy-filled existence that builds and anticipates deeper fellowship with God while craving eternity. Psalm 51:10 pleads, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” We don’t want a “surface-clean only” life. Our heart was made to desire beautiful fellowship with Him. Life cannot be perfect, but we can seek to perfectly align ours with the desires God has for us as we pursue intimacy with Him. Wouldn’t it be beautiful if every day was accomplished and without blemish? Smooth easy days with no trials or troubles. No red lights on our way to appointments. No one needing our time or attention while we are already busy with something else that needs to be completed. No spills on white carpet. All of our relationships run smoothly with no disagreements or misunderstandings. No products we need at the store cleaned off the shelf before we get there. I know I’m being silly, but you must admit, all our minds have desired a perfect day at one time or another, but God knows that a perfect world would not bring us to our knees before Him. Proverbs 23:26 says, “My son, give me your heart and let your eyes delight in My ways.” I understand that the context this verse is used for in the Bible is sexual sin, but the truth of it applies to any situation. God wants our heart; He desires that we seek Him and His ways. Without a need for the Lord, we may not choose to seek, grow a relationship with, or depend on Him. Eternity would not be a destination for us. We would simply hope to gain all we could here on earth and remain in our selfish, empty lifestyle forever. I think it’s incredibly important to recognize that at times our emotions and feelings get in the way of seeing clearly. Our ability to think and live with our heart and mind focused on eternity gets blocked. Sometimes, it seems that life continues to knock us down. We fall to our knees before the Lord, but the harsh realities of life in this broken world crash on us day after day without relief in sight. Although hardships can feel unending, Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us that no season lasts forever. God wants our faith and trust to be constructed on such a solid foundation that nothing can crack it. No matter what life looks or feels like, His desire is for us to continue to steadfastly cast our cares and hope on Him. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 says it well. “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair, persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” Life can be devastatingly hard, but God is with us. He is working ahead of, with, and behind us to allow exactly what we need to experience. Remember, our life is not just about us. Aren’t you fascinated by the intricacy of God’s plans and the inter-woven plots and twists that He executes? He has everything under control, even if we don’t see, feel, or recognize it. Will every day be perfect? That depends on how I look at it. 1 Thessalonian 5:16-18 reminds us to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” At times we may wonder whether we are following the plans God has for our lives. When times are difficult or we don’t receive answers we are seeking, it’s easy to try to pull situations into our own hands and wonder whether God cares or is watching over us. Wise advice comes from James 1:22, which says, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” Keep your eyes and heart fixed above. Remain faithful in crafting a genuine relationship with the Lord through reading His word and conversing through prayer. Make time to have quiet moments to speak to Him, not just in prayer, but in sharing your thoughts and life. Listen for Him to speak. Give God time to respond in His timing. Trust in Him, despite circumstances. Jesus displayed how He escaped to share quiet, personal moments with His Father. If Jesus modeled it, we know we require the same in our lives. Psalm 73:26 reminds us, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Those far from the Lord will perish, but those who abide in Him, who draw near to Him, so that He may draw nearer to them, will live with peace, joy, and assurance, despite anything that occurs in this world. Romans 8:13 tells us, “For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” Stop and think about how the Romans viewed and executed crucifixion. Look at the parallel between death on a cross and killing the desires of our flesh. Crucifixion was specific. It was personal to the individual. Ponder that we each have an opportunity for a personal relationship with Jesus and must destroy the acts of our own flesh daily through walking in the power of the Holy Spirit within us. Only through Jesus can those acts be crucified. Crucifixion was brutally painful. Just as death on the cross is unbearably hard for us to fully conceive, executing the deeds of our flesh is brutally hard. We cannot do it in our own strength. Only through Jesus can those deeds be crucified. Crucifixion is cruel. The individual being crucified was not to be removed from the cross until they were dead. We must ensure that we allow the Holy Spirit to execute the sins of our flesh. Only through Jesus can those sins be crucified. Romans 8:14 says, “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.” As we abide in Him, we are changed, and His desires become ours. Put into practice what we read in His word. Simply reading and going about our day thinking we have had our “spiritual” time brings none of the fruits of the Spirit that we need to live a healthy life. Living a “checklist” life is just as effective as doing nothing at all. When we follow Jesus, we want the qualities He values and offers to be living and blooming inside us. This is what ensures that we are able to live with a spirit unaffected by daily ups and downs, even when we are living in incredibly difficult and dark times. It also ensures that when we are in the midst of an easy season we don’t pull away from the Lord, but rejoice in the knowledge that He is with us no matter what and that we are living through His strength and in His guiding arms. As James 1:17a reminds us, nothing we have or do is gained by our own strength or talents. “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above.” Psalm 37:4-5 says, “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act.” Delight means to take pleasure in. Commit means to be dedicated to or make a pledge to – it means to sacrifice our life and offer it to God. Continue trusting that everything occurring in our life will be used for good and to grow our relationship with our Heavenly Father if we are obedient in the areas He calls us to. There is beauty in imperfection. Embrace yours as it causes you to rely on Him. Everything that drives us to the Father’s arms is cause for gratitude. May we encounter more days that push our to our knees and guide us to His arms. May our faces be ever lifted toward the Son who abides in our hearts, helping us to live with eternal expectation and thankfulness. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in my life. I am thrilled to delve into different areas with you. Since everything affects our eternity, we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you found value in this podcast, please subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. I also encourage you to leave a review. In order for others to be able to find this podcast, I will need the support of listeners who will invest a few minutes in subscribing and reviewing to lift Live With Eternal Perspective higher on the charts so that the platform shows it to everyone. Thank you again for sharing part of your day with me. Until next time, keep looking Upward and finding new ways to live with an Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #128 – Living to Flourish through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Psalm 92:12-15 says, “The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The LORD is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.” As I read this passage last week, the eloquent wording grabbed my attention. Perhaps because I’m older, I appreciated the beauty, but had to learn more about why there was such an intentional comparison to a palm tree. As I researched, I learned that the palm grows steadily over time, largely unaffected by elements of nature, unlike other types of trees that can be more susceptible to what happens around them. The palm tree stands perfectly upright under varying conditions, and survives from generation to generation. Since I didn’t know anything about a cedar of Lebanon, I also researched this impressive tree, and found that it grows to be very large. Just the width can get to about 35 or 40 feet around, plus the boughs spread over 100 feet wide. What is most impressive and significant for the purpose of this comparison to aging is that the tree flourishes for ages, and is always green. When the cedar of Lebanon is cut down, the wood is exceptionally beautiful, durable, and, in many ways incorruptible. Both the palm tree and the cedar of Lebanon bear fruit in old age, and as the verses eloquently show us, we can carry much beauty and grace in aging when we seek and humbly follow the Lord. I especially valued the fact that palm trees stay “fresh and green” and are largely unaffected by the elements of nature. We each know that the elements of this life can be as stormy as the roughest seas. To draw the comparison to my own life at this time, I recently found that someone we know and trusted isn’t who he appeared. It would be so easy to be swayed by emotions and allow my fleshly nature to override how God would call me to react. As I processed my emotions, conversed with the Lord, prayed, and moved on, I rested in the assurance that my character, as it continues to mature through Christ each moment, can remain fresh and green, unmoved by the elements of life in this broken world. I can release the relationship I thought we had with this person and move on, praying for him as he comes to mind, but clinging more tightly to the relationship I hold with Jesus without becoming bitter or angry. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” Our Almighty God wastes nothing. I think of the purpose our Creator had when He created nature and placed man and woman beneath the glorious sky and lush trees. Since I walk outside often with my middle daughter, I understand the ability to connect with God in ways we’re unable to inside buildings. Obviously, we can be close to God as we read and study His word and converse with Him indoors, but being in nature connects us in a significantly deeper way with His nature. Imagine Adam and Eve living in the Garden of Eden. God created absolute paradise for them to abide with Him. Perfect temperature, safety, freedom, and beauty surrounded them, and they neither knew nor imagined anything different. Like us, they took what they had for granted, probably never appreciating what they held until it was taken away after their dreadful, sinful mistake. Knowing God made a perfect home for them within nature, let’s examine the passage from Psalm 92:12-15 in a deeper way. I believe the poetic structure of the wording reveals so much about God’s view on aging and the way we are to advance toward godliness of character humbly and purposely for and through Him. Would you agree that we can easily recognize our society worships youth? Often treated as disposable, the elderly or even those of us who are aging are ignored or looked over for jobs, opinions, or advice. Instead of being shown the respect we have earned or noting the value we carry through acquired experience and wisdom, many younger people, and our society, tend to devalue elderly people. Through the wording in Psalm 92:12-15, we experience the thoughts God carries for those older than us. More specifically, the ones who have spent a lifetime seeking and following Him, recognizing, and openly proclaiming God as their rock and strength. What can we learn from those more experienced in following the Lord? Let’s see what God’s word teaches: Verse 12 says,” The righteous will flourish like a palm tree.” We know there is pain and heartache in this broken world, but we can trust God’s word. Despite the suffering on earth, we are promised that those who seek, know, follow, and obey the Lord will flourish. Although His definition may be different than what we sometimes hope for, we know He is sovereign and as Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” I’ve never considered “growing like a palm tree,” but I’ve always loved them. Any time we’ve gone on vacation where palm trees grow, I’m instantly ready to bask in the warmth I know I’ll find in that location. So, as I read the verse, all I immediately felt was the comparison that I could be warm to others, so they could see Christ in me. But I knew that the writer of these words would have a much deeper meaning with this word choice. Did you know that palm trees are known for their long life? If we were to flourish like a palm tree, we would have a long and productive life for Christ. Only God knows what that definition would hold as He has unique and beautiful plans for each one of us. Unless we are standing tall and flourishing for Him, we may never realize the blessings of doing so. Growing like a cedar of Lebanon was never anything I thought of doing. in fact, I never even knew what the tree looked like, but as I researched and learned about it, I’m ready to be compared to one. Strong, solid, and immovable, a person living like a cedar of Lebanon would be upright, strong in the Lord, and the trials and tragedies of this world would not move them from their faith. In fact, anything they face only thrusts their roots into deeper and richer soil. The strength and vitality of both trees allow them to continue bearing fruit into old age, just as those who cling to Christ and live uprightly as they come to know and show Him more clearly through daily life will do. Isaiah 46:4 says, “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” As we mature our walk with God through Christ and live to glorify and honor Him, He continues to go before us, sustaining and carrying us as we humbly release self-control and let Him. Isaiah 40:29-31 says, “He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power. Though youths grow weary and tired, and vigorous young men stumble badly, yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary.” Have you faced situations in which you had no strength? Have you been in such despair that you had no idea how you would carry on or what to do next? If so, know that you were exactly where God desires you to be. In that space, you have a clearer view of your need for Him. For some, it is the only time they will allow God to carry the loads they stubbornly grasp tightly. When we finally realize we do not carry the capacity to endure all things alone we finally realize our true strength comes in and through Christ. Psalm 73:26 says, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” The worst times of my life have proven to be the best as that clear path to God has carried me to His waiting arms. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we learn to seek Christ in every moment, good or bad, joyful or sorrowful, we develop a relationship that lasts throughout the ages as He proves to be our constant comfort and perfect friend as we age. Job 12:12 says, “Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” Job’s words are true for those who have sought to grow relationship with God through Jesus and live in ways that bring them closer to Him moment by moment. Without reliance on Christ and seeking a life that reflects Him, our life will not bring clarity or understanding to self or others. What are you doing today that will advance your walk with Christ? How are you advancing His kingdom in the way you live? Each day is new. Every moment offers the chance to renew our walk with Christ and allow Him to carry us in new ways. Job 5:26 says, “You will come to the grave in full vigor, like sheaves gathered in season.” As we grow in fullness of love for Him through an abiding relationship over time, we can live with the expectation of sweet reunion with our Father and the Son. Will the life you leave behind be a legacy for you or one that points to Christ? Dear Heavenly Father, You are sovereign and worthy of praise, glory, and honor. Thank you for the gift You have given us through Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for providing a way to You through Him. Father, cause our hearts to crave You and reflect Jesus more each day. Help our walk with You to deepen daily during the quiet and the busy moments because we seek Your hands, face, and heart. May we age with grace learned through time spent with You and may Your love be evident to all, guiding them ever nearer to You. May our lives be testimonies of what time with You creates. Father, may our hearts adore You and shine Your perfect love and provision. Help us to live uprightly and stand on the rock that is carved by relationship with and dependence on You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 128 - Living to Flourish through Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #128 – Living to Flourish through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Psalm 92:12-15 says, “The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The LORD is upright; He is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in Him.” As I read this passage last week, the eloquent wording grabbed my attention. Perhaps because I’m older, I appreciated the beauty, but had to learn more about why there was such an intentional comparison to a palm tree. As I researched, I learned that the palm grows steadily over time, largely unaffected by elements of nature, unlike other types of trees that can be more susceptible to what happens around them. The palm tree stands perfectly upright under varying conditions, and survives from generation to generation. Since I didn’t know anything about a cedar of Lebanon, I also researched this impressive tree, and found that it grows to be very large. Just the width can get to about 35 or 40 feet around, plus the boughs spread over 100 feet wide. What is most impressive and significant for the purpose of this comparison to aging is that the tree flourishes for ages, and is always green. When the cedar of Lebanon is cut down, the wood is exceptionally beautiful, durable, and, in many ways incorruptible. Both the palm tree and the cedar of Lebanon bear fruit in old age, and as the verses eloquently show us, we can carry much beauty and grace in aging when we seek and humbly follow the Lord. I especially valued the fact that palm trees stay “fresh and green” and are largely unaffected by the elements of nature. We each know that the elements of this life can be as stormy as the roughest seas. To draw the comparison to my own life at this time, I recently found that someone we know and trusted isn’t who he appeared. It would be so easy to be swayed by emotions and allow my fleshly nature to override how God would call me to react. As I processed my emotions, conversed with the Lord, prayed, and moved on, I rested in the assurance that my character, as it continues to mature through Christ each moment, can remain fresh and green, unmoved by the elements of life in this broken world. I can release the relationship I thought we had with this person and move on, praying for him as he comes to mind, but clinging more tightly to the relationship I hold with Jesus without becoming bitter or angry. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” Our Almighty God wastes nothing. I think of the purpose our Creator had when He created nature and placed man and woman beneath the glorious sky and lush trees. Since I walk outside often with my middle daughter, I understand the ability to connect with God in ways we’re unable to inside buildings. Obviously, we can be close to God as we read and study His word and converse with Him indoors, but being in nature connects us in a significantly deeper way with His nature. Imagine Adam and Eve living in the Garden of Eden. God created absolute paradise for them to abide with Him. Perfect temperature, safety, freedom, and beauty surrounded them, and they neither knew nor imagined anything different. Like us, they took what they had for granted, probably never appreciating what they held until it was taken away after their dreadful, sinful mistake. Knowing God made a perfect home for them within nature, let’s examine the passage from Psalm 92:12-15 in a deeper way. I believe the poetic structure of the wording reveals so much about God’s view on aging and the way we are to advance toward godliness of character humbly and purposely for and through Him. Would you agree that we can easily recognize our society worships youth? Often treated as disposable, the elderly or even those of us who are aging are ignored or looked over for jobs, opinions, or advice. Instead of being shown the respect we have earned or noting the value we carry through acquired experience and wisdom, many younger people, and our society, tend to devalue elderly people. Through the wording in Psalm 92:12-15, we experience the thoughts God carries for those older than us. More specifically, the ones who have spent a lifetime seeking and following Him, recognizing, and openly proclaiming God as their rock and strength. What can we learn from those more experienced in following the Lord? Let’s see what God’s word teaches: Verse 12 says,” The righteous will flourish like a palm tree.” We know there is pain and heartache in this broken world, but we can trust God’s word. Despite the suffering on earth, we are promised that those who seek, know, follow, and obey the Lord will flourish. Although His definition may be different than what we sometimes hope for, we know He is sovereign and as Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” I’ve never considered “growing like a palm tree,” but I’ve always loved them. Any time we’ve gone on vacation where palm trees grow, I’m instantly ready to bask in the warmth I know I’ll find in that location. So, as I read the verse, all I immediately felt was the comparison that I could be warm to others, so they could see Christ in me. But I knew that the writer of these words would have a much deeper meaning with this word choice. Did you know that palm trees are known for their long life? If we were to flourish like a palm tree, we would have a long and productive life for Christ. Only God knows what that definition would hold as He has unique and beautiful plans for each one of us. Unless we are standing tall and flourishing for Him, we may never realize the blessings of doing so. Growing like a cedar of Lebanon was never anything I thought of doing. in fact, I never even knew what the tree looked like, but as I researched and learned about it, I’m ready to be compared to one. Strong, solid, and immovable, a person living like a cedar of Lebanon would be upright, strong in the Lord, and the trials and tragedies of this world would not move them from their faith. In fact, anything they face only thrusts their roots into deeper and richer soil. The strength and vitality of both trees allow them to continue bearing fruit into old age, just as those who cling to Christ and live uprightly as they come to know and show Him more clearly through daily life will do. Isaiah 46:4 says, “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” As we mature our walk with God through Christ and live to glorify and honor Him, He continues to go before us, sustaining and carrying us as we humbly release self-control and let Him. Isaiah 40:29-31 says, “He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power. Though youths grow weary and tired, and vigorous young men stumble badly, yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary.” Have you faced situations in which you had no strength? Have you been in such despair that you had no idea how you would carry on or what to do next? If so, know that you were exactly where God desires you to be. In that space, you have a clearer view of your need for Him. For some, it is the only time they will allow God to carry the loads they stubbornly grasp tightly. When we finally realize we do not carry the capacity to endure all things alone we finally realize our true strength comes in and through Christ. Psalm 73:26 says, “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” The worst times of my life have proven to be the best as that clear path to God has carried me to His waiting arms. Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” As we learn to seek Christ in every moment, good or bad, joyful or sorrowful, we develop a relationship that lasts throughout the ages as He proves to be our constant comfort and perfect friend as we age. Job 12:12 says, “Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” Job’s words are true for those who have sought to grow relationship with God through Jesus and live in ways that bring them closer to Him moment by moment. Without reliance on Christ and seeking a life that reflects Him, our life will not bring clarity or understanding to self or others. What are you doing today that will advance your walk with Christ? How are you advancing His kingdom in the way you live? Each day is new. Every moment offers the chance to renew our walk with Christ and allow Him to carry us in new ways. Job 5:26 says, “You will come to the grave in full vigor, like sheaves gathered in season.” As we grow in fullness of love for Him through an abiding relationship over time, we can live with the expectation of sweet reunion with our Father and the Son. Will the life you leave behind be a legacy for you or one that points to Christ? Dear Heavenly Father, You are sovereign and worthy of praise, glory, and honor. Thank you for the gift You have given us through Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for providing a way to You through Him. Father, cause our hearts to crave You and reflect Jesus more each day. Help our walk with You to deepen daily during the quiet and the busy moments because we seek Your hands, face, and heart. May we age with grace learned through time spent with You and may Your love be evident to all, guiding them ever nearer to You. May our lives be testimonies of what time with You creates. Father, may our hearts adore You and shine Your perfect love and provision. Help us to live uprightly and stand on the rock that is carved by relationship with and dependence on You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #050 – Jesus, Our Constant Hope Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Christmas 2020 is over. Did it meet your expectations? Was it everything you hoped for? Or was your holiday a disappointment? Unfortunately, in our human condition, we sometimes place expectations on our life that unless met, ruin our joy. The older I get, the more I try to live with the purpose of following and maturing in Jesus each day. Any difficulties or “unexpected blessings” that come in the course of the day are a way to help me accomplish that goal because they force me to look up, even when I may not feel like it. Have I arrived? Do I live perfectly? No. Definitely not! I’m human and I never want to leave the impression that I think I have all the perfect answers and responses to life. Yet, I strive to humbly bow to the Father with intention and purpose daily and I deeply desire to be altered moment by moment as I look and cling to Him. During my life, I’ve experienced holiday plans that didn’t work as I hoped, disappointment over not receiving a gift I desired, or worse, not seeing someone dear to me on a holiday. I’ve grieved loved ones who should have been at our dinner table or sitting around the tree with us. I’ve been pierced by the deep pain that comes from decorating the Christmas tree with unique ornaments full of memories that once belonged to deceased loved ones and continue to hang the stocking of a child who will never be with us again. You have no doubt experienced some or all of these things, too. Our human experience contains many pains that only Jesus can heal. I’ve found after many years, that when I purposely release expectations and place my hope in the Lord, I find true peace, joy, hope, and calm through His plans. When things don’t work out as I wanted or thought they should, I find I already have everything I really needed. Even in my darkest moments of life, when situations have been out of my control and there seemed to be no hope, I learned that when I keep my gaze locked on God and remain steadfastly hoping in Him, His grace and provisions are perfect and sufficient for my needs. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.” Amen! I have found this verse to be so accurate! I consider myself to be a strong person, but as I have matured in my faith and relationship with God through Jesus, I have learned that my true strength is His. My confidence, strength of mind and character, anything worthy in me is a result of the Holy Spirit living inside me and the transformations have come from that. When I make mistakes, it is the result of following my own flesh or letting my eyes slip from Him. Psalm 39:7 gives the best response we can offer in life. It says, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.” Did you know that the word, hope is used over 140 times in the Bible? Of course, it depends on which translation you use, but the fact is that God knew we would need assurance and encouragement to remain hopeful. He lovingly provides it through His word. Our Heavenly Father always walks ahead of us, and we recognize Him if we remain focused on Him, study and remember His words and guidance, and accept the provisions He places before us. We use the word, hope as something we believe strongly on, or put trust in, it means something we rely on, or feel will happen. Hope lifts us when we are down, gives us comfort and trust for the future, changes attitudes, helps us to envision a better future, or enables us to accomplish tasks because we see a chance for improvement. Hope is a powerful word that, like love, is defined by God, the author of life. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Anyone can hope, but those who put their faith in the Lord access authentic and omnipotent faith, confidence, and optimism. Our Heavenly Father is the author of hope. When we are His, we are able to rise above mere hope as the world sees it. The greatest hope you and I have is the assurance offered through Jesus Christ. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Faith is the mechanism that allows the things we hope for to become fact and allows us to carry bold confidence about our future. Because God is perfectly holy and unchangeable, we have assurance that His promises are true. Our hope becomes faith, which develops assurance in our faithful God. Because of the assurance we receive from God through Jesus, we can live with constant and unshakable hope. The book of Romans clearly shows us the righteousness of God, how He reveals His righteousness in this world through Jesus, and why that good news must be shared. Jesus is our hope in this broken and dark world. In Him we place our trust, hope, faith, and find our assurance. Although this is a long passage of scripture, I want to read the truths found in Romans, Chapter 8, verses 1-39. In this, we find all we need to infuse us with the true and lasting hope, assurance, and confidence required to complete the glorious life we have been gifted in this world and live with confident joy. As I read, please listen for many glorious truths and promises, which include: 1. There is absolutely no condemnation for those who are saved through Jesus Christ – we are free from the power of sin and death! 2. Our hope has become assurance. Jesus offered us with secure salvation through His sacrifice. 3. We are no longer slaves to our flesh. Our sinful desires have no control over us any longer. 4. Through Jesus, we stand unafraid before God as adopted sons and daughters of our Father. We are now God’s children and heirs. This spirit of adoption also releases us from the spirit of bondage to sin. 5. Now sharing in glory, we also share suffering, as Jesus did. 6. Our suffering is only for a time, as we eagerly await the day we are released from sin and suffering forever. 7. We have received the Holy Spirit within us as a deposit toward future glory with Christ. 8. Within us lives a helper who constantly searches our heart and intercedes when we have no words to express our thoughts and needs. 9. God is for us, causing all to work for good for those who love Him and are called according to his purpose, despite what happens in this world and despite how we feel. 10. If God is for us, no one can be against us. Jesus Himself is at the Father’s right hand, pleading for us. 11. Absolutely nothing will ever separate us from the love of God. Let’s savor and reflect on these words from Romans 8 together now. “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. The law of Moses was unable to save us because of the weakness of our sinful nature. So God did what the law could not do. He sent his own Son in a body like the bodies we sinners have. And in that body God declared an end to sin’s control over us by giving His Son as a sacrifice for our sins. He did this so that the just requirement of the law would be fully satisfied for us, who no longer follow our sinful nature but instead follow the Spirit. Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God’s laws, and it never will. That’s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God. But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to Him at all.) And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, He will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. Therefore, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as His own children Now we call Him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are His children, we are His heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share His glory, we must also share His suffering. Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later. For all creation is waiting eagerly for that future day when God will reveal who His children really are. Against its will, all creation was subjected to God’s curse. But with eager hope, the creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. And we believers also groan, even though we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as His adopted children including the new bodies He has promised us. We were given this hope when we were saved. If we already have something, we don’t need to hope for it. But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently. And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. For God knew His people in advance, and He chose them to become like His Son, so that His Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, He called them to come to Him. And having called them, He gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, He gave them His glory. What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Since He did not spare even his own Son but gave Him up for us all, won’t He also give us everything else? Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for His own? No one—for God Himself has given us right standing with Himself. Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and He is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us. Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean He no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Father God, thank you for the truths You pack into Romans 8 for us to ponder and treasure. Thank you for Your sacrifice and the release and relief we receive through Jesus, Your Precious Son. Help our mind remember and our heart be transformed to become more like Yours each day. May we look toward eternity with eager anticipation of what is to come and make choices now that prepare us to meet You face to face while living with fullness of joy and shining You to all we meet where we are right now. Thank you that Jesus is our constant hope, our joy, our assurance. May we become more like Him daily. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 050 Jesus, Our Constant Hope Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #050 – Jesus, Our Constant Hope Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Christmas 2020 is over. Did it meet your expectations? Was it everything you hoped for? Or was your holiday a disappointment? Unfortunately, in our human condition, we sometimes place expectations on our life that unless met, ruin our joy. The older I get, the more I try to live with the purpose of following and maturing in Jesus each day. Any difficulties or “unexpected blessings” that come in the course of the day are a way to help me accomplish that goal because they force me to look up, even when I may not feel like it. Have I arrived? Do I live perfectly? No. Definitely not! I’m human and I never want to leave the impression that I think I have all the perfect answers and responses to life. Yet, I strive to humbly bow to the Father with intention and purpose daily and I deeply desire to be altered moment by moment as I look and cling to Him. During my life, I’ve experienced holiday plans that didn’t work as I hoped, disappointment over not receiving a gift I desired, or worse, not seeing someone dear to me on a holiday. I’ve grieved loved ones who should have been at our dinner table or sitting around the tree with us. I’ve been pierced by the deep pain that comes from decorating the Christmas tree with unique ornaments full of memories that once belonged to deceased loved ones and continue to hang the stocking of a child who will never be with us again. You have no doubt experienced some or all of these things, too. Our human experience contains many pains that only Jesus can heal. I’ve found after many years, that when I purposely release expectations and place my hope in the Lord, I find true peace, joy, hope, and calm through His plans. When things don’t work out as I wanted or thought they should, I find I already have everything I really needed. Even in my darkest moments of life, when situations have been out of my control and there seemed to be no hope, I learned that when I keep my gaze locked on God and remain steadfastly hoping in Him, His grace and provisions are perfect and sufficient for my needs. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.” Amen! I have found this verse to be so accurate! I consider myself to be a strong person, but as I have matured in my faith and relationship with God through Jesus, I have learned that my true strength is His. My confidence, strength of mind and character, anything worthy in me is a result of the Holy Spirit living inside me and the transformations have come from that. When I make mistakes, it is the result of following my own flesh or letting my eyes slip from Him. Psalm 39:7 gives the best response we can offer in life. It says, “And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in You.” Did you know that the word, hope is used over 140 times in the Bible? Of course, it depends on which translation you use, but the fact is that God knew we would need assurance and encouragement to remain hopeful. He lovingly provides it through His word. Our Heavenly Father always walks ahead of us, and we recognize Him if we remain focused on Him, study and remember His words and guidance, and accept the provisions He places before us. We use the word, hope as something we believe strongly on, or put trust in, it means something we rely on, or feel will happen. Hope lifts us when we are down, gives us comfort and trust for the future, changes attitudes, helps us to envision a better future, or enables us to accomplish tasks because we see a chance for improvement. Hope is a powerful word that, like love, is defined by God, the author of life. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Anyone can hope, but those who put their faith in the Lord access authentic and omnipotent faith, confidence, and optimism. Our Heavenly Father is the author of hope. When we are His, we are able to rise above mere hope as the world sees it. The greatest hope you and I have is the assurance offered through Jesus Christ. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Faith is the mechanism that allows the things we hope for to become fact and allows us to carry bold confidence about our future. Because God is perfectly holy and unchangeable, we have assurance that His promises are true. Our hope becomes faith, which develops assurance in our faithful God. Because of the assurance we receive from God through Jesus, we can live with constant and unshakable hope. The book of Romans clearly shows us the righteousness of God, how He reveals His righteousness in this world through Jesus, and why that good news must be shared. Jesus is our hope in this broken and dark world. In Him we place our trust, hope, faith, and find our assurance. Although this is a long passage of scripture, I want to read the truths found in Romans, Chapter 8, verses 1-39. In this, we find all we need to infuse us with the true and lasting hope, assurance, and confidence required to complete the glorious life we have been gifted in this world and live with confident joy. As I read, please listen for many glorious truths and promises, which include: 1. There is absolutely no condemnation for those who are saved through Jesus Christ – we are free from the power of sin and death! 2. Our hope has become assurance. Jesus offered us with secure salvation through His sacrifice. 3. We are no longer slaves to our flesh. Our sinful desires have no control over us any longer. 4. Through Jesus, we stand unafraid before God as adopted sons and daughters of our Father. We are now God’s children and heirs. This spirit of adoption also releases us from the spirit of bondage to sin. 5. Now sharing in glory, we also share suffering, as Jesus did. 6. Our suffering is only for a time, as we eagerly await the day we are released from sin and suffering forever. 7. We have received the Holy Spirit within us as a deposit toward future glory with Christ. 8. Within us lives a helper who constantly searches our heart and intercedes when we have no words to express our thoughts and needs. 9. God is for us, causing all to work for good for those who love Him and are called according to his purpose, despite what happens in this world and despite how we feel. 10. If God is for us, no one can be against us. Jesus Himself is at the Father’s right hand, pleading for us. 11. Absolutely nothing will ever separate us from the love of God. Let’s savor and reflect on these words from Romans 8 together now. “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. The law of Moses was unable to save us because of the weakness of our sinful nature. So God did what the law could not do. He sent his own Son in a body like the bodies we sinners have. And in that body God declared an end to sin’s control over us by giving His Son as a sacrifice for our sins. He did this so that the just requirement of the law would be fully satisfied for us, who no longer follow our sinful nature but instead follow the Spirit. Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God’s laws, and it never will. That’s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God. But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to Him at all.) And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, He will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. Therefore, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as His own children Now we call Him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are His children, we are His heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share His glory, we must also share His suffering. Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later. For all creation is waiting eagerly for that future day when God will reveal who His children really are. Against its will, all creation was subjected to God’s curse. But with eager hope, the creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay. For we know that all creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. And we believers also groan, even though we have the Holy Spirit within us as a foretaste of future glory, for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as His adopted children including the new bodies He has promised us. We were given this hope when we were saved. If we already have something, we don’t need to hope for it. But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently. And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. For God knew His people in advance, and He chose them to become like His Son, so that His Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, He called them to come to Him. And having called them, He gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, He gave them His glory. What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Since He did not spare even his own Son but gave Him up for us all, won’t He also give us everything else? Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for His own? No one—for God Himself has given us right standing with Himself. Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and He is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us. Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean He no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Father God, thank you for the truths You pack into Romans 8 for us to ponder and treasure. Thank you for Your sacrifice and the release and relief we receive through Jesus, Your Precious Son. Help our mind remember and our heart be transformed to become more like Yours each day. May we look toward eternity with eager anticipation of what is to come and make choices now that prepare us to meet You face to face while living with fullness of joy and shining You to all we meet where we are right now. Thank you that Jesus is our constant hope, our joy, our assurance. May we become more like Him daily. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #058 – Building Biblical Self-Esteem Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I have been blessed over the last five years that we’ve had our youngest daughter home, to help her build self-esteem through who God desires her to be. Neglected for most of her life, learning to view herself with a higher esteem was not easy, and did not come naturally to her. However, once she knew whose she was through the sacrifice of Jesus, viewing herself through His eyes and building worth based on Him became tangible for her. How do we build biblical self-esteem? Many of us can think of someone with offensively high self-esteem. We know that often that conceit really masks low esteem of self. Or sometimes that inflated ego is because the person has been gifted with looks, wealth, or power that takes the place of God in their life. A person can begin to wrap identity in items, instead of who God created them to be through Him. Instead of a godly, biblical humility, they can achieve isolation, heartache, suffering, and mistakes or regret. In the book of Genesis, we learn the story of Cain, who was the first child born to Adam and Eve. Cain’s selfish, jealous heart is revealed when we read about the weak offering he made to the Lord. In contrast, his brother, Abel gave the best he had, exposing his contrite and grateful heart. Cain clearly did not give from a heart full of love and devotion to God. I find it interesting that in Hebrew, the name Cain sounds like the verb translated “I have acquired.” Cain wanted to achieve and collect all he could for himself, then pass the leftovers to God. Cain carried a secular, inflated self-esteem. 1 John 2:15-17 says, “Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.” Had Cain built his inflated self-worth and confidence on God and His provisions, he may have carried an attitude and heartset like his brother, Abel, who desired God to receive the very best he had. Abel was pleased to offer a sacrifice made on God’s terms and desires because he held a respectful, honoring, and humble mindset of his position with his Heavenly Father. Jeremiah 17:7 says, “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.” 1 Corinthians 2:3-5 says, “I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit. I did this so you would trust not in human wisdom but in the power of God.” But can our self-esteem drop too low? Then, there’s the flip side - those who build their worth on what they have learned the world expects. Some people have self-esteem so low that they are critical of every detail about themselves. Neither type of person is very enjoyable to be around for an extended time. Yet, I understand how easy it is to fall victim and get into the habit of harsh judgement on yourself. When we place more value on what others think of us (or what we perceive them to think), we will never “feel” good enough. Self-esteem built through this method can be formed through many means. Sometimes it is the way a person is raised. Often it comes from the experiences we had with people we thought were our friends, our accomplishments, talents, financial worth, opportunities, appearance, relationships, spouse, or children. Living with confidence, appeal, and worth created through a worldly perspective pulls us away from God as we rely on life experiences, people, thoughts, feelings, and emotions to build and inflate our self-esteem. We know culture and trends change quickly. Esteem for self through this method finds few highs and usually settles into depressing lows. When we do not cling to the Lord and view or respect ourselves as He sees us, we miss the opportunity to experience life with the fullness God purposed for us. We are each specially designed by God. He highly values us, no matter what we think of Him. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.” What do we do if we do not want to possess or project a bloated self-esteem, yet we do not desire to live with low or no confidence? How do we build esteem for self that biblically follows what God desires for us? Jesus was the perfect example of living with confidence in God, not self. Romans 12:3 says, “Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.” Jesus lived with the humble mind and heart of a servant. His only desire was to bring glory to the Father. Jesus placed the truth of who God is foremost in His life and obeyed every call made for Him. Glory was not something He craved or chased. Jesus lifted all praise, worship, honor, and glory to God. Yet, Jesus is worthy of living a life of high self-esteem. As the word is defined, self-esteem means a favorable impression of oneself or an inordinately or exaggeratedly favorable impression of oneself. Jesus could never live with an over-inflated ego, because He is worthy of everything. Yet, Jesus is our perfect model of exactly how God desires our esteem to be built. Philippians 2:3-11 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus who, though He was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted Him and bestowed on Him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” 2 Corinthians 10:17 says, “As the Scriptures say, “If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord.” Through the life model Jesus left for us to follow, He demonstrated perfect humility, love, and obedience that can only exist through the strength of God. Esteem others more highly than yourself. Ephesians 4:17-32 says, “So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed. “That, however, is not the way of life you learned when you heard about Christ and were taught in Him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” This can seem impossible. People will always let us down somehow. They hurt us, offend us, and betray us. It isn’t always strangers. Sometimes it is our spouse, child, parent, extended family member, a co-worker, or someone we considered to be a best friend. Yet, there is hope and healing through Jesus. Apart from Him we can do none of this. Jesus is our model for forgiveness. If He forgave each one of us, you and me, for all we have or will do, we can learn to forgive others. Eventually, we can even view them as worthy in Christ’s eyes and heart. Only through a personal relationship with Jesus can we achieve the mindset of Christ, which removes the “self” from our esteem and shifts it to Christ and all He made. We then understand the following important life shifts. 1. Only God is perfect. 2. Each one of us is a sinner who can only be saved by the grace of Jesus. 3. As we mature in Christ, we will model our life after Him and see ourselves as He does. 4. Because Jesus extended grace to us, we can offer it to others, and allow ourselves grace when needed, as well. 5. We can construct personal esteem through humility modeled by Jesus and strengthened by a healthy relationship with God and the value He places on us. Unless we honor, love, and obey God through an intentional, growing relationship, we cannot understand or appreciate the worth God sees in us and purposed for us and cannot build godly self-esteem. When we study the word and connect through prayer, praise, and worship, we set God in His rightful place and honor what He values above this world or ourselves. We see the worth in others and build a healthy esteem by fruits of the Spirit, and God’s values and expectations that drive us to seek Him for fulfillment, value, and worth. Through this strong and maturing relationship we allow God to fulfill us with the desires He placed in us. Esteem is built by a committed, consistent, Creator who yearns for each of us to shine for Him, not selfish personal glory. Romans 12:1-8 says, “Therefore I urge you, brothers, on account of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God. For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but think of yourself with sober judgment, according to the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and not all members have the same function, so in Christ we who are many are one body, and each member belongs to one another. We have different gifts according to the grace given us. If one’s gift is prophecy, let him use it in proportion to his faith; if it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is giving, let him give generously; if it is leading, let him lead with diligence; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.” 2 Corinthians 12:6-10 says, “If I wanted to boast, I would be no fool in doing so, because I would be telling the truth. But I won’t do it, because I don’t want anyone to give me credit beyond what they can see in my life or hear in my message, even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” Ephesians 3:12 says, “Because of Christ and our faith in Him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence.” Construct your worth and esteem of self on God’s view of you. Allow Him to work through you to hold that esteem to a biblical value and use God’s heart and mind to penetrate your life and carry you to do the work He has purposed for you. Father God, thank you that none of us should have to search this world for our worth . Help us not to build our self-esteem on secular values and keep us from forming warped opinions of ourselves or others, but let us strive to view all You have created with the love and worth You deem us to hold. Enable us to seek and worship You with the praise You deserve and please You with the value we place on You first, others next, and then self. Thank you for sending Jesus to model exactly what we need to do to live a life pleasing to You. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and encourage you to raise or influence children to chase Jesus instead of this world. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 058 Building Biblical Self-Esteem Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #058 – Building Biblical Self-Esteem Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. I have been blessed over the last five years that we’ve had our youngest daughter home, to help her build self-esteem through who God desires her to be. Neglected for most of her life, learning to view herself with a higher esteem was not easy, and did not come naturally to her. However, once she knew whose she was through the sacrifice of Jesus, viewing herself through His eyes and building worth based on Him became tangible for her. How do we build biblical self-esteem? Many of us can think of someone with offensively high self-esteem. We know that often that conceit really masks low esteem of self. Or sometimes that inflated ego is because the person has been gifted with looks, wealth, or power that takes the place of God in their life. A person can begin to wrap identity in items, instead of who God created them to be through Him. Instead of a godly, biblical humility, they can achieve isolation, heartache, suffering, and mistakes or regret. In the book of Genesis, we learn the story of Cain, who was the first child born to Adam and Eve. Cain’s selfish, jealous heart is revealed when we read about the weak offering he made to the Lord. In contrast, his brother, Abel gave the best he had, exposing his contrite and grateful heart. Cain clearly did not give from a heart full of love and devotion to God. I find it interesting that in Hebrew, the name Cain sounds like the verb translated “I have acquired.” Cain wanted to achieve and collect all he could for himself, then pass the leftovers to God. Cain carried a secular, inflated self-esteem. 1 John 2:15-17 says, “Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.” Had Cain built his inflated self-worth and confidence on God and His provisions, he may have carried an attitude and heartset like his brother, Abel, who desired God to receive the very best he had. Abel was pleased to offer a sacrifice made on God’s terms and desires because he held a respectful, honoring, and humble mindset of his position with his Heavenly Father. Jeremiah 17:7 says, “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.” 1 Corinthians 2:3-5 says, “I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit. I did this so you would trust not in human wisdom but in the power of God.” But can our self-esteem drop too low? Then, there’s the flip side - those who build their worth on what they have learned the world expects. Some people have self-esteem so low that they are critical of every detail about themselves. Neither type of person is very enjoyable to be around for an extended time. Yet, I understand how easy it is to fall victim and get into the habit of harsh judgement on yourself. When we place more value on what others think of us (or what we perceive them to think), we will never “feel” good enough. Self-esteem built through this method can be formed through many means. Sometimes it is the way a person is raised. Often it comes from the experiences we had with people we thought were our friends, our accomplishments, talents, financial worth, opportunities, appearance, relationships, spouse, or children. Living with confidence, appeal, and worth created through a worldly perspective pulls us away from God as we rely on life experiences, people, thoughts, feelings, and emotions to build and inflate our self-esteem. We know culture and trends change quickly. Esteem for self through this method finds few highs and usually settles into depressing lows. When we do not cling to the Lord and view or respect ourselves as He sees us, we miss the opportunity to experience life with the fullness God purposed for us. We are each specially designed by God. He highly values us, no matter what we think of Him. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.” What do we do if we do not want to possess or project a bloated self-esteem, yet we do not desire to live with low or no confidence? How do we build esteem for self that biblically follows what God desires for us? Jesus was the perfect example of living with confidence in God, not self. Romans 12:3 says, “Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.” Jesus lived with the humble mind and heart of a servant. His only desire was to bring glory to the Father. Jesus placed the truth of who God is foremost in His life and obeyed every call made for Him. Glory was not something He craved or chased. Jesus lifted all praise, worship, honor, and glory to God. Yet, Jesus is worthy of living a life of high self-esteem. As the word is defined, self-esteem means a favorable impression of oneself or an inordinately or exaggeratedly favorable impression of oneself. Jesus could never live with an over-inflated ego, because He is worthy of everything. Yet, Jesus is our perfect model of exactly how God desires our esteem to be built. Philippians 2:3-11 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus who, though He was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted Him and bestowed on Him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” 2 Corinthians 10:17 says, “As the Scriptures say, “If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord.” Through the life model Jesus left for us to follow, He demonstrated perfect humility, love, and obedience that can only exist through the strength of God. Esteem others more highly than yourself. Ephesians 4:17-32 says, “So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed. “That, however, is not the way of life you learned when you heard about Christ and were taught in Him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” This can seem impossible. People will always let us down somehow. They hurt us, offend us, and betray us. It isn’t always strangers. Sometimes it is our spouse, child, parent, extended family member, a co-worker, or someone we considered to be a best friend. Yet, there is hope and healing through Jesus. Apart from Him we can do none of this. Jesus is our model for forgiveness. If He forgave each one of us, you and me, for all we have or will do, we can learn to forgive others. Eventually, we can even view them as worthy in Christ’s eyes and heart. Only through a personal relationship with Jesus can we achieve the mindset of Christ, which removes the “self” from our esteem and shifts it to Christ and all He made. We then understand the following important life shifts. 1. Only God is perfect. 2. Each one of us is a sinner who can only be saved by the grace of Jesus. 3. As we mature in Christ, we will model our life after Him and see ourselves as He does. 4. Because Jesus extended grace to us, we can offer it to others, and allow ourselves grace when needed, as well. 5. We can construct personal esteem through humility modeled by Jesus and strengthened by a healthy relationship with God and the value He places on us. Unless we honor, love, and obey God through an intentional, growing relationship, we cannot understand or appreciate the worth God sees in us and purposed for us and cannot build godly self-esteem. When we study the word and connect through prayer, praise, and worship, we set God in His rightful place and honor what He values above this world or ourselves. We see the worth in others and build a healthy esteem by fruits of the Spirit, and God’s values and expectations that drive us to seek Him for fulfillment, value, and worth. Through this strong and maturing relationship we allow God to fulfill us with the desires He placed in us. Esteem is built by a committed, consistent, Creator who yearns for each of us to shine for Him, not selfish personal glory. Romans 12:1-8 says, “Therefore I urge you, brothers, on account of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God. For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but think of yourself with sober judgment, according to the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and not all members have the same function, so in Christ we who are many are one body, and each member belongs to one another. We have different gifts according to the grace given us. If one’s gift is prophecy, let him use it in proportion to his faith; if it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is giving, let him give generously; if it is leading, let him lead with diligence; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.” 2 Corinthians 12:6-10 says, “If I wanted to boast, I would be no fool in doing so, because I would be telling the truth. But I won’t do it, because I don’t want anyone to give me credit beyond what they can see in my life or hear in my message, even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” Ephesians 3:12 says, “Because of Christ and our faith in Him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence.” Construct your worth and esteem of self on God’s view of you. Allow Him to work through you to hold that esteem to a biblical value and use God’s heart and mind to penetrate your life and carry you to do the work He has purposed for you. Father God, thank you that none of us should have to search this world for our worth . Help us not to build our self-esteem on secular values and keep us from forming warped opinions of ourselves or others, but let us strive to view all You have created with the love and worth You deem us to hold. Enable us to seek and worship You with the praise You deserve and please You with the value we place on You first, others next, and then self. Thank you for sending Jesus to model exactly what we need to do to live a life pleasing to You. In Your precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and encourage you to raise or influence children to chase Jesus instead of this world. Be sure to sign up for my email list to be notified when my next resource, “Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child” releases soon. This eBook is an excellent encouragement and support for mothers or grandmothers of young children. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 084 - Prayer Basics You Need to Teach Your Children Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 084 – Prayer Basics You Need to Teach Your Children One of my favorite times is when I come before God at the end of each day with my husband and daughters to pray. This habit has created treasured memories and a time of special blessings in multiple ways. When I listen to my husband pray for me I feel such a deeper connection with him. It deepens my love for him even more. Listening to the sweet voices of my daughters lift praises and petitions to God fills me with such joy. Knowing that my daughters are growing up with a father who places God first and sets an example through prayer is a generational gift. Like believing moms should, you’re also probably teaching your children who God is, but are you teaching them how to pray ? Do they understand how to approach their Heavenly Father as they come into His presence? Are you mentoring a strong prayer life? One of the questions I’ve received the most as a Christian mindset and parenting coach is about prayer. How should mothers teach their children to pray? I appreciate this question. I believe it is a beautiful testament to the fact that these women love God and want to ensure that their children love and serve Him in a godly way. First, however, mothers need to understand the meaning and blessings of prayer and be ready to teach their children the art and gift of devotion to God through prayer. Prayer is a beautifully simple, yet complex act of love extended from God at great cost. Because of Christ, we can approach the throne of God with open communication. Jesus built a bridge that leads us straight to God. It’s vital that you understand the sacrifice and love that gives us opportunity for a strong prayer life. Utilizing this gift allows your children to witness your devotion to God. They are able to learn the great mercy and grace of God through you. Teaching your child how to pray is simple when you live with a prayerful attitude and lifestyle. As your children witness your devotion to and reverence for God, you will be able to build a firm foundation on which they will prayerfully build their house of faith. 1. Let your child witness your consistent prayer life. Let them see you pray, hear you pray for them, and hear you pray for others, the culture, your husband, your pastor, etc. 2. Let you children observe you stopping to pray for others when they talk to someone who needs prayer. 3. Teach your child the basics of prayer – which we will address in this podcast. 4. Grow your child’s prayer life as they mature. As you learn prayer basics, you will observe when it is time to teach them to deepen their prayer roots. 5. Begin when your children are babies. Clasp their tiny hands together as you place your hands over theirs. Start simple, “Dear God, you are so good! I love you. Thank you for my food. Amen.” As your children mature, teach them more about prayer. As you mentor how to craft prayers, teach them to cover these basics: respect God, praise God, submit to God, repent to God, petition God, rely on God, and thank God. There is so much to share about prayer. We could go through many episodes just on this subject. I think the best way to start today is by sharing two passages of Scripture. First, I’ll read from Luke 11. Luke 11:1-13 says, “One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When He finished, one of His disciples said to Him, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.” He said to them, “When you pray, say: “‘Father, hallowed be Your name, Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us. And lead us not into temptation.’ Then Jesus said to them, “Suppose you have a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have no food to offer him.’ And suppose the one inside answers, ‘Don’t bother me. The door is already locked, and my children and I are in bed. I can’t get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, even though he will not get up and give you the bread because of friendship, yet because of your shameless audacity he will surely get up and give you as much as you need. “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? If he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” This short passage reveals much, but one very important point is that prayer is a two-fold matter of faith and obedience . We trust that God will fulfill His word. Even when it feels like He isn’t present, we trust that He is. We trust that He is listening and is actively working in ways we may not see or understand. As we persistently pursue Him and continue trusting in Him (while acting in obedience as we believe and wait), we proclaim our trust in Him as we also deepen our faith. We trust that whatever His answer or provision is, it is a perfectly timed and offered gift that will honor and glorify Him. It will give us exactly what He knows we need. It is what will help us to humbly submit and continue maturing our walk with Him. Another truth we receive from this passage is that there is absolutely nothing more important than resting in the presence of Jesus. Serving, sharing, and seeing Him are all distinct ways to honor Him, but the trust and worship we extend through resting with Him in prayer is unequaled. If we reflect on the words of Jesus as He instructed His disciples on the heart of prayer, we are able to clearly see He mentored 7 important points we can follow and teach to our children. 1. Approach God as Father - because He is the Great I Am. He may not be flesh and blood standing next to you where you can see Him, but He is beside, within, and before you. He is your Heavenly Father. This begins your prayer with deep respect for God. 2. Adore Him . He is your Creator, your Provider, your Comforter, and your Healer. He is holy. He is worthy to be praised! Hallowed be His name. This offers praise to our Great I Am. 3. Allow His authority and His will to reign in your heart, mind, and attitude. As Jesus said, “Thy will be done.” God desires that we submit to Him in all things. 4. Admit that He is sovereign , and you are a sinner. Repent and restore your walk with God. 5. Accept God’s ability to provide . Believe that He will. As you petition God, trust and wait for Him. 6. Abundant strength against temptation is your protection if you remain rooted in Him. God is sufficient for your every need. Armor is His specialty . God is your Shield, your Protector. Revel in the beauty of relationship with and reliance on Him. 7. Abba Provides . In fact, 1 Corinthians 2:9 tells us that “no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him ”—God has a beautiful future in store for you in eternity, and He also protects and provides, guides and guards us even now. Thank Him for all He has done, is doing, and will do. Do you notice the 7 basics I referred to earlier? Respect, praise, submit, repent, petition, rely, and thank God. Now I’ll share from Matthew 6. Matthew 6:5-13 says, “And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathens do. For they think that they will be heard for their many words. Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him. In this manner, therefore, pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.’” As you listened to the Lord’s Prayer in this passage of Scripture, you heard how Jesus taught the perfect model for prayer. Although it is a perfect prayer, do not memorize it for the purpose of mindlessly reciting it. The prayers we offer to the Father must be from your heart and the heart of your child. However, the Lord’s Prayer teaches us that there is a beautiful pattern we may use when praying that helps ensure we honor God in the way He deserves. Let’s dig a little deeper into what this passage reveals. 1. When the Pharisees prayed, it was at arranged times and in front of public places so that they could be recognized and praised for their so-called devotion to God. Jesus is not criticizing public prayer, rather, He is exposing and denouncing false and self-absorbed prayer. The core of prayer is personal. While we may pray for others, our purpose and desires through prayer are between us and our Father. Even when we pray aloud in a public setting, our heart and mind should be focused on, meditating on, and speaking to Him , not impressing others. 2. The Lord’s Prayer is a beautiful example of the qualities Jesus desires us to possess as we pray. However, while it is acceptable to pray as written in the Bible, we must not allow routine or memorized prayers to flow mindlessly from our heart and lips. The Lord desires and deserves our mind and heart to be alive and active when we humbly bow before Him. This prayer template modeled by Jesus sets a tone and instructs us how to pray the priorities of our Father . 3. As we pray to our Father in Heaven as Jesus mentors, we acknowledge God’s deep and profoundly intimate love and recognize His promise that we are heirs in His family. 4. The beautiful words, “Your kingdom come” reveal both God’s spiritual reign and His approaching sovereignty over all of creation. When believers become Christians, we receive the Spirit of God within us, but will also experience the fulfillment of God’s kingdom when Jesus returns in His full eminence and institutes His glorious new world order. 5. As we pray for our “daily bread,” we submissively recognize and accept our dependence on God to supply our every need. He does not always grant us exactly what we desire, but it is always greater than we could anticipate and exactly meets our needs, even if we don’t recognize it in the moment. 6. As Jesus extended forgiveness to us, we must also forgive others. Often, when we are wounded, the only way we can forgive is through the mighty, supernatural power of the Lord. In order to do this, our relationship with God must be a priority . Believers must also regularly confess our sins to the Lord and seek to live in the ways we know He desires and are acceptable when exposed by His light. Otherwise, our relationship will weaken and can become strained or closed off. Although God has promised that we can never be plucked from His hand, when we are not living as we should, we do easily drift away from Him. 7. When we live in the power and light of God, and are striving to be pleasing to Him, our prayers are heard and answered as we pray in the ways that are desirable and acceptable to Him. When we pray for protection from temptation and the evil one, God will hear and provide. Both sections of Scripture I shared showcase the loving guidance and wisdom of Jesus as He highlights the sanctity of prayer. Purposely and patiently, He showed His disciples (and us) how to approach our Heavenly Father through the gift of prayer . What else can we learn from these passages as we look more closely at Jesus’s words? One thing to remember as you begin prayer to your Heavenly Father (or teaching your children to pray) is God’s position . In the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus begins by praying to “our Father in Heaven .” This begins prayer with the proper descriptor of and honor to God. When you call God your Father, you are proclaiming that you acknowledge His love for you as His child. When you teach your children to do the same, they develop their understanding of God as their Heavenly Father and their identity through Him. Prayer is a necessity for anyone desiring to draw nearer to God and live a life pleasing to Him. If you expect intimate, personal fellowship with your holy Creator, you must cultivate relationship with God through His Word and through prayer. Praise God that through Jesus, we have direct access to Him. This is what you want your children to know and strive for! Prayer has grown to be such an automatic response within my brain and body that like breathing, I often do not even realize I am speaking to God. When disaster strikes or emergencies arise, my first response is to fall in humble position before my Father and ask Him to carry the load. Even when the situation is too critical for prayer because time is urgent, my mind and mouth utter the sweet words that bring me comfort and peace each time I say His name aloud. Jesus. Just like every aspect of your faith life, prayer must be something you pursue . Once you realize that you require this lifeline and discipline in your walk with the Lord, you will establish methods to ensure that you connect through worship, praise, and petition . Prayer exposes your core belief system. Kneeling before your Lord in supplication, whether literally or through heart and mindset, is a natural extension of your personal relationship with and belief in Him. Your reliance on prayer exhibits your dependence on God, humbling your position with Him, and proving the level of your reliance on Him. How do you teach your children a lifestyle of prayer? First, you establish connection with God through Christ, then through prayer. An important question to ponder shouldn’t be how do you teach prayer, but rather, by Whom do you establish this access. Jesus is your life and prayer model. As I said earlier, because of Christ, you can approach God boldly through prayer. Teaching this truth to your children begins building the basics of their foundation in Christ. A consistent prayer life molds your child’s mind and heart. God works in you, enabling you to become a godlier mother. God works in your children as they observe your lifestyle of praise, repentance, and thanksgiving through prayer. He transforms the character of you and your children as you each humbly submit to God through prayer. When God sent His Son to earth, it wasn’t simply to offer His life as a sacrifice for our sins (as wonderful as that is). God stepped into this world to exist and walk among us. He came to show us exactly how to live and how to pray . I also believe it’s important to consider the difference in time periods (when Jesus lived versus now). Obviously, Jesus had to live when He did in order for events to occur as God ordained, but beyond that, if you examine the way of life during that time compared to current lifestyle, you probably agree that your life is much easier. Yet, despite daily requirements for survival, chores, and occupation, then later the pressures and demands of His ministry, Jesus still consistently created time to spend communicating with His Heavenly Father. God was His Source of life. Nothing else could sustain Him. Our lifestyles occupy every second of our day and keep us permanently distracted with work, activities, electronics, and hobbies. But all souls were created with a deep need to be nurtured and refreshed by God . Our minds need the interaction, guidance, and wisdom that only He can supply. We were not created for constant preoccupation with earthly diversions. Our heart, mind, and spirit crave much more than this world could ever provide. Teach your children to crave Christ, not culture . Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God .” How do you follow the instructions of Romans 12:2? By studying, knowing, and applying God’s Word. Also, by heeding the words in the following verse. Colossians 4:2 says, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful .” Build relationship with God through Christ, God’s Word, and prayer. What a gift you have received that God entrusts you to model and mentor these truths to your children. Remember, Jesus, through His perfect example of Son seeking Father , committed to sacrificing for God. He willingly planned and enjoyed spending time with His Father. To stand in the presence of God was Jesus’s desire , His lifeline . Christ devoted Himself to constant communication and set-apart prayer times with the Father. How often do you sacrifice for time with God? Are you teaching your child to sacrifice and make time for God? Not out of duty, but to create relationship. Prayer opens the door to hearing and speaking to the Father, building deep relationship. Since Jesus is our mentor for connection to the Father, let’s examine two important aspects of the way He prayed. 1. Jesus prayed without ceasing . His breath and thoughts coexisted in behavior and habits of praise developed through reliance on and relationship with God through prayer. Because He built relationship, Jesus existed in a constant state of heart and prayer connection with His Father . 2. Jesus prepared for prayer . His mind and attitude were prepared to hear God. His heart was primed. As you bow before God with petition, your personal sins must be released. You should seek repentance and restoration with your Heavenly Father before imploring Him with requests. In other words, your communication should consistently be prioritized, and your walk refreshed moment by moment as you humbly submit to Christ. Relationship with God is a mutual and emotional connection requiring your commitment and diligence for it to flourish . James 5:16 reminds us, “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective .” Instead of bowing before the Lord without much forethought, or asking others who appear “godlier” in their Christian walk to carry your prayer burdens, Jesus modeled the way for you to open yourself to intentional personal time with God. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking others to petition the Lord for you or for you to pray for others. Intercessory prayer is important for several reasons, but in order to grow and deepen your connection with God, you need intimate , intentional , individual moments to share undisturbed, undistracted time with Him. If you are unable to spend this solitary time with God, you will never be able to teach your children to desire or know how to be with Him in prayer. Obviously, the easiest way to create this special time in prayer is to simply begin. Do so with the determination that you will persist until regularity is established. Genuine and connected relationship is the goal, not a fancy, complicated system. Meeting with God can be as simple as getting up early or staying up late or carving out time through the day. If a special area needs to be designated, use a spare room, or an area in an existing space, such as a favorite desk or chair. A piece of floor in the closet may also work. You don’t even need a certain place, but you do need your heart to be prepared. The goal is to come before the Lord in prayer at special times through the day, but also to be in constant communion with God as your thoughts intermingle with His like breathing . It is also important to analyze why you want to pray. Do you view the time as a way to mark a box off of your spiritual checklist? Or do you crave a personal relationship with Christ that deepens daily? Knowing and understanding why you want to pray will enable you to properly teach your children. Personal needs, needs of loved ones, friend requests, requests from church members, world issues, prayer for leaders and pastors, family needs, and prayers to draw nearer to God are common requests to lift to God. As you continue to develop your relationship with Christ and live with a deeper eternal perspective, you recognize many more topics to carry to God in quiet time, as well as lifting praise, offering repentance, and gratitude. We need the Lord so much in every way as we journey through this life and prepare for the next. How beautiful it is to teach your children at a young age so they will live a life in fullness of communication with their Heavenly Father. It is important to remember that Jesus taught us to examine our relationship with our Heavenly Father, the reasons we pray, and the routine in which we pray. Let’s stop to look at more prayer basics. In order to honor God and teach your children to pray in the most honoring, effective ways, these reminders are essential. Remember, start with the basics we talked about early in this episode. Deepen your personal prayer walk, and guide your children in how to build and mature their prayer life as they grow. Depth won’t happen overnight, but you will have a plan to nurture the gift of prayer. 1. Prayer does not have to be fancy . Be faithful, be authentic; speak from your heart. Be focused on your Heavenly Father. Distractions come so quickly! Try to keep from wondering how much longer you should pray, whether the kids are going to come busting through the door, or whether it’s time to eat. 1 Kings 8:28 says, “Yet regard the prayer of Your servant and his supplication, O Lord my God, and listen to the cry and the prayer which Your servant is praying before You today. ” Begin by coming before the God of all creation. Begin or deepen your relationship with Him. He wants you . 2. Pray with confidence formed through a secure and growing relationship with Jesus. Psalm 55:1-2a says, “Give ear to my prayer, O God, and do not hide Yourself from my supplication. Attend to me, and hear me .” You can approach His throne with assurance that He hears and sees you. 3. Always pray in alignment with scripture and the character of God . Psalm 139:23 says, “Examine me, O God, and know my mind; test me, and discover my thoughts .” A deep prayer relationship with the Lord will align your heart and desires to His , not require God to fulfill your wishes or whims. 4. Trust that prayer works . When you don’t know what to pray, the Holy Spirit will intercede. Romans 8:26 says, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words .” If you are a follower of Christ, you are guaranteed that the Holy Spirit is alive and active within you. When you carry intense pressure, heavy concerns, or are in deep emotional, mental, physical, financial, or spiritual pain, and you don’t have the words you need to express yourself, the Spirit intercedes because He searches your heart, knows the mind of your Father, and makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God (Romans 8:27 ). What a holy, beautiful truth to teach your children about the grace and goodness of God. 5. Rest in knowing that God hears . He is at work. Psalm 102:17 says, “He shall regard the prayer of the destitute, and shall not despise their prayer .” Psalm 55:16-17 says, “As for me, I will call upon God, and the Lord shall save me. Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, and He shall hear my voice .” Trust that even if His answer is not what you desired, it is good, God-honoring, and will grow your walk with Him if you humbly submit. 6. Remain in prayerful attitude , even when not physically praying. This so important to apply in your life and to mentor to your watching children. Colossians 4:2 says, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful .” Your attitude, words, actions, and reactions are seen. What you do matters and impresses more than what you say . 7. Consider fasting . But if you choose to do so, keep it between you and the Lord. Mark 9:29 says, “So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting. ” Prayerfully determine whether you need to fast. Fasting is something God would direct us to do or is a sacrifice we willingly and privately make for Him. It is not only abstaining from food, but may be anything that pulls us from Him. Something that your heart desires more than God such as television, shopping, video games, phones, social media, etc. can be lifted in sacrifice to God for a season or permanently. 8. Live with gratitude , whether or not your prayer is answered the way you want God to answer, and even when His timing is not want you desire. Your attitude easily dictates the future of your faith journey. 2 Corinthians 4:15 says, “All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God. ” I waited approximately 43 years for God to answer my prayer that my dad stop drinking. The answer was not in the way I hoped for or expected, but God’s answer was intimate and in a way that was personal to my father and myself. 9. Listen and evaluate what you believe God reveals to you through prayer. Make sure it is from Him . Does it align with His nature and word? Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” 10. Lift God’s word to Him in prayer . Power flows from the word of God. Isaiah 55:11 says, “So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.” Using prayer in praise and petition works mightily. A beautiful way to begin prayer time is to pray scripture that praises God and Who He is. Praying scripture also connects your heart to God and prepares you to worship and petition more as He would desire. God’s holy word is highly effective and never returns void. 11. Model prayer life after Jesus . Growing and sustaining a godly walk with His Father was a top priority for Jesus. He knew His reason for being on earth and was devoted to knowing , trusting , and making God known. Various scriptures attest to the life Jesus led through prayer. Proverbs 15:8 says, “The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked, but the prayer of the upright pleases Him .” Jesus was deliberate about the way He approached His Heavenly Father and the way He prayed because of His reverence and love for God. I’m so thankful we have instructions through God’s Word and the Holy Spirit inside to advise, train, and discipline us in our walk with God and prayer life. What a joyful blessing we have that Jesus Himself left instructions on how to pray! Remember, Jesus modeled a perfect prayer life. He also often sought and found ways to be alone with His Heavenly Father. Luke 5:16 says, “So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed. ” How do we expect to hear God speaking or guiding us when we are always distracted and preoccupied? Jesus knew the importance of solitude. He respected and honored His Father enough to ensure that He made the time. Here are three other examples of Jesus seeking the Father in private. Matthew 14:23 says, “After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone .” Luke 6:12 says, “One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God .” Mark 1:35 says, “Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed .” God gave His Holy word, so full of godly wisdom and instruction, as well as the perfect living example of truth and light - Jesus, God in flesh, who walked among us, the template, the way to serve, love, and honor Him. God knows the season you’re currently in. He understands your heart, motives, and desires. Attune your heart and mind to His. Prayerfully ask Him to lead and guide you to make the time He desires you to share with Him. Most productive habits develop through daily or lifelong routines. After being established, we usually don’t even think of them as they become a necessary part of our life. Continue maturing your walk with Christ so you will be the guide leading your children to the perfect role model, Jesus. Then show them how to communicate with the One who desires their presence now and for eternity. Dear Heavenly Father, You are the Great I Am. You are the Maker of Heaven and Earth. No one compares to You. Thank you for enabling us to have easy and instant access to You through Jesus. How well You have gone before us and provided all we need to know and follow You. Thank you for Your loving kindness to us. Help us live with our eyes, mind, and heart focused on You. Help us make time to study and apply Your Word in our life. Help us to communicate intimately with You through the gift of prayer. Equip us to mentor prayer to our children so they will clearly know and communicate with You in pleasing and loving ways that bring You honor and joy. Thank you for loving us first and calling us to Yourself. Help our children heed Your call in every way You desire. In the precious name of Jesus I pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. Godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Have you decided peers and culture won’t be the main influence over your child? Would you like to parent to prepare your child for eternity with Christ, not to repair a relationship? In the Set-Apart Collective, you will deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. The Set-Apart Collective is open now. Please send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information or look online at terrihitt.com/setapart. We can also set up a 15 minute call to chat about details. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. By the way, this isn’t a course, it’s an interactive program with one-on-one access to me and like-minded women who want to pursue Christ with their children. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? It only takes a minute or so and makes a big difference in people finding the podcast. 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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 018 - Shaping the Heart Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #018 – Shaping the Heart Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. When we brought our youngest child home from China, it took so many months for her to fully adjust. Days were a combination of multiple steps backwards and one or two forward. Some days we seemed to simply exist, learning more about each other and taking no forward gains or losses as we lived. Trust came slowly and was very hard-earned. Although from our perspective, we loved her before we went to get her, from her viewpoint, this new life change was basically a kidnapping. Being told to leave with complete strangers, our daughter had to gather enormous courage to come with us and forge a brand new identity and life in another country, learn a new language, eat new foods, experience new sounds, smells, and clothing, and undergo many medical tests, procedures, and surgeries. Although my girls got along from the beginning, it was almost too smooth. They never fought, probably because communication was difficult. There were moments of deep frustration, but they never lashed out at each other or caused harm or hardship to one another. Now that my youngest has been with us for seven years, their relationship has changed and grown, but they still maintain a beautiful respect for each other. Over time, our youngest has seen consistent love and attention, and is now able to discuss those days with hindsight and insight accumulated over the years. Now that my two girls have a history of shared parenting and family events, stories, laughter, and grief they have bonded through, they are able to communicate and share together. Much as they have shaped their hearts for sisterhood, we must shape the heart of our children for recognition of God’s truths and commands . In chapter four of the book of Genesis, we learn about siblings, Cain and Abel, the sons of Adam and Eve. Unfortunately, due to a hardened heart and jealousy, which brought out his sinful nature, Cain eventually murdered his younger brother, Abel. Genesis 4:1-8 says, “Adam made love to his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, “With the help of the Lord I have brought forth a man.” Later she gave birth to his brother Abel. Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil. In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the Lord. And Abel also brought an offering—fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The Lord looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering He did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast. Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.” Now Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let’s go out to the field.” While they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him. ” This story of Cain and Abel is reflective of the choices our children have in their approach to and relationship with God. Your child may have a heart like Abel that respects our Heavenly Father and offers the finest they have to give. Or your child could have a heart like Cain that isn’t devoted to God, and prompts them to offer as little to God as they think they can escape with. What signs do you see? Does your child get angry when you or someone else in authority corrects or disciplines him or her? Does he or she ignore your repeated requests to make good choices? Reaction to correction and circumstances exposes whether a heart is haughty or humble. As mothers, it is our duty to recognize and react to the responses we receive from our children. Ignoring a retort or refusal to complete a required task may be easier in the moment, but God calls us to a standard of excellence when shaping the heart of each child. Hard work or confrontation is rarely convenient or easy. One important fact I believe mothers should memorize is that we must look beyond the behavior to the root cause . Most of the time reactions are not about us, but stem from something that has taken root in the heart of our child . Parenting is about shaping the heart, not simply erasing wrong behavior. It’s often tempting for mothers to want to get away from behavior that causes embarrassment or hardship, but it is the time we need to step away from how it is making us feel and try to pinpoint what pain is causing our child to react as they are. We can’t simply discipline without teaching the moral reasons the behavior exhibited was wrong or sinful. Correction without connection and God’s moral compass will collapse. Luke 6:45 says, “A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” Since behavior is determined by the heart, we must intentionally shepherd the heart in advance . When conflict arises, we must parent behaviors by directing attention back to the heart, which drives future conduct and attitude . When we help our child realize , understand , and link their disposition and desires to sinfulness and teach them how the sin in their hearts guides actions , true and lasting change begins. If discipline is made without drawing attention to the heart issues behind the behaviors, both parent and child miss the deeper effects that prompt connection with the parent, child, and our Heavenly Father. To achieve heart change , we have to confront what is happening within the heart and direct them to God’s word and humble relationship with Him. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. ” Your children will be attracted to or repelled by the God they have come to know through you. Without God’s word to guide them, your children discern right and wrong from watching your actions. We must study God’s Word in order to know it, teach it, and recognize when we are being misled by false doctrine. We must love God and His word so much that it attracts our children to learn it for themselves. Matthew 6:21 says, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. ” God’s wisdom is required for the unique child He created and is entrusting you to influence for Him. When you place your walk with Christ at the top of your priorities, He will graciously guide you in how to reach your child if you ask for His wisdom and insight. Allow Him to carry you each day. Be specific about what you desire Him to allow you to see and how to parent specific actions or characteristics of your child. Is life perfect because we are believers? No. It never will be in this sinful world. But we are able to place priorities in the order God requires and we value what God deems as good. As our children see these qualities and characteristics within us being lived consistently, as we discuss issues with them and make observations through daily life, drawing our children back to God’s word and values as their compass and guide, their character is changed through Christ, as well. Just as Jesus came to save and serve, we must look beyond self and allow Christ to work within us to affect the present and future of our children. If we look at each day with the eternal perspective of Christ, looking ahead to what His word tells us He desires and what God considers important, we are more easily able to keep our mind focused and become more like the image of Christ each day. The best parenting takes place when we reside in the Father’s hands. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” If you would like me to go into greater detail about shepherding the heart, please notify me at info@terrihitt.com . I’d be happy to make future podcasts about this topic. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for Your love for us. Thank you for the gift of motherhood. Through the trials, hardships, triumphs, and joys, we long to trust in You. Please craft our hearts to seek You first and allow Your work within us so that You can pour through us to reach the children You have entrusted to us. Help us to seek You when we are frustrated, afraid, lonely, or confused. Help us to confide in You and seek Your approval and guidance. Please remove the selfishness and sinfulness within each of us and our children and replace it with Your humility and hope. Help us to love our children with the pure love You have for them and see them with Your eternal-focused mind and heart. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. Both of my podcasts may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and are also part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. If you find value in what you hear through my podcasts, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. I suggest listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast episode 2, “Mentor God’s Heart.” You may easily find this episode at terrihitt.com. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page. Also, have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? Would you please consider doing so? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate their online standing so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Do you believe in the mission of helping others deepen their walk with Jesus, live with eyes set on eternity, and raise or influence children for Christ? If so, would you please write a review and rate this podcast for me? It is incredibly important to help mothers recognize the need to raise children to know Jesus and to be a godly parent , instead of just focusing on being a good parent. Please also follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #126 – Developing a Humble Attitude Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. As I was in the office one recent evening, I heard the sounds of my family chatting in the kitchen. My husband had arrived home from work a bit earlier and was doing a few things with the girls. As their voices floated into my hearing, one of my daughters asked him, “Is there anything I can help you with?” It’s not unusual for her to do this as she often looks for ways to help others. Matthew 23:11-12 says, “The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” This world makes it so easy, so enticing to cling to self, to make ourselves known, or put ourselves first. In fact, our culture encourages this practice. Yet God, in His perfect wisdom, instructs us to do the opposite. Our attitude is not to reflect the values and teachings of this world. Mark 10:45 says, “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Have you personally experienced (or seen through others) that the more we exalt self, the more pressure we actually feel? Our spirit becomes increasingly demanding for more attention to self. By carrying this attitude, we add demands to our time and resources. Yet when we humble ourselves and simply serve from a heart for God and others, we experience joy and freedom. Here’s one example from my life that shows how attitude affects self and others. When my middle daughter was young and begged to participate in a natural pageant system, I was torn. We had no idea what to expect. We checked the system out, spoke to women who had allowed their children to take part in the system, and met with the people who ran the program. Everything was family-focused and safe. There was no makeup or swimsuits, and the girls were encouraged to compete in the good ways, using gifts and talents God gave them. The girls were also encouraged to serve in the community and they learned valuable public speaking and interview skills that would serve them well throughout life. Like any hobby or sport, pageants can get expensive. As we looked for wardrobe, which is a major piece in pageant competitions, we happened to find a dress my daughter absolutely loved and had seen in magazine photos on Craigslist. The gown was selling at at a very low price, so we met the seller and tried the dress on. It fit perfectly! I made my daughter a little interview suit out of beautiful peacock-colored fabric she selected and she helped design the pattern of the suit. As complete pageant novices, we carefully prepared for everything we thought we would need, but just before it was time to leave to compete at the pageant, she had a growth spurt and the beautiful dress of her dreams was now about three inches too short! We kept that special dress and my daughter wore it onstage with flats. We made several other rookie mistakes as well, but our girl still had an absolutely wonderful time and won many awards, as well as the second runner-up to the state queen title. As we learned more about the pageant world, we experienced that there is much more involved than what people perceive when watching on television or mentally judging the pageant contestants. We met many wonderful mothers and daughters, who just like us, wanted their child to find encouragement and support as they also used their talents and interests. What really stood out for my daughter and me, as she went on to do other pageants was that we quickly learned the more we gave to and served others, the more peace and joy we experienced in our own life. It became less about competition and more of a way to grow her skills and serve our community. While in the beginning I admit, I just wanted my daughter to win, cheering for the daughters of other women later became easy. My prayers were for them to also do the best they could. Instead of isolating ourselves or using the competition for the sole purpose of advancing personal interests or goals, my daughter and I learned that an attitude focused on God and others brought deeper relationship and joy. As my daughter served others she competed against, as well as the community, it deepened my faith roots and allowed my daughter to gain incredible interview, speaking, organizational, and service gifts. The experience grew our love for others, multiplying and deepening our love for the Lord because our hearts were being molded to become a little more like His. Philippians 2:2-4 says, “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” As my daughter competed, growing her capabilities and confidence, I learned much about myself. As a believer, I like to think I try to keep my mind and heart in alignment with Christ, but I began to understand ways my thoughts were actually far from his. When my daughter performed, I prayed that all went well for her. Of course, I didn’t want anything bad to happen to the other girls she competed against, but in my heart, I wanted my daughter to win, and I thought she should. Over time, God shaped me in new ways as He grew her capabilities. Love for my girl pushed me to desire the best for her, but I learned that sometimes the best for her wasn’t the best for someone else. Each of the girls deserved God’s very best for their life. I felt God working in me and my daughter, and we truly began to enjoy the other competitors and their mothers. We began offering tips to help them, even when they competed against my girl, and we cheered for them with true support as they performed onstage. Soon, we developed what I considered true friendships with the other girls and their mothers. Joy was felt for them, even when other girls did better than my daughter or placed higher in the estimation of the judges. I finally understood that in God’s eyes, what mattered was how we treated others at the competition, whether He was honored in our heart and mind as we interacted with them through the week, and how we grew our walk with Him in the process. Attitudes spring from many places. Our desires, thoughts, feelings, and emotions can get so twisted and confusing. It’s no wonder that our mood and mindset can easily shift like the wind. Often, our attitude is birthed by pain, abuse, trauma, trials, tragedies, or greed. Even fun activities like pageants, sports, jobs, or hobbies can bring out unexpected attitudes. If we aren’t actively seeking a heart like Jesus, believing His estimation of us and striving to be more like Him, even a funny look or a harsh word from another person can trigger an attitude. Philippians 2:2-5 says, “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.” It's not easy to consistently put others before self. Of course, as a parent, that’s the easiest time, but what about a stranger? What about someone who has offended you? What about someone who receives something you wanted? When we put others first, our attitude is adjusted into a mindset of giving and serving. It’s difficult to hold resentments and self-serving desires when we are intentionally renewing our mind and actions daily to align with those of the Lord. It’s impossible to get through a day without needing Him to carry or craft our attitude in some capacity. In my personal life, I think the fastest way to affect my attitude is usually letting myself get over tired or very hungry. One recent evening I was both. On my way to the kitchen, I walked to the entryway area of our home without any lights on and I didn’t realize our Golden Retriever was laying outside the office door. When I stepped out of the office I tripped over him, almost falling to the ground and twisting my back to keep from doing so, I spilled half of my tea on the floor. I could feel the snap in my attitude. Immediately I wanted to be cranky. Thankfully, I had just been in the office working on this very podcast. I had just been reading verses about the mind and attitude of Christ. I had been praying about what to write and deliver God’s message. As I spoke the word, “seriously” aloud, I knew my thoughts and emotions were headed in the wrong direction, which would surely pull my attitude down as well. Only because I had the foundation of being in the Word and an already prayerful attitude was I able to pull my thoughts back to a godlier place and keep from complaining to my family or scolding the dog, who thought he was doing me a favor by keeping me company. What happens when we aren’t relying on the Lord to sustain and protect us? We can quickly fall victim to tantrums, outbursts, or actions we later regret. Even when we are walking closely with God we sometimes fall victim to needing attitude adjustments. It’s so important to purposely focus on keeping the mind of Christ. Through Christ, and our relationship with Him, we are able to do as Colossians 3:10 says. “put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.” The cloak of pleasant attitude only fits when we are in shape by exercising the power of God’s word and actively maturing our walk with Him through Jesus. Through our salvation in Christ we see that He is able to work within us, equipping us to do all He speaks and models for us. Hebrews 6:10 says, “God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them. “ The fastest way to hurt someone else is to let our unchecked attitude affect them. Many things cause attitudes that need adjustment. Embarrassment, disappointment, rejection, expectations, fear, anger, trauma, hardship, control, failure, illness, jealousy, loneliness, sleeplessness, or hunger are just some of the main culprits that cause us to look to self and experience attitude. Whenever we think of ourselves before others or fail to reside in the mindset of the Holy Spirit, our mindset is always affected in a negative way. I believe there are 5 points to remember in order to build a humble attitude. 1. Superiority – Knowing we are each equal in the eyes of God and that His love is the same for everyone allows us to see others with eyes and heart that better mirror Jesus. 2. Survival – Taking care of ourselves so that we do not fall victim to being over-tired or hungry and exercising and eating right so that we are less apt to get sick keeps our attitude steadier. 3. Selfishness – Studying and knowing Christ - learning that there is joy in living as Jesus did. Thinking of others before self brings us closer to our Heavenly Father and allows us to experience Him in deeper ways as we also draw nearer to others we may not have known otherwise. 4. Sin – Humbling ourself before God, allowing Him to free us from the bondage of sins that may be enveloping us brings freedom that develops an attitude more like Christ. 5. Standing – When we know, believe, and reside in the value Christ sees in us we are better equipped to keep a steady attitude built on His truths and commands. Jesus fills the voids in our heart if we look to Him. He is the answer to bringing or restoring an even attitude that is pleasing to others and a delight to Him. Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for the love You freely give. Thank you for the mindset shifts You work in us as we rely on You. Help us to continue to seek Your strength in every area of life. We know we will never be without our need for You and we are so thankful for that knowledge. We need You so much more than we even know. I thank you for the times You have shown us Your grace and love. Help us to extend that grace and love to those around us. Help us to carry the attitude of Christ and see others with Your eyes and heart. Enable us to see that attitude winds through everything we do and help us to be more pleasing in Your eyes each day. We humbly ask for Your wisdom and discernment to carry us and Your beautiful attitude to craft our thoughts and actions. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to these previous episodes: Episode 002, “Protecting Our Thoughts,” Episode 008, “A Humble Spirit,” and Episode 012, “Complaint Fosters Rebellion.” Just visit terrihitt.com, click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page. Remember that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 126 - Developing a Humble Attitude Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #126 – Developing a Humble Attitude Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. As I was in the office one recent evening, I heard the sounds of my family chatting in the kitchen. My husband had arrived home from work a bit earlier and was doing a few things with the girls. As their voices floated into my hearing, one of my daughters asked him, “Is there anything I can help you with?” It’s not unusual for her to do this as she often looks for ways to help others. Matthew 23:11-12 says, “The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” This world makes it so easy, so enticing to cling to self, to make ourselves known, or put ourselves first. In fact, our culture encourages this practice. Yet God, in His perfect wisdom, instructs us to do the opposite. Our attitude is not to reflect the values and teachings of this world. Mark 10:45 says, “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Have you personally experienced (or seen through others) that the more we exalt self, the more pressure we actually feel? Our spirit becomes increasingly demanding for more attention to self. By carrying this attitude, we add demands to our time and resources. Yet when we humble ourselves and simply serve from a heart for God and others, we experience joy and freedom. Here’s one example from my life that shows how attitude affects self and others. When my middle daughter was young and begged to participate in a natural pageant system, I was torn. We had no idea what to expect. We checked the system out, spoke to women who had allowed their children to take part in the system, and met with the people who ran the program. Everything was family-focused and safe. There was no makeup or swimsuits, and the girls were encouraged to compete in the good ways, using gifts and talents God gave them. The girls were also encouraged to serve in the community and they learned valuable public speaking and interview skills that would serve them well throughout life. Like any hobby or sport, pageants can get expensive. As we looked for wardrobe, which is a major piece in pageant competitions, we happened to find a dress my daughter absolutely loved and had seen in magazine photos on Craigslist. The gown was selling at at a very low price, so we met the seller and tried the dress on. It fit perfectly! I made my daughter a little interview suit out of beautiful peacock-colored fabric she selected and she helped design the pattern of the suit. As complete pageant novices, we carefully prepared for everything we thought we would need, but just before it was time to leave to compete at the pageant, she had a growth spurt and the beautiful dress of her dreams was now about three inches too short! We kept that special dress and my daughter wore it onstage with flats. We made several other rookie mistakes as well, but our girl still had an absolutely wonderful time and won many awards, as well as the second runner-up to the state queen title. As we learned more about the pageant world, we experienced that there is much more involved than what people perceive when watching on television or mentally judging the pageant contestants. We met many wonderful mothers and daughters, who just like us, wanted their child to find encouragement and support as they also used their talents and interests. What really stood out for my daughter and me, as she went on to do other pageants was that we quickly learned the more we gave to and served others, the more peace and joy we experienced in our own life. It became less about competition and more of a way to grow her skills and serve our community. While in the beginning I admit, I just wanted my daughter to win, cheering for the daughters of other women later became easy. My prayers were for them to also do the best they could. Instead of isolating ourselves or using the competition for the sole purpose of advancing personal interests or goals, my daughter and I learned that an attitude focused on God and others brought deeper relationship and joy. As my daughter served others she competed against, as well as the community, it deepened my faith roots and allowed my daughter to gain incredible interview, speaking, organizational, and service gifts. The experience grew our love for others, multiplying and deepening our love for the Lord because our hearts were being molded to become a little more like His. Philippians 2:2-4 says, “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” As my daughter competed, growing her capabilities and confidence, I learned much about myself. As a believer, I like to think I try to keep my mind and heart in alignment with Christ, but I began to understand ways my thoughts were actually far from his. When my daughter performed, I prayed that all went well for her. Of course, I didn’t want anything bad to happen to the other girls she competed against, but in my heart, I wanted my daughter to win, and I thought she should. Over time, God shaped me in new ways as He grew her capabilities. Love for my girl pushed me to desire the best for her, but I learned that sometimes the best for her wasn’t the best for someone else. Each of the girls deserved God’s very best for their life. I felt God working in me and my daughter, and we truly began to enjoy the other competitors and their mothers. We began offering tips to help them, even when they competed against my girl, and we cheered for them with true support as they performed onstage. Soon, we developed what I considered true friendships with the other girls and their mothers. Joy was felt for them, even when other girls did better than my daughter or placed higher in the estimation of the judges. I finally understood that in God’s eyes, what mattered was how we treated others at the competition, whether He was honored in our heart and mind as we interacted with them through the week, and how we grew our walk with Him in the process. Attitudes spring from many places. Our desires, thoughts, feelings, and emotions can get so twisted and confusing. It’s no wonder that our mood and mindset can easily shift like the wind. Often, our attitude is birthed by pain, abuse, trauma, trials, tragedies, or greed. Even fun activities like pageants, sports, jobs, or hobbies can bring out unexpected attitudes. If we aren’t actively seeking a heart like Jesus, believing His estimation of us and striving to be more like Him, even a funny look or a harsh word from another person can trigger an attitude. Philippians 2:2-5 says, “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.” It's not easy to consistently put others before self. Of course, as a parent, that’s the easiest time, but what about a stranger? What about someone who has offended you? What about someone who receives something you wanted? When we put others first, our attitude is adjusted into a mindset of giving and serving. It’s difficult to hold resentments and self-serving desires when we are intentionally renewing our mind and actions daily to align with those of the Lord. It’s impossible to get through a day without needing Him to carry or craft our attitude in some capacity. In my personal life, I think the fastest way to affect my attitude is usually letting myself get over tired or very hungry. One recent evening I was both. On my way to the kitchen, I walked to the entryway area of our home without any lights on and I didn’t realize our Golden Retriever was laying outside the office door. When I stepped out of the office I tripped over him, almost falling to the ground and twisting my back to keep from doing so, I spilled half of my tea on the floor. I could feel the snap in my attitude. Immediately I wanted to be cranky. Thankfully, I had just been in the office working on this very podcast. I had just been reading verses about the mind and attitude of Christ. I had been praying about what to write and deliver God’s message. As I spoke the word, “seriously” aloud, I knew my thoughts and emotions were headed in the wrong direction, which would surely pull my attitude down as well. Only because I had the foundation of being in the Word and an already prayerful attitude was I able to pull my thoughts back to a godlier place and keep from complaining to my family or scolding the dog, who thought he was doing me a favor by keeping me company. What happens when we aren’t relying on the Lord to sustain and protect us? We can quickly fall victim to tantrums, outbursts, or actions we later regret. Even when we are walking closely with God we sometimes fall victim to needing attitude adjustments. It’s so important to purposely focus on keeping the mind of Christ. Through Christ, and our relationship with Him, we are able to do as Colossians 3:10 says. “put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.” The cloak of pleasant attitude only fits when we are in shape by exercising the power of God’s word and actively maturing our walk with Him through Jesus. Through our salvation in Christ we see that He is able to work within us, equipping us to do all He speaks and models for us. Hebrews 6:10 says, “God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them. “ The fastest way to hurt someone else is to let our unchecked attitude affect them. Many things cause attitudes that need adjustment. Embarrassment, disappointment, rejection, expectations, fear, anger, trauma, hardship, control, failure, illness, jealousy, loneliness, sleeplessness, or hunger are just some of the main culprits that cause us to look to self and experience attitude. Whenever we think of ourselves before others or fail to reside in the mindset of the Holy Spirit, our mindset is always affected in a negative way. I believe there are 5 points to remember in order to build a humble attitude. 1. Superiority – Knowing we are each equal in the eyes of God and that His love is the same for everyone allows us to see others with eyes and heart that better mirror Jesus. 2. Survival – Taking care of ourselves so that we do not fall victim to being over-tired or hungry and exercising and eating right so that we are less apt to get sick keeps our attitude steadier. 3. Selfishness – Studying and knowing Christ - learning that there is joy in living as Jesus did. Thinking of others before self brings us closer to our Heavenly Father and allows us to experience Him in deeper ways as we also draw nearer to others we may not have known otherwise. 4. Sin – Humbling ourself before God, allowing Him to free us from the bondage of sins that may be enveloping us brings freedom that develops an attitude more like Christ. 5. Standing – When we know, believe, and reside in the value Christ sees in us we are better equipped to keep a steady attitude built on His truths and commands. Jesus fills the voids in our heart if we look to Him. He is the answer to bringing or restoring an even attitude that is pleasing to others and a delight to Him. Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for the love You freely give. Thank you for the mindset shifts You work in us as we rely on You. Help us to continue to seek Your strength in every area of life. We know we will never be without our need for You and we are so thankful for that knowledge. We need You so much more than we even know. I thank you for the times You have shown us Your grace and love. Help us to extend that grace and love to those around us. Help us to carry the attitude of Christ and see others with Your eyes and heart. Enable us to see that attitude winds through everything we do and help us to be more pleasing in Your eyes each day. We humbly ask for Your wisdom and discernment to carry us and Your beautiful attitude to craft our thoughts and actions. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to these previous episodes: Episode 002, “Protecting Our Thoughts,” Episode 008, “A Humble Spirit,” and Episode 012, “Complaint Fosters Rebellion.” Just visit terrihitt.com, click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page. Remember that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? 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Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 004 - Arming Your Child Spiritually Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #004 – Arming Your Child Spiritually Are you yearning for greater connection with your child and Christ? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Do the days seem long, but you know the parenting journey is short? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. As an adult believer, you are aware of the wickedness Satan causes, but can focus on Jesus so that you truly know , love , and obey Him. You understand that God has already defeated Satan. But how well does your child know this truth? How well are you guarding your children, teaching and instructing so that they are equipped against the devil who prowls like a roaring lion seeking to destroy them? Do you intentionally mature your walk with and belief in Jesus so that He pours from you? Are you guarding your mind and heart so that your child is lovingly mentored to do the same? For example, although it’s not a popular opinion, I’ve never been a fan of the Harry Potter series. Many parents insist that they read the books as children and “they turned out okay,” or that they “don’t see anything wrong with them.” I don’t pretend or profess to be a parenting expert, but I do know Who is. My intention on this podcast is to point my listeners to Jesus and discuss methods and tips that will ensure you do not lead your child into a slippery slope of temptation or away from you or our Heavenly Father. I believe that the Harry Potter books are part of the alarming trend of literature intended for harm, not sanctification. We should desire that our life and the life of our children honor God in every way. Protecting our mind is one of the biggest ways to ensure that we carry the thoughts and desires of Jesus and instruct our children in His ways. We must purposely stay ahead of trends and popular culture and above what this world calls good. We must dissect and analyze what touches our child in light of how Jesus would view them. Would you agree that what you are frequently exposed to usually becomes what you think on or believe? When our children are repeatedly subjected to the witchcraft and demonology in the Harry Potter series, it can easily open their mind, imagination, and musings to further interest in the occult, which God’s word strictly and clearly forbids . This series of books and movies create a world that desensitizes children to God’s clear command that they should stay away from anything close to the occult. How is letting them be involved with the Harry Potter series any different than if you let them use a Quija board or play with Tarot cards? Couldn’t your children just as easily have exposure to those items, yet say that they don’t really believe in what they are doing, so it is okay? Please, don’t tread on the slippery slope that leads to destruction. Wouldn’t you rather build a fence several hundred feet away from the cliff than next to it? Take care that nothing becomes an obstruction between your child and Jesus. Luke 18:16 says, “But Jesus called the children to Him and said, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not hinder them! For the kingdom of God belongs to such as these .” Witchcraft is not fantasy, but a sad and scary reality of our sinful world. What we allow our children to ingest becomes what sustains them . It can also become the stumbling block that hinders them from growing a beautiful, maturing relationship with Jesus that carries them into eternity. Although the subject of this podcast today is not witchcraft or the occult, I mention it now because these topics are directly tied to arming children spiritually. Satan knows how to lure and tempt each of us. His methods are used over and over because we continue to fall for them. Past hurts and behavior, attitude, thoughts, lusts, pride, so many things can be touched on by the great deceiver. Culture is touched by many who do not follow Jesus. There is an arsenal of ways that Satan reaches our precious children. We must be aware and diligent in protecting our children, but also preparing them to have the skills and knowledge of how to look to God for ultimate protection. Proverbs 13:20 says, “He who walks with the wise will become wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed .” Christians know that the enemy of this world is Satan. Jesus warned us that we would face trials and persecution, but He also reminded us that He has already overcome the world. The devil knows his time is short. Believers of Jesus should follow Him in one direction, but the devil schemes and works to lure believers and non-believers in the opposite direction. Because of the power of the Holy Spirit within followers of Christ, we are more than conquerors and through Jesus, we have His strength within us to stand against the wiles of Satan. It is our obligation and honor to guide our children to Jesus so that they can stand in the power and strength of Christ. In order for them to stand, we must ensure that they are aware of the evil influence targeted against them in this world. This world is a battlefield for the mind and heart of you and your child. Today we will discuss scripture and ideas to help you start or continue conversations with your children and enable you to remain diligent and consistent in this critical area of raising your child to know, honor, love, and follow Jesus with joy and stand against what the unseen enemy seeks to destroy. 2 Chronicles 20:15b says, “Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but God’s .” As we know, children see and respond to Christ much easier than adults. It’s usually more difficult for an adult to accept Jesus as Savior than it is for our open, loving children. We do such an injustice to children when we do not love Jesus with a deepening maturity and disciple them as we should. I have a biblical example from the gospels showing the ease in which children recognize and honor God. Matthew 21:15-16 says, “The leading priests and the teachers of religious law saw these wonderful miracles and heard even the children in the Temple shouting, “Praise God for the Son of David.” But the leaders were indignant. Do you hear what these children are saying?” they asked him. “Yes,” replied Jesus, “have you never read, “’From the lips of children and infants you, Lord, have called forth your praise’?” Although the children who chanted this praise may not have understood the full significance of what they were saying, their words forced religious leaders to understand that the cries of the children indicated they recognized the awaited Messiah before the adults did. Children want to know God. Remember, just like you, the mind of your child controls their thoughts, beliefs, actions, reactions, and words. Their heart controls their truthfulness, obedience, kindness, service, and acceptance of Christ. Activities, such as games, movies, books, shows, and music all contribute to the mind and heart your child will grow and mature. What they ingest will be reflected because it becomes who they are . Friends and teachers also have a huge influence. Of course, the fleshly nature of your child impacts their behavior, but that is also beautifully sculpted by the way you disciple, train, and love them through Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says, “Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good character.” Bad company includes more than friends. All of the entertainment areas I mentioned earlier also shapes character. Sometimes games, books, and movies are the main company some children desire. There are companies and individuals with ungodly agendas who I believe live under the influence of Satan and seek to influence our children in impure ways through the items mentioned earlier. We must be diligent, wise, and alert. 1 Corinthians 16:13 says, “Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong.” Since we desire to grow the knowledge of Christ in our child as early as possible, we need to ensure that we also teach them the truths about spiritual warfare. Even from a young age, we can let our children know that there is an enemy they cannot see who seeks to do harm in the world through experiences and people. Children love stories. I believe one of the most effective ways to share the truths of Jesus is through story telling. Of course, I recommend a good children’s bible. In fact, you will most likely purchase several as your children grow. We have multiple bibles in our home so that the girls are able to hear about the Lord and read about Him for themselves at any age. Beginning with picture books and ultimately progressing to adult study bibles, your child must have access to the word of God at any stage and be able to absorb, process, understand, and articulate what they have learned in order to believe and live it. In our home we read the bible together often; daily is our goal, and the girls also study God’s word in private, as well. When my youngest came home to us at the age of nine and could not understand English, it took creativity and persistence to help her begin to understand God. It was a sacred process to carry the honor of making God known to her. Once I looked at the challenge of teaching her as if she were just an infant, because it really was the beginning of everything for her, it was easy to introduce God to her naturally. We spoke about God throughout the course of our day, weaving Him through the center of everything, as we normally do. We read the bible together, even when I knew she wouldn’t yet understand. We used a children’s bible with attractive illustrations that kept and heightened her interest and helped her to understand what we were discussing. I used a whiteboard to draw pictures of what we discussed to help her better understand. I would go step by step with drawings to re-enact what we had read together. My youngest is very creative and we would sometimes act out scenes like we were in a play. Whatever way you know will connect with your child is the right way to teach them about their Heavenly Father. When teaching awareness of spiritual warfare, start with a basic story foundation you can easily share with your children in the same ways I mentioned, and do it from a young age. An easy story to remember and recite is one similar to the following: Once upon a time, God created this beautiful world for each of us to live in because He loves us so much. Our Heavenly Father made people in His own image, and He wants to have a special relationship with each one of us. Just like God made the people, trees, flowers, oceans, animals, insects, planets, and everything else, He also created heavenly creatures we cannot see, called angels. These angels were created to love and honor God, just like we were, but they are different from people. We cannot usually see angels, but there are times in the bible where some of the angels God sent were actually seen by humans! One of the important things angels were made to do is carry out special jobs on earth for God, like helping and protecting humans. Once upon a time one of God’s angels made terrible choices. He decided he wanted to be more powerful than God. He was prideful and rebellious. He didn’t want to love or honor God. He wanted to be better than the Heavenly Father who created him! Instead of loving and obeying God, this angel started a battle against God with other disobedient angels. God, who is always stronger and wiser, threw the devil and his demons out of heaven. Now they fight against God and all people, especially those who love Jesus. God already knew what they were going to do, so He had a plan to use all the bad things they try to do and turn those into good things. The best plan was that God sent His Son, Jesus to the earth to save all people who choose to follow Him. We must learn all we can about Jesus now and stay away from things that Satan, the disobedient and wicked angel likes. One day God will stop Satan and his followers forever. Satan and his followers will be gone and those who love and follow Jesus will live with God forever. Children need to learn the basic truths and deep love and grace of God. Build upon that foundation. Then increase their awareness and understanding of the unseen spiritual world. I will now share 7 important points that each child should know from an early age in order to increase their knowledge and understanding of spiritual warfare as they age and mature. 1. The devil is a liar. 2. The devil hates God. 3. The devil is active. 4. The devil is tricky. 5. The devil doesn’t want you to follow God. 6. The devil cannot control you. 7. The devil is not your main focus. 2 Peter 1:3 says, “By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence.” Now we will share the other side, which is the truth , hope , and promise of each of the points we just mentioned. Just as we ended with letting children know that Satan is not their main focus, we direct them to learn and remember the way to stand against darkness in this world. 2 Thessalonians 3:3 says, “But the Lord is faithful, and He will strengthen you and guard you from the evil one.” 1. God is truth. 2. God loves you. 3. God is always with you. 4. God is mighty. 5. God loves you and wants relationship with you. 6. God is sovereign. 7. Focus on Jesus. 1 John 5:3-5 says, “Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome. For every child of God defeats this evil world, and we achieve this victory through our faith. And who can win this battle against the world? Only those who believe that Jesus is the Son of God.” My other podcast, “Live With Eternal Perspective” features additional information about this topic in Episode 110, “Armed for Spiritual Warfare.” This episode relays the necessities needed to arm and equip yourself against Satan, flesh, and the unseen forces ruling this world. Without a knowledge of this yourself, you will not be able to equip your child to stand strong in the power and protection of Jesus. If you look at Ephesians 6:10-18, you will see all that we need to stand against the evil schemes of the enemy and it is already supplied by God. These verses are also a wonderful passage of scripture that makes an excellent storyline for you to play or act out with your child or make into a beautiful story to remind them that each of us, no matter how young or old, must do to be equipped for any battle we face in this world. These verses in Ephesians have helped me at my most vulnerable and heart-broken. I have experienced God’s supreme and loving power through them, and I know from experience that they are proven, reliable, and effective. Just like His word proclaims. I am currently working on a short ebook with a storyline for teaching children how to arm themselves for spiritual warfare through God’s armor. It will be available soon on my website at terrihitt.com. If you would like to receive this free resource, please visit the website and sign up to my email list so that you will be notified when it is available. I would love to share it with you! “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power .” Ephesians 6:10 instructs us with these two commands. First, w e must rely on God , and second, we must allow His mighty strength to fill us , not so that we will fight, but so that we will allow Him to battle through us. We want to mentor this for our children to grow in and rely on throughout their lifetime. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you that you love us with an everlasting love that we cannot comprehend. We think we begin to with the deep, wide, incredibly immense love we feel for our children. But we know that Your love is so much more rich and complicated than our mortal minds can fathom. You are so good to us, even when we do not understand Your ways or want what You desire. We thank you that Your word warns us there is an unseen world we know little about. Thank you for preparing us for the heartaches and injustices we will face in this broken world. Thank you for the armor you have prepared in advance for us. We know there is no protection like Yours and that You go before us, making a way to withstand the attacks we will face. Enable us to stand firm in Your arms and battle gear, letting You fight the battles for us. Help us to teach and mentor our children to do the same, and to rely on You in all areas of life. Grow our heart for You so that they cannot turn from You, because they know and see You so well through us and they love You with an everlasting, maturing love. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, as we release doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children. Intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your children that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Comnected Child Podcast Episode 013 - As in the Days of Noah Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #013 – As in the Days of Noah Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. This summer I am doing regular podcasts mixed with scripture readings. This episode is a blend of the two. On the last “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast episode we discussed values in a world of immorality and how we must stand firmly on God’s truths in order to build and maintain godly values. James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” Scripture promises that God offers wisdom to any who seek it from Him, yet our Heavenly Father desires that we receive His wisdom and use it for His glory, as well as the good of others . But what happens when we do not seek the wisdom of God? What happens when generations do not abide by or teach God’s truths and morals to those behind them? The immorality, chaos, and disorder we see in our culture stems from the absence of God’s morals within the hearts and minds of society. What kind of future do you want to leave your children? The heart of man has been exposed from the earliest of creation. Beginning with Adam and Eve, we saw deception infiltrate mankind and seize control. Think back to the days of Noah, which were filled with great evil and moral corruptness. In fact, Genesis 6:5 states, “Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually .” This line of Scripture offers a clear and precise description of human depravity in the days of Noah. There is no way anyone could misunderstand what the times were like – every heart was continually evil . Do you notice the days we are living in? Do you ever feel that destruction is upon us? Are you comfortable with the state of the world and what it will be like when your children and grandchildren are adults? I recently learned an interesting fact. Did you know that there is not a biblical Hebrew word for “heart?” When the Bible speaks of matters of the heart , the word represents the emotions , will , and mind . I believe the absence of a specific or assigned word is very appropriate, and I know it was purposeful for the Bible to speak of heart as it does. As believers, we understand that the heart is the center or the driving force of our actions. When society chooses to contribute to evil and destruction, it exposes the condition of our heart. A heart that does not know and follow Jesus will be taken over with chaos, confusion, and lies. Let’s examine all of this book in Genesis more closely to see the lessons we can learn and teach to our children as they watch us navigate life with faith. Genesis 6:1-22 says, “When human beings began to increase in number on the earth and daughters were born to them, the sons of God saw that the daughters of humans were beautiful, and they married any of them they chose. Then the Lord said, “My Spirit will not contend with humans forever, for they are mortal; their days will be a hundred and twenty years.” The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and also afterward—when the sons of God went to the daughters of humans and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown. The Lord saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time. The Lord regretted that He had made human beings on the earth, and His heart was deeply troubled. So the Lord said, “I will wipe from the face of the earth the human race I have created—and with them the animals, the birds and the creatures that move along the ground—for I regret that I have made them.” But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord. This is the account of Noah and his family. Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God. Noah had three sons: Shem, Ham and Japheth. Now the earth was corrupt in God’s sight and was full of violence. God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. So God said to Noah, “I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth. So make yourself an ark of cypress wood; make rooms in it and coat it with pitch inside and out. This is how you are to build it: The ark is to be three hundred cubits long, fifty cubits wide and thirty cubits high. Make a roof for it, leaving below the roof an opening one cubit high all around. Put a door in the side of the ark and make lower, middle and upper decks. I am going to bring floodwaters on the earth to destroy all life under the heavens, every creature that has the breath of life in it. Everything on earth will perish. But I will establish my covenant with you, and you will enter the ark—you and your sons and your wife and your sons’ wives with you. You are to bring into the ark two of all living creatures, male and female, to keep them alive with you. Two of every kind of bird, of every kind of animal and of every kind of creature that moves along the ground will come to you to be kept alive. You are to take every kind of food that is to be eaten and store it away as food for you and for them.” Noah did everything just as God commanded him .” At the beginning of this passage of verses, we read about the “sons of God” and “daughters of men,” which in the most common explanation of this passage most likely means that fallen angels came in the form of human men and then married human women. Because this is not a union in accordance with God’s holy order of reproduction according to one’s kind, this was an egregious offense to God. Next, we read that God’s spirit “shall not strive with man forever.” This area of scripture is the second time the Spirit is mentioned outright in the Bible. This time, the Spirit is linked to destruction of man. I’m unsure whether this meant that the Spirit will not strive with man forever and that his days shall be 120 years, meaning either God is referring to an actual age of man, showing he will not live forever, or that God is saying the flood will arrive with destruction in 120 years. Regardless, when we do not walk with the Spirit, we know that God will stop convicting us; we may not hear or receive the discerning, guiding prods or whispers that our Heavenly Father sometimes uses to attract our attention to Him. As we touched on earlier in this episode, the days of Noah were filled with evil continually. For the Bible to use such exact words shows us the infiltration of depravity at the time and the sorrow weighing on God’s heart. Was this wickedness a surprise to God? Certainly not! Yet, our holy Father grieved with heavy pain for what his earthly children caused. That sin issue is still present and prevalent today. Only through the sacrifice of Christ can any of us be removed from the stain of sin and begin to live as God intended as we allow the Holy Spirit to move and cleanse us from within. It is imperative that we read, study, and know God’s words and commands so that we can teach them and model obedience to them for our children. This passage of scripture, although it exposes the depravity of man through God’s eyes, also allows us to see that God was greatly grieved in his heart by the immorality of man. Why did Noah stand out to God during this rebellious, wicked time? Just as each of us are able to receive the unmerited grace of God, God viewed Noah’s heart and saw that he was what God considered “just.” Was Noah perfect? Most definitely not. Each of us is so far from the holiness of God that we will always fall far short of where He desires us to be. Yet God granted Noah grace and found a man who would be obedient to His call. God saved Noah and his family and worked through their obedience to assemble and act on His next plan. During the course of history, God’s eyes have roamed the earth seeking those who will love, honor, follow, and obey Him. In Noah, God saw the person who would humble himself before the Lord and follow His instructions without question. Despite the devastating immorality infiltrating his day, Noah heeded the voice of God. Are you teaching your children to cherish God and His commands so much that they honor and obey God? My desire is for my children to love the Lord so much and have a growing relationship with Jesus so that they will be aware of His expectations and hear His calls and act promptly in loving obedience. Can you imagine the ridicule Noah would have received from peers? From scripture, we estimate that it took Noah approximately 100 years to complete the ark. Noah had no idea why God had commanded him to build this ark, but still, he stepped out with faith that he must act exactly as God had commanded, enabling God to credit him as righteous. People often choose to pick which command they want to obey. Some never hear the quiet voice of God directing them in various ways. Noah, however, chose to hear and act on exactly what God revealed for him to do, even though he did not know God’s ultimate plan. Noah was attuned to His Heavenly Father and ready to obey. Through obedience to God, Noah’s family and future generations were protected and saved. Imagine the world we would live in if those who confess to follow Christ would study scripture and follow the voice of God in humble obedience. As our children see us walk with God, joyful in obeying His commands and calls, they will learn to desire and do the same. The immorality, chaos, and disorder we see in our culture would no longer exist if individuals and families adhere to the standards of God and lovingly teach our children to do the same. When we see others who do not have families and step in to show them the way to Jesus and help them to know Him, the schemes of Satan can be thwarted as chaos and confusion are diminished and erased. Our world is growing closer to the days of Noah. Without the steady hand of our Father guiding us with His love, grace, mercy, and discernment, our children do not have hope for the future that could await them. What can you do today to change the course of history for your child and the generations to come? Dear Heavenly Father, great is Your name. Thank you for your constant love and care, even when we do not recognize or deserve it. You have given us so much that we take for granted and we live in desperate times where some take what they desire without thought. Days are becoming more like the days of Noah and the only way to cleanse the wicked hearts is through the saving mercy and grace of Jesus. Help us, Father to seek You, to follow You, and to show You to others. May our children be a greater faith generation than we are. Cause us to respect Your authority with joy so that our children do the same. Help us to respond with anticipation when You call us to obedience. May our children listen to You and live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm because they are walking in step with You. May their hearts be wise in Your eyes and their hearts full of the light of Christ as they navigate this world. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you would like to hear more about the condition of our heart, the root of all issues, please listen to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast episode 001, Heart Conditions or episode 046, Maturing Character Like Christ. If you pray for your child, please look for my free ebook, “Prayers for My Child,” available on the website under the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scripturally-based prayer. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is now available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 065 - How to Strengthen Connection to My Child and Christ Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 65 – How to Strengthen Connection to My Child and Christ Motherhood is defined in the scary moments. It highlights who we are and molds us into who we will become. Do you know one of the scariest things I’d ever done in my life at the time I became a mother? Hold my newborn baby girl when I was 18 years old. Can you believe that I was more frightened of holding and caring for her than I was of delivering her? Of course, I had all the normal questions about what the delivery would be like. But when it came time to give birth, the delivery came naturally. Caring for my newborn left me feeling overwhelmed, unsure, and alone. What if I dropped her? Would I know what to do when she cried? What if something happened to her at night? Would she stop breathing when she was alone in the crib? When my daughter was born, she weighed six pounds, but felt even tinier. Her little head flopped back and forth so quickly! Her body curled into a ball. You see, I had never held a newborn baby before. My sister and brother were five and six years younger than me, and although I had responsibility for a portion of their care when they were growing up, I never carried that duty when they were babies. I sat on a couch and held them while my mother was around, and helped her with little duties, but that is far from caring for an infant day and night. I really was scared when I thought about caring for my baby after she was born. After my daughter had a week-long hospital stay in intensive care after her birth, my thoughts switched from worry to gratitude that she was going to be fine. The biggest help for me was that while she remained in the hospital, the nurses taught me tips and tricks to care for a newborn. They showed me how to hold her on my lap to burp her, instead of on my shoulder, so that I could better support her head and neck. That position made my daughter feel more secure, and made me feel more capable as a mother. By the time I took her home, I was better prepared to parent our girl. After we were home, the “on the job training” began. It surprised me that it didn’t take long to know my daughter, to understand her cries, and to know what she needed. Now, decades later, when I look back on my early parenting years, I see other areas I wish I had done differently. Number one, I wish I already knew Jesus when I became a mother. Second, I wish I had allowed myself to be better discipled soon after I came to know Him. Next, I wish I had known about attachment parenting when I raised my first set of children. There’s a lot of research about attachment parenting. To be honest, I’m not an expert. I’m not a psychologist. But I am an experienced mother and a follower of Christ. I’m not advocating for particular theories or practices you may read about. However, I do believe that a mother who closely follows Christ, is intentionally maturing her relationship with Him daily, and is attuned to her unique and individual child is practicing what I refer to as attachment parenting. When people ask me what I think the greatest parenting obstacles are, one of my responses (beyond raising your child for Christ) is attachment. Children carrying weak or no attachment to Christ and parents has damaged this generation. If a child and parent are not connected in a close, respectful, growing relationship, the child will most likely not follow the parent’s model for a relationship with Christ. If they have one. Before my husband and I began raising our second set of children, I realized things I wanted to change. It wasn't because I felt my first set of children weren't good . It was because God impressed on me the holy need to forget good and raise children to be godly . I recognized areas in which I felt convicted that I had not been a godly mother, and had only been a good mom. I think when they stop to think about it, most parents would agree that there are universal thoughts related to “good parenting” or “good children.” Do you sometimes feel like you just want your children to behave? Have you ever been embarrassed by something your children did? Were you afraid their actions made you look like a “bad parent?” Have you ever just wanted your child to make you look good by being a “good” child? I also believe some people parent for convenience. In fact, anyone can easily fall victim to it. When those hard moments of parenting arise, it takes great effort and skill to parent for eternal purposes rather than succumb to whatever is easiest in the moment. Mothers, we must resist cultural influences of this society. Instead, we must look to God to equip us to raise the unique children He purposely entrusted to us. Raising another human being (or beings) is never going to be easy. Why do we ever expect it to be? Raising another person from infancy to adulthood is a daunting task even to think about. When you’re in the trenches and things go backwards or sideways, it can be hard to think of the job as a privilege or blessing from God. We just want it to be easy, or at the very least, we want to feel successful and loved. If you’ve ever felt powerless, hopeless, frustrated, or confused about what to do with your child, you’re not alone. A great majority of parents thought parenting would be different than it is. The truth is that parenting seems different than it was for previous generations. And don’t get me started on “typical” childhood or teen behavior. I’m not a part of that mindset. I believe God calls believers to raise kids who are set-apart, and that means far from “typical.” In fact, if you’ve listened to previous episodes of this podcast, you’ve probably heard episode #063, which was all about not raising typical teens. I believe children have replaced attachment with mom and dad for attachment to peers . That’s a concerning thought, because when parents lose the status of mentor or influencer in the life of their children, the home, then in turn, the world, is altered. That’s the result we are seeing in America today. Cultural (meaning society) influences have a stronger attraction than traditional family values and is more important to teens. As kids follow kids, traditions, morals, values, and relationships suffer. Most importantly, parents lose the blessing of teaching their child the way Deuteronomy 6:5-9 , instructs, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates ." What a beautiful image this passage offers! God gives specific instructions on how to make Him known to our children. When people complain about not receiving a parenting handbook, I like to remind them that our merciful Father gifted us a complete volume of instructions for life and parenting in the Bible . Deuteronomy offers beautiful, godly insight into how to build a firm foundation under our children, as well as how to continue constructing a heart of faith and obedience to Christ for a lifetime. If you're like I was when I raised my first set of children, time slipped by SO quickly each day. Even though I tried so hard to be a good mom, working full time combined with life activities always left me wondering how I could do more. I felt inadequate at times, unknowingly following worldly wisdom and hoping what I did was right. I knew I was a good mom, an excellent one in the eyes of culture. But as I listened to quiet stirrings in my soul through a deepened walk with Christ, I later recognized parenting areas I wish I had built differently by purposely constructing them on the foundation of Christ. Ignorance allowed me to think I was already doing that, but hindsight exposes the opposite. The closer we move to Christ, the more He opens our eyes, heart, and mind to His truths. May we never be the person or parent we are today when tomorrow arrives! Years later, I sat at work, envisioning how I would parent for the Lord if I was a new parent again. In hindsight, I now understand God was preparing me for the parenting journey He had in store, because a few years later, my husband and I adopted a precious baby girl and a new generation of parenting began. This time, our matured walk with Christ led my husband and I to plan parenting years much like people should plan for retirement or saving . We purposed our path and prayed over every step. We took classes on attachment parenting for adoption, and I realized this was the type of parenting I should have done years ago. So what is the secret to strengthening connection with your child and Christ? Being purposed with connected parenting . Through prayer and a purposed parenting plan, you and your child will experience relationship with God and one another that will last into eternity. Although none of us can be perfect parents this side of Heaven, I know the steps we planned and implemented pleased the Lord and allowed us to enjoy a second generation of daughters who chose Christ over culture. I want to encourage and equip you to do the same with your children. Despite what society shows or says, the greatest privilege a mother can receive is the blessing of raising children to know and love God through relationship with Jesus. To be entrusted to raise a child for Him, and to help that child come to the saving knowledge of Jesus as Savior, then to discover and step into the purpose for which God designed them is indeed a sacred honor! Have you thought about the future God wants for your child (or grandchild)? God is trusting you to follow His commands. He allowed the children in your life to be with and influenced by you. One of the most important sacrifices we can make for our children is surrender . When we humbly bow before God, ready and willing to allow Him full reign in our life, we are setting the path for a purposed parenting journey that will model Jesus to the little people so important in our life. When we realize that attachment to Christ also fosters a strong attachment between self and child, we are better equipped to model the lifestyle we want our children to emulate. As we mature our walk with Christ, we are better able to mature the walk of our child. So with a busy lifestyle, how does a woman begin to move from a good mom to godly mother? Even with the best intentions, each day only has 24 hours, and if you’re like me, you hope to get at least 7 hours of sleep. That cuts the day even shorter. That’s why I named this podcast Purposed Parent/Connected Child. No matter how well intentioned you may be, the dreams in your mind or love in your heart are not enough. Hours blend into another so fast, but months and years slip by without you even noticing. Without purposed plans and actions, your children will grow up following peers and culture before you know it. The truth is that you can never force your child to accept Christ. Just as God gave you free will to follow Him, your child receives the same choice. Yet if you live in humble submission to Christ and intentionally pursue deeper relationship daily, modeling the life of Jesus in your own passions and pursuits, your child will witness godly love in action and be drawn to Him. When you study and follow the words in the passage from Deuteronomy 6:5-9 that I read earlier, you will take the next step in purposed parenting for Christ. There is nothing more important you can do for your children or grandchildren. When we were preparing to adopt our first daughter from China, we were required to complete a certain number of parenting course training hours. Because our daughter was living in an orphanage, she had already had less than optimum care. No matter the heart of the nannies in charge of child care, their lack of resources, training, caregivers, and time, left the overwhelming number of children in need lacking attention, attachment, and basic needs fulfillment. The training was meant to equip us as parents to understand what this need may present itself like in our child, and show us how to be proactive in our care. The information I learned enabled me to see that all parenting, whether the child be adopted or biological, should strive to attach children and parents through purposed methods. Life isn’t smooth. Events happen that cause division and stressors in any home. Deaths, divorces, job losses, and so many other triggers combined with individual needs and personalities leave parents and children vulnerable. Through our courses, I saw the pattern of parenting with the purpose of connecting to the heart of the child, and understood that in a Christian context, we would never reach the heart of a child unless we know Christ and were led by the Holy Spirit. Likewise, a child must see the heart of Christ within their parent in order to ever see the need for Him in their personal life. As we parent, we must be purposed and prayerfully pursue connection with the heart of our child, while at the same time connecting their heart to Christ. Please feel free to reach out to me if you need resources on how to parent with strong, godly connection at info@terrihitt.com . There are also several early episodes of this podcast dealing with purposed parenting for Christ. Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for allowing us the privilege of raising children for You. Our heart desires to grab hold and keep them to ourselves, but in reality, they are Yours and only loaned to us for a short time. Lord, the years fly by faster than we even think they will. What a gift those precious years are, even when we don’t realize it at the time. May every mother listening to this podcast realize the beauty of the purpose of motherhood and strive to raise godly children who are set-apart from this culture and connected to You with purpose. Help us to be pleasing in our walk with You and through our parenting practices. May we and our children bring You great joy. In the precious name of Jeus we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Would you like to walk with other like-minded mothers to deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan? I want to share special news with my podcast listeners. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive information and a special code to receive a discount if you find you’d like to join the collective. It’s time for mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? The best reviews are by word of mouth, so if you would also choose a friend to recommend the show to, imagine the change we could see in the way mothers parent for Christ. Also, please tell friends and family that the podcast can be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #079 – Interview with Rachel-Ruth Lotz Wright Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Do you know someone who carries a vivid imagination and possesses the ability to make everyday stories come to life? Perhaps they love Jesus and old testament Bible stories and share them with grace and faith that applies to any situation. They know God’s word and make the Bible come to life with a zeal that makes you want to sit at their feet. Rachel Ruth Lotz Wright simply loves Jesus and the stories God has entrusted to us through the Bible. Conversing with her made me wish I had had the chance to be a little girl listening to her reenact biblical history with her enthusiastic words, growing my knowledge and wisdom with every story. Or maybe become one of the thousands of women who participate in her online Bible classes, (which I’m positive are making more disciples of Jesus through the work God does as she obediently allows Him to work through her). Our conversation together shares the importance of consistently walking with Jesus and submitting to His Lordship as we deepen our relationship with Him. Rachel-Ruth was born into a strong Christian family through the grace of God. What she is doing with her faith is now because she has made the faith of the family her own. As she shares, you learn that her faith is not wimpy, but as she once prayed to the Lord, she relies on Him to continue to stretch and guide her moment by moment. Rachel-Ruth was born and raised in Raleigh, North Carolina, the daughter of Anne Graham Lotz and granddaughter of Billy Graham. Following her graduation from Baylor University in Waco, TX, she married Steven Wright, a high school football coach, and now has three daughters: Bell, Sophia, and Riggin. Rachel-Ruth teaches a weekly women’s Bible study at the University of North Carolina and has shared God’s word at numerous events around the country. She also serves on the Board of Directors for AnGel Ministries, in addition to chairing the weekly prayer team that undergirds her mother’s ministry. Rachel-Ruth’s passion for leading children to Jesus and getting them into God’s word compelled her to lead monthly missions chapels at her children’s school, to teach middle school children at the Fellowship of Christian Athletes Coaches Camp, and helped to inspire her mother’s first children’s book, “Heaven: God’s Promise for Me.” Rachel-Ruth feels called to encourage others to fall in love with Jesus through the teaching of His word. Her love for Him is solid and real. I hope you enjoy our conversation together as we discuss life stories and timeless biblical truths applicable to society today. Because each of us are imperfect beings, we underline the importance of not subjecting others to our opinions, but striving to learn, apply, and teach God’s holy and perfect word, and the instructions and promises He left for us. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Through Him, we have the ability to live a life filled with the fruits of the spirit and one that fills the deepest longings within us. ------------------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------- Father God, there is none like You. You alone are righteous and holy. Your word promises that if we accept Your words and hide Your commandments within us, that if we incline our ears to Your wisdom, and direct our heart to Your understanding, that if we seek You like silver, we will discover Your knowledge. May we acquire Your wisdom and understanding, Father, that we may live lives pleasing to You. May we live uprightly with the wisdom and knowledge You enter into our heart and minds because we love You and desire You more than gold. Please watch over us and guard our steps. Allow us to lead a blameless life as we walk in Your ways and in sweet fellowship with You. Help us to strengthen our walk with You through knowledge of Your word and time spent with You and multiply our delight at simple moments with You. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Psalm 119:131 says, “I open my mouth and pant, longing for Your commandments.” May each of us continue deepening our relationship with the Lord intentionally every moment so that Jesus sees us yearn for Him and living His commands, because of our sweet fellowship with Him that draws others nearer to God, as well. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access additional podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 079 Rachel-Ruth Lotz Wright Interview Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #079 – Interview with Rachel-Ruth Lotz Wright Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Do you know someone who carries a vivid imagination and possesses the ability to make everyday stories come to life? Perhaps they love Jesus and old testament Bible stories and share them with grace and faith that applies to any situation. They know God’s word and make the Bible come to life with a zeal that makes you want to sit at their feet. Rachel Ruth Lotz Wright simply loves Jesus and the stories God has entrusted to us through the Bible. Conversing with her made me wish I had had the chance to be a little girl listening to her reenact biblical history with her enthusiastic words, growing my knowledge and wisdom with every story. Or maybe become one of the thousands of women who participate in her online Bible classes, (which I’m positive are making more disciples of Jesus through the work God does as she obediently allows Him to work through her). Our conversation together shares the importance of consistently walking with Jesus and submitting to His Lordship as we deepen our relationship with Him. Rachel-Ruth was born into a strong Christian family through the grace of God. What she is doing with her faith is now because she has made the faith of the family her own. As she shares, you learn that her faith is not wimpy, but as she once prayed to the Lord, she relies on Him to continue to stretch and guide her moment by moment. Rachel-Ruth was born and raised in Raleigh, North Carolina, the daughter of Anne Graham Lotz and granddaughter of Billy Graham. Following her graduation from Baylor University in Waco, TX, she married Steven Wright, a high school football coach, and now has three daughters: Bell, Sophia, and Riggin. Rachel-Ruth teaches a weekly women’s Bible study at the University of North Carolina and has shared God’s word at numerous events around the country. She also serves on the Board of Directors for AnGel Ministries, in addition to chairing the weekly prayer team that undergirds her mother’s ministry. Rachel-Ruth’s passion for leading children to Jesus and getting them into God’s word compelled her to lead monthly missions chapels at her children’s school, to teach middle school children at the Fellowship of Christian Athletes Coaches Camp, and helped to inspire her mother’s first children’s book, “Heaven: God’s Promise for Me.” Rachel-Ruth feels called to encourage others to fall in love with Jesus through the teaching of His word. Her love for Him is solid and real. I hope you enjoy our conversation together as we discuss life stories and timeless biblical truths applicable to society today. Because each of us are imperfect beings, we underline the importance of not subjecting others to our opinions, but striving to learn, apply, and teach God’s holy and perfect word, and the instructions and promises He left for us. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Through Him, we have the ability to live a life filled with the fruits of the spirit and one that fills the deepest longings within us. ------------------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------- Father God, there is none like You. You alone are righteous and holy. Your word promises that if we accept Your words and hide Your commandments within us, that if we incline our ears to Your wisdom, and direct our heart to Your understanding, that if we seek You like silver, we will discover Your knowledge. May we acquire Your wisdom and understanding, Father, that we may live lives pleasing to You. May we live uprightly with the wisdom and knowledge You enter into our heart and minds because we love You and desire You more than gold. Please watch over us and guard our steps. Allow us to lead a blameless life as we walk in Your ways and in sweet fellowship with You. Help us to strengthen our walk with You through knowledge of Your word and time spent with You and multiply our delight at simple moments with You. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Psalm 119:131 says, “I open my mouth and pant, longing for Your commandments.” May each of us continue deepening our relationship with the Lord intentionally every moment so that Jesus sees us yearn for Him and living His commands, because of our sweet fellowship with Him that draws others nearer to God, as well. This week I pray you find new ways to rest in Him and cause yourself to cling to Him in deeper ways that test your faith and understanding. Allow Him to bring you to a new level of trust and abandonment of self. Please visit terrihitt.com to access additional podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. http://@rachelruthlotzwright | https://www.facebook.com/RachelRuthLW | https://www.annegrahamlotz.org/about-rachel-ruth-lotz-wright/

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #014 – Fear Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Last week on the podcast we discussed change. As we know, change and fear often walk hand-in-hand, both easily causing distress, confusion, and depression. As I record this podcast, life is still not back to normal due to the COVID-19 pandemic social distancing orders. Fear is one of the emotions that has visited the hearts and minds of many right now as they live with uncertainty; and may reside with others as they watch a loved one battle illness, endure it themselves, or work on the front lines as a doctor or nurse, emergency personnel, or any type of essential worker. Some, like my family, have lost the ability to go to work and earn a living during this time. If one does not keep their eyes directed at Christ alone, fear could overtake all other emotions, placing joy and peace in a stronghold. Unfortunately, my youngest child has catalogued a history of fearful situations. Adopted at 9 years old, she was definitely not accustomed to being cherished in a family. Much of her life to that point had been spent alone. While bravely traveling over 7,000 miles and transferring to fly on three separate flights for a total travel experience lasting about 26 hours, she battled fear. I doubt that she even knew planes existed before having to strap herself into one with strangers who looked and smelled differently, ate foods she had never seen or tasted, and spoke a language she had never heard. During the long journey home, her eardrums burst and both ears bled, yet she never made a sound. Accustomed to no one caring, it was easier to remain uncomforted, exiled by a pattern of prior neglect and fear. Angst is often more comfortable than facing the terrors of change. As we were virtual strangers when we adopted her, she had no idea what would happen after arrival at our destination. Although we used a translator to prepare her, she barely knew the language in her home country, and had limited exposure to people during her lifetime, so I’m not sure exactly how much she understood. Considering the adrenaline of fear and uncertainty that had to be present, even if she had perfectly understood, how much could she really deeply comprehend and trust? Now, four years later, I relish moments in which she uncovers secrets of her past. Hearing how she lived before we ever knew she existed is a balm to empty places in my mother’s heart. I deeply treasure her trust and the relationship we have now, and wish we had been able to bring her into our family much, much sooner. When she shares her perspective of the family photo album we sent her before traveling to meet her, or of our first meeting, or the thoughts she experienced after arriving in the United States, I am saddened, yet respectful of the stoic personality I remember persevering through every change thrown at her in those days following her departure from anything she had ever experienced or known. Although her life was difficult, it was still all she knew, and to hear her speak of the extreme fear she felt is hard, yet I’m so thankful that she is able to tell us now. The early days with our precious girl are imprinted in my memory and recollected as easily as if they happened moments ago. The very first night alone with us, she pretended to be fine until darkness enveloped the day and it was time for bed. I cannot forget the desolate wails of great pain, anxiety, and sorrow. Yearning for comfort, yet fearful of receiving mine, she released pitiful cries as she kicked her legs in a weak attempt at forcefulness that was still miraculously tinged with hope. I quickly learned that she didn’t want me to touch her, yet didn’t want me to leave her alone. Fear caused her to react with survival instincts formed by the mind of a small, helpless girl who had endured pain, neglect, and hardships, but fortunately, by the grace of God, also carried a seed of hopeful endurance that life might change. Living with fear and anxiety drains the mind and emotions, disrupting the joy we were created to experience. Growing up, I didn’t know Jesus. I knew He was God’s Son, but I didn’t have a personal relationship with Him. How I wish I had. Instead, fear resided in my life. I lived in the perfect environment for Satan to step in and work his will into the lives of my family. I remember having and going to slumber parties and partaking in trances and seances, and playing with Quija boards and Magic Eight Balls. We relayed scary stories and invited the supernatural into our life. It wasn’t a habit I practiced daily, yet the exposure at the parties was enough to invite Satan in and allow terror to touch our mind in ways never intended by God. The more we delved into activities built on fear, the more the emotion controlled us. But, not knowing Jesus, we didn’t know how to break the cycle. We didn’t understand what we were inviting into our lives. It is easy to follow trends, morals, and expectations of this world without giving them a second thought until we realize we have walked in the opposite direction of Jesus and we are left standing in fear. I learned from a young age that fear can be induced. The actions and activities I participated in were certainly not in God’s will or desires for me. They definitely did not bring joy or contentment in my life, but filled me with lonely, fearful thoughts and emotions. I had absolutely no idea that what I was doing was forbidden or warned against. I ignorantly followed what others were doing, stepping blindly into the wicked and shadowed trap Satan laid to divert me from knowing Jesus and the fullness of His joy. The level of my participation was low, yet the effects are strong and lasting. We are warned against such entertainment or recreational pastimes in many verses throughout the Bible. Leviticus 19:31 instructs, “Do not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out to be defiled by them. I am the Lord your God.” Another verse warning against the dangers is given through Leviticus 20:6, which says, “I will set my face against anyone who turns to mediums and spiritists to prostitute themselves by following them, and I will cut them off from their people.” The choices we make that steer us into fear are not always evident. Sometimes it is entertainment consisting of astrology, books, movies, television shows, or magazines. It could be specific art or fashion. As a follower of Jesus, our heart must be so full of Him that our mind easily recognizes what He would not want us to step near. Deuteronomy 18:9-14 clearly warns, “When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, be very careful not to imitate the detestable customs of the nations living there. For example, never sacrifice your son or daughter as a burnt offering. And do not let your people practice fortune-telling, or use sorcery, or interpret omens, or engage in witchcraft, or cast spells, or function as mediums or psychics, or call forth the spirits of the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD. It is because the other nations have done these detestable things that the LORD your God will drive them out ahead of you. But you must be blameless before the LORD your God. The nations you are about to displace consult sorcerers and fortune-tellers, but the LORD your God forbids you to do such things.” Whether we innocently or deliberately step into questionable or forbidden practices, Satan is ready to lure us deeper. We must remain in God’s word to know His desires and commands if we truly wish to follow them and live with the fruits of the spirit He allows us to possess and experience when we are His. Instead of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, we experience the opposite when we travel into areas Jesus has not approved. Fear is an emotion caused by a perceived threat or danger which stimulates physiological and behavioral changes. I learned that when we walk outside the boundaries of what God desires for us, fear always catches us. “Have I not commanded you! Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9 Everyday life carries so many unknowns. If we ruminate scenarios for any amount of time, we can undoubtedly find something to fear and worry about. Our mind can create numerous possibilities without a shred of truthful evidence. Before long, we actually believe the fabrications can or already did happen. Such a powerful tool, our mind can convince us of almost anything. We can also easily be persuaded that almost anything is possible or approved for us to do. Since our mind is so easily deceived, we must cling to God for guidance. James 1:8 warns us, “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and He will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask Him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.” We require God’s wisdom and direction. He never intended for us to experience fear in our life. God planned abundance, peace, and blessings tailor-made for each of us. As a believer, I know that fear does not come from our Heavenly Father. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” So if fear begins to creep into my mind, I have conditioned myself to follow Psalm 56:3, which says, “Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You.” We must learn to discern or reject fear and replace it with trust that comes from a deep relationship with God. Just like relationships we grow on earth, or muscles we train, the job is accomplished by a dedicated, intentional mindset and much effort. When fear is felt, is it due to something God is warning me to stay away from? Is it a past hurt or deep wound that needs healing? Is my fear a consequence, blessing, or residue? After my oldest daughter died unexpectedly, I understood how deep grief takes our faith to a higher level if we cling to God through fear. Strengthening my belief that He is always present was a decision I had to make daily. My head knew that God is always present. I knew that if I did not feel Him, it would mean that I had turned away and I did not want that to happen. I consciously chose to remain with Him, abiding in His presence. I needed His comfort, trusted His promises, and resolved to cry out to Him. My life memories are now cataloged as “Before Jaime” and “After Jaime”. Since it feels as though my heart separated at her death, it is natural that my mind began dividing time, as well. Before her death, I automatically believed in happy endings. Although I had endured difficulties in life, I trusted that God was in control, even during the years before I truly understood His sovereignty in my life. After Jaime died, I experienced the painful fact that anything could happen at any time. Death had claimed one of the immense loves of my life, my child. That meant my greatest fear had been realized. Destruction could strike again at any time, leaving me defenseless if it chose our family again. It would have been incredibly easy to allow fear to reign. Any time one of my family members is late, I notice. As time continues to pass without them, I feel how easily fear can rise and threaten to overtake my peace. That is the moment I choose to keep my mind and trust fixed above. Psalm 23:4 beautifully speaks of God’s power over fear. “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” My grief journey through deep loss made me feel that even my DNA changed. I am not the person I was before sorrow cloaked my heart. Although death claimed what I feared losing the most, I have also experienced the sweet truth of God’s promises and provision. Our loving Heavenly Father is all His word proclaims, yet miraculously even more. When we allow Him access, an incredibly intimate and personal relationship matures because He alone knows our deepest needs and as our Creator, is the only One who can fill our voids because He understands them so perfectly. I lived the promise in Joshua 1:9 after the death of my daughter. The intimacy God gifted me during the time right before and after is absolute proof to me of His love and desire to nurture and minister to me directly. He does the same for each of His children. “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” He simply desires our trust and calls us to rely on Him, rather than succumbing to fear. Mark 5:36b says, “Jesus told him, ‘Don’t be afraid; just believe.” In contrast, Satan is the source of all anxiety and strives to fill our mind with doubt and distress. He desires for the people of God to stand trapped in fear, paralyzed so that he can distract and divert us from the perfect healing God holds. Satan gives bondage. God offers freedom. The devil understands that fear impacts physical and mental health, memory, brain processing and reactivity. Fear can crush relationships and dreams and demolish lives. Fear can even be induced by a perceived danger or threat, causing physiological, and ultimately behavioral changes such as fleeing, hiding, lying, fighting, and many other reactions that harm us, those around us, and keep us from resolving the root cause. Although powerful, fear is just an emotion. God created us with great intentionality. Everything in our anatomy is inner-woven to connect multiple intricate bodily systems that our Heavenly Father fashioned for specific purposes, enabling us to operate as one incredible creation. We are each a uniquely individual person meant to connect with Him in every way. The complexity of our design is astounding! I believe there are actually about 52 distinctly different regions of the brain alone. Are you as amazed by this fact as I am? Sometimes our fears are caused by traumatic events. Our brain has a specific area called the thalamus which is responsible for relaying sensory signals collected from the senses. In a nutshell explanation, information is received by the sensory cortex, which interprets data and organizes the material for dissemination to the amygdala, a section contributing to emotional processing and survival instincts, and sends a distress signal to the hypothalamus, which is basically a command center. This area of the brain communicates with others concerning body functions that are natural – or not voluntary, such as breathing, heartbeat, blood pressure, and so on. It triggers a “fight-or-flight” response which causes the body to respond with a burst of energy to perceived dangers. During emotional reactions, such as fear, the hippocampus region interacts to organize, store, and form these intense memories. This area is the most sensitive to stress, such as fear. Once those memories are formed, they leap to the surface of our mind and control our actions without us even realizing it. We know that this fear is caused by negative thinking, or worries, that arise from anxiety connected to an idea or a suspicion of dread or apprehension, usually caused by memories stored from past experiences. Those innate fears have been formed by exposure or events, either real or imagined, such as abandonment, separation, neglect, mutilation, disapproval, shame, and so on. Humans have an incredible ability to adapt our behavior through fear which can protect us. We also carry a natural capability for what I call “common sense” fears. If we see a wild lion coming at us, we are not going to stop and pet it. We are going to flee. These are learned fears, have been formed through conditioning and life experience. Some fears are good, but what I am concerned with in this podcast is fear that separates us from our Heavenly Father. As I mentioned earlier, when brain pathways are excited, the brain will react immediately to signals from the amygdala, instead of proceeding with rational processing. Our highly complex bodily system has already processed signals to other areas, which are now releasing hormones that cause us to shut down or slow functions not needed for survival (such as our digestive system). Other operations are sharpened such as eyesight and the heart rate and blood flow to muscles in case we need to run faster. This is when the body increases the flow of hormones to the amygdala. When in this overactive state, the brain perceives events as negative and will store them this way. Everything surrounding the danger is also recorded, such as time of day, weather, smells, sights, and sounds. Those stored details of a fearful event may carry us right back to the crisis as though we are experiencing it once again, although we have no conscious idea why a certain smell, sound, or sight, etc. caused us to react a certain way. Since our brain received a cataloged prompt of perceived danger, our body is triggered to flee the predictor of threat. God created our body this way for a variety of reasons, but definitely not to cause us harm. I remember a time in my twenties when I experienced great discomfort while on a road trip with my parents. We had shared a weekend family reunion and while returning home, I suffered the effects of eating foods I am allergic to. As I lay doubled over in pain in the back seat of their car, listening to my parents talk, I experienced a flashback in my mind. I asked my mother if she ever rubbed my temples. Although it was an odd question to ask out of the blue, I had spent an enjoyable few days with my parents, surfacing memories with relatives, and as I now felt pain in her presence, the thought of my mother rubbing my temples floated to mind. She was surprised when I asked, but answered that when I was a baby, she had used the technique of rubbing my temples to calm me to go to sleep. Our mind is incredibly powerful. The Bible tells us God created us in His image. We are intelligent creatures who are also creative, loving, humorous, (and many other adjectives) in ways that only mimic God. Imagine all of the bright and imaginative minds this world has held and understand that our qualities are merely shadows of His. It is no wonder that He lovingly formed our minds and bodies to be such highly structured creations. The devotion He has for us and the emotion with which He designed us is evident when we learn more about our intricate minds, bodies, and souls. I believe that is part of the reason it is said that the word “fear” is recognized over 500 times in the Bible. Some of the verses warn us not to fall victim to fear, while others teach us to fear or reverence God and nothing else. Fear causes us to do things we shouldn’t and to neglect doing things we should. It changes who we are meant to be and can freeze us where we are emotionally when horrible events happen. In this fallen world, God knows the pitfalls and trials we will suffer. He has done all He can to provide instructions in His Holy word, through the life Jesus modeled for us, and in the intimate ways He reaches out to us. Our intricate, yet sensitive minds have been scarred by this broken world we reside in. Despite the fact that our complex memories have cataloged and stored experiences that can continue to haunt and harm us, God provided an escape. He always plans ahead and never forsakes us. The way to battle the memories our mind has stored as dangers and that cause us to easily fall victim to fear, or to recognize areas in our life that we need to step away from to erase fear is by relying on the same basics that we use for all other areas of a joy-filled life. Our Heavenly Father. It is impossible to conquer fear or anxiety without a saving knowledge of, and deep relationship with Jesus and His word. Reading and studying the Bible is imperative. Without surrender to Jesus and reliance on the Holy word of God, we cannot recognize or learn the truth God desires to reveal to us. Without Him, we will not possess the keys to open our heart to transformation. The God who designed such a brilliant mind and body system also crafted each of us with a spirit yearning for deep relationship with Him. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.” As we begin, grow, and mature our relationship with God through Jesus, we come to rely on Him, and also deepen our walk through prayer, His word, and our life experiences. God crafts each one of us in private ways that only He knows how to reach exactly where we need to grow and stretch through Him. He lovingly offers and allows opportunities to trust Him more deeply. We must allow Him to do the work of shifting and healing the pathways of our brain and heart, then lay new signals that allow us to react in ways that prove we acknowledge His ultimate devotion and love for us. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” As we experience God’s work in and through us, we trust more deeply and draw nearer to Him. Our conscious decision to trust Him over the reactions our body signals tell us will erase the fear and anxiety over time as we allow Him to shoulder the burdens we endure in this broken world. Sometimes therapy may be needed to assist us in ridding our minds of the effects of fear and anxiety from this broken world, but only strong Christian counsel, along with our minds and hearts focused on learning and growing in and through Him, will be effective in properly healing our minds and reactions. Healing through the Lord is not a read the Bible and pray, then expect immediate change remedy. Rebuilding our mind and reactions will come from surrendering moment by moment to a Heavenly Father who is waiting to carry each of our burdens. Healing from fear or anxiety comes from consistently relying on and growing a relationship that transcends what this world is able to provide or heal. Each life is different, each journey unique. We have each lived through different experiences that will require specific prescriptions from the Lord. He desires that we invite Him into each area of our life and trust Him to shift us so that deep mind and soul healing can occur. To begin a journey of healing from fear and anxiety, it is important to get enough rest, eat healthy foods, and stay hydrated. Exercise and time to relax and partake in activities we enjoy also relieves stress and supports a healthy mind and body. Making time to be in God’s word and study the meaning of scriptures and how they apply to our life is incredibly wise and must become a priority. Memorizing God’s word and/or meditating on scripture through study or scripture writing is also important. Prayer should be a regular habit, not just in times of stress or worry. Fear holds no power when God’s word is prayed to Him. Talking with God throughout each day, including Him as naturally as breathing, allows us to rely on Him to manage our emotions and reactions in healthy and honoring ways. Speaking the name of Jesus aloud also holds a powerful and calming effect. Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears.” Nothing is too difficult for the Lord or too far for His merciful love to reach. Fear is no match for our omnipotent Heavenly Father, who cares about every aspect of our life. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in this life and for eternity, so we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. 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As we know, change and fear often walk hand-in-hand, both easily causing distress, confusion, and depression. As I record this podcast, life is still not back to normal due to the COVID-19 pandemic social distancing orders. Fear is one of the emotions that has visited the hearts and minds of many right now as they live with uncertainty; and may reside with others as they watch a loved one battle illness, endure it themselves, or work on the front lines as a doctor or nurse, emergency personnel, or any type of essential worker. Some, like my family, have lost the ability to go to work and earn a living during this time. If one does not keep their eyes directed at Christ alone, fear could overtake all other emotions, placing joy and peace in a stronghold. Unfortunately, my youngest child has catalogued a history of fearful situations. Adopted at 9 years old, she was definitely not accustomed to being cherished in a family. Much of her life to that point had been spent alone. While bravely traveling over 7,000 miles and transferring to fly on three separate flights for a total travel experience lasting about 26 hours, she battled fear. I doubt that she even knew planes existed before having to strap herself into one with strangers who looked and smelled differently, ate foods she had never seen or tasted, and spoke a language she had never heard. During the long journey home, her eardrums burst and both ears bled, yet she never made a sound. Accustomed to no one caring, it was easier to remain uncomforted, exiled by a pattern of prior neglect and fear. Angst is often more comfortable than facing the terrors of change. As we were virtual strangers when we adopted her, she had no idea what would happen after arrival at our destination. Although we used a translator to prepare her, she barely knew the language in her home country, and had limited exposure to people during her lifetime, so I’m not sure exactly how much she understood. Considering the adrenaline of fear and uncertainty that had to be present, even if she had perfectly understood, how much could she really deeply comprehend and trust? Now, four years later, I relish moments in which she uncovers secrets of her past. Hearing how she lived before we ever knew she existed is a balm to empty places in my mother’s heart. I deeply treasure her trust and the relationship we have now, and wish we had been able to bring her into our family much, much sooner. When she shares her perspective of the family photo album we sent her before traveling to meet her, or of our first meeting, or the thoughts she experienced after arriving in the United States, I am saddened, yet respectful of the stoic personality I remember persevering through every change thrown at her in those days following her departure from anything she had ever experienced or known. Although her life was difficult, it was still all she knew, and to hear her speak of the extreme fear she felt is hard, yet I’m so thankful that she is able to tell us now. The early days with our precious girl are imprinted in my memory and recollected as easily as if they happened moments ago. The very first night alone with us, she pretended to be fine until darkness enveloped the day and it was time for bed. I cannot forget the desolate wails of great pain, anxiety, and sorrow. Yearning for comfort, yet fearful of receiving mine, she released pitiful cries as she kicked her legs in a weak attempt at forcefulness that was still miraculously tinged with hope. I quickly learned that she didn’t want me to touch her, yet didn’t want me to leave her alone. Fear caused her to react with survival instincts formed by the mind of a small, helpless girl who had endured pain, neglect, and hardships, but fortunately, by the grace of God, also carried a seed of hopeful endurance that life might change. Living with fear and anxiety drains the mind and emotions, disrupting the joy we were created to experience. Growing up, I didn’t know Jesus. I knew He was God’s Son, but I didn’t have a personal relationship with Him. How I wish I had. Instead, fear resided in my life. I lived in the perfect environment for Satan to step in and work his will into the lives of my family. I remember having and going to slumber parties and partaking in trances and seances, and playing with Quija boards and Magic Eight Balls. We relayed scary stories and invited the supernatural into our life. It wasn’t a habit I practiced daily, yet the exposure at the parties was enough to invite Satan in and allow terror to touch our mind in ways never intended by God. The more we delved into activities built on fear, the more the emotion controlled us. But, not knowing Jesus, we didn’t know how to break the cycle. We didn’t understand what we were inviting into our lives. It is easy to follow trends, morals, and expectations of this world without giving them a second thought until we realize we have walked in the opposite direction of Jesus and we are left standing in fear. I learned from a young age that fear can be induced. The actions and activities I participated in were certainly not in God’s will or desires for me. They definitely did not bring joy or contentment in my life, but filled me with lonely, fearful thoughts and emotions. I had absolutely no idea that what I was doing was forbidden or warned against. I ignorantly followed what others were doing, stepping blindly into the wicked and shadowed trap Satan laid to divert me from knowing Jesus and the fullness of His joy. The level of my participation was low, yet the effects are strong and lasting. We are warned against such entertainment or recreational pastimes in many verses throughout the Bible. Leviticus 19:31 instructs, “Do not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out to be defiled by them. I am the Lord your God.” Another verse warning against the dangers is given through Leviticus 20:6, which says, “I will set my face against anyone who turns to mediums and spiritists to prostitute themselves by following them, and I will cut them off from their people.” The choices we make that steer us into fear are not always evident. Sometimes it is entertainment consisting of astrology, books, movies, television shows, or magazines. It could be specific art or fashion. As a follower of Jesus, our heart must be so full of Him that our mind easily recognizes what He would not want us to step near. Deuteronomy 18:9-14 clearly warns, “When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, be very careful not to imitate the detestable customs of the nations living there. For example, never sacrifice your son or daughter as a burnt offering. And do not let your people practice fortune-telling, or use sorcery, or interpret omens, or engage in witchcraft, or cast spells, or function as mediums or psychics, or call forth the spirits of the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD. It is because the other nations have done these detestable things that the LORD your God will drive them out ahead of you. But you must be blameless before the LORD your God. The nations you are about to displace consult sorcerers and fortune-tellers, but the LORD your God forbids you to do such things.” Whether we innocently or deliberately step into questionable or forbidden practices, Satan is ready to lure us deeper. We must remain in God’s word to know His desires and commands if we truly wish to follow them and live with the fruits of the spirit He allows us to possess and experience when we are His. Instead of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, we experience the opposite when we travel into areas Jesus has not approved. Fear is an emotion caused by a perceived threat or danger which stimulates physiological and behavioral changes. I learned that when we walk outside the boundaries of what God desires for us, fear always catches us. “Have I not commanded you! Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9 Everyday life carries so many unknowns. If we ruminate scenarios for any amount of time, we can undoubtedly find something to fear and worry about. Our mind can create numerous possibilities without a shred of truthful evidence. Before long, we actually believe the fabrications can or already did happen. Such a powerful tool, our mind can convince us of almost anything. We can also easily be persuaded that almost anything is possible or approved for us to do. Since our mind is so easily deceived, we must cling to God for guidance. James 1:8 warns us, “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and He will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask Him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.” We require God’s wisdom and direction. He never intended for us to experience fear in our life. God planned abundance, peace, and blessings tailor-made for each of us. As a believer, I know that fear does not come from our Heavenly Father. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” So if fear begins to creep into my mind, I have conditioned myself to follow Psalm 56:3, which says, “Whenever I am afraid, I will trust in You.” We must learn to discern or reject fear and replace it with trust that comes from a deep relationship with God. Just like relationships we grow on earth, or muscles we train, the job is accomplished by a dedicated, intentional mindset and much effort. When fear is felt, is it due to something God is warning me to stay away from? Is it a past hurt or deep wound that needs healing? Is my fear a consequence, blessing, or residue? After my oldest daughter died unexpectedly, I understood how deep grief takes our faith to a higher level if we cling to God through fear. Strengthening my belief that He is always present was a decision I had to make daily. My head knew that God is always present. I knew that if I did not feel Him, it would mean that I had turned away and I did not want that to happen. I consciously chose to remain with Him, abiding in His presence. I needed His comfort, trusted His promises, and resolved to cry out to Him. My life memories are now cataloged as “Before Jaime” and “After Jaime”. Since it feels as though my heart separated at her death, it is natural that my mind began dividing time, as well. Before her death, I automatically believed in happy endings. Although I had endured difficulties in life, I trusted that God was in control, even during the years before I truly understood His sovereignty in my life. After Jaime died, I experienced the painful fact that anything could happen at any time. Death had claimed one of the immense loves of my life, my child. That meant my greatest fear had been realized. Destruction could strike again at any time, leaving me defenseless if it chose our family again. It would have been incredibly easy to allow fear to reign. Any time one of my family members is late, I notice. As time continues to pass without them, I feel how easily fear can rise and threaten to overtake my peace. That is the moment I choose to keep my mind and trust fixed above. Psalm 23:4 beautifully speaks of God’s power over fear. “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” My grief journey through deep loss made me feel that even my DNA changed. I am not the person I was before sorrow cloaked my heart. Although death claimed what I feared losing the most, I have also experienced the sweet truth of God’s promises and provision. Our loving Heavenly Father is all His word proclaims, yet miraculously even more. When we allow Him access, an incredibly intimate and personal relationship matures because He alone knows our deepest needs and as our Creator, is the only One who can fill our voids because He understands them so perfectly. I lived the promise in Joshua 1:9 after the death of my daughter. The intimacy God gifted me during the time right before and after is absolute proof to me of His love and desire to nurture and minister to me directly. He does the same for each of His children. “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” He simply desires our trust and calls us to rely on Him, rather than succumbing to fear. Mark 5:36b says, “Jesus told him, ‘Don’t be afraid; just believe.” In contrast, Satan is the source of all anxiety and strives to fill our mind with doubt and distress. He desires for the people of God to stand trapped in fear, paralyzed so that he can distract and divert us from the perfect healing God holds. Satan gives bondage. God offers freedom. The devil understands that fear impacts physical and mental health, memory, brain processing and reactivity. Fear can crush relationships and dreams and demolish lives. Fear can even be induced by a perceived danger or threat, causing physiological, and ultimately behavioral changes such as fleeing, hiding, lying, fighting, and many other reactions that harm us, those around us, and keep us from resolving the root cause. Although powerful, fear is just an emotion. God created us with great intentionality. Everything in our anatomy is inner-woven to connect multiple intricate bodily systems that our Heavenly Father fashioned for specific purposes, enabling us to operate as one incredible creation. We are each a uniquely individual person meant to connect with Him in every way. The complexity of our design is astounding! I believe there are actually about 52 distinctly different regions of the brain alone. Are you as amazed by this fact as I am? Sometimes our fears are caused by traumatic events. Our brain has a specific area called the thalamus which is responsible for relaying sensory signals collected from the senses. In a nutshell explanation, information is received by the sensory cortex, which interprets data and organizes the material for dissemination to the amygdala, a section contributing to emotional processing and survival instincts, and sends a distress signal to the hypothalamus, which is basically a command center. This area of the brain communicates with others concerning body functions that are natural – or not voluntary, such as breathing, heartbeat, blood pressure, and so on. It triggers a “fight-or-flight” response which causes the body to respond with a burst of energy to perceived dangers. During emotional reactions, such as fear, the hippocampus region interacts to organize, store, and form these intense memories. This area is the most sensitive to stress, such as fear. Once those memories are formed, they leap to the surface of our mind and control our actions without us even realizing it. We know that this fear is caused by negative thinking, or worries, that arise from anxiety connected to an idea or a suspicion of dread or apprehension, usually caused by memories stored from past experiences. Those innate fears have been formed by exposure or events, either real or imagined, such as abandonment, separation, neglect, mutilation, disapproval, shame, and so on. Humans have an incredible ability to adapt our behavior through fear which can protect us. We also carry a natural capability for what I call “common sense” fears. If we see a wild lion coming at us, we are not going to stop and pet it. We are going to flee. These are learned fears, have been formed through conditioning and life experience. Some fears are good, but what I am concerned with in this podcast is fear that separates us from our Heavenly Father. As I mentioned earlier, when brain pathways are excited, the brain will react immediately to signals from the amygdala, instead of proceeding with rational processing. Our highly complex bodily system has already processed signals to other areas, which are now releasing hormones that cause us to shut down or slow functions not needed for survival (such as our digestive system). Other operations are sharpened such as eyesight and the heart rate and blood flow to muscles in case we need to run faster. This is when the body increases the flow of hormones to the amygdala. When in this overactive state, the brain perceives events as negative and will store them this way. Everything surrounding the danger is also recorded, such as time of day, weather, smells, sights, and sounds. Those stored details of a fearful event may carry us right back to the crisis as though we are experiencing it once again, although we have no conscious idea why a certain smell, sound, or sight, etc. caused us to react a certain way. Since our brain received a cataloged prompt of perceived danger, our body is triggered to flee the predictor of threat. God created our body this way for a variety of reasons, but definitely not to cause us harm. I remember a time in my twenties when I experienced great discomfort while on a road trip with my parents. We had shared a weekend family reunion and while returning home, I suffered the effects of eating foods I am allergic to. As I lay doubled over in pain in the back seat of their car, listening to my parents talk, I experienced a flashback in my mind. I asked my mother if she ever rubbed my temples. Although it was an odd question to ask out of the blue, I had spent an enjoyable few days with my parents, surfacing memories with relatives, and as I now felt pain in her presence, the thought of my mother rubbing my temples floated to mind. She was surprised when I asked, but answered that when I was a baby, she had used the technique of rubbing my temples to calm me to go to sleep. Our mind is incredibly powerful. The Bible tells us God created us in His image. We are intelligent creatures who are also creative, loving, humorous, (and many other adjectives) in ways that only mimic God. Imagine all of the bright and imaginative minds this world has held and understand that our qualities are merely shadows of His. It is no wonder that He lovingly formed our minds and bodies to be such highly structured creations. The devotion He has for us and the emotion with which He designed us is evident when we learn more about our intricate minds, bodies, and souls. I believe that is part of the reason it is said that the word “fear” is recognized over 500 times in the Bible. Some of the verses warn us not to fall victim to fear, while others teach us to fear or reverence God and nothing else. Fear causes us to do things we shouldn’t and to neglect doing things we should. It changes who we are meant to be and can freeze us where we are emotionally when horrible events happen. In this fallen world, God knows the pitfalls and trials we will suffer. He has done all He can to provide instructions in His Holy word, through the life Jesus modeled for us, and in the intimate ways He reaches out to us. Our intricate, yet sensitive minds have been scarred by this broken world we reside in. Despite the fact that our complex memories have cataloged and stored experiences that can continue to haunt and harm us, God provided an escape. He always plans ahead and never forsakes us. The way to battle the memories our mind has stored as dangers and that cause us to easily fall victim to fear, or to recognize areas in our life that we need to step away from to erase fear is by relying on the same basics that we use for all other areas of a joy-filled life. Our Heavenly Father. It is impossible to conquer fear or anxiety without a saving knowledge of, and deep relationship with Jesus and His word. Reading and studying the Bible is imperative. Without surrender to Jesus and reliance on the Holy word of God, we cannot recognize or learn the truth God desires to reveal to us. Without Him, we will not possess the keys to open our heart to transformation. The God who designed such a brilliant mind and body system also crafted each of us with a spirit yearning for deep relationship with Him. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.” As we begin, grow, and mature our relationship with God through Jesus, we come to rely on Him, and also deepen our walk through prayer, His word, and our life experiences. God crafts each one of us in private ways that only He knows how to reach exactly where we need to grow and stretch through Him. He lovingly offers and allows opportunities to trust Him more deeply. We must allow Him to do the work of shifting and healing the pathways of our brain and heart, then lay new signals that allow us to react in ways that prove we acknowledge His ultimate devotion and love for us. John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” As we experience God’s work in and through us, we trust more deeply and draw nearer to Him. Our conscious decision to trust Him over the reactions our body signals tell us will erase the fear and anxiety over time as we allow Him to shoulder the burdens we endure in this broken world. Sometimes therapy may be needed to assist us in ridding our minds of the effects of fear and anxiety from this broken world, but only strong Christian counsel, along with our minds and hearts focused on learning and growing in and through Him, will be effective in properly healing our minds and reactions. Healing through the Lord is not a read the Bible and pray, then expect immediate change remedy. Rebuilding our mind and reactions will come from surrendering moment by moment to a Heavenly Father who is waiting to carry each of our burdens. Healing from fear or anxiety comes from consistently relying on and growing a relationship that transcends what this world is able to provide or heal. Each life is different, each journey unique. We have each lived through different experiences that will require specific prescriptions from the Lord. He desires that we invite Him into each area of our life and trust Him to shift us so that deep mind and soul healing can occur. To begin a journey of healing from fear and anxiety, it is important to get enough rest, eat healthy foods, and stay hydrated. Exercise and time to relax and partake in activities we enjoy also relieves stress and supports a healthy mind and body. Making time to be in God’s word and study the meaning of scriptures and how they apply to our life is incredibly wise and must become a priority. Memorizing God’s word and/or meditating on scripture through study or scripture writing is also important. Prayer should be a regular habit, not just in times of stress or worry. Fear holds no power when God’s word is prayed to Him. Talking with God throughout each day, including Him as naturally as breathing, allows us to rely on Him to manage our emotions and reactions in healthy and honoring ways. Speaking the name of Jesus aloud also holds a powerful and calming effect. Psalm 34:4 says, “I sought the LORD, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears.” Nothing is too difficult for the Lord or too far for His merciful love to reach. Fear is no match for our omnipotent Heavenly Father, who cares about every aspect of our life. Thank you so much for listening to the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. God has impressed so much on my heart to share. Living with an eternal perspective affects absolutely everything in this life and for eternity, so we have a lot to discuss! I’d love to hear your thoughts. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #133 – The Power of Your Story Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. When I was a new Christian I was absolutely terrified that I’d have to give testimony of my walk with Jesus. I had no idea what I would say. Have you ever been afraid to talk to someone about Christ? My problem wasn’t that I was ashamed of Jesus, but that I wouldn’t be good enough to talk about Him. I was afraid I wouldn’t know enough. I was scared I’d need to memorize a lot of Scripture or I wouldn’t know the right verses to share. I was afraid someone would ask me a question I wouldn’t know how to answer. I was scared I would tell someone the wrong thing. I didn’t want to mislead anyone. As I’ve walked with Jesus longer, my heart has discovered the joy of sharing truth. The power of living truth. I understand that I am not the one who will change the heart of another person. All I should focus on is growing and maturing my walk with Jesus and letting Him seep from me in all I am and do. Sharing is an outpouring of the overflow of Christ in me. Offering my testimony is now a lifestyle. I don’t think about having the perfect words or verses to share, although I have many underlined in my Bible and have stepped through them with people. I admit, I’m still not the best at memorizing the Word, but I’m acquainted with my Bible and know God’s Word well enough to recognize His truths and allow them to flow through my daily language. His Word naturally comes to me when I share with others, advise others, and pray for others. Sharing my testimony and the truth of the gospel is no longer a fear, but a joy. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” I believe I should pray for God to reveal opportunities for me to share the gospel. I also believe I should intentionally walk so closely with the Lord that it causes people to notice a difference in my life. When they ask what makes me so happy, or whatever word they use, I should make the most of the opportunity to share the hope of Christ, the fruits of the Spirit, or whatever pertains to the situation or compliment. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Your Christian testimony is your personal story, but it is also the autobiography of what you have seen, experienced, read, and heard through or about Christ in your lifetime. The nearer one draws to God through personal relationship with Jesus, the more they have to share and the more they want to share. When we communicate what God has done in our life, He draws others to Him to experience His glory. Your testimony, the story of your life because of the sacrifice and influence of Christ is important and impactful to others seeking hope and light. Through your story, you can share: 1. Your life before Christ 2. How you came to know Jesus as your personal Savior 3. Your life now (the power of Christ in you) 4. How others can know Jesus Your story may help keep another person’s faith from being “cold”, from becoming “lukewarm,” or it may encourage or empower them to lead a “hot” life for Christ. Everyone has a testimony. Some testimonies are dramatic; some are quiet. Each is a miracle. Just as each of us is uniquely made by God, no testimony is the same, yet each story is a gift of grace and mercy extended from Heaven and meant to be shared. I believe Paul’s testimony from Acts 26 is a wonderful example we can learn from. His testimony can be read and examined as an encouraging model of how we can also share our story. I’m going to read it now so we can study how Paul shared with King Agrippa and Festus in Acts 26:1-29. It’s important to note the way Paul presented his testimony and what we can learn from it. As I read, I’m going to break these verses into sections, then I’ll add my thoughts after reading each portion. I encourage you to read this yourself and prayerfully search the Scripture for what God reveals to you. We’ll begin with Acts 26:1-5, which says, “So Agrippa said to Paul, “You have permission to speak for yourself.” Then Paul stretched out his hand and made his defense: “I consider myself fortunate that it is before you, King Agrippa, I am going to make my defense today against all the accusations of the Jews, especially because you are familiar with all the customs and controversies of the Jews. Therefore I beg you to listen to me patiently. My manner of life from my youth, spent from the beginning among my own nation and in Jerusalem, is known by all the Jews. They have known for a long time, if they are willing to testify, that according to the strictest party of our religion I have lived as a Pharisee.” In this passage we see that Paul is showing respect to King Agrippa and recognizing his qualifications. Paul made it evident that he was not trying to offend Jewish citizens with his intentions, words, or actions. Paul also reminded Agrippa of his own personal character and background, and the truth that he was not a disobedient or rebellious man, but a Jew who had been raised as a supporter and an educator of the law. Paul began where his audience was and could understand without offending them. Acts 26:6-8 says, “And now I stand here on trial because of my hope in the promise made by God to our fathers, to which our twelve tribes hope to attain, as they earnestly worship night and day. And for this hope I am accused by Jews, O king! Why is it thought incredible by any of you that God raises the dead?” Here, we see Paul address the fact that he is being accused of believing in doctrine that was actually central in Judaism. Paul continues to connect with his audience by showing that he has done nothing offensive. Acts 26:9-11 says, “I myself was convinced that I ought to do many things in opposing the name of Jesus of Nazareth. And I did so in Jerusalem. I not only locked up many of the saints in prison after receiving authority from the chief priests, but when they were put to death I cast my vote against them. And I punished them often in all the synagogues and tried to make them blaspheme, and in raging fury against them I persecuted them even to foreign cities.” In these verses, we notice that Paul desires Agrippa to recognize that Paul was a devoted Jew, who fought against and persecuted Christians. Paul begins his personal story with background his audience should remember. Acts 26:12-18 says, “In this connection I journeyed to Damascus with the authority and commission of the chief priests. At midday, O king, I saw on the way a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, that shone around me and those who journeyed with me. And when we had all fallen to the ground, I heard a voice saying to me in the Hebrew language, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ And I said, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ And the Lord said, ‘I am Jesus whom you are persecuting. But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me, and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles—to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’” Paul, passionately appealing to the King so he could understand his words, gained Agrippa’s attention. Paul clearly revealed his personal story of meeting the Lord. During this astonishing testimony, Paul exposed every detail with truth, hope, and courage. He was a changed man whose perspective had suddenly been altered by miraculous methods. Paul continues his personal testimony with glory to God. Acts 26:19-23 says, “Therefore, O King Agrippa, I was not disobedient to the heavenly vision, but declared first to those in Damascus, then in Jerusalem and throughout all the region of Judea, and also to the Gentiles, that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance. For this reason the Jews seized me in the temple and tried to kill me. To this day I have had the help that comes from God, and so I stand here testifying both to small and great, saying nothing but what the prophets and Moses said would come to pass: that the Christ must suffer and that, by being the first to rise from the dead, he would proclaim light both to our people and to the Gentiles.” Paul exposed his understanding of the purpose of his vision and transformation. God was causing and calling him to deliver his testimony with personal authority granted by Him and to take the message of Christ to Judea and to the Gentiles. Paul confessed that he had been imprisoned for believing and sharing what the prophets and Moses declared would happen regarding Israel’s Messiah. Acts 26:24-26 says, “And as he was saying these things in his defense, Festus said with a loud voice, “Paul, you are out of your mind; your great learning is driving you out of your mind.” But Paul said, “I am not out of my mind, most excellent Festus, but I am speaking true and rational words. For the king knows about these things, and to him I speak boldly. For I am persuaded that none of these things has escaped his notice, for this has not been done in a corner.” After Paul finished speaking, Festus spoke no opposition; He knew nothing of Moses or the prophets. Agrippa was not an Old Testament academic, however he was acquainted with Jewish Messianic traditions. Yet, he spoke no challenges to Paul’s testimony, revealing the conviction most likely pricking his heart. Paul shares the truth of God’s miraculous work in his life, giving God glory and letting Him move and work as He desires. Acts 26:27-28 says, “King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know that you believe. And Agrippa said to Paul, “In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?” Because Paul shared with boldness, the truth and evidence were clearly presented. He couldn’t force anyone to accept the truth of the gospel, but Christ had clearly been shown. Agrippa saw the truth, seemed to be impressed in some way by it, but did carry a personal hesitation or unwillingness to profess Christ as King. Acts 26:29 says, “And Paul said, “Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am—except for these chains.” Paul clearly and bravely professed Christ, allowing those who heard him to declare their belief and fate for themselves. Paul knew his duty was not to change hearts; only God could do the transforming work in a willing heart. Important facts to remember: 1. Your story isn’t about you. It isn’t for you. Your story is about what Jesus sacrificed for you. It is a personal testimony of how He lifted you out of death and established new life within you. 2. The power of story has the same holy, sovereign thread woven throughout each person. The cord that ties us together is the wondrous sacrifice and loving grace of Christ. Here’s a quick recap of the top facts we’ve learned: 1. Respect your audience. 2. Connect personally with them. 3. Profess your story. 4. Pray for your listeners. Sharing our story or testimony does not have to be something to be afraid of. As we simply move nearer to Christ daily and allow Him to work through us, we obediently respond to His promptings. The good work He completes within us spreads to those around us or those we come into contact with if we show and tell the truth of the gospel and the work of Christ. Every day brings new work and transformation to share if we are willing to humbly submit and cling to Him. I want to share five short verses that I believe help us carry gratitude for the sacrifice and work of Christ and remind us to share with joy, hope, and truth. Hebrews 2:1 says, “Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.” Psalm 107:1-2 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, for His steadfast love endures forever! Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom He has redeemed from trouble.” Psalm 71:5 says, “For you, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O LORD, from my youth.” Psalm 71:23 says, “My lips will shout for joy, when I sing praises to You; my soul also, which you have redeemed.” 1 Chronicles 16:8 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD; call upon His name; make known His deeds among the peoples!” Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is astounding! How could we ever understand the depth and heights to which it extends? Yet You still purpose to prove Your great love, grace, and mercy through the gift of Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for Your pursuit of us and patience extended to us. Father, may we cling more tightly to You each day. May Your love be made known in intimate ways only You can extend and our love extend intentionally toward You. May You be the first thought on our mind each day and the last thought as we lay down to rest. May our mind and heart dictate a driven desire to devour Your Word and may we allow You to flow through us to share Your great mysteries and truths. Give us Your courage, Your boldness to obey You and allow You to shine from within us every moment, with those we love and even those we don’t. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. Remember that you may find transcripts online at terrihitt.com. On the website you may also find my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast and transcripts. Both podcasts are also available on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? 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Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 133 - The Power of Your Story Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #133 – The Power of Your Story Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. When I was a new Christian I was absolutely terrified that I’d have to give testimony of my walk with Jesus. I had no idea what I would say. Have you ever been afraid to talk to someone about Christ? My problem wasn’t that I was ashamed of Jesus, but that I wouldn’t be good enough to talk about Him. I was afraid I wouldn’t know enough. I was scared I’d need to memorize a lot of Scripture or I wouldn’t know the right verses to share. I was afraid someone would ask me a question I wouldn’t know how to answer. I was scared I would tell someone the wrong thing. I didn’t want to mislead anyone. As I’ve walked with Jesus longer, my heart has discovered the joy of sharing truth. The power of living truth. I understand that I am not the one who will change the heart of another person. All I should focus on is growing and maturing my walk with Jesus and letting Him seep from me in all I am and do. Sharing is an outpouring of the overflow of Christ in me. Offering my testimony is now a lifestyle. I don’t think about having the perfect words or verses to share, although I have many underlined in my Bible and have stepped through them with people. I admit, I’m still not the best at memorizing the Word, but I’m acquainted with my Bible and know God’s Word well enough to recognize His truths and allow them to flow through my daily language. His Word naturally comes to me when I share with others, advise others, and pray for others. Sharing my testimony and the truth of the gospel is no longer a fear, but a joy. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” I believe I should pray for God to reveal opportunities for me to share the gospel. I also believe I should intentionally walk so closely with the Lord that it causes people to notice a difference in my life. When they ask what makes me so happy, or whatever word they use, I should make the most of the opportunity to share the hope of Christ, the fruits of the Spirit, or whatever pertains to the situation or compliment. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Your Christian testimony is your personal story, but it is also the autobiography of what you have seen, experienced, read, and heard through or about Christ in your lifetime. The nearer one draws to God through personal relationship with Jesus, the more they have to share and the more they want to share. When we communicate what God has done in our life, He draws others to Him to experience His glory. Your testimony, the story of your life because of the sacrifice and influence of Christ is important and impactful to others seeking hope and light. Through your story, you can share: 1. Your life before Christ 2. How you came to know Jesus as your personal Savior 3. Your life now (the power of Christ in you) 4. How others can know Jesus Your story may help keep another person’s faith from being “cold”, from becoming “lukewarm,” or it may encourage or empower them to lead a “hot” life for Christ. Everyone has a testimony. Some testimonies are dramatic; some are quiet. Each is a miracle. Just as each of us is uniquely made by God, no testimony is the same, yet each story is a gift of grace and mercy extended from Heaven and meant to be shared. I believe Paul’s testimony from Acts 26 is a wonderful example we can learn from. His testimony can be read and examined as an encouraging model of how we can also share our story. I’m going to read it now so we can study how Paul shared with King Agrippa and Festus in Acts 26:1-29. It’s important to note the way Paul presented his testimony and what we can learn from it. As I read, I’m going to break these verses into sections, then I’ll add my thoughts after reading each portion. I encourage you to read this yourself and prayerfully search the Scripture for what God reveals to you. We’ll begin with Acts 26:1-5, which says, “So Agrippa said to Paul, “You have permission to speak for yourself.” Then Paul stretched out his hand and made his defense: “I consider myself fortunate that it is before you, King Agrippa, I am going to make my defense today against all the accusations of the Jews, especially because you are familiar with all the customs and controversies of the Jews. Therefore I beg you to listen to me patiently. My manner of life from my youth, spent from the beginning among my own nation and in Jerusalem, is known by all the Jews. They have known for a long time, if they are willing to testify, that according to the strictest party of our religion I have lived as a Pharisee.” In this passage we see that Paul is showing respect to King Agrippa and recognizing his qualifications. Paul made it evident that he was not trying to offend Jewish citizens with his intentions, words, or actions. Paul also reminded Agrippa of his own personal character and background, and the truth that he was not a disobedient or rebellious man, but a Jew who had been raised as a supporter and an educator of the law. Paul began where his audience was and could understand without offending them. Acts 26:6-8 says, “And now I stand here on trial because of my hope in the promise made by God to our fathers, to which our twelve tribes hope to attain, as they earnestly worship night and day. And for this hope I am accused by Jews, O king! Why is it thought incredible by any of you that God raises the dead?” Here, we see Paul address the fact that he is being accused of believing in doctrine that was actually central in Judaism. Paul continues to connect with his audience by showing that he has done nothing offensive. Acts 26:9-11 says, “I myself was convinced that I ought to do many things in opposing the name of Jesus of Nazareth. And I did so in Jerusalem. I not only locked up many of the saints in prison after receiving authority from the chief priests, but when they were put to death I cast my vote against them. And I punished them often in all the synagogues and tried to make them blaspheme, and in raging fury against them I persecuted them even to foreign cities.” In these verses, we notice that Paul desires Agrippa to recognize that Paul was a devoted Jew, who fought against and persecuted Christians. Paul begins his personal story with background his audience should remember. Acts 26:12-18 says, “In this connection I journeyed to Damascus with the authority and commission of the chief priests. At midday, O king, I saw on the way a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, that shone around me and those who journeyed with me. And when we had all fallen to the ground, I heard a voice saying to me in the Hebrew language, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ And I said, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ And the Lord said, ‘I am Jesus whom you are persecuting. But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me, and to those in which I will appear to you, delivering you from your people and from the Gentiles—to whom I am sending you to open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’” Paul, passionately appealing to the King so he could understand his words, gained Agrippa’s attention. Paul clearly revealed his personal story of meeting the Lord. During this astonishing testimony, Paul exposed every detail with truth, hope, and courage. He was a changed man whose perspective had suddenly been altered by miraculous methods. Paul continues his personal testimony with glory to God. Acts 26:19-23 says, “Therefore, O King Agrippa, I was not disobedient to the heavenly vision, but declared first to those in Damascus, then in Jerusalem and throughout all the region of Judea, and also to the Gentiles, that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance. For this reason the Jews seized me in the temple and tried to kill me. To this day I have had the help that comes from God, and so I stand here testifying both to small and great, saying nothing but what the prophets and Moses said would come to pass: that the Christ must suffer and that, by being the first to rise from the dead, he would proclaim light both to our people and to the Gentiles.” Paul exposed his understanding of the purpose of his vision and transformation. God was causing and calling him to deliver his testimony with personal authority granted by Him and to take the message of Christ to Judea and to the Gentiles. Paul confessed that he had been imprisoned for believing and sharing what the prophets and Moses declared would happen regarding Israel’s Messiah. Acts 26:24-26 says, “And as he was saying these things in his defense, Festus said with a loud voice, “Paul, you are out of your mind; your great learning is driving you out of your mind.” But Paul said, “I am not out of my mind, most excellent Festus, but I am speaking true and rational words. For the king knows about these things, and to him I speak boldly. For I am persuaded that none of these things has escaped his notice, for this has not been done in a corner.” After Paul finished speaking, Festus spoke no opposition; He knew nothing of Moses or the prophets. Agrippa was not an Old Testament academic, however he was acquainted with Jewish Messianic traditions. Yet, he spoke no challenges to Paul’s testimony, revealing the conviction most likely pricking his heart. Paul shares the truth of God’s miraculous work in his life, giving God glory and letting Him move and work as He desires. Acts 26:27-28 says, “King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know that you believe. And Agrippa said to Paul, “In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?” Because Paul shared with boldness, the truth and evidence were clearly presented. He couldn’t force anyone to accept the truth of the gospel, but Christ had clearly been shown. Agrippa saw the truth, seemed to be impressed in some way by it, but did carry a personal hesitation or unwillingness to profess Christ as King. Acts 26:29 says, “And Paul said, “Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am—except for these chains.” Paul clearly and bravely professed Christ, allowing those who heard him to declare their belief and fate for themselves. Paul knew his duty was not to change hearts; only God could do the transforming work in a willing heart. Important facts to remember: 1. Your story isn’t about you. It isn’t for you. Your story is about what Jesus sacrificed for you. It is a personal testimony of how He lifted you out of death and established new life within you. 2. The power of story has the same holy, sovereign thread woven throughout each person. The cord that ties us together is the wondrous sacrifice and loving grace of Christ. Here’s a quick recap of the top facts we’ve learned: 1. Respect your audience. 2. Connect personally with them. 3. Profess your story. 4. Pray for your listeners. Sharing our story or testimony does not have to be something to be afraid of. As we simply move nearer to Christ daily and allow Him to work through us, we obediently respond to His promptings. The good work He completes within us spreads to those around us or those we come into contact with if we show and tell the truth of the gospel and the work of Christ. Every day brings new work and transformation to share if we are willing to humbly submit and cling to Him. I want to share five short verses that I believe help us carry gratitude for the sacrifice and work of Christ and remind us to share with joy, hope, and truth. Hebrews 2:1 says, “Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.” Psalm 107:1-2 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good, for His steadfast love endures forever! Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom He has redeemed from trouble.” Psalm 71:5 says, “For you, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O LORD, from my youth.” Psalm 71:23 says, “My lips will shout for joy, when I sing praises to You; my soul also, which you have redeemed.” 1 Chronicles 16:8 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD; call upon His name; make known His deeds among the peoples!” Dear Heavenly Father, Your love for us is astounding! How could we ever understand the depth and heights to which it extends? Yet You still purpose to prove Your great love, grace, and mercy through the gift of Your Son, Jesus. Thank you for Your pursuit of us and patience extended to us. Father, may we cling more tightly to You each day. May Your love be made known in intimate ways only You can extend and our love extend intentionally toward You. May You be the first thought on our mind each day and the last thought as we lay down to rest. May our mind and heart dictate a driven desire to devour Your Word and may we allow You to flow through us to share Your great mysteries and truths. Give us Your courage, Your boldness to obey You and allow You to shine from within us every moment, with those we love and even those we don’t. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. Remember that you may find transcripts online at terrihitt.com. On the website you may also find my “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast and transcripts. Both podcasts are also available on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #088 – Godly Instruction Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Getting wisdom is the most important thing you can do. Whatever else you get, get insight.” Proverbs 4:1-2 says, “Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, and give attention to know understanding; For I give you good doctrine: Do not forsake my law.” Proverbs 4:10-13 says, “Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many. I have taught you in the way of wisdom; I have led you in right paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hindered, and when you run, you will not stumble. Take firm hold of instruction, do not let go; Keep her, for she is your life.” The very first instruction a child receives comes from parents. God has ordained and established this right and privilege to us. Entrusting us to care for His precious, hand-crafted children is a gift none of us are worthy of. Remembering that it is an honor to influence and raise a human God has purposed to be in this world for exact purposes should be at the top of our mind as we make choices, educate, instruct, and correct our children. Raising them to know, love, honor, and obey Jesus is a process that demands we know Him first and love Him well. To be the greatest influence and tie to God that our child will experience is incredibly humbling and we should never take that responsibility for granted. Psalm 78:1-8 reminds us, ”My people, hear my teaching; listen to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth with a parable; I will utter hidden things, things from of old—things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, His power, and the wonders He has done. He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which He commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget His deeds but would keep His commands. They would not be like their ancestors—a stubborn and rebellious generation, whose hearts were not loyal to God, whose spirits were not faithful to Him.” Educating my two youngest children from home has been one of my most treasured blessings. Without question, humbly asking God to work through me as I homeschool my daughters has been an obedient step of faith and trust that has made the scriptures I’ve read in this podcast come alive in new ways. Choosing to hear His call to home educate my girls and sticking to the commitment has opened my eyes and heart to new depths of relationship with God and heightened my desire to hear, trust, and obey my Father. Being with my daughters to educate them at home has enabled God to work through each one of us to widen and deepen our personal walks with Him and one another. Scripture has been made alive in our lives in ways that only come from intentionally seeking and following God. We not only speak, read, and learn of Him together, but we make Him alive throughout each day, weaving the Creator of the Universe into every subject we teach. Can a parent foster the same spiritual strength without home educating their child? Of course-with much concentrated effort and intentionality. Yet, for my family, the sacrifice and honor to be at home to homeschool is one I never take for granted as I strive to praise God for the glorious ways He has and is still allowing us the privilege to do. I enjoy taking each step of obedience to honor my Lord with the children He has graciously entrusted to me. Beginning the education of your child is easier and is a more natural progression than most people believe it to be. Many adults believe or are fearful of myths. The top one being that homeschooling prevents children from being socialized. Truthfully, I have found that lie to be one of the easiest to debunk. My children receive a much superior socialization than they would if they were sitting in a classroom with teachers and peers all day every day. Especially when I think of socialization in the widely accepted definition, which is: a continuing process whereby an individual acquires a personal identity and learns the norms, values, behavior, and social skills appropriate to his or her social position. Which leads me to the next definition: social position, which is described as: ascribed status typically based on sex, age, race, family relationships, or birth. No matter which status we discuss, I seek to choose a godly social position for the child God has placed under my authority and in my loving care. That is not found in a public school setting, especially in these times. There is so much I could share about homeschooling children. Often, people contact me for support or with questions about beginning a home education for their children. I remember when I was in the same position. Scared, full of questions, and humbly seeking God for guidance and direction, I questioned others who taught their children at home and attended conferences and seminars to absorb and digest as much information as possible. The time came when I just needed to jump in and trust God to protect and carry us. I knew what God was impressing upon my heart. Be at home to raise and train my daughters in righteousness and truth. Days have been easy. Days have been hard. Every one of them has been well worth the time, financial, spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical investment. Without a doubt, my girls have flourished, and our relationships with God and each other have been eternally changed. After trying a few different educational methods, I have landed on what I believe to be the best choice for our family. The Charlotte Mason style of teaching encompasses all that is good and pure about home education and godly formation of character and soul. I rest in knowing that the Lord faithfully led me to what has been an enormous blessing in our home, as well as one of the foundations of our relationship with God and each other. Over the new several episodes, I will be airing interviews that focus on home educating children. Whether you are a homeschool parent, a grandparent of a home educated child, or a friend or relative of someone home educating, someone curious about how homeschool works, or perhaps you are a parent thrust into the homeschool arena due to Covid, I believe you will find interesting and life-changing information over the next several weeks. Perhaps you may even have some basic questions answered. Since I stated that I lean more toward the Charlotte Mason method of teaching my girls, I’d like to list a few of the hallmarks of the Charlotte Mason education, which I believe transcend teaching from home and cross into every area of life, imparting general knowledge, developing the ability to reason and critically think, nurturing and maturing spiritual health and depth, strengthening family bonds, and intellectually, emotionally, financially, and spiritually preparing children for a mature adult life. Habits – Charlotte Mason believed that if parents work to instill the development of good habits within a child, a solid foundation is being built for early education. I’d also like to add that a firm foundation is also erected for the biblical sturdiness which undergirds all areas of life. Charlotte Mason wrote that, “The mother who takes pains to endow her children with good habits secures for herself smooth and easy days.” There are no habits more important or crucial to the life and eternal future of our child than to instill godly habits that draw our child to the Father who created them, loves them, and has a good and perfectly tailored future for them. Style of Lessons – Charlotte Mason style lessons are typically short (at least in the younger years). By limiting the time spent per subject, the parent is training the child to focus fully on the work set before them. It is an easier goal to attain because the parent pays attention to the age of the child and considers what they are developmentally capable of. This is especially important as each child is unique and as Charlotte Mason taught, the educator must respect the child as a unique person. This also applies to children with special needs and best enables parent and child to work according to their abilities and builds the trust needed to stretch capabilities further. Mother and child come to know one another well. Charlotte also recommends switching subject styles. Exercise the mind and change to another topic to keep the mind energized and awake for learning. For example, do not study reading, then spelling. Instead, study math, then handicrafts or handwriting, then music study. Use different areas of the brain to keep the mind stimulated. One exception I add is that we always begin our day with Bible Study. It allows our heart and mind to focus on God first, just as we should do in life. Establishing this habit has allowed tremendous blessings on our relationships with God and each other and set the framework for smoother and easier days. Living Books – When I speak of using “living books,” I do not mean reading textbooks used in the traditional education most of us experienced. Instead, “living books” can be fictional or non-fictional literature of quality, written by an author with a passion for the particular topic. The passion, interest, and expertise that the “living book” author injects into the topic and book births “life” instead of giving your child a dry textbook that simply recites facts and details about a subject. This way, your student is drawn into the experience, giving them a reason to care, read, and learn. When your child engages with the topics through the “living book” experience, they are introduced to people and characters who inspire, teach, and present positive models to mirror. Make no mistake, there is a severe lack of quality literature for our children to read. Take a walk through bookstores and look at the young adult and children sections. Be very particular and oversee what your child reads, both in school and private time to protect their character, thoughts, heart, and mind for eternity. Narration – Narration is one of the central methods used in the Charlotte Mason education. Through narration, a child proves his ability to absorb and use what he has learned, as well as learning to think and express those thoughts clearly. Eventually, when the world hits your child with ideas and examples that are not from God’s values, she will recognize them. Of course, we teach our children to love everyone as God does, but we also train them to examine everything in light of the gospel. Our child learns to respect others, yet use critical reasoning that allows him to follow Christ and not culture. Through the process of narration, the home educator may assess what the child is catching and enable them to continue deeper learning day by day. Dictation – Spelling and grammar concepts are reinforced through repeated dictation exercises. Charlotte Mason enjoyed and recommended using quotations that inspire or scripture verses for dictation exercises. First, the child studies the passage until he is certain he can spell the words and use proper punctuation. Next, the teacher reads the dictation passage slowly as the child writes it. I personally enjoy using scripture for dictation, but also use well-written literature and fun sentences. Art and Music –Charlotte Mason believed that children should be exposed to greatness in several forms. Both music and art appreciation were intentionally introduced in her schools. One composer or artist would be studied during each term, allowing children to experience them through both music and art. They would also listen to the music, read living books about the artist or composer, and attempt to reproduce the style of the artist or composer through art and music lessons. Classical music and early hymns may also be used beautifully during periods of rest, handicrafts, or art. I have also had fun at school when playing popular, meaningful American patriotic songs and marches that are seldom heard in society now. Nature Study - Charlotte Mason strongly believed that children should spend as much time as possible outdoors, especially when they are young. She encouraged the use of personal journals used for nature study, drawings, and notes, which greatly helped the children to learn and identify the world of nature around them. We personally do not experience enough time outdoors. While one of my daughters and I take walks together, it is difficult for the other to do so, and I have to intentionally try to get her out of doors in other ways. Since she enjoys observing insects and birds very much, I sometimes set goals of sketching or observation times for her to experience nature and I have her orally narrate what she sees, feels, smells, etc. as she views creation. Charlotte Mason asked students to keep detailed nature journals and we have also used nature journals over the years. I also keep one and sketch when the girls render their drawings. I’ve even enjoyed looking back over my own sketches over time. Nature studies have changed each of us in multiple ways. When Charlotte Mason first developed her educational ideas, she ignited quite a revolution in education because she believed that a child, no matter what class of society they were born into, held a God-given right to be recognized and respected as a unique person. It was her desire that education would give each child the opportunity to acquire qualities and develop into the person God created them to be and that would reach opportunities unknown to them before. One of my favorite Charlotte Mason quotes, which is very telling of her intuition and insight is, “The question is not how much does the child know when he has finished his education, but how much does he care?” I would like to add, “How has my child deepened and widened her relationship with God? How has she formed a desire to learn for the simple sake of using the mind, gifts, and talents given to her when God thought of her and formed her? How often does she persist in learning, knowing she should expect to fail and not grow discouraged, but rely on the strength of her Heavenly Father to sustain and guide her?” As Christian parents educating our children in such a manner that respects our child as a unique person planned, created, and set apart by God for a specific journey and life, we must intentionally plan the course set before us. What is the goal we have for the life of our child? What is the goal our Heavenly Father has set for our unique child so loved by Him? We must submit to God, ask Him for guidance for each child, and allow Him to lead and inspire us to cultivate and mature strong character and spiritual formation in our children. I hope you will join me over the next several episodes to learn more about the gift of homeschooling and the eternal blessings it brings. Even if you are not homeschooling your child, the basic thoughts and principles that should be the foundation of home education are wise lessons for each of us to absorb and ponder the ways we can incorporate these treasured bits of wisdom into daily life at home with our children. Father God, I praise You for Your mighty and sovereign ways. Thank you for the wisdom, understanding, insight, and knowledge You impart to us when we ask for it. Thank you that we can trust that we will never be enough and that You fashioned us to humbly bow to You for our needs. Thank you for the gift of caring for our precious children. In reality, we recognize that they are truly Yours and are entrusted to us for such a short time, but also for just this time. You know the times we live in and the experiences and concerns we face, but You planned this time in advance for us. Please go before us. Show us the way to You and how to navigate this world and the education of our children. Let us choose what is pleasing to You. Carry us through each day in Your strength, for it makes an eternal difference in the lives of Your children. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 088 Godly Instruction Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #088 – Godly Instruction Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Getting wisdom is the most important thing you can do. Whatever else you get, get insight.” Proverbs 4:1-2 says, “Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, and give attention to know understanding; For I give you good doctrine: Do not forsake my law.” Proverbs 4:10-13 says, “Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many. I have taught you in the way of wisdom; I have led you in right paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hindered, and when you run, you will not stumble. Take firm hold of instruction, do not let go; Keep her, for she is your life.” The very first instruction a child receives comes from parents. God has ordained and established this right and privilege to us. Entrusting us to care for His precious, hand-crafted children is a gift none of us are worthy of. Remembering that it is an honor to influence and raise a human God has purposed to be in this world for exact purposes should be at the top of our mind as we make choices, educate, instruct, and correct our children. Raising them to know, love, honor, and obey Jesus is a process that demands we know Him first and love Him well. To be the greatest influence and tie to God that our child will experience is incredibly humbling and we should never take that responsibility for granted. Psalm 78:1-8 reminds us, ”My people, hear my teaching; listen to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth with a parable; I will utter hidden things, things from of old—things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, His power, and the wonders He has done. He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which He commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget His deeds but would keep His commands. They would not be like their ancestors—a stubborn and rebellious generation, whose hearts were not loyal to God, whose spirits were not faithful to Him.” Educating my two youngest children from home has been one of my most treasured blessings. Without question, humbly asking God to work through me as I homeschool my daughters has been an obedient step of faith and trust that has made the scriptures I’ve read in this podcast come alive in new ways. Choosing to hear His call to home educate my girls and sticking to the commitment has opened my eyes and heart to new depths of relationship with God and heightened my desire to hear, trust, and obey my Father. Being with my daughters to educate them at home has enabled God to work through each one of us to widen and deepen our personal walks with Him and one another. Scripture has been made alive in our lives in ways that only come from intentionally seeking and following God. We not only speak, read, and learn of Him together, but we make Him alive throughout each day, weaving the Creator of the Universe into every subject we teach. Can a parent foster the same spiritual strength without home educating their child? Of course-with much concentrated effort and intentionality. Yet, for my family, the sacrifice and honor to be at home to homeschool is one I never take for granted as I strive to praise God for the glorious ways He has and is still allowing us the privilege to do. I enjoy taking each step of obedience to honor my Lord with the children He has graciously entrusted to me. Beginning the education of your child is easier and is a more natural progression than most people believe it to be. Many adults believe or are fearful of myths. The top one being that homeschooling prevents children from being socialized. Truthfully, I have found that lie to be one of the easiest to debunk. My children receive a much superior socialization than they would if they were sitting in a classroom with teachers and peers all day every day. Especially when I think of socialization in the widely accepted definition, which is: a continuing process whereby an individual acquires a personal identity and learns the norms, values, behavior, and social skills appropriate to his or her social position. Which leads me to the next definition: social position, which is described as: ascribed status typically based on sex, age, race, family relationships, or birth. No matter which status we discuss, I seek to choose a godly social position for the child God has placed under my authority and in my loving care. That is not found in a public school setting, especially in these times. There is so much I could share about homeschooling children. Often, people contact me for support or with questions about beginning a home education for their children. I remember when I was in the same position. Scared, full of questions, and humbly seeking God for guidance and direction, I questioned others who taught their children at home and attended conferences and seminars to absorb and digest as much information as possible. The time came when I just needed to jump in and trust God to protect and carry us. I knew what God was impressing upon my heart. Be at home to raise and train my daughters in righteousness and truth. Days have been easy. Days have been hard. Every one of them has been well worth the time, financial, spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical investment. Without a doubt, my girls have flourished, and our relationships with God and each other have been eternally changed. After trying a few different educational methods, I have landed on what I believe to be the best choice for our family. The Charlotte Mason style of teaching encompasses all that is good and pure about home education and godly formation of character and soul. I rest in knowing that the Lord faithfully led me to what has been an enormous blessing in our home, as well as one of the foundations of our relationship with God and each other. Over the new several episodes, I will be airing interviews that focus on home educating children. Whether you are a homeschool parent, a grandparent of a home educated child, or a friend or relative of someone home educating, someone curious about how homeschool works, or perhaps you are a parent thrust into the homeschool arena due to Covid, I believe you will find interesting and life-changing information over the next several weeks. Perhaps you may even have some basic questions answered. Since I stated that I lean more toward the Charlotte Mason method of teaching my girls, I’d like to list a few of the hallmarks of the Charlotte Mason education, which I believe transcend teaching from home and cross into every area of life, imparting general knowledge, developing the ability to reason and critically think, nurturing and maturing spiritual health and depth, strengthening family bonds, and intellectually, emotionally, financially, and spiritually preparing children for a mature adult life. Habits – Charlotte Mason believed that if parents work to instill the development of good habits within a child, a solid foundation is being built for early education. I’d also like to add that a firm foundation is also erected for the biblical sturdiness which undergirds all areas of life. Charlotte Mason wrote that, “The mother who takes pains to endow her children with good habits secures for herself smooth and easy days.” There are no habits more important or crucial to the life and eternal future of our child than to instill godly habits that draw our child to the Father who created them, loves them, and has a good and perfectly tailored future for them. Style of Lessons – Charlotte Mason style lessons are typically short (at least in the younger years). By limiting the time spent per subject, the parent is training the child to focus fully on the work set before them. It is an easier goal to attain because the parent pays attention to the age of the child and considers what they are developmentally capable of. This is especially important as each child is unique and as Charlotte Mason taught, the educator must respect the child as a unique person. This also applies to children with special needs and best enables parent and child to work according to their abilities and builds the trust needed to stretch capabilities further. Mother and child come to know one another well. Charlotte also recommends switching subject styles. Exercise the mind and change to another topic to keep the mind energized and awake for learning. For example, do not study reading, then spelling. Instead, study math, then handicrafts or handwriting, then music study. Use different areas of the brain to keep the mind stimulated. One exception I add is that we always begin our day with Bible Study. It allows our heart and mind to focus on God first, just as we should do in life. Establishing this habit has allowed tremendous blessings on our relationships with God and each other and set the framework for smoother and easier days. Living Books – When I speak of using “living books,” I do not mean reading textbooks used in the traditional education most of us experienced. Instead, “living books” can be fictional or non-fictional literature of quality, written by an author with a passion for the particular topic. The passion, interest, and expertise that the “living book” author injects into the topic and book births “life” instead of giving your child a dry textbook that simply recites facts and details about a subject. This way, your student is drawn into the experience, giving them a reason to care, read, and learn. When your child engages with the topics through the “living book” experience, they are introduced to people and characters who inspire, teach, and present positive models to mirror. Make no mistake, there is a severe lack of quality literature for our children to read. Take a walk through bookstores and look at the young adult and children sections. Be very particular and oversee what your child reads, both in school and private time to protect their character, thoughts, heart, and mind for eternity. Narration – Narration is one of the central methods used in the Charlotte Mason education. Through narration, a child proves his ability to absorb and use what he has learned, as well as learning to think and express those thoughts clearly. Eventually, when the world hits your child with ideas and examples that are not from God’s values, she will recognize them. Of course, we teach our children to love everyone as God does, but we also train them to examine everything in light of the gospel. Our child learns to respect others, yet use critical reasoning that allows him to follow Christ and not culture. Through the process of narration, the home educator may assess what the child is catching and enable them to continue deeper learning day by day. Dictation – Spelling and grammar concepts are reinforced through repeated dictation exercises. Charlotte Mason enjoyed and recommended using quotations that inspire or scripture verses for dictation exercises. First, the child studies the passage until he is certain he can spell the words and use proper punctuation. Next, the teacher reads the dictation passage slowly as the child writes it. I personally enjoy using scripture for dictation, but also use well-written literature and fun sentences. Art and Music –Charlotte Mason believed that children should be exposed to greatness in several forms. Both music and art appreciation were intentionally introduced in her schools. One composer or artist would be studied during each term, allowing children to experience them through both music and art. They would also listen to the music, read living books about the artist or composer, and attempt to reproduce the style of the artist or composer through art and music lessons. Classical music and early hymns may also be used beautifully during periods of rest, handicrafts, or art. I have also had fun at school when playing popular, meaningful American patriotic songs and marches that are seldom heard in society now. Nature Study - Charlotte Mason strongly believed that children should spend as much time as possible outdoors, especially when they are young. She encouraged the use of personal journals used for nature study, drawings, and notes, which greatly helped the children to learn and identify the world of nature around them. We personally do not experience enough time outdoors. While one of my daughters and I take walks together, it is difficult for the other to do so, and I have to intentionally try to get her out of doors in other ways. Since she enjoys observing insects and birds very much, I sometimes set goals of sketching or observation times for her to experience nature and I have her orally narrate what she sees, feels, smells, etc. as she views creation. Charlotte Mason asked students to keep detailed nature journals and we have also used nature journals over the years. I also keep one and sketch when the girls render their drawings. I’ve even enjoyed looking back over my own sketches over time. Nature studies have changed each of us in multiple ways. When Charlotte Mason first developed her educational ideas, she ignited quite a revolution in education because she believed that a child, no matter what class of society they were born into, held a God-given right to be recognized and respected as a unique person. It was her desire that education would give each child the opportunity to acquire qualities and develop into the person God created them to be and that would reach opportunities unknown to them before. One of my favorite Charlotte Mason quotes, which is very telling of her intuition and insight is, “The question is not how much does the child know when he has finished his education, but how much does he care?” I would like to add, “How has my child deepened and widened her relationship with God? How has she formed a desire to learn for the simple sake of using the mind, gifts, and talents given to her when God thought of her and formed her? How often does she persist in learning, knowing she should expect to fail and not grow discouraged, but rely on the strength of her Heavenly Father to sustain and guide her?” As Christian parents educating our children in such a manner that respects our child as a unique person planned, created, and set apart by God for a specific journey and life, we must intentionally plan the course set before us. What is the goal we have for the life of our child? What is the goal our Heavenly Father has set for our unique child so loved by Him? We must submit to God, ask Him for guidance for each child, and allow Him to lead and inspire us to cultivate and mature strong character and spiritual formation in our children. I hope you will join me over the next several episodes to learn more about the gift of homeschooling and the eternal blessings it brings. Even if you are not homeschooling your child, the basic thoughts and principles that should be the foundation of home education are wise lessons for each of us to absorb and ponder the ways we can incorporate these treasured bits of wisdom into daily life at home with our children. Father God, I praise You for Your mighty and sovereign ways. Thank you for the wisdom, understanding, insight, and knowledge You impart to us when we ask for it. Thank you that we can trust that we will never be enough and that You fashioned us to humbly bow to You for our needs. Thank you for the gift of caring for our precious children. In reality, we recognize that they are truly Yours and are entrusted to us for such a short time, but also for just this time. You know the times we live in and the experiences and concerns we face, but You planned this time in advance for us. Please go before us. Show us the way to You and how to navigate this world and the education of our children. Let us choose what is pleasing to You. Carry us through each day in Your strength, for it makes an eternal difference in the lives of Your children. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 097 - How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 097 – How Do You Enable Your Children to Bear Fruit for Christ? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, equipping you to become a set-apart woman and mother raising children to chase Christ over culture. Adoption is a huge piece of the beautiful story of my family. As a mom to two children born to me and two children brought to our family after they were born, I am thankful God chose us for all four. The creator of heaven and earth knew who would be a member of our home and heart. I’m so thankful God weaved the blessing of adoption through the gospel. I bring adoption up in this episode about enabling children to bear fruit for Christ because just last week I was asked whether my two daughters from China took to each other right away. I have to say that God was good. The girls have NEVER fought with one another or ignored each other. In fact, they’ve always been kind to one another. But their relationship has grown into a sister bond over time. As I’ve watched their communication and love blossom, I have noticed that it has grown stronger and more resilient as they have purposely matured their walk with Jesus. I trust that is the reason they’ve never had fights or been unkind to one another. In fact, I receive SUCH joy hearing them communicate with each other throughout the day. I truly tingle with delight inside when I listen to them. God has filled my cup to overflowing with them. Praise Jesus! As Christian parents, we receive a great thrill when we see fruits of the Spirit evident in our believing children. Well, I’d better clarify…of course, your greatest parenting delight should be when your child accepts Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior, but after that, deep joy abounds when you begin to see evidence of their walk with Jesus appear in their daily words, desires, and actions. That is what I’ve observed with my girls. But it all takes concentrated effort. Just as the Bible tells us in James 4:8a , “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you .” As they have drawn nearer to Him it has given them a deeper love for one another. Because of that love they have a mutual respect and extend courtesy between them. Think back to when you first followed Jesus. You may have jumped into your new life with both feet and submitted easily to His guidance and love. Or you may have slowly submitted self to Him more and more over time. Either way, wouldn’t you agree that the way you exhibit Christ’s influence in your life dictates the level of depth in your Christian walk? Consider your children. Have you seen differences in the way your child lives and reacts after they followed Christ? If not, there are ways you can help them begin to bear fruit for Christ . Most of the time growth in Christ is difficult, unless the follower is regularly in the Word. Reading the Bible, seeking God’s wisdom, and communicating with Him through prayer is key to a maturing relationship. Just as you can’t grow your marriage, your relationship with your children, or a new friendship without spending time getting to know that person, you can’t live with godly insight or wisdom, let alone fruits of the Spirit - unless you purposely pursue intimacy with God through Jesus. One top way to help your children pursue Christ with purposed passion is to let them witness you chase God . As you make your relationship with your Heavenly Father evident in natural ways through your lifestyle and desires, you beautifully mentor the way for your children. Are your kids able to see fruits of the Spirit in you? What if they don't? Apologize - to them and God. Tell your children you haven’t been living the way God would want you to - or the way He wants you to model for them. Then begin showing - by example, the way to God. Let them see you in the Word, but also be in the Word with them. Don’t make it a religious affair, but rather a relationship – and a commitment to honor God with the children He entrusted to you. Build a connected relationship that allows you to better know, love, and serve God together. Allow your lifestyle to be one that inhales the truths, love, grace, mercy, and wisdom of God. Exhale those qualities onto your children in the way you speak, act, and react to the daily pressures, trials, and triumphs of life. Another way to help your children begin to exhibit fruits of the Spirit is to look for the natural gifts and talents the Lord gave them . As mom, you probably know your children better than anyone else (except of course, God). Ask Him to reveal what He has purposed for them. Ask Him to show you what interests and talents He bestowed to them when He created them with love and purpose. For example, my middle daughter began painting at the age of one. God exhibited how faithful He is when He prompted me to buy a Little Tykes art easel at a garage sale before we even had our infant home from China. When I discovered her fascination with paints and saw her delight glowing at an event that had set up easels for older children to paint, I came home and dragged that easel out of my basement. I set it up in her playroom and after spreading an old shower curtain on the floor around the easel, I dabbed several colors of acrylic paint onto a paper plate, and made a hole on one side for her to place her thumb through to hold it. Next, I pulled out paint brushes, and clipped a large sheet of paper to the easel. She has been painting now for 18 years. Despite many other interests and activities, this is the one that she has persisted in returning to. In fact, I can hear actually her dipping her paintbrush into the cup of water as she paints with watercolors while I work on this episode. Knowing God gave her talent and the desire to paint, my daughter has always used her work to honor God and showcase His creation. This became one of the ways she bears fruit for Him through action and words as she gives glory to Him. Instead of painting ugliness, she paints light and beauty, especially things of creation or that would beautify a home while instilling joy and peace. What talents or interests has God crafted into your children? How can you help them find what purpose God gifted them? Help them use that skill for Him . Serving is another way to teach your children to bear fruit for Christ. Service at home is the first exposure your children will learn. Teaching by example makes the best impression. When they experience your love and dedication, hear you say how grateful you are to serve them because you love them, and you teach them to serve their father and siblings, you are laying a base foundation for service to others. Depending on your life circumstances, extended family members, neighbors, church members, or the elderly in your community are wonderful places to serve next. Because you instilled the act of selflessness in your children at a young age, service will likely become an important piece of their character and actions as they mature. Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law . “ This passage in the Bible clearly shares what the fruits of the Spirit are. Without knowing these fruits given by the Spirit when we belong to Christ, we cannot begin to recognize when they are or aren’t in use. Another beautiful way to see fruits mature in your children is to make this passage of Scripture known to them. Remind them of the way the Holy Spirit transforms us into a new being. Remind them how through Jesus, they are no longer bound by sin. Teach them to invite the Holy Spirit to bring forth the fruits of love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in their lives to benefit others and grow their walk with Jesus. Equip them to these fruits to form godly character and integrity. Help them look for these qualities in themselves and strive to help them shine for Christ. I’m still amazed that God deposited the Holy Spirit inside me when I became a believer of Christ. Aren’t you in awe that He has done that for you? Instill that wonder in your children as you study God’s Word together and invite Him into each day with you. As the fragrance of Christ permeates your character and home, your children will be better able to bear fruit for Christ as they recognize and utilize the fruits of the Spirit empowering them. Dear Heavenly Father, just as Your holy Word says, how great thou art! Oh, God thank you for Your powerful love for us and the children You entrusted us to raise for You. Enable us to mentor a reverence and love for You that makes them bear much fruit. Help us to be a shining example of Your love and grace. Help us to be a model of bearing fruit that lasts. May our children see You so clearly and lovingly that they can’t help but pursue You. We thank you for entrusting Your precious children to our care. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with moms of littles from infancy to upper grade school. Are you a high achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesu and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #142 – How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Yesterday during part of our morning playtime, my youngest daughter and I observed the roly poly terrarium she’s building. Right now, she’s preparing the groundwork for the roly polys to move into a new habitat later. Last week she laid chia seeds in soil and daily you can find her checking soil moisture, sunlight, and adding water when needed. Although you can’t see anything growing, if you look under the clear terrarium, you see that many roots are winding beneath the dirt in preparation for the changes that will take place on top of the soil later. It’s really fascinating to see how many hidden roots are twisting and turning unless you make an effort to find them. Just as our heart needs seeds planted before we experience changes, no one can see how the Holy Spirit is working within us unless our words, actions, and reactions are altered to showcase His presence. When we first become believers and followers of Christ, we cannot comprehend the life-changing beauty of a maturing relationship with Him. Yet, the longer we walk with Him, the more intentional we are about pursuing Jesus and submitting to His work within us, and the greater our belief grows. As we allow Him to shine through us, we unknowingly invite Him to make a great impact on those around us. It is true that the way we conduct our life and Christian walk attracts attention. Even when we don’t believe anyone is paying attention, they are. The older I’ve gotten, the more I focus on how my actions affect others. Actually, this thought process probably has less to do with aging, and more to do with my walk with Christ. As time has progressed and I have continued to mature in Him, Jesus prompts me to examine motives and actions in light of the way others are impacted by them. I want others to see Him clearly through me and that desire comes with great responsibility. As I ponder what that duty means, I acknowledge how easily my behavior can attract people to, or turn people away from Christ. Have you ever noticed that small and seemingly insignificant decisions you make can cause someone to build their foundation of Christ on rock or sand? Those decisions may also cause another to stumble or to turn away from Jesus completely. Romans 14:12-13 says, “So then each of us shall give account of himself to God. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.” Have you ever been short with someone at work? Or with a family member? Maybe you gave a dirty look to the crazy driver who totally cut you off on the highway or at the person who took the parking spot they could see you were going to take. Have you ever rushed to get in line to order food or check out at the store before someone else could get ahead of you? Once you beat them, do you stop to wonder how well you’re representing Christ? I find it interesting that when I slow down and allow others to go first, I don’t think about how it reflects Christ: I just allow Him to work within me, helping me to think of others first. However, when I try to move faster than someone else (without it looking like I’m doing it), because I’m short on time or hungry, or some other excuse, I do stop to think (after the fact) that I certainly did not represent Christ the way I should. What if the person you hurried past showed up at church the next Sunday? What if they heard you proclaiming to love Jesus or giving testimony at a later date and they remembered that it was you who did whatever act didn’t give a holy representation of the Lord? “For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” This verse from 1 Corinthians 3:11 reminds us that the only foundation that is true and lasting is one built on Jesus Christ. Our reason for showing others the Way, the Truth, and the Life should be because our own heart and mind are so full of Him that He overflows and we cannot help but exude His spirit, grace, mercy, and love to others because He has permanently entwined His spirit within us. Do you guard your actions, your mind, your heart, and reactions daily through the power of the Holy Spirit alive within you? In order to train yourself to respond in ways pleasing to God and that will impress Him perfectly to others, you must be aware of how your actions reflect Him. Just as an athlete develops discipline through intentional daily training, we must be attentive to the coaching of the Lord within us. We must desire to reflect Him properly. We must allow Him to guide and guard us and our responses and reactions so that others clearly see the work He has done and is still completing within us. Each of us develop habits. Some are good, making us stronger in the Lord while others may become the opposite. As we grow in relationship, strength, and character through Christ, our affections and actions toward others change. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” When most of us become believers, we still think of “self” more than Christ. Once we begin to mature our walk, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our character and desires, our thought processes change. We begin thinking of others more than self and deeply desire to be stewards of the relationship we have with Christ. When selfishness, jealousy, impatience, or other fleshly feelings try to overtake us, it is a blessing to know we can utilize the power of Christ within us to shift our thinking process to Him. He makes us aware of how others see Him through us, reminding us of the challenge and responsibility we must bear. Our inadequacies, even when we strive to follow and honor Christ are apparent in differing ways. One method to strengthen our Christian walk and make Jesus known to others in ways that attract them to Him is through our habits. We all have behaviors we repeat daily. We know it’s much easier to develop bad or harmful habits over nurturing good ones. One key to growing habits that forward our walk with Christ and draw others to Him is to pay attention to what encourages you, gives you more joy, and what matures your personal walk with Christ. Of course, right now we are only discussing godly habits, not health, beauty, finance, work, or study habits. Goodness! When you think about it, our lives consist of a variety of routines and habits we have developed over years without giving them much thought. One purpose of fostering positive habits is to build character. As followers of Christ, we want our character to reflect His. Righteousness or godly character is fashioned through reflection and formation of excellent, repeated actions. It is crucial to discover which thought processes you need to alter and commit to doing it. Just as we get out of bed, get dressed, brush our teeth, etc. we must have a set standard we commit to completing. However, without thinking about what we are creating, excellent habits are almost impossible to achieve. We often plan to be consistent or to begin character formation in some way, but life interferes. Our schedules are tight. We get sick. Our children need us. Maybe we run around town all day and just need to relax in the evening. When we are tired, hungry, cold, or overscheduled, we tend to think of “self” first. We want to satisfy the burning need we have or the commitment to child or spouse that must be completed. Instead, stop to allow yourself to think of Christ. As He was dying on the cross, He put sinners first. He didn’t just fulfill what obligations He had to. Jesus remained committed to a lifestyle of integrity and obedience. Jesus followed habits He constructed with righteous intention throughout His life. Remember: 1. People see your actions. 2. People hear your words. 3. People learn your desires. 4. People appreciate your acts. 5. People feel your love. 6. People see your devotion to Christ. When others see those of us who follow Christ, they consciously and subconsciously observe whether we appear to be genuine, whether we lovingly serve others, how well we appear to trust and obey Christ, whether we are discerning or judgmental, and ho our actions affect others. It is imperative that you: 1. Study His Word 2. Know His Word 3. Practice His Word 4. Share His Word It is only then that those who do not have a relationship with Jesus will see that He genuinely changes lives! 1. Jesus is Who He says He is – John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” 2. Jesus leads to the Father – Matthew 4:19 says, “Come, follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” 3. Jesus heals hearts and lives – Matthew 4:23 says, “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.” 4. Jesus saves – John 3:16, 17 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.” and Acts 4:11, 12 says, “Jesus is the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” As you develop habits, the most important ones concern your view of eternity. 1. Which habits will you construct that support what you believe? 2. Which habits will be important enough to ensure you continue? 3. Which habits will draw you nearer to Christ? 4. Which of your habits will draw others to Jesus? 5. Do you possess the qualities needed to form godly habits in your children? 6. What do your children see in your daily words and actions that will draw them nearer to, or farther from, Christ? 7. Which habits will they copy? Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Does your professed faith match your actions, reactions, and words? How are you working daily to develop strong, righteous integrity that is pleasing to God? 1 Samuel 16:7b says, “For man sees the outward appearance, but the LORD sees the heart.” Make sure that what God sees in your heart is intentionally more pleasing to Him day by day. Dear Heavenly Father, oh Lord, how we need You! Left alone, we are so far from the holiness You require. Thank you for sending Jesus to show us the way to You. Thank you for loving us as we are, yet purposely making sure that we don’t have to stay where we are. May our lives proclaim Your glory, mercy, love, and holiness more each day. Enable our hearts to desire You above all else. Give us a longing for You that cannot be quenched by this world. Help us remain steadfast in studying Your Word, the life of Jesus, and obeying what You call. Help our lives proclaim You to those who do not know You and draw them closer to Your heart. May we never act in ways that turn people away from You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 142 - How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #142 – How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Yesterday during part of our morning playtime, my youngest daughter and I observed the roly poly terrarium she’s building. Right now, she’s preparing the groundwork for the roly polys to move into a new habitat later. Last week she laid chia seeds in soil and daily you can find her checking soil moisture, sunlight, and adding water when needed. Although you can’t see anything growing, if you look under the clear terrarium, you see that many roots are winding beneath the dirt in preparation for the changes that will take place on top of the soil later. It’s really fascinating to see how many hidden roots are twisting and turning unless you make an effort to find them. Just as our heart needs seeds planted before we experience changes, no one can see how the Holy Spirit is working within us unless our words, actions, and reactions are altered to showcase His presence. When we first become believers and followers of Christ, we cannot comprehend the life-changing beauty of a maturing relationship with Him. Yet, the longer we walk with Him, the more intentional we are about pursuing Jesus and submitting to His work within us, and the greater our belief grows. As we allow Him to shine through us, we unknowingly invite Him to make a great impact on those around us. It is true that the way we conduct our life and Christian walk attracts attention. Even when we don’t believe anyone is paying attention, they are. The older I’ve gotten, the more I focus on how my actions affect others. Actually, this thought process probably has less to do with aging, and more to do with my walk with Christ. As time has progressed and I have continued to mature in Him, Jesus prompts me to examine motives and actions in light of the way others are impacted by them. I want others to see Him clearly through me and that desire comes with great responsibility. As I ponder what that duty means, I acknowledge how easily my behavior can attract people to, or turn people away from Christ. Have you ever noticed that small and seemingly insignificant decisions you make can cause someone to build their foundation of Christ on rock or sand? Those decisions may also cause another to stumble or to turn away from Jesus completely. Romans 14:12-13 says, “So then each of us shall give account of himself to God. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.” Have you ever been short with someone at work? Or with a family member? Maybe you gave a dirty look to the crazy driver who totally cut you off on the highway or at the person who took the parking spot they could see you were going to take. Have you ever rushed to get in line to order food or check out at the store before someone else could get ahead of you? Once you beat them, do you stop to wonder how well you’re representing Christ? I find it interesting that when I slow down and allow others to go first, I don’t think about how it reflects Christ: I just allow Him to work within me, helping me to think of others first. However, when I try to move faster than someone else (without it looking like I’m doing it), because I’m short on time or hungry, or some other excuse, I do stop to think (after the fact) that I certainly did not represent Christ the way I should. What if the person you hurried past showed up at church the next Sunday? What if they heard you proclaiming to love Jesus or giving testimony at a later date and they remembered that it was you who did whatever act didn’t give a holy representation of the Lord? “For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” This verse from 1 Corinthians 3:11 reminds us that the only foundation that is true and lasting is one built on Jesus Christ. Our reason for showing others the Way, the Truth, and the Life should be because our own heart and mind are so full of Him that He overflows and we cannot help but exude His spirit, grace, mercy, and love to others because He has permanently entwined His spirit within us. Do you guard your actions, your mind, your heart, and reactions daily through the power of the Holy Spirit alive within you? In order to train yourself to respond in ways pleasing to God and that will impress Him perfectly to others, you must be aware of how your actions reflect Him. Just as an athlete develops discipline through intentional daily training, we must be attentive to the coaching of the Lord within us. We must desire to reflect Him properly. We must allow Him to guide and guard us and our responses and reactions so that others clearly see the work He has done and is still completing within us. Each of us develop habits. Some are good, making us stronger in the Lord while others may become the opposite. As we grow in relationship, strength, and character through Christ, our affections and actions toward others change. Galatians 2:20 says, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” When most of us become believers, we still think of “self” more than Christ. Once we begin to mature our walk, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our character and desires, our thought processes change. We begin thinking of others more than self and deeply desire to be stewards of the relationship we have with Christ. When selfishness, jealousy, impatience, or other fleshly feelings try to overtake us, it is a blessing to know we can utilize the power of Christ within us to shift our thinking process to Him. He makes us aware of how others see Him through us, reminding us of the challenge and responsibility we must bear. Our inadequacies, even when we strive to follow and honor Christ are apparent in differing ways. One method to strengthen our Christian walk and make Jesus known to others in ways that attract them to Him is through our habits. We all have behaviors we repeat daily. We know it’s much easier to develop bad or harmful habits over nurturing good ones. One key to growing habits that forward our walk with Christ and draw others to Him is to pay attention to what encourages you, gives you more joy, and what matures your personal walk with Christ. Of course, right now we are only discussing godly habits, not health, beauty, finance, work, or study habits. Goodness! When you think about it, our lives consist of a variety of routines and habits we have developed over years without giving them much thought. One purpose of fostering positive habits is to build character. As followers of Christ, we want our character to reflect His. Righteousness or godly character is fashioned through reflection and formation of excellent, repeated actions. It is crucial to discover which thought processes you need to alter and commit to doing it. Just as we get out of bed, get dressed, brush our teeth, etc. we must have a set standard we commit to completing. However, without thinking about what we are creating, excellent habits are almost impossible to achieve. We often plan to be consistent or to begin character formation in some way, but life interferes. Our schedules are tight. We get sick. Our children need us. Maybe we run around town all day and just need to relax in the evening. When we are tired, hungry, cold, or overscheduled, we tend to think of “self” first. We want to satisfy the burning need we have or the commitment to child or spouse that must be completed. Instead, stop to allow yourself to think of Christ. As He was dying on the cross, He put sinners first. He didn’t just fulfill what obligations He had to. Jesus remained committed to a lifestyle of integrity and obedience. Jesus followed habits He constructed with righteous intention throughout His life. Remember: 1. People see your actions. 2. People hear your words. 3. People learn your desires. 4. People appreciate your acts. 5. People feel your love. 6. People see your devotion to Christ. When others see those of us who follow Christ, they consciously and subconsciously observe whether we appear to be genuine, whether we lovingly serve others, how well we appear to trust and obey Christ, whether we are discerning or judgmental, and ho our actions affect others. It is imperative that you: 1. Study His Word 2. Know His Word 3. Practice His Word 4. Share His Word It is only then that those who do not have a relationship with Jesus will see that He genuinely changes lives! 1. Jesus is Who He says He is – John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” 2. Jesus leads to the Father – Matthew 4:19 says, “Come, follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” 3. Jesus heals hearts and lives – Matthew 4:23 says, “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.” 4. Jesus saves – John 3:16, 17 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.” and Acts 4:11, 12 says, “Jesus is the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” As you develop habits, the most important ones concern your view of eternity. 1. Which habits will you construct that support what you believe? 2. Which habits will be important enough to ensure you continue? 3. Which habits will draw you nearer to Christ? 4. Which of your habits will draw others to Jesus? 5. Do you possess the qualities needed to form godly habits in your children? 6. What do your children see in your daily words and actions that will draw them nearer to, or farther from, Christ? 7. Which habits will they copy? Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Does your professed faith match your actions, reactions, and words? How are you working daily to develop strong, righteous integrity that is pleasing to God? 1 Samuel 16:7b says, “For man sees the outward appearance, but the LORD sees the heart.” Make sure that what God sees in your heart is intentionally more pleasing to Him day by day. Dear Heavenly Father, oh Lord, how we need You! Left alone, we are so far from the holiness You require. Thank you for sending Jesus to show us the way to You. Thank you for loving us as we are, yet purposely making sure that we don’t have to stay where we are. May our lives proclaim Your glory, mercy, love, and holiness more each day. Enable our hearts to desire You above all else. Give us a longing for You that cannot be quenched by this world. Help us remain steadfast in studying Your Word, the life of Jesus, and obeying what You call. Help our lives proclaim You to those who do not know You and draw them closer to Your heart. May we never act in ways that turn people away from You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this and other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Remember that both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 124 - The Most Important Job of a Parent Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 124 – The Most Important Job of a Parent Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, and leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast. When you do, you’re helping affect generations for Jesus. Now on to this episode that makes us consider an important question…What is the most important job of a parent? Every job you hold has a description. Think back to any position you’ve ever held. Even if it was your first job, which may have been babysitting, or working at a fast food restaurant, you had a requirement of duties. You had certain responsibilities you were to carry out while performing the job. Motherhood is no different. With this prestigious position, we have certain requirements we must meet. We also have someone we report to and we are expected to meet their requirements for the job they entrusted to us. Today we’ll discuss this holy job description. I remember becoming mother to each of my children. Even though two were biological and two were adopted, the day I met each of them holds a uniquely special place in my heart. I remember my son locking gazes with me as soon as they placed him in my arms. I recall the way my youngest was nine years old, yet a toddler in her actions due to her background. The day we met, she was wary of us, yet hopeful, standing in front of us with hands on hips and bravery etched in her posture. The day each of us have our precious children placed in our arms is obviously different for everyone. It’s a moment forever etched in our mind and heart. For most, in that instant, your heart expands beyond any capacity you knew was capable, and this person becomes someone you love so deeply that you’d die for them, even though you just met. Many of us enter parenthood ready for the responsibility. However, when I was a first time mother, I didn’t feel ready, except that I loved my husband, and together we were bringing our child into the world. Not yet a Christian, my thoughts were to learn and become the best mom I could be. I did everything to become a good mom, wife, and homemaker. I fell short in some ways, but I also grew and succeeded in other ways. Yet, aspiring to be the good mom was actually opposite of the direction I should have headed. It would have given me such relief if I could have been given a manual with each child. Something that would tell me how each of them were wired, and what their interests would be. This guide could prepare me for how to handle their temperament and how to walk them through trials or temptations. How welcome this book would have been for a young mother. As an older mom now, I look back at those early parenting years and wish I could have known things I do now. But the truth is that just like Dorothy with the ruby red slippers, I’ve always had the power. I’ve always held a weapon for success that isn’t secret. God’s Holy Word, the Bible gives us everything we need to know to parent successfully and live a life of joy. The Bible instructs us in how to carry out our most important job. God’s instructions are very clear. We are to teach our kids to love God with all their heart, soul, and might because we do, too. God’s Word shall be on our heart, honored and obeyed, and lovingly shown to our children. We are to weave God and His commandments into everyday conversation and life whether we sit in our house, when we walk by the way, when we lie down, and when we rise. We are to inhale Him so we effortlessly exhale Him as a sweet fragrance that attracts our children to Him. Everything begins with where you place your identity. If it’s not deeply, widely woven by Jesus, your child’s won’t be crafted by Christ, either. Your greatest goal should be that your children love, follow, and obey Jesus. You must be a mirror mentoring Christ over culture. Deuteronomy 6:5-7 makes it very clear that every act of parenting should ultimately point to building a foundation of love and trust in Christ that is strong enough for your child to construct their own solid house of faith that lasts into eternity. If God’s Word makes what our biggest parenting goal should be so clear, why do most parents falter in this area? When asked what they are most concerned about when parenting, most parents respond with different answers. Instead of sharing that they desire to make God clearly known as their first, second, or third answer, many parents remark that they are concerned with entirely different issues. Responses such as strong mental health for their children (specifically addressing depression or anxiety), protecting against bullying, safety concerns, helping their child achieve academic success, and finding ways to better manage screen time are top of mind. When we look at this list of parental concerns, there’s one clear solution to each point. Everything points back to instilling a heart for Jesus and establishing strong identity though Him. When our children build personal identity through relationship with Christ, integrity, character, and habits are formed that protect against what parents are worried about . As they grow in depth and breadth of maturity in their relationship, they learn to take thoughts captive for God and begin daily habits that bring them closer and closer to Him with each moment. As your children witness you seeking God first in daily life, reading His Word and utilizing what you learn in your thoughts, words, desires, and actions, then teach them how to do the same, you are exchanging fleeting treasures of this world for eternal security in the next. When your children see you continue to build and strengthen your identity in Christ, then teach them how to do the same, you are investing in eternal insurance that will bring great dividends for eternity . When your children are taught God’s Truth from you, the first Jesus they will experience, you will mold their heart and mind with eternal treasures that will combat depression and anxiety as they grow in Him. You will fill them with understanding of their purpose in life as they continue to mature. As your children uncover purpose through Christ and use the gifts and talents God crafted within them, they will have less use for mindless screen time and the fleeting interests of this world. As you become a set-apart woman who intentionally parents set-apart kids, your children will stop looking like typical children and teens as they become uniquely equipped to navigate life in this world in ways that will bring peace and security in Heaven. Why is it that believing women raise typical kids who grow into typical adults? Because we fall into the trap of living life day to day with the same patterns we’ve used in the past. Instead of relying on the power of the Holy Spirit within , we mindlessly live in the easiest or most convenient ways. Sometimes we think we’ll get to training about God later or that our kids aren’t mentally ready for certain topics, but the truth is that the devil deceives. It’s way too easy to follow his ways of the world instead of purposely pursuing the only One who can give us and our children or families what we truly desire in the depths of our spirit. If you desire your children to carry peace that passes understanding, love, joy, patience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control, as is promised in Galatians 5:22-23, you must be purposed in making Christ known moment by moment in your life in order to mentor to your child how to show Him in their lives. A once a week trip to church together won’t secure your child’s walk with Christ. It’s a day in, day out process of submitting self, moment by moment, and mentoring Jesus to your watching children. It’s knowing, showing, and experiencing the power of Christ together with the joy and peace that comes from an intentionally close relationship with Jesus. Parents are merely human. We don’t carry special powers or traits that allow us to do everything ourselves, as much as we would like to think we can. We must submit to the Father and receive the Son. Through the Holy Spirit within, you can attract your child to Jesus. Because of free will, none of us can guarantee that our children will accept Jesus as their personal Savior, but we can rest assured that we have done everything to lead them to His feet and heart. Dear Heavenly Father, You reign over us from Heaven, yet you live on earth and within our heart. Anywhere we go, You are present. Thank You for that hope and truth. May we live with ever more awareness of who You are and whose we are. May our children see the love and dedication we have for You because we passionately pursue You moment by moment and show our reliance on You. May we never draw our children, spouse, or others to self, but to You. May we honor You with purpose that exalts You and brings us into alignment with all You have for us. Thank you for including us in Your plans and showing us the way to You. May we climb in Your arms and rest there as we abide in Your glory, care, and love. May our children follow with even more desire for You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you’re ready to become the godly mom God entrusts you to be for Him and His children, you might like my free “Good to Godly: A 31-Day Scripture and Prayer Guide for Moms.” Visit terrihitt.com to receive this resource. You are the first Jesus your child will see. Your relationship with Christ is the light that shines Him to your children. If you want a connected relationship with Jesus and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, my Set-Apart Collective program can show you how to reflect Christ in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. Remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #130 – Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Have you ever wondered what God thinks when He hears your inner thoughts? What about your spoken words? Are you ever embarrassed by or ashamed of what resides in your mind or comes out of your mouth? Our Heavenly Father surely evaluates the intentions of what we say or think with a different perspective than we do. In fact, we know He views what we think and say, (especially the grumbles and attitudes we carelessly let slip out) with a much higher standard and purpose than we can imagine. Think about times you verbalize or imagine complaints or dissatisfaction each day. I bet each of us have much more than we realize. To our Holy and Perfect God, those thoughts and words sound far worse than the scratch of fingernails on a chalkboard. Here ae some examples from my own life: When I think: “Every time I sit in my desk chair while wearing my warm blanket, the arm hole cut-outs grab the back of the arm rests on the chair and I become trapped until I stand to remove the blanket.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a sturdy, ergonomic chair for her workspace and a warm blanket to wear on cold days since I know she does not appreciate cold weather.” When I think: “Most of the time when I throw something away, I miss the trashcan and I have to get up to throw the trash away before my dog eats it.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri and her family with a new puppy when they lost their beloved dogs last year. What a joy it must be to have a new puppy to train.” When I think: “As I lay in bed and try to sleep at night, I always feel the tiniest wrinkle in the sheet and I can’t fall asleep until it is smooth.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a special level of sensitivity.” When I think:” Sometimes I leave my mug in the microwave too long and my cup of tea is too hot to carry.” God probably says: “Terri is blessed to have that mug that is so special to her and I’m sure she appreciates the ease of quickly and easily heating tea to enjoy.” When I say: “Every time I clean, the house is already dusty again the next day.” God probably says: “What a blessing I gave my children. The house they are in is everything they prayed for at one time and although the forest around them makes the house get dusty quickly, I’m sure they appreciate the joy of living in the midst of my beautiful creation.” When I say: “When we had trees removed from our yard, the tree service workers accidentally shattered my front storm door.” God probably says, “If the workers hadn’t shattered the door, Terri’s family would have had to purchase a brand new door when they had their house resided. Instead, they are having it replaced by Me.” When I say, “The workers putting on our new siding this summer have taken a lot longer to complete the job than we thought it would take.” God probably says: “I have enjoyed the process of watching the siding job I provided take longer than expected. I ordained the meeting of the workers with the Hitt’s. Many blessings have come from knowing the workers and sharing the stories of My love and provision and the experience has grown Terri’s awareness of me in even smaller details.” Like me, what are the things you can choose to grumble about or show gratitude for? How can you change the way you do it? I wonder whether God will have a list for us to view when we meet Him in heaven. Can’t you imagine documents that reflect an attitude or gratitude? Delays, disappointments, and demands that we complained about or grew bitter about may be what saved a life, brought an unexpected blessing down the road, or caused another to come to or fall away from Jesus by the way we reacted. Do you practice gratitude during the events of each day? Do you live life with an expectation that what happens is for your good and the betterment of His kingdom? It takes humble, intentional actions and true thankfulness to adjust our mindset to live with the high level of gratitude God desires. Have you noticed that when you tend to pout or complain about something, it’s much harder to feel grateful? Instead, when you immediately look to the Lord in all circumstances and give praise, whether situations are good or bad, exciting or disappointing, thankfulness causes an uplift to your spirit and joy is sustained or grown. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says,” Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. “ The joy in our life should not be dictated by circumstance. It’s challenging not to let what happens around us, or sometimes what doesn’t happen, affect our mental or emotional state, but prayers and thankfulness don’t have to be tied to feelings. If we look at the verse I just read from 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 with a heart to seek what God desires, we notice that we are given three commands. 1. Be joyful 2. Pray continually 3. Give thanks Every time we make the decision to follow what pleases God, we begin to view life with His perspective – an eternal perspective. Each time we follow His commands, especially with gratitude, we find it becomes easier to live with true joy and thankfulness. The truth is that when we complain, whether it be in thought, word, action, or reaction, we are choosing to place self over situation. We are silently voicing the fact that we what we want is more important than what is happening around us, or what God has allowed in our life. Each time we criticize, we place our idea of what should occur or what we should receive over the process of perfection. When we trust God to provide, we understand and appreciate that He is in control. Knowing that His perfect timing, guidance, provisions, and protection are far better than what we can envision allows joy to replace the bitterness, disappointment, and anger that threaten deeper relationship with Him. 2 Corinthians 4:15-18 says, “For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” Trials and disappointments help to work all things for God as promised in Romans 8:28, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose.” Even small inconveniences may be used to strengthen our faith and trust. Without hardship could we really understand true joy and gratitude for the protection and provisions of God? Conforming to the image of Christ comes with cost. Our human flesh will always find cause to complain. In contrast, the Holy Spirit living within believers recognizes and appreciates the redeeming, unselfish cost of grace and the joy of living within the protection of abundant gratitude. Colossians 2:6-7 says, “Therefore, just as you have received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him, established in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.” Because of the work of Christ and the Holy Spirit residing within, believers have the ability to see their inner self changed. Our moral and ethical behavior, as well as the way we view the inconvenient challenges in life can be shaped into the image of the mind of Christ. As we set our mind and heart on things above, we shift the way we view daily occurrences and begin to see them with eternal eyes instead of through selfish or temporal viewpoints. This different and eternal perspective allows room for gratitude to grow and be expressed far more readily than dissatisfaction or disappointment as we look at events through the eyes of Jesus and the heart of God. Colossians 3:1-2 says, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. You alone are Holy. You alone can lift us from the depths of selfish sin and desires and hold us close to the desires of Your heart. Lord, as we grow closer to You and allow You to shine more brightly through us, help us to change, help our gratitude to expand, overtake our selfish hearts, and craft the beauty of thankfulness within us. May the mystery of the resurrection sweep over us and change our fleshly hearts into the beauty of Christ’s. May we please and honor You with our appreciation for the good, the easy, the tears, and the joys of living the life You gave to us. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding abide within us and guard our hearts, and multiply our appreciation. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. 1 Chronicles 16:34 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever.” Lord, may our gratitude fill You with thanksgiving and praise! Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 130 - Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #130 – Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Have you ever wondered what God thinks when He hears your inner thoughts? What about your spoken words? Are you ever embarrassed by or ashamed of what resides in your mind or comes out of your mouth? Our Heavenly Father surely evaluates the intentions of what we say or think with a different perspective than we do. In fact, we know He views what we think and say, (especially the grumbles and attitudes we carelessly let slip out) with a much higher standard and purpose than we can imagine. Think about times you verbalize or imagine complaints or dissatisfaction each day. I bet each of us have much more than we realize. To our Holy and Perfect God, those thoughts and words sound far worse than the scratch of fingernails on a chalkboard. Here ae some examples from my own life: When I think: “Every time I sit in my desk chair while wearing my warm blanket, the arm hole cut-outs grab the back of the arm rests on the chair and I become trapped until I stand to remove the blanket.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a sturdy, ergonomic chair for her workspace and a warm blanket to wear on cold days since I know she does not appreciate cold weather.” When I think: “Most of the time when I throw something away, I miss the trashcan and I have to get up to throw the trash away before my dog eats it.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri and her family with a new puppy when they lost their beloved dogs last year. What a joy it must be to have a new puppy to train.” When I think: “As I lay in bed and try to sleep at night, I always feel the tiniest wrinkle in the sheet and I can’t fall asleep until it is smooth.” God probably says: “I blessed Terri with a special level of sensitivity.” When I think:” Sometimes I leave my mug in the microwave too long and my cup of tea is too hot to carry.” God probably says: “Terri is blessed to have that mug that is so special to her and I’m sure she appreciates the ease of quickly and easily heating tea to enjoy.” When I say: “Every time I clean, the house is already dusty again the next day.” God probably says: “What a blessing I gave my children. The house they are in is everything they prayed for at one time and although the forest around them makes the house get dusty quickly, I’m sure they appreciate the joy of living in the midst of my beautiful creation.” When I say: “When we had trees removed from our yard, the tree service workers accidentally shattered my front storm door.” God probably says, “If the workers hadn’t shattered the door, Terri’s family would have had to purchase a brand new door when they had their house resided. Instead, they are having it replaced by Me.” When I say, “The workers putting on our new siding this summer have taken a lot longer to complete the job than we thought it would take.” God probably says: “I have enjoyed the process of watching the siding job I provided take longer than expected. I ordained the meeting of the workers with the Hitt’s. Many blessings have come from knowing the workers and sharing the stories of My love and provision and the experience has grown Terri’s awareness of me in even smaller details.” Like me, what are the things you can choose to grumble about or show gratitude for? How can you change the way you do it? I wonder whether God will have a list for us to view when we meet Him in heaven. Can’t you imagine documents that reflect an attitude or gratitude? Delays, disappointments, and demands that we complained about or grew bitter about may be what saved a life, brought an unexpected blessing down the road, or caused another to come to or fall away from Jesus by the way we reacted. Do you practice gratitude during the events of each day? Do you live life with an expectation that what happens is for your good and the betterment of His kingdom? It takes humble, intentional actions and true thankfulness to adjust our mindset to live with the high level of gratitude God desires. Have you noticed that when you tend to pout or complain about something, it’s much harder to feel grateful? Instead, when you immediately look to the Lord in all circumstances and give praise, whether situations are good or bad, exciting or disappointing, thankfulness causes an uplift to your spirit and joy is sustained or grown. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says,” Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. “ The joy in our life should not be dictated by circumstance. It’s challenging not to let what happens around us, or sometimes what doesn’t happen, affect our mental or emotional state, but prayers and thankfulness don’t have to be tied to feelings. If we look at the verse I just read from 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 with a heart to seek what God desires, we notice that we are given three commands. 1. Be joyful 2. Pray continually 3. Give thanks Every time we make the decision to follow what pleases God, we begin to view life with His perspective – an eternal perspective. Each time we follow His commands, especially with gratitude, we find it becomes easier to live with true joy and thankfulness. The truth is that when we complain, whether it be in thought, word, action, or reaction, we are choosing to place self over situation. We are silently voicing the fact that we what we want is more important than what is happening around us, or what God has allowed in our life. Each time we criticize, we place our idea of what should occur or what we should receive over the process of perfection. When we trust God to provide, we understand and appreciate that He is in control. Knowing that His perfect timing, guidance, provisions, and protection are far better than what we can envision allows joy to replace the bitterness, disappointment, and anger that threaten deeper relationship with Him. 2 Corinthians 4:15-18 says, “For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” Trials and disappointments help to work all things for God as promised in Romans 8:28, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose.” Even small inconveniences may be used to strengthen our faith and trust. Without hardship could we really understand true joy and gratitude for the protection and provisions of God? Conforming to the image of Christ comes with cost. Our human flesh will always find cause to complain. In contrast, the Holy Spirit living within believers recognizes and appreciates the redeeming, unselfish cost of grace and the joy of living within the protection of abundant gratitude. Colossians 2:6-7 says, “Therefore, just as you have received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him, established in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.” Because of the work of Christ and the Holy Spirit residing within, believers have the ability to see their inner self changed. Our moral and ethical behavior, as well as the way we view the inconvenient challenges in life can be shaped into the image of the mind of Christ. As we set our mind and heart on things above, we shift the way we view daily occurrences and begin to see them with eternal eyes instead of through selfish or temporal viewpoints. This different and eternal perspective allows room for gratitude to grow and be expressed far more readily than dissatisfaction or disappointment as we look at events through the eyes of Jesus and the heart of God. Colossians 3:1-2 says, “If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” Dear Heavenly Father, You alone are good. You alone are Holy. You alone can lift us from the depths of selfish sin and desires and hold us close to the desires of Your heart. Lord, as we grow closer to You and allow You to shine more brightly through us, help us to change, help our gratitude to expand, overtake our selfish hearts, and craft the beauty of thankfulness within us. May the mystery of the resurrection sweep over us and change our fleshly hearts into the beauty of Christ’s. May we please and honor You with our appreciation for the good, the easy, the tears, and the joys of living the life You gave to us. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding abide within us and guard our hearts, and multiply our appreciation. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. 1 Chronicles 16:34 says, “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever.” Lord, may our gratitude fill You with thanksgiving and praise! Thank you for listening to this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Additional episodes may be heard at terrihitt.com, but the podcast is also a part of the Spark Media Network. Now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #120 – What the Lord Requires Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Living with eternal perspective is something we honor in our home. Not only because that is the name of this podcast, but because each of us believes in the importance of viewing each day with eyes set on eternity. This podcast has been a beautiful tool in our home, and because of it, my daughters and husband are also much more aware of ways we can shift our mindset and attitude toward Christ and seek to allow Him first importance in our daily activities and plans. Watching my girls grow in Christlike character is a gift. I’m sure you understand the joy when you witness the changes Jesus makes on the surrendered heart of your child. As we watch our children allow Jesus into their life and submit to Him to alter the mindset and desires they carry, we more clearly understand the responsibility a parent carries to make Jesus known. There is really nothing else that compares with preparing ourselves and our children for eternity. Sometimes we can be so wrapped up in daily living that we miss what God calls for us. The simplicity and complexity of raising a child to know, love, honor, and follow Christ is the greatest gift He can bestow on parents. It’s easy to forget exactly what God truly requires of us when we get lost in the hustle of life instead of keeping eyes fixed above. I believe that serving God is of utmost importance, especially when He is calling us to such a high task. Truly, obedience is key. However, we only create busywork, not an honoring service for Him if we are not simply spending time in the presence of Jesus to know Him. John 12:1-8 says, “Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with Him. Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages. ” He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of My burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have Me.” What I notice the most about these verses is that Mary was loving, humble and teachable. Through her actions, she proved what was important in her heart; what her mind was focused on. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” This humble follower of Christ recognized that she must be more occupied with Jesus than for Him. Another verse that shows us to fix our attention and heart on Jesus is found in Luke 10:41, which says, “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Martha was so consumed with doing for Jesus that she lost opportunities to be with Him. How can we know how to please God if we do not know Him? If only we could continually live with the childlike faith God calls us to carry. Christian life shouldn’t be complicated. Our stubbornness, pride, ego, greed, fears, wickedness, and sins separate us from the ability to fellowship with our Father as we should. Have you made your walk with Christ harder than it should be? Have you complicated your salvation thinking you have to serve or do in order to please God? I remember when I first became a Christian I was so eager to serve! I joined so many committees. I don’t remember ever stopping to ask God what direction He had for me to follow or how He would like me to serve. I loved everything I was doing and I recall that I had great joy in doing what I could for God. But was I making my walk harder than it should have been? Wouldn’t I have matured my walk with Jesus sooner if I had stopped to be present with Him and be discipled properly? My point is that we can easily and unknowingly make our walk with God way more complicated than it has to be with self-imposed rules, objectives, or agendas. Would you like a good reminder of what the life of a believer should really look like? Micah 6:6-8 says, “With what shall I come before the Lord and bow down before the exalted God? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with calves a year old? Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with ten thousand rivers of olive oil? Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” “To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” 1. Be just - God is calling us to be consistent, virtuous, honest, innocent, and righteous. The only way we can mature in those qualities and be pleasing to God is through the Holy Spirit actively working within us. 2. Love mercy - We are each in need of mercy. We know we are incapable of receiving the life-saving mercy we need without Jesus. Through Christ we can receive it and are also able to extend God’s grace to others. 3. Walk humbly with God - Walking is an active, not sedentary state. Our Heavenly Father asks us to humbly move with Him. To walk with someone means to keep step and stay at an even pace together. Our Father extends a personal fellowship with His followers to walk in step with Him. Almost every evening I am able to take a walk with one of my daughters. It is one of the highlights of my day. Each walk carries a variety of emotions and stories that grow and deepen our bond with each other. Serious conversations and laughter accompany every step and I know our relationship would not be the same without these walks. Just as we cannot grow closer to God unless we walk humbly with Him. For some, the summer months are slow and easy, for others, the days are wild and busy. Whichever summer day you encounter, please make it a point to put God first. Grow your relationship with Jesus this summer through intentional time spent walking with Him. Here are 5 steps to make sure you know Jesus more clearly before summer is over. 1. Allow the Heavenly Father to enter your mind when you wake up and pray to Him as you start your day. 2. Allow the Holy Spirit to penetrate your thoughts and actions through each day and help you choose what activities you should spend your time on. 3. Speak of and to Jesus as you work or play. Allow prayers to flow from your heart and mind through the day as you converse with God in gratitude and appreciation of whatever enters your life. 4. Make time to be in God’s word at some point each day. You cannot know Him unless you spend time with Him. Scripture makes Him known. 5. Before you fall asleep each evening, speak humble prayers to God to close the evening with Him foremost on your mind. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness is overwhelming, especially in light of our sinful nature. Thank You for Your mercy and love for us. May we grow closer to You daily as we intentionally and humbly walk in step with You. May we act justly, despite how we are treated because we are so close to You that You pour from us before self. May we accept and exhibit mercy, from You, ourselves, and others in ways that honor and please You. May we walk humbly by Your side in sweet fellowship and praise that pleases You and shines for others to see, drawing them ever nearer to You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I suggest Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast episode 12, “Values in a World of Immorality” and it can be found on the Terri Hitt website. I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 120 - What the Lord Requires Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #120 – What the Lord Requires Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Living with eternal perspective is something we honor in our home. Not only because that is the name of this podcast, but because each of us believes in the importance of viewing each day with eyes set on eternity. This podcast has been a beautiful tool in our home, and because of it, my daughters and husband are also much more aware of ways we can shift our mindset and attitude toward Christ and seek to allow Him first importance in our daily activities and plans. Watching my girls grow in Christlike character is a gift. I’m sure you understand the joy when you witness the changes Jesus makes on the surrendered heart of your child. As we watch our children allow Jesus into their life and submit to Him to alter the mindset and desires they carry, we more clearly understand the responsibility a parent carries to make Jesus known. There is really nothing else that compares with preparing ourselves and our children for eternity. Sometimes we can be so wrapped up in daily living that we miss what God calls for us. The simplicity and complexity of raising a child to know, love, honor, and follow Christ is the greatest gift He can bestow on parents. It’s easy to forget exactly what God truly requires of us when we get lost in the hustle of life instead of keeping eyes fixed above. I believe that serving God is of utmost importance, especially when He is calling us to such a high task. Truly, obedience is key. However, we only create busywork, not an honoring service for Him if we are not simply spending time in the presence of Jesus to know Him. John 12:1-8 says, “Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with Him. Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages. ” He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of My burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have Me.” What I notice the most about these verses is that Mary was loving, humble and teachable. Through her actions, she proved what was important in her heart; what her mind was focused on. Colossians 3:2 says, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” This humble follower of Christ recognized that she must be more occupied with Jesus than for Him. Another verse that shows us to fix our attention and heart on Jesus is found in Luke 10:41, which says, “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Martha was so consumed with doing for Jesus that she lost opportunities to be with Him. How can we know how to please God if we do not know Him? If only we could continually live with the childlike faith God calls us to carry. Christian life shouldn’t be complicated. Our stubbornness, pride, ego, greed, fears, wickedness, and sins separate us from the ability to fellowship with our Father as we should. Have you made your walk with Christ harder than it should be? Have you complicated your salvation thinking you have to serve or do in order to please God? I remember when I first became a Christian I was so eager to serve! I joined so many committees. I don’t remember ever stopping to ask God what direction He had for me to follow or how He would like me to serve. I loved everything I was doing and I recall that I had great joy in doing what I could for God. But was I making my walk harder than it should have been? Wouldn’t I have matured my walk with Jesus sooner if I had stopped to be present with Him and be discipled properly? My point is that we can easily and unknowingly make our walk with God way more complicated than it has to be with self-imposed rules, objectives, or agendas. Would you like a good reminder of what the life of a believer should really look like? Micah 6:6-8 says, “With what shall I come before the Lord and bow down before the exalted God? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with calves a year old? Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, with ten thousand rivers of olive oil? Shall I offer my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” “To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” 1. Be just - God is calling us to be consistent, virtuous, honest, innocent, and righteous. The only way we can mature in those qualities and be pleasing to God is through the Holy Spirit actively working within us. 2. Love mercy - We are each in need of mercy. We know we are incapable of receiving the life-saving mercy we need without Jesus. Through Christ we can receive it and are also able to extend God’s grace to others. 3. Walk humbly with God - Walking is an active, not sedentary state. Our Heavenly Father asks us to humbly move with Him. To walk with someone means to keep step and stay at an even pace together. Our Father extends a personal fellowship with His followers to walk in step with Him. Almost every evening I am able to take a walk with one of my daughters. It is one of the highlights of my day. Each walk carries a variety of emotions and stories that grow and deepen our bond with each other. Serious conversations and laughter accompany every step and I know our relationship would not be the same without these walks. Just as we cannot grow closer to God unless we walk humbly with Him. For some, the summer months are slow and easy, for others, the days are wild and busy. Whichever summer day you encounter, please make it a point to put God first. Grow your relationship with Jesus this summer through intentional time spent walking with Him. Here are 5 steps to make sure you know Jesus more clearly before summer is over. 1. Allow the Heavenly Father to enter your mind when you wake up and pray to Him as you start your day. 2. Allow the Holy Spirit to penetrate your thoughts and actions through each day and help you choose what activities you should spend your time on. 3. Speak of and to Jesus as you work or play. Allow prayers to flow from your heart and mind through the day as you converse with God in gratitude and appreciation of whatever enters your life. 4. Make time to be in God’s word at some point each day. You cannot know Him unless you spend time with Him. Scripture makes Him known. 5. Before you fall asleep each evening, speak humble prayers to God to close the evening with Him foremost on your mind. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness is overwhelming, especially in light of our sinful nature. Thank You for Your mercy and love for us. May we grow closer to You daily as we intentionally and humbly walk in step with You. May we act justly, despite how we are treated because we are so close to You that You pour from us before self. May we accept and exhibit mercy, from You, ourselves, and others in ways that honor and please You. May we walk humbly by Your side in sweet fellowship and praise that pleases You and shines for others to see, drawing them ever nearer to You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. You may find them on the terrihitt.com website. Click on podcasts and type in the topic or title you wish to hear in the search bar at the top of the page. Have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I suggest Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast episode 12, “Values in a World of Immorality” and it can be found on the Terri Hitt website. I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #106 – Finding Refuge Under God’s Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 91:4 says, “He will cover you with His feathers; under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness is a shield and rampart.” Another version of the same scripture verse translates the words like this, “He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.” Recently, I interviewed Alex Stone, a young man on a mission to see lives changed by the Gospel. If you haven’t heard our conversation yet, I urge you to listen to podcast episode 104 to hear the genuine passion, encouragement, and truths Alex shares. As Alex and I spoke after the recording of our conversation stopped, he told he that he thought his mother would be an excellent person for me to talk to on the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Alex connected us and after a beautiful, heartfelt conversation with his mother, Jennifer, we set a time to record an interview, which is the episode I now present. So, thanks to Alex, I have the pleasure of introducing you to his mother, Jennifer, who deeply loves the Lord and longs to stay beneath the shelter of His wings, and equips others to do the same. Jennifer Stone has been married to Jeff for 20 years. Together, they have four children. They also have two international daughters through hosting the girls as exchange students. Jennifer’s greatest desire is that her children walk in truth and in relationship with God. Growing up, she learned the power of prayer from the example her parents mentored for her, and she desires for others to know how life-changing spending time talking with, and listening for, God can be. Jennifer has a heart for women and developing relationships centered around Jesus. She and her husband, Jeff are involved with discipling other couples, and in addition, Jennifer leads women individually and in small groups through discipleship and Bible study. When I spoke with Jennifer, I recognized her deep desire for God and her understanding of His word and truths. I knew she would be an excellent mentor on the podcast for sharing encouragement to stay the course or begin a new relationship with Jesus, as well as easily sharing practical tips for being in the word and applying it in our daily life. Today we will discuss areas where women tend to struggle, how to be encouraged by God’s word, biblical tips for couples and parents, peace and joy, and of course how to live with an eternal perspective by keeping our eyes, minds, and heart fixed on Jesus. ----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------ My hope is that you enjoyed the practical tips and the scripture Jennifer shares today. Her heart for serving and honoring Jesus and helping others to do the same is authentic and I’m thankful for the service she openly gives for Jesus and others. Each of us has the opportunity to choose to devote our heart to the Lord and find ways to honor and please Him with the life we have been given. My prayer is that the tips and verses we discussed today are impressed on every heart and will fuel each of us to be bolder in our testimonies and more faithful in our journey with Jesus daily. Precious Heavenly Father, how great You are! You adorn Yourself with majesty and splendor, and clothe yourself with honor and glory. There is none like You. May our minds and mouths be filled with Your praise and with Your splendor all day long. Thank you for sending us Your Son and Your Holy word so that we may know you, be mentored by You, and know the ways You desire us to live. You gift us with so much that we frequently do not recognize or that we ignorantly take for granted. Purify our hearts so that we desire You more deeply and see You more clearly. Help us to honor and please You more each moment as we turn to You and crave You over culture and over selfish desires. May we continue to grow in and through You and become a new creation with Your mercies every morning. Help us to seek You and find the refuge we long for and desperately need beneath your wings as we allow You, encourage You, to cover us with Your feathers. Help us long for Your loving, perfect care, and provision. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 106 Finding Refuge Under God's Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #106 – Finding Refuge Under God’s Wings - Interview with Jennifer Stone Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Psalm 91:4 says, “He will cover you with His feathers; under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness is a shield and rampart.” Another version of the same scripture verse translates the words like this, “He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection.” Recently, I interviewed Alex Stone, a young man on a mission to see lives changed by the Gospel. If you haven’t heard our conversation yet, I urge you to listen to podcast episode 104 to hear the genuine passion, encouragement, and truths Alex shares. As Alex and I spoke after the recording of our conversation stopped, he told he that he thought his mother would be an excellent person for me to talk to on the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast. Alex connected us and after a beautiful, heartfelt conversation with his mother, Jennifer, we set a time to record an interview, which is the episode I now present. So, thanks to Alex, I have the pleasure of introducing you to his mother, Jennifer, who deeply loves the Lord and longs to stay beneath the shelter of His wings, and equips others to do the same. Jennifer Stone has been married to Jeff for 20 years. Together, they have four children. They also have two international daughters through hosting the girls as exchange students. Jennifer’s greatest desire is that her children walk in truth and in relationship with God. Growing up, she learned the power of prayer from the example her parents mentored for her, and she desires for others to know how life-changing spending time talking with, and listening for, God can be. Jennifer has a heart for women and developing relationships centered around Jesus. She and her husband, Jeff are involved with discipling other couples, and in addition, Jennifer leads women individually and in small groups through discipleship and Bible study. When I spoke with Jennifer, I recognized her deep desire for God and her understanding of His word and truths. I knew she would be an excellent mentor on the podcast for sharing encouragement to stay the course or begin a new relationship with Jesus, as well as easily sharing practical tips for being in the word and applying it in our daily life. Today we will discuss areas where women tend to struggle, how to be encouraged by God’s word, biblical tips for couples and parents, peace and joy, and of course how to live with an eternal perspective by keeping our eyes, minds, and heart fixed on Jesus. ----------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------------ My hope is that you enjoyed the practical tips and the scripture Jennifer shares today. Her heart for serving and honoring Jesus and helping others to do the same is authentic and I’m thankful for the service she openly gives for Jesus and others. Each of us has the opportunity to choose to devote our heart to the Lord and find ways to honor and please Him with the life we have been given. My prayer is that the tips and verses we discussed today are impressed on every heart and will fuel each of us to be bolder in our testimonies and more faithful in our journey with Jesus daily. Precious Heavenly Father, how great You are! You adorn Yourself with majesty and splendor, and clothe yourself with honor and glory. There is none like You. May our minds and mouths be filled with Your praise and with Your splendor all day long. Thank you for sending us Your Son and Your Holy word so that we may know you, be mentored by You, and know the ways You desire us to live. You gift us with so much that we frequently do not recognize or that we ignorantly take for granted. Purify our hearts so that we desire You more deeply and see You more clearly. Help us to honor and please You more each moment as we turn to You and crave You over culture and over selfish desires. May we continue to grow in and through You and become a new creation with Your mercies every morning. Help us to seek You and find the refuge we long for and desperately need beneath your wings as we allow You, encourage You, to cover us with Your feathers. Help us long for Your loving, perfect care, and provision. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening. If you find value in what you hear, I invite you to help others find the podcast. Please share Live With Eternal Perspective episodes with friends and family so that they can begin to listen each week. I’m very excited to share that my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” will release February 3. I hope you will listen and share with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. You can find more details on my website at terrihitt.com. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 019 - How to Help My Child Find and Live God's Biblical Truths Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #019 – How to Help My Child Find and Live God’s Biblical Truth Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Back in the 80’s and 90’s, when I raised my first set of children, the majority of Americans considered themselves Christians. Now only an approximate 65% of Americans identify as Christian. Even worse, I recently heard nearly 70% of born-again Christians disagree with the biblical position that Jesus is the only way to God. Haven’t they ever read John 14:6-7 , which says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know Me, you will know My Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him .” Times have certainly changed. To be honest, although it sounds judgmental, and I certainly do not mean it that way, the truth is that many who label themselves as Christian simply do not live a biblical lifestyle that supports their claim. I often tell my teenaged daughters that they are living in a generation that needs to be able to defend their faith. In this current day, not only are Christian beliefs ridiculed, but Christians carry (or should carry) a reflection of holiness, through the Holy Spirit within us, that those who do not believe are offended by. If a Christian convicts the world simply by carrying the morals and truths of Jesus, we know that the world is actually repulsed by Christ because darkness exists in their soul. In fact, the Bible warned us of this happening. If the virtues we carry are found offensive, causing us to be hated, those in disagreement will lash out in fear or shame, whether they realize it in the moment or not. As the world moves deeper into sin and away from the solid foundation of Christ, the more justified those living in transgression feel about themselves and their choices. The kingdom of darkness rules this world, and the words found in 1 Peter 5:8-9 are eternally true. “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings .” Our children are growing up in a world that does not seek truth . Look around at programs enticing our children and luring them to the world of sin such as the new cartoon, “Little Demon.” Our culture is desensitizing adults and children with television shows, movies, books, magazine, music, and even phone filters, such as one I saw this week. It actually turns the face of the viewer into a devil. What parent would ever allow their child to use such an app or filter? Obviously more than we probably think. Whether the parents realize it or not, every choice they make (or don’t make) that isn’t purposely done for Christ through an eternal perspective, their child is drifting closer to Satan. Relative truth reigns in our culture and is extracted from whatever anyone wants to believe (or hopes is real), and actually stands for nothing. Even schoolrooms promote anti-biblical agendas that are destroying the fabric and soul of our children and nation. God’s truth is the only authentic and lasting source of integrity. Authored by Truth, God’s words and ways show us and our children the only way to live with hope, love, trust, faith, and purpose. Do you desire to raise a child who walks with Jesus in truth and confidence? Or would you rather parent a confused child who will never experience the love, joy, or peace of one following the Lord? In John 15:18-19 Jesus said, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.” Do not misunderstand. As God warned that the devil is prowling this world looking for victims to deceive, we must be ever mindful or we will fall prey to his schemes. Our nation and the families within it are more divided than I have seen in my lifetime. If we are not reading, studying, practicing, and teaching God’s commands and warnings of the Bible, we are walking in step with the deceiver of this world and playing directly into his hands. Micah 6:8 says, “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” This verse is one of several lines of Scripture in the Bible in which God clearly allows us to hear exactly how He wants us to live and direct our children to Him . 1. Act justly – People will try many things in an attempt to please God, but in the ways they desire. Living with an eternal perspective, however, and mentoring that mindset to our children will lead us (and them) straight to God’s word . Instead of guessing what God desires or selfishly doing what we want, His commands clearly show us the way to please and honor Him. 2. Love mercy – When we live in ways that honor God, and we treasure His word, we will become more Christlike in character. To walk justly and love mercy means that we are fair in dealing with others and show mercy, even when it is not deserved. Our actions reach and teach our children more quickly than our words . We truly begin to live more like Jesus did. 3. Walk humbly with God – As we know God more clearly through time spent in His word , in prayer and fellowship with Him, and we listen to His voice and direction , we will step in alignment with His desires. As we obediently submit where He calls, we humbly walk with our Father. As our children see this example, and we communicate the importance of living in this way through loving ways, they will be drawn to the same attitude toward God and much more likely to choose an eternity-driven mindset and lifestyle. We cannot live in this manner through our own strength. Our children cannot live like this without knowing Christ, hopefully through our patient and loving mentorship. Only Christ can equip any of us to live in ways that please and honor our Heavenly Father. Godly influence must be present in our home or our children will follow the leadership of the world . They must have the moral compass of God existing in their heart and mind to be able to recognize the lies of this world. They must wear the armor of God to be protected from the trappings and lures of this world. That means we must be a true north that keeps our child connected to the true compass, God. Throughout the Bible, God makes the way to a joyful life that is pleasing to Him clear for us to follow. As pursue the Lord’s ways and truths, we are able to direct our children to an abundant life. Micah 7:1-2 says, “What misery is mine! I am like one who gathers summer fruit at the gleaning of the vineyard; there is no cluster of grapes to eat, none of the early figs that I crave. The faithful have been swept from the land; not one upright person remains. Everyone lies in wait to shed blood; they hunt each other with nets.” What will become of our children and their children if godly influence disappears entirely in the world? Micah 7:3-4 says, “Both hands are skilled in doing evil; the ruler demands gifts, the judge accepts bribes, the powerful dictate what they desire—they all conspire together. The best of them is like a brier, the most upright worse than a thorn hedge. The day God visits you has come, the day your watchmen sound the alarm. Now is the time of your confusion.” What will become of our children and future generations if we continue with escalating violence, along with business and political corruption? Micah 7:5 says, ”Do not trust a neighbor; put no confidence in a friend. Even with the woman who lies in your embrace guard the words of your lips .” What will our world be like when future generations live with unfaithful friendships and no allies? Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Strength is in numbers and a threefold cord is not broken.” Micah 7:6 says, “For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises up against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law—a man’s enemies are the members of his own household.” Through all of the indoctrinations and deceit in our world today, we already see children dishonoring parents. When public schools and government officials seek to remove parental rights, teach radical thoughts and lies, remove history from schools, and introduce perverted lifestyles and values to minors, more and more families will be broken, hurting, and separated from each other and our Lord. Micah 7:7 says, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me .” Our only hope comes from a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. As the world continues down a slippery slope of our own selfish and distorted making, nothing will change hearts except Jesus and the truths of God. Actions stem from what is already held in the heart and reflect what is ruling the mind . Christ came to deliver us from self and sin. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Trust in the Lord. Seek Him and His ways. Know His teachings so that you and your child can follow a life of abundance, peace, and love that this world cannot know without Christ. Dear Heavenly Father. There is none like You. Your love for us is greater than we can ever imagine. Your truths are for our good and protection. Forgive us for forgetting You. Forgive us for letting our children down when we seek to raise them in our own strength instead of relying on Your truths and commands that lead to life eternal with You. Father, keep pursuing us. Do not let us lead our children astray. Help us to raise them in the image of Christ and allow You to build up the foundation beneath them that will weather the future of this nation and the plans You have for them. Help them to make a difference for You because they carry Your joy, peace, love, and truths within them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #040 – Personal Mission Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This morning Brooklyn, my youngest, and I were working together in the kitchen. As I diced vegetables, we discussed the pattern inside the cut head of cauliflower. Have you ever scraped off the top layer and viewed the detailed pattern underneath? It reminded us of a snowflake, which led us into a discussion of how intricately God formed all things and how much intelligent thought and purpose is witnessed in all of creation. Beauty in cauliflower? Yes, the curiously-shaped vegetable! God is the expert in originality. I am awed by such unique and original creations of God. We see Him through all of nature, in animals, in humans. Throughout science and math, in His plan for humanity, His sovereignty, and in His plan of redemption. Everything holds the thumb print and signature of our glorious God. Even cauliflower. Do you love those moments where we can find God’s glorious artistry in something so simple? Naturally including God in simple life events is crucial to growing our walk and advancing the journey of our children for Jesus. Ephesians 1:17 says, “that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.” God has not only extended us beautiful spiritual riches. Our Heavenly Father also gifted us with the ability to intimately know Him through Jesus. We can seek and reach God through His Son, allowing us access to the intellect, emotions, and will of God. When we acknowledge and exclaim the beauty in something as simple as a vegetable, we allow ourselves and those around us, in the circle of our influence, to proclaim the majesty of God for themselves and carve a deeper understanding and appreciation for themselves. I believe it causes us to yearn more for our Heavenly Father and His presence in our life, even in the smallest of details. We recognize the abilities and style of God in new and personal ways. On the podcast last week, we discussed the specifics my family worked together to establish in creating our set of “Hitt Family Principles.” The activity held a very special and eternal significance for each of us. It seemed a small task, but brought us together as we prayerfully considered and verbalized what we wanted to use as a template to move our family forward on a united path to God. Establishing such a set of principles is not necessary for a family to grow together in Christ or to have a strong relationship with God, but it is a very intentional move in ensuring that each of us clearly knows and understands what our family believes and how we desire to accomplish specific Christian growth. I bring this activity up again this week because I believe it is also a beautiful and significant exercise for each of us to do individually, as well. Yes, it can be argued that the family principles should be personal principles, as well. However, I expect that any of us who spend time working on such a task with our family would also want to elevate and clearly keep personal goals in the forefront of our mind and heart, as well. Let me pause here and do a recap for those who listened to the podcast last week and give a brief rundown of what we did for anyone who did not listen to last week’s episode. If you would like to listen to the full podcast where I discuss what we did in full, please refer Episode #039 Family With A Mission. My family and I brain-stormed together to design a set of what we call the “Hitt Family Principles.” We used a business model to generate the framework we build for spiritual goals in our relationship with Jesus. We created it to guide and keep us connected with the same purpose in deepening our walk with God and reminding ourselves and others who and what our family stands for as a united group. I will share what we established. Core Value: We strive to live with eternal perspective through Jesus. Vision Statement: To love, trust, honor, and obey Jesus and grow in faith through Him. Mission Statement: Our family strives to honor God, intentionally pursue God, and show love and respect to Him, and others, while remaining obedient to Him. Key Verse: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.” Deuteronomy 6:5 Again, going from how a business usually works to create how they want their business to grow and exist, our family used the same basic framework to pattern the direction of our principles. Let’s begin with the vision statement. It describes what the organization will look like in the future. A mission statement, on the other hand, describes what an organization does, and for whom. How greatly these tools can be used to guide and grow families together in the same, eternal direction! If the vision statement describes what the family will look like in the future, it offers us an opportunity to establish exactly who and how we want to be for Jesus. It gives us the ability to have a clear vision to move forward, enabling us to advance our walk with purpose. How often do we set goals, but fall short because we do not set a clear vision for how to get there? We definitely have a much greater chance of pleasing God with this clear plan in the front of our mind and heart. It serves as a guiding compass straight north to the heart of our Father. Next, is the mission statement. It is used to establish what the family does and for whom, and we know that there is no greater “whom” than the Great I AM! Also shaped at the same time were the core values that completed the statements we created. Core values are what support the vision, shape the culture and reflect what our family values. Our core values also educate others outside our home, those we come into contact with during the course of different days, showing what our family holds dear. The core values also help to clarify the identity of our family, hopefully brightly shining Christ and our desire to be more like Him. We also chose to add a key verse that we each agree sets the heart and tone for our family, as well as for each of us, as individuals. Although we have printed out our set of principles, I am looking for a special way to beautifully display them in our home so that the words, like promises to God, are visible and noticeable for each of us daily. Because constructing the principles together was an enjoyable and blessed activity for each of us, I want to go further in depth with personal principles. Although I have been a Christian for many years, I have never set my heart on a purposed set of standards that I have prayed over and recorded as a guide to deepen my relationship with God. I know in my heart what to do and purposely work toward that goal with intention, yet I want to experience time alone with God to see what He may reveal to me as what He has individually purposed for me. I desire for my family to do the same. Quiet time with God is never wasted, and I wonder what deeper treasures He may offer us in our walk with Him. How much deeper will we know our Heavenly Father through intentioned pursuit in this special, detailed way? Just as some people make new year resolutions, our family usually starts the new year with a word for the year. I love how it causes us to focus with determination on experiencing God in new ways through that word. But now I desire to take that deeper with a set of personal principles. I plan to use the same basic guidelines with finding a private core value, vision, mission, and key verse. How will God work through this? I don’t know yet, but I’m excited and know that I will be blessed to discover what He does. Will He give me words that I will use forever or will He have me change yearly as I continue to progress in my walk with Him? How about you? Let me know if you have already done this and how you set your standards or constructed your personal principles. I urge you to make time to sit with God and let Him guide you in selecting your own set of family and personal principles. I suspect that what I think might be the words and verse I choose may be quite different after prayerful consideration. Who knows what God might lead me to. I’m excited to see and growth in spiritual and personal depth with my Heavenly Father. Luke 2:52 tells us, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.” Jesus, even as a boy, intentionally increased and strengthened His relationship with God in every area: mental, (with His wisdom), spiritual, (with His favor from God), and social, (as He displayed God in every way). Jesus advanced His walk with God daily and purposefully. What a perfect role model we have in Jesus. What a gift God gave us through His Son, His Holy word, and our lifeline of prayer. Developing personal principles seems such a simple action. Jesus always took common and simple aspects of life that should have been obvious to the Jewish people and made short stories, or parables, to teach and reach people as nothing else could. Jesus worked and still works, through divine, but straightforward methods that cause us to pause and ponder, and often be convicted. I pray I am convicted in new ways as I delve into creating this personal set of principles. He looks for those of us with hearts open to seek Him, who desire to be influenced, and changed by Him. As I pray for His guidance and truths to craft a personal principle framework to specifically guide me in new ways, I believe God will unveil new realizations or perceptions to me in unique means specifically tailored for me and where I am in my journey with Him. I am ready for more growth. How about you? Would you join me in seeking Him for a set of personal principles that exist to advance your relationship through Jesus? I would be blessed to hear what you allow God to create through you. Father God, please work through each of us to expose more of what You desire from and through us. Help us to crave you in the way Jesus did. May we allow You to shine in all areas of our life. Please peel away layers of humanity and shine Your holiness through us. Help us to realize daily how far we are from You and may we intentionally advance our dependence on, and wisdom through You. May we honor You with every thought, word, and action and continually find new ways to live with our mind set for eternity with You in ways that are pleasing to You right now. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. If you enjoy this podcast, you might like to hear that the terrihitt.com website launches within the next few days! Please visit and subscribe to be a member so that you gain access to all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, and free resources that will be added to weekly. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. May we all be inspired and equipped to live with an eternal perspective and be influenced to raise children for Jesus, not this momentary world. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 040 Personal Mission Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #040 – Personal Mission Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. This morning Brooklyn, my youngest, and I were working together in the kitchen. As I diced vegetables, we discussed the pattern inside the cut head of cauliflower. Have you ever scraped off the top layer and viewed the detailed pattern underneath? It reminded us of a snowflake, which led us into a discussion of how intricately God formed all things and how much intelligent thought and purpose is witnessed in all of creation. Beauty in cauliflower? Yes, the curiously-shaped vegetable! God is the expert in originality. I am awed by such unique and original creations of God. We see Him through all of nature, in animals, in humans. Throughout science and math, in His plan for humanity, His sovereignty, and in His plan of redemption. Everything holds the thumb print and signature of our glorious God. Even cauliflower. Do you love those moments where we can find God’s glorious artistry in something so simple? Naturally including God in simple life events is crucial to growing our walk and advancing the journey of our children for Jesus. Ephesians 1:17 says, “that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.” God has not only extended us beautiful spiritual riches. Our Heavenly Father also gifted us with the ability to intimately know Him through Jesus. We can seek and reach God through His Son, allowing us access to the intellect, emotions, and will of God. When we acknowledge and exclaim the beauty in something as simple as a vegetable, we allow ourselves and those around us, in the circle of our influence, to proclaim the majesty of God for themselves and carve a deeper understanding and appreciation for themselves. I believe it causes us to yearn more for our Heavenly Father and His presence in our life, even in the smallest of details. We recognize the abilities and style of God in new and personal ways. On the podcast last week, we discussed the specifics my family worked together to establish in creating our set of “Hitt Family Principles.” The activity held a very special and eternal significance for each of us. It seemed a small task, but brought us together as we prayerfully considered and verbalized what we wanted to use as a template to move our family forward on a united path to God. Establishing such a set of principles is not necessary for a family to grow together in Christ or to have a strong relationship with God, but it is a very intentional move in ensuring that each of us clearly knows and understands what our family believes and how we desire to accomplish specific Christian growth. I bring this activity up again this week because I believe it is also a beautiful and significant exercise for each of us to do individually, as well. Yes, it can be argued that the family principles should be personal principles, as well. However, I expect that any of us who spend time working on such a task with our family would also want to elevate and clearly keep personal goals in the forefront of our mind and heart, as well. Let me pause here and do a recap for those who listened to the podcast last week and give a brief rundown of what we did for anyone who did not listen to last week’s episode. If you would like to listen to the full podcast where I discuss what we did in full, please refer Episode #039 Family With A Mission. My family and I brain-stormed together to design a set of what we call the “Hitt Family Principles.” We used a business model to generate the framework we build for spiritual goals in our relationship with Jesus. We created it to guide and keep us connected with the same purpose in deepening our walk with God and reminding ourselves and others who and what our family stands for as a united group. I will share what we established. Core Value: We strive to live with eternal perspective through Jesus. Vision Statement: To love, trust, honor, and obey Jesus and grow in faith through Him. Mission Statement: Our family strives to honor God, intentionally pursue God, and show love and respect to Him, and others, while remaining obedient to Him. Key Verse: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.” Deuteronomy 6:5 Again, going from how a business usually works to create how they want their business to grow and exist, our family used the same basic framework to pattern the direction of our principles. Let’s begin with the vision statement. It describes what the organization will look like in the future. A mission statement, on the other hand, describes what an organization does, and for whom. How greatly these tools can be used to guide and grow families together in the same, eternal direction! If the vision statement describes what the family will look like in the future, it offers us an opportunity to establish exactly who and how we want to be for Jesus. It gives us the ability to have a clear vision to move forward, enabling us to advance our walk with purpose. How often do we set goals, but fall short because we do not set a clear vision for how to get there? We definitely have a much greater chance of pleasing God with this clear plan in the front of our mind and heart. It serves as a guiding compass straight north to the heart of our Father. Next, is the mission statement. It is used to establish what the family does and for whom, and we know that there is no greater “whom” than the Great I AM! Also shaped at the same time were the core values that completed the statements we created. Core values are what support the vision, shape the culture and reflect what our family values. Our core values also educate others outside our home, those we come into contact with during the course of different days, showing what our family holds dear. The core values also help to clarify the identity of our family, hopefully brightly shining Christ and our desire to be more like Him. We also chose to add a key verse that we each agree sets the heart and tone for our family, as well as for each of us, as individuals. Although we have printed out our set of principles, I am looking for a special way to beautifully display them in our home so that the words, like promises to God, are visible and noticeable for each of us daily. Because constructing the principles together was an enjoyable and blessed activity for each of us, I want to go further in depth with personal principles. Although I have been a Christian for many years, I have never set my heart on a purposed set of standards that I have prayed over and recorded as a guide to deepen my relationship with God. I know in my heart what to do and purposely work toward that goal with intention, yet I want to experience time alone with God to see what He may reveal to me as what He has individually purposed for me. I desire for my family to do the same. Quiet time with God is never wasted, and I wonder what deeper treasures He may offer us in our walk with Him. How much deeper will we know our Heavenly Father through intentioned pursuit in this special, detailed way? Just as some people make new year resolutions, our family usually starts the new year with a word for the year. I love how it causes us to focus with determination on experiencing God in new ways through that word. But now I desire to take that deeper with a set of personal principles. I plan to use the same basic guidelines with finding a private core value, vision, mission, and key verse. How will God work through this? I don’t know yet, but I’m excited and know that I will be blessed to discover what He does. Will He give me words that I will use forever or will He have me change yearly as I continue to progress in my walk with Him? How about you? Let me know if you have already done this and how you set your standards or constructed your personal principles. I urge you to make time to sit with God and let Him guide you in selecting your own set of family and personal principles. I suspect that what I think might be the words and verse I choose may be quite different after prayerful consideration. Who knows what God might lead me to. I’m excited to see and growth in spiritual and personal depth with my Heavenly Father. Luke 2:52 tells us, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.” Jesus, even as a boy, intentionally increased and strengthened His relationship with God in every area: mental, (with His wisdom), spiritual, (with His favor from God), and social, (as He displayed God in every way). Jesus advanced His walk with God daily and purposefully. What a perfect role model we have in Jesus. What a gift God gave us through His Son, His Holy word, and our lifeline of prayer. Developing personal principles seems such a simple action. Jesus always took common and simple aspects of life that should have been obvious to the Jewish people and made short stories, or parables, to teach and reach people as nothing else could. Jesus worked and still works, through divine, but straightforward methods that cause us to pause and ponder, and often be convicted. I pray I am convicted in new ways as I delve into creating this personal set of principles. He looks for those of us with hearts open to seek Him, who desire to be influenced, and changed by Him. As I pray for His guidance and truths to craft a personal principle framework to specifically guide me in new ways, I believe God will unveil new realizations or perceptions to me in unique means specifically tailored for me and where I am in my journey with Him. I am ready for more growth. How about you? Would you join me in seeking Him for a set of personal principles that exist to advance your relationship through Jesus? I would be blessed to hear what you allow God to create through you. Father God, please work through each of us to expose more of what You desire from and through us. Help us to crave you in the way Jesus did. May we allow You to shine in all areas of our life. Please peel away layers of humanity and shine Your holiness through us. Help us to realize daily how far we are from You and may we intentionally advance our dependence on, and wisdom through You. May we honor You with every thought, word, and action and continually find new ways to live with our mind set for eternity with You in ways that are pleasing to You right now. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. If you enjoy this podcast, you might like to hear that the terrihitt.com website launches within the next few days! Please visit and subscribe to be a member so that you gain access to all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, and free resources that will be added to weekly. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. May we all be inspired and equipped to live with an eternal perspective and be influenced to raise children for Jesus, not this momentary world. Did you enjoy this episode? Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Can you think of a friend or family member who might enjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them and take time to leave a quick rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 005 - Battle for Your Child Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #005 – Battle for Your Child Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. On the last Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast episode number 004, we discussed Arming Your Child Spiritually. As I stressed in the episode, we must intentionally mature our walk with Jesus so that He pours from us and fills the heart and mind of our child. Are you aware that there is an unspoken, evil agenda in this world? It’s always been present, but I believe it is more apparent now. Our enemy, the devil roars like a prowling lion seeking whom he can devour. His eyes are on your child . Satan actively engages in battle against your child, and he entices others to desire and make ungodly choices that affect your child and family. 1 Corinthians 16:13 reminds us, “Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. ” We must remember that we are to stand strong in the armor of God , not in our own professed strength. No matter how strong we may be, we are nothing against the enemy, Satan. Thankfully, God didn’t design us to fight our own battles, but to submit to Him along in humble obedience. 1 Peter 5:7 commands, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you .” This world is far from what God originally created for us to live in. His perfect world would have no sin or brokenness. Because we live in a fallen world, we are painfully aware of sin and brokenness. God sees our damaged, defective world and the ugly effects we, and our children suffer. It is imperative that we seek the Father to guide and protect those He has entrusted to our care. When we have a maturing relationship with God, we seek what He desires and we will inherit characteristics from Him that shine the image of our Heavenly Father to our children. We begin to exhale the fragrance of our Lord for our children to inhale. They need us to lead them with the guidance and wisdom only God can provide. He is the source of wisdom and strength we need to pass on to the next generation. As I have shared on Live With Eternal Perspective podcast episode number 110, “Armed for Spiritual Warfare,” one way to do that is by wearing the armor of God. To be armed for warfare, we must stand strong, wearing armor as God has specifically prepared it to be utilized. Have you listened to that episode yet? If so, do you remember that almost all of the pieces of God’s armor are used for offense ? When we wear God’s armor in life, and as we raise our children, we must obediently and intentionally cling to the Lord, growing and deepening our relationship with Him moment by moment as we seek His direction and sovereign understanding to raise the individuals He chose to entrust to us. We humbly trust Him to be our protection and strength instead of floundering hopelessly and ignorantly in our own defense. Our children must see us apply God’s clear, strong offense through accepting His protection and allowing Him to be the voice we teach them to hear and follow . Communication is key. We must let our children know of our trust in and reliance on the Lord for every provision, then live out our profession as a witness for them to emulate as they build their own faith. As they see us allow God to go before our trials and tribulations, as we submit to His work, guidance, and protection in our life as He lovingly carries us through each battle, they are more apt to do the same. This is the example we must mentor to our children so that they learn the blessing of an obedient life and grasp the power of God’s protection plan. God’s armor also carries an important weapon for defense . Scripture tells us in Hebrews 4:12 , “The word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires .” God’s holy word allows us the privilege of strong defense against not only the devil, but this world and our own flesh. Nothing carries the power or wisdom of scripture. Absolutely anything that challenges the word of God will fall short and be exposed in light of His truth . Finally, just as Jesus spent time alone with God, despite His extraordinarily demanding schedule, we must seek the face of our Father. We must allow our children to see that we prioritize time with the Father. As we come to know Him intimately through time spent with Him, we recognize His voice. We seek His wisdom and ways and trust His direction, even when we do not understand. Our child sees the difference our time with God makes in our life. There is a definite assault against our children and the only way to rise above it and protect the heart , mind , and soul of our most precious gifts is to live in step with Jesus and teach them to desire and do the same. I believe that one of the best outcomes of Covid is that the ways this world is after the heart of children was exposed more clearly to parents. Many lived in ignorance of the indoctrination in educational institutions prior to school shut-downs. Even the radical library story hours and topics of paranormal, gender-confused, drug and sex filled books for children and teens that line the shelves of libraries and bookstores have come to light during lock-down. We’ve seen how many churches have altered doctrinal truths to suit what they believe crowds want to hear or what they believe will fill the pews. Unless we know God’s truths through carefully reading and understanding the bible, we are easily swayed or fooled. Parents must stay connected to the issues our children face and are being fed by others, many those we thought we could trust. We must be a godly example our children can rely on for truth and wisdom taught by God alone. Your walk with Jesus and the home life you create are the most important influences your child will have . Parenting is hard . You must strive to stay ahead of what influences the world is creating and thrusting upon your child and hold everything up in comparison to God’s words and instructions. Teach your child to do the same . The Bible is the compass of truth and morality, which will never get old or outdated. God’s holy word will never steer you, or your child wrong. Let’s look at 6 areas of attack parents should be aware of and how the Bible clearly guides us in God’s holy and sovereign wisdom . The bible is just as relevant and practical as it was when it was divinely inspired by our Heavenly Father many years ago. 1. Satan – The roaring lion who seeks whom he can devour delights in planting false teachings and ideas into our world and mind. 2 Corinthians 4:4 says, “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers so they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God .” Do you want your child blinded by the deception of Satan? Or do you want your child living in the fullness a life submitted to God experiences? They must study and understand God’s word in order to know God and desire to please Him. You are the one God selected to lead the way. 2. Culture/Society – One way Satan deceives is through our fleshly, selfish nature. It didn’t take much for the serpent to confuse Eve or convince her that God said something different than what He truly instructed. The devil knows our patterns and ways of life, he recognizes our pride and ego and knows exactly how to tempt and sway us away from the best that God has for us. Unless we are closely walking with the Lord, seeking His face and purpose or desires for us, the interests we pursue, the way we spend our money, or what we are influenced by are all led by what feels good or what others tell us we should want or do. If we do not know or follow God’s moral codes and instructions, we fall victim to what society tells us is right instead of knowing and following God’s holy truths. James 1:13-15 says, “When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when by his own evil desires he is lured away and enticed. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” This world is influenced and corrupted by Satan and fleshly desires. Every area of our life from home to schools and institutions, churches, religions, relationships, gender, literature, movies and music, speech, attire, sanctity of life, marriage, parenting, politics…any area that can be touched has been influenced by the wicked lies of the evil one. While God desires goodness, life, and light for us, Satan destroys and deceives. Galatians 5:16-17 says, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh craves what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are opposed to each other, so that you do not do what you want.” When we do not know God’s word, we do not have the power and godly direction or protection set within our mind to live according to the principles God has established. Our culture calls for us to form our own truths and morals based on what we have experienced, what others tell us, or what feels good or right in the moment. Following our fleshly instincts will lead to disaster and heartache. Step by step, we are deceived and confused, and led farther from God. This will happen to your child unless you purpose to raise them knowing God’s truth, so they will recognize evil and deceit. Teach your child God’s love for him and study His word together, explaining scripture and weaving God’s truths and morals into everyday living. Use godly morals with daily occurrences and make sure you live up to the standards you are teaching your child to obey. 3. Parental – Because we can easily revert to parenting according to what we have experienced, what others instruct us to do, how we were raised, or what seems to be the easiest, instead of seeking the leading of the Holy Spirit’s guidance and protection for each individual child, our children eventually look to what the world says and teaches to be their guideline of absolute truth. Without a godly moral compass built within them through intimate relationship with Jesus, our child will always lead opposite of the truths God has established because that is the way our world operates. Satan seeks to destroy your child and family. He will utilize enticements that have worked throughout the course of history. Prideful and deceitful, the devil knows his time is short. He seeks to carry as many as possible with him straight into darkness. Our minds are easily influenced by what is easy and appealing, such as trying to be a best friend to our child, or presenting gifts and opportunities we never instead of teaching them of our perfect Creator who cherishes them with an everlasting love that will perfectly fill them. Satan’s influence in this world through those who do not follow God or who meekly sit in ignorance of God or in lukewarm relationships devoid of the knowledge of truth, grooms our children for disaster. Unless we know and humbly seek God’s word for wisdom, insight, and guidance, we fall to the low estimation and expectations of the deceiver, meekly and ignorantly allowing him governance over the mind and life of our child. Deuteronomy 6:6-8 says, “These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates .” Another area where we fail our children is accepting old sayings such as, “they’re just being a teen,” or “they all go through that,” as we look at what society and culture offers our children in light of what God desires for them. Our children can absolutely be raised “set-apart” and do not have to follow the societal limitations allowed through history. God desires so much more for your child. So should you. Philippians 4:6-8 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.” Imagine the godly qualities your Heavenly Father desires for each of your children. Make a list, petition the Lord to add or subtract from it and carry it to Him with prayers that honor Him and allow you to raise the children He has loaned to you for such a time as this. 4. Self-worth – Now that you understand there is a battle for the mind and the soul of your children, what are you going to do? Not only is your child fed lies about what God thinks of them, but also about what He calls for them. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 says, “For though we live in the flesh, we do not wage war according to the flesh. The weapons of our warfare are not the weapons of the world. Instead, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We tear down arguments and every presumption set up against the knowledge of God; and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Our culture seeks to influence parents and children with lies that we can be and do all that we want, even change the sex God implanted at conception. Instead, we should be convinced of, and teach our children to seek what desires, strengths, talents, and gifts God has crafted into them. Society influences the way we look at our faces, figures, and minds through advertisements, publications, movies, books, and music, twisting truth and implanting lies and impossibilities that tear our children down and instill confusion. The last two years have pitted God’s children against each other, with culture causing problems with about skin tone and superiority. God purposed to make each of us unique and beautiful. In His eyes no one is higher or lower than another. God created the uniqueness of varying skin colors and hair types, just as He made different eye colors, heights, and bone structures. The Creator of the Universe desired variety . In His eyes, we are all beautiful. We are all worthy. 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or height, for I have rejected him; the Lord does not see as man does. For man sees the outward appearance, but the Lord sees the heart .” We must teach our children to seek God’s word to learn on how to view others, as well as himself. Our children must know that what they think, what others say, what society or media preaches, or what their friends tell them are simply worldly opinions biased by fleshly desires, failings, sin, and corruption. Only the word of God will truthfully guide them. God created each person purposely with a loving hand, eye, and heart that specifically wanted them uniquely as they are. In fact, God views them as a one-of-a-kind masterpiece. It is our responsibility to guide our children to be exactly what God desires for them and to teach them to seek and want that, as well. 5. Attitude/Speech – Jesus taught that character, which springs from the condition of our heart, matters more than any spiritual act or word we utter. It is vitally important that we conduct our lives in a way that models godly character qualities for our children. When we possess (and teach them to carry) love for Jesus, confidence through who He says we are, generosity, compassion, honesty, integrity, resiliency, and gratitude despite circumstances, our children are mentored in the values that lead to eternal perspective and fullness of life. Psalm 49:13 says, “My mouth will impart wisdom, and the meditation of my heart will bring understanding.” Speech is another area in which we must remember that God created us with two ears and one mouth. We must learn to listen more than we speak and when we use our tongue, use it with the modest and honest submission God calls for us to carry. Our children will likely become what they see and hear. How do you expect your child to be living 5 years from now? James 3:9-12 says, “With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, this should not be! Can both fresh water and saltwater flow from the same spring? My brothers, can a fig tree grow olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.” Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen .” Psalm 141:3-4 says, “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch at the door of my lips. Do not let my heart be drawn to any evil thing or take part in works of wickedness with men who do iniquity; let me not feast on their delicacies .” 6. Calling – One of the deep joys of parenting comes from watching and knowing our child; interests and talents are usually exposed when children are young. How wonderful it is that we are entrusted by God to help our child discover what He calls for them in life. Why did He create them just as He did? What can they do to bring honor and glory to God in their lifetime? Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own.” It is our responsibility to help our child seek the very heart of God to see where He will lead and guide them in the world. Direct and pray with them. Serve with your child. Be at the feet with your children. 1 Peter 4:10-11 says, “As good stewards of the manifold grace of God, each of you should use whatever gift he has received to serve one another. If anyone speaks, he should speak as one conveying the words of God. If anyone serves, he should serve with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen .” Life is not about us. God doesn’t desire for our children to seek fleshly recognition or fame. Teach your child to find what He is purposed to do in this world to honor God and use the life he has been given for the glory of Jesus, instead of selfish ambition that fades away and leaves him empty. We must know and show God in order for our child to seek Him. One of the most loving acts we can offer our child is to obediently love God so wholly that our child experiences Him fully through our life and they seek Him for themselves because they desire what we are experiencing. Today we have talked about the ways we can battle for and prepare our child to withstand the battles of this world and be equipped by God to lead lives that honor and obey Him. We see that the true way to battle for them is to be equipped by the armor of God and teach them to rely on Him. Remember the offensive piece we discussed earlier? Prayer. On the next episode of Purposed Parent/Connected Child, we will list specific prayers that will enable you to bring your child to the feet of Jesus so you will both be able to stand against the wicked schemes of Satan, flesh, and this world. Dear Heavenly Father, we praise You for all that You are and call us to be. Help us to live in ways that honor and please You. Enable us to mentor our children as You desire. May we so love and obey You that our children cannot help but seek and find You. God, we humbly ask that you protect our children from the evil desires and influences of this world. We pray that You guide us in the ways we need to bring our children to a good and strong knowledge of and love for You. Battle for us. Encourage us in Your ways. We need You Father, and so do our precious children. Thank you for entrusting them to us for this time. May we please You in our decisions for them and guidance of them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

If you're a good mom who desires to become a godly mom and raise kids to chase Christ over culture, you've found the right place. You think you have to be a GOOD mom... You heap pressure on yourself, You worry about your children's futures... The truth is... You need to STOP striving for what the WORLD defines as a GOOD mom... and be transformed... into a GODLY mom resting and abiding in the Father's arms. I can equip you in the Way to live and parent through Him. GOD IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS Our Heavenly Father reveals Himself in the Old Testament and the New Testament. God sacrificed His one and only Son, Jesus, to take away the sins of the world. Jesus died and rose again so that we may live in hope and not in fear. Our eternities are secure when we put our trust in Him. CHRIST OVER CULTURE Because God has given us an everlasting life with Him, our responsibility is to love and honor Him. We do this by bearing spiritual fruit. Therefore, we do not follow a secular culture because we follow Christ. We aren't perfect, but we are daughters of a perfect King that offers peace and clarity. YOU HAVE BEEN ENTRUSTED Your children are on loan. God has entrusted you for this time. To lead them to Him. Look past the "now" (the right crib, the right school, our kids' time on earth) - so you can focus on eternity. Ask, seek, and find the answers to, "how can I use the time I'm given to show my kids The Way... instead of the world?" Values Values Values Values Are you ready to have a Christian group of moms and a mentor to do life with? FILL OUT YOUR APPLICATION MEET YOUR GODLY MOTHERHOOD MENTOR! Terri I'm a mom of four who raised my children in two “sets.” My first two kids were born in the late 70's and early 90's. Fast forward to the 21st century, and I'm raising my second "set" of kids with my high school sweetheart. Through trials (losing my firstborn, seeing my children struggle with a secular culture), and triumphs (leading my younger and older kids to Christ, mentoring mothers), God has given me a one-of-a-kind parenting perspective. I am dedicated to mentoring you because... I don't want you to go through the same struggles that I went through. It's possible to have peace and joy in motherhood, all while having a strong connection with your kids. I am here to remind you that You are chosen by God to parent the children He entrusts to you. You yearn to develop a close bond with your children so desperately! But you may not know how to do so in ways that honor Christ . You spend their time trying to be a good mom - and end up following the world instead of the Way. God commands us to be godly moms. I can show you the difference. One of the hardest aspects of parenting is making sure you don't "mess our kids up." You feel like society is making your job more difficult . 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< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 098 - The Holy Role of Parental Authority - Who Sets the Guidelines in Your Home Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 098 – The Holy Role of Parental Authority - Who Sets the Guidelines in Your Home? Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast deepens your walk with Jesus and your children, and equips you to become a set-apart woman raising children to chase Christ over culture. When we brought our youngest daughter home from China, she was nine years old. For most of her time in the orphanage, she was isolated from speaking to or eating with others. This was because they kept her in a smaller than American porta-crib in what was called, “the crib room.” During this time, she was also harboring ear infections that deteriorated her congenitally small bones and nerves. Because a urine bacteria microbe festered untreated for nine years in her ears (on top of other health issues), we’ve been told more than once what a miracle it is that she is still alive. Sadly, this is only a small portion of her story. It's said that the most difficult language to learn is Mandarin Chinese because of the linguistics, complex characters, and tones used. Our precious daughter was not exposed to enough Mandarin or any language to learn it. When she came to the United States, she had several medical issues that needed to be taken care of as quickly as possible, and one of them was her ear infections. After finding out which antibiotic to use from the Mayo Clinic, we ere able to finally rid her body of bacteria that had festered for years on top on oral infections and a severe heart condition. Again, she truly is a miracle. Once she had ear reconstructive surgery, she was able to hear better, but then after receiving hearing aids, her ability to hear and produce speech was much improved. She still doesn’t have wonderful hearing, but I am amazed at how much she was able to learn by sheer perseverance and the blessings of God, good medical care, and technology. Her favorite period of history is pioneer times, but I’m thankful that she lives now - in the 21stcentury, so she can receive the medical care she needs. Why do I share this bit of her medical history? I believe it’s interesting because of the amount of words in our English language. Can you imagine suddenly being immersed in another language? Whether it be English or Mandarin, not many of us have been forced to move out of the only environment we know and fully jump into another culture and language. The amount of words, slang, sentence structure, punctuation, and all that goes into communication would make that jump overwhelming for most of us. It is reported that there are approximately 170,000 English words currently in use with around 47,000 obsolete words. That’s so many, yet I still thought there were much more. However, it is noted that there are around 600,000 definitions published in the Oxford English Dictionary. I’m sure that includes more words no longer in use or perhaps even slang that wasn’t included in the “real word” count. As you may know from listening to this podcast, I love to look at definitions. One I want to share today is simple, but interesting and powerful. It’s the meaning of the word authority. “The English definition is, “a power or right delegated or given; or authorization.” Remember that definition. Now here’s where I think this gets more interesting. There are two words used in modern Hebrew for the word “authority .” First, let me remind you that I’m not an expert in Hebrew, so my pronunciation may be awful, but please forgive that and focus on the meanings I’m sharing. Both Hebrew words are said to have originated from the Bible. Sahm-khoot is used more commonly and means, “placement .” Lees-mohkh means to “rely upon .” Let’s review. We have the English definition of authority meaning “a power or right delegated or given .” We also have the Hebrew word meaning, “placement .” The other Hebrew meaning is, “rely upon .” Why do I find these words so intriguing? When you think of parenting, remember God purposed the children you have to you for this very season . The maker of heaven and earth and all people chose you and issued authority to you over His children . Deuteronomy 11:18-20 says, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates .” As you ponder the various meanings of authority in English and Hebrew, you see God’s intentionality. Your Heavenly Father delegated His precious children to you . He placed them in your care, giving you the power and rights to raise them to know and love Him . He relies upon you to do so, and in return those children rely upon you to make godly, loving choices as they rest in your care. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and even when he is old he will not depart from it .” As you think of the power and privilege God has bestowed upon you to parent His children, consider these four questions: 1. Do you set the expectations and rules in your home or does God? 2. What influences do you allow to affect your children? 3. Are you following worldly values? 4. What guidelines are you using to evaluate your answers? Let’s start with the first question. Do you set the expectations and rules in your home or does God ? As you evaluate your home, meaning your lifestyle, personal desires, and choices think about what is currently happening. Think about what is going on in your personal life and the life of your home. How would God view those events and innermost thoughts? Think about the way you live, the activities you pursue, and the words you use. Do they honor God? Or do you and your family members cause God to mourn as He watches your daily activities? Is God the one in charge of what transpires in your home ? Or are you and your family furiously moving from activity to event that you barely have time to talk to each other, let alone make time to know God intimately? Do you and your husband purposely teach your children to seek God first? Does your family know God’s desires and the way He would guide you to live and act because you study His Word together? Do you or your husband impose rules on your children because of expectations set on you as children? Or are you seeking God first and asking Him to parent through you? Are you praying for God to reveal the purposes He set in your children so you can teach them God’s Truths and help them find His purposes for their lives? Questions two and three go well together, so we’ll consider both of them now: What influences do you allow to affect your children? Are you following worldly or biblical values? As you continue to evaluate your home life and the people God has purposed as your family, can you see what influences are attracting and affecting your family? Are you aware of them in day to day life? Or are you neglecting to safeguard your children from the cultural and societal effects of this world? Do your children set family expectations because you’re lenient in monitoring devices and activities? Or do you or your spouse find inspiration and direction from God’s Word and set godly authority in your home? Are you ignorantly chasing the world’s standards to dictate your parenting style? Or do you proactively learn about shifting trends and potential dangers so you don’t let them into your home? Proverb 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight. ” Now, our last question: What guideline are you using to evaluate your answers? Do you understand the difference between godly values and those of the world? Do you think the phrase “of this world ” is outdated? Do you strive to continue studying God’s Word so His Truths are foremost in your mind with your relations and in your communication with your spouse and children? Does God’s Word set the standard for how you discipline and raise your children? Do His truths build the behaviors and actions between you and your spouse? 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work .” Is the Bible your source of Truth and direction? Is God’s holy Word what you rely on for protection and provision as you seek and follow His ways and truths? Do you teach them to your children? I know these are a lot of questions. They all stem from the four I originally asked. But each is so important for digging deep to evaluate where your heart and mind reside. Make time to consider your answers. Learn where you need to work and ask the Holy Spirit to do a good work in you and your spouse. You may want to look at the transcript of this episode after listening so you can read the questions again. Allow yourself time with God so you will hear Him speak to areas He may be calling you to release to Him. If you find places where He is speaking in your heart, be thankful, not ashamed. Know that God forgives a repentant heart and desires to cradle you in His capable arms and keep you and your precious family in alignment with His will and purposes for you. It is then that you will experience true freedom and joy that will last into eternity. Dear God, You alone are the Good Father. We thank you for Your everlasting love. Thank you for generously offering us all we need to live lives that reflect You and carry great purpose and love. Please help us to establish Your guidelines of Holy Authority in our home. May we seek You first in all things, especially our personal lives so that we inhale and exhale You to our children and spouse. Please cause us to be aware of the subtle ways we neglect You. Help us recognize the times we fail to seize opportunities you have given us to deepen our walk with You or lead our children to Your arms. Equip us to stand in bold declaration that we will make time for You regularly and help us do it. Help our lives match what our lips profess and help our children to be even closer to You because we are purposeful in leading them to the feet of Jesus. It is in His precious name we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with professionals who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 036 - Knowing When to Rest Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #036 – Knowing When to Rest This past week has been beautifully exhausting. My middle daughter, the one God used to move my husband and I into a second season of parenting, graduated from high school. Just today I was working in our homeschool room and found the file folder I used for her kindergarten curriculum receipts. How can it be that she has now graduated from high school? I just started teaching her what seems like a few years ago! Mothers, time flies faster than people warn you! That’s why reason it is especially important to be intentional about parenting. Parenting your child with a godly mindset and lifestyle will be one of the easiest decisions you will ever make. However, planning how to do it and carrying that plan out are some of the hardest choices and actions you will ever make. At every chance, the world will throw you curves. The Bible warns us that the devil prowls looking for whom he can devour. Time with your precious children is short! Even if they don’t know it yet, they are counting on you to grow your walk with Christ and steady them in this world. I knew from parenting one set of children that the time with them would pass much more quickly than I would desire. How can it be that it seemed to go even faster this second time around? People tried to make us feel old when we professed that God was calling us to bring our precious baby home from China when we were 44 years old. Even some family members tried to convince us that it was not a good idea. Later we found out it was because they had their own struggles and/or fears that they needed to move through. Following God to bring our girl home was one of the biggest steps of faith my husband and I had taken together. We knew with total certainty that God was calling us to China and we knew that the sweet baby He said was ours was a gift that would bring eternal blessings now and into eternity. We were so right. We knew God was calling us on a mission of faith that would take our relationship with Him deeper than it had been before. Faith is not a word. Faith is not a feeling. Faith is action. Faith is moving with trust. Faith is believing in the Savior with a blind love that enables you to move without bravery or fear because you lock your gaze and place your hope above . Faith is what brought us two of the biggest gifts of our lives. A more mature walk with our Savior and a precious daughter He brought all the way from around the world. Our graduate has been such a gift . When God formed her inmost being and knit her together in her birthmother’s womb, He created all those delicate inner parts to perfectly fit into the grafting that would take place into our family. The intricacy of her limbs shaped like mine, her talents, interests, grace, loving nature, everything He pressed into her fits perfectly with us. With God there are no mistakes. I am forever grateful that the God of the Universe created me to begin parenting again when I thought my journey was complete. I’m thankful He knows so much more than I, the girl who never even thought she would be a mother to one child, let alone four. I’m thankful He entrusted me with His children, and even though I didn’t understand the importance of living with an eternal perspective at the ever-growing depth I do now, or where I hope He will take me, He still allowed me to be the one impressing values and character into those He holds so dear. Mothers, you stand in the same place. Our stories may be different, but our God is the same. He is allowing you the privilege of raising His children. Will you fulfill His deep desire and expectation that you raise them for Him? The purpose of the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is to encourage and equip you (and me) to raise children to know, love, hear, and obey Jesus. My heart is so tender for this mission. I deeply desire to use my skills to help you to have such a strong relationship with God through Christ that He flows from you into your children. This summer I am developing a special Set-Apart Woman/ Set-Apart Mom Collective. I’m excited to share details as soon as I can. I’m also launching one-on-one and group coaching to help you move from one goal to the next to enable you to be a set-apart woman raising set-apart kids. Together, we can raise children who know and honor God. Children who crave Christ over culture and walk against what society thinks a “typical teen” should do or be like. Remember, there are no “typical teens.” It breaks my heart when people experience difficulties and believe that children must go through certain hardships as they develop. With God as your resting place, my hope is that your children will not be typical, but atypical, as they conform to His image and not the image of the world. Am I saying they will be perfect and life will be, too? No. Because the sin within the fallen world will penetrate your home and children in some way. My hope and prayer is that you will be equipped and guarded for those times through your rested purpose through Jesus so that the effects of culture and sin are light and you are mightily equipped through the Lord. If you’d like more information, please feel free to connect with me at info@terrihitt.com . I have been writing and releasing podcasts since 2020. That’s a lot of content! During the coming summer months, my format for the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast and the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcasts may look lighter. I may use replays of older episodes at times. It is my goal that you will receive value, despite the content of both podcasts being a little different or shorter at times. While I am working on the collective, I must ensure that I set a pace that honors my family and my Father. At my age, I’ve learned to seek rest, knowing that I can pace myself before I get exhausted as I look to Jesus to guide and carry me. I hope I can mentor that skill to you as you raise children who bring you joy and peace through the journey. Mothers, on those days you are exhausted, overwhelmed, cranky, or burdened, seek Him. When you think you don’t have time to put aside for the Father, I hope you will use that as a signal to remind you to stop and run to Him. Sit at His feet and delight in His Word. Ask for His guidance and let His sweet spirit be a balm that soothes and protects you, enabling you to meet the needs of your family and self. His desire is not for you to be overwhelmed by the world, but to be overjoyed through Him. Proverbs 4:5-9 says, “Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them. Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding. Cherish her, and she will exalt you; embrace her, and she will honor you. She will give you a garland to grace your head and present you with a glorious crown .” Seek Him above all things. Allow God to shape your character, mindset, opinions, decisions, marriage, and parenting. He alone can remove pride, fear, and other insecurities or failures you may have. His desire is that you rely fully on Him and allow Him to transform you into the woman He created you to be. He desires that you allow Him to parent through you. He desires you to rest. Abide in Him. Do you know when to rest? Before you realize you need Him, seek Him. Each day brings the opportunity to decide to rest in Him. His capable arms are waiting to carry you. Dear Heavenly Father, may Your voice be the one we hear the loudest. We thank you for all You are, for all You have been, and all You will be in our lives and the lives of our children. May we always seek You first and mentor the way to do so to our children. Enable us to follow You with hearts that seek Your purity, love, peace, and joy. Equip us to rest in You before we are overwhelmed. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. This and my “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts may also now be found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? Did you know that when you review my podcasts on Apple, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcasts online so that more people are allowed to find and hear them. Will you please take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will sway them away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Parent and Connect With Eternal Perspective. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 006 - Prayers for the Battle Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #006 – Prayers for the Battle Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. On the last Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast episode number 005, we discussed what is means to battle for your child. At the end of the episode, I promised that on the next episode we would discuss specific prayers to equip you in the battle. This episode is rich with scriptural prayers you may use as templates for prayers you are led to offer. Remember, first you must know and show God in order for your child to form a desire to seek Him. One of the most loving acts you can offer your children is to obediently love God so wholly that your child experiences Him fully through your life and realize they must seek Him for themselves. Your child must see the faith life you experience and want the same relationship with their Heavenly Father. Prayer is one of the most important elements that will guide your child to Him. As I always emphasize, we must regularly read God’s word to know Him and grow in Him. We must also intimately communicate with our Heavenly Father through the gift of prayer , through speaking and listening. Prayer is not just muttering words to God and going on our day. It is a sacred, personal time with the Creator of the universe, our holy Heavenly Father. As God’s word teaches us, prayer is the offense we must use in the armor God has created for us. Prayer enables you to guide your child to the feet of Jesus, where you will both be able to stand against the wicked schemes of Satan, flesh, and this world. Our children must know that we trust in and rely on the Lord for every provision. They should see us live out our profession of faith so they may emulate it as they build their own faith. As they see us allow God to go before our trials and tribulations, see us submit to His work , guidance , and protection in our life as He lovingly carries us through each battle, they are more apt to do the same. This is the example we must mentor to our children so that they learn the blessing of an obedient life and grasp the power of God’s protection plan. Our children must see us apply God’s clear, strong offense of prayer through requesting and accepting His provisions and protection . They must witness us allowing Him to be the voice we seek and respond to. We must teach them to hear and follow their Heavenly Father and to make the faith we have taught to them their own . What are 5 key steps you must take to prayerfully release your child to God? 1. Teach your child to seek Jesus . A child can learn to find peace in the presence of Jesus and mature His relationship for a lifetime when he sees you live it in front of him. Teach your child to rest in Him because you do. 2. Pray for your child more than you make “purchases” for him . Children today have everything! But do they have Jesus residing within them? Let your child know how important a personal relationship with Jesus is because you have a maturing one, too. 3. Trust God to develop the faith you plant in your child . God cannot lie. There is only truth within Him. God assures us that He wants relationship with us. He loves your child more than you do and has a plan and purpose for each of your specific and unique children. 4. Surrender everything to God and teach your child to so the same . Let your child know you trust God by praying with and for your child. Teach them to pray for you. Openly discuss how you release cares and concerns to God and prove it by praying with them and living as one who trusts that God has matters in His control. Praise God no matter the answer to your prayers. God has His own timetable and knows the answers that will bring glory to His name. 5. Depend on God for the future of your child . As you go before situations in prayer, speaking God’s word and growing in the Lord in every way, trust that He is working all things for good. Remain steadfast in growing your faith and your prayers. Sometimes answers take a lifetime; sometimes we are unable to see the answers in our lifetime. Always remember to pray in accordance with God’s wills and desires, just as Jesus did, and submit to what He allows. Psalm 145:17-19 says, “The Lord is righteous in all His ways and kind in all His deeds. The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call out to Him in truth. He fulfills the desires of those who fear Him; He hears their cry and saves them .” Prayer works, but doesn’t always bring the answer or timing we hoped for. Scripture tells us in Hebrews 4:12 , “The word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires .” Nothing else carries this power or wisdom of God’s word. Let’s use it now to transform God’s holy word into powerful prayers for the purpose of guarding and guiding the lives of our children and humbly releasing them into the wise and loving hands of God. In the last episode, I spoke of 6 areas parents need to be aware of as they raise their children. Let’s look at bible verses for each topic area and how to use purposed scripture in ways that allow you to pray in accordance with His will. 1. Satan - 2 Corinthians 4:4 says, “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers so they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God .” Dear God, thank you that You are my perfect guide and loving Father. I know the god of this age works to blind the minds of unbelievers, causing them to miss the light of the gospel and the glory of Jesus. Help me to be a lover of You and a parent who shines Your light and glory to my children. Let them see You exhibited so brightly that they cannot ignore Your presence and direction. May they draw near to You by what they see in me so You will draw near to them. Help them be a light for Your glory that enables others to see Your image. 2. Culture/society - Galatians 5:16-17 says, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh craves what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are opposed to each other, so that you do not do what you want.” Dear Heavenly Father, You call me to walk in the Spirit, but my flesh craves the opposite. Your truth tells me that by walking with You, I will not gratify the desires my flesh wants. My earthly body is in opposition to what You call. You walk in and only desire truth. Please enable me to please only You and walk in desires of the Spirit as I mentor my child to do the same. Cause them to crave Your desires and seek Your ways and truths. 3. Parental - Deuteronomy 6:6-8 says, “These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates .” Gracious Loving Father, You command me to keep Your words upon my heart. Strike my heart with a thirst for Your word that extends to my children. You require me to teach Your truths diligently to my children and request that I speak of them whether I am at home or on the road, when I lie down and when I get up. You teach me to seek You at all times, remember Your words, and enable my children to do the same. Help me remember Your words and to exhibit You and Your scripture so beautifully in my life that my children speak of You and follow you at home, on the road, when they lie down, and when they get up. Fill them with a desire for more of You and the obedience to follow where You call. 4. Self-worth - 1 Samuel 16:7 says, “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or height, for I have rejected him; the Lord does not see as man does. For man sees the outward appearance, but the Lord sees the heart .” Dear Father God, my fleshly eyes see more of the outward appearance of man at first glance, instead of the way You view each one of us, Your precious creation. Help me to see others as You do, but also to view myself through Your eyes and heart. Enable me to teach my children to value themselves and others through Your lens of truth. May my children release earthly opinions and selfish ambition and see with eyes of Truth the purposed way You have created them. May their heart continually mature to seek Yours and transform more and more into the image You set for them daily. 5. Attitude/Speech - Psalm 49:13 says, “My mouth will impart wisdom, and the meditation of my heart will bring understanding.” Father God, I thank you for Your mighty truth and holiness. May I continue to become more Christlike moment by moment and shine You for my children to view and follow me daily. May my words, actions, and reactions bring them to You and may them mirror the heart, thoughts, words, and attitude You call for them. Please give them Your wisdom because they seek You first and desire to know You in intimate and maturing ways that are pleasing to You. 6. Calling - Matthew 6:33-34 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own.” Gracious, Loving Heavenly Father. There is none like You. You bring light and life into my existence, shower me with goodness and joy when I humbly follow You. Teach my children through me, show them Your love and grace. Allow me to lead them to Your arms and expose Your heart through me. May they seek You and Your ways without worry as they walk in close relationship with You. Allow them to find the purpose You have crafted within them. May they believe what You say about them through Your holy word and strive to follow what You lead them to be. May they have an intimate connection with You and humbly submit to Your purposes for them with joy as they follow You day by day. Although these prayers are basic, I hope they help you better see the way to pray scripture, kneeling before God with petitions in ways that honor and bring glory to our Heavenly Father. Just as Jesus prayed, we must give honor to God in the beginning of our prayers as we walk into the presence of the Lord with a humble spirit. Since prayers are so intimate, and for the sake of time in this episode, I have not created true beginnings into the prayers during this podcast. Also, I have not added endings to them, but please feel free to use these prayers to craft your own beautiful prayers. I pray that you find deep joy in your time before the Father and see Him work in wondrous ways because of the specific and honoring prayers you humbly offer to Him. Matthew 5:14-16 says, “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a basket. Instead, they set it on a stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” We must allow the light of God to be what shines for all to see in our life. Followers of Christ must live on guard. We cannot let anything separate us from our Source of Light, or allow anyone to mistake His shining light for our strength. The light abiding within us shines brightly to attract others to Jesus. In another way, I see this verse as a beautiful reminder to me that I must allow Christ to pour out of me so that my children see Him within me. May they be amazed daily at the way I am transformed and may they see and remember that I always turn the praise and glory to Jesus so that they will do the same in their own life. Dear Heavenly Father, You are so gracious, loving, and kind. There is none like You, Great I Am. Thank you for Your provisions for us, Your sacrificial love for us. Thank you for the gift of the children You have purposed for and to us. Your beautiful plans are brighter and better than we can ever imagine. Thank you for entrusting the life of another into our care. May we please You with every step we take. May we move toward You in our own life and in the way we show and shine You to our children. Father, I pray we each desire You more deeply daily and our children do the vary same. May we please You with the intentions of our heart and the actions we take. May our speech praise You and our actions glorify You. Please care for our children through Your great hands. May they clearly see You and be drawn to You through what we make known to them in the way we live and teach them about You. Father, cut off the vines that are useless and prune us to make us more useful and pleasing to You. May our children live in ways that are closer to You and joyful to You because of it. May they give You great joy and pleasure because we have relied on You to show the way to their heart and bring them to their knees before You in humble and grateful love and obedience. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. If you enjoyed this episode, I suggest listening to my “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast episodes on Prayer and Praying Scripture. You can easily find them at terrihitt.com. You may appreciate Episode 18 – “Prayer,” episodes 63-65 on “Praying Scripture,” and Episode 66, “Praying Scripture with Children.” Click on the podcast page and type the episode you are looking for in the search bar at the top of the page. You can also look for “Prayers for My Child,” an ebook available on the website on the “Resources” page designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through prayer. This book continues many more scripturally-based prayers and you’re welcome to access it at no charge as a gift from me. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 035 - Should Your Child's Conscience Be the Guide? Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #035 – Should Your Child’s Conscience Be the Guide? I did so many things I shouldn’t have done when I was a child. My goodness! I was very mature for my age and carried responsibilities I shouldn’t have had to shoulder, but when I look back at my largely unsupervised childhood, I see so many things I wish I had done differently. Yet I was just a child who didn’t know better. When I compare my childhood to the way I raised two sets of children, I see even more clearly how important it is for children to have supervision and direction as they grow up. Most importantly, godly instruction. If you are a working mom listening to this episode, I ask you to prayerfully consider the type of care your children receive while you are away. I promise this is not intended to make you feel guilty or cause turmoil in your life. I worked outside the home when I raised my first set of children. However, I do want to caution you to be proactive and consider that children are just that – kids. They need godly adult guidance to show them the way to act and respond and to keep them protected. So many things happen when adults aren’t around to supervise and guide decisions children are faced with. When I was growing up in the 60’s and 70’s, the world was considered a lot safer than it is now. The world wasn’t accessible through a keyboard or phone. We were able to play outside all day without parents worrying unless we didn’t come in by dark. There weren’t sexualized pressures like today and generally speaking, most children were free to be kids who followed imagination and adventure. Some of my best memories are highlighted by time spent outside riding my bicycle, playing in the woods, creating forts and clubs, and using creativity. By the time I began raising my first two children, the world had changed some, but children could still play outside for hours without anyone thinking something had happened to them. The personal computer was introduced into homes during their lifetime, but it wasn’t as easily accessed as it is today. Their lives were affected by the internet, but not during younger years. Now that I am raising my second set of children, everything has changed. My children didn’t grow up with the freedom to roam outdoors for hours. We’ve certainly discovered the dangers of internet accessibility. All children can be very easily influenced by many forms of media and advertisers. Even though my last two have been homeschooled, interactions through activities, events, jobs, and friends still allow the dangers of the 21stcentury to penetrate the walls of our home. It’s called life. We can’t keep the wolf from roaming the world, but as parents, we can work to keep it from harming our children. All this is to say that children are influenced by a multitude of means. Each time one of them penetrates their mind and heart, it shapes thoughts, actions, reactions, words, feelings, and emotions. Many people use these feelings or instincts formed by experiences and emotions to guide them through what they call their conscience. The dictionary defines conscience as “an inward sensibility of wrongdoing .” I do believe that God places a special knowledge of Himself within us, and we will talk more about that, but without directly seeking Christ and following God to discover Him, His will and ways, and His desires for them, your children will freely choose to follow the world that directly affects them. The world, or culture, and the distractions, influences, deceit, and sins will be what shapes your child the most. Romans 9:1 says, “I am speaking the truth in Christ—I am not lying; my conscience bears me witness in the Holy Spirit -.” Human beings are created with an instinctive knowledge of right and wrong. That inner sense, however, might produce a sense of wrong at first, but if left ignored, becomes quieter until it is imperceptible. What people experience or feel in this world shapes and deceives. Even when one listens to the inner warning of guilt or conviction, our minds are bombarded with so much garbage, so many deceitful images and messages that we must always measure what we feel against Scripture, which is God’s truth. This is what you must teach your child to do. Romans 1:18-21 says, “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them . For His invisible attributes, namely, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. For although they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks to Him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened .” In this passage we see that God has sovereignly and mercifully ingrained proof of His existence in each human being. As the verse says, “what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them .” Whether or not each person acknowledges what God has implanted is free will and choice, also given by God. Every person, which includes your children, have knowledge of God alive inside them. They may not recognize that what they hear or feel is from and of God, yet He is made manifest to them. Some call this inner sense their conscience, yet whoever does not acknowledge, accept, and act in obedience to God is addressed in the following passage of verses. Romans 1:28-32 says, “And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done . They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them .” As this passage shows, those who “did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done .” Although God places a sense of right and wrong within each person, they will not heed His warnings unless they submit to Him. Your child cannot make a lifetime of consistent choices to live in submission and obedience to God unless they decide to follow Christ in humble relationship. Then they will recognize Him because they know Him through His Word. In order for the conscience of your child to work as God has designed it to, you must intentionally mentor the heart and mind of your child to submit to Christ and follow God’s Holy Word. The Bible is the only source of truth and contains godly wisdom that builds holy strength reliant on Christ . Wisdom derived from the mind of your child (or any earthly wisdom) will be self-centered, limited to the wisdom of man (which is poisoned by unsanctified hearts), and led by the devil’s devices. What is the best way to ensure your child heeds the will of God and submits to His leadings? Relationship. With you and Christ. The time with your child is gifted by God with the purpose of making Him known to your child. Daily, loving instruction and mentorship as your child sees you live a life devoted and submitted to following the voice and Word of God, and Bible study and prayer with your child in the home are key. Your lifestyle and walk with Christ are what will impact your child the most. Your training and mentorship must be purposed and consistent . Do not simply rely on church or youth groups to build the foundation you are privileged to supervise as a blessing from God. Romans 2:12-16 says, “For all who have sinned without the law will also perish without the law, and all who have sinned under the law will be judged by the law. For it is not the hearers of the law who are righteous before God, but the doers of the law who will be justified. For when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by nature do what the law requires, they are a law to themselves, even though they do not have the law. They show that the work of the law is written on their hearts, while their conscience also bears witness, and their conflicting thoughts accuse or even excuse them on that day when, according to my gospel, God judges the secrets of men by Christ Jesus .” Don’t let the childhood of your children be wasted by following the world. View your time with them with a holy reverence. If your children are already older and you fear time is short because they aren’t walking with the Lord, do not give up. It’s never too late to influence your child for Christ. Your godly lifestyle may not be evident to them quickly, but you may still remain prayerful for them and continue to show them Christ at work within you. Dear Heavenly Father, we are nothing without You. May you fill us more completely each day. Enable us to continue to submit to Your callings, Your truths, Your Words, and Your desires. Please allow our children to see You clearly through us and correct mistakes we have made so that our children see, trust, and pursue You with gladness and humility. Help them to listen to Your voice in this noisy world and never let a conscience altered by the deceit of this world to guide them. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” podcast. 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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 007 - Parenting Styles Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #007 – Parenting Styles Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Eighteen years ago my husband and I were leaving the local library when the most adorable little Asian boy of about 3 or 4 years old held open the door for us and waved as we passed through. Why do I remember this particular snapshot in time so well? This child represented the beginning of a special unfolding journey of obedience and a step back into parenting after raising two children. After leaving the library, my husband and I compared stories, and found that God had been speaking to me through a vision at the very time He did the same thing with my husband. We knew God was telling both of us that we had a daughter in China. One of the first things we did (after praying together daily for God to guide us and make His desires known) was to talk seriously about what we wanted to do differently this time. How many times do parents get the opportunity to “reparent” or shift their style as they have matured and grown in the Lord and as a person? We’d already raised one set of children who were out of the house. Although we deeply loved our older children, we hadn’t experienced “empty nest syndrome,” and desired to start raising children again. This was proving to be a specific journey God had chosen for us. We couldn’t escape the clarity with which God was working to let us know He had much larger plans for us and a very different future than we had ever imagined. We were both eighteen when we had our first child, a daughter. We were 21 when our son was born, and we were used to being the youngest parents in any group. By the time we knew God was calling us to begin a parenting journey for the second round, we were in our early 40’s and feeling like we would be ancient compared to the couples just beginning to parent. Let me tell you; it’s much more common to see older first-time parents now than it was 18 years ago. God was so gracious to us. I remember long prayerful spans of time spent alone with my Heavenly Father during this special time. At the time my husband worked at an international firm and was often out of the country. Although it was lonely at times, I realized God was offering me special time for just Him and I. I was able to connect with Jesus in new ways of humble dependency and recognition of His personal relationship with me. Just kneeling at His feet, sharing my innermost dreams made me feel so much closer as I humbly appreciated that the Lord of Heaven and Earth would see fit to allow us the sacred privilege of raising another child. My heart was full of ways I wanted to mother differently and I pictured the life of my child in new ways I had never considered the first time around. I was no longer the young woman who learned as she went or parented the way others told me to. I finally had a confident voice that wanted to follow where God led and my deepest desire was to raise my daughter to love and honor Him with whatever unique and special abilities He crafted within her. With all of my heart, soul, mind, and strength, I deeply loved the Lord and I desired nothing but mentoring my child the gift of a holy walk with Him. As I spent quiet time in prayer with my husband, and much reflective, humble, and prayerful time with God, I questioned ways I had parented my first two and how I could allow God to alter my mindset and skills to raise this child in ways He would call holy and good. I began deeply examining 5 factors I believed were of utmost importance. 1. What did I want the end of my life to look like? 2. What were our previous parenting challenges and joys? 3. What were the best ways to influence my child’s life for God? 4. What did I want the end of my child’s life to look like? 5. What did I need to continue or change in my walk with God? I was on a journey to discover exactly what type of parent I had been and what type I would be in the future, not through what I thought or by comments others made to me, but by judging against what scripture says. Seeking God with a purposed heart and actively maturing and deepening my personal walk with Him through relationship with Jesus, led me to discover a deeper, eternal perspective parenting style. Perhaps you would like to consider the ways you parent now and what you might like to change in the future. One of the blessings in life is that we are not supposed to be the same person from day to day. We have the ability to desire and implement change inevery area of our life . As I continued to develop a mature walk with Christ, it opened the power of the Holy Spirit within and grew me in spiritual ways that overflowed into all areas of my life. I know that with intention, the same will happen for you if it is what you desire and are willing to call on Him. As we examine parenting styles, let’s start by looking at the top 5 methods of parenting: 1. Uninvolved – This parent is busy. Perhaps they work a demanding job or have overextended themselves with responsibilities. They don’t make time for involvement with their child. Student friends, academic pursuits, homework, sports, or extracurricular activities aren’t part of their life. Their child must learn to manage them alone or suffers from the loss of them. The parent feels they don’t have time to be involved or choose not to be. They expect their child to raise themselves with little input from them and they don’t spend time nurturing their child. 2. Permissive – This parent sets rules and expectations, but rarely enforces them. It’s easy for the child to persuade the parent to cave on punishments. The parent will listen to their child’s desires and opinions and allow changes because they act like more of a friend than a parent. 3. Authoritarian – This parent is obedience-driven. Kids are seen, but not heard. Feelings are not taken into consideration. Rules are dictated by the parent and consequences are upheld. 4. Hovering – This parent is also commonly called the “helicopter parent.” Almost unable to control herself, this parent will complete tasks that should fall to the child, such as finishing homework to ensure a good grade, step in to rescue their child from consequences, force their child to accept their help when it is not needed, make decisions instead of allowing the child to mature, and shield their child instead of allowing him to learn from mistakes. 5. Authoritative – This parent is connected to their child. Feelings are heard and validated. Although the parent and child are bonded and share attachment, the parent doesn’t try to be a best friend. She sets rules, as well as enforces consequences when needed. This parent also attempts to prevent problems before they begin. Once we understand the type of parenting we employ, we can work to ensure that we make needed changes that allow us to become better attuned to Christ as we connect with Him and our child. I believe strong attachment needs to be made through the heart. What we hold in our heart affects the way we think, act, and how we react to life. The same is true for our children. Unless we begin our parenting mindset connected to and growing in our walk with Jesus, we are parenting with the standards and values the world advertises, chases, or "falls into" as we deal with life and all the busyness surrounding us. Your child deserves intentional, Christ-centered parenting that builds and strengthens a faith foundation every day. We’ve looked at the top 5 basic methods of parenting. Now let’s consider scriptural methods of parenting. As we purposely mature our walk and allow Christ to perfect His work within us, our parenting is naturally affected. God leads and guides us as to how to mentor our children as we prayerfully submit ourselves and our children to Him. God, the perfect parent infuses us with His wisdom, knowledge, and understanding for His child that He has entrusted to us for the short period we are blessed to have them. I can’t begin a list until I share one of my favorite passages of scripture. If you’ve listened to many of my podcast episodes, either Live With Eternal Perspective or Purposed Parent/Connected Child, you will have heard me share this passage before. Deuteronomy 6:5-9 says, “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts.And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.” I believe it is vital to remember that when Jesus was asked which of the commandments was the greatest, He responded with Deuteronomy 6, verse 5, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength .” I find it interesting that in Hebrew, the word “love” isn’t confined to feelings. So as we remember that we are to love God, we need to remember that the biblical definition of love is in the Hebrew form, which centers on the intellect , sensibilities , and will . When we are instructed to love God, we are actually told to cling to Him alone. The command includes our soul and our strength, meaning with everything in us and in every way. Mark 12:20 adds another very important word in the verse, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” With all of our mind. This is the way we are to respond to God and build our intimate relationship with Him. Think of Him as the air you breathe, remember the Holy Spirit within you, guiding you each moment. It is also the way we are to teach our children to acknowledge and esteem Him. We are to know and show Him so clearly to them that they are taught to be a lover of God. We want to influence them in such ways that their life naturally flows into a worshipper of God. Then they will truly love God with all they are in the ways He designed them to uniquely be and offer Him their heart, soul, mind, strength, talents, time, dreams, gifts, and abilities. So, how do we do that? Consider these following 4 verses to embody scriptural parenting: 1. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” In order for us to lovingly instruct our child to love and uphold a righteous relationship with Christ, we must read, study, and instruct them in God’s word. This verse shows us that we must hold God’s word within us and use it in our parenting mindset, heart, and reactions. 2. Luke 2:19 says, “But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.” In the Bible, this verse takes place when the shepherds visited the baby Jesus and made known what the angels had told to them about the child. All who heard what they said marveled at the meaning of the words they spoke. Mary absorbed all of the experience and the miracle behind it, pondering the meanings in the present and future of her child. This verse shows us that we must share God’s word as we parent, not only by reading the word with our children, but by embodying it in all we are and do, so that they experience and absorb God’s power, goodness, and grace . 3. Psalm 37:31 says, “The law of his God is in his heart; his steps do not falter.” This verse should be looked at as two parts that represent cause and effect. Holding the law of God within our heart and teaching our child to do the same will prevent us and our children from falling away from God or going astray. This verse shows us that we must follow God’s loving truths and be the mentor our children need to see to believe that God is real. He transforms us and can do the same for them as they humbly release self to Him. 4. Psalm 40:8 says, “I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your law is within my heart ." As we examine this verse, we must back up to look at the one previous, which says, “Then I said, ‘Behold I come; in the scroll of the book it is written of me. I delight to do Your will, O my God, and Your law is within my heart.” This verse refers to Jesus, who fulfilled all the prophecies that were written of Him. Jesus delighted in following the will of God and fulfilled a perfect and heroic obedience. Jesus clung to the loving will of our Heavenly Father and fulfilled the purpose for which He came to earth. Through His intimate love with all that was within Him, Jesus’s love for God flowed into worship of and obedience for God, just as we must model for our children to do. This verse shows us that we must parent with delight in obedience to God. Our children will learn God’s word through and with us, but also learn to submit their heart moment by moment and trust that God is in control . Although it is very important to look at the top 5 parenting styles I mentioned at the beginning of this episode, it is more critical that we willingly submit ourselves and our children to God and allow Him to radically alter us moment by moment and allow Him to show us how to parent the specific children He created and purposed to us to protect and guide for Him. God expects us to teach our children of Him and lead them to His heart and feet. We will answer to Him one day for the job we did on this earth. Our children will answer to Him for the life He has given to them. It is imperative that we know and follow our Heavenly Father in godly ways that transform us daily and that we seek His wisdom daily to influence our precious children and raise them for Him. They must be able to live set-apart in this world and carry courage that comes from a strong relationship with God through a personal walk with Jesus . We will explore more about godly, scriptural, attached parenting in future episodes of this podcast. In order to have a close , lasting relationship with our children, we must be parents who connect with God and allow Him to flow through us clearly and lovingly, then into our children. Parenting a second set of children has been an enormous blessing to me. God knew secret desires of my heart that I didn’t realize were there. How good He is to lovingly and intentionally fashion each of us together with beautiful plans for us and our children. What a great joy it gives me to watch His story unfold as I obediently follow where He leads and teach my children to do the same. What might your heart hold? I pray you allow God to complete the perfect plans He has made for your precious family. Proverbs 3:1-12 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for they will add length to your days, years and peace to your life. Never let loving devotion or faithfulness leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will find favor and high regard in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil. This will bring healing to your body and refreshment to your bones. Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your harvest; then your barns will be filled with plenty, and your vats will overflow with new wine. My son, do not reject the discipline of the Lord, and do not loathe His rebuke; for the Lord disciplines the one He loves, as does a father the son in whom he delights.” Dear God, we are blessed that there is none like You, the Great I Am, our Heavenly Father. Thank you for the gift of our precious children, in reality Your children that You have entrusted to us for this time. Help us to direct your children onto the right path so that when they are older they will not leave it, will not leave Your side or Your heart. Help us not to provoke our children to anger, but to raise them in the gentleness and truths of Your great love so that they are raised to honor You and respect us because they love and follow You so greatly. May our mouth be opened with Your wisdom and may we share Your instruction freely because we know You so well. May our children grow up in favor with men, but mostly with You, Lord because they are truthful and courageous with Your strength and honor. May we have great joy because our children walk in Your truths. Lord, we know that You know the measure of our days. Our lifetime is nothing compared to You. May we use our time wisely and influence our children well while we can. May we have nothing to be ashamed of when we meet You face to face because we pursued You greatly and humbly and our children do the same. In the name of Your precious Son, Jesus, we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. Have you seen my free new resource, “Prayers For My Child?” It’s a helpful ebook you can find at terrihitt.com on the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scriptural prayers. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast will soon be available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #124 – Solace in Silence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you know someone who commands attention when they speak? When my husband says something, people know he isn’t one to speak mindless words, so those around him heed what they hear. For one like me who likes to talk and enjoy conversations, I need to remember to be more like this at times. God’s word says much about hearing before speaking and using wisdom to guide our words. Ecclesiastes 9:17 says, “The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools.” Ecclesiastes 3:7 says, “A time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.” Proverbs 21:23 says, “Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Most everyone will listen to the news, stories of friends or family, podcasts, the radio, teachers, shows, movies, co-workers, a boss, or a pastor. We value what others have to say, but do we place biblical truths at the top of the list of what goes into our minds? Think about this fact: “you become whatever you think on.” What we ponder does more to affect our actions than good intentions. I believe listening for what the Lord has to say and for us to discover are important qualities to develop. We cannot listen when we are too busy speaking – or doing. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will. In order to renew our mind and train it to be more Christ, we must intentionally desire the outcome of Christlikeness. We can’t reflect what we don’t know. In this case, we cannot reflect the One we do not know. How can we become more like Jesus? How do we renew and transform our mind? How do we test and approve what God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will is? First, we must ingest God’s word. As we recognize Him, we allow Him to renew our mind, despite this fast-paced, distracting world tugging at us. Psalm 46:10 says, “He says, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." Did you catch the quiet command within the verse? Be still and know. We must seek silence. In the quietness, our mind can be trained with new thoughts and desires. This time of stillness can be the beginning of seeing, studying, and showing Jesus. If you already have a strong relationship with Christ, you will strengthen serenity through Him. True peace only comes from God and cannot be found apart from Him. Nothing we seek or do is more important than maturing a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Just as we must spend time with those we love on earth in order to develop relationships and draw closer to each other, we must purpose our time with our Heavenly Father, getting to know Him, speaking to Him, and listening to Him, or we will miss out on the greatest relationship of our life (and of our eternity). The way to God is through Jesus. John 14:6-7 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him.” We must learn to be comfortable in solace with the Son. Matthew 14:23a says, “After He had dismissed them, He went up on a mountainside by Himself to pray.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” As we read how Jesus personally, privately sought God, making time to be with His Heavenly Father, we must remember He was also showing us the way to find Him. As we seek to deepen our worship, mature and demonstrate our faith, and focus our mind and heart on Christ, we will find the Father. Let’s look at 7 basic steps we can take to find solace in silence and worship our Father: 1. Read and Study the Bible - 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” When we know God’s word, we can recognize false preachers or teachings that go against God’s will for us. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Prayer is the lifeline to God. People ask what we can do for others, what we can do to help ourselves. God has supplied us with a holy tool for developing a stronger trust in Him and maturing relationship with Him. Just as Mary sat at the feet of Jesus in humble adoration, we can sit at the feet of our Savior and know Him intimately through prayer as we share with Him, ask for His wisdom and discernment, and listen for His still, small, mighty voice. 3. Reflect – James 1:22-25 says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.” Silence allows us time for reflection. How can we grow in the Lord if we do not make time to ingest what we read and savor the goodness of our personal time with Him? 4. Journal Scripture – Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Journaling God’s words is a beautiful way to help us focus on and remember the teachings of our Heavenly Father. Sometimes our brains and hearts need a new or alternate way to take in the truths and commandments God generously shares with us. 5. Memorize Scripture – Proverbs 3:1-2 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity.” When trials wash over your life or adversity stings your days, confidence may be found in the words stored in your heart and mind. God is a very present help in times of need. Only He has the ability to reach you exactly where and when you need it. His timeless truths are applicable to each one of us. 6. Share - Psalm 96:3 says, “Declare His glory among the nations, His marvelous deeds among all peoples.” Sharing testimony of what God has done in your life, as well as the truth of the gospel will touch lives of others in ways we cannot comprehend. Fearlessly allow God to work through you unhindered and His words will reach the ears of those in need. 7. Rest – Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” God graciously allows us rest. Although we live in fallen world of sin, He calls for us to come to Him and allow Him to take our burdens. He is able to hold and handle whatever we give to Him. His invitation is for each of us, in whatever condition we come to Him in. Jesus allows us rest in the highest form, because it is rejuvenation and refreshment for our souls. Dear Heavenly Father, only You carry wisdom. We are in such desperate need of Your truths and wisdom! Father, pierce us with your knowledge, wisdom, discernment, and understanding. Help us see our futile attempts to be our own gods and allow You to carry us with strength that comes only from You. Help us to hold our tongue when needed and speak when You desire. May we allow You to stop unwholesome talk from exiting our lips. May it never enter our brain. Help us to build others up, especially Your children. May our words benefit their walk with You for eternity. May we listen to advice from others who uprightly follow You and may we recognize those who are not and allow them no say over our life. Lord, we live with many plans, but cause us to stop and reflect on You and allow Your holy rest and rejuvenation for our soul. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I also want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 124 - Solace in Silence Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #124 – Solace in Silence Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Do you know someone who commands attention when they speak? When my husband says something, people know he isn’t one to speak mindless words, so those around him heed what they hear. For one like me who likes to talk and enjoy conversations, I need to remember to be more like this at times. God’s word says much about hearing before speaking and using wisdom to guide our words. Ecclesiastes 9:17 says, “The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools.” Ecclesiastes 3:7 says, “A time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.” Proverbs 21:23 says, “Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Most everyone will listen to the news, stories of friends or family, podcasts, the radio, teachers, shows, movies, co-workers, a boss, or a pastor. We value what others have to say, but do we place biblical truths at the top of the list of what goes into our minds? Think about this fact: “you become whatever you think on.” What we ponder does more to affect our actions than good intentions. I believe listening for what the Lord has to say and for us to discover are important qualities to develop. We cannot listen when we are too busy speaking – or doing. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will. In order to renew our mind and train it to be more Christ, we must intentionally desire the outcome of Christlikeness. We can’t reflect what we don’t know. In this case, we cannot reflect the One we do not know. How can we become more like Jesus? How do we renew and transform our mind? How do we test and approve what God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will is? First, we must ingest God’s word. As we recognize Him, we allow Him to renew our mind, despite this fast-paced, distracting world tugging at us. Psalm 46:10 says, “He says, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth." Did you catch the quiet command within the verse? Be still and know. We must seek silence. In the quietness, our mind can be trained with new thoughts and desires. This time of stillness can be the beginning of seeing, studying, and showing Jesus. If you already have a strong relationship with Christ, you will strengthen serenity through Him. True peace only comes from God and cannot be found apart from Him. Nothing we seek or do is more important than maturing a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Just as we must spend time with those we love on earth in order to develop relationships and draw closer to each other, we must purpose our time with our Heavenly Father, getting to know Him, speaking to Him, and listening to Him, or we will miss out on the greatest relationship of our life (and of our eternity). The way to God is through Jesus. John 14:6-7 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him.” We must learn to be comfortable in solace with the Son. Matthew 14:23a says, “After He had dismissed them, He went up on a mountainside by Himself to pray.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” As we read how Jesus personally, privately sought God, making time to be with His Heavenly Father, we must remember He was also showing us the way to find Him. As we seek to deepen our worship, mature and demonstrate our faith, and focus our mind and heart on Christ, we will find the Father. Let’s look at 7 basic steps we can take to find solace in silence and worship our Father: 1. Read and Study the Bible - 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” When we know God’s word, we can recognize false preachers or teachings that go against God’s will for us. 2. Pray – Philippians 4:6-7 says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Prayer is the lifeline to God. People ask what we can do for others, what we can do to help ourselves. God has supplied us with a holy tool for developing a stronger trust in Him and maturing relationship with Him. Just as Mary sat at the feet of Jesus in humble adoration, we can sit at the feet of our Savior and know Him intimately through prayer as we share with Him, ask for His wisdom and discernment, and listen for His still, small, mighty voice. 3. Reflect – James 1:22-25 says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.” Silence allows us time for reflection. How can we grow in the Lord if we do not make time to ingest what we read and savor the goodness of our personal time with Him? 4. Journal Scripture – Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Journaling God’s words is a beautiful way to help us focus on and remember the teachings of our Heavenly Father. Sometimes our brains and hearts need a new or alternate way to take in the truths and commandments God generously shares with us. 5. Memorize Scripture – Proverbs 3:1-2 says, “My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity.” When trials wash over your life or adversity stings your days, confidence may be found in the words stored in your heart and mind. God is a very present help in times of need. Only He has the ability to reach you exactly where and when you need it. His timeless truths are applicable to each one of us. 6. Share - Psalm 96:3 says, “Declare His glory among the nations, His marvelous deeds among all peoples.” Sharing testimony of what God has done in your life, as well as the truth of the gospel will touch lives of others in ways we cannot comprehend. Fearlessly allow God to work through you unhindered and His words will reach the ears of those in need. 7. Rest – Matthew 11:28-30 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and my burden is light.” God graciously allows us rest. Although we live in fallen world of sin, He calls for us to come to Him and allow Him to take our burdens. He is able to hold and handle whatever we give to Him. His invitation is for each of us, in whatever condition we come to Him in. Jesus allows us rest in the highest form, because it is rejuvenation and refreshment for our souls. Dear Heavenly Father, only You carry wisdom. We are in such desperate need of Your truths and wisdom! Father, pierce us with your knowledge, wisdom, discernment, and understanding. Help us see our futile attempts to be our own gods and allow You to carry us with strength that comes only from You. Help us to hold our tongue when needed and speak when You desire. May we allow You to stop unwholesome talk from exiting our lips. May it never enter our brain. Help us to build others up, especially Your children. May our words benefit their walk with You for eternity. May we listen to advice from others who uprightly follow You and may we recognize those who are not and allow them no say over our life. Lord, we live with many plans, but cause us to stop and reflect on You and allow Your holy rest and rejuvenation for our soul. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you find value in what you hear, and you would like more information on the topic we discussed today, I invite you to listen to previous episodes. Just click on “podcasts” and type in the topic or title you wish to hear about in the search bar at the top of the page or wherever you listen to podcasts I also want to remind you that the Live With Eternal Perspective podcast may be found at terrihitt.com, but is also a part of the Spark Media Network, and now the podcast may also be found on the Edifi app, where you can find thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Have you rated or reviewed this podcast on Apple Podcasts yet? For those who have, I thank you so very much! If you haven’t, would you please consider doing so? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. If you believe the content you hear should be heard so that more people can begin to deepen their walk with Jesus and live with eyes set on eternity, would you please write a review and rate the podcast for me? I also want to ask if you have you listened to my second podcast, “Purposed Parent/Connected Child” yet? I hope you will listen to this new podcast, especially if you are raising children or influencing grandchildren. Please follow and share both of my podcasts with friends or family who would like to choose Christ over culture and be a parent (or be a grandparent) who connects with eternal purpose. Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #029 Obedience Through His Word Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest joys in my life is finding ways to obey the Lord. Sometimes it takes patience and prayer. Other times God makes what am to do very clear immediately. Waiting and listening are part of obeying His call and direction for us. At the end of January, 2020, I began producing the podcasts I prepared as my step of obedience to the Lord. I knew that He was calling me to allow Him to work through me in a way unique and special for the interests He placed in my heart. I inderstood that He wanted to work through me to reach more people with His word and truths. What a joy and blessing this has been in not only my life, but in the life of my family as well. My husband and I, as well as my children, have grown even more in the Lord and drawn closer to each other. My husband helps me with the podcast by editing and uploading each one. We've all grown together in and through God by my obedience to Him. All we do for God affects those around us. It definitely takes time and dedication each week to prayerfully consider what God is speaking and to write and produce each episode. While the work is a deep and joyful blessing, and I continue to walk in obedience by allowing my Heavenly Father to work through me, I must also carefully prioritize my daily life activities to place Him first, while still placing my husband and children next. It takes much time and effort. As fall is approaching, school will be back in session and there are things I need to prepare for. Homeschool is a lifestyle for us, which could be another podcast topic. In fact, if you are interested in hearing more about that, please let me know. As I pondered how to create more time to prepare for the upcoming school year and get a little extra housework done completed before the new academic year starts, I prayed about taking a hiatus for a few weeks. God whispered to my spirit that He did not want me to create a break time, but to use the time to read His word to listeners. So, for the next several weeks I will not create new messages, but will be reading the best messages the world has ever had the opportunity to read. I pray that you will be blessed by God's word and encourged to study the Bible even more on your own. I will egin where I find my hope and passion for life and all I do - the book of John. I believe it is the heart of the Bible. I hope it stirs your heart for love and obedience to Him. John 12:1-8 "Then, six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was who had been dead, whom He had raised from the dead. There they made Him a supper; and Martha served, but Lazarus was one of those who sat at the table with Him. Then Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil. But one of His disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, who would betray Him, said, “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” This he said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it. But Jesus said, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” To me, these verses are so beautiful. I have always loved the book of John. Each chapter is just so special. Let's look a little bit deeper at some of the verses in this passage. As we speak about Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus, we need to remember that Jesus had raised their brother from the dead. So, it shouldn't really be a shock to us that his sisters want to hold a dinner in honor of Jesus. You know, whenever God works through us, when we're saved through Jesus Christ, He is bringing something back that was dead, just like He did with Lazarus. He's made us a new person. We have a new life. When we're following Him in the right way and we live with that realization, the natural response is a desire to show Him love, appreciation, thankfulness, and honor with our life. The oil that was used here by Mary, was very expensive. It was nearly an entire year's earnings. Of course, Judas saw this as a waste. But Jesus could see into the heart of Mary. He knew that for Mary, this was worship. I find it really interesting also in this passage that the disciples must have really trusted Judas. He was handling money. We all know that if we trust someone with our money, it means we truly trust them. Here in this passage of 12:6, John is showing the real nature of Judas, that he was a thief, but he is also showing his heart intent because when Judas talks about the cost of the oil, and how it should have been given to the poor instead of being spent on the oil, Jesus knew His true heart, He knew his true intentions and thoughts behind those words. Judas's words sounded very noble, yet it shows that each one of us has the capacity to say things, to give religious sounding reasons that would justify actions that don't have the true intent or purpose that Jesus would have us to have. It shows how selfish we are and can be, When Jesus talks about in 12:8 how there's a constant presence of poor, he's not showing that he's heartless. We know Jesus isn't heartless. He's not saying they should be ignored, but just the fact that they're always there, but He will not always be there. If we look at Deuteronomy 15:11, as a cross-reference here, "for the poor will never cease from the land, therefore I command you, saying "You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor, and your needy in your land. " We see that Jesus does indeed care about the plight of the poor. The last thing that I want to point out with this beautiful passage is something that should strike a chord for all of us. It should infuse the heart of a servant, it should inspire us to do more for Jesus. If we look at Mary, the one who poured the fragrances of Jesus's feet, and wiped His feet with her hair, we see that Mary was humble. She was teachable. She wanted to be more occupied with Christ than to be occupied for Him. It should inspire each of us to stop, to take a look at our lives. Are we just occupied for Christ? Just taking part in activities and "doing" things for Him? Just as Martha was always so busy doing things for Him? Or are we more occupied, more obsessed with knowing Jesus? In loving Him? In obeying Him? In being with Him and spending time with Him? We learn that in Hebrew, sitting at someone's feet means to learn from that person, to submit to their authority and teaching, and ways of life. That's what Mary was doing here as she showed love for Jesus. She put herself at His feet. I mean, my goodness. Can you imagine using your most expensive fragrance that would cost a year's worth of wages, pouring it on His feet, and wiping your hair across His feet. I mean. I know I love Jesus, but I hope I could do that. I hope I could do that if He walked into my home right now. If we look at Mary's example of spending time at Jesus's feet, we begin to worship Him with a heart that is more loving, and kind, and obedient. One that seeks Him. Can you imagine taking your clean hair and using it to clean the dirtiest part of Jesus? Back then feet were pretty dirty. But she loved Jesus so much. He had brought her brother back to life. He had done many things in their life. But instead of using her perfume for the burial that she had been saving for Jesus, she worshipped Him in true devotion. This showed a true submission to Him and a love for Him. As we each go out through the week, let us remember this, not to worship Mary or to put her on a pedestal. She was human, just like the rest of us, but to look at the heart that she used, to use that as a symbol is our own life to remind us, to spur us on, to develop our own sacrificial love and obedient love, and humble love, and servant heart love for Jesus. Dear Lord, may we follow You so closely and strive to know You so well that we would pour our most expensive item, possession across Your feet so that we can get a better glimpse into Your heart. So that we can get a better awareness of You and follow You more closely, Lord, with our whole heart. Help us, Lord, each day, to know You better, to show You more clearly, and to bind our heart to Yours so that You are so evident to all. God, I pray that each one of us can be a light to inspire others to follow You. In Your precious name we pray. Did you enjoy this episode? I hope you did. Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and to learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can't find it, unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them by leaving a quick review and a rating for the show, and by sharing about the show on social media or by word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might wnjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Help them to find it. Help them to tune in. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to live with eternal perspective. Keep sharing your stories with me. I love to hear them. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 029 Obedience Through His Word Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #029 Obedience Through His Word Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you today to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. One of the greatest joys in my life is finding ways to obey the Lord. Sometimes it takes patience and prayer. Other times God makes what am to do very clear immediately. Waiting and listening are part of obeying His call and direction for us. At the end of January, 2020, I began producing the podcasts I prepared as my step of obedience to the Lord. I knew that He was calling me to allow Him to work through me in a way unique and special for the interests He placed in my heart. I inderstood that He wanted to work through me to reach more people with His word and truths. What a joy and blessing this has been in not only my life, but in the life of my family as well. My husband and I, as well as my children, have grown even more in the Lord and drawn closer to each other. My husband helps me with the podcast by editing and uploading each one. We've all grown together in and through God by my obedience to Him. All we do for God affects those around us. It definitely takes time and dedication each week to prayerfully consider what God is speaking and to write and produce each episode. While the work is a deep and joyful blessing, and I continue to walk in obedience by allowing my Heavenly Father to work through me, I must also carefully prioritize my daily life activities to place Him first, while still placing my husband and children next. It takes much time and effort. As fall is approaching, school will be back in session and there are things I need to prepare for. Homeschool is a lifestyle for us, which could be another podcast topic. In fact, if you are interested in hearing more about that, please let me know. As I pondered how to create more time to prepare for the upcoming school year and get a little extra housework done completed before the new academic year starts, I prayed about taking a hiatus for a few weeks. God whispered to my spirit that He did not want me to create a break time, but to use the time to read His word to listeners. So, for the next several weeks I will not create new messages, but will be reading the best messages the world has ever had the opportunity to read. I pray that you will be blessed by God's word and encourged to study the Bible even more on your own. I will egin where I find my hope and passion for life and all I do - the book of John. I believe it is the heart of the Bible. I hope it stirs your heart for love and obedience to Him. John 12:1-8 "Then, six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was who had been dead, whom He had raised from the dead. There they made Him a supper; and Martha served, but Lazarus was one of those who sat at the table with Him. Then Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil. But one of His disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, who would betray Him, said, “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” This he said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it. But Jesus said, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” To me, these verses are so beautiful. I have always loved the book of John. Each chapter is just so special. Let's look a little bit deeper at some of the verses in this passage. As we speak about Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus, we need to remember that Jesus had raised their brother from the dead. So, it shouldn't really be a shock to us that his sisters want to hold a dinner in honor of Jesus. You know, whenever God works through us, when we're saved through Jesus Christ, He is bringing something back that was dead, just like He did with Lazarus. He's made us a new person. We have a new life. When we're following Him in the right way and we live with that realization, the natural response is a desire to show Him love, appreciation, thankfulness, and honor with our life. The oil that was used here by Mary, was very expensive. It was nearly an entire year's earnings. Of course, Judas saw this as a waste. But Jesus could see into the heart of Mary. He knew that for Mary, this was worship. I find it really interesting also in this passage that the disciples must have really trusted Judas. He was handling money. We all know that if we trust someone with our money, it means we truly trust them. Here in this passage of 12:6, John is showing the real nature of Judas, that he was a thief, but he is also showing his heart intent because when Judas talks about the cost of the oil, and how it should have been given to the poor instead of being spent on the oil, Jesus knew His true heart, He knew his true intentions and thoughts behind those words. Judas's words sounded very noble, yet it shows that each one of us has the capacity to say things, to give religious sounding reasons that would justify actions that don't have the true intent or purpose that Jesus would have us to have. It shows how selfish we are and can be, When Jesus talks about in 12:8 how there's a constant presence of poor, he's not showing that he's heartless. We know Jesus isn't heartless. He's not saying they should be ignored, but just the fact that they're always there, but He will not always be there. If we look at Deuteronomy 15:11, as a cross-reference here, "for the poor will never cease from the land, therefore I command you, saying "You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor, and your needy in your land. " We see that Jesus does indeed care about the plight of the poor. The last thing that I want to point out with this beautiful passage is something that should strike a chord for all of us. It should infuse the heart of a servant, it should inspire us to do more for Jesus. If we look at Mary, the one who poured the fragrances of Jesus's feet, and wiped His feet with her hair, we see that Mary was humble. She was teachable. She wanted to be more occupied with Christ than to be occupied for Him. It should inspire each of us to stop, to take a look at our lives. Are we just occupied for Christ? Just taking part in activities and "doing" things for Him? Just as Martha was always so busy doing things for Him? Or are we more occupied, more obsessed with knowing Jesus? In loving Him? In obeying Him? In being with Him and spending time with Him? We learn that in Hebrew, sitting at someone's feet means to learn from that person, to submit to their authority and teaching, and ways of life. That's what Mary was doing here as she showed love for Jesus. She put herself at His feet. I mean, my goodness. Can you imagine using your most expensive fragrance that would cost a year's worth of wages, pouring it on His feet, and wiping your hair across His feet. I mean. I know I love Jesus, but I hope I could do that. I hope I could do that if He walked into my home right now. If we look at Mary's example of spending time at Jesus's feet, we begin to worship Him with a heart that is more loving, and kind, and obedient. One that seeks Him. Can you imagine taking your clean hair and using it to clean the dirtiest part of Jesus? Back then feet were pretty dirty. But she loved Jesus so much. He had brought her brother back to life. He had done many things in their life. But instead of using her perfume for the burial that she had been saving for Jesus, she worshipped Him in true devotion. This showed a true submission to Him and a love for Him. As we each go out through the week, let us remember this, not to worship Mary or to put her on a pedestal. She was human, just like the rest of us, but to look at the heart that she used, to use that as a symbol is our own life to remind us, to spur us on, to develop our own sacrificial love and obedient love, and humble love, and servant heart love for Jesus. Dear Lord, may we follow You so closely and strive to know You so well that we would pour our most expensive item, possession across Your feet so that we can get a better glimpse into Your heart. So that we can get a better awareness of You and follow You more closely, Lord, with our whole heart. Help us, Lord, each day, to know You better, to show You more clearly, and to bind our heart to Yours so that You are so evident to all. God, I pray that each one of us can be a light to inspire others to follow You. In Your precious name we pray. Did you enjoy this episode? I hope you did. Would you like others to hear weekly encouragement and to learn how to live with more eternal perspective? Right now, because this podcast is new, listeners can't find it, unless they specifically know the name to search for. You can help them by leaving a quick review and a rating for the show, and by sharing about the show on social media or by word of mouth. Can you think of a friend or family member who might wnjoy encouragement? If so, please share this podcast with them. Help them to find it. Help them to tune in. Until next week, keep looking Up and finding new ways to live with eternal perspective. Keep sharing your stories with me. I love to hear them.

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast - Episode 062 - Do You Parent to Prepare or Repair? Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 62 – Do You Parent to Prepare or Repair? I still remember that morning. Of course, the day seems more vivid, I’m sure, because as I prepare this episode, I’m coming up on the 15th year anniversary of the day my oldest daughter passed away. Now that she’s gone, memories are either sweeter than before or my thoughts are pensive because there’s no going back. When you’ve lost a child, you tend to view events through a different lens. With maturity and hindsight, I think I still would have handled the situation differently, but of course, it’s easy to say because I don’t have the pressures of having to be at work early every day. When my first two children were young, I worked outside the home in a pretty strict business. Of course, we were expected to be on time, but most people weren’t very understanding if you had to call in sick for yourself or a child. I carried a lot of mom guilt for leaving my kids, especially when I could tell they needed a little extra time on certain mornings. Just like the day I’m about to share with you. My oldest child, Jaime, was about 9 years old or so. She was always mature for her age, so it seemed she was older, but when I look back now, she still seemed so young. On this particular morning, she was trying to get me to let her stay home from school. After checking her temperature to see if she had a fever, which she didn’t, and talking to her and sitting with her for a little bit, I convinced her she needed to get ready to go to school. I didn’t have much time to spare in the mornings as I got ready for work. When she was that age, I had to leave the house before 7:30, which would get me to work with no extra time. My gut feeling told me that my daughter just wanted time with me, and I wanted it with her, too. But I had to leave. Now, as a mature mom, I’d like to believe I would have called in and told my boss I was going to be a little late, but while it’s easy to feel that way now, back then it felt impossible to do. It also didn’t help that my two kids were sick often. In fact, they had both experienced a year or so in which the two of them had strep throat numerous times. My husband and I had to take both of them to get their tonsils removed at the same time before they stopped getting sick. I remember backing out of the garage the morning my daughter was so clingy. It was directly beneath my daughter’s bedroom. Before I drove away, I looked up and saw her watching me leave with her sad expression piercing my spirit. Of course, my mind was on her all day. I expected to get a call from the school saying she needed to come home, but I didn’t. Guess what? That evening at home, my daughter seemed fine. But there were several other mornings that were just as difficult to leave her. In fact, one time she actually placed the thermometer on my curling iron so that it would appear that she had a fever. I could tell by the temperature reading that she had done something, because her coloring looked good, her skin wasn’t clammy, and her eyes were clear. However, the temperature reading was the highest number on the thermometer. Calling her bluff, I placed the thermometer on the bathroom counter and calmly told her I was going to call 911 because her temperature was so high that I was afraid she was going to have a seizure. Then she quickly admitted what she had done and said she just wanted to stay home with me. I also often felt behind as a working outside the home mom. Or I felt like I wasn’t doing enough of what she needed me to do. It made me feel like my daughter needed more from me than I was able to be home to give her. I knew the short time we were together at night helped, because she was always with me, talking about her day and thoughts. But as I look back as a more experienced mom whose daughter has passed away, it’s easier to think about what I’d like to have done differently. Now, as I remember my parenting days with her, it makes me ponder a particular feeling. Did I set myself up to parent to repair , not prepare ? What do I mean by that? All those years I felt like I was a good mom, and I’m sure that anyone who saw or knew me parent would say the same. My grown son testifies to the fact. It’s not something I dispute or feel guilty about. However, I don’t want to be known as a good mom. I now strive to be a godly mom. What’s the difference? Well, a good mom works hard to do the right things, but is hindered by circumstances and her own human flesh. I tried to give my daughter the attention she needed when I was home, but also had to meet commitments that affected the care she wanted from me. I remember praying that Jaime would understand that I had to leave, that she would understand I wanted to be with her, but couldn’t. I remember our talks about my job and how I didn’t want to leave her. At those times, she seemed fine, said she understood, and wanted to be in the moment. A godly mom would hear the words and interpret them another way. A godly mom would definitely pray different prayers. If I were in the situation now, I would pray with her before I left, I would remind her that whatever was making her want to be with me could be comforted by her Heavenly Father. I would set time with her when I got home, no matter how “fine” she seemed so we could read Scripture together and she could share what was bothering her. Was something happening at school? Did she just need extra time with me? Was she not feeling good, although she seemed fine? I would be in the Word with her daily, leading her to lay her feelings, thoughts, and fears at the feet of Christ. I would pray for God to reveal what Jaime needed so that I could reach her exactly where it would help her to feel secure when I had to be away from her. I would probably take a day off work, regardless of the money I would lose, or the trouble it would cause when I returned. I certainly did spend time with her every night, and I did pray for her, but I know my prayers would be different now. How? Because my attitude would be different. Although I was a good mom, I wasn’t a godly mom. A godly mom takes all things, every aspect of life captive for Christ. Her decisions, desires, and dreams are different because of Him. Instead of pressing forward with what I had to do financially, I would carve that time at night, despite my busy schedule, to have family Bible and prayer time. That was a missing piece during those years. One that would have helped me raise children with identities tied to Jesus as children and teens, helping them navigate the world and culture with His Truth. A Biblical worldview and a personal relationship with Christ that is maturing moment by moment would have taken the sadness from the face of a young girl and comforted her during the moments she missed her mom. Despite having a lot of time together at night to talk, my words and wisdom can only carry her so far. I don’t want you to miss what I am saying. We talked a lot about Jesus. In fact, she had accepted Him as her Savior as a young girl, but I didn’t know enough about actually crafting a purposed parenting plan that enabled her to grow wisdom, strength, identity, and desires through Him. Only God’s wisdom and understanding builds a foundation for her life to stand secure and strong. Mothers, you must have a purposed plan that does not sway or stop. So, when I say I feel like I was parenting to repair, not prepare, it probably sounds more obvious now that I’ve included good versus godly parenting. When we rightly place Jesus at the center of everything, and our mind is always focused on Him and the eternal outcome of our parenting years, we are changed. We become a different woman, a different wife, a different mom, daughter, sister, grandparent, friend, or follower of Christ. When a mother is parenting to prepare, she is proactive. Parenting should always be proactively productive for Christ. Your motherhood mindset, desires, and actions should be prepping your children for a lifetime of dependence on and submission to Him. It should teach them that He is always with them. He will care for them, teach them, and carry them. In contrast, when we parent to repair, we are not teaching reliance on Jesus, but self . I call it parenting to repair because training our children (whether we do it intentionally or not) to rely on self (or us) will never be enough. There will always be issues to deal with later, whether it be relationships, habits, beliefs, etc. Of course I prayed with her and talked about Jesus, but the biggest difference is the mindset I now carry and the way I purposely and patiently parent for Him in all ways. Like drawing and releasing breath, I think about how I am affecting my child for Christ and eternity. Not just about the situation we are currently in. Proverbs 22:6-7 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Sometimes parents read this verse and believe that if they tell their child about Christ and take them to church every week all will be well. It’s just not the case and so many parents are hurting. Children are hurting. Mothers have stopped believing God because they believe they trained their child in the way they should go, but their child grows up to walk away from God. Raising a child for Jesus is so much harder than we think. It is a lifetime of training, prayers, laughter, work, and tears. It is a sacrificial lifestyle that brings us to our knees and keeps us there. It is humbly submitting to transformation through Christ moment by moment so we can become the follower of Jesus that we need to be in order to model Him well to our children. It is admitting the ungodliness in ourself that allows us to accept and love the ungodliness in our children, but striving to move each of us into Christlikeness. It is recognizing the privilege and honor of raising the children God entrusted to us, but remembering that they have a choice. Just as we did. When we accepted Jesus as our Savior. No matter how well we may parent for Christ, we cannot force them to choose Him. We cannot make every day perfect. So, we prayerfully place our beloved children in His hands and trust that He will harvest the seeds we have sown. That is when we know we have truly parented to prepare, not repair . My favorite passage of parenting verses come from Deuteronomy 6:5-9 which says, “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates .” What are some ways parents can look to Scripture to practice “prepared parenting ?” 1. 1 Corinthians 9:16 says, “For if I preach the gospel, that gives me no ground for boasting. For necessity is laid upon me. Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel!” Evangelism starts in the home. Our children are tiny sponges that are so eager to know Jesus. What an honor to bring their open hearts straight to Him. 2. 1 Corinthians 9:27 says, “But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified .” Just as Paul speaks of himself and his service for others under Christ, parents have a God-given, ordained obligation to raise children for Him. In order to do so, it is imperative to have relationship with Jesus, to regularly and prayerfully study the Bible to draw nearer to Him. We cannot teach our children to submit to someone we do not follow and mentor well. Remember, He chose you for each child under your influence and care. 3. 2 Corinthians 5:9 says, “So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please Him .” As believers, our top goal, or aim , should be to honor God. “Aim” comes from the Greek word that means, “to love what is honorable .” It is, therefore, the duty of mothers, to aim to achieve the high goal of maturing our Christian walk, and of prayerfully developing the relationship of our children with Jesus, with full reliance on Him. Once we have experienced the life-changing and life-saving power of God’s merciful gift to us through Christ, we must commit to be accountable to the trust He bestowed to us when He purposed to us the children we have. Parenting is truly a privilege entrusted to every mother. We are expected to be a prayerful, maturing mentor of Jesus to each of the children in our care. As 1 Timothy 3:1 says, “The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task .” As overseers of God’s children, we carry the worthiest task of all. 4. 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 says, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love .” These were words given to the Corinthians by Paul, but it also shows how we should plan our parenting. Paul was watchful of the world, which I call culture, and the dangerous, ungodly influences on our children. Mothers, we must submit to Jesus daily, humbly seeking His direction and transformation. Without doing so, we cannot mature our personal faith or nurture the faith of our children. As we stand in the strength and courage of the Lord, praying for the guarding guidance of the Holy Spirit within us, we will invite His merciful, abiding love for our children to direct our mind, heart, and steps. I appreciate the beauty in hindsight. Thankfully, my kids grew up to tell me that they thought I was a good mother. However, as one now much more mature in my relationship with Christ, I wish they had grown up to tell me how thankful they are to have had a godly mother. Those are the words my younger set of children use and it doesn’t reflect on me. All the glory goes to Christ, without whom I am nothing. What a gracious God I serve that He allowed me to raise a second family for Him. Being a godly mother has been the biggest difference in my parenting style the last nineteen years. I’m thankful to share parenting tips and godly advice with you. I hope you will be an even godlier mother than I can ever be. Dear Heavenly Father, how merciful and loving You are. How blessed we are to parent for You. Thank you for entrusting Your children into our incapable hands. Thank you for flowing Your goodness and mercy through us as we imperfectly parent Your children. What a privilege and honor You have bestowed on us! Show us the way to Your heart. Allow us to see our children with Your eyes, love them with Your heart, and raise them with Your wisdom. Carry us and our children and allow them to come to a full and lasting relationship with Jesus. Help us to view every moment as opportunities to draw ourselves nearer to You and model godly love and grace to our children, bringing them to Your feet. In His precious name we pray. Amen. Supporting and encouraging mothers to rest in Christ and pursue a holy relationship with Him so they purposely raise set-apart children is the cry of my heart. I believe godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset a mother carries. That’s why I’ve created the Set-Apart Collective. Would you like to walk with other like-minded mothers to deepen your walk with Christ, learn a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan? I want to share special news with my podcast listeners. The Set-Apart Collective wait list is open now. Send me an email at info@terrihitt.com to let me know you’d like to receive all the details, as well as a special discount code if you decide you’d like to join the collective. It’s time for mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. If you connected in some way with this episode, would you please rate and review the podcast on Apple or Spotify? The best reviews are by word of mouth, so I’d be honored if you choose a friend to recommend the show to. Imagine the change we could see in the way mothers parent for Christ. The podcast can be found at terrihitt.com, Apple Podcasts, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place. Remember, if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #047 – Preparing for Christ – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Can you believe it is almost the end of 2020? No matter what your thoughts are about this year, and you may have many, God has been in control. He was, is, and will remain in control. Nothing has touched us as individuals, as a nation, or in this world that was not already sifted through His capable and trustworthy hands. His eye is on the sparrow. We know He watches over us. As it is the end of the year, many worthy organizations are looking for end of year support, and I want to take a moment today to mention one of my favorite local charities in Kansas City, the “Who Is Carter Foundation.” They have established a worldwide project to provide support, treatment options, and resources to those supporting exceptional children with neurological conditions. That project can be found at thebrainpossible.com, and you can learn more about the foundation at whoiscarter.org. We have personally worked with this organization and truly appreciate their mission and the support they offer. I encourage you to visit their websites and learn more and pass the info on to a friend or family member who might benefit from their various services. Talking about the end of 2020 reminds me that the holiday season is already here! Each year, it seems that Christmas has a way of sneaking up on me. Is it like that for you, too? Life moves so quickly. One moment it’s summer and I’m savoring the heat most other people despise. Suddenly, I’m thrust into leaves falling and winds blowing, bringing cold weather that chills me before temperatures even drop below 50 degrees. I never feel fully ready to jump into the rush of a holiday season because it seems so sneaky. Yet, as I consistently and intentionally purpose to live with my heart and mind focused on Jesus daily through an eternal lens, it enables my preparations for Christmas to be more authentic, although not in the way the world teaches. My attitude and desires are gratefully aware of His presence in my life. To have the honor of creating additional praise in our routine becomes a pleasure, not a chore. Once I release timetables and what our culture pushes on me faster and sooner each calendar turn, I believe I am better equipped to transition into seasons such as Christmas with a full heart and ready spirit. I’ve learned that if my heart is already practicing worship and praise for Jesus through a daily personal and deepening relationship, I won’t feel the stress or pressure to complete preparations by a certain time or rise to expectations I don’t want placed on myself. This is where I want to abide. Social media has shown me photos of the beautiful homes of friends and acquaintances as they prepare for the season, many earlier than usual this year. I love seeing what they do and feel joyous that they are decorating and celebrating in ways that give them pleasure. Yet, it is not for me. There was a time when my middle daughter was younger that we regularly set up five trees in the house, wrapped the stairway railing in holly and bows, placed several nativity scenes in the house, decorated fireplace mantles, and baked many Christmas goodies. In love with the lights and excitement of the holiday season, my daughter excitedly anticipated the preparations and decorating process. I remember when she was a toddler, one of her favorite activities was riding in the cart at Target and Wal-Mart, spending a great amount of time visiting the holiday décor section and exclaiming over the brightly lit trees and blow-ups lawn décor. Nowadays, we are so busy that the thought of decking the house out like that exhausts me and the rest of the family. We still hold tightly, however, to traditions we enjoy and that have become staples in our family, but we strive to keep the meaning of the celebrations high and clear and the emphasis on gifting low. Continually resting in Jesus is the only way to receive the peace and joy we desire. The spirit of Christmas is more than trees, ornaments, holiday baking, and gathering with family to exchange and open gifts. Not that any of those are bad, but remembering and cherishing, celebrating Christ coming to us in human form is meant to linger in our spirit throughout the year. Why does society divide the time? Because Christmas has become so commercial and many are lost, without knowing Christ or celebrating the true purpose. As followers of Christ, we can keep the true spirit of Christmas within our heart and mind if we focus on becoming more like Him daily. The older I get, the less excited I get about the commercialism surrounding such a sacred holiday. Of course, I love to give and receive gifts. Especially when the perfect one is found and I get to experience the delight of giving something personal and special to someone I love dearly. Yet, the assignment of shopping just because it is a certain time of year is a chore I don’t enjoy. I want to sit quietly with Jesus, reflecting on Who He is and wants He is calling me to do for Him. Quiet time with the Lord, in His word, with no sounds or schedule. Just the two of us together as I focus on what He has done and is doing within me. Although I attempt to speak to and listen for Him daily, I know there is nothing as sacred as true, undivided time with nothing to do but hear from Him. No prayers that unintentionally get interrupted with children or spouse calling. No distracted thoughts flitting through my mind as I am speaking my heart. What if Christmas was just each one of us seeking Him with whole hearts? No presents except the ones we offer Him in return? What if we sat in solitude, allowing Jesus to probe our spirit and reveal new mysteries to each of us? What would He say that we are not hearing now? I urge each one of us to carve special time, whether long or short, to rest in the Lord in this time before Christmas arrives, simply and intentionally preparing our hearts for Him. The podcast this week is not in my normal format. I’ve purposely selected several verses to read that are not typically used at Christmas, to slow us down and prepare us to remember the mercy of the Lord, and to seek and be grateful for His good and perfect will for us, to remember Who He is and the enormous gift we have in Jesus. The podcast will be divided into two parts to help us prepare for the arrival of Noel, where we more clearly remember Immanuel. Christ with us. I hope you will rest with me in the beauty and promise of these simple, yet sovereign words as I read verses and speak on each one. I hope it helps you to carve out special time to listen to His words, ponder your relationship, and reflect on Jesus and His immense love for you. For each of us. For God so loved the world! There is absolutely nothing more powerful than words, promises, and wisdom from God found in the Bible and the gift of eternal life we receive through Jesus. Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” God reveals himself to us through creation. Psalm 19:1 declares, “The heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament shows His handiwork.” No one should be able to miss the clear evidence from God of His majesty and sovereignty. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” How blessed we are to receive these words, and from Jesus Himself! This verse carries some of the most basic and forthright words in the Bible. They are also the most important. Jesus clearly tells us that He is the way to God. Christians do not have to argue with unbelievers or question our relationship through Jesus. For those who believe the way to God is too narrow, in reality, it is the opposite. Jesus came for everyone and clearly states the way with His words. Instead of thinking it is “limited” to say there is only one way, we can be thankful that God makes it very clear. Jesus assures us that He is the way and that no one will come to God, except through Him. Christ is our way to God, and He is also the living reality of each of God’s predictions and promises. Through the Holy Spirit within us, Jesus links Himself to us in this life, and for eternity. Philippians 1:11 says, “May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.” What beautiful and powerful words! They are a promise of all the character traits we will receive when we build a solid and mature personal relationship with God through Jesus. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Through the merciful and unmerited grace of our Heavenly Father, we are created as His masterpiece. It is our honor to serve Him and others with the gifts and interests He individually crafted for each of us. 2 Corinthians 4:10 says, “Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” Another beautiful promise. Suffering never seems like a gift, but through and because of Jesus, we experience the Lord shining through us when we hurt or suffer in any way. When we are broken, and expectantly reliant on Him, He will work within us and shine His glory from us. How this work prepares us and gifts us with an even clearer view of eternity! My greatest hardships have elevated my view of life to see with eternal perspective every moment. 1 John 4:8 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Oh, how God transforms us when we truly follow Him! Even as we are changed moment by moment to resemble Him, our love will never reach the heights of His. Jesus is true love. God is the author of love. He is love. Love is rooted in His nature and character. God exhibited true love through Jesus and required absolutely nothing of us, yet He loves us with an everlasting love beyond our comprehension. This world warps love with our selfish and ungodly desires. How much different we would be if we all chose to follow Him and allow His transforming love to radiate through us. 2 Peter 3:9 says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” Again we see how merciful God is! He patiently waits, while allowing the sin He cannot bear, knowing some will still some to repentance. During this time of grace, those who already know Jesus should use the time we are granted to do His work and make Him known to others. Isaiah 40:28 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.” God understands our every thought and desire. He is ahead of our every need. For those who believe that God no longer cares, we see that He is indeed always with us and never grows tired or weary of caring for us. 1 John 1:5 says, “This is the message we heard from Jesus and now declare to you: God is light, and there is no darkness in him at all.” God is infinitely holy, completely righteous, and pure in absolutely every way. Hallelujah! He is our Father, Provider, and Protector. He is our Guiding Light. We must remain close to Him and allow His light and righteousness to pour into us. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” We are blessed to have as our holy Heavenly Father the very same God who created the heavens and the earth, who aligned the stars and moon, and who lovingly created each of us personally. He intentionally loves and cares for us in ways only He can and He yearns to do it. He is dependable and will not change, shift, or leave us. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord's word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him.” Although those who do not follow the Lord may believe those of us who do are weak, we understand that all of us are weak and we glory in that weakness! Hallelujah! He is strong where I am weak! God is infinitely stronger than any of us and we desire His power to work in and through us. He lovingly cares for us as we rely on Him to protect and save us. God certainly shields us with His word and His mighty, loving power. Make me weak, Lord! Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” The very same character traits found in Jesus are available to us through the Holy Spirit as we mature our walk with Christ. They come as a by-product of following Him and are nothing we can gain by our own works or attempts. As we join our lives to Him, we begin to be transformed into new creations that imitate the glorious qualities He embodies. Since God is the author of the law and He sent the Spirit, both align perfectly with the fruits that we begin to possess and exhibit through Him. Micah 7:18-19 says, “Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.” How God delights in showing us mercy! Our God of love does not hold grudges, is joyful when we repent, and heartily extends forgiveness to us as we return to Him. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” God’s word is living and active, not just a compilation of meaningless words. It is holy, life-affirming, and life-changing. God’s word cuts through to our moral and spiritual core, revealing who we are and exposing our intentions. Accept, believe, and live God’s word so that it will transform and shape your life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.” What we allow access to our mind will determine and shape our present – and our eternity. What we think on forms our attitude, words, and actions. If we have difficulty shaping thoughts that are as God calls: noble, right, pure, lovely, etc., we must assess what we are exposing ourselves to and whether we are in His word to cleanse and support our mind and actions. When we ask God to purify our mind and desires and help us focus on the thoughts He calls us to have, He will enable us to crave and keep wholesome material going in so that holiness will flow out. 1 Peter 1:15 says. “But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy.” Our Heavenly Father is a God of mercy and justice who expects His followers to imitate Him, and desire to be holy, just as He is. Romans 5:1-5 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Once we are reconciled to God through Jesus, there is no sin blocking our relationship with Him. This peace with God is only available because of the price Jesus paid for our sins when He died on the cross. We are now complete with Jesus, yet still growing in and through Him. Because we are human, we still struggle with the temptations and sins this life offers, yet we have the privilege of heeding the Holy Spirit within us and taking our battles to the Lord to fight on our behalf. As we mature through Him, we recognize that with each release we grow more intertwined with God and do not grow discouraged by the weights and pressures of this world. We know every trial will carry us closer to Him and should bring Him glory as He works in and through us. Praise God! We are renewed through Him daily! Rest and abide in God’s holy words of scripture as you prepare your heart to worship Jesus in a deeper way this holiday season. No greater gift is available to us in this life than to accept fellowship with God through the sacrifice of Jesus and live with Him for eternity. Place Him before preparations and shopping, wrapping, and movies. May His word be stored in your mind and reflected on as you shape your life after His. Gracious Heavenly Father, we rejoice in the love You have for us and thank you for the gracious gift of eternal life with You through your Son, Jesus. Calm our spirit, our heart, and mind as we reflect on all You are this Christmas season. Help us to seek You in new ways. Open us to seeing this world with Your eyes and desires. Thank you for Your eternal love for us. Help us to move and respond to this world with eternal perspective that mirrors You. In Your precious name we pray. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. I pray you will be better equipped to live with an eternal perspective and encouraged to influence children for Jesus. Future episodes and resources will be geared toward the important duty we have as parents and grandparents to guide and guard children for Jesus. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. Thank you for listening. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find for new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 047 Preparing for Christ - Part 1 Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #047 – Preparing for Christ – Part 1 Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Can you believe it is almost the end of 2020? No matter what your thoughts are about this year, and you may have many, God has been in control. He was, is, and will remain in control. Nothing has touched us as individuals, as a nation, or in this world that was not already sifted through His capable and trustworthy hands. His eye is on the sparrow. We know He watches over us. As it is the end of the year, many worthy organizations are looking for end of year support, and I want to take a moment today to mention one of my favorite local charities in Kansas City, the “Who Is Carter Foundation.” They have established a worldwide project to provide support, treatment options, and resources to those supporting exceptional children with neurological conditions. That project can be found at thebrainpossible.com, and you can learn more about the foundation at whoiscarter.org. We have personally worked with this organization and truly appreciate their mission and the support they offer. I encourage you to visit their websites and learn more and pass the info on to a friend or family member who might benefit from their various services. Talking about the end of 2020 reminds me that the holiday season is already here! Each year, it seems that Christmas has a way of sneaking up on me. Is it like that for you, too? Life moves so quickly. One moment it’s summer and I’m savoring the heat most other people despise. Suddenly, I’m thrust into leaves falling and winds blowing, bringing cold weather that chills me before temperatures even drop below 50 degrees. I never feel fully ready to jump into the rush of a holiday season because it seems so sneaky. Yet, as I consistently and intentionally purpose to live with my heart and mind focused on Jesus daily through an eternal lens, it enables my preparations for Christmas to be more authentic, although not in the way the world teaches. My attitude and desires are gratefully aware of His presence in my life. To have the honor of creating additional praise in our routine becomes a pleasure, not a chore. Once I release timetables and what our culture pushes on me faster and sooner each calendar turn, I believe I am better equipped to transition into seasons such as Christmas with a full heart and ready spirit. I’ve learned that if my heart is already practicing worship and praise for Jesus through a daily personal and deepening relationship, I won’t feel the stress or pressure to complete preparations by a certain time or rise to expectations I don’t want placed on myself. This is where I want to abide. Social media has shown me photos of the beautiful homes of friends and acquaintances as they prepare for the season, many earlier than usual this year. I love seeing what they do and feel joyous that they are decorating and celebrating in ways that give them pleasure. Yet, it is not for me. There was a time when my middle daughter was younger that we regularly set up five trees in the house, wrapped the stairway railing in holly and bows, placed several nativity scenes in the house, decorated fireplace mantles, and baked many Christmas goodies. In love with the lights and excitement of the holiday season, my daughter excitedly anticipated the preparations and decorating process. I remember when she was a toddler, one of her favorite activities was riding in the cart at Target and Wal-Mart, spending a great amount of time visiting the holiday décor section and exclaiming over the brightly lit trees and blow-ups lawn décor. Nowadays, we are so busy that the thought of decking the house out like that exhausts me and the rest of the family. We still hold tightly, however, to traditions we enjoy and that have become staples in our family, but we strive to keep the meaning of the celebrations high and clear and the emphasis on gifting low. Continually resting in Jesus is the only way to receive the peace and joy we desire. The spirit of Christmas is more than trees, ornaments, holiday baking, and gathering with family to exchange and open gifts. Not that any of those are bad, but remembering and cherishing, celebrating Christ coming to us in human form is meant to linger in our spirit throughout the year. Why does society divide the time? Because Christmas has become so commercial and many are lost, without knowing Christ or celebrating the true purpose. As followers of Christ, we can keep the true spirit of Christmas within our heart and mind if we focus on becoming more like Him daily. The older I get, the less excited I get about the commercialism surrounding such a sacred holiday. Of course, I love to give and receive gifts. Especially when the perfect one is found and I get to experience the delight of giving something personal and special to someone I love dearly. Yet, the assignment of shopping just because it is a certain time of year is a chore I don’t enjoy. I want to sit quietly with Jesus, reflecting on Who He is and wants He is calling me to do for Him. Quiet time with the Lord, in His word, with no sounds or schedule. Just the two of us together as I focus on what He has done and is doing within me. Although I attempt to speak to and listen for Him daily, I know there is nothing as sacred as true, undivided time with nothing to do but hear from Him. No prayers that unintentionally get interrupted with children or spouse calling. No distracted thoughts flitting through my mind as I am speaking my heart. What if Christmas was just each one of us seeking Him with whole hearts? No presents except the ones we offer Him in return? What if we sat in solitude, allowing Jesus to probe our spirit and reveal new mysteries to each of us? What would He say that we are not hearing now? I urge each one of us to carve special time, whether long or short, to rest in the Lord in this time before Christmas arrives, simply and intentionally preparing our hearts for Him. The podcast this week is not in my normal format. I’ve purposely selected several verses to read that are not typically used at Christmas, to slow us down and prepare us to remember the mercy of the Lord, and to seek and be grateful for His good and perfect will for us, to remember Who He is and the enormous gift we have in Jesus. The podcast will be divided into two parts to help us prepare for the arrival of Noel, where we more clearly remember Immanuel. Christ with us. I hope you will rest with me in the beauty and promise of these simple, yet sovereign words as I read verses and speak on each one. I hope it helps you to carve out special time to listen to His words, ponder your relationship, and reflect on Jesus and His immense love for you. For each of us. For God so loved the world! There is absolutely nothing more powerful than words, promises, and wisdom from God found in the Bible and the gift of eternal life we receive through Jesus. Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” God reveals himself to us through creation. Psalm 19:1 declares, “The heavens declare the glory of God and the firmament shows His handiwork.” No one should be able to miss the clear evidence from God of His majesty and sovereignty. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” How blessed we are to receive these words, and from Jesus Himself! This verse carries some of the most basic and forthright words in the Bible. They are also the most important. Jesus clearly tells us that He is the way to God. Christians do not have to argue with unbelievers or question our relationship through Jesus. For those who believe the way to God is too narrow, in reality, it is the opposite. Jesus came for everyone and clearly states the way with His words. Instead of thinking it is “limited” to say there is only one way, we can be thankful that God makes it very clear. Jesus assures us that He is the way and that no one will come to God, except through Him. Christ is our way to God, and He is also the living reality of each of God’s predictions and promises. Through the Holy Spirit within us, Jesus links Himself to us in this life, and for eternity. Philippians 1:11 says, “May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.” What beautiful and powerful words! They are a promise of all the character traits we will receive when we build a solid and mature personal relationship with God through Jesus. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Through the merciful and unmerited grace of our Heavenly Father, we are created as His masterpiece. It is our honor to serve Him and others with the gifts and interests He individually crafted for each of us. 2 Corinthians 4:10 says, “Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” Another beautiful promise. Suffering never seems like a gift, but through and because of Jesus, we experience the Lord shining through us when we hurt or suffer in any way. When we are broken, and expectantly reliant on Him, He will work within us and shine His glory from us. How this work prepares us and gifts us with an even clearer view of eternity! My greatest hardships have elevated my view of life to see with eternal perspective every moment. 1 John 4:8 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Oh, how God transforms us when we truly follow Him! Even as we are changed moment by moment to resemble Him, our love will never reach the heights of His. Jesus is true love. God is the author of love. He is love. Love is rooted in His nature and character. God exhibited true love through Jesus and required absolutely nothing of us, yet He loves us with an everlasting love beyond our comprehension. This world warps love with our selfish and ungodly desires. How much different we would be if we all chose to follow Him and allow His transforming love to radiate through us. 2 Peter 3:9 says, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” Again we see how merciful God is! He patiently waits, while allowing the sin He cannot bear, knowing some will still some to repentance. During this time of grace, those who already know Jesus should use the time we are granted to do His work and make Him known to others. Isaiah 40:28 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.” God understands our every thought and desire. He is ahead of our every need. For those who believe that God no longer cares, we see that He is indeed always with us and never grows tired or weary of caring for us. 1 John 1:5 says, “This is the message we heard from Jesus and now declare to you: God is light, and there is no darkness in him at all.” God is infinitely holy, completely righteous, and pure in absolutely every way. Hallelujah! He is our Father, Provider, and Protector. He is our Guiding Light. We must remain close to Him and allow His light and righteousness to pour into us. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” We are blessed to have as our holy Heavenly Father the very same God who created the heavens and the earth, who aligned the stars and moon, and who lovingly created each of us personally. He intentionally loves and cares for us in ways only He can and He yearns to do it. He is dependable and will not change, shift, or leave us. Psalm 18:30 says, “As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord's word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him.” Although those who do not follow the Lord may believe those of us who do are weak, we understand that all of us are weak and we glory in that weakness! Hallelujah! He is strong where I am weak! God is infinitely stronger than any of us and we desire His power to work in and through us. He lovingly cares for us as we rely on Him to protect and save us. God certainly shields us with His word and His mighty, loving power. Make me weak, Lord! Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” The very same character traits found in Jesus are available to us through the Holy Spirit as we mature our walk with Christ. They come as a by-product of following Him and are nothing we can gain by our own works or attempts. As we join our lives to Him, we begin to be transformed into new creations that imitate the glorious qualities He embodies. Since God is the author of the law and He sent the Spirit, both align perfectly with the fruits that we begin to possess and exhibit through Him. Micah 7:18-19 says, “Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.” How God delights in showing us mercy! Our God of love does not hold grudges, is joyful when we repent, and heartily extends forgiveness to us as we return to Him. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” God’s word is living and active, not just a compilation of meaningless words. It is holy, life-affirming, and life-changing. God’s word cuts through to our moral and spiritual core, revealing who we are and exposing our intentions. Accept, believe, and live God’s word so that it will transform and shape your life. Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.” What we allow access to our mind will determine and shape our present – and our eternity. What we think on forms our attitude, words, and actions. If we have difficulty shaping thoughts that are as God calls: noble, right, pure, lovely, etc., we must assess what we are exposing ourselves to and whether we are in His word to cleanse and support our mind and actions. When we ask God to purify our mind and desires and help us focus on the thoughts He calls us to have, He will enable us to crave and keep wholesome material going in so that holiness will flow out. 1 Peter 1:15 says. “But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy.” Our Heavenly Father is a God of mercy and justice who expects His followers to imitate Him, and desire to be holy, just as He is. Romans 5:1-5 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Once we are reconciled to God through Jesus, there is no sin blocking our relationship with Him. This peace with God is only available because of the price Jesus paid for our sins when He died on the cross. We are now complete with Jesus, yet still growing in and through Him. Because we are human, we still struggle with the temptations and sins this life offers, yet we have the privilege of heeding the Holy Spirit within us and taking our battles to the Lord to fight on our behalf. As we mature through Him, we recognize that with each release we grow more intertwined with God and do not grow discouraged by the weights and pressures of this world. We know every trial will carry us closer to Him and should bring Him glory as He works in and through us. Praise God! We are renewed through Him daily! Rest and abide in God’s holy words of scripture as you prepare your heart to worship Jesus in a deeper way this holiday season. No greater gift is available to us in this life than to accept fellowship with God through the sacrifice of Jesus and live with Him for eternity. Place Him before preparations and shopping, wrapping, and movies. May His word be stored in your mind and reflected on as you shape your life after His. Gracious Heavenly Father, we rejoice in the love You have for us and thank you for the gracious gift of eternal life with You through your Son, Jesus. Calm our spirit, our heart, and mind as we reflect on all You are this Christmas season. Help us to seek You in new ways. Open us to seeing this world with Your eyes and desires. Thank you for Your eternal love for us. Help us to move and respond to this world with eternal perspective that mirrors You. In Your precious name we pray. I deeply desire to allow God to cultivate a strong community of women through the work He has given me. I pray you will be better equipped to live with an eternal perspective and encouraged to influence children for Jesus. Future episodes and resources will be geared toward the important duty we have as parents and grandparents to guide and guard children for Jesus. The Live With Eternal Perspective podcast is currently linked to my new website at terrihitt.com, where you can access all the podcasts housed in one convenient location, as well as receive access to blog posts, transcripts, and additional free resources that are added to regularly. Thank you for listening. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to Jesus and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up and find for new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #074 – Brandon Janous Interview Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Believers in Christ often think we live with an eternal perspective, yet we don’t comprehend the depth and weight of eternity until we face death in some form. Whether it is through the passing of a loved one, or the impact of an illness, we each encounter moments where we must confront the truth of our mortality. On today’s podcast, I share a conversation with Brandon Janous. Because Father’s Day is coming soon, I knew this was the perfect time to introduce you to Brandon. As you hear the story of his family, you will meet a man who made the choice to allow God to carry him through the most difficult season of his life. Brandon is living the definition of what a godly and committed father practices. Placing his family before himself and allowing God to have center place in his life. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” A believer does not grieve as one without hope. I think you’ll be encouraged by this episode and see the difference the faith of one woman made in the lives of those left to navigate this uncertain world. Because of his relationship with Jesus, Brandon is continuing the legacy left by his wife, Rachel and allowing others to be drawn nearer to Christ by his testimony. The truth is that we are here to point the way to Jesus. You’ll hear that in the podcast today. ----------------------------------- Interview with Brandon Janous --------------------------------------- I hope you enjoyed this episode and that you will ponder the words of Rachel Janous, “I know that I’m dying, and I’m at peace with that. At this point, all I have left to give is Jesus and that’s more than enough.” Rachel’s words are a truth that we each need to intentionally put into perspective each moment of our life. Allow the viewpoint she shared with Brandon to remind you of the basic fact that Jesus is more than enough and our focus should never stray from striving to live in ways that point others to Him and allow us to be ready to meet Him in eternity. Life is full of heartache and beauty, mixed with pain, grief, and suffering, but a peace that passes understanding is available any time we look to Him and release our burdens into His capable and willing hands. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 074 Brandon Janous Interview Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #074 – Brandon Janous Interview Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Believers in Christ often think we live with an eternal perspective, yet we don’t comprehend the depth and weight of eternity until we face death in some form. Whether it is through the passing of a loved one, or the impact of an illness, we each encounter moments where we must confront the truth of our mortality. On today’s podcast, I share a conversation with Brandon Janous. Because Father’s Day is coming soon, I knew this was the perfect time to introduce you to Brandon. As you hear the story of his family, you will meet a man who made the choice to allow God to carry him through the most difficult season of his life. Brandon is living the definition of what a godly and committed father practices. Placing his family before himself and allowing God to have center place in his life. Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” A believer does not grieve as one without hope. I think you’ll be encouraged by this episode and see the difference the faith of one woman made in the lives of those left to navigate this uncertain world. Because of his relationship with Jesus, Brandon is continuing the legacy left by his wife, Rachel and allowing others to be drawn nearer to Christ by his testimony. The truth is that we are here to point the way to Jesus. You’ll hear that in the podcast today. ----------------------------------- Interview with Brandon Janous --------------------------------------- I hope you enjoyed this episode and that you will ponder the words of Rachel Janous, “I know that I’m dying, and I’m at peace with that. At this point, all I have left to give is Jesus and that’s more than enough.” Rachel’s words are a truth that we each need to intentionally put into perspective each moment of our life. Allow the viewpoint she shared with Brandon to remind you of the basic fact that Jesus is more than enough and our focus should never stray from striving to live in ways that point others to Him and allow us to be ready to meet Him in eternity. Life is full of heartache and beauty, mixed with pain, grief, and suffering, but a peace that passes understanding is available any time we look to Him and release our burdens into His capable and willing hands. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. https://www.instagram.com/brandonjanous/ https://www.facebook.com/brandon.janous

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 015 - Hearing God's Voice Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #015 – Hearing God’s Voice Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. In past episodes of the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast we have talked about raising our children to be set-apart, preparing them for spiritual warfare, helping them find identity through Christ, and other important issues. Much of what we discuss is rooted by the topic we’ll explore today. How do we teach our children to listen for and recognize God’s voice? Every believer wants their children to desire God. We also want our child to know when they hear Him. This is a quality that must be learned, because they will need this skill throughout their life. We must teach them that although God speaks to each person uniquely, He remains consistent in basic qualities . There are two important truths we must help our child to understand and remember: 1. God convicts, but doesn’t condemn . John 16:13 says, “But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; He will speak only what He hears, and He will tell you what is yet to come .” God, in His holiness and loving kindness toward us, will impress us with a sense of guilt or wrong-doing. Our Heavenly Father cannot sin. As believers, we know that the Holy Spirit living within us will not allow us to go against God without some type of conviction pricking us. However, God does not condemn. Condemnation is a tactic used by the devil to pummel us with a pronouncement that we are unfit for God’s use. Condemnation is the place Satan desires us to stay without help or hope so that we do not repent and seek forgiveness, or allow God to cleanse us and move us into service for Him. 2. God is consistent, never contradicting . John 16:7-8 says, “But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you. When He comes, He will prove the world to be in the wrong about sin and righteousness and judgment.” God is Truth . He cannot lie or deceive. However, the world we are a part of is in direct opposition to the Word of God. When God speaks to us, He will never lead us to anything that opposes what His word says. Remember the tactics of the devil in the garden with Adam and Eve? He tricked Eve by taking God’s words, but twisting them enough that confusion reigned. God will never stray from His holy truths and commandments. We can rest in the knowledge that whatever He speaks into our life or however He leads us, it will always be in total alignment with His Word. Once our children understand that God only guides by truth , holiness , and love , they will be better equipped to navigate this world with confidence that they will be able to recognize God’s voice. Now that we know how to instruct them in the basic truths on which to measure God’s voice against that of self, world, or Satan, let’s discuss how to prepare them to recognize God. What are some of the most effective ways to instruct our children to hear and experience fellowship with God daily? I’ll share 9 ways now: 1. Through Scripture – Hebrews 4:12 says, “ For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart .” and 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” Mentoring God though a strong and growing relationship with Jesus and letting our children see us seek God through the Bible encourages them to do the same. When we teach our children to seek and know God through His word, we are training them to trust the Lord, to follow Him, and to recognize Him. The relationship they grow through this method will also build the foundation for a strong prayer life. Together, they will be encouraged to seek their Heavenly Father and to listen for Him daily. 2. Through godly counsel – Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight. ” and Proverbs 12:15 says, “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.” Again, what we mentor is key. If we know the Lord and are already in or growing a strong walk with Him, we are better equipped to have godly wisdom to impart to our children. We are also more likely to have other godly leaders or influencers in our life who will be well equipped to counsel with our children, if needed. We will also be able to advise our children regarding godly leaders they can trust. Also, the Bible is our main source of wisdom. Again, if they are in the Word, studying the Word, and receiving godly counsel regarding God’s word, it is the absolute best source they can access. 3. Through experiences – There are incredible stories in the Bible where people saw and heard God through experiences. Jonah in the belly of the whale, Moses and the burning bush or at the parting of the Red Sea, Daniel in the lion’s den, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in the fiery furnace. The stories are miraculous and many. Just as God worked miracles in days past, He is able to perform miraculous feats in our lives today. We do have to beware as we teach our children that we can see and hear God through experiences, however. Experiences are so closely tied to our feelings and emotions, and those are not trustworthy indicators we want to instruct our children to use. Remember the two basic truths we shared in the beginning of the podcast. Bring everything back to the Bible. God never contradicts His word and He never condemns. 4. Through thoughts – Amos 4:13 says, “He who forms the mountains, who creates the wind, and who reveals His thoughts to mankind, who turns dawn to darkness, and treads on the heights of the earth— the LORD God Almighty is his name.” God’s ways are not typically our ways. Through a deepening, humble relationship with God through Jesus as Savior, our thoughts are transformed to become more like His. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will .” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 5. Through nature – Romans 1:18-20 says, “The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” Exodus 40:38 says, “ So the cloud of the LORD was over the tabernacle by day, and fire was in the cloud by night, in the sight of all the Israelites during all their travels.” 6. Through visuals – Acts 2:17 says, “In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams.” Joel 2:28 says, “And afterward, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.” God has been known to use dreams or a vision actually seen in minds to give guidance or a message. Through Old Testament stories we hear of God giving revelation in this way. 7. Through faith – Romans 10:17 says, “Consequently, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ. ” Not all who hear will respond to the Lord. When we hear and believe, we receive new life through Christ. God’s word is clear. When we have a close walk and draw nearer to God through faith, we will hear His guidance and direction more clearly. The same is true for our children as they mature their faith. 8. Through peace – Philippians 4:7 says, “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” When we and our children bring anxieties and troubles to God through prayer and faith, hope, and trust, we will receive the perfect peace beyond our understanding. 9. Through His still, small voice - 1 Kings 19:12 says, “After the earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.” God works in very powerful ways, but also in gentle ways that we can be assured come from Him. Now that we know how to help our children to live with assurance that they can hear God, let’s uncover what might keep them from hearing Him. Bitterness, jealousy, unforgiveness…the list can go on. Do you understand what I am referring to ? Sin . Job 42:5 says, “My ears had heard of You but now my eyes have seen You.” Equipping our children for a life of closeness and holiness to God through Jesus Christ is a challenge bigger than any of us. In our own strength, we are certainly not equipped to enable our children to live for Him. Through faith and trust, we are able to deepen our walk moment by moment so that we are more discerning and knowledgeable about how to mentor Christ to our children. As our children, draw near to Him so that He will draw nearer to them, the faith they hear and read about becomes real . Their faith becomes individual . It becomes purposed . Their faith becomes life-saving and life-changing . What if your child says they cannot hear from God, but they want to? James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” It takes time to grow a faith that seeks and hears our Father. Continue to mentor strong and intentional faith for your child. Read God’s word with them, pray with them and for them, ask them to pray for you, study God’s word with them. Successful and maturing faith is a lifestyle. It’s not a Sunday activity or the responsibility of the church. Continue your faith walk and be accessible and loving so that your child sees Jesus in you and desires Him inside himself. Dear Heavenly Father, Your goodness truly overwhelms us. As we draw nearer to You, Your Word promises us that You will draw nearer to us. Father, we long to carry faith that shines, but the work is hard. In order to have that faith, it must be forged, and the process is intensely hard, it can be scary. We desire that faith for our children, yet it can be so hard to see them suffer, to walk through the hurts and hardships with them. Yet, Your word tells us You are with us, and we know You are with them wherever they go. May we not rescue our children when they are in the fires, but guide them to look Up to You. May we set godly examples in every way. Help us to grow and mature in You, not overlooking the furnace we must be refined in. Life is hard, but You told us it would be. Help us keep the faith and shine Your love and light so that You are made attractive and accessible to our children in ways that please and honor You. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is part of the Spark Media Network and can also be found on the Edifi app. Each episode is also available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #095 – Through the Shadow of Death – Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I am honored to begin a new series of interviews in recognition of National Adoption Month. What a blessing it is to be able to converse with several people regarding the topic of adoption. As you probably already know, our family has added to our family through adoption twice and we are deeply blessed, of course, through bringing our daughters home, but also through the relationships we’ve built in the adoption community. National Adoption Month is an initiative that seeks to increase national awareness of adoption issues and bring attention to the need for adoptive families for teens in the U.S. foster care system. I also believe the movement includes awareness for international adoption. Although some adoptions abroad are closed due to Covid at this time, I pray the time will quickly come that all children, no matter where they live, will be able to live in loving, nurturing, permanent families. God doesn’t care where a child is adopted from. Whether domestic or international, children need homes. They are meant to live in attentive, loving homes. It breaks my heart that any child would be neglected, abused, or forgotten. Imagine how it makes God feel. Every person should know that someone cares about them and their well-being because they are deeply cherished. Our own journey with adoption began in China simply because that is where we knew God told us we had a daughter waiting. Over the ten years that followed our first adoption, we advocated and prayed for many children, both domestic and international. We worked with organizations, began an adoption ministry at church, and held seminars and conferences. I have lost count of the number of children I have prayed for as I viewed their photos and also shared them with others to pray and advocate for, as well. We also took courses to be approved to adopt domestically, but that was not God’s plan for us. Instead, He sent us back to China for our youngest child, and I will never forget the day I first saw her adorable face. It was the moment I fell in love with her. Today, I am beginning a series of interviews by introducing you to Johanna Cannelongo, a 4-time repeat adopter from China. Johanna is a wife and homeschooling mama of eight children, ages 5-21. She says she lives with her heart anchored in eternity, but her feet planted in Maryland on a little farmette with her amazing and funny husband of 23 years, Brian. Johanna’s passion is to raise children who love Jesus and to advocate for the most vulnerable. Now you will hear Johanna share the hope of Jesus through her story of His faithfulness in her life during tragedy and triumph. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ The goodness and faithfulness of God and His intimate provisions to each of us is clearly evident in the story Johanna shared with us. Johanna says that Jesus is her best friend, her light, and her song of living hope that saves her every day. His intimacy is free to each of us and He awaits our release of self so that He can freely minister and guide in the personal and loving ways He desires. Even through the valley of the shadow of death, Jesus can cause us to fear no evil, for He is right with us, carrying us each step of the journey, when we allow Him to. You can learn more about Johanna through her foundation, Live Gia Grow Forever on Facebook or Instagram. You can reach Johanna at johanna@wildflowerhope.com. Father God, we call upon Your name. You are the Great I Am, the Most High, our Creator and Sustainer, our Provider and Great Comforter. We need you so much more than we even realize. Father, thank you for the ways You carry us. You do not walk beside us. You intentionally and intimately desire to carry each load and carry us through the pain and trials. Heavenly Father, You are good, yet this world is not. Help us to crave You over culture and turn to You with every pain and heartache, every question and stumbling block. May we please You and fulfill the purpose You have set for us. May we give You honor and praise through easy and hard. When our deepest fears come true, may we not turn from You, but to You as we trust and rest in Your arms. Soothe our pain and show us Your tender mercies. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 095 - Through the Shadow of Death - Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #095 – Through the Shadow of Death – Interview with Johanna Cannelongo Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. Today I am honored to begin a new series of interviews in recognition of National Adoption Month. What a blessing it is to be able to converse with several people regarding the topic of adoption. As you probably already know, our family has added to our family through adoption twice and we are deeply blessed, of course, through bringing our daughters home, but also through the relationships we’ve built in the adoption community. National Adoption Month is an initiative that seeks to increase national awareness of adoption issues and bring attention to the need for adoptive families for teens in the U.S. foster care system. I also believe the movement includes awareness for international adoption. Although some adoptions abroad are closed due to Covid at this time, I pray the time will quickly come that all children, no matter where they live, will be able to live in loving, nurturing, permanent families. God doesn’t care where a child is adopted from. Whether domestic or international, children need homes. They are meant to live in attentive, loving homes. It breaks my heart that any child would be neglected, abused, or forgotten. Imagine how it makes God feel. Every person should know that someone cares about them and their well-being because they are deeply cherished. Our own journey with adoption began in China simply because that is where we knew God told us we had a daughter waiting. Over the ten years that followed our first adoption, we advocated and prayed for many children, both domestic and international. We worked with organizations, began an adoption ministry at church, and held seminars and conferences. I have lost count of the number of children I have prayed for as I viewed their photos and also shared them with others to pray and advocate for, as well. We also took courses to be approved to adopt domestically, but that was not God’s plan for us. Instead, He sent us back to China for our youngest child, and I will never forget the day I first saw her adorable face. It was the moment I fell in love with her. Today, I am beginning a series of interviews by introducing you to Johanna Cannelongo, a 4-time repeat adopter from China. Johanna is a wife and homeschooling mama of eight children, ages 5-21. She says she lives with her heart anchored in eternity, but her feet planted in Maryland on a little farmette with her amazing and funny husband of 23 years, Brian. Johanna’s passion is to raise children who love Jesus and to advocate for the most vulnerable. Now you will hear Johanna share the hope of Jesus through her story of His faithfulness in her life during tragedy and triumph. ----------------------------------------------------INTERVIEW------------------------------------------------ The goodness and faithfulness of God and His intimate provisions to each of us is clearly evident in the story Johanna shared with us. Johanna says that Jesus is her best friend, her light, and her song of living hope that saves her every day. His intimacy is free to each of us and He awaits our release of self so that He can freely minister and guide in the personal and loving ways He desires. Even through the valley of the shadow of death, Jesus can cause us to fear no evil, for He is right with us, carrying us each step of the journey, when we allow Him to. You can learn more about Johanna through her foundation, Live Gia Grow Forever on Facebook or Instagram. You can reach Johanna at johanna@wildflowerhope.com . Father God, we call upon Your name. You are the Great I Am, the Most High, our Creator and Sustainer, our Provider and Great Comforter. We need you so much more than we even realize. Father, thank you for the ways You carry us. You do not walk beside us. You intentionally and intimately desire to carry each load and carry us through the pain and trials. Heavenly Father, You are good, yet this world is not. Help us to crave You over culture and turn to You with every pain and heartache, every question and stumbling block. May we please You and fulfill the purpose You have set for us. May we give You honor and praise through easy and hard. When our deepest fears come true, may we not turn from You, but to You as we trust and rest in Your arms. Soothe our pain and show us Your tender mercies. In the precious name of Jesus we humbly pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. Please visit terrihitt.com to access podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=live%20gia%20grow%20forever%20foundation

< Back Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 104 - How My Daughter Showed Me God's Love Language Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast – Episode 104 – How My Daughter Showed Me God's Love Language Thank you for sharing your day with me. I pray this podcast gives you the awareness and tools you need to STOP being a GOOD mom and BECOME the GODLY mom God entrusts you to be. Then you will be the SET-APART woman PURPOSELY raising children to chase CHRIST over culture. Just a quick reminder as we start, if you enjoy Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast episodes, would you please share this episode or others with a friend or family member? When you graciously take a moment to do that, then leave a rating or review at Apple Podcast, you are ensuring that others will find the podcast and are helping affect generations for Jesus. One Sunday morning my husband and youngest daughter came to see if I was ready to leave for church. I was in my bedroom closet finishing getting dressed. After we talked for a bit, then laughed about something silly, my husband started teasing. I don’t remember what his joke was, but as he made a comment, he pushed the closet door closed (with me still in it). As the door was just about ready to shut, our youngest daughter thrust her hand into the crack to stop the door from closing. Of course, you can guess what happened. The door slammed shut, catching part of her ring finger. Redness and a blood blister immediately appeared. I opened the door and tended to her finger as my husband apologized. “I didn’t know you were going to put your hand in there,” he told her. “I’m so sorry you got hurt.” “I didn’t want the door to close on Mama,” she said. Although she knew her daddy was just teasing, our daughter wanted to keep me from being excluded or shut out. Instead of thinking about the consequences of her actions, she acted on instinct with one thought top of mind. In her own words, she wanted to, “Save Mama.” Even though she’s never sacrificed her finger in a door before, my girl has shown sacrificial love often. Any time she thinks family needs to be rescued or defended, she’s always first in line to be the rescuer. I can think of times she has offered the last bit of her food to another, offered her soft robe when I was cold, or a blanket for someone in need of warmth. She doesn’t only see or hear the needs of others, she purposely looks to see if she can quickly get that need filled by something she possesses. Not all people have that skill or desire. Not everyone can offer sacrificial love. Most want to count the cost to self before they act. Of course, I hope my daughter doesn’t thrust her hand before a closing door again, but I never want to discourage her willingness to place others before herself. Sacrificing self for family is one of her love languages. In a much broader sense, God has shown all people this type of love language. Knowing our need for a perfect Savior, God offered what only He could give. 1 John 3:18 says, “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth .” There are four things my daughter does consistently that show me her heart for family and Jesus. As I pondered what they were, I realized they are also four ways God shows us His love. Let’s examine those examples of how God exhibits love to us through actions and how those specific steps show us the way to respond to Him and others. Then let’s use them and teach them to our children. 1. Purpose - Before God could offer His beloved Son for our sins, He needed to bring us into existence. Can you believe our Heavenly Father planned every one of us long before we were born? Each of us were crafted with intention and for purposes that are supposed to bring honor back to Him. The Maker of heaven and earth intentionally brought you and me into existence because He yearned for us to live and spend eternity with Him. Psalm 139:13-16 says, “For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be.” Obviously my daughter didn’t craft you or me into existence, but she is very purposeful in seeing how she can serve others with what she has. In Acts 20:35 Paul says,“In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive .” As we are purposed in what we do for God we are using the love language He used for us. 2. Sacrifice – John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life .” Some who do not know Jesus believe that there is more than one way to Heaven. God is very clear. He doesn’t want anyone to perish. John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me .” God gave mankind the very best He had. Our human mind simply cannot comprehend the enormous sacrifice God made for us. As a mother who has lost a child, I have lived the pain and crushing grief of my child passing before me. I can’t fathom sacrificing one of my children to take on the sins of others and die in their place. So great is God’s love for us, so great is the love and obedience of Christ that we have the choice to accept this greatest of all gifts. When my youngest daughter steps in to discover how she can serve someone, she often sacrifices an item she greatly desires to keep, yet releases it with a smile and willingness to help someone else experience joy and comfort. Hebrews 13:16 says, “And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased .” As we sacrifice self for others, we are serving God and using the love language He used for us. 3. Love - God offers us agape love, a pure, unselfish love that is not derived from attraction or obligation, but is a sacrificial choice. I personally describe agape love as 1 Corinthians 13 - mixed with Jesus on the cross, dying for our sins. Matthew 22:37-39 says, “Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself .’” When another person offers all they have or something greatly desired by them without selfish motives or intentions, they begin to experience the highest form of love. As we love in ways only possible through Christ, we are using the language of love in ways that serve God and give Him great joy. 4. Obedience – John 3:16-17 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him .” Jesus modeled complete obedience to God. He did not make excuses, try to bargain with God, stall, or turn away in disobedience. Instead, Jesus prayed with all His might that He would follow exactly where God desired Him to go and serve. It wasn’t easy, but Jesus forged ahead where His Heavenly Father called. We’ve all had times in life where we hear the still small voice of God calling us to obey. In that moment we have the opportunity to make a choice. Will we hear and act with godly intentions and to please the Father or do we choose to serve self. The greatest moments in my life have been birthed after sacrificial obedience to God. I bet yours have been, too. As we step out in obedience, even when the future is uncertain or the cost is great, we serve God as He desires and deserves. Through these examples, we remember that we are also to carry purpose, sacrifice for others, offer agape love, and walk in obedience to God. Through Jesus, we see the perfect example of how to walk in faith and live with love. We are also called to model these qualities for our children and teach them that the ability to use them for God will come from a close walk with Jesus. 1 John 4:8 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love .” Praise God that we have been given many examples to experience God’s unlimited, everlasting love. What we see dimly here will one day be fully revealed in eternity with Him. Do you see ways your children are loving and serving God through actions, words, desires, and reactions? Let them know you see and appreciate what they say and do. Remind them that God is pleased when we walk in ways that honor Him . Think about how you are teaching your children the methods of seeing , receiving , and offering God’s love languages. Start being intentional in how you model and teach ways of serving God and others. Anticipate the godly growth God will bring into your home (that will last into eternity) as you are purposed, sacrificial, loving, and obedient and teach your children to be the same as they grow in relationship with Jesus. Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you for Your everlasting love and kindness. Your intentional ways are so far above us that we often fail to understand or even recognize how great You are. Open our eyes and heart so that we are purposed mothers who yearn more deeply for You day by day. Enable us to follow You fully as You call so we can show the way to our children. May we be purposed, sacrificial, loving, and obedient and give You great joy. May we see and use Your love languages effortlessly because we draw nearer to You each moment. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Raising children is challenging. No one has all the answers because each child is unique as are parenting styles and family dynamics. By connecting with and knowing your children as you maintain purposed growth in Christ, you will be better prepared for any situation you face. That’s why you hear me share about the Set-Apart Collective in this podcast. I work with ambitious moms who care about making Jesus known to their children. Are you a high-achieving woman who loves Jesus, but is so busy with the rush of work and daily life that you feel like you’re being drained like the water in your bathtub? Do you yearn to get closer to Jesus and show Him to your kids so you will create a love that will last into eternity? The desire is there, but your days spiral out of control before you even think about opening your Bible. Do you ever stop to think that you are the first Jesus your child will see? Let me remind you there is hope. There is a way you can be equipped to raise kids who chase Christ over culture. If you want a connected relationship with Christ and your children that leads them to your side and His feet, instead of them seeking validation from peers, I have an 8-step program to move you from frustrated to fulfilled. I will show you how to reflect Jesus in a way that attracts your family to a connected relationship that lasts into eternity. Remember, godly parenting is rooted in relationship with Christ and the mindset you carry. If you don’t want peers and culture to be the main influence over your child, if you desire to parent to “prepare” your child for eternity with Christ, not repair your relationship with them, the Set-Apart Collective will arm you with a Christ-centered Motherhood Mindset Model™, and create a Purposed Parenting Plan™. You’ll also deepen your identity in Christ so you can mentor the way for your children to do the same. You will be a purposed mother with an intentional mind and heart set on Christ and your family and you will have the tools to raise set apart kids as you parent the heart, not simply the behavior. Does this sound like a lifeline to help you be that set-apart mom God has entrusted you to be? Visit terrihitt.com/coaching and click the link for a free, no obligation conversation call with me. This is a strategic call where I will hear your biggest struggle and show you how to turn it into a blessing that will bring you closer to Christ and your children. It’s time for believing mothers to be purposed in preparing their children for a lifetime pursuit of Christ. Time is short. Make yours matter for eternity. One last thing to remember - if you’re not purposed in knowing Jesus and showing Him to the next generation, the world will likely sway your children away from Christ. I pray that what you hear on this podcast enables you to stop being a good mom and focus on being a godly parent. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to parent with eternal purpose and connection with your children and Christ. Previous Next

< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode 029 - Blameless Before Christ Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #029 – Blameless Before Christ Thank you for listening to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast. My prayer is that you and I will parent with purpose and confidently connect with Christ and our children moment by moment. We brought our middle daughter home from China eighteen years ago. I have such beautiful memories of how deeply I longed to raise her for Christ before we ever brought her home. In fact, God began working on my heart years before we even knew we had a baby in China. It’s ironic, because my husband and I were perfectly content that we had raised two children, a son and a daughter. We knew we were entering a new season in our life since they had both graduated from high school. We weren’t sure what it would be like, but we had raised children starting at the age of eighteen and we were still young. Well, you know that saying, “but God?” That definitely applies here. I’ve always been one of those people who critically examines myself. Let me explain. For example, when I was young my parents only had to say, “we are very disappointed in you.” The spankings or groundings that I received when I was in trouble were nothing to compared to a stern look of disapproval or hearing that I had let them down. So after we had raised our first set of children, I would sometimes mentally review our parenting years in my mind. There were so many beautiful memories and times I thought we had done well as parents. There were also recollections of moments I wished I had handled differently. No one is perfect and I didn’t expect my life or parenting skills to be, but I like to learn. I like to grow. Most of all, I desire to mature my walk with Christ moment by moment. Because of the purposed growth I had in my relationship with Jesus by this time, I had become a different person than I was when I had two children by the time I was 21 years old. How deeply I wished I had known Christ in those early precious years. I wish I had given my children a deeper knowledge of Jesus, but I didn’t even know Jesus until I was 22. I yearned to have known Jesus earlier and really matured my walk with Him quickly. Sometimes my mind would wander to tiny thoughts of how I would parent differently if I had a baby at that time in my life. By then I was around 40. It surprised me that I had these wistful urges to parent differently with a deeper connection to Christ. It certainly wasn’t empty nest syndrome. It was more of an awakening that God was stirring within me, not a craving for another child. In my mind, I could see myself with a little girl and I thought of all of the things I would do differently. In hindsight, I now know that God was weaving many details together because He knew the plans He had for us and the plans for our future daughters. He was preparing a heart that thought it was finished parenting for the tasks He would honor my husband and I with. A mother’s heart usually has many longings. As believers, we want our children to have and be the best God intends for them. We all know each day can bring trying times. Our intention may be to start and end the day with sunshine and roses, but events or mishaps occur that challenge or change the plans we made. Life interferes and if we are not eternal minded, we trade opportunities God intended with purpose for cheap versions of a worldly existence. We think it’s good. We can be perfectly happy, but we may not know we are missing a deep joy in our soul that gives God joy and honor. We miss opportunities to lift our child to the Lord and teach them the way to live a blameless life before Christ. I know I was a good mother. But time and relationship with Jesus has taught me how to be a godly mother. There is no comparison. I want to continue to mature in the depth of my skills and wisdom as a mother parenting for the Lord. I desire for you to be a godlier mother, too. Our children desperately need Jesus. The instruction they receive from us is the direct line that will guide them to Him. In the book of Philippians, Paul speaks to the saints in Christ who are in Philippi. His words in Philippians 1:8-11 are beautifully inspiring and I yearn for us as diligent, discerning mothers to listen to what he says. The passage reads as follows, “For God is my witness, how greatly I long for you all with the affection of Jesus Christ. And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment , that you may approve the things that are excellent , that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ, being filled with the fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ , to the glory and praise of God .” Can you imagine saying these words to your children? Think of the godly power of placing their names individually at the beginning and then reciting this passage to them. Imagine praying these words over them, for them. The power of Christ would be at work to honor this prayer as you strive to parent with eternal meaning. In this passage shared from Paul’s eloquent and loving letter, we hear great wisdom regarding the way we are to live as heirs with Christ. Let’s look more closely at the passage and break down the meaning it still holds for us and our children today. 1. The word “affection” used in this passage is the strongest Greek word for intense emotion, and refers to internal organs, considered to be the parts of the body that hold and react to intense emotion . This word selection indicates a generous, gracious love that encompasses the entire being of a person. Imagine Christ’s power behind you as you purposely raise your children to greatly long for Him and for them to see you doing the same. 2. “In knowledge” is also from a Greek word, depicting absolute, advanced insight, judgement, and understanding. This form of biblical love is deeply rooted and regulated in Scriptural truth. Exactly the type of teaching and training we should purpose to give our children. 3. “Discernment” references moral integrity and insight, as well as effective and efficient utilization of knowledge. This astute attentiveness analyzes and approves what is appropriate or amiss. As 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 says, “Test all things; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil .” This deliberate discernment seeks to determine what is good and what is evil. Oh, how we must long for God to give us the discernment we need to parent with these qualities in mind with our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on eternity and centered on building these character qualities with a focus on God in our children. 4. As the passage continues, the phrase, “approve the things that are excellent” allows believers to differentiate what is truly important to Christ and enables the right priorities to be established and endorsed. As we raise our children in this sinful world, we must endorse and endow them with excellence built on a foundation of godly principles and relationship that honors God through Christ. 5. To be “sincere and without offense” is the highest calling for believers to attain. Our lifetime should be spent in an attempt to establish this genuine standing before Christ. A believers and followers of Christ, the integrity we carry in our personal life is the purity others believe comes from Christ. All we are and do reflects Him. This is what we should desire our children to witness within us. As we build our relationship with Jesus, making it stronger day by day, the result should bring us closer to this goal and allow us to be a witness to our children of a goal for them to strive for as well. Our children see and understand what is truly important to us. It is critical that we mirror the character of Christ and the passion He carried for pleasing and honoring the Father. 6. The phrase “fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ” refers to what is produced within believers through our standing with Jesus and the Holy Spirit living within us. As believers, we have have been redeemed and transformed through Jesus and also receive ongoing transformation through the Holy Spirit, which is alive and at work within us. The day our child also accepts Christ as Savior and begins a personal walk with Him is the best day a parent can experience. To see the fruits of the Spirit building fruits of righteousness as they pursue Christ is a miracle we are privileged to see and participate in. 7. To the glory and praise of God” recognizes and highlights Paul’s desire (and what should be our longing) – to glorify our Father in Heaven. That we can help our children do the same is a beautiful blessing. Each of us who claim to be Christians must purposely exercise the same preparation and practiced discipline that Jesus did as He obeyed our Heavenly Father as we live and parent daily. We must establish godly priorities and mentor them to our children so that they can live with true integrity established through relationship with Christ. Our godly mentorship allows our children to discover, desire, and develop a maturing walk with Jesus that will bless them for eternity. Philippians 2:14-16 says, “Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain .” “Blameless and harmless” mean to live above blame or disgrace, a life of purity and dignity that is only found through salvation and relationship with Jesus. Humans tend to relate to other humans and follow the standards or cultural norms accepted, but believing mothers desire that our children follow Jesus as mentor and guide and live in ways that will cause them to be blameless before Jesus each day. This will take the proper attitude from us and our children. As we set the tone and temperament of our household, mentoring Christ as we mature our personal walk with Him, we prayerfully rely on God to work out the salvation of our children as we entrust and lift them to Him. I love the words, “shine as lights in the world.” Before we even brought our middle daughter home as a baby, my husband and I prayed each day that we would raise her in pleasing ways to the Lord, that she would come to know Jesus as her Savior, and that she would be a shining light for Him. Do you know one of the most common compliments we receive for her? People tell us that she is a light. Mothers, as you purpose to raise children who will carry a mind set for eternity with Jesus, pray specific scriptural prayers. Seek His words and pray His words over your children. Pray them for yourself and your spouse. God will honor every prayer that is within His will. God is not willing that any should perish and He deeply desires for your children to love and honor you because they cherish and obey Him. Dear Heavenly Father, Your glorious light has the capacity to shine through us and into the hearts of others. Help us allow You to work through us. We are nothing without You. We thank you for the holiness and mercy You offer us and for the way You love us completely. Help us to see our children through Your eyes and heart. Enable us to carry Your mindset for eternity as we raise and care for them. Help us to stand blameless before You and model the character of Christ to our children and those we interact with. May this world be brighter because You are in us and we are actively and passionately pursuing You moment by moment. Father, thank you for teaching and growing us daily. 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Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #080 – Do You Love Jesus? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. What do you feel when you think of love? Possibly intense feelings of affection or a great interest in someone (or something)? Love affects us emotionally, mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. This is exactly what a relationship with Christ does; Jesus alters our life in every way. I find it fascinating to consider that the extent to which He changes me lies in my hands. For example: Am I clinging to Him? What good work am I allowing Him to cultivate? Am I clay in His capable hands, or am I an unyielding stone that must endure years of living water dripped and poured over me? Culture tries to downplay the significance of relationship with God through Christ. This world places high hopes and expectations on experiences. Feelings and emotions have become the new cultural foundation. We easily share “our truths” and “ways we identify” and expect it to become instantly validated by everyone as fact. Even when the Bible says differently. God’s word also proves that no one is an afterthought. Our Heavenly Father lovingly and intentionally planned each person, and knew the days of our life before any of us existed. Through His holy and sacred instruction to us, we can come to know and honor Him with devotion and love, patterned by a relationship with His son, Jesus. The Bible often teaches and instructs us to live completely opposite of what the world teaches or indoctrinates. Instead of basing truth on experiences, opinions, or agendas, God desires that we establish hope, faith, and trust through scriptural living. God’s holy word presents a living storehouse of wisdom, principles, and revelation breathed directly from the Father of creation. Through His word, God penetrates our core, confronts, challenges, convicts, and carries us as we release self and sin to our Savior. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Unblemished, authentic love was established by the Father and fulfilled by the Son. No other measure of love should exist or be accepted but what His word instructs. Yet, our selfish, foolish, ignorant lifestyles seek and receive imitation love through various forms, and in our emptiness, we wonder why we never experience fulfillment, purpose, or joy. Because God desired and first sought us with purposed grace, we know He plays a very active role in our relationship with and understanding of Him. John 6:44 says, “No one is able to come to Me unless the Father, the one having sent Me, draws him, and I will raise him up in the last day.” John 6:65 says, “Then Jesus said, “This is why I told you that no one can come to Me unless the Father has granted it to him.” Through the sacrificial love of Jesus, the Holy Spirit of the Living God exists within us! Without the work of the Holy Spirit in and through us, first initiating connection, then miraculously and gradually transforming us, we would never recognize the need for new life or spiritual renewal. Only God can reveal and pierce our spirit with His truth and prompt us to respond by faith to the mysteries of His truths. Our relationship maturation with God heavily relies on whether we allow the Holy Spirit to truly penetrate the core of our being. I believe the difference is largely explained as experiential versus scriptural faith. Do we rely on the experiences and history of our life on earth or believe the truths found in God’s word? Do we dig into what the Spirit reveals when we know and follow Jesus? Do we ask God for, and receive His wisdom, understanding, and discernment? Once we understand that God first pursued us, how will we respond? Do we continue living as usual, or do we allow the indwelling of God’s Holy Spirit to shift our intentions, thoughts, actions, and beliefs? Do we pursue Him with relentless abandonment of self? Luke 12:31 says, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and He will give you everything you need.” Such easy words to read and hope for. How hard that verse can be to believe in the course of daily life, schedules, and plans. The words of Jesus speaking to Martha about her sister, Mary touch my heart and free my soul to yearn for more, to intentionally cultivate a deep desire for Jesus. Luke 10:42 says, “But one thing is needed: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.” There is nothing more important than abiding in the presence of Jesus. Strive to be more engaged with Jesus than engaged for Him. Relationship with Jesus, constructed on the foundation of His love and sacrifice for us builds a devotion for Him that discerns and withstands what this world might call us to accomplish or believe and instead, awaits the calling He places within us. Psalm 63:8 says, “My soul clings to You; Your right hand upholds me.” When we allow our fleshly desires, plans, or failures to pull us away from the heart of Jesus, distracted by the shallowness of this world, we lose sight of the weighty destruction of sin and forget the joy of sweet fellowship with our Savior. God has created us for fellowship with Him. Never ignore the depth of the fruits of the Spirit God graciously deposits within us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Remember the promise of the Spirit of the Lord Himself is resting within us—the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, the Spirit of counsel and strength, the Spirit of knowledge and fear of the Lord. Such solemn, holy endowments should be examined with a heart set for Him and an attitude of reverence at the work He is completing within us because of His love for us. How will you respond? Will you love Jesus or be in love with Him? Proverbs 16:20-21 says, “Whoever heeds instruction will find success, and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord. The wise in heart are called discerning, and pleasant speech promotes instruction.” As we use discernment from the Lord, we understand that we increase the depth of our relationship with Him when we intentionally love Him more than this world. We cling to Him because we discover He is the only rock that stands firm. We move Him into the center of our world and pursue Him with an eagerness that although imperfect, is genuine and consistent. We believe the solid truths, promises, and instructions of the Bible because we trust and adore the Source more than the deceitful wisdom of this world. Once our hearts are soothed with the balm of His love despite the heartaches of this life, we understand that God has graciously and permanently lifted the veil once separating us from Him, and we never desire to leave His Holy and loving presence. After we discover that we have been the stumbling block keeping us from eternity with Him, we allow ourselves to begin preparing now to abide with Him in our eternal home. We must build the structure of our life upon the foundation only God can provide. Do not base your construction of beliefs, attitudes, actions, or love on what this world offers or the experiences you have suffered or endured. God is enough. His strength and grace are more than sufficient and are tailor-made for your every need or desire. As we deepen our relationship with Him, He shifts desires to truly satisfy our heart and fulfill wishes we often never even knew we had. At the same time, God also shifts our aspirations into alignment with His in beautiful and miraculous ways. Develop the courage and stamina to live for Christ by delving into His word with a desire for truth and fulfillment, allowing your faith and trust to grow scripture by scripture and prayer by prayer as you learn of, speak to, and listen for the Lord. The mindset of this world is in direct opposition to God because they are not in love with Him. As we seek to know, follow, and love Him completely, we recognize inconsistencies and lies that threaten society and entrap our culture. Through Jesus, we are able to escape the snares and live with grace and faith that guides us to deeper truth and fuels us with a holy desire to know and show Him to an empty world. Father God, You are good. Your righteousness and faithfulness to us are unimaginable. No one can completely understand Your ways, yet You still surround us with Your beautiful and loving gifts. The grass withers and the flowers fall, but Your word stands forever. Help us develop a true desire for You and Your word. Allow us to recognize our need for You, then step aside to enable You to work mighty miracles within us that will honor and glorify You. We have come to know and believe the love that You have for us, for You are love; and Your word tells us that whoever abides in love abides in God, and God in him. Abide in us, Father, when we passionately, relentlessly pursue You because we not only love you, but are in love with You. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. I invite you to visit terrihitt.com to access additional podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps because you are in love with Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 080 - Do You Love Jesus? Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #080 – Do You Love Jesus? Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to grow in Jesus together. I am blessed to be back with you to discuss more ways to live with eternal perspective. What do you feel when you think of love? Possibly intense feelings of affection or a great interest in someone (or something)? Love affects us emotionally, mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. This is exactly what a relationship with Christ does; Jesus alters our life in every way. I find it fascinating to consider that the extent to which He changes me lies in my hands. For example: Am I clinging to Him? What good work am I allowing Him to cultivate? Am I clay in His capable hands, or am I an unyielding stone that must endure years of living water dripped and poured over me? Culture tries to downplay the significance of relationship with God through Christ. This world places high hopes and expectations on experiences. Feelings and emotions have become the new cultural foundation. We easily share “our truths” and “ways we identify” and expect it to become instantly validated by everyone as fact. Even when the Bible says differently. God’s word also proves that no one is an afterthought. Our Heavenly Father lovingly and intentionally planned each person, and knew the days of our life before any of us existed. Through His holy and sacred instruction to us, we can come to know and honor Him with devotion and love, patterned by a relationship with His son, Jesus. The Bible often teaches and instructs us to live completely opposite of what the world teaches or indoctrinates. Instead of basing truth on experiences, opinions, or agendas, God desires that we establish hope, faith, and trust through scriptural living. God’s holy word presents a living storehouse of wisdom, principles, and revelation breathed directly from the Father of creation. Through His word, God penetrates our core, confronts, challenges, convicts, and carries us as we release self and sin to our Savior. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it pierces even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow. It judges the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Unblemished, authentic love was established by the Father and fulfilled by the Son. No other measure of love should exist or be accepted but what His word instructs. Yet, our selfish, foolish, ignorant lifestyles seek and receive imitation love through various forms, and in our emptiness, we wonder why we never experience fulfillment, purpose, or joy. Because God desired and first sought us with purposed grace, we know He plays a very active role in our relationship with and understanding of Him. John 6:44 says, “No one is able to come to Me unless the Father, the one having sent Me, draws him, and I will raise him up in the last day.” John 6:65 says, “Then Jesus said, “This is why I told you that no one can come to Me unless the Father has granted it to him.” Through the sacrificial love of Jesus, the Holy Spirit of the Living God exists within us! Without the work of the Holy Spirit in and through us, first initiating connection, then miraculously and gradually transforming us, we would never recognize the need for new life or spiritual renewal. Only God can reveal and pierce our spirit with His truth and prompt us to respond by faith to the mysteries of His truths. Our relationship maturation with God heavily relies on whether we allow the Holy Spirit to truly penetrate the core of our being. I believe the difference is largely explained as experiential versus scriptural faith. Do we rely on the experiences and history of our life on earth or believe the truths found in God’s word? Do we dig into what the Spirit reveals when we know and follow Jesus? Do we ask God for, and receive His wisdom, understanding, and discernment? Once we understand that God first pursued us, how will we respond? Do we continue living as usual, or do we allow the indwelling of God’s Holy Spirit to shift our intentions, thoughts, actions, and beliefs? Do we pursue Him with relentless abandonment of self? Luke 12:31 says, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and He will give you everything you need.” Such easy words to read and hope for. How hard that verse can be to believe in the course of daily life, schedules, and plans. The words of Jesus speaking to Martha about her sister, Mary touch my heart and free my soul to yearn for more, to intentionally cultivate a deep desire for Jesus. Luke 10:42 says, “But one thing is needed: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.” There is nothing more important than abiding in the presence of Jesus. Strive to be more engaged with Jesus than engaged for Him. Relationship with Jesus, constructed on the foundation of His love and sacrifice for us builds a devotion for Him that discerns and withstands what this world might call us to accomplish or believe and instead, awaits the calling He places within us. Psalm 63:8 says, “My soul clings to You; Your right hand upholds me.” When we allow our fleshly desires, plans, or failures to pull us away from the heart of Jesus, distracted by the shallowness of this world, we lose sight of the weighty destruction of sin and forget the joy of sweet fellowship with our Savior. God has created us for fellowship with Him. Never ignore the depth of the fruits of the Spirit God graciously deposits within us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Remember the promise of the Spirit of the Lord Himself is resting within us—the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, the Spirit of counsel and strength, the Spirit of knowledge and fear of the Lord. Such solemn, holy endowments should be examined with a heart set for Him and an attitude of reverence at the work He is completing within us because of His love for us. How will you respond? Will you love Jesus or be in love with Him? Proverbs 16:20-21 says, “Whoever heeds instruction will find success, and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord. The wise in heart are called discerning, and pleasant speech promotes instruction.” As we use discernment from the Lord, we understand that we increase the depth of our relationship with Him when we intentionally love Him more than this world. We cling to Him because we discover He is the only rock that stands firm. We move Him into the center of our world and pursue Him with an eagerness that although imperfect, is genuine and consistent. We believe the solid truths, promises, and instructions of the Bible because we trust and adore the Source more than the deceitful wisdom of this world. Once our hearts are soothed with the balm of His love despite the heartaches of this life, we understand that God has graciously and permanently lifted the veil once separating us from Him, and we never desire to leave His Holy and loving presence. After we discover that we have been the stumbling block keeping us from eternity with Him, we allow ourselves to begin preparing now to abide with Him in our eternal home. We must build the structure of our life upon the foundation only God can provide. Do not base your construction of beliefs, attitudes, actions, or love on what this world offers or the experiences you have suffered or endured. God is enough. His strength and grace are more than sufficient and are tailor-made for your every need or desire. As we deepen our relationship with Him, He shifts desires to truly satisfy our heart and fulfill wishes we often never even knew we had. At the same time, God also shifts our aspirations into alignment with His in beautiful and miraculous ways. Develop the courage and stamina to live for Christ by delving into His word with a desire for truth and fulfillment, allowing your faith and trust to grow scripture by scripture and prayer by prayer as you learn of, speak to, and listen for the Lord. The mindset of this world is in direct opposition to God because they are not in love with Him. As we seek to know, follow, and love Him completely, we recognize inconsistencies and lies that threaten society and entrap our culture. Through Jesus, we are able to escape the snares and live with grace and faith that guides us to deeper truth and fuels us with a holy desire to know and show Him to an empty world. Father God, You are good. Your righteousness and faithfulness to us are unimaginable. No one can completely understand Your ways, yet You still surround us with Your beautiful and loving gifts. The grass withers and the flowers fall, but Your word stands forever. Help us develop a true desire for You and Your word. Allow us to recognize our need for You, then step aside to enable You to work mighty miracles within us that will honor and glorify You. We have come to know and believe the love that You have for us, for You are love; and Your word tells us that whoever abides in love abides in God, and God in him. Abide in us, Father, when we passionately, relentlessly pursue You because we not only love you, but are in love with You. In Your holy and precious name we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this episode. I invite you to visit terrihitt.com to access additional podcast episodes housed in one convenient location, read blog posts, transcripts, and access additional resources designed to mature your walk with Jesus through an eternal perspective and encourage you to raise or influence children to choose Christ over culture as You rely on God to direct your steps because you are in love with Him. I pray this podcast draws you nearer to the Lord and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective.

Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #137 – Renewing Inwardly through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last December, my youngest underwent an oral surgery she was forced to wait a year to receive. Watching me advocate to ensure sure she got the best care as quickly as the surgeons and hospital could coordinate it, combined with her history of multiple surgeries and procedures, made her begin dwelling on survival and mortality. We shared many conversations, some with tears, all with prayers, and a few with mixed responses. Lately, as she has released most of her concerns, my responses have been lighter. Just as life is a journey that requires each individual to change and grow, our discussions have been impacted by the spiritual, mental, and emotional concerns caused for her because of the multiple delays in scheduling and performing this procedure. This afternoon, I was finishing lunch at the dining room table. Brooklyn had already eaten, and she went to the opposite side of the table where I couldn’t quite see what she was doing. Suddenly, I heard an odd sound something like, “oof” and then complete silence. “Are you okay,” I asked. A sigh. “Yes.” “Are you sure? What are you doing?” “I’m laying on the floor thinking about getting older.” “I love getting older,” I said. “What?!” “Yes. I love how much closer I am to God and how much more I have learned about Him.” “But I don’t want to get older. I don’t want things to change.” “It’s hard when things change,” I agreed. After waiting a bit, I added, “but it’s also hard when things stay the same. I want to keep growing and learning. I can’t do that if I stay the same age.” “I want to be two years younger than I am right now and have you be 47,” she remarked. I’ve heard these ages many times. She has a thing about the age of 47, which is 15 years younger than I am. “Oh, 47? I don’t think I want to go back to that age.” “But you’d be so much younger,” she replied. Because we’ve talked about this before, I knew she felt that if I was younger she would have me around longer, I said, “I don’t really think about age. I don’t want to worry about what might happen as I get older because I’d miss all the wonderful blessings happening now. I like what I’ve learned and where I am now. I’m so glad to be this mommy for you. Each day gives me the chance to be a new person inside.” This truth pertains to us and our children or grandchildren. As we absorb and process what we think and feel, the time then arrives to do and believe what Scripture and God’s truths say. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.” God’s Word offers such beautiful truth about aging. Just as God is concerned about the person inside as He looks directly into our heart and mind, we must be concerned with who we are becoming and focus on the work the Holy Spirit is doing within. We don’t want to miss participating in the work being completed within us. As my youngest daughter matures and works through concerns she carries based off of past experiences, traumas, and losses, I want my sweet daughter to know that God sees everything. He knows her past. He knows her future. He is ready to grow and change not only her, but the loved ones around her, to ensure she becomes the person He has purposed for the special work she was created for. Life is more than staying in one spot of happiness. We have to trust that God has more than one blessing in store for us. As the Holy Spirit completes the work of Christ within us daily, we will be renewed by His strength and desires as the influence of this world fades dimmer and dimmer. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Believers must allow God to renew our mind, revive our spirit, and release His mindset. Ephesians 3:14-21 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” When believers receive a new identity through Christ, we are awakened spiritually and welcomed into the family of God. Through humble submission, adoration, focused dedication to God, and assurance through His holy Word, we live with assurance of a renewed spirit within. Although our fleshly bodies waste away, (just as my daughter doesn’t want to happen to her mommy), our inner core, the renewed Christian, should be strengthening through the work of the Holy Spirit inside. As we are drawn toward deeper faith, understanding, discernment, and obedience where we knew no lasting comfort or wisdom before, we are now infused by supernatural cleansing and drawn to the foundational truths and fruits of Christ. 2 Corinthians 3:4-6 says, “Such confidence we have through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” Christians should respect the law, but choose to follow the Holy Spirit deposited within them by Christ. The law enlightens us to truth and sin, but because of our personal relationship with Christ, the Holy Spirit is intimately working within each person to renew and refresh believers moment by moment as we humbly trust and submit to Christ. We must purpose to allow our inward character to renew daily as we seek Christlike characteristics and desires only accessible to us when we have submitted to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” What a beautiful truth about aging God’s way. Believers should be able to discern a difference in the character of Christ exhibited through them from day to day. What differences do you see in your life that make you different than you were yesterday? Are these changes worldly or godly? Are you drawing nearer to Him? Do you know/trust that God is drawing nearer to you? Let’s discuss what believers can do to ensure we continue to renew inwardly: 1. Study the Word – ponder it. I hesitate to say meditate on it because the term has become twisted with New Age ideologies. What God desires is not that we empty our mind, but that we renew it with His Word, instructions, and mindset. As we ponder His teachings and commands and adhere to His mindset, we become more Christlike in thoughts, actions, responses, and words. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” 2. Strive to live God’s Word. As we study the Word, as we allow the Holy Spirit to guide us in God’s truths, our mindset become more eternally focused and yearns to uphold a lifestyle like that Christ mentored. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Deuteronomy 11:18-23 says, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth. If you carefully observe all these commands I am giving you to follow—to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him and to hold fast to Him— then the Lord will drive out all these nations before you, and you will dispossess nations larger and stronger than you.” 3. Safeguard your mind. Now more than any other generation, we have so much to distract and discourage us from seeking God. We’ve made this world and our activities our god. We must become and remain diligent to remember to think on the things God instructs and the Holy Spirit prompts. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says, “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 4. Seek God through prayerful and scriptural conversation. God is always present. Available non-stop, He stands ready to hear from us. When we seek God with a genuine heart, no matter what we have to say, He responds, but we delight His heart when we study His Word and speak it to Him. Praying Scriptural prayers to God holds such promise and power. Speaking the words of the Bible enable us to know and use God’s Word, becoming more Christlike in thoughts, words, and deeds. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “pray continually.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Matthew 6:6-8 says, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” 5. Summon Scripture – Memorize the Word. In order to pray His Word, we must learn it. Whether you make a concentrated effort to memorize God’s Word (a wonderful use of time) or read the Word so often that you know God’s Word, we absolutely must know God through the Scripture He sent for us. God could have written a book about anything. Instead, He lovingly sent us all we need to know about Him and how to live in this world. If you think there isn’t an answer to be found in Scripture, study harder. Through His Word, we absolutely know the character of God, can identify sin, and we see the way He desires us to live. Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Psalm 119:16 says, “I delight in Your decrees; I will not neglect Your word.” Matthew 4:4 says, “Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Study God’s Word, live His Word, safeguard your mind, converse with God through prayer, and know and use Scripture daily. These are solid, biblical ways to continue renewing inwardly day by day. Without the saving grace of Jesus, believers would never be free of sin or the consequences of separation. Now living with the Holy Spirit alive within, believers can begin to comprehend the agape love that lives outside the reach of our finite heart and mind. Vast and complete, God’s love is a mystery only He can unravel to those who are committed to submitting to a life of devotion to Him. Believers submitted to Christ live with assurance that we will continue to grow and mature in relationship with God. Inside, we are renewing, growing into a Christlike maturity as we keep our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on Him and trust the truths and promises of God. Looking beyond afflictions of this world toward the invisible future promised by God, those of us committed to Christ cast aside the temporary pain or trouble in this world. Through faith, we focus on what is to come. Dear Heavenly Father, our great, glorious God, we thank you for the Holy Spirit alive inside believers. What a beautiful deposit You purposely left with those who trust in Christ. Help us to see life more clearly each moment through Your eyes, mind, and heart. The acts of the flesh should obvious to us, yet even Christians live with sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, selfishness, envy, drunkenness, and more that goes against all You desire for us. Help us to carry the opposite – Your fruits of The Spirit. Your Word promises that those who belong to Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Enable us to desire You more deeply, to live by the Spirit, and to walk in step with the Spirit. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this episode, as well as other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Was the content of this podcast helpful to you? If so, while you’re on the website, you can choose to leave your email address. This enables you to receive monthly encouragement and resources to help you in your journey with Christ. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? When you review my podcast on Apple Podcasts, it helps to elevate the standing of the podcast online so that more people are allowed to find and hear it. Will you take a moment to follow the shows and think of someone you can share the podcasts with and encourage them to follow and share, as well? Remember, if we are not purposed in knowing Jesus ourselves and showing Him to the next generation, the world will direct them away from Christ. Live With Eternal Perspective helps us to find, trust, and follow Christ more intimately. Purposed Parent/Connected Child shares biblical, practical truths for parents and grandparents to influence and mentor Christ over culture. I pray that what you hear on this podcast draws you nearer to God and helps you cling to Him, despite any circumstances in your life. Until next week, keep looking Up while focusing on new ways to Live With Eternal Perspective. Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 137 - Renewing Inwardly Through Christ Listen to Episode Welcome to the Terri Hitt – Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode #137 – Renewing Inwardly through Christ Thank you for entrusting and investing your precious time with me to seek, find, and follow Jesus together as we live with purposed eternal perspective. Last December, my youngest underwent an oral surgery she was forced to wait a year to receive. Watching me advocate to ensure sure she got the best care as quickly as the surgeons and hospital could coordinate it, combined with her history of multiple surgeries and procedures, made her begin dwelling on survival and mortality. We shared many conversations, some with tears, all with prayers, and a few with mixed responses. Lately, as she has released most of her concerns, my responses have been lighter. Just as life is a journey that requires each individual to change and grow, our discussions have been impacted by the spiritual, mental, and emotional concerns caused for her because of the multiple delays in scheduling and performing this procedure. This afternoon, I was finishing lunch at the dining room table. Brooklyn had already eaten, and she went to the opposite side of the table where I couldn’t quite see what she was doing. Suddenly, I heard an odd sound something like, “oof” and then complete silence. “Are you okay,” I asked. A sigh. “Yes.” “Are you sure? What are you doing?” “I’m laying on the floor thinking about getting older.” “I love getting older,” I said. “What?!” “Yes. I love how much closer I am to God and how much more I have learned about Him.” “But I don’t want to get older. I don’t want things to change.” “It’s hard when things change,” I agreed. After waiting a bit, I added, “but it’s also hard when things stay the same. I want to keep growing and learning. I can’t do that if I stay the same age.” “I want to be two years younger than I am right now and have you be 47,” she remarked. I’ve heard these ages many times. She has a thing about the age of 47, which is 15 years younger than I am. “Oh, 47? I don’t think I want to go back to that age.” “But you’d be so much younger,” she replied. Because we’ve talked about this before, I knew she felt that if I was younger she would have me around longer, I said, “I don’t really think about age. I don’t want to worry about what might happen as I get older because I’d miss all the wonderful blessings happening now. I like what I’ve learned and where I am now. I’m so glad to be this mommy for you. Each day gives me the chance to be a new person inside.” This truth pertains to us and our children or grandchildren. As we absorb and process what we think and feel, the time then arrives to do and believe what Scripture and God’s truths say. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.” God’s Word offers such beautiful truth about aging. Just as God is concerned about the person inside as He looks directly into our heart and mind, we must be concerned with who we are becoming and focus on the work the Holy Spirit is doing within. We don’t want to miss participating in the work being completed within us. As my youngest daughter matures and works through concerns she carries based off of past experiences, traumas, and losses, I want my sweet daughter to know that God sees everything. He knows her past. He knows her future. He is ready to grow and change not only her, but the loved ones around her, to ensure she becomes the person He has purposed for the special work she was created for. Life is more than staying in one spot of happiness. We have to trust that God has more than one blessing in store for us. As the Holy Spirit completes the work of Christ within us daily, we will be renewed by His strength and desires as the influence of this world fades dimmer and dimmer. Romans 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Believers must allow God to renew our mind, revive our spirit, and release His mindset. Ephesians 3:14-21 “For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” When believers receive a new identity through Christ, we are awakened spiritually and welcomed into the family of God. Through humble submission, adoration, focused dedication to God, and assurance through His holy Word, we live with assurance of a renewed spirit within. Although our fleshly bodies waste away, (just as my daughter doesn’t want to happen to her mommy), our inner core, the renewed Christian, should be strengthening through the work of the Holy Spirit inside. As we are drawn toward deeper faith, understanding, discernment, and obedience where we knew no lasting comfort or wisdom before, we are now infused by supernatural cleansing and drawn to the foundational truths and fruits of Christ. 2 Corinthians 3:4-6 says, “Such confidence we have through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” Christians should respect the law, but choose to follow the Holy Spirit deposited within them by Christ. The law enlightens us to truth and sin, but because of our personal relationship with Christ, the Holy Spirit is intimately working within each person to renew and refresh believers moment by moment as we humbly trust and submit to Christ. We must purpose to allow our inward character to renew daily as we seek Christlike characteristics and desires only accessible to us when we have submitted to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. 2 Corinthians 4:16 says, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” What a beautiful truth about aging God’s way. Believers should be able to discern a difference in the character of Christ exhibited through them from day to day. What differences do you see in your life that make you different than you were yesterday? Are these changes worldly or godly? Are you drawing nearer to Him? Do you know/trust that God is drawing nearer to you? Let’s discuss what believers can do to ensure we continue to renew inwardly: 1. Study the Word – ponder it. I hesitate to say meditate on it because the term has become twisted with New Age ideologies. What God desires is not that we empty our mind, but that we renew it with His Word, instructions, and mindset. As we ponder His teachings and commands and adhere to His mindset, we become more Christlike in thoughts, actions, responses, and words. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” 2. Strive to live God’s Word. As we study the Word, as we allow the Holy Spirit to guide us in God’s truths, our mindset become more eternally focused and yearns to uphold a lifestyle like that Christ mentored. Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Deuteronomy 11:18-23 says, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth. If you carefully observe all these commands I am giving you to follow—to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him and to hold fast to Him— then the Lord will drive out all these nations before you, and you will dispossess nations larger and stronger than you.” 3. Safeguard your mind. Now more than any other generation, we have so much to distract and discourage us from seeking God. We’ve made this world and our activities our god. We must become and remain diligent to remember to think on the things God instructs and the Holy Spirit prompts. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says, “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” 4. Seek God through prayerful and scriptural conversation. God is always present. Available non-stop, He stands ready to hear from us. When we seek God with a genuine heart, no matter what we have to say, He responds, but we delight His heart when we study His Word and speak it to Him. Praying Scriptural prayers to God holds such promise and power. Speaking the words of the Bible enable us to know and use God’s Word, becoming more Christlike in thoughts, words, and deeds. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “pray continually.” Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Matthew 6:6-8 says, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.” 5. Summon Scripture – Memorize the Word. In order to pray His Word, we must learn it. Whether you make a concentrated effort to memorize God’s Word (a wonderful use of time) or read the Word so often that you know God’s Word, we absolutely must know God through the Scripture He sent for us. God could have written a book about anything. Instead, He lovingly sent us all we need to know about Him and how to live in this world. If you think there isn’t an answer to be found in Scripture, study harder. Through His Word, we absolutely know the character of God, can identify sin, and we see the way He desires us to live. Joshua 1:8 says, “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Psalm 119:16 says, “I delight in Your decrees; I will not neglect Your word.” Matthew 4:4 says, “Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Study God’s Word, live His Word, safeguard your mind, converse with God through prayer, and know and use Scripture daily. These are solid, biblical ways to continue renewing inwardly day by day. Without the saving grace of Jesus, believers would never be free of sin or the consequences of separation. Now living with the Holy Spirit alive within, believers can begin to comprehend the agape love that lives outside the reach of our finite heart and mind. Vast and complete, God’s love is a mystery only He can unravel to those who are committed to submitting to a life of devotion to Him. Believers submitted to Christ live with assurance that we will continue to grow and mature in relationship with God. Inside, we are renewing, growing into a Christlike maturity as we keep our eyes, heart, and mind fixed on Him and trust the truths and promises of God. Looking beyond afflictions of this world toward the invisible future promised by God, those of us committed to Christ cast aside the temporary pain or trouble in this world. Through faith, we focus on what is to come. Dear Heavenly Father, our great, glorious God, we thank you for the Holy Spirit alive inside believers. What a beautiful deposit You purposely left with those who trust in Christ. Help us to see life more clearly each moment through Your eyes, mind, and heart. The acts of the flesh should obvious to us, yet even Christians live with sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, selfishness, envy, drunkenness, and more that goes against all You desire for us. Help us to carry the opposite – Your fruits of The Spirit. Your Word promises that those who belong to Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Enable us to desire You more deeply, to live by the Spirit, and to walk in step with the Spirit. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to the “Live With Eternal Perspective” podcast. You can find this episode, as well as other transcripts online at terrihitt.com. Both of my podcasts are available on the website. You can also find them on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and they are part of the Spark Media Network. Both podcasts are also found on the Edifi app, where you can hear thousands of the best Christian podcasts in one place for your listening enjoyment. Was the content of this podcast helpful to you? If so, while you’re on the website, you can choose to leave your email address. This enables you to receive monthly encouragement and resources to help you in your journey with Christ. Have you rated or reviewed my podcasts on Apple Podcasts yet? 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< Back Purposed Parent/Connected Child Episode 008 - Building Character Welcome to the Purposed Parent/Connected Child Podcast Episode #008 – Building Character Are you yearning for greater connection with your child? Would you like to parent beyond the moment with eternal perspective? Let’s grow together now with practical tips, scripture, and stories geared to draw your heart to Jesus and guide your child into His arms. Whether you are a parent of young children, have children who are about to leave for college, or have grown adults raising their own children, it’s always a humbling blessing to see them reflect the Lord in their words and actions. Being a parent is such a layered gift. We can easily tend to parent in our own strength, look for ways our children are like us, and in fact, call them our “mini me.” Most of us have been there at some time; viewing our children as tiny extensions of ourselves, finding ways they are like us, and basking in their accomplishments that reflect well on us. What I’ve learned by maturing my walk with Jesus is that each child in this world was miraculously and individually formed with intimate and personal care. For God so loved the world that He brought my child into it with a purpose in mind. He brought your children to this world for special purposes only they can fulfill as they allow Christ to work through them. 1 Chronicles 16:8-11 says, “Give praise to the Lord, proclaim His name; make known among the nations what He has done. Sing to Him, sing praise to Him; tell of all His wonderful acts. Glory in His holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and His strength; seek His face always .” With hindsight gained from raising one set of children and now well into my years of mentoring my second set in Christ, I know the importance of intentionality . Living with eternal perspective applies to everything we do and how we view life. Like decay that spreads unless addressed, if we are not purposeful in our walk with Jesus, our children will most likely follow the world and the desires taught by those who do not know Jesus. Our walk with Christ and the truths we teach because of the Holy Spirit alive within us is the shield that will offer protection from this world and make Jesus known to them. A mature relationship that builds Christlike character cannot be formed without a deep desire for Jesus to be reflected daily for our children. It’s easy to raise them in ways that produce the morality taught in this world, but we must desire and do more for the children God has entrusted to us. When we imagine the character we want them to hold, let’s not confuse the holiness Christ seeks with morality . Worldly morality prompts our child to conform to rules or standards for conduct, but who sets the boundaries? Many preach living your own truth and doing what feels right. God’s word teaches His truths, which are the only holy, living, active truths that serve all and honor our Lord. Holiness is a transformation only realized through relationship with Christ . When we are lovingly following the Lord and what He calls good or holy, Christlike character is formed in us and then, our children as they witness the Holy Spirit at work within to transform us. As they follow Jesus, developing their own faith, they recognize the Holy Spirit inside, beckoning their spirit to humbly please and honor Christ, and character training begins. When our children look to Jesus instead of the morals advertised by friends, influencers, celebrities, or culture, they will respect the instruction shown and given by us. Holy character is forming. 1 Chronicles 22:19a says, “Now set your heart and your soul to seek the Lord your God.” As we live in a world increasingly hostile to the gospel of Christ, we must remember the basics of a strong foundational relationship with Jesus and our children. As we draw nearer to God, our character matures and transforms to one that attracts our children and causes them to draw nearer to us and their Heavenly Father. We know the basics, done with a loving and consistent spirit makes a dramatic difference in the spiritual life of our children. Reading our Bible , making time for quiet study and reflection of God’s word and spending time in prayer with Him, speaking and listening for His guidance, wisdom, knowledge, and understanding builds a strong connection that withstands the trials life will bring. When we extend that same purpose with our children, reading and studying the Bible together, praying together and looking for the ways God is working and teaching, a solid groundwork is laid on which to mentor and help them to build a mature relationship with their Heavenly Father. I’d like to offer a suggestion: when you finish this podcast episode, I recommend listening to Live With Eternal Perspective podcast episode 046, “Maturing Character Like Christ” to hear practical and encouraging tips for living under pressure with heart and mind fixed on Jesus. When we allow our gaze to rely on Him despite difficulties, the Lord moves us to character mirroring His , and through character, to a hope that endures and reflects His grace, hope, and love. Our children see and absorb exactly how we process and react to life. We want to do all we can to ensure we live the way Jesus calls and continue growing in Him moment by moment so that our children will, too. You can find “Maturing Character Like Christ” on the terrihitt.com website. Simply click on the podcasts page and type the information in the search bar. It’s so simple to listen on your phone or iPad as you work, exercise, or travel. Beyond the basics of our walk with Jesus, what else can we do to guide our children to Him? How do we enable them to desire and grow Christlike character that pleases God and deepens their walk with Jesus? The Holy Spirit is the enabler of character like Christ. When our children or grandchildren are taught to know and love Jesus, to view the world as Christ does, their drive for ungodly behavior or worldly pleasures that do not please God diminishes. They must love and honor Jesus. The same applies to us. So how do we ensure that we raise our children or influence grandchildren with the ability to view the world as Christ does? How do we instill godly character that gives God joy? By teaching them God’s holy word and applying His truths to life. We make Him real to them. We show them the difference Christ makes in a life submitted to Him. Each of us pass through this world quickly. We are here for such a short while. Isaiah 40:7 says it best. “The grass withers and the flowers fade beneath the breath of the Lord. And so it is with people.” Our life can be proof that we can live in this world, yet not be a part of it. We can live set-apart with thoughts and character . We can examine and process where we are in our life at this very moment and where we want to be. Is it where He would have you go? Ponder ways to submit to God and allow Him to take you where He desires and has purposed. What differences would it make in the life of your child or grandchild to witness you asking for and submitting to the changes God makes in you ? The world tells us that integrity is adherence to moral and ethical principles. But whose principles? As believers in Christ, we know that His standards are the only ones we should esteem. The world tells us that we must hold good character, evident through characteristics such as persistence, self-control, honesty, optimism, intelligence, gratitude, integrity, and leadership. But who is the judge of the level of our character? Why do they choose these specific qualities? I believe there are 3 higher objectives we must keep at the forefront of our mind as we raise our children to view this world as Jesus does and live as He would call. 1. Heart for Christ – Prepare the soil of our child’s heart to make them ready for the gospel seeds to sprout and flourish. 2. Submission to Christ – Exhibit personal submission to Jesus in ways that draw our child nearer to Him. 3. Separation from World – Live a life that is set-apart and more attractive than what this world advertises as desirable. How are we able to do these steps? The answer is the same for each objective: mentor the behavior of Christ . 1. We consistently apply the foundational Bible and prayer basics we discussed earlier in this episode. 2. We allow the Holy Spirit to work within us and transform us to react like Christ. 3. Listen to your child, empathize, but don’t turn away from discipline when needed. 4. Discipline as correction, not punishment. God holds us accountable, but He does not shame us. 5. Don’t reflect or condone the behavior of this world, instead allow the Holy Spirit to continue renewing you moment by moment. As you live consistently with behavior that reflects the teachings of Jesus, you are showing character that will be noticed. 6. Be consistent in godly thoughts, actions, and reactions. 7. Take life moments as they come and use as teachable times. Don’t ignore the hard moments that often appear when families are in a rush or during very active times. Think of these as opportunities (that have been expressed through the trials of life) and use them to bring ungodly behavior up for discussion (yours included). Address consequences or ways to change. The way we exhibit Christ when we use parental authority over our children can be a magnet that attracts or repels them to our Savior. Remember, the nearer we draw to Jesus, the more we allow the Holy Spirit authority to reconstruct our heart and mind. As our children see the change within us reflected in daily actions and words, they witness, learn, and recognize the power of Christ and their character will change. Ezekiel 36:26 says, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh .” Allow Christ to multiply in and through us while we are in the midst of trials and tragedy. Teach your children to do the same. 1 Peter 1:3-7 says, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! By His great mercy He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, reserved in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God’s power for the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in various trials so that the proven character of your faith—more precious than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” Christ sustains and grows us during trials and persecution. Nothing lasts forever, the cruelty or trials will end, but the fruits of Christ’s transformation within us brings us to an eternity with Jesus. Romans 5:1-5 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only that, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out His love into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, whom He has given us .” Seek and exhibit character that shines Christ. 2 Peter 1:5-8 says, “For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness;and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. For if you possess these qualities and continue to grow in them, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ .” As the Holy Spirit works within us, as it works within our children, godly character forms new traits that are impossible for humans to possess apart from Christ, such as: fruits of the spirit, discernment, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, patience, self-denial, mercy, humility, pureness of heart, honesty, loyalty, and godly integrity. Galatians 5:22-24 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us walk in step with the Spirit.” As godly parents, we must search the heart and mind of our child and reflect on the following questions: 1. Who am I when no one is watching? 2. Who is my child when no one is watching? 3. What do I do when the right action will hurt me, but benefit another person? 4. What does my child do when the right action will hurt him, but benefit another person? 5. Are my actions consistent when I am watched by someone and when I am not? 6. Are my child’s actions consistent when he is watched by someone and when he is not? Abe Lincoln said, “Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing . As followers of Christ, we know Jesus is the real thing. We must stand in His shadow, praying for His light to pass over and remove the darkness from us. We must also pursue a genuine and strong walk with Him. As life mentors for our children and grandchildren, we must think of our leadership in terms that are simple enough to remember and follow daily: 1. If we are a godly, trustworthy, consistent leader, our children will see Christ in us and trust Him. 2. Good mentors follow excellent leaders. Keep your eyes and heart on Jesus so your child will, too. 3. Shift praise and accolades to Jesus and remember where your strength and wisdom is established so your child will do the same. 4. Counsel others to look to and lean on Jesus. It’s easier to speak in general as you share about God, but it is imperative to narrow down to Christ . Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Your child needs to see your faith in action. 1 Chronicles 28:9 says, “And you, My son Solomon, acknowledge the God of your father, and serve Him with wholehearted devotion and with a willing mind, for the Lord searches every heart and understands every desire and every thought. If you seek Him, He will be found by you; but if you forsake Him, He will reject you forever .” I’m sometimes asked what I believe makes the biggest difference in a child’s life. I would say introducing our children to Jesus by the way we live our relationship with Him and joyfully studying the Bible together is key. Shoot for daily. Hebrews 4:12 reminds us, “For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.” Nothing will reach our children for Jesus and build godly character better than God’s holy word and seeing their parent and or grandparents lovingly and joyfully live by it . Dear Heavenly Father, You are the biggest blessing to us. Thank you for the Holy Spirit within believers. Thank you for the access we have to You every moment. You are so, so good. Father, You have entrusted such precious gifts to our care. You search us, know us intimately, and still place them with us. How we need You! Draw us ever nearer to You daily. Enable us to seek You in clearer ways, in more godly ways. Help us to recognize our needs and release ourselves to You fully. May we please You greatly with the way we raise and influence our children and grandchildren for You. We are not worthy. But You are. We want our children to love You with joyful and godly hearts. Give them character that pleases and shines You. May they walk ever more closely with You than we have. May each generation draw nearer to You than the last. In the precious name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for listening to this podcast. If you pray for your child, please look for my free ebook, “Prayers for My Child,” available on the website under the “Resources” page and is designed to guide the heart of your child to the feet of Jesus through scripturally-based prayer. The Purposed Parent/Connected Child podcast is now available at terrihitt.com, where you can access the episodes housed in one convenient location, receive access to blog posts, read transcripts, and find additional resources designed to mature your walk with Christ and equip you to raise or influence connected children through Him. God knows that we are not capable of successful parenting on our own. As we rely on Him, releasing doubts and expectations, and humbly bow to His guidance and experience, we find greater clarity in parenting and a wondrous walk with our Creator that will extend to our children and those around us for generations . I pray this podcast helps you parent with purpose and deepen your connection to Jesus and your children as you intentionally place Christ above culture or self. Allow Him to work through you for true connection that will draw your children to Him and build a maturing relationship with Christ and your child that lasts for eternity. Previous Next

Mothers are the front line to mentor Jesus. You're the first Jesus your child sees. The Purposed Parent Connected Child podcast will lead you to parent with Christ in the center of your heart and home as you prayerfully parent with purpose. Purposed Parent, Connected Child Transcriptions Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 139 - How to Respond to Kids From a Biblical Perspective Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 138 - How to Raise Kids Who Think Critically and Biblically Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast Episode 137 - How to Parent Kids to Be IN the World, But Not OF It Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast - Episode 136 - Losing Myself in Motherhood Read More Godly Motherhood Podcast Episode 135 - Godly Motherhood Will Transform Your Parenting for Jesus Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 134 - Change and Rest Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 133 - Stop Getting in God's Way: Let Him Parent Through You Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 132 - What My Teen Taught Me About Raising Kids Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 131 - How to Teach Children to Find Security through Scripture Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 130 - Are You Living With Eternal Perspective? Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 129 - How to Live With Joy That Lasts Read More Purposed Parent Connected Child Podcast Episode 128 - How to Help Children Form Godly Habits Read More

RESOURCES Sometimes we each need someone to reach out, place an arm around our shoulder, & lead us to a resource that meets us where we are. I hope you find that embrace here. On this page you will find materials mentioned in the podcast, & other helpful resources created to deepen your personal walk with God, help you choose Christ over culture, & parent with confidence & connection. When you select “download now,” you'll be asked to sign up as a member of my email list. It doesn't have to be a long commitment; you can unsubscribe at any time. Once you've signed up, you'll have access to all current and future free resources. The goal of my heart is to continue sharing resources that reveal the joy of living with your eyes & heart focused on eternity and help you choose Christ over culture with a purpose that allows you to live & parent with confidence & connection. Good to Godly: A 31 Day Scripture & Prayer Guide I invite you to begin this 31-Day Scripture study designed to equip your mind and heart to shift from being a good mother to become a godly mother. The Scriptures included in this guide are shared for the purpose of drawing you closer to Christ. Discover How Your Identity is Sabotaging Your Children Do you ever get frustrated, angered, or hurt by the behaviors of your children? Is busyness reflected in your relationships and reactions? You may have unknowingly built identity on self, rather than Savior. The way you build identity will likely be passed to your children. Remember, little eyes and ears know your identity is exposed through all you do and say; how you act and react. If you'd like to learn more about how your identity could be sabotaging your child, this resource is a sample of my Set Apart Collective program for mothers who desire to parent with eternity in mind. When you discover how identity in Christ equips you to be the set-apart mother God created you to be, you'll be equipped to teach your children to be set-apart in Christ with identity built on Truth. Help Your Child Develop (Godly) Confidence We live in a world that tells your child to trust feelings to define who they are, but God's Word instructs differently. How to Help Your Child Develop (Godly) Confidence will give you tips and Scripture to equip you to build confidence that will last and strengthen your child (and yourself) through identity in Christ. Prayers for My Child Would you like to experience the power of God's word in the life of your child? Download the "Prayers for My Child" resource to learn how to offer God's word to Him as prayers designed to transform the heart of your child or grandchild into the wise and loving hands of our Heavenly Father. Scattering Seeds: Planting Character and Faith in Your Child Help your child choose Jesus over culture and begin living with an eternal perspective now by using simple tips and strategies in this valuable ebook to help you build a legacy of faith together. Cast Your Cares - A Resource Against Worry Are you ready to take steps toward a life free from worry and anxiety? Download the Cast Your Cares Resource Against Worry Ebook today! Scripture Writing Guide Would you like to understand God's word more deeply? Download the "Scripture Writing Guide" to add more eternal purpose in your life as you read, write, and reflect on God's truths. 10 Steps to an Intimate Walk With God Do you desire deeper intimacy with God, but need direction? Download the "10 Steps to An Intimate Walk With God" resource today. Scripture and Prayer Cards Do you desire to cultivate deeper conversations with God that carry eternal meaning? Download the Scripture and Prayer Cards Today! GOOD to GODLY: A 31-DAY SCRIPTURE & PRAYER GUIDE FOR MOMS I invite you to begin this 31-Day Scripture study designed to equip your mind and heart to shift from being a good mother to become a godly mother. The Scriptures included in this guide are shared for the purpose of drawing you closer to Christ. First name Email* Get the FREE e-book Discover How Your Identity is Sabotaging Your Children Do you ever get frustrated, angered, or hurt by the behaviors of your children? Is busyness reflected in your relationships and reactions? You may have unknowingly built identity on self, rather than Savior. The way you build identity will likely be passed to your children. Remember, little eyes and ears know your identity is exposed through all you do and say; how you act and react. This resource is a sample of my Set Apart Collective program for mothers who desire to parent with eternity in mind. When you discover how identity in Christ equips you to be the set-apart mother God created you to be, you'll be equipped to teach your children to be set-apart in Christ with identity built on Truth. First name Email* Get the FREE e-book HELP YOUR CHILD DEVELOP (GODLY) CONFIDENCE We live in a world that tells your child to trust feelings to define who they are, but God's Word instructs differently. How to Help Your Child Develop (Godly) Confidence will give you tips and Scripture to equip you to build confidence that will last and strengthen your child (and yourself) through identity in Christ. First name Email* Get the FREE e-book PRAYERS FOR MY CHILD Would you like to experience the power of God's word in the life of your child? Download the "Prayers for My Child" resource to learn how to offer God's word to Him as prayers designed to transform the heart of your child or grandchild into the wise and loving hands of our Heavenly Father. First name Email* Get the FREE e-book SCATTERING SEEDS Help your child choose Jesus over culture and begin living with an eternal perspective now by using simple tips and strategies in this valuable ebook to help you build a legacy of faith together. First name Email* Get the FREE e-book CAST YOUR CARES A Resource Against Worry Are you ready to take steps toward a life free from worry and anxiety? Download the Cast Your Cares Resource Against Worry Ebook today! First name Email* Get the FREE e-book SCRIPTURE WRITING GUIDE Write and Reflect Would you like to understand God's word more deeply? Download the "Scripture Writing Guide" to add more eternal purpose in your life as you read, write, and reflect on God's truths. Last name Email* Get the FREE guide Steps to an Intimate Walk with G od 10 Do you desire deeper intimacy with God, but need direction? Download the "10 Steps to An Intimate Walk With God" resource today. 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EPISODE TRANSCRIPTIONS Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 153 - Change From a Good to Godly Woman and Mother Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 146 - Praying Scripture - Part 1 replay Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 145 - How to Know Truth in a Mixed-Up World of Pride Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 144 - Life Lessons Through my Dog Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 143 - Prayer (replay) Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 142 - How Do My Actions Reflect God to Others? Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 141 - Why Should I Seek Jesus Early in the Morning? Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 140 - How to Identify False Teachers Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 139 - Are You Really a Christian? Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 138 - Christ, The Master Builder Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 137 - Renewing Inwardly Through Christ Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 136 - How to Thrive as a Christian in a World of Unbelievers Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 135 - May It Be As You Desire, God Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 134 - You've Trusted God with Eternity - What About Today? Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 133 - The Power of Your Story Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 132 - Am I Hearing You God? Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 131 - An Eternal Perspective Life Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 130 - Practicing Gratitude While Life Happens Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 129 - Don't Let Lies Keep You From Living in the Fullness of Christ Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 128 - Living to Flourish through Christ Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 127 - Living Fully in the Moment Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 126 - Developing a Humble Attitude Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 125 - Willing Steward Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 124 - Solace in Silence Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 123 - Engaged With Eternity Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 122 - Trials and Tragedies Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 121 Facets of Faith Reading of Hebrews 11 Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 120 - What the Lord Requires Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 119 - Conquer Overwhelm Read Now Live With Eternal Perspective Podcast Episode 118 - Biblical Friendship and Connection Read Now